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Speaker 1: H m hm.

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Speaker 2: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and

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Speaker 2: I'm Mela. Happy Wednesday, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Day. As you know, our stalking stills are stalking stills.

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Speaker 3: As you know, our stalking skills are top notch. And

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Speaker 3: so we have mutual friends. And I've been trying to

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Speaker 3: stalk you for quite some time, maybe like one year.

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Speaker 3: I was like, now's the time. I just I just

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Speaker 3: saw them. We went out with Ashley for her birthday.

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Speaker 3: Shout out to Ashley, right, Hannah, It's like perfect time.

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Speaker 1: Now they're my friends. Yeah, we love a scorpio. Just

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Speaker 1: what's your sign? We're both Aquarius? Oh you are.

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Speaker 2: I'm always like Aquarius is our air signs? Right?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Water bearer the water bearers. Okay, that's why I

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Speaker 1: was wondering.

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Speaker 2: Everyone confused. I was confused about the water bearers. Mean,

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Speaker 2: like what they hold water.

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Speaker 1: They hold us, so you see Orlando's hold.

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Speaker 2: And like the water represents truth telling and we're going

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Speaker 2: to give you the truth.

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Speaker 1: It represents a lot of freedom and truth and honesty.

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Speaker 2: No, well, let's get to it. Then, let's get the

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Speaker 2: truth out. Then I'm read at the file. We're out

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Speaker 2: there and we hadn't filling out. You know, we've been

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Speaker 2: doing these questions with the couples, and Adrian was like,

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Speaker 2: how deep are we going to go?

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Speaker 1: We're going to keep it surface. I was like, bitch,

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Speaker 1: do you know what show you're on.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm glad I overheard this this plan over

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Speaker 2: here because.

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Speaker 1: She could go deep. I was like, no, we're going deep,

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Speaker 1: not too much.

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Speaker 3: You can't be too much over here. Already told you

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Speaker 3: the story earlier. That's ready I was. I was telling

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Speaker 3: I was telling them about our episode called you sacrificed

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Speaker 3: to what.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, lots of truth telling. Yeah, you know, thankfully

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Speaker 2: Peter didn't come for us. Maybe they would come now.

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Speaker 2: I'm glad we did that a few years ago. I

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Speaker 2: don't think that's fair. I mean, people eat chicken every day.

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Speaker 2: What's the difference.

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Speaker 1: I don't even know if it's far chicken at this point.

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Speaker 3: Because someone that sent me that ship, yes, bitch, yesterday

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Speaker 3: I found out that the FDA has recently approved lab

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Speaker 3: made meats for America that will launch next year. A KA,

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Speaker 3: it's time to get the fuck out of this bitch.

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Speaker 2: That's on God, I mean, that's really what like any

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Speaker 2: of those like fake vegetarian meats are anyway.

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Speaker 1: Too, and we learned that the hard. That's why I

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Speaker 1: stopped eating that ship we were.

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Speaker 2: We've been vegan now for eight years. I'm gonna say

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Speaker 2: ish because we're from Florida, so we sometimes eat a

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Speaker 2: crab leg.

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Speaker 1: But no, we can't do the meat. That's like really bad.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like that's how we started out. You know,

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Speaker 2: with you're transitioning, you eat a lot of the fake.

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Speaker 2: But now, especially if you have TikTok, it's a video

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Speaker 2: about everything.

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Speaker 1: You just like, well, yeah, way too mony air. Yes,

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Speaker 1: all we got so far irritated. You can't even trust

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Speaker 1: the vegetables. The fruit you can't trust. No, listen. In

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty three, I'm committed.

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Speaker 2: I'm committed to finally starting a garden in my backyard.

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Speaker 2: I have all this space in my backyard and that

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Speaker 2: I'm doing nothing with. And I was like, I need

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Speaker 2: to just go ahead and practice my off the grid

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Speaker 2: living now and know how to fucking I don't even

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Speaker 2: know how to plant a fucking tomato.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna die.

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Speaker 2: And especially okay, I'm gonna have come over because she lives.

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Speaker 2: She lives right down the street please help me set

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Speaker 2: up my garden. Ashley, you're watching this and she will

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Speaker 2: force me to care.

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Speaker 1: That's true. Here's the gditor. So ladies, let us.

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Speaker 2: I want to know how you guys met, How you

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Speaker 2: guys became to be the Muses. Besides that being the

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Speaker 2: best last name ever in the history of artists, which is.

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Speaker 1: An actual real last name, I know you well. I'm

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Speaker 1: sure it was like your cool Instagram.

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Speaker 2: Like my daddy and his daddy and his daddy were

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Speaker 2: all music. That's amazing.

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Speaker 1: So you tell it, you So we met originally.

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Speaker 2: We're both from Florida, and this was around twenty twelve.

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Speaker 1: And back then Adrian was a.

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Speaker 2: Club promoter and so one of my friends back then

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Speaker 2: was a part of her house. She had a house.

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Speaker 2: She was a house mother, ha Sabadini. And so it

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Speaker 2: was an event in Orlando, and you didn't come because

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Speaker 2: you're You stayed back because your girlfriend at the time

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Speaker 2: was cot blocking it. Didn't want you to come. But

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Speaker 2: I was in Orlando. They're my friend, and I was like,

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Speaker 2: oh man, she ain't coming, and then out of nowhere,

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Speaker 2: she pops up the ceiling. Oh absolutely, So because we

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Speaker 2: draw on Instagram or what like, no so so this

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Speaker 2: was like maybe around the summer, like around June July,

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Speaker 2: but February run the Super Bowl, my friend cut hair

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Speaker 2: and so I was just chilling at her barbershop and

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Speaker 2: she had like a little Super Bowl party at her

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Speaker 2: barber shop, and she came with a whole bunch of

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Speaker 2: women and then I just remember sitting in the chair

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Speaker 2: and it was just like who is that? And then

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Speaker 2: you know, she kind of didn't want to tell me,

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Speaker 2: you know, cop blocking to but you know, I'm gonna curious.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna find out.

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Speaker 2: But ever since then I saw her from across the room,

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Speaker 2: It's like when I instantly saw her, I felt something

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Speaker 2: that I've never felt before, kind of like an energy

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Speaker 2: pulled to the point where it's like I don't approach

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Speaker 2: anyone I've never had when it came to a relationship

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Speaker 2: were I talked to, you know, people always approaching me.

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Speaker 2: But something about her was like, no, I have to

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Speaker 2: find out who this is.

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Speaker 1: So I stopped her.

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Speaker 2: I found out what club she was promoting at in

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Speaker 2: Jacksonville before the whole Orlando thing, and I would just

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Speaker 2: was like, oh, this is your moment, like she's here,

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Speaker 2: so you have to seal the deal. And so a

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Speaker 2: few drinks, you know, got to get that liquor courage.

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Speaker 2: And because I knew she had a girlfriend, I had

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Speaker 2: to play it respectful. So they played Beyonce speechless, which

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Speaker 2: we are huge behive and so yes, I saw.

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Speaker 1: The witchy TikTok. Yeah we grew up together.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they played Beyonce speechless and I ended up doing

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Speaker 2: a lap dance not on her, but to one of

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Speaker 2: her friends that was like in her party, like look

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Speaker 2: at these, but enough to where she knew that the

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Speaker 2: dance was for her. You can hold like this could

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Speaker 2: be you. Yes, like she knew I had to put

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Speaker 2: it out there. And then to make a lone story short,

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Speaker 2: you know, the after party went back her hotel. You know,

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Speaker 1: You know, she came and lady, she had nothing pretty much.

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Speaker 1: She came back to the hotel and no one was

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Speaker 2: It was just she was the first to show up

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Speaker 2: and she just laid down on my bed, like with

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Speaker 2: the I can't even call him booty shops. At that point,

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Speaker 2: they were just panties and stockings, but I also had

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Speaker 1: But you know, yeah, we didn't. We didn't fuck, but

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Speaker 3: And you're like, wow, this girl, this is like some

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Speaker 3: groupie status.

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Speaker 2: My story though, that's from her perspective. When she came

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Speaker 2: or whatever, I had to pee. So they were in

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Speaker 2: the bathroom. Her and her friend was in the bathroom

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Speaker 2: and I was like, I'm gonna need you to get out.

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Speaker 1: I gotta go. So she didn't want to leave.

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Speaker 2: She was like, you're gonna pee right here in front

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Speaker 2: I'm walking out, I pee.

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Speaker 1: She didn't leave.

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Speaker 2: As we were walking out, I happened to just kind

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Speaker 2: other's eye contact reflection in the mirror.

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Speaker 1: And I'm a witch. I've always had it.

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Speaker 2: I saw literally in the split second, our entire life

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Speaker 2: like it grabbed my heart. I was like, I shut

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Speaker 2: want to be with the bitch that was home and.

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Speaker 1: I left her.

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Speaker 2: I kicked her out, if we want to be honest,

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Speaker 2: And she came the next night, and we have not

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Speaker 2: spent a night apart for ten years.

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Speaker 3: Wow, you just made a call. I was like, hey, bit,

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Speaker 3: you gonna have to get out of my house.

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Speaker 1: But she was already. She was already leaving the door

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Speaker 2: I mean she would even come to the house and

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Speaker 2: with her at the foot of the bed. But you

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Speaker 2: bed with another girl. You just gonna take a shower

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Speaker 2: and excuse yourself and go back in the living room.

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Speaker 1: Oh, that was a normal thing that at my house.

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Speaker 1: Like I used to throw a party so people would

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Speaker 1: just you guys were open. Who in what way? You

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Speaker 1: in the acts? Like okay, she was just dumbaships. Have

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Speaker 1: I heard of any such passiveness. Actually, my first relationship

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Speaker 1: was she doesn't hear this? She does? I mean, girl,

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Speaker 1: thank you, I mean you love the girl wide up

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Speaker 1: and I walked right in. She learned her lesson, girl,

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Speaker 1: I wish she did. What did she say?

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Speaker 2: We all have a few of those you know, yeah,

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Speaker 2: well that's beautiful. Wow, he's my best friend to really

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Speaker 2: to really know like that immediate like that that poll

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Speaker 2: is like, yeah, that's something that's never happened, and to

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Speaker 2: act on it really too, because a lot of people

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Speaker 2: feel that way and then they're.

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Speaker 1: Like, oh no, I'm tripping. That would have been sad

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Speaker 1: because I know it's rare.

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Speaker 2: It's so rare, and I'm already like naturally kind of

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Speaker 2: anxious socially, so it could have happened, like I could

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Speaker 2: have just been like you know, sometimes people aren't healed

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Speaker 2: enough to even accept it, like you said, like not

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Speaker 2: even paying attention. I was gonna make sure you accepted it,

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Speaker 2: so you know.

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Speaker 1: Well I needed it.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she was past, So you've moved the other bitch

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Speaker 3: out you moved in yeah yeah, and then from from

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Speaker 3: there like like how because you guys are married, right?

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Speaker 1: Yes? When did when did you?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: We need to be married? I want to be with you?

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Speaker 1: This is this is that? So I think we were

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Speaker 1: together for like two years? Yeah? Dating? Yeah, and then

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Speaker 1: well you know you know what they say.

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Speaker 3: I can say this as a former lesbian. I don't

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Speaker 3: know if you guys know I'm a former lesbian's lesbian

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Speaker 3: always a lesbian.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, I agree.

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Speaker 2: I really want to hear from the lesbians because because

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Speaker 2: she's been saying this for years and a former lesbian,

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Speaker 2: He was actually the first person that I came out to. Okay,

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Speaker 2: We ended up getting homeless because we got married, and

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Speaker 3: So he divorced him, and then you guys got married,

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Speaker 2: No, he was mad because I decided to leave him.

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Speaker 2: This was way before.

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Speaker 2: I was supposed to be at work and he showed

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Speaker 1: Yes, both of my parents are pastors, okay, And then

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, he turns everyone against me. It was a

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Speaker 1: It was bad.

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Speaker 3: And then your parents actually like they had no idea

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Speaker 1: No, we didn't talk for maybe a year or two.

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Speaker 3: And how about your parents.

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Speaker 2: I've had like little situations like as a kid, WINNI

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's she's got the best mom in the world. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: And how how was that for your girls? Because obviously

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Speaker 2: At first, initially I was very very like meticulously careful

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Speaker 2: it's okay, you're happy now and I'll never forget that.

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Speaker 1: And they're now gay, so are they? Yeah? Because who

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Speaker 2: I couldn't manner stress stress me. You'll see when your

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Speaker 3: A couple of boyfriends they did had you were like,

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Speaker 3: I don't have time for this.

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Speaker 2: But oh my god, it's horrible watching your daughters just

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Speaker 1: And we were all dumb and young, you know.

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Speaker 2: Everybody did your Did your daughters explore both sides and

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Speaker 1: They're just open. They don't know way more. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: They don't want they like, yeah, no kids, they don't

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Speaker 1: I said that too, though growing up.

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Speaker 2: So I was like, hey, if the city knows I'm going, now,

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Speaker 1: To stalk me.

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Speaker 2: Shut the fuss, I swear to God, stay there long aship.

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Speaker 1: Well, it wasn't a lesbian it was a gay bar.

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Speaker 2: These are facts, So I'm not even saying ship that

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Speaker 1: Well, you started doing this.

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Speaker 2: And then I just became a whore. It was like

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Speaker 1: Takeover.

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Speaker 2: Absolutely I'm the oldest and that was the thing, right,

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Speaker 1: I did it big. Yeah. I was gonna say, like.

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Speaker 3: Not only your sexuality, obviously that's like forbidden in the Christianity,

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Speaker 3: And I even recently it's like this year where Erico

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Speaker 2: What that's and I think you should hold on to

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Speaker 1: And silence and all my family and shit would know.

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Speaker 1: But like, we are out here heavy and we need support.

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Speaker 3: You know, did we need to like make a witch

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Speaker 2: Today, November whatever day it is coming out publicly?

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Speaker 1: Is a witch A witch? A witch?

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Speaker 3: I told my daughter. She's like, you're a witch?

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Speaker 2: Right.

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Speaker 1: I was like yeah.

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Speaker 3: She's like, if my friends at school ask you, you

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Speaker 1: I was like, duh, See they get it. I love

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Speaker 1: the younger generation. They get it. They have no question.

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Speaker 1: She's like, I'm a fairy warewealth witch. I was like, okay,

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Speaker 1: I love it. And see how many witches are in

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Speaker 3: you know, like magic. You know, I sacrificed the fucking whatever.

443
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Speaker 3: But you know where do you think like that comes from. Yeah,

444
00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:12,000
Speaker 3: it's all rooted in like ritual and ceremony.

445
00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:16,959
Speaker 2: Every everything in the church, the altar. I mean, I

446
00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:18,960
Speaker 2: was a what did they call me growing up in

447
00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:20,800
Speaker 2: the Church of Prophetess, the young prophetess.

448
00:21:21,440 --> 00:21:22,800
Speaker 1: That's like that.

449
00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:25,760
Speaker 2: I don't say it's for the Lord. I'm a psychic

450
00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:27,560
Speaker 2: and I'm satanic.

451
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Speaker 3: Well that's that's the thing when people are like witchiness

452
00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:32,680
Speaker 3: or like tarot cards, you know, those CAUs in that

453
00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:35,639
Speaker 3: second away from me. But it's like the whole motherfucking

454
00:21:35,640 --> 00:21:38,639
Speaker 3: Bible was written by some things who had a like

455
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Speaker 3: a prophecy.

456
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Speaker 1: Literally it's a whole spell book in itself, right, So

457
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Speaker 1: how did that come to be?

458
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Speaker 3: Like how did you still like not only own your

459
00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:47,359
Speaker 3: sexuality but then come out as a witch and like

460
00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:50,800
Speaker 3: hone in on your like your ability to manifest and

461
00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:54,160
Speaker 3: then tell people and not feel you know, away came

462
00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:55,359
Speaker 3: up as lesbian and a witch.

463
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Speaker 1: So it was a journey.

464
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Speaker 2: And I'll say I had a lot of like d

465
00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:02,080
Speaker 2: instructing of the church that I needed to do because

466
00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:04,560
Speaker 2: I was born in it. So while the little girls

467
00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:07,280
Speaker 2: were learning one plus one is two. I was learning

468
00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:10,520
Speaker 2: I will spend eternity in a bottomless pit of hell,

469
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Speaker 2: which caused like a lot of anxiety growing up. It's

470
00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:17,960
Speaker 2: always like this subconscious feeling of impending doom.

471
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Speaker 1: And I had to because the.

472
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Speaker 2: Rapture you're always just afraid of happened, right, So, like

473
00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:24,680
Speaker 2: I had to work through that. So it took about

474
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Speaker 2: I would say eight years, around eight years before I

475
00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:32,280
Speaker 2: even was okay with it internally. And then finally my

476
00:22:32,359 --> 00:22:36,480
Speaker 2: daughters they were just like, you need to fucking be

477
00:22:36,640 --> 00:22:41,199
Speaker 2: real and just be authentic and people need to know

478
00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:43,159
Speaker 2: who you are because you're a dope bitch. And I

479
00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:45,119
Speaker 2: was like, and I usually listened to them, like I

480
00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:47,560
Speaker 2: just listened to my kids. We don't do smarter, Yeah

481
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Speaker 2: they are. So they were like, Mom, do the fucking

482
00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:54,399
Speaker 2: TikTok and be witches. We had. We ignored her for

483
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Speaker 2: like a month because it I'm gonna quarry some stubborn

484
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Speaker 2: So I'm like, no, I'm an artist.

485
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Speaker 1: I don't want to do that. I paint, Yeah, that's

486
00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:07,160
Speaker 1: exactly what's the fair.

487
00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:12,080
Speaker 2: Pain. It's so bad. But it was completely the opposite.

488
00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:17,840
Speaker 2: My art soared afterwards and just living more authentically. Then

489
00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:20,159
Speaker 2: it was like a whole community of people just on

490
00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:23,200
Speaker 2: TikTok waiting like, yeah, where have you been aunties? Oh

491
00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:25,879
Speaker 2: my god, like really like and a lot of people

492
00:23:25,880 --> 00:23:27,719
Speaker 2: were coming to it saying like, oh my gosh, like

493
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Speaker 2: we need guidance on you know, I'm lesbian or I'm

494
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Speaker 2: gay or I'm dealing with this and like it's just like, Wow,

495
00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:36,680
Speaker 2: you really don't know who your tribe is if you

496
00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:38,680
Speaker 2: don't really put yourself out there like we all need

497
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Speaker 2: each other. Or how do I secretly set up an

498
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Speaker 2: altar without anyone in my family knowing? Stuff like that,

499
00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:46,359
Speaker 2: Like damn, I wish I had that ship, you know

500
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Speaker 2: growing up.

501
00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:47,800
Speaker 1: So it worked.

502
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Speaker 2: Wow, that's amazing. It's it's true you don't know until

503
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:52,920
Speaker 2: you do it. But even with us, like I had

504
00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:57,240
Speaker 2: no idea, we had no idea that like women felt

505
00:23:57,240 --> 00:24:00,560
Speaker 2: how we were feeling, and that like you know that

506
00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:03,600
Speaker 2: us just speaking our truth would be I don't know,

507
00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:08,560
Speaker 2: revolutionary in ways like because I'm like, so you're on it,

508
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:11,600
Speaker 2: because it's we now are entering into the age of Aquarius,

509
00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:14,800
Speaker 2: and if you remember, that's what's happening. Old systems are

510
00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 2: crumbling everything, even the economy, money itself. So the old

511
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:22,639
Speaker 2: ways we were moving out of the piss era that

512
00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:27,679
Speaker 2: was like heavy religion, heavy leadership, heavy like moralism and

513
00:24:27,720 --> 00:24:32,440
Speaker 2: all this bullshit. Right, but now your power lies in

514
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:37,120
Speaker 2: being authentic. That represents the age of Aquarius. So we're

515
00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:41,360
Speaker 2: all work walking in purpose right now. It feels good, right,

516
00:24:41,400 --> 00:24:43,320
Speaker 2: And that's why your art started to soar too. I mean,

517
00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:46,120
Speaker 2: you like open up this like portal for yourself. When

518
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 2: you walk in your authenticity, like things just kind of

519
00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:51,439
Speaker 2: start to lay out for you. And I know, like

520
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:53,439
Speaker 2: the moment you stop doing that, things start to go

521
00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:57,919
Speaker 2: like absolutely, even my art started becoming witchy like it was.

522
00:24:58,359 --> 00:25:00,880
Speaker 2: It was a whole demographic waiting.

523
00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:01,719
Speaker 1: Yeah.

524
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Speaker 3: And also I think when you walk in like authenticity,

525
00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:05,679
Speaker 3: like you find your people.

526
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Speaker 1: Oh my god.

527
00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:08,960
Speaker 3: You know it's just so easy, you know, like your

528
00:25:09,000 --> 00:25:11,439
Speaker 3: people will start to gravitate to. Your tribe gets bigger

529
00:25:11,480 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 3: and stronger, and the people you're supposed to be around

530
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 3: you don't have to hide for or just or like

531
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Speaker 3: watch what you say because.

532
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Speaker 1: Like, bitch, you know I'm a witch. Don't come around

533
00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:20,959
Speaker 1: here if you've got a problem, don't be scared.

534
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:24,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, So it's like it's you people do such themselves.

535
00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 3: It's such a disservice of like not being themselves. And

536
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:30,480
Speaker 3: then I always I'm always sorry. I'm always like curious

537
00:25:30,560 --> 00:25:32,240
Speaker 3: because people are like, Okay, how do you like? It's

538
00:25:32,280 --> 00:25:34,880
Speaker 3: so it's so nice, how you're so able to be yourself.

539
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:36,560
Speaker 3: I'm like, bitch, I don't know any other way to be.

540
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 3: How are you being anything else than yourself?

541
00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:40,480
Speaker 1: I can't help.

542
00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:45,000
Speaker 2: I think it's very easy to not be yourself, actually,

543
00:25:45,080 --> 00:25:46,840
Speaker 2: because I think it's almost you have to fight to

544
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:49,160
Speaker 2: be yourself in this day and age, in this society,

545
00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:53,120
Speaker 2: with religion, with even social media, wanting to look and

546
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:56,320
Speaker 2: be like other people and wanting to fit in, it's

547
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 2: actually harder to be yourself and actually figure out who

548
00:25:59,600 --> 00:26:01,480
Speaker 2: the fuck is anyway.

549
00:26:01,400 --> 00:26:03,560
Speaker 1: Like is this myself? For? Is it like?

550
00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:07,440
Speaker 2: And really get into that. So but but I think

551
00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:09,040
Speaker 2: you've always really just had that.

552
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:13,120
Speaker 3: In you, naturally unfortunately, but fortunately it's been very difficult

553
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:14,600
Speaker 3: to reach refrain from.

554
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:17,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have to learn it the hard way, dropping

555
00:26:17,920 --> 00:26:20,040
Speaker 2: those masks, Like I had to put on wear so

556
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:22,880
Speaker 2: many masks and it was just exhausting. You get burnt out,

557
00:26:22,960 --> 00:26:29,240
Speaker 2: and then finally ya like I'm worshipping the devil, so

558
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:30,680
Speaker 2: that way you can just really stay.

559
00:26:30,480 --> 00:26:34,359
Speaker 1: Away, right right right. I just want to say I

560
00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:35,520
Speaker 1: don't think she worships the devil.

561
00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:40,760
Speaker 2: To say that because niggas on the on the let's

562
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:46,080
Speaker 2: look her up, Adrian, I don't know there's the devil.

563
00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:47,199
Speaker 1: Well, you know what.

564
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Speaker 3: I once looked up like that, Like I once googled satan,

565
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 3: like how do you say Satanism? And the definition when

566
00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 3: I read it, if I'm like remembering correctly, was very interesting.

567
00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:02,399
Speaker 3: It was like basically believing in like both. It was

568
00:27:02,440 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 3: like believing in like the darkness and the light.

569
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:07,520
Speaker 1: It's true. Yeah, it wasn't even like what we think.

570
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:09,119
Speaker 1: When I read it, I was like, this is not

571
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:12,320
Speaker 1: even bad. Lucifer means light bringer, it.

572
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 3: Brings, it means like I always tell people that I'm like, Lucifer.

573
00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:17,399
Speaker 1: Means like I'm about to look it up.

574
00:27:18,359 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 2: Satan is a meaning in English to the worship of Satan,

575
00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:25,600
Speaker 2: typically involving a travesty of Christian symbols and practices such

576
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:33,120
Speaker 2: as placing a cross upside down. Wait, we can't trust's dictionary. This,

577
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:34,560
Speaker 2: this is not I don't know, I don't know what

578
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:37,439
Speaker 2: I got the worship of Satan or the powers of evil.

579
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:40,800
Speaker 1: Maybe this is one under God.

580
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 2: They're not gonna, They're not gonna. You got to get

581
00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 2: it out of the books because like they're gonna.

582
00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:49,959
Speaker 1: Make session or affinity with evil. I'm obsessed with evil.

583
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:57,040
Speaker 3: Interesting, Okay, well, I think I think it's just it's

584
00:27:57,119 --> 00:28:00,679
Speaker 3: acknowledging that, like you have to indul and some of

585
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:02,960
Speaker 3: the like the darkness or what people say is the

586
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:16,760
Speaker 3: darkness in order to like.

587
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 2: Even in the I had one question growing up that

588
00:28:15,400 --> 00:28:17,879
Speaker 2: none of the pastors could answer in church. I was

589
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:20,680
Speaker 2: the rebellious one, like, uh huh, that'll make sense because

590
00:28:20,720 --> 00:28:24,639
Speaker 2: I studied the ship, right, So I'm like, why in

591
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:27,600
Speaker 2: heaven before Lucifer? Y'all know, Lucifer got kicked out of heaven, right,

592
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:31,640
Speaker 2: So I always have this question, like why who as

593
00:28:31,640 --> 00:28:33,560
Speaker 2: he was getting jealous of God, he was jealous of

594
00:28:33,560 --> 00:28:36,200
Speaker 2: God and you know, started thinking more highly of hisself

595
00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:38,440
Speaker 2: and God kicked before God kicked him out. And my

596
00:28:38,560 --> 00:28:42,200
Speaker 2: question was always well, who put the spirit of jealousy

597
00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:44,400
Speaker 2: in mind?

598
00:28:44,600 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 1: Who created the spirit of jealousy? He didn't do it hisself?

599
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 1: Who made it?

600
00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 2: And no one wanted to answer, So when I started

601
00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:54,480
Speaker 2: to reread the Bible for like the fourth time as

602
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:57,520
Speaker 2: an adult to study it, like, I realized I forgot

603
00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 2: the scripture where it is, but the God did. He goes,

604
00:29:01,600 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 2: I create both the light and the dark. I create

605
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 2: both good and evil. I do these things.

606
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 3: Nigga, it's me, So you telling me to do some

607
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:16,680
Speaker 3: shit that he not for a reason. Thank you, so

608
00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:19,440
Speaker 3: that you could experience the light when you can't. You

609
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 3: can't live your life only like one sided. You can't

610
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 3: like because it's yeah, like pleasure, even like Christianity calling

611
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:30,080
Speaker 3: like something like sexual pleasure, Like say like that is not.

612
00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 3: Why the funk would he make it feel this good

613
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:32,960
Speaker 3: if we ain't supposed to do it exactly.

614
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:35,680
Speaker 2: And also stop touching a little boys since you're concerned

615
00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 2: about it someone.

616
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 3: Also, my biggest question was as in Christianity was like they're.

617
00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:42,880
Speaker 1: Like and then Jesus God sacrifice.

618
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:45,120
Speaker 3: His only son, and I was like why. I was like,

619
00:29:45,240 --> 00:29:47,080
Speaker 3: he's God, right, why would he make.

620
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:48,960
Speaker 1: That the rule? Like he could have made anything happen.

621
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Speaker 3: He was like, I'm gonna get my only son, and

622
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:52,920
Speaker 3: I'm a cross save everybody.

623
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Speaker 1: I'm like he can just saved everybody. The first abortion.

624
00:29:55,600 --> 00:30:01,080
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, lord, the first abortion. Why are you

625
00:30:01,080 --> 00:30:04,560
Speaker 1: also against abortion? I don't. My parents don't like talking

626
00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 1: to me because what are you talking about? He was

627
00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: the first abortion as a grown man. Yeah, first time.

628
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Speaker 2: Anyway, ladies, I'm going to steer us into another We

629
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Speaker 2: usually asked our guests to share an affirmation. I was

630
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Speaker 2: wondering if you guys have an affirmation that you like

631
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Speaker 2: to share with our audience.

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Speaker 3: This week's affirmation segment is brought to you by Targets Black.

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Speaker 2: I've been saying lately is I wake up in the

644
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 2: morning and I say I am consistently attracting the energy

645
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:29,960
Speaker 2: that flows with my highest good. I am consistently attracting

646
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 2: the energy that flows with my highest good.

647
00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 1: I'm like that, you know, I don't. I don't have

648
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Speaker 1: any day affirmations day. I feel like I need to

649
00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:44,320
Speaker 1: step that up. Use that one. That one there you go,

650
00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:48,480
Speaker 1: I use that one. That's a good one. I love that.

651
00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 2: So before we started the show, we asked you guys

652
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Speaker 2: to answer some questions.

653
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Speaker 1: It's question, are you ready? I'm going to test you

654
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Speaker 1: guys to see how well you know.

655
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Speaker 2: You guys have been together every single night for ten years. Yeah,

656
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 2: don't funck this up right?

657
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 1: What you'all been talking about over there? The qusture is

658
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Speaker 1: do you want to go first?

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Speaker 3: I can sure this is Adrian, so Janika, these questions are.

660
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Speaker 2: For you together, Jesus, you want to just go ahead? Okay, Okay,

661
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:29,200
Speaker 2: I get it girl, Okay, this is for me, This

662
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 2: is for you.

663
00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 1: What is Adrian's favorite color? Purple? Correct? What is her

664
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:40,320
Speaker 1: overall pet peeve of mine? No, just her pet peep.

665
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,240
Speaker 1: I have a lot you do. I'm trying to think.

666
00:32:44,480 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 2: Uh, I feel like I will say that your pet

667
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:49,520
Speaker 2: peeve is.

668
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:51,719
Speaker 1: Meaningless.

669
00:32:51,840 --> 00:32:56,920
Speaker 3: Conversations small talk, small talk with people you was.

670
00:32:56,880 --> 00:33:02,200
Speaker 2: In there, girl, Yes, I literally know I do. And

671
00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 2: it took a minute to answer that. I'm like, hmm,

672
00:33:04,120 --> 00:33:05,600
Speaker 2: let me see who she would go with this, Yeah,

673
00:33:05,680 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 2: meaningless conversations.

674
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:10,000
Speaker 1: What is her biggest pet peep when it comes to you.

675
00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:13,720
Speaker 2: Well, one thing she hates. It's not on my nose,

676
00:33:15,280 --> 00:33:17,640
Speaker 2: I think she I think I'm that I'm stubborn.

677
00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:23,120
Speaker 1: Snoring badly and snotty. Yeah a lot.

678
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 2: Well, so I have a nasal polyps. Like when we

679
00:33:27,240 --> 00:33:29,600
Speaker 2: moved out here in twenty sixteen, before COVID, I had

680
00:33:29,600 --> 00:33:33,000
Speaker 2: lost my sense of taste and smell. And when I

681
00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:34,760
Speaker 2: went to see an E and T doctor, he was like,

682
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 2: more so like I probably got sick and never like

683
00:33:38,440 --> 00:33:40,760
Speaker 2: actually healed from that. And so I started developing nasal

684
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:44,680
Speaker 2: polyps and that causes post NASER drip. I always so congested.

685
00:33:45,160 --> 00:33:48,160
Speaker 2: I had the surgery, but the chances of nasal polops

686
00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:49,320
Speaker 2: coming back is high.

687
00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:52,520
Speaker 1: So and they are back. Yeah, so you're confirmed, you're

688
00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:55,880
Speaker 1: the doctors. Yeah, so got it or baby?

689
00:33:55,920 --> 00:33:58,440
Speaker 2: She can't help that, I know, but she she stuffered,

690
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:00,720
Speaker 2: like she said, And I tell her your ZR tech

691
00:34:00,800 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 2: every day. She doesn't. I tell her to do everything

692
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:08,120
Speaker 2: she put on your medifier. She doesn't so irritating when she.

693
00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:11,640
Speaker 1: Doesn't take the advice and you have to deal with this. Yeah,

694
00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:14,239
Speaker 1: and I can't sleep at night. So do you have

695
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:16,480
Speaker 1: an earplex? I'm going to get them too.

696
00:34:17,000 --> 00:34:19,120
Speaker 2: But she's annoyed because she shouldn't have to. Right.

697
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:22,960
Speaker 3: What is Adrian's childhood pet's name?

698
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:29,280
Speaker 1: Sasha? Childhood girl pet name? I don't know your pets

699
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:34,400
Speaker 1: have pets? Music kid? No pets? Growing up? Correct? What

700
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:35,760
Speaker 1: would what would you say?

701
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:36,920
Speaker 2: Is? Uh?

702
00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 1: What would Adrian say? It's her best quality? I don't know.

703
00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 2: I would say that she's she's very understanding.

704
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:48,000
Speaker 1: That's what I say.

705
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:52,239
Speaker 3: She said she's communication, that's her Yeah.

706
00:34:52,320 --> 00:34:55,880
Speaker 1: Yeah. What would she say is her worst quality? Not

707
00:34:56,120 --> 00:35:01,960
Speaker 1: staring into my soul? I don't know. I know answer

708
00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:06,120
Speaker 1: and the soul? I know? Your worst quality? Would you

709
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 1: say is worse about I forgot what I put? I

710
00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:14,040
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't know that one overthinker? Oh?

711
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, what is something she's most sensitive about?

712
00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:20,959
Speaker 1: Her mental health? Her family? Oh?

713
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:27,799
Speaker 3: What is something that she's accomplished that she's most proud of?

714
00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:30,000
Speaker 2: She has so many?

715
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:40,719
Speaker 1: Maybe the girls absolutely not. Oh, I'm just there A

716
00:35:40,800 --> 00:35:42,359
Speaker 1: strong second and third.

717
00:35:43,840 --> 00:35:46,200
Speaker 3: Right now her most recent art project, that will air

718
00:35:46,320 --> 00:35:49,719
Speaker 3: on Hulu in twenty twenty three.

719
00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:53,280
Speaker 1: About it, I could, I couldn't think of anything.

720
00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:56,840
Speaker 2: What you said repeatedly that the girls are your best?

721
00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 1: They are? But but this is this is it right now?

722
00:36:01,719 --> 00:36:04,799
Speaker 2: That's so exciting, exciting. I'm excited for When is that

723
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:06,800
Speaker 2: coming out? Do you know they're saying?

724
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:08,319
Speaker 1: Or what?

725
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:10,880
Speaker 2: Or how can we? How can people? I guess they

726
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:11,960
Speaker 2: can't find it until next year.

727
00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:14,719
Speaker 1: She says, I shouldn't say you didn't.

728
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:16,840
Speaker 2: Feel like it's a problem. I didn't sign any NDA's

729
00:36:16,920 --> 00:36:17,360
Speaker 2: or anything.

730
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:18,480
Speaker 1: You shouldn't.

731
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:22,800
Speaker 2: So just know that it's on Hulu and it's based

732
00:36:22,840 --> 00:36:27,279
Speaker 2: on a New York Times bestseller, Oh Dope about an

733
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:29,080
Speaker 2: artist perfect love that.

734
00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:31,920
Speaker 3: I'm going to ask you more questions in the Microsoft.

735
00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:34,600
Speaker 3: What is Adrian's biggest insecurity?

736
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:37,200
Speaker 1: All right now, he's not saying it.

737
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:41,279
Speaker 3: It's like, don't expose me?

738
00:36:41,360 --> 00:36:41,600
Speaker 2: Get it?

739
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:51,520
Speaker 1: Right? Is security? Yeah?

740
00:36:51,640 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 2: You don't like your arms?

741
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:55,880
Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah I don't, but I'm working on it. What

742
00:36:55,920 --> 00:37:00,000
Speaker 1: did I put? She put painter's posture? What the hell

743
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:03,799
Speaker 1: those painters? Yeah? So I've been drawing since I was

744
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:06,920
Speaker 1: like two, and then we just have horrible postures. So

745
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:09,279
Speaker 1: it's like you have to like the ballerina strength. Yeah,

746
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:13,160
Speaker 1: I'm learning to like because this is my co lunched.

747
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 3: Over what would be a deal breaker in your relationship.

748
00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:24,160
Speaker 2: This is funny, I would say if I cheated, but

749
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:26,760
Speaker 2: also if she doesn't trust me anymore.

750
00:37:27,719 --> 00:37:33,799
Speaker 3: Cheating in parentheses, but with a nigga. I just want

751
00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:35,160
Speaker 3: to clarify if I was a bit, you might be

752
00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 3: able to get over it, because you know, if you

753
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:41,800
Speaker 3: if you know she's her preference is not really.

754
00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:43,200
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. That don't make sense to me.

755
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:48,280
Speaker 2: I don't really know you. Yeah, nothing against bisexual women,

756
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:52,080
Speaker 2: but like you like, come on, what is this?

757
00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:54,840
Speaker 1: I thought maybe if it's not like your preference and

758
00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 1: you're like, go ahead and have a field day. I

759
00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:59,400
Speaker 1: don't have one of those anyway. Oh god, No, I

760
00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 1: don't know was asking.

761
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:03,200
Speaker 3: I just it was it was very specific cheating with

762
00:38:03,200 --> 00:38:04,839
Speaker 3: a nigga, so you can maybe get away if.

763
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:06,279
Speaker 1: She didn't want a bitch. Yeah. We talked about that

764
00:38:06,320 --> 00:38:08,279
Speaker 1: all the time. You guy, are you guys? Okay? I mean,

765
00:38:08,800 --> 00:38:10,799
Speaker 1: do you guys open? Do you guys play with other?

766
00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:13,719
Speaker 2: We don't, but we talk about all the time, and

767
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:15,920
Speaker 2: I do think it's something we probably would do.

768
00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:19,239
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. You take the lead on that one. I'm

769
00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:20,440
Speaker 1: following your lady, buddy.

770
00:38:21,280 --> 00:38:24,040
Speaker 3: She's like, that's all I want to.

771
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 2: Forgot whatever you say to the witchy gods?

772
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:33,960
Speaker 1: What your god? On my birthday? You wanted marriage? I

773
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:43,799
Speaker 1: want to three? I know samaicorns? Where do you like?

774
00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:47,719
Speaker 1: Where does she like to grocery shop? She doesn't, She don't.

775
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:53,280
Speaker 1: What do you just reads? I fucking hate it, Like seriously,

776
00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:55,719
Speaker 1: I have mental health issues. I don't like it.

777
00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:58,560
Speaker 2: I'm so over stimulated in there, the noises, the people,

778
00:38:58,640 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 2: the sounds.

779
00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:03,839
Speaker 1: It's too much, too cold to Yeah. Do you instacart? Absolutely?

780
00:39:04,520 --> 00:39:10,879
Speaker 1: She does the grocery instat though. Do you cook? You cook? Yeah?

781
00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 2: Not the.

782
00:39:13,840 --> 00:39:19,239
Speaker 3: Eat the who's your favorite musical artist of all time?

783
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:23,880
Speaker 1: Yes? That is right. What is her guilty pleasure?

784
00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:30,359
Speaker 2: Oh, smooky weed and fucking.

785
00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:35,799
Speaker 1: Mine to mind too, girls don't get along? Just fun.

786
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:42,880
Speaker 3: What is her favorite porn category?

787
00:39:43,360 --> 00:39:44,000
Speaker 1: She loves gay?

788
00:39:44,560 --> 00:39:48,480
Speaker 3: Oh God, meet too with you?

789
00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:49,040
Speaker 2: Wait?

790
00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:51,799
Speaker 1: You like gay and poor? But the mic in your

791
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:54,800
Speaker 1: face is dress. It's weird. Before we got.

792
00:39:54,840 --> 00:39:58,360
Speaker 2: Episode, She's like, this phallic mic in my stressing me.

793
00:39:58,800 --> 00:40:02,400
Speaker 1: Turn on the BBC, make it bear back.

794
00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:07,839
Speaker 3: Gay porn in parentheses men slash BBC slash bear back.

795
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:11,160
Speaker 3: You know you gotta put the slashes on the porn category.

796
00:40:11,880 --> 00:40:13,200
Speaker 1: Be specific ebony.

797
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:15,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I like, I like a lot of M MF

798
00:40:15,600 --> 00:40:16,919
Speaker 3: bisexual threesomes.

799
00:40:17,120 --> 00:40:19,120
Speaker 1: Oh that's that's that's the second close.

800
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:22,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't I don't know. Yeah, I don't know

801
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:23,759
Speaker 3: why I can't get over it. One time my friend

802
00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 3: showed me and I never never got back, and then

803
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:30,799
Speaker 3: it's so weird. A lot of straight women love lesbian porn.

804
00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:33,840
Speaker 1: Which I can't say. I hate it. This is the.

805
00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:38,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I like lesbian porn. That's because you're not a

806
00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 2: lesbion yam by fun that's what she calls.

807
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:42,439
Speaker 3: She's by fun on like the weekends was a sorry

808
00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 3: amount of she'll she'll seek them out. If she said

809
00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:46,880
Speaker 3: three tequilas in.

810
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:52,319
Speaker 1: Interesting, very specific.

811
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Speaker 5: If a Saturday, Friday, midnight and six am hours me

812
00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:04,160
Speaker 5: out those hours, you're not lesbian, I don't think.

813
00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:06,040
Speaker 1: I was like, because it's Wednesday. I tried.

814
00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:07,640
Speaker 2: I tried to be lesbian, and I was like, let

815
00:41:07,640 --> 00:41:10,360
Speaker 2: me try this hour real quick. I went, I dated

816
00:41:10,360 --> 00:41:13,560
Speaker 2: and I took a girl out on Valentine's Day I

817
00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:14,400
Speaker 2: was like, Wow.

818
00:41:14,239 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 1: A couple really taking her out. Oh, this is weird.

819
00:41:17,640 --> 00:41:19,120
Speaker 1: I'm the prize. What the fun?

820
00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:22,400
Speaker 3: Yes, right, my poor want to be lesbian. It's okay, baby,

821
00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:24,319
Speaker 3: you can still be adjacent to us.

822
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:27,919
Speaker 1: Oh it's us. Now you're back.

823
00:41:29,760 --> 00:41:33,200
Speaker 3: I said, I'm a former les spectrum, but I'm always

824
00:41:33,200 --> 00:41:34,320
Speaker 3: going to be part of the community.

825
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:36,880
Speaker 1: Done it if I had I amount of puss be

826
00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 1: part because I'm by fun Yes, yes, that's the B.

827
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:41,759
Speaker 1: You are deep in the lifestyle like I'm a Jason,

828
00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:43,960
Speaker 1: You're that's the B in l g BT.

829
00:41:44,280 --> 00:41:48,879
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm gonna add a fun Q.

830
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Speaker 1: I f forever added letters. I know, right, I can't

831
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:56,200
Speaker 1: keep up.

832
00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:59,760
Speaker 3: How old was Adrian when she lost her virginity and where?

833
00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:02,839
Speaker 2: I don't know what age she was. But she loves

834
00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:04,520
Speaker 2: the stairs at school.

835
00:42:04,719 --> 00:42:09,359
Speaker 1: That is true, school staircase at school. Wait, she said

836
00:42:09,360 --> 00:42:13,239
Speaker 1: she liked to be was a preacher's kid. Okay, let's

837
00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:18,440
Speaker 1: do bad ship. I was horrible. Did you enjoy it? It

838
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:19,760
Speaker 1: was it traumatizing? Okay?

839
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:21,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, but this is a really good message for like

840
00:42:22,040 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 3: parents that are listening that like, I want to be

841
00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:27,920
Speaker 3: helicopter parents are super super strict and you think you're

842
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 3: gonna like something.

843
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:32,880
Speaker 2: Will stop your kids from they're actually they're gonna do

844
00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:35,000
Speaker 2: it faster, harder, and a lot more.

845
00:42:34,920 --> 00:42:37,400
Speaker 1: People and still bring home the straight a's. Yeah, and

846
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:40,000
Speaker 1: they're to be more secretive because they absolute so like

847
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:42,279
Speaker 1: just like so true. I learned that very fast.

848
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:45,080
Speaker 2: I think it would get away with being sneaky as

849
00:42:45,080 --> 00:42:48,560
Speaker 2: long as I'm like compliant, it's going and shut the

850
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:49,360
Speaker 2: up and do it.

851
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:51,320
Speaker 1: You're gonna be fucking on the stairway. Absolutely.

852
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:57,839
Speaker 3: What moment did uh Adrian know she loved you?

853
00:43:00,719 --> 00:43:03,719
Speaker 2: I don't know what moved that was, but I do

854
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:06,920
Speaker 2: remember we were Oh it is in the hotel room.

855
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:09,680
Speaker 1: You told me you love me. But I don't remember

856
00:43:09,760 --> 00:43:13,400
Speaker 1: with close she said when I first listened to her.

857
00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:18,440
Speaker 2: Oh my god, was it the mirror at the moment?

858
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:20,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, I knew I loved her then and she snatched

859
00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 1: her cliche. Mm hmmm. What is Adrian's biggest fear?

860
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:39,080
Speaker 2: Uh, I don't think you're gonna get it.

861
00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:41,800
Speaker 1: I don't know if I am.

862
00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:45,240
Speaker 3: I don't know, I'm not living up to her fullest potential.

863
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:50,400
Speaker 3: What what's her favorite sex position?

864
00:43:51,000 --> 00:43:57,680
Speaker 1: Oh? I like this one too. I don't know if

865
00:43:57,680 --> 00:43:58,839
Speaker 1: it's the same for her.

866
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:03,799
Speaker 2: I don't think it's sissory, but.

867
00:44:06,600 --> 00:44:10,160
Speaker 1: I don't know that is. Oh yep.

868
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:12,720
Speaker 3: For those of you who don't know, sissoring is also

869
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 3: known as tripping. Ye, there's an in case you're wondering,

870
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:24,520
Speaker 3: would she prefer to spend or save money?

871
00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:26,319
Speaker 1: I prefer.

872
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:32,920
Speaker 3: She preferred to spend it, but underline yes, all capital,

873
00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 3: nothing else, all capital.

874
00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:38,880
Speaker 1: Or underline. I did notice how my handwriting is like

875
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:43,400
Speaker 1: gradually changed. H yeah, they do. They went from like

876
00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:50,120
Speaker 1: regular to cursive. Who is her celebrity crush? Oh?

877
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:54,359
Speaker 3: Ari Lennox, Ari, motherfucking Lennox, happy face with the heart.

878
00:44:55,520 --> 00:44:58,480
Speaker 2: There is no discussion. If I see her and it's happening,

879
00:44:59,080 --> 00:44:59,879
Speaker 2: I'll tell you later.

880
00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:00,920
Speaker 1: She got her past.

881
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:05,280
Speaker 3: What if she if she's in the bathroom with Arian's

882
00:45:05,280 --> 00:45:06,560
Speaker 3: giving her the eye, you're gonna turn out.

883
00:45:06,560 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 1: You're gonna be like, yeah, go ahead, boo, can't it? Girl?

884
00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:11,839
Speaker 1: Tell me about it when you're done taking a watch.

885
00:45:12,440 --> 00:45:17,240
Speaker 1: I would. Okay, she's just having a whole visual moment.

886
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:19,759
Speaker 1: It's like my birthday is coming up. I'm trying to

887
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:22,040
Speaker 1: manifest it right now. Look, Ari, this might need to

888
00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:25,839
Speaker 1: be a clip. She did sing to me. She did yeah,

889
00:45:25,880 --> 00:45:28,480
Speaker 1: the concert, Which shape of a baby? Which one? What

890
00:45:28,640 --> 00:45:31,160
Speaker 1: song was it? She was in days? She don't remember

891
00:45:31,520 --> 00:45:36,239
Speaker 1: this on my Instagram to me? Okay, well are you

892
00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:39,120
Speaker 1: hear that? Come find our friends, listen, get a free

893
00:45:39,120 --> 00:45:41,359
Speaker 1: portrait out of it and everything you'll get free art,

894
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:48,360
Speaker 1: bitch work. You might need to come commodity badasses.

895
00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 3: How does Adrian feel about non monogamy?

896
00:45:56,600 --> 00:45:57,400
Speaker 1: She's not against it.

897
00:45:57,520 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 2: I think if it just works, She's always to.

898
00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:02,000
Speaker 1: Each his own.

899
00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:06,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, what is her favorite memory of you guys' relationship?

900
00:46:07,360 --> 00:46:10,240
Speaker 1: That was so hard to answer? I don't know that answer.

901
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:13,960
Speaker 1: This is like, it's so cute. I know it's so corny,

902
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:20,839
Speaker 1: to be honest, I don't know.

903
00:46:23,800 --> 00:46:26,720
Speaker 3: Her favorite memory of your relationship is when you guys

904
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:29,000
Speaker 3: first met and you spent the night and fell asleep

905
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:31,960
Speaker 3: on her chest and she used to have frequent sleep

906
00:46:32,040 --> 00:46:34,560
Speaker 3: panic attacks, and she was having one that night and

907
00:46:34,600 --> 00:46:37,239
Speaker 3: you placed your hand on her chest and she never

908
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:38,560
Speaker 3: had another one again.

909
00:46:48,120 --> 00:46:51,360
Speaker 1: Are you crying, Orlando Aquarious?

910
00:46:52,600 --> 00:47:01,520
Speaker 3: Our relationship a lot of tears? What what did Adrian?

911
00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:05,359
Speaker 1: Okay, what do you wish? What dish? It's always? Why

912
00:47:05,400 --> 00:47:13,400
Speaker 1: don't we re write it? I don't know. I'm confused again.

913
00:47:15,280 --> 00:47:20,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, wait, what does Adrian wish?

914
00:47:21,160 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 1: I got it before, but.

915
00:47:25,040 --> 00:47:32,760
Speaker 2: M what do you do wish?

916
00:47:32,800 --> 00:47:35,000
Speaker 1: You?

917
00:47:35,000 --> 00:47:36,959
Speaker 3: You've done this ship three times this month?

918
00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:40,839
Speaker 2: Okay, what do you What does Adrian wish you saw

919
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:49,239
Speaker 2: more of than yourself? Oh? Uh, my potential obviously, but

920
00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:59,200
Speaker 2: I don't know, just say my potential whatever that is?

921
00:47:59,239 --> 00:48:01,600
Speaker 1: That some short and short term, she said.

922
00:48:01,640 --> 00:48:04,080
Speaker 3: I wish she trusted more in herself to explore and

923
00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 3: live out her truest dreams, to get past the fear

924
00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:10,759
Speaker 3: and do it anyway. Yeah, you know, I love these

925
00:48:10,760 --> 00:48:12,680
Speaker 3: are This has been the deepest answers we've had.

926
00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:18,840
Speaker 1: It's clear we've been dealing with heateral normandy deep like sentences.

927
00:48:18,880 --> 00:48:20,320
Speaker 1: You guys did really good. You might have got a

928
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:25,440
Speaker 1: ninety five percent thank you, but I'm going to fail

929
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:31,280
Speaker 1: those ten years back to back, you know? Is you ready?

930
00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:34,200
Speaker 1: I'm trying to be don't judge yourself. Okay, let's go.

931
00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:42,439
Speaker 1: What is Juanika's favorite color? Chral? Yes, chral slash mob.

932
00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:44,239
Speaker 1: That's very specific.

933
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:46,439
Speaker 2: Well, we had to get her colors together. She needed

934
00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:50,480
Speaker 2: to learn how to describe them correctly, artist like.

935
00:48:56,600 --> 00:49:05,360
Speaker 1: Orange. I get you. What's her overall pet? Peeve pet peeve.

936
00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:09,640
Speaker 1: I don't know, not being able to eat, being hungry.

937
00:49:09,719 --> 00:49:10,440
Speaker 1: I don't know.

938
00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 2: You know this and you gonna be so many I

939
00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 2: get it.

940
00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:18,359
Speaker 1: Spit, I hate oh my mouth. She would never and

941
00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 1: I try to make her like even during sex, like

942
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:24,399
Speaker 1: pull her head back on. She would slap. It's been

943
00:49:24,440 --> 00:49:28,360
Speaker 1: on body parts. Nothing the body part. No, I have

944
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:30,719
Speaker 1: to be the one that this spitting. And I can't.

945
00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:33,080
Speaker 2: Stand it looking at other people.

946
00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:37,520
Speaker 1: You can't this video later, I do it all the time.

947
00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:41,279
Speaker 1: She does. You're gonna hate video.

948
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:46,480
Speaker 2: You're gonna hate it slow, she's gonna throw out. It's

949
00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:49,879
Speaker 2: very it's very sexy though recolarizing video on the internet.

950
00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:51,680
Speaker 1: I don't know about that. People do love it or

951
00:49:51,680 --> 00:49:55,360
Speaker 1: hate it. That did not for you, page. I appreciate it,

952
00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:56,760
Speaker 1: all right, appreciate that.

953
00:49:57,719 --> 00:50:00,440
Speaker 2: What is her childhood's it's name?

954
00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:02,680
Speaker 1: I don't think you had a dog?

955
00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:06,480
Speaker 2: Oh wait, ship, I skipped skipped on. What is her

956
00:50:06,520 --> 00:50:06,919
Speaker 2: pet peeve?

957
00:50:06,960 --> 00:50:07,600
Speaker 1: When it comes to.

958
00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:15,520
Speaker 2: You, holy ship, there's so many pet pee when it

959
00:50:15,560 --> 00:50:18,040
Speaker 2: comes to me, and it's you didn't write the same answers?

960
00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:26,319
Speaker 1: Right? No, I get that. How she is mostly always right?

961
00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:37,080
Speaker 1: Damn that's true. Damn I always right, have.

962
00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 2: Lived, I can help not Damn what is her childhood

963
00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:47,520
Speaker 2: pet's name? Yeah, I don't think we talked about that.

964
00:50:47,960 --> 00:50:53,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I said briefly, But you're not yourself? Is serious?

965
00:50:53,360 --> 00:50:57,960
Speaker 2: I'm still learning her Chandler. You not supposed to smoke

966
00:50:57,960 --> 00:51:03,799
Speaker 2: one Chandler. They were like this TikTok's like if you

967
00:51:03,880 --> 00:51:06,000
Speaker 2: hold and you're smoking with people and you hold it

968
00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:07,759
Speaker 2: like this, Really, what.

969
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:10,319
Speaker 1: Does that mean? Are you supposed to hold it like this?

970
00:51:10,719 --> 00:51:15,160
Speaker 1: I guess what I need to get back in the

971
00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:17,800
Speaker 1: TikTok verse. I'm I'm missing.

972
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:22,640
Speaker 2: A lot of life skills and things TikTok University that

973
00:51:22,760 --> 00:51:23,480
Speaker 2: is to do Google.

974
00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:25,960
Speaker 1: Okay, we I'm gonna look up there the moment we

975
00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:29,040
Speaker 1: got our TikTok back, y'all get it back?

976
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:32,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, what would you say? What would she say? It's

977
00:51:32,840 --> 00:51:37,640
Speaker 2: her best quality? You're just always so bubbly and you're

978
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:39,319
Speaker 2: full of light, and you're just like a fairy. And

979
00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:42,840
Speaker 2: she's so happy all the time and optimistic, very supportive

980
00:51:42,880 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 2: and understanding. What is her worst quality? Oh man, she

981
00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:53,240
Speaker 2: starts stuff and doesn't finish it.

982
00:51:53,360 --> 00:51:53,880
Speaker 1: Stubborn.

983
00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:57,440
Speaker 2: You always say that that is, but you know, I'm

984
00:51:57,440 --> 00:51:58,680
Speaker 2: an a quarry, So I kind of get that.

985
00:51:58,719 --> 00:52:01,680
Speaker 1: I'm stubborn too. So what is something she is most

986
00:52:01,719 --> 00:52:09,600
Speaker 1: sensitive about? Now we're getting deep here. I just wanted them.

987
00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:12,160
Speaker 1: I'm gonna begin. I'm gonna just give you a little teaser.

988
00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:18,480
Speaker 1: It's deeper. What are you most sensitive about? Yeah, I

989
00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:20,440
Speaker 1: would say your.

990
00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:25,440
Speaker 2: Mom or your family, but I have more. But I'm

991
00:52:25,440 --> 00:52:28,440
Speaker 2: gonna stop there. Growing up without a father, and how

992
00:52:28,440 --> 00:52:31,680
Speaker 2: that childhood trauma is affecting, is trauma is affect I.

993
00:52:31,640 --> 00:52:33,880
Speaker 1: Didn't want to go to I didn't know if you

994
00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:37,320
Speaker 1: wanted to. Okay, we're working on. I'm proud of answer.

995
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:42,279
Speaker 3: Thank you doing the work getting to the root of thing,

996
00:52:43,640 --> 00:52:44,280
Speaker 3: to the beginning.

997
00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:50,360
Speaker 2: What has she accomplished that she is most proud of?

998
00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:54,200
Speaker 2: Oh my god, because if I say this and that's

999
00:52:54,239 --> 00:52:56,000
Speaker 2: not the answer, it's going to make you look so bad.

1000
00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:06,959
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Maybe I don't know. Maybe the fact

1001
00:53:06,960 --> 00:53:10,360
Speaker 1: that you're like a wife and a mom, I don't know,

1002
00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:11,080
Speaker 1: that's it.

1003
00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:15,480
Speaker 2: I am most proud of my wife. She's my best accomplishment.

1004
00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:27,919
Speaker 1: I love you, right, you say all the right ship

1005
00:53:28,160 --> 00:53:30,280
Speaker 1: on that podcast. Please think.

1006
00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:35,680
Speaker 2: What is her biggest insecurity?

1007
00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:40,399
Speaker 1: Hair or your body? Yep, my facial hair, neck hair.

1008
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:45,360
Speaker 1: I feel you. I mean I've been getting I.

1009
00:53:46,080 --> 00:53:50,880
Speaker 2: Gotta like I'm gonna go to because because it kills

1010
00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:51,439
Speaker 2: it at the root.

1011
00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:54,840
Speaker 1: I know you can handle that and it's not that expensive.

1012
00:53:55,560 --> 00:53:57,080
Speaker 1: I'll send you the contact.

1013
00:53:57,640 --> 00:54:01,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, listen, I'm vain.

1014
00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:02,200
Speaker 1: It doesn't bother me.

1015
00:54:02,360 --> 00:54:08,160
Speaker 2: But what would be a deal breaker in your relationship

1016
00:54:08,360 --> 00:54:08,680
Speaker 2: for her?

1017
00:54:13,239 --> 00:54:15,919
Speaker 1: I don't think you'll leave me for anything. I don't

1018
00:54:15,920 --> 00:54:18,200
Speaker 1: think I have any.

1019
00:54:20,400 --> 00:54:22,600
Speaker 3: Not even not even cheating with a nigga.

1020
00:54:24,400 --> 00:54:29,800
Speaker 2: She's like, that would be rare, you know, Boris Kojo.

1021
00:54:29,880 --> 00:54:32,560
Speaker 2: Now I will say this, He's this is hypothetical.

1022
00:54:32,680 --> 00:54:33,880
Speaker 1: He's so funes.

1023
00:54:34,760 --> 00:54:40,040
Speaker 3: Listen you wors Kojo.

1024
00:54:40,280 --> 00:54:43,880
Speaker 2: He looks just like, Okay, I'm okay. This is going

1025
00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:45,799
Speaker 2: to make me seem so by, but I'm not.

1026
00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:46,680
Speaker 1: I was the arts.

1027
00:54:46,920 --> 00:54:49,040
Speaker 2: We were coming in the elevator of my art studio,

1028
00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:52,719
Speaker 2: and I'm just focused on my fucking phone, not even looking.

1029
00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:55,720
Speaker 2: It's a really tight small space. It's packed as usual,

1030
00:54:56,239 --> 00:54:58,799
Speaker 2: and so it's like twelve maybe twelve us on there.

1031
00:54:58,800 --> 00:54:59,560
Speaker 1: I'mrating.

1032
00:54:59,600 --> 00:55:01,600
Speaker 2: So I'm like, I happened to look up at this

1033
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:06,000
Speaker 2: beast of a man. He's so huge, and I'm just

1034
00:55:06,120 --> 00:55:11,040
Speaker 2: like stunned. Flabbergasted by his beauty. I left that elevator

1035
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:12,879
Speaker 2: walking into my studio questioning my section.

1036
00:55:13,719 --> 00:55:19,280
Speaker 1: Yes, how he is that man? Television does him no justice?

1037
00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:20,399
Speaker 1: Are you for sure?

1038
00:55:20,520 --> 00:55:22,960
Speaker 3: Like you would never you have no interest in any penis.

1039
00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:26,239
Speaker 2: If you ever hear or see me involved with a

1040
00:55:26,320 --> 00:55:39,760
Speaker 2: dick understand millions were involved. She paid Unless it's borest maybe.

1041
00:55:39,440 --> 00:55:41,560
Speaker 3: If it's Monday, Monday, Wednesday.

1042
00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:45,719
Speaker 1: I'll let him be in the room. That's it. Oh

1043
00:55:45,800 --> 00:55:46,200
Speaker 1: my god.

1044
00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:49,439
Speaker 2: Okay, where does she like to grocery shop?

1045
00:55:52,440 --> 00:55:53,800
Speaker 1: Whole Food slash Sprouts?

1046
00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:57,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've never been to Sprouts.

1047
00:55:57,600 --> 00:55:59,840
Speaker 1: Is like Whole Food is just cheaper, cheaper.

1048
00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:03,239
Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought it was more expensive, No, more expensive.

1049
00:56:03,840 --> 00:56:07,840
Speaker 1: I think that Sprout expensive for some reason. It was crazy.

1050
00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:12,240
Speaker 1: You can't leave with you can't four hundred? What bag?

1051
00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:12,680
Speaker 2: Like?

1052
00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:15,120
Speaker 1: There won't be she in there either.

1053
00:56:15,680 --> 00:56:18,879
Speaker 2: Favorite musical artists what's her favorite musical artists of all time?

1054
00:56:19,000 --> 00:56:23,760
Speaker 2: It's Beyonce, you guys, what is your favorite Beyonce album?

1055
00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:27,600
Speaker 2: It's a time but now it's Renaissance, Renaissance and Beyonce.

1056
00:56:27,360 --> 00:56:30,479
Speaker 1: For sure Renaissance. This is a recent one, yes, yes,

1057
00:56:30,680 --> 00:56:33,600
Speaker 1: and it was the last one or she dropped a

1058
00:56:33,680 --> 00:56:35,560
Speaker 1: video for every song Beyonce.

1059
00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:44,239
Speaker 2: No No with Rocket Yeah, she said the tone of

1060
00:56:44,239 --> 00:56:47,480
Speaker 2: how people released music. Of course, I know, absolutely, and

1061
00:56:47,480 --> 00:56:49,720
Speaker 2: that's why when she released Renaissance and she didn't release

1062
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:52,120
Speaker 2: a video for every song, I was thoroughly like, we

1063
00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:55,839
Speaker 2: are very a little irritated with Miss Carter. I was like,

1064
00:56:56,360 --> 00:56:59,480
Speaker 2: is it over? Like is this like like we just

1065
00:56:59,480 --> 00:57:03,440
Speaker 2: got another sipment of our orders from her packages yesterday?

1066
00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:07,560
Speaker 2: Like it's this rollout has to be like it's it's

1067
00:57:07,560 --> 00:57:08,680
Speaker 2: like ongoing but slow.

1068
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:10,920
Speaker 1: I don't know what's happening, but she's keeping us on

1069
00:57:10,920 --> 00:57:16,040
Speaker 1: the edge, right package? What kind of package we bought?

1070
00:57:16,040 --> 00:57:19,440
Speaker 2: The limited edition, like all the records we bought, the

1071
00:57:19,480 --> 00:57:25,080
Speaker 2: fan the gloves, I have a weed, rolling.

1072
00:57:24,840 --> 00:57:35,200
Speaker 1: Tracks, rolling everything. I believe so because she she wrapped sold.

1073
00:57:35,360 --> 00:57:37,680
Speaker 2: Smoking, I feel like she has to smoke some I

1074
00:57:37,720 --> 00:57:39,000
Speaker 2: don't know. I don't know the exact word, but it

1075
00:57:39,000 --> 00:57:39,720
Speaker 2: feels familiar.

1076
00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 1: Okay, well, I don't even know.

1077
00:57:42,600 --> 00:57:45,280
Speaker 3: Her middle name is Giselle. I thank you it is.

1078
00:57:45,680 --> 00:57:49,160
Speaker 1: I'm going to turn you into as casually.

1079
00:57:49,840 --> 00:57:52,320
Speaker 2: Within the first few days of meeting her, we met

1080
00:57:52,320 --> 00:57:54,400
Speaker 2: her little cute little babies at the time, and I

1081
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:56,760
Speaker 2: was like, are you guys excited to see Beyonce on

1082
00:57:56,800 --> 00:58:00,200
Speaker 2: TV tonight and there was like, what's Beyonce? And I

1083
00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:02,240
Speaker 2: looked at Ashley and I said, do better?

1084
00:58:04,640 --> 00:58:05,280
Speaker 1: Do they know now?

1085
00:58:05,400 --> 00:58:08,520
Speaker 2: Oh? She calls me crying and sending videos because of

1086
00:58:08,600 --> 00:58:11,920
Speaker 2: how empowering her daughters are staring at her like that.

1087
00:58:12,280 --> 00:58:15,640
Speaker 2: I told you black mothers, raise your daughters on Beyonce. Yeah,

1088
00:58:15,680 --> 00:58:18,880
Speaker 2: she is super empowering when I saw it, Black as

1089
00:58:18,960 --> 00:58:23,880
Speaker 2: King ship artists.

1090
00:58:24,480 --> 00:58:34,920
Speaker 1: All Right, what is Janica's guilty pleasure? Girl will say

1091
00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:41,920
Speaker 1: yogurt food? Is it a specific kind of food though? Right,

1092
00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:42,640
Speaker 1: it's food?

1093
00:58:42,720 --> 00:58:51,120
Speaker 2: Slash Lucy sweets that sweet pussy, Sweet.

1094
00:58:49,840 --> 00:58:56,600
Speaker 1: Pussy the title of the show today. What is her

1095
00:58:56,640 --> 00:59:01,919
Speaker 1: favorite born category? Scorting me too? I love squirrel. That's different. Yeah,

1096
00:59:05,120 --> 00:59:06,240
Speaker 1: always one of the slashes.

1097
00:59:06,520 --> 00:59:09,520
Speaker 2: I'm always like if it has squirting like it's it's

1098
00:59:09,960 --> 00:59:11,000
Speaker 2: a plus.

1099
00:59:10,840 --> 00:59:15,240
Speaker 1: It's always a plus. Yeah, okay, dash y'all I do

1100
00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:16,200
Speaker 1: I did once?

1101
00:59:18,120 --> 00:59:20,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think That's why I was like, well

1102
00:59:20,880 --> 00:59:22,520
Speaker 2: my body can do this Sunday to see more, but

1103
00:59:22,680 --> 00:59:23,920
Speaker 2: other bitches do this ship And then.

1104
00:59:23,840 --> 00:59:26,080
Speaker 3: I'm like, well you discovered it. That's when you started

1105
00:59:26,160 --> 00:59:26,600
Speaker 3: dashing it.

1106
00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:31,760
Speaker 1: How old was she when she lost her virginity? And

1107
00:59:31,800 --> 00:59:39,880
Speaker 1: where was she? I know you were in high school.

1108
00:59:40,000 --> 00:59:47,040
Speaker 2: It was maybe sixteen, okay, sixteen, I'm trying to tap in.

1109
00:59:47,360 --> 00:59:48,600
Speaker 1: And then what was the second half of the cross

1110
00:59:48,640 --> 00:59:52,920
Speaker 1: where was she? Were you at his house? Yeah? Okay,

1111
00:59:53,040 --> 00:59:57,840
Speaker 1: at her boyfriend's house. Yeah? What moment did she know

1112
00:59:57,960 --> 00:59:58,600
Speaker 1: she loved you?

1113
01:00:01,880 --> 01:00:04,280
Speaker 2: Which is strange because I said I love you and

1114
01:00:04,280 --> 01:00:08,280
Speaker 2: you did not say it back for a few days days.

1115
01:00:08,560 --> 01:00:15,000
Speaker 1: I was concerned. I don't remember though. I can't. I can't,

1116
01:00:15,080 --> 01:00:16,720
Speaker 1: I can't lie. I don't remember. It's too long ago.

1117
01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:20,440
Speaker 2: Uh, how she paid it? I don't know if this

1118
01:00:20,480 --> 01:00:24,120
Speaker 2: is a location, but she said how she paid attention

1119
01:00:24,200 --> 01:00:26,880
Speaker 2: to me and took care of me with no judgment.

1120
01:00:26,960 --> 01:00:28,920
Speaker 2: She allowed me the space to be me freely.

1121
01:00:29,400 --> 01:00:33,040
Speaker 1: Oh this is like current. I was thinking more past tense.

1122
01:00:33,080 --> 01:00:38,080
Speaker 1: My bad? What is in that weed? And I'm gonna

1123
01:00:38,120 --> 01:00:42,880
Speaker 1: need something? I told you. I don't know that you

1124
01:00:42,920 --> 01:00:44,680
Speaker 1: could find it, like three different types of weed.

1125
01:00:44,720 --> 01:00:47,720
Speaker 2: I just scrambled together. That's probably why it's so good.

1126
01:00:47,720 --> 01:00:53,240
Speaker 2: You're welcome, great cocktail. So I guess it's not an

1127
01:00:53,240 --> 01:00:56,280
Speaker 2: exact location, but basically, you when that feet, when you

1128
01:00:56,320 --> 01:00:58,400
Speaker 2: felt that way, that's when you knew that you loved her.

1129
01:00:58,960 --> 01:01:00,520
Speaker 1: I got it when I met her.

1130
01:01:00,560 --> 01:01:02,600
Speaker 2: She told me I could quep my job so I

1131
01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:05,360
Speaker 2: could figure out what it is I want to do life. Wow,

1132
01:01:05,400 --> 01:01:14,280
Speaker 2: we all need an Adrian? Where is shirt? We all

1133
01:01:14,280 --> 01:01:17,240
Speaker 2: need Adrians life. What is her biggest fear.

1134
01:01:18,760 --> 01:01:26,480
Speaker 1: Losing? No, losing your mom. No, it's not death. Nope,

1135
01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:27,160
Speaker 1: I'm so.

1136
01:01:27,240 --> 01:01:33,800
Speaker 2: Morbid death everyone dying, impending every day?

1137
01:01:35,320 --> 01:01:40,800
Speaker 1: Your biggest fear? Growing old with regrets.

1138
01:01:42,320 --> 01:01:45,760
Speaker 2: Having regrets and not doing everything I want to do

1139
01:01:45,800 --> 01:01:46,400
Speaker 2: in this life.

1140
01:01:47,080 --> 01:01:55,680
Speaker 1: Okay? What is her favorite sex position? No, yep, Okay,

1141
01:01:55,680 --> 01:02:02,360
Speaker 1: why y'all was stalling? What is tribbing and scissoring? What's

1142
01:02:02,360 --> 01:02:05,840
Speaker 1: the difference? The same shape? It's like the correct term.

1143
01:02:05,880 --> 01:02:10,560
Speaker 1: What is tripping? Where does that wrecked? I'm curious word?

1144
01:02:10,600 --> 01:02:11,240
Speaker 1: What is the trip?

1145
01:02:11,320 --> 01:02:14,040
Speaker 2: But you know we've renamed it. I've renamed it. So

1146
01:02:14,080 --> 01:02:16,840
Speaker 2: what I just did a comic on it. It's called

1147
01:02:16,840 --> 01:02:17,560
Speaker 2: lip sinking.

1148
01:02:17,600 --> 01:02:23,360
Speaker 1: Now little like that. Yeah, let's lip sync. It's a joke.

1149
01:02:23,680 --> 01:02:25,800
Speaker 1: It's like a lesbian joke. Y'all were just put it on.

1150
01:02:25,960 --> 01:02:28,520
Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you? And what's part of the community

1151
01:02:29,160 --> 01:02:33,160
Speaker 1: I'm trying to help? Okay?

1152
01:02:33,720 --> 01:02:37,560
Speaker 2: Well, would she prefer to spend or save money save?

1153
01:02:37,960 --> 01:02:40,560
Speaker 2: That's true, looks this is why you guys are great.

1154
01:02:40,720 --> 01:02:47,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's my balance for sure. Who's her celebrity crush? Beyonce? No,

1155
01:02:47,480 --> 01:02:51,400
Speaker 1: Gabrielle Union? Really sorry, I know girl, me too. I'm

1156
01:02:51,720 --> 01:02:56,360
Speaker 1: not offend you. I just I mean, I'm it's very specific,

1157
01:02:56,440 --> 01:02:59,720
Speaker 1: since they one very specific about her. Okay, so but

1158
01:03:00,040 --> 01:03:02,920
Speaker 1: it would you give her a help? Absolutely? Absolutely? She

1159
01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:05,920
Speaker 1: she can do what she wants. Gabriel is beautiful. She

1160
01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:08,000
Speaker 1: just always played the bitch. I think that's what I think.

1161
01:03:08,080 --> 01:03:09,720
Speaker 1: That's it's set her up.

1162
01:03:10,680 --> 01:03:13,560
Speaker 3: She looks wholesome, but I feel like she has like

1163
01:03:13,600 --> 01:03:14,680
Speaker 3: a dirty, little nasty.

1164
01:03:15,080 --> 01:03:19,760
Speaker 1: I feel like she's yeah I heard that. She doesn't

1165
01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:22,360
Speaker 1: give me wholesome at all. Actually, I feel like she's

1166
01:03:22,360 --> 01:03:24,880
Speaker 1: a scorpio. You know what is her song? I feel

1167
01:03:24,880 --> 01:03:26,080
Speaker 1: like she's a scorpio. I don't know why.

1168
01:03:26,320 --> 01:03:28,160
Speaker 2: She just feels like she has a little bit of that.

1169
01:03:28,560 --> 01:03:31,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, something like that would come out. Well, she actually

1170
01:03:31,120 --> 01:03:34,200
Speaker 1: admitted it. She admitted she used to be a bitch.

1171
01:03:34,280 --> 01:03:34,720
Speaker 1: She did.

1172
01:03:34,880 --> 01:03:37,720
Speaker 2: She said, yeah, I'm red table talking. I was a

1173
01:03:37,800 --> 01:03:38,440
Speaker 2: terrible person.

1174
01:03:38,840 --> 01:03:40,880
Speaker 1: She has to learn how to be a better woman. Yea.

1175
01:03:41,160 --> 01:03:46,200
Speaker 2: Why she was like, I was mean on perfect She said.

1176
01:03:46,640 --> 01:03:48,760
Speaker 1: Whoa, Well, that takes a lot of balls to say.

1177
01:03:48,760 --> 01:03:54,000
Speaker 1: I was a bit consciously there it is.

1178
01:03:54,320 --> 01:03:56,920
Speaker 2: I feel even as a child, I was like, this

1179
01:03:56,960 --> 01:04:02,520
Speaker 2: seems like me sort of, I see myself. I was like,

1180
01:04:02,600 --> 01:04:06,920
Speaker 2: she's not taking no ship. She's like, no, okay, So

1181
01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:10,360
Speaker 2: how do you feel? How does she feel about nominogamy.

1182
01:04:13,200 --> 01:04:16,280
Speaker 2: I think she's okay with me doing it, but she

1183
01:04:16,360 --> 01:04:20,280
Speaker 2: doesn't want to do it, not yet. She like, that's mine.

1184
01:04:20,320 --> 01:04:23,480
Speaker 2: No thanks, I'm selfish, that's what you know what. Me

1185
01:04:23,480 --> 01:04:28,080
Speaker 2: and Mila were both very like pro nominogamy the podcast.

1186
01:04:28,240 --> 01:04:31,400
Speaker 2: We're like, yeah, never doing monogamy again, and then we

1187
01:04:31,440 --> 01:04:33,040
Speaker 2: found and then we found it because we actually like

1188
01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:35,840
Speaker 2: or like maybe only with.

1189
01:04:35,760 --> 01:04:39,760
Speaker 1: Me one sentimeter. I don't any dates.

1190
01:04:39,400 --> 01:04:46,040
Speaker 2: For you, you know, I thought about that.

1191
01:04:46,360 --> 01:04:48,240
Speaker 1: I still could be open. I just.

1192
01:04:49,960 --> 01:04:56,040
Speaker 2: No, yeah, like jealousy recovery or something jealous season, Yeah

1193
01:04:56,360 --> 01:04:59,000
Speaker 2: will get back maybe like yeah when I'm old, like

1194
01:04:59,640 --> 01:05:04,000
Speaker 2: you guys, I already told him that he I'm gonna

1195
01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:06,400
Speaker 2: probably have to hire a woman to like party with

1196
01:05:06,480 --> 01:05:08,920
Speaker 2: him because I can't keep up like he like, he

1197
01:05:08,960 --> 01:05:11,000
Speaker 2: has so much energy and my partner. He was like,

1198
01:05:11,240 --> 01:05:13,880
Speaker 2: he's just like a people person, and I'm like, nigga,

1199
01:05:13,920 --> 01:05:15,200
Speaker 2: I need to go home and go to bed.

1200
01:05:15,400 --> 01:05:18,400
Speaker 1: I get that, and he's like one last party. What's

1201
01:05:18,400 --> 01:05:19,600
Speaker 1: his son Scorpion?

1202
01:05:20,160 --> 01:05:23,800
Speaker 2: Oh wow, Scorpio Scorpio, scorpio balance, Like we're query query

1203
01:05:24,680 --> 01:05:26,360
Speaker 2: but he's a Leo Moon like me too.

1204
01:05:28,080 --> 01:05:33,600
Speaker 1: No, I'm I'm sorry that rising.

1205
01:05:33,680 --> 01:05:39,280
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'm a Leo Moon. It's already on Google.

1206
01:05:39,480 --> 01:05:40,920
Speaker 1: That's my daughter. I was pissed.

1207
01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:43,200
Speaker 2: Oh what you were trying to hide your Yeah, I'm

1208
01:05:43,400 --> 01:05:49,480
Speaker 2: very secreted figure my other two signs, but it's definitely online.

1209
01:05:50,120 --> 01:05:56,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, everybody knows. What is her favorite relate memory of

1210
01:05:56,480 --> 01:06:04,560
Speaker 1: your relationship? What I mean just when we got married.

1211
01:06:04,560 --> 01:06:10,880
Speaker 1: I don't know. Follow your guys are trying to read you.

1212
01:06:14,440 --> 01:06:16,800
Speaker 2: What do you wish? Okay, what does she wish that

1213
01:06:16,880 --> 01:06:18,560
Speaker 2: you saw more of yourself? So?

1214
01:06:19,480 --> 01:06:22,680
Speaker 1: What does she there's that question again.

1215
01:06:22,920 --> 01:06:25,480
Speaker 2: I swear four weeks and I'm trying to figure it

1216
01:06:25,480 --> 01:06:30,240
Speaker 2: out for you. What does she wish you saw more

1217
01:06:30,880 --> 01:06:41,440
Speaker 2: of in yourself? Mm hmm, because I know you tell

1218
01:06:41,480 --> 01:06:47,280
Speaker 2: me every night. I don't know how to word it,

1219
01:06:47,800 --> 01:06:49,400
Speaker 2: but I feel it. I don't know how to word

1220
01:06:49,440 --> 01:06:55,120
Speaker 2: it so high too. It's such a bad idea.

1221
01:06:55,440 --> 01:06:56,320
Speaker 1: Okay, let me think.

1222
01:07:00,160 --> 01:07:08,960
Speaker 2: That I will live up in my fullest potential. Basically,

1223
01:07:09,040 --> 01:07:11,120
Speaker 2: I wish she saw more of her gift that she

1224
01:07:11,240 --> 01:07:13,400
Speaker 2: has to give to the world. She can sometimes doubt

1225
01:07:13,400 --> 01:07:15,400
Speaker 2: her abilities or who she is, and she is the

1226
01:07:15,440 --> 01:07:16,800
Speaker 2: best person I've ever met.

1227
01:07:17,600 --> 01:07:21,360
Speaker 1: You really get it. I know you guys are so

1228
01:07:22,080 --> 01:07:23,919
Speaker 1: no and we're toning it down.

1229
01:07:24,000 --> 01:07:28,680
Speaker 2: We are so gay. I'm over please, it's so bad.

1230
01:07:29,240 --> 01:07:30,400
Speaker 2: Our daughters are like enough.

1231
01:07:31,680 --> 01:07:34,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, stop, that's so puny too much. I love it.

1232
01:07:34,800 --> 01:07:35,560
Speaker 1: I love that for you.

1233
01:07:37,000 --> 01:07:40,080
Speaker 3: And you guys, I know you've been listening to us

1234
01:07:40,240 --> 01:07:43,880
Speaker 3: ask these questions all month, and now we're gonna put

1235
01:07:44,000 --> 01:07:45,520
Speaker 3: the PDF on Patreon.

1236
01:07:45,760 --> 01:07:50,600
Speaker 1: The PDF? Any other way you could explain it? What

1237
01:07:51,000 --> 01:07:56,000
Speaker 1: the what the fuck? Yeah, I guess the guess it's

1238
01:07:56,000 --> 01:07:58,120
Speaker 1: the PDF. It's a cooler way to say. I feel

1239
01:07:58,120 --> 01:07:59,400
Speaker 1: like there has to be you guys.

1240
01:08:00,320 --> 01:08:03,520
Speaker 2: That is a joke on TikTok. They're picking up millennials

1241
01:08:03,520 --> 01:08:09,680
Speaker 2: for saying shit like that. Literally, PDF. You can print

1242
01:08:09,720 --> 01:08:16,240
Speaker 2: it down, though, I questions your partner and play the games. Yeah,

1243
01:08:16,280 --> 01:08:18,799
Speaker 2: for sure.

1244
01:08:17,840 --> 01:08:20,640
Speaker 1: Because I said PDF. You're the one who know you

1245
01:08:20,680 --> 01:08:23,680
Speaker 1: hold on to that, but I don't think I've ever

1246
01:08:23,760 --> 01:08:25,120
Speaker 1: called it.

1247
01:08:25,920 --> 01:08:31,519
Speaker 3: Get the PDF now, guys, it's out nonto. You're gonna

1248
01:08:31,680 --> 01:08:34,200
Speaker 3: be corrected all the questions they're actually read correctly.

1249
01:08:34,880 --> 01:08:36,720
Speaker 1: Don't worry. It's a great game.

1250
01:08:36,760 --> 01:08:38,920
Speaker 2: You might be surprised how well or not well you

1251
01:08:38,960 --> 01:08:41,559
Speaker 2: know your partner, which you know, that means there's always

1252
01:08:41,560 --> 01:08:43,160
Speaker 2: more to know. And that's and that's the point where

1253
01:08:43,200 --> 01:08:46,760
Speaker 2: maybe you're still alerting each other exactly exactly, always be

1254
01:08:46,800 --> 01:08:47,599
Speaker 2: students of each other.

1255
01:08:47,640 --> 01:08:50,240
Speaker 1: You could still be mysterious even after ten years. I

1256
01:08:50,280 --> 01:08:52,960
Speaker 1: find it sexy. Yeah, because I'm gonna get bored.

1257
01:08:53,439 --> 01:08:56,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's like a new woman every time, Like it's

1258
01:08:56,640 --> 01:08:59,559
Speaker 2: like a peeling of layers. And then for me, like

1259
01:08:59,600 --> 01:09:03,320
Speaker 2: every day it's just it's always add is ever the

1260
01:09:03,320 --> 01:09:04,920
Speaker 2: same even if we do the same thing.

1261
01:09:05,400 --> 01:09:07,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, or we'll like so I have ADHD.

1262
01:09:08,080 --> 01:09:10,320
Speaker 2: So I just recently found out for my therapist that

1263
01:09:10,920 --> 01:09:14,639
Speaker 2: it's not so much of like codependency, which some people

1264
01:09:14,720 --> 01:09:17,840
Speaker 2: like to say, but it's what they call parallel play.

1265
01:09:18,560 --> 01:09:21,160
Speaker 2: Or so when I'm creating or working, I had to

1266
01:09:21,920 --> 01:09:23,120
Speaker 2: she's literally my muse.

1267
01:09:23,200 --> 01:09:27,320
Speaker 1: I had to have her around just around, you know, like.

1268
01:09:27,439 --> 01:09:30,400
Speaker 2: And she's It just makes it easier for me to

1269
01:09:30,439 --> 01:09:31,719
Speaker 2: focus and be more creative.

1270
01:09:31,920 --> 01:09:33,479
Speaker 1: And it's literally an actual thing.

1271
01:09:34,520 --> 01:09:39,400
Speaker 3: Wow, adhd is is it like a comfort item? Not

1272
01:09:39,560 --> 01:09:42,639
Speaker 3: item that's not like a comfort like, yeah, she's home

1273
01:09:42,760 --> 01:09:43,479
Speaker 3: like a comfort like.

1274
01:09:43,560 --> 01:09:44,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would say that.

1275
01:09:44,960 --> 01:09:48,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, that makes sense, that makes sense. That's beautiful though. Yeah,

1276
01:09:48,680 --> 01:09:50,679
Speaker 2: but my daughters are kind of in the same way too,

1277
01:09:51,160 --> 01:09:54,000
Speaker 2: without the whole extra ship. But like I love when

1278
01:09:54,040 --> 01:09:57,200
Speaker 2: they're around, like, don't it relieve, please please live with me.

1279
01:09:57,280 --> 01:10:00,160
Speaker 2: I have the best conversations.

1280
01:10:00,360 --> 01:10:02,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're the dopest motherfuckers.

1281
01:10:02,880 --> 01:10:04,080
Speaker 2: They will get in her ass too.

1282
01:10:04,120 --> 01:10:06,200
Speaker 3: Though, How has that been for you as like, since

1283
01:10:06,200 --> 01:10:09,080
Speaker 3: you like being a stepmother, and because what's your age difference?

1284
01:10:10,040 --> 01:10:14,720
Speaker 1: I'm thirty three. Are we talking about age? Okay, yes,

1285
01:10:15,479 --> 01:10:18,559
Speaker 1: you know, I'll be I'm forty one, so h yeah

1286
01:10:18,560 --> 01:10:19,000
Speaker 1: a little bit.

1287
01:10:19,160 --> 01:10:21,479
Speaker 3: How was that coming for you because obviously ten years

1288
01:10:21,479 --> 01:10:24,040
Speaker 3: ago you were twenty three and like growing up with

1289
01:10:24,080 --> 01:10:26,439
Speaker 3: them and you know, seeing them grow it.

1290
01:10:26,320 --> 01:10:31,400
Speaker 2: Was definitely something uh new for me for sure, Like

1291
01:10:31,400 --> 01:10:33,360
Speaker 2: you said, I was young, so I was like, oh, wow,

1292
01:10:33,479 --> 01:10:37,400
Speaker 2: these are like older kids, so I had to like

1293
01:10:37,479 --> 01:10:41,679
Speaker 2: really grasp my head around at but they're like she said,

1294
01:10:41,680 --> 01:10:44,360
Speaker 2: they're amazing. They're like the best kids we got a

1295
01:10:44,360 --> 01:10:46,760
Speaker 2: little so well, Oh, they loved her. They loved the

1296
01:10:46,800 --> 01:10:49,000
Speaker 2: feminine energy she came and brought in. So it was

1297
01:10:49,080 --> 01:10:52,160
Speaker 2: nail polished everywhere and make up now. And she taught

1298
01:10:52,479 --> 01:10:54,960
Speaker 2: my youngest daughter like how to model, how to walk,

1299
01:10:55,000 --> 01:10:57,280
Speaker 2: how she taught them like just confidence.

1300
01:10:57,320 --> 01:10:59,519
Speaker 1: I didn't really have the best relations to my mom, so.

1301
01:10:59,479 --> 01:11:02,160
Speaker 2: It was always Jesus, Jesus, Jesus, and I didn't want

1302
01:11:02,200 --> 01:11:06,080
Speaker 2: to bring that. So when she came into our lives,

1303
01:11:06,120 --> 01:11:11,559
Speaker 2: it was just like just a blessing for everybody. Yeah,

1304
01:11:11,560 --> 01:11:14,599
Speaker 2: it feels like it was like a true like balance

1305
01:11:14,640 --> 01:11:18,920
Speaker 2: and like life for sure, for sure just flowed. And

1306
01:11:18,920 --> 01:11:23,439
Speaker 2: that look in that bathroom really you knew locked in. Yeah,

1307
01:11:25,400 --> 01:11:27,320
Speaker 2: it's a lot of hormones though, don't get me, don't

1308
01:11:27,320 --> 01:11:33,639
Speaker 2: get it twisted. I was gonna say four, that's a

1309
01:11:33,680 --> 01:11:38,120
Speaker 2: lot horrible. And what are your daughter's signs? Aquarius and Scorpia. Wow,

1310
01:11:39,400 --> 01:11:42,640
Speaker 2: the one you don't see. She hates the camera, She's

1311
01:11:42,680 --> 01:11:45,040
Speaker 2: always hated it. Don't put me in ships, so she's

1312
01:11:45,080 --> 01:11:47,559
Speaker 2: behind it. She's a mysterious one, but she's the techie,

1313
01:11:47,640 --> 01:11:50,920
Speaker 2: so she does our video she she helps plan the lighting,

1314
01:11:51,040 --> 01:11:52,960
Speaker 2: the sounds, the trips, the editing.

1315
01:11:53,400 --> 01:11:55,400
Speaker 1: She's a writer, so she's like our best kept secrets.

1316
01:11:55,720 --> 01:11:59,920
Speaker 1: This beautiful little contreating house. Are kidding? Is art it?

1317
01:12:00,360 --> 01:12:02,479
Speaker 1: Everybody will do it. It's like we tattoo each other.

1318
01:12:02,680 --> 01:12:06,080
Speaker 1: It's fun. Who tattoos me? Oh? I didn't know that.

1319
01:12:06,520 --> 01:12:08,040
Speaker 3: And you also do art. You help her with her

1320
01:12:08,120 --> 01:12:08,400
Speaker 3: art too.

1321
01:12:08,479 --> 01:12:11,479
Speaker 2: Your sister, well, she taught to pay and so that's

1322
01:12:11,640 --> 01:12:16,280
Speaker 2: how everything started. But I don't pay as much. But

1323
01:12:16,400 --> 01:12:18,760
Speaker 2: I enjoyed it for for for a little bit.

1324
01:12:18,840 --> 01:12:20,320
Speaker 1: Yeah you explored.

1325
01:12:20,479 --> 01:12:22,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's cool to kind of tap into

1326
01:12:22,400 --> 01:12:25,559
Speaker 2: your partners like desires.

1327
01:12:25,000 --> 01:12:27,160
Speaker 1: To Yeah, like, what is it though? You love about this,

1328
01:12:27,240 --> 01:12:29,080
Speaker 1: even if it's not necessarily yours.

1329
01:12:29,280 --> 01:12:32,799
Speaker 2: Same with dancing, every single dancing TikTok. You see, it's

1330
01:12:32,840 --> 01:12:35,200
Speaker 2: she made me do it, but I.

1331
01:12:35,200 --> 01:12:42,400
Speaker 1: Do it for her. So fun hate dancing. Do your

1332
01:12:42,479 --> 01:12:47,000
Speaker 1: daughters identify as which is? They will read your chart

1333
01:12:47,280 --> 01:12:48,640
Speaker 1: like they study it.

1334
01:12:48,680 --> 01:12:52,880
Speaker 2: They hyper focus it on it, especially like I'm more

1335
01:12:52,920 --> 01:12:59,760
Speaker 2: of a metaphysics type ancestral type shit way right, they're

1336
01:12:59,800 --> 01:13:03,559
Speaker 2: more or of like definitely astrology based.

1337
01:13:04,000 --> 01:13:09,599
Speaker 1: Taro. Speaking of Tara, is it tterot time? It's terot

1338
01:13:09,640 --> 01:13:12,679
Speaker 1: tyme tarot time.

1339
01:13:13,760 --> 01:13:17,960
Speaker 2: Okay, so Adrian, you pulled the King of Swords.

1340
01:13:18,000 --> 01:13:21,960
Speaker 1: I believe right all right? And the King of Swords

1341
01:13:22,000 --> 01:13:25,400
Speaker 1: why is this doing this? Bitty taro is getting too famous.

1342
01:13:24,960 --> 01:13:30,280
Speaker 2: Because yeah, whoa bitty really grown.

1343
01:13:32,680 --> 01:13:33,120
Speaker 1: Upright?

1344
01:13:34,280 --> 01:13:38,680
Speaker 2: Mental clarity, intellectual power, authority, truth.

1345
01:13:40,920 --> 01:13:42,760
Speaker 1: Earlier, it's crazy.

1346
01:13:43,000 --> 01:13:45,840
Speaker 2: The King of Swords is a symbol of intellectual power

1347
01:13:45,880 --> 01:13:48,320
Speaker 2: and authority and has the courage and intellect to achieve

1348
01:13:48,439 --> 01:13:50,840
Speaker 2: all that he desires. When this card appears in a

1349
01:13:50,880 --> 01:13:53,680
Speaker 2: tarror reading, you are in your power, ruling from a

1350
01:13:53,720 --> 01:13:56,599
Speaker 2: place of authority and respect. You stand firm in your

1351
01:13:56,600 --> 01:14:00,240
Speaker 2: truth and express yourself with deep conviction. As a results,

1352
01:14:00,240 --> 01:14:02,800
Speaker 2: pay attention to what you have to say. The King

1353
01:14:02,800 --> 01:14:04,840
Speaker 2: of Swords indicates that you have clarity of mind and

1354
01:14:04,920 --> 01:14:06,880
Speaker 2: can perceive the truth. So it's up to you to

1355
01:14:06,920 --> 01:14:09,400
Speaker 2: take the lead with providing an objective point of view

1356
01:14:09,600 --> 01:14:13,000
Speaker 2: and making decisions based on impartial judgment. The King of

1357
01:14:13,000 --> 01:14:15,600
Speaker 2: Swords encourages you to use your logic and intellect to

1358
01:14:15,680 --> 01:14:18,360
Speaker 2: navigate the path ahead. You will need to make firm

1359
01:14:18,400 --> 01:14:21,280
Speaker 2: and well researched decisions and stay fair in your dealings

1360
01:14:21,320 --> 01:14:23,640
Speaker 2: with others. You need to be able to say to

1361
01:14:23,720 --> 01:14:31,120
Speaker 2: take any situation, look at it with total impartial impartiality, impartiality, impartiality, wow,

1362
01:14:31,479 --> 01:14:36,160
Speaker 2: thank you, and then come to a balanced and insightful decision. Often,

1363
01:14:36,200 --> 01:14:38,880
Speaker 2: the king of swords represents a professional adviser, such as

1364
01:14:38,920 --> 01:14:44,479
Speaker 2: a solicitator or attorney, financial advisor, or taxation consultant. This

1365
01:14:44,520 --> 01:14:47,759
Speaker 2: advisor has a solid reputation and vast amount of knowledge

1366
01:14:47,760 --> 01:14:51,280
Speaker 2: in this particular field. He may come across as detached

1367
01:14:51,360 --> 01:14:55,200
Speaker 2: or disinterested in your personal circumstances unless it relates specifically

1368
01:14:55,200 --> 01:14:57,439
Speaker 2: to his skill set. This is so he can use

1369
01:14:57,479 --> 01:15:04,640
Speaker 2: small you don't care, let me say uh. If you

1370
01:15:04,680 --> 01:15:06,960
Speaker 2: have not engaged the help of an expert, the arrival

1371
01:15:07,000 --> 01:15:09,200
Speaker 2: of king of swards suggests that it may be worthwhile

1372
01:15:09,240 --> 01:15:12,680
Speaker 2: getting legal or financial advice. If you're experiencing changes or

1373
01:15:12,760 --> 01:15:16,439
Speaker 2: particular circumstances that will require an expert opinion. You can

1374
01:15:16,520 --> 01:15:19,719
Speaker 2: be on the front foot by seeking help before they happen.

1375
01:15:20,200 --> 01:15:22,240
Speaker 2: That way, when they do roll through, you're ready to

1376
01:15:22,320 --> 01:15:26,799
Speaker 2: demand your right and and find an outcome that benefits you. Basically,

1377
01:15:26,800 --> 01:15:30,160
Speaker 2: a lawyer up, get ready. Things are about to change

1378
01:15:31,200 --> 01:15:35,080
Speaker 2: that you know. Be prepared, be overly prepared. A lot

1379
01:15:35,120 --> 01:15:39,960
Speaker 2: of contracts and stick with your intuition if it says no,

1380
01:15:40,040 --> 01:15:42,799
Speaker 2: it's not enough. What's the legit?

1381
01:15:43,280 --> 01:15:50,240
Speaker 1: Sorry, it's a whole lot of it. No, I'm receiving it.

1382
01:15:50,320 --> 01:15:54,080
Speaker 1: And what's mag the stallion? No? But yeah, actually it.

1383
01:15:54,120 --> 01:15:58,280
Speaker 2: Is my top three. She is literally the same top three.

1384
01:15:58,439 --> 01:16:03,160
Speaker 2: Oh my god. But but yeah. So just stand true

1385
01:16:03,560 --> 01:16:05,840
Speaker 2: in who you are and what you stand for.

1386
01:16:06,360 --> 01:16:07,160
Speaker 1: I love that.

1387
01:16:09,080 --> 01:16:13,760
Speaker 3: Jannika pulled the four of wands I did. And it

1388
01:16:13,760 --> 01:16:17,760
Speaker 3: looks like like two people like celebrating almost is like

1389
01:16:17,800 --> 01:16:18,160
Speaker 3: a wedding.

1390
01:16:18,600 --> 01:16:22,160
Speaker 1: Oh looks like yeah, looks like it wasn't the final.

1391
01:16:23,360 --> 01:16:25,599
Speaker 3: The four of Wandes is a card of joyful celebration,

1392
01:16:25,680 --> 01:16:28,639
Speaker 3: blissful happiness, and appreciation for the good things in life.

1393
01:16:29,040 --> 01:16:30,960
Speaker 3: When this card appears in a tyro reading, it is

1394
01:16:31,160 --> 01:16:34,120
Speaker 3: perfect time to celebrate with those you love most. You

1395
01:16:34,120 --> 01:16:38,440
Speaker 3: may commemorate a significant event or milestone, such as a wedding, birthday, homecoming,

1396
01:16:38,520 --> 01:16:39,080
Speaker 3: or reunion.

1397
01:16:39,800 --> 01:16:40,320
Speaker 4: Or you may.

1398
01:16:40,200 --> 01:16:42,439
Speaker 3: Invite a few of your favorite friends for an intimate

1399
01:16:42,479 --> 01:16:44,960
Speaker 3: dinner for no particular reason except to revel in each

1400
01:16:45,000 --> 01:16:49,600
Speaker 3: other's company, Relax and let your hair down. Enjoy the

1401
01:16:49,640 --> 01:16:52,080
Speaker 3: special time together. The Four of wands can show you

1402
01:16:52,120 --> 01:16:54,280
Speaker 3: that returning home to the people and places that are

1403
01:16:54,320 --> 01:16:57,680
Speaker 3: familiar to you, you feel supported and secure, knowing you

1404
01:16:57,720 --> 01:16:59,559
Speaker 3: are with those who love you and care about you.

1405
01:17:00,080 --> 01:17:02,360
Speaker 3: Because the four of Wands associates so closely with the

1406
01:17:02,400 --> 01:17:05,320
Speaker 3: home environment, you may work on improving or renovating your

1407
01:17:05,320 --> 01:17:08,840
Speaker 3: house or close to finding a new one. Perhaps you

1408
01:17:08,840 --> 01:17:10,680
Speaker 3: have recently purchased a home and you're getting ready to

1409
01:17:10,680 --> 01:17:13,880
Speaker 3: settle down in your new habitat. The four of Wands

1410
01:17:13,920 --> 01:17:15,720
Speaker 3: tells you that after a period of rapid growth and

1411
01:17:15,800 --> 01:17:18,840
Speaker 3: expansion the energy of the three wands, it's now time

1412
01:17:18,880 --> 01:17:21,639
Speaker 3: to pause and celebrate what you have achieved so far.

1413
01:17:22,200 --> 01:17:24,560
Speaker 3: Step back in a moment and enjoy the fruits of

1414
01:17:24,600 --> 01:17:28,280
Speaker 3: your labor. Acknowledge your heartbreak, work, and give yourself permission

1415
01:17:28,360 --> 01:17:30,960
Speaker 3: to take a small break before embarking on the next

1416
01:17:31,000 --> 01:17:37,560
Speaker 3: phase of your journey. It's essential you observe these familiar milestones.

1417
01:17:39,320 --> 01:17:43,280
Speaker 3: As form symbolizes the number four, neurology, stability, firm foundations,

1418
01:17:43,640 --> 01:17:45,280
Speaker 3: and the four of wes. You are now enjoying a

1419
01:17:45,280 --> 01:17:46,880
Speaker 3: period of happiness and security.

1420
01:17:47,120 --> 01:17:50,160
Speaker 1: Oh so beautiful. That is amazing, and.

1421
01:17:50,080 --> 01:17:53,519
Speaker 2: It's actually TikTok that's told me that aquarius Is and

1422
01:17:53,600 --> 01:17:57,840
Speaker 2: Scorpios next year around May, we're going to finally get

1423
01:17:57,880 --> 01:18:00,880
Speaker 2: breakthroughs because we've been kind of dealing with ship for

1424
01:18:00,920 --> 01:18:02,799
Speaker 2: five heavy because.

1425
01:18:02,600 --> 01:18:03,160
Speaker 1: It's said.

1426
01:18:06,040 --> 01:18:08,200
Speaker 2: No, but you know, I researched it after because TikTok

1427
01:18:08,240 --> 01:18:13,679
Speaker 2: will show you some bullshit? Yes, well should I receive

1428
01:18:13,720 --> 01:18:15,640
Speaker 2: that as a Scorpio. That's what I've been reading. My

1429
01:18:15,960 --> 01:18:19,360
Speaker 2: sign to this next year is very transformational, very transformation

1430
01:18:19,520 --> 01:18:22,280
Speaker 2: for us. Yeah, but also I think it speaks to

1431
01:18:22,520 --> 01:18:24,840
Speaker 2: this card. I think speaks also to the stability and

1432
01:18:24,960 --> 01:18:28,080
Speaker 2: your foundation together and your relationship because from an outsider

1433
01:18:28,080 --> 01:18:30,040
Speaker 2: looking in, I mean, I just met y'all, but I

1434
01:18:30,080 --> 01:18:32,519
Speaker 2: really feel the love and I feel like the caring

1435
01:18:32,600 --> 01:18:35,200
Speaker 2: and the support and like the real like I don't know,

1436
01:18:35,240 --> 01:18:38,000
Speaker 2: it just feels like this feels infinite.

1437
01:18:38,439 --> 01:18:41,240
Speaker 1: Oh for sure, We've lived many lifetimes together. I'm aware

1438
01:18:41,240 --> 01:18:41,320
Speaker 1: of it.

1439
01:18:42,160 --> 01:18:45,439
Speaker 2: I feel that, like I feel like we're find each other.

1440
01:18:45,640 --> 01:18:48,559
Speaker 2: It's crazy, but and I wish this for everybody. I

1441
01:18:48,680 --> 01:18:52,640
Speaker 2: just wish it because I I hear how hard it

1442
01:18:52,680 --> 01:18:55,479
Speaker 2: is right now that are just.

1443
01:18:57,280 --> 01:18:58,720
Speaker 1: So that's all. We tone it down a lot too,

1444
01:18:59,439 --> 01:19:01,080
Speaker 1: so we're like, let's be less.

1445
01:19:00,800 --> 01:19:02,519
Speaker 3: Gi oh my God, That's how it feels sometimes me

1446
01:19:02,560 --> 01:19:04,360
Speaker 3: in Orlando, I'm like, stop, everyone's gonna think.

1447
01:19:04,479 --> 01:19:12,439
Speaker 2: I have so rare, but I do. I wish it

1448
01:19:12,439 --> 01:19:14,880
Speaker 2: for everybody. Everybody deserves to feel a love.

1449
01:19:15,360 --> 01:19:17,479
Speaker 1: Like if you love me, you'll let me spin in

1450
01:19:17,520 --> 01:19:20,320
Speaker 1: your mouth. Okay, please do it today. Just let her

1451
01:19:20,360 --> 01:19:21,640
Speaker 1: do it. I'll hold your hand and we'll put it

1452
01:19:21,680 --> 01:19:27,040
Speaker 1: on SloMo. What's the wrong with me? I have such

1453
01:19:27,280 --> 01:19:29,439
Speaker 1: like I love. I just like to push people like, like,

1454
01:19:29,520 --> 01:19:30,200
Speaker 1: are you sure? Come on?

1455
01:19:30,439 --> 01:19:35,840
Speaker 2: Just you don't have no or any aquarius placements in

1456
01:19:35,920 --> 01:19:36,400
Speaker 2: your charge.

1457
01:19:37,040 --> 01:19:43,280
Speaker 1: This is her aquarious placement. Definitely sad though somewhere has

1458
01:19:43,320 --> 01:19:46,360
Speaker 1: to be. I don't know about that. I gotta look.

1459
01:19:47,280 --> 01:19:51,799
Speaker 2: Speaking of spinning in mouths, we always ask our guests

1460
01:19:51,880 --> 01:19:53,960
Speaker 2: if they have a horror story they'd like to share,

1461
01:20:03,360 --> 01:20:07,280
Speaker 2: you know, Like I said, I'm just I was a cheater.

1462
01:20:07,240 --> 01:20:10,320
Speaker 1: In the past, so you know that you're a reform

1463
01:20:10,360 --> 01:20:12,400
Speaker 1: cheater too, Yeah, girl.

1464
01:20:12,600 --> 01:20:15,240
Speaker 3: Adrian tried to Surgeony under the bus, saying she was

1465
01:20:15,360 --> 01:20:17,400
Speaker 3: vanilla when she when she was like, she don't have

1466
01:20:17,479 --> 01:20:18,000
Speaker 3: no stories.

1467
01:20:18,320 --> 01:20:19,639
Speaker 1: No, I really don't.

1468
01:20:19,680 --> 01:20:21,120
Speaker 2: Like I dealt with a lot of like you know,

1469
01:20:21,200 --> 01:20:23,960
Speaker 2: when I was young, so of course at the time,

1470
01:20:24,360 --> 01:20:28,559
Speaker 2: I was attracting young unevolved people at same time too,

1471
01:20:28,640 --> 01:20:30,680
Speaker 2: so we did a lot of dumb stuff. But no,

1472
01:20:30,760 --> 01:20:33,000
Speaker 2: I just you know, it's not it's not hard to

1473
01:20:33,040 --> 01:20:35,280
Speaker 2: be loyal, but you know the situation and it's not

1474
01:20:35,920 --> 01:20:37,760
Speaker 2: for you, and you know this is a situation where

1475
01:20:37,760 --> 01:20:40,519
Speaker 2: you should be loyal. Okay, I'm gonna cheat until I

1476
01:20:40,560 --> 01:20:42,439
Speaker 2: get through whatever. Just I get through it and runs

1477
01:20:42,439 --> 01:20:44,920
Speaker 2: and scores. So I just I cheated a lot. I

1478
01:20:45,000 --> 01:20:45,840
Speaker 2: cheated dirty too.

1479
01:20:45,840 --> 01:20:48,040
Speaker 1: I cheated like, yeah, we'll her best friends type.

1480
01:20:48,240 --> 01:20:51,479
Speaker 2: Yeah with the Yeah, my girlfriend at the time's best friend.

1481
01:20:51,560 --> 01:20:54,520
Speaker 2: We had a whole like, we had a whole emotional

1482
01:20:54,560 --> 01:20:58,200
Speaker 2: relationship outside of the relationship I had with her, And

1483
01:20:58,240 --> 01:20:58,840
Speaker 2: so yeah, for.

1484
01:20:58,800 --> 01:21:03,240
Speaker 1: Like the year side. Know what it's those bad, it's unhealed.

1485
01:21:04,800 --> 01:21:07,479
Speaker 3: I guess any unhealed sign it can be the worst

1486
01:21:07,520 --> 01:21:07,880
Speaker 3: of the words.

1487
01:21:08,360 --> 01:21:13,040
Speaker 1: That's true. Yeah, but no, I think there's specific signe. Actually,

1488
01:21:13,040 --> 01:21:14,599
Speaker 1: cancer is the one.

1489
01:21:14,720 --> 01:21:18,120
Speaker 3: Cancer men unhealed treacherous scorpio serial killers.

1490
01:21:18,240 --> 01:21:21,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, like I believe that they are the number one

1491
01:21:21,840 --> 01:21:23,880
Speaker 2: the act sign for serial.

1492
01:21:23,600 --> 01:21:24,960
Speaker 1: Killers because we're super sensitive.

1493
01:21:24,960 --> 01:21:29,439
Speaker 3: And now y'all go, there is crazy that scor is

1494
01:21:29,439 --> 01:21:30,400
Speaker 3: a second serial killer.

1495
01:21:30,640 --> 01:21:32,760
Speaker 2: It's top three that makes sense for sure, Top three

1496
01:21:33,439 --> 01:21:36,160
Speaker 2: aquari maybe Arias because.

1497
01:21:36,560 --> 01:21:38,600
Speaker 1: Yeah we are.

1498
01:21:38,160 --> 01:21:42,240
Speaker 3: We're humanitarians for the now you're knowing the list and

1499
01:21:42,280 --> 01:21:44,200
Speaker 3: on your last and we're yeah.

1500
01:21:45,040 --> 01:21:46,599
Speaker 1: So also a PDIA for going to make.

1501
01:21:46,640 --> 01:21:50,519
Speaker 2: It's a list of all the serial killers signed to order.

1502
01:21:51,880 --> 01:21:56,519
Speaker 3: I'm so happy we're not serial Killers' notable.

1503
01:21:59,880 --> 01:22:06,600
Speaker 1: I'm not kidding. There's a bonus. Okay, So did you

1504
01:22:06,640 --> 01:22:07,000
Speaker 1: think of it?

1505
01:22:07,720 --> 01:22:08,080
Speaker 3: If not?

1506
01:22:08,280 --> 01:22:10,720
Speaker 2: If not, we can share one. But I don't. I

1507
01:22:10,720 --> 01:22:11,599
Speaker 2: feel like one.

1508
01:22:11,800 --> 01:22:14,960
Speaker 1: I do, But which do you feel like I should tell?

1509
01:22:15,280 --> 01:22:17,680
Speaker 1: Which one? Do you think it's the juiciest, because I'd

1510
01:22:17,680 --> 01:22:22,640
Speaker 1: be liking a talk. Just pick the top one to

1511
01:22:22,800 --> 01:22:24,960
Speaker 1: make sure it's the top o the video shoot.

1512
01:22:26,560 --> 01:22:31,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, so okay, So it was like basically suppression Preacher's kid, right,

1513
01:22:32,000 --> 01:22:33,840
Speaker 2: remember that now, because I was I was, I was

1514
01:22:34,200 --> 01:22:38,280
Speaker 2: a lady hoe, but I didn't they okay, whatever. So

1515
01:22:39,680 --> 01:22:42,000
Speaker 2: I was working at the bank, trying to keep her

1516
01:22:42,280 --> 01:22:48,400
Speaker 2: identity private. She's not out, definitely heavily in a relationship,

1517
01:22:48,640 --> 01:22:50,160
Speaker 2: and we had been friends for a lot of years.

1518
01:22:50,160 --> 01:22:52,120
Speaker 2: She would even come to the parties. But she was

1519
01:22:52,160 --> 01:22:55,599
Speaker 2: the only straight girl that was just around. She never

1520
01:22:55,640 --> 01:23:01,080
Speaker 2: showed any signs whatsoever at all, right, strictly Dickley.

1521
01:23:01,880 --> 01:23:02,320
Speaker 1: And so.

1522
01:23:04,000 --> 01:23:07,479
Speaker 2: One day she was just like, Hey, if you have

1523
01:23:07,600 --> 01:23:09,520
Speaker 2: me on your college, what would you do? And I

1524
01:23:09,560 --> 01:23:12,200
Speaker 2: text her so where I'm flurting back and forth. We

1525
01:23:12,240 --> 01:23:16,000
Speaker 2: start fucking long story short, like all in his car

1526
01:23:16,080 --> 01:23:16,479
Speaker 2: and stuff.

1527
01:23:16,479 --> 01:23:16,960
Speaker 1: It was bad.

1528
01:23:17,360 --> 01:23:19,479
Speaker 2: I wanted to go to jail because he was like violent,

1529
01:23:19,800 --> 01:23:20,880
Speaker 2: violently homophobic.

1530
01:23:21,160 --> 01:23:23,360
Speaker 1: I got into the point that was probably why it

1531
01:23:23,360 --> 01:23:24,120
Speaker 1: was even more thrilling.

1532
01:23:24,760 --> 01:23:28,920
Speaker 2: Probably yeah, yeah, most most likely and so and I

1533
01:23:28,920 --> 01:23:31,320
Speaker 2: guess because I was the gay promoter, and I was

1534
01:23:31,360 --> 01:23:34,000
Speaker 2: the one that was bringing the gay parties to the

1535
01:23:34,040 --> 01:23:38,559
Speaker 2: straight clubs. I was getting rumors that people would be like, hey,

1536
01:23:38,600 --> 01:23:40,599
Speaker 2: stay away from her. They the dudes would tell their

1537
01:23:40,640 --> 01:23:43,200
Speaker 2: girls that stay away from her, as if I was

1538
01:23:43,240 --> 01:23:45,200
Speaker 2: a fucking issue, right, like you were trying to tell

1539
01:23:45,200 --> 01:23:45,799
Speaker 2: their girls.

1540
01:23:46,160 --> 01:23:48,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, the gays are, they're populating the regular clusbs.

1541
01:23:48,840 --> 01:23:50,840
Speaker 1: It was horrible. Like she she told me that.

1542
01:23:50,960 --> 01:23:53,200
Speaker 2: She was like, yeah, he knows who you are, and

1543
01:23:53,360 --> 01:23:57,920
Speaker 2: he does not like that I know you. So yeah,

1544
01:23:57,960 --> 01:23:59,519
Speaker 2: So she's on the phone with him and I'm just

1545
01:23:59,560 --> 01:24:03,960
Speaker 2: like eat anyway, So one day we're at work, we

1546
01:24:04,200 --> 01:24:06,040
Speaker 2: worked at the same bank. One day, we're at work

1547
01:24:06,120 --> 01:24:08,880
Speaker 2: and she's like, I had a girlfriend, so I was

1548
01:24:08,880 --> 01:24:11,000
Speaker 2: shooting on her as well. So I was like, well,

1549
01:24:11,000 --> 01:24:12,360
Speaker 2: we ought to go to get a room. So we

1550
01:24:12,360 --> 01:24:15,479
Speaker 2: got a room after work and I had a video

1551
01:24:15,520 --> 01:24:18,000
Speaker 2: shoot later where we were shooting a promo video for

1552
01:24:18,080 --> 01:24:19,680
Speaker 2: the club or an event I was about to do,

1553
01:24:20,200 --> 01:24:22,599
Speaker 2: and so it was like a lingerie party and so

1554
01:24:22,640 --> 01:24:25,400
Speaker 2: I had all these models Neir lingerie or whatever whatever,

1555
01:24:25,840 --> 01:24:28,240
Speaker 2: and so she was like, Okay, after this, I'm gonna

1556
01:24:28,280 --> 01:24:31,160
Speaker 2: come with you. So we ended up going. She was like,

1557
01:24:31,320 --> 01:24:34,400
Speaker 2: damn Adrian. During the shoot, She's like, damn Adrian, Like,

1558
01:24:35,280 --> 01:24:36,680
Speaker 2: it's a lot of sexy women in here. I was like,

1559
01:24:36,680 --> 01:24:39,320
Speaker 2: I thought you're not gay. I thought she wasn't gay though,

1560
01:24:40,000 --> 01:24:42,040
Speaker 2: and then she was like, nah, they're sexy. And I

1561
01:24:42,080 --> 01:24:45,200
Speaker 2: was like, which one do you want? And she was

1562
01:24:45,240 --> 01:24:47,200
Speaker 2: like her and her and her, and we all went

1563
01:24:47,240 --> 01:24:47,679
Speaker 2: home together.

1564
01:24:48,600 --> 01:24:51,599
Speaker 1: Wow with the straight girl. They were all straight.

1565
01:24:51,760 --> 01:24:54,400
Speaker 2: Oh, how did you pull this off?

1566
01:24:54,880 --> 01:25:01,559
Speaker 1: That's why the niggas are scared. Watch out for her.

1567
01:25:01,960 --> 01:25:03,799
Speaker 2: That was in my FIM days. I didn't I didn't

1568
01:25:03,880 --> 01:25:06,200
Speaker 2: present masks. I used to be really really really really

1569
01:25:06,200 --> 01:25:07,320
Speaker 2: film I.

1570
01:25:07,280 --> 01:25:10,040
Speaker 1: Would like to see. Let me say, picture you picture.

1571
01:25:11,640 --> 01:25:14,519
Speaker 1: She had some bad photos. Yeah, I'm sure.

1572
01:25:14,880 --> 01:25:18,000
Speaker 2: I mean you're beautiful now yeah, yeah, well I had

1573
01:25:18,000 --> 01:25:19,560
Speaker 2: to unpack that.

1574
01:25:19,800 --> 01:25:20,240
Speaker 1: It's not so.

1575
01:25:20,320 --> 01:25:21,840
Speaker 2: I used to like dress up in my brother's clothes

1576
01:25:21,880 --> 01:25:23,719
Speaker 2: and secret in the bathroom for.

1577
01:25:23,640 --> 01:25:28,080
Speaker 1: Like hours really just to feel comfortable, just to feel me. Yeah.

1578
01:25:28,120 --> 01:25:31,160
Speaker 3: Oh actually, I know. You just got top surgery. Congratulations,

1579
01:25:31,160 --> 01:25:32,000
Speaker 3: Thank you so much.

1580
01:25:32,160 --> 01:25:35,840
Speaker 1: How are you. How does feeling I'm feeling amazing. You

1581
01:25:35,880 --> 01:25:39,040
Speaker 1: feel good? Oh yeah, I feel amazing. Were you scared

1582
01:25:39,080 --> 01:25:40,080
Speaker 1: to make that decision or.

1583
01:25:40,040 --> 01:25:42,240
Speaker 2: Like, oh yeah, it's like ten years to make, like

1584
01:25:42,280 --> 01:25:44,080
Speaker 2: going back and forth whether you wanted to do that.

1585
01:25:44,400 --> 01:25:46,200
Speaker 1: Not that, but just not wanting.

1586
01:25:46,280 --> 01:25:49,320
Speaker 2: I had c sections with my daughters, so and they

1587
01:25:49,360 --> 01:25:53,280
Speaker 2: were traumatic experiences as a black woman in the hospital

1588
01:25:54,160 --> 01:25:57,240
Speaker 2: and literally almost died. So I was terrified. I just

1589
01:25:57,320 --> 01:26:00,200
Speaker 2: didn't want. I was just like, and I'm married, She'll

1590
01:26:00,200 --> 01:26:00,679
Speaker 2: just deal.

1591
01:26:00,479 --> 01:26:03,479
Speaker 1: With it for years dealing with the.

1592
01:26:06,360 --> 01:26:08,679
Speaker 2: And not breastfed. So you want to paint that picture.

1593
01:26:08,680 --> 01:26:11,479
Speaker 2: And I hated them. I've always hated them even before that.

1594
01:26:11,520 --> 01:26:15,439
Speaker 2: And I had some nice duties. I was very very

1595
01:26:15,439 --> 01:26:22,479
Speaker 2: well complimented on that. I've never been attached to ever.

1596
01:26:23,040 --> 01:26:23,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean to be.

1597
01:26:23,720 --> 01:26:26,759
Speaker 2: Able to feel like yourself walking this life as yourself

1598
01:26:26,800 --> 01:26:30,599
Speaker 2: authentically all the ways, physically, emotionally, mentally. It's like I

1599
01:26:30,640 --> 01:26:32,479
Speaker 2: have to this life is so short. You have to

1600
01:26:32,520 --> 01:26:33,920
Speaker 2: do the things you must do.

1601
01:26:33,920 --> 01:26:36,200
Speaker 1: To the doing that make you feel free.

1602
01:26:36,439 --> 01:26:36,639
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1603
01:26:36,680 --> 01:26:39,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, because that, to me is the definition of breaking

1604
01:26:39,080 --> 01:26:44,040
Speaker 2: generational curses. Our ancestors wish they could have lived like that.

1605
01:26:44,200 --> 01:26:46,360
Speaker 2: So I feel like I'm doing at least my lineage

1606
01:26:46,479 --> 01:26:51,360
Speaker 2: honor by being myself and they helped me for it.

1607
01:26:51,360 --> 01:26:53,439
Speaker 2: It is a privilege. We are privileged in that way.

1608
01:26:53,479 --> 01:26:56,519
Speaker 2: I know, like there's a spectrum of privilege, right, but

1609
01:26:56,600 --> 01:26:59,320
Speaker 2: like just that we get to even be here.

1610
01:26:59,520 --> 01:27:04,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a lot more work to do. We're move

1611
01:27:04,920 --> 01:27:05,439
Speaker 1: to Costa Rica.

1612
01:27:05,479 --> 01:27:07,160
Speaker 3: I don't know how you guys feel should come because

1613
01:27:07,160 --> 01:27:08,640
Speaker 3: they're serving real food out there.

1614
01:27:08,720 --> 01:27:11,000
Speaker 1: Yeah I have. I've never been and I recently just

1615
01:27:11,000 --> 01:27:13,800
Speaker 1: got over my fear flying. You know what we have

1616
01:27:13,880 --> 01:27:14,080
Speaker 1: we do.

1617
01:27:14,280 --> 01:27:17,599
Speaker 3: We do a retreat in Costa Rica, the Caribbean side,

1618
01:27:17,600 --> 01:27:20,320
Speaker 3: like where the black people be at all women and

1619
01:27:20,320 --> 01:27:22,519
Speaker 3: it's switchy and it's like well.

1620
01:27:22,360 --> 01:27:24,200
Speaker 1: We well we'd have to bring the whole click. We

1621
01:27:24,280 --> 01:27:29,320
Speaker 1: have the best travel and we do like mushrooms.

1622
01:27:29,400 --> 01:27:33,799
Speaker 3: We have take over the whole property, frolic and cartwell

1623
01:27:34,120 --> 01:27:38,280
Speaker 3: topless there. Okay, I'll send you guys the pdf.

1624
01:27:39,479 --> 01:27:41,440
Speaker 1: You know we got one, We actually do.

1625
01:27:43,560 --> 01:27:47,840
Speaker 2: We have links also find in this episode description, but

1626
01:27:47,960 --> 01:27:50,320
Speaker 2: we also have a PDF which you will get upon booking.

1627
01:27:50,640 --> 01:27:53,240
Speaker 3: We have beautiful videos. We have beautiful footage from this trip.

1628
01:27:53,240 --> 01:27:55,799
Speaker 3: Look on our website honestly like good Mom's Bad Choices

1629
01:27:55,840 --> 01:27:56,360
Speaker 3: dot com.

1630
01:27:56,400 --> 01:27:58,280
Speaker 2: Actually we played one. We played an ad from the

1631
01:27:58,320 --> 01:28:00,720
Speaker 2: Good Fibe retreat. So that's it. It's it's the most

1632
01:28:00,760 --> 01:28:04,559
Speaker 2: amazing experience that I feel like we've I've ever even

1633
01:28:04,560 --> 01:28:05,280
Speaker 2: experienced too.

1634
01:28:05,680 --> 01:28:08,920
Speaker 1: Where do you guys go? Where do we go? With February?

1635
01:28:09,240 --> 01:28:11,840
Speaker 2: So well, this the ones that's coming up is at

1636
01:28:11,880 --> 01:28:14,479
Speaker 2: the very beginning of February. We have two retreats back

1637
01:28:14,520 --> 01:28:15,880
Speaker 2: to back. It's the same experience.

1638
01:28:15,920 --> 01:28:18,800
Speaker 1: So we're doing that.

1639
01:28:18,960 --> 01:28:22,519
Speaker 2: Oh my god, please come Like when I tell you

1640
01:28:22,920 --> 01:28:27,040
Speaker 2: there's something so I never like Costa Rica wasn't really

1641
01:28:27,120 --> 01:28:27,880
Speaker 2: on my bucket list.

1642
01:28:27,960 --> 01:28:29,479
Speaker 1: I was like, I'll get there when I get there.

1643
01:28:30,120 --> 01:28:32,519
Speaker 2: And then I got there and I was like, why

1644
01:28:32,560 --> 01:28:34,040
Speaker 2: the fuck did I wait so long?

1645
01:28:34,120 --> 01:28:34,960
Speaker 1: There's something like.

1646
01:28:35,479 --> 01:28:38,679
Speaker 2: Listen the motherland is a motherland, but there's something like

1647
01:28:39,280 --> 01:28:43,639
Speaker 2: calls you. I think it's just humans in general. It's

1648
01:28:43,680 --> 01:28:48,440
Speaker 2: just like the nature is overwhelming and there's just so much.

1649
01:28:48,800 --> 01:28:53,680
Speaker 3: Like like like mother Earth energy that's like it just

1650
01:28:53,760 --> 01:28:57,880
Speaker 3: spiritually like opens you up quickly. It's like, yeah, it

1651
01:28:58,040 --> 01:29:01,000
Speaker 3: just like the cracks you open, like, oh there you are, bitch.

1652
01:29:04,240 --> 01:29:10,000
Speaker 1: Well, y'all, y'all had me at all? Women, Well, ladies,

1653
01:29:10,040 --> 01:29:11,240
Speaker 1: thank you guys. Watching.

1654
01:29:11,600 --> 01:29:14,519
Speaker 3: One piece of advice for people in the long term

1655
01:29:14,560 --> 01:29:17,240
Speaker 3: relationships or wanting to get married, what is your one

1656
01:29:17,240 --> 01:29:19,519
Speaker 3: piece of relationship advice that you take away?

1657
01:29:23,960 --> 01:29:26,400
Speaker 2: What piece of advice I would say is to.

1658
01:29:28,439 --> 01:29:29,120
Speaker 1: Communicate.

1659
01:29:30,080 --> 01:29:33,680
Speaker 2: I have a hard time communicating, clearly. I suppress a

1660
01:29:33,720 --> 01:29:37,720
Speaker 2: lot of my emotions. But be with someone who communication

1661
01:29:37,880 --> 01:29:41,000
Speaker 2: is a really big thing for her. It's teaching me

1662
01:29:41,120 --> 01:29:46,400
Speaker 2: to try to be more vocal about my emotions and expressions.

1663
01:29:46,400 --> 01:29:49,240
Speaker 2: But I would say communication, for sure. You have to

1664
01:29:49,320 --> 01:29:54,240
Speaker 2: constantly be in talks with your partner. And if you're

1665
01:29:54,280 --> 01:29:57,720
Speaker 2: not talking, then how can you even begin to even

1666
01:29:57,800 --> 01:29:59,720
Speaker 2: understand the person that you're with or know what they're

1667
01:29:59,720 --> 01:30:02,040
Speaker 2: fearing are or their stress or what they're worried about,

1668
01:30:02,160 --> 01:30:04,880
Speaker 2: or what they love, and before I met her, I

1669
01:30:04,920 --> 01:30:06,680
Speaker 2: never thought that those things were important. Let me, no

1670
01:30:06,680 --> 01:30:09,320
Speaker 2: one cared to communicate with me. But it's just like, oh, wow,

1671
01:30:09,360 --> 01:30:09,880
Speaker 2: like you really do.

1672
01:30:09,920 --> 01:30:12,439
Speaker 1: Want to know, you really are interested.

1673
01:30:12,520 --> 01:30:14,240
Speaker 2: And then it's like and she just always has a

1674
01:30:14,280 --> 01:30:17,519
Speaker 2: listening ear and always there to give advice or to

1675
01:30:17,760 --> 01:30:19,560
Speaker 2: you know, help support me through whatever it is that

1676
01:30:19,600 --> 01:30:23,040
Speaker 2: I'm going through. So I'm learning that communication is a big, big,

1677
01:30:23,080 --> 01:30:26,439
Speaker 2: big thing, and I know that communication can be an

1678
01:30:26,479 --> 01:30:28,720
Speaker 2: issue for a lot of relationships, which is why you

1679
01:30:28,720 --> 01:30:31,880
Speaker 2: know a lot of people fail at them sometimes because

1680
01:30:31,960 --> 01:30:33,880
Speaker 2: oh you didn't know this person was feeling this way

1681
01:30:33,960 --> 01:30:35,840
Speaker 2: or that. It's like if you're not talking, you don't know.

1682
01:30:36,560 --> 01:30:42,280
Speaker 2: So always just be open to communication, definitely, And to

1683
01:30:42,320 --> 01:30:46,799
Speaker 2: piggyback off that, I would say, heal your childhood trauma

1684
01:30:47,400 --> 01:30:51,240
Speaker 2: before you bring it into your current and present day relationships,

1685
01:30:51,280 --> 01:30:55,479
Speaker 2: because no matter how well you think you're doing it,

1686
01:30:55,960 --> 01:31:01,280
Speaker 2: you're not. And it's a constant just learning and unlearning.

1687
01:31:01,760 --> 01:31:04,000
Speaker 2: And so there were a lot of hidden things that

1688
01:31:04,040 --> 01:31:06,439
Speaker 2: I thought i'd heal from, but they definitely show up

1689
01:31:06,479 --> 01:31:11,080
Speaker 2: subconsciously throughout your day. So if you can deal like

1690
01:31:11,080 --> 01:31:15,760
Speaker 2: I feel like you were emotionally emotionally like neglected that

1691
01:31:16,000 --> 01:31:19,920
Speaker 2: for example, could actually cause you to have like really

1692
01:31:20,000 --> 01:31:24,400
Speaker 2: toxic attachment styles or just be cold hearted or you know.

1693
01:31:24,400 --> 01:31:25,880
Speaker 1: To protect to protect yourself.

1694
01:31:25,920 --> 01:31:28,960
Speaker 2: So it helps to heal you if you go back

1695
01:31:29,000 --> 01:31:33,400
Speaker 2: and heal yourself before you try to get too involved

1696
01:31:33,439 --> 01:31:37,479
Speaker 2: with someone else. I think constantly in on the journey

1697
01:31:37,479 --> 01:31:40,840
Speaker 2: of healing as a partnership should kind of be priority.

1698
01:31:41,880 --> 01:31:42,760
Speaker 1: That's definitely true.

1699
01:31:43,240 --> 01:31:45,800
Speaker 2: Is that something you learned while being this relationship because

1700
01:31:45,840 --> 01:31:47,960
Speaker 2: you did that before or you didn't do that before.

1701
01:31:47,760 --> 01:31:47,960
Speaker 1: You know.

1702
01:31:48,000 --> 01:31:50,479
Speaker 2: I asked myself that a lot, and I do think

1703
01:31:50,520 --> 01:31:53,640
Speaker 2: I kind of got a little upper hand experience on it.

1704
01:31:53,800 --> 01:31:57,040
Speaker 2: But also ooh, almost almost said that.

1705
01:31:58,600 --> 01:31:59,240
Speaker 1: We do that.

1706
01:31:59,520 --> 01:32:03,240
Speaker 2: In the growing up, I learned a lot of what

1707
01:32:03,439 --> 01:32:09,320
Speaker 2: not to do in a relationship in marriages, you see

1708
01:32:09,320 --> 01:32:14,880
Speaker 2: the examples of things. Absolutely hell no, m h, well

1709
01:32:14,920 --> 01:32:15,599
Speaker 2: amen to that.

1710
01:32:18,200 --> 01:32:20,160
Speaker 1: Well, thank you guys so much. Thank you.

1711
01:32:23,720 --> 01:32:28,040
Speaker 3: You're not getting rid of us now, Okay, it's right,

1712
01:32:28,840 --> 01:32:30,559
Speaker 3: deal bro. I know we say this all the time,

1713
01:32:30,560 --> 01:32:33,400
Speaker 3: but for real.

1714
01:32:31,479 --> 01:32:35,280
Speaker 2: No, seriously, I told her. I told her yesterday. I

1715
01:32:35,680 --> 01:32:37,960
Speaker 2: know I was drunk, but I was like, she was like,

1716
01:32:38,000 --> 01:32:39,720
Speaker 2: I'm so excited you guys are coming. I was like, yeah,

1717
01:32:39,760 --> 01:32:42,960
Speaker 2: my manager hit us up and was like, y'all want

1718
01:32:42,960 --> 01:32:46,200
Speaker 2: to do this podcast? And I never I'm not logistics,

1719
01:32:46,240 --> 01:32:48,680
Speaker 2: so I hate that ship. So she's telling me and

1720
01:32:48,680 --> 01:32:50,840
Speaker 2: she's like I was like, well, yeah, but how much

1721
01:32:50,840 --> 01:32:52,559
Speaker 2: are they what are they trying? I'm not gonna just

1722
01:32:52,560 --> 01:32:54,240
Speaker 2: come to sit on a podcast like what the fuck?

1723
01:32:54,280 --> 01:32:54,479
Speaker 3: Who?

1724
01:32:54,640 --> 01:32:56,920
Speaker 2: And they were like, no, is this podcast? Like I

1725
01:32:56,960 --> 01:32:58,920
Speaker 2: was like, oh, fuck, yes, I'm doing it.

1726
01:32:59,479 --> 01:33:01,160
Speaker 1: And she was like, I'm how much you want to charge?

1727
01:33:01,200 --> 01:33:04,439
Speaker 1: What do you mean? Nothing? So I felt pulled to it. Yeah,

1728
01:33:04,520 --> 01:33:05,280
Speaker 1: I felt it.

1729
01:33:06,000 --> 01:33:08,280
Speaker 3: I'm so grateful you're supposed to be here, You're supposed

1730
01:33:08,280 --> 01:33:09,200
Speaker 3: to go absolutly.

1731
01:33:09,280 --> 01:33:11,360
Speaker 2: It's it's an energy. They did you feel sometimes you

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01:33:11,360 --> 01:33:13,920
Speaker 2: feel like you said, listeners, we need to issues like yeah.

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Speaker 1: Listen, the energy is currency.

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01:33:15,960 --> 01:33:18,280
Speaker 2: Maybe so it doesn't always show up in the ways

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01:33:18,320 --> 01:33:21,400
Speaker 2: that you know, a payment or sometimes energy most of

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01:33:21,439 --> 01:33:23,720
Speaker 2: the time, hopefully it's richer than that. No, it is,

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01:33:23,840 --> 01:33:27,120
Speaker 2: so it's more important. Yeah, I'm just I'm really I

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01:33:27,160 --> 01:33:28,320
Speaker 2: really hate leaving my house.

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01:33:28,840 --> 01:33:31,479
Speaker 1: Where do you live? Like, yeah, you live down the street.

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01:33:31,600 --> 01:33:34,400
Speaker 1: She's like, you never see me on this They don't

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01:33:37,120 --> 01:33:39,200
Speaker 1: we're we're in a private location.

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01:33:39,760 --> 01:33:43,960
Speaker 2: We are an we're a few a few miles away. Yeah, okay,

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01:33:44,040 --> 01:33:46,600
Speaker 2: got it cool, you're right here. Yeah, but if you

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01:33:46,600 --> 01:33:48,519
Speaker 2: see me, like I cycle a lot, so I'm like

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01:33:48,520 --> 01:33:49,280
Speaker 2: always on my bike.

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01:33:49,400 --> 01:33:50,760
Speaker 1: I have a bike. Should I come riding with you?

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01:33:50,800 --> 01:33:53,120
Speaker 1: I loved that bike. I was like a business pitch.

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01:33:53,479 --> 01:33:55,320
Speaker 1: We might have to like upgrade your bike though.

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01:33:55,600 --> 01:33:57,120
Speaker 2: It's a good bike because I got it in COVID

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01:33:57,160 --> 01:33:59,680
Speaker 2: and my figure, my practice boyfriend at the time, was

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01:34:00,080 --> 01:34:01,680
Speaker 2: like the bike a lot, and so he made sure

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01:34:01,720 --> 01:34:05,280
Speaker 2: I got the bike, got the skinny wheels and ship.

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01:34:07,040 --> 01:34:10,479
Speaker 1: Mountain bike. Bitch. It's like a real I'll be there

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01:34:10,560 --> 01:34:10,920
Speaker 1: next to you.

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01:34:14,280 --> 01:34:16,160
Speaker 2: So slow, but yeah, we we love to ride our

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01:34:16,200 --> 01:34:19,560
Speaker 2: bikes just to your crib and then we'll take it

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01:34:19,600 --> 01:34:24,200
Speaker 2: from the last week. Okay, I don't like that Equinox.

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01:34:24,360 --> 01:34:27,759
Speaker 1: It's not the best. It's not that, but it's close.

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01:34:29,800 --> 01:34:31,200
Speaker 1: But also have O c D. So I don't. I

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01:34:31,360 --> 01:34:34,360
Speaker 1: like the fact that they're extra clean, like you working

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01:34:34,400 --> 01:34:36,519
Speaker 1: out on the floor, you see the clean people. No,

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01:34:36,720 --> 01:34:37,720
Speaker 1: there is no sweat on this.

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01:34:38,000 --> 01:34:40,240
Speaker 2: And I went that my friend has a membership at Equinox,

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01:34:40,280 --> 01:34:42,240
Speaker 2: and I went to the one in West Hollywood this week.

1765
01:34:42,320 --> 01:34:46,760
Speaker 2: I was like, this is literally l A. And I'm like,

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01:34:46,840 --> 01:34:48,960
Speaker 2: this is what you think l A is. It was

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01:34:49,000 --> 01:34:52,680
Speaker 2: like perfectly like rushed skinny bodies. There was just like

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01:34:52,760 --> 01:34:55,120
Speaker 2: gay guy and his like he had this like a

1769
01:34:55,479 --> 01:34:59,960
Speaker 2: pop his beard. I was like, he's fine as fun A.

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01:35:03,400 --> 01:35:06,280
Speaker 1: This I came.

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01:35:06,400 --> 01:35:09,000
Speaker 2: I forgot what my sweat said, are not like sweat proofs.

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01:35:09,080 --> 01:35:13,639
Speaker 2: My whole crotches wet I have like they like every

1773
01:35:13,720 --> 01:35:17,760
Speaker 2: sweat market they like, they like it not. I didn't

1774
01:35:17,760 --> 01:35:19,680
Speaker 2: come prepared, but you know what, this is low key

1775
01:35:19,760 --> 01:35:22,400
Speaker 2: the secret good one. If you like want a network,

1776
01:35:22,520 --> 01:35:26,360
Speaker 2: especially with y'all, it's worth it. I mean we've turned

1777
01:35:26,400 --> 01:35:31,719
Speaker 2: around and Chloe Kardashian was behind us, Sizza, Kanye, DJ

1778
01:35:31,880 --> 01:35:34,840
Speaker 2: Mustard and any way, random day.

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01:35:35,040 --> 01:35:36,759
Speaker 1: Really equinoxis for networking.

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01:35:37,000 --> 01:35:39,160
Speaker 2: I work out.

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01:35:39,200 --> 01:35:40,600
Speaker 1: When I went there, it was nice, but I was

1782
01:35:40,640 --> 01:35:43,360
Speaker 1: just like boxing great classes. They do have good classes.

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01:35:43,720 --> 01:35:47,000
Speaker 1: They do. Okay, this was bougie l A talk. It

1784
01:35:47,120 --> 01:35:52,280
Speaker 1: really sponsorship. Matter of fact, they don't get out ship.

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01:35:52,520 --> 01:35:54,880
Speaker 1: They don't. We try to get see their clients.

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01:35:55,040 --> 01:35:58,960
Speaker 3: They're like, like you gets like a partnership like combo membership,

1787
01:35:59,120 --> 01:35:59,719
Speaker 3: Like they don't.

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01:35:59,560 --> 01:36:01,679
Speaker 1: Have that, I know, but we're married.

1789
01:36:01,920 --> 01:36:04,519
Speaker 2: I know, like the best thing I don't tell you

1790
01:36:04,560 --> 01:36:06,880
Speaker 2: to do. It's just like post your workouts and maybe

1791
01:36:06,880 --> 01:36:07,640
Speaker 2: they'll like see you know.

1792
01:36:07,720 --> 01:36:10,040
Speaker 1: But we do have a cool contact though. Ye cool,

1793
01:36:10,040 --> 01:36:10,800
Speaker 1: we'll be hooking us up.

1794
01:36:10,840 --> 01:36:14,720
Speaker 2: Okay us some Fendquinox.

1795
01:36:14,840 --> 01:36:16,400
Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah, okay.

1796
01:36:16,439 --> 01:36:18,760
Speaker 2: Well, now that we've done pre promo for Equinox, I know,

1797
01:36:21,160 --> 01:36:22,840
Speaker 2: can you tell the people where they can find you.

1798
01:36:23,479 --> 01:36:27,000
Speaker 2: You can find us on Instagram. My Instagram is j

1799
01:36:27,280 --> 01:36:31,040
Speaker 2: dot Muse and uh you also find us on TikTok.

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01:36:31,120 --> 01:36:32,559
Speaker 1: We are the Muses.

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01:36:33,640 --> 01:36:39,640
Speaker 2: And my Instagram is I am dot Muse amazing. And

1802
01:36:39,680 --> 01:36:44,160
Speaker 2: then I have a Patreon it's called a Querious Comics

1803
01:36:44,240 --> 01:36:47,320
Speaker 2: that's just launched. Shout out to Patreon. We're partners, yes,

1804
01:36:48,400 --> 01:36:52,720
Speaker 2: and announcement coming soon with that and what else. My

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01:36:52,920 --> 01:36:55,600
Speaker 2: art is Madam Muse dot l a without an E

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01:36:55,960 --> 01:36:58,320
Speaker 2: no e at the end of madam and I think

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01:36:58,439 --> 01:36:58,720
Speaker 2: that's it.

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01:36:59,240 --> 01:37:01,560
Speaker 1: We we had we fans when we stopped Wait what

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01:37:01,720 --> 01:37:06,880
Speaker 1: was on there? Hold on now, gonna slide it in

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01:37:06,920 --> 01:37:07,439
Speaker 1: there real quick.

1811
01:37:07,479 --> 01:37:09,559
Speaker 2: So we're we're we actually stopped it, but and it's

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01:37:09,600 --> 01:37:11,160
Speaker 2: on Patreon now, so we put it on I put

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01:37:11,160 --> 01:37:11,240
Speaker 2: it on.

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01:37:11,560 --> 01:37:14,920
Speaker 1: It's not that much. It's not no, no, they it

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01:37:15,000 --> 01:37:16,760
Speaker 1: ain't me. It's animations. I animate us.

1816
01:37:17,320 --> 01:37:27,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, so you were doing like intimate animations of you guys.

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01:37:27,400 --> 01:37:31,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're tripping. I can show you. Okay, wow, we're

1818
01:37:31,640 --> 01:37:36,800
Speaker 1: tripping on and then she does the voiceovers and then yeah,

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01:37:37,560 --> 01:37:38,559
Speaker 1: I don need to get up phone.

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01:37:38,600 --> 01:37:41,320
Speaker 2: Then my god, it's like dipsy but your own ship.

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01:37:41,560 --> 01:37:45,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're making money. Yeah. No, I didn't think it

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01:37:45,439 --> 01:37:46,400
Speaker 1: was gonna pop off like that.

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01:37:47,400 --> 01:37:49,160
Speaker 3: Were they expecting Did they know it was animated or

1824
01:37:49,160 --> 01:37:50,519
Speaker 3: they thought it was going to be human?

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01:37:50,720 --> 01:37:51,160
Speaker 1: No, I was.

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01:37:51,320 --> 01:37:55,280
Speaker 2: I would never like click thing. I would, but you

1827
01:37:55,400 --> 01:37:57,040
Speaker 2: know what everyone's telling me to do that. I am

1828
01:37:57,080 --> 01:38:00,479
Speaker 2: considering foot porn. Everyone's telling me to do it.

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01:38:00,800 --> 01:38:01,439
Speaker 1: Beautiful feet.

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01:38:01,800 --> 01:38:03,599
Speaker 2: I mean, I've been tempted to do foot porn too.

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01:38:03,640 --> 01:38:05,160
Speaker 2: I have a nice feed. Also, maybe we could do

1832
01:38:05,200 --> 01:38:05,639
Speaker 2: a collab.

1833
01:38:06,439 --> 01:38:20,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, there was some pain on there with your approval,

1834
01:38:20,040 --> 01:38:22,200
Speaker 1: of course. Just let me do foot porn with your wife.

1835
01:38:23,400 --> 01:38:26,519
Speaker 1: We're just talking about that last night with Quen. Yeah,

1836
01:38:28,080 --> 01:38:28,599
Speaker 1: oh my god.

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01:38:28,640 --> 01:38:30,720
Speaker 2: All right, y'all, well, thank you so much for coming on,

1838
01:38:32,040 --> 01:38:34,759
Speaker 2: and we'll put all their info in this episode description

1839
01:38:34,960 --> 01:38:36,760
Speaker 2: make sure you go check out the good Viber tree

1840
01:38:36,800 --> 01:38:39,920
Speaker 2: and come with us to Costa Rica. Follow us on Instagram,

1841
01:38:40,360 --> 01:38:43,120
Speaker 2: join our Patreon. We have a bunch of bonus clips

1842
01:38:43,160 --> 01:38:45,240
Speaker 2: over there and when you enter, when you get when

1843
01:38:45,280 --> 01:38:48,040
Speaker 2: you join Patreon, you get access to our Discord community,

1844
01:38:48,400 --> 01:38:52,160
Speaker 2: which is poppington all the time. There's always things happening.

1845
01:38:52,240 --> 01:38:54,120
Speaker 2: There's tons of hories. We didn't share one today, but

1846
01:38:54,520 --> 01:38:54,760
Speaker 2: we need.

1847
01:38:54,880 --> 01:38:57,280
Speaker 1: We have like a list of horses and they're so unfair.

1848
01:38:57,479 --> 01:38:59,360
Speaker 1: We didn't even get to hear y'all horse stories.

1849
01:39:00,080 --> 01:39:02,240
Speaker 2: Of these are other people's horse stories that they share.

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01:39:02,439 --> 01:39:04,559
Speaker 2: So we have a whole channel at Discord called Hories

1851
01:39:04,560 --> 01:39:08,160
Speaker 2: where people just share an updated horries like I want

1852
01:39:08,200 --> 01:39:10,439
Speaker 2: to Yeah, there's like a truck driver in there. He's

1853
01:39:10,439 --> 01:39:12,360
Speaker 2: been doing some freaky ship over there.

1854
01:39:12,840 --> 01:39:15,519
Speaker 3: Don't forget to go also into Patreon to get your

1855
01:39:15,520 --> 01:39:19,160
Speaker 3: PDFs for the question, so you two can play at home.

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01:39:19,720 --> 01:39:22,400
Speaker 3: PDFs coming soon, all the PDFs you can think of.

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01:39:25,320 --> 01:39:27,120
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay, we'll see you guys next week.

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01:39:27,360 --> 01:39:28,479
Speaker 1: Bye bye bye

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Speaker 2: M