1 00:00:11,160 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 1: Let's get to the letter. Please today, Tommy A buckle 2 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:19,319 Speaker 1: up a whole long time. We got it for you. 3 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 1: Here it is Strawberry letter. Subject is my boyfriend cheating 4 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:29,000 Speaker 1: with my sister? I know this is too much. Hey, 5 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 1: Uncle Steve Harvey in the morning crew, I have a problem. 6 00:00:32,159 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: I think my boyfriend of three years is cheating with 7 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: my sister. The reason why I think this is because 8 00:00:38,760 --> 00:00:41,200 Speaker 1: of many occasions I have gotten up in the middle 9 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:43,919 Speaker 1: of the night to find them in the living room 10 00:00:43,920 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 1: talking and they'd be real close to each other, like 11 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:50,960 Speaker 1: they're about to kiss or something. And when I walk in, Uh, 12 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 1: they act real nervous and just stopped talking altogether. And 13 00:00:53,840 --> 00:00:56,800 Speaker 1: when I asked them what they was talking about, they 14 00:00:56,840 --> 00:01:00,520 Speaker 1: say nothing. Then one night the boat, they both went 15 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:03,600 Speaker 1: out to get something to eat, and then they stayed 16 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 1: out till one in the morning. When they got back, 17 00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:08,840 Speaker 1: I asked them where my food was. They said they 18 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 1: didn't think I wanted anything. And then to come to 19 00:01:12,680 --> 00:01:15,840 Speaker 1: find out, Uh, they've been going to the movies a 20 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 1: lot and doing little things with each other without including me. 21 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:21,119 Speaker 1: When I asked them if something was going on, they 22 00:01:21,160 --> 00:01:23,560 Speaker 1: tell me no and laugh and say that I'm crazy 23 00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:26,600 Speaker 1: and I shouldn't think anything like that. Should I believe 24 00:01:26,680 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 1: them or just leave both of them alone? Okay? No, 25 00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 1: you should not believe their lies. That's number one. And 26 00:01:34,520 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 1: if you leave them both alone, what you think slash 27 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:42,840 Speaker 1: no in your mind and heart is happening will continue. Okay. 28 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:46,119 Speaker 1: I gotta ask you. Are you just waiting to catch 29 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 1: them in the act? Uh? They are doing it? Okay, 30 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 1: let's just keep it real. They are doing it, all right. 31 00:01:55,960 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 1: I mean, how they're getting missy. They're getting missy, They're 32 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 1: getting busy, They're getting busy, you know what I mean? 33 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:07,240 Speaker 1: I mean, how much more proof do you need? I 34 00:02:07,240 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: don't understand this. They are together as a couple. You 35 00:02:14,480 --> 00:02:18,240 Speaker 1: are the outsider in this relationship, Okay, who stays up 36 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:21,480 Speaker 1: at night talking and then you you come in there 37 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 1: and they're this close to each other and they say 38 00:02:23,680 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 1: they're to come on playing you big time. Anyway, they 39 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:36,440 Speaker 1: are together, they are a couple. They're trying to figure 40 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:39,280 Speaker 1: out how to get rid of you in this instance. Okay, 41 00:02:39,320 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 1: So you can do two things. You can either confront 42 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 1: them and tell them you know and you know you're 43 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:46,520 Speaker 1: not crazy, or you can just walk away and leave 44 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:58,080 Speaker 1: them alone. Steve, because they're together. Whatever we wake up, Steve, Hey, 45 00:02:58,200 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 1: uncle Steve, Well you know, I mean, here's here's a 46 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:08,799 Speaker 1: couple of things I noticed in the letter. First of all, 47 00:03:09,600 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 1: is my boyfriend cheating with my sister? The real alarm 48 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 1: button goes off when you discover the cheating anything but 49 00:03:20,240 --> 00:03:25,959 Speaker 1: your sister. Though this there has to be another term 50 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:32,200 Speaker 1: for it. If your boyfriend or husband or man is 51 00:03:32,240 --> 00:03:37,640 Speaker 1: sleeping with your sister, that has to be more than cheating. 52 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 1: That's what just I mean, it's you gotta call it 53 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:43,839 Speaker 1: something else. What it is, I don't know. I think 54 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 1: your alarm. I don't understand how you I'm asking them 55 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 1: are they doing something? They just laughing? Sound crazy? At 56 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:55,520 Speaker 1: what point do you get in your sister face and 57 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 1: just go, hold up, wait a minute, what are you doing? 58 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 1: What are you too? At one point you gotta get 59 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 1: in your sister's griel about this. The boyfriend probably ain't 60 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 1: worth a damn obviously, according to this letter, But you 61 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 1: really would expect your blood sister or brother to hold 62 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 1: something to a higher set of morals and esteem something man. 63 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:29,839 Speaker 1: So we come back, I'll give you a couple of suggestions. 64 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:32,600 Speaker 1: All right, Part too of Steve response coming up at 65 00:04:32,600 --> 00:04:36,039 Speaker 1: twenty three after the hour, we will be back. Come on, 66 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:38,720 Speaker 1: Steve with your response to part two of this letter. 67 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 1: Let's go right now. I just was reading this letter 68 00:04:42,520 --> 00:04:47,479 Speaker 1: real good. Hey on Christy and the Morning crew. I 69 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:51,279 Speaker 1: have a problem. I think my boyfriend of three years 70 00:04:51,360 --> 00:04:54,680 Speaker 1: is cheating with my sister. The reason why I think 71 00:04:54,760 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 1: this is because on many occasions I have got up 72 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:01,360 Speaker 1: in the middle of the night to find them in 73 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 1: the living room talking and they'd be real close to 74 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:07,400 Speaker 1: each other, like like they're about to kiss or something, 75 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:10,359 Speaker 1: and when I walk in, they get real nervous and 76 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:12,479 Speaker 1: just stop talking all together. When I asked them what 77 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:15,479 Speaker 1: they were talking about, they say nothing. Then one night 78 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:17,480 Speaker 1: to both of them went out to get something to eat, 79 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 1: and they asked They stayed out to one in the morning, 80 00:05:20,440 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: and when they got back, I asked him, uh. I 81 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:27,279 Speaker 1: asked them, uh, where my food was? And they said 82 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:31,640 Speaker 1: that anything I wanted. Nothing. And then come to find 83 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 1: out they've been going to the movies a lot and 84 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 1: doing little things with each other without including me. But 85 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 1: I then I asked him and something going on? They 86 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:42,720 Speaker 1: tell me no, one laugh and say I'm crazy it 87 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:46,240 Speaker 1: and I shouldn't think nothing like that. Should I believe 88 00:05:46,320 --> 00:05:51,800 Speaker 1: them or just leave them both alone? Well, well, stupid lady, 89 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:57,159 Speaker 1: let's start here. You got up in the middle of 90 00:05:57,240 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 1: the night and found them in the living room, and 91 00:06:02,560 --> 00:06:05,559 Speaker 1: they were real close to each other, like they're about 92 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:09,640 Speaker 1: to kiss or something. Uh that no, No, that ain't 93 00:06:09,680 --> 00:06:14,599 Speaker 1: what the scene was. They was real close together because 94 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:20,760 Speaker 1: they had they was through. They were through. Yeah, that's 95 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:24,360 Speaker 1: why I looked at this was after you are only 96 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 1: watching the movie? Was he yawned in real hard? Because 97 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:31,479 Speaker 1: that's a good sign that he was through? See if 98 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 1: they loved that real close like they're about to kiss 99 00:06:33,760 --> 00:06:36,039 Speaker 1: or something. Now, they were real close because they were through. 100 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:38,600 Speaker 1: You woke up too late. You're gonna have start getting 101 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:43,800 Speaker 1: up earlier back. Why are you going to sleep and 102 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 1: leaving the two people? Who hous is this? Where do 103 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:52,080 Speaker 1: he sleep? You got up in the middle of the night. 104 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:54,919 Speaker 1: Where was he supposed to be? See, I come, he 105 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:58,839 Speaker 1: ain't where he supposed to be? Why he always downstair? 106 00:06:58,920 --> 00:07:00,279 Speaker 1: And you didn't say that if you didn't out up 107 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 1: on many occasions? So you just late all that day? 108 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 1: I'm turing you know been up on many occasions and 109 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:14,200 Speaker 1: you ain't caught them yet. You need to set your 110 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 1: alarm or hey, it's one o'clock, sent it for twelve, 111 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 1: so you can walk in and really know what you 112 00:07:23,640 --> 00:07:27,240 Speaker 1: already know. And then and then she said, and then 113 00:07:27,280 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 1: I walk in, they're real nervous and and and real 114 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 1: nervous and just stopped talking all together. That's just where 115 00:07:35,040 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 1: you fix that. Sit down with him, just gonna say 116 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 1: what now? What happened? You know, you strike up a 117 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:53,040 Speaker 1: conversation seeing then uh, and and and then and then 118 00:07:56,080 --> 00:08:00,120 Speaker 1: that didn't make anybody lie. That's where you saying. And 119 00:08:00,160 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 1: then one night both of them went out to get 120 00:08:02,720 --> 00:08:05,000 Speaker 1: something to eat, and they stayed out to one in 121 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:07,559 Speaker 1: the morning. And then when they got back, I asked 122 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:10,040 Speaker 1: him or where my food was, and they said they 123 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:15,160 Speaker 1: ain't think I won't it. You should work again once again, 124 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 1: say what now? See, lady, you you got to be 125 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 1: the only way you can write this letter. And this 126 00:08:27,000 --> 00:08:31,600 Speaker 1: makes sense to me. You have to be twelve to 127 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:34,840 Speaker 1: make sense to me, because ain't no grown woman sitting 128 00:08:34,880 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 1: up in here writing this letter with all this information 129 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:40,200 Speaker 1: in it. You don't woke up. On many occasions they've 130 00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 1: been sitting any real close, real close see that when 131 00:08:44,880 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 1: you break out the chain. Saw that when you go 132 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 1: out in the garage and get a hammer. See always 133 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:55,520 Speaker 1: all this real clothes. Folks like they're about to see 134 00:08:55,640 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 1: you bust their teeth out when that cut out, kissing 135 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:05,280 Speaker 1: hardy kids, when it inside your lips is cut that, Steve, 136 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:09,080 Speaker 1: y'all have the movie, but you won't need no more 137 00:09:09,120 --> 00:09:14,839 Speaker 1: problems in your mouth. Okay. Then come to find out 138 00:09:14,880 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 1: they've been going to movies a lot and doing little 139 00:09:17,960 --> 00:09:21,319 Speaker 1: things with each other without including me, going to the 140 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:27,520 Speaker 1: movies without you, doing little stuff that don't include you. 141 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:33,600 Speaker 1: When is y'all dating? Is this boy got a job 142 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 1: because he busy? Then when you got enough time to 143 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:40,760 Speaker 1: date two women in the same house. If they don't 144 00:09:40,840 --> 00:09:46,640 Speaker 1: know it, oh man, come on later. Okay. When I 145 00:09:46,679 --> 00:09:50,400 Speaker 1: asked him if something was going on, they tell me 146 00:09:50,480 --> 00:09:56,680 Speaker 1: no and laugh and say that I'm crazy. Okay. Now 147 00:09:57,520 --> 00:10:02,120 Speaker 1: once they start laughing. While they laughing, this year time 148 00:10:02,160 --> 00:10:04,120 Speaker 1: to go out to the garage again. I can't tell 149 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:08,440 Speaker 1: you why they're laughing. So when they come back in 150 00:10:08,640 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 1: while they're laughing, right after they say that I'm crazy, 151 00:10:13,440 --> 00:10:18,440 Speaker 1: that's when you get to show your ass you won't crazy. 152 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 1: I got crazy fire day. Y'all can either right now 153 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:27,760 Speaker 1: climbing these hefty bags right now. I'm gonna cut you 154 00:10:27,800 --> 00:10:31,040 Speaker 1: up and I'm gonna put you now. Now you can 155 00:10:31,160 --> 00:10:37,239 Speaker 1: volunteer and climb in this he Be quiet, Be quiet, 156 00:10:37,440 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 1: because we got neighbors. I'm clean up all this mess 157 00:10:41,800 --> 00:10:45,679 Speaker 1: of stuff. See, that's when people think you crazy. It's 158 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 1: time to show them that they that they are crazy. 159 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:51,079 Speaker 1: Just have a bunch of heavy duty hefty steal trash 160 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 1: bass y'all getting these bags, or you can go out 161 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:56,679 Speaker 1: to the corn just climbing the trunk and we can 162 00:10:56,720 --> 00:11:02,959 Speaker 1: do this Christian way. Christians all. I'm putting both of 163 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 1: y'all down the garb and just post. Now what kind 164 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:15,640 Speaker 1: of funeral is that? All right? Steve? Thank you? Email 165 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 1: us or instagram us your thoughts on today's strawberry letter 166 00:11:18,760 --> 00:11:22,760 Speaker 1: at my girl. Surely okay, you're listening to the Steve 167 00:11:22,920 --> 00:11:23,880 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show.