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Speaker 1: welcome to yet another episode of Horrible Decisions, and I

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Speaker 1: am so glad one dickon here. Okay, who is day y'all?

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Speaker 1: Puerto Rican? No, he has American. His name is Juan

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Speaker 1: and back, dude, listen if y'all do not know where

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Speaker 1: that is from. We are gladly joined today by two

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Speaker 1: of my favorite non favorite, then favorite again. The not

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Speaker 1: favorite depends on the season. If you went in, you

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Speaker 1: probably don't like, y'all. Yeah, we are joined by Robin

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Speaker 1: Dixon and Giselle Bryan, not only the reasonab really shady

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Speaker 1: pot but also the real hospis of polimic potomy Parliament.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, we don't care what you Okay. By

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Speaker 1: the way, my name is Wheezy. Our show is Horrible Decisions.

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Speaker 1: We have a show dese stigmatizing kings for black people

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Speaker 1: in the community. Now we really talk about nasty ship.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna be respectful today, are we? No? We not

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Speaker 1: do what y'all do? We need to be nice? Y'all

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Speaker 1: got kids? Do what you do? Yeah? We do? You

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Speaker 1: want to say? Oh? Wait, the people in the comments

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Speaker 1: just a preference. No, no no, no, I don't know. I'll

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Speaker 1: tell you what I have heard. So they really just

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Speaker 1: said hopefully they talk. Oh no, talk about we do this.

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Speaker 1: We never mind get nasty with it. We know how

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Speaker 1: death don't mean nothing. Just because you got kids don't

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Speaker 1: mean you realize you had a cream pie. You know

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I got I got a nosy man.

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Speaker 1: So we'll see what I can do. Well, someone's gonna

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Speaker 1: little bit with our guests, especially after last night when

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Speaker 1: people were like, bitch, we gotta give you the t However,

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Speaker 1: my left because of an email I got from Mandy

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Speaker 1: attaching their producer, my assistant and black effect. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: it says, did I do thinks we're only going to

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Speaker 1: show Robin doesn't show up on time? Can we give

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Speaker 1: little late. You made it just on time, but according

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Speaker 1: mean I need five more minutes. I'm like, shame Andy

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Speaker 1: here stopped up like you know. Okay, wait, so we

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Speaker 1: know you from real households and we isn't like people.

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Speaker 1: But you have a podcast reasonably shady and your sisters

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Speaker 1: on the black. But that tell us about reasonably shady. Well,

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Speaker 1: Robin is very reasonable. I am very shady. Um. You

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Speaker 1: housewive show. It's all about the drama and what's going on,

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Speaker 1: I'm human. Yes, yes, but also just like it's a journey,

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Speaker 1: like there's people who have been listening to horrible decisions.

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Speaker 1: We've been at this for about five years now. People

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Speaker 1: be like, what do you mean cooking? You love him?

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Speaker 1: they're airing, there's fecal matter. Ain't wash, I don't. I don't. Well,

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Speaker 1: if how many rounds do you like? A good? Okay?

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Speaker 1: In my younger days, Um, it didn't matter, it didn't matter.

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Speaker 1: So when does that stop? When you have children? No,

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Speaker 1: be a wife swap. Which housewife would you up? Husbands with?

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Speaker 1: None of them jokers waiting the whole franchise at me? Okay,

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Speaker 1: my other dudes, No, this is your really that was

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Speaker 1: like convenience in like selfish reasons. Like Chris Bassett, he cooks. Oh,

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Speaker 1: Chris Bassett cooks, and and there's something about a man

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Speaker 1: What's Beverly Hills, Mauricio He's getting it morning? No, that's

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Speaker 1: but if you have girls, you have to worry about

421
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Speaker 1: everybody's Penisay right, So okay, that side note. So when

422
00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:20,440
Speaker 1: my kids were very young, I had a book. I

423
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:22,480
Speaker 1: had a bunch of books because I'm a reader, so

424
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:23,680
Speaker 1: I had a bunch of books like on the shelf

425
00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:27,200
Speaker 1: and there was a book The Anatomy of Sex or something. Okay,

426
00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:28,520
Speaker 1: So they were like it came to me. They were

427
00:24:28,560 --> 00:24:32,399
Speaker 1: like very young, like fourth grade, third grade, and they

428
00:24:32,440 --> 00:24:34,600
Speaker 1: were like, Mommy, what a sex? What a sex was?

429
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:37,119
Speaker 1: Sc X was was that? Mom? So I was like

430
00:24:37,240 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 1: I ignored it for like a week. So then finally

431
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:40,800
Speaker 1: I was like, y'all want to know what sex is?

432
00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:43,960
Speaker 1: And I was like yes, So they sat him down.

433
00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:46,760
Speaker 1: I was like, what do you have in between your legs?

434
00:24:46,800 --> 00:24:48,600
Speaker 1: And it was like, oh, we have a vagina. And

435
00:24:48,760 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 1: I was like, and boys have a and it was

436
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:52,639
Speaker 1: like penis. I was like, the penis goes into the

437
00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:59,159
Speaker 1: vagina and they were like, I mean, they acted like

438
00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:01,440
Speaker 1: it was a horror story. They ran out the room.

439
00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:04,920
Speaker 1: They were so upset. They were like how and why?

440
00:25:05,040 --> 00:25:08,280
Speaker 1: That's disgusting. They were in fourth grade, yes, but but

441
00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:10,359
Speaker 1: it was I think the best thing because it was

442
00:25:10,440 --> 00:25:13,359
Speaker 1: like I ripped the band aid off. They were very

443
00:25:13,440 --> 00:25:16,119
Speaker 1: clear and as they got maybe a year later, I

444
00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:19,359
Speaker 1: was like, look, guys, I don't ever want you guys

445
00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:23,159
Speaker 1: to have questions about sex. And you don't ask me

446
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 1: or I don't tell you in advance, don't go to

447
00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:26,840
Speaker 1: your friends. They don't know what they're talking about. The

448
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:29,800
Speaker 1: part I was like, you come to me because I'm

449
00:25:29,800 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 1: going to tell you. And there's nothing that you'all gonna do.

450
00:25:32,480 --> 00:25:36,600
Speaker 1: I haven't done, so like, there's no, no, that's right,

451
00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:42,720
Speaker 1: that's right. So we have very open conversations. And you know,

452
00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 1: my oldest is seventeen. I don't you know. She says

453
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:47,840
Speaker 1: she hasn't done anything, but I don't want to be

454
00:25:48,920 --> 00:25:52,080
Speaker 1: a stupid parent. You know, if you have okay, let's

455
00:25:52,119 --> 00:25:54,680
Speaker 1: just make sure you're protected. So I feel like I

456
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 1: have to always be like proactive and get in front

457
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:00,240
Speaker 1: of it. I don't think that conversation you had as easy.

458
00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:01,719
Speaker 1: I think as long as it comes from you, that's

459
00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:04,159
Speaker 1: all that matters. Everybody's don't have their own. My mom

460
00:26:04,320 --> 00:26:07,120
Speaker 1: called it my private like. There were different ways explained

461
00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:08,880
Speaker 1: it differently. At first she was talking about it being

462
00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:11,720
Speaker 1: close together, like she didn't say in but you know,

463
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:13,159
Speaker 1: it was her way of explaining it to me. And

464
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:16,280
Speaker 1: then more questions happened gradually. But as far as you

465
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:18,600
Speaker 1: know you're seventeen year old, I always assume that, like

466
00:26:19,000 --> 00:26:21,680
Speaker 1: anybody over fifteen has had sex, and that's not the case,

467
00:26:22,359 --> 00:26:25,080
Speaker 1: you know, And I think that especially if you're open.

468
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:27,320
Speaker 1: Like with my mom, I was able to tell her

469
00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:29,359
Speaker 1: when it happened, and I was so happy that I

470
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:31,200
Speaker 1: did because a lot of my friends did it. You

471
00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 1: know what I mean, I gotta I got a free

472
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:35,240
Speaker 1: year called the pandemic, and they didn't go outside. I

473
00:26:36,600 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 1: have an extra year, an extra year building, so well,

474
00:26:42,440 --> 00:26:44,960
Speaker 1: they just went to like a homecoming dance. I'm gonna

475
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 1: show you have a picture the dudes later, but like,

476
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:51,880
Speaker 1: these dudes are like looking like men. Yeah, I could

477
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:53,440
Speaker 1: never be a high school teo. I lived by a

478
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:55,320
Speaker 1: basketball court in the Larry Side, and I'll tell you

479
00:26:55,440 --> 00:26:59,000
Speaker 1: right now, I'd be like these they like, I don't

480
00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:05,879
Speaker 1: know where now, you don't know what that's what they

481
00:27:06,160 --> 00:27:08,920
Speaker 1: But they're also like had it up there? Yes, And

482
00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:13,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, oh that's what we're doing. Whoa. Yeah,

483
00:27:13,160 --> 00:27:16,960
Speaker 1: they did not look like that. They didn't actually say that.

484
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 1: They did not look like like I just said, pretty

485
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,080
Speaker 1: did No, Seriously, it's crazy. Bro. There was a basketball player.

486
00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:25,480
Speaker 1: I went out, it's a little sister and I was like,

487
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:27,720
Speaker 1: oh dude. He said I'm twenty and I said twenty

488
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:30,879
Speaker 1: what that motherfucker looks so good? And I had it.

489
00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 1: I felt, Okay, you can look at something that's legal.

490
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:41,560
Speaker 1: I'm thirty. Oh yeah you can. You can screw it? Absolutely? Yeah? Absolutely?

491
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:43,439
Speaker 1: Are you You can at least look at it? No, Bro,

492
00:27:43,720 --> 00:27:47,120
Speaker 1: that's crazy. Why is that crazy? He probably is at

493
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:54,760
Speaker 1: his best? Bet would you that don't sound that bad?

494
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:56,560
Speaker 1: I feel like it doesn't, but I think it's the

495
00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:59,960
Speaker 1: twenty I know you ain't developed. What was he develop

496
00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:05,560
Speaker 1: you feel like he's still a kid bro like, look

497
00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:07,840
Speaker 1: at the ship. I what the fun is? No? I

498
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:13,240
Speaker 1: love it because then you could teach something and they like, yeah,

499
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:16,199
Speaker 1: what's that fast food? Play? Is the audience? Do they

500
00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:18,159
Speaker 1: have an audience at the drafterwork and it's sounding like

501
00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:21,480
Speaker 1: and have you been? No? I just watched it on

502
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 1: TV and then go to the instagrams now. So Um.

503
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 1: The next question or segment is our hord derve. We

504
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:34,160
Speaker 1: kind of want to give it to y'all. Our hord

505
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:38,560
Speaker 1: Derve segment is sex tips, and so I know that

506
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,200
Speaker 1: even with us talking about the difference between sex and

507
00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:45,200
Speaker 1: your twenties, uh to sex maybe in your thirties. Uh,

508
00:28:46,240 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 1: if y'all could give us share some sex tips with

509
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:52,320
Speaker 1: the audience from y'all from your bedroom to our ears, Um,

510
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:55,560
Speaker 1: your single I am okay, maybe I'm married in a

511
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:58,280
Speaker 1: single tip be there we go. I can this is

512
00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:01,040
Speaker 1: not a tip, but I can say that, Um, how

513
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 1: do you okay? Post forty that's when sex gets good,

514
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:08,080
Speaker 1: Like that's when you really know what you're doing. I

515
00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:11,040
Speaker 1: don't know for the women you agree for. I think

516
00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:13,440
Speaker 1: for for women maybe ment to I mean I feel

517
00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:18,400
Speaker 1: like after forty. It's like you understand better, like your body,

518
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 1: we were whole, so we even if your whole, even

519
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 1: if your home. It's like something happens in the mind

520
00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:27,760
Speaker 1: that makes it all the way better. So I'm gonna better.

521
00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:37,680
Speaker 1: You think it better? Partners, no better, no better. I

522
00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:41,320
Speaker 1: don't know what it is. Do you agree? Um, you

523
00:29:41,400 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 1: fairly say that like you were the same I'm still

524
00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 1: I'm right, I'm and I'm only two so maybe like, okay,

525
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 1: you're like I'm just saying only a two years and

526
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:58,160
Speaker 1: you're with the same guy, so that you can't really

527
00:29:58,600 --> 00:30:01,640
Speaker 1: but I can't say, but it it's definitely just as good,

528
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:03,840
Speaker 1: you know. I feel like it's just more mature, like

529
00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:06,720
Speaker 1: you're not doing all like the unnecessary stuff. You know

530
00:30:06,760 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 1: what I mean? What is unnecessary? Okay, so like like

531
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 1: pounding like forever for no reason, don't do that. Yeah,

532
00:30:18,480 --> 00:30:20,360
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So it's like just just

533
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:24,200
Speaker 1: making sure you're like that you're doing something that feels

534
00:30:24,240 --> 00:30:28,080
Speaker 1: good to you. And if you toys, yes, I didn't

535
00:30:28,080 --> 00:30:31,479
Speaker 1: know that. Yeah, no, toys. Toys have been probably one

536
00:30:31,480 --> 00:30:32,800
Speaker 1: of them. So I would say that would be my tip.

537
00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 1: That's gonna be my tip. Like don't be scared of toys.

538
00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:39,760
Speaker 1: That's your favorite. So I don't know the names of anything. Um,

539
00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:45,960
Speaker 1: he got this toy that like it went over his thing,

540
00:30:46,760 --> 00:30:51,840
Speaker 1: his penis. It was like okay, you know, I don't know. Yeah,

541
00:30:51,880 --> 00:30:57,440
Speaker 1: but then it had like a vibrating thing vibrating. I

542
00:30:57,520 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 1: don't really anyway saying so why I got it? Yeah, yeah, okay,

543
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:07,520
Speaker 1: So and man has never gotten like if I if

544
00:31:07,560 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 1: I just say in toys, I've always gotten it. Oh

545
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:14,520
Speaker 1: like a man has never for y'all to go together,

546
00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 1: right and to pick up out because but I would

547
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:20,200
Speaker 1: be impressed. It came from home and like brought a top.

548
00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:24,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, I think that's It's like he's like excited

549
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:26,720
Speaker 1: to try it. So the vibrating cockering like that was

550
00:31:26,840 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 1: like everything. Oh yeah, I've tried it too, and you

551
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:31,120
Speaker 1: can feel it inside your blissy like it's like it

552
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:33,440
Speaker 1: does make the dick vibrate and all that. Yeah, that's

553
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 1: great every time. The way it's like so it's like

554
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:40,920
Speaker 1: vibrating on your clip too, yeah okay, yeah yeah. And

555
00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:42,840
Speaker 1: he said he puts something over his penis. I'm like,

556
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:46,600
Speaker 1: I was like, she about to say he needs a penis. No, no, No,

557
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:50,480
Speaker 1: everybody good at that department? Who's that? I? So I

558
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:54,480
Speaker 1: see I like, so you put you have? I ain't

559
00:31:54,480 --> 00:31:56,960
Speaker 1: gonna hold you. If if it's pulled out and it's small,

560
00:31:57,520 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 1: my period just came on. Can't we can't do this

561
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:03,960
Speaker 1: like out of like charity, like I'll fuck you and

562
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:06,920
Speaker 1: they have charity? Pa if if if I was already

563
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:08,160
Speaker 1: on do and I find out was small, it's an

564
00:32:08,240 --> 00:32:11,080
Speaker 1: unfortunate mistake, you know. But then do you pull out

565
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:13,240
Speaker 1: an extender and say this is what I wrote? Yeah,

566
00:32:13,640 --> 00:32:15,000
Speaker 1: it's just like the next time you try to have

567
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 1: sex and be like I've been talking to my X

568
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:19,960
Speaker 1: again and like I really feel like things are just

569
00:32:20,040 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 1: going that way? And can you can you describe an

570
00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:25,000
Speaker 1: extend or how does that? Damn? It's like you guys.

571
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:28,479
Speaker 1: So we actually have a whole segment where we bring

572
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:31,520
Speaker 1: out weird sex one and so what it looks like

573
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:33,880
Speaker 1: is I mean they come in different colors too, so

574
00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:36,520
Speaker 1: we have different ones in l A in Atlanta might

575
00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 1: see something different, but basically it's it's it looks like

576
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 1: a dildo with a hole in. It's a hollow hole

577
00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 1: and you put your dick in. So it's just another

578
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:48,720
Speaker 1: and it's straps on or something that's I guess, no,

579
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 1: you don't have to strap it on because it'll stick

580
00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:56,400
Speaker 1: kind of because it's like, yeah, ex, yeah, I've strapped

581
00:32:56,440 --> 00:33:00,120
Speaker 1: on with my girlfriend, but um no, never extended. Has

582
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,280
Speaker 1: that ever needed it? I mean, I'm sucked small dig niggas,

583
00:33:02,280 --> 00:33:04,000
Speaker 1: and then I hate when I fall in love first

584
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:07,040
Speaker 1: that sucks. But then you could just have anal set,

585
00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:14,320
Speaker 1: but okay I can because it's small. Okay, you know,

586
00:33:14,760 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 1: slippery slope he slippery. Well hopefully if it's small and slippery,

587
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:21,840
Speaker 1: doesn't even your mouth. I mean, get out of here.

588
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 1: So have you ever like kicked somebody out the bed

589
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:29,440
Speaker 1: or out the house before? It? Never mindless, it wasn't good,

590
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:34,120
Speaker 1: and we like like like we were sending each other

591
00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:37,720
Speaker 1: videos sucking other like, you know, because he know it

592
00:33:37,880 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 1: was like super super hips up and I was like,

593
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:42,360
Speaker 1: oh yeah he nasty. Oh and I see how he that?

594
00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 1: But she gonna put me good? How did you go? It?

595
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 1: Literally it just it was like we almost couldn't even

596
00:33:49,200 --> 00:33:50,880
Speaker 1: get the rhythm to where I literally rolled over. I

597
00:33:51,000 --> 00:33:54,000
Speaker 1: was like, this isn't this isn't always isn't working. But

598
00:33:54,200 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 1: he sent you pictures of him having sex with other weeah,

599
00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:58,080
Speaker 1: I like, I like that. I just thought you like

600
00:33:58,280 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 1: that often, like I like to see. I like to

601
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:08,479
Speaker 1: want you see to say, like, we all have videos

602
00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:13,360
Speaker 1: on our phones. I do not, Okay, una work on that.

603
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 1: We're gonna work on that as you at the date.

604
00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:17,920
Speaker 1: Maybe you know, but I don't want to see you

605
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:21,160
Speaker 1: phone in another girl. I don't want to do no, Okay,

606
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:24,680
Speaker 1: so see to be fair, I also enjoyed voyeurism and

607
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:28,560
Speaker 1: I go to sex club now. Okay, so yeah, I'm

608
00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:32,600
Speaker 1: into that. Like me someone else, that's what someone but

609
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 1: but someone else that's that's like an old video. That's

610
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:39,919
Speaker 1: not like, well, if we're both single and we're both

611
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:42,839
Speaker 1: just having casually wanted many to be the who acting

612
00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:45,360
Speaker 1: like I've never done this, I'm like, we have videos

613
00:34:45,400 --> 00:34:50,279
Speaker 1: like I don't even know her. I will say, I

614
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:53,839
Speaker 1: enjoy um. I'm in an open relationship. I don't really

615
00:34:53,880 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 1: do that anymore. Probably you couldn't handle it on my end,

616
00:34:56,800 --> 00:35:00,239
Speaker 1: But for me, I did like to see the other

617
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:02,040
Speaker 1: person because it made me feel like I was included

618
00:35:02,080 --> 00:35:05,040
Speaker 1: in it. It didn't feel as and maybe that's just

619
00:35:05,120 --> 00:35:06,800
Speaker 1: me being a little possessive. It's just the way that

620
00:35:06,880 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 1: I can handle on monogamy. But I do like knowing

621
00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:12,239
Speaker 1: how it's going because it makes me feel like, oh,

622
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:15,839
Speaker 1: you're not leaving me out or I'm not forgotten about

623
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 1: and I think it's kind of or you can't sit

624
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:19,960
Speaker 1: at home and wonder like I don't I wonder how

625
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:22,879
Speaker 1: it was or I wonder you know, like like there's

626
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:25,600
Speaker 1: no like mystery tits. Someone has to take a video

627
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 1: for you. Like I'm reading this book right now called

628
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:30,200
Speaker 1: Three Women, and one of the women has sex with

629
00:35:30,280 --> 00:35:32,759
Speaker 1: other men. Her husband will tell her like I want

630
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:35,399
Speaker 1: you to that guy. That guy. Her phone died during

631
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:38,120
Speaker 1: one of the sessions and the husband blew up on

632
00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:40,800
Speaker 1: her like they almost like went separated. He was like,

633
00:35:41,120 --> 00:35:43,520
Speaker 1: this is the first time you've disrespected me. Like if

634
00:35:43,560 --> 00:35:45,640
Speaker 1: I'm not included in this, and granted it's a book,

635
00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:48,839
Speaker 1: but I'm sure someone like I'm not. It's a wrap.

636
00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:52,359
Speaker 1: In Jamaica, I had I was given a hall pass

637
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:54,719
Speaker 1: and I didn't use it. I was in Jamaica and

638
00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:57,840
Speaker 1: there was a curfew, but I ended up just falling asleep.

639
00:35:58,080 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 1: A bitch was drawn. I went on a boat all

640
00:35:59,719 --> 00:36:01,720
Speaker 1: day and a bitch was drunk, looking like a lobster.

641
00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:05,839
Speaker 1: I just fell asleep. But before falling asleep, I had

642
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 1: let him know that, Hey, I met this guy. He's

643
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:10,279
Speaker 1: good looking. We might go get drinks later. He called

644
00:36:10,320 --> 00:36:13,239
Speaker 1: me like three times while I was napping, and it

645
00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:17,160
Speaker 1: just spiraled over to uh. He gave me a hall

646
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:20,239
Speaker 1: pass because we played with women. I like women, so

647
00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:22,640
Speaker 1: because we had just played with so many women all

648
00:36:22,680 --> 00:36:24,600
Speaker 1: the time and he had played with women, was like,

649
00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:27,400
Speaker 1: you don't want other dick, are you sure? So when

650
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:29,400
Speaker 1: I traveled he would give me a hall pass. I

651
00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:32,680
Speaker 1: never used it because I'm like Nick, I'm good. But

652
00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:35,600
Speaker 1: the one time I was, I fell asleep. I didn't

653
00:36:35,640 --> 00:36:38,000
Speaker 1: do nothing, but he thought I didn't answer the phone,

654
00:36:38,080 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 1: so it was it was the guy at bartender. No,

655
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 1: he wasn't a bartender. I thought he let the guy.

656
00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:46,040
Speaker 1: It's like there's like a little thin line, like like

657
00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:50,719
Speaker 1: you don't know where you can't You don't when I mean,

658
00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:52,960
Speaker 1: but in monogamy you don't know which line you can

659
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:54,920
Speaker 1: and cannot cross. And so to me, it's just like

660
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:59,319
Speaker 1: you need to have full transparency, full openness, and communication

661
00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:00,840
Speaker 1: just has to be tip to her and to be

662
00:37:00,960 --> 00:37:04,560
Speaker 1: fair like even with what our relationship is or was

663
00:37:05,040 --> 00:37:08,680
Speaker 1: definitely more customized, but we set boundaries along the way,

664
00:37:08,800 --> 00:37:10,359
Speaker 1: Like there was a lot of things where I didn't

665
00:37:10,360 --> 00:37:11,879
Speaker 1: know it would bother me. He didn't know it would

666
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 1: bother him. And so you almost have to also allow

667
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:17,000
Speaker 1: yourself to be upset, but talk it through, don't hold

668
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:21,319
Speaker 1: it in, don't hold it against them, but talk it through. Yeah,

669
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:25,759
Speaker 1: and that's actually leading us into our decisions because we

670
00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:29,040
Speaker 1: give it more fuck it. And I bring this up

671
00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:33,360
Speaker 1: because both of you doubled back after a marriage, so

672
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:36,279
Speaker 1: both of you found got divorced, double back to your

673
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 1: partner after even infidelity. Wait, wait, we got divorce, explained

674
00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 1: it to me and went back to the same person. Yes, yeah,

675
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 1: I mean I'm engaged to my ex husband. Yes, that's

676
00:37:48,760 --> 00:37:53,600
Speaker 1: really do right, Like, oh, there's not other niggas everybody

677
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 1: else does right, And then she also got divorced and

678
00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:00,719
Speaker 1: went back to him. In the gates, we're not together,

679
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:03,839
Speaker 1: they're not together as well. That's like really, I think

680
00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:07,320
Speaker 1: that's almost more. That's more especial than like our normal relationship.

681
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 1: It is it is, and we have kids, you know

682
00:38:09,239 --> 00:38:11,400
Speaker 1: what I mean. So it's like and we've been together

683
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:14,239
Speaker 1: we we started dating when I was sixteen, When we

684
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:17,600
Speaker 1: were sixteen, So like, how long were you separated a

685
00:38:17,680 --> 00:38:26,399
Speaker 1: divorce forum. We divorced ship inve but I would say

686
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:29,680
Speaker 1: for like the previous I don't know, like three years

687
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:31,439
Speaker 1: since from two thousand nine and two thousand and twelve,

688
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:33,680
Speaker 1: we were pretty much separated. We brought the spark back.

689
00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 1: Have you not seen what he did? Like that will

690
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:43,440
Speaker 1: bring the spark back, bitch, that's why anyone, And I'm curious,

691
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:45,800
Speaker 1: you know what? Okay, so you have to watch the

692
00:38:45,880 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 1: show and you know. So we went through. So he

693
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:51,440
Speaker 1: played in the NBA, We went, we got divorced. He

694
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:54,000
Speaker 1: pretty much lost all his money, so we were like

695
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:56,040
Speaker 1: dead broke to the point where like I couldn't even

696
00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 1: pay my my water bill, you know what I mean,

697
00:38:58,080 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 1: like stuff like that. So we after being divorced, um,

698
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:05,360
Speaker 1: we just kind of like came together and was like,

699
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:07,680
Speaker 1: we're gonna get through this together. So we're gonna support

700
00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:10,680
Speaker 1: one another financially, we're gonna pull our resources, we're gonna

701
00:39:10,880 --> 00:39:13,640
Speaker 1: help each other like you know, um excel in our

702
00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:15,799
Speaker 1: careers and all that type of stuff. So we were

703
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:19,600
Speaker 1: living together. We weren't together, you know, but we were

704
00:39:19,680 --> 00:39:24,560
Speaker 1: living together, um, and we just like we got we

705
00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:26,840
Speaker 1: we pulled ourselves up, you know what I'm saying. We

706
00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 1: got back life back on track. Yeah, So it was

707
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:33,360
Speaker 1: like going through that with someone really makes you like

708
00:39:33,520 --> 00:39:36,400
Speaker 1: that much tighter when they say they just live with

709
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:43,319
Speaker 1: the y'all and y'all was still having were y'all dating

710
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:45,600
Speaker 1: other people while y'all were living we were, Um, I

711
00:39:45,719 --> 00:39:48,160
Speaker 1: really wasn't because, like I had the kids. So he's

712
00:39:48,239 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 1: like one of them, like crazy niggas, right, that's like,

713
00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:55,400
Speaker 1: but we love him though, Yeah, he's crazy. He's going

714
00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:57,719
Speaker 1: to be like, you know, looking, you know, trying to

715
00:39:57,719 --> 00:39:59,600
Speaker 1: figure out what I'm doing. Like, so I just was like,

716
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:02,799
Speaker 1: I'm not even trying to play these games with him, Like, dude,

717
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:04,600
Speaker 1: I don't care what you're doing. You do what you want,

718
00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:07,520
Speaker 1: but I'm just gonna focus on me, my kids and

719
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:13,839
Speaker 1: and make I understand. Now we've done that Google search.

720
00:40:14,239 --> 00:40:24,279
Speaker 1: We got the Google damn the cover. Yeah. So yeah,

721
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:28,560
Speaker 1: so like you got back with him after that? Okay,

722
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:36,520
Speaker 1: I got back with the broke dude, Yes, I do have.

723
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:40,239
Speaker 1: Before we get in, um to our horrible decision, just

724
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:43,439
Speaker 1: like basic reality TV show questions, I feel like people

725
00:40:43,480 --> 00:40:46,600
Speaker 1: really want to know real housewife to me? You know

726
00:40:46,680 --> 00:40:48,839
Speaker 1: how they just growing up, you know how they start

727
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:50,759
Speaker 1: to expose people all this time they're really broke and

728
00:40:50,800 --> 00:40:52,800
Speaker 1: everybody's always calling other one broken. They don't have this.

729
00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:55,239
Speaker 1: And I watched this clip about people saying, oh, her

730
00:40:55,280 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 1: house this and the driveway, and I was like, okay,

731
00:40:57,680 --> 00:40:59,839
Speaker 1: but the house is being done, like people with money

732
00:40:59,880 --> 00:41:03,160
Speaker 1: do that too. Do you ever feel like you have

733
00:41:03,480 --> 00:41:07,000
Speaker 1: to almost be um extra makeup, always done to be

734
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:09,600
Speaker 1: this well to do person because of TV or even

735
00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:12,520
Speaker 1: the franchise itself. I think everyone does accept me and

736
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:18,320
Speaker 1: Robin literally like, I mean, I don't have the energy

737
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:21,160
Speaker 1: for that, and I'm not going I made the decision.

738
00:41:21,160 --> 00:41:22,840
Speaker 1: I'm sure Robin did too. I'm not going broke for

739
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:26,799
Speaker 1: this show. Like I'm not going to get in debt

740
00:41:26,960 --> 00:41:30,000
Speaker 1: to try to make y'all think i'm something that I'm not.

741
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 1: And I mind you, I was always good, but um,

742
00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:36,360
Speaker 1: I think that there's other people that get on the

743
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:39,000
Speaker 1: show and they have there's something that they have to prove,

744
00:41:39,480 --> 00:41:42,160
Speaker 1: so they do go in debt, right, and they do

745
00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 1: do a lot of extra ship in order to prove

746
00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:46,360
Speaker 1: something to people that they don't even know. I know,

747
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:50,759
Speaker 1: like they do music videos and ship, but they're very

748
00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:55,760
Speaker 1: no budget. But that's when I when I was watching

749
00:41:55,800 --> 00:41:58,120
Speaker 1: it as a teenager, I feel like it's been out

750
00:41:58,160 --> 00:42:01,760
Speaker 1: that long. Yeah, I remember thinking, these are the richest

751
00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:04,880
Speaker 1: people on TV. Then it changed a little bit to

752
00:42:04,920 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 1: where they started to feel more normal to me. But

753
00:42:07,200 --> 00:42:09,200
Speaker 1: I think it came from the Beverly Hills and you're

754
00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:13,040
Speaker 1: watching I remember Camille, I think her right, and they

755
00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:16,320
Speaker 1: would put the price tag no, not Kelsey Grammars alive,

756
00:42:16,800 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 1: but it was someone someone yeah yeah, yeah, and they

757
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:24,520
Speaker 1: weren't really living that life. But I remember they were

758
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:28,279
Speaker 1: talking about the money and the birthday party. But that

759
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:31,000
Speaker 1: ship is a lot of pressure to somebody. And so

760
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:33,239
Speaker 1: I remember when I would watch Atlanta, I'm like, oh,

761
00:42:33,320 --> 00:42:35,600
Speaker 1: this is dope because they kind of feel like somebody

762
00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:40,800
Speaker 1: I know where like the rich one. Now that I

763
00:42:40,920 --> 00:42:43,840
Speaker 1: watched Beverly Hills and some of these other franchises, Atlanta's,

764
00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:47,760
Speaker 1: but that's also money too, Like if you're a hundred

765
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:50,759
Speaker 1: millionaire over, you probably are going to be living in

766
00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 1: Beverly Hills. But I feel like all of us cross

767
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:56,440
Speaker 1: the board are aspirational. I feel like people do look

768
00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 1: at the show and they're they aspire too, regardless of

769
00:42:59,680 --> 00:43:02,560
Speaker 1: what we have that right, Can I ask is that

770
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:05,080
Speaker 1: the pressure I know that you started to make up

771
00:43:05,160 --> 00:43:08,319
Speaker 1: line you have embellished. We see three week and one

772
00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:13,800
Speaker 1: week candles going on right now, We like, does that

773
00:43:13,960 --> 00:43:15,719
Speaker 1: come from being on that show? The pressure to be

774
00:43:15,760 --> 00:43:17,840
Speaker 1: an entrepreneur, because that's what we've seen a lot from you.

775
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:21,280
Speaker 1: This this season is like growing, moving into a warehouse

776
00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:24,239
Speaker 1: and really seeing like, oh, this is a lot of work.

777
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:27,800
Speaker 1: Is there pressure to be business women? No? I wouldn't

778
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:30,480
Speaker 1: say pressure, but it but it is. You know, let

779
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:33,320
Speaker 1: me take advantage of this opportunity while I have it,

780
00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:36,560
Speaker 1: while I have a million people watching me every week,

781
00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 1: so why not? But but honestly, for me, I've always

782
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:42,799
Speaker 1: had an entrepreneurial spirit, so I would have I would

783
00:43:42,840 --> 00:43:45,319
Speaker 1: have had a business regardless. Now would it be doing

784
00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:47,400
Speaker 1: as well? Probably not what I have to work a

785
00:43:47,480 --> 00:43:50,120
Speaker 1: lot harder to get to get exposure for it. Yes,

786
00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:54,080
Speaker 1: but when you have a platform like this, yeah, it's

787
00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:56,480
Speaker 1: great to use it. So but as far as like

788
00:43:56,560 --> 00:43:59,040
Speaker 1: the like pressure to kind of be someone you're not

789
00:43:59,200 --> 00:44:01,319
Speaker 1: Like when I joined this show, I told him out

790
00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:06,040
Speaker 1: the jump, look I'm broke, so she did that was

791
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:09,239
Speaker 1: that was a real conversation, Robert, what are you doing here?

792
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:12,880
Speaker 1: Like talking? You know, I'm talking to the casting director

793
00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:15,759
Speaker 1: and the and the vice president of programming all this.

794
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:18,000
Speaker 1: I said, I'm I said, look, I'm not living that life.

795
00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 1: I'm broke. But they found something interesting in my story.

796
00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:24,320
Speaker 1: They found it relatable, they found it, um you know,

797
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:29,839
Speaker 1: they's something very human, like yeah, yeah, you know, they

798
00:44:29,920 --> 00:44:32,040
Speaker 1: found they knew that the viewers were going to be

799
00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:33,960
Speaker 1: able to connect. There would be a lot of viewers

800
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:35,600
Speaker 1: that could connect to that, and so a lot of

801
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:38,279
Speaker 1: the Housewive shows there, I feel like they're either the

802
00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:43,040
Speaker 1: people on it are either aspirational like you know, Lisa

803
00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:47,400
Speaker 1: vander Pump and Kyle Richards, or they're relatable because they

804
00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 1: have some sort of interesting story going on, like Kyle's sister.

805
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:52,839
Speaker 1: I loved when I used to watch it, Oh yeah,

806
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 1: and I'd be like, oh her, she got a normal house.

807
00:44:56,400 --> 00:44:58,640
Speaker 1: I love her still in other people's husband. They stopped

808
00:44:58,880 --> 00:45:03,360
Speaker 1: stopping watches My girl, my favorite one, and I'm so

809
00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:05,360
Speaker 1: mad she's not on Atlanta no more. But she's getting

810
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:07,320
Speaker 1: That's how much that is. I don't even watch and

811
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:11,759
Speaker 1: I was like, she's getting real happy though. Yeah, no,

812
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:14,040
Speaker 1: you know, I would say, just made me think of

813
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:16,879
Speaker 1: it when you said a million people watching. I heard

814
00:45:16,960 --> 00:45:20,400
Speaker 1: through a friend about their contract on Bravo that said

815
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:23,000
Speaker 1: if you start a business, and she got it taken

816
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:25,600
Speaker 1: out with their lawyer, but if you start a business,

817
00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:28,320
Speaker 1: like we get X amount of percentage. And I was like,

818
00:45:29,000 --> 00:45:31,680
Speaker 1: that's how big that brand is. They're like, oh, bich,

819
00:45:31,760 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 1: we know you're gonna do well, so we're gonna take something. Well.

820
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:36,360
Speaker 1: They you know why they did that because Bethany Frankel

821
00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:41,719
Speaker 1: started her Skinny Girl line and and that was that

822
00:45:41,800 --> 00:45:45,359
Speaker 1: business was purchased for a hundred million dollars. So that's

823
00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:48,200
Speaker 1: why they started that. So, yes, that is in our contracts.

824
00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:50,319
Speaker 1: But there's like a it's it's not like out the gate.

825
00:45:50,400 --> 00:45:52,800
Speaker 1: It's not like, oh give me you know percentage of

826
00:45:52,880 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 1: your how much it's over a certain amount of million. Yeah.

827
00:45:57,080 --> 00:46:00,400
Speaker 1: But like, I'm not mad at Bravo because they basically

828
00:46:00,560 --> 00:46:03,839
Speaker 1: I don't say they got burned, but they were instrumental

829
00:46:04,320 --> 00:46:07,919
Speaker 1: in that hundred million dollars. So I need to stop

830
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:18,040
Speaker 1: saying how successful. Yea, I know what I'm saying. Well,

831
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:20,560
Speaker 1: not on the show. People want to watch the show,

832
00:46:20,920 --> 00:46:23,759
Speaker 1: like you can't tell me now, I brought viewers. I'm

833
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:26,279
Speaker 1: building this franchise for New York, and now I gotta

834
00:46:26,320 --> 00:46:28,920
Speaker 1: give you my money because I probably and I'm not

835
00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:31,040
Speaker 1: gonna type up. I don't know how people feel about

836
00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:33,359
Speaker 1: ny anymore, but she was the biggest on Atlanta from

837
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:35,680
Speaker 1: what I know, right, So I'm making everybody watching now

838
00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:37,319
Speaker 1: you need to cut my money. You still need to think.

839
00:46:37,360 --> 00:46:39,000
Speaker 1: But I think Brabo looks at it. If it's not you,

840
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 1: it's gonna be somebody else. You know what I'm saying. Yeah,

841
00:46:43,680 --> 00:46:46,879
Speaker 1: everyone on TV. Every every year, I'm like, y'all want

842
00:46:46,880 --> 00:46:48,440
Speaker 1: me back because I mean, I don't know. I'll never

843
00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 1: take it for the next Andy. Every every few year,

844
00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:54,000
Speaker 1: you're not going no where. But still it's like I'll

845
00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:57,120
Speaker 1: never take it for granted that I might not be rehired.

846
00:46:57,360 --> 00:46:59,720
Speaker 1: I never take that that the show will be renewed.

847
00:47:05,160 --> 00:47:07,320
Speaker 1: I want to ask because both of you and with

848
00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:10,359
Speaker 1: being on Housewives, you share a lot of your personal life.

849
00:47:10,719 --> 00:47:12,920
Speaker 1: So I want to ask you to with your double

850
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:16,480
Speaker 1: back uh to Jamal, do you feel as though um

851
00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:20,520
Speaker 1: that being on the show also fizzled out The relationship, Like,

852
00:47:20,560 --> 00:47:22,080
Speaker 1: did you feel like it was harder the second time

853
00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:24,880
Speaker 1: around because it was also on this type of visible platform.

854
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:27,960
Speaker 1: Um no, only because I know him so well, he

855
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:31,960
Speaker 1: knows me so well. So like we showed like a

856
00:47:32,080 --> 00:47:36,759
Speaker 1: millisecond of our relationship as opposed to the relationship and

857
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:39,279
Speaker 1: really what it was. So and and he and I

858
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:42,320
Speaker 1: are very much used to commentary in our relationship. Okay,

859
00:47:42,400 --> 00:47:45,040
Speaker 1: So I mean wasn't more eyes on it? Absolutely? But

860
00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:46,480
Speaker 1: was it like, oh I don't want to be with

861
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:50,320
Speaker 1: you because everybody you know has commentary? Absolutely not do you? Honestly?

862
00:47:50,400 --> 00:47:52,360
Speaker 1: I mean I started to cut you off, you know

863
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:55,239
Speaker 1: years ago when Jamal was doing you know, it was

864
00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:57,640
Speaker 1: all in the news when they were married. It's I

865
00:47:57,640 --> 00:47:59,279
Speaker 1: don't want to say it's like payback for him, but

866
00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:01,840
Speaker 1: it's like because she was on the other foot, you

867
00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:05,000
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like she's the famous one and

868
00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:07,960
Speaker 1: now all you know, everyone was all up in the

869
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:10,960
Speaker 1: business because of her, not because you know what I'm saying,

870
00:48:11,200 --> 00:48:13,600
Speaker 1: both of y'all went back. I want to know both

871
00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:15,719
Speaker 1: of y'all believe that wants a cheat or always a

872
00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:18,719
Speaker 1: cheater because we did see that he ended up um No,

873
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:22,359
Speaker 1: that was probably that was prior to that. Yes, Um,

874
00:48:23,200 --> 00:48:25,239
Speaker 1: I don't believe that. You don't believe. I believe that

875
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:30,279
Speaker 1: cheating is a choice. I believe that. Um. However, men,

876
00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:34,600
Speaker 1: men and women do live lifestyles, right, so I think

877
00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 1: that at some point, um, either a man is going

878
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:40,520
Speaker 1: to continue to cheat or he's going to make a

879
00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:45,040
Speaker 1: choice to not, and it goes it's vice versa women too. Yeah.

880
00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:47,000
Speaker 1: But but I also believe that men as they get

881
00:48:47,080 --> 00:48:53,600
Speaker 1: older than the cheating is not as really yeah, not

882
00:48:54,280 --> 00:48:56,360
Speaker 1: because they still do it. Not they still do it,

883
00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:59,040
Speaker 1: but I feel like when they're younger, it's I don't

884
00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:01,759
Speaker 1: I feel like there comes like a little time in

885
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:16,359
Speaker 1: their life we need we need thirty ship I Okay,

886
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 1: My perspective is a little different because I was with

887
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:22,279
Speaker 1: an athlete, so really not to their career is over,

888
00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:27,200
Speaker 1: can you feel like okay, and even then even then

889
00:49:27,400 --> 00:49:30,400
Speaker 1: you still have that, you know, of course, the possibility

890
00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:34,000
Speaker 1: of opportunity, But it definitely changes a lot when their

891
00:49:34,040 --> 00:49:36,319
Speaker 1: career is over. And then I just think as they

892
00:49:36,360 --> 00:49:39,239
Speaker 1: get older and older, they just mature a little bit,

893
00:49:39,360 --> 00:49:42,440
Speaker 1: you know what. So I'm gonna say, I'm gonna go

894
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:45,160
Speaker 1: within an athlete over a pastor only because you could

895
00:49:45,160 --> 00:49:48,719
Speaker 1: be a pastor forever, which means like you're always going

896
00:49:48,760 --> 00:49:50,919
Speaker 1: to be seeing people on a weekly You're never gonna

897
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:53,320
Speaker 1: be to where you could just chill and be away

898
00:49:53,400 --> 00:49:55,840
Speaker 1: from Maybe one day God will just be like you

899
00:49:55,920 --> 00:50:00,480
Speaker 1: gotta stop and be like your might convene. Don't stop

900
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:03,640
Speaker 1: thank God telling these men to stop cheating, or God

901
00:50:04,560 --> 00:50:06,720
Speaker 1: or God might say you need to keep blessing people.

902
00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:15,840
Speaker 1: You need to spread the water, not the scene. And

903
00:50:16,080 --> 00:50:18,480
Speaker 1: you know Steve Harvey always says a man not you

904
00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:23,359
Speaker 1: quote Steve hard Man, this is one, just one, just one,

905
00:50:23,800 --> 00:50:26,160
Speaker 1: he says, a man actually does not. Steve Harvey is

906
00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:30,520
Speaker 1: my mother. Okay, we'll take Yes, we'll take your ball man.

907
00:50:31,080 --> 00:50:34,719
Speaker 1: We'll do what you allow him to do. Yes, that's true,

908
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:37,720
Speaker 1: you know it's it's it goes both ways. And southing

909
00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:40,799
Speaker 1: was cheating or is cheating now? Is that a deal

910
00:50:40,840 --> 00:50:42,560
Speaker 1: breaker for you or is that something that you could

911
00:50:42,600 --> 00:50:45,839
Speaker 1: look over? Who am I with? Is this with him?

912
00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:51,319
Speaker 1: I'm at a I'm at a very weird space, right,

913
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:54,839
Speaker 1: meaning I don't give a ship like so, I'm at

914
00:50:54,880 --> 00:50:57,560
Speaker 1: a space where we're gonna have sex and then I'm

915
00:50:57,640 --> 00:51:00,600
Speaker 1: leaving and I don't like, you know, he's gonna call

916
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:02,160
Speaker 1: and he's gonna try to like see me all the

917
00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 1: time and like form a relationship and I I'm not there,

918
00:51:05,200 --> 00:51:07,120
Speaker 1: Like I'm not asking you what you're doing. I don't

919
00:51:07,120 --> 00:51:10,320
Speaker 1: care what you're doing. So if I can't wait to

920
00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:13,839
Speaker 1: be your age, if I if I get back, really

921
00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:17,439
Speaker 1: sound like you don't care, like what men you will say,

922
00:51:17,680 --> 00:51:18,960
Speaker 1: I don't get the funk were he doing? But they

923
00:51:19,000 --> 00:51:21,960
Speaker 1: get that's me. I believe you when you say I

924
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:23,800
Speaker 1: just need my nothing and then you could go and

925
00:51:23,920 --> 00:51:26,279
Speaker 1: never no, no, no, I only go to their house

926
00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:28,480
Speaker 1: so I can leave because if they come to you,

927
00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:36,560
Speaker 1: they linger in. They don't linger. So I mean, if

928
00:51:36,680 --> 00:51:38,600
Speaker 1: if I ever get back into a relationship like that,

929
00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:42,320
Speaker 1: that's very committed. Um, it's cheating, a deal breaker. I

930
00:51:42,400 --> 00:51:45,040
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know. And that's the first time

931
00:51:45,040 --> 00:51:47,399
Speaker 1: I've ever said that, Like, I don't know because they'll

932
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:51,759
Speaker 1: probably be me cheating. Oh ship, probably what about you?

933
00:51:53,080 --> 00:51:55,120
Speaker 1: You know what I feel this, I feel the same

934
00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:58,279
Speaker 1: as you like And I think it's because once you

935
00:51:58,360 --> 00:52:01,920
Speaker 1: guys go through enough, you just you don't have that much.

936
00:52:02,200 --> 00:52:04,320
Speaker 1: You just have zero funx left to give you know

937
00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:08,360
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It's like, but I probably would. I

938
00:52:08,440 --> 00:52:12,040
Speaker 1: think honestly, it would be easier for me to be

939
00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:14,600
Speaker 1: like bye, yeah, you know what I mean. Where in

940
00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:17,680
Speaker 1: the past it's like you all broken up and you're like,

941
00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:22,640
Speaker 1: but I love you, so you know what I'm saying,

942
00:52:22,680 --> 00:52:25,239
Speaker 1: And then now I would be like picking up when

943
00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:28,000
Speaker 1: I'm over that hump because you like this, I'd be

944
00:52:28,400 --> 00:52:32,680
Speaker 1: crack when I'm done. New dick really keeps the tears

945
00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:34,759
Speaker 1: from Once I get sucked by somebody else, I'm like,

946
00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:37,480
Speaker 1: oh it's that bad. Yeah, but it's always But when

947
00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:40,239
Speaker 1: you get older, you really feel like, you know, you

948
00:52:40,280 --> 00:52:42,480
Speaker 1: don't have time for the drama. So if it's not

949
00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:46,800
Speaker 1: working for you in every way, you're out, like you

950
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:50,440
Speaker 1: there's no need to continue with this nonsense. So the

951
00:52:50,520 --> 00:52:52,279
Speaker 1: dick has to be good. How do you mean people

952
00:52:52,400 --> 00:52:56,480
Speaker 1: now that? Okay? One, um, I feel bad to say this,

953
00:52:56,600 --> 00:52:58,680
Speaker 1: but I don't know if you're famous before, but I

954
00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:01,960
Speaker 1: know we were. She was the first lady bench. She

955
00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:04,640
Speaker 1: wasn't meet niggas in the church about me, you know

956
00:53:04,680 --> 00:53:11,399
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like, I don't know video on were

957
00:53:11,440 --> 00:53:24,880
Speaker 1: you really? Oh? Oh damn video videos? Wife? Let me

958
00:53:24,960 --> 00:53:28,920
Speaker 1: find out whe I'm found your world start hip so

959
00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:31,520
Speaker 1: happy one, it's not here right now. No, he actually

960
00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:35,440
Speaker 1: encouraged me to do the video. Yeah yeah, yeah, he

961
00:53:35,520 --> 00:53:39,080
Speaker 1: made me do the video. So like you're famous, you're

962
00:53:39,120 --> 00:53:41,640
Speaker 1: on TV, you hit your divorce and you have kids,

963
00:53:41,719 --> 00:53:44,400
Speaker 1: Like you can't just jump on an app like, oh no,

964
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:48,720
Speaker 1: I don't do that. So how do you meet people? Um? Friends, friends,

965
00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:51,600
Speaker 1: have friends and then but you don't feel like that,

966
00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:53,759
Speaker 1: like you don't know, like it's a small town. What

967
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:56,600
Speaker 1: you mean girls still the d m V. They got Maryland,

968
00:53:57,320 --> 00:53:59,719
Speaker 1: but you'll me knowing them? Have you seen ready to

969
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:05,279
Speaker 1: made nobody in d C? Yes, it's all right now,

970
00:54:08,160 --> 00:54:10,799
Speaker 1: you know it's crazy. I always feel like, but here

971
00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:13,320
Speaker 1: you have all the rich professional black men too, like

972
00:54:14,440 --> 00:54:16,520
Speaker 1: I would I would move here. I think they here.

973
00:54:16,600 --> 00:54:20,399
Speaker 1: I ain't all do it. Don't don't go look look

974
00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:25,279
Speaker 1: she said the young But then okay, so all the

975
00:54:25,360 --> 00:54:29,000
Speaker 1: dudes that you are dealing with right now, they're never leaving.

976
00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:33,719
Speaker 1: I know, so they always come back even when we're like,

977
00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:36,400
Speaker 1: just said that, we just said so, I don't know

978
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:38,640
Speaker 1: they was gonna be here twenty years from now. My

979
00:54:38,760 --> 00:54:41,480
Speaker 1: father told me, Um, I brought the person I've been dating.

980
00:54:41,480 --> 00:54:43,319
Speaker 1: We've been Dane for three years, and I called him

981
00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:46,080
Speaker 1: an old bad Mandy does. He's forty three, but uh,

982
00:54:46,560 --> 00:54:48,360
Speaker 1: my dad said to me, my dad likes him. My

983
00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:50,840
Speaker 1: dad is a really thick Israeli accident. He goes, you know,

984
00:54:51,680 --> 00:54:53,800
Speaker 1: if you get busy, you're making money, like this is

985
00:54:53,840 --> 00:54:57,080
Speaker 1: your time. If you go, they come back. Yeah, was like,

986
00:54:57,760 --> 00:54:59,120
Speaker 1: And I don't know what made him say that to me,

987
00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:01,360
Speaker 1: And he kept trying to basically explained to me, like

988
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:04,840
Speaker 1: if you need to stop dating to work, Like He's like,

989
00:55:04,960 --> 00:55:07,160
Speaker 1: don't let this mess up the work. And I think

990
00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:08,600
Speaker 1: maybe he saw me on a call. I mean, I

991
00:55:08,680 --> 00:55:10,680
Speaker 1: have a lot of jobs, you know, he maybe saw

992
00:55:10,719 --> 00:55:13,160
Speaker 1: me on a call doing something and like attending to him.

993
00:55:13,160 --> 00:55:15,360
Speaker 1: And my dad was probably like, oh no, you know,

994
00:55:15,480 --> 00:55:18,440
Speaker 1: and it's very true. Like I don't know what it

995
00:55:18,560 --> 00:55:21,239
Speaker 1: is about the double back for men, but I think

996
00:55:21,360 --> 00:55:23,640
Speaker 1: men place way more value. It's probably because we don't

997
00:55:23,680 --> 00:55:25,640
Speaker 1: hurt them as bad as well. It's also if you

998
00:55:25,719 --> 00:55:28,239
Speaker 1: think about it, men always come back and they know

999
00:55:28,360 --> 00:55:31,239
Speaker 1: we take them back. Unfortunately that's the problem. Like I

1000
00:55:31,400 --> 00:55:33,520
Speaker 1: just feel like they feel I feel like, especially when

1001
00:55:33,560 --> 00:55:35,920
Speaker 1: it's good, they'd be like, she ain't going nowhere. But

1002
00:55:36,040 --> 00:55:38,239
Speaker 1: men know a good thing when they have it and

1003
00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:41,480
Speaker 1: when they lose it. They especially know when they lose it,

1004
00:55:41,920 --> 00:55:44,000
Speaker 1: and then they with some real super crazy bitch that

1005
00:55:44,040 --> 00:55:45,640
Speaker 1: ain't worth nothing. That's you know what I'm saying, Like

1006
00:55:45,840 --> 00:55:48,399
Speaker 1: they know so they so if you're worth something to them,

1007
00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:51,640
Speaker 1: like if they really appreciated your relationship and the time

1008
00:55:51,719 --> 00:55:55,319
Speaker 1: y'all spent together, they will never if you were good

1009
00:55:55,360 --> 00:55:57,120
Speaker 1: and bad, they ain't going nowhere, but they know when

1010
00:55:57,880 --> 00:56:00,360
Speaker 1: we're gonna get, you know, we're gonna get. There's a

1011
00:56:00,440 --> 00:56:01,840
Speaker 1: dude in my life. The guy went out with in

1012
00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:04,440
Speaker 1: l A. And I've been like trying not to sun

1013
00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:05,960
Speaker 1: him because I just don't want to get his started.

1014
00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:07,279
Speaker 1: And he said to me the other day he took

1015
00:56:07,320 --> 00:56:09,560
Speaker 1: me to dinner and he was like, he was like,

1016
00:56:09,600 --> 00:56:11,040
Speaker 1: don't we I'm gonna try to come up. I was like,

1017
00:56:11,120 --> 00:56:12,359
Speaker 1: I ain't worried, and he was like, let me tell

1018
00:56:12,360 --> 00:56:14,480
Speaker 1: you something. When you suck me, finally you're gonna be

1019
00:56:14,640 --> 00:56:18,000
Speaker 1: buttering my bread. And that time we go bluttering, its

1020
00:56:18,040 --> 00:56:20,640
Speaker 1: like but those little ones that then you do it,

1021
00:56:20,800 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 1: you battering because we always got to dinner. But he

1022
00:56:25,080 --> 00:56:27,440
Speaker 1: was like you're gonna be You're like, what is that?

1023
00:56:28,960 --> 00:56:30,560
Speaker 1: I know that did guy? When he said that, I

1024
00:56:30,600 --> 00:56:33,640
Speaker 1: was like, I know it's big, but that's gonna be

1025
00:56:33,719 --> 00:56:35,759
Speaker 1: the one like that you had that was that you

1026
00:56:35,840 --> 00:56:41,960
Speaker 1: stopped me the hell and we do your podcast when

1027
00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:47,920
Speaker 1: we do all showing like two three, Yes, Okay, it's

1028
00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:51,640
Speaker 1: about to get cold outside. Listen. I have a word.

1029
00:56:51,880 --> 00:56:53,200
Speaker 1: I don't want to know what people want to know.

1030
00:56:54,160 --> 00:56:59,919
Speaker 1: When it's the tour over, that's when the relationship is HL.

1031
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:02,880
Speaker 1: You come to Atlanta December seventeen. We will also be

1032
00:57:03,000 --> 00:57:05,680
Speaker 1: in l A December three, Riving and Giselle. Thank you

1033
00:57:05,840 --> 00:57:08,600
Speaker 1: so very much. I am so glad. The Days of

1034
00:57:08,640 --> 00:57:13,440
Speaker 1: the Week is your show? It Oh, but don't make

1035
00:57:13,480 --> 00:57:16,640
Speaker 1: his money, but don't make your Sunday your podcast? Which

1036
00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:22,240
Speaker 1: more you promoting in? Okay? We the way? Was it good?

1037
00:57:22,400 --> 00:57:23,840
Speaker 1: I mean, y'all can say now that it's over. Did

1038
00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:30,880
Speaker 1: y'all enjoy Nicki Minaj hosting the third reunion? Yeah, she

1039
00:57:31,000 --> 00:57:33,560
Speaker 1: did a good job. She did a great job. She

1040
00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:36,160
Speaker 1: was there all day like we didn't know, so she

1041
00:57:36,240 --> 00:57:39,600
Speaker 1: got there like noon. We did our normal reunion. She

1042
00:57:39,760 --> 00:57:44,520
Speaker 1: didn't appear to us until what about Yeah, probably yeah,

1043
00:57:44,720 --> 00:57:48,160
Speaker 1: that night. From what I understand, she was nervous. She

1044
00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:51,160
Speaker 1: sounded nervous when she first came out. When she first started,

1045
00:57:51,200 --> 00:57:53,080
Speaker 1: I could feel that she was nervous. And after it

1046
00:57:53,200 --> 00:57:55,240
Speaker 1: was over, I was like, Nicky, you did great, and

1047
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:58,320
Speaker 1: she was like, Giselle, I was nervous. Y'all stop ting

1048
00:57:58,360 --> 00:58:02,800
Speaker 1: to me out? I was ebuts me, Like, but can

1049
00:58:02,840 --> 00:58:06,240
Speaker 1: you imagine the reaction when she asking if people weren't happy,

1050
00:58:06,400 --> 00:58:09,360
Speaker 1: like as far as like you know, woke times today,

1051
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:12,880
Speaker 1: Like I would be nervous too. Yeah, I'm not. You know,

1052
00:58:13,000 --> 00:58:15,160
Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't think she's worried about that

1053
00:58:15,240 --> 00:58:18,040
Speaker 1: type of stuff. I would. You're a fan of the show,

1054
00:58:18,200 --> 00:58:21,080
Speaker 1: Like I was a little nervous now you know got out.

1055
00:58:21,160 --> 00:58:24,160
Speaker 1: I'm cool now, No, she's cool. So so what I

1056
00:58:24,240 --> 00:58:27,280
Speaker 1: appreciate about her, and hopefully it comes across when you

1057
00:58:27,440 --> 00:58:30,320
Speaker 1: when we when we watch her, um, it really felt

1058
00:58:30,360 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 1: like she really knows the show, you know what I'm saying.

1059
00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:34,960
Speaker 1: It wasn't like she's just there because she's Nicki Mina,

1060
00:58:35,120 --> 00:58:37,480
Speaker 1: just like, No, she's Nicki Mina and she's been watching

1061
00:58:37,560 --> 00:58:40,800
Speaker 1: since day one. More people do that, like people that

1062
00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:43,040
Speaker 1: we know and like why don't Nick they have me

1063
00:58:43,040 --> 00:58:44,880
Speaker 1: do Nint today? Fiance, you know what I'm saying. I

1064
00:58:44,960 --> 00:58:50,160
Speaker 1: know you've been trying to get what's your favorite reality show? No, brother, Okay,

1065
00:58:50,280 --> 00:58:52,880
Speaker 1: I'm a little on. I like to watch Ragget TV.

1066
00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:57,360
Speaker 1: So I love love and hip hop. Oh Jesus, I

1067
00:58:57,520 --> 00:59:02,959
Speaker 1: do Likearet. No, well, I had to after she left,

1068
00:59:03,920 --> 00:59:06,240
Speaker 1: you know, Atlanta, I was done with her. But I

1069
00:59:06,360 --> 00:59:10,080
Speaker 1: did love a Stevie j Her, Joscelyn Hernandez moments. Those

1070
00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:14,760
Speaker 1: were moments like we'll never forget them. Um, what a time.

1071
00:59:14,960 --> 00:59:19,360
Speaker 1: I love. I love the creep squad, the New York Um, alright,

1072
00:59:20,680 --> 00:59:25,919
Speaker 1: New York and wife. Yeah, I like a little wretch.

1073
00:59:26,560 --> 00:59:28,479
Speaker 1: If I had to guess, I'll show you by looking

1074
00:59:28,520 --> 00:59:33,160
Speaker 1: at you, I would guests rich divorce basketball wife, who'd

1075
00:59:33,200 --> 00:59:35,320
Speaker 1: be shading everybody at the dinner dust. If I was

1076
00:59:35,640 --> 00:59:37,240
Speaker 1: walking on the street and someone was like, they're on TV,

1077
00:59:37,320 --> 00:59:40,920
Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh, saying basketball wife. It's like Shanny,

1078
00:59:41,240 --> 00:59:44,280
Speaker 1: just like rich and pretty like we. Shanny's would have

1079
00:59:44,320 --> 00:59:49,760
Speaker 1: passed her now. Ironically, by the way I saw her

1080
00:59:49,800 --> 00:59:52,240
Speaker 1: when I was on vacation in the Bahamas and I

1081
00:59:52,400 --> 00:59:54,320
Speaker 1: was trying not to stare, but I was like, Wow,

1082
00:59:54,720 --> 00:59:56,960
Speaker 1: you're just really on here with your friends, spending all

1083
00:59:57,000 --> 01:00:01,640
Speaker 1: that giving, not giving about still looking good. I love it.

1084
01:00:01,880 --> 01:00:03,640
Speaker 1: That's nice. She could go from shack you all his

1085
01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:07,560
Speaker 1: money and then live her life good. When can we

1086
01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:10,520
Speaker 1: listen to Reasonably Shady? I know y'all are like one

1087
01:00:10,600 --> 01:00:15,200
Speaker 1: year in, so congrat not even even I'm not even yes,

1088
01:00:15,680 --> 01:00:19,640
Speaker 1: oh yes we do from the podcasters. Now, oh we

1089
01:00:19,760 --> 01:00:21,640
Speaker 1: love it. It's a lot of work. Yeah, it's work,

1090
01:00:21,720 --> 01:00:23,760
Speaker 1: but we love it. It's worth yes, but we love

1091
01:00:23,840 --> 01:00:26,680
Speaker 1: it because we are connecting with the viewers, the listeners

1092
01:00:26,760 --> 01:00:28,640
Speaker 1: and the viewers of the show, like, like I said,

1093
01:00:28,680 --> 01:00:30,280
Speaker 1: on a deeper level. So I love that. So we

1094
01:00:30,440 --> 01:00:33,040
Speaker 1: dropped on Monday every Monday. So after you listen to

1095
01:00:33,160 --> 01:00:37,280
Speaker 1: this show Horrible Decisions, make sure you'all tune into Reasonably Shady.

1096
01:00:37,640 --> 01:00:41,240
Speaker 1: That is a black effect. I heart radio podcast. Uh

1097
01:00:41,600 --> 01:00:46,520
Speaker 1: just so Robin, thank y'all, thank you for not being

1098
01:00:46,600 --> 01:00:52,960
Speaker 1: some most because yeah altic bye guys. This has been

1099
01:00:53,000 --> 01:00:58,080
Speaker 1: yet another episode of horrible Decisions. That's what it was.

1100
01:00:58,560 --> 01:01:01,680
Speaker 1: I mean, a lot of kettles and pots. However, I

1101
01:01:01,760 --> 01:01:04,240
Speaker 1: mean my take on it was, of course, just the

1102
01:01:04,280 --> 01:01:07,800
Speaker 1: accountability part at the end of the day. Yeah, I

1103
01:01:07,880 --> 01:01:09,560
Speaker 1: guess we could sit here and sit on the fact

1104
01:01:09,640 --> 01:01:13,480
Speaker 1: that we've all fell for niggas that wasn't shipped. But

1105
01:01:13,960 --> 01:01:16,800
Speaker 1: to me, at some point you have to be able

1106
01:01:16,880 --> 01:01:20,000
Speaker 1: to see who the person is when when they show

1107
01:01:20,080 --> 01:01:23,760
Speaker 1: you them. And first off, you were never the only

1108
01:01:23,840 --> 01:01:26,160
Speaker 1: one or the main one, me, me, the baby, mom

1109
01:01:26,360 --> 01:01:29,520
Speaker 1: and other women were also in the picture. Um. And

1110
01:01:29,600 --> 01:01:32,520
Speaker 1: then outside of that, he left you while you were pregnant,

1111
01:01:32,680 --> 01:01:35,680
Speaker 1: that's fair. Did you ever think that man could degrade

1112
01:01:35,720 --> 01:01:37,880
Speaker 1: you on Instagram live and put your baby on there

1113
01:01:38,080 --> 01:01:41,560
Speaker 1: and keep you you while you were pregnant? And according

1114
01:01:41,640 --> 01:01:45,280
Speaker 1: to the family you also did you was already pregnant baby. Yeah,

1115
01:01:45,360 --> 01:01:47,320
Speaker 1: but you also didn't even show up for the baby shower.

1116
01:01:47,600 --> 01:01:49,920
Speaker 1: You didn't show up for me or the baby before

1117
01:01:49,960 --> 01:01:53,240
Speaker 1: the baby was here baby. So I just feel like,

1118
01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:56,640
Speaker 1: no to me, Like, that's the thing. We all date

1119
01:01:56,760 --> 01:02:00,760
Speaker 1: men with the lens of the idea of them or

1120
01:02:00,880 --> 01:02:04,800
Speaker 1: the potential of them, without really just acknowledging who the

1121
01:02:04,880 --> 01:02:06,640
Speaker 1: funk they are right in front of our eyes. But

1122
01:02:06,720 --> 01:02:10,200
Speaker 1: what is she supposed to like? And here's the other

1123
01:02:10,320 --> 01:02:13,200
Speaker 1: thing I understand. He left her when she was pregnant.

1124
01:02:13,200 --> 01:02:15,120
Speaker 1: He didn't show up to the baby shower. Okay, she

1125
01:02:15,280 --> 01:02:17,560
Speaker 1: has the baby. He's like, y'all move in with me.

1126
01:02:17,880 --> 01:02:20,280
Speaker 1: It's your first kid. I'm gonna help you out. Who's

1127
01:02:20,280 --> 01:02:23,280
Speaker 1: gonna say no to that? Your emotions are crazy. I've

1128
01:02:23,320 --> 01:02:24,960
Speaker 1: never had a baby. You've never had a baby. We've

1129
01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:27,440
Speaker 1: only had friends with babies. Right, they're all fucked up

1130
01:02:27,480 --> 01:02:29,960
Speaker 1: with hormones. And you're telling me I'm gonna say no

1131
01:02:30,680 --> 01:02:32,840
Speaker 1: to the father of my child in writing me in

1132
01:02:32,880 --> 01:02:35,320
Speaker 1: his home and possibly making it work. And granted she

1133
01:02:35,440 --> 01:02:38,520
Speaker 1: probably is in love with him, Like, no, dude, you're

1134
01:02:38,520 --> 01:02:41,400
Speaker 1: gonna recant the happy memories. What are you gonna do

1135
01:02:41,440 --> 01:02:43,440
Speaker 1: start fucking with another nigga? No, you want to feel

1136
01:02:43,840 --> 01:02:46,840
Speaker 1: that community and that fatherhood and that feeling is crazy,

1137
01:02:47,160 --> 01:02:50,320
Speaker 1: because girl, the first baby mama that you've been back

1138
01:02:50,360 --> 01:02:54,680
Speaker 1: and forth ft she prayed it right now again, So

1139
01:02:55,000 --> 01:02:57,440
Speaker 1: you don't moved in with this figure and he's expecting

1140
01:02:57,480 --> 01:03:00,680
Speaker 1: another child with the woman that but she's supposed to do.

1141
01:03:01,760 --> 01:03:04,600
Speaker 1: She's supposed to be a grown ass woman. She wasn't

1142
01:03:04,600 --> 01:03:07,240
Speaker 1: supposed to sell her home in l A to move

1143
01:03:07,360 --> 01:03:10,520
Speaker 1: half across the country where she knows nobody, has no friends.

1144
01:03:10,720 --> 01:03:12,160
Speaker 1: She said that that's why I took her so long

1145
01:03:12,200 --> 01:03:15,320
Speaker 1: to even leave the house. Like to me, no, I'm sorry,

1146
01:03:15,360 --> 01:03:17,360
Speaker 1: it's a grown ass woman. This is being hasn't showed

1147
01:03:17,440 --> 01:03:19,080
Speaker 1: up for you. So for you to put all of

1148
01:03:19,520 --> 01:03:22,240
Speaker 1: all of your hope into this man who hasn't been

1149
01:03:22,280 --> 01:03:24,919
Speaker 1: able to show up for you since at some point,

1150
01:03:25,240 --> 01:03:27,680
Speaker 1: you gotta you gotta fault yourself. I think that you

1151
01:03:27,840 --> 01:03:30,080
Speaker 1: can't say that when someone's just had a baby. I

1152
01:03:30,160 --> 01:03:32,520
Speaker 1: think you could say that for someone to like it's

1153
01:03:32,600 --> 01:03:36,760
Speaker 1: just with and they've been in love, Like we've said this,

1154
01:03:36,880 --> 01:03:39,160
Speaker 1: and this is a problem with Danny. She probably thought

1155
01:03:39,240 --> 01:03:41,760
Speaker 1: that baby was gonna get them back together. A lot

1156
01:03:41,800 --> 01:03:44,720
Speaker 1: of people keep a baby, have a baby and hope

1157
01:03:44,760 --> 01:03:48,040
Speaker 1: that it makes a bond stronger or but or a

1158
01:03:48,120 --> 01:03:50,840
Speaker 1: man can show up differently. We didn't see how the

1159
01:03:50,880 --> 01:03:53,640
Speaker 1: same way of a girl that just had her first child.

1160
01:03:53,800 --> 01:03:56,480
Speaker 1: She's young, the same. It's the same way, and I'm

1161
01:03:56,520 --> 01:03:58,400
Speaker 1: gonna say it, it's the same shing I said about

1162
01:03:58,440 --> 01:04:02,600
Speaker 1: Summer Walker and her he has album. Yeah, you sat

1163
01:04:02,680 --> 01:04:05,040
Speaker 1: here and argued with all the other baby mama's thinking

1164
01:04:05,080 --> 01:04:07,560
Speaker 1: that you was gonna be different. Danny thought because she

1165
01:04:07,640 --> 01:04:09,880
Speaker 1: was a yellow bone she was gonna be treated different

1166
01:04:09,880 --> 01:04:12,520
Speaker 1: than he did. But and and trust me. And I

1167
01:04:12,600 --> 01:04:14,480
Speaker 1: saw this tweet from Crystal that I really liked. It

1168
01:04:14,560 --> 01:04:16,080
Speaker 1: was like, y'all really got me sticking up for this.

1169
01:04:16,240 --> 01:04:18,080
Speaker 1: He want me because I'm yellow bitch, because that's how

1170
01:04:18,120 --> 01:04:21,440
Speaker 1: trash the baby is. But you're saying that we know this,

1171
01:04:22,080 --> 01:04:25,640
Speaker 1: he ain't gonna stay blah blah blah. Mandy, she she

1172
01:04:25,800 --> 01:04:28,400
Speaker 1: was twenty four, like I think she's twenty five now

1173
01:04:28,520 --> 01:04:32,000
Speaker 1: or six? Like do you really like, can you really

1174
01:04:32,080 --> 01:04:35,920
Speaker 1: say that? But that's what I'm saying, Like, can we

1175
01:04:36,360 --> 01:04:39,600
Speaker 1: and by we, I mean people that say you should

1176
01:04:39,680 --> 01:04:43,120
Speaker 1: know better? Can we really say that if you've already

1177
01:04:43,200 --> 01:04:45,080
Speaker 1: been through a shitty situation with a nigga, Like the

1178
01:04:45,160 --> 01:04:48,560
Speaker 1: girl is young, I just don't And I really feel

1179
01:04:48,600 --> 01:04:50,160
Speaker 1: like he exploited her. I feel like what he did

1180
01:04:50,280 --> 01:04:53,960
Speaker 1: was fucked up. I just don't like using that young

1181
01:04:54,080 --> 01:04:57,240
Speaker 1: excuse for someone who's twenty six, because we still have

1182
01:04:57,400 --> 01:05:00,480
Speaker 1: niggas in their thirties and forties who's still learn Like

1183
01:05:00,600 --> 01:05:03,440
Speaker 1: to me, no, there's a lot more resources now. There's

1184
01:05:03,440 --> 01:05:05,600
Speaker 1: a lot of people telling you what to do, what

1185
01:05:05,800 --> 01:05:08,880
Speaker 1: not to do. There's you've sat here and been dragged

1186
01:05:08,920 --> 01:05:11,400
Speaker 1: by the Internet. You've seen how bad this man has

1187
01:05:11,440 --> 01:05:14,280
Speaker 1: treated you over the years. It's been in your face.

1188
01:05:14,640 --> 01:05:17,560
Speaker 1: And she literally said she was like, I feel so

1189
01:05:17,680 --> 01:05:19,959
Speaker 1: bad that I didn't listen to the internet, the fact

1190
01:05:20,000 --> 01:05:22,360
Speaker 1: that you have to be like, damn Internet, you was right.

1191
01:05:23,000 --> 01:05:25,960
Speaker 1: Everyone was telling you. You chose to ignore all the

1192
01:05:26,040 --> 01:05:28,920
Speaker 1: red flags. We just spoke about how everybody was posting

1193
01:05:28,960 --> 01:05:32,360
Speaker 1: the red flags. Bit them. Ships was flaming hot. They

1194
01:05:32,440 --> 01:05:36,080
Speaker 1: wasn't even off off white. They wasn't even hot pink.

1195
01:05:36,400 --> 01:05:40,480
Speaker 1: They was read the whole time. Like so to me, No,

1196
01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:44,680
Speaker 1: at you're eighteen year an adult, you're twenty, you're twenty one,

1197
01:05:44,720 --> 01:05:46,680
Speaker 1: you're twenty two, you're twenty five or twenty six, you're

1198
01:05:46,720 --> 01:05:49,040
Speaker 1: thirty or thirty one. I'm not gonna just call someone

1199
01:05:49,080 --> 01:05:53,720
Speaker 1: in their twenties, late twenties, mid twenties young. Oh my god,

1200
01:05:53,800 --> 01:05:55,760
Speaker 1: it's not like she's in high school. I