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Speaker 1: Hey, we get a lot of new listeners to the pod,

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Speaker 1: and we love that. Thank you for being here, whether

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Speaker 1: you found us on like a viral TikTok or maybe

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Speaker 2: Audio or that bus stop where I've been riding like that,

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Speaker 2: Broke and Jeffrey, right, yeah, by that, it's small fun.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate that. That's gorilla marketing and that's finest. But

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Speaker 1: you're here, and this is the official Second Date podcast.

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Speaker 1: We've got a brand new episode coming for you, but

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Speaker 1: we always love to start by highlighting one of our listeners.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Joseph Petrue said, Hey, Brook and Jeffrey Crewe. I'm

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Speaker 3: in college to be a business engineer, and I listen

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Speaker 3: to your podcast every.

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Speaker 4: Morning to help me get through the week.

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Speaker 3: I like to highlight the people with really smart future

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Speaker 3: careers to listen to us.

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Speaker 1: I see, Yeah, to prove we don't really cover business

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Speaker 1: or engineering.

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Speaker 4: I don't even know.

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Speaker 1: How they go together. To be honest, all right, let's

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Speaker 1: make this guy dumber. Your brand new Second Date update

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Speaker 1: starts right now.

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Speaker 5: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning Date updates.

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Speaker 2: I know we've talked about this before, where you may

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Speaker 2: have a big plan for your first date. But plans

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Speaker 2: change and suddenly you're saying, oh god, I didn't realize

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Speaker 2: they remodeled this fancy steakhouse and turned it into a

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Speaker 2: chucky cheese.

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Speaker 5: And they got rid of the valet too.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, all those chucky cheese buildings definitely used to

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Speaker 1: house fancy steakhouse, right, thank you.

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Speaker 5: In my neighborhood.

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Speaker 1: They date and the entertainment.

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Speaker 5: Now you've got to adjust.

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Speaker 2: And apparently one of our listeners had to adjust on

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Speaker 2: the fly and deal with a change of plans for

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Speaker 2: her date, and she needs our help today. Her name

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Speaker 2: is Aria.

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Speaker 5: Aria. I'm assuming you didn't plan to call into a.

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Speaker 2: Radio show for help with your love life either, but

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Speaker 2: here you are welcome to the show.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 6: No I did not.

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Speaker 1: That's a good pivot. Can I ask before we get

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Speaker 1: into it, is it you that plan the date?

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Speaker 6: No? I did not plan the date?

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, who planned it?

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Speaker 3: Ryan?

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Speaker 7: The guy went out with where you came at? So

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Speaker 7: we actually met through church. We both volunteer like when

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Speaker 7: they have events. We helped put out food and things

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Speaker 7: like that, and obviously we've seen each other around and

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Speaker 7: finally he asked me out that means you.

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Speaker 4: Were hoping for it volunteering for the same area.

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Speaker 5: How did he do it?

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Speaker 7: I mean, he just literally just asked if I wanted

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Speaker 6: Don't do this, but I did let him come pick

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Speaker 4: Place because church, Yeah, hopefully you can trust.

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Speaker 7: Him exactly, That's what I thought. So I invited him

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Speaker 4: He picked up right away, yes, because I was.

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Speaker 6: I was kind of frustrated at the time.

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Speaker 7: I really like cooking and I have been for this

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Speaker 7: ingredient called aleppo. I don't to be heard of it,

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Speaker 5: Oh sounds like a drug.

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Speaker 8: I know.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like one of those late night infomercials like

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Speaker 6: It kind of does.

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Speaker 7: But I have been looking online and then trying to

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Speaker 6: Just wasn't having any luck.

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Speaker 7: And it was for the socok recipe I was trying

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Speaker 2: You're scattered long unless aleppo is like some sort of aphrodisiac.

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Speaker 5: Before the date happened, but I don't know, maybe not

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Speaker 6: Okay, So you in him in yeah, yes, and he

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Speaker 7: Really sweet and he offered He's like, well, let's go

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Speaker 2: So this must be the adjustment that you're talking about

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Speaker 6: Yes. I thought it was really sweet. I mean, so

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Speaker 7: But we finally ended up fighting it at like a

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Speaker 1: Then did you finally get to go on your date?

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Speaker 8: WHOA?

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Speaker 7: So by this point it was really late, so we

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Speaker 1: It's wild that you can't get a hold of this guy.

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Speaker 1: I mean, assume that's why you're calling us, because right

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Speaker 7: I just don't know what happened, you know, Like I'm

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Speaker 4: They went on a second date. He doesn't have to.

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Speaker 2: But from the way that you're the way that you

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Speaker 7: That's the thing, because.

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Speaker 2: There's a chance that maybe he had something really big plan,

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Speaker 1: And so wait, are you disappointed that he offered to

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Speaker 7: I mean, did he like just take me there because

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Speaker 5: A guy with a violin like on a park waiting

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it just feels like every time we do something's

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Speaker 2: Now another spice is missing and you have to do

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Speaker 7: Though no I haven't seen him.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you weren't disappointed that there wasn't a grander plan.

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Speaker 7: I mean, if there was a grander plan, you know,

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Speaker 7: I don't know that it existed because we never got

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't imagine what would be grander than a

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Speaker 5: But if he really does.

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Speaker 2: Have something in mind, we'll find that out because we're

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Speaker 2: date update little spice on top of it. Yeah, I know,

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Speaker 2: I think we're all hungry. We'll get this done right

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Speaker 5: Just quick recap if this part one.

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Speaker 2: Two people met at church that would be our listener,

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Speaker 2: Aria and a guy named Ryan.

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Speaker 5: He asked her out, but.

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Speaker 2: Instead of doing their plan date for the night, whatever

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Speaker 2: find one particular spice to help Aria finish a family recipe.

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Speaker 4: Remember, it was his idea.

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Speaker 1: It was his idea to help her out and go

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Speaker 1: find this thing.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Absolutely, he was totally on board with that.

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Speaker 2: But they never ended up going anywhere else except for

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Speaker 2: and kissing.

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Speaker 1: Oh. I was wondering about the food situation. Maybe he's

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Speaker 5: She said. It was like a slow cooker, So I

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Speaker 5: was like, they're not eating the chili. Whatever ended up happening.

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Speaker 2: That was the last time the two of them saw

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Speaker 7: That's the thing, it's then two weeks now.

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Speaker 1: While is it so awkward right now because you were

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and it's And that's why I don't know, I'm

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Speaker 5: It's one of those.

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Speaker 1: Things, too, are you that like when you do just

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, that's what I thought.

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Speaker 7: And you know, and sometimes like it's it's timing and

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Speaker 7: it's like, now I feel like we're losing that spark.

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Speaker 6: I guess that we have.

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Speaker 2: You know, it'd be such a shame to have so

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Speaker 2: much potential cut down by a six sounds jar of

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Speaker 2: a leppo.

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Speaker 5: That just doesn't seem fair.

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Speaker 6: I mean, yeah, that's what I want to know. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I thought, well, let's find out. We'll see if Ryan

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Speaker 2: picks up the phone. I'm gonna dial his number right now.

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Speaker 5: Hopefully he answers, but let's do it. Hello, Hey Ryan,

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Speaker 5: is this Ryan?

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Speaker 8: Yeah? Who is this?

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Speaker 5: Hey man?

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Speaker 2: My name is jeff from a show called Brooke and

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Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the Morning. Everybody's here, Hey Ryan, good.

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Speaker 1: Morning from a showy radio show.

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Speaker 8: Is this like a scam called I'm getting a lot

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Speaker 8: of those?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: We hate those two weeks to Ryan.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is not a scam called. This is a

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Speaker 2: segment called a second Date Update where we're trying to

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Speaker 2: help out one of our listeners that you went out

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Speaker 2: with about two weeks ago, a girl from your church

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Speaker 2: named Aria.

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Speaker 8: Why.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a cute response.

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Speaker 8: Well, why is she contacting you? We're still in touch,

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Speaker 8: like we're texting.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she said that.

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Speaker 2: We got that impression from her. But what she's not

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Speaker 2: understanding is why the two if you haven't met up

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Speaker 2: a second time in the last couple of weeks.

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Speaker 8: I mean, it's just like a scheduling thing. Like it's

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Speaker 8: not like I haven't talked to her, you know, like

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Speaker 8: I don't know, you.

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Speaker 1: Can't find time in the last two weeks to even

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Speaker 8: I okay, I gotta be honest with you, y'all.

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Speaker 5: I mean, oh, I don't like that sentence.

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Speaker 8: I don't even know how to explain this, but I

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Speaker 5: Okay, can you take a pill for it or something?

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Speaker 5: Can you shake it?

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Speaker 1: With that? We're joking, we're joking.

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Speaker 5: What's up?

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Speaker 8: Well, this is gonna sound ridiculous, but I think maybe

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Speaker 5: WHOA I can think.

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Speaker 1: I will say, you know her more than just one

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Speaker 2: But why wait, why wouldn't you call her back, she

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Speaker 4: And you love her.

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Speaker 8: Well, I don't know. I feel like if we go

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Speaker 1: What do you mean is what's gonna feel different?

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Speaker 8: I'm just nervous that if we like go to dinner

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Speaker 2: Okay, you're done with all the romantic aspects already. You

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Speaker 8: I mean, I'm not saying forever, but I'm just feeling

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Speaker 4: You need to to take her out.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if chores are fun with her, then imagine

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Speaker 8: Yeah. I don't know. I just feel like I might

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Speaker 5: Oh God, you're friend zone her because it's going too well. Listen,

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Speaker 8: I don't want a friend zone her. I want more,

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Speaker 1: I think will be the same, not more, It'll be

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Speaker 4: Yeah, church volunteer, buddy past.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 8: Yeah. I mean there's a lot of stuff running through

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, you know, I think you don't have to

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, right here, right now.

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Speaker 8: Oh no, oh no, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: You have some nice thoughts to say to you.

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Speaker 1: That's a lot of information though, for Ari.

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Speaker 5: Are you there?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm here.

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Speaker 7: I'm trying to take everything in.

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Speaker 8: Look, I didn't know you were listening to all that.

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Speaker 8: So I take it back, or take or take a lot.

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Speaker 2: Of it back, just forget the last five minutes.

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Speaker 5: Of your life.

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Speaker 6: I don't think you can take that back.

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Speaker 7: I like hearing that, but I'm also concerned because I

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Speaker 6: I want that planned special date. And I did.

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Speaker 7: Have fun, like I told him, I really did have

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Speaker 7: fun just going grocery shopping with you. Absolutely, But there's

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Speaker 8: So you want me to do you want me to

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Speaker 8: move in or something?

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Speaker 1: Is what.

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Speaker 8: I don't know. I'm just I'm spitballing here. I'm distressful.

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Speaker 8: I mean, have you ever like.

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Speaker 7: Planned a date before, I mean just something like some

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Speaker 8: I mean I planned one with you. But we went

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Speaker 5: What We don't know that it was better or worse.

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Speaker 8: We were just going to go to dinner and drinks,

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Speaker 5: You know, You're right, grocery store shopping is better.

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Speaker 8: I mean, I feel like that was what the magic

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Speaker 1: Listening to her and hearing what she needs though too,

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Speaker 1: Like she needs to feel special in taking care of and.

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Speaker 8: That's what I was trying to do. She needed a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he wants to make her feel special by like

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Speaker 1: Those things are great. I think that any person would appreciate.

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Speaker 4: That, right, But he needs aaron body.

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Speaker 1: Yes, but I think that she needs she's saying, and

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: I think the difference is like the love language here,

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Speaker 7: you know, like I need that quality time, that special time,

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Speaker 7: and he just kind of just wants to like do

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, that is a very clear message.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Ryan, are you hearing her?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, Area, I am hearing you, and I hear that

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Speaker 8: you don't want me to help you anymore. And that's

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Speaker 8: fine what she says.

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Speaker 5: I don't think anybody heard.

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Speaker 4: How could she have communicated that more clearly?

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Speaker 8: Ears are blogged with love?

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Speaker 5: Okay? Well again, I think there's an ointment for that.

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Speaker 2: But I mean, I think you guys should probably talk

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Speaker 1: Pay for half their dry cleaning or pay for dinners.

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Speaker 5: Really up to them.

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Speaker 8: Maybe we can go to dinner and I'll bring my

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Speaker 8: taxes and you can bring your taxes and we'll do those,

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Speaker 8: could there.

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Speaker 1: Be a less sexy sentence.

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Speaker 2: Well, normally here we'd be asking Ryan if he'd want

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Speaker 4: He's already dropped the album for.

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Speaker 5: He's laid it down pretty hard. Aria.

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Speaker 2: Do you want to go on a date with Ryan?

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Speaker 2: And if you do, we can pay for that date.

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Speaker 7: I just feel like he's already halfway to the practical side,

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Speaker 7: and that worries me. But I'm willing.

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Speaker 6: To give it a shot.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, you can learn to love practical sounds hot, all.

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Speaker 5: Right, Ryan? She has officially said yes, kind of.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So maybe bring a little bit of romance with you

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Speaker 2: on your tax dinner date.

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Speaker 5: Maybe some flowers.

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Speaker 8: I will pack some romance in my pocket.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's where you keep your romance.

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Speaker 1: That looks in your right pocket, brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: I've been thinking we should advise more first daters to

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh, as soon as.

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Speaker 2: You meet up at the restaurant, hug them and whisper

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Speaker 2: middle of our second date calls, because that made us

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Speaker 5: Not fair to us.

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Speaker 4: She definitely didn't say it back.

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Speaker 5: No, she didn't know.

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Speaker 2: She didn't know what to say when that came out,

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Speaker 1: It may work out though, in the end. It's always

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Speaker 1: nice to be with someone that loves you more than you.

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Speaker 5: Like that baby, I feel like you know they won't

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Speaker 2: I appreciate your hopeless optimism in.

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Speaker 1: A good way.

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Speaker 2: It's going to be tough for him to come back

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Speaker 2: from but who knows, maybe miracles will happen.

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Speaker 1: You know, she's she's looking at a clock that she's

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Speaker 2: So yeah, we're hoping that by the end of the

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Speaker 4: They finish their taxes together.

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Speaker 2: Yes, all good things, and we want good things for

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Speaker 2: you and your love life.

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Speaker 5: Reach out to the show. We can call that person

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Speaker 5: who's not calling you back.

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Speaker 2: And it's also good if you subscribe to our podcast,

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Speaker 2: if you're listening, if you're listening to us on it

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Speaker 2: right now.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning