WEBVTT - Love and First Sight Feat. Madam Adrienne and Janeeka Muse

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<v Speaker 1>H m hm.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Mela. Happy Wednesday, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Day. As you know, our stalking stills are stalking stills.

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<v Speaker 3>As you know, our stalking skills are top notch. And

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<v Speaker 3>so we have mutual friends. And I've been trying to

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<v Speaker 3>stalk you for quite some time, maybe like one year.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, now's the time. I just I just

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<v Speaker 3>saw them. We went out with Ashley for her birthday.

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<v Speaker 3>Shout out to Ashley, right, Hannah, It's like perfect time.

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<v Speaker 1>Now they're my friends. Yeah, we love a scorpio. Just

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<v Speaker 1>what's your sign? We're both Aquarius? Oh you are.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm always like Aquarius is our air signs? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Water bearer the water bearers. Okay, that's why I

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<v Speaker 1>was wondering.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone confused. I was confused about the water bearers. Mean,

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<v Speaker 2>like what they hold water.

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<v Speaker 1>They hold us, so you see Orlando's hold.

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<v Speaker 2>And like the water represents truth telling and we're going

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<v Speaker 2>to give you the truth.

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<v Speaker 1>It represents a lot of freedom and truth and honesty.

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<v Speaker 2>No, well, let's get to it. Then, let's get the

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<v Speaker 2>truth out. Then I'm read at the file. We're out

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<v Speaker 2>there and we hadn't filling out. You know, we've been

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<v Speaker 2>doing these questions with the couples, and Adrian was like,

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<v Speaker 2>how deep are we going to go?

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to keep it surface. I was like, bitch,

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<v Speaker 1>do you know what show you're on.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, I'm glad I overheard this this plan over

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<v Speaker 2>here because.

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<v Speaker 1>She could go deep. I was like, no, we're going deep,

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<v Speaker 1>not too much.

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<v Speaker 3>You can't be too much over here. Already told you

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<v Speaker 3>the story earlier. That's ready I was. I was telling

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<v Speaker 3>I was telling them about our episode called you sacrificed

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<v Speaker 3>to what.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, lots of truth telling. Yeah, you know, thankfully

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<v Speaker 2>Peter didn't come for us. Maybe they would come now.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm glad we did that a few years ago. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think that's fair. I mean, people eat chicken every day.

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<v Speaker 2>What's the difference.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know if it's far chicken at this point.

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<v Speaker 3>Because someone that sent me that ship, yes, bitch, yesterday

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<v Speaker 3>I found out that the FDA has recently approved lab

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<v Speaker 3>made meats for America that will launch next year. A KA,

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<v Speaker 3>it's time to get the fuck out of this bitch.

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<v Speaker 2>That's on God, I mean, that's really what like any

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<v Speaker 2>of those like fake vegetarian meats are anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>Too, and we learned that the hard. That's why I

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<v Speaker 1>stopped eating that ship we were.

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<v Speaker 2>We've been vegan now for eight years. I'm gonna say

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<v Speaker 2>ish because we're from Florida, so we sometimes eat a

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<v Speaker 2>crab leg.

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<v Speaker 1>But no, we can't do the meat. That's like really bad.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's like that's how we started out. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>with you're transitioning, you eat a lot of the fake.

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<v Speaker 2>But now, especially if you have TikTok, it's a video

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<v Speaker 2>about everything.

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<v Speaker 1>You just like, well, yeah, way too mony air. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>all we got so far irritated. You can't even trust

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<v Speaker 1>the vegetables. The fruit you can't trust. No, listen. In

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<v Speaker 1>twenty twenty three, I'm committed.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm committed to finally starting a garden in my backyard.

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<v Speaker 2>I have all this space in my backyard and that

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<v Speaker 2>I'm doing nothing with. And I was like, I need

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<v Speaker 2>to just go ahead and practice my off the grid

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<v Speaker 2>living now and know how to fucking I don't even

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<v Speaker 2>know how to plant a fucking tomato.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna die.

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<v Speaker 2>And especially okay, I'm gonna have come over because she lives.

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<v Speaker 2>She lives right down the street please help me set

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<v Speaker 2>up my garden. Ashley, you're watching this and she will

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<v Speaker 2>force me to care.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true. Here's the gditor. So ladies, let us.

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<v Speaker 2>I want to know how you guys met, How you

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<v Speaker 2>guys became to be the Muses. Besides that being the

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<v Speaker 2>best last name ever in the history of artists, which is.

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<v Speaker 1>An actual real last name, I know you well. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure it was like your cool Instagram.

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<v Speaker 2>Like my daddy and his daddy and his daddy were

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<v Speaker 2>all music. That's amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>So you tell it, you So we met originally.

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<v Speaker 2>We're both from Florida, and this was around twenty twelve.

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<v Speaker 1>And back then Adrian was a.

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<v Speaker 2>Club promoter and so one of my friends back then

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<v Speaker 2>was a part of her house. She had a house.

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<v Speaker 2>She was a house mother, ha Sabadini. And so it

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<v Speaker 2>was an event in Orlando, and you didn't come because

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<v Speaker 2>you're You stayed back because your girlfriend at the time

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<v Speaker 2>was cot blocking it. Didn't want you to come. But

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<v Speaker 2>I was in Orlando. They're my friend, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>oh man, she ain't coming, and then out of nowhere,

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<v Speaker 2>she pops up the ceiling. Oh absolutely, So because we

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<v Speaker 2>draw on Instagram or what like, no so so this

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<v Speaker 2>was like maybe around the summer, like around June July,

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<v Speaker 2>but February run the Super Bowl, my friend cut hair

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<v Speaker 2>and so I was just chilling at her barbershop and

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<v Speaker 2>she had like a little Super Bowl party at her

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<v Speaker 2>barber shop, and she came with a whole bunch of

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<v Speaker 2>women and then I just remember sitting in the chair

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<v Speaker 2>and it was just like who is that? And then

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<v Speaker 2>you know, she kind of didn't want to tell me,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, cop blocking to but you know, I'm gonna curious.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna find out.

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<v Speaker 2>But ever since then I saw her from across the room,

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<v Speaker 2>It's like when I instantly saw her, I felt something

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<v Speaker 2>that I've never felt before, kind of like an energy

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<v Speaker 2>pulled to the point where it's like I don't approach

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<v Speaker 2>anyone I've never had when it came to a relationship

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<v Speaker 2>were I talked to, you know, people always approaching me.

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<v Speaker 2>But something about her was like, no, I have to

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<v Speaker 2>find out who this is.

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<v Speaker 1>So I stopped her.

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<v Speaker 2>I found out what club she was promoting at in

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<v Speaker 2>Jacksonville before the whole Orlando thing, and I would just

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<v Speaker 2>show up and so Orlando, when she popped up, I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, oh, this is your moment, like she's here,

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<v Speaker 2>so you have to seal the deal. And so a

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<v Speaker 2>few drinks, you know, got to get that liquor courage.

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<v Speaker 2>And because I knew she had a girlfriend, I had

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<v Speaker 2>to play it respectful. So they played Beyonce speechless, which

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<v Speaker 2>we are huge behive and so yes, I saw.

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<v Speaker 1>The witchy TikTok. Yeah we grew up together.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, they played Beyonce speechless and I ended up doing

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<v Speaker 2>a lap dance not on her, but to one of

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<v Speaker 2>her friends that was like in her party, like look

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<v Speaker 2>at these, but enough to where she knew that the

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<v Speaker 2>dance was for her. You can hold like this could

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<v Speaker 2>be you. Yes, like she knew I had to put

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<v Speaker 2>it out there. And then to make a lone story short,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, the after party went back her hotel. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>I was just you know, being a little loosy or whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, just.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, she came and lady, she had nothing pretty much.

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<v Speaker 1>She came back to the hotel and no one was

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<v Speaker 1>there yet.

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<v Speaker 2>It was just she was the first to show up

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<v Speaker 2>and she just laid down on my bed, like with

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<v Speaker 2>the I can't even call him booty shops. At that point,

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<v Speaker 2>they were just panties and stockings, but I also had

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<v Speaker 2>like this long button down shirts. I kind of like

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<v Speaker 2>cover my butt.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, yeah, we didn't. We didn't fuck, but

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to.

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<v Speaker 3>And you're like, wow, this girl, this is like some

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<v Speaker 3>groupie status.

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<v Speaker 2>My story though, that's from her perspective. When she came

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<v Speaker 2>into the hotel room and then like after people were

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<v Speaker 2>coming in and out, we were having a good time

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<v Speaker 2>or whatever, I had to pee. So they were in

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<v Speaker 2>the bathroom. Her and her friend was in the bathroom

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, I'm gonna need you to get out.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta go. So she didn't want to leave.

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<v Speaker 2>She was like, you're gonna pee right here in front

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<v Speaker 2>of me, and I was like, police leave. So as

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<v Speaker 2>I'm walking out, I pee.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't leave.

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<v Speaker 2>As we were walking out, I happened to just kind

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<v Speaker 2>of like look back, and we kind of caught each

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<v Speaker 2>other's eye contact reflection in the mirror.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm a witch. I've always had it.

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<v Speaker 2>I saw literally in the split second, our entire life

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<v Speaker 2>in that one glance, and I was like, it was

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<v Speaker 2>like it grabbed my heart. I was like, I shut

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<v Speaker 2>the door, and I was like and I did not

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<v Speaker 2>want to be with the bitch that was home and.

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<v Speaker 1>I left her.

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<v Speaker 2>I kicked her out, if we want to be honest,

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<v Speaker 2>And she came the next night, and we have not

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<v Speaker 2>spent a night apart for ten years.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, you just made a call. I was like, hey, bit,

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<v Speaker 3>you gonna have to get out of my house.

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<v Speaker 1>But she was already. She was already leaving the door

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<v Speaker 1>wide open.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean she would even come to the house and

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<v Speaker 2>see us in her room. I'm laying on the bed

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<v Speaker 2>with her at the foot of the bed. But you

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<v Speaker 2>come in and you see your girlfriend laying in the

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<v Speaker 2>bed with another girl. You just gonna take a shower

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<v Speaker 2>and excuse yourself and go back in the living room.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, that was a normal thing that at my house.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I used to throw a party so people would

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<v Speaker 1>just you guys were open. Who in what way? You

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<v Speaker 1>in the acts? Like okay, she was just dumbaships. Have

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<v Speaker 1>I heard of any such passiveness. Actually, my first relationship

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<v Speaker 1>was she doesn't hear this? She does? I mean, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, I mean you love the girl wide up

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<v Speaker 1>and I walked right in. She learned her lesson, girl,

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<v Speaker 1>I wish she did. What did she say?

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<v Speaker 2>We all have a few of those you know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>well that's beautiful. Wow, he's my best friend to really

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<v Speaker 2>to really know like that immediate like that that poll

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<v Speaker 2>is like, yeah, that's something that's never happened, and to

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<v Speaker 2>act on it really too, because a lot of people

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<v Speaker 2>feel that way and then they're.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, oh no, I'm tripping. That would have been sad

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<v Speaker 1>because I know it's rare.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so rare, and I'm already like naturally kind of

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<v Speaker 2>anxious socially, so it could have happened, like I could

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<v Speaker 2>have just been like you know, sometimes people aren't healed

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<v Speaker 2>enough to even accept it, like you said, like not

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<v Speaker 2>even paying attention. I was gonna make sure you accepted it,

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<v Speaker 2>so you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I needed it.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she was past, So you've moved the other bitch

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<v Speaker 3>out you moved in yeah yeah, and then from from

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<v Speaker 3>there like like how because you guys are married, right?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? When did when did you?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 1>We need to be married? I want to be with you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is this is that? So I think we were

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<v Speaker 1>together for like two years? Yeah? Dating? Yeah, and then

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<v Speaker 1>well you know you know what they say.

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<v Speaker 3>I can say this as a former lesbian. I don't

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<v Speaker 3>know if you guys know I'm a former lesbian's lesbian

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<v Speaker 3>always a lesbian.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, I agree.

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<v Speaker 2>I really want to hear from the lesbians because because

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<v Speaker 2>she's been saying this for years and a former lesbian,

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<v Speaker 2>I am, she just no longer lesbian anymore. I've had

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<v Speaker 2>she had too many dramas and she had to get out.

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<v Speaker 1>It happened a lot of access to men.

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<v Speaker 3>Lesbians are a little bit of drama. And also like

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<v Speaker 3>it's like dog years, Like if you've been with a

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<v Speaker 3>lesbian for one year, and the lesbian years is five

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<v Speaker 3>years because they haven't left each other's side the whole year.

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<v Speaker 3>So if you all get there for ten years in

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<v Speaker 3>lesbian years, that's thirty five.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay yeah, But so like, how what was the journey

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<v Speaker 2>into into marriage? Oh? Yeah, so we dated like maybe

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<v Speaker 2>two years and then oh sorry, yeah, we dated for

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<v Speaker 2>like two years and then my birthday came around in

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<v Speaker 2>January twenty fourteen, and she was like, what you wanna

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<v Speaker 2>do for your birthday? And I was like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, let's get married. Let's just get married,

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<v Speaker 2>like we kind of already do.

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<v Speaker 4>Our relation should do that to get married, Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 4>we kind of already do, Like we were going to

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<v Speaker 4>be together forever.

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<v Speaker 1>So she was like.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, so you know, we bought real trip tickets.

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<v Speaker 2>And this was before marriage was legal everywhere, but it

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<v Speaker 2>was leeg with California. So we love Jacksonville to the girls.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course they had to be there, just at the

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<v Speaker 2>little courthouse marriage you you know, whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>This is you and your two daughters.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and then I guess you can go.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to decide if I want to say it

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<v Speaker 1>or not. Hey, this is where you say. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>I used to be married to a man.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, we grew up in church together, so that's

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<v Speaker 2>all I kind of knew. So there, my daughters are

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<v Speaker 2>from my very young, young marriage.

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<v Speaker 1>So you got you.

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<v Speaker 3>Were married, you had kids at that point when you

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<v Speaker 3>were in the relationship with him.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you aware that you liked women or were you.

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<v Speaker 2>I got my ass beat a lot as a little

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<v Speaker 2>girl for being caught messing around with girls in church,

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<v Speaker 2>absolutely funerals, everything was bad.

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<v Speaker 1>So he knew.

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<v Speaker 2>He was actually the first person that I came out to. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So to me, it was just the close at least

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<v Speaker 2>being able to have that. And he was also a

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<v Speaker 2>really good friend. So we grew up together like he

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<v Speaker 2>taught me how to ride a bike and ship like

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<v Speaker 2>we knew each other, but I know his secrets too, So.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so we.

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<v Speaker 2>Just definitely after about two years of being married to him,

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<v Speaker 2>it was like, okay, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Can't we can't fake this anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm just I'm tired of imagining you with titties, right, I.

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<v Speaker 1>Needed so I need real titties.

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<v Speaker 2>I just have this vision. I don't know, if you

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<v Speaker 2>watch House of Dragon, you know what we started. It's

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<v Speaker 2>so good, but we didn't finish, okay, because they have

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<v Speaker 2>like an arrangement in marriage, like there's like a special arrangement.

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<v Speaker 2>They're like, look, I know you like men, and I

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<v Speaker 2>know that I like my my uncle.

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<v Speaker 1>We all just get married. That's surprised, Larry teaser spoiler alert.

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<v Speaker 2>It makes sense though, But I just had a vision

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<v Speaker 2>of them like they made this agreement. They were like,

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<v Speaker 2>look like you making this agreement with your husband, Like, look,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Call him that sorry ex your baby's daddy?

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<v Speaker 2>Yo?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, girl, the sperm donor thank thank you, that's the one.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you guys still have a good relationship? Now? We

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<v Speaker 1>don't talk, he outed me, so he's the girl. It

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<v Speaker 1>gets dee.

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<v Speaker 2>We ended up getting homeless because we got married, and

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<v Speaker 2>so he just basically told anyone that would listen.

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<v Speaker 3>So he divorced him, and then you guys got married,

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<v Speaker 3>and because he was upset, he told everybody.

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<v Speaker 2>No, he was mad because I decided to leave him.

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<v Speaker 2>This was way before.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, my children were.

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<v Speaker 2>Little girls, very very young, and so I was like

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<v Speaker 2>twenty maybe twenty three, twenty.

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<v Speaker 1>Four at the time when you decide to leave him,

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<v Speaker 1>to leave him, yeah, and he just couldn't handle that.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't want and you told him, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>go be with women. And then he told everybody and

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<v Speaker 1>he caught me cheating with a woman at the house

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<v Speaker 1>at her house.

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<v Speaker 2>I was supposed to be at work and he showed

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<v Speaker 2>up at my job and I wasn't there.

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<v Speaker 1>It's kind kindleous, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>So then you left him, and he because you come

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<v Speaker 3>from a religious background.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, both of my parents are pastors, okay, And then

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<v Speaker 1>he told everybody listen.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, he turns everyone against me. It was a

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<v Speaker 2>whole debarcle.

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<v Speaker 1>It was bad.

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<v Speaker 3>And then your parents actually like they had no idea

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<v Speaker 3>that was gonna like, yeah, but they were not happy

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<v Speaker 3>about it.

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<v Speaker 1>No, we didn't talk for maybe a year or two.

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<v Speaker 3>And how about your parents.

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<v Speaker 2>I've had like little situations like as a kid, WINNI

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<v Speaker 2>koops too being lesbian. I think my mom thought it

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<v Speaker 2>was a phase. Yeah, but I don't think she really

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<v Speaker 2>came to terms with it until I met Adrian.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she's she's got the best mom in the world. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>hey mom.

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<v Speaker 3>And how how was that for your girls? Because obviously

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<v Speaker 3>they were small, I mean, and kids they're like, okay, whatever,

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<v Speaker 3>you're having me too, But like, was it a huge

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<v Speaker 3>like shift because now mom has a girlfriend or like,

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<v Speaker 3>how did you introduce that shift to your girls?

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<v Speaker 1>Well?

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<v Speaker 2>At first, initially I was very very like meticulously careful

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<v Speaker 2>about who I brought in and out so they would

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<v Speaker 2>like they didn't know for a long time. But my

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<v Speaker 2>oldest daughter, the Scorpio, she's brilliant and always knew just emotional,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, so she she could she could see it,

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<v Speaker 2>and so she just was in the bathroom one day

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<v Speaker 2>I was doing her hair. She's like six maybe, and

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<v Speaker 2>she goes, Mom, are you gay?

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<v Speaker 1>And I was no, seriously, it was.

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<v Speaker 2>Frightening, And I was like yes, yeah, and she goes,

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<v Speaker 2>it's okay, you're happy now and I'll never forget that.

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<v Speaker 1>And they're now gay, so are they? Yeah? Because who

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<v Speaker 1>has energy? No offense, but who has energy for that? Mens?

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<v Speaker 2>I couldn't manner stress stress me. You'll see when your

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<v Speaker 2>baby gets older, you'll see.

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<v Speaker 3>A couple of boyfriends they did had you were like,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have time for this.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean no, it's still Listen. With girls, you're to

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<v Speaker 2>deal with the tears no matter who it is. That's

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<v Speaker 2>the hard part. People don't like to think about that part. Heart,

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<v Speaker 2>But oh my god, it's horrible watching your daughters just

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<v Speaker 2>have to go through.

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<v Speaker 1>And we were all dumb and young, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody did your Did your daughters explore both sides and

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<v Speaker 2>then made that choice? Yeah, I mean listen, I get it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's it is. You're probably right. I just think it's

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<v Speaker 2>in the generation too.

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<v Speaker 1>They're just open. They don't know way more. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they're fluid like a guy next week.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't want they like, yeah, no kids, they don't

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<v Speaker 2>want anything. My daughter said the same thing, as it's

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<v Speaker 2>the generation the kids want.

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<v Speaker 1>I said that too, though growing up.

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<v Speaker 2>I said that up until like basically I got pregnant.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, fine, I submit uh so okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So so after that, it seems like did you kind

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<v Speaker 2>of because your parents kind of well, how old were

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<v Speaker 2>you like you said, we're about twenty three or twenty

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<v Speaker 2>four when I was out it, yeah, and then you

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<v Speaker 2>were homeless? Well then how did you kind of like

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<v Speaker 2>recover from that space and then become a house my mother?

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<v Speaker 2>So I was like, hey, if the city knows I'm going, now,

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<v Speaker 2>let's be gay. And I started throwing like ladies' nights

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<v Speaker 2>at my at my house. And then one weekend it

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<v Speaker 2>went from like five girls to like fifty, and so

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<v Speaker 2>we ended up doing venues and then that grew and

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<v Speaker 2>then it just became this thing where in the South there,

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<v Speaker 2>especially at the time, there was only one gay club

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<v Speaker 2>and it was like this hole in the wall place,

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<v Speaker 2>which ironically my ex husband ended up being a security

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<v Speaker 2>guard there.

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<v Speaker 1>To stalk me.

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<v Speaker 2>Shut the fuss, I swear to God, stay there long aship.

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<v Speaker 3>Like he wanted to just come to he was popping

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<v Speaker 3>at the lesbian bar.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, it wasn't a lesbian it was a gay bar.

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<v Speaker 1>You wanted to see what was popping at the bar.

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<v Speaker 2>These are facts, So I'm not even saying ship that

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<v Speaker 2>people don't know, but yeah, so help me, adhd bad.

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<v Speaker 1>What was I going with this?

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<v Speaker 2>So I guess they want to know, like pretty much

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<v Speaker 2>how everything led up to.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you started doing this.

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<v Speaker 2>And then I just became a whore. It was like

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<v Speaker 2>a kid in the candy stores. Major suppression my whole life,

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<v Speaker 2>trying to push it down for the Lord, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>do my due diligence and be fruitful and multiply. That

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<v Speaker 2>was my programming, you know. I was brought up to

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<v Speaker 2>be the next preacher.

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<v Speaker 1>Takeover.

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<v Speaker 2>Absolutely I'm the oldest and that was the thing, right,

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<v Speaker 2>So it was like I'm just gonna live for the

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<v Speaker 2>devil now and hallelojah.

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<v Speaker 1>I did it big. Yeah. I was gonna say, like.

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<v Speaker 3>Not only your sexuality, obviously that's like forbidden in the Christianity,

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<v Speaker 3>but then to take it the next step is like,

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<v Speaker 3>because I heard you identify as a witch, so do we,

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<v Speaker 3>And you know, for like black women, that for just

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<v Speaker 3>black people. For a long time, I feel like even

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<v Speaker 3>till like yesterday, it's like.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's still it's still a thing.

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<v Speaker 3>And I even recently it's like this year where Erico

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<v Speaker 3>lets me say it. She's like, stop saying that. People

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<v Speaker 3>are gonna get the wrong idea. I'm like, She's like,

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<v Speaker 3>not when everyone's comfortable with the word witch. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 3>but I'm a witch, but like.

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<v Speaker 2>What that's and I think you should hold on to

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<v Speaker 2>that boldly because it took so many years for me

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<v Speaker 2>to actually come out and say it, because I'd done

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<v Speaker 2>it in secret.

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<v Speaker 1>And silence and all my family and shit would know.

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<v Speaker 1>But like, we are out here heavy and we need support.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, did we need to like make a witch

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<v Speaker 3>a black witch support group it needs. I just want

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<v Speaker 3>to make an announcement. I'm coming out publicly.

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<v Speaker 2>Today, November whatever day it is coming out publicly?

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<v Speaker 1>Is a witch A witch? A witch?

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<v Speaker 3>I told my daughter. She's like, you're a witch?

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>She's like, if my friends at school ask you, you

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<v Speaker 3>better say yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, duh, See they get it. I love

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<v Speaker 1>the younger generation. They get it. They have no question.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, I'm a fairy warewealth witch. I was like, okay,

0:20:52.240 --> 0:20:54.679
<v Speaker 1>I love it. And see how many witches are in

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<v Speaker 1>the church. People don't even realize.

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<v Speaker 3>There's this there's a very thin veil. But I was

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<v Speaker 3>going like between, like being a witch in the church,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, like magic. You know, I sacrificed the fucking whatever.

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<v Speaker 3>But you know where do you think like that comes from. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>it's all rooted in like ritual and ceremony.

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<v Speaker 2>Every everything in the church, the altar. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 2>was a what did they call me growing up in

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<v Speaker 2>the Church of Prophetess, the young prophetess.

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<v Speaker 1>That's like that.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't say it's for the Lord. I'm a psychic

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm satanic.

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<v Speaker 3>Well that's that's the thing when people are like witchiness

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<v Speaker 3>or like tarot cards, you know, those CAUs in that

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<v Speaker 3>second away from me. But it's like the whole motherfucking

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<v Speaker 3>Bible was written by some things who had a like

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<v Speaker 3>a prophecy.

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<v Speaker 1>Literally it's a whole spell book in itself, right, So

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<v Speaker 1>how did that come to be?

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<v Speaker 3>Like how did you still like not only own your

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<v Speaker 3>sexuality but then come out as a witch and like

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<v Speaker 3>hone in on your like your ability to manifest and

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<v Speaker 3>then tell people and not feel you know, away came

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<v Speaker 3>up as lesbian and a witch.

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<v Speaker 1>So it was a journey.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'll say I had a lot of like d

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<v Speaker 2>instructing of the church that I needed to do because

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<v Speaker 2>I was born in it. So while the little girls

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<v Speaker 2>were learning one plus one is two. I was learning

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<v Speaker 2>I will spend eternity in a bottomless pit of hell,

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<v Speaker 2>which caused like a lot of anxiety growing up. It's

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<v Speaker 2>always like this subconscious feeling of impending doom.

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<v Speaker 1>And I had to because the.

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<v Speaker 2>Rapture you're always just afraid of happened, right, So, like

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<v Speaker 2>I had to work through that. So it took about

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<v Speaker 2>I would say eight years, around eight years before I

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<v Speaker 2>even was okay with it internally. And then finally my

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<v Speaker 2>daughters they were just like, you need to fucking be

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<v Speaker 2>real and just be authentic and people need to know

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<v Speaker 2>who you are because you're a dope bitch. And I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, and I usually listened to them, like I

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<v Speaker 2>just listened to my kids. We don't do smarter, Yeah

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<v Speaker 2>they are. So they were like, Mom, do the fucking

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<v Speaker 2>TikTok and be witches. We had. We ignored her for

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<v Speaker 2>like a month because it I'm gonna quarry some stubborn

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm like, no, I'm an artist.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to do that. I paint, Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>exactly what's the fair.

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<v Speaker 2>Pain. It's so bad. But it was completely the opposite.

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<v Speaker 2>My art soared afterwards and just living more authentically. Then

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<v Speaker 2>it was like a whole community of people just on

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<v Speaker 2>TikTok waiting like, yeah, where have you been aunties? Oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god, like really like and a lot of people

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<v Speaker 2>were coming to it saying like, oh my gosh, like

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<v Speaker 2>we need guidance on you know, I'm lesbian or I'm

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<v Speaker 2>gay or I'm dealing with this and like it's just like, Wow,

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<v Speaker 2>you really don't know who your tribe is if you

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<v Speaker 2>don't really put yourself out there like we all need

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<v Speaker 2>each other. Or how do I secretly set up an

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<v Speaker 2>altar without anyone in my family knowing? Stuff like that,

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<v Speaker 2>Like damn, I wish I had that ship, you know

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<v Speaker 2>growing up.

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<v Speaker 1>So it worked.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, that's amazing. It's it's true you don't know until

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<v Speaker 2>you do it. But even with us, like I had

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<v Speaker 2>no idea, we had no idea that like women felt

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<v Speaker 2>how we were feeling, and that like you know that

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<v Speaker 2>us just speaking our truth would be I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>revolutionary in ways like because I'm like, so you're on it,

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<v Speaker 2>because it's we now are entering into the age of Aquarius,

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<v Speaker 2>and if you remember, that's what's happening. Old systems are

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<v Speaker 2>crumbling everything, even the economy, money itself. So the old

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<v Speaker 2>ways we were moving out of the piss era that

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<v Speaker 2>was like heavy religion, heavy leadership, heavy like moralism and

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<v Speaker 2>all this bullshit. Right, but now your power lies in

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<v Speaker 2>being authentic. That represents the age of Aquarius. So we're

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<v Speaker 2>all work walking in purpose right now. It feels good, right,

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<v Speaker 2>And that's why your art started to soar too. I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>you like open up this like portal for yourself. When

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<v Speaker 2>you walk in your authenticity, like things just kind of

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<v Speaker 2>start to lay out for you. And I know, like

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<v Speaker 2>the moment you stop doing that, things start to go

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<v Speaker 2>like absolutely, even my art started becoming witchy like it was.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a whole demographic waiting.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>And also I think when you walk in like authenticity,

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<v Speaker 3>like you find your people.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 3>You know it's just so easy, you know, like your

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<v Speaker 3>people will start to gravitate to. Your tribe gets bigger

0:25:11.480 --> 0:25:13.720
<v Speaker 3>and stronger, and the people you're supposed to be around

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<v Speaker 3>you don't have to hide for or just or like

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<v Speaker 3>watch what you say because.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, bitch, you know I'm a witch. Don't come around

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<v Speaker 1>here if you've got a problem, don't be scared.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So it's like it's you people do such themselves.

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<v Speaker 3>It's such a disservice of like not being themselves. And

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<v Speaker 3>then I always I'm always sorry. I'm always like curious

0:25:30.560 --> 0:25:32.240
<v Speaker 3>because people are like, Okay, how do you like? It's

0:25:32.280 --> 0:25:34.880
<v Speaker 3>so it's so nice, how you're so able to be yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, bitch, I don't know any other way to be.

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<v Speaker 3>How are you being anything else than yourself?

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<v Speaker 1>I can't help.

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<v Speaker 2>I think it's very easy to not be yourself, actually,

0:25:45.080 --> 0:25:46.840
<v Speaker 2>because I think it's almost you have to fight to

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<v Speaker 2>be yourself in this day and age, in this society,

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<v Speaker 2>with religion, with even social media, wanting to look and

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<v Speaker 2>be like other people and wanting to fit in, it's

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<v Speaker 2>actually harder to be yourself and actually figure out who

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<v Speaker 2>the fuck is anyway.

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<v Speaker 1>Like is this myself? For? Is it like?

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<v Speaker 2>And really get into that. So but but I think

0:26:07.480 --> 0:26:09.040
<v Speaker 2>you've always really just had that.

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<v Speaker 3>In you, naturally unfortunately, but fortunately it's been very difficult

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<v Speaker 3>to reach refrain from.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I have to learn it the hard way, dropping

0:26:17.920 --> 0:26:20.040
<v Speaker 2>those masks, Like I had to put on wear so

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<v Speaker 2>many masks and it was just exhausting. You get burnt out,

0:26:22.960 --> 0:26:29.240
<v Speaker 2>and then finally ya like I'm worshipping the devil, so

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<v Speaker 2>that way you can just really stay.

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<v Speaker 1>Away, right right right. I just want to say I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think she worships the devil.

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<v Speaker 2>To say that because niggas on the on the let's

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<v Speaker 2>look her up, Adrian, I don't know there's the devil.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you know what.

0:26:47.240 --> 0:26:50.600
<v Speaker 3>I once looked up like that, Like I once googled satan,

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<v Speaker 3>like how do you say Satanism? And the definition when

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<v Speaker 3>I read it, if I'm like remembering correctly, was very interesting.

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<v Speaker 3>It was like basically believing in like both. It was

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<v Speaker 3>like believing in like the darkness and the light.

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<v Speaker 1>It's true. Yeah, it wasn't even like what we think.

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<v Speaker 1>When I read it, I was like, this is not

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<v Speaker 1>even bad. Lucifer means light bringer, it.

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<v Speaker 3>Brings, it means like I always tell people that I'm like, Lucifer.

0:27:14.920 --> 0:27:17.399
<v Speaker 1>Means like I'm about to look it up.

0:27:18.359 --> 0:27:21.800
<v Speaker 2>Satan is a meaning in English to the worship of Satan,

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<v Speaker 2>typically involving a travesty of Christian symbols and practices such

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<v Speaker 2>as placing a cross upside down. Wait, we can't trust's dictionary. This,

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<v Speaker 2>this is not I don't know, I don't know what

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<v Speaker 2>I got the worship of Satan or the powers of evil.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe this is one under God.

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<v Speaker 2>They're not gonna, They're not gonna. You got to get

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<v Speaker 2>it out of the books because like they're gonna.

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<v Speaker 1>Make session or affinity with evil. I'm obsessed with evil.

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<v Speaker 3>Interesting, Okay, well, I think I think it's just it's

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<v Speaker 3>acknowledging that, like you have to indul and some of

0:28:00.720 --> 0:28:02.960
<v Speaker 3>the like the darkness or what people say is the

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<v Speaker 3>darkness in order to like.

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<v Speaker 2>Even in the I had one question growing up that

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<v Speaker 2>none of the pastors could answer in church. I was

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<v Speaker 2>the rebellious one, like, uh huh, that'll make sense because

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<v Speaker 2>I studied the ship, right, So I'm like, why in

0:28:24.760 --> 0:28:27.600
<v Speaker 2>heaven before Lucifer? Y'all know, Lucifer got kicked out of heaven, right,

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<v Speaker 2>So I always have this question, like why who as

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<v Speaker 2>he was getting jealous of God, he was jealous of

0:28:33.560 --> 0:28:36.200
<v Speaker 2>God and you know, started thinking more highly of hisself

0:28:36.600 --> 0:28:38.440
<v Speaker 2>and God kicked before God kicked him out. And my

0:28:38.560 --> 0:28:42.200
<v Speaker 2>question was always well, who put the spirit of jealousy

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<v Speaker 2>in mind?

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<v Speaker 1>Who created the spirit of jealousy? He didn't do it hisself?

0:28:48.720 --> 0:28:49.360
<v Speaker 1>Who made it?

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<v Speaker 2>And no one wanted to answer, So when I started

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<v Speaker 2>to reread the Bible for like the fourth time as

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<v Speaker 2>an adult to study it, like, I realized I forgot

0:28:57.560 --> 0:29:01.520
<v Speaker 2>the scripture where it is, but the God did. He goes,

0:29:01.600 --> 0:29:04.440
<v Speaker 2>I create both the light and the dark. I create

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<v Speaker 2>both good and evil. I do these things.

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<v Speaker 3>Nigga, it's me, So you telling me to do some

0:29:12.680 --> 0:29:16.680
<v Speaker 3>shit that he not for a reason. Thank you, so

0:29:16.680 --> 0:29:19.440
<v Speaker 3>that you could experience the light when you can't. You

0:29:19.440 --> 0:29:22.080
<v Speaker 3>can't live your life only like one sided. You can't

0:29:22.160 --> 0:29:26.560
<v Speaker 3>like because it's yeah, like pleasure, even like Christianity calling

0:29:26.600 --> 0:29:30.080
<v Speaker 3>like something like sexual pleasure, Like say like that is not.

0:29:30.200 --> 0:29:31.560
<v Speaker 3>Why the funk would he make it feel this good

0:29:31.560 --> 0:29:32.960
<v Speaker 3>if we ain't supposed to do it exactly.

0:29:33.680 --> 0:29:35.680
<v Speaker 2>And also stop touching a little boys since you're concerned

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<v Speaker 2>about it someone.

0:29:36.600 --> 0:29:40.600
<v Speaker 3>Also, my biggest question was as in Christianity was like they're.

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<v Speaker 1>Like and then Jesus God sacrifice.

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<v Speaker 3>His only son, and I was like why. I was like,

0:29:45.240 --> 0:29:47.080
<v Speaker 3>he's God, right, why would he make.

0:29:47.000 --> 0:29:48.960
<v Speaker 1>That the rule? Like he could have made anything happen.

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<v Speaker 3>He was like, I'm gonna get my only son, and

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a cross save everybody.

0:29:52.920 --> 0:29:55.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm like he can just saved everybody. The first abortion.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, oh, lord, the first abortion. Why are you

0:30:01.080 --> 0:30:04.560
<v Speaker 1>also against abortion? I don't. My parents don't like talking

0:30:04.560 --> 0:30:09.560
<v Speaker 1>to me because what are you talking about? He was

0:30:09.600 --> 0:30:12.200
<v Speaker 1>the first abortion as a grown man. Yeah, first time.

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<v Speaker 2>Anyway, ladies, I'm going to steer us into another We

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<v Speaker 2>usually asked our guests to share an affirmation. I was

0:30:27.320 --> 0:30:29.880
<v Speaker 2>wondering if you guys have an affirmation that you like

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<v Speaker 2>to share with our audience.

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<v Speaker 2>I've been saying lately is I wake up in the

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<v Speaker 2>morning and I say I am consistently attracting the energy

0:31:24.360 --> 0:31:29.960
<v Speaker 2>that flows with my highest good. I am consistently attracting

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<v Speaker 2>the energy that flows with my highest good.

0:31:33.880 --> 0:31:38.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm like that, you know, I don't. I don't have

0:31:38.200 --> 0:31:40.120
<v Speaker 1>any day affirmations day. I feel like I need to

0:31:40.160 --> 0:31:44.320
<v Speaker 1>step that up. Use that one. That one there you go,

0:31:44.320 --> 0:31:48.480
<v Speaker 1>I use that one. That's a good one. I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>So before we started the show, we asked you guys

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<v Speaker 2>to answer some questions.

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<v Speaker 1>It's question, are you ready? I'm going to test you

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<v Speaker 1>guys to see how well you know.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys have been together every single night for ten years. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>don't funck this up right?

0:32:09.800 --> 0:32:12.520
<v Speaker 1>What you'all been talking about over there? The qusture is

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to go first?

0:32:13.720 --> 0:32:17.880
<v Speaker 3>I can sure this is Adrian, so Janika, these questions are.

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<v Speaker 2>For you together, Jesus, you want to just go ahead? Okay, Okay,

0:32:25.720 --> 0:32:29.200
<v Speaker 2>I get it girl, Okay, this is for me, This

0:32:29.280 --> 0:32:30.080
<v Speaker 2>is for you.

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<v Speaker 1>What is Adrian's favorite color? Purple? Correct? What is her

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<v Speaker 1>overall pet peeve of mine? No, just her pet peep.

0:32:41.880 --> 0:32:44.240
<v Speaker 1>I have a lot you do. I'm trying to think.

0:32:44.480 --> 0:32:48.880
<v Speaker 2>Uh, I feel like I will say that your pet

0:32:48.920 --> 0:32:49.520
<v Speaker 2>peeve is.

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<v Speaker 1>Meaningless.

0:32:51.840 --> 0:32:56.920
<v Speaker 3>Conversations small talk, small talk with people you was.

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<v Speaker 2>In there, girl, Yes, I literally know I do. And

0:33:02.200 --> 0:33:03.840
<v Speaker 2>it took a minute to answer that. I'm like, hmm,

0:33:04.120 --> 0:33:05.600
<v Speaker 2>let me see who she would go with this, Yeah,

0:33:05.680 --> 0:33:06.880
<v Speaker 2>meaningless conversations.

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<v Speaker 1>What is her biggest pet peep when it comes to you.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, one thing she hates. It's not on my nose,

0:33:15.280 --> 0:33:17.640
<v Speaker 2>I think she I think I'm that I'm stubborn.

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<v Speaker 1>Snoring badly and snotty. Yeah a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, so I have a nasal polyps. Like when we

0:33:27.240 --> 0:33:29.600
<v Speaker 2>moved out here in twenty sixteen, before COVID, I had

0:33:29.600 --> 0:33:33.000
<v Speaker 2>lost my sense of taste and smell. And when I

0:33:33.080 --> 0:33:34.760
<v Speaker 2>went to see an E and T doctor, he was like,

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<v Speaker 2>more so like I probably got sick and never like

0:33:38.440 --> 0:33:40.760
<v Speaker 2>actually healed from that. And so I started developing nasal

0:33:40.760 --> 0:33:44.680
<v Speaker 2>polyps and that causes post NASER drip. I always so congested.

0:33:45.160 --> 0:33:48.160
<v Speaker 2>I had the surgery, but the chances of nasal polops

0:33:48.200 --> 0:33:49.320
<v Speaker 2>coming back is high.

0:33:49.400 --> 0:33:52.520
<v Speaker 1>So and they are back. Yeah, so you're confirmed, you're

0:33:52.560 --> 0:33:55.880
<v Speaker 1>the doctors. Yeah, so got it or baby?

0:33:55.920 --> 0:33:58.440
<v Speaker 2>She can't help that, I know, but she she stuffered,

0:33:58.480 --> 0:34:00.720
<v Speaker 2>like she said, And I tell her your ZR tech

0:34:00.800 --> 0:34:03.280
<v Speaker 2>every day. She doesn't. I tell her to do everything

0:34:03.280 --> 0:34:08.120
<v Speaker 2>she put on your medifier. She doesn't so irritating when she.

0:34:08.040 --> 0:34:11.640
<v Speaker 1>Doesn't take the advice and you have to deal with this. Yeah,

0:34:11.719 --> 0:34:14.239
<v Speaker 1>and I can't sleep at night. So do you have

0:34:14.280 --> 0:34:16.480
<v Speaker 1>an earplex? I'm going to get them too.

0:34:17.000 --> 0:34:19.120
<v Speaker 2>But she's annoyed because she shouldn't have to. Right.

0:34:21.000 --> 0:34:22.960
<v Speaker 3>What is Adrian's childhood pet's name?

0:34:24.239 --> 0:34:29.280
<v Speaker 1>Sasha? Childhood girl pet name? I don't know your pets

0:34:30.040 --> 0:34:34.400
<v Speaker 1>have pets? Music kid? No pets? Growing up? Correct? What

0:34:34.440 --> 0:34:35.760
<v Speaker 1>would what would you say?

0:34:36.040 --> 0:34:36.920
<v Speaker 2>Is? Uh?

0:34:37.520 --> 0:34:40.719
<v Speaker 1>What would Adrian say? It's her best quality? I don't know.

0:34:43.719 --> 0:34:47.200
<v Speaker 2>I would say that she's she's very understanding.

0:34:47.320 --> 0:34:48.000
<v Speaker 1>That's what I say.

0:34:48.160 --> 0:34:52.239
<v Speaker 3>She said she's communication, that's her Yeah.

0:34:52.320 --> 0:34:55.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. What would she say is her worst quality? Not

0:34:56.120 --> 0:35:01.960
<v Speaker 1>staring into my soul? I don't know. I know answer

0:35:02.040 --> 0:35:06.120
<v Speaker 1>and the soul? I know? Your worst quality? Would you

0:35:06.120 --> 0:35:10.799
<v Speaker 1>say is worse about I forgot what I put? I

0:35:10.840 --> 0:35:14.040
<v Speaker 1>don't know. I don't know that one overthinker? Oh?

0:35:14.400 --> 0:35:17.120
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, what is something she's most sensitive about?

0:35:17.400 --> 0:35:20.959
<v Speaker 1>Her mental health? Her family? Oh?

0:35:24.760 --> 0:35:27.799
<v Speaker 3>What is something that she's accomplished that she's most proud of?

0:35:29.120 --> 0:35:30.000
<v Speaker 2>She has so many?

0:35:32.640 --> 0:35:40.719
<v Speaker 1>Maybe the girls absolutely not. Oh, I'm just there A

0:35:40.800 --> 0:35:42.359
<v Speaker 1>strong second and third.

0:35:43.840 --> 0:35:46.200
<v Speaker 3>Right now her most recent art project, that will air

0:35:46.320 --> 0:35:49.719
<v Speaker 3>on Hulu in twenty twenty three.

0:35:51.000 --> 0:35:53.280
<v Speaker 1>About it, I could, I couldn't think of anything.

0:35:54.480 --> 0:35:56.840
<v Speaker 2>What you said repeatedly that the girls are your best?

0:35:57.960 --> 0:36:01.120
<v Speaker 1>They are? But but this is this is it right now?

0:36:01.719 --> 0:36:04.799
<v Speaker 2>That's so exciting, exciting. I'm excited for When is that

0:36:04.840 --> 0:36:06.800
<v Speaker 2>coming out? Do you know they're saying?

0:36:08.080 --> 0:36:08.319
<v Speaker 1>Or what?

0:36:08.600 --> 0:36:10.880
<v Speaker 2>Or how can we? How can people? I guess they

0:36:10.880 --> 0:36:11.960
<v Speaker 2>can't find it until next year.

0:36:12.480 --> 0:36:14.719
<v Speaker 1>She says, I shouldn't say you didn't.

0:36:14.440 --> 0:36:16.840
<v Speaker 2>Feel like it's a problem. I didn't sign any NDA's

0:36:16.920 --> 0:36:17.360
<v Speaker 2>or anything.

0:36:17.960 --> 0:36:18.480
<v Speaker 1>You shouldn't.

0:36:18.920 --> 0:36:22.800
<v Speaker 2>So just know that it's on Hulu and it's based

0:36:22.840 --> 0:36:27.279
<v Speaker 2>on a New York Times bestseller, Oh Dope about an

0:36:27.320 --> 0:36:29.080
<v Speaker 2>artist perfect love that.

0:36:29.880 --> 0:36:31.920
<v Speaker 3>I'm going to ask you more questions in the Microsoft.

0:36:32.880 --> 0:36:34.600
<v Speaker 3>What is Adrian's biggest insecurity?

0:36:35.880 --> 0:36:37.200
<v Speaker 1>All right now, he's not saying it.

0:36:40.280 --> 0:36:41.279
<v Speaker 3>It's like, don't expose me?

0:36:41.360 --> 0:36:41.600
<v Speaker 2>Get it?

0:36:41.680 --> 0:36:51.520
<v Speaker 1>Right? Is security? Yeah?

0:36:51.640 --> 0:36:52.880
<v Speaker 2>You don't like your arms?

0:36:53.360 --> 0:36:55.880
<v Speaker 1>Oh? Yeah I don't, but I'm working on it. What

0:36:55.920 --> 0:37:00.000
<v Speaker 1>did I put? She put painter's posture? What the hell

0:37:00.080 --> 0:37:03.799
<v Speaker 1>those painters? Yeah? So I've been drawing since I was

0:37:03.840 --> 0:37:06.920
<v Speaker 1>like two, and then we just have horrible postures. So

0:37:06.960 --> 0:37:09.279
<v Speaker 1>it's like you have to like the ballerina strength. Yeah,

0:37:09.320 --> 0:37:13.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm learning to like because this is my co lunched.

0:37:12.920 --> 0:37:17.719
<v Speaker 3>Over what would be a deal breaker in your relationship.

0:37:18.719 --> 0:37:24.160
<v Speaker 2>This is funny, I would say if I cheated, but

0:37:24.200 --> 0:37:26.760
<v Speaker 2>also if she doesn't trust me anymore.

0:37:27.719 --> 0:37:33.799
<v Speaker 3>Cheating in parentheses, but with a nigga. I just want

0:37:33.800 --> 0:37:35.160
<v Speaker 3>to clarify if I was a bit, you might be

0:37:35.160 --> 0:37:40.040
<v Speaker 3>able to get over it, because you know, if you

0:37:40.120 --> 0:37:41.800
<v Speaker 3>if you know she's her preference is not really.

0:37:41.840 --> 0:37:43.200
<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm saying. That don't make sense to me.

0:37:43.239 --> 0:37:48.280
<v Speaker 2>I don't really know you. Yeah, nothing against bisexual women,

0:37:48.920 --> 0:37:52.080
<v Speaker 2>but like you like, come on, what is this?

0:37:53.200 --> 0:37:54.840
<v Speaker 1>I thought maybe if it's not like your preference and

0:37:54.880 --> 0:37:56.560
<v Speaker 1>you're like, go ahead and have a field day. I

0:37:56.600 --> 0:37:59.400
<v Speaker 1>don't have one of those anyway. Oh god, No, I

0:37:59.440 --> 0:38:00.560
<v Speaker 1>don't know was asking.

0:38:00.640 --> 0:38:03.200
<v Speaker 3>I just it was it was very specific cheating with

0:38:03.200 --> 0:38:04.839
<v Speaker 3>a nigga, so you can maybe get away if.

0:38:04.760 --> 0:38:06.279
<v Speaker 1>She didn't want a bitch. Yeah. We talked about that

0:38:06.320 --> 0:38:08.279
<v Speaker 1>all the time. You guy, are you guys? Okay? I mean,

0:38:08.800 --> 0:38:10.799
<v Speaker 1>do you guys open? Do you guys play with other?

0:38:11.680 --> 0:38:13.719
<v Speaker 2>We don't, but we talk about all the time, and

0:38:13.760 --> 0:38:15.920
<v Speaker 2>I do think it's something we probably would do.

0:38:16.440 --> 0:38:19.239
<v Speaker 1>Mm hmm. You take the lead on that one. I'm

0:38:19.280 --> 0:38:20.440
<v Speaker 1>following your lady, buddy.

0:38:21.280 --> 0:38:24.040
<v Speaker 3>She's like, that's all I want to.

0:38:24.000 --> 0:38:30.640
<v Speaker 2>Forgot whatever you say to the witchy gods?

0:38:31.719 --> 0:38:33.960
<v Speaker 1>What your god? On my birthday? You wanted marriage? I

0:38:34.000 --> 0:38:43.799
<v Speaker 1>want to three? I know samaicorns? Where do you like?

0:38:43.920 --> 0:38:47.719
<v Speaker 1>Where does she like to grocery shop? She doesn't, She don't.

0:38:48.600 --> 0:38:53.280
<v Speaker 1>What do you just reads? I fucking hate it, Like seriously,

0:38:53.320 --> 0:38:55.719
<v Speaker 1>I have mental health issues. I don't like it.

0:38:55.760 --> 0:38:58.560
<v Speaker 2>I'm so over stimulated in there, the noises, the people,

0:38:58.640 --> 0:38:59.200
<v Speaker 2>the sounds.

0:38:59.239 --> 0:39:03.839
<v Speaker 1>It's too much, too cold to Yeah. Do you instacart? Absolutely?

0:39:04.520 --> 0:39:10.879
<v Speaker 1>She does the grocery instat though. Do you cook? You cook? Yeah?

0:39:11.320 --> 0:39:11.600
<v Speaker 2>Not the.

0:39:13.840 --> 0:39:19.239
<v Speaker 3>Eat the who's your favorite musical artist of all time?

0:39:20.160 --> 0:39:23.880
<v Speaker 1>Yes? That is right. What is her guilty pleasure?

0:39:27.040 --> 0:39:30.359
<v Speaker 2>Oh, smooky weed and fucking.

0:39:33.160 --> 0:39:35.799
<v Speaker 1>Mine to mind too, girls don't get along? Just fun.

0:39:39.200 --> 0:39:42.880
<v Speaker 3>What is her favorite porn category?

0:39:43.360 --> 0:39:44.000
<v Speaker 1>She loves gay?

0:39:44.560 --> 0:39:48.480
<v Speaker 3>Oh God, meet too with you?

0:39:48.840 --> 0:39:49.040
<v Speaker 2>Wait?

0:39:49.160 --> 0:39:51.799
<v Speaker 1>You like gay and poor? But the mic in your

0:39:51.800 --> 0:39:54.800
<v Speaker 1>face is dress. It's weird. Before we got.

0:39:54.840 --> 0:39:58.360
<v Speaker 2>Episode, She's like, this phallic mic in my stressing me.

0:39:58.800 --> 0:40:02.400
<v Speaker 1>Turn on the BBC, make it bear back.

0:40:04.120 --> 0:40:07.839
<v Speaker 3>Gay porn in parentheses men slash BBC slash bear back.

0:40:08.880 --> 0:40:11.160
<v Speaker 3>You know you gotta put the slashes on the porn category.

0:40:11.880 --> 0:40:13.200
<v Speaker 1>Be specific ebony.

0:40:13.719 --> 0:40:15.480
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I like, I like a lot of M MF

0:40:15.600 --> 0:40:16.919
<v Speaker 3>bisexual threesomes.

0:40:17.120 --> 0:40:19.120
<v Speaker 1>Oh that's that's that's the second close.

0:40:19.280 --> 0:40:22.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I don't I don't know. Yeah, I don't know

0:40:22.200 --> 0:40:23.759
<v Speaker 3>why I can't get over it. One time my friend

0:40:23.840 --> 0:40:27.680
<v Speaker 3>showed me and I never never got back, and then

0:40:27.719 --> 0:40:30.799
<v Speaker 3>it's so weird. A lot of straight women love lesbian porn.

0:40:30.640 --> 0:40:33.840
<v Speaker 1>Which I can't say. I hate it. This is the.

0:40:35.360 --> 0:40:38.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I like lesbian porn. That's because you're not a

0:40:38.080 --> 0:40:40.080
<v Speaker 2>lesbion yam by fun that's what she calls.

0:40:40.160 --> 0:40:42.439
<v Speaker 3>She's by fun on like the weekends was a sorry

0:40:42.480 --> 0:40:46.080
<v Speaker 3>amount of she'll she'll seek them out. If she said

0:40:46.080 --> 0:40:46.880
<v Speaker 3>three tequilas in.

0:40:48.160 --> 0:40:52.319
<v Speaker 1>Interesting, very specific.

0:40:53.200 --> 0:41:00.160
<v Speaker 5>If a Saturday, Friday, midnight and six am hours me

0:41:00.200 --> 0:41:04.160
<v Speaker 5>out those hours, you're not lesbian, I don't think.

0:41:04.160 --> 0:41:06.040
<v Speaker 1>I was like, because it's Wednesday. I tried.

0:41:06.160 --> 0:41:07.640
<v Speaker 2>I tried to be lesbian, and I was like, let

0:41:07.640 --> 0:41:10.360
<v Speaker 2>me try this hour real quick. I went, I dated

0:41:10.360 --> 0:41:13.560
<v Speaker 2>and I took a girl out on Valentine's Day I

0:41:13.600 --> 0:41:14.400
<v Speaker 2>was like, Wow.

0:41:14.239 --> 0:41:17.480
<v Speaker 1>A couple really taking her out. Oh, this is weird.

0:41:17.640 --> 0:41:19.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm the prize. What the fun?

0:41:19.440 --> 0:41:22.400
<v Speaker 3>Yes, right, my poor want to be lesbian. It's okay, baby,

0:41:22.640 --> 0:41:24.319
<v Speaker 3>you can still be adjacent to us.

0:41:26.280 --> 0:41:27.919
<v Speaker 1>Oh it's us. Now you're back.

0:41:29.760 --> 0:41:33.200
<v Speaker 3>I said, I'm a former les spectrum, but I'm always

0:41:33.200 --> 0:41:34.320
<v Speaker 3>going to be part of the community.

0:41:34.400 --> 0:41:36.880
<v Speaker 1>Done it if I had I amount of puss be

0:41:36.920 --> 0:41:39.160
<v Speaker 1>part because I'm by fun Yes, yes, that's the B.

0:41:39.640 --> 0:41:41.759
<v Speaker 1>You are deep in the lifestyle like I'm a Jason,

0:41:42.120 --> 0:41:43.960
<v Speaker 1>You're that's the B in l g BT.

0:41:44.280 --> 0:41:48.879
<v Speaker 3>Okay, I'm gonna add a fun Q.

0:41:49.000 --> 0:41:55.799
<v Speaker 1>I f forever added letters. I know, right, I can't

0:41:55.880 --> 0:41:56.200
<v Speaker 1>keep up.

0:41:56.880 --> 0:41:59.760
<v Speaker 3>How old was Adrian when she lost her virginity and where?

0:42:00.920 --> 0:42:02.839
<v Speaker 2>I don't know what age she was. But she loves

0:42:02.920 --> 0:42:04.520
<v Speaker 2>the stairs at school.

0:42:04.719 --> 0:42:09.359
<v Speaker 1>That is true, school staircase at school. Wait, she said

0:42:09.360 --> 0:42:13.239
<v Speaker 1>she liked to be was a preacher's kid. Okay, let's

0:42:13.080 --> 0:42:18.440
<v Speaker 1>do bad ship. I was horrible. Did you enjoy it? It

0:42:18.320 --> 0:42:19.760
<v Speaker 1>was it traumatizing? Okay?

0:42:19.719 --> 0:42:21.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but this is a really good message for like

0:42:22.040 --> 0:42:24.120
<v Speaker 3>parents that are listening that like, I want to be

0:42:24.200 --> 0:42:27.920
<v Speaker 3>helicopter parents are super super strict and you think you're

0:42:27.920 --> 0:42:29.200
<v Speaker 3>gonna like something.

0:42:29.120 --> 0:42:32.880
<v Speaker 2>Will stop your kids from they're actually they're gonna do

0:42:32.920 --> 0:42:35.000
<v Speaker 2>it faster, harder, and a lot more.

0:42:34.920 --> 0:42:37.400
<v Speaker 1>People and still bring home the straight a's. Yeah, and

0:42:37.400 --> 0:42:40.000
<v Speaker 1>they're to be more secretive because they absolute so like

0:42:40.200 --> 0:42:42.279
<v Speaker 1>just like so true. I learned that very fast.

0:42:42.480 --> 0:42:45.080
<v Speaker 2>I think it would get away with being sneaky as

0:42:45.080 --> 0:42:48.560
<v Speaker 2>long as I'm like compliant, it's going and shut the

0:42:48.840 --> 0:42:49.360
<v Speaker 2>up and do it.

0:42:49.440 --> 0:42:51.320
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna be fucking on the stairway. Absolutely.

0:42:53.400 --> 0:42:57.839
<v Speaker 3>What moment did uh Adrian know she loved you?

0:43:00.719 --> 0:43:03.719
<v Speaker 2>I don't know what moved that was, but I do

0:43:03.840 --> 0:43:06.920
<v Speaker 2>remember we were Oh it is in the hotel room.

0:43:07.040 --> 0:43:09.680
<v Speaker 1>You told me you love me. But I don't remember

0:43:09.760 --> 0:43:13.400
<v Speaker 1>with close she said when I first listened to her.

0:43:13.480 --> 0:43:18.440
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, was it the mirror at the moment?

0:43:18.600 --> 0:43:20.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I knew I loved her then and she snatched

0:43:20.480 --> 0:43:26.000
<v Speaker 1>her cliche. Mm hmmm. What is Adrian's biggest fear?

0:43:32.920 --> 0:43:39.080
<v Speaker 2>Uh, I don't think you're gonna get it.

0:43:39.080 --> 0:43:41.800
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I am.

0:43:41.920 --> 0:43:45.240
<v Speaker 3>I don't know, I'm not living up to her fullest potential.

0:43:48.000 --> 0:43:50.400
<v Speaker 3>What what's her favorite sex position?

0:43:51.000 --> 0:43:57.680
<v Speaker 1>Oh? I like this one too. I don't know if

0:43:57.680 --> 0:43:58.839
<v Speaker 1>it's the same for her.

0:44:01.239 --> 0:44:03.799
<v Speaker 2>I don't think it's sissory, but.

0:44:06.600 --> 0:44:10.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't know that is. Oh yep.

0:44:10.960 --> 0:44:12.720
<v Speaker 3>For those of you who don't know, sissoring is also

0:44:12.760 --> 0:44:17.640
<v Speaker 3>known as tripping. Ye, there's an in case you're wondering,

0:44:19.360 --> 0:44:24.520
<v Speaker 3>would she prefer to spend or save money?

0:44:25.360 --> 0:44:26.319
<v Speaker 1>I prefer.

0:44:28.600 --> 0:44:32.920
<v Speaker 3>She preferred to spend it, but underline yes, all capital,

0:44:33.680 --> 0:44:35.120
<v Speaker 3>nothing else, all capital.

0:44:36.640 --> 0:44:38.880
<v Speaker 1>Or underline. I did notice how my handwriting is like

0:44:39.040 --> 0:44:43.400
<v Speaker 1>gradually changed. H yeah, they do. They went from like

0:44:43.640 --> 0:44:50.120
<v Speaker 1>regular to cursive. Who is her celebrity crush? Oh?

0:44:50.160 --> 0:44:54.359
<v Speaker 3>Ari Lennox, Ari, motherfucking Lennox, happy face with the heart.

0:44:55.520 --> 0:44:58.480
<v Speaker 2>There is no discussion. If I see her and it's happening,

0:44:59.080 --> 0:44:59.879
<v Speaker 2>I'll tell you later.

0:45:00.040 --> 0:45:00.920
<v Speaker 1>She got her past.

0:45:01.360 --> 0:45:05.280
<v Speaker 3>What if she if she's in the bathroom with Arian's

0:45:05.280 --> 0:45:06.560
<v Speaker 3>giving her the eye, you're gonna turn out.

0:45:06.560 --> 0:45:09.680
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna be like, yeah, go ahead, boo, can't it? Girl?

0:45:09.719 --> 0:45:11.839
<v Speaker 1>Tell me about it when you're done taking a watch.

0:45:12.440 --> 0:45:17.240
<v Speaker 1>I would. Okay, she's just having a whole visual moment.

0:45:17.280 --> 0:45:19.759
<v Speaker 1>It's like my birthday is coming up. I'm trying to

0:45:19.760 --> 0:45:22.040
<v Speaker 1>manifest it right now. Look, Ari, this might need to

0:45:22.080 --> 0:45:25.839
<v Speaker 1>be a clip. She did sing to me. She did yeah,

0:45:25.880 --> 0:45:28.480
<v Speaker 1>the concert, Which shape of a baby? Which one? What

0:45:28.640 --> 0:45:31.160
<v Speaker 1>song was it? She was in days? She don't remember

0:45:31.520 --> 0:45:36.239
<v Speaker 1>this on my Instagram to me? Okay, well are you

0:45:36.280 --> 0:45:39.120
<v Speaker 1>hear that? Come find our friends, listen, get a free

0:45:39.120 --> 0:45:41.359
<v Speaker 1>portrait out of it and everything you'll get free art,

0:45:41.440 --> 0:45:48.360
<v Speaker 1>bitch work. You might need to come commodity badasses.

0:45:50.800 --> 0:45:53.680
<v Speaker 3>How does Adrian feel about non monogamy?

0:45:56.600 --> 0:45:57.400
<v Speaker 1>She's not against it.

0:45:57.520 --> 0:46:01.040
<v Speaker 2>I think if it just works, She's always to.

0:46:01.400 --> 0:46:02.000
<v Speaker 1>Each his own.

0:46:02.160 --> 0:46:06.120
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, what is her favorite memory of you guys' relationship?

0:46:07.360 --> 0:46:10.240
<v Speaker 1>That was so hard to answer? I don't know that answer.

0:46:11.360 --> 0:46:13.960
<v Speaker 1>This is like, it's so cute. I know it's so corny,

0:46:16.280 --> 0:46:20.839
<v Speaker 1>to be honest, I don't know.

0:46:23.800 --> 0:46:26.720
<v Speaker 3>Her favorite memory of your relationship is when you guys

0:46:26.719 --> 0:46:29.000
<v Speaker 3>first met and you spent the night and fell asleep

0:46:29.080 --> 0:46:31.960
<v Speaker 3>on her chest and she used to have frequent sleep

0:46:32.040 --> 0:46:34.560
<v Speaker 3>panic attacks, and she was having one that night and

0:46:34.600 --> 0:46:37.239
<v Speaker 3>you placed your hand on her chest and she never

0:46:37.320 --> 0:46:38.560
<v Speaker 3>had another one again.

0:46:48.120 --> 0:46:51.360
<v Speaker 1>Are you crying, Orlando Aquarious?

0:46:52.600 --> 0:47:01.520
<v Speaker 3>Our relationship a lot of tears? What what did Adrian?

0:47:01.560 --> 0:47:05.359
<v Speaker 1>Okay, what do you wish? What dish? It's always? Why

0:47:05.400 --> 0:47:13.400
<v Speaker 1>don't we re write it? I don't know. I'm confused again.

0:47:15.280 --> 0:47:20.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, wait, what does Adrian wish?

0:47:21.160 --> 0:47:22.160
<v Speaker 1>I got it before, but.

0:47:25.040 --> 0:47:32.760
<v Speaker 2>M what do you do wish?

0:47:32.800 --> 0:47:35.000
<v Speaker 1>You?

0:47:35.000 --> 0:47:36.959
<v Speaker 3>You've done this ship three times this month?

0:47:38.200 --> 0:47:40.839
<v Speaker 2>Okay, what do you What does Adrian wish you saw

0:47:40.920 --> 0:47:49.239
<v Speaker 2>more of than yourself? Oh? Uh, my potential obviously, but

0:47:55.640 --> 0:47:59.200
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, just say my potential whatever that is?

0:47:59.239 --> 0:48:01.600
<v Speaker 1>That some short and short term, she said.

0:48:01.640 --> 0:48:04.080
<v Speaker 3>I wish she trusted more in herself to explore and

0:48:04.120 --> 0:48:07.080
<v Speaker 3>live out her truest dreams, to get past the fear

0:48:07.160 --> 0:48:10.759
<v Speaker 3>and do it anyway. Yeah, you know, I love these

0:48:10.760 --> 0:48:12.680
<v Speaker 3>are This has been the deepest answers we've had.

0:48:13.880 --> 0:48:18.840
<v Speaker 1>It's clear we've been dealing with heateral normandy deep like sentences.

0:48:18.880 --> 0:48:20.320
<v Speaker 1>You guys did really good. You might have got a

0:48:20.360 --> 0:48:25.440
<v Speaker 1>ninety five percent thank you, but I'm going to fail

0:48:25.719 --> 0:48:31.280
<v Speaker 1>those ten years back to back, you know? Is you ready?

0:48:31.480 --> 0:48:34.200
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to be don't judge yourself. Okay, let's go.

0:48:36.520 --> 0:48:42.439
<v Speaker 1>What is Juanika's favorite color? Chral? Yes, chral slash mob.

0:48:43.000 --> 0:48:44.239
<v Speaker 1>That's very specific.

0:48:44.320 --> 0:48:46.439
<v Speaker 2>Well, we had to get her colors together. She needed

0:48:46.440 --> 0:48:50.480
<v Speaker 2>to learn how to describe them correctly, artist like.

0:48:56.600 --> 0:49:05.360
<v Speaker 1>Orange. I get you. What's her overall pet? Peeve pet peeve.

0:49:07.680 --> 0:49:09.640
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, not being able to eat, being hungry.

0:49:09.719 --> 0:49:10.440
<v Speaker 1>I don't know.

0:49:10.640 --> 0:49:11.960
<v Speaker 2>You know this and you gonna be so many I

0:49:12.280 --> 0:49:12.680
<v Speaker 2>get it.

0:49:13.320 --> 0:49:18.359
<v Speaker 1>Spit, I hate oh my mouth. She would never and

0:49:18.400 --> 0:49:21.120
<v Speaker 1>I try to make her like even during sex, like

0:49:21.160 --> 0:49:24.399
<v Speaker 1>pull her head back on. She would slap. It's been

0:49:24.440 --> 0:49:28.360
<v Speaker 1>on body parts. Nothing the body part. No, I have

0:49:28.400 --> 0:49:30.719
<v Speaker 1>to be the one that this spitting. And I can't.

0:49:31.000 --> 0:49:33.080
<v Speaker 2>Stand it looking at other people.

0:49:33.880 --> 0:49:37.520
<v Speaker 1>You can't this video later, I do it all the time.

0:49:38.200 --> 0:49:41.279
<v Speaker 1>She does. You're gonna hate video.

0:49:41.480 --> 0:49:46.480
<v Speaker 2>You're gonna hate it slow, she's gonna throw out. It's

0:49:46.560 --> 0:49:49.879
<v Speaker 2>very it's very sexy though recolarizing video on the internet.

0:49:49.880 --> 0:49:51.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't know about that. People do love it or

0:49:51.680 --> 0:49:55.360
<v Speaker 1>hate it. That did not for you, page. I appreciate it,

0:49:55.400 --> 0:49:56.760
<v Speaker 1>all right, appreciate that.

0:49:57.719 --> 0:50:00.440
<v Speaker 2>What is her childhood's it's name?

0:50:01.560 --> 0:50:02.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't think you had a dog?

0:50:03.080 --> 0:50:06.480
<v Speaker 2>Oh wait, ship, I skipped skipped on. What is her

0:50:06.520 --> 0:50:06.919
<v Speaker 2>pet peeve?

0:50:06.960 --> 0:50:07.600
<v Speaker 1>When it comes to.

0:50:07.600 --> 0:50:15.520
<v Speaker 2>You, holy ship, there's so many pet pee when it

0:50:15.560 --> 0:50:18.040
<v Speaker 2>comes to me, and it's you didn't write the same answers?

0:50:18.120 --> 0:50:26.319
<v Speaker 1>Right? No, I get that. How she is mostly always right?

0:50:27.760 --> 0:50:37.080
<v Speaker 1>Damn that's true. Damn I always right, have.

0:50:37.120 --> 0:50:45.080
<v Speaker 2>Lived, I can help not Damn what is her childhood

0:50:45.080 --> 0:50:47.520
<v Speaker 2>pet's name? Yeah, I don't think we talked about that.

0:50:47.960 --> 0:50:53.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I said briefly, But you're not yourself? Is serious?

0:50:53.360 --> 0:50:57.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm still learning her Chandler. You not supposed to smoke

0:50:57.960 --> 0:51:03.799
<v Speaker 2>one Chandler. They were like this TikTok's like if you

0:51:03.880 --> 0:51:06.000
<v Speaker 2>hold and you're smoking with people and you hold it

0:51:06.080 --> 0:51:07.759
<v Speaker 2>like this, Really, what.

0:51:07.719 --> 0:51:10.319
<v Speaker 1>Does that mean? Are you supposed to hold it like this?

0:51:10.719 --> 0:51:15.160
<v Speaker 1>I guess what I need to get back in the

0:51:15.200 --> 0:51:17.800
<v Speaker 1>TikTok verse. I'm I'm missing.

0:51:17.440 --> 0:51:22.640
<v Speaker 2>A lot of life skills and things TikTok University that

0:51:22.760 --> 0:51:23.480
<v Speaker 2>is to do Google.

0:51:23.560 --> 0:51:25.960
<v Speaker 1>Okay, we I'm gonna look up there the moment we

0:51:26.000 --> 0:51:29.040
<v Speaker 1>got our TikTok back, y'all get it back?

0:51:29.160 --> 0:51:32.799
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what would you say? What would she say? It's

0:51:32.840 --> 0:51:37.640
<v Speaker 2>her best quality? You're just always so bubbly and you're

0:51:37.640 --> 0:51:39.319
<v Speaker 2>full of light, and you're just like a fairy. And

0:51:39.320 --> 0:51:42.840
<v Speaker 2>she's so happy all the time and optimistic, very supportive

0:51:42.880 --> 0:51:50.000
<v Speaker 2>and understanding. What is her worst quality? Oh man, she

0:51:50.880 --> 0:51:53.240
<v Speaker 2>starts stuff and doesn't finish it.

0:51:53.360 --> 0:51:53.880
<v Speaker 1>Stubborn.

0:51:55.080 --> 0:51:57.440
<v Speaker 2>You always say that that is, but you know, I'm

0:51:57.440 --> 0:51:58.680
<v Speaker 2>an a quarry, So I kind of get that.

0:51:58.719 --> 0:52:01.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm stubborn too. So what is something she is most

0:52:01.719 --> 0:52:09.600
<v Speaker 1>sensitive about? Now we're getting deep here. I just wanted them.

0:52:09.600 --> 0:52:12.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna begin. I'm gonna just give you a little teaser.

0:52:12.600 --> 0:52:18.480
<v Speaker 1>It's deeper. What are you most sensitive about? Yeah, I

0:52:19.560 --> 0:52:20.440
<v Speaker 1>would say your.

0:52:20.320 --> 0:52:25.440
<v Speaker 2>Mom or your family, but I have more. But I'm

0:52:25.440 --> 0:52:28.440
<v Speaker 2>gonna stop there. Growing up without a father, and how

0:52:28.440 --> 0:52:31.680
<v Speaker 2>that childhood trauma is affecting, is trauma is affect I.

0:52:31.640 --> 0:52:33.880
<v Speaker 1>Didn't want to go to I didn't know if you

0:52:33.920 --> 0:52:37.320
<v Speaker 1>wanted to. Okay, we're working on. I'm proud of answer.

0:52:38.640 --> 0:52:42.279
<v Speaker 3>Thank you doing the work getting to the root of thing,

0:52:43.640 --> 0:52:44.280
<v Speaker 3>to the beginning.

0:52:47.600 --> 0:52:50.360
<v Speaker 2>What has she accomplished that she is most proud of?

0:52:52.560 --> 0:52:54.200
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, because if I say this and that's

0:52:54.239 --> 0:52:56.000
<v Speaker 2>not the answer, it's going to make you look so bad.

0:53:02.400 --> 0:53:06.959
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. Maybe I don't know. Maybe the fact

0:53:06.960 --> 0:53:10.360
<v Speaker 1>that you're like a wife and a mom, I don't know,

0:53:10.480 --> 0:53:11.080
<v Speaker 1>that's it.

0:53:12.640 --> 0:53:15.480
<v Speaker 2>I am most proud of my wife. She's my best accomplishment.

0:53:24.760 --> 0:53:27.919
<v Speaker 1>I love you, right, you say all the right ship

0:53:28.160 --> 0:53:30.280
<v Speaker 1>on that podcast. Please think.

0:53:33.800 --> 0:53:35.680
<v Speaker 2>What is her biggest insecurity?

0:53:36.800 --> 0:53:40.399
<v Speaker 1>Hair or your body? Yep, my facial hair, neck hair.

0:53:41.400 --> 0:53:45.360
<v Speaker 1>I feel you. I mean I've been getting I.

0:53:46.080 --> 0:53:50.880
<v Speaker 2>Gotta like I'm gonna go to because because it kills

0:53:50.880 --> 0:53:51.439
<v Speaker 2>it at the root.

0:53:51.520 --> 0:53:54.840
<v Speaker 1>I know you can handle that and it's not that expensive.

0:53:55.560 --> 0:53:57.080
<v Speaker 1>I'll send you the contact.

0:53:57.640 --> 0:54:01.440
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, listen, I'm vain.

0:54:01.480 --> 0:54:02.200
<v Speaker 1>It doesn't bother me.

0:54:02.360 --> 0:54:08.160
<v Speaker 2>But what would be a deal breaker in your relationship

0:54:08.360 --> 0:54:08.680
<v Speaker 2>for her?

0:54:13.239 --> 0:54:15.919
<v Speaker 1>I don't think you'll leave me for anything. I don't

0:54:15.920 --> 0:54:18.200
<v Speaker 1>think I have any.

0:54:20.400 --> 0:54:22.600
<v Speaker 3>Not even not even cheating with a nigga.

0:54:24.400 --> 0:54:29.800
<v Speaker 2>She's like, that would be rare, you know, Boris Kojo.

0:54:29.880 --> 0:54:32.560
<v Speaker 2>Now I will say this, He's this is hypothetical.

0:54:32.680 --> 0:54:33.880
<v Speaker 1>He's so funes.

0:54:34.760 --> 0:54:40.040
<v Speaker 3>Listen you wors Kojo.

0:54:40.280 --> 0:54:43.880
<v Speaker 2>He looks just like, Okay, I'm okay. This is going

0:54:43.920 --> 0:54:45.799
<v Speaker 2>to make me seem so by, but I'm not.

0:54:45.960 --> 0:54:46.680
<v Speaker 1>I was the arts.

0:54:46.920 --> 0:54:49.040
<v Speaker 2>We were coming in the elevator of my art studio,

0:54:49.360 --> 0:54:52.719
<v Speaker 2>and I'm just focused on my fucking phone, not even looking.

0:54:52.800 --> 0:54:55.720
<v Speaker 2>It's a really tight small space. It's packed as usual,

0:54:56.239 --> 0:54:58.799
<v Speaker 2>and so it's like twelve maybe twelve us on there.

0:54:58.800 --> 0:54:59.560
<v Speaker 1>I'mrating.

0:54:59.600 --> 0:55:01.600
<v Speaker 2>So I'm like, I happened to look up at this

0:55:01.840 --> 0:55:06.000
<v Speaker 2>beast of a man. He's so huge, and I'm just

0:55:06.120 --> 0:55:11.040
<v Speaker 2>like stunned. Flabbergasted by his beauty. I left that elevator

0:55:11.080 --> 0:55:12.879
<v Speaker 2>walking into my studio questioning my section.

0:55:13.719 --> 0:55:19.280
<v Speaker 1>Yes, how he is that man? Television does him no justice?

0:55:19.680 --> 0:55:20.399
<v Speaker 1>Are you for sure?

0:55:20.520 --> 0:55:22.960
<v Speaker 3>Like you would never you have no interest in any penis.

0:55:23.239 --> 0:55:26.239
<v Speaker 2>If you ever hear or see me involved with a

0:55:26.320 --> 0:55:39.760
<v Speaker 2>dick understand millions were involved. She paid Unless it's borest maybe.

0:55:39.440 --> 0:55:41.560
<v Speaker 3>If it's Monday, Monday, Wednesday.

0:55:41.680 --> 0:55:45.719
<v Speaker 1>I'll let him be in the room. That's it. Oh

0:55:45.800 --> 0:55:46.200
<v Speaker 1>my god.

0:55:46.239 --> 0:55:49.439
<v Speaker 2>Okay, where does she like to grocery shop?

0:55:52.440 --> 0:55:53.800
<v Speaker 1>Whole Food slash Sprouts?

0:55:54.000 --> 0:55:57.560
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I've never been to Sprouts.

0:55:57.600 --> 0:55:59.840
<v Speaker 1>Is like Whole Food is just cheaper, cheaper.

0:56:00.160 --> 0:56:03.239
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I thought it was more expensive, No, more expensive.

0:56:03.840 --> 0:56:07.840
<v Speaker 1>I think that Sprout expensive for some reason. It was crazy.

0:56:07.880 --> 0:56:12.240
<v Speaker 1>You can't leave with you can't four hundred? What bag?

0:56:12.560 --> 0:56:12.680
<v Speaker 2>Like?

0:56:13.920 --> 0:56:15.120
<v Speaker 1>There won't be she in there either.

0:56:15.680 --> 0:56:18.879
<v Speaker 2>Favorite musical artists what's her favorite musical artists of all time?

0:56:19.000 --> 0:56:23.760
<v Speaker 2>It's Beyonce, you guys, what is your favorite Beyonce album?

0:56:24.280 --> 0:56:27.600
<v Speaker 2>It's a time but now it's Renaissance, Renaissance and Beyonce.

0:56:27.360 --> 0:56:30.479
<v Speaker 1>For sure Renaissance. This is a recent one, yes, yes,

0:56:30.680 --> 0:56:33.600
<v Speaker 1>and it was the last one or she dropped a

0:56:33.680 --> 0:56:35.560
<v Speaker 1>video for every song Beyonce.

0:56:37.120 --> 0:56:44.239
<v Speaker 2>No No with Rocket Yeah, she said the tone of

0:56:44.239 --> 0:56:47.480
<v Speaker 2>how people released music. Of course, I know, absolutely, and

0:56:47.480 --> 0:56:49.720
<v Speaker 2>that's why when she released Renaissance and she didn't release

0:56:49.760 --> 0:56:52.120
<v Speaker 2>a video for every song, I was thoroughly like, we

0:56:52.160 --> 0:56:55.839
<v Speaker 2>are very a little irritated with Miss Carter. I was like,

0:56:56.360 --> 0:56:59.480
<v Speaker 2>is it over? Like is this like like we just

0:56:59.480 --> 0:57:03.440
<v Speaker 2>got another sipment of our orders from her packages yesterday?

0:57:03.520 --> 0:57:07.560
<v Speaker 2>Like it's this rollout has to be like it's it's

0:57:07.560 --> 0:57:08.680
<v Speaker 2>like ongoing but slow.

0:57:08.840 --> 0:57:10.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't know what's happening, but she's keeping us on

0:57:10.920 --> 0:57:16.040
<v Speaker 1>the edge, right package? What kind of package we bought?

0:57:16.040 --> 0:57:19.440
<v Speaker 2>The limited edition, like all the records we bought, the

0:57:19.480 --> 0:57:25.080
<v Speaker 2>fan the gloves, I have a weed, rolling.

0:57:24.840 --> 0:57:35.200
<v Speaker 1>Tracks, rolling everything. I believe so because she she wrapped sold.

0:57:35.360 --> 0:57:37.680
<v Speaker 2>Smoking, I feel like she has to smoke some I

0:57:37.720 --> 0:57:39.000
<v Speaker 2>don't know. I don't know the exact word, but it

0:57:39.000 --> 0:57:39.720
<v Speaker 2>feels familiar.

0:57:40.640 --> 0:57:42.560
<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, I don't even know.

0:57:42.600 --> 0:57:45.280
<v Speaker 3>Her middle name is Giselle. I thank you it is.

0:57:45.680 --> 0:57:49.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to turn you into as casually.

0:57:49.840 --> 0:57:52.320
<v Speaker 2>Within the first few days of meeting her, we met

0:57:52.320 --> 0:57:54.400
<v Speaker 2>her little cute little babies at the time, and I

0:57:54.480 --> 0:57:56.760
<v Speaker 2>was like, are you guys excited to see Beyonce on

0:57:56.800 --> 0:58:00.200
<v Speaker 2>TV tonight and there was like, what's Beyonce? And I

0:58:00.280 --> 0:58:02.240
<v Speaker 2>looked at Ashley and I said, do better?

0:58:04.640 --> 0:58:05.280
<v Speaker 1>Do they know now?

0:58:05.400 --> 0:58:08.520
<v Speaker 2>Oh? She calls me crying and sending videos because of

0:58:08.600 --> 0:58:11.920
<v Speaker 2>how empowering her daughters are staring at her like that.

0:58:12.280 --> 0:58:15.640
<v Speaker 2>I told you black mothers, raise your daughters on Beyonce. Yeah,

0:58:15.680 --> 0:58:18.880
<v Speaker 2>she is super empowering when I saw it, Black as

0:58:18.960 --> 0:58:23.880
<v Speaker 2>King ship artists.

0:58:24.480 --> 0:58:34.920
<v Speaker 1>All Right, what is Janica's guilty pleasure? Girl will say

0:58:34.960 --> 0:58:41.920
<v Speaker 1>yogurt food? Is it a specific kind of food though? Right,

0:58:42.080 --> 0:58:42.640
<v Speaker 1>it's food?

0:58:42.720 --> 0:58:51.120
<v Speaker 2>Slash Lucy sweets that sweet pussy, Sweet.

0:58:49.840 --> 0:58:56.600
<v Speaker 1>Pussy the title of the show today. What is her

0:58:56.640 --> 0:59:01.919
<v Speaker 1>favorite born category? Scorting me too? I love squirrel. That's different. Yeah,

0:59:05.120 --> 0:59:06.240
<v Speaker 1>always one of the slashes.

0:59:06.520 --> 0:59:09.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm always like if it has squirting like it's it's

0:59:09.960 --> 0:59:11.000
<v Speaker 2>a plus.

0:59:10.840 --> 0:59:15.240
<v Speaker 1>It's always a plus. Yeah, okay, dash y'all I do

0:59:15.560 --> 0:59:16.200
<v Speaker 1>I did once?

0:59:18.120 --> 0:59:20.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I think That's why I was like, well

0:59:20.880 --> 0:59:22.520
<v Speaker 2>my body can do this Sunday to see more, but

0:59:22.680 --> 0:59:23.920
<v Speaker 2>other bitches do this ship And then.

0:59:23.840 --> 0:59:26.080
<v Speaker 3>I'm like, well you discovered it. That's when you started

0:59:26.160 --> 0:59:26.600
<v Speaker 3>dashing it.

0:59:29.800 --> 0:59:31.760
<v Speaker 1>How old was she when she lost her virginity? And

0:59:31.800 --> 0:59:39.880
<v Speaker 1>where was she? I know you were in high school.

0:59:40.000 --> 0:59:47.040
<v Speaker 2>It was maybe sixteen, okay, sixteen, I'm trying to tap in.

0:59:47.360 --> 0:59:48.600
<v Speaker 1>And then what was the second half of the cross

0:59:48.640 --> 0:59:52.920
<v Speaker 1>where was she? Were you at his house? Yeah? Okay,

0:59:53.040 --> 0:59:57.840
<v Speaker 1>at her boyfriend's house. Yeah? What moment did she know

0:59:57.960 --> 0:59:58.600
<v Speaker 1>she loved you?

1:00:01.880 --> 1:00:04.280
<v Speaker 2>Which is strange because I said I love you and

1:00:04.280 --> 1:00:08.280
<v Speaker 2>you did not say it back for a few days days.

1:00:08.560 --> 1:00:15.000
<v Speaker 1>I was concerned. I don't remember though. I can't. I can't,

1:00:15.080 --> 1:00:16.720
<v Speaker 1>I can't lie. I don't remember. It's too long ago.

1:00:18.200 --> 1:00:20.440
<v Speaker 2>Uh, how she paid it? I don't know if this

1:00:20.480 --> 1:00:24.120
<v Speaker 2>is a location, but she said how she paid attention

1:00:24.200 --> 1:00:26.880
<v Speaker 2>to me and took care of me with no judgment.

1:00:26.960 --> 1:00:28.920
<v Speaker 2>She allowed me the space to be me freely.

1:00:29.400 --> 1:00:33.040
<v Speaker 1>Oh this is like current. I was thinking more past tense.

1:00:33.080 --> 1:00:38.080
<v Speaker 1>My bad? What is in that weed? And I'm gonna

1:00:38.120 --> 1:00:42.880
<v Speaker 1>need something? I told you. I don't know that you

1:00:42.920 --> 1:00:44.680
<v Speaker 1>could find it, like three different types of weed.

1:00:44.720 --> 1:00:47.720
<v Speaker 2>I just scrambled together. That's probably why it's so good.

1:00:47.720 --> 1:00:53.240
<v Speaker 2>You're welcome, great cocktail. So I guess it's not an

1:00:53.240 --> 1:00:56.280
<v Speaker 2>exact location, but basically, you when that feet, when you

1:00:56.320 --> 1:00:58.400
<v Speaker 2>felt that way, that's when you knew that you loved her.

1:00:58.960 --> 1:01:00.520
<v Speaker 1>I got it when I met her.

1:01:00.560 --> 1:01:02.600
<v Speaker 2>She told me I could quep my job so I

1:01:02.640 --> 1:01:05.360
<v Speaker 2>could figure out what it is I want to do life. Wow,

1:01:05.400 --> 1:01:14.280
<v Speaker 2>we all need an Adrian? Where is shirt? We all

1:01:14.280 --> 1:01:17.240
<v Speaker 2>need Adrians life. What is her biggest fear.

1:01:18.760 --> 1:01:26.480
<v Speaker 1>Losing? No, losing your mom. No, it's not death. Nope,

1:01:26.840 --> 1:01:27.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm so.

1:01:27.240 --> 1:01:33.800
<v Speaker 2>Morbid death everyone dying, impending every day?

1:01:35.320 --> 1:01:40.800
<v Speaker 1>Your biggest fear? Growing old with regrets.

1:01:42.320 --> 1:01:45.760
<v Speaker 2>Having regrets and not doing everything I want to do

1:01:45.800 --> 1:01:46.400
<v Speaker 2>in this life.

1:01:47.080 --> 1:01:55.680
<v Speaker 1>Okay? What is her favorite sex position? No, yep, Okay,

1:01:55.680 --> 1:02:02.360
<v Speaker 1>why y'all was stalling? What is tribbing and scissoring? What's

1:02:02.360 --> 1:02:05.840
<v Speaker 1>the difference? The same shape? It's like the correct term.

1:02:05.880 --> 1:02:10.560
<v Speaker 1>What is tripping? Where does that wrecked? I'm curious word?

1:02:10.600 --> 1:02:11.240
<v Speaker 1>What is the trip?

1:02:11.320 --> 1:02:14.040
<v Speaker 2>But you know we've renamed it. I've renamed it. So

1:02:14.080 --> 1:02:16.840
<v Speaker 2>what I just did a comic on it. It's called

1:02:16.840 --> 1:02:17.560
<v Speaker 2>lip sinking.

1:02:17.600 --> 1:02:23.360
<v Speaker 1>Now little like that. Yeah, let's lip sync. It's a joke.

1:02:23.680 --> 1:02:25.800
<v Speaker 1>It's like a lesbian joke. Y'all were just put it on.

1:02:25.960 --> 1:02:28.520
<v Speaker 1>Thank you, thank you? And what's part of the community

1:02:29.160 --> 1:02:33.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to help? Okay?

1:02:33.720 --> 1:02:37.560
<v Speaker 2>Well, would she prefer to spend or save money save?

1:02:37.960 --> 1:02:40.560
<v Speaker 2>That's true, looks this is why you guys are great.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she's my balance for sure. Who's her celebrity crush? Beyonce? No,

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<v Speaker 1>Gabrielle Union? Really sorry, I know girl, me too. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not offend you. I just I mean, I'm it's very specific,

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<v Speaker 1>since they one very specific about her. Okay, so but

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<v Speaker 1>it would you give her a help? Absolutely? Absolutely? She

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<v Speaker 1>she can do what she wants. Gabriel is beautiful. She

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<v Speaker 1>just always played the bitch. I think that's what I think.

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<v Speaker 1>That's it's set her up.

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<v Speaker 3>She looks wholesome, but I feel like she has like

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<v Speaker 3>a dirty, little nasty.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like she's yeah I heard that. She doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>give me wholesome at all. Actually, I feel like she's

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<v Speaker 1>a scorpio. You know what is her song? I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like she's a scorpio. I don't know why.

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<v Speaker 2>She just feels like she has a little bit of that.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, something like that would come out. Well, she actually

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<v Speaker 1>admitted it. She admitted she used to be a bitch.

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<v Speaker 1>She did.

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<v Speaker 2>She said, yeah, I'm red table talking. I was a

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<v Speaker 2>terrible person.

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<v Speaker 1>She has to learn how to be a better woman. Yea.

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<v Speaker 2>Why she was like, I was mean on perfect She said.

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<v Speaker 1>Whoa, Well, that takes a lot of balls to say.

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<v Speaker 1>I was a bit consciously there it is.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel even as a child, I was like, this

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<v Speaker 2>seems like me sort of, I see myself. I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>she's not taking no ship. She's like, no, okay, So

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<v Speaker 2>how do you feel? How does she feel about nominogamy.

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<v Speaker 2>I think she's okay with me doing it, but she

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't want to do it, not yet. She like, that's mine.

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<v Speaker 2>No thanks, I'm selfish, that's what you know what. Me

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<v Speaker 2>and Mila were both very like pro nominogamy the podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>We're like, yeah, never doing monogamy again, and then we

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<v Speaker 2>found and then we found it because we actually like

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<v Speaker 2>or like maybe only with.

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<v Speaker 1>Me one sentimeter. I don't any dates.

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<v Speaker 2>For you, you know, I thought about that.

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<v Speaker 1>I still could be open. I just.

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<v Speaker 2>No, yeah, like jealousy recovery or something jealous season, Yeah

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<v Speaker 2>will get back maybe like yeah when I'm old, like

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<v Speaker 2>you guys, I already told him that he I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>probably have to hire a woman to like party with

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<v Speaker 2>him because I can't keep up like he like, he

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<v Speaker 2>has so much energy and my partner. He was like,

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<v Speaker 2>he's just like a people person, and I'm like, nigga,

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<v Speaker 2>I need to go home and go to bed.

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<v Speaker 1>I get that, and he's like one last party. What's

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<v Speaker 1>his son Scorpion?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, Scorpio Scorpio, scorpio balance, Like we're query query

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<v Speaker 2>but he's a Leo Moon like me too.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I'm I'm sorry that rising.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I'm a Leo Moon. It's already on Google.

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<v Speaker 1>That's my daughter. I was pissed.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh what you were trying to hide your Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>very secreted figure my other two signs, but it's definitely online.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, everybody knows. What is her favorite relate memory of

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<v Speaker 1>your relationship? What I mean just when we got married.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Follow your guys are trying to read you.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you wish? Okay, what does she wish that

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<v Speaker 2>you saw more of yourself? So?

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<v Speaker 1>What does she there's that question again.

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<v Speaker 2>I swear four weeks and I'm trying to figure it

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<v Speaker 2>out for you. What does she wish you saw more

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<v Speaker 2>of in yourself? Mm hmm, because I know you tell

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<v Speaker 2>me every night. I don't know how to word it,

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<v Speaker 2>but I feel it. I don't know how to word

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<v Speaker 2>it so high too. It's such a bad idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, let me think.

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<v Speaker 2>That I will live up in my fullest potential. Basically,

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<v Speaker 2>I wish she saw more of her gift that she

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<v Speaker 2>has to give to the world. She can sometimes doubt

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<v Speaker 2>her abilities or who she is, and she is the

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<v Speaker 2>best person I've ever met.

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<v Speaker 1>You really get it. I know you guys are so

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<v Speaker 1>no and we're toning it down.

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<v Speaker 2>We are so gay. I'm over please, it's so bad.

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<v Speaker 2>Our daughters are like enough.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, stop, that's so puny too much. I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that for you.

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<v Speaker 3>And you guys, I know you've been listening to us

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<v Speaker 3>ask these questions all month, and now we're gonna put

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<v Speaker 3>the PDF on Patreon.

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<v Speaker 1>The PDF? Any other way you could explain it? What

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<v Speaker 1>the what the fuck? Yeah, I guess the guess it's

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<v Speaker 1>the PDF. It's a cooler way to say. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like there has to be you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>That is a joke on TikTok. They're picking up millennials

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<v Speaker 2>for saying shit like that. Literally, PDF. You can print

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<v Speaker 2>it down, though, I questions your partner and play the games. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I said PDF. You're the one who know you

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<v Speaker 1>hold on to that, but I don't think I've ever

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<v Speaker 1>called it.

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<v Speaker 3>Get the PDF now, guys, it's out nonto. You're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>be corrected all the questions they're actually read correctly.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't worry. It's a great game.

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<v Speaker 2>You might be surprised how well or not well you

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<v Speaker 2>know your partner, which you know, that means there's always

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<v Speaker 2>more to know. And that's and that's the point where

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<v Speaker 2>maybe you're still alerting each other exactly exactly, always be

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<v Speaker 2>students of each other.

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<v Speaker 1>You could still be mysterious even after ten years. I

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<v Speaker 1>find it sexy. Yeah, because I'm gonna get bored.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she's like a new woman every time, Like it's

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<v Speaker 2>like a peeling of layers. And then for me, like

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<v Speaker 2>every day it's just it's always add is ever the

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<v Speaker 2>same even if we do the same thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, or we'll like so I have ADHD.

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<v Speaker 2>So I just recently found out for my therapist that

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<v Speaker 2>it's not so much of like codependency, which some people

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<v Speaker 2>like to say, but it's what they call parallel play.

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<v Speaker 2>Or so when I'm creating or working, I had to

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<v Speaker 2>she's literally my muse.

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<v Speaker 1>I had to have her around just around, you know, like.

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<v Speaker 2>And she's It just makes it easier for me to

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<v Speaker 2>focus and be more creative.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's literally an actual thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Wow, adhd is is it like a comfort item? Not

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<v Speaker 3>item that's not like a comfort like, yeah, she's home

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<v Speaker 3>like a comfort like.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I would say that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that makes sense, that makes sense. That's beautiful though. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but my daughters are kind of in the same way too,

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<v Speaker 2>without the whole extra ship. But like I love when

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<v Speaker 2>they're around, like, don't it relieve, please please live with me.

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<v Speaker 2>I have the best conversations.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they're the dopest motherfuckers.

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<v Speaker 2>They will get in her ass too.

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<v Speaker 3>Though, How has that been for you as like, since

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<v Speaker 3>you like being a stepmother, and because what's your age difference?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thirty three. Are we talking about age? Okay, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'll be I'm forty one, so h yeah

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit.

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<v Speaker 3>How was that coming for you because obviously ten years

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<v Speaker 3>ago you were twenty three and like growing up with

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<v Speaker 3>them and you know, seeing them grow it.

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<v Speaker 2>Was definitely something uh new for me for sure, Like

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<v Speaker 2>you said, I was young, so I was like, oh, wow,

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<v Speaker 2>these are like older kids, so I had to like

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<v Speaker 2>really grasp my head around at but they're like she said,

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<v Speaker 2>they're amazing. They're like the best kids we got a

1:10:44.360 --> 1:10:46.760
<v Speaker 2>little so well, Oh, they loved her. They loved the

1:10:46.800 --> 1:10:49.000
<v Speaker 2>feminine energy she came and brought in. So it was

1:10:49.080 --> 1:10:52.160
<v Speaker 2>nail polished everywhere and make up now. And she taught

1:10:52.479 --> 1:10:54.960
<v Speaker 2>my youngest daughter like how to model, how to walk,

1:10:55.000 --> 1:10:57.280
<v Speaker 2>how she taught them like just confidence.

1:10:57.320 --> 1:10:59.519
<v Speaker 1>I didn't really have the best relations to my mom, so.

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<v Speaker 2>It was always Jesus, Jesus, Jesus, and I didn't want

1:11:02.200 --> 1:11:06.080
<v Speaker 2>to bring that. So when she came into our lives,

1:11:06.120 --> 1:11:11.559
<v Speaker 2>it was just like just a blessing for everybody. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it feels like it was like a true like balance

1:11:14.640 --> 1:11:18.920
<v Speaker 2>and like life for sure, for sure just flowed. And

1:11:18.920 --> 1:11:23.439
<v Speaker 2>that look in that bathroom really you knew locked in. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's a lot of hormones though, don't get me, don't

1:11:27.320 --> 1:11:33.639
<v Speaker 2>get it twisted. I was gonna say four, that's a

1:11:33.680 --> 1:11:38.120
<v Speaker 2>lot horrible. And what are your daughter's signs? Aquarius and Scorpia. Wow,

1:11:39.400 --> 1:11:42.640
<v Speaker 2>the one you don't see. She hates the camera, She's

1:11:42.680 --> 1:11:45.040
<v Speaker 2>always hated it. Don't put me in ships, so she's

1:11:45.080 --> 1:11:47.559
<v Speaker 2>behind it. She's a mysterious one, but she's the techie,

1:11:47.640 --> 1:11:50.920
<v Speaker 2>so she does our video she she helps plan the lighting,

1:11:51.040 --> 1:11:52.960
<v Speaker 2>the sounds, the trips, the editing.

1:11:53.400 --> 1:11:55.400
<v Speaker 1>She's a writer, so she's like our best kept secrets.

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<v Speaker 1>This beautiful little contreating house. Are kidding? Is art it?

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody will do it. It's like we tattoo each other.

1:12:02.680 --> 1:12:06.080
<v Speaker 1>It's fun. Who tattoos me? Oh? I didn't know that.

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<v Speaker 3>And you also do art. You help her with her

1:12:08.120 --> 1:12:08.400
<v Speaker 3>art too.

1:12:08.479 --> 1:12:11.479
<v Speaker 2>Your sister, well, she taught to pay and so that's

1:12:11.640 --> 1:12:16.280
<v Speaker 2>how everything started. But I don't pay as much. But

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<v Speaker 2>I enjoyed it for for for a little bit.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah you explored.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think it's cool to kind of tap into

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<v Speaker 2>your partners like desires.

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<v Speaker 1>To Yeah, like, what is it though? You love about this,

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<v Speaker 1>even if it's not necessarily yours.

1:12:29.280 --> 1:12:32.799
<v Speaker 2>Same with dancing, every single dancing TikTok. You see, it's

1:12:32.840 --> 1:12:35.200
<v Speaker 2>she made me do it, but I.

1:12:35.200 --> 1:12:42.400
<v Speaker 1>Do it for her. So fun hate dancing. Do your

1:12:42.479 --> 1:12:47.000
<v Speaker 1>daughters identify as which is? They will read your chart

1:12:47.280 --> 1:12:48.640
<v Speaker 1>like they study it.

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<v Speaker 2>They hyper focus it on it, especially like I'm more

1:12:52.920 --> 1:12:59.760
<v Speaker 2>of a metaphysics type ancestral type shit way right, they're

1:12:59.800 --> 1:13:03.559
<v Speaker 2>more or of like definitely astrology based.

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<v Speaker 1>Taro. Speaking of Tara, is it tterot time? It's terot

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<v Speaker 1>tyme tarot time.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so Adrian, you pulled the King of Swords.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe right all right? And the King of Swords

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<v Speaker 1>why is this doing this? Bitty taro is getting too famous.

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<v Speaker 2>Because yeah, whoa bitty really grown.

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<v Speaker 1>Upright?

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<v Speaker 2>Mental clarity, intellectual power, authority, truth.

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<v Speaker 1>Earlier, it's crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>The King of Swords is a symbol of intellectual power

1:13:45.880 --> 1:13:48.320
<v Speaker 2>and authority and has the courage and intellect to achieve

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<v Speaker 2>all that he desires. When this card appears in a

1:13:50.880 --> 1:13:53.680
<v Speaker 2>tarror reading, you are in your power, ruling from a

1:13:53.720 --> 1:13:56.599
<v Speaker 2>place of authority and respect. You stand firm in your

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<v Speaker 2>truth and express yourself with deep conviction. As a results,

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<v Speaker 2>pay attention to what you have to say. The King

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<v Speaker 2>of Swords indicates that you have clarity of mind and

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<v Speaker 2>can perceive the truth. So it's up to you to

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<v Speaker 2>take the lead with providing an objective point of view

1:14:09.600 --> 1:14:13.000
<v Speaker 2>and making decisions based on impartial judgment. The King of

1:14:13.000 --> 1:14:15.600
<v Speaker 2>Swords encourages you to use your logic and intellect to

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<v Speaker 2>navigate the path ahead. You will need to make firm

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<v Speaker 2>and well researched decisions and stay fair in your dealings

1:14:21.320 --> 1:14:23.640
<v Speaker 2>with others. You need to be able to say to

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<v Speaker 2>take any situation, look at it with total impartial impartiality, impartiality, impartiality, wow,

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<v Speaker 2>thank you, and then come to a balanced and insightful decision. Often,

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<v Speaker 2>the king of swords represents a professional adviser, such as

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<v Speaker 2>a solicitator or attorney, financial advisor, or taxation consultant. This

1:14:44.520 --> 1:14:47.759
<v Speaker 2>advisor has a solid reputation and vast amount of knowledge

1:14:47.760 --> 1:14:51.280
<v Speaker 2>in this particular field. He may come across as detached

1:14:51.360 --> 1:14:55.200
<v Speaker 2>or disinterested in your personal circumstances unless it relates specifically

1:14:55.200 --> 1:14:57.439
<v Speaker 2>to his skill set. This is so he can use

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<v Speaker 2>small you don't care, let me say uh. If you

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<v Speaker 2>have not engaged the help of an expert, the arrival

1:15:07.000 --> 1:15:09.200
<v Speaker 2>of king of swards suggests that it may be worthwhile

1:15:09.240 --> 1:15:12.680
<v Speaker 2>getting legal or financial advice. If you're experiencing changes or

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<v Speaker 2>particular circumstances that will require an expert opinion. You can

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<v Speaker 2>be on the front foot by seeking help before they happen.

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<v Speaker 2>That way, when they do roll through, you're ready to

1:15:22.320 --> 1:15:26.799
<v Speaker 2>demand your right and and find an outcome that benefits you. Basically,

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<v Speaker 2>a lawyer up, get ready. Things are about to change

1:15:31.200 --> 1:15:35.080
<v Speaker 2>that you know. Be prepared, be overly prepared. A lot

1:15:35.120 --> 1:15:39.960
<v Speaker 2>of contracts and stick with your intuition if it says no,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not enough. What's the legit?

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, it's a whole lot of it. No, I'm receiving it.

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<v Speaker 1>And what's mag the stallion? No? But yeah, actually it.

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<v Speaker 2>Is my top three. She is literally the same top three.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god. But but yeah. So just stand true

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<v Speaker 2>in who you are and what you stand for.

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<v Speaker 1>I love that.

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<v Speaker 3>Jannika pulled the four of wands I did. And it

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<v Speaker 3>looks like like two people like celebrating almost is like

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<v Speaker 3>a wedding.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh looks like yeah, looks like it wasn't the final.

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<v Speaker 3>The four of Wandes is a card of joyful celebration,

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<v Speaker 3>blissful happiness, and appreciation for the good things in life.

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<v Speaker 3>When this card appears in a tyro reading, it is

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<v Speaker 3>perfect time to celebrate with those you love most. You

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<v Speaker 3>may commemorate a significant event or milestone, such as a wedding, birthday, homecoming,

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<v Speaker 3>or reunion.

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<v Speaker 4>Or you may.

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<v Speaker 3>Invite a few of your favorite friends for an intimate

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<v Speaker 3>dinner for no particular reason except to revel in each

1:16:45.000 --> 1:16:49.600
<v Speaker 3>other's company, Relax and let your hair down. Enjoy the

1:16:49.640 --> 1:16:52.080
<v Speaker 3>special time together. The Four of wands can show you

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<v Speaker 3>that returning home to the people and places that are

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<v Speaker 3>familiar to you, you feel supported and secure, knowing you

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<v Speaker 3>are with those who love you and care about you.

1:17:00.080 --> 1:17:02.360
<v Speaker 3>Because the four of Wands associates so closely with the

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<v Speaker 3>home environment, you may work on improving or renovating your

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<v Speaker 3>house or close to finding a new one. Perhaps you

1:17:08.840 --> 1:17:10.680
<v Speaker 3>have recently purchased a home and you're getting ready to

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<v Speaker 3>settle down in your new habitat. The four of Wands

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<v Speaker 3>tells you that after a period of rapid growth and

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<v Speaker 3>expansion the energy of the three wands, it's now time

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<v Speaker 3>to pause and celebrate what you have achieved so far.

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<v Speaker 3>Step back in a moment and enjoy the fruits of

1:17:24.600 --> 1:17:28.280
<v Speaker 3>your labor. Acknowledge your heartbreak, work, and give yourself permission

1:17:28.360 --> 1:17:30.960
<v Speaker 3>to take a small break before embarking on the next

1:17:31.000 --> 1:17:37.560
<v Speaker 3>phase of your journey. It's essential you observe these familiar milestones.

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<v Speaker 3>As form symbolizes the number four, neurology, stability, firm foundations,

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<v Speaker 3>and the four of wes. You are now enjoying a

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<v Speaker 3>period of happiness and security.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh so beautiful. That is amazing, and.

1:17:50.080 --> 1:17:53.519
<v Speaker 2>It's actually TikTok that's told me that aquarius Is and

1:17:53.600 --> 1:17:57.840
<v Speaker 2>Scorpios next year around May, we're going to finally get

1:17:57.880 --> 1:18:00.880
<v Speaker 2>breakthroughs because we've been kind of dealing with ship for

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<v Speaker 2>five heavy because.

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<v Speaker 1>It's said.

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<v Speaker 2>No, but you know, I researched it after because TikTok

1:18:08.240 --> 1:18:13.679
<v Speaker 2>will show you some bullshit? Yes, well should I receive

1:18:13.720 --> 1:18:15.640
<v Speaker 2>that as a Scorpio. That's what I've been reading. My

1:18:15.960 --> 1:18:19.360
<v Speaker 2>sign to this next year is very transformational, very transformation

1:18:19.520 --> 1:18:22.280
<v Speaker 2>for us. Yeah, but also I think it speaks to

1:18:22.520 --> 1:18:24.840
<v Speaker 2>this card. I think speaks also to the stability and

1:18:24.960 --> 1:18:28.080
<v Speaker 2>your foundation together and your relationship because from an outsider

1:18:28.080 --> 1:18:30.040
<v Speaker 2>looking in, I mean, I just met y'all, but I

1:18:30.080 --> 1:18:32.519
<v Speaker 2>really feel the love and I feel like the caring

1:18:32.600 --> 1:18:35.200
<v Speaker 2>and the support and like the real like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 2>it just feels like this feels infinite.

1:18:38.439 --> 1:18:41.240
<v Speaker 1>Oh for sure, We've lived many lifetimes together. I'm aware

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<v Speaker 1>of it.

1:18:42.160 --> 1:18:45.439
<v Speaker 2>I feel that, like I feel like we're find each other.

1:18:45.640 --> 1:18:48.559
<v Speaker 2>It's crazy, but and I wish this for everybody. I

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<v Speaker 2>just wish it because I I hear how hard it

1:18:52.680 --> 1:18:55.479
<v Speaker 2>is right now that are just.

1:18:57.280 --> 1:18:58.720
<v Speaker 1>So that's all. We tone it down a lot too,

1:18:59.439 --> 1:19:01.080
<v Speaker 1>so we're like, let's be less.

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<v Speaker 3>Gi oh my God, That's how it feels sometimes me

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<v Speaker 3>in Orlando, I'm like, stop, everyone's gonna think.

1:19:04.479 --> 1:19:12.439
<v Speaker 2>I have so rare, but I do. I wish it

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<v Speaker 2>for everybody. Everybody deserves to feel a love.

1:19:15.360 --> 1:19:17.479
<v Speaker 1>Like if you love me, you'll let me spin in

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<v Speaker 1>your mouth. Okay, please do it today. Just let her

1:19:20.360 --> 1:19:21.640
<v Speaker 1>do it. I'll hold your hand and we'll put it

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<v Speaker 1>on SloMo. What's the wrong with me? I have such

1:19:27.280 --> 1:19:29.439
<v Speaker 1>like I love. I just like to push people like, like,

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<v Speaker 1>are you sure? Come on?

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<v Speaker 2>Just you don't have no or any aquarius placements in

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<v Speaker 2>your charge.

1:19:37.040 --> 1:19:43.280
<v Speaker 1>This is her aquarious placement. Definitely sad though somewhere has

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<v Speaker 1>to be. I don't know about that. I gotta look.

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<v Speaker 2>Speaking of spinning in mouths, we always ask our guests

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<v Speaker 2>if they have a horror story they'd like to share,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, Like I said, I'm just I was a cheater.

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<v Speaker 1>In the past, so you know that you're a reform

1:20:10.360 --> 1:20:12.400
<v Speaker 1>cheater too, Yeah, girl.

1:20:12.600 --> 1:20:15.240
<v Speaker 3>Adrian tried to Surgeony under the bus, saying she was

1:20:15.360 --> 1:20:17.400
<v Speaker 3>vanilla when she when she was like, she don't have

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<v Speaker 3>no stories.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I really don't.

1:20:19.680 --> 1:20:21.120
<v Speaker 2>Like I dealt with a lot of like you know,

1:20:21.200 --> 1:20:23.960
<v Speaker 2>when I was young, so of course at the time,

1:20:24.360 --> 1:20:28.559
<v Speaker 2>I was attracting young unevolved people at same time too,

1:20:28.640 --> 1:20:30.680
<v Speaker 2>so we did a lot of dumb stuff. But no,

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<v Speaker 2>I just you know, it's not it's not hard to

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<v Speaker 2>be loyal, but you know the situation and it's not

1:20:35.920 --> 1:20:37.760
<v Speaker 2>for you, and you know this is a situation where

1:20:37.760 --> 1:20:40.519
<v Speaker 2>you should be loyal. Okay, I'm gonna cheat until I

1:20:40.560 --> 1:20:42.439
<v Speaker 2>get through whatever. Just I get through it and runs

1:20:42.439 --> 1:20:44.920
<v Speaker 2>and scores. So I just I cheated a lot. I

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<v Speaker 2>cheated dirty too.

1:20:45.840 --> 1:20:48.040
<v Speaker 1>I cheated like, yeah, we'll her best friends type.

1:20:48.240 --> 1:20:51.479
<v Speaker 2>Yeah with the Yeah, my girlfriend at the time's best friend.

1:20:51.560 --> 1:20:54.520
<v Speaker 2>We had a whole like, we had a whole emotional

1:20:54.560 --> 1:20:58.200
<v Speaker 2>relationship outside of the relationship I had with her, And

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<v Speaker 2>so yeah, for.

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<v Speaker 1>Like the year side. Know what it's those bad, it's unhealed.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess any unhealed sign it can be the worst

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<v Speaker 3>of the words.

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<v Speaker 1>That's true. Yeah, but no, I think there's specific signe. Actually,

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<v Speaker 1>cancer is the one.

1:21:14.720 --> 1:21:18.120
<v Speaker 3>Cancer men unhealed treacherous scorpio serial killers.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like I believe that they are the number one

1:21:21.840 --> 1:21:23.880
<v Speaker 2>the act sign for serial.

1:21:23.600 --> 1:21:24.960
<v Speaker 1>Killers because we're super sensitive.

1:21:24.960 --> 1:21:29.439
<v Speaker 3>And now y'all go, there is crazy that scor is

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<v Speaker 3>a second serial killer.

1:21:30.640 --> 1:21:32.760
<v Speaker 2>It's top three that makes sense for sure, Top three

1:21:33.439 --> 1:21:36.160
<v Speaker 2>aquari maybe Arias because.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah we are.

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<v Speaker 3>We're humanitarians for the now you're knowing the list and

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<v Speaker 3>on your last and we're yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So also a PDIA for going to make.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a list of all the serial killers signed to order.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm so happy we're not serial Killers' notable.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not kidding. There's a bonus. Okay, So did you

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<v Speaker 1>think of it?

1:22:07.720 --> 1:22:08.080
<v Speaker 3>If not?

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<v Speaker 2>If not, we can share one. But I don't. I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like one.

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<v Speaker 1>I do, But which do you feel like I should tell?

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<v Speaker 1>Which one? Do you think it's the juiciest, because I'd

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<v Speaker 1>be liking a talk. Just pick the top one to

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<v Speaker 1>make sure it's the top o the video shoot.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so okay, So it was like basically suppression Preacher's kid, right,

1:22:32.000 --> 1:22:33.840
<v Speaker 2>remember that now, because I was I was, I was

1:22:34.200 --> 1:22:38.280
<v Speaker 2>a lady hoe, but I didn't they okay, whatever. So

1:22:39.680 --> 1:22:42.000
<v Speaker 2>I was working at the bank, trying to keep her

1:22:42.280 --> 1:22:48.400
<v Speaker 2>identity private. She's not out, definitely heavily in a relationship,

1:22:48.640 --> 1:22:50.160
<v Speaker 2>and we had been friends for a lot of years.

1:22:50.160 --> 1:22:52.120
<v Speaker 2>She would even come to the parties. But she was

1:22:52.160 --> 1:22:55.599
<v Speaker 2>the only straight girl that was just around. She never

1:22:55.640 --> 1:23:01.080
<v Speaker 2>showed any signs whatsoever at all, right, strictly Dickley.

1:23:01.880 --> 1:23:02.320
<v Speaker 1>And so.

1:23:04.000 --> 1:23:07.479
<v Speaker 2>One day she was just like, Hey, if you have

1:23:07.600 --> 1:23:09.520
<v Speaker 2>me on your college, what would you do? And I

1:23:09.560 --> 1:23:12.200
<v Speaker 2>text her so where I'm flurting back and forth. We

1:23:12.240 --> 1:23:16.000
<v Speaker 2>start fucking long story short, like all in his car

1:23:16.080 --> 1:23:16.479
<v Speaker 2>and stuff.

1:23:16.479 --> 1:23:16.960
<v Speaker 1>It was bad.

1:23:17.360 --> 1:23:19.479
<v Speaker 2>I wanted to go to jail because he was like violent,

1:23:19.800 --> 1:23:20.880
<v Speaker 2>violently homophobic.

1:23:21.160 --> 1:23:23.360
<v Speaker 1>I got into the point that was probably why it

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<v Speaker 1>was even more thrilling.

1:23:24.760 --> 1:23:28.920
<v Speaker 2>Probably yeah, yeah, most most likely and so and I

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<v Speaker 2>guess because I was the gay promoter, and I was

1:23:31.360 --> 1:23:34.000
<v Speaker 2>the one that was bringing the gay parties to the

1:23:34.040 --> 1:23:38.559
<v Speaker 2>straight clubs. I was getting rumors that people would be like, hey,

1:23:38.600 --> 1:23:40.599
<v Speaker 2>stay away from her. They the dudes would tell their

1:23:40.640 --> 1:23:43.200
<v Speaker 2>girls that stay away from her, as if I was

1:23:43.240 --> 1:23:45.200
<v Speaker 2>a fucking issue, right, like you were trying to tell

1:23:45.200 --> 1:23:45.799
<v Speaker 2>their girls.

1:23:46.160 --> 1:23:48.800
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, the gays are, they're populating the regular clusbs.

1:23:48.840 --> 1:23:50.840
<v Speaker 1>It was horrible. Like she she told me that.

1:23:50.960 --> 1:23:53.200
<v Speaker 2>She was like, yeah, he knows who you are, and

1:23:53.360 --> 1:23:57.920
<v Speaker 2>he does not like that I know you. So yeah,

1:23:57.960 --> 1:23:59.519
<v Speaker 2>So she's on the phone with him and I'm just

1:23:59.560 --> 1:24:03.960
<v Speaker 2>like eat anyway, So one day we're at work, we

1:24:04.200 --> 1:24:06.040
<v Speaker 2>worked at the same bank. One day, we're at work

1:24:06.120 --> 1:24:08.880
<v Speaker 2>and she's like, I had a girlfriend, so I was

1:24:08.880 --> 1:24:11.000
<v Speaker 2>shooting on her as well. So I was like, well,

1:24:11.000 --> 1:24:12.360
<v Speaker 2>we ought to go to get a room. So we

1:24:12.360 --> 1:24:15.479
<v Speaker 2>got a room after work and I had a video

1:24:15.520 --> 1:24:18.000
<v Speaker 2>shoot later where we were shooting a promo video for

1:24:18.080 --> 1:24:19.680
<v Speaker 2>the club or an event I was about to do,

1:24:20.200 --> 1:24:22.599
<v Speaker 2>and so it was like a lingerie party and so

1:24:22.640 --> 1:24:25.400
<v Speaker 2>I had all these models Neir lingerie or whatever whatever,

1:24:25.840 --> 1:24:28.240
<v Speaker 2>and so she was like, Okay, after this, I'm gonna

1:24:28.280 --> 1:24:31.160
<v Speaker 2>come with you. So we ended up going. She was like,

1:24:31.320 --> 1:24:34.400
<v Speaker 2>damn Adrian. During the shoot, She's like, damn Adrian, Like,

1:24:35.280 --> 1:24:36.680
<v Speaker 2>it's a lot of sexy women in here. I was like,

1:24:36.680 --> 1:24:39.320
<v Speaker 2>I thought you're not gay. I thought she wasn't gay though,

1:24:40.000 --> 1:24:42.040
<v Speaker 2>and then she was like, nah, they're sexy. And I

1:24:42.080 --> 1:24:45.200
<v Speaker 2>was like, which one do you want? And she was

1:24:45.240 --> 1:24:47.200
<v Speaker 2>like her and her and her, and we all went

1:24:47.240 --> 1:24:47.679
<v Speaker 2>home together.

1:24:48.600 --> 1:24:51.599
<v Speaker 1>Wow with the straight girl. They were all straight.

1:24:51.760 --> 1:24:54.400
<v Speaker 2>Oh, how did you pull this off?

1:24:54.880 --> 1:25:01.559
<v Speaker 1>That's why the niggas are scared. Watch out for her.

1:25:01.960 --> 1:25:03.799
<v Speaker 2>That was in my FIM days. I didn't I didn't

1:25:03.880 --> 1:25:06.200
<v Speaker 2>present masks. I used to be really really really really

1:25:06.200 --> 1:25:07.320
<v Speaker 2>film I.

1:25:07.280 --> 1:25:10.040
<v Speaker 1>Would like to see. Let me say, picture you picture.

1:25:11.640 --> 1:25:14.519
<v Speaker 1>She had some bad photos. Yeah, I'm sure.

1:25:14.880 --> 1:25:18.000
<v Speaker 2>I mean you're beautiful now yeah, yeah, well I had

1:25:18.000 --> 1:25:19.560
<v Speaker 2>to unpack that.

1:25:19.800 --> 1:25:20.240
<v Speaker 1>It's not so.

1:25:20.320 --> 1:25:21.840
<v Speaker 2>I used to like dress up in my brother's clothes

1:25:21.880 --> 1:25:23.719
<v Speaker 2>and secret in the bathroom for.

1:25:23.640 --> 1:25:28.080
<v Speaker 1>Like hours really just to feel comfortable, just to feel me. Yeah.

1:25:28.120 --> 1:25:31.160
<v Speaker 3>Oh actually, I know. You just got top surgery. Congratulations,

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you so much.

1:25:32.160 --> 1:25:35.840
<v Speaker 1>How are you. How does feeling I'm feeling amazing. You

1:25:35.880 --> 1:25:39.040
<v Speaker 1>feel good? Oh yeah, I feel amazing. Were you scared

1:25:39.080 --> 1:25:40.080
<v Speaker 1>to make that decision or.

1:25:40.040 --> 1:25:42.240
<v Speaker 2>Like, oh yeah, it's like ten years to make, like

1:25:42.280 --> 1:25:44.080
<v Speaker 2>going back and forth whether you wanted to do that.

1:25:44.400 --> 1:25:46.200
<v Speaker 1>Not that, but just not wanting.

1:25:46.280 --> 1:25:49.320
<v Speaker 2>I had c sections with my daughters, so and they

1:25:49.360 --> 1:25:53.280
<v Speaker 2>were traumatic experiences as a black woman in the hospital

1:25:54.160 --> 1:25:57.240
<v Speaker 2>and literally almost died. So I was terrified. I just

1:25:57.320 --> 1:26:00.200
<v Speaker 2>didn't want. I was just like, and I'm married, She'll

1:26:00.200 --> 1:26:00.679
<v Speaker 2>just deal.

1:26:00.479 --> 1:26:03.479
<v Speaker 1>With it for years dealing with the.

1:26:06.360 --> 1:26:08.679
<v Speaker 2>And not breastfed. So you want to paint that picture.

1:26:08.680 --> 1:26:11.479
<v Speaker 2>And I hated them. I've always hated them even before that.

1:26:11.520 --> 1:26:15.439
<v Speaker 2>And I had some nice duties. I was very very

1:26:15.439 --> 1:26:22.479
<v Speaker 2>well complimented on that. I've never been attached to ever.

1:26:23.040 --> 1:26:23.800
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean to be.

1:26:23.720 --> 1:26:26.759
<v Speaker 2>Able to feel like yourself walking this life as yourself

1:26:26.800 --> 1:26:30.599
<v Speaker 2>authentically all the ways, physically, emotionally, mentally. It's like I

1:26:30.640 --> 1:26:32.479
<v Speaker 2>have to this life is so short. You have to

1:26:32.520 --> 1:26:33.920
<v Speaker 2>do the things you must do.

1:26:33.920 --> 1:26:36.200
<v Speaker 1>To the doing that make you feel free.

1:26:36.439 --> 1:26:36.639
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

1:26:36.680 --> 1:26:39.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because that, to me is the definition of breaking

1:26:39.080 --> 1:26:44.040
<v Speaker 2>generational curses. Our ancestors wish they could have lived like that.

1:26:44.200 --> 1:26:46.360
<v Speaker 2>So I feel like I'm doing at least my lineage

1:26:46.479 --> 1:26:51.360
<v Speaker 2>honor by being myself and they helped me for it.

1:26:51.360 --> 1:26:53.439
<v Speaker 2>It is a privilege. We are privileged in that way.

1:26:53.479 --> 1:26:56.519
<v Speaker 2>I know, like there's a spectrum of privilege, right, but

1:26:56.600 --> 1:26:59.320
<v Speaker 2>like just that we get to even be here.

1:26:59.520 --> 1:27:04.880
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there's a lot more work to do. We're move

1:27:04.920 --> 1:27:05.439
<v Speaker 1>to Costa Rica.

1:27:05.479 --> 1:27:07.160
<v Speaker 3>I don't know how you guys feel should come because

1:27:07.160 --> 1:27:08.640
<v Speaker 3>they're serving real food out there.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah I have. I've never been and I recently just

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<v Speaker 1>got over my fear flying. You know what we have

1:27:13.880 --> 1:27:14.080
<v Speaker 1>we do.

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<v Speaker 3>We do a retreat in Costa Rica, the Caribbean side,

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<v Speaker 3>like where the black people be at all women and

1:27:20.320 --> 1:27:22.519
<v Speaker 3>it's switchy and it's like well.

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<v Speaker 1>We well we'd have to bring the whole click. We

1:27:24.280 --> 1:27:29.320
<v Speaker 1>have the best travel and we do like mushrooms.

1:27:29.400 --> 1:27:33.799
<v Speaker 3>We have take over the whole property, frolic and cartwell

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<v Speaker 3>topless there. Okay, I'll send you guys the pdf.

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<v Speaker 1>You know we got one, We actually do.

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<v Speaker 2>We have links also find in this episode description, but

1:27:47.960 --> 1:27:50.320
<v Speaker 2>we also have a PDF which you will get upon booking.

1:27:50.640 --> 1:27:53.240
<v Speaker 3>We have beautiful videos. We have beautiful footage from this trip.

1:27:53.240 --> 1:27:55.799
<v Speaker 3>Look on our website honestly like good Mom's Bad Choices

1:27:55.840 --> 1:27:56.360
<v Speaker 3>dot com.

1:27:56.400 --> 1:27:58.280
<v Speaker 2>Actually we played one. We played an ad from the

1:27:58.320 --> 1:28:00.720
<v Speaker 2>Good Fibe retreat. So that's it. It's it's the most

1:28:00.760 --> 1:28:04.559
<v Speaker 2>amazing experience that I feel like we've I've ever even

1:28:04.560 --> 1:28:05.280
<v Speaker 2>experienced too.

1:28:05.680 --> 1:28:08.920
<v Speaker 1>Where do you guys go? Where do we go? With February?

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<v Speaker 2>So well, this the ones that's coming up is at

1:28:11.880 --> 1:28:14.479
<v Speaker 2>the very beginning of February. We have two retreats back

1:28:14.520 --> 1:28:15.880
<v Speaker 2>to back. It's the same experience.

1:28:15.920 --> 1:28:18.800
<v Speaker 1>So we're doing that.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, please come Like when I tell you

1:28:22.920 --> 1:28:27.040
<v Speaker 2>there's something so I never like Costa Rica wasn't really

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<v Speaker 2>on my bucket list.

1:28:27.960 --> 1:28:29.479
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I'll get there when I get there.

1:28:30.120 --> 1:28:32.519
<v Speaker 2>And then I got there and I was like, why

1:28:32.560 --> 1:28:34.040
<v Speaker 2>the fuck did I wait so long?

1:28:34.120 --> 1:28:34.960
<v Speaker 1>There's something like.

1:28:35.479 --> 1:28:38.679
<v Speaker 2>Listen the motherland is a motherland, but there's something like

1:28:39.280 --> 1:28:43.639
<v Speaker 2>calls you. I think it's just humans in general. It's

1:28:43.680 --> 1:28:48.440
<v Speaker 2>just like the nature is overwhelming and there's just so much.

1:28:48.800 --> 1:28:53.680
<v Speaker 3>Like like like mother Earth energy that's like it just

1:28:53.760 --> 1:28:57.880
<v Speaker 3>spiritually like opens you up quickly. It's like, yeah, it

1:28:58.040 --> 1:29:01.000
<v Speaker 3>just like the cracks you open, like, oh there you are, bitch.

1:29:04.240 --> 1:29:10.000
<v Speaker 1>Well, y'all, y'all had me at all? Women, Well, ladies,

1:29:10.040 --> 1:29:11.240
<v Speaker 1>thank you guys. Watching.

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<v Speaker 3>One piece of advice for people in the long term

1:29:14.560 --> 1:29:17.240
<v Speaker 3>relationships or wanting to get married, what is your one

1:29:17.240 --> 1:29:19.519
<v Speaker 3>piece of relationship advice that you take away?

1:29:23.960 --> 1:29:26.400
<v Speaker 2>What piece of advice I would say is to.

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<v Speaker 1>Communicate.

1:29:30.080 --> 1:29:33.680
<v Speaker 2>I have a hard time communicating, clearly. I suppress a

1:29:33.720 --> 1:29:37.720
<v Speaker 2>lot of my emotions. But be with someone who communication

1:29:37.880 --> 1:29:41.000
<v Speaker 2>is a really big thing for her. It's teaching me

1:29:41.120 --> 1:29:46.400
<v Speaker 2>to try to be more vocal about my emotions and expressions.

1:29:46.400 --> 1:29:49.240
<v Speaker 2>But I would say communication, for sure. You have to

1:29:49.320 --> 1:29:54.240
<v Speaker 2>constantly be in talks with your partner. And if you're

1:29:54.280 --> 1:29:57.720
<v Speaker 2>not talking, then how can you even begin to even

1:29:57.800 --> 1:29:59.720
<v Speaker 2>understand the person that you're with or know what they're

1:29:59.720 --> 1:30:02.040
<v Speaker 2>fearing are or their stress or what they're worried about,

1:30:02.160 --> 1:30:04.880
<v Speaker 2>or what they love, and before I met her, I

1:30:04.920 --> 1:30:06.680
<v Speaker 2>never thought that those things were important. Let me, no

1:30:06.680 --> 1:30:09.320
<v Speaker 2>one cared to communicate with me. But it's just like, oh, wow,

1:30:09.360 --> 1:30:09.880
<v Speaker 2>like you really do.

1:30:09.920 --> 1:30:12.439
<v Speaker 1>Want to know, you really are interested.

1:30:12.520 --> 1:30:14.240
<v Speaker 2>And then it's like and she just always has a

1:30:14.280 --> 1:30:17.519
<v Speaker 2>listening ear and always there to give advice or to

1:30:17.760 --> 1:30:19.560
<v Speaker 2>you know, help support me through whatever it is that

1:30:19.600 --> 1:30:23.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm going through. So I'm learning that communication is a big, big,

1:30:23.080 --> 1:30:26.439
<v Speaker 2>big thing, and I know that communication can be an

1:30:26.479 --> 1:30:28.720
<v Speaker 2>issue for a lot of relationships, which is why you

1:30:28.720 --> 1:30:31.880
<v Speaker 2>know a lot of people fail at them sometimes because

1:30:31.960 --> 1:30:33.880
<v Speaker 2>oh you didn't know this person was feeling this way

1:30:33.960 --> 1:30:35.840
<v Speaker 2>or that. It's like if you're not talking, you don't know.

1:30:36.560 --> 1:30:42.280
<v Speaker 2>So always just be open to communication, definitely, And to

1:30:42.320 --> 1:30:46.799
<v Speaker 2>piggyback off that, I would say, heal your childhood trauma

1:30:47.400 --> 1:30:51.240
<v Speaker 2>before you bring it into your current and present day relationships,

1:30:51.280 --> 1:30:55.479
<v Speaker 2>because no matter how well you think you're doing it,

1:30:55.960 --> 1:31:01.280
<v Speaker 2>you're not. And it's a constant just learning and unlearning.

1:31:01.760 --> 1:31:04.000
<v Speaker 2>And so there were a lot of hidden things that

1:31:04.040 --> 1:31:06.439
<v Speaker 2>I thought i'd heal from, but they definitely show up

1:31:06.479 --> 1:31:11.080
<v Speaker 2>subconsciously throughout your day. So if you can deal like

1:31:11.080 --> 1:31:15.760
<v Speaker 2>I feel like you were emotionally emotionally like neglected that

1:31:16.000 --> 1:31:19.920
<v Speaker 2>for example, could actually cause you to have like really

1:31:20.000 --> 1:31:24.400
<v Speaker 2>toxic attachment styles or just be cold hearted or you know.

1:31:24.400 --> 1:31:25.880
<v Speaker 1>To protect to protect yourself.

1:31:25.920 --> 1:31:28.960
<v Speaker 2>So it helps to heal you if you go back

1:31:29.000 --> 1:31:33.400
<v Speaker 2>and heal yourself before you try to get too involved

1:31:33.439 --> 1:31:37.479
<v Speaker 2>with someone else. I think constantly in on the journey

1:31:37.479 --> 1:31:40.840
<v Speaker 2>of healing as a partnership should kind of be priority.

1:31:41.880 --> 1:31:42.760
<v Speaker 1>That's definitely true.

1:31:43.240 --> 1:31:45.800
<v Speaker 2>Is that something you learned while being this relationship because

1:31:45.840 --> 1:31:47.960
<v Speaker 2>you did that before or you didn't do that before.

1:31:47.760 --> 1:31:47.960
<v Speaker 1>You know.

1:31:48.000 --> 1:31:50.479
<v Speaker 2>I asked myself that a lot, and I do think

1:31:50.520 --> 1:31:53.640
<v Speaker 2>I kind of got a little upper hand experience on it.

1:31:53.800 --> 1:31:57.040
<v Speaker 2>But also ooh, almost almost said that.

1:31:58.600 --> 1:31:59.240
<v Speaker 1>We do that.

1:31:59.520 --> 1:32:03.240
<v Speaker 2>In the growing up, I learned a lot of what

1:32:03.439 --> 1:32:09.320
<v Speaker 2>not to do in a relationship in marriages, you see

1:32:09.320 --> 1:32:14.880
<v Speaker 2>the examples of things. Absolutely hell no, m h, well

1:32:14.920 --> 1:32:15.599
<v Speaker 2>amen to that.

1:32:18.200 --> 1:32:20.160
<v Speaker 1>Well, thank you guys so much. Thank you.

1:32:23.720 --> 1:32:28.040
<v Speaker 3>You're not getting rid of us now, Okay, it's right,

1:32:28.840 --> 1:32:30.559
<v Speaker 3>deal bro. I know we say this all the time,

1:32:30.560 --> 1:32:33.400
<v Speaker 3>but for real.

1:32:31.479 --> 1:32:35.280
<v Speaker 2>No, seriously, I told her. I told her yesterday. I

1:32:35.680 --> 1:32:37.960
<v Speaker 2>know I was drunk, but I was like, she was like,

1:32:38.000 --> 1:32:39.720
<v Speaker 2>I'm so excited you guys are coming. I was like, yeah,

1:32:39.760 --> 1:32:42.960
<v Speaker 2>my manager hit us up and was like, y'all want

1:32:42.960 --> 1:32:46.200
<v Speaker 2>to do this podcast? And I never I'm not logistics,

1:32:46.240 --> 1:32:48.680
<v Speaker 2>so I hate that ship. So she's telling me and

1:32:48.680 --> 1:32:50.840
<v Speaker 2>she's like I was like, well, yeah, but how much

1:32:50.840 --> 1:32:52.559
<v Speaker 2>are they what are they trying? I'm not gonna just

1:32:52.560 --> 1:32:54.240
<v Speaker 2>come to sit on a podcast like what the fuck?

1:32:54.280 --> 1:32:54.479
<v Speaker 3>Who?

1:32:54.640 --> 1:32:56.920
<v Speaker 2>And they were like, no, is this podcast? Like I

1:32:56.960 --> 1:32:58.920
<v Speaker 2>was like, oh, fuck, yes, I'm doing it.

1:32:59.479 --> 1:33:01.160
<v Speaker 1>And she was like, I'm how much you want to charge?

1:33:01.200 --> 1:33:04.439
<v Speaker 1>What do you mean? Nothing? So I felt pulled to it. Yeah,

1:33:04.520 --> 1:33:05.280
<v Speaker 1>I felt it.

1:33:06.000 --> 1:33:08.280
<v Speaker 3>I'm so grateful you're supposed to be here, You're supposed

1:33:08.280 --> 1:33:09.200
<v Speaker 3>to go absolutly.

1:33:09.280 --> 1:33:11.360
<v Speaker 2>It's it's an energy. They did you feel sometimes you

1:33:11.360 --> 1:33:13.920
<v Speaker 2>feel like you said, listeners, we need to issues like yeah.

1:33:14.280 --> 1:33:16.280
<v Speaker 1>Listen, the energy is currency.

1:33:15.960 --> 1:33:18.280
<v Speaker 2>Maybe so it doesn't always show up in the ways

1:33:18.320 --> 1:33:21.400
<v Speaker 2>that you know, a payment or sometimes energy most of

1:33:21.439 --> 1:33:23.720
<v Speaker 2>the time, hopefully it's richer than that. No, it is,

1:33:23.840 --> 1:33:27.120
<v Speaker 2>so it's more important. Yeah, I'm just I'm really I

1:33:27.160 --> 1:33:28.320
<v Speaker 2>really hate leaving my house.

1:33:28.840 --> 1:33:31.479
<v Speaker 1>Where do you live? Like, yeah, you live down the street.

1:33:31.600 --> 1:33:34.400
<v Speaker 1>She's like, you never see me on this They don't

1:33:37.120 --> 1:33:39.200
<v Speaker 1>we're we're in a private location.

1:33:39.760 --> 1:33:43.960
<v Speaker 2>We are an we're a few a few miles away. Yeah, okay,

1:33:44.040 --> 1:33:46.600
<v Speaker 2>got it cool, you're right here. Yeah, but if you

1:33:46.600 --> 1:33:48.519
<v Speaker 2>see me, like I cycle a lot, so I'm like

1:33:48.520 --> 1:33:49.280
<v Speaker 2>always on my bike.

1:33:49.400 --> 1:33:50.760
<v Speaker 1>I have a bike. Should I come riding with you?

1:33:50.800 --> 1:33:53.120
<v Speaker 1>I loved that bike. I was like a business pitch.

1:33:53.479 --> 1:33:55.320
<v Speaker 1>We might have to like upgrade your bike though.

1:33:55.600 --> 1:33:57.120
<v Speaker 2>It's a good bike because I got it in COVID

1:33:57.160 --> 1:33:59.680
<v Speaker 2>and my figure, my practice boyfriend at the time, was

1:34:00.080 --> 1:34:01.680
<v Speaker 2>like the bike a lot, and so he made sure

1:34:01.720 --> 1:34:05.280
<v Speaker 2>I got the bike, got the skinny wheels and ship.

1:34:07.040 --> 1:34:10.479
<v Speaker 1>Mountain bike. Bitch. It's like a real I'll be there

1:34:10.560 --> 1:34:10.920
<v Speaker 1>next to you.

1:34:14.280 --> 1:34:16.160
<v Speaker 2>So slow, but yeah, we we love to ride our

1:34:16.200 --> 1:34:19.560
<v Speaker 2>bikes just to your crib and then we'll take it

1:34:19.600 --> 1:34:24.200
<v Speaker 2>from the last week. Okay, I don't like that Equinox.

1:34:24.360 --> 1:34:27.759
<v Speaker 1>It's not the best. It's not that, but it's close.

1:34:29.800 --> 1:34:31.200
<v Speaker 1>But also have O c D. So I don't. I

1:34:31.360 --> 1:34:34.360
<v Speaker 1>like the fact that they're extra clean, like you working

1:34:34.400 --> 1:34:36.519
<v Speaker 1>out on the floor, you see the clean people. No,

1:34:36.720 --> 1:34:37.720
<v Speaker 1>there is no sweat on this.

1:34:38.000 --> 1:34:40.240
<v Speaker 2>And I went that my friend has a membership at Equinox,

1:34:40.280 --> 1:34:42.240
<v Speaker 2>and I went to the one in West Hollywood this week.

1:34:42.320 --> 1:34:46.760
<v Speaker 2>I was like, this is literally l A. And I'm like,

1:34:46.840 --> 1:34:48.960
<v Speaker 2>this is what you think l A is. It was

1:34:49.000 --> 1:34:52.680
<v Speaker 2>like perfectly like rushed skinny bodies. There was just like

1:34:52.760 --> 1:34:55.120
<v Speaker 2>gay guy and his like he had this like a

1:34:55.479 --> 1:34:59.960
<v Speaker 2>pop his beard. I was like, he's fine as fun A.

1:35:03.400 --> 1:35:06.280
<v Speaker 1>This I came.

1:35:06.400 --> 1:35:09.000
<v Speaker 2>I forgot what my sweat said, are not like sweat proofs.

1:35:09.080 --> 1:35:13.639
<v Speaker 2>My whole crotches wet I have like they like every

1:35:13.720 --> 1:35:17.760
<v Speaker 2>sweat market they like, they like it not. I didn't

1:35:17.760 --> 1:35:19.680
<v Speaker 2>come prepared, but you know what, this is low key

1:35:19.760 --> 1:35:22.400
<v Speaker 2>the secret good one. If you like want a network,

1:35:22.520 --> 1:35:26.360
<v Speaker 2>especially with y'all, it's worth it. I mean we've turned

1:35:26.400 --> 1:35:31.719
<v Speaker 2>around and Chloe Kardashian was behind us, Sizza, Kanye, DJ

1:35:31.880 --> 1:35:34.840
<v Speaker 2>Mustard and any way, random day.

1:35:35.040 --> 1:35:36.759
<v Speaker 1>Really equinoxis for networking.

1:35:37.000 --> 1:35:39.160
<v Speaker 2>I work out.

1:35:39.200 --> 1:35:40.600
<v Speaker 1>When I went there, it was nice, but I was

1:35:40.640 --> 1:35:43.360
<v Speaker 1>just like boxing great classes. They do have good classes.

1:35:43.720 --> 1:35:47.000
<v Speaker 1>They do. Okay, this was bougie l A talk. It

1:35:47.120 --> 1:35:52.280
<v Speaker 1>really sponsorship. Matter of fact, they don't get out ship.

1:35:52.520 --> 1:35:54.880
<v Speaker 1>They don't. We try to get see their clients.

1:35:55.040 --> 1:35:58.960
<v Speaker 3>They're like, like you gets like a partnership like combo membership,

1:35:59.120 --> 1:35:59.719
<v Speaker 3>Like they don't.

1:35:59.560 --> 1:36:01.679
<v Speaker 1>Have that, I know, but we're married.

1:36:01.920 --> 1:36:04.519
<v Speaker 2>I know, like the best thing I don't tell you

1:36:04.560 --> 1:36:06.880
<v Speaker 2>to do. It's just like post your workouts and maybe

1:36:06.880 --> 1:36:07.640
<v Speaker 2>they'll like see you know.

1:36:07.720 --> 1:36:10.040
<v Speaker 1>But we do have a cool contact though. Ye cool,

1:36:10.040 --> 1:36:10.800
<v Speaker 1>we'll be hooking us up.

1:36:10.840 --> 1:36:14.720
<v Speaker 2>Okay us some Fendquinox.

1:36:14.840 --> 1:36:16.400
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah yeah, okay.

1:36:16.439 --> 1:36:18.760
<v Speaker 2>Well, now that we've done pre promo for Equinox, I know,

1:36:21.160 --> 1:36:22.840
<v Speaker 2>can you tell the people where they can find you.

1:36:23.479 --> 1:36:27.000
<v Speaker 2>You can find us on Instagram. My Instagram is j

1:36:27.280 --> 1:36:31.040
<v Speaker 2>dot Muse and uh you also find us on TikTok.

1:36:31.120 --> 1:36:32.559
<v Speaker 1>We are the Muses.

1:36:33.640 --> 1:36:39.640
<v Speaker 2>And my Instagram is I am dot Muse amazing. And

1:36:39.680 --> 1:36:44.160
<v Speaker 2>then I have a Patreon it's called a Querious Comics

1:36:44.240 --> 1:36:47.320
<v Speaker 2>that's just launched. Shout out to Patreon. We're partners, yes,

1:36:48.400 --> 1:36:52.720
<v Speaker 2>and announcement coming soon with that and what else. My

1:36:52.920 --> 1:36:55.600
<v Speaker 2>art is Madam Muse dot l a without an E

1:36:55.960 --> 1:36:58.320
<v Speaker 2>no e at the end of madam and I think

1:36:58.439 --> 1:36:58.720
<v Speaker 2>that's it.

1:36:59.240 --> 1:37:01.560
<v Speaker 1>We we had we fans when we stopped Wait what

1:37:01.720 --> 1:37:06.880
<v Speaker 1>was on there? Hold on now, gonna slide it in

1:37:06.920 --> 1:37:07.439
<v Speaker 1>there real quick.

1:37:07.479 --> 1:37:09.559
<v Speaker 2>So we're we're we actually stopped it, but and it's

1:37:09.600 --> 1:37:11.160
<v Speaker 2>on Patreon now, so we put it on I put

1:37:11.160 --> 1:37:11.240
<v Speaker 2>it on.

1:37:11.560 --> 1:37:14.920
<v Speaker 1>It's not that much. It's not no, no, they it

1:37:15.000 --> 1:37:16.760
<v Speaker 1>ain't me. It's animations. I animate us.

1:37:17.320 --> 1:37:27.160
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so you were doing like intimate animations of you guys.

1:37:27.400 --> 1:37:31.599
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're tripping. I can show you. Okay, wow, we're

1:37:31.640 --> 1:37:36.800
<v Speaker 1>tripping on and then she does the voiceovers and then yeah,

1:37:37.560 --> 1:37:38.559
<v Speaker 1>I don need to get up phone.

1:37:38.600 --> 1:37:41.320
<v Speaker 2>Then my god, it's like dipsy but your own ship.

1:37:41.560 --> 1:37:45.400
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you're making money. Yeah. No, I didn't think it

1:37:45.439 --> 1:37:46.400
<v Speaker 1>was gonna pop off like that.

1:37:47.400 --> 1:37:49.160
<v Speaker 3>Were they expecting Did they know it was animated or

1:37:49.160 --> 1:37:50.519
<v Speaker 3>they thought it was going to be human?

1:37:50.720 --> 1:37:51.160
<v Speaker 1>No, I was.

1:37:51.320 --> 1:37:55.280
<v Speaker 2>I would never like click thing. I would, but you

1:37:55.400 --> 1:37:57.040
<v Speaker 2>know what everyone's telling me to do that. I am

1:37:57.080 --> 1:38:00.479
<v Speaker 2>considering foot porn. Everyone's telling me to do it.

1:38:00.800 --> 1:38:01.439
<v Speaker 1>Beautiful feet.

1:38:01.800 --> 1:38:03.599
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I've been tempted to do foot porn too.

1:38:03.640 --> 1:38:05.160
<v Speaker 2>I have a nice feed. Also, maybe we could do

1:38:05.200 --> 1:38:05.639
<v Speaker 2>a collab.

1:38:06.439 --> 1:38:20.000
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there was some pain on there with your approval,

1:38:20.040 --> 1:38:22.200
<v Speaker 1>of course. Just let me do foot porn with your wife.

1:38:23.400 --> 1:38:26.519
<v Speaker 1>We're just talking about that last night with Quen. Yeah,

1:38:28.080 --> 1:38:28.599
<v Speaker 1>oh my god.

1:38:28.640 --> 1:38:30.720
<v Speaker 2>All right, y'all, well, thank you so much for coming on,

1:38:32.040 --> 1:38:34.759
<v Speaker 2>and we'll put all their info in this episode description

1:38:34.960 --> 1:38:36.760
<v Speaker 2>make sure you go check out the good Viber tree

1:38:36.800 --> 1:38:39.920
<v Speaker 2>and come with us to Costa Rica. Follow us on Instagram,

1:38:40.360 --> 1:38:43.120
<v Speaker 2>join our Patreon. We have a bunch of bonus clips

1:38:43.160 --> 1:38:45.240
<v Speaker 2>over there and when you enter, when you get when

1:38:45.280 --> 1:38:48.040
<v Speaker 2>you join Patreon, you get access to our Discord community,

1:38:48.400 --> 1:38:52.160
<v Speaker 2>which is poppington all the time. There's always things happening.

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<v Speaker 2>There's tons of hories. We didn't share one today, but

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<v Speaker 2>we need.

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<v Speaker 1>We have like a list of horses and they're so unfair.

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<v Speaker 1>We didn't even get to hear y'all horse stories.

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<v Speaker 2>Of these are other people's horse stories that they share.

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<v Speaker 2>So we have a whole channel at Discord called Hories

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<v Speaker 2>where people just share an updated horries like I want

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<v Speaker 2>to Yeah, there's like a truck driver in there. He's

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<v Speaker 2>been doing some freaky ship over there.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't forget to go also into Patreon to get your

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<v Speaker 3>PDFs for the question, so you two can play at home.

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<v Speaker 3>PDFs coming soon, all the PDFs you can think of.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god. Okay, we'll see you guys next week.

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<v Speaker 1>Bye bye bye

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<v Speaker 2>M