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Speaker 1: Are you wearing blue contact lenses? I had on greater day?

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Speaker 1: This is nephew Timmy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Lord,

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Speaker 1: and if it is, so what And that's another thing.

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Speaker 1: So what And they're saying why now you know, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because it's some money making opportunity. It ain't got nothing

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Speaker 1: to do with my truth. You can tell your truth.

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Speaker 1: You could have been told your truth. There's a way

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Speaker 1: to make money. Now, come on, man, I don't care

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Speaker 1: what you do. That's your business. But now all of

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Speaker 1: a sudden, you need to sell books, so now here

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Speaker 1: coming the store could have put it. Hey, hey, your

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Speaker 1: truth could have been free on the internet. You ain't

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Speaker 1: had to put it in a book that's for sale,

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Speaker 1: saying hello, if you if it's the truth you want

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Speaker 1: to tell, you can tell it now. Instagram, Yeah, kick,

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Speaker 1: go to the altar test Is anyone here that has

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Speaker 1: anything to say? I had something to confess. I've been

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Speaker 1: giving a lot of soup lately, and I'm just tired

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Speaker 1: of it. So much soup pass so much? Sup Hey man,

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Speaker 1: did you see that? Did you see that thing that

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Speaker 1: went viral with this lady's titt up at testimonium and

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Speaker 1: was in church and started talking about her sexual escapade? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but graphically yes, yes, yes, I was. HOLLI calls the

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Speaker 1: dude that gave her the mic. He went, God, why

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Speaker 1: would you know that she's gonna say something? Yeah, So

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Speaker 1: that's why I need a screening process. Makes the deacon

445
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:29,360
Speaker 1: or whatever holds the mic just got don't give your

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Speaker 1: mic up? Yeah right? Oh, and back to Robin Crawford.

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Speaker 1: She also writes of Whitney's crush on Eddie Murphy, saying

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Speaker 1: she was interested in Eddie but he was elusive, and

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Speaker 1: that Eddie did call Whitney to tell her she was

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Speaker 1: making a mistake marrying Bobby Brown. So there you go.

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Speaker 1: That's all not what news everybody told him. Everybody told

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Speaker 1: me that I said it. We ain't even Murphy. That's

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Speaker 1: funny Steve. Everybody. Oh yeah, definitely love Bobby Brown. Truth.

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Speaker 1: That's that's our truth. That's our truth. Jay, That'll be

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Speaker 1: in our book. Yeah, all right, time for today's headlines too.

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Speaker 1: Let's get to with Steve. Ladies and gentlemen, miss and Tripp.

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Speaker 1: Thank you very much everybody, and good morning. This is

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Speaker 1: a trip with the news, everybody. The public phase of

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Speaker 1: the House impeachment inquiry into President Trump begins in earnest

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Speaker 1: next week, with a House Intelligence Committee holding public hearings

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Speaker 1: with a number of American diplomats. The president suspected of trying,

462
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Speaker 1: of course, to strong arm Ukrainian officials into investigating Joe

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Speaker 1: Biden and his son Hunter with the threat of the

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Speaker 1: loss of very valuable military aid. In the transcript of

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Speaker 1: his early testimony by the Way to House impeachment investigators,

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Speaker 1: a deputy Assistant Secretary of State named George Kent discusses

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Speaker 1: his concerns about how President Trump and his personal attorney

468
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Speaker 1: Rudy Giuliani were trying to force Ukraine into launching an

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Speaker 1: investigation to Joe and Hunter and to make a big

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Speaker 1: announcement about it. Chicago's had a police Eddie Johnson, says

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Speaker 1: he's retiring after more than three years as Shytown superintendent

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Speaker 1: of Police. Johnson took the job during an especially violent

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Speaker 1: chapter in Chicago's history and amid the public outcry over

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Speaker 1: that release of that video showing the outright murder of

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Speaker 1: a black teenager named Lakwan McDonald by a white cop

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Speaker 1: who shot him sixteen times and then tried to claim

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Speaker 1: that he did it because he felt threatened, despite the

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Speaker 1: fact that the video shows Lakwan walking away from him

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Speaker 1: and not toward him. Police Superintendent Eddie Johnson oversaw a

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Speaker 1: significant drop in violent crime, all the while hearing the

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Speaker 1: President berate him and his town. So Johnson refused to

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Speaker 1: attend last week's top Cop confab in Chicago. Of course,

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Speaker 1: his absence didn't go unnoticed. They gonna tote him my

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Speaker 1: health more than anyone else. This person should be here

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Speaker 1: because maybe he could learn something. And that's the Superintendent

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Speaker 1: of Chicago Police, Eddie Johnson. Here's a man that could

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Speaker 1: not bother the show up for a meeting of police

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Speaker 1: chiefs most respected people in the country, in his hometown

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Speaker 1: and with the President of the United States. And you

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Speaker 1: know why, It's because he's not doing his job well.

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Speaker 1: Chief Johnson says he did do his job and at

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Speaker 1: great personal cost. Here gonn tote him my health, my family,

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Speaker 1: my friends, but my integrity remains intact. And I'm proud

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Speaker 1: of what the department has accomplished during my tenure. Johnson

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Speaker 1: passed out during a press conference two years ago, admitted

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Speaker 1: to health problems and had to undergo a kidney transplant.

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Speaker 1: He is ill and Louisiana authorities say that a white

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Speaker 1: woman was fatally shot after charging at a black police

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Speaker 1: officer with scissors, calling him the end word, and the

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Speaker 1: officer of Patrick Edmonds Junior has been cleared of any wrongdoing.

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Speaker 1: Once folks on the tape. Funerals have begun in Mexico

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Speaker 1: for the victims of what police field was a gang

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Speaker 1: lang and shooting of three American women and six children

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Speaker 1: in a horrific case, they say, of mistaken identity. Today

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Speaker 1: national cook something good today. Today we're gonna do some

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Speaker 1: other roasted chicken weight good zoy. So now back to

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to show well, Uh,

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Speaker 1: Jay is here. We're so happy when you're here with us. Jay,

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Speaker 1: that means you're healthy and good. Uh and and Jay,

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Speaker 1: I don't know where you find the time, but apparently

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Speaker 1: you've written another book. What is this your ape? I

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Speaker 1: mean that I love eleven. I got my level. I

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Speaker 1: didn't eleven. But this is this is my newest book.

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Speaker 1: This is my newest book. While I was in the Chimo,

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Speaker 1: I put this together. The name of the book is

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Speaker 1: is very catchy. You catch on this. Sometimes kin folks

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Speaker 1: ain't work for damn, or you can use the S word.

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Speaker 1: That's the title of the one more time. Sometimes ken

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Speaker 1: folks ain't worth for damn, or you can use the

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Speaker 1: S word. So that's that's the title of the book.

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Speaker 1: And there's several chapters in there that everybody who has

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Speaker 1: kin folks can relate to. In my new book calls

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Speaker 1: sometimes kin folks ain't work the damn you can use

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Speaker 1: it for chapter one. Just because you got a big house,

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Speaker 1: they can show up and stay for free. That's chapter one.

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Speaker 1: Oh man. That that that little chapter two. I had

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Speaker 1: to get into some personal stuff that they think your

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Speaker 1: house is storied. Let me put something in your garage

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Speaker 1: for a couple of days. I mean it's been in there,

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Speaker 1: ain't much now, it ain't moved. You know. It's the

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Speaker 1: old pod. I don't even know what it is myself.

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Speaker 1: I didn't lift it up. I don't know that. Chapter three, Okay,

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Speaker 1: this is if you have a big house up. Uh.

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Speaker 1: Can folk get confused in a new book? Sometimes ken

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Speaker 1: folking for damn, and you can use the S word.

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Speaker 1: They think they think you're the daddy. What they don't

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Speaker 1: understand is you're the granddaddy, not the daddy. Daddy. Some

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Speaker 1: of those problems, this is a personal Some of those

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Speaker 1: problems need to go to the daddy, not the granddaddy. Okay,

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Speaker 1: you need to go right to the daddy. Okay, Oh,

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Speaker 1: this is a chapter. If you my book, my new

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Speaker 1: book call Sometimes kN folks don't for damn or you

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Speaker 1: can use the S word. Just they you a bad

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Speaker 1: guy if you don't babysit. I don't baby sit. Okay.

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Speaker 1: I smoke things. I do things that around kids. And

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Speaker 1: and when you come back, he gonna have a whole

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Speaker 1: different attitude if you leave him here, Okay, he gonna

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Speaker 1: he gonna be a little he gonna be hungry's gonna

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Speaker 1: be sleep big. Yeah, you're gonna come pick up a

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Speaker 1: little at in my new book. In my new book,

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Speaker 1: sometimes can with a damn or you can use the

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Speaker 1: asword they think you a finance company. That's my book.

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Speaker 1: That's my book. Several chapters in never be out soon. Uh,

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Speaker 1: sometimes can't damn you can use check it out in

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Speaker 1: my new book. Yeah, and I was gonna be a bestseller.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be gonna be all right. Come up in

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Speaker 1: thirty four after the hour, Thank you, Jay. Still trending

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Speaker 1: U t I is facing backlash about some of his

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Speaker 1: parenting choices. We're going to talk about that right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to this Dave Harvey Morning Show. Well, TI's

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Speaker 1: entire family turned into a trending topic when he revealed

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Speaker 1: a very questionable parenting strategy. Tip talked on the Ladies

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Speaker 1: Like Us podcast about the length he goes to to

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Speaker 1: help make sure his eighteen year old daughter, Deja remains

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Speaker 1: a version. TI says that he and his daughter take

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Speaker 1: yearly trips to the Guina cologist to check her hyman

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Speaker 1: to see if it's still intact. Well, yeah, TI is

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Speaker 1: still facing some backlash on social media force comments and

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Speaker 1: people are saying TI is controlling or would he give

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Speaker 1: the same scrutiny to one of his sons of the

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Speaker 1: same age, So, and why is that different? This is

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Speaker 1: a double standard. So do you guys all of you

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Speaker 1: guys have daughters, with the exception of you, of course.

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Speaker 1: Uh So there's a double standard of parenting boys and girls,

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Speaker 1: and they're always has been. What do you guys think?

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Speaker 1: That's a lot. I mean, the conversation with my son

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Speaker 1: is totally different from the conversation with my right, I'm

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm very protective of her, So that's gonna be different.

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Speaker 1: That's two different. Yeah, yeah, And that's the whole point

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Speaker 1: of the question, the double standard, because sometimes men that

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Speaker 1: they that they applaud a little boys or boys in

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Speaker 1: terms of their escapade, and then they're protective of girls.

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Speaker 1: So it is a double standard. And why is that?

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Speaker 1: I don't I couldn't tell you. It started long before me.

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Speaker 1: Shirt you think that I didn't start, I don't go ahead,

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Speaker 1: you know, I don't know. I don't really care about

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Speaker 1: what comment t I made. I really really don't. I

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Speaker 1: kind of took that as a tongue in cheek type

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Speaker 1: thing he was doing. But if it is the reality

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Speaker 1: of what he does, I mean, who am I? Who

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Speaker 1: am I? You know that's how he choose to parent.

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Speaker 1: But you know you can't watch them always, and you

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Speaker 1: know they're gonna leave the house, and when they leave

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Speaker 1: the house, they're gonna make decisions. Man, and you and

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Speaker 1: to the best of your parenting ability. What I've had

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Speaker 1: to learn over the years is when one of my

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Speaker 1: kids make a mistake, I also remember the fact of

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Speaker 1: how many I made. Yes, I think of how many

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Speaker 1: I made, and then I immediately start to understand that

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Speaker 1: they're gonna make them too, and they can go against

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Speaker 1: the very best of your parental skills and teachings. They

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Speaker 1: just making that decision and it's nothing you could do

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Speaker 1: about it. So I'm not really mad at what t

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Speaker 1: I said at all. You know I've never done that,

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Speaker 1: But you know, the just this thing, man, I mean,

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Speaker 1: go ahead, Can I speak on behalf of some a

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Speaker 1: lot of ignorant men? Maybe? Who is who is Hemming?

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Speaker 1: Who is he? Who is? I thought I couldn't be

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Speaker 1: top that stupid stepped up in that he's on your team.

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Speaker 1: He's a president, and your team this guy and what

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Speaker 1: is he doing in the room. I'm about need to

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Speaker 1: go back to health class. He missed that whole week. Yeah, yeah, man,

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Speaker 1: the daughter is a different part that the daughters are different.

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Speaker 1: Hands on you and all your young men, and that's listening,

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Speaker 1: all young men and this listen. I'm ready to put

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Speaker 1: the one jump on any day, go down. I'm just

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Speaker 1: letting you know I'm ready to put the jump on.

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Speaker 1: And is that because you guys are guys and you

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Speaker 1: know what you're thinking about the You know what we

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Speaker 1: did as to why you don't want her dealing or

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Speaker 1: your daughter is dealing with guys at that age. It's

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Speaker 1: not a guy that you didn't look at him that well?

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Speaker 1: What what's what's up with you? Really up? I mean, look,

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Speaker 1: we know what all of them want anyway to the house.

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Speaker 1: We already know what you want. All I love your daughter,

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Speaker 1: No you don't, not like I do. So I already

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Speaker 1: know what you want. And my job is just to

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Speaker 1: make it well. When they lived at home, my job

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Speaker 1: was to make it as difficult for them. I was

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Speaker 1: not easy. You don't feel welcome over his house, you know.

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Speaker 1: So if y'all downstairs kissing real hard, you're gonna be

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Speaker 1: doing it with a lot of nervous tensions. Kissing. It's

633
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:43,239
Speaker 1: gonna be tired, it's be tight, you're gonna you're gonna

634
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:46,920
Speaker 1: chip your tooth trying to break away. All right, guys, Well,

635
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:49,800
Speaker 1: thank you. You can post your comments on parenting and

636
00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:54,960
Speaker 1: double standards and all that at Steve them on Facebook

637
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:59,120
Speaker 1: and Instagram. Coming up next, today's bring phone call with

638
00:43:59,239 --> 00:44:04,880
Speaker 1: the nephew. Right after this you're listening to. Coming up

639
00:44:04,920 --> 00:44:08,239
Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, right about four minutes after,

640
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Speaker 1: it's my strawberry letter for today, the subject living with

641
00:44:12,920 --> 00:44:17,719
Speaker 1: another man's wife. Uh, we're gonna get to the prank

642
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:20,120
Speaker 1: call in a moment with a nephew. But you guys

643
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:23,920
Speaker 1: had more to speak on this ti double standard, uh

644
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:29,000
Speaker 1: situation that we were discussing earlier. I'm you know, look,

645
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:32,479
Speaker 1: I think tis damned if he do, and damned he don't.

646
00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:35,280
Speaker 1: You know, if people always got something to say about something,

647
00:44:35,840 --> 00:44:37,799
Speaker 1: If a man taking his daughter down to the guy

648
00:44:37,840 --> 00:44:42,440
Speaker 1: in the colleges, he's controlling, he's insensitive. Yeah, I think

649
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:45,359
Speaker 1: he is being controlling. I mean, house, do you help

650
00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:48,080
Speaker 1: keep a grip on the situation. I think a lot

651
00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:51,840
Speaker 1: of us as men. We know what the boy walks

652
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:55,920
Speaker 1: when he come over and dog on it like look man,

653
00:44:56,280 --> 00:44:59,200
Speaker 1: and till them girls move out the house. I made

654
00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:02,279
Speaker 1: it as hard as I possibly could, or every boy

655
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:05,319
Speaker 1: that came to the house. I know what you want, Pardner, Yeah,

656
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:08,480
Speaker 1: because I know exactly what you weren't here for. My

657
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:13,279
Speaker 1: job is to be the gatekeeper. That's all I got

658
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:15,720
Speaker 1: to say to you, Partner, how many fathers that aren't

659
00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:18,920
Speaker 1: at all? You know he's dead with his daughter, Mana.

660
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 1: He's an active father. He and his kids lives. Now.

661
00:45:24,560 --> 00:45:26,640
Speaker 1: If you think that's too much, you can have the

662
00:45:26,800 --> 00:45:29,560
Speaker 1: right to thank us too much. But I'll tell you

663
00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:35,960
Speaker 1: what I'd rather pair be too much than absently Steve. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: at least not only am I the gatekeeper, is cameras

665
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Speaker 1: on these gates and all rounded camera on this gate.

666
00:45:55,120 --> 00:46:00,600
Speaker 1: I love it all right now, baby, let's time date

667
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:02,919
Speaker 1: is the prank of the day, lunch time day. Let's

668
00:46:02,920 --> 00:46:07,480
Speaker 1: go catch down. Hello, Hey, I'm trying to speak to

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00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 1: uh toech speak to Alan. This is Alan? Who's this? Hey? Alan? Yo?

670
00:46:11,280 --> 00:46:13,600
Speaker 1: This Derek Man. It took us out. Bro. You are

671
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:16,600
Speaker 1: Rachel's Rachel's husband, right, Yeah, Yeah, that's all I by,

672
00:46:16,640 --> 00:46:18,640
Speaker 1: what's something wrong? No, no, no, no, no no no.

673
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:20,440
Speaker 1: I work this like I said this, Derek, Man, I

674
00:46:20,520 --> 00:46:24,200
Speaker 1: work with your wife Rachel. Right, you used you're supervisor something.

675
00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 1: I mean you just this about work something. I mean.

676
00:46:26,160 --> 00:46:28,440
Speaker 1: She's doing a good job and everything she ain't bout no, no, no,

677
00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:30,160
Speaker 1: everything is straight, man, Ain't nothing wrong with the job.

678
00:46:30,200 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 1: Everything's cool as the job. This this right here, man

679
00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:35,520
Speaker 1: is like what I know this man, And it's you know,

680
00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:38,680
Speaker 1: it just seems like every single day, you know, while

681
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:41,400
Speaker 1: she's on her lunch break, it seems like, you know,

682
00:46:41,560 --> 00:46:44,840
Speaker 1: you would call and and and uh and then blocked

683
00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 1: off the whole hour of her lunch break. And actually,

684
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:49,440
Speaker 1: you know, just be real, man, I'm just trying to

685
00:46:49,480 --> 00:46:51,239
Speaker 1: come correct with you. It just seemed like you just

686
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:53,800
Speaker 1: cut in on all the time that I have that

687
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:56,879
Speaker 1: I had with her. Well whoa, whoa, whoa what hell?

688
00:46:56,920 --> 00:46:58,560
Speaker 1: Hold hold up on me, hold up, hold on bro,

689
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:02,200
Speaker 1: Wait you but the are you doing at lunch with

690
00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:04,560
Speaker 1: my lady sons? Like I said, you know, we just

691
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:06,560
Speaker 1: we're just spending time, you know, doing lunch time. But

692
00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 1: it just seems so rude, you know that rude, rude, rude,

693
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:13,080
Speaker 1: you you. Okay. First of all, that's my lady. Okay,

694
00:47:13,160 --> 00:47:15,680
Speaker 1: I can call her whenever I feel like calling that.

695
00:47:15,800 --> 00:47:17,879
Speaker 1: That's what I pay for the phone deal. I bought

696
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:22,160
Speaker 1: that iPhone five I could get calling whenever. Please. All right. Secondly,

697
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 1: you ain't got no business being with a married woman

698
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:28,840
Speaker 1: alone at lunch. This ain't no date. You're supposed to

699
00:47:28,840 --> 00:47:31,120
Speaker 1: be at work. No, we are at work. Well, I'm

700
00:47:31,120 --> 00:47:34,239
Speaker 1: saying we call workers. You know, it seemed like half

701
00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:36,560
Speaker 1: the whole time I'm sitting in front of hull. You know,

702
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 1: we're supposed to be having lunch together and she's talking

703
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:40,840
Speaker 1: to you the whole Um. Okay, what what's your name be?

704
00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:43,359
Speaker 1: Getting name there? Derek? Derek? All right, Derek? You work

705
00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:44,960
Speaker 1: at the same building up because you you would work

706
00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:46,799
Speaker 1: right now? Huh yeah? I mean yeah, I'm here at

707
00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:48,399
Speaker 1: the job and y'all work in the same flow. Because

708
00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:49,759
Speaker 1: I can find they come and see you. You kams

709
00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:54,080
Speaker 1: about to jump off way way different for you straight up. Okay,

710
00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:55,960
Speaker 1: So let let me ask you something, man, What is

711
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:59,160
Speaker 1: a big deal? Understand? Okay, you look like you don't

712
00:47:59,160 --> 00:48:00,960
Speaker 1: see her. You're like you don't see her when she

713
00:48:01,040 --> 00:48:04,160
Speaker 1: gets home, you know, So why is it so important

714
00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:07,839
Speaker 1: that you waste a whole hour of lunshielding and ain't

715
00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:10,640
Speaker 1: wasted any ain't waste a month. I'm talking to my lady. Okay,

716
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 1: you understand that. Why don't you go out and good

717
00:48:13,480 --> 00:48:15,480
Speaker 1: and then you ain't got to worry about sitting up

718
00:48:15,480 --> 00:48:18,359
Speaker 1: in front of me. Lady, that's my wife. I walked

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Speaker 1: down the hour with that. We got kids, we got

720
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:22,920
Speaker 1: a house, We take care that he helped me hold

721
00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:26,719
Speaker 1: it down. And this you you you ain't you know

722
00:48:27,280 --> 00:48:30,320
Speaker 1: it's like you you don't ever want to come in

723
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:32,719
Speaker 1: and do so. They got to always want to come

724
00:48:32,760 --> 00:48:35,320
Speaker 1: in and somebody else's wife, and why why won't you

725
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:38,480
Speaker 1: do this? Take take this advice and see what it works.

726
00:48:38,600 --> 00:48:42,920
Speaker 1: Have it works for you. Go to club, church, library,

727
00:48:42,960 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 1: grocery stole, whatever, the fund your j and you get

728
00:48:47,160 --> 00:48:49,840
Speaker 1: you a chick. You gave her for a minute, you

729
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:52,800
Speaker 1: called her for a minute, You romanceuff for me. And

730
00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:54,480
Speaker 1: that's what real men. Do you know what I'm saying.

731
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Speaker 1: That's what I did. That's how I got my Rachel's

732
00:48:57,960 --> 00:49:00,480
Speaker 1: that's stuff. That's my heart. You're trying to sit up

733
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:03,279
Speaker 1: there in front of lunch with us every day for

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Speaker 1: the past year. I'll tell you what, bro, it may

735
00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:09,000
Speaker 1: not be today, it may man get the mark, but

736
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:11,680
Speaker 1: soon soon you're gonna see me me. You're gonna have

737
00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:14,439
Speaker 1: none of this phone conversation, just gonna be a face

738
00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:18,320
Speaker 1: to face. You knew through all of saying, Man, I

739
00:49:18,360 --> 00:49:22,640
Speaker 1: ain't trying to come between y'all at all. All I'm done, okay,

740
00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:24,640
Speaker 1: Like I'm saying, I'm not trying to come between y'all.

741
00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:27,040
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, it's every day you call it, man,

742
00:49:27,120 --> 00:49:31,000
Speaker 1: what do you want life to post? To talk to

743
00:49:31,160 --> 00:49:34,239
Speaker 1: every guy day? That's what a real dude. You know

744
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:36,719
Speaker 1: the most about that because you was You ain't no

745
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 1: real all you know about it trying to highlight some treat.

746
00:49:40,680 --> 00:49:42,399
Speaker 1: You don't know what it is to put in work

747
00:49:42,719 --> 00:49:45,359
Speaker 1: like a real man dude, to actually hold down a home,

748
00:49:45,480 --> 00:49:48,200
Speaker 1: pay the bills and everything, the family, the kids in,

749
00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:51,879
Speaker 1: fixing the yards and fences, and you don't know nothing

750
00:49:51,920 --> 00:49:53,959
Speaker 1: about that. All you know about it, you know, roast

751
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:57,839
Speaker 1: wife can't even go to work without like you, trying

752
00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:00,239
Speaker 1: to step a head and don't mean no guy because

753
00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:03,480
Speaker 1: but that's okay, Like I promise you I wanna be there.

754
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:05,600
Speaker 1: You're gonna see me, and I'm gonna see you. You know,

755
00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:08,040
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what this is house, this gonna go.

756
00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:09,600
Speaker 1: It may not be the knight, but it's definitely not

757
00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:12,719
Speaker 1: gonna go past tomorrow. Between now and then, you're gonna

758
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:14,480
Speaker 1: see me and I'm gonna see you, and I can't.

759
00:50:16,520 --> 00:50:19,600
Speaker 1: What's what's your say? Heard me? So I would come

760
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:23,319
Speaker 1: see yo by tomorrow? Son? I mean you Derek. That's

761
00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:28,919
Speaker 1: your name, right, Derek? My name is Derek. Yeah, you don't.

762
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:31,040
Speaker 1: I always want to keep both smiling face in my

763
00:50:31,120 --> 00:50:33,640
Speaker 1: wife's face. I'm gonna do Rachel when I see it.

764
00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:36,800
Speaker 1: You can. Please believe that. Please believe that talked to

765
00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:39,440
Speaker 1: about a little friend at lunch and like the hell

766
00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 1: hell getting my nub anyway, I got you know how

767
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:46,839
Speaker 1: to Rachel phone. But that's besides this morm my bless phone. Y'all.

768
00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:49,160
Speaker 1: Ain't that cool? I don't. I ain't never heard of

769
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:51,520
Speaker 1: no dance before the day. And what's sudden you calling

770
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:53,040
Speaker 1: me talking about you? Was at lunch every day with

771
00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:57,680
Speaker 1: my wife and you know it's a friendly lunch date.

772
00:50:57,800 --> 00:51:01,000
Speaker 1: Just word it. Really, I don't do how you just

773
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:03,759
Speaker 1: do friendly? I know about all that. You ain't fooling me.

774
00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:07,880
Speaker 1: You got know like you who pray on marry women

775
00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:11,560
Speaker 1: all the time because they like you. But that's like

776
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:14,439
Speaker 1: I said, it's gonna change, promise you. Okay, dog, Here's

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Speaker 1: here's what you don't know. What you don't know is

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Speaker 1: is Tommy Tommy be pushing up on the morning mem

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Speaker 1: Tommy Tommy is always pushing up on her. Tommy the

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Speaker 1: one you need to be worried about. You left Tommy?

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Speaker 1: Who me who the Timmy dog dog dog nephew Tommy. Man,

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Speaker 1: check this out. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Your wife Rachel got me to pray

784
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Speaker 1: phone call you, o belie. Y'all? Did this mean? Man? Man?

785
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Speaker 1: I should have come down to man man, I am

786
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Speaker 1: now well you know, and I think gonna burn that

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788
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Speaker 1: Of course, Hi, let me get this in here. The

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Speaker 1: coming up. In the Strawberry Letters, subjects living with another

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Speaker 1: you here. It is a strawberry letter. Thank you, nephew.

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Speaker 1: Subjects Living with another Man's wife to Stephen Shirley. I've

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Speaker 1: been married a little over a year now, and this

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Speaker 1: is my second marriage. Since the wedding, my husband and

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Speaker 1: I have been searching for a new church home that

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Speaker 1: we mutually agreed on. We visited churches and settled at

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Speaker 1: a church close to our home with a good, stern pastor.

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Speaker 1: We loved his preaching style and felt really welcome there

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Speaker 1: until one Sunday when the pastor's message was so crazy

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Speaker 1: that had sent my husband into a frenzy. The pastor

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Speaker 1: preached about marriage and stated that anyone that has been

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Speaker 1: married more than once is going straight to hell if

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Speaker 1: the person gets and if the person gets remarried, the

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Speaker 1: new spouse is going to hell too. Pastor said that

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Speaker 1: God only recognizes one marriage and there is no such

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Speaker 1: thing as divorce. Ever, my husband took the message literally,

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Speaker 1: and on the way home, he said the pastor was

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Speaker 1: speaking directly from the Bible. I showed my husband the

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Speaker 1: exact scripture in the Bible, and it didn't say anything

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Speaker 1: about anyone burning in hell. Even still, my husband believed

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Speaker 1: what the pastor said, and he told me he had

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Speaker 1: been and he had a bad feeling about me on

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Speaker 1: our wedding day though. That must have been why I

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Speaker 1: was blindsided, because I thought our marriage was great and

840
00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:13,359
Speaker 1: he was happy with me. My husband's distanced himself from

841
00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:16,360
Speaker 1: me and we stopped having any type of intimacy. I

842
00:55:16,520 --> 00:55:19,400
Speaker 1: refused to go back to the church, but my husband

843
00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:22,440
Speaker 1: loves it. The final straw was last week when he

844
00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:25,000
Speaker 1: came home and said the pastor asked him if he

845
00:55:25,160 --> 00:55:28,320
Speaker 1: was still living with another man's wife. I gave my

846
00:55:28,440 --> 00:55:31,480
Speaker 1: husband an ultimatum to either leave the church or leave

847
00:55:31,520 --> 00:55:35,360
Speaker 1: our home. Because of this wacky pastor, my marriage is

848
00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:38,240
Speaker 1: in shambles. I want to get my marriage back on track,

849
00:55:38,360 --> 00:55:40,640
Speaker 1: but I don't know how is this worth fighting for

850
00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:43,960
Speaker 1: or is my husband losing his mind like the pastor?

851
00:55:44,160 --> 00:55:51,560
Speaker 1: Please help well, I mean this is only worth huh. Yeah,

852
00:55:51,600 --> 00:55:54,120
Speaker 1: this is a good letter. This is a really good letter,

853
00:55:54,800 --> 00:55:56,719
Speaker 1: you ask you if this is worth fighting for it,

854
00:55:56,800 --> 00:55:58,960
Speaker 1: I'd say it's worth fighting for if you want to

855
00:55:59,080 --> 00:56:02,080
Speaker 1: save your marriage. You said you want to to to

856
00:56:02,280 --> 00:56:05,920
Speaker 1: set your marriage back on track. The problem is you

857
00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:09,560
Speaker 1: can't be the only one fighting in a two person marriage.

858
00:56:09,600 --> 00:56:14,800
Speaker 1: You just can't. Your husband doesn't seem to want anything

859
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:18,560
Speaker 1: like that. He has distanced himself from you. You've stopped

860
00:56:18,880 --> 00:56:23,040
Speaker 1: having any type of intimacy. Your husband loves this church

861
00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:26,960
Speaker 1: with this crazy pastor, and the pastor is all up

862
00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:29,960
Speaker 1: in your marriage too. You were right to give your

863
00:56:30,040 --> 00:56:33,000
Speaker 1: husband an ultimatum in this case either leave the church

864
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:36,600
Speaker 1: or or leave your home. And your marriage is in

865
00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:39,880
Speaker 1: shambles because your husband is following this pastor and not

866
00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:43,320
Speaker 1: following God as he should and as the Bible states.

867
00:56:43,719 --> 00:56:46,320
Speaker 1: So is this worth fighting for? I would say no

868
00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:50,520
Speaker 1: at this point, because your husband even said he had

869
00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:54,200
Speaker 1: a bad feeling about you on his wedding day. All right,

870
00:56:55,080 --> 00:56:58,439
Speaker 1: this is not good. Okay for any marriage that's trying

871
00:56:58,520 --> 00:57:02,440
Speaker 1: to survive. This is not good. Your husband needs to

872
00:57:02,520 --> 00:57:06,640
Speaker 1: be with this pastor apparently in this church, because that

873
00:57:06,800 --> 00:57:08,800
Speaker 1: sounds like he wants where he wants to be, and

874
00:57:08,960 --> 00:57:11,640
Speaker 1: not with you in this marriage. And fighting for this marriage.

875
00:57:11,760 --> 00:57:16,440
Speaker 1: I don't think you have anything to fight for here, Steve. Wow,

876
00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:23,080
Speaker 1: this letter right here, this is just not good. You've

877
00:57:23,120 --> 00:57:26,880
Speaker 1: been married a little over a year now. Uh, this

878
00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:30,960
Speaker 1: is your your husband's second marriage, and this is my

879
00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:38,840
Speaker 1: husband's second marriage. We've been searched for a new church home.

880
00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:43,800
Speaker 1: Well mutually agreed upon. I guess so y'all both met

881
00:57:44,160 --> 00:57:46,640
Speaker 1: the pastor here and thought it was cool to the sermon.

882
00:57:47,520 --> 00:57:50,080
Speaker 1: We love just preaching style felt really good to one

883
00:57:50,160 --> 00:57:55,840
Speaker 1: Sunday the pastor's message through your husband into something. The

884
00:57:56,040 --> 00:58:01,600
Speaker 1: pastor told about marriage and stated that anybody that's been

885
00:58:01,720 --> 00:58:06,160
Speaker 1: married more than once, it's going straight to hell. This

886
00:58:06,920 --> 00:58:14,920
Speaker 1: part of the letter affected me deeply. Yes, part of

887
00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:19,360
Speaker 1: the letter affected me deeply, And I can't go on

888
00:58:19,720 --> 00:58:27,000
Speaker 1: right now because this man, this pens to Sid and

889
00:58:27,280 --> 00:58:33,440
Speaker 1: stated that anyone that has been married more than once,

890
00:58:33,640 --> 00:58:37,680
Speaker 1: it's going straight to hell. That's messed up past him. Yeah,

891
00:58:38,480 --> 00:58:42,360
Speaker 1: that's messed up, because right now, three of us on

892
00:58:42,520 --> 00:58:52,800
Speaker 1: this show is gone. Yeah, that's why I thought it

893
00:58:52,920 --> 00:58:55,520
Speaker 1: was just three of us to marry more than once, Me,

894
00:58:55,720 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 1: you and Jake. So we're gone. That's this hard. I'm

895
00:59:01,640 --> 00:59:04,240
Speaker 1: trying to be a better person and a better Christian.

896
00:59:04,640 --> 00:59:07,960
Speaker 1: Now you told me I don't care what I do.

897
00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:14,160
Speaker 1: I'm going to hell. So there is no forgiveness, there's

898
00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:18,760
Speaker 1: no mercy, there's more, there's no grace, there is no

899
00:59:19,040 --> 00:59:24,000
Speaker 1: he died for sins. It ain't none of that. All

900
00:59:24,120 --> 00:59:28,080
Speaker 1: of y'all is being married more than one going straight

901
00:59:28,200 --> 00:59:35,880
Speaker 1: to hell. Hell. Hell. Well, I want to say that's

902
00:59:35,920 --> 00:59:39,520
Speaker 1: all I got for this letter, but I gotta do

903
00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:45,680
Speaker 1: some more. Straight to him. Pastor said that God only

904
00:59:45,800 --> 00:59:50,640
Speaker 1: recognizes one marriage, and there's no sense thing as divorced. Okay, cool,

905
00:59:50,680 --> 00:59:53,680
Speaker 1: let's say God only recognize one. Can I pick the

906
00:59:53,760 --> 00:59:58,760
Speaker 1: one he looked at? I'm with you on that one, Steve,

907
00:59:58,800 --> 01:00:02,640
Speaker 1: When you're right, yeah, let's go all right, listen, we'll

908
01:00:02,680 --> 01:00:04,880
Speaker 1: have just hold it right there, Steve. We'll have part

909
01:00:04,920 --> 01:00:08,600
Speaker 1: two of your response coming up at twenty three minutes

910
01:00:08,640 --> 01:00:12,959
Speaker 1: after the hour, subject living with another man's wife coming

911
01:00:13,040 --> 01:00:18,280
Speaker 1: up right after this. You're listening to show, all right, Steve,

912
01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:21,840
Speaker 1: come on, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. Who I guess

913
01:00:21,880 --> 01:00:26,400
Speaker 1: we're in hell right now? Subjects living with another man's wife,

914
01:00:28,280 --> 01:00:32,000
Speaker 1: living with another man's wife. Here's this woman been marriaging

915
01:00:32,080 --> 01:00:35,720
Speaker 1: this man a little over a year and they struggle

916
01:00:35,840 --> 01:00:38,120
Speaker 1: trying to find themself a nice little church home. So

917
01:00:38,240 --> 01:00:41,800
Speaker 1: they finally found one that they agreed on and settle

918
01:00:41,880 --> 01:00:46,280
Speaker 1: that church close to their house a good stern pastor.

919
01:00:46,480 --> 01:00:51,920
Speaker 1: We loved his preaching style and said it felt really welcome. Now,

920
01:00:52,160 --> 01:00:56,440
Speaker 1: well to one Sunday, the pastor mets him so crazy,

921
01:00:57,080 --> 01:01:01,000
Speaker 1: sent your husband into a frenzy, has to preach about

922
01:01:01,120 --> 01:01:04,560
Speaker 1: marriage and stated that anybody that has been married more

923
01:01:04,640 --> 01:01:07,760
Speaker 1: than once, it's going to hell. And if the person

924
01:01:07,880 --> 01:01:11,600
Speaker 1: gets remarried, the new spouse is going to hell too.

925
01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:23,120
Speaker 1: Or what damn, you can't get fast and steal. Yeah. Man,

926
01:01:23,280 --> 01:01:27,320
Speaker 1: I'm just sitting there. You know. I let him into

927
01:01:27,440 --> 01:01:32,760
Speaker 1: my life. My heart a feeling pretty strong about myself,

928
01:01:32,960 --> 01:01:36,880
Speaker 1: getting myself together spiritually, and you just told me I'm

929
01:01:36,960 --> 01:01:41,600
Speaker 1: going to hell anyway, Well passed it. That's where you're wrong,

930
01:01:41,800 --> 01:01:46,520
Speaker 1: because you don't know about God's mercy, his acts of forgiveness,

931
01:01:47,640 --> 01:01:49,840
Speaker 1: and you don't think that he puts into a counter

932
01:01:49,920 --> 01:01:52,160
Speaker 1: the fact that we maybe we make mistakes, that people

933
01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:55,200
Speaker 1: have a chance to get over their mistakes. Well, your

934
01:01:55,280 --> 01:01:57,600
Speaker 1: husband took the message literally and on the way home.

935
01:01:57,680 --> 01:02:00,280
Speaker 1: He said the past was speaking directly from the problem.

936
01:02:00,760 --> 01:02:03,280
Speaker 1: I showed my husband the exact scripture in the Bible.

937
01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:07,960
Speaker 1: It didn't say anything about anybody burning in hell. Even still,

938
01:02:08,400 --> 01:02:11,040
Speaker 1: my husband leave at the pastor said he told me

939
01:02:11,760 --> 01:02:15,640
Speaker 1: he had a bad feeling about me on our wedding day.

940
01:02:17,840 --> 01:02:22,840
Speaker 1: In ain't been married over a year. He told his

941
01:02:23,080 --> 01:02:27,520
Speaker 1: wife after going to this crazy church, I had a

942
01:02:27,640 --> 01:02:33,520
Speaker 1: bad feeling about us on that wedding day, and then

943
01:02:33,640 --> 01:02:37,480
Speaker 1: saying so that must have been why I was blindsided,

944
01:02:37,560 --> 01:02:40,080
Speaker 1: because I thought our marriage was great. He was happy

945
01:02:40,160 --> 01:02:42,960
Speaker 1: with me. My husband distans itself from me and we

946
01:02:43,040 --> 01:02:46,160
Speaker 1: stopped having any type of intimacy. I refused to go

947
01:02:46,280 --> 01:02:49,840
Speaker 1: back to the church, but my husband loves it final strong.

948
01:02:50,520 --> 01:02:52,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell I gotta tell you something. You don't

949
01:02:53,520 --> 01:02:56,959
Speaker 1: the relationship you would just do it don't seem real love.

950
01:02:58,920 --> 01:03:07,400
Speaker 1: Healthy ain't the word for it. I just think he can.

951
01:03:07,480 --> 01:03:09,840
Speaker 1: I tell you what I think. Yes, I think your

952
01:03:09,920 --> 01:03:14,080
Speaker 1: husband was just looking for out. I think he was

953
01:03:14,160 --> 01:03:17,280
Speaker 1: just looking for an out. I think he was unhappy

954
01:03:17,880 --> 01:03:22,000
Speaker 1: and found a way. She he listened to the path,

955
01:03:22,080 --> 01:03:25,160
Speaker 1: and that said, if you've been in one argument and

956
01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:34,400
Speaker 1: you've remarried. You going to hell? Now that's alarming. So

957
01:03:34,760 --> 01:03:36,800
Speaker 1: but now you have it, that's it. I can't I

958
01:03:36,880 --> 01:03:39,800
Speaker 1: can't really, I can't really say anything because it doesn't

959
01:03:39,840 --> 01:03:44,000
Speaker 1: make any sense. What churches that out? Yeah, it's the

960
01:03:44,120 --> 01:03:48,560
Speaker 1: wrong church. Man. God is a forgiving god, even with

961
01:03:48,760 --> 01:03:53,040
Speaker 1: his commandments, He's still a forgiving God. Yes, yes, and

962
01:03:53,160 --> 01:03:55,640
Speaker 1: we're underground. I just don't believe that a person can

963
01:03:55,720 --> 01:03:58,960
Speaker 1: make a mistake, ask for forgiveness, recover, and now you

964
01:03:59,080 --> 01:04:03,960
Speaker 1: can't go to heaven because you've been mad more than once? Man,

965
01:04:06,280 --> 01:04:12,760
Speaker 1: hell a long time, yeah, since two thousand and seven.

966
01:04:13,680 --> 01:04:16,800
Speaker 1: I have a question if you if you get married

967
01:04:16,840 --> 01:04:19,480
Speaker 1: more than once and you're going to hell, does your

968
01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:22,280
Speaker 1: exes go to hell too? Because I told them to

969
01:04:22,400 --> 01:04:35,560
Speaker 1: go to hell when we got divorced. When you get that, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay,

970
01:04:35,680 --> 01:04:39,479
Speaker 1: I'm just cleaning it up. Yeah yeah, any I deal

971
01:04:39,920 --> 01:04:48,440
Speaker 1: with this new breaking news. I crowded, hellish. Okay, it's

972
01:04:48,480 --> 01:04:53,360
Speaker 1: gonna be some pastors down but Tom, it's gonna be

973
01:04:53,440 --> 01:04:56,280
Speaker 1: a lot of pastors down there. Know a lot of

974
01:04:56,400 --> 01:05:03,120
Speaker 1: pastors that's gotten divorces. Yeah, that's but I want to

975
01:05:03,160 --> 01:05:08,240
Speaker 1: hear this. Damn, let him pastor yeah. Yeah, and the

976
01:05:08,320 --> 01:05:11,360
Speaker 1: Bible clearly states don't don't follow men. You know, you

977
01:05:11,480 --> 01:05:15,520
Speaker 1: got God's power, you know, not man's wisdom. Come on,

978
01:05:15,800 --> 01:05:20,600
Speaker 1: But it does explain why Jesus never got married. He

979
01:05:20,800 --> 01:05:31,480
Speaker 1: was sa Jesus, I ain't do it. Wow, yeah, that

980
01:05:32,720 --> 01:05:38,560
Speaker 1: is crazy. Yeah, he found it, No, seriously, when the

981
01:05:38,680 --> 01:05:41,760
Speaker 1: pastor came up with them. It's a bad He found

982
01:05:41,800 --> 01:05:44,920
Speaker 1: it out. That was it. He found out. But he

983
01:05:45,080 --> 01:05:48,360
Speaker 1: saw the sex and all that stuff. Yeah, yeah, he

984
01:05:48,480 --> 01:05:51,120
Speaker 1: still but he found it out and he gonna ride

985
01:05:51,200 --> 01:05:54,480
Speaker 1: that out. Now they ain't having sex. He having sex somewhere.

986
01:05:55,080 --> 01:05:57,840
Speaker 1: He had a bad feeling about me on our wedding

987
01:05:58,000 --> 01:06:05,800
Speaker 1: day out All right, thank you guys. Post your comments

988
01:06:05,880 --> 01:06:09,160
Speaker 1: on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram

989
01:06:09,280 --> 01:06:11,720
Speaker 1: and Facebook, and don't forget to check out the Strawberry

990
01:06:11,760 --> 01:06:14,840
Speaker 1: Letter podcast on demand now coming up at forty six

991
01:06:14,880 --> 01:06:17,040
Speaker 1: after the hour. You know what time it is. It's

992
01:06:17,080 --> 01:06:22,400
Speaker 1: time for pimping. It's week ten with the NFL Picks

993
01:06:22,480 --> 01:06:26,959
Speaker 1: coming up right after this. You're listening to the Steven Show.

994
01:06:27,400 --> 01:06:30,840
Speaker 1: All right, pemping, guys, Pemping is here with Week ten

995
01:06:31,640 --> 01:06:38,280
Speaker 1: of the NFL Picks. Let's go let's how you know?

996
01:06:39,400 --> 01:06:45,000
Speaker 1: He come? Man, old man, old man? What's it? What's it?

997
01:06:45,480 --> 01:06:52,000
Speaker 1: What's the very body? You're like that? I'll leave with

998
01:06:52,200 --> 01:07:01,480
Speaker 1: my left shoulders. Me and I don't square up, like, damn,

999
01:07:01,520 --> 01:07:05,680
Speaker 1: what's it going? It was? It was going on, Hello, pimpin?

1000
01:07:05,840 --> 01:07:09,200
Speaker 1: How you doing? I know that it's up? Chocolate? What's

1001
01:07:09,280 --> 01:07:12,640
Speaker 1: going on? Pimping? How you doing? Ain't nothing? You the

1002
01:07:12,760 --> 01:07:17,320
Speaker 1: man with the voices after Maha was my hero. Man.

1003
01:07:17,400 --> 01:07:20,880
Speaker 1: I love when you know what your voice just doing

1004
01:07:20,960 --> 01:07:24,080
Speaker 1: to me? Don't get yeah, yeah, oh it's perfect. It's

1005
01:07:24,160 --> 01:07:26,520
Speaker 1: got pimp rolled on over it. I'm gonna get that

1006
01:07:28,960 --> 01:07:32,240
Speaker 1: pimping training. Ain't no trying to find what's up? Hey?

1007
01:07:32,360 --> 01:07:38,000
Speaker 1: J was hap it? Man? What's shop today? Man? You

1008
01:07:38,160 --> 01:07:42,440
Speaker 1: know what? You know what? I figured i'd do this,

1009
01:07:42,880 --> 01:07:45,920
Speaker 1: you know, just for like, you know, in between. You know,

1010
01:07:46,000 --> 01:07:47,680
Speaker 1: I had to do it now because if I do

1011
01:07:47,760 --> 01:07:50,240
Speaker 1: it around Christmas, people are gonna get a little ticked off.

1012
01:07:50,800 --> 01:07:55,080
Speaker 1: I found out because you know, you know that Peter

1013
01:07:55,440 --> 01:07:57,920
Speaker 1: is out there, you know, Peter people with the ethical

1014
01:07:58,000 --> 01:08:02,360
Speaker 1: treatment and animal. But I'm scared of people, people with

1015
01:08:02,480 --> 01:08:06,400
Speaker 1: the ethic treatment of people. That's what I'm scared because

1016
01:08:06,480 --> 01:08:11,200
Speaker 1: this coat right here, gonna bring that group out. You

1017
01:08:11,240 --> 01:08:17,400
Speaker 1: ain't ever seen this before? You what m mine? Mine

1018
01:08:17,520 --> 01:08:25,559
Speaker 1: tire coat? It's me, it's him. Yeah, it's made out

1019
01:08:25,600 --> 01:08:36,160
Speaker 1: of elves. Did you hear Tommy? I know him set

1020
01:08:36,200 --> 01:08:44,879
Speaker 1: because it then then was his people, all these elves,

1021
01:08:46,360 --> 01:08:50,200
Speaker 1: the little elves. Man, I got about it. Take about

1022
01:08:50,280 --> 01:08:54,719
Speaker 1: sixty of them, make this coat. You get some calls?

1023
01:08:58,520 --> 01:09:06,160
Speaker 1: All right, takenst Pepper. Okay, we'll be right back with

1024
01:09:06,320 --> 01:09:14,000
Speaker 1: the NFL elm picks. You're listening to Steve Harpy Morning Show.

1025
01:09:16,200 --> 01:09:25,000
Speaker 1: All right, I'm thank you, sir, seventy five ls to

1026
01:09:25,160 --> 01:09:30,000
Speaker 1: make this co But but I want you to know

1027
01:09:30,200 --> 01:09:32,840
Speaker 1: something though. You know, I'm like, I'm ethical. So they

1028
01:09:33,000 --> 01:09:38,200
Speaker 1: was like, oh they were, they were almos. All right, Pepper,

1029
01:09:38,320 --> 01:09:41,400
Speaker 1: let's go big dog. You ready. Baltimore Ravens will be

1030
01:09:41,520 --> 01:09:44,840
Speaker 1: in Cincinnati playing the Bengals. Baltimore over the bank or

1031
01:09:44,920 --> 01:09:49,760
Speaker 1: Faners ain't gonna win their game. The Detroit Lions headed

1032
01:09:49,800 --> 01:09:53,160
Speaker 1: to Chicago to play the band. Oh that's gonna be tough, man,

1033
01:09:53,200 --> 01:09:55,639
Speaker 1: it's gonna be. I got to go with Detroit, though

1034
01:09:56,400 --> 01:09:59,960
Speaker 1: our dep is New York Giants or in New Yor

1035
01:10:00,320 --> 01:10:06,040
Speaker 1: playing the Jets. Ain't that a game right now? Who

1036
01:10:06,120 --> 01:10:11,000
Speaker 1: fit to watch that game? If somebody New York, all

1037
01:10:11,080 --> 01:10:15,840
Speaker 1: of New York Jets got motor proof, I'm gonna go

1038
01:10:15,920 --> 01:10:20,080
Speaker 1: with the Jets. Jet City is all right. Kansas City

1039
01:10:20,160 --> 01:10:22,200
Speaker 1: Chiefs the only way to Tennessee to play the Titans.

1040
01:10:23,760 --> 01:10:29,320
Speaker 1: Kansas City, even without my home. That's right, baby. Arizona

1041
01:10:29,439 --> 01:10:33,559
Speaker 1: Cardinals headed to Tampa Bay to play the Buccaneers. Yeah,

1042
01:10:33,640 --> 01:10:35,920
Speaker 1: they're gonna get them. You know, Jamison down there. I

1043
01:10:35,960 --> 01:10:39,240
Speaker 1: don't know what he's doing. Can't be doing that good

1044
01:10:39,280 --> 01:10:49,400
Speaker 1: anytime you named after liquor. You think that ya, jeamers, jeamers.

1045
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Speaker 1: He needed some ginger be good. A lot of Falcons

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01:10:57,400 --> 01:10:59,519
Speaker 1: on their way to New Orleans to play the Saints.

1047
01:11:02,280 --> 01:11:05,880
Speaker 1: Gonna play the Saint there, ain't no but that's the Saint.

1048
01:11:09,840 --> 01:11:12,920
Speaker 1: Know how good that little Frankers ain't been good? It

1049
01:11:13,120 --> 01:11:16,240
Speaker 1: was since um, you know when they stopped playing good,

1050
01:11:17,120 --> 01:11:20,560
Speaker 1: when Julio lost that ear ring in the water. I

1051
01:11:20,800 --> 01:11:24,559
Speaker 1: had them scoopa dollars down. They didn't want the game.

1052
01:11:28,479 --> 01:11:32,880
Speaker 1: Miami Dolphins on their way to Indianapolis to play the Coach. Oh,

1053
01:11:33,000 --> 01:11:36,639
Speaker 1: they didn't want a game. But it's over with hope

1054
01:11:36,720 --> 01:11:42,960
Speaker 1: you enjoyed it. Brussaud and the coach La Rams headed

1055
01:11:43,000 --> 01:11:48,719
Speaker 1: the Pitts Bird to play the Stealers. Damn, my show

1056
01:11:48,880 --> 01:11:52,000
Speaker 1: hoped the ram feature stealers so we can and least

1057
01:11:52,040 --> 01:11:58,439
Speaker 1: have a chance. Who is we, dud? Don't see right?

1058
01:12:00,040 --> 01:12:04,719
Speaker 1: Your aggressive tune. Your aggressive tone ain't necessary. Pimps don't

1059
01:12:04,800 --> 01:12:11,080
Speaker 1: use aggressive tune. Shout people do? I found Rams still

1060
01:12:11,160 --> 01:12:13,240
Speaker 1: because you ain't tall. That ain't have nothing to do

1061
01:12:13,360 --> 01:12:16,080
Speaker 1: with me. I'm moving. I'm gonna go with the Steelers.

1062
01:12:16,160 --> 01:12:19,840
Speaker 1: You know, I don't want to Pittsburgh. It is Carolina

1063
01:12:19,880 --> 01:12:22,080
Speaker 1: Pathers on their way to Green Bay to play the Packers.

1064
01:12:23,080 --> 01:12:28,880
Speaker 1: They're gonna lose when they get it's too cold, all right, Package, Yeah,

1065
01:12:28,880 --> 01:12:32,479
Speaker 1: I ain't back yet, but he already addressing like Katherine Heppberg.

1066
01:12:32,760 --> 01:12:40,960
Speaker 1: He might Minnesota Vikings headed to Texas to play the

1067
01:12:41,040 --> 01:12:46,000
Speaker 1: Cowboys to the count. But dumb man, damn, you gotta

1068
01:12:46,040 --> 01:12:49,960
Speaker 1: get a one. Last week now showed there's cowboys against

1069
01:12:50,000 --> 01:12:56,160
Speaker 1: whom Minnesota, Minnesota. Yo. I hate to do this, but

1070
01:12:56,240 --> 01:13:00,599
Speaker 1: I'm gonna say the Cowboys. Yes, right, this the one

1071
01:13:00,640 --> 01:13:04,160
Speaker 1: you've been waiting on pimping Buffalo Bills headed to Cleveland

1072
01:13:04,400 --> 01:13:08,360
Speaker 1: to play the brown Oh man, see now this is cool?

1073
01:13:08,560 --> 01:13:12,600
Speaker 1: This is it? Because in the dram las year M,

1074
01:13:13,439 --> 01:13:16,679
Speaker 1: I thought the Browns should have took sat Quam Barkley

1075
01:13:16,920 --> 01:13:21,519
Speaker 1: first and then Josh Allen with the third or fourth pick,

1076
01:13:21,640 --> 01:13:23,800
Speaker 1: whatever they had. That's what I wanted them to do,

1077
01:13:24,280 --> 01:13:26,479
Speaker 1: and they'd have had it. We wouldn't got Baker. Now

1078
01:13:26,560 --> 01:13:29,000
Speaker 1: we were cool with Baker. Well he didn't won a

1079
01:13:29,080 --> 01:13:33,720
Speaker 1: game since we got cool with him. But I think

1080
01:13:33,800 --> 01:13:36,080
Speaker 1: what that coach though, the coach got to go. It

1081
01:13:36,160 --> 01:13:42,160
Speaker 1: ain't Baker? Is that? Okay? Oh? Monday night football, Seattle

1082
01:13:42,240 --> 01:13:46,800
Speaker 1: versus San Francisco. Real quick, Oh man, upset Seattle. Find

1083
01:13:47,000 --> 01:13:51,519
Speaker 1: knock him off and upset watch this upset game of

1084
01:13:51,640 --> 01:13:54,360
Speaker 1: the week. I've been right there. We thank you. Pimping

1085
01:13:54,560 --> 01:13:57,479
Speaker 1: coming out, more music, some trending topics, and twenty minutes

1086
01:13:57,479 --> 01:14:05,760
Speaker 1: after you're listening, Steven Morning shout all right, if temping man,

1087
01:14:05,920 --> 01:14:15,400
Speaker 1: I'm loving that elm I'm still him. Many nobody would

1088
01:14:15,439 --> 01:14:18,400
Speaker 1: have ever thought to make a coat out of elves.

1089
01:14:22,479 --> 01:14:25,240
Speaker 1: And that's why I know that group. You know, normally

1090
01:14:25,320 --> 01:14:28,080
Speaker 1: they call them Peter, you know, people with the treatment

1091
01:14:28,160 --> 01:14:31,040
Speaker 1: of animals. These are people these are people with the

1092
01:14:31,080 --> 01:14:34,599
Speaker 1: other treatment of people, and just on behalf so they

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01:14:34,640 --> 01:14:36,560
Speaker 1: don't come down here and try to come down on

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01:14:36,680 --> 01:14:43,559
Speaker 1: me hard. Here's what I did. The seventy two elves

1095
01:14:43,720 --> 01:14:49,200
Speaker 1: that it took them make this coat, seventy two els

1096
01:14:49,320 --> 01:14:51,880
Speaker 1: to make this coat. I put them all on the

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01:14:52,080 --> 01:14:59,720
Speaker 1: milk carton so they found so their families would feel like,

1098
01:15:00,000 --> 01:15:06,080
Speaker 1: you know, who care even though you ain't gonna final

1099
01:15:06,720 --> 01:15:09,439
Speaker 1: that way. You keep hold on, lad you're gonna wait

1100
01:15:09,520 --> 01:15:15,720
Speaker 1: on Christmas once a year, wait on this ut, hold on,

1101
01:15:15,840 --> 01:15:20,280
Speaker 1: hold up, you ain't car waiting on Christmas once a year?

1102
01:15:20,560 --> 01:15:27,560
Speaker 1: Or why not wait on them to re uphill the

1103
01:15:27,680 --> 01:15:30,960
Speaker 1: milk car And I say, I save money too, sincetay shot.

1104
01:15:31,360 --> 01:15:36,479
Speaker 1: I put four elms on each milk call. All right,

1105
01:15:36,920 --> 01:15:39,800
Speaker 1: coming up, we got more of the Steve Harvey Morning

1106
01:15:39,840 --> 01:15:43,960
Speaker 1: Show and trending news at thirty three minutes after the

1107
01:15:44,120 --> 01:15:49,040
Speaker 1: hour you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well,

1108
01:15:49,120 --> 01:15:52,600
Speaker 1: Ta's entire family turned into a trending topic when he

1109
01:15:52,720 --> 01:15:57,680
Speaker 1: revealed a very questionable parenting strategy. Tip talked on the

1110
01:15:57,800 --> 01:16:00,600
Speaker 1: Ladies Like Us podcast about the length he goes to

1111
01:16:01,160 --> 01:16:03,920
Speaker 1: to help make sure his eighteen year old daughter, Deja

1112
01:16:04,160 --> 01:16:07,240
Speaker 1: remains a version h t I says that he and

1113
01:16:07,320 --> 01:16:11,240
Speaker 1: his daughter take yearly trips to the guinacologist to check

1114
01:16:11,320 --> 01:16:15,960
Speaker 1: her hyman to see if it's still intact. Uh. Well, yeah.

1115
01:16:16,520 --> 01:16:19,439
Speaker 1: TI is still facing some backlash on social media for

1116
01:16:19,520 --> 01:16:22,880
Speaker 1: his comments, and people are saying TI is controlling or

1117
01:16:23,400 --> 01:16:25,600
Speaker 1: would he give the same scrutiny to one of his

1118
01:16:25,760 --> 01:16:30,760
Speaker 1: sons of the same age? So different? So and why

1119
01:16:30,880 --> 01:16:32,640
Speaker 1: is that different? This is a double standard. So do

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01:16:32,720 --> 01:16:35,800
Speaker 1: you guys, all of you guys have daughters, with the

1121
01:16:35,880 --> 01:16:38,640
Speaker 1: exception of you of course, Junior. Yeah, So there's a

1122
01:16:38,680 --> 01:16:41,160
Speaker 1: double standard of parenting boys and girls, and they're always

1123
01:16:41,200 --> 01:16:43,920
Speaker 1: has been. What do you guys think? That's a lot?

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01:16:44,080 --> 01:16:47,000
Speaker 1: I mean, your conversation with my son is totally different

1125
01:16:47,000 --> 01:16:51,320
Speaker 1: from the conversations with my right. I'm I'm very protective

1126
01:16:51,360 --> 01:16:57,560
Speaker 1: of her, so that's going to be different. Yeah, And

1127
01:16:57,760 --> 01:17:00,839
Speaker 1: that's the whole point of the question, the double standard,

1128
01:17:01,120 --> 01:17:06,799
Speaker 1: because sometimes men that they applaud little boys or boys

1129
01:17:07,720 --> 01:17:11,000
Speaker 1: their escapade and then very protective of girls. So it

1130
01:17:11,280 --> 01:17:14,000
Speaker 1: is double standard. And why is that? I don't I

1131
01:17:14,080 --> 01:17:21,280
Speaker 1: couldn't tell you. It started longing for me. I didn't

1132
01:17:21,400 --> 01:17:24,360
Speaker 1: start it. You know, I don't know. I don't really

1133
01:17:24,800 --> 01:17:27,960
Speaker 1: care about what comment t I made. I really really don't.

1134
01:17:29,360 --> 01:17:31,719
Speaker 1: I kind of took that as a tongue in cheek

1135
01:17:31,840 --> 01:17:34,880
Speaker 1: type thing he was doing. But if it is the

1136
01:17:35,000 --> 01:17:38,280
Speaker 1: reality of what he does, I mean, who am I?

1137
01:17:39,479 --> 01:17:41,599
Speaker 1: Who am I? You know that's how he choose to parent.

1138
01:17:41,800 --> 01:17:44,200
Speaker 1: But you know you can't watch them always, and you

1139
01:17:44,280 --> 01:17:46,080
Speaker 1: know they're gonna leave the house, and when they leave

1140
01:17:46,080 --> 01:17:48,400
Speaker 1: the house, they're gonna make decisions. Man, and you and

1141
01:17:48,760 --> 01:17:51,400
Speaker 1: to the best of your parenting ability. What I've had

1142
01:17:51,439 --> 01:17:53,760
Speaker 1: to learn over the years is when one of my

1143
01:17:53,920 --> 01:17:56,360
Speaker 1: kids make a mistake, I also remember the fact of

1144
01:17:56,520 --> 01:18:00,760
Speaker 1: how many I made. Yes, I think of how many

1145
01:18:01,280 --> 01:18:04,200
Speaker 1: I made, and then I immediately start to understand that

1146
01:18:04,880 --> 01:18:07,360
Speaker 1: they're gonna make them too, and they can go against

1147
01:18:07,400 --> 01:18:11,000
Speaker 1: the very best of your parental skills and teachings. They

1148
01:18:11,120 --> 01:18:13,320
Speaker 1: just making that decision and it's nothing you can do

1149
01:18:13,400 --> 01:18:16,040
Speaker 1: about it. So I'm not really mad at what T

1150
01:18:16,280 --> 01:18:20,840
Speaker 1: I said at all. You know I've never done that.

1151
01:18:21,040 --> 01:18:23,479
Speaker 1: But you know, if just this thing, man, I mean,

1152
01:18:24,000 --> 01:18:26,680
Speaker 1: can I speak on behalf of some a lot of

1153
01:18:27,080 --> 01:18:31,759
Speaker 1: ignorant men? Maybe? Who who is him? Who is Hyman.

1154
01:18:32,000 --> 01:18:36,759
Speaker 1: Who is he? Who is Hyming? I thought I couldn't

1155
01:18:36,800 --> 01:18:40,960
Speaker 1: be top that stupid He's on your team. He's a president,

1156
01:18:44,080 --> 01:18:48,840
Speaker 1: this guy and what is he doing in the room

1157
01:18:49,320 --> 01:18:53,640
Speaker 1: of us? Need to go back to health class. He

1158
01:18:53,880 --> 01:18:58,280
Speaker 1: missed that whole week? Yeah, or coming up our last

1159
01:18:58,360 --> 01:19:01,160
Speaker 1: break of the day, our last break of the week,

1160
01:19:01,400 --> 01:19:03,840
Speaker 1: and some closing remarks from the one in the least

1161
01:19:03,880 --> 01:19:06,800
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, right after this at forty nine minutes after

1162
01:19:07,280 --> 01:19:11,519
Speaker 1: you're listening to show. All right, Steve, here we are,

1163
01:19:11,640 --> 01:19:14,120
Speaker 1: last break of the day, last break of the week.

1164
01:19:14,240 --> 01:19:21,760
Speaker 1: This is Friday, Fridays break of the day. It's been

1165
01:19:21,800 --> 01:19:25,920
Speaker 1: a good Friday though. Thank you guys for joining us

1166
01:19:26,000 --> 01:19:28,560
Speaker 1: and just riding with us every day. We appreciate that.

1167
01:19:29,960 --> 01:19:32,000
Speaker 1: All right, Steve, we're going to hand it over to you,

1168
01:19:32,800 --> 01:19:35,839
Speaker 1: take us out of here. I encourage you for the weekend.

1169
01:19:36,800 --> 01:19:40,160
Speaker 1: Closing remarks, I just want to talk to you everybody

1170
01:19:40,240 --> 01:19:45,320
Speaker 1: today about success and some of the steps that you

1171
01:19:45,479 --> 01:19:49,240
Speaker 1: have to take. Now listen to me. I'm gonna use

1172
01:19:49,320 --> 01:19:55,280
Speaker 1: some negative terms or some terms that require a little

1173
01:19:55,320 --> 01:19:59,040
Speaker 1: bit of positive thought put behind it, but this is

1174
01:19:59,160 --> 01:20:02,920
Speaker 1: very important on away to success. I hear a lot

1175
01:20:02,960 --> 01:20:06,880
Speaker 1: of people complaining about success what it is? But I

1176
01:20:06,960 --> 01:20:09,080
Speaker 1: want to ask you a question. I thought i'd phrase

1177
01:20:09,200 --> 01:20:11,960
Speaker 1: it to you this way. If you wrote on a

1178
01:20:12,000 --> 01:20:16,240
Speaker 1: piece of paper everything you want it, If you wrote

1179
01:20:16,280 --> 01:20:20,920
Speaker 1: on a piece of paper everything you imagine. If you

1180
01:20:21,000 --> 01:20:24,440
Speaker 1: wrote on a piece of paper as be as descriptive

1181
01:20:24,520 --> 01:20:28,920
Speaker 1: as you possibly can as to what the ingredients would

1182
01:20:29,000 --> 01:20:32,639
Speaker 1: be for you to have the life of your dreams.

1183
01:20:33,600 --> 01:20:36,400
Speaker 1: I want you all to write this on a piece

1184
01:20:36,439 --> 01:20:39,479
Speaker 1: of paper. I want you to take your time. The

1185
01:20:39,640 --> 01:20:44,519
Speaker 1: objective for you is if you're not overly successful. I

1186
01:20:44,640 --> 01:20:46,840
Speaker 1: want you to put just two hundred things on a

1187
01:20:46,920 --> 01:20:49,280
Speaker 1: piece of paper that you would like to have in life,

1188
01:20:49,600 --> 01:20:52,760
Speaker 1: and be as specific as you possibly can. What type

1189
01:20:52,760 --> 01:20:55,840
Speaker 1: of car, how many cars, what color was the cars being?

1190
01:20:56,800 --> 01:20:59,000
Speaker 1: How many houses would you have a summer home? Where

1191
01:20:59,000 --> 01:21:00,479
Speaker 1: would you like for it to be. How much you

1192
01:21:00,680 --> 01:21:02,120
Speaker 1: like to have in the bank, how much would you

1193
01:21:02,200 --> 01:21:04,080
Speaker 1: like to have in retirement. How much would you like

1194
01:21:04,160 --> 01:21:07,479
Speaker 1: to set aside for your grandkids, anything you can imagine

1195
01:21:07,560 --> 01:21:09,960
Speaker 1: for yourself. How many suits if you can have them,

1196
01:21:10,040 --> 01:21:12,040
Speaker 1: How many suits would you have? How many dressers ladies?

1197
01:21:12,040 --> 01:21:14,080
Speaker 1: How many pair of shoes would you have? What type

1198
01:21:14,080 --> 01:21:16,639
Speaker 1: of bag would you can. If you really was no limit,

1199
01:21:16,720 --> 01:21:20,920
Speaker 1: if you just wrote down every thing you could imagine,

1200
01:21:21,280 --> 01:21:23,680
Speaker 1: you could have to make your life the life of

1201
01:21:23,760 --> 01:21:25,760
Speaker 1: your dreams. I want you to put that piece of

1202
01:21:25,880 --> 01:21:29,400
Speaker 1: paper together, take your time, and take you sometime. It

1203
01:21:29,479 --> 01:21:32,720
Speaker 1: takes people, sometimes weeks to come up with two hundred things.

1204
01:21:32,960 --> 01:21:35,320
Speaker 1: Some people get to fifty seventy five and they get stuck.

1205
01:21:35,360 --> 01:21:37,160
Speaker 1: All right, when you get the list, I want you

1206
01:21:37,240 --> 01:21:40,240
Speaker 1: to do this. I want you to sit down and

1207
01:21:40,360 --> 01:21:44,240
Speaker 1: if you imagine everything on that list as yours and

1208
01:21:44,479 --> 01:21:48,000
Speaker 1: has the real possibility of happening. Now, depending on how

1209
01:21:48,080 --> 01:21:50,439
Speaker 1: much faith you're willing to put on it, everything you

1210
01:21:50,560 --> 01:21:53,040
Speaker 1: imagine you can have if you can see it. If

1211
01:21:53,080 --> 01:21:55,840
Speaker 1: you can see it, you can achieve it. And so

1212
01:21:56,040 --> 01:21:59,040
Speaker 1: you gotta understand from that. Let's just safe for the

1213
01:21:59,120 --> 01:22:02,560
Speaker 1: sake of argument, everybody imagined that everything you put on

1214
01:22:02,680 --> 01:22:08,120
Speaker 1: your paper has a very very strong possibility of happening,

1215
01:22:09,040 --> 01:22:13,720
Speaker 1: which is I'm telling you a true store. Now, with

1216
01:22:13,880 --> 01:22:15,719
Speaker 1: all that a man, let me ask you a few questions.

1217
01:22:17,360 --> 01:22:22,479
Speaker 1: Are you willing to be uncomfortable to have everything that's

1218
01:22:22,520 --> 01:22:28,960
Speaker 1: on that paper? Are you willing to be inconvenienced to

1219
01:22:29,120 --> 01:22:32,880
Speaker 1: get everything that's on that paper. Would you do a

1220
01:22:33,080 --> 01:22:36,519
Speaker 1: series of things you didn't care for if you thought

1221
01:22:36,560 --> 01:22:39,960
Speaker 1: the end results would get you everything that's on that paper?

1222
01:22:40,479 --> 01:22:42,400
Speaker 1: Would you be willing to work with people that you

1223
01:22:42,560 --> 01:22:46,360
Speaker 1: don't like working with to accomplish everything that's on that paper?

1224
01:22:47,000 --> 01:22:49,400
Speaker 1: How about this? Would you be willing to give up

1225
01:22:49,439 --> 01:22:53,439
Speaker 1: a few things that you've already accomplished in order to

1226
01:22:53,600 --> 01:22:56,320
Speaker 1: have all of the things on that paper? Are you

1227
01:22:56,479 --> 01:22:59,920
Speaker 1: willing to give up anything you already have to get

1228
01:23:00,000 --> 01:23:04,479
Speaker 1: it's on that paper? Are you willing to have people

1229
01:23:04,560 --> 01:23:08,439
Speaker 1: say things about you that's not true, but even when

1230
01:23:08,439 --> 01:23:10,800
Speaker 1: they get through saying it, you still have the very

1231
01:23:10,880 --> 01:23:15,479
Speaker 1: strong possibility of getting everything on that paper? Are you willing?

1232
01:23:16,600 --> 01:23:23,439
Speaker 1: Are you willing to be ridiculed, talked about, laughed at,

1233
01:23:24,760 --> 01:23:28,880
Speaker 1: snickered behind your back? People getting together who you thought

1234
01:23:28,920 --> 01:23:32,439
Speaker 1: were your friends, only to find out they not your

1235
01:23:32,520 --> 01:23:34,639
Speaker 1: friends because of the things you got on your list?

1236
01:23:35,280 --> 01:23:38,560
Speaker 1: Are you willing to put all that up? If you

1237
01:23:38,640 --> 01:23:45,559
Speaker 1: could have everything that's on that piss all right now?

1238
01:23:45,800 --> 01:23:50,799
Speaker 1: Are you ready for this? In order to have everything

1239
01:23:50,960 --> 01:23:55,599
Speaker 1: on that list, all of those things will probably happen

1240
01:23:55,880 --> 01:24:04,599
Speaker 1: to you. If you are wanting everything that's on that list,

1241
01:24:04,720 --> 01:24:08,040
Speaker 1: and you are steadfast trying to accomplish it. All the

1242
01:24:08,160 --> 01:24:12,640
Speaker 1: things I just mentioned will probably probably happened to you.

1243
01:24:16,680 --> 01:24:22,439
Speaker 1: These are a few of the sacrifices you have to

1244
01:24:22,520 --> 01:24:27,160
Speaker 1: be willing to make in order to become the successful

1245
01:24:27,240 --> 01:24:31,080
Speaker 1: person that's on your paper. Your paper should not look

1246
01:24:31,240 --> 01:24:35,720
Speaker 1: just like anybody else's because God has you on a

1247
01:24:35,840 --> 01:24:39,559
Speaker 1: very unique path, So how He's gonna get you there

1248
01:24:39,560 --> 01:24:42,360
Speaker 1: and be very uniquely yours. That's why I say all

1249
01:24:42,400 --> 01:24:44,720
Speaker 1: the time God loves us so much and with so

1250
01:24:44,920 --> 01:24:48,400
Speaker 1: special to us to him that he don't even give

1251
01:24:48,800 --> 01:24:52,240
Speaker 1: any two people the same fingerprint and the blueprint to

1252
01:24:52,360 --> 01:24:54,720
Speaker 1: your life. He most certainly don't have the same two

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