Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decisions. Hey, guys,
Speaker 1: welcome to yet another episode of Horrible Decisions, and I
Speaker 1: am so glad one dickon here. Okay, who is day y'all?
Speaker 1: Puerto Rican? No, he has American. His name is Juan
Speaker 1: and back, dude, listen if y'all do not know where
Speaker 1: that is from. We are gladly joined today by two
Speaker 1: of my favorite non favorite, then favorite again. The not
Speaker 1: favorite depends on the season. If you went in, you
Speaker 1: probably don't like, y'all. Yeah, we are joined by Robin
Speaker 1: Dixon and Giselle Bryan, not only the reasonab really shady
Speaker 1: pot but also the real hospis of polimic potomy Parliament.
Speaker 1: I don't know, we don't care what you Okay. By
Speaker 1: the way, my name is Wheezy. Our show is Horrible Decisions.
Speaker 1: We have a show dese stigmatizing kings for black people
Speaker 1: in the community. Now we really talk about nasty ship.
Speaker 1: We're gonna be respectful today, are we? No? We not
Speaker 1: do what y'all do? We need to be nice? Y'all
Speaker 1: got kids? Do what you do? Yeah? We do? You
Speaker 1: want to say? Oh? Wait, the people in the comments
Speaker 1: just a preference. No, no no, no, I don't know. I'll
Speaker 1: tell you what I have heard. So they really just
Speaker 1: said hopefully they talk. Oh no, talk about we do this.
Speaker 1: We never mind get nasty with it. We know how
Speaker 1: death don't mean nothing. Just because you got kids don't
Speaker 1: mean you realize you had a cream pie. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I got I got a nosy man.
Speaker 1: So we'll see what I can do. Well, someone's gonna
Speaker 1: be mad about this, so um As I said, I
Speaker 1: don't watch Real Housewist time it, but I'm familiar a
Speaker 1: little bit with our guests, especially after last night when
Speaker 1: people were like, bitch, we gotta give you the t However,
Speaker 1: there's one thing I know about the guests that's to
Speaker 1: my left because of an email I got from Mandy
Speaker 1: attaching their producer, my assistant and black effect. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: it says, did I do thinks we're only going to
Speaker 1: be booking one hour in d C based on the
Speaker 1: show Robin doesn't show up on time? Can we give
Speaker 1: her notice drive forty five minutes before the schedule time
Speaker 1: at the studio because this is very costly if we
Speaker 1: have to accommodate simply for tardiness listen. I was like,
Speaker 1: that was good. That was good listen, and I was
Speaker 1: little late. You made it just on time, but according
Speaker 1: to my call time, I had a two third time
Speaker 1: and I got a good when I tell you why
Speaker 1: I am a stickler on time. We you and I
Speaker 1: have had people uh so late to the pod that
Speaker 1: we've canceled, and then I'll be like they're not coming again.
Speaker 1: Break So you are me okay, and maybe maybe you're robbing.
Speaker 1: I'm thinking I'm not too bad, so like I'm half
Speaker 1: which means like I'm half late, Like I'm like five minutes.
Speaker 1: Him is like I'm not letting late to zoom. I
Speaker 1: mean I need five more minutes. I'm like, shame Andy
Speaker 1: with the fun that's yes, yes, but if you know
Speaker 1: you gotta be to yes. Yes. Oh I can't come
Speaker 1: here stopped up like you know. Okay, wait, so we
Speaker 1: know you from real households and we isn't like people.
Speaker 1: But you have a podcast reasonably shady and your sisters
Speaker 1: on the black. But that tell us about reasonably shady. Well,
Speaker 1: Robin is very reasonable. I am very shady. Um. You
Speaker 1: know we have been friends since before the show, before
Speaker 1: Potony and during the pandemic. We got together and did
Speaker 1: a couple of IG lives and people were like, oh
Speaker 1: my gosh, y'all should have a podcast, and we were like, okay,
Speaker 1: And so it went from there, and Robin came up
Speaker 1: with the name reasonably Shady, which I think is very
Speaker 1: fitting to us, even though Robbing, the last episode we
Speaker 1: had was beyond shady. I was goddamn reasonable and rob
Speaker 1: was just the shadiest thing alive because she hadn't eaten,
Speaker 1: she was hungry, cranky, shady, cray, shady don't count. That's
Speaker 1: the ailment. But so I could still be shade. That's
Speaker 1: the thing that makes us tick. Like I'm still shady.
Speaker 1: I just I'm not as vocal with my shady, you know.
Speaker 1: But we still kind of think the same. But I
Speaker 1: will say one of the great things about our podcast is,
Speaker 1: you know, yes, we're on a show. It's a real
Speaker 1: housewive show. It's all about the drama and what's going on,
Speaker 1: and y'all don't really get to know us. You don't
Speaker 1: really get to know our personalities, our friendship, like what
Speaker 1: we think about the weather, like nothing, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? So what do you think about Robin promise
Speaker 1: I am not watching. We don't right, well, what you
Speaker 1: care about the world when and camp Like, you know,
Speaker 1: you don't get any of that on the show, And
Speaker 1: so the podcast is such a great opportunity for people
Speaker 1: to really get to know us. Yes, And it's so
Speaker 1: funny because people who like hate us on the show,
Speaker 1: and you know your haters are still your lovers, Like,
Speaker 1: so they will watch and so so we'll listen, right,
Speaker 1: I mean they'll listen and they'll be like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: like I really like you all now now I get
Speaker 1: to know more about you. Now I understand you and
Speaker 1: I'm human. Yes, yes, but also just like it's a journey,
Speaker 1: like there's people who have been listening to horrible decisions.
Speaker 1: We've been at this for about five years now. People
Speaker 1: are just liking me. That's because Mandy got a heart
Speaker 1: when she got a boyfriend right now, but you know
Speaker 1: he's still girls got a boyfriend and got sweet she'd
Speaker 1: be like, what do you mean cooking? You love him?
Speaker 1: But it's crazy because again, I think the pandemic has
Speaker 1: like shifted my thoughts on so many things, like and
Speaker 1: I tell him all the time. We got together during
Speaker 1: the pandemic and I tell him the only reason I
Speaker 1: did cook for him because no, no place was right.
Speaker 1: We were in New York. Nowhere is open. I gotta cook.
Speaker 1: I did want to start off with some icebreaker questions
Speaker 1: for you guys. Are they reasonable? Him? Were pretty shady?
Speaker 1: Most of them are reasonable, all right? The first one
Speaker 1: because I think it goes with our shows so much.
Speaker 1: And we have asked this before for those of you
Speaker 1: just watched the last season, would you rather we're gonna
Speaker 1: do a quick this or that tea bag or toss salad?
Speaker 1: Y'all really ain't looking at as hell? No I'm not.
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna say, you know, like if it was
Speaker 1: a drunken night, he like just got off. I mean,
Speaker 1: because you know you're just like free, right, so then
Speaker 1: I don't care how drunk I am. Okay, but he
Speaker 1: just got the shower. It's like clean down there, shower fresh,
Speaker 1: shower fresh. I mean, I saw what you look like
Speaker 1: after all the whiskey shots. You would have asked you
Speaker 1: want asked some boot that I don't know, I don't care.
Speaker 1: I'll drunk, I am. I was sober up real quick.
Speaker 1: If you put his ass in my face? Really, why
Speaker 1: they're airing, there's fecal matter. Ain't wash, I don't. I don't. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean, okay, so I believe where he's very clean,
Speaker 1: like he takes multiple showers a day, so I don't
Speaker 1: have to worry about that. But I just, you know,
Speaker 1: my my brain gets to thinking about what comes out
Speaker 1: of that's his birthday, October nine. He's a liberal like me.
Speaker 1: It just it just I would work for me. She
Speaker 1: could do it for Christmas. That yeah, Christmas, that would
Speaker 1: be good. He would have probably very much enjoy it.
Speaker 1: Now I do. There was a guy I was with
Speaker 1: kind of recently and he didn't like teabagging. Oh he
Speaker 1: didn't like tea bag. He didn't like the balls messed
Speaker 1: with in any way. Okay, well, it is sensitive. So
Speaker 1: some guys like depending on how you were like, it
Speaker 1: could be ticklish, it could hurt them, like there's a
Speaker 1: lot of like you know, like some people like them.
Speaker 1: He didn't know because like he he didn't even want
Speaker 1: touching and stuff like, he just was like and they
Speaker 1: were very large, So maybe that had something to do that.
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I was offended by the way.
Speaker 1: Why do we all know? I mean, if you don't
Speaker 1: like I was offended because I was one of my things.
Speaker 1: I don't like teabag you don't like. But you know what,
Speaker 1: I'll be honest. There's there's a lot of things that
Speaker 1: I would say I didn't like and when the right
Speaker 1: person do it, because I actually wasn't a fan of
Speaker 1: head for a long time. The lad person, I sit
Speaker 1: right on his face. I think it really depends. Like
Speaker 1: you know the person next question, y'all a big dick,
Speaker 1: broke man or a small dick wealthy man. Jesus, I've
Speaker 1: had both, and it's just like I'll take the big day.
Speaker 1: We could work on his job. I've faked my resume
Speaker 1: to get I mean, how small is small? I mean
Speaker 1: we know what small isn't when it's small. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: gotta go small, gotta go sore so that money you
Speaker 1: feel like even when I didn't, I still small. You
Speaker 1: gotta go small and ten seconds out of here, like
Speaker 1: if how many rounds do you like? A good? Okay?
Speaker 1: In my younger days, Um, it didn't matter, it didn't matter.
Speaker 1: It's just we can go forward. Okay, that's me right now.
Speaker 1: So when does that stop? When you have children? No,
Speaker 1: I don't want children, Okay, forever, keep going forever forever?
Speaker 1: Why does the Is it because of tiredness? Is it
Speaker 1: because if you're tired, you got you're tired, you got distractions,
Speaker 1: You're just trying to go to sleep. Do you think
Speaker 1: you get too motherly to where you don't feel sexual anywhere?
Speaker 1: Oh hell no, no, no, okay, no one has nothing
Speaker 1: to do with the other. But when you have kids,
Speaker 1: you got if you're always thinking, I gotta get up
Speaker 1: in the morning, right, So if you're doing something at night,
Speaker 1: you're like, this got to be quick because I got
Speaker 1: to get a little bit of sleep in order for
Speaker 1: me to get You don't even get morning sex. You can't.
Speaker 1: You can't. I'm the one in person. But it's like, okay,
Speaker 1: what that that means we gotta wa up a little earlier.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's just you gotta plan it. I ain't
Speaker 1: gonna hold you a bit. I'll set my alarm early. Yea,
Speaker 1: if I know he got to be out the crib
Speaker 1: about eight thirty, that alarm get See. I don't want
Speaker 1: to wake up for sex, but you can wake me
Speaker 1: up with it, and I'm like for ten I'll be like.
Speaker 1: By the way, those were the reasonable questions here. Comes here,
Speaker 1: come to shape. You're all ready for the shady question?
Speaker 1: All right, we'll start easy. Uh, this one is gonna
Speaker 1: be a wife swap. Which housewife would you up? Husbands with?
Speaker 1: None of them jokers waiting the whole franchise at me? Okay,
Speaker 1: our show to make. Yeah, let's would be the only
Speaker 1: one I would even consider, right, But because it's one
Speaker 1: like no, so like no, I would never even want
Speaker 1: to even take my top off for any of them,
Speaker 1: my other dudes, No, this is your really that was
Speaker 1: like convenience in like selfish reasons. Like Chris Bassett, he cooks. Oh,
Speaker 1: he looked like Chris Daughtry. Don't he looked like the
Speaker 1: little rock band singer. Girl, I cannot believe you even
Speaker 1: knew his fucking because I was watching American I don't
Speaker 1: I don't even know who that. I don't think so
Speaker 1: you don't think so not a person that was just
Speaker 1: a beard in the ballhead. Yeah, there's no like girls
Speaker 1: like rule number one. Your kids they don't count. It's
Speaker 1: getting out of school time. Yeah, we saw man, I'm
Speaker 1: Chris Bassett cooks, and and there's something about a man
Speaker 1: that cooks that is true. But what about another franchise.
Speaker 1: What's Beverly Hills, Mauricio He's getting it morning? No, that's
Speaker 1: how Richard how rich Ya? Okay, Okay, I'm doing him okay.
Speaker 1: And I told Kyle already told Kyle like, it's like
Speaker 1: it's going down James Brown. Did she get to? She laughed?
Speaker 1: He like, I mean it was when I saw her
Speaker 1: because I had already made public jokes about me sleeping
Speaker 1: with her husband. So when I saw her, I was like, Kyle,
Speaker 1: you know, I just be playing about MAURICEO but not
Speaker 1: really I feel so she's like, I'm just out, like
Speaker 1: you know, she took it in stride, but you know,
Speaker 1: in person, I have not. Oh, I have not. Would
Speaker 1: you would you like if she was like, okay, but
Speaker 1: I got to be in the room, would that still
Speaker 1: be up for grabs? No, she would have to leave
Speaker 1: the room. I've already said. I've already said PA would
Speaker 1: have to have him for the day. And yeah, but
Speaker 1: you know what though, what really sucks? Like So I
Speaker 1: watched the Real housewast franchise years ago, and I started
Speaker 1: with Beverly Hills, and I remember thinking when I watched
Speaker 1: it recently, I was like, damn, men, really get better
Speaker 1: looking at the age. Yes, so yeah, college age, but
Speaker 1: she still looks it. But like Rezo God damn. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if you look at old pictures of him, he's not
Speaker 1: hitting like that. I feel that way about my my ex,
Speaker 1: Like I'll be looking like you was two pretty and
Speaker 1: one is now he almost hitting fit there, I'm like,
Speaker 1: you want to back, No, we're friends. Okay, we're friends.
Speaker 1: You're my friends. You went on vacation with last weekend. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: this pandemic booth, This is pandemic booby. But he's no,
Speaker 1: we're not together. We're just friends, just friends. Just didn't
Speaker 1: suck his friendly dick, do you. I was on shroom,
Speaker 1: so I'm gonna blame blame the drugs. Last last one,
Speaker 1: last one. And this is really shady. I hope one
Speaker 1: of y'all answer this. Who cheats more athletes or pastors?
Speaker 1: That's a good question. That is a very good question. Okay,
Speaker 1: See I did here that I think I think they're equal.
Speaker 1: I think think I want to say athletes, you do,
Speaker 1: because well, pastors travel a lot too, so if it's
Speaker 1: a traveling past okay, yeah, you know it's probably equal
Speaker 1: the athletes. You know, it's like an NBA player. They're
Speaker 1: playing in how many different cities? Like definitely, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Special they're playing in like and I
Speaker 1: think pastors start to feel like guilty anywhere those those cities, Yeah,
Speaker 1: because those cities aren't popping, right, So they like, why
Speaker 1: don't pastors travel? Don't they got to be there? Everything?
Speaker 1: Guess girl, you really is first of Jewish. So like,
Speaker 1: if it's if it's a very popular pastor, he's traveling
Speaker 1: to go preach at other churches all over the country
Speaker 1: and maybe even internet, so he has access. That's all about.
Speaker 1: That's all it is. It's just access. How much of
Speaker 1: a whole do you gotta be? The fun with a pastor?
Speaker 1: A lot of churchills this church, I know we do
Speaker 1: was in there. I understand the title of the show.
Speaker 1: But you are a fucking whore, am, but she probably yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: to be fair rest in peace. But my pastor when
Speaker 1: I was growing up, you know, he passed nothing but
Speaker 1: we are not you just destiny. But he was fine,
Speaker 1: and I remember people talking about it. I didn't think
Speaker 1: anybody would want to. You never watched you, like I
Speaker 1: was like six TV. But the ladies are like God
Speaker 1: told me, I was supposed to suck you tonight three times.
Speaker 1: That's what I say. And this is real and what yeah,
Speaker 1: this is real when they probably think that they're God's
Speaker 1: chosen one, so they probably got baby legs. Go back
Speaker 1: to this. This is really like because none of human
Speaker 1: with the pastor. Yes, you saw like a message I
Speaker 1: was very privy to, Like I was very good friends
Speaker 1: with a lot of pastors wives, so we all talk. Yes,
Speaker 1: women are very bold and say that, you know, God
Speaker 1: told me I was supposed to be your wife, not
Speaker 1: your wife. God told me I was supposed to suck
Speaker 1: you tonight. That's why I traveled to get here to
Speaker 1: see you, Like all kinds of stuff. Women are crazy,
Speaker 1: women are a pastor. Okay, but the pastors are probably
Speaker 1: saying the same thing to the women to thank you, right,
Speaker 1: thank you, But they do they have to say you
Speaker 1: got ready to go? I was in but you know,
Speaker 1: because when they are you know, seriously, did you watch
Speaker 1: The Keepers? It's a Netflix documentary a priest that took
Speaker 1: advantage of students and stuff like that. One of them
Speaker 1: were saying that like she needed to drink his like
Speaker 1: holy water and ship Why what's the holy water? Pea
Speaker 1: seem okay, I mean I thought was the r Kelly
Speaker 1: moment that yeah. I mean, now, I will tell you
Speaker 1: this the only thing I have used God for. I
Speaker 1: was dating this dude and he really didn't want to
Speaker 1: have period sex and I was like, you know what,
Speaker 1: God turned it off. I don't know what happened. Now.
Speaker 1: I did have five birth control pills to stop it,
Speaker 1: but I told him God made my period stop for him.
Speaker 1: Can't I cannote? And did he believe you? Probably not,
Speaker 1: but he's still fun. He was like, no, he didn't
Speaker 1: like he died period. Well, no, are you I eat?
Speaker 1: Are we really will be eating those ships? But they okay,
Speaker 1: but you've been doing it without showing cleansed first all okay,
Speaker 1: she was like, my meals already clean. Didn't even do
Speaker 1: much today we clean just sat around the house. You know,
Speaker 1: I'm not playing with y'all. Okay. I But for the record,
Speaker 1: that was a shady question because I'm getting shady. So
Speaker 1: some of the other segments that we have, one of
Speaker 1: which we used to have called Kink of the Week,
Speaker 1: I was listening to reasonably shady and I wanted to
Speaker 1: actually tell you um about a kink that maybe you
Speaker 1: should look for in your next partner. You want to
Speaker 1: find someone who is into eproctophilia. This is a straight
Speaker 1: man who loves who receives arousal from their partner's flatulence.
Speaker 1: So Giselle actually shared that she farts a whole lot
Speaker 1: of she has text. She asked for the record, I'm leaving.
Speaker 1: I'm leaving right now. This is this is a mass.
Speaker 1: You said it all you okay, So what I said
Speaker 1: was that clarify the things. What I said was that
Speaker 1: there have been several occasions, because you know, I am
Speaker 1: lactosa tolerant, so you said this, there have been some
Speaker 1: occasions that I have done some farting while in the act,
Speaker 1: and the guys was like cool with it, Like, ain't
Speaker 1: nobody kick me out the bay for farting? So maybe
Speaker 1: I'd even find a guy who what is that? What
Speaker 1: is the word a proctal Fhila. We said that it happened,
Speaker 1: you know, when they bench you over and they like
Speaker 1: pulled up cheeks apart, and you'd be like, oh, I
Speaker 1: just tightened up. But wait when she let it out
Speaker 1: and was it like there have been several variations of
Speaker 1: sad farting there have been no level. There have been
Speaker 1: noise levels. There have been silent killers. I don't care
Speaker 1: if anybody else didn't. Never mean you wanna be like ship,
Speaker 1: something happened. I don't know what it was like you
Speaker 1: got a cat? What is it? Listen, We're going on
Speaker 1: to the next question. What would you recommend women to
Speaker 1: do if it does happen to them? Do you acknowledge
Speaker 1: it or ignore it? Um? You you see whether not
Speaker 1: he acknowledges it and if he doesn't. And if if
Speaker 1: he does that, you know you might be like, oh
Speaker 1: my bad, But if he doesn't, you just keep going.
Speaker 1: So I want no one has ever been like, oh,
Speaker 1: that's disgusting. Never she's like, look at me now. The
Speaker 1: next segment that we have is called Vanilla Ship. Vanilla
Speaker 1: Ship talks about sex in the news. That's it and
Speaker 1: this one is more to kind of get you guys
Speaker 1: open about what type of mothering styles you guys have.
Speaker 1: So school in Loudon County, UM, the parents were really
Speaker 1: upset because they did a sex survey that was sent
Speaker 1: out to the students. These are high school students where
Speaker 1: they asked how many sexual partners they have, if they're
Speaker 1: sexually active, if they've ever caught in an STD. These
Speaker 1: are all the questions that were given to the students,
Speaker 1: and one of the students came and said, Mom, I'm
Speaker 1: really uncomfortable with these questions. And pretty much now they're
Speaker 1: looking into why this was given without asking the parents
Speaker 1: for permission. First, Now, Robin, you have so and just
Speaker 1: that you have daughters. So I'm curious to know what
Speaker 1: the sexual identity conversation is with your children and how
Speaker 1: you guys even talk about sex because your girls are uh, teenagers,
Speaker 1: they're getting quite up there. So what are like the
Speaker 1: conversations you guys have with sex with your children? Well,
Speaker 1: I mean minors, so minor in eighth grade, in sixth grade,
Speaker 1: and they're still like embarrassed to even talk about like
Speaker 1: girls or you know if they think, yeah, they're still
Speaker 1: they're they're like super super cool, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Like they're like almost too cool right now. So we
Speaker 1: don't have those conversations just yet. Is one having them
Speaker 1: with them and not you? Maybe because I ain't gonna
Speaker 1: hold you. They was sucking titties in middle school. I
Speaker 1: was kissing boys when I was a fifth grade. Thing
Speaker 1: Like I'm just like looking at my kids, like, what
Speaker 1: is going on? Maybe should bring it up? Yeah, all right,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell one's got to have a conversation because
Speaker 1: I think, you know, honestly though, I think they would
Speaker 1: be more open with me than with him. Really, he's scary.
Speaker 1: He's kind of scary, but but he can fish it
Speaker 1: out of them, you know what I'm saying, Like he's
Speaker 1: going to like trick them into thinking that he knows
Speaker 1: the truth even though he does it. Do you have
Speaker 1: family dinners? Yeah you should. I would do it like
Speaker 1: my mom used to do it in front of my
Speaker 1: dad and I'd be so embarrassed. She'd be like, so
Speaker 1: do you have a boyfriend? Don't be embarrassed. She was like,
Speaker 1: we need to talk about it. He needs to get
Speaker 1: used to it. We would laugh about it. My mom also,
Speaker 1: when we was like fifteen sixteen, we will take the
Speaker 1: car with our fake IDs, go to the club and
Speaker 1: would give us condoms. My mom was scared that I
Speaker 1: would lie because you know, I'm saying, we're from Florida's
Speaker 1: everybody basically like gets pregnant there. She was like, not
Speaker 1: my child, Like, if you don't sneak out and go
Speaker 1: to the club, I need to know where, you know?
Speaker 1: And that was that smart. But I remember she would
Speaker 1: bring it up a lot, and at first I didn't
Speaker 1: really understand it right because it would embarrass me. But
Speaker 1: then I'm like, oh, she just wants him to get
Speaker 1: used to these conversations. Yeah, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: and the family dinners when it happened. That's smart. I
Speaker 1: feel like mine are sheltered a little bit just because
Speaker 1: like I was bad. I was I was so crazy.
Speaker 1: I was like really good in the house, but I
Speaker 1: had a lot of like I would always, you know,
Speaker 1: be gone every weekend, sleeping over a friend's house. And
Speaker 1: that's when I was like, we could tell about yours
Speaker 1: because the ear rings told you I got the foe
Speaker 1: in at least I know. She said, I can't come
Speaker 1: in here and tell you how freaky I am. M
Speaker 1: had to stop at a certain age and then I could, like,
Speaker 1: I can tell you everything up to a certain age
Speaker 1: and after that, yeah, no, no, what I'm saying, like,
Speaker 1: because because I was bad and because like one, he's
Speaker 1: from like Baltimore City, like he don't trust nobody, Like
Speaker 1: my kids are sheltered, like they don't they really when
Speaker 1: they go someplace like we know exactly where they are,
Speaker 1: what they're doing, Like, they don't have a whole bunch
Speaker 1: of freedom. So I think that's why we haven't gotten
Speaker 1: to that point with them. But yeah, it's probably about
Speaker 1: that time, it is. Yeah, sure it is. What about you?
Speaker 1: Just I um? Okay. So somebody told me a long
Speaker 1: time ago, actually was a dude that I was dating. Um.
Speaker 1: He was like, you know, when you have children, if
Speaker 1: you have a boy, you have to worry about his penis,
Speaker 1: but if you have girls, you have to worry about
Speaker 1: everybody's Penisay right, So okay, that side note. So when
Speaker 1: my kids were very young, I had a book. I
Speaker 1: had a bunch of books because I'm a reader, so
Speaker 1: I had a bunch of books like on the shelf
Speaker 1: and there was a book The Anatomy of Sex or something. Okay,
Speaker 1: So they were like it came to me. They were
Speaker 1: like very young, like fourth grade, third grade, and they
Speaker 1: were like, Mommy, what a sex? What a sex was?
Speaker 1: Sc X was was that? Mom? So I was like
Speaker 1: I ignored it for like a week. So then finally
Speaker 1: I was like, y'all want to know what sex is?
Speaker 1: And I was like yes, So they sat him down.
Speaker 1: I was like, what do you have in between your legs?
Speaker 1: And it was like, oh, we have a vagina. And
Speaker 1: I was like, and boys have a and it was
Speaker 1: like penis. I was like, the penis goes into the
Speaker 1: vagina and they were like, I mean, they acted like
Speaker 1: it was a horror story. They ran out the room.
Speaker 1: They were so upset. They were like how and why?
Speaker 1: That's disgusting. They were in fourth grade, yes, but but
Speaker 1: it was I think the best thing because it was
Speaker 1: like I ripped the band aid off. They were very
Speaker 1: clear and as they got maybe a year later, I
Speaker 1: was like, look, guys, I don't ever want you guys
Speaker 1: to have questions about sex. And you don't ask me
Speaker 1: or I don't tell you in advance, don't go to
Speaker 1: your friends. They don't know what they're talking about. The
Speaker 1: part I was like, you come to me because I'm
Speaker 1: going to tell you. And there's nothing that you'all gonna do.
Speaker 1: I haven't done, so like, there's no, no, that's right,
Speaker 1: that's right. So we have very open conversations. And you know,
Speaker 1: my oldest is seventeen. I don't you know. She says
Speaker 1: she hasn't done anything, but I don't want to be
Speaker 1: a stupid parent. You know, if you have okay, let's
Speaker 1: just make sure you're protected. So I feel like I
Speaker 1: have to always be like proactive and get in front
Speaker 1: of it. I don't think that conversation you had as easy.
Speaker 1: I think as long as it comes from you, that's
Speaker 1: all that matters. Everybody's don't have their own. My mom
Speaker 1: called it my private like. There were different ways explained
Speaker 1: it differently. At first she was talking about it being
Speaker 1: close together, like she didn't say in but you know,
Speaker 1: it was her way of explaining it to me. And
Speaker 1: then more questions happened gradually. But as far as you
Speaker 1: know you're seventeen year old, I always assume that, like
Speaker 1: anybody over fifteen has had sex, and that's not the case,
Speaker 1: you know, And I think that especially if you're open.
Speaker 1: Like with my mom, I was able to tell her
Speaker 1: when it happened, and I was so happy that I
Speaker 1: did because a lot of my friends did it. You
Speaker 1: know what I mean, I gotta I got a free
Speaker 1: year called the pandemic, and they didn't go outside. I
Speaker 1: have an extra year, an extra year building, so well,
Speaker 1: they just went to like a homecoming dance. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: show you have a picture the dudes later, but like,
Speaker 1: these dudes are like looking like men. Yeah, I could
Speaker 1: never be a high school teo. I lived by a
Speaker 1: basketball court in the Larry Side, and I'll tell you
Speaker 1: right now, I'd be like these they like, I don't
Speaker 1: know where now, you don't know what that's what they
Speaker 1: But they're also like had it up there? Yes, And
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, oh that's what we're doing. Whoa. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they did not look like that. They didn't actually say that.
Speaker 1: They did not look like like I just said, pretty
Speaker 1: did No, Seriously, it's crazy. Bro. There was a basketball player.
Speaker 1: I went out, it's a little sister and I was like,
Speaker 1: oh dude. He said I'm twenty and I said twenty
Speaker 1: what that motherfucker looks so good? And I had it.
Speaker 1: I felt, Okay, you can look at something that's legal.
Speaker 1: I'm thirty. Oh yeah you can. You can screw it? Absolutely? Yeah? Absolutely?
Speaker 1: Are you You can at least look at it? No, Bro,
Speaker 1: that's crazy. Why is that crazy? He probably is at
Speaker 1: his best? Bet would you that don't sound that bad?
Speaker 1: I feel like it doesn't, but I think it's the
Speaker 1: twenty I know you ain't developed. What was he develop
Speaker 1: you feel like he's still a kid bro like, look
Speaker 1: at the ship. I what the fun is? No? I
Speaker 1: love it because then you could teach something and they like, yeah,
Speaker 1: what's that fast food? Play? Is the audience? Do they
Speaker 1: have an audience at the drafterwork and it's sounding like
Speaker 1: and have you been? No? I just watched it on
Speaker 1: TV and then go to the instagrams now. So Um.
Speaker 1: The next question or segment is our hord derve. We
Speaker 1: kind of want to give it to y'all. Our hord
Speaker 1: Derve segment is sex tips, and so I know that
Speaker 1: even with us talking about the difference between sex and
Speaker 1: your twenties, uh to sex maybe in your thirties. Uh,
Speaker 1: if y'all could give us share some sex tips with
Speaker 1: the audience from y'all from your bedroom to our ears, Um,
Speaker 1: your single I am okay, maybe I'm married in a
Speaker 1: single tip be there we go. I can this is
Speaker 1: not a tip, but I can say that, Um, how
Speaker 1: do you okay? Post forty that's when sex gets good,
Speaker 1: Like that's when you really know what you're doing. I
Speaker 1: don't know for the women you agree for. I think
Speaker 1: for for women maybe ment to I mean I feel
Speaker 1: like after forty. It's like you understand better, like your body,
Speaker 1: we were whole, so we even if your whole, even
Speaker 1: if your home. It's like something happens in the mind
Speaker 1: that makes it all the way better. So I'm gonna better.
Speaker 1: You think it better? Partners, no better, no better. I
Speaker 1: don't know what it is. Do you agree? Um, you
Speaker 1: fairly say that like you were the same I'm still
Speaker 1: I'm right, I'm and I'm only two so maybe like, okay,
Speaker 1: you're like I'm just saying only a two years and
Speaker 1: you're with the same guy, so that you can't really
Speaker 1: but I can't say, but it it's definitely just as good,
Speaker 1: you know. I feel like it's just more mature, like
Speaker 1: you're not doing all like the unnecessary stuff. You know
Speaker 1: what I mean? What is unnecessary? Okay, so like like
Speaker 1: pounding like forever for no reason, don't do that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So it's like just just
Speaker 1: making sure you're like that you're doing something that feels
Speaker 1: good to you. And if you toys, yes, I didn't
Speaker 1: know that. Yeah, no, toys. Toys have been probably one
Speaker 1: of them. So I would say that would be my tip.
Speaker 1: That's gonna be my tip. Like don't be scared of toys.
Speaker 1: That's your favorite. So I don't know the names of anything. Um,
Speaker 1: he got this toy that like it went over his thing,
Speaker 1: his penis. It was like okay, you know, I don't know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but then it had like a vibrating thing vibrating. I
Speaker 1: don't really anyway saying so why I got it? Yeah, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: So and man has never gotten like if I if
Speaker 1: I just say in toys, I've always gotten it. Oh
Speaker 1: like a man has never for y'all to go together,
Speaker 1: right and to pick up out because but I would
Speaker 1: be impressed. It came from home and like brought a top.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I think that's It's like he's like excited
Speaker 1: to try it. So the vibrating cockering like that was
Speaker 1: like everything. Oh yeah, I've tried it too, and you
Speaker 1: can feel it inside your blissy like it's like it
Speaker 1: does make the dick vibrate and all that. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: great every time. The way it's like so it's like
Speaker 1: vibrating on your clip too, yeah okay, yeah yeah. And
Speaker 1: he said he puts something over his penis. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I was like, she about to say he needs a penis. No, no, No,
Speaker 1: everybody good at that department? Who's that? I? So I
Speaker 1: see I like, so you put you have? I ain't
Speaker 1: gonna hold you. If if it's pulled out and it's small,
Speaker 1: my period just came on. Can't we can't do this
Speaker 1: like out of like charity, like I'll fuck you and
Speaker 1: they have charity? Pa if if if I was already
Speaker 1: on do and I find out was small, it's an
Speaker 1: unfortunate mistake, you know. But then do you pull out
Speaker 1: an extender and say this is what I wrote? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's just like the next time you try to have
Speaker 1: sex and be like I've been talking to my X
Speaker 1: again and like I really feel like things are just
Speaker 1: going that way? And can you can you describe an
Speaker 1: extend or how does that? Damn? It's like you guys.
Speaker 1: So we actually have a whole segment where we bring
Speaker 1: out weird sex one and so what it looks like
Speaker 1: is I mean they come in different colors too, so
Speaker 1: we have different ones in l A in Atlanta might
Speaker 1: see something different, but basically it's it's it looks like
Speaker 1: a dildo with a hole in. It's a hollow hole
Speaker 1: and you put your dick in. So it's just another
Speaker 1: and it's straps on or something that's I guess, no,
Speaker 1: you don't have to strap it on because it'll stick
Speaker 1: kind of because it's like, yeah, ex, yeah, I've strapped
Speaker 1: on with my girlfriend, but um no, never extended. Has
Speaker 1: that ever needed it? I mean, I'm sucked small dig niggas,
Speaker 1: and then I hate when I fall in love first
Speaker 1: that sucks. But then you could just have anal set,
Speaker 1: but okay I can because it's small. Okay, you know,
Speaker 1: slippery slope he slippery. Well hopefully if it's small and slippery,
Speaker 1: doesn't even your mouth. I mean, get out of here.
Speaker 1: So have you ever like kicked somebody out the bed
Speaker 1: or out the house before? It? Never mindless, it wasn't good,
Speaker 1: and we like like like we were sending each other
Speaker 1: videos sucking other like, you know, because he know it
Speaker 1: was like super super hips up and I was like,
Speaker 1: oh yeah he nasty. Oh and I see how he that?
Speaker 1: But she gonna put me good? How did you go? It?
Speaker 1: Literally it just it was like we almost couldn't even
Speaker 1: get the rhythm to where I literally rolled over. I
Speaker 1: was like, this isn't this isn't always isn't working. But
Speaker 1: he sent you pictures of him having sex with other weeah,
Speaker 1: I like, I like that. I just thought you like
Speaker 1: that often, like I like to see. I like to
Speaker 1: want you see to say, like, we all have videos
Speaker 1: on our phones. I do not, Okay, una work on that.
Speaker 1: We're gonna work on that as you at the date.
Speaker 1: Maybe you know, but I don't want to see you
Speaker 1: phone in another girl. I don't want to do no, Okay,
Speaker 1: so see to be fair, I also enjoyed voyeurism and
Speaker 1: I go to sex club now. Okay, so yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: into that. Like me someone else, that's what someone but
Speaker 1: but someone else that's that's like an old video. That's
Speaker 1: not like, well, if we're both single and we're both
Speaker 1: just having casually wanted many to be the who acting
Speaker 1: like I've never done this, I'm like, we have videos
Speaker 1: like I don't even know her. I will say, I
Speaker 1: enjoy um. I'm in an open relationship. I don't really
Speaker 1: do that anymore. Probably you couldn't handle it on my end,
Speaker 1: But for me, I did like to see the other
Speaker 1: person because it made me feel like I was included
Speaker 1: in it. It didn't feel as and maybe that's just
Speaker 1: me being a little possessive. It's just the way that
Speaker 1: I can handle on monogamy. But I do like knowing
Speaker 1: how it's going because it makes me feel like, oh,
Speaker 1: you're not leaving me out or I'm not forgotten about
Speaker 1: and I think it's kind of or you can't sit
Speaker 1: at home and wonder like I don't I wonder how
Speaker 1: it was or I wonder you know, like like there's
Speaker 1: no like mystery tits. Someone has to take a video
Speaker 1: for you. Like I'm reading this book right now called
Speaker 1: Three Women, and one of the women has sex with
Speaker 1: other men. Her husband will tell her like I want
Speaker 1: you to that guy. That guy. Her phone died during
Speaker 1: one of the sessions and the husband blew up on
Speaker 1: her like they almost like went separated. He was like,
Speaker 1: this is the first time you've disrespected me. Like if
Speaker 1: I'm not included in this, and granted it's a book,
Speaker 1: but I'm sure someone like I'm not. It's a wrap.
Speaker 1: In Jamaica, I had I was given a hall pass
Speaker 1: and I didn't use it. I was in Jamaica and
Speaker 1: there was a curfew, but I ended up just falling asleep.
Speaker 1: A bitch was drawn. I went on a boat all
Speaker 1: day and a bitch was drunk, looking like a lobster.
Speaker 1: I just fell asleep. But before falling asleep, I had
Speaker 1: let him know that, Hey, I met this guy. He's
Speaker 1: good looking. We might go get drinks later. He called
Speaker 1: me like three times while I was napping, and it
Speaker 1: just spiraled over to uh. He gave me a hall
Speaker 1: pass because we played with women. I like women, so
Speaker 1: because we had just played with so many women all
Speaker 1: the time and he had played with women, was like,
Speaker 1: you don't want other dick, are you sure? So when
Speaker 1: I traveled he would give me a hall pass. I
Speaker 1: never used it because I'm like Nick, I'm good. But
Speaker 1: the one time I was, I fell asleep. I didn't
Speaker 1: do nothing, but he thought I didn't answer the phone,
Speaker 1: so it was it was the guy at bartender. No,
Speaker 1: he wasn't a bartender. I thought he let the guy.
Speaker 1: It's like there's like a little thin line, like like
Speaker 1: you don't know where you can't You don't when I mean,
Speaker 1: but in monogamy you don't know which line you can
Speaker 1: and cannot cross. And so to me, it's just like
Speaker 1: you need to have full transparency, full openness, and communication
Speaker 1: just has to be tip to her and to be
Speaker 1: fair like even with what our relationship is or was
Speaker 1: definitely more customized, but we set boundaries along the way,
Speaker 1: Like there was a lot of things where I didn't
Speaker 1: know it would bother me. He didn't know it would
Speaker 1: bother him. And so you almost have to also allow
Speaker 1: yourself to be upset, but talk it through, don't hold
Speaker 1: it in, don't hold it against them, but talk it through. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and that's actually leading us into our decisions because we
Speaker 1: give it more fuck it. And I bring this up
Speaker 1: because both of you doubled back after a marriage, so
Speaker 1: both of you found got divorced, double back to your
Speaker 1: partner after even infidelity. Wait, wait, we got divorce, explained
Speaker 1: it to me and went back to the same person. Yes, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I'm engaged to my ex husband. Yes, that's
Speaker 1: really do right, Like, oh, there's not other niggas everybody
Speaker 1: else does right, And then she also got divorced and
Speaker 1: went back to him. In the gates, we're not together,
Speaker 1: they're not together as well. That's like really, I think
Speaker 1: that's almost more. That's more especial than like our normal relationship.
Speaker 1: It is it is, and we have kids, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. So it's like and we've been together
Speaker 1: we we started dating when I was sixteen, When we
Speaker 1: were sixteen, So like, how long were you separated a
Speaker 1: divorce forum. We divorced ship inve but I would say
Speaker 1: for like the previous I don't know, like three years
Speaker 1: since from two thousand nine and two thousand and twelve,
Speaker 1: we were pretty much separated. We brought the spark back.
Speaker 1: Have you not seen what he did? Like that will
Speaker 1: bring the spark back, bitch, that's why anyone, And I'm curious,
Speaker 1: you know what? Okay, so you have to watch the
Speaker 1: show and you know. So we went through. So he
Speaker 1: played in the NBA, We went, we got divorced. He
Speaker 1: pretty much lost all his money, so we were like
Speaker 1: dead broke to the point where like I couldn't even
Speaker 1: pay my my water bill, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: like stuff like that. So we after being divorced, um,
Speaker 1: we just kind of like came together and was like,
Speaker 1: we're gonna get through this together. So we're gonna support
Speaker 1: one another financially, we're gonna pull our resources, we're gonna
Speaker 1: help each other like you know, um excel in our
Speaker 1: careers and all that type of stuff. So we were
Speaker 1: living together. We weren't together, you know, but we were
Speaker 1: living together, um, and we just like we got we
Speaker 1: we pulled ourselves up, you know what I'm saying. We
Speaker 1: got back life back on track. Yeah, So it was
Speaker 1: like going through that with someone really makes you like
Speaker 1: that much tighter when they say they just live with
Speaker 1: the y'all and y'all was still having were y'all dating
Speaker 1: other people while y'all were living we were, Um, I
Speaker 1: really wasn't because, like I had the kids. So he's
Speaker 1: like one of them, like crazy niggas, right, that's like,
Speaker 1: but we love him though, Yeah, he's crazy. He's going
Speaker 1: to be like, you know, looking, you know, trying to
Speaker 1: figure out what I'm doing. Like, so I just was like,
Speaker 1: I'm not even trying to play these games with him, Like, dude,
Speaker 1: I don't care what you're doing. You do what you want,
Speaker 1: but I'm just gonna focus on me, my kids and
Speaker 1: and make I understand. Now we've done that Google search.
Speaker 1: We got the Google damn the cover. Yeah. So yeah,
Speaker 1: so like you got back with him after that? Okay,
Speaker 1: I got back with the broke dude, Yes, I do have.
Speaker 1: Before we get in, um to our horrible decision, just
Speaker 1: like basic reality TV show questions, I feel like people
Speaker 1: really want to know real housewife to me? You know
Speaker 1: how they just growing up, you know how they start
Speaker 1: to expose people all this time they're really broke and
Speaker 1: everybody's always calling other one broken. They don't have this.
Speaker 1: And I watched this clip about people saying, oh, her
Speaker 1: house this and the driveway, and I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: but the house is being done, like people with money
Speaker 1: do that too. Do you ever feel like you have
Speaker 1: to almost be um extra makeup, always done to be
Speaker 1: this well to do person because of TV or even
Speaker 1: the franchise itself. I think everyone does accept me and
Speaker 1: Robin literally like, I mean, I don't have the energy
Speaker 1: for that, and I'm not going I made the decision.
Speaker 1: I'm sure Robin did too. I'm not going broke for
Speaker 1: this show. Like I'm not going to get in debt
Speaker 1: to try to make y'all think i'm something that I'm not.
Speaker 1: And I mind you, I was always good, but um,
Speaker 1: I think that there's other people that get on the
Speaker 1: show and they have there's something that they have to prove,
Speaker 1: so they do go in debt, right, and they do
Speaker 1: do a lot of extra ship in order to prove
Speaker 1: something to people that they don't even know. I know,
Speaker 1: like they do music videos and ship, but they're very
Speaker 1: no budget. But that's when I when I was watching
Speaker 1: it as a teenager, I feel like it's been out
Speaker 1: that long. Yeah, I remember thinking, these are the richest
Speaker 1: people on TV. Then it changed a little bit to
Speaker 1: where they started to feel more normal to me. But
Speaker 1: I think it came from the Beverly Hills and you're
Speaker 1: watching I remember Camille, I think her right, and they
Speaker 1: would put the price tag no, not Kelsey Grammars alive,
Speaker 1: but it was someone someone yeah yeah, yeah, and they
Speaker 1: weren't really living that life. But I remember they were
Speaker 1: talking about the money and the birthday party. But that
Speaker 1: ship is a lot of pressure to somebody. And so
Speaker 1: I remember when I would watch Atlanta, I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: this is dope because they kind of feel like somebody
Speaker 1: I know where like the rich one. Now that I
Speaker 1: watched Beverly Hills and some of these other franchises, Atlanta's,
Speaker 1: but that's also money too, Like if you're a hundred
Speaker 1: millionaire over, you probably are going to be living in
Speaker 1: Beverly Hills. But I feel like all of us cross
Speaker 1: the board are aspirational. I feel like people do look
Speaker 1: at the show and they're they aspire too, regardless of
Speaker 1: what we have that right, Can I ask is that
Speaker 1: the pressure I know that you started to make up
Speaker 1: line you have embellished. We see three week and one
Speaker 1: week candles going on right now, We like, does that
Speaker 1: come from being on that show? The pressure to be
Speaker 1: an entrepreneur, because that's what we've seen a lot from you.
Speaker 1: This this season is like growing, moving into a warehouse
Speaker 1: and really seeing like, oh, this is a lot of work.
Speaker 1: Is there pressure to be business women? No? I wouldn't
Speaker 1: say pressure, but it but it is. You know, let
Speaker 1: me take advantage of this opportunity while I have it,
Speaker 1: while I have a million people watching me every week,
Speaker 1: so why not? But but honestly, for me, I've always
Speaker 1: had an entrepreneurial spirit, so I would have I would
Speaker 1: have had a business regardless. Now would it be doing
Speaker 1: as well? Probably not what I have to work a
Speaker 1: lot harder to get to get exposure for it. Yes,
Speaker 1: but when you have a platform like this, yeah, it's
Speaker 1: great to use it. So but as far as like
Speaker 1: the like pressure to kind of be someone you're not
Speaker 1: Like when I joined this show, I told him out
Speaker 1: the jump, look I'm broke, so she did that was
Speaker 1: that was a real conversation, Robert, what are you doing here?
Speaker 1: Like talking? You know, I'm talking to the casting director
Speaker 1: and the and the vice president of programming all this.
Speaker 1: I said, I'm I said, look, I'm not living that life.
Speaker 1: I'm broke. But they found something interesting in my story.
Speaker 1: They found it relatable, they found it, um you know,
Speaker 1: they's something very human, like yeah, yeah, you know, they
Speaker 1: found they knew that the viewers were going to be
Speaker 1: able to connect. There would be a lot of viewers
Speaker 1: that could connect to that, and so a lot of
Speaker 1: the Housewive shows there, I feel like they're either the
Speaker 1: people on it are either aspirational like you know, Lisa
Speaker 1: vander Pump and Kyle Richards, or they're relatable because they
Speaker 1: have some sort of interesting story going on, like Kyle's sister.
Speaker 1: I loved when I used to watch it, Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: and I'd be like, oh her, she got a normal house.
Speaker 1: I love her still in other people's husband. They stopped
Speaker 1: stopping watches My girl, my favorite one, and I'm so
Speaker 1: mad she's not on Atlanta no more. But she's getting
Speaker 1: That's how much that is. I don't even watch and
Speaker 1: I was like, she's getting real happy though. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: you know, I would say, just made me think of
Speaker 1: it when you said a million people watching. I heard
Speaker 1: through a friend about their contract on Bravo that said
Speaker 1: if you start a business, and she got it taken
Speaker 1: out with their lawyer, but if you start a business,
Speaker 1: like we get X amount of percentage. And I was like,
Speaker 1: that's how big that brand is. They're like, oh, bich,
Speaker 1: we know you're gonna do well, so we're gonna take something. Well.
Speaker 1: They you know why they did that because Bethany Frankel
Speaker 1: started her Skinny Girl line and and that was that
Speaker 1: business was purchased for a hundred million dollars. So that's
Speaker 1: why they started that. So, yes, that is in our contracts.
Speaker 1: But there's like a it's it's not like out the gate.
Speaker 1: It's not like, oh give me you know percentage of
Speaker 1: your how much it's over a certain amount of million. Yeah.
Speaker 1: But like, I'm not mad at Bravo because they basically
Speaker 1: I don't say they got burned, but they were instrumental
Speaker 1: in that hundred million dollars. So I need to stop
Speaker 1: saying how successful. Yea, I know what I'm saying. Well,
Speaker 1: not on the show. People want to watch the show,
Speaker 1: like you can't tell me now, I brought viewers. I'm
Speaker 1: building this franchise for New York, and now I gotta
Speaker 1: give you my money because I probably and I'm not
Speaker 1: gonna type up. I don't know how people feel about
Speaker 1: ny anymore, but she was the biggest on Atlanta from
Speaker 1: what I know, right, So I'm making everybody watching now
Speaker 1: you need to cut my money. You still need to think.
Speaker 1: But I think Brabo looks at it. If it's not you,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be somebody else. You know what I'm saying. Yeah,
Speaker 1: everyone on TV. Every every year, I'm like, y'all want
Speaker 1: me back because I mean, I don't know. I'll never
Speaker 1: take it for the next Andy. Every every few year,
Speaker 1: you're not going no where. But still it's like I'll
Speaker 1: never take it for granted that I might not be rehired.
Speaker 1: I never take that that the show will be renewed.
Speaker 1: I want to ask because both of you and with
Speaker 1: being on Housewives, you share a lot of your personal life.
Speaker 1: So I want to ask you to with your double
Speaker 1: back uh to Jamal, do you feel as though um
Speaker 1: that being on the show also fizzled out The relationship, Like,
Speaker 1: did you feel like it was harder the second time
Speaker 1: around because it was also on this type of visible platform.
Speaker 1: Um no, only because I know him so well, he
Speaker 1: knows me so well. So like we showed like a
Speaker 1: millisecond of our relationship as opposed to the relationship and
Speaker 1: really what it was. So and and he and I
Speaker 1: are very much used to commentary in our relationship. Okay,
Speaker 1: So I mean wasn't more eyes on it? Absolutely? But
Speaker 1: was it like, oh I don't want to be with
Speaker 1: you because everybody you know has commentary? Absolutely not do you? Honestly?
Speaker 1: I mean I started to cut you off, you know
Speaker 1: years ago when Jamal was doing you know, it was
Speaker 1: all in the news when they were married. It's I
Speaker 1: don't want to say it's like payback for him, but
Speaker 1: it's like because she was on the other foot, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like she's the famous one and
Speaker 1: now all you know, everyone was all up in the
Speaker 1: business because of her, not because you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: both of y'all went back. I want to know both
Speaker 1: of y'all believe that wants a cheat or always a
Speaker 1: cheater because we did see that he ended up um No,
Speaker 1: that was probably that was prior to that. Yes, Um,
Speaker 1: I don't believe that. You don't believe. I believe that
Speaker 1: cheating is a choice. I believe that. Um. However, men,
Speaker 1: men and women do live lifestyles, right, so I think
Speaker 1: that at some point, um, either a man is going
Speaker 1: to continue to cheat or he's going to make a
Speaker 1: choice to not, and it goes it's vice versa women too. Yeah.
Speaker 1: But but I also believe that men as they get
Speaker 1: older than the cheating is not as really yeah, not
Speaker 1: because they still do it. Not they still do it,
Speaker 1: but I feel like when they're younger, it's I don't
Speaker 1: I feel like there comes like a little time in
Speaker 1: their life we need we need thirty ship I Okay,
Speaker 1: My perspective is a little different because I was with
Speaker 1: an athlete, so really not to their career is over,
Speaker 1: can you feel like okay, and even then even then
Speaker 1: you still have that, you know, of course, the possibility
Speaker 1: of opportunity, But it definitely changes a lot when their
Speaker 1: career is over. And then I just think as they
Speaker 1: get older and older, they just mature a little bit,
Speaker 1: you know what. So I'm gonna say, I'm gonna go
Speaker 1: within an athlete over a pastor only because you could
Speaker 1: be a pastor forever, which means like you're always going
Speaker 1: to be seeing people on a weekly You're never gonna
Speaker 1: be to where you could just chill and be away
Speaker 1: from Maybe one day God will just be like you
Speaker 1: gotta stop and be like your might convene. Don't stop
Speaker 1: thank God telling these men to stop cheating, or God
Speaker 1: or God might say you need to keep blessing people.
Speaker 1: You need to spread the water, not the scene. And
Speaker 1: you know Steve Harvey always says a man not you
Speaker 1: quote Steve hard Man, this is one, just one, just one,
Speaker 1: he says, a man actually does not. Steve Harvey is
Speaker 1: my mother. Okay, we'll take Yes, we'll take your ball man.
Speaker 1: We'll do what you allow him to do. Yes, that's true,
Speaker 1: you know it's it's it goes both ways. And southing
Speaker 1: was cheating or is cheating now? Is that a deal
Speaker 1: breaker for you or is that something that you could
Speaker 1: look over? Who am I with? Is this with him?
Speaker 1: I'm at a I'm at a very weird space, right,
Speaker 1: meaning I don't give a ship like so, I'm at
Speaker 1: a space where we're gonna have sex and then I'm
Speaker 1: leaving and I don't like, you know, he's gonna call
Speaker 1: and he's gonna try to like see me all the
Speaker 1: time and like form a relationship and I I'm not there,
Speaker 1: Like I'm not asking you what you're doing. I don't
Speaker 1: care what you're doing. So if I can't wait to
Speaker 1: be your age, if I if I get back, really
Speaker 1: sound like you don't care, like what men you will say,
Speaker 1: I don't get the funk were he doing? But they
Speaker 1: get that's me. I believe you when you say I
Speaker 1: just need my nothing and then you could go and
Speaker 1: never no, no, no, I only go to their house
Speaker 1: so I can leave because if they come to you,
Speaker 1: they linger in. They don't linger. So I mean, if
Speaker 1: if I ever get back into a relationship like that,
Speaker 1: that's very committed. Um, it's cheating, a deal breaker. I
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know. And that's the first time
Speaker 1: I've ever said that, Like, I don't know because they'll
Speaker 1: probably be me cheating. Oh ship, probably what about you?
Speaker 1: You know what I feel this, I feel the same
Speaker 1: as you like And I think it's because once you
Speaker 1: guys go through enough, you just you don't have that much.
Speaker 1: You just have zero funx left to give you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It's like, but I probably would. I
Speaker 1: think honestly, it would be easier for me to be
Speaker 1: like bye, yeah, you know what I mean. Where in
Speaker 1: the past it's like you all broken up and you're like,
Speaker 1: but I love you, so you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: And then now I would be like picking up when
Speaker 1: I'm over that hump because you like this, I'd be
Speaker 1: crack when I'm done. New dick really keeps the tears
Speaker 1: from Once I get sucked by somebody else, I'm like,
Speaker 1: oh it's that bad. Yeah, but it's always But when
Speaker 1: you get older, you really feel like, you know, you
Speaker 1: don't have time for the drama. So if it's not
Speaker 1: working for you in every way, you're out, like you
Speaker 1: there's no need to continue with this nonsense. So the
Speaker 1: dick has to be good. How do you mean people
Speaker 1: now that? Okay? One, um, I feel bad to say this,
Speaker 1: but I don't know if you're famous before, but I
Speaker 1: know we were. She was the first lady bench. She
Speaker 1: wasn't meet niggas in the church about me, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like, I don't know video on were
Speaker 1: you really? Oh? Oh damn video videos? Wife? Let me
Speaker 1: find out whe I'm found your world start hip so
Speaker 1: happy one, it's not here right now. No, he actually
Speaker 1: encouraged me to do the video. Yeah yeah, yeah, he
Speaker 1: made me do the video. So like you're famous, you're
Speaker 1: on TV, you hit your divorce and you have kids,
Speaker 1: Like you can't just jump on an app like, oh no,
Speaker 1: I don't do that. So how do you meet people? Um? Friends, friends,
Speaker 1: have friends and then but you don't feel like that,
Speaker 1: like you don't know, like it's a small town. What
Speaker 1: you mean girls still the d m V. They got Maryland,
Speaker 1: but you'll me knowing them? Have you seen ready to
Speaker 1: made nobody in d C? Yes, it's all right now,
Speaker 1: you know it's crazy. I always feel like, but here
Speaker 1: you have all the rich professional black men too, like
Speaker 1: I would I would move here. I think they here.
Speaker 1: I ain't all do it. Don't don't go look look
Speaker 1: she said the young But then okay, so all the
Speaker 1: dudes that you are dealing with right now, they're never leaving.
Speaker 1: I know, so they always come back even when we're like,
Speaker 1: just said that, we just said so, I don't know
Speaker 1: they was gonna be here twenty years from now. My
Speaker 1: father told me, Um, I brought the person I've been dating.
Speaker 1: We've been Dane for three years, and I called him
Speaker 1: an old bad Mandy does. He's forty three, but uh,
Speaker 1: my dad said to me, my dad likes him. My
Speaker 1: dad is a really thick Israeli accident. He goes, you know,
Speaker 1: if you get busy, you're making money, like this is
Speaker 1: your time. If you go, they come back. Yeah, was like,
Speaker 1: And I don't know what made him say that to me,
Speaker 1: And he kept trying to basically explained to me, like
Speaker 1: if you need to stop dating to work, Like He's like,
Speaker 1: don't let this mess up the work. And I think
Speaker 1: maybe he saw me on a call. I mean, I
Speaker 1: have a lot of jobs, you know, he maybe saw
Speaker 1: me on a call doing something and like attending to him.
Speaker 1: And my dad was probably like, oh no, you know,
Speaker 1: and it's very true. Like I don't know what it
Speaker 1: is about the double back for men, but I think
Speaker 1: men place way more value. It's probably because we don't
Speaker 1: hurt them as bad as well. It's also if you
Speaker 1: think about it, men always come back and they know
Speaker 1: we take them back. Unfortunately that's the problem. Like I
Speaker 1: just feel like they feel I feel like, especially when
Speaker 1: it's good, they'd be like, she ain't going nowhere. But
Speaker 1: men know a good thing when they have it and
Speaker 1: when they lose it. They especially know when they lose it,
Speaker 1: and then they with some real super crazy bitch that
Speaker 1: ain't worth nothing. That's you know what I'm saying, Like
Speaker 1: they know so they so if you're worth something to them,
Speaker 1: like if they really appreciated your relationship and the time
Speaker 1: y'all spent together, they will never if you were good
Speaker 1: and bad, they ain't going nowhere, but they know when
Speaker 1: we're gonna get, you know, we're gonna get. There's a
Speaker 1: dude in my life. The guy went out with in
Speaker 1: l A. And I've been like trying not to sun
Speaker 1: him because I just don't want to get his started.
Speaker 1: And he said to me the other day he took
Speaker 1: me to dinner and he was like, he was like,
Speaker 1: don't we I'm gonna try to come up. I was like,
Speaker 1: I ain't worried, and he was like, let me tell
Speaker 1: you something. When you suck me, finally you're gonna be
Speaker 1: buttering my bread. And that time we go bluttering, its
Speaker 1: like but those little ones that then you do it,
Speaker 1: you battering because we always got to dinner. But he
Speaker 1: was like you're gonna be You're like, what is that?
Speaker 1: I know that did guy? When he said that, I
Speaker 1: was like, I know it's big, but that's gonna be
Speaker 1: the one like that you had that was that you
Speaker 1: stopped me the hell and we do your podcast when
Speaker 1: we do all showing like two three, Yes, Okay, it's
Speaker 1: about to get cold outside. Listen. I have a word.
Speaker 1: I don't want to know what people want to know.
Speaker 1: When it's the tour over, that's when the relationship is HL.
Speaker 1: You come to Atlanta December seventeen. We will also be
Speaker 1: in l A December three, Riving and Giselle. Thank you
Speaker 1: so very much. I am so glad. The Days of
Speaker 1: the Week is your show? It Oh, but don't make
Speaker 1: his money, but don't make your Sunday your podcast? Which
Speaker 1: more you promoting in? Okay? We the way? Was it good?
Speaker 1: I mean, y'all can say now that it's over. Did
Speaker 1: y'all enjoy Nicki Minaj hosting the third reunion? Yeah, she
Speaker 1: did a good job. She did a great job. She
Speaker 1: was there all day like we didn't know, so she
Speaker 1: got there like noon. We did our normal reunion. She
Speaker 1: didn't appear to us until what about Yeah, probably yeah,
Speaker 1: that night. From what I understand, she was nervous. She
Speaker 1: sounded nervous when she first came out. When she first started,
Speaker 1: I could feel that she was nervous. And after it
Speaker 1: was over, I was like, Nicky, you did great, and
Speaker 1: she was like, Giselle, I was nervous. Y'all stop ting
Speaker 1: to me out? I was ebuts me, Like, but can
Speaker 1: you imagine the reaction when she asking if people weren't happy,
Speaker 1: like as far as like you know, woke times today,
Speaker 1: Like I would be nervous too. Yeah, I'm not. You know,
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't think she's worried about that
Speaker 1: type of stuff. I would. You're a fan of the show,
Speaker 1: Like I was a little nervous now you know got out.
Speaker 1: I'm cool now, No, she's cool. So so what I
Speaker 1: appreciate about her, and hopefully it comes across when you
Speaker 1: when we when we watch her, um, it really felt
Speaker 1: like she really knows the show, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: It wasn't like she's just there because she's Nicki Mina,
Speaker 1: just like, No, she's Nicki Mina and she's been watching
Speaker 1: since day one. More people do that, like people that
Speaker 1: we know and like why don't Nick they have me
Speaker 1: do Nint today? Fiance, you know what I'm saying. I
Speaker 1: know you've been trying to get what's your favorite reality show? No, brother, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm a little on. I like to watch Ragget TV.
Speaker 1: So I love love and hip hop. Oh Jesus, I
Speaker 1: do Likearet. No, well, I had to after she left,
Speaker 1: you know, Atlanta, I was done with her. But I
Speaker 1: did love a Stevie j Her, Joscelyn Hernandez moments. Those
Speaker 1: were moments like we'll never forget them. Um, what a time.
Speaker 1: I love. I love the creep squad, the New York Um, alright,
Speaker 1: New York and wife. Yeah, I like a little wretch.
Speaker 1: If I had to guess, I'll show you by looking
Speaker 1: at you, I would guests rich divorce basketball wife, who'd
Speaker 1: be shading everybody at the dinner dust. If I was
Speaker 1: walking on the street and someone was like, they're on TV,
Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh, saying basketball wife. It's like Shanny,
Speaker 1: just like rich and pretty like we. Shanny's would have
Speaker 1: passed her now. Ironically, by the way I saw her
Speaker 1: when I was on vacation in the Bahamas and I
Speaker 1: was trying not to stare, but I was like, Wow,
Speaker 1: you're just really on here with your friends, spending all
Speaker 1: that giving, not giving about still looking good. I love it.
Speaker 1: That's nice. She could go from shack you all his
Speaker 1: money and then live her life good. When can we
Speaker 1: listen to Reasonably Shady? I know y'all are like one
Speaker 1: year in, so congrat not even even I'm not even yes,
Speaker 1: oh yes we do from the podcasters. Now, oh we
Speaker 1: love it. It's a lot of work. Yeah, it's work,
Speaker 1: but we love it. It's worth yes, but we love
Speaker 1: it because we are connecting with the viewers, the listeners
Speaker 1: and the viewers of the show, like, like I said,
Speaker 1: on a deeper level. So I love that. So we
Speaker 1: dropped on Monday every Monday. So after you listen to
Speaker 1: this show Horrible Decisions, make sure you'all tune into Reasonably Shady.
Speaker 1: That is a black effect. I heart radio podcast. Uh
Speaker 1: just so Robin, thank y'all, thank you for not being
Speaker 1: some most because yeah altic bye guys. This has been
Speaker 1: yet another episode of horrible Decisions. That's what it was.
Speaker 1: I mean, a lot of kettles and pots. However, I
Speaker 1: mean my take on it was, of course, just the
Speaker 1: accountability part at the end of the day. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: guess we could sit here and sit on the fact
Speaker 1: that we've all fell for niggas that wasn't shipped. But
Speaker 1: to me, at some point you have to be able
Speaker 1: to see who the person is when when they show
Speaker 1: you them. And first off, you were never the only
Speaker 1: one or the main one, me, me, the baby, mom
Speaker 1: and other women were also in the picture. Um. And
Speaker 1: then outside of that, he left you while you were pregnant,
Speaker 1: that's fair. Did you ever think that man could degrade
Speaker 1: you on Instagram live and put your baby on there
Speaker 1: and keep you you while you were pregnant? And according
Speaker 1: to the family you also did you was already pregnant baby. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but you also didn't even show up for the baby shower.
Speaker 1: You didn't show up for me or the baby before
Speaker 1: the baby was here baby. So I just feel like,
Speaker 1: no to me, Like, that's the thing. We all date
Speaker 1: men with the lens of the idea of them or
Speaker 1: the potential of them, without really just acknowledging who the
Speaker 1: funk they are right in front of our eyes. But
Speaker 1: what is she supposed to like? And here's the other
Speaker 1: thing I understand. He left her when she was pregnant.
Speaker 1: He didn't show up to the baby shower. Okay, she
Speaker 1: has the baby. He's like, y'all move in with me.
Speaker 1: It's your first kid. I'm gonna help you out. Who's
Speaker 1: gonna say no to that? Your emotions are crazy. I've
Speaker 1: never had a baby. You've never had a baby. We've
Speaker 1: only had friends with babies. Right, they're all fucked up
Speaker 1: with hormones. And you're telling me I'm gonna say no
Speaker 1: to the father of my child in writing me in
Speaker 1: his home and possibly making it work. And granted she
Speaker 1: probably is in love with him, Like, no, dude, you're
Speaker 1: gonna recant the happy memories. What are you gonna do
Speaker 1: start fucking with another nigga? No, you want to feel
Speaker 1: that community and that fatherhood and that feeling is crazy,
Speaker 1: because girl, the first baby mama that you've been back
Speaker 1: and forth ft she prayed it right now again, So
Speaker 1: you don't moved in with this figure and he's expecting
Speaker 1: another child with the woman that but she's supposed to do.
Speaker 1: She's supposed to be a grown ass woman. She wasn't
Speaker 1: supposed to sell her home in l A to move
Speaker 1: half across the country where she knows nobody, has no friends.
Speaker 1: She said that that's why I took her so long
Speaker 1: to even leave the house. Like to me, no, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: it's a grown ass woman. This is being hasn't showed
Speaker 1: up for you. So for you to put all of
Speaker 1: all of your hope into this man who hasn't been
Speaker 1: able to show up for you since at some point,
Speaker 1: you gotta you gotta fault yourself. I think that you
Speaker 1: can't say that when someone's just had a baby. I
Speaker 1: think you could say that for someone to like it's
Speaker 1: just with and they've been in love, Like we've said this,
Speaker 1: and this is a problem with Danny. She probably thought
Speaker 1: that baby was gonna get them back together. A lot
Speaker 1: of people keep a baby, have a baby and hope
Speaker 1: that it makes a bond stronger or but or a
Speaker 1: man can show up differently. We didn't see how the
Speaker 1: same way of a girl that just had her first child.
Speaker 1: She's young, the same. It's the same way, and I'm
Speaker 1: gonna say it, it's the same shing I said about
Speaker 1: Summer Walker and her he has album. Yeah, you sat
Speaker 1: here and argued with all the other baby mama's thinking
Speaker 1: that you was gonna be different. Danny thought because she
Speaker 1: was a yellow bone she was gonna be treated different
Speaker 1: than he did. But and and trust me. And I
Speaker 1: saw this tweet from Crystal that I really liked. It
Speaker 1: was like, y'all really got me sticking up for this.
Speaker 1: He want me because I'm yellow bitch, because that's how
Speaker 1: trash the baby is. But you're saying that we know this,
Speaker 1: he ain't gonna stay blah blah blah. Mandy, she she
Speaker 1: was twenty four, like I think she's twenty five now
Speaker 1: or six? Like do you really like, can you really
Speaker 1: say that? But that's what I'm saying, Like, can we
Speaker 1: and by we, I mean people that say you should
Speaker 1: know better? Can we really say that if you've already
Speaker 1: been through a shitty situation with a nigga, Like the
Speaker 1: girl is young, I just don't And I really feel
Speaker 1: like he exploited her. I feel like what he did
Speaker 1: was fucked up. I just don't like using that young
Speaker 1: excuse for someone who's twenty six, because we still have
Speaker 1: niggas in their thirties and forties who's still learn Like
Speaker 1: to me, no, there's a lot more resources now. There's
Speaker 1: a lot of people telling you what to do, what
Speaker 1: not to do. There's you've sat here and been dragged
Speaker 1: by the Internet. You've seen how bad this man has
Speaker 1: treated you over the years. It's been in your face.
Speaker 1: And she literally said she was like, I feel so
Speaker 1: bad that I didn't listen to the internet, the fact
Speaker 1: that you have to be like, damn Internet, you was right.
Speaker 1: Everyone was telling you. You chose to ignore all the
Speaker 1: red flags. We just spoke about how everybody was posting
Speaker 1: the red flags. Bit them. Ships was flaming hot. They
Speaker 1: wasn't even off off white. They wasn't even hot pink.
Speaker 1: They was read the whole time. Like so to me, No,
Speaker 1: at you're eighteen year an adult, you're twenty, you're twenty one,
Speaker 1: you're twenty two, you're twenty five or twenty six, you're
Speaker 1: thirty or thirty one. I'm not gonna just call someone
Speaker 1: in their twenties, late twenties, mid twenties young. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: it's not like she's in high school. I