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Speaker 2: Into the pod because we gotta say yeah. Okay, So basically,

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Speaker 2: you know we start up top. Well, you said say it, babe,

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Speaker 2: we were recording, let's go. You could reset it, but

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Speaker 2: I liked it. You that was offensive to you. You No, no,

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Speaker 3: Oh, no one told me that. No one said anything.

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Speaker 3: Nobody said, okay, where the guards.

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Speaker 4: We are?

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Speaker 1: Basically those favorite tale creatures have just been like on

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Speaker 1: my mind. And I was with the Shrek once, but

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Speaker 1: no more. Maybe if you know, maybe if another Shrek

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Speaker 1: comes along. Okay, okay, you're telling me that Shrek comes along.

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Speaker 1: But Shrek has money, and Shrek has houses, and Shrek

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Speaker 1: You're telling me Shrek is a whole package. You're not

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Speaker 1: gonna go for Shrek.

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Speaker 3: But you can't really call Shrek a whole package.

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Speaker 1: But I just mentioned all the other things.

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Speaker 3: You just said, houses and money. Yeah, say that. So

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Speaker 2: It sounds like it's a lot of things to build

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Speaker 2: up for Shrek to have it all, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, but he's but he they she is nice.

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Speaker 4: She.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I've dated all all types of people

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Speaker 2: it's not like it's not the things, you know, it's

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Speaker 2: so happened to things that the person has is, you know,

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Speaker 5: And I'm a home in a car.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and they don't live in New York City. Those

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Speaker 2: are all things that I need to have it all.

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Speaker 1: Like, like, right now, I'm in the middle of like

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Speaker 3: Okay, oh okay, yeah, because.

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Speaker 1: I need the whole kingdom. So a queen, No, I

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Speaker 3: So you want a nap up?

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Speaker 1: Well right now, in this instance, I do need it. Okay, yeah, well.

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Speaker 2: I think your I think your type is verse like

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Speaker 3: I can't see you would have stood. I can't see

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Speaker 3: you what have stood? Okay? Yeah, I feel like your

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Speaker 1: Guys are wrong. I'm like, I kind of avoid the

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Speaker 1: fumbs as much as I can. Whoa slander?

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Speaker 1: No, And they're so beautiful and gorgeous and like perfect

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Speaker 3: It up, Like, Okay, so you want kay Lane's girlfriend.

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Speaker 5: Or k One?

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Speaker 1: It's just you're you like what it is?

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Speaker 3: What did you have?

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Speaker 1: Yes, I'm going to Brazil. Come, where are you going?

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Speaker 3: Well, that's brookless like they were beautiful.

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Speaker 3: Well they're called Brazilian butt lifts. They were there was

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Speaker 1: And I was in I was in where were you real?

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Speaker 5: I was in Rio where all the acid should be.

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Speaker 1: Were you there during carnival?

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Speaker 2: But nice it actually said, uh, you shouldn't go during

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Speaker 3: Listen, robbery and scam. It's living up. It's all over

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Speaker 2: When I was talking to the actual Brazilians from Brazil,

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Speaker 1: Give me that passport. They take passport passports?

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Speaker 1: What do people take passports for? I never understood that.

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Speaker 1: There's no one to call, right, what's the logistics behind it?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. I'm not I'm not a thief.

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Speaker 3: Hum Yes.

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Speaker 5: Again, we got far quad in the building?

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Speaker 3: That is sometimes that's a costume.

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Speaker 1: So I love that easy, that's breezy, love that.

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Speaker 5: Okay, this is my son THEO. All right, while should

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Speaker 2: We get our mess. Let's let's talk up top, Marie.

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Speaker 2: What was your mess?

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Speaker 5: Well, you know, I was just in Houston, and Houston

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Speaker 3: Like, I can't believe I missed you. You were in

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Speaker 5: It's like, girl, I've been posting about this for a month,

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Speaker 3: We had like a drink or too, but we weren't drunk.

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Speaker 5: Like my sister was like, we we get along on

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Speaker 3: Let me call your sister. I need to know what

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Speaker 5: Being a Capricorn. So I was like, what's the attitude,

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Speaker 5: to me my entire life.

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Speaker 1: May oh my god.

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Speaker 5: Yea happened in nineteen ninety six.

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Speaker 1: She came on this trip because she was like, I

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Speaker 5: But then then she said, she was like, and I

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Speaker 5: we're talking about this now because I bought it up. Also,

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Speaker 5: you're packing your bag. It's one fifty nine. When were

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Speaker 5: of talking about that. Your sister's just like me, I

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Speaker 3: Let me look at google flights dot com. Her friend

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Speaker 5: Me about this literally eight hours before, Like, she's like,

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Speaker 5: She's like, you didn't ask me about my relationship for

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Speaker 5: Well oh, then Sidney, she was like, you are so

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Speaker 3: I won't lie.

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Speaker 3: City was there. I can't be a part of this.

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Speaker 2: I need to leave. I said, I don't like this.

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Speaker 2: I don't like when sister's fight.

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Speaker 3: I don't like it. Yeah, and y'all are y'all are

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Speaker 2: That's not That's not how I get down, all right,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to see the family. While arguing I do.

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Speaker 1: You don't fight with them.

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Speaker 3: I don't see them.

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Speaker 5: And that's the secret that is you stop seeing your family,

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Speaker 3: It's just that simple. It's that simple. Do you have siblings?

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Speaker 1: No, I'm an only child.

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Speaker 3: Blessing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so lonely, but you know, sometimes but it's fine.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I love the day. I just took myself

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Speaker 3: To get kidnapped? You went on?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, to walk through it all the time. I went, yeah,

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Speaker 1: Trees? Just the trees. I just want to be near

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Speaker 3: How how alone you stay?

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Speaker 1: Honestly, it depends. What was it not yesterday Saturday? I

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Speaker 3: Were there?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Michelle, did you take a hit before you got here?

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Speaker 1: Certain things were in my system? For sure, it's given

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but things, the things when I did get

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Speaker 6: WHOA, we already know that Pope were going to raise me. Yo,

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Speaker 6: I know you ain't gonna tell me what I already know, bitch,

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Speaker 5: Was like, I came all the way to Houston to

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Speaker 1: Oh so things literally, and she was like, I had

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Speaker 3: You can support. Like God, you came to hang out.

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Speaker 7: Whoa the show was yesterday?

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Speaker 3: Today? Are funny?

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Speaker 5: She is crazy, It's crazy.

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Speaker 5: I was like, you're just like mommy, You're just like Poppy.

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Speaker 3: You know, it was crazy. Yeah, I didn't.

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Speaker 2: I didn't call you a whole week because I was like,

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Speaker 3: You know, she's just really annoying. She's really annoying.

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Speaker 5: Like I'm usually the last person to arrive somewhere.

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Speaker 5: She's later than me, wow, because she sees me rushing

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Speaker 5: even later. And it's like, Babe, if I'm going like this,

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Speaker 5: Grie said, you know what it is your name. Also

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Speaker 1: Oh I haven't.

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Speaker 3: She was like, you're mean to everybody. You're mean to Sydney.

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Speaker 5: So Sydney, I owe you an apology if I've been

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Speaker 4: Right here.

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Speaker 1: Looking for sister, make you baby.

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Speaker 5: You know what muscles own muscles?

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Speaker 5: At my birthday party, you said something and I gave

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Speaker 3: Anyway, that's my mess.

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Speaker 1: Okay. Honestly this made me think of my own mess. Right,

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Speaker 1: So okay, let me break this down for you. Right.

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Speaker 1: My mom bless her heart. She's Colombian. Shout out to Colombia.

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Speaker 1: Her mom had twelve children on the farm.

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Speaker 3: Right, it was like two kids, right, one for every

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Speaker 1: I think I don't know how to play football. The football. Yes,

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Speaker 3: Oh like, that's mom number two.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, the second eldest daughter is my favorite aunt in

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Speaker 1: Of those three girls, one of them, the youngest, is

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Speaker 1: I'm the only one born here. My cousin over there

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Speaker 3: You're fertilist.

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Speaker 1: But you know what, it's just colonbia.

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Speaker 5: Now it makes sense why you're an only child because

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Speaker 5: I love your mom.

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Speaker 3: No, I'm just saying good for her for choosing her.

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Speaker 1: We go to Paris. First day, we're so excited. We're

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Speaker 1: The next day we're going to South of France. Yes,

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Speaker 1: We go to South of France and this is I'm

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Speaker 1: I were away and there I wanted to be on

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00:21:07,800 --> 00:21:11,040
Speaker 1: a boat. I was like, let's hop on a boat, dude. Yeah,

445
00:21:11,160 --> 00:21:15,159
Speaker 1: She's like, okay. I only brought my credit my card

446
00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:17,640
Speaker 1: because I thought I could tap that thing. Turns out

447
00:21:18,400 --> 00:21:19,240
Speaker 1: it's all cash.

448
00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:24,640
Speaker 5: My god, So what am I so annoying? So annoying?

449
00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:27,399
Speaker 5: Leave America and be like I can't tap here. No,

450
00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:29,679
Speaker 5: I went to Thailand with no cash.

451
00:21:29,720 --> 00:21:30,280
Speaker 3: I can't tap.

452
00:21:30,320 --> 00:21:33,879
Speaker 2: They were like, tap, You're gonna tap the elephantsys, No,

453
00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:36,879
Speaker 2: damn the elephant don't have it anyway.

454
00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:40,640
Speaker 1: Anyway, you can't Okay, okay, so she has to pay

455
00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:42,680
Speaker 1: for the boat fully because I didn't bring any cash,

456
00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:45,240
Speaker 1: but she brought enough cash and I was like, okay, awesome,

457
00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:47,840
Speaker 1: So she paid for the boat. Let's remember this. She

458
00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:51,040
Speaker 1: paid for the boat. I go, what color do you want?

459
00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:54,840
Speaker 1: She chooses the color of the boat. Then she gets

460
00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:59,280
Speaker 1: on the boat first. Okay, three things you said, she paid,

461
00:21:59,480 --> 00:22:01,560
Speaker 1: she chose color, and she got on the boat. First,

462
00:22:01,640 --> 00:22:04,160
Speaker 1: we got on the boat. I'm having a blast because

463
00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:07,159
Speaker 1: I know how to drive a boat and yeah yeah yeah,

464
00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 1: and so I'm like, you know, the waves are gonna

465
00:22:09,480 --> 00:22:11,320
Speaker 1: do with sting. But we're in the boat.

466
00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:13,200
Speaker 3: I'm already annoyed.

467
00:22:13,280 --> 00:22:14,240
Speaker 1: I'm already annoyed.

468
00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:16,040
Speaker 3: No know how to pay for I'm.

469
00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:18,640
Speaker 1: Already I was like yeah, I didn't know they could

470
00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:20,879
Speaker 1: talk anyway. So we're on the boat. I'm having a

471
00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:23,639
Speaker 1: grand I have the new Ama ray album on I

472
00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:26,560
Speaker 1: had downloaded. I'm like, and you a DJ, so you

473
00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:28,679
Speaker 1: got you know, I'm feel I have a wig on

474
00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:31,720
Speaker 1: that I put just to get on the boat. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah,

475
00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:33,840
Speaker 1: yeah absolutely, I'm like take this video, like you know,

476
00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:35,400
Speaker 1: I'm like the boat wig.

477
00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:40,240
Speaker 3: I didn't even know both I don't have a boat Wig.

478
00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:42,720
Speaker 3: You got to show me your boat, Wig, Yeah, I'll

479
00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:42,960
Speaker 3: show you.

480
00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:43,919
Speaker 1: It was an awesome post.

481
00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:44,640
Speaker 3: Yeah.

482
00:22:44,680 --> 00:22:47,360
Speaker 1: I was like, everything is for this post right now.

483
00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:51,359
Speaker 1: So we do that. While we're on the boat, she

484
00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:53,480
Speaker 1: looks at me and I go, you want to drive

485
00:22:53,480 --> 00:22:56,280
Speaker 1: the boat. She's like, yeah, I want to drive it.

486
00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:57,520
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, come in.

487
00:22:57,800 --> 00:22:59,280
Speaker 3: She never drove a boat before.

488
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:03,280
Speaker 1: I didn't know her relationship with boats beforehand. So I

489
00:23:03,400 --> 00:23:05,800
Speaker 1: let her drive the boat because I always have. I've

490
00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:08,480
Speaker 1: rented boats before and I always drive them. People always

491
00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:10,240
Speaker 1: look at me with these eyes that are like, I

492
00:23:10,240 --> 00:23:12,000
Speaker 1: want to drive the boat, and I'm like, okay, drive

493
00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:15,199
Speaker 1: the boat. So I let her drive the boat like

494
00:23:15,480 --> 00:23:18,480
Speaker 1: three minutes in because now I'm in the front because

495
00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:20,560
Speaker 1: we sit side, so I'm in the front taking pictures,

496
00:23:20,600 --> 00:23:22,680
Speaker 1: I'm drinking, just driving.

497
00:23:22,760 --> 00:23:23,320
Speaker 3: You're in the back.

498
00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:26,040
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, I told her how to do it.

499
00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:30,560
Speaker 3: Hold on, I'm sorry. Wait, wait, wait, when you rent

500
00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:32,440
Speaker 3: the boat, it don't come with a boat man.

501
00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:35,080
Speaker 1: You can, but I didn't want you didn't want to

502
00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 1: the boat man.

503
00:23:36,680 --> 00:23:39,359
Speaker 3: Okay, the boat man, the boat man.

504
00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:40,640
Speaker 1: I know how to drive the boat.

505
00:23:40,640 --> 00:23:42,360
Speaker 3: And immediately when I heard that, I would have said,

506
00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:42,960
Speaker 3: I'm not getting on.

507
00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:46,480
Speaker 1: That boat, but she got on it first. Remember that, right. Okay,

508
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:48,760
Speaker 1: So now we're on the boat. We're out there, because

509
00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:51,160
Speaker 1: I mean it's we're in this out the paths dude,

510
00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:55,800
Speaker 1: having a great time. She starts looking at me like okay, okay.

511
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:58,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, you don't want to do this anymore. Okay,

512
00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:00,399
Speaker 1: let me let me we have to switch. She's like,

513
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:03,840
Speaker 1: I said, slow down. She goes, I can't slow down.

514
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:07,919
Speaker 1: I said, well, so now we're going towards boats that

515
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:12,280
Speaker 1: are not rented, boats that are very much rich French

516
00:24:12,400 --> 00:24:16,760
Speaker 1: people on it right now. Actively yea speeding towards So

517
00:24:16,920 --> 00:24:20,400
Speaker 1: she's doing and I'm like, slow down. Stop the boat reversed.

518
00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:21,879
Speaker 1: She goes, I don't know how to do any of that.

519
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,920
Speaker 1: I'm like trying to explain to her. I'm like, yo, literally,

520
00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:27,919
Speaker 1: you just gotta go like this, like it's no, just

521
00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:31,200
Speaker 1: go like this. No, No, I'm scared. I'm scared. I'm like, well, stop,

522
00:24:31,320 --> 00:24:33,320
Speaker 1: get your hand off of it. At least let the

523
00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:36,159
Speaker 1: boat just like turn it, like can we She doesn't

524
00:24:36,160 --> 00:24:38,320
Speaker 1: want to do anything. She's scared. She's freaking out. She

525
00:24:38,359 --> 00:24:40,399
Speaker 1: starts screaming. I'm like for her too, I would be

526
00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:43,119
Speaker 1: the same hold on. I asked her it was consent

527
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:47,600
Speaker 1: based and so and so. Now we're like so close

528
00:24:47,680 --> 00:24:50,439
Speaker 1: to these people. I'm like, girl, if you hit one

529
00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:53,119
Speaker 1: of these boats, we're both getting in so much trouble.

530
00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:56,960
Speaker 1: She finally stopple, y'all go the least of your word.

531
00:24:57,040 --> 00:25:01,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, ye'll sink.

532
00:25:03,200 --> 00:25:05,199
Speaker 1: I know how to swim, so it's no problem for me.

533
00:25:06,400 --> 00:25:09,480
Speaker 3: You're going to jail. How do you say? But I'm

534
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:10,720
Speaker 3: not jail.

535
00:25:12,480 --> 00:25:15,359
Speaker 1: Okay. So we stopped right, So we stopped the boat.

536
00:25:15,400 --> 00:25:18,879
Speaker 1: She anchors it. We have this huge fight. She's like,

537
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:21,359
Speaker 1: you do whatever you want. I go, what do you

538
00:25:21,440 --> 00:25:22,560
Speaker 1: mean you were driving the boat?

539
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:23,400
Speaker 3: You said you would have.

540
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:24,920
Speaker 1: Drived the boat. I let you drive the boat. And

541
00:25:25,240 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 1: then I told you to stop. You didn't stop. You

542
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:29,639
Speaker 1: didn't listen to me. You're all the way here, fine, whatever, Like,

543
00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:31,399
Speaker 1: do you want to get in? You anchored the boat.

544
00:25:31,440 --> 00:25:32,919
Speaker 1: Do you want to get in the water? She goes, no,

545
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:35,280
Speaker 1: do whatever you want. I go, I have a full

546
00:25:35,320 --> 00:25:38,159
Speaker 1: face of makeup and no wig on. I'm not getting

547
00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:40,040
Speaker 1: in the water. I'm here for the pictures.

548
00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:41,359
Speaker 2: But all you had to say was wig and that

549
00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:45,199
Speaker 2: would have been enough for me. I'm like an ocean wig.

550
00:25:46,000 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 2: Now I have an ocean wig.

551
00:25:47,119 --> 00:25:52,360
Speaker 1: That's different. Okay, So I get out of there right

552
00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:55,399
Speaker 1: because I'm like, this was dumb. Also, I looked at

553
00:25:55,440 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 1: the bath. Turns out we're pretty far. We're pretty far

554
00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:00,720
Speaker 1: and we have to be back in about thirty minutes,

555
00:26:00,760 --> 00:26:03,760
Speaker 1: which is fine. So we I start heading back. I'm like,

556
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 1: you're not touching this, to the point where she was

557
00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:08,440
Speaker 1: screaming at me so much. But I was like, baby,

558
00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:12,040
Speaker 1: don't ruin your vacation because I'm having a great time.

559
00:26:12,280 --> 00:26:15,440
Speaker 1: I'm in the South France with my cousin that only

560
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:18,200
Speaker 1: us two don't have babies in the whole family. I'm

561
00:26:18,240 --> 00:26:20,399
Speaker 1: having a good time. Do not ruin this. To the

562
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:23,640
Speaker 1: point where as I'm driving back, I was like, hey,

563
00:26:24,920 --> 00:26:28,320
Speaker 1: I love you, and like I felt like I was,

564
00:26:28,359 --> 00:26:30,159
Speaker 1: you know, like with a baby a little bit. And

565
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 1: I was like, don't be mad. This is your vacation.

566
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:36,840
Speaker 1: You paid a lot of money for this. She was like, okay,

567
00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:40,760
Speaker 1: I guess should we stop and take photos? Yes? We should,

568
00:26:40,800 --> 00:26:43,560
Speaker 1: so we stopped, we take photos. Whatever, Now for real,

569
00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:46,679
Speaker 1: we have to get back right, So I'm driving straight,

570
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:50,920
Speaker 1: I assume, and I was sudden the police pulls up.

571
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:53,960
Speaker 3: Yeah they should, the police should have been pulled.

572
00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 1: But no, no, no, turns out we were Okay, this

573
00:26:57,440 --> 00:27:02,480
Speaker 1: is really bad. I really really didn't know. I'm so sorry. No, no, no,

574
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:06,480
Speaker 1: I didn't know. It was over the scuba people. That

575
00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:08,920
Speaker 1: was really bad. It's really bad and I scuba.

576
00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:11,280
Speaker 3: I get how you sitting the wait, what's the can

577
00:27:11,320 --> 00:27:12,280
Speaker 3: you explain because I don't know.

578
00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:17,040
Speaker 1: So basically, it's like, basically like there are people under

579
00:27:17,080 --> 00:27:19,080
Speaker 1: the wall and there's a point. So when they're coming up,

580
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:23,359
Speaker 1: so there's a boat going at full speed. Yeah, okay,

581
00:27:23,640 --> 00:27:28,200
Speaker 1: I great. Great. So my cousin she gets so scared.

582
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:30,960
Speaker 1: I mean, she's you know, I lived in Paris for

583
00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 1: a little bit, but I didn't handle French too much.

584
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 1: So I'm sitting there. Also I'm a little drunk. I'm

585
00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:45,119
Speaker 1: like my cousin's like, oh Jesus, Colombian accent on French,

586
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:48,320
Speaker 1: which I love. And the guys like laughing at us

587
00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:58,560
Speaker 1: because I'm like, monsieur, what she here? Cuisine is like whatever?

588
00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:01,120
Speaker 1: They laugh at us, They're like, good, just go Yeah.

589
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 1: I was like I'll go around, I'll go around, and

590
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:08,080
Speaker 1: he and he was like you're already, so for far

591
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 1: into it. You just just go just leave, And I

592
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 1: was like, okay, awesome things. So now my cousin's like

593
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:15,880
Speaker 1: freaked out, and I was like, girl, like, don't worry.

594
00:28:15,960 --> 00:28:17,800
Speaker 1: I'm looking at the map. I know where I'm going.

595
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:21,880
Speaker 1: She goes, wait, wait, are you sure we're going the

596
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:24,119
Speaker 1: right way? And I was like, yeah, we are. I'm

597
00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:25,800
Speaker 1: looking at the map. And then she's like no, no,

598
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:28,720
Speaker 1: are you sure? So I stop the boat as one

599
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 1: does to look at the map because now you got

600
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 1: me thinking. I'm like, no, I'm pretty sure it's the

601
00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 1: right way. Then she decides it's the right way, and

602
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:37,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, yeah, hold on, let me just make

603
00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 1: sure that mountain is there, and we're just gonna go

604
00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 1: over there. And she starts screaming at me like got me.

605
00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:45,440
Speaker 1: How about that? I was like, Michelle, take us home,

606
00:28:45,520 --> 00:28:49,880
Speaker 1: take us home. Get yeah, okay, So we get back

607
00:28:49,920 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 1: to doc whatever she gets off. I mean, that's when

608
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 1: the fighting started. For the next two weeks. It was

609
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:58,360
Speaker 1: pretty horrible. And what sucked was like I went on vacation,

610
00:28:58,560 --> 00:29:00,680
Speaker 1: like so I just separated myself. I was like, you

611
00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:02,840
Speaker 1: have your day, I have mine. That's how we continue

612
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:05,680
Speaker 1: through the whole thing. We went to Barcelona, we ended

613
00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:08,880
Speaker 1: up back in Paris. When we're back in Paris, this

614
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 1: is like, there's four nights left and it's still pretty bad.

615
00:29:12,800 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 3: Two weeks. Basically, two weeks is just too long.

616
00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:20,520
Speaker 1: But you don't think we were We were so yeah,

617
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:24,200
Speaker 1: it was like this whole thing. This day comes and

618
00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 1: it's so bad that I'm like, I'm in Paris. I

619
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 1: can afford to Airbnb. I can just go somewhere.

620
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:30,560
Speaker 3: Happen in Airbnb.

621
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:38,960
Speaker 1: Okay, rich you know shotcasts doing well, got those got

622
00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:44,480
Speaker 1: those mooi mooe MOOI to narrow huh y shame ya. Yeah.

623
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:48,000
Speaker 1: So at this point I wait for the morning, right

624
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:51,440
Speaker 1: because we get there. Wait in the morning, I go, hey,

625
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:53,160
Speaker 1: how do you feel about me being here? Like I

626
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:55,440
Speaker 1: just feel like we're not on the same vibe and

627
00:29:55,440 --> 00:30:01,640
Speaker 1: you feel in comfortable. Hear apartment in Paris. So that's

628
00:30:01,640 --> 00:30:03,480
Speaker 1: why I'm like, now I'm in your space, like I

629
00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:06,520
Speaker 1: want to respect it. She starts yelling at me. She

630
00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 1: wants to fight so bad, and I'm like, you know what, No,

631
00:30:10,760 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna fight with you. She goes and you knew,

632
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:16,520
Speaker 1: you knew I didn't want to get on the boat.

633
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 1: It so she paid, she got on, she picked, and

634
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:27,760
Speaker 1: she blamed me for getting on the boat. She was like,

635
00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:29,160
Speaker 1: I've never been on the boat before. I was like,

636
00:30:29,200 --> 00:30:29,959
Speaker 1: why didn't you say that?

637
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 3: Why didn't she say that? It's the communications.

638
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 1: Why would you let me drive the boat? I said

639
00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:36,280
Speaker 1: you wanted to. You asked me to show. Why would

640
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:41,400
Speaker 1: you let her get on? Why that will stop you

641
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:43,960
Speaker 1: from living your best life? Because I hate when people

642
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:45,280
Speaker 1: try to tell me I can't do something.

643
00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:47,000
Speaker 3: We're gonna die listening to you.

644
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:50,200
Speaker 6: I'm when I stop you from living, You're like, we're

645
00:30:50,200 --> 00:30:51,000
Speaker 6: going to die.

646
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:53,240
Speaker 1: Trying.

647
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, at least I'm not mad at that.

648
00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:02,200
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, that's one of those things where she wanted

649
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:03,600
Speaker 1: to fight so about and I was like, I can't

650
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:05,560
Speaker 1: get to that level with you because I will ruin

651
00:31:05,680 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 1: this relationship for the rest of our life.

652
00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:09,680
Speaker 3: Yeah. Something you can't take back something.

653
00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:12,240
Speaker 1: And that's why I don't like going that far with

654
00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 1: people because it's not worth it because I care about

655
00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 1: friendship a lot. I'll take the l so that we

656
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:21,040
Speaker 1: can just you know, have our peace. But I mean,

657
00:31:21,680 --> 00:31:24,800
Speaker 1: I think two weeks is too long for anybody relate.

658
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:28,120
Speaker 1: Somebody you dating best friends family.

659
00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 3: Two weeks is just too long.

660
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:30,280
Speaker 1: Weeks.

661
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:33,600
Speaker 3: It's a long time. We did ten days. Ten days

662
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:35,520
Speaker 3: was also too long.

663
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:39,920
Speaker 2: But I really do believe it was only bad because

664
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:41,280
Speaker 2: we had those two other people.

665
00:31:41,360 --> 00:31:43,040
Speaker 3: If we you, me and I mean I would have

666
00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 3: did ten days, we could have done. It would have

667
00:31:44,480 --> 00:31:45,440
Speaker 3: been fine. We've done so.

668
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 2: Many trips together. That was the only trip we've ever had.

669
00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 5: Like but I mean also it was like we did

670
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:53,560
Speaker 5: ten days in Morocco birthday last year, and I mean

671
00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:56,360
Speaker 5: like at least two and a half of those days

672
00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:59,560
Speaker 5: was driving to the desert, and that is not ideal.

673
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:02,920
Speaker 5: It's not like the Sahara Desert was fun. It was like,

674
00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:05,440
Speaker 5: you know, mind blowing to be there, but I don't

675
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 5: ever need to be there again.

676
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:09,680
Speaker 2: The station wagon was all fucked up. Yeah, you have

677
00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:12,080
Speaker 2: to really be in the zone to be on a

678
00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 2: trip with somebody for two weeks, and you need somebody

679
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 2: to be the bigger person, which it seems like it

680
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 2: was you. Also, you were stirring the pot with the foolishness.

681
00:32:20,200 --> 00:32:21,720
Speaker 1: I was what foolishness?

682
00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:23,320
Speaker 5: What she letting her?

683
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:26,960
Speaker 1: Letting her? Drie was like, if this is a new

684
00:32:27,000 --> 00:32:29,080
Speaker 1: experience for you, I would love to be a part

685
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:29,280
Speaker 1: of it.

686
00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:34,560
Speaker 3: Dat taking. Yeah, but she was fun.

687
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:36,000
Speaker 1: You can't see.

688
00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 3: With you, but you you.

689
00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 1: She could have said, hey, I would.

690
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:42,560
Speaker 3: Have stopped listen.

691
00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:44,920
Speaker 5: She didn't want to stop, and she also didn't want

692
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:45,560
Speaker 5: to stop fighting.

693
00:32:45,720 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 3: It's mess, yeahs stuff is mess.

694
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:50,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think I was the bigger person. Eventually,

695
00:32:50,960 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 1: you know, I did write her note. I didn't physically

696
00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:55,680
Speaker 1: right her because I left, and the last thing I

697
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:56,680
Speaker 1: told her was suck my dick.

698
00:32:56,800 --> 00:32:58,040
Speaker 3: But hold.

699
00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:04,360
Speaker 1: Person coming up, and she was like, you do this,

700
00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:05,960
Speaker 1: you do this, you do this. I'm like, you're not

701
00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 1: talking about the trip, you're talking about my character, and

702
00:33:08,440 --> 00:33:10,920
Speaker 1: that's rude because I'm not doing the same to you.

703
00:33:11,160 --> 00:33:13,800
Speaker 1: And if I was, it would finish it. She was like, oh,

704
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:15,800
Speaker 1: so you're just gonna leave like you always do.

705
00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:20,000
Speaker 5: I said, yeah, suck my dick, suck my thank you so.

706
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:22,600
Speaker 1: Much for having me. And then I last, let's bring

707
00:33:22,640 --> 00:33:23,000
Speaker 1: back suck.

708
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:24,720
Speaker 3: Let's bring that back.

709
00:33:25,040 --> 00:33:26,840
Speaker 1: I do that all the time. Yes, it's bad. And

710
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:30,520
Speaker 1: then I wrote her note via what's Up, and I said,

711
00:33:31,880 --> 00:33:35,640
Speaker 1: I love you so much and I truly appreciated the

712
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:38,880
Speaker 1: wonderful moments we spent on our vacation. What a dream

713
00:33:38,960 --> 00:33:44,280
Speaker 1: come true. I hope that you also had a great time,

714
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:47,280
Speaker 1: and I hope that the next few days of your

715
00:33:47,360 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 1: vacation are RESTful and peaceful. I love you fake like.

716
00:33:55,800 --> 00:34:00,400
Speaker 2: That, so fake in the my brows, girl, that's not

717
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 2: really getting into it, and I do.

718
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 3: I want to say this. Letters.

719
00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:06,920
Speaker 1: Letters are good, but you have to be so have

720
00:34:07,040 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 1: a way with your words. You have to almost be

721
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:11,440
Speaker 1: a poet that you can write somebody and tell them

722
00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:14,000
Speaker 1: exactly how you feel. I think face to face with

723
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:16,239
Speaker 1: a mediator is important.

724
00:34:16,320 --> 00:34:16,920
Speaker 3: A mediator.

725
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:21,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, you got party mediated Carolina and her best friend

726
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 1: when they were going back and forth, because I said.

727
00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:27,360
Speaker 3: Hey, you need somebody to be like, well, this is

728
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:30,120
Speaker 3: what this person's in saying, Hey are you listening or

729
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:31,560
Speaker 3: what are you hearing? What did you hear?

730
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:35,120
Speaker 2: After she just said, some people mix up what they're hearing.

731
00:34:35,160 --> 00:34:37,359
Speaker 2: They hear one thing, but then they have another thing

732
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:39,760
Speaker 2: in their mind and that's what they're actually hearing. Yeah,

733
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:41,759
Speaker 2: so you need a mediator. I always believe you need

734
00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 2: a third party. You need a neutral third party, one

735
00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 2: that won't take sides.

736
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:51,480
Speaker 1: You're hey, hey, you and your sister for a small

737
00:34:51,560 --> 00:34:54,399
Speaker 1: fee of a bacon, egg and cheese. Oh, I can

738
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:55,879
Speaker 1: get y'all in order quick.

739
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 3: I did it. I did it.

740
00:34:57,200 --> 00:35:01,359
Speaker 5: You're not an impartial third party like you. She's gonna

741
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:02,520
Speaker 5: be like, you're gonna take Marie.

742
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 1: No, not, that's no.

743
00:35:04,000 --> 00:35:06,640
Speaker 2: I'm telling you what she's between you and your sister

744
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:09,160
Speaker 2: because because I know you and I know your sister,

745
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:12,520
Speaker 2: I wouldn't. I would definitely be neutral because Marie, you know,

746
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 2: I tell you about yourself when I need to.

747
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:14,879
Speaker 3: And that's what I said.

748
00:35:14,920 --> 00:35:16,880
Speaker 5: I was like, when Sydney needs to check me, Sydney

749
00:35:16,960 --> 00:35:17,960
Speaker 5: checks t I tell her.

750
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:18,800
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.

751
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:22,600
Speaker 1: How do you nicely check someone? Maybe it's not nice.

752
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:24,520
Speaker 1: How do you sit down with someone and like.

753
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:30,400
Speaker 2: Hand, hey, Marie, you girl, the lateness is crazy.

754
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 3: Someone to me the other day about lateness.

755
00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:35,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I thought about you what I thought about me,

756
00:35:35,640 --> 00:35:37,719
Speaker 1: because your bio is I'm forty minutes.

757
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 5: Late and yet you were later.

758
00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:43,640
Speaker 1: You were last one at the podcast, which, honestly, thank god,

759
00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:48,520
Speaker 1: yes really, oh bro, we got here right before before you.

760
00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:52,000
Speaker 1: But no, my friend the other day was like, you

761
00:35:52,040 --> 00:35:55,719
Speaker 1: were late today an hour and and and you know

762
00:35:55,760 --> 00:35:57,680
Speaker 1: what I was mad about before? And I was like no,

763
00:35:57,719 --> 00:35:59,920
Speaker 1: I don't know which one you're talking about. She was like,

764
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 1: when we went to the NIXT game, it was like

765
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:02,279
Speaker 1: one of.

766
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,680
Speaker 3: The final and you were late to the finals.

767
00:36:04,920 --> 00:36:08,319
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry, so sorry. It was hard to get there.

768
00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:12,480
Speaker 1: I was like an hour We were supposed to be

769
00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:15,359
Speaker 1: there like an hour before, and I got there as

770
00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:16,560
Speaker 1: the game was starting.

771
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:18,120
Speaker 3: That's right.

772
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:20,440
Speaker 1: But she was really mad because we had this whole

773
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:23,600
Speaker 1: like plan about like how we wanted to like, you know,

774
00:36:23,760 --> 00:36:25,920
Speaker 1: drink and eat before y'all.

775
00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:27,200
Speaker 3: Y'all va.

776
00:36:28,400 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 1: I wasn't via p but the ticket's route free.

777
00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:31,520
Speaker 3: He's in the suite.

778
00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 1: I went to us suite.

779
00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:35,399
Speaker 3: Yeah, girl, you gotta you get on top of the suite.

780
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:36,399
Speaker 3: You gotta get there to eat.

781
00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:39,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, you gotta get there to rub arms with Steph

782
00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:40,240
Speaker 5: Curry's wife.

783
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:42,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's true. Let me tell you something.

784
00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:45,719
Speaker 5: I was invited to the NBA All Star Game when

785
00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 5: I lived in l a X amount of years ago,

786
00:36:48,280 --> 00:36:49,719
Speaker 5: not even lived there. I was there for like a

787
00:36:49,719 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 5: month for a pilot season, and they invited me to

788
00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:55,000
Speaker 5: the game. I was like, oh my god, I'm gonna

789
00:36:55,040 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 5: go to the you know, the seats were really cute.

790
00:36:57,600 --> 00:36:58,600
Speaker 3: I looked at the ticket price.

791
00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:02,839
Speaker 5: It was like three thousand. I got there late. When

792
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:06,440
Speaker 5: I got there, Fergie had sung the national anthem and I.

793
00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 1: Assassed that that's crazy.

794
00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:12,280
Speaker 5: That you know that you missed that.

795
00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 3: Like, yes, let's get it out again.

796
00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:23,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I could have been there for that,

797
00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 5: and I'm missed and I was. My seats were real cute,

798
00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:28,000
Speaker 5: and I was like, oh, Beyonce might be there, I said.

799
00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:30,160
Speaker 5: I remember saying that before I got there, and Beyonce

800
00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:31,839
Speaker 5: and Blue Ivy were at that game.

801
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 3: I saw them. Yeah, sake, I missed that. Oh you

802
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:57,799
Speaker 3: know what, I forgot to do my mess. That's mess.

803
00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:00,160
Speaker 2: Okay, that's mess. Yeah, Marie, you didn't even ask me

804
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:00,960
Speaker 2: about my mess.

805
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:03,800
Speaker 5: Well, to be fair, Michelle A Donna just started her mess.

806
00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:06,279
Speaker 1: I didn't know if it was my turn, so I

807
00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:06,759
Speaker 1: just went for it.

808
00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:09,439
Speaker 3: No, but I like that you gotta take you. That's

809
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:11,920
Speaker 3: that's my dick energy. It is you're a New Yorker

810
00:38:11,920 --> 00:38:12,480
Speaker 3: and we love that.

811
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 2: My mess is I went to go see my girlfriend

812
00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:21,480
Speaker 2: in North Carolina and we I mean, this was it

813
00:38:21,520 --> 00:38:24,040
Speaker 2: was kind of very last last minute because she also.

814
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 3: Was like, you don't come visit me.

815
00:38:25,560 --> 00:38:27,719
Speaker 2: D blah blah blah, blah, and I said, you know what,

816
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:29,879
Speaker 2: you're right boom. Let me just get these tickets right,

817
00:38:29,920 --> 00:38:34,600
Speaker 2: so I get there. No, it's it's about being thoughtful

818
00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:37,400
Speaker 2: because you know, if somebody's doing doing doing, I'd be like,

819
00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:38,560
Speaker 2: I'm gonna take.

820
00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:41,840
Speaker 3: The do you gotta you also gotta do. You gotta

821
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:43,520
Speaker 3: do the do. That's how it works.

822
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 2: You gotta take the you gotta do the do as

823
00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:49,560
Speaker 2: well you gotta do do you gotta do do, because

824
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:52,879
Speaker 2: that's how it's you gotta street. It is a two

825
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 2: way street if you're in relationships and friendships and work streets.

826
00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:58,400
Speaker 3: Do be one way though I see them all the time.

827
00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:00,360
Speaker 1: Or are you on those one way streets?

828
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:06,120
Speaker 5: According to my sister, yes, magging my way zump sound anyway.

829
00:39:06,239 --> 00:39:08,279
Speaker 3: So you went to see her? Going to go see her?

830
00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:13,080
Speaker 2: And before I was going there, I had thought about, like,

831
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:17,040
Speaker 2: you know, I used to be a lingerie girl. I

832
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:19,120
Speaker 2: used to put on little sets and stuff. And that

833
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:21,120
Speaker 2: was during the pandemic when I didn't have nobody. So

834
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:23,320
Speaker 2: that was crazy that I was buying all this stuff

835
00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:26,440
Speaker 2: and it didn't have nobody. And then I get a relationships,

836
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:29,960
Speaker 2: I get real comfortable and it's like black panty black bra.

837
00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:33,399
Speaker 1: I mean she didn't see the same bra over and over.

838
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:36,960
Speaker 1: I have multiples of this bra, but it's the same.

839
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:39,440
Speaker 2: It looked like I've been wearing the same bra for

840
00:39:39,560 --> 00:39:40,759
Speaker 2: this whole relationship.

841
00:39:41,400 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 3: What happened to all the lingerie?

842
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:43,319
Speaker 1: I don't know.

843
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:46,759
Speaker 2: You know, I had lingering in another relationship and you

844
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:48,200
Speaker 2: can't really you can't.

845
00:39:48,200 --> 00:39:48,399
Speaker 1: Can't.

846
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:55,560
Speaker 2: You can't bring that from the launy that's thee Yeah, yeah, yeah,

847
00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:58,440
Speaker 2: it's the same thing with the strap, Like, don't you

848
00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:00,000
Speaker 2: can't bring me a strap that you.

849
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 3: Us doing another girl to me? Makes sense?

850
00:40:03,320 --> 00:40:06,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, even even if it's dishwasher, say, you can't throw this.

851
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:08,840
Speaker 3: I don't want it. I don't want it. It has I

852
00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:09,399
Speaker 3: don't want it.

853
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:13,160
Speaker 1: It has the energy of whatever issues that y'all had,

854
00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:14,880
Speaker 1: and you bringing it into side of me.

855
00:40:15,080 --> 00:40:15,799
Speaker 5: I don't want that.

856
00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:19,800
Speaker 3: But keep it, keep it, But what.

857
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:22,920
Speaker 1: Put it in your in your safe whatever you want

858
00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:23,120
Speaker 1: to do.

859
00:40:23,160 --> 00:40:25,239
Speaker 5: But I just don't want it anyway. I'm saying, what

860
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:28,440
Speaker 5: because Dick is attached to a body and it has

861
00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 5: Dick has memory too, and I'm not on that.

862
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:34,319
Speaker 3: Because you can't put that in a dish washing. I'll

863
00:40:34,360 --> 00:40:34,560
Speaker 3: tell you.

864
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 2: Sometimes they do need to be ran in a dish

865
00:40:37,239 --> 00:40:39,360
Speaker 2: washing absolutely, d you need to put them in a

866
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:40,839
Speaker 2: washing machine too, have.

867
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:42,719
Speaker 3: Tumble dry lo some bleach on it.

868
00:40:46,719 --> 00:40:50,480
Speaker 2: Anyway, So I had a little outfit plan for her.

869
00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:51,759
Speaker 5: I brought it.

870
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:55,279
Speaker 2: And this is the thing, like when you thoughtful, it

871
00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:57,319
Speaker 2: really don't go the way you want it to.

872
00:40:57,880 --> 00:40:58,080
Speaker 4: Wow.

873
00:40:58,160 --> 00:40:59,440
Speaker 3: I'm in the bathroom.

874
00:40:59,760 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 1: You know.

875
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:02,480
Speaker 2: I got garters, I got stockings.

876
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:04,080
Speaker 1: Hey, reread.

877
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:07,600
Speaker 2: We got to make whoever's in charge of the garter

878
00:41:07,920 --> 00:41:11,840
Speaker 2: stocking thing, It's it's complicated. I'm over there, I'm sweating

879
00:41:12,120 --> 00:41:14,600
Speaker 2: trying to get the stocking to cook to the garter.

880
00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:19,759
Speaker 2: It's it's coming out. It's it's getting stuck, it's falling out.

881
00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:23,839
Speaker 3: It looks lopsided on my legs. The stockings are not

882
00:41:23,880 --> 00:41:27,000
Speaker 3: fitting on my thigh. And I got thighs. Don't let me,

883
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:29,279
Speaker 3: don't let me lift this shit up. Come on, I

884
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:32,040
Speaker 3: bring my leg all wow zooming on the thigh.

885
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:35,120
Speaker 5: Oh oh wait that sigh.

886
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:37,360
Speaker 2: So you got the wrong size. No, it's got the

887
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:40,560
Speaker 2: right size. It was small to medium or whatever. And

888
00:41:40,640 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 2: so I'm in the bathroom it's about twenty five minutes now,

889
00:41:45,640 --> 00:41:46,839
Speaker 2: trying to get it right.

890
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:48,960
Speaker 3: And where is she sleep.

891
00:41:49,120 --> 00:41:51,560
Speaker 2: I come out, she's knocked out. She would have been

892
00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:56,440
Speaker 2: waiting for me and waiting she was snoring, and.

893
00:41:56,400 --> 00:42:03,320
Speaker 3: You know what I did? Hey where God and I

894
00:42:03,400 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 3: are learning wag or was it school days? I don't know.

895
00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:11,000
Speaker 2: And lingerie is annoying because they taking it off.

896
00:42:11,800 --> 00:42:12,400
Speaker 1: We did all that.

897
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:15,560
Speaker 3: I'm huffing and puffing, sweating, trying to get things right.

898
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:17,640
Speaker 2: They're gonna take it. I said, we are not taking

899
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 2: it off. I kept it on, were keeping it. I

900
00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:25,440
Speaker 2: might even go out to the punkin patch with it

901
00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:28,600
Speaker 2: on underneath my sweatpants and everything.

902
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:29,560
Speaker 3: That's how they do it. Though.

903
00:42:29,840 --> 00:42:31,319
Speaker 5: You could have went to the pumpkin patch and the

904
00:42:31,400 --> 00:42:32,520
Speaker 5: lingerie would try to have.

905
00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:34,680
Speaker 1: A strech crow and I got the stretch crow too. Yes,

906
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:40,160
Speaker 1: it wouldn't have naturally, Yeah, but I don't know. That's why.

907
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:42,239
Speaker 1: It's like you want to do something nice, but then

908
00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:44,880
Speaker 1: when you actually get into it. It's those girls who

909
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:48,640
Speaker 1: are constantly getting the outfits for their for their partner

910
00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:53,480
Speaker 1: or whatever. They in another they're in another group because

911
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 1: I can't my fingers something about it wasn't the nails

912
00:42:57,840 --> 00:43:00,759
Speaker 1: or I'm just I can't do it. Maybe I'm just

913
00:43:00,960 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 1: did you need them Yeah, it was a whole Yes,

914
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 1: it was the whole thing.

915
00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:07,040
Speaker 2: And I couldn't even take a picture because soon as

916
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 2: it hooked. I'm sorry all these men in here, but

917
00:43:10,120 --> 00:43:12,000
Speaker 2: I apologize.

918
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:14,400
Speaker 3: But now, when you know, when she's doing her stuff,

919
00:43:14,440 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 3: it takes time. And she got them long ass nails too.

920
00:43:17,080 --> 00:43:18,680
Speaker 1: But I feel like you know what you're doing, Becca,

921
00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:22,720
Speaker 1: when you I'm not what you do. I'm goofy and goofy,

922
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:25,000
Speaker 1: I'm I fumble and stumble.

923
00:43:25,440 --> 00:43:26,719
Speaker 3: So what can you send me a picture of the

924
00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 3: set that you got. Yeah, I'll send it to you.

925
00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 5: It was.

926
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:33,439
Speaker 1: She loved it, but it took a lot to get

927
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:33,759
Speaker 1: to wear.

928
00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:36,200
Speaker 3: I was and I couldn't take I wish I had

929
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:38,880
Speaker 3: a photo for you. Rianna, send us some lingeries, babe.

930
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 2: Savage, Fine, no, send me this stuff that's easy to

931
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:45,000
Speaker 2: put on. I don't want no. I gotta pull out

932
00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:48,640
Speaker 2: an Ikea. You know, instructions to figure out you didn't go.

933
00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:50,440
Speaker 5: On TikTok to to see how how to put them

934
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:52,319
Speaker 5: on properly. You know, it's a.

935
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:54,920
Speaker 1: Tutorial for everybody turning on on TikTok to put on

936
00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 1: some damn garters. I can't do lingerie anymore. I hit

937
00:43:57,560 --> 00:44:02,879
Speaker 1: them with boxers. Yeah, like it or don't bro let

938
00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:09,960
Speaker 1: me get in there, dog, let me just boxers?

939
00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:11,560
Speaker 3: Is a boxer briefs?

940
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:12,840
Speaker 1: I do both?

941
00:44:12,960 --> 00:44:15,879
Speaker 5: Okay, Yeah, Sydney, I'm glad you made it out of

942
00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:19,399
Speaker 5: the lingerie and you know you can't send more.

943
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:22,880
Speaker 1: I need more lingerie. But I want something that's easy

944
00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:25,799
Speaker 1: I could slip on, and I'm not slipping it off.

945
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:28,080
Speaker 3: Well, if it's easy to get on, it's gonna be

946
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:28,719
Speaker 3: easy to take off.

947
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:30,799
Speaker 2: I'm not if I go out of my way to

948
00:44:30,920 --> 00:44:32,880
Speaker 2: buy these and they're expensive, they're not you.

949
00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:35,759
Speaker 1: But I had a lot of membership credits, so I

950
00:44:35,800 --> 00:44:38,760
Speaker 1: did get it with that. But if I get this stuff,

951
00:44:38,960 --> 00:44:39,799
Speaker 1: oh I'm keeping it on.

952
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:40,040
Speaker 7: No.

953
00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:42,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like if I do my hair and makeup and

954
00:44:42,360 --> 00:44:44,520
Speaker 1: I have a nice outfit on, I'm gonna want to

955
00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:47,600
Speaker 1: go all the way till four am. Yeah, like just

956
00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 1: like whatever it is. I'm not only in the bedroom,

957
00:44:49,760 --> 00:44:52,640
Speaker 1: like I have a nice outfit. I want everyone to

958
00:44:52,760 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 1: look at me right now in this specific situation. Yeah,

959
00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:01,120
Speaker 1: agree side Yeah, So babe, what did you want to

960
00:45:01,120 --> 00:45:01,799
Speaker 1: talk to us about?

961
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:02,600
Speaker 3: What's your Yeah?

962
00:45:02,600 --> 00:45:03,000
Speaker 5: Your mess?

963
00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:04,040
Speaker 3: We're talking to you about me.

964
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:06,560
Speaker 1: I thought that was my mass okay.

965
00:45:07,760 --> 00:45:09,080
Speaker 3: About Parisian story.

966
00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:13,879
Speaker 1: Okay, well, she I would say, my mess is like

967
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:18,360
Speaker 1: my roommates from college. I'm very much getting to the

968
00:45:18,400 --> 00:45:20,560
Speaker 1: point in my life where it's like, no hate to

969
00:45:20,640 --> 00:45:22,719
Speaker 1: know one that I live with right now, I just

970
00:45:22,760 --> 00:45:26,239
Speaker 1: need to live by myself. Yes, I can't do this anymore. Yeah,

971
00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:29,440
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't want to, don't have to. I

972
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:33,920
Speaker 1: don't have to actually, so I need to. But in college,

973
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:36,560
Speaker 1: I had this one roommate which I forgot her name.

974
00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:41,480
Speaker 1: She's lucky, but I will look her up and are

975
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:48,040
Speaker 1: exactly but basically this girl. Okay, three things happened. One

976
00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:52,520
Speaker 1: I would smoke a little bit in my room, oh

977
00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:55,520
Speaker 1: seas and then through the event, even though I was

978
00:45:55,560 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 1: on the third floor, she was on the second. I

979
00:45:57,480 --> 00:45:59,959
Speaker 1: guess is that how the event were. I'm not gonna

980
00:46:00,239 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 1: hot a ride. She was talking about, who's smoking? I'm

981
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:05,720
Speaker 1: getting allergies.

982
00:46:06,160 --> 00:46:07,080
Speaker 3: I'm getting allergies.

983
00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:08,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm a third time.

984
00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:09,960
Speaker 3: That's not how weed work.

985
00:46:10,000 --> 00:46:12,600
Speaker 1: I'm allergic to the smell. I was like, she would

986
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:15,719
Speaker 1: have did better, saying she had asthma. Right, she asthmatic.

987
00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:20,120
Speaker 1: You don't make you gotta have your lives matchup.

988
00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:21,359
Speaker 3: Getting allergies.

989
00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:23,920
Speaker 1: Right, I was like, so go to the doctor. I

990
00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:27,600
Speaker 1: don't know the second thing she did. The second thing

991
00:46:27,640 --> 00:46:30,239
Speaker 1: she did. This was a disgusting house. It was like

992
00:46:30,360 --> 00:46:31,359
Speaker 1: nine people in there.

993
00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:32,279
Speaker 3: How many bad?

994
00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:33,239
Speaker 1: How did y'all do that?

995
00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:34,879
Speaker 3: What college? Did you go? Too many bad?

996
00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:35,680
Speaker 1: What's a Cornell?

997
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:37,960
Speaker 5: Oh?

998
00:46:38,239 --> 00:46:40,120
Speaker 1: And I was thinking when you would said you were

999
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:40,680
Speaker 1: going upstate?

1000
00:46:40,760 --> 00:46:41,439
Speaker 3: Did you go to the corner?

1001
00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:44,880
Speaker 2: Because when I went to Cornell, they have beautiful trees,

1002
00:46:44,920 --> 00:46:46,320
Speaker 2: The campus is stunning.

1003
00:46:47,200 --> 00:46:47,960
Speaker 3: You went to Cornell?

1004
00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:48,360
Speaker 4: You know?

1005
00:46:48,480 --> 00:46:54,640
Speaker 3: I did a little set for the Cornell Yeah, yes, Cornell.

1006
00:46:54,719 --> 00:46:58,680
Speaker 2: Ye, yes, it was sad, honey they need Yeah, pretty

1007
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:00,440
Speaker 2: bad comedy.

1008
00:47:00,520 --> 00:47:04,040
Speaker 1: Pretty bad up there. It's like super competitive and also

1009
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:07,920
Speaker 1: very trigger warning suicidal. Yes they got they got stuff

1010
00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:10,600
Speaker 1: on the gate, on the bridges. Yeah we have the bridge.

1011
00:47:10,719 --> 00:47:14,400
Speaker 1: Yes we have wait, we have nets the bridge and.

1012
00:47:14,400 --> 00:47:16,920
Speaker 3: The bridges to make sure where is the hold on?

1013
00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:18,319
Speaker 3: Where is Cornell? Let's talk?

1014
00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:23,799
Speaker 1: Which is crazy that you said. But my time in

1015
00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 1: Ithaca the summer after I graduated was one of the

1016
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:29,879
Speaker 1: best times in my life. And I saw so much

1017
00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:32,880
Speaker 1: trees in nature that that really changed, Like, no, I

1018
00:47:32,920 --> 00:47:35,960
Speaker 1: got to be out there all the time, so it

1019
00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:37,520
Speaker 1: definitely impacted.

1020
00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:40,880
Speaker 2: Why their beauty there, it's not like Central Park. You

1021
00:47:41,040 --> 00:47:43,960
Speaker 2: they're living good when you see those shoes and you're like, oh,

1022
00:47:44,000 --> 00:47:44,600
Speaker 2: this is weird.

1023
00:47:44,640 --> 00:47:47,959
Speaker 5: So the trees happy, but the people are sad because

1024
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:52,040
Speaker 5: really were sad trees and slightly less sad people.

1025
00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:54,640
Speaker 1: I actually think that the trees might be sucking up

1026
00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:57,919
Speaker 1: all the happiness from the people because they are flourishing.

1027
00:47:58,160 --> 00:47:58,759
Speaker 3: Well, how much.

1028
00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:00,759
Speaker 5: Joy is there in Ithaca? Well?

1029
00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:01,960
Speaker 3: True?

1030
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:04,800
Speaker 1: Okay, So second thing that happened. There was nine people

1031
00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:06,279
Speaker 1: in this house and.

1032
00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:10,759
Speaker 5: I'm sorry, nine people. How many bathrooms? This is important.

1033
00:48:11,480 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 1: There was one bathroom there and then another bathroom down there,

1034
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:16,680
Speaker 1: and I think there were three bathrooms.

1035
00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:19,160
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, bathrooms. It's mixed.

1036
00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 1: It's mixed. Girl boy. I think there is a boy somewhere.

1037
00:48:23,600 --> 00:48:25,240
Speaker 3: There's a boy. It was mainly girls.

1038
00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:27,360
Speaker 1: It was mainly girls, but I think there was a

1039
00:48:27,400 --> 00:48:30,200
Speaker 1: boy in there. There was a boy in there, and

1040
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:31,920
Speaker 1: I mean it was disgusting.

1041
00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 3: Race.

1042
00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:34,560
Speaker 1: Yes, this girl was white.

1043
00:48:34,560 --> 00:48:38,000
Speaker 3: That I'm talking. I didn't want to say it. I

1044
00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:38,759
Speaker 3: don't want to say it.

1045
00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:42,239
Speaker 2: No, no, no, that's not true, because they have international

1046
00:48:42,320 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 2: they have all girls she's talking about.

1047
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:47,319
Speaker 5: I think we can all imagine. I didn't want to say,

1048
00:48:47,320 --> 00:48:48,560
Speaker 5: what color is the hair real?

1049
00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:55,120
Speaker 1: Like a like a orange blonde? Yeah, strawberry blonde. Possibly

1050
00:48:56,120 --> 00:48:59,279
Speaker 1: this wasn't pretty, so it's fine. I don't care. I

1051
00:48:59,320 --> 00:49:05,719
Speaker 1: don't care, and this girl we okay, imagine this. The

1052
00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:08,200
Speaker 1: sink was always a mess. The refrigerator. I mean, my

1053
00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:10,040
Speaker 1: mom went one time and she was like, can I clean?

1054
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 1: And I was like, you can't, actually because I would

1055
00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:16,520
Speaker 1: be actually really bad because like you are not our maid. Nopeah,

1056
00:49:16,640 --> 00:49:20,799
Speaker 1: and don't position me as the maid either. It was

1057
00:49:20,840 --> 00:49:22,680
Speaker 1: horrible when I got here. It's gonna be horrible when

1058
00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 1: I leave.

1059
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:25,160
Speaker 3: Like that's how bad it was.

1060
00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:27,440
Speaker 1: No, it was bad. So one day there was always

1061
00:49:27,440 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 1: stuff in the sink, and you know, whatever plate you

1062
00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:32,879
Speaker 1: could take, you took. Nobody ever had a conversation with

1063
00:49:32,920 --> 00:49:35,879
Speaker 1: me about like we have specific plates you could use

1064
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:38,680
Speaker 1: for specific things. So I grab a bowl and I

1065
00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:41,279
Speaker 1: take it up and I'm like eating for man, But

1066
00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:42,759
Speaker 1: it's like one of those. I think I put like

1067
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:44,200
Speaker 1: a snack in it that I could keep it to

1068
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:47,400
Speaker 1: the next day or something. The sink was full, Okay,

1069
00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:50,879
Speaker 1: after I used it, I put the sink the thing

1070
00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:53,040
Speaker 1: back in the sink because I was like, when I

1071
00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:55,319
Speaker 1: come back from class, I'm gonna I'm gonna clean it.

1072
00:49:55,560 --> 00:49:58,320
Speaker 1: So what did I do? I She took a picture

1073
00:49:58,560 --> 00:50:02,160
Speaker 1: of the pole in the sink and said, who used this?

1074
00:50:02,920 --> 00:50:05,000
Speaker 1: Of the of the bowl in the sink? I should

1075
00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:06,520
Speaker 1: put it in the group chat in the group check.

1076
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:10,480
Speaker 1: And I said I did. She goes, okay, so you

1077
00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:13,560
Speaker 1: can't actually like use this because I use it and

1078
00:50:13,640 --> 00:50:15,399
Speaker 1: like this and this and that and that, and then

1079
00:50:15,840 --> 00:50:18,400
Speaker 1: I was like, are you the president of this house?

1080
00:50:18,560 --> 00:50:21,720
Speaker 1: Like do you work here? Like what is I was like, sure,

1081
00:50:22,160 --> 00:50:24,520
Speaker 1: I'll wash it when I get home. Right as soon

1082
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:27,680
Speaker 1: as I got home, I washed it, and then I

1083
00:50:28,360 --> 00:50:32,120
Speaker 1: sent her a message, Hey, the ball is clean and

1084
00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:34,400
Speaker 1: ready to use, like you know what she said the

1085
00:50:34,480 --> 00:50:42,120
Speaker 1: way she said, it's fine. I used another one. Girl,

1086
00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:44,719
Speaker 1: I don't know how to patience. I'm you every time

1087
00:50:44,760 --> 00:50:48,440
Speaker 1: you say something, I'm stressed and lived and then you

1088
00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:50,600
Speaker 1: know what that's At that point I was like, nah, man,

1089
00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:53,200
Speaker 1: it's so by dick so and then I went And

1090
00:50:53,239 --> 00:50:56,120
Speaker 1: then one time I got I couldn't remember I I

1091
00:50:56,480 --> 00:50:58,759
Speaker 1: I you know, I think I lost my keys or something.

1092
00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:01,839
Speaker 1: I misplaced it and me and my little my little thing.

1093
00:51:01,880 --> 00:51:04,360
Speaker 1: At the time, we're trying to get into the house.

1094
00:51:04,440 --> 00:51:09,360
Speaker 1: Hello Hello, and so the only way I could figure

1095
00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:13,160
Speaker 1: out how to get it. Then she doesn't know this. Yeah,

1096
00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:17,439
Speaker 1: I had to open her window move her like lizard. Well,

1097
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:21,280
Speaker 1: she had one of those. She had a dragon dragon bearded.

1098
00:51:22,280 --> 00:51:24,919
Speaker 1: I moved its case over to the side. It's looking

1099
00:51:24,920 --> 00:51:26,480
Speaker 1: at me. I'm like, I hope you're not recording me.

1100
00:51:26,840 --> 00:51:30,360
Speaker 1: I moved in through like this, and I yeah, I

1101
00:51:30,400 --> 00:51:33,239
Speaker 1: sneaked into the house through her window and she never

1102
00:51:33,320 --> 00:51:33,839
Speaker 1: even panther.

1103
00:51:39,960 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 3: I think when you're living with people, the.

1104
00:51:42,160 --> 00:51:48,640
Speaker 5: Two worst things is sharing a bathroom because whoever you

1105
00:51:48,680 --> 00:51:51,399
Speaker 5: live with, however they move in the bathroom, it's gonna

1106
00:51:51,400 --> 00:51:54,480
Speaker 5: pish you off right. The torothpaste is here, it's in

1107
00:51:54,520 --> 00:51:57,879
Speaker 5: the scenc or beard hairs or pubes or whatever the hell.

1108
00:51:58,440 --> 00:52:01,920
Speaker 5: So the bathroom stuff and then sink. People like to

1109
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:05,640
Speaker 5: let things sit in the sink wor. My best roommate

1110
00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:08,200
Speaker 5: was a guy that we had separate bathrooms. And my

1111
00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 5: worst roommate was a girl who refused to wash her dishes.

1112
00:52:12,000 --> 00:52:15,040
Speaker 5: She would just let stuff pile up, and she stabbed

1113
00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:17,560
Speaker 5: stuff annoying. I could be a fork at the bottom

1114
00:52:17,560 --> 00:52:18,920
Speaker 5: and then a pan and then a little.

1115
00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:23,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm learning that, and I had to. This took

1116
00:52:23,280 --> 00:52:25,400
Speaker 2: me a long time. It took me a very long time.

1117
00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:28,560
Speaker 2: When you use something, you gotta wash it, put it away.

1118
00:52:29,280 --> 00:52:33,080
Speaker 2: Wash it that it is so hard.

1119
00:52:33,040 --> 00:52:34,479
Speaker 3: But it just makes things eat.

1120
00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:36,240
Speaker 5: Wash it, put it away.

1121
00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:39,279
Speaker 3: You know, I've learned this now. It don't soak. You

1122
00:52:39,280 --> 00:52:39,759
Speaker 3: don't soak.

1123
00:52:39,920 --> 00:52:40,280
Speaker 5: I don't.

1124
00:52:40,560 --> 00:52:42,359
Speaker 3: Well what do I need to soak for? I don't know.

1125
00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 3: I'm not cooking for real.

1126
00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:45,040
Speaker 1: Well, I'm just using them.

1127
00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:47,920
Speaker 3: It's cereal, you sandwich, peanut butter and.

1128
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:50,840
Speaker 1: Jelly, whatever, a plate or something. You don't soak the

1129
00:52:51,080 --> 00:52:55,080
Speaker 1: peanut butter and jelly plate. No, I'm scrubbing it. I

1130
00:52:55,080 --> 00:52:57,919
Speaker 1: got the scrubbing dubs, I got the I'm scribbing it hard.

1131
00:52:57,920 --> 00:52:59,200
Speaker 1: And then I have a dishwasher.

1132
00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:01,279
Speaker 2: But if I don't, don't have to use it, because

1133
00:53:01,320 --> 00:53:02,719
Speaker 2: I just want to let y'all know. I'm putting it

1134
00:53:02,719 --> 00:53:06,000
Speaker 2: out here. Dishwashers are mess. If you think that dishwashers

1135
00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:07,400
Speaker 2: are cleaning your stuff, right, it's not.

1136
00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:09,440
Speaker 1: You have to clean it and then put it in

1137
00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:14,520
Speaker 1: a dishwasher. Yes, no, no, no, it's all going in there.

1138
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:19,120
Speaker 2: N a dishwasher is a dish rack. If anything, what

1139
00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:23,920
Speaker 2: it is, it's holding my things. Really trusted to clean everything.

1140
00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:27,520
Speaker 1: I don't care put whatever in there, I'll putasher. I

1141
00:53:27,560 --> 00:53:29,720
Speaker 1: have a dishwasher, and ever since I had a dishwasher,

1142
00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:31,520
Speaker 1: my life changed. I was like, I'm not touching a

1143
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:33,640
Speaker 1: plate ever in my life again, because I had the

1144
00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:36,840
Speaker 1: soaking problem. I had the soaking problem. And then it

1145
00:53:36,880 --> 00:53:39,000
Speaker 1: would be like I want to do it. I promise

1146
00:53:39,040 --> 00:53:40,920
Speaker 1: you I do, but I have a million things on

1147
00:53:40,920 --> 00:53:42,680
Speaker 1: my mind. If I don't do it right now, I

1148
00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:45,560
Speaker 1: will forget everything right now.

1149
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:49,719
Speaker 3: Use it, wash it, hate, put it away, hate it away. Dishwasher.

1150
00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:50,120
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1151
00:53:50,719 --> 00:53:52,640
Speaker 5: That one roommate that I had who would let things

1152
00:53:52,640 --> 00:53:54,440
Speaker 5: sit in the sink. I was like, well, let me

1153
00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:56,960
Speaker 5: see how long if I don't wash this stuff, how

1154
00:53:56,960 --> 00:53:57,759
Speaker 5: long it don't sit here?

1155
00:53:57,960 --> 00:54:00,680
Speaker 3: It lasted like over a week. I was on the phone.

1156
00:54:00,719 --> 00:54:02,239
Speaker 3: My my mom was like, take it all out of

1157
00:54:02,239 --> 00:54:02,840
Speaker 3: the sink.

1158
00:54:02,960 --> 00:54:07,680
Speaker 5: Put it in her bed. I was like, I'm not

1159
00:54:07,840 --> 00:54:09,840
Speaker 5: putting it in her bed. My mom was like, put

1160
00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:10,719
Speaker 5: it in off bed.

1161
00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:11,400
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1162
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:12,759
Speaker 5: And she was like all right, well take it all

1163
00:54:12,760 --> 00:54:14,760
Speaker 5: out and put it on the counter, on the counter

1164
00:54:14,800 --> 00:54:17,480
Speaker 5: so she sees it's all sitting there and I did that,

1165
00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:19,320
Speaker 5: and that night she came home and she watched everything

1166
00:54:19,320 --> 00:54:20,240
Speaker 5: that was in on that counter.

1167
00:54:20,880 --> 00:54:21,080
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1168
00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:24,000
Speaker 1: I had a roommate that would like leave also the

1169
00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:26,880
Speaker 1: same I think, same situation like ADHD where it's like

1170
00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:29,239
Speaker 1: I can't remember to go do the thing. But she

1171
00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:33,680
Speaker 1: would leave like food in the plate on the table

1172
00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:35,759
Speaker 1: in her living room and it would start smelling and

1173
00:54:35,800 --> 00:54:39,000
Speaker 1: I'm like, I can't. I can't pick that up for you.

1174
00:54:39,040 --> 00:54:41,160
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry because then you're just gonna get accustomed

1175
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:42,000
Speaker 1: to me picking shut.

1176
00:54:41,880 --> 00:54:42,200
Speaker 4: Up for you.

1177
00:54:42,440 --> 00:54:47,200
Speaker 1: And I let a yogurt mold on the table. I

1178
00:54:47,320 --> 00:54:49,640
Speaker 1: was not gonna touch it. This is the Cornell place, No,

1179
00:54:49,800 --> 00:54:52,239
Speaker 1: this was a whole different place, and I was like,

1180
00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:55,520
Speaker 1: I'm not touching it, and I'm not gonna say anything

1181
00:54:55,640 --> 00:54:58,160
Speaker 1: because you know who left that there.

1182
00:54:58,320 --> 00:55:00,640
Speaker 5: But also you passed in this every How long does

1183
00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:02,240
Speaker 5: it take for yogurt to grow mold?

1184
00:55:02,680 --> 00:55:04,359
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say, because I have a lot of things

1185
00:55:04,440 --> 00:55:08,520
Speaker 2: have molded in my room before, I'm gonna I'm gonna

1186
00:55:08,520 --> 00:55:09,239
Speaker 2: say about a week.

1187
00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:14,040
Speaker 5: So I mean, you're passing this thing for seven seven day.

1188
00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:18,520
Speaker 2: It's about the pet dysfunction. It's a real thing. I honestly,

1189
00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:21,120
Speaker 2: I was the badroommate. I was definitely a bad roommate

1190
00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:22,360
Speaker 2: for many years.

1191
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:27,200
Speaker 1: Shout out to you know, Roxy, very clean, polish girl,

1192
00:55:27,600 --> 00:55:33,640
Speaker 1: very neat, everything beautiful, everything nice, Like, yeah, the dishes bad,

1193
00:55:33,719 --> 00:55:36,600
Speaker 1: the bathroom like, she's the type like she's getting the gloves,

1194
00:55:36,640 --> 00:55:37,600
Speaker 1: she's she's just.

1195
00:55:37,560 --> 00:55:40,960
Speaker 2: Rubbing, rubbing, she's grubbing. I would be the one, dirty

1196
00:55:41,000 --> 00:55:45,560
Speaker 2: ass feet, black spots on the on the tug. It's nasty,

1197
00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:48,239
Speaker 2: just and it's like it's not like I wasn't raised right,

1198
00:55:48,320 --> 00:55:51,640
Speaker 2: it was just I'm drinking, I'm drugging, I'm partying. I

1199
00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:54,600
Speaker 2: have other things to I'm trying to stack up my night.

1200
00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:56,480
Speaker 2: I'm trying to figure out what my clients where they

1201
00:55:56,520 --> 00:55:58,680
Speaker 2: gonna be this weekend. I don't have time to be

1202
00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:03,200
Speaker 2: cleaning and washing dishes and buying groceries. Why don't she

1203
00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:06,600
Speaker 2: also doing the same thing you were doing? She was,

1204
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:08,799
Speaker 2: Oh man, she was such a lady. That's why she

1205
00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:09,200
Speaker 2: a wife.

1206
00:56:09,200 --> 00:56:11,040
Speaker 3: Now she know what to do.

1207
00:56:11,120 --> 00:56:14,399
Speaker 2: I did not, and so I had it so bad

1208
00:56:14,600 --> 00:56:17,400
Speaker 2: that you know, remember I had I had a mouse.

1209
00:56:17,719 --> 00:56:20,000
Speaker 2: I had a mouse, but I was not buying clothes

1210
00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:21,799
Speaker 2: at the time, I mean food, at the time, so

1211
00:56:22,040 --> 00:56:23,799
Speaker 2: the mouse didn't have any food, but it was there.

1212
00:56:23,840 --> 00:56:25,600
Speaker 3: It was there for at least three months.

1213
00:56:25,719 --> 00:56:29,279
Speaker 1: I love how you talk about it like roommates. Yes,

1214
00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:32,160
Speaker 1: the Polish girl and a mouse. No, when she was around,

1215
00:56:32,200 --> 00:56:36,040
Speaker 1: there was no mouse. But after her there was a mouse. No,

1216
00:56:36,120 --> 00:56:37,799
Speaker 1: before her, there was a mouse. How did you get

1217
00:56:37,840 --> 00:56:38,520
Speaker 1: rid of the mouse?

1218
00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:40,160
Speaker 4: Ri ip?

1219
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:43,160
Speaker 3: We had to put them that poison down, Yeah.

1220
00:56:43,000 --> 00:56:52,680
Speaker 1: Poison poison, right, girl is poiser. We named the mouse

1221
00:56:52,760 --> 00:56:54,000
Speaker 1: Ricky Ricky.

1222
00:56:55,960 --> 00:56:56,160
Speaker 4: Dad.

1223
00:56:57,120 --> 00:56:59,279
Speaker 1: It took him some time though, because he was not

1224
00:56:59,640 --> 00:57:02,359
Speaker 1: really eat it, he was just eating. Well, we put

1225
00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:03,120
Speaker 1: all these traps down.

1226
00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:04,680
Speaker 3: He was smarter. He was smarter than the traps.

1227
00:57:05,400 --> 00:57:08,000
Speaker 5: Remember when I had a mouse we had I had

1228
00:57:08,040 --> 00:57:11,000
Speaker 5: a mouse and the mouse got stuck on the glue

1229
00:57:11,080 --> 00:57:15,560
Speaker 5: trap and was able to like drag the trap all

1230
00:57:15,600 --> 00:57:17,800
Speaker 5: the way out of the room. And I was like,

1231
00:57:18,440 --> 00:57:20,720
Speaker 5: how to call my cousin to come put it in

1232
00:57:20,760 --> 00:57:21,960
Speaker 5: a bag and get rid of it?

1233
00:57:22,360 --> 00:57:26,280
Speaker 1: On my mom then she smashed it. It got stuck

1234
00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:29,600
Speaker 1: on one of the thingies on the trap. She grabbed

1235
00:57:29,720 --> 00:57:33,080
Speaker 1: a trash bag. Yeah, put that thing in there, and

1236
00:57:33,160 --> 00:57:35,880
Speaker 1: starm thought, oh, that's.

1237
00:57:35,760 --> 00:57:38,240
Speaker 3: A mouse in my house. But I also don't want

1238
00:57:38,240 --> 00:57:40,720
Speaker 3: to step on it. I don't know. We can't.

1239
00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:41,760
Speaker 1: Can we just let it go?

1240
00:57:41,960 --> 00:57:45,080
Speaker 5: Like you know, because you how's it getting off the glue?

1241
00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:51,880
Speaker 1: More babies and poop, babies poop.

1242
00:57:52,480 --> 00:57:56,040
Speaker 3: So they ruined vibes. Yeah, they ruined Vibea.

1243
00:57:56,680 --> 00:57:59,400
Speaker 5: The mouse, the first moss that I ever had in

1244
00:57:59,400 --> 00:58:02,360
Speaker 5: that apartment, only came out when I had company over it.

1245
00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:04,040
Speaker 5: Did it come out when you were we were recording

1246
00:58:04,040 --> 00:58:06,320
Speaker 5: the podcast ones? I feel like and the mouse would

1247
00:58:06,400 --> 00:58:07,320
Speaker 5: only come out.

1248
00:58:08,240 --> 00:58:09,480
Speaker 3: I think we got a third mic?

1249
00:58:09,680 --> 00:58:13,439
Speaker 1: Can weam? Do you have any notes for the pod?

1250
00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:15,640
Speaker 7: If I had a TikTok at the time, I could

1251
00:58:15,640 --> 00:58:18,560
Speaker 7: have been reezy with the mouse with the cheesy like

1252
00:58:19,400 --> 00:58:22,800
Speaker 7: crazy the mouse only and Carolina came over one day

1253
00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:24,480
Speaker 7: to help me with the self tape, and the mouse was.

1254
00:58:24,440 --> 00:58:26,920
Speaker 3: Like AI, and it was like, why do you never

1255
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:28,440
Speaker 3: hear when I'm just by myself?

1256
00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:29,200
Speaker 4: Is it? Like?

1257
00:58:29,280 --> 00:58:30,760
Speaker 3: Guess it was Alex the host.

1258
00:58:31,240 --> 00:58:32,160
Speaker 1: They do it on purpose.

1259
00:58:32,280 --> 00:58:33,600
Speaker 3: They do it on purpose.

1260
00:58:33,320 --> 00:58:47,880
Speaker 4: To that retreat.

1261
00:58:52,080 --> 00:58:53,280
Speaker 3: So you were a good roommate.

1262
00:58:53,360 --> 00:58:56,880
Speaker 1: You were I've been horrible, okay, let's be horrible loud music.

1263
00:58:57,080 --> 00:58:58,560
Speaker 3: You slid that lizard to the side.

1264
00:58:58,720 --> 00:59:03,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like move loud music. Uh, that same

1265
00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:05,760
Speaker 1: person that I was dating when I was in college

1266
00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:08,240
Speaker 1: that I had to move the lizard for one day.

1267
00:59:08,400 --> 00:59:12,880
Speaker 1: I was asleep and he couldn't get me, like wake

1268
00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:15,600
Speaker 1: me up, so he started screaming my name like Also,

1269
00:59:15,840 --> 00:59:17,520
Speaker 1: he was from the Bronx, and so I should We

1270
00:59:17,520 --> 00:59:19,680
Speaker 1: were both at Cornet, but he was from the Bronx.

1271
00:59:20,000 --> 00:59:24,120
Speaker 1: He was like Michelle, Michelle. I was like, oh, this

1272
00:59:24,200 --> 00:59:29,240
Speaker 1: is crazy. I was asleep, but right I was like

1273
00:59:30,120 --> 00:59:32,760
Speaker 1: to get your attention because he wanted to get inside

1274
00:59:32,840 --> 00:59:36,040
Speaker 1: the house. So you're running the one come over, daddy,

1275
00:59:36,080 --> 00:59:41,240
Speaker 1: d and then you fall asleep, not daddy but miss No.

1276
00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:45,760
Speaker 1: He was a can I say this on live? He

1277
00:59:46,480 --> 00:59:50,320
Speaker 1: was a he was a dealer, so yeah, so he

1278
00:59:50,360 --> 00:59:52,840
Speaker 1: hadn't talked about those him at the same time when

1279
00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:56,320
Speaker 1: the dealer was being loud, yes, so the same. But

1280
00:59:56,400 --> 01:00:00,280
Speaker 1: he was my man. He wasn't like just a dealer. Okay, yeah,

1281
01:00:00,280 --> 01:00:00,440
Speaker 1: you know.

1282
01:00:00,480 --> 01:00:03,360
Speaker 5: He was just feel like they should move in sight right.

1283
01:00:03,280 --> 01:00:08,120
Speaker 1: Shut up? So like when because I fell asleep, the

1284
01:00:08,200 --> 01:00:11,960
Speaker 1: same timing that dealers have for people when they're like, yeah,

1285
01:00:12,000 --> 01:00:15,640
Speaker 1: I'll be there in thirty minutes. That's what happened. He

1286
01:00:15,680 --> 01:00:17,400
Speaker 1: wasn't there in thirty minutes, So I fell asleep.

1287
01:00:17,440 --> 01:00:18,680
Speaker 5: Not my problem, and it happens.

1288
01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:22,280
Speaker 2: I Actually I'll be like, I'm just gonna take on

1289
01:00:22,360 --> 01:00:24,240
Speaker 2: that for ten man.

1290
01:00:24,680 --> 01:00:26,600
Speaker 1: I don't know why do I Why do I lie

1291
01:00:26,680 --> 01:00:26,840
Speaker 1: like that?

1292
01:00:27,400 --> 01:00:29,880
Speaker 3: Set an alarm? That's what's so set the.

1293
01:00:29,920 --> 01:00:33,680
Speaker 2: Alarm girl, the way I sleep, I'm out. Do you

1294
01:00:33,760 --> 01:00:37,360
Speaker 2: know how long I've been alive? Too many, too many years,

1295
01:00:37,640 --> 01:00:39,520
Speaker 2: and so all those years that I used to wake

1296
01:00:39,600 --> 01:00:42,000
Speaker 2: up and be ready and popping and locking and stuff

1297
01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:42,800
Speaker 2: that's gone.

1298
01:00:43,640 --> 01:00:46,040
Speaker 1: My body needs to rest. So when I close my eyes,

1299
01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:49,240
Speaker 1: I can't. It's not my fault that my ears can't

1300
01:00:49,280 --> 01:00:50,880
Speaker 1: hear the alarm. Listen.

1301
01:00:51,040 --> 01:00:55,800
Speaker 3: I've met many a time, many a summer night. I've said, hey,

1302
01:00:55,840 --> 01:00:58,720
Speaker 3: come over. You know I'm sending We sent, we flirting

1303
01:00:58,840 --> 01:01:00,520
Speaker 3: all all day, all night.

1304
01:01:00,640 --> 01:01:03,320
Speaker 5: And then the person gets to my apartment and I've

1305
01:01:03,320 --> 01:01:05,400
Speaker 5: been day drinking and I'm passed out.

1306
01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:05,919
Speaker 3: Like a rock.

1307
01:01:06,240 --> 01:01:09,160
Speaker 5: Yeah, like march since pity.

1308
01:01:10,400 --> 01:01:12,280
Speaker 3: You work hard, friend, you gotta rest.

1309
01:01:13,280 --> 01:01:15,640
Speaker 1: But I've been a horrible roommate. I think you have

1310
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Speaker 1: for most of my life until I started well, I mean,

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01:01:19,760 --> 01:01:21,760
Speaker 1: I mean when I went to college is when I

1312
01:01:21,800 --> 01:01:24,440
Speaker 1: started having roommates, and I was like, ugh h. For

1313
01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:26,120
Speaker 1: the first two years I lived by myself in a

1314
01:01:26,160 --> 01:01:30,040
Speaker 1: suite and then or sorry myself, hold on, hold on.

1315
01:01:30,120 --> 01:01:33,080
Speaker 1: A suite is divided by five people and you get

1316
01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:36,439
Speaker 1: one room to yourself. Yes, okay, so the living room

1317
01:01:36,480 --> 01:01:40,440
Speaker 1: is together. But I always played loud music. I always

1318
01:01:40,800 --> 01:01:44,320
Speaker 1: invited people at whatever times. I'm always cracking up with

1319
01:01:44,400 --> 01:01:49,080
Speaker 1: my friends. If I cook something like, I'm gonna let

1320
01:01:49,080 --> 01:01:52,600
Speaker 1: it soak for a while. Like, And I learned all

1321
01:01:52,640 --> 01:01:55,320
Speaker 1: of these things as I'm going through my roommates and

1322
01:01:55,360 --> 01:01:57,520
Speaker 1: like having shitty roomate situations, and I'm like.

1323
01:01:58,120 --> 01:01:59,400
Speaker 3: Am I the.

1324
01:02:01,080 --> 01:02:01,800
Speaker 5: Are you the drama?

1325
01:02:01,880 --> 01:02:03,280
Speaker 1: You are the drama?

1326
01:02:03,800 --> 01:02:05,120
Speaker 3: So you've gotten better now.

1327
01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:07,760
Speaker 1: I think I'm better. And and also I've had to

1328
01:02:07,840 --> 01:02:09,840
Speaker 1: gotten better at being on the other side of it,

1329
01:02:09,880 --> 01:02:13,200
Speaker 1: where I feel like maybe I'm the cleanest roommate, and

1330
01:02:13,240 --> 01:02:15,960
Speaker 1: then I have to be like, hey, guys, can we clean?

1331
01:02:16,760 --> 01:02:17,440
Speaker 1: Can we clean?

1332
01:02:17,920 --> 01:02:20,840
Speaker 5: Well, we like to clean, can we clean? It sounds

1333
01:02:20,840 --> 01:02:21,960
Speaker 5: like such an annoying sentences.

1334
01:02:22,200 --> 01:02:26,880
Speaker 1: Oh, they hated can clean? They know that, they're they

1335
01:02:26,920 --> 01:02:29,400
Speaker 1: know that. But the thing is that you see how

1336
01:02:29,440 --> 01:02:29,920
Speaker 1: bad they are.

1337
01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:31,480
Speaker 3: Why would you want them to clean? You know, they're

1338
01:02:31,480 --> 01:02:32,360
Speaker 3: not gonna do it right.

1339
01:02:32,880 --> 01:02:36,960
Speaker 2: You ever seen somebody like like sweep and you still

1340
01:02:37,040 --> 01:02:41,040
Speaker 2: see like dusts and buzzballs and shit, It's like they're

1341
01:02:41,080 --> 01:02:43,600
Speaker 2: not doing it right. Well, you don't trust them with

1342
01:02:43,640 --> 01:02:45,920
Speaker 2: your plates. You wouldn't trust them in the corners of

1343
01:02:45,960 --> 01:02:46,600
Speaker 2: the crevices.

1344
01:02:46,600 --> 01:02:49,400
Speaker 3: Would you remember when your face lives in that dirty house?

1345
01:02:50,160 --> 01:02:50,400
Speaker 4: Oh?

1346
01:02:50,480 --> 01:02:53,480
Speaker 3: Yes, house.

1347
01:02:53,560 --> 01:02:57,240
Speaker 2: We honestly, if you see your people are living foul,

1348
01:02:57,480 --> 01:02:59,280
Speaker 2: I think we got to step it up and be like,

1349
01:02:59,600 --> 01:03:02,240
Speaker 2: hey man, you're you're you're better than You're better than this.

1350
01:03:02,560 --> 01:03:05,920
Speaker 2: Why why do I you? You know some places you

1351
01:03:05,960 --> 01:03:07,040
Speaker 2: stay you keep your coat on.

1352
01:03:07,200 --> 01:03:09,920
Speaker 5: You're like, I'm not. I'm keeping my shoes on.

1353
01:03:10,240 --> 01:03:11,840
Speaker 1: I'll be like, are there pets here?

1354
01:03:12,000 --> 01:03:14,080
Speaker 5: It feel like the whole place is covered in pet hair?

1355
01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:15,560
Speaker 3: Is there a cat?

1356
01:03:15,760 --> 01:03:19,640
Speaker 1: I like to watch people as like cook for me

1357
01:03:20,440 --> 01:03:23,560
Speaker 1: such an itch because if they're like touching meat and

1358
01:03:23,640 --> 01:03:25,720
Speaker 1: fish and stuff and they're just going to the next thing,

1359
01:03:25,880 --> 01:03:28,680
Speaker 1: I wash my hands betwixtween every little thing. I'm like,

1360
01:03:28,720 --> 01:03:31,680
Speaker 1: I touched this, I touched this, and then watching people

1361
01:03:31,720 --> 01:03:34,080
Speaker 1: cook them like I'm not hungry. I'm not hungry. Actually

1362
01:03:34,120 --> 01:03:34,600
Speaker 1: I've never.

1363
01:03:34,560 --> 01:03:34,959
Speaker 4: Been hung.

1364
01:03:36,880 --> 01:03:40,560
Speaker 2: I probably had me Salmonella's so many times, it's samonella

1365
01:03:40,680 --> 01:03:44,720
Speaker 2: Salmonella's so many times. That might be the title of

1366
01:03:44,760 --> 01:03:48,480
Speaker 2: the Salmonella's Salmonella's all decided, Yeah.

1367
01:03:48,400 --> 01:03:50,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. Living with people is rough.

1368
01:03:50,360 --> 01:03:53,840
Speaker 5: When I was in college, so my mom doesn't believe

1369
01:03:53,840 --> 01:03:57,439
Speaker 5: in microwaves. She thinks microwaves cost cancer. So I got

1370
01:03:57,440 --> 01:04:00,440
Speaker 5: my first microwave in college, and I remember I wanted

1371
01:04:00,560 --> 01:04:04,720
Speaker 5: Eggo waffles and I threw the Eggo waffles in the microwave.

1372
01:04:05,400 --> 01:04:12,520
Speaker 5: The waffle caught fire started smoking the mari thirty seconds.

1373
01:04:12,880 --> 01:04:15,080
Speaker 5: I took the waffle and I threw it out the window.

1374
01:04:15,160 --> 01:04:18,440
Speaker 5: It had just snowed. The waffle melted through the snow,

1375
01:04:18,880 --> 01:04:22,280
Speaker 5: but the smoke is all up and through the room

1376
01:04:22,800 --> 01:04:23,080
Speaker 5: went off.

1377
01:04:23,160 --> 01:04:26,160
Speaker 3: The alarm went off. I packed my backpack. I leave.

1378
01:04:26,760 --> 01:04:29,160
Speaker 5: I'm like, listen, you can't say it was me that

1379
01:04:29,520 --> 01:04:32,080
Speaker 5: started this if I'm not here. I come back. I

1380
01:04:32,080 --> 01:04:35,040
Speaker 5: went to eat. I came back later, literally like two

1381
01:04:35,120 --> 01:04:38,280
Speaker 5: hours later. I came back. They like, something happened in

1382
01:04:38,320 --> 01:04:42,360
Speaker 5: your room. I said, what room. They're like, the fire

1383
01:04:42,400 --> 01:04:45,560
Speaker 5: department was here with a big ass fan sucking the

1384
01:04:45,600 --> 01:04:49,200
Speaker 5: smoke out of your room. I said, what I wonder,

1385
01:04:49,680 --> 01:04:50,440
Speaker 5: I'm appalled.

1386
01:04:51,120 --> 01:04:51,720
Speaker 3: I go in there.

1387
01:04:51,920 --> 01:04:57,040
Speaker 5: It smells like smoke still from a wiffle that barely

1388
01:04:57,200 --> 01:04:58,320
Speaker 5: caught fire, like.

1389
01:04:58,360 --> 01:05:01,200
Speaker 1: Barely barely, since it sounds.

1390
01:05:00,960 --> 01:05:02,160
Speaker 5: Like it was on fire.

1391
01:05:02,320 --> 01:05:03,240
Speaker 3: Well, if I.

1392
01:05:03,200 --> 01:05:05,160
Speaker 5: Was able to pull it out and throw it, I

1393
01:05:05,160 --> 01:05:06,080
Speaker 5: don't have no burds.

1394
01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:09,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I said, the smoke detector. Just you know,

1395
01:05:09,320 --> 01:05:11,880
Speaker 1: you got just you got the Haitian fingertips. Friend, this

1396
01:05:12,200 --> 01:05:12,800
Speaker 1: is what it is.

1397
01:05:14,720 --> 01:05:17,520
Speaker 3: So I did? I just do? And they were like, girl,

1398
01:05:17,560 --> 01:05:19,480
Speaker 3: what happened? Was there a fire in your I was

1399
01:05:19,520 --> 01:05:24,440
Speaker 3: like what, but yeah, don't put waffles in the microwave.

1400
01:05:24,560 --> 01:05:25,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're made for toasters.

1401
01:05:26,080 --> 01:05:26,880
Speaker 3: Why I didn't have that?

1402
01:05:27,600 --> 01:05:29,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's tough.

1403
01:05:29,360 --> 01:05:32,280
Speaker 3: You gotta use what you got to get what you want.

1404
01:05:32,440 --> 01:05:34,600
Speaker 5: And I thought I was gonna be able to microwave

1405
01:05:34,920 --> 01:05:37,320
Speaker 5: an eggo waffle and have like a you know, like

1406
01:05:37,360 --> 01:05:41,400
Speaker 5: a decade in decady meal Elego.

1407
01:05:41,360 --> 01:05:45,480
Speaker 1: And decad it don't go and sometimes have you ever

1408
01:05:45,560 --> 01:05:49,920
Speaker 1: had have you ever had? You toasted at the waffle

1409
01:05:50,760 --> 01:05:51,640
Speaker 1: cream cheese?

1410
01:05:52,040 --> 01:05:59,200
Speaker 3: Oh, syrup, you're sick cream cheese and then syrup, that's sick.

1411
01:05:59,840 --> 01:06:03,000
Speaker 1: You go and you tried, and you you tell me

1412
01:06:03,040 --> 01:06:04,360
Speaker 1: when you've had your awakening.

1413
01:06:04,840 --> 01:06:06,360
Speaker 5: Now doesn't have to be eggo? Can I do with

1414
01:06:06,400 --> 01:06:09,560
Speaker 5: a Belgian waffle? Because I haven't had eggo in years.

1415
01:06:10,120 --> 01:06:10,560
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1416
01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:13,200
Speaker 3: I've let the cream cheese goes on bagels?

1417
01:06:13,400 --> 01:06:16,320
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no no. I promise you this my

1418
01:06:16,560 --> 01:06:19,480
Speaker 1: I mean honestly, my Dominican babysitter growing up was the

1419
01:06:19,480 --> 01:06:21,680
Speaker 1: one who gave this to me. And this was like

1420
01:06:22,160 --> 01:06:25,960
Speaker 1: the most delicious thing I ever ate every week. But

1421
01:06:26,080 --> 01:06:30,360
Speaker 1: you were like six, and I ate it into my

1422
01:06:30,360 --> 01:06:32,640
Speaker 1: my twenties, which the last time you need.

1423
01:06:32,760 --> 01:06:34,560
Speaker 3: And I feel like a lot of you.

1424
01:06:34,000 --> 01:06:35,560
Speaker 1: I didn't smoke.

1425
01:06:39,840 --> 01:06:41,280
Speaker 3: With the baby. And that's another thing.

1426
01:06:41,320 --> 01:06:44,360
Speaker 1: The people who y'all the munchies people, y'are the combinations

1427
01:06:44,440 --> 01:06:46,960
Speaker 1: y'all put together. It only tastes right.

1428
01:06:46,920 --> 01:06:47,440
Speaker 3: If you are.

1429
01:06:49,200 --> 01:06:51,360
Speaker 1: I'm sick. I'm a Monchy's person.

1430
01:06:53,840 --> 01:06:59,000
Speaker 3: Sorry. People do people do like cream, cheese and jelly.

1431
01:06:59,560 --> 01:07:02,120
Speaker 1: Okay, First of all, people go cream cheese and fish

1432
01:07:02,320 --> 01:07:03,480
Speaker 1: like please on a bagel.

1433
01:07:03,920 --> 01:07:06,440
Speaker 3: That's what you want, my buddy, And then everything. I

1434
01:07:06,440 --> 01:07:08,040
Speaker 3: don't take cream, cheese and locks. I don't.

1435
01:07:08,160 --> 01:07:08,760
Speaker 1: I don't do that.

1436
01:07:08,880 --> 01:07:11,840
Speaker 3: I don't do that at all. I can't even eat

1437
01:07:11,880 --> 01:07:15,040
Speaker 3: real cream cheese. Why black toes.

1438
01:07:16,040 --> 01:07:17,040
Speaker 1: Oh, we all are bad.

1439
01:07:17,200 --> 01:07:18,120
Speaker 3: We just pushed through it.

1440
01:07:18,200 --> 01:07:24,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, we pushed through want no one time you yourself,

1441
01:07:24,640 --> 01:07:29,400
Speaker 1: I know. But clothes like my friend got also in Ithaca,

1442
01:07:29,560 --> 01:07:32,960
Speaker 1: also Ina, my friend got an extra bubble tea delivered

1443
01:07:33,000 --> 01:07:34,520
Speaker 1: to her and it was like a free bubble tea.

1444
01:07:34,680 --> 01:07:39,280
Speaker 1: A free bubble tea. Hell yeah, I drink that so fast.

1445
01:07:39,800 --> 01:07:42,320
Speaker 1: All of a sudden, I was like, you can go

1446
01:07:42,360 --> 01:07:44,000
Speaker 1: to the bathroom. And I went, and I thought I

1447
01:07:44,040 --> 01:07:47,360
Speaker 1: was gonna die. I genuinely thought. I was like, my

1448
01:07:47,400 --> 01:07:50,680
Speaker 1: blood pressure is going down, I'm sweating. I can't really

1449
01:07:50,720 --> 01:07:52,960
Speaker 1: reach for my phone right now. I'm scared. Like it

1450
01:07:53,040 --> 01:07:53,600
Speaker 1: was scary.

1451
01:07:53,800 --> 01:07:55,960
Speaker 3: You never want there in the bubbles? Is it cream cheese?

1452
01:07:56,240 --> 01:07:59,280
Speaker 1: No, the tea was the milk.

1453
01:07:59,440 --> 01:08:01,160
Speaker 3: The milk. And I just want to let y'all know.

1454
01:08:01,720 --> 01:08:02,439
Speaker 3: You know, it's mess.

1455
01:08:02,520 --> 01:08:06,400
Speaker 2: When they're something that says free, when they're giving away things,

1456
01:08:06,560 --> 01:08:08,000
Speaker 2: is because it's expired.

1457
01:08:08,040 --> 01:08:09,760
Speaker 1: They got to get rid of it and they're still

1458
01:08:09,760 --> 01:08:11,280
Speaker 1: trying to make some money off of it.

1459
01:08:11,360 --> 01:08:12,880
Speaker 3: Not always expires.

1460
01:08:13,840 --> 01:08:16,280
Speaker 2: When I got on its way to being expired, me

1461
01:08:16,280 --> 01:08:17,720
Speaker 2: and my sister went to this cocktail bar at the

1462
01:08:17,800 --> 01:08:20,639
Speaker 2: night of the fight and I got a drink.

1463
01:08:20,880 --> 01:08:24,000
Speaker 5: I got like a cranberry blood orange. It was like

1464
01:08:24,040 --> 01:08:27,439
Speaker 5: a friend seventy five. I drank it and then I

1465
01:08:27,520 --> 01:08:30,200
Speaker 5: saw somebody else ordered it and it went out and

1466
01:08:30,240 --> 01:08:32,240
Speaker 5: I guess they sent it back because.

1467
01:08:32,040 --> 01:08:32,720
Speaker 3: They didn't want it.

1468
01:08:33,120 --> 01:08:36,360
Speaker 5: And the manager leans over to me and he was like,

1469
01:08:36,400 --> 01:08:38,639
Speaker 5: we have an extra, an extra one if you want

1470
01:08:38,680 --> 01:08:40,760
Speaker 5: it on the house. And my sister was.

1471
01:08:40,760 --> 01:08:43,160
Speaker 3: Like, oh, that's really nice free drink.

1472
01:08:43,280 --> 01:08:45,080
Speaker 5: And I was like, no, somebody just sent this back.

1473
01:08:45,520 --> 01:08:48,720
Speaker 5: And she was like, okay, I mean I drank it,

1474
01:08:48,800 --> 01:08:51,760
Speaker 5: but it was like, so you say, no, no, I

1475
01:08:51,840 --> 01:08:52,280
Speaker 5: drank it.

1476
01:08:52,880 --> 01:08:54,760
Speaker 1: So do you think someone sipped it? No?

1477
01:08:54,840 --> 01:08:57,400
Speaker 5: I think they saw it because it went out and

1478
01:08:57,439 --> 01:09:00,880
Speaker 5: I saw it come right back. Okay, Okay, I don't

1479
01:09:00,880 --> 01:09:03,439
Speaker 5: have drink and it was my drink. The universe want

1480
01:09:03,439 --> 01:09:07,960
Speaker 5: it back to me. But sometimes freeze just you know, rejected.

1481
01:09:08,200 --> 01:09:11,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, somebody's uh, somebody's no, its, somebody's.

1482
01:09:11,640 --> 01:09:14,439
Speaker 5: Yes, somebody's trash, it's somebody else's treasure.

1483
01:09:14,680 --> 01:09:18,000
Speaker 2: Michelle, do you haven't any tips for people who are

1484
01:09:18,120 --> 01:09:20,439
Speaker 2: roommates right now to help them be better?

1485
01:09:21,200 --> 01:09:24,040
Speaker 1: Whatever you think you should communicate, just eat it. They

1486
01:09:24,040 --> 01:09:26,719
Speaker 1: don't want to hear it. Wait, what like, You're started

1487
01:09:26,760 --> 01:09:27,639
Speaker 1: to be better, right?

1488
01:09:27,760 --> 01:09:28,200
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1489
01:09:28,400 --> 01:09:32,320
Speaker 1: I the other day thought I was communicating so nicely

1490
01:09:32,640 --> 01:09:35,200
Speaker 1: and it ended up making a huge mess, and I

1491
01:09:35,240 --> 01:09:38,639
Speaker 1: was like, just whatever, I think. I'm gonna just eat

1492
01:09:38,680 --> 01:09:41,160
Speaker 1: it and I'm gonna just clean and I'm gonna just

1493
01:09:42,000 --> 01:09:43,400
Speaker 1: look at when my Lias is up.

1494
01:09:44,360 --> 01:09:46,120
Speaker 3: Look, you do need to look up when you when

1495
01:09:46,200 --> 01:09:48,600
Speaker 3: is your lise up? April? April?

1496
01:09:48,720 --> 01:09:50,720
Speaker 1: You have some times, but that's okay because I'm going

1497
01:09:50,800 --> 01:09:54,400
Speaker 1: to be out of the country for three months. I'm

1498
01:09:54,439 --> 01:09:59,000
Speaker 1: going to Colombia and then I'm going to Brazil. Yes, yeah,

1499
01:09:59,080 --> 01:10:02,080
Speaker 1: I love that you living living abroad. Well, I told

1500
01:10:02,080 --> 01:10:02,799
Speaker 1: you I like trees.

1501
01:10:03,240 --> 01:10:05,479
Speaker 3: Is there trees in Brazil? Shah hope?

1502
01:10:08,120 --> 01:10:12,320
Speaker 1: I really hope they're trees, just nature.

1503
01:10:12,439 --> 01:10:14,880
Speaker 5: I just need to leave, so you're gonna be paying

1504
01:10:14,880 --> 01:10:15,599
Speaker 5: your rent the whole time.

1505
01:10:15,600 --> 01:10:18,880
Speaker 3: You go on. Yeah, why don't you get somebody to

1506
01:10:18,920 --> 01:10:20,800
Speaker 3: live in your room? Yes, I let it, let it.

1507
01:10:21,000 --> 01:10:24,920
Speaker 1: They don't want to live there, And that's no shade

1508
01:10:24,920 --> 01:10:29,160
Speaker 1: to my roommates, Like, no, no, that's love them. They're

1509
01:10:29,240 --> 01:10:33,120
Speaker 1: they're so sweet, dirty and sweet. I didn't say that.

1510
01:10:33,640 --> 01:10:34,200
Speaker 1: I didn't say that.

1511
01:10:34,200 --> 01:10:37,559
Speaker 3: I didn't say that dirty wasn't blied. Wait should we

1512
01:10:37,560 --> 01:10:40,320
Speaker 3: do a message? We should do a message? A message?

1513
01:10:41,000 --> 01:10:44,000
Speaker 3: Am I a messy friend for this? Can I take it?

1514
01:10:44,520 --> 01:10:44,640
Speaker 4: Hi?

1515
01:10:44,720 --> 01:10:48,040
Speaker 2: Sande Marie? Thank you both so much for the weekly laughs.

1516
01:10:48,240 --> 01:10:50,759
Speaker 2: You've been getting me through a really hard time. Lost

1517
01:10:50,760 --> 01:10:54,920
Speaker 2: my father. I'm sorry, I'm sorry Boo Rip. And knowing

1518
01:10:54,960 --> 01:10:57,200
Speaker 2: that I have you two to come on a weekly

1519
01:10:57,280 --> 01:10:59,599
Speaker 2: basis to laugh and forget about what I'm going through

1520
01:10:59,600 --> 01:11:02,920
Speaker 2: for a little while keeps me going, Oh, we heart you.

1521
01:11:04,320 --> 01:11:06,559
Speaker 1: Let's get to it. I have this friend. I believe

1522
01:11:06,600 --> 01:11:08,519
Speaker 1: many people have a friend like this. This is the

1523
01:11:08,600 --> 01:11:11,080
Speaker 1: friend that does the absolute most. This is the friend

1524
01:11:11,160 --> 01:11:13,840
Speaker 1: that you have to handle in doses. This is the

1525
01:11:13,920 --> 01:11:16,719
Speaker 1: friend that when they call you, you're like, oh shit,

1526
01:11:16,840 --> 01:11:20,080
Speaker 1: what's wrong now. This is the friend that is one

1527
01:11:20,160 --> 01:11:23,560
Speaker 1: look or off comment from getting into a fight or altercation.

1528
01:11:24,200 --> 01:11:26,799
Speaker 2: She thinks the world is against her for some reason.

1529
01:11:26,880 --> 01:11:29,840
Speaker 2: She says, I'm her best friend, but she's not my

1530
01:11:29,920 --> 01:11:34,120
Speaker 2: best friend. You know who I'm talking about. Okay, anyways,

1531
01:11:34,200 --> 01:11:36,240
Speaker 2: I've been through a lot with this friend. We've known

1532
01:11:36,280 --> 01:11:38,920
Speaker 2: each other for about ten years. Don't get me wrong,

1533
01:11:39,200 --> 01:11:42,839
Speaker 2: She's been there for me through some situations, breakups. Friend drama,

1534
01:11:43,160 --> 01:11:46,599
Speaker 2: job shifts, and I've been there for her through some things.

1535
01:11:46,680 --> 01:11:52,360
Speaker 2: Baby daddy drama, dating drama, job and unemployment drama, child drama,

1536
01:11:52,560 --> 01:11:53,200
Speaker 2: neighbor drama.

1537
01:11:53,200 --> 01:11:55,439
Speaker 1: Okay, I see you add an extra dramas in the

1538
01:11:55,600 --> 01:11:57,400
Speaker 1: baby neighbor's drama.

1539
01:11:57,439 --> 01:11:58,719
Speaker 5: Drama drama, drama drama.

1540
01:11:59,360 --> 01:12:02,599
Speaker 2: Anyways, recently we went to a bar and I caught

1541
01:12:02,640 --> 01:12:06,519
Speaker 2: her in a bold face live. She was bragging on herself,

1542
01:12:06,600 --> 01:12:09,200
Speaker 2: saying that if she's attracted to a dude, she has

1543
01:12:09,240 --> 01:12:11,880
Speaker 2: no problem making it known and making a move. I

1544
01:12:12,000 --> 01:12:15,360
Speaker 2: presented two practical and real examples where she did the

1545
01:12:15,439 --> 01:12:19,000
Speaker 2: exact opposite, and she pretended as if I wasn't there

1546
01:12:19,080 --> 01:12:21,000
Speaker 2: to see it happen and made.

1547
01:12:20,920 --> 01:12:22,080
Speaker 3: Excuses for herself.

1548
01:12:22,360 --> 01:12:25,799
Speaker 1: While this may sound silly and trivial, it got me thinking,

1549
01:12:26,400 --> 01:12:29,960
Speaker 1: what else is she lying about. I've spent hours on

1550
01:12:30,000 --> 01:12:32,360
Speaker 1: the phone with this woman, and she always makes herself

1551
01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:33,360
Speaker 1: out to be the victim.

1552
01:12:33,640 --> 01:12:36,080
Speaker 3: I know she should be in therapy. She won't go,

1553
01:12:36,320 --> 01:12:37,320
Speaker 3: and I'm trying.

1554
01:12:37,000 --> 01:12:40,519
Speaker 1: To make her but like God, damn, and she taking

1555
01:12:40,560 --> 01:12:43,320
Speaker 1: my time and lying to hold up.

1556
01:12:44,080 --> 01:12:47,840
Speaker 2: Anyways, here's where the potential mess comes in. I was

1557
01:12:47,880 --> 01:12:51,000
Speaker 2: a reference for her for a job she recently lost

1558
01:12:51,240 --> 01:12:54,240
Speaker 2: She's lost four jobs in the past year around the

1559
01:12:54,400 --> 01:12:58,800
Speaker 2: ninety day evaluation Mark Oh. The person who called me

1560
01:12:58,960 --> 01:13:01,760
Speaker 2: and I are from the same area and both moved

1561
01:13:01,840 --> 01:13:05,599
Speaker 2: up here, So outside of the reference questions we were vibing,

1562
01:13:06,000 --> 01:13:08,439
Speaker 2: we also talked about staying in touch and sharing our

1563
01:13:08,479 --> 01:13:12,960
Speaker 2: experiences about growing up, moving here as a black professional, etc.

1564
01:13:13,920 --> 01:13:15,800
Speaker 2: Is it mess for me to now link up with

1565
01:13:15,840 --> 01:13:18,799
Speaker 2: this lady to catch up with her and also figure

1566
01:13:18,800 --> 01:13:21,519
Speaker 2: out the realty on why my friend was fired? She

1567
01:13:21,680 --> 01:13:24,559
Speaker 2: says they were hating on her and blamed her for

1568
01:13:24,640 --> 01:13:27,720
Speaker 2: some shit that never happened. But now that I know

1569
01:13:28,000 --> 01:13:30,920
Speaker 2: that she lied on some stupid shit, I low key

1570
01:13:30,960 --> 01:13:33,719
Speaker 2: want to catch her on some real shit and cut ties.

1571
01:13:33,920 --> 01:13:34,320
Speaker 3: Lol.

1572
01:13:34,960 --> 01:13:37,360
Speaker 1: I know this could be real messy, but I kind

1573
01:13:37,360 --> 01:13:39,600
Speaker 1: of want to do it for the plot. Drag me

1574
01:13:39,640 --> 01:13:42,360
Speaker 1: if you need to. I figure y'all might like to

1575
01:13:42,400 --> 01:13:46,080
Speaker 1: dissect this love y'all, Kyle Blank, do.

1576
01:13:46,120 --> 01:13:47,080
Speaker 3: It da to lunch?

1577
01:13:47,720 --> 01:13:47,920
Speaker 4: Yeah?

1578
01:13:47,960 --> 01:13:51,320
Speaker 1: I think that friendship's kind of headed toward the end already.

1579
01:13:51,439 --> 01:13:55,600
Speaker 1: Might as well have a good story go to lunch? Actually,

1580
01:13:55,600 --> 01:13:59,160
Speaker 1: be like, actually, let's stir the pot a little baby,

1581
01:13:59,280 --> 01:14:01,879
Speaker 1: Like my friend I've just been telling me these crazy

1582
01:14:01,920 --> 01:14:04,840
Speaker 1: things about that Jays. But I know you would have

1583
01:14:04,960 --> 01:14:07,800
Speaker 1: worked there if it was that bad, right, right.

1584
01:14:08,320 --> 01:14:09,760
Speaker 3: Right, No, what happened?

1585
01:14:10,800 --> 01:14:13,760
Speaker 1: I think this is the right thing to do. Let's see, Okay,

1586
01:14:13,800 --> 01:14:16,479
Speaker 1: I think my friends are not liars. I think they

1587
01:14:16,520 --> 01:14:20,080
Speaker 1: embellish and sometimes, you know, to save face and make

1588
01:14:20,120 --> 01:14:22,120
Speaker 1: themselves look better. Yeah, they might lie.

1589
01:14:22,320 --> 01:14:24,519
Speaker 3: They might lie. Everybody has done it.

1590
01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:27,479
Speaker 2: But if there's a point where it's like you're a liar,

1591
01:14:27,760 --> 01:14:31,880
Speaker 2: I think you're always lying. I think you should figure

1592
01:14:31,880 --> 01:14:33,439
Speaker 2: out if this wich is a liar and then cut

1593
01:14:33,479 --> 01:14:34,880
Speaker 2: ties sheets in your heart.

1594
01:14:35,000 --> 01:14:36,519
Speaker 3: She lost four jobs in one year.

1595
01:14:37,080 --> 01:14:37,799
Speaker 1: That's interesting.

1596
01:14:37,840 --> 01:14:39,760
Speaker 3: Is she a liar or she just can't keep a job?

1597
01:14:39,800 --> 01:14:40,320
Speaker 5: I don't know.

1598
01:14:40,520 --> 01:14:42,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, but she said they hating on her. Yeah.

1599
01:14:43,040 --> 01:14:46,280
Speaker 5: People who typically say they hating on me usually be

1600
01:14:46,400 --> 01:14:47,400
Speaker 5: doing something.

1601
01:14:47,400 --> 01:14:48,160
Speaker 1: To be hated on.

1602
01:14:48,479 --> 01:14:50,880
Speaker 5: No, not even that. They're usually lying about something they

1603
01:14:50,920 --> 01:14:54,000
Speaker 5: did something. You know, I got all these haters, do you?

1604
01:14:54,439 --> 01:14:54,599
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1605
01:14:54,640 --> 01:14:56,880
Speaker 2: The haters are in your head, friend, and I think

1606
01:14:56,960 --> 01:14:59,639
Speaker 2: you you are your biggest hater boom, because you're standing

1607
01:14:59,680 --> 01:15:01,240
Speaker 2: in the way between you and a job.

1608
01:15:01,320 --> 01:15:03,439
Speaker 5: And don't you want money? Don't you got bills? And

1609
01:15:04,040 --> 01:15:06,040
Speaker 5: after ninety days they keep letting you go. How many

1610
01:15:06,120 --> 01:15:08,000
Speaker 5: ninety days are there in a year. I feel like

1611
01:15:08,000 --> 01:15:09,240
Speaker 5: it's like four ninety days.

1612
01:15:09,439 --> 01:15:12,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, so you are. She got fired for everyone

1613
01:15:12,560 --> 01:15:14,800
Speaker 1: and once the season. She can't let go every quarter

1614
01:15:15,240 --> 01:15:15,920
Speaker 1: every quarter.

1615
01:15:16,280 --> 01:15:18,679
Speaker 2: I want to say this, if I didn't have this job,

1616
01:15:18,840 --> 01:15:20,960
Speaker 2: I don't know if I could keep a regular ass job.

1617
01:15:21,400 --> 01:15:25,160
Speaker 1: I'm not here. I could if I wanted to.

1618
01:15:24,400 --> 01:15:26,799
Speaker 3: Who am I to judge?

1619
01:15:26,840 --> 01:15:29,760
Speaker 2: You know I can't. I can't throw rocks. I live

1620
01:15:29,760 --> 01:15:34,519
Speaker 2: in a glasshouse. You know, that's why you should throw rocks. Yeah, yes,

1621
01:15:34,760 --> 01:15:36,120
Speaker 2: I think the saying is wrong.

1622
01:15:36,200 --> 01:15:38,280
Speaker 5: You should throw rocks if you live in a glasshouse.

1623
01:15:38,720 --> 01:15:41,360
Speaker 5: We all need more air anyway.

1624
01:15:41,160 --> 01:15:44,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, throw them rocks. I think the friendships are already

1625
01:15:44,600 --> 01:15:49,000
Speaker 1: headed down, Like I think if you're already reaching out

1626
01:15:49,120 --> 01:15:52,640
Speaker 1: to like say that we've been through all these things

1627
01:15:53,120 --> 01:15:56,439
Speaker 1: and then also this, and if you're already feeling like

1628
01:15:56,479 --> 01:15:59,800
Speaker 1: this about a friend, like you're already like I feel like,

1629
01:16:00,520 --> 01:16:02,479
Speaker 1: how are you gonna trust the moving forward? They just

1630
01:16:02,520 --> 01:16:05,720
Speaker 1: think about it. I call you next week and and

1631
01:16:05,760 --> 01:16:07,519
Speaker 1: I'm like, hey, I really need you right now. Can

1632
01:16:07,520 --> 01:16:08,880
Speaker 1: you please help me? And you're like, oh, I have

1633
01:16:08,960 --> 01:16:12,240
Speaker 1: to do this thing, I'm like, you're lying, but also

1634
01:16:12,320 --> 01:16:12,880
Speaker 1: you're lying.

1635
01:16:13,320 --> 01:16:16,400
Speaker 5: Also, she said, this is the friend that when they call,

1636
01:16:16,560 --> 01:16:19,759
Speaker 5: you're like, oh shit, what's wrong now? So it's already

1637
01:16:19,960 --> 01:16:23,320
Speaker 5: like negative energy, it's already always going to be something

1638
01:16:23,360 --> 01:16:24,080
Speaker 5: with this person.

1639
01:16:24,640 --> 01:16:26,280
Speaker 3: And it seemed like you're over it.

1640
01:16:26,600 --> 01:16:29,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's okay. Sometimes we grow out of friendship.

1641
01:16:29,200 --> 01:16:30,439
Speaker 3: Some people need to get chopped.

1642
01:16:30,479 --> 01:16:34,719
Speaker 1: It's okay, get go, go to lunch, minimize cake.

1643
01:16:35,040 --> 01:16:38,320
Speaker 7: Yeah, get the app, get the entree, get a dessert,

1644
01:16:38,360 --> 01:16:40,160
Speaker 7: split it with your who is it the person I

1645
01:16:40,160 --> 01:16:40,800
Speaker 7: work in HR?

1646
01:16:40,920 --> 01:16:42,960
Speaker 1: Yeah? I think they're actually gonna get along with that.

1647
01:16:42,960 --> 01:16:43,920
Speaker 3: That's a better friend for you.

1648
01:16:44,080 --> 01:16:48,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think so. Maybe it is messy because it's like,

1649
01:16:48,880 --> 01:16:51,360
Speaker 1: you know, I'm not saying you have to hate people

1650
01:16:51,400 --> 01:16:54,160
Speaker 1: that I don't like or not mess with the people

1651
01:16:54,200 --> 01:16:57,040
Speaker 1: that I'm not fucking with, But it feels like you're

1652
01:16:57,040 --> 01:16:59,920
Speaker 1: going out of your way to link up with this person.

1653
01:17:00,080 --> 01:17:02,759
Speaker 1: And that's weird, no, because but that's what I'm saying.

1654
01:17:02,880 --> 01:17:06,519
Speaker 1: It feels like the reason she's doing this person is

1655
01:17:06,560 --> 01:17:08,760
Speaker 1: doing this is because they're already on their way out

1656
01:17:08,760 --> 01:17:11,479
Speaker 1: of that friendship. So there it's almost like they're looking

1657
01:17:11,520 --> 01:17:13,320
Speaker 1: for something to finish it. You know when people are

1658
01:17:13,320 --> 01:17:15,280
Speaker 1: in a relationship they've been it for so long and

1659
01:17:15,320 --> 01:17:17,920
Speaker 1: they just want to cheat so bad they don't know

1660
01:17:17,920 --> 01:17:19,800
Speaker 1: how to get out of it. I think that's what's

1661
01:17:19,800 --> 01:17:22,840
Speaker 1: happening right here. She's cheating that way. When she goes

1662
01:17:22,880 --> 01:17:25,120
Speaker 1: back and she's like, yo, I caught you cheating, it's like,

1663
01:17:25,160 --> 01:17:26,840
Speaker 1: why were you talking to the person you were cheating

1664
01:17:26,840 --> 01:17:28,800
Speaker 1: me with me on? And it's like, actually, it doesn't

1665
01:17:28,800 --> 01:17:30,599
Speaker 1: even matter. I wanted to finish this in the first place.

1666
01:17:30,600 --> 01:17:31,960
Speaker 1: We're done. Have you done ever?

1667
01:17:32,080 --> 01:17:32,160
Speaker 4: Know?

1668
01:17:32,400 --> 01:17:34,880
Speaker 3: Okay, because it sounds like nobody, it sounds like it's

1669
01:17:34,920 --> 01:17:35,439
Speaker 3: on your heart.

1670
01:17:35,960 --> 01:17:40,160
Speaker 1: But because I know I know people who have done this,

1671
01:17:40,600 --> 01:17:43,599
Speaker 1: and I'm like, you could just break up. You could

1672
01:17:43,720 --> 01:17:46,679
Speaker 1: just own up to the to the situation and take

1673
01:17:46,720 --> 01:17:47,880
Speaker 1: the l just hold it.

1674
01:17:48,439 --> 01:17:48,879
Speaker 3: Listen.

1675
01:17:49,400 --> 01:17:51,040
Speaker 5: The person who called me and I are from the

1676
01:17:51,040 --> 01:17:54,639
Speaker 5: same area and both moved here, so outside of reference questions,

1677
01:17:54,640 --> 01:17:55,320
Speaker 5: we was vibing.

1678
01:17:55,880 --> 01:17:58,760
Speaker 2: It was I mean, it's it's kind of hard to

1679
01:17:58,880 --> 01:18:02,160
Speaker 2: vibe and somebody's just calling you to verify something.

1680
01:18:02,320 --> 01:18:05,400
Speaker 3: How did y'all start buying? Like, hey, your voice? Has

1681
01:18:05,439 --> 01:18:07,040
Speaker 3: somebody ever put you down as a reference?

1682
01:18:07,560 --> 01:18:11,640
Speaker 1: Yeah? What is this? Yeah, and they're like yeah, and

1683
01:18:11,640 --> 01:18:15,639
Speaker 1: they're like, oh this person. I'm like, oh my god,

1684
01:18:15,840 --> 01:18:16,280
Speaker 1: one of.

1685
01:18:16,200 --> 01:18:17,840
Speaker 3: My favorite employees.

1686
01:18:17,920 --> 01:18:19,479
Speaker 1: I love when they come to work.

1687
01:18:19,880 --> 01:18:20,280
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1688
01:18:20,760 --> 01:18:22,920
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, So they already know as soon as they

1689
01:18:22,920 --> 01:18:25,160
Speaker 1: hear you, they're like, oh, they're about to hit us

1690
01:18:25,200 --> 01:18:25,960
Speaker 1: with the lie.

1691
01:18:26,439 --> 01:18:28,479
Speaker 3: You'd be like, who is yeah, oh, let me get

1692
01:18:28,479 --> 01:18:31,040
Speaker 3: her Murray. This is she?

1693
01:18:31,439 --> 01:18:36,599
Speaker 5: Yeah, oh truly one of my my protege. Yeah, anyway,

1694
01:18:36,720 --> 01:18:37,360
Speaker 5: Kyle'll do it.

1695
01:18:37,360 --> 01:18:37,800
Speaker 3: It's fine.

1696
01:18:37,800 --> 01:18:39,679
Speaker 2: I mean you don't really want to fuck with her anyway,

1697
01:18:39,680 --> 01:18:41,439
Speaker 2: and that's fine. Yeah, and then come back with the

1698
01:18:41,479 --> 01:18:44,000
Speaker 2: tea fir. I would love you want to know that's

1699
01:18:44,040 --> 01:18:45,639
Speaker 2: why she got fired. Hell, that's why she got fired.

1700
01:18:45,680 --> 01:18:47,000
Speaker 2: We need to know the truth.

1701
01:18:47,080 --> 01:18:49,000
Speaker 1: Okay, why do you think she got fired? She was

1702
01:18:49,040 --> 01:18:51,519
Speaker 1: probably late if people were hating on her.

1703
01:18:52,320 --> 01:18:54,840
Speaker 3: I need to know what she does ninety days.

1704
01:18:55,360 --> 01:18:57,800
Speaker 1: She didn't even fake it for me. She just can't

1705
01:18:57,800 --> 01:18:58,120
Speaker 1: fake it.

1706
01:18:58,160 --> 01:19:00,799
Speaker 2: She's just like she's probably honest. She's we are tours

1707
01:19:00,920 --> 01:19:03,680
Speaker 2: to be honest with you. And they're very like stubborn

1708
01:19:04,160 --> 01:19:06,880
Speaker 2: and they gotta have it. They way they always write

1709
01:19:06,960 --> 01:19:08,519
Speaker 2: blah blah blah.

1710
01:19:09,160 --> 01:19:12,240
Speaker 5: Interesting it'd be like that sometimes and we've all been fired?

1711
01:19:12,320 --> 01:19:13,880
Speaker 3: Yes, no half, So who am I?

1712
01:19:14,000 --> 01:19:18,160
Speaker 5: What happens I've been fired? You've never been fired.

1713
01:19:18,680 --> 01:19:19,920
Speaker 1: I don't think I've been fired.

1714
01:19:20,120 --> 01:19:22,200
Speaker 2: Hey, you know what, give it some time, it'll happen.

1715
01:19:23,080 --> 01:19:27,479
Speaker 2: You're very young gal, Michelle Adonna. Let's tell tell the

1716
01:19:27,479 --> 01:19:29,559
Speaker 2: people where they can find you. What you got coming up?

1717
01:19:29,760 --> 01:19:33,479
Speaker 1: Yes? Okay, So my name is Michelle Adonna and I

1718
01:19:33,520 --> 01:19:36,800
Speaker 1: love for a quad. But I you can find me

1719
01:19:37,120 --> 01:19:40,320
Speaker 1: as the host of Shopcats, going to different shops in

1720
01:19:40,360 --> 01:19:43,040
Speaker 1: the city and finding cats. I also have a show

1721
01:19:43,080 --> 01:19:46,960
Speaker 1: coming up called Los Salvado on November fifteenth for New

1722
01:19:47,040 --> 01:19:50,679
Speaker 1: Yek Comedy Festival Come Through. It's a Latin as variety show,

1723
01:19:50,920 --> 01:19:59,320
Speaker 1: no stand up, giveaways, drag dancing, singing, outrageousness. My mom

1724
01:19:59,439 --> 01:20:04,880
Speaker 1: might be the yeah yeah yeah by me, I know,

1725
01:20:05,760 --> 01:20:11,920
Speaker 1: cut and and yeah. Follow me at Michelle aDNA on Instagram.

1726
01:20:12,080 --> 01:20:17,280
Speaker 1: Why was I going to say a Gmail? It's not

1727
01:20:17,600 --> 01:20:21,880
Speaker 1: that's not my email. But yeah, thank you, you're the best.

1728
01:20:22,560 --> 01:20:23,040
Speaker 1: Good luck.

1729
01:20:23,040 --> 01:20:26,760
Speaker 3: Don't get kidnapped when you go upstate, and you know.

1730
01:20:28,720 --> 01:20:31,200
Speaker 2: Keep us, keep us, be nice and cheap. When you

1731
01:20:31,200 --> 01:20:33,600
Speaker 2: go to Columbia and Brazil, you need to know.

1732
01:20:33,880 --> 01:20:37,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll post very little but I'll maybe do like

1733
01:20:37,920 --> 01:20:40,840
Speaker 1: I don't like when I'm away. I want you to

1734
01:20:40,840 --> 01:20:43,000
Speaker 1: think I'm away. Just send us, Send us in the group,

1735
01:20:43,080 --> 01:20:47,200
Speaker 1: chat chat us, send what's app Okay, that's what we want.

1736
01:20:47,760 --> 01:20:49,560
Speaker 5: Stay away from them boats to sis. I don't know

1737
01:20:49,560 --> 01:20:50,880
Speaker 5: if you should be driving those no more.

1738
01:20:50,880 --> 01:20:52,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get my schoola license and I'm gonna get

1739
01:20:52,880 --> 01:20:54,719
Speaker 1: my boat license. I'm so ready.

1740
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Speaker 3: So you don't need a boat license to drive a boat.

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Speaker 1: And not only know. Sometimes it's a personal type. It

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Speaker 1: depends what type of boat it is.

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Speaker 5: Girl.

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Speaker 2: You go by his pictures. Send us the pictures from

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Speaker 2: this trip, please, I will. I hope no boats pass

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Speaker 2: over you when you scooba in.

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Speaker 1: I know that was so honestly, if I if you

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Speaker 1: get anything from my situation with my cousin, that was

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Speaker 1: the worst part.

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Speaker 3: Of that trip.

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Speaker 1: I felt so bad. I was like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I could have hurt someone, and you did.

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Speaker 3: Your cousin.

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Speaker 1: She's fine, She'll be so fine.

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Speaker 3: Actually, let's end the podcast with that today. Are you

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Speaker 1: Oh my god. Thank you guys so much for listening

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Speaker 1: Mess With Sidney Washington and Marie Foston is a production

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Speaker 5: Created and hosted by Sydney Washington and Marie Foston.

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Speaker 3: Executive produced by Olivia Aguilar.

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