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Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all

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Speaker 1: don't know y'all, but.

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Speaker 2: All at all, So.

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Speaker 4: Back A million bus busy.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, listening to.

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Speaker 6: To I want to joy?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Joy? You turn? You gotta turn.

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Speaker 3: I got to turn the mouth.

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Speaker 7: You probably got to turn the mouth, the turn mount

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Speaker 7: turn the water of.

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Speaker 1: The mony up. Come come on, you'll think that, Uh huh,

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Speaker 1: I sure will. Good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice,

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Speaker 1: come on, dig me now for it.

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Speaker 4: Only Steve Harvey got a radio show man instead of

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Speaker 4: trying to be about the business. To y'all, I'm doing

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Speaker 4: all I can. But you know what's crazy in the

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Speaker 4: efforts that I make.

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Speaker 1: I can do more.

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Speaker 4: When my father used to tell me something when I

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Speaker 4: was growing up, he says, son, when you've done your

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Speaker 4: best and you've done all you can, sit still for

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Speaker 4: a second and just do a little bit more.

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Speaker 1: Always remember that, he said.

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Speaker 4: When you've done the best you can and you can

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Speaker 4: done all you can think of, he say, sit still

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Speaker 4: for a minute and do some more. And you know

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Speaker 4: what I've discovered in my life, always have a little more.

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Speaker 4: I ain't ever just out out completely. I can't take

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Speaker 4: another step. There ain't another breath in me, the ain't

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Speaker 4: another thought I can produce. I'm never completely out, man.

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Speaker 4: Just take a rest for a minute, man, and then

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Speaker 4: just do a little bit more. And I can't tell

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Speaker 4: you how many times that's helped me get over the top.

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Speaker 4: You know, I was watching a documentary about people climbing

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Speaker 4: on Mount Everest and how difficult climbing Mount Everest was,

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Speaker 4: of people run out of oxygen and they have to

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Speaker 4: turn back. Well, what's crazy is it's right in view

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Speaker 4: of the summit. You can actually see the top of

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Speaker 4: Mount Everest from there, but it's that little bit that's

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Speaker 4: reasons why they said most people don't make it from there,

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Speaker 4: and more people have lost their lives in that area.

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Speaker 4: I don't know what it is, but the people that

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Speaker 4: not even really sure if Mount Everest analogy is a

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Speaker 4: good one. But let's just break it down a little

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Speaker 4: bit more. Let's just talk about life. There's a poem

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Speaker 4: I learned back when the host pledging. It's called don't Quit.

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Speaker 4: It goes like this, If I make a mistake, I'm

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Speaker 4: It says, when things go wrong, as they sometimes will,

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Speaker 4: when the road you're trudging seems all uphill, when your

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Speaker 4: want to smile, but you have to sigh when cares

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Speaker 4: But don't quit. For life is queer with his twist

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Speaker 4: and turns, as every one of us must sometimes learn.

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Speaker 4: And many a fellow has turned about when he might

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Speaker 4: Though the pace seems slow, you may succeed with another blow.

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Speaker 4: Often the gold is nearer than it seems to a

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Speaker 4: faint and a faltering man. And often the struggler has

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Speaker 4: given up when he might have captured the victor's cup.

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Speaker 4: And he learns too late when the night came down,

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Speaker 4: failure turned inside out. It's your silver tin of your

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Speaker 1: That you mustn't quit.

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Speaker 4: I remember it because I had a special method of

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Speaker 4: we often talk about scripture and everything, and then I

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Speaker 4: a writing on somebody's heart that delivers a message man,

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Speaker 4: that can help people. I use every motivational tool that

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Speaker 4: try to be the best father and the best husband

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Speaker 4: I can be. I've done a lot of changing over

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Speaker 4: the years, and so have you. But change is necessary

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Speaker 4: in order to grow. If you don't make changes, folks,

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Speaker 4: you can't grow. I was a young man on my set.

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Speaker 4: I kept looking at him in a sharp little young

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Speaker 4: dude just on my set and he had these dreads

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Speaker 4: young man kept talking to me, and I said, hey, man,

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Speaker 4: you know you do a huge self of favor in

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Speaker 4: Your image is everything, man, I said. He keeps stopping

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Speaker 4: me in the hallway to try to tell me what

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Speaker 4: you're doing, what you are, but all I see is

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Speaker 4: your hair. Now, I keep trying to figure out what

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Speaker 4: you're doing with all that hair. Man, Now you can

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Speaker 4: feel how you want to feel. But I'm like an employer.

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Speaker 4: I employed people. So when I'm walking through the hallway

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Speaker 4: to imagine you and your suit sitting there talking business

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Speaker 4: just having a real story with you. So I said, man,

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Speaker 4: you ought to consider cutting your hair. He said, Man,

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Speaker 4: a little boy. I said, how old are you now?

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Speaker 4: He said twenty eight? I said, well, how long you

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Speaker 4: was a little boy? You know, if you started growing

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Speaker 4: help you understand something. Let me let me ask you something.

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Speaker 4: What does it do for you? He said, Man, it's

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Speaker 4: He said no, no, but it's a part of me.

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Speaker 4: I said, that part of you that you're hanging on to.

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Speaker 1: I like ice cream, but I feed that.

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Speaker 4: But if I hang on ice cream and eat ice

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Speaker 4: want to let go of? That's prohibiting you from being

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Speaker 4: what all you can be? See, it's hard to be

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Speaker 4: So I can't tell you how many times I've had

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Speaker 4: to change. Change is necessary to grow. Oh, you can't

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Speaker 1: That don't make no sense. How do you go forward?

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Speaker 4: If you keep going backwards? You can't stay here and

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Speaker 4: go there? Do you understand that if you want to

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Speaker 4: Oh I got right Here is comfortable? I got right

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Speaker 4: here is safe. But over there's where the shade is.

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Speaker 4: Over There's where the fruit is. Over there is where

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Speaker 4: all you can be if you want to stay stuck

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Speaker 4: on who you was. Change is growth is necessary.

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Speaker 7: All let's go.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 4: Ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls, monkey trainers, are the

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Speaker 4: choke farmers, basketball makers, basket weavers, half color specialists, and

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Speaker 4: anybody that works at Fort Knox. Let me have your attention,

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Speaker 4: and anybody's affiliated with anything else. If you got a job,

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Speaker 4: just listen to this. Ain't you glad you're working? Ain't

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Speaker 4: you glad that you have the ability to provide the

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Speaker 4: necessities of life. There are people who don't even have

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Speaker 4: the necessities. Food, shelter and clothing. You ought to be

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Speaker 4: grateful for that. Man, I am, I'm in the wont business,

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Speaker 4: but a lot one of us are in the wont business.

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Speaker 4: You just never really looked at it like that. If

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Speaker 4: you have food, shelter and clothing, you have everything you need.

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Speaker 4: That's what you need. You need food, shelter, clothing, that's

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Speaker 4: your needs. Everybody need love, everybody need a friend. If

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Speaker 7: Go to God with it.

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Speaker 4: Man, I don't know, but guess what I wanted to

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Speaker 4: Another chance, another day, another opportunity, that's a big blessing.

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Speaker 4: You got to start with that one right there. If

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Speaker 4: because you ain't thinking. Open up your mind, see what

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Speaker 4: God has done, and realize the goodness and grace of

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Speaker 4: God has.

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Speaker 1: Always been around you, whether you ask for it or not.

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Speaker 4: Ladies and gentlemen, This is to Steve Harvey Morning Show,

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Speaker 4: Shirley Strawberry call it for real.

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Speaker 1: Mississippi Monica.

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Speaker 4: Government name is kill space, Ladies and gentlemen, the legend

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Speaker 4: of Nephew Tommy Junior.

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Speaker 1: Anything on your mind today, man?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, unc, you know, I'm grateful to uncle. I'm grateful.

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Speaker 9: I'm grateful for being in trouble and not even knowing it.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, I didn't even.

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Speaker 1: Know that this is possible.

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Speaker 1: Oh you're married.

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Speaker 9: Yeah, oh yeah, I didn't even know. It wasn't even

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Speaker 9: my fault. I didn't even know. All I know is

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Speaker 9: my play ain't getting fixed out and she's not talking

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Speaker 9: to me. I don't even know yet. I had no

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Speaker 9: idea this could be possible.

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Speaker 4: Well, can I tell you, sir on the brain? It's

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Speaker 4: gonna get brought to your attention though, mm hmm yeah

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Speaker 4: what you did? Go get baught to your attention?

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Speaker 9: Yeah, yeah, yeah, but I'm gonna fixing your plate. No, no,

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Speaker 9: she didn't fix the place. She said that I ate

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Speaker 9: right in front of me. I'm talking about chewing chewing

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Speaker 9: chold win.

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Speaker 4: Well, Junior, let me ask you a question now, because

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Speaker 4: I ain't in your family. You're been since you do

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Speaker 4: how you want to do. So that what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: But do you expect her to make your plate?

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Speaker 8: All right, it's time now to start your morning off

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Speaker 7: Make it life guard. Let's go care Doe.

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Speaker 6: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach a carried Yes, this

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Speaker 6: is Carried. Hi Carrie. My name is Oliver. Oliver. You

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Speaker 1: Oh, yeah, I did.

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Speaker 6: Okay, have you had much experience being a lifeguard?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been doing this for a while now, bexed,

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Speaker 10: So I'm good.

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Speaker 2: I'm good at what I do. I love it.

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Speaker 6: Very good, very good. Well, i'll tell you what I've

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Speaker 6: don't know if you're familiar with it, but public pool.

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Speaker 6: It's actually in subdivision. There's two pools there. Are you

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Speaker 2: I'm familiar with it. They're near where I live.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, Well, there's actually in the back of there's

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Speaker 2: What do you say, Oh, I say, okay, that sounds great.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, exactly. Now we start off. Job actually pays

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Speaker 6: twenty five dollars an hour. Wow. You would be our

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Speaker 6: Now, carry there's only one catch that actually comes along

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Speaker 2: I feel good. I mean, with the recession and everything,

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Speaker 6: Okay, now here's the deal. This is in negated community,

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Speaker 6: And what they asked is if they're going to be

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm a certified lifeguard, I'm CPR certified, I'm a student.

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Speaker 6: Resume and I understand that wholeheartedly. But we're talking about

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Speaker 6: How do you feel about seventeen hundred and fifty a

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Speaker 6: But I mean, I mean, are are you How do

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Speaker 6: then you know, how do you feel about that? I

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Speaker 6: don't know, but I mean you're gonna watch over some

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Speaker 2: I don't think I'm going to be able to do that.

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Speaker 6: Seventeen fifty carry. We're talking about four hours of you

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Speaker 6: I mean, what's the big deal. You know? What we

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Speaker 6: definitely qualified. But we're gonna make sure that when you

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Speaker 11: I have to do some drills naked? I'm on a radio, lifeguarded.

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Speaker 6: Understand all that. But in order we for our particular property,

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Speaker 6: You know. Well that's the way it is, carrit We

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Speaker 11: But what I mean, what if my family come to that?

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Speaker 6: You know, Carrie, you know I can't go back and

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Speaker 6: I look at your resume. I looked at what you

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Speaker 11: But I can't be here.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I can't do that to my family.

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Speaker 7: And you can know.

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Speaker 6: No, wait a minute, hang on a second. Now you

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Speaker 11: Oh yes, I yes, I can't.

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Speaker 6: So you get your down here in the morning so

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Speaker 6: I can get these drills done. And I want you

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Speaker 6: You understand me?

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Speaker 11: Who the hell do you think you're talking to? Are

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Speaker 2: Lifeguard?

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Speaker 11: You human resources arer? And Pip you're new tipping me.

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Speaker 11: I don't have to come down there, but I want

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Speaker 6: You gotta bring you think it down there tomorrow and

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Speaker 11: Do you think you're talking to.

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Speaker 6: I'm talking to you? Get here tomorrow and your duty drill.

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Speaker 11: You need to do it. Don't get you a penal

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Speaker 6: I don't give a bool you know. Now, you get

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Speaker 11: I'm not coming down there to your funt told tomorrow

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Speaker 4: Not there coming to girl.

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Speaker 7: You got me?

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Speaker 11: Okay, you need to go get you a Pamela Anderson Baywatch.

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Speaker 11: You know DeepC diving. I don't know what you need,

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Speaker 6: You get your block down here tomorrow. What I'm talking

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Speaker 6: You're listening, you know.

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Speaker 6: This is Nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 6: You just got pranked by your girlfriend. I just this

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Speaker 7: And there you have it naked like God.

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Speaker 8: Julie and Nashville writes, I'm a fifty year old married

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Speaker 5: My husband didn't go to college.

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Speaker 4: Come on, you celebrate your child. That's a major accomplishment.

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Speaker 4: And the daddy you just done, what's wrong with your dogs?

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Speaker 4: What happened to the wont and a better life for

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Speaker 4: to pick up the pace.

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Speaker 1: Stop. You got to be kidding me.

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Speaker 4: Man, your son got a chance to really turn itself

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Speaker 5: This one's from Miracle and Illinois.

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Speaker 8: Miracle says, my old classmate offered to take me to

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Speaker 8: But he has a girlfriend. I want to let her

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Speaker 8: deal with it? Let him deal with it?

442
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:18,679
Speaker 1: See, Miracle, you know.

443
00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 4: See I don't even think this letter should have been

444
00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 4: written in because there's something behind this that you're not

445
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:31,119
Speaker 4: sharing with it. See, you would want he has a girlfriend,

446
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:36,000
Speaker 4: now you fit. No, she not fifty Julie was fi.

447
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:37,280
Speaker 1: No, No, she's not fifty.

448
00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:41,200
Speaker 4: No, y you Miracle, Come on now, y'all riding downtown

449
00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:42,480
Speaker 4: together to split the gas.

450
00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:45,639
Speaker 1: If that's it, then that's it. That's it.

451
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,639
Speaker 4: But you want her to know, so what you finish,

452
00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:53,680
Speaker 4: call her and tell her. Just let him deal with it, right,

453
00:24:54,200 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 4: You know? If I would want to know, well, maybe

454
00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:59,320
Speaker 4: you ain't hung and he don't want her to know.

455
00:25:00,200 --> 00:25:02,040
Speaker 4: He want to holler at you while y'all on the

456
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:04,560
Speaker 4: way down to work. Now you already know that's what

457
00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:05,119
Speaker 4: this is.

458
00:25:06,119 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 6: Y'all.

459
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:08,520
Speaker 1: Ain't that good at coworker? Stopping big right?

460
00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:11,639
Speaker 4: Drive your own car, may or whatever. Lady, if you

461
00:25:11,760 --> 00:25:16,320
Speaker 4: worried about all that, don't go mm call your own

462
00:25:16,440 --> 00:25:18,639
Speaker 4: that's right. I promise you he ain't got you up

463
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:23,920
Speaker 4: in that car just cause y'all. Coop man stop all right?

464
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:27,840
Speaker 5: Okay, miracle you got that, didn't you? Here we go.

465
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 8: Trenisean Inglewood says, I'm twenty nine years old and my

466
00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:35,119
Speaker 8: mother's man of the month is only thirty seven. He

467
00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:37,240
Speaker 8: used to talk to one of my friends, and I

468
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:40,320
Speaker 8: let him know that I knew he ghosted my mom.

469
00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:43,320
Speaker 8: Since then should I tell my mom what I did

470
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:45,920
Speaker 8: or let her move on to yet another man?

471
00:25:46,840 --> 00:25:48,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, just go on and tell her if he'd a

472
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:51,520
Speaker 4: ghost in it? Hey, mom, I just want you to

473
00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:54,560
Speaker 4: note that I told him that I knew him. He's

474
00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:57,840
Speaker 4: thirty seven. He dated one of my friends. I reminded

475
00:25:57,960 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 4: him of that, and now he don't want to see

476
00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:02,200
Speaker 4: you no more. That's why he ain't seen. Yeah, why

477
00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:04,480
Speaker 4: not tell her all? You ain't got to say nothing.

478
00:26:04,600 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 4: He didn't got to them. It's home.

479
00:26:07,520 --> 00:26:09,879
Speaker 5: She's probably afraid that the mom will be mad at her.

480
00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:13,720
Speaker 1: Well, they don't tell her. Y'all talk too much.

481
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:17,160
Speaker 5: We like to confess.

482
00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:18,840
Speaker 7: Yeah, all this here, you know?

483
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:23,119
Speaker 4: Should I tell him her girlfriend we rideing to work together.

484
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:26,640
Speaker 4: Should I tell my mama that her mad of the month?

485
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:27,399
Speaker 7: You said date one?

486
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:28,479
Speaker 1: Shut up?

487
00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:31,439
Speaker 5: We like to get it off of us.

488
00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:37,640
Speaker 4: Man, y'all, but y'all talk too much. Be quiet sometime. Man,

489
00:26:37,760 --> 00:26:40,399
Speaker 4: Everything ain't got to be a problem. Quit making it

490
00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:41,000
Speaker 4: a problem.

491
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:42,240
Speaker 7: Shut up.

492
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:44,600
Speaker 8: And her mom is going to have a new man

493
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 8: anyway next month. She gets one every month, she says,

494
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:54,280
Speaker 8: So shut up, man, you sound like Raymond in the closet.

495
00:26:54,520 --> 00:27:02,200
Speaker 8: One of Tommy's prying. All right, last one? Steve a

496
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:05,960
Speaker 8: f and wes Philly says a close friend.

497
00:27:05,800 --> 00:27:06,440
Speaker 1: Moved to town.

498
00:27:07,040 --> 00:27:11,359
Speaker 5: Right, I know, I know, I know.

499
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 8: Af and wes Philly says, a close friend moved to

500
00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:18,919
Speaker 8: town three months ago. So I introduced her to my friends.

501
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:22,280
Speaker 8: We always planned to hang out, but she is always

502
00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:25,159
Speaker 8: busy for me, too busy for me. I heard she

503
00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 8: went to brunch with my friends and I wasn't invited.

504
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 8: Should I act unbothered or confront them all?

505
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:32,160
Speaker 1: Wow?

506
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:34,200
Speaker 4: So what is this?

507
00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:35,600
Speaker 1: A Landa wrote this letter?

508
00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 8: It sounds like a woman, Steve, I think, but yeah,

509
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:46,520
Speaker 8: it sounds like a woman. But the initials are af Sorry,

510
00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:48,920
Speaker 8: that's probably what you are.

511
00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:53,280
Speaker 1: Crazy.

512
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 4: So then they found a way to not have to

513
00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:01,120
Speaker 4: deal with you at the first. I don't I don't

514
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:02,520
Speaker 4: see what confronted all of me?

515
00:28:02,800 --> 00:28:08,679
Speaker 1: Once again? Once again, shut up. We got three letters

516
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:15,040
Speaker 1: in a row but nothing. Sureley, you know I'm the

517
00:28:15,200 --> 00:28:15,879
Speaker 1: c l O.

518
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:20,560
Speaker 4: And I say, so what your feelings is hurt? The

519
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:23,399
Speaker 4: friend came to town, You introduce your friend to all

520
00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:25,440
Speaker 4: your friends. They did it all with the brunch and

521
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 4: the ain't told you.

522
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:29,639
Speaker 5: Yeah, so she's hurt that she was left out and

523
00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:32,480
Speaker 5: her confront.

524
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:36,240
Speaker 1: All her friend and find out.

525
00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:38,160
Speaker 3: She hurt.

526
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:41,360
Speaker 4: Now, now when you find out them, ain't your friend,

527
00:28:44,280 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 4: play it off, act.

528
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:49,560
Speaker 1: Like you didn't know, like she's unbothered on the b yeah,

529
00:28:49,640 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 1: and just going.

530
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 4: And quit making an issue because it ain't gonna do nothing.

531
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:53,720
Speaker 1: But you're not gonna be.

532
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 7: Friends with.

533
00:28:56,080 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 1: She stole her friend. She ain't gonna let it go.

534
00:28:59,000 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 1: See them.

535
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:03,800
Speaker 4: She ain't gonna I know she's not. I keep saying

536
00:29:04,440 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 4: we as women, y'all talk too much. Everything don't need closure.

537
00:29:10,680 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 4: Some stuff is closed? What is what is the closure?

538
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 4: Is two words closure? So not but it was closed.

539
00:29:20,040 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 4: It's two words closed once to get closed. Why do

540
00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 4: you have to be sure that?

541
00:29:28,520 --> 00:29:28,720
Speaker 6: Why?

542
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 7: What is that?

543
00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 1: I got to be sure it's closure. It's closed.

544
00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 4: Stop worrying about the other end of it. I got

545
00:29:39,640 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 4: to be sure it's closed. All right, women, I know

546
00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 4: y'all don't know how to do this.

547
00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:49,520
Speaker 5: You're saying more women need to learn the art of

548
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 5: closure and to move on.

549
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:55,320
Speaker 1: No except the action that it is.

550
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:58,040
Speaker 4: Just go to the next move because it's gonna be

551
00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:01,640
Speaker 4: some more move keep letting these moves pile up.

552
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:02,680
Speaker 1: Let that go.

553
00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:07,200
Speaker 5: Okay, shut up, all right, all right, thank you, celo,

554
00:30:07,880 --> 00:30:08,200
Speaker 5: thank you.

555
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 1: This is Steve Harbin Martin show Man. Why do we

556
00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 1: have a radio show. We're gonna do it right?

557
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:21,240
Speaker 7: That's stupid, stupid, That's what I'm talking about.

558
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:26,440
Speaker 1: Boy, say that many that show. If we're gonna be

559
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 1: right coming up right after.

560
00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:38,200
Speaker 8: Steve Jay and uh, you guys are here to tell

561
00:30:38,320 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 8: us things that vegans will be saying because the fourth

562
00:30:40,840 --> 00:30:41,960
Speaker 8: of July is coming.

563
00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 4: Up, so and this is gonna be interesting because three

564
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:46,120
Speaker 4: of my kids is vegan.

565
00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:49,400
Speaker 1: Oh okay, so you'll probably hear a lot of this stuff.

566
00:30:49,480 --> 00:30:52,920
Speaker 3: Then, do y'all remember when there was never a vegan.

567
00:30:54,480 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 5: Never new one, yeah one, yeah, vegetarians, but right vegan know.

568
00:31:01,120 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 1: Them was none of.

569
00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:05,880
Speaker 3: Everybody ate meat?

570
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:08,400
Speaker 7: Here we go.

571
00:31:08,640 --> 00:31:12,760
Speaker 12: These are things vegans and vegetarians will be saying at

572
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:13,840
Speaker 12: the fourth of July.

573
00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:16,200
Speaker 3: Steve Steve.

574
00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:18,920
Speaker 12: Steve was coming about he would go, if you knew

575
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:21,600
Speaker 12: what them chickens was eating, you wouldn't eat chicken.

576
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 4: M Well, I don't know what the chickens is and

577
00:31:27,800 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 4: so I'm just gonna just sit doing this chicken. No,

578
00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 4: I don't know what they eat, but I know what

579
00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 4: I'm gonna.

580
00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:35,840
Speaker 1: Be eating the chicken.

581
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:42,480
Speaker 3: So so he's gonna eat meat in front of me.

582
00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 4: Huh, girl, I eat meat in front of you, behind you,

583
00:31:47,040 --> 00:31:50,600
Speaker 4: under you, on top of you. I'm talking to my kids.

584
00:31:50,640 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 4: I was eating meat when I was paying all them

585
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:55,800
Speaker 4: college tuitions. You ain't gotta pay loans on.

586
00:31:59,440 --> 00:31:59,840
Speaker 7: It was?

587
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,240
Speaker 3: Is that meat? I smell it?

588
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:06,960
Speaker 1: Show is it ain't cold? I can tell you that.

589
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:14,800
Speaker 4: Souchini don't have a smelly. You have a grilled and tomato.

590
00:32:15,120 --> 00:32:18,320
Speaker 4: There is no smell. You know why, because it don't

591
00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:19,560
Speaker 4: belong on the grill.

592
00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:23,320
Speaker 2: Man.

593
00:32:24,840 --> 00:32:26,719
Speaker 3: You know how long meat stay in your system?

594
00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:35,880
Speaker 1: A long time, and that's why I want it. That's

595
00:32:35,960 --> 00:32:37,240
Speaker 1: what I put it in there for.

596
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:42,480
Speaker 3: There's another one. If that's got meat in it, then

597
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:43,160
Speaker 3: I can't eat it.

598
00:32:43,840 --> 00:32:48,400
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, but what you're gonna eat there because got

599
00:32:48,560 --> 00:32:52,640
Speaker 4: meat in it. The greens got meat in it. I

600
00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:57,200
Speaker 4: got meat in the mac and cheese this year. Its

601
00:32:57,480 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 4: meat next to all that bread. We go, we got

602
00:33:01,840 --> 00:33:04,480
Speaker 4: on the grill, the meaning the meat.

603
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:05,720
Speaker 6: It's meeting.

604
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:07,640
Speaker 1: I got in the house, standing over there in the

605
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:09,920
Speaker 1: middle of that grass case. I run out of him.

606
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 5: Stupid ready, Yeah, I know, I know you heard this

607
00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:19,720
Speaker 5: with Steve.

608
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:21,400
Speaker 3: Who gave the baby me?

609
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:27,640
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, I gave the baby to me? Who

610
00:33:27,800 --> 00:33:30,680
Speaker 4: your thank gave the baby me? Look how happy the

611
00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 4: baby look? Going over there and taking me from the baby.

612
00:33:35,640 --> 00:33:38,960
Speaker 4: Watch the baby start crying. I gave my grandson a

613
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 4: slim jail. My daughter had a heart attack.

614
00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:46,240
Speaker 1: Was he happy? Started crying? Came right back in that office.

615
00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 1: I gave him a number.

616
00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 3: I told you I was a vegan, but you got

617
00:33:53,760 --> 00:33:55,200
Speaker 3: meat over here? Siously?

618
00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:56,480
Speaker 6: Siously?

619
00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:02,520
Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, and it is the fourth of July in it. Seriously,

620
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 4: let me ask you a question. Any of your vegan

621
00:34:06,080 --> 00:34:13,799
Speaker 4: friends barbecuing because it ain't nothing to barbecue? Why aren't

622
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:14,400
Speaker 4: you over there?

623
00:34:15,320 --> 00:34:17,120
Speaker 3: Why over here?

624
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:18,000
Speaker 7: Lie?

625
00:34:18,040 --> 00:34:20,000
Speaker 1: Because y'all trying to smell meat?

626
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:23,720
Speaker 7: But your.

627
00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:32,640
Speaker 1: Means are sad, they are said, yeah, very sad people.

628
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 3: I had another one. Can we say? These vegan hot dogs?

629
00:34:37,120 --> 00:34:41,720
Speaker 1: Not on this grill? On the grill?

630
00:34:42,200 --> 00:34:43,479
Speaker 7: We putting meat on this grill?

631
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 6: I know.

632
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:46,399
Speaker 4: I bought the kids are easy break up and two

633
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:49,120
Speaker 4: years ago for Christmas, somebody go in the basement and

634
00:34:49,280 --> 00:34:49,560
Speaker 4: get that.

635
00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:55,719
Speaker 1: And they ain't hot dogs, no way like this.

636
00:34:56,040 --> 00:34:57,960
Speaker 3: This is the one that he is that you ever

637
00:34:58,040 --> 00:34:59,719
Speaker 3: seen that video? What the hell?

638
00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:05,279
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, I saw it, Yes, I saw it.

639
00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:11,839
Speaker 4: I was chickens and cows in that video on this green.

640
00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:19,320
Speaker 3: I was watching it eating meat. Yeah, I saw it.

641
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:28,399
Speaker 8: Exactly what's gonna happen, That's exactly what. Yeah, the one

642
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:30,840
Speaker 8: that always killed me though. But they wanted the greens,

643
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:32,919
Speaker 8: but oh you put meat in there with the green.

644
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:38,319
Speaker 8: Oh no, I can't eat those greens, eat around them?

645
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:43,799
Speaker 8: Who they don't want the meat anywhere near their food.

646
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:47,920
Speaker 9: I just asked a vegan, just one simple question. What

647
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 9: don't you miss fool? Don't you missing?

648
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:55,719
Speaker 1: You miss that?

649
00:35:57,480 --> 00:35:59,120
Speaker 5: I mean, I'm not mad at their lifestyle.

650
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:01,400
Speaker 9: You know, a couple of messed with me.

651
00:36:01,840 --> 00:36:05,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, don't talk, Yeah, don't yeah, and not.

652
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:07,520
Speaker 3: Going where the cooking me? That that's all you got

653
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:09,880
Speaker 3: be cooking me.

654
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:11,080
Speaker 5: Bring a lunch box.

655
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:13,920
Speaker 9: I'm just bring your meal in the container and sit

656
00:36:13,960 --> 00:36:14,600
Speaker 9: over in the coat.

657
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:20,400
Speaker 13: You're gonna be just gruntled, but you're hereunt, So.

658
00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:22,279
Speaker 1: How much meat are you guys planning to eat?

659
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:22,360
Speaker 8: This?

660
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:28,399
Speaker 1: Fourth man? F flab flabs.

661
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:30,040
Speaker 9: I'm bringing my own forking knife.

662
00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:33,080
Speaker 1: You got to worry about me. I stopped again. But

663
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:34,480
Speaker 1: I missed chicken so much.

664
00:36:34,680 --> 00:36:35,239
Speaker 4: I really do.

665
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:39,280
Speaker 5: You're currently a vegan and stopped.

666
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:40,400
Speaker 1: I missed chicken.

667
00:36:40,520 --> 00:36:43,760
Speaker 3: I see it because because chicken is everywhere.

668
00:36:46,080 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, and and everything. You're right, you don't want no popeyes, Jake,

669
00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:51,840
Speaker 1: I do.

670
00:36:52,160 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying.

671
00:36:53,160 --> 00:36:53,759
Speaker 1: I'm having a.

672
00:36:57,880 --> 00:36:59,879
Speaker 7: I don't understand a fat vegetarian.

673
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:01,120
Speaker 1: If that's kind of all.

674
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:01,800
Speaker 6: No.

675
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 9: One name is Janey Brown.

676
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 1: Let me talk about.

677
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 7: I'm not talking about you, Jay. I Well I'm talking about.

678
00:37:10,719 --> 00:37:12,320
Speaker 7: I just don't know. Pat Vintier.

679
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:15,120
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Speaker 5: It is time now, guys were around it. Would you rather?

690
00:37:53,040 --> 00:37:57,200
Speaker 8: This is the fourth of July Cookout edition. Okay, so

691
00:37:57,320 --> 00:38:00,760
Speaker 8: would you rather charcoal grill or gas grill?

692
00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:03,400
Speaker 6: Now?

693
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:03,880
Speaker 7: I want to.

694
00:38:05,800 --> 00:38:09,760
Speaker 4: I use I use lump charcoal, which is actually good.

695
00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:15,160
Speaker 4: I don't I haven't used briskets in yet. Why is

696
00:38:15,239 --> 00:38:18,360
Speaker 4: she asking the cooking questions? She know what we're talking about.

697
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:33,880
Speaker 1: Attitude talking mean? Would know what she asked? Coal or gas?

698
00:38:34,120 --> 00:38:35,400
Speaker 7: I want you shut up?

699
00:38:37,080 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 5: Beef ribs or pork ribs?

700
00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:41,560
Speaker 8: Would you rather beef ribs or pork ribs more food,

701
00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 8: Tommy pork.

702
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:48,279
Speaker 4: Ribs, pork ribs, ribs and pork And when you put

703
00:38:48,360 --> 00:38:52,840
Speaker 4: it on open fire and you buy and you expose

704
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:56,840
Speaker 4: them to lump charcoal with uh wood chips, is no

705
00:38:57,000 --> 00:39:00,880
Speaker 4: longer pork anyway. It's just what is what if it

706
00:39:01,120 --> 00:39:03,480
Speaker 4: becomes a new meat, it's called Bobby.

707
00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 7: C D O B B.

708
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:09,920
Speaker 5: Why like Bobby Brown?

709
00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:12,759
Speaker 4: Bobby b O B B Why Bobby K It's a

710
00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 4: whole new meat. Ain ain't even pork no more. I'm

711
00:39:15,040 --> 00:39:18,279
Speaker 4: telling you I don't really care for pork at all.

712
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:22,359
Speaker 4: Uh huh, But when I'm eating baby back, I'm telling

713
00:39:22,400 --> 00:39:24,399
Speaker 4: you just go down just like beef.

714
00:39:25,400 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 1: All right.

715
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:29,600
Speaker 8: This is the would you rather Fourth of July cookout edition?

716
00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 8: Flats or drums? When it comes to chicken wings, you

717
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:35,120
Speaker 8: like the flats or you like the drum sticks?

718
00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:35,800
Speaker 1: Which flats?

719
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:37,600
Speaker 7: You don't do that on the four. If you cook

720
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:39,840
Speaker 7: the whole thing, you don't do you don't break that

721
00:39:40,000 --> 00:39:44,800
Speaker 7: up like that. You got two different That's that's super

722
00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:47,759
Speaker 7: Bowl you talking about. With flats and drum mat This

723
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:48,680
Speaker 7: is the four.

724
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:51,759
Speaker 1: You cook the whole like flat period. Yeah, he is

725
00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:52,479
Speaker 1: telling the truth.

726
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:54,239
Speaker 7: Yeah he is.

727
00:39:56,480 --> 00:39:57,200
Speaker 5: I like flats.

728
00:39:57,239 --> 00:39:59,359
Speaker 1: I don't care what holiday it is, all right?

729
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:03,640
Speaker 8: Would you rather dry rub or lots of barbecue sauce?

730
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:05,439
Speaker 7: You don't need sauce.

731
00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:10,600
Speaker 4: Because because my my rub is off the chain. Now,

732
00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:15,640
Speaker 4: if you're going to do a sauce, jen Ira j

733
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734
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736
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Speaker 4: the hot, and lord have mery to prepare yourself for

737
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Speaker 4: the best barbecue ever had.

738
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now to get an endorsement. It's

739
00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:43,279
Speaker 1: better than Williams Brothers. And I thought that was better.

740
00:40:43,560 --> 00:40:47,360
Speaker 8: One last one, one last one. Spades are dominoes. Spades

741
00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:48,040
Speaker 8: are dominoes.

742
00:40:48,239 --> 00:40:48,839
Speaker 9: Oh, either one.

743
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 1: You can get hurt. Spade.

744
00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:53,399
Speaker 4: Oh you got to go spades because most black people

745
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:54,600
Speaker 4: play when the ladies play.

746
00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:57,560
Speaker 7: Mom, but it's some lady dominoes. Nah, it's some later dominoes.

747
00:40:58,680 --> 00:40:58,839
Speaker 6: Hey.

748
00:40:58,920 --> 00:41:01,719
Speaker 5: This is John Legend. Hi, this is Felicious Shot.

749
00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:03,600
Speaker 1: Hey, this is Motown Recording Artists Camp.

750
00:41:03,680 --> 00:41:04,839
Speaker 9: Hey, I'm here.

751
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:05,520
Speaker 1: What's up.

752
00:41:05,600 --> 00:41:06,440
Speaker 5: This is Chris Rock.

753
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:07,080
Speaker 3: Hey, guys, what was up?

754
00:41:07,080 --> 00:41:07,239
Speaker 1: Good?

755
00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:07,479
Speaker 6: Morning.

756
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:08,600
Speaker 1: This is Tony Braxton.

757
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:10,839
Speaker 9: You already know what time in each boy DC young flight.

758
00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:13,160
Speaker 9: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

759
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:16,160
Speaker 5: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

760
00:41:21,120 --> 00:41:24,080
Speaker 8: Well, you guys know that it's summertime. People can't wait

761
00:41:24,160 --> 00:41:27,600
Speaker 8: to travel and go on vacation. So Steve, I gotta

762
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:29,719
Speaker 8: ask you this, what do you like most about going

763
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:30,360
Speaker 8: on vacation?

764
00:41:30,840 --> 00:41:30,960
Speaker 2: Uh?

765
00:41:31,640 --> 00:41:34,760
Speaker 1: Yesterday we saw you in Marjorie fishing, Junior.

766
00:41:34,800 --> 00:41:35,600
Speaker 6: I know you and your.

767
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:41,040
Speaker 1: Family fish, Tommy, you and your mommy fish. What's happening, Steve, Well,

768
00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:42,520
Speaker 1: we were just out in the backyard.

769
00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:47,919
Speaker 7: That's a fish, don't fall.

770
00:41:48,040 --> 00:41:49,439
Speaker 9: We were just out in the back y'all.

771
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:53,840
Speaker 4: Y'all said go on vacation. We ain't going vacation. It

772
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:56,919
Speaker 4: ain't vacation time. If I was on vacation wise, I'm

773
00:41:56,960 --> 00:42:02,520
Speaker 4: on this radio. That ain't vacation.

774
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:09,000
Speaker 1: Today. Just went out back to see Marjorie. She was

775
00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:09,799
Speaker 1: she want to fish.

776
00:42:09,880 --> 00:42:11,960
Speaker 4: I gotta go down there and set all her rods

777
00:42:12,040 --> 00:42:15,200
Speaker 4: and stuff up for And I wasn't even trying to fish.

778
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:17,879
Speaker 4: I had on slides and everything. But then she down there,

779
00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:20,239
Speaker 4: she want to use another rod. So I had to

780
00:42:20,320 --> 00:42:22,120
Speaker 4: go down there to show how to use that type

781
00:42:22,160 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 4: of rod. She want to use my rod, which I

782
00:42:24,719 --> 00:42:27,280
Speaker 4: use a bake caster. She ain't ready for that because

783
00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:30,239
Speaker 4: now she gonna burd nests all day long. She threw

784
00:42:30,400 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 4: I told her not to use my rod one time. Well,

785
00:42:33,239 --> 00:42:35,680
Speaker 4: it's just it's three different rods. It's it's it's a,

786
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 4: it's a it's an open face, it's a it's a

787
00:42:39,440 --> 00:42:43,120
Speaker 4: veiled hozzle, you know, and then it's a bake caster.

788
00:42:43,480 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 4: I used a bake cast. Well that's you don't know

789
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:51,640
Speaker 4: nothing about it what you asked me for? But I

790
00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:53,040
Speaker 4: don't surely asked me.

791
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:55,960
Speaker 1: Then when I tell her, then I don't know nothing

792
00:42:56,000 --> 00:42:58,640
Speaker 1: about this what you ask casters.

793
00:42:58,800 --> 00:43:00,520
Speaker 5: Just throw the rod in the world her and catch

794
00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:01,800
Speaker 5: a fish that ain't.

795
00:43:01,640 --> 00:43:07,240
Speaker 1: What it is extra stuff. Okay, So anyway in the backyard,

796
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:13,799
Speaker 1: that's your point ball. You bring it up.

797
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:17,640
Speaker 4: Come on, I saw your margin on that fishing. Go ahead,

798
00:43:17,719 --> 00:43:21,960
Speaker 4: tell her something, junior, she can understand. Don't complicated, okay,

799
00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 4: say words, So.

800
00:43:26,600 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 7: We don't.

801
00:43:27,120 --> 00:43:29,560
Speaker 13: We don't feel we crabbing people. We crab, you know,

802
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:31,360
Speaker 13: we go down together. We got the crab, you know

803
00:43:31,520 --> 00:43:33,800
Speaker 13: when we get down. Yeah, we do crab, you know,

804
00:43:33,880 --> 00:43:35,640
Speaker 13: when we do get down that time, because it would

805
00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:38,120
Speaker 13: be a fight on the way down because somebody forgot

806
00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:40,319
Speaker 13: the nixt never got to stop, and getting this, never

807
00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:41,280
Speaker 13: got to get baked.

808
00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:43,360
Speaker 9: It'd be all day by the time we get to

809
00:43:43,440 --> 00:43:44,239
Speaker 9: the crap that.

810
00:43:44,239 --> 00:43:49,359
Speaker 13: Went back in the water. Too long we were waiting

811
00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:52,680
Speaker 13: to get caught. They take too long to stop. Two

812
00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:54,560
Speaker 13: minutes stop, somebody.

813
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:57,919
Speaker 9: Bath, buddy, I'm home, man, it's the worst trip.

814
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 1: That's you were fishing the other day I did.

815
00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:05,839
Speaker 7: I fished in town flo to day. I called a unique, well,

816
00:44:05,880 --> 00:44:07,680
Speaker 7: it was unique to me. I never caught one. He

817
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:09,759
Speaker 7: just called a pompa note. I don't know I've ever

818
00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:11,880
Speaker 7: heard of that. But I called a pampa not bostially

819
00:44:11,960 --> 00:44:12,520
Speaker 7: good for eating.

820
00:44:12,600 --> 00:44:14,120
Speaker 1: But did you eat it over here?

821
00:44:14,840 --> 00:44:16,399
Speaker 7: I didn't eat it, But that was the first time.

822
00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:21,520
Speaker 7: Let me, catching one was a good experience. Not in

823
00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:24,600
Speaker 7: the bay of town for catching some fish. Yeah, that's

824
00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:26,800
Speaker 7: what I think I can fishing.

825
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:27,680
Speaker 4: Hold.

826
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:29,320
Speaker 1: I could fish in my backyard.

827
00:44:30,760 --> 00:44:31,239
Speaker 3: Yeah right.

828
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:38,160
Speaker 4: I ain't got that kind of I ain't got that

829
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:42,600
Speaker 4: kind of lake he got lake. I ain't got the

830
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:45,799
Speaker 4: lake he got. But I'm not on the lake. I'm

831
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:48,960
Speaker 4: not on the lake. That's right, I got you. The

832
00:44:49,040 --> 00:44:53,920
Speaker 4: big boy got lake property at his estate at the Shatau.

833
00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:58,000
Speaker 4: You know you got a river.

834
00:44:58,960 --> 00:45:02,320
Speaker 1: I'm just a little share shared river property with other people.

835
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:05,120
Speaker 7: The lake.

836
00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:09,200
Speaker 10: Is this?

837
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:11,120
Speaker 5: Whose lake is bigger than mine?

838
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 1: Size matters that talking about right now? I just want

839
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:21,160
Speaker 1: to get a vacation mode. Yeah, oh, I want to vacation.

840
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:27,040
Speaker 5: But going down to the chateau.

841
00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:30,040
Speaker 7: Remember you said that I didn't.

842
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 1: I didn't go nowhere. I didn't go nowhere.

843
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 5: Have you ever been, because I've never been fishing.

844
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:37,879
Speaker 11: No, I want to learn.

845
00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 1: It seems relaxing. Oh it is. It's very It's one

846
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:46,840
Speaker 1: of my absolute favorite things to do.

847
00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:50,400
Speaker 10: Oh it's your favorite thing to learn. You see what

848
00:45:50,520 --> 00:45:52,239
Speaker 10: Steve says is one of his favorite things to do.

849
00:45:52,960 --> 00:45:53,120
Speaker 7: Oh?

850
00:45:53,160 --> 00:45:57,760
Speaker 4: Absolutely, I like fishing more than I like playing golf

851
00:45:58,080 --> 00:45:58,600
Speaker 4: or something.

852
00:45:58,920 --> 00:45:59,160
Speaker 7: Golf.

853
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 1: You look okay, No, fishing is dope.

854
00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:08,440
Speaker 5: All right, Well we're moving on. Okay, coming up next

855
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:11,279
Speaker 5: to Nephew is here and he'll have a prank phone

856
00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:12,400
Speaker 5: call for you. Right after this.

857
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:20,120
Speaker 8: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up

858
00:46:20,160 --> 00:46:22,640
Speaker 8: at the top of the hour. Right about four minutes after,

859
00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:25,360
Speaker 8: it's my strawberry letter for it today and the subject

860
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:28,879
Speaker 8: is it's a hard habit to break. We'll get into

861
00:46:28,960 --> 00:46:31,759
Speaker 8: that find out what that's all about in just a

862
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:34,480
Speaker 8: few because right now it is time for the Nephew

863
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:37,000
Speaker 8: and today's prank phone called nephew.

864
00:46:37,719 --> 00:46:39,840
Speaker 7: Well, cirtain. This right here is for the ladies that

865
00:46:40,000 --> 00:46:42,719
Speaker 7: wear these. This is for the eyelashes that's just too

866
00:46:42,800 --> 00:46:46,359
Speaker 7: far out there, They just too far. You don't mind lashes, Yeah,

867
00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:49,040
Speaker 7: I love lashes, but when they pass your nose, I

868
00:46:49,120 --> 00:46:52,759
Speaker 7: mean it's just it's a situation, you know, it's a

869
00:46:52,840 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 7: lot going on. So this is right here is called

870
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:59,360
Speaker 7: lashing out. Lashing out all right, cat dog, if you would.

871
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 14: Hey, slashing out? How can we lash out?

872
00:47:03,480 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Bianca.

873
00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:05,880
Speaker 14: This is Bianca.

874
00:47:06,560 --> 00:47:08,080
Speaker 1: Hey, listen, my name is Brian.

875
00:47:08,239 --> 00:47:09,680
Speaker 7: My my wife Jamie.

876
00:47:09,760 --> 00:47:11,480
Speaker 1: Come up there and get her eyelashes done?

877
00:47:12,040 --> 00:47:12,359
Speaker 6: Is uh?

878
00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:14,200
Speaker 7: Who the who's the owner of this place?

879
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:15,840
Speaker 6: I am Brian?

880
00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:16,520
Speaker 5: What's going on?

881
00:47:17,080 --> 00:47:17,360
Speaker 1: Okay?

882
00:47:17,520 --> 00:47:17,800
Speaker 14: Going on?

883
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:20,439
Speaker 7: You're Bianca. You're the one that owned the place.

884
00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:23,759
Speaker 14: I'm Bianca. I'm the owner. We opened about a year

885
00:47:23,760 --> 00:47:27,560
Speaker 14: and a half ago. Proud happy black owned, women owned,

886
00:47:27,719 --> 00:47:29,200
Speaker 14: woman owned establishment.

887
00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:30,080
Speaker 6: What can I do for you?

888
00:47:30,760 --> 00:47:33,600
Speaker 7: Okay, here's the dep I'm sick and tired of my

889
00:47:33,719 --> 00:47:36,359
Speaker 7: wife coming up there. And then when she get back home,

890
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:39,759
Speaker 7: she got these thick ass eyelashes on and they long

891
00:47:39,880 --> 00:47:42,879
Speaker 7: as hell. You know, I mean, it's these eyelashes thicking

892
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:46,160
Speaker 7: on somebody's mustache. It's a shame, you know. Not then

893
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:49,560
Speaker 7: told her to take that hold up.

894
00:47:49,640 --> 00:47:52,440
Speaker 14: Brian. Now, I may or may not be the person

895
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:56,000
Speaker 14: doing it, but whoever, I'm pretty sure probably that sounds familiar.

896
00:47:56,080 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 14: But whoever, we have a lot of customers. But whoever

897
00:47:58,800 --> 00:48:01,480
Speaker 14: comes in here, they picked their lashes. We you know,

898
00:48:01,600 --> 00:48:05,239
Speaker 14: we collaborate, but the girls are saying what they want done.

899
00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:08,239
Speaker 14: They pick it. So if they're thick, they're sick because

900
00:48:08,239 --> 00:48:09,160
Speaker 14: they want them thick.

901
00:48:09,560 --> 00:48:12,000
Speaker 7: Okay, well these are two They too thick and then

902
00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:14,759
Speaker 7: and they too long. Your eyelasses ain't supposed to be

903
00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:18,080
Speaker 7: sticking away. I pass your nose. That's a chain. But

904
00:48:18,239 --> 00:48:19,879
Speaker 7: let me let me tell you what I'm getting at though.

905
00:48:20,400 --> 00:48:22,959
Speaker 7: Here's here's here's my reason for calling. If my wife

906
00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:25,719
Speaker 7: come home one more say what n you?

907
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:28,680
Speaker 14: Can you send her down? Because I mean, I'm running

908
00:48:28,719 --> 00:48:31,719
Speaker 14: a business here and you sound crazy. They can cheer

909
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:33,680
Speaker 14: you through the phone and the girls. They're looking at

910
00:48:33,719 --> 00:48:36,120
Speaker 14: me in the chair. I don't know what's going on.

911
00:48:36,320 --> 00:48:36,680
Speaker 13: I don't know.

912
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:37,799
Speaker 14: Can you calm down?

913
00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:41,520
Speaker 7: You loud and screaming, and all I'm saying is, if

914
00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 7: my wife come home with these long, thick as eye

915
00:48:44,200 --> 00:48:46,479
Speaker 7: lasses again, I'm gonna come up there and raise holy

916
00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:47,439
Speaker 7: hell at that place.

917
00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:48,800
Speaker 1: I'm telling you the truth about that.

918
00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:52,600
Speaker 14: You know, what are you talking about? Why you're threatening me?

919
00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:53,960
Speaker 14: You are not coming up here.

920
00:48:54,760 --> 00:48:56,600
Speaker 7: I'm coming up there. You if my wife coming home

921
00:48:56,680 --> 00:48:59,160
Speaker 7: with them thick as long eye lasses again, I am

922
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:01,040
Speaker 7: not coming up here.

923
00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:02,759
Speaker 14: We just opened a year and half ago.

924
00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:04,040
Speaker 7: We are doing that.

925
00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:06,440
Speaker 14: We don't need no drama for nobody. You need to

926
00:49:06,520 --> 00:49:09,120
Speaker 14: talk to your wife. It's your marriage. Don't come down here.

927
00:49:09,320 --> 00:49:09,640
Speaker 1: Take it that.

928
00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:11,400
Speaker 7: I ain't nothing wrong with my marriage. The only thing

929
00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:14,440
Speaker 7: wrong with my marriage is the thinking as I lasted

930
00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:15,319
Speaker 7: and they too long.

931
00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:18,320
Speaker 14: That's the why are you? Why are you calling me

932
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:19,880
Speaker 14: with this? See now, I'm yes.

933
00:49:19,920 --> 00:49:22,200
Speaker 7: Because I'm calling because this is where she got her

934
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:23,279
Speaker 7: eyelashes done.

935
00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 14: Oh my god, Oh my god. Then you need to

936
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:28,920
Speaker 14: talk to your wife. Okay, I need to calm down.

937
00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:31,480
Speaker 14: I'm running a business here. What you're trying to do

938
00:49:31,600 --> 00:49:33,240
Speaker 14: sabotage me what you work for the college?

939
00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:34,440
Speaker 1: Are you trying to sabotage now?

940
00:49:34,520 --> 00:49:35,800
Speaker 7: But I'll tell you what if she come home with

941
00:49:35,880 --> 00:49:38,200
Speaker 7: these long thickets as our lads again, I'm gonna come

942
00:49:38,280 --> 00:49:40,200
Speaker 7: up there and I'm gonna find all the violates and

943
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:43,239
Speaker 7: codes and everything building codes, and I will get you

944
00:49:43,360 --> 00:49:46,080
Speaker 7: shut down if we don't stop these long thickets as

945
00:49:46,120 --> 00:49:46,600
Speaker 7: I last.

946
00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:51,880
Speaker 14: Okay, Brian, I'm from the south Side so much. You

947
00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:55,239
Speaker 14: need to back up because now you're threatening my livelihood. Yes,

948
00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:58,440
Speaker 14: I'm gonna go there with you. You're threatening in my livelihood,

949
00:49:58,480 --> 00:50:01,080
Speaker 14: You're threatening the jobs of so many girls here.

950
00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:01,839
Speaker 4: What are you doing?

951
00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:03,840
Speaker 14: You need to talk to your wife and you just

952
00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:07,080
Speaker 14: back up. And I am sorry to Kurt. We try

953
00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:09,719
Speaker 14: to speak class here, but you now you're making me

954
00:50:09,960 --> 00:50:13,360
Speaker 14: lash out at from lash out. But you need to

955
00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:16,600
Speaker 14: back up. This is my job and people have jobs.

956
00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:19,360
Speaker 14: What are you doing threatening to come up here. I

957
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:21,239
Speaker 14: will call the cops on you and you will not

958
00:50:21,320 --> 00:50:23,040
Speaker 14: be able to come here and we will not let

959
00:50:23,120 --> 00:50:26,279
Speaker 14: you get her her eyelashes on. And you need to

960
00:50:26,360 --> 00:50:29,480
Speaker 14: fix your marriage because you got some anger issues. Clearly

961
00:50:29,520 --> 00:50:31,360
Speaker 14: you pissed off at your wife and you're calling us

962
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:35,000
Speaker 14: threatening to ruin our business. Ryan, what is your wife's name?

963
00:50:35,520 --> 00:50:38,560
Speaker 7: My wife name is My wife name is Jamie? Okay.

964
00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:44,600
Speaker 14: Does anybody in here know Jamie or do Jamie's blashes? Okay,

965
00:50:44,680 --> 00:50:47,759
Speaker 14: it's like four girls raising her hand because everybody goes

966
00:50:47,800 --> 00:50:51,399
Speaker 14: to somebody different, so I don't know who is does

967
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:54,640
Speaker 14: Jamie slashes? But you got some anger issues?

968
00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 7: Okay, I ain't got no anger issue. The only problem,

969
00:50:57,120 --> 00:50:59,879
Speaker 7: my god, is my wife having some long, thick eyelashes

970
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:02,759
Speaker 7: and they further out than her nose and figuring into

971
00:51:02,760 --> 00:51:03,560
Speaker 7: somebody's much stair.

972
00:51:03,640 --> 00:51:05,800
Speaker 1: That's what I got a problem with. Okay.

973
00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:08,600
Speaker 14: You know what, Jamie just needs to leave your because

974
00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:10,880
Speaker 14: if you got an issue, call her. Why are you

975
00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:11,640
Speaker 14: calling us?

976
00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:16,360
Speaker 7: Why wouldn't I call the people that put the thicker

977
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:18,160
Speaker 7: eye lasses on? Why wouldn't I?

978
00:51:18,560 --> 00:51:21,280
Speaker 14: Well, first of all, you need to talk to Jamie

979
00:51:21,440 --> 00:51:23,560
Speaker 14: and send her up here. We're gonna tell her not

980
00:51:23,719 --> 00:51:27,160
Speaker 14: to leave your first of all. Second of all, I don't.

981
00:51:27,280 --> 00:51:31,640
Speaker 14: I cannot help you. You are interrupting my grinding. Okay,

982
00:51:32,000 --> 00:51:35,040
Speaker 14: we are interrupting our grinding, and we got a business

983
00:51:35,160 --> 00:51:38,040
Speaker 14: going here. What is your problem can't you go do

984
00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:40,200
Speaker 14: some work, go and talk to your wife and fix

985
00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:40,920
Speaker 14: your marriage.

986
00:51:43,760 --> 00:51:45,719
Speaker 7: I'll tell you what, beyonc. I'll tell you what you're

987
00:51:45,719 --> 00:51:47,520
Speaker 7: not trying to fix. No, no, no, you're trying to

988
00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 7: fix the problem. I'll be up there. I'll be up

989
00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:53,440
Speaker 7: there and I would bring somebody that would shut that down.

990
00:51:54,600 --> 00:51:57,400
Speaker 14: Right now, call them down, Tell them somebody's coming up

991
00:51:57,440 --> 00:52:01,000
Speaker 14: here and they threatening us a lash out. O. See

992
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:04,640
Speaker 14: there three girls calling right now. Bring your little up here, mother,

993
00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:07,520
Speaker 14: Come on, come on, bring in, bring it up here.

994
00:52:08,280 --> 00:52:08,920
Speaker 7: Let me ask you some.

995
00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:12,600
Speaker 6: Is Carmen up there yet?

996
00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:15,600
Speaker 14: Karmen is sitting in my face right now? What is

997
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:16,479
Speaker 14: going on doing?

998
00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:17,000
Speaker 7: Honey?

999
00:52:17,200 --> 00:52:17,839
Speaker 13: You know him?

1000
00:52:18,040 --> 00:52:18,320
Speaker 7: Card?

1001
00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:20,920
Speaker 14: Why are you asking me about Carmen?

1002
00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:22,799
Speaker 7: Where's where's Carmen at right now?

1003
00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:24,520
Speaker 14: See right here looking at me?

1004
00:52:25,040 --> 00:52:27,880
Speaker 6: What? What is she? Is?

1005
00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:28,600
Speaker 1: She laughing?

1006
00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:32,000
Speaker 14: Old? Yeah, now she's starting to laugh.

1007
00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:34,120
Speaker 4: She's going on.

1008
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:35,960
Speaker 14: Y'all gotta be looking crazy at night?

1009
00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:39,280
Speaker 7: Can calm down? Baby? Check this out. This is nephew

1010
00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:41,960
Speaker 7: Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morty Show. Your girl. Carmen

1011
00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 7: got me the prank phone call you?

1012
00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:51,600
Speaker 14: Oh god, okay, you know what y'all got me out

1013
00:52:51,640 --> 00:52:56,680
Speaker 14: here looking dad. I cannot Tommy, Tommy, nephew Tommy, Oh.

1014
00:52:56,600 --> 00:53:04,560
Speaker 7: My god, away, Oh my god, what's up girl. I'm

1015
00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:07,480
Speaker 7: just lashing out a little bit, that's all. I'm just lasting.

1016
00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:11,399
Speaker 2: Oh my, oh my god.

1017
00:53:11,920 --> 00:53:14,800
Speaker 14: I'm sorry, nephew, Tommy, I was actually crazy.

1018
00:53:15,120 --> 00:53:17,320
Speaker 7: You got to tell the nephew. What is the baddest

1019
00:53:17,360 --> 00:53:20,160
Speaker 7: and I mean the baddest radio show in the land,

1020
00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:21,759
Speaker 7: the one, the.

1021
00:53:21,880 --> 00:53:27,120
Speaker 14: Only see Harved Morning Show, always forever.

1022
00:53:28,320 --> 00:53:30,040
Speaker 7: I love y'all and there you have it. I'm so

1023
00:53:30,120 --> 00:53:32,160
Speaker 7: glad y'all don't wear these kind of eye lashes. The

1024
00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:34,680
Speaker 7: ladies on this show. They not way.

1025
00:53:34,800 --> 00:53:36,160
Speaker 1: I pass your nose like that.

1026
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:37,600
Speaker 7: I really appreciate that I do.

1027
00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:40,520
Speaker 3: But what if you want to?

1028
00:53:40,960 --> 00:53:43,160
Speaker 7: Yeah, but when you come in here, I may have

1029
00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:46,000
Speaker 7: to take them off of you. I got take my

1030
00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:48,000
Speaker 7: last I got to see your eyes.

1031
00:53:48,160 --> 00:53:48,399
Speaker 1: Girl.

1032
00:53:48,480 --> 00:53:51,680
Speaker 4: If we're gonna work, we're gonna work. And how attractive

1033
00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 4: does he sign? Now to the lady call them Marie? Yeah,

1034
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:58,880
Speaker 4: how cute? How you want Sustaine? You don't want me

1035
00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:01,279
Speaker 4: to be You just hate my sexy? What is it

1036
00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 4: about my second?

1037
00:54:02,840 --> 00:54:04,240
Speaker 5: He doesn't want you to be sexy?

1038
00:54:04,280 --> 00:54:09,160
Speaker 7: You don't like listen, get ready y'all am going down

1039
00:54:09,320 --> 00:54:14,520
Speaker 7: to Hatesburg. Nephew, tell me baby Hattiesburg Sang the Theater

1040
00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:17,360
Speaker 7: that inside of the July the eleven tickets are on

1041
00:54:17,560 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 7: sale right now. It is a Nephew, Tommy and Friends

1042
00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:29,879
Speaker 7: all White House party. How many show in Hattiesburg, Mississippi. Yes, Yes, Hattisburg, Mississippi.

1043
00:54:29,960 --> 00:54:32,560
Speaker 7: The Nephew will be there. Shout town, Get ready to

1044
00:54:32,640 --> 00:54:35,120
Speaker 7: Nephew is coming to town. That is July twenty four

1045
00:54:35,239 --> 00:54:39,120
Speaker 7: through the twenty six Chicago City Wine Red tickets on seal.

1046
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:42,040
Speaker 8: Right now, okay, all right, can't wait for that show

1047
00:54:42,360 --> 00:54:45,399
Speaker 8: coming up next. Strawberry letters subject It's a hard habit

1048
00:54:45,480 --> 00:54:48,359
Speaker 8: to break. We'll get into that right after this. Hey,

1049
00:54:48,560 --> 00:54:52,280
Speaker 8: Listeners Alive has a question for you. Do you remember

1050
00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:55,080
Speaker 8: what it felt like when back pain didn't take over

1051
00:54:55,200 --> 00:54:59,680
Speaker 8: your day? You'd bend, twist, sit, stand without even thinking

1052
00:54:59,800 --> 00:55:03,520
Speaker 8: of about it. Well, that feeling didn't go anywhere thanks

1053
00:55:03,600 --> 00:55:06,799
Speaker 8: to a leave. With just one dose, a leave gives

1054
00:55:06,840 --> 00:55:10,200
Speaker 8: you long lasting back pain relief for up to twelve hours,

1055
00:55:10,480 --> 00:55:12,920
Speaker 8: so you can get back to moving the way you

1056
00:55:13,200 --> 00:55:16,840
Speaker 8: used to feel. A leave use as directed for minor

1057
00:55:16,960 --> 00:55:17,800
Speaker 8: aches and pains.

1058
00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:21,640
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Moore on The show Man. Anybody playing with y'all?

1059
00:55:24,239 --> 00:55:24,439
Speaker 7: Cat?

1060
00:55:27,239 --> 00:55:28,120
Speaker 1: He said, what did he say?

1061
00:55:28,360 --> 00:55:28,600
Speaker 5: Time?

1062
00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:33,680
Speaker 1: Pretty close second ago? He said, I'm sorry, pretty close

1063
00:55:33,760 --> 00:55:35,880
Speaker 1: to that. He's not quite down.

1064
00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:40,920
Speaker 5: Because I can't sure I'm talking Sharley, Shirley Cape Sharley. Yeah,

1065
00:55:40,920 --> 00:55:42,360
Speaker 5: I can hear you now, she can't.

1066
00:55:42,280 --> 00:55:48,400
Speaker 1: Shirley Cape Shrey. So that's what he was saying to me.

1067
00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:51,400
Speaker 1: And tell me, oh, is that what he was saying? Yeah, Sharley,

1068
00:55:51,840 --> 00:55:52,800
Speaker 1: ten second?

1069
00:55:52,920 --> 00:55:53,399
Speaker 3: Not cat?

1070
00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:58,920
Speaker 1: Maybe second Cat? I know, not Cat. Maybe you guys,

1071
00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:04,440
Speaker 1: keep up, Steve Hoby more, she'll come it up right

1072
00:56:04,480 --> 00:56:04,840
Speaker 1: after you.

1073
00:56:09,520 --> 00:56:12,880
Speaker 8: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

1074
00:56:12,960 --> 00:56:17,000
Speaker 8: advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more, please

1075
00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:20,439
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1076
00:56:20,560 --> 00:56:23,600
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1077
00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:25,520
Speaker 8: on the air, just like we're going to read this

1078
00:56:25,640 --> 00:56:27,759
Speaker 8: one right here, right now, and you never know, it

1079
00:56:27,840 --> 00:56:28,560
Speaker 8: could be yours.

1080
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Speaker 7: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight.

1081
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Speaker 7: We guide it for you here. It is the Strawberry Letter.

1082
00:56:34,560 --> 00:56:35,200
Speaker 5: Thank you, nephew.

1083
00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:38,880
Speaker 8: Subject It's a hard habit to break, Dear Stephen, Shirley

1084
00:56:39,200 --> 00:56:41,600
Speaker 8: I'm thirty six years old and I married a man

1085
00:56:41,719 --> 00:56:44,359
Speaker 8: that I've met at work. He's forty four years old

1086
00:56:44,560 --> 00:56:48,080
Speaker 8: and a very loving husband that is truly in love

1087
00:56:48,160 --> 00:56:50,840
Speaker 8: with me. I moved to Toronto and he was the

1088
00:56:50,920 --> 00:56:53,880
Speaker 8: first guy I dated after I settled in. He was

1089
00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:57,440
Speaker 8: newly divorced and ready to get remarried as soon as possible.

1090
00:56:57,800 --> 00:56:59,960
Speaker 8: On our first date, he told me that I was

1091
00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:02,960
Speaker 8: the one and he could see us being married. Two

1092
00:57:03,080 --> 00:57:06,040
Speaker 8: years later, we had a very small wedding in Toronto

1093
00:57:06,280 --> 00:57:09,120
Speaker 8: and my family was not able to come. I preferred

1094
00:57:09,160 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 8: it that way because they are toxic and they would

1095
00:57:11,719 --> 00:57:14,760
Speaker 8: have tried to to talk me out of getting married.

1096
00:57:15,080 --> 00:57:17,400
Speaker 8: They know about my history with the man back home

1097
00:57:17,560 --> 00:57:20,280
Speaker 8: that I cannot seem to get out of my system.

1098
00:57:20,720 --> 00:57:23,720
Speaker 8: They are very opinionated and they think I need to

1099
00:57:23,800 --> 00:57:26,919
Speaker 8: be with him instead of my husband. The man back

1100
00:57:26,960 --> 00:57:29,040
Speaker 8: home is my age and we have known each other

1101
00:57:29,160 --> 00:57:32,080
Speaker 8: since we were ten years old. We never claimed that

1102
00:57:32,160 --> 00:57:35,280
Speaker 8: we were boyfriend girlfriend, but we have been having sex

1103
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:38,960
Speaker 8: with each other since we were seventeen years old. We

1104
00:57:39,040 --> 00:57:41,680
Speaker 8: would still be having sex to this day if I

1105
00:57:41,800 --> 00:57:44,680
Speaker 8: hadn't moved so far away from him. He is a

1106
00:57:44,800 --> 00:57:47,280
Speaker 8: big reason I moved away and started dating the man

1107
00:57:47,400 --> 00:57:50,120
Speaker 8: I married. The last time we were intimate was two

1108
00:57:50,240 --> 00:57:53,040
Speaker 8: years ago. I went home from my mom's birthday and

1109
00:57:53,160 --> 00:57:55,720
Speaker 8: he stayed at my hotel with me. I thought he

1110
00:57:55,840 --> 00:57:58,000
Speaker 8: was going to tell me not to get married because

1111
00:57:58,040 --> 00:58:00,800
Speaker 8: he was in love with me, but instead we spent

1112
00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:04,480
Speaker 8: the entire weekend having sex and ordering room service.

1113
00:58:04,880 --> 00:58:07,200
Speaker 5: I begged him not to call me anymore after that.

1114
00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:09,840
Speaker 8: It's been two years and he called me out of

1115
00:58:09,920 --> 00:58:12,240
Speaker 8: the blue to ask if he could come visit me.

1116
00:58:12,800 --> 00:58:16,160
Speaker 8: My body is craving him, and I can't help but

1117
00:58:16,280 --> 00:58:19,040
Speaker 8: hope he's finally come to his senses. I hate to

1118
00:58:19,120 --> 00:58:21,960
Speaker 8: admit it, but I'd leave my husband for him. Am

1119
00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:27,040
Speaker 8: I foolish to still want this man? Well, yes, yes

1120
00:58:27,160 --> 00:58:30,160
Speaker 8: you are. This has been going on way too long,

1121
00:58:30,320 --> 00:58:33,200
Speaker 8: way too long. This man shows no interest in you

1122
00:58:33,440 --> 00:58:35,600
Speaker 8: at all other than wanting to have sex with you.

1123
00:58:35,960 --> 00:58:36,240
Speaker 6: That's it.

1124
00:58:36,800 --> 00:58:39,280
Speaker 8: I mean, it's clear you want more, but sex is

1125
00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:42,120
Speaker 8: all you get from him. You say you would lead

1126
00:58:42,160 --> 00:58:45,440
Speaker 8: your very loving and very in love with you husband

1127
00:58:45,520 --> 00:58:48,320
Speaker 8: for him, but your childhood friend hasn't asked you to

1128
00:58:48,400 --> 00:58:51,000
Speaker 8: do that now, has he? He never even claimed you

1129
00:58:51,160 --> 00:58:54,880
Speaker 8: as his girlfriend as you said in letter, you're his

1130
00:58:55,080 --> 00:58:55,680
Speaker 8: sex friend.

1131
00:58:55,880 --> 00:58:56,600
Speaker 5: That's what you are.

1132
00:58:57,040 --> 00:58:59,960
Speaker 8: You're the person he can go to any place, any time,

1133
00:59:00,240 --> 00:59:03,040
Speaker 8: whenever he wants sex. Like when you went home for

1134
00:59:03,160 --> 00:59:05,440
Speaker 8: your mom's thing and he came and stayed in the

1135
00:59:05,520 --> 00:59:08,000
Speaker 8: hotel with you, all you did was have sex and

1136
00:59:08,160 --> 00:59:10,440
Speaker 8: room service. You thought he was coming to tell you

1137
00:59:10,560 --> 00:59:12,720
Speaker 8: not to get married and that he loved you, But nope,

1138
00:59:13,360 --> 00:59:19,280
Speaker 8: just sex and room service. Did he even offer to

1139
00:59:19,320 --> 00:59:21,600
Speaker 8: pay for the room? I got to ask that, I mean,

1140
00:59:22,400 --> 00:59:24,760
Speaker 8: what did he do? I mean, it's clear that he's

1141
00:59:24,880 --> 00:59:27,160
Speaker 8: just using you for sex at this point, and the

1142
00:59:27,240 --> 00:59:30,160
Speaker 8: reason you guys are not together is because he doesn't

1143
00:59:30,240 --> 00:59:32,160
Speaker 8: have to do anything but show up.

1144
00:59:32,360 --> 00:59:32,760
Speaker 7: That's it.

1145
00:59:33,320 --> 00:59:35,760
Speaker 8: He does nothing else. And now he wants to come

1146
00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:38,680
Speaker 8: visit you. You'd think he's coming for more than just sex.

1147
00:59:39,560 --> 00:59:42,720
Speaker 8: Don't be fooled. It'll be more of the same sex

1148
00:59:42,800 --> 00:59:45,840
Speaker 8: and room service. He's not going to propose because this

1149
00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:49,640
Speaker 8: sex relationship you had with this man, your childhood sweetheart,

1150
00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:52,240
Speaker 8: doesn't require him to marry you, or love you, or

1151
00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:54,479
Speaker 8: any of the things that you really want. So stop

1152
00:59:54,600 --> 00:59:57,040
Speaker 8: letting him run your life this way. That's what he's

1153
00:59:57,080 --> 01:00:00,560
Speaker 8: been doing. As hard as it might be for you.

1154
01:00:01,080 --> 01:00:03,000
Speaker 8: You got to tell him you don't want to see

1155
01:00:03,080 --> 01:00:04,960
Speaker 8: him and to stay where he is. You got to

1156
01:00:05,000 --> 01:00:05,959
Speaker 8: stop allowing him.

1157
01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:08,000
Speaker 5: To use you for sex. You gotta let him go.

1158
01:00:08,240 --> 01:00:10,560
Speaker 5: It's way beyond time, Steve.

1159
01:00:11,000 --> 01:00:15,120
Speaker 1: Great response. Surely interesting letter did Steven Shirley.

1160
01:00:15,640 --> 01:00:19,160
Speaker 4: This is a thirty six year old woman and she

1161
01:00:19,320 --> 01:00:21,760
Speaker 4: married a man that she met at work who's forty folk,

1162
01:00:22,000 --> 01:00:26,400
Speaker 4: very loving, wonderful man. She moved to Toronto and it

1163
01:00:26,520 --> 01:00:29,320
Speaker 4: was the first guy that she dated after she settled in.

1164
01:00:30,360 --> 01:00:32,560
Speaker 4: You know, he was newly divorced and ready to get

1165
01:00:32,600 --> 01:00:35,480
Speaker 4: remarried as soon as possible. And he told you that

1166
01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:38,560
Speaker 4: on the first date that he could see y'all being married.

1167
01:00:38,600 --> 01:00:41,120
Speaker 4: Two years later, y'all had a small wedding. You ain't

1168
01:00:41,160 --> 01:00:44,320
Speaker 4: invite your family because your family's toxic, and they would

1169
01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:46,240
Speaker 4: have tried to talk to you out of getting married

1170
01:00:46,640 --> 01:00:48,880
Speaker 4: because they know your history with a man back home,

1171
01:00:48,960 --> 01:00:51,520
Speaker 4: and I can't seem to get out my system. They

1172
01:00:51,560 --> 01:00:54,840
Speaker 4: are very opinionated people, and they think I need to

1173
01:00:54,920 --> 01:00:56,760
Speaker 4: be with him instead of my husband.

1174
01:00:56,840 --> 01:00:59,720
Speaker 1: The man back home is my age. We've known each

1175
01:00:59,760 --> 01:01:00,959
Speaker 1: other since we was ten.

1176
01:01:01,960 --> 01:01:05,440
Speaker 4: Y'all ain't never been boyfriend and girlfriend, and y'all have

1177
01:01:05,640 --> 01:01:09,320
Speaker 4: had sex with each other since y'all was seventeen. You've

1178
01:01:09,360 --> 01:01:14,480
Speaker 4: been having sex with this man for sixteen years. I'm

1179
01:01:14,520 --> 01:01:17,920
Speaker 4: assuming how old is she? She thirty six? They met

1180
01:01:17,960 --> 01:01:22,560
Speaker 4: at seventeen. We're like nineteen. Yeah, nineteen years you've been

1181
01:01:22,680 --> 01:01:26,400
Speaker 4: having sex with this man. We'd still be having sex

1182
01:01:26,480 --> 01:01:28,560
Speaker 4: to this day if I hadn't moved so far away

1183
01:01:28,600 --> 01:01:30,920
Speaker 4: from him. He's a big reason here we go, now

1184
01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:33,840
Speaker 4: here where the letter needed be starting. He is a

1185
01:01:33,920 --> 01:01:37,000
Speaker 4: big reason I moved away and started dating the man

1186
01:01:37,120 --> 01:01:40,920
Speaker 4: I'm married. This is the reason you moved away so

1187
01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:44,960
Speaker 4: you could get away from him. Now, what is this

1188
01:01:45,160 --> 01:01:48,760
Speaker 4: discussion you haven about getting back with him?

1189
01:01:49,680 --> 01:01:51,240
Speaker 1: When you left to.

1190
01:01:51,440 --> 01:01:56,240
Speaker 4: Pursue a better life, then God gives you the better life.

1191
01:01:57,040 --> 01:02:00,800
Speaker 4: Now you want to give the blessing back? Excuse me?

1192
01:02:00,920 --> 01:02:03,600
Speaker 4: So you can just go on and keep getting jamed.

1193
01:02:05,360 --> 01:02:09,320
Speaker 4: See you like getting jamed, So now you're just gonna

1194
01:02:09,360 --> 01:02:13,840
Speaker 4: get yourself jammed up when you got a husband now,

1195
01:02:14,400 --> 01:02:17,640
Speaker 4: a very loving man that wants you. See, you don't

1196
01:02:17,640 --> 01:02:21,400
Speaker 4: even know what's good for you. You're so stupid, you

1197
01:02:21,480 --> 01:02:25,680
Speaker 4: know you wanted them people where God got to ruin

1198
01:02:25,800 --> 01:02:29,520
Speaker 4: your plans so you don't ruin your life, because He's

1199
01:02:29,560 --> 01:02:31,880
Speaker 4: done that for me. You know, I can't tell you

1200
01:02:31,960 --> 01:02:35,280
Speaker 4: how many times God has allowed some of my plans

1201
01:02:35,360 --> 01:02:40,120
Speaker 4: to get ruined just so I wouldn't ruin my life.

1202
01:02:41,960 --> 01:02:46,800
Speaker 1: So now here you are, it's a hard habit to break. Well, hell,

1203
01:02:46,880 --> 01:02:48,120
Speaker 1: that's cause you keep saying to you.

1204
01:02:48,480 --> 01:02:51,560
Speaker 8: Yeah, we'll have part two of your response coming up.

1205
01:02:51,600 --> 01:02:55,280
Speaker 8: Stevid twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter.

1206
01:02:55,360 --> 01:02:58,480
Speaker 8: Subject it's a hard habit to break. We'll get back

1207
01:02:58,560 --> 01:03:09,160
Speaker 8: into it right after this. You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. Hey, listeners,

1208
01:03:09,360 --> 01:03:12,320
Speaker 8: A leave has a question for you. Do you remember

1209
01:03:12,440 --> 01:03:15,120
Speaker 8: what it felt like when back pain didn't take over

1210
01:03:15,240 --> 01:03:19,840
Speaker 8: your day? You'd bend, twist, sit, stand without even thinking

1211
01:03:20,080 --> 01:03:23,760
Speaker 8: about it. Well, that feeling didn't go anywhere thanks to

1212
01:03:24,040 --> 01:03:27,080
Speaker 8: a leave. With just one dose, a leave gives you

1213
01:03:27,320 --> 01:03:30,440
Speaker 8: long lasting back pain relief for up to twelve hours,

1214
01:03:30,720 --> 01:03:33,160
Speaker 8: so you can get back to moving the way you

1215
01:03:33,440 --> 01:03:37,120
Speaker 8: used to feel. A leave use as directed for minor

1216
01:03:37,240 --> 01:03:40,320
Speaker 8: aches and pains. All right, come on, Steve, let's recap

1217
01:03:40,400 --> 01:03:43,360
Speaker 8: today's strawberry letter. The subject is it's a hard habit

1218
01:03:43,480 --> 01:03:43,920
Speaker 8: to break.

1219
01:03:44,800 --> 01:03:48,000
Speaker 4: This woman right here, the left her city that she's

1220
01:03:48,080 --> 01:03:50,720
Speaker 4: been seeing this boy since they was seventeen.

1221
01:03:50,880 --> 01:03:51,640
Speaker 1: She thirty six.

1222
01:03:52,000 --> 01:03:54,400
Speaker 4: She leaves the city to go to Toronto so she

1223
01:03:54,480 --> 01:03:57,320
Speaker 4: could find a better life for herself because she realized

1224
01:03:57,600 --> 01:04:01,080
Speaker 4: that she's been having sex with this man nineteen years

1225
01:04:01,360 --> 01:04:04,320
Speaker 4: and it ain't going nowhere. This guy ain't said I

1226
01:04:04,560 --> 01:04:06,800
Speaker 4: love you. This guy ain't never said I want to

1227
01:04:06,840 --> 01:04:08,920
Speaker 4: be with you. He ain't never said we ought to

1228
01:04:09,000 --> 01:04:11,280
Speaker 4: have a family. He ain't never said, hey, we are

1229
01:04:11,320 --> 01:04:15,280
Speaker 4: to get together. He ain't even said you was his girlfriend.

1230
01:04:17,040 --> 01:04:20,600
Speaker 4: You just been a little trick chick your whole life,

1231
01:04:21,000 --> 01:04:23,919
Speaker 4: and now you done got addicted to being a trick chick.

1232
01:04:24,280 --> 01:04:26,560
Speaker 4: Now you want to keep being a trick chick. Now,

1233
01:04:26,840 --> 01:04:30,160
Speaker 4: God let you move to Toronto and then gave you

1234
01:04:30,280 --> 01:04:34,040
Speaker 4: a loving husband. But now you can't look you looking look,

1235
01:04:34,160 --> 01:04:36,120
Speaker 4: you can't look a gift? Howld horse in the mouth.

1236
01:04:36,480 --> 01:04:38,800
Speaker 4: You've been blessed with a husband that loves you and

1237
01:04:38,880 --> 01:04:41,400
Speaker 4: adores you, but you want to go back to being

1238
01:04:41,480 --> 01:04:46,000
Speaker 4: a trick chick because his sex is just so good

1239
01:04:46,280 --> 01:04:48,560
Speaker 4: you crave in his body. Woman, kill me if that

1240
01:04:48,680 --> 01:04:51,000
Speaker 4: he the best I ever had? Hell, go have something else.

1241
01:04:53,240 --> 01:04:55,800
Speaker 4: You know, y'all, I said that before, that's the best

1242
01:04:55,840 --> 01:04:57,640
Speaker 4: I ever had. Now that when he had something else,

1243
01:04:57,720 --> 01:05:02,680
Speaker 4: it was better too. I'm gonna tell you right now

1244
01:05:02,720 --> 01:05:03,120
Speaker 4: you can talk.

1245
01:05:03,160 --> 01:05:03,520
Speaker 7: Here we go.

1246
01:05:04,160 --> 01:05:06,000
Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now you can't top that.

1247
01:05:06,560 --> 01:05:06,920
Speaker 6: Here'll go.

1248
01:05:07,040 --> 01:05:08,960
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. That's what you want. Here, you

1249
01:05:09,640 --> 01:05:11,600
Speaker 1: can top that. I don't care what you had. It's

1250
01:05:11,600 --> 01:05:15,360
Speaker 1: some better ones somewhere. I got new for you. Somebody

1251
01:05:15,560 --> 01:05:18,520
Speaker 1: knows something else you ain't never had before. Gonna have you.

1252
01:05:18,600 --> 01:05:21,160
Speaker 4: Sitting up in here, I've had the whites of my

1253
01:05:21,320 --> 01:05:28,040
Speaker 4: eyes showing pupils, and everything was gone, everything disappeared. I've

1254
01:05:28,160 --> 01:05:32,560
Speaker 4: just I've actually looked back at my brain and could

1255
01:05:32,600 --> 01:05:34,000
Speaker 4: see what I was thinking something.

1256
01:05:34,840 --> 01:05:37,240
Speaker 1: That's how good it was. And I'm sitting up here

1257
01:05:37,280 --> 01:05:39,280
Speaker 1: talking about that the best I ever had. Then. Guess

1258
01:05:39,280 --> 01:05:41,439
Speaker 1: what mess somebody else? Guess what then?

1259
01:05:41,600 --> 01:05:41,760
Speaker 7: Next?

1260
01:05:41,920 --> 01:05:45,560
Speaker 4: Next thing you know, I was sucking my toe and

1261
01:05:46,000 --> 01:05:47,680
Speaker 4: I ain't I can't even get my foot up there

1262
01:05:47,760 --> 01:05:51,560
Speaker 4: no more. I found myself sucking my toe, that's how

1263
01:05:51,640 --> 01:05:53,640
Speaker 4: good it was. I ain't even know how my foot

1264
01:05:53,640 --> 01:05:55,520
Speaker 4: got up there because the show go don't do that

1265
01:05:55,600 --> 01:05:55,920
Speaker 4: no more.

1266
01:05:56,160 --> 01:05:59,000
Speaker 1: But I found myself doing that, and so you know

1267
01:05:59,560 --> 01:06:00,680
Speaker 1: that's the to have ahead.

1268
01:06:00,760 --> 01:06:02,400
Speaker 3: No, I ain't go ahead of something else.

1269
01:06:02,720 --> 01:06:04,880
Speaker 1: He the best you ever had because you've been getting

1270
01:06:04,920 --> 01:06:06,760
Speaker 1: tricked by this boy since he was seventeen.

1271
01:06:08,040 --> 01:06:11,000
Speaker 9: Now you'd have got this new man gone and had

1272
01:06:11,040 --> 01:06:11,560
Speaker 9: this new.

1273
01:06:11,480 --> 01:06:14,240
Speaker 4: Man here is the big reason that you moved away

1274
01:06:14,320 --> 01:06:17,320
Speaker 4: in the first place, so you could have a better life.

1275
01:06:17,840 --> 01:06:20,400
Speaker 4: The last time we was intimate was two years ago.

1276
01:06:20,880 --> 01:06:23,680
Speaker 4: I went for my mom's birthday. He stayed at my hotel.

1277
01:06:24,040 --> 01:06:25,560
Speaker 4: He thought he was gonna tell I thought he was

1278
01:06:25,600 --> 01:06:27,040
Speaker 4: gonna tell you not to get married.

1279
01:06:28,760 --> 01:06:28,960
Speaker 7: Y'all.

1280
01:06:29,000 --> 01:06:32,360
Speaker 1: What you thought, Hell no, because he was in love

1281
01:06:32,400 --> 01:06:34,560
Speaker 1: with me. Did he tell you that? Hell no?

1282
01:06:35,080 --> 01:06:37,720
Speaker 4: But instead we spent the entire weekend having sex and

1283
01:06:37,800 --> 01:06:41,240
Speaker 4: auder room service. I begged him not to call me

1284
01:06:41,280 --> 01:06:43,360
Speaker 4: anymore after that. It's been two years, and he called

1285
01:06:43,360 --> 01:06:45,240
Speaker 4: out the blue to ask if he could come visit you.

1286
01:06:45,320 --> 01:06:50,720
Speaker 1: What you think you want to do. Let's just take

1287
01:06:50,800 --> 01:06:52,320
Speaker 1: a guess at what he want to do.

1288
01:06:53,640 --> 01:06:55,400
Speaker 4: Let him hold up. Let me think, Oh, he gonna

1289
01:06:55,400 --> 01:06:59,200
Speaker 4: come and ask you to marry. Oh he come and

1290
01:06:59,280 --> 01:07:02,080
Speaker 4: ask you to leave your husband? Well, well, you think

1291
01:07:02,120 --> 01:07:04,760
Speaker 4: he's coming to ask you to go run away?

1292
01:07:04,840 --> 01:07:05,160
Speaker 7: With him.

1293
01:07:05,680 --> 01:07:10,280
Speaker 4: He ain't done it in nineteen years. He ain't fit

1294
01:07:10,480 --> 01:07:13,440
Speaker 4: to do it now because all he want to do

1295
01:07:13,600 --> 01:07:16,000
Speaker 4: with you is what y'all been doing, That's how. And

1296
01:07:16,120 --> 01:07:19,320
Speaker 4: you ain't never got a title in nineteen years. What

1297
01:07:19,680 --> 01:07:23,080
Speaker 4: makes you think you fin to get this promotion after

1298
01:07:23,240 --> 01:07:25,560
Speaker 4: nineteen years? Let me tell y'all something. If you've been

1299
01:07:25,600 --> 01:07:29,120
Speaker 4: on the job for nineteen years, I can assure you

1300
01:07:29,200 --> 01:07:31,880
Speaker 4: if you look around that office real good, it's been

1301
01:07:31,960 --> 01:07:35,200
Speaker 4: some promotions passed out in the nineteen years. Just yo,

1302
01:07:35,400 --> 01:07:39,880
Speaker 4: it wasn't one of them. Hello, is the message coming home?

1303
01:07:40,760 --> 01:07:43,320
Speaker 4: They are passing out promotions at your job. And if

1304
01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:45,400
Speaker 4: it's nineteen years and you ain't got one of them,

1305
01:07:45,760 --> 01:07:47,080
Speaker 4: you need a new job.

1306
01:07:49,200 --> 01:07:49,920
Speaker 7: That's all it is.

1307
01:07:50,080 --> 01:07:55,320
Speaker 4: Okay, Church, My body is craving him and I can't

1308
01:07:55,400 --> 01:07:58,160
Speaker 4: help but hope he finally come to his senses.

1309
01:07:58,240 --> 01:07:59,680
Speaker 1: He don't have no sense.

1310
01:08:00,960 --> 01:08:03,600
Speaker 4: What you want him to come to. I hate, but

1311
01:08:03,680 --> 01:08:06,880
Speaker 4: I leave my husband for him. And my foolish to

1312
01:08:06,960 --> 01:08:11,200
Speaker 4: still want this man, dumb as hell? You want a

1313
01:08:11,320 --> 01:08:16,960
Speaker 4: man that don't want you? How clear can this picture be?

1314
01:08:18,120 --> 01:08:20,280
Speaker 4: Am I foolish to still want this man?

1315
01:08:20,680 --> 01:08:20,880
Speaker 7: Yeah?

1316
01:08:21,160 --> 01:08:24,720
Speaker 1: Cause the man you won't don't want you. He just

1317
01:08:24,880 --> 01:08:25,800
Speaker 1: want to do you.

1318
01:08:28,800 --> 01:08:32,840
Speaker 4: He ain't never said he wanted you. He ain't asked

1319
01:08:32,880 --> 01:08:35,479
Speaker 4: you to be his woman. He ain't asked you to

1320
01:08:35,560 --> 01:08:40,320
Speaker 4: be his girlfriend. He ain't even asked you to be exclusive.

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01:08:40,680 --> 01:08:42,559
Speaker 4: He don't care that you're.

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Speaker 9: Up there married now.

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Speaker 1: He don't even care. He just want to come and

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Speaker 1: do you. You know what, I hope your husband find

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Speaker 1: out as soon as he get off the plane.

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Speaker 7: That ain't gonna be good that man.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, how good is it is it that God want

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Speaker 1: you to know?

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Speaker 7: It's some better.

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Speaker 5: War time?

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Speaker 1: Steve might be good.

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Speaker 4: It might be the best you've ever had. All that

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Speaker 4: could be true today. But don't mess around to have

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Speaker 4: some mess now. Oh let me tell you. I'm telling

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Speaker 4: you right now, I'm telling you, right now, I've actually

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Speaker 4: bitten the wood out of a headboard.

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Speaker 3: Stop.

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Speaker 5: What's your comments on today's.

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Speaker 1: Strubberry Lad but knowing I din't even know it? On

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Speaker 1: Instagram and Facebook.

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Speaker 8: Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio

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Speaker 8: app downloaded. Today, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning

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Speaker 8: Show pay listeners. Alive has a question for you. Do

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Speaker 8: you remember what it felt like when back pain didn't

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Speaker 8: take over your day. You'd bend, twist, sit, stand without

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Speaker 8: even thinking about it.

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Speaker 5: Well, that feeling didn't go anywhere. Thanks to a leeve.

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Speaker 8: With just one dose, a leave gives you long lasting

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Speaker 8: can get back to moving the way you used to feel.

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Speaker 8: A leave use as directed for minor aches and pains.

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Speaker 8: All right, guys, some really good news. Listen up, pay attention. Finally, finally, finally,

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Speaker 8: multiple studies are proving that the voluptuous curves and figures

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01:10:47,160 --> 01:10:52,600
Speaker 8: of countless black women, well, guys, they possess more benefits

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01:10:52,800 --> 01:10:56,880
Speaker 8: than just aesthetic perks. These curves may actually help us

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Speaker 8: live longer. Okay, why is this, you ask? Why is

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01:11:00,960 --> 01:11:05,280
Speaker 8: this nice? Wait a minute, Steve, let me tell you.

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Speaker 8: According to black doctor dot org, the type of fat

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01:11:08,760 --> 01:11:12,320
Speaker 8: found in the thighs and backsides may actually help reduce

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01:11:12,640 --> 01:11:16,040
Speaker 8: disease as opposed to the dangerous and life threatening effects

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01:11:16,360 --> 01:11:20,799
Speaker 8: of an abdominal fat. So see the thighs, the thighs

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Speaker 8: in the butt. That's okay, Yeah, I've been down that this.

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Speaker 4: It's called AM. I've been knowing about AM for a

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Speaker 4: lot of years. Yeah, it meant a lot to me

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01:11:34,360 --> 01:11:37,320
Speaker 4: over to you. Really, it's really it's brighten up days

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Speaker 4: of mind is.

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Speaker 1: It's made me be.

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01:11:41,160 --> 01:11:46,400
Speaker 4: More attentive as a person, you know, you know, caused

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01:11:46,479 --> 01:11:51,719
Speaker 4: me to be a lot more complimentary, nice, ginger mood.

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Speaker 1: I've said thank you.

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Speaker 4: I can't count the time thank you telling what I

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01:11:56,840 --> 01:11:58,680
Speaker 4: am do, tell them what I am doing. You know,

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01:11:58,800 --> 01:12:01,840
Speaker 4: am is AM stands for the acronym I am.

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01:12:02,040 --> 01:12:02,640
Speaker 7: You know, I.

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01:12:04,120 --> 01:12:08,960
Speaker 4: Am, you know, I am, you know, I am important,

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01:12:09,160 --> 01:12:13,320
Speaker 4: I am real, I am here and more importantly, I

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Speaker 4: am yours.

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Speaker 1: Let's meet march. Wait, no, so if you just turning in,

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01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:24,880
Speaker 1: what are you talking about?

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01:12:25,800 --> 01:12:30,679
Speaker 3: Because people be like, all.

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Speaker 5: Right, listen.

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01:12:31,600 --> 01:12:34,800
Speaker 8: According to black doctor dot org, the type of fat

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01:12:34,960 --> 01:12:37,840
Speaker 8: found in the thighs and in the butt area may

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01:12:37,960 --> 01:12:40,760
Speaker 8: actually help reduce disease as opposed to the dangerous and

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01:12:40,840 --> 01:12:43,960
Speaker 8: life threatening effects of stomach fat. Okay, belly fat, that's

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01:12:44,000 --> 01:12:44,559
Speaker 8: what they're saying.

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Speaker 1: And so you call it yes a short for yam?

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Speaker 3: What's yeah? What's the why?

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01:13:00,200 --> 01:13:04,000
Speaker 1: Ye look at that l You.

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Speaker 4: Know, it's just been a life changing for me, and

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Speaker 4: I want to thank y'all for all these years of

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Speaker 4: providing me with just hours and hours of just.

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Speaker 1: In my day, mate, somebody for me. Yes, all right,

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01:13:28,520 --> 01:13:30,560
Speaker 1: so listen, don't take this news the wrong way. This

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01:13:30,760 --> 01:13:32,479
Speaker 1: is only true to a certain degree.

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Speaker 8: Is obesity increases your chances of developing chronic health conditions,

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01:13:36,160 --> 01:13:40,200
Speaker 8: so please take care of yourself. This is because per studies,

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01:13:40,280 --> 01:13:43,360
Speaker 8: researchers found that not all fat is created equal.

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Speaker 5: Okay, so there you go.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, all right, we'll be back with more of the

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Speaker 8: Steve Harvey Morning Shop.

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Speaker 5: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: So Americans take their barbecue seriously.

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01:13:59,720 --> 01:14:02,599
Speaker 8: We all know that, and everyone has their own idea

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01:14:02,800 --> 01:14:06,160
Speaker 8: of where you can find the best barbecue. A lawn

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Speaker 8: care company compared the two hundred biggest cities and twenty

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Speaker 8: metrics rate it related to good barbecue, including access to

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01:14:13,400 --> 01:14:18,479
Speaker 8: tasty barbecue vendors, customer ratings, competition awards, and the number

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01:14:18,520 --> 01:14:22,320
Speaker 8: of barbecue festivals. So here are the top ten. All right,

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Speaker 8: I'm gonna do the starting with number ten. Richmond, Virginia. Okay,

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01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:34,799
Speaker 8: Number nine, yeah, yeah, Number nine, Nashville, Nashville, Tennessee.

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01:14:35,560 --> 01:14:38,600
Speaker 5: Number eight, Omaha, Nebraska.

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01:14:39,360 --> 01:14:43,719
Speaker 7: I ain't never ever you'll know nobody from.

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01:14:43,640 --> 01:14:49,400
Speaker 8: The number seven. Spring Call Missouri Springfield, Missouri.

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01:14:50,160 --> 01:14:53,560
Speaker 7: Now is that close to Oza? Yeah, because that's in

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01:14:53,720 --> 01:14:55,519
Speaker 7: the ozak. That's where I'm trying to go when I

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01:14:55,600 --> 01:14:56,280
Speaker 7: go to Saint Louis.

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Speaker 5: Oh, all right, Number six, Orlando, Florida.

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01:15:01,960 --> 01:15:03,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, who knew?

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01:15:03,200 --> 01:15:03,639
Speaker 7: Who knew?

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01:15:04,160 --> 01:15:06,120
Speaker 5: Number they had a group.

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Speaker 8: Of number five Houston, Texas. Guys, we're getting close, We're

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01:15:17,760 --> 01:15:22,599
Speaker 8: getting close. Yeah, all right, Number four, Memphis, Tennessee. Yeah

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01:15:23,400 --> 01:15:26,839
Speaker 8: a number three, number three, Kansas City, Kansas.

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01:15:27,280 --> 01:15:30,759
Speaker 7: Come on, okay, the presidential plower.

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Speaker 5: Kansas City, Kansas.

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Speaker 8: Number two, Saint Louis, Saint Louis, Missouri, going one, and

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Speaker 8: guess number one?

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01:15:40,800 --> 01:15:44,160
Speaker 5: Guess number one? Seas?

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01:15:44,240 --> 01:15:48,800
Speaker 1: You said nothing in Georgia, Georgia and South Carolina?

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01:15:49,240 --> 01:15:53,479
Speaker 9: Yeah, South Carolina.

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01:15:54,320 --> 01:15:54,800
Speaker 7: What you did?

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01:15:54,960 --> 01:15:57,799
Speaker 5: Texas, Tennessee, Florida?

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01:15:58,520 --> 01:15:59,680
Speaker 1: We did Memphis right?

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01:16:00,800 --> 01:16:04,040
Speaker 5: Memphis is throwing me?

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01:16:04,760 --> 01:16:08,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh my really threw me? Need get off the list?

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01:16:08,680 --> 01:16:09,559
Speaker 9: Can I messing everything?

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01:16:09,880 --> 01:16:11,640
Speaker 7: Because the list up?

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01:16:12,040 --> 01:16:13,720
Speaker 5: Okay, you want to know who's number one?

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01:16:14,280 --> 01:16:17,040
Speaker 7: I'm scared, madead, I can't know.

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01:16:17,080 --> 01:16:18,160
Speaker 5: You want to be mad at this one?

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01:16:18,280 --> 01:16:25,400
Speaker 8: Kansas City, Missouri, by yeah, man Surrey, Missouri. Yeah, Kansas City,

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01:16:25,560 --> 01:16:30,320
Speaker 8: Kansas is number three. Kansas City, Missouri, passed away number one.

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01:16:31,520 --> 01:16:35,320
Speaker 8: Wa Yeah, yeah, so where if you had the best

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01:16:35,439 --> 01:16:36,280
Speaker 8: barbecue ever?

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01:16:36,680 --> 01:16:37,479
Speaker 5: Where if you had that?

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01:16:37,840 --> 01:16:39,080
Speaker 1: Houston, Texas.

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01:16:40,760 --> 01:16:41,920
Speaker 5: Houston is number five.

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01:16:42,920 --> 01:16:45,840
Speaker 7: City. Ain't no joke. City, ain't no joke.

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01:16:46,080 --> 01:16:47,679
Speaker 5: Which one? Missouri or Kansas?

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01:16:48,560 --> 01:16:50,680
Speaker 10: I've been to both and I've had and both and

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01:16:50,800 --> 01:16:53,960
Speaker 10: both of them up there? Okay, all right, yeah, yeah,

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01:16:54,040 --> 01:16:58,280
Speaker 10: Memphis too, though. Stop playing with marbeu. You need to

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01:16:58,360 --> 01:16:59,120
Speaker 10: stop playing with.

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01:16:59,240 --> 01:17:00,439
Speaker 7: That around there.

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01:17:01,240 --> 01:17:03,440
Speaker 5: Yeah, the ca my relatives.

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01:17:04,160 --> 01:17:06,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, the Carolina's got some good barbecue too.

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01:17:06,720 --> 01:17:09,400
Speaker 9: I don't know how Omaha. We already know who put

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01:17:09,479 --> 01:17:10,280
Speaker 9: this list together.

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01:17:11,760 --> 01:17:16,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're not no South Carolina Charleston.

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01:17:16,560 --> 01:17:20,160
Speaker 7: I thought Omaha sold steaks and that's where the stakes

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01:17:20,200 --> 01:17:20,559
Speaker 7: come from.

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01:17:21,280 --> 01:17:25,679
Speaker 5: Uh yeah, yeah, yeah, commercials. You're right Omaha today.

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01:17:25,720 --> 01:17:28,400
Speaker 1: I think you're right. Yeah. A lot of corn out there,

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01:17:28,800 --> 01:17:29,920
Speaker 1: I believe it home.

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01:17:32,240 --> 01:17:36,840
Speaker 2: I can't corn.

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01:17:37,640 --> 01:17:39,080
Speaker 1: Nebraska cor feels out there.

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01:17:39,120 --> 01:17:41,919
Speaker 5: They got all of that Ida who has potato?

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01:17:42,200 --> 01:17:42,679
Speaker 9: Potato?

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01:17:43,200 --> 01:17:43,559
Speaker 7: Uh huh?

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01:17:44,080 --> 01:17:44,680
Speaker 3: Barbecue?

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01:17:44,720 --> 01:17:46,040
Speaker 6: How do we get don't you.

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01:17:46,120 --> 01:17:47,120
Speaker 3: Gotta have side?

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01:17:48,439 --> 01:17:51,439
Speaker 7: Well, when you stuffed the potato, you put barbecue, you

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01:17:51,560 --> 01:17:52,479
Speaker 7: put barbecue on it.

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01:17:52,560 --> 01:17:59,320
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, but yeah, Omaha number eight threw everybody off.

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01:17:59,520 --> 01:18:02,599
Speaker 10: That's all, we don't insert the Carolinas in that leave

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01:18:03,160 --> 01:18:03,919
Speaker 10: North Carolina.

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01:18:03,960 --> 01:18:07,120
Speaker 8: Because when I was a kid, Yeah, when I was

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01:18:07,200 --> 01:18:09,960
Speaker 8: a kid in Chicago, I thought would have been in

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01:18:10,040 --> 01:18:12,919
Speaker 8: the We had really good buck Chago.

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01:18:13,200 --> 01:18:15,200
Speaker 7: I've never known Chicago to be known for party.

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01:18:15,560 --> 01:18:18,280
Speaker 5: Let's go even grow up there, stay out here.

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01:18:19,080 --> 01:18:20,240
Speaker 7: Yeah it's okay.

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01:18:20,479 --> 01:18:22,519
Speaker 10: I mean I grew up in Chicago and then I

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01:18:22,600 --> 01:18:23,680
Speaker 10: moved to Texas.

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01:18:23,360 --> 01:18:25,160
Speaker 1: As a teenager, and then Texas won.

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01:18:26,240 --> 01:18:29,600
Speaker 7: Yeah yah, he said. Hot dogs.

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01:18:31,760 --> 01:18:33,880
Speaker 8: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have

1490
01:18:34,320 --> 01:18:36,040
Speaker 8: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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01:18:36,200 --> 01:18:36,800
Speaker 5: Right after this.

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01:18:37,439 --> 01:18:44,880
Speaker 8: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Everybody knows

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01:18:44,920 --> 01:18:47,599
Speaker 8: how hot it is. It's a real scorcher out there

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01:18:47,720 --> 01:18:50,839
Speaker 8: this summer. This week, and intense heat dome has expanded

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01:18:50,880 --> 01:18:53,960
Speaker 8: across the Midwest and South, putting more than one hundred

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01:18:54,080 --> 01:18:59,880
Speaker 8: million Americans under extreme heat conditions. Forecasters say daily high

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01:19:00,160 --> 01:19:03,519
Speaker 8: will hit or exceed one hundred degrees in many areas,

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Speaker 8: and the National Weather Service has already issued heat warnings

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Speaker 8: and advisories for over seventy million people. Officials urge everyone

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Speaker 8: to stay hydrated, limit your outdoor activity, and check on

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Speaker 8: vulnerable neighbors.

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Speaker 5: All right, that's what they advise. It is hot, very high.

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01:19:22,479 --> 01:19:23,800
Speaker 1: So, Steve, have you been doing this?

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01:19:24,160 --> 01:19:28,439
Speaker 8: Keep staying hydrated, limiting your outdorectivity and checking on your neighbors.

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01:19:28,760 --> 01:19:32,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, I stay hydrated. When I was you know,

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01:19:32,240 --> 01:19:35,320
Speaker 4: last week, I got a little dehydrated. I wasn't drinking enough.

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01:19:35,800 --> 01:19:38,040
Speaker 4: But I came back and I got it, got it together.

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01:19:38,479 --> 01:19:43,360
Speaker 4: There's sudden like juice combinations that really hydrate you, like

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01:19:43,840 --> 01:19:50,120
Speaker 4: couple water pineapple, watermelon. Watermelon is a great hydration thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right.

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01:19:51,560 --> 01:19:52,519
Speaker 7: But you to stay.

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01:19:52,439 --> 01:19:54,920
Speaker 1: Hydrated in this weather, man, it's critical you do.

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Speaker 8: And they say they also say limit your outdorectivity and

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01:19:58,360 --> 01:19:59,559
Speaker 8: check on your neighbors.

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01:20:00,040 --> 01:20:01,400
Speaker 5: Have you been doing that as well?

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01:20:01,920 --> 01:20:03,200
Speaker 9: People are already.

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01:20:04,120 --> 01:20:06,120
Speaker 1: We don't have no problem with this information.

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01:20:06,320 --> 01:20:08,240
Speaker 9: This heat is what we need. We need you.

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01:20:09,680 --> 01:20:10,719
Speaker 1: We are having paulty.

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01:20:10,800 --> 01:20:11,920
Speaker 9: We got a pigmy today.

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Speaker 8: It's we fryed with this coming up at thirty three

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Speaker 8: minutes after the hour, we'll play around and would you

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Speaker 8: rather right after.

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Speaker 1: And it's time now, guys for a rounded.

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Speaker 5: Would you rather?

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Speaker 8: This is the fourth of July Cookout edition? Okay, so

1538
01:21:06,680 --> 01:21:10,120
Speaker 8: would you rather charcoal grill or gas grill?

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Speaker 6: Now?

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Speaker 4: I want to come on, I use I use lump charcoal,

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Speaker 4: which is actually good.

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Speaker 1: Huh I don't.

1543
01:21:21,720 --> 01:21:25,280
Speaker 4: I haven't used briskets in yet. Why is she asking

1544
01:21:25,360 --> 01:21:27,880
Speaker 4: the cooking questions? Know what we're talking about?

1545
01:21:28,760 --> 01:21:35,519
Speaker 1: Attitude? What we're talking so mean? Would rather Suldn't? Know

1546
01:21:35,720 --> 01:21:43,519
Speaker 1: what she asked? Charcoal is cole or gas?

1547
01:21:43,720 --> 01:21:44,120
Speaker 7: I want?

1548
01:21:44,240 --> 01:21:45,040
Speaker 5: How do you shut up?

1549
01:21:47,120 --> 01:21:49,920
Speaker 8: Ribs or pork ribs? Would you rather beef ribs or

1550
01:21:49,960 --> 01:21:50,559
Speaker 8: pork ribs?

1551
01:21:50,640 --> 01:21:51,240
Speaker 7: More food?

1552
01:21:51,680 --> 01:21:56,920
Speaker 5: Tommy, pork ribs, pork ribs, pork ribs.

1553
01:21:56,880 --> 01:21:59,280
Speaker 4: And pork And when you put it on open fire

1554
01:21:59,520 --> 01:22:04,000
Speaker 4: and you and you uh expose them to lump charcoal

1555
01:22:04,160 --> 01:22:08,800
Speaker 4: with uh wood chips. Is no longer pork anyway, it's

1556
01:22:08,960 --> 01:22:12,519
Speaker 4: just what is. It becomes a new meat. It's called

1557
01:22:12,680 --> 01:22:13,160
Speaker 4: Bobby C.

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01:22:17,360 --> 01:22:17,960
Speaker 6: D O B B.

1559
01:22:18,200 --> 01:22:19,840
Speaker 5: Why like Bobby Brown?

1560
01:22:20,000 --> 01:22:22,960
Speaker 1: Bobby b O B B. Why Bobby it's a whole

1561
01:22:23,040 --> 01:22:25,200
Speaker 1: new meat. It it ain't even pork. No, Mom, can't

1562
01:22:25,200 --> 01:22:28,240
Speaker 1: you because I don't really care for pork at all.

1563
01:22:29,080 --> 01:22:32,800
Speaker 1: Uh huh. But when I'm eating, I'm telling it. Just

1564
01:22:33,080 --> 01:22:36,800
Speaker 1: it go down, just like beef. All right, this is

1565
01:22:36,880 --> 01:22:37,200
Speaker 1: the wood.

1566
01:22:37,200 --> 01:22:41,519
Speaker 8: You rather Fourth of July cookout edition flats or drums?

1567
01:22:41,640 --> 01:22:44,000
Speaker 8: When it comes to chicken wings, you like the flats

1568
01:22:44,080 --> 01:22:45,080
Speaker 8: or you like the drumstick?

1569
01:22:45,240 --> 01:22:45,800
Speaker 1: Which flat?

1570
01:22:45,920 --> 01:22:47,800
Speaker 7: You don't do that on the fourth you cook the

1571
01:22:47,880 --> 01:22:50,240
Speaker 7: whole wing, you don't do you don't break that up

1572
01:22:50,400 --> 01:22:55,200
Speaker 7: like that. You got two different That's that's super Bowl

1573
01:22:55,320 --> 01:22:58,880
Speaker 7: you talk about with flats and drum This is a four.

1574
01:22:59,160 --> 01:23:02,320
Speaker 1: You cook the whole flat period. Yeah, he is telling

1575
01:23:02,360 --> 01:23:07,760
Speaker 1: the truth, Yeah he is. I like flats. I don't

1576
01:23:07,760 --> 01:23:10,960
Speaker 1: care what holiday it is, all right? Would you rather

1577
01:23:11,240 --> 01:23:14,880
Speaker 1: dry rub or lots of barbecue sauce? You don't need

1578
01:23:15,040 --> 01:23:20,400
Speaker 1: sauce because because my rub is off the chain.

1579
01:23:20,800 --> 01:23:25,200
Speaker 4: Now, if you're going to do a sauce, jen Ira

1580
01:23:26,000 --> 01:23:32,639
Speaker 4: j E n I r a dot com the hands

1581
01:23:32,840 --> 01:23:38,040
Speaker 4: down best barbecue sauce in the world in a bottle.

1582
01:23:38,760 --> 01:23:43,280
Speaker 4: Nira dot com barbecue sauce. Order the mild, the medium,

1583
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Speaker 4: and the hot and lord have mery to prepare yourself

1584
01:23:46,200 --> 01:23:47,240
Speaker 4: for the best barbecue.

1585
01:23:48,160 --> 01:23:51,240
Speaker 1: I'm telling you right now to get an endorsement. It's

1586
01:23:51,320 --> 01:23:53,880
Speaker 1: better than Williams Brothers. And I thought that was better.

1587
01:23:54,160 --> 01:23:58,000
Speaker 8: One last one, one last one. Spades are Dominoes. Spades

1588
01:23:58,040 --> 01:23:58,680
Speaker 8: are Dominoes.

1589
01:23:58,880 --> 01:24:01,519
Speaker 1: Oh, either one. You can get hurt fame. Oh you

1590
01:24:01,600 --> 01:24:04,280
Speaker 1: got to go because more black people play.

1591
01:24:05,560 --> 01:24:08,840
Speaker 7: But there's some Lady Domino's nice some later does.

1592
01:24:09,200 --> 01:24:11,400
Speaker 8: We'll be back in forty nine minutes after the hour

1593
01:24:11,560 --> 01:24:13,360
Speaker 8: to close out the show in our last break of

1594
01:24:13,400 --> 01:24:13,680
Speaker 8: the day.

1595
01:24:13,800 --> 01:24:16,200
Speaker 1: Right after this, Hey us up, y'ad.

1596
01:24:16,240 --> 01:24:17,760
Speaker 2: This is fantasia all right.

1597
01:24:17,840 --> 01:24:21,479
Speaker 1: Now you're listening to my man, the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1598
01:24:21,920 --> 01:24:29,240
Speaker 8: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey, listeners,

1599
01:24:29,439 --> 01:24:32,400
Speaker 8: A leave has a question for you. Do you remember

1600
01:24:32,479 --> 01:24:35,160
Speaker 8: what it felt like when back pain didn't take over

1601
01:24:35,280 --> 01:24:39,839
Speaker 8: your day? You'd bend, twist, sit, stand without even thinking

1602
01:24:40,040 --> 01:24:43,720
Speaker 8: about it. Well, that feeling didn't go anywhere thanks to

1603
01:24:43,960 --> 01:24:47,000
Speaker 8: a lead. With just one dose, a lead gives you

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01:24:47,200 --> 01:24:50,320
Speaker 8: long lasting back pain relief for up to twelve hours,

1605
01:24:50,560 --> 01:24:53,000
Speaker 8: so you can get back to moving the way you

1606
01:24:53,280 --> 01:24:56,920
Speaker 8: used to feel. A leave use as directed for minor

1607
01:24:57,040 --> 01:25:00,400
Speaker 8: aches and pains. All right, guys, here we are break

1608
01:25:00,439 --> 01:25:02,880
Speaker 8: of the day on this Thursday. It's been a good day,

1609
01:25:02,960 --> 01:25:08,120
Speaker 8: a fun day. You've got fun today, Steven.

1610
01:25:09,920 --> 01:25:12,560
Speaker 4: In closing, I want to share something with you. I

1611
01:25:12,640 --> 01:25:15,679
Speaker 4: have a I'm on a group chat with some brothers

1612
01:25:15,720 --> 01:25:18,439
Speaker 4: I went to school with. Man, it's like thirteen of us.

1613
01:25:19,320 --> 01:25:22,920
Speaker 4: We get together a couple times a year, and it's

1614
01:25:23,040 --> 01:25:26,720
Speaker 4: probably my favorite time of the year because I get

1615
01:25:26,760 --> 01:25:29,519
Speaker 4: to hang out with some guys and some men who

1616
01:25:29,640 --> 01:25:32,760
Speaker 4: knew me before all of this happened to me. And

1617
01:25:32,880 --> 01:25:36,400
Speaker 4: that's really been a great blessing for me. Man, because

1618
01:25:36,479 --> 01:25:40,080
Speaker 4: I'm able to be myself around these men. I don't

1619
01:25:40,120 --> 01:25:43,120
Speaker 4: have to put on no pretenses. They knew me before

1620
01:25:43,200 --> 01:25:45,760
Speaker 4: all of this. They've seen the changes in me, and

1621
01:25:45,840 --> 01:25:48,600
Speaker 4: they see the similarities in me, and they cool with

1622
01:25:48,720 --> 01:25:51,800
Speaker 4: both of them. Because I developed a saying over my life.

1623
01:25:52,439 --> 01:25:55,040
Speaker 4: I was who I was and I am who I am,

1624
01:25:55,560 --> 01:25:58,120
Speaker 4: and I'm cool with both them. People now I say

1625
01:25:58,160 --> 01:26:01,040
Speaker 4: it a little bit more graphic when I'm talking to them,

1626
01:26:01,439 --> 01:26:04,560
Speaker 4: But just for the radio, I was who I was

1627
01:26:05,880 --> 01:26:09,080
Speaker 4: and I am who I am, and I'm cool with

1628
01:26:09,280 --> 01:26:12,920
Speaker 4: both them blanks and you can put that, put that

1629
01:26:13,040 --> 01:26:14,760
Speaker 4: in however you want to. But that's how I said

1630
01:26:14,880 --> 01:26:19,320
Speaker 4: to myself. But we were talking the other day and

1631
01:26:21,640 --> 01:26:24,519
Speaker 4: one of my partners is a pastor, and he sent

1632
01:26:24,680 --> 01:26:27,920
Speaker 4: me this thing called the Seven Rules of Life. And

1633
01:26:28,000 --> 01:26:30,000
Speaker 4: he said, Man, when I listened to your show, Steve,

1634
01:26:30,080 --> 01:26:32,240
Speaker 4: I've heard you say all of these things at one

1635
01:26:32,320 --> 01:26:35,400
Speaker 4: point and time. He said, I just thought i'd send

1636
01:26:35,439 --> 01:26:39,280
Speaker 4: it to you. So for the first time, I have

1637
01:26:39,479 --> 01:26:42,320
Speaker 4: it kind of all like printed out right, the seven

1638
01:26:42,400 --> 01:26:44,880
Speaker 4: rules of Life, and I'm share them with you right

1639
01:26:44,960 --> 01:26:48,760
Speaker 4: now because they're very, very helpful. And the pastor calls

1640
01:26:48,840 --> 01:26:50,800
Speaker 4: him the seven rules of Life, and he sent them

1641
01:26:50,840 --> 01:26:55,519
Speaker 4: to me. Number one, make peace with your past so

1642
01:26:55,680 --> 01:26:59,200
Speaker 4: it won't disturb your present. I think that's so important

1643
01:26:59,240 --> 01:27:02,040
Speaker 4: for people, man, that you stop allowing who you were

1644
01:27:03,320 --> 01:27:06,080
Speaker 4: and stop allowing people to come into your life to

1645
01:27:06,240 --> 01:27:08,799
Speaker 4: remind you of who you were when clearly you've changed

1646
01:27:08,840 --> 01:27:12,600
Speaker 4: and moved on. Stop allowing people to hold you to

1647
01:27:12,720 --> 01:27:16,760
Speaker 4: your past mistakes when God has clearly forgiven you, and

1648
01:27:17,080 --> 01:27:20,360
Speaker 4: move on. Man, I get tired of people talking about me.

1649
01:27:20,439 --> 01:27:21,680
Speaker 4: I don't even worry about that no more.

1650
01:27:21,760 --> 01:27:22,320
Speaker 7: What you did?

1651
01:27:22,479 --> 01:27:24,240
Speaker 1: You left this and you walked out of here, and

1652
01:27:24,320 --> 01:27:26,320
Speaker 1: you did this. You don't even know the story.

1653
01:27:27,400 --> 01:27:30,920
Speaker 4: Rule Number two what other people think of you, and

1654
01:27:31,040 --> 01:27:35,160
Speaker 4: I learned this from Bishop Jenks. Number two, what other

1655
01:27:35,320 --> 01:27:40,400
Speaker 4: people think of you is none of your business. And

1656
01:27:40,520 --> 01:27:42,720
Speaker 4: I've often said that what other people think of you

1657
01:27:42,800 --> 01:27:45,280
Speaker 4: as none of your business, nor should you make it yours.

1658
01:27:45,560 --> 01:27:48,120
Speaker 4: It ain't your business what they think of you, because

1659
01:27:48,360 --> 01:27:52,720
Speaker 4: it don't even matter. You'll be so much happy if

1660
01:27:52,760 --> 01:27:54,800
Speaker 4: you could worry about what other people think of you.

1661
01:27:55,760 --> 01:27:56,320
Speaker 7: Number three.

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01:27:57,640 --> 01:28:00,320
Speaker 1: Time heals almost.

1663
01:28:00,360 --> 01:28:04,880
Speaker 4: Everything, So give it some time. You know people think

1664
01:28:05,040 --> 01:28:09,200
Speaker 4: when something happens to him it's permanent. It's given some time.

1665
01:28:09,280 --> 01:28:12,839
Speaker 4: I had a friend of mine whose wife's mother passed,

1666
01:28:13,520 --> 01:28:15,679
Speaker 4: and he called me. He said, man, because my mom's

1667
01:28:15,680 --> 01:28:17,640
Speaker 4: still living, I know your mom gone. Do you have

1668
01:28:17,720 --> 01:28:20,360
Speaker 4: any advice for my wife? Because she want to give up?

1669
01:28:21,200 --> 01:28:23,519
Speaker 4: And I was going well, first of all, would your

1670
01:28:23,600 --> 01:28:26,479
Speaker 4: mother wants you to give up. With all those of

1671
01:28:26,600 --> 01:28:29,080
Speaker 4: us who have lost our mother, our mother loved us

1672
01:28:29,280 --> 01:28:31,200
Speaker 4: enough where I'm sure our mother would want us to

1673
01:28:31,280 --> 01:28:34,080
Speaker 4: continue and live the best life we could. So you

1674
01:28:34,200 --> 01:28:36,360
Speaker 4: in here talking about giving up because your mama gone.

1675
01:28:36,400 --> 01:28:40,320
Speaker 4: Hold on, man, get his things some time. It's called grief.

1676
01:28:40,400 --> 01:28:42,320
Speaker 4: It's hard to deal with, but give it some time

1677
01:28:42,400 --> 01:28:46,360
Speaker 4: because time heals almost everything if you give it time.

1678
01:28:46,479 --> 01:28:47,080
Speaker 1: Number four.

1679
01:28:47,840 --> 01:28:52,160
Speaker 4: No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

1680
01:28:53,400 --> 01:28:58,040
Speaker 4: Stop giving people permission to direct your life and determine.

1681
01:28:57,600 --> 01:28:59,120
Speaker 1: Who you are that's yours.

1682
01:29:00,280 --> 01:29:03,640
Speaker 4: No one is in charge of your happiness except you.

1683
01:29:04,680 --> 01:29:06,760
Speaker 4: Bishop Jakes told me one time. He says, it's not

1684
01:29:06,920 --> 01:29:10,160
Speaker 4: your job to make another person happy, nor should you

1685
01:29:10,280 --> 01:29:13,640
Speaker 4: make it yours, because it's a hard job. It's an

1686
01:29:13,680 --> 01:29:17,120
Speaker 4: impossible job. You can't make another person happy. I've tried

1687
01:29:17,160 --> 01:29:21,920
Speaker 4: it before, trust me, you can't. Number five. Don't compare

1688
01:29:21,960 --> 01:29:25,479
Speaker 4: your life to others, and don't judge him because you

1689
01:29:25,560 --> 01:29:29,240
Speaker 4: have no idea what their journey is all about. How

1690
01:29:29,280 --> 01:29:32,720
Speaker 4: many times have you been judged by people about your

1691
01:29:32,840 --> 01:29:36,200
Speaker 4: life when they don't even know the story. Somebody asked

1692
01:29:36,240 --> 01:29:39,760
Speaker 4: me one time, They say, man, you always crying every

1693
01:29:39,800 --> 01:29:41,840
Speaker 4: time I see you crying. You know why I cry

1694
01:29:42,120 --> 01:29:44,840
Speaker 4: when I'm talking about it because I know the fine print.

1695
01:29:45,240 --> 01:29:49,840
Speaker 4: Y'all saw the headlines. I know the fine print. I

1696
01:29:50,000 --> 01:29:52,640
Speaker 4: know the story. I know the story behind it. I

1697
01:29:52,760 --> 01:29:55,719
Speaker 4: know the context that the story was in. I remember

1698
01:29:55,880 --> 01:29:58,519
Speaker 4: all the pain of it. I remember all the wishing

1699
01:29:58,600 --> 01:30:01,600
Speaker 4: that would change, and now that it's changed, sometime it

1700
01:30:01,720 --> 01:30:04,439
Speaker 4: bring tear to my eyes. So don't compare your life

1701
01:30:04,479 --> 01:30:06,360
Speaker 4: to others, and don't judge them because you ain't got

1702
01:30:06,400 --> 01:30:09,720
Speaker 4: no idea what their journey is all about. Number six,

1703
01:30:09,840 --> 01:30:13,240
Speaker 4: Stop thinking too much. It's all right not to know

1704
01:30:13,400 --> 01:30:16,240
Speaker 4: the answer. Do you know how many times you've talked

1705
01:30:16,280 --> 01:30:19,599
Speaker 4: yourself out of something? And the reason you talk yourself

1706
01:30:19,680 --> 01:30:21,800
Speaker 4: out of something because there's an answer you don't have

1707
01:30:21,920 --> 01:30:24,760
Speaker 4: an answer to it, because there's a question or a

1708
01:30:24,840 --> 01:30:26,840
Speaker 4: problem you don't have an answer to, And because you

1709
01:30:26,880 --> 01:30:30,280
Speaker 4: don't have an answer, it freezes you because I don't

1710
01:30:30,320 --> 01:30:31,920
Speaker 4: know how that's gonna turn out, or I don't know

1711
01:30:32,000 --> 01:30:35,400
Speaker 4: how that's gonna be. Man, Stop thinking too much. It's

1712
01:30:35,520 --> 01:30:38,719
Speaker 4: all right not to know the answers. You ain't supposed

1713
01:30:38,720 --> 01:30:42,880
Speaker 4: to know what your future holds. You just supposed to

1714
01:30:43,000 --> 01:30:44,880
Speaker 4: live and have the faith that it's gonna be all right.

1715
01:30:45,040 --> 01:30:45,120
Speaker 7: Now.

1716
01:30:45,160 --> 01:30:48,200
Speaker 4: It's gonna be some problems coming, know that, but you

1717
01:30:48,240 --> 01:30:49,599
Speaker 4: ain't got to sit here and try to figure out

1718
01:30:49,600 --> 01:30:50,679
Speaker 4: what's wrong with tomorrow.

1719
01:30:51,760 --> 01:30:54,040
Speaker 1: Last, but not least, the seven rules of life.

1720
01:30:54,360 --> 01:31:01,559
Speaker 4: Smile. Smile you don't own all the problems in the world.

1721
01:31:03,520 --> 01:31:07,760
Speaker 4: Smile because you don't own all the problems in the world.

1722
01:31:09,080 --> 01:31:12,160
Speaker 4: Smile because no matter how bad it's going for you,

1723
01:31:12,160 --> 01:31:14,920
Speaker 4: you better believe it's going way worse for somebody else.

1724
01:31:15,880 --> 01:31:16,200
Speaker 1: Smile.

1725
01:31:16,320 --> 01:31:18,360
Speaker 4: Kirk Franklin wrote a song you look so much better

1726
01:31:18,400 --> 01:31:21,960
Speaker 4: when you smile anyway. I know it's hard, but man,

1727
01:31:22,080 --> 01:31:23,880
Speaker 4: those are the seven rules of life. Man, I just

1728
01:31:23,960 --> 01:31:26,080
Speaker 4: want to share it with you. That's been a benefit

1729
01:31:26,200 --> 01:31:28,040
Speaker 4: to me. I've known them all, but to see them

1730
01:31:28,080 --> 01:31:29,840
Speaker 4: all in print in front of me meant a lot

1731
01:31:29,920 --> 01:31:31,599
Speaker 4: to me the other day, so I thought i'd shared

1732
01:31:31,680 --> 01:31:33,680
Speaker 4: with you. Y'all have a great day today. Talk to

1733
01:31:33,760 --> 01:31:35,760
Speaker 4: God that they love to hear from you. Okay, y'all,

1734
01:31:35,800 --> 01:31:36,400
Speaker 4: stay in peace.

1735
01:31:36,439 --> 01:31:36,960
Speaker 1: We out.

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01:31:52,360 --> 01:31:52,640
Speaker 2: For all.

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1738
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01:31:59,479 --> 01:32:02,880
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