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Speaker 1: with another episode of poor Mind, where a drunk mind

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Speaker 1: I'm a little tipsy. I'm not gonna lie. Yeah, you

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Speaker 1: done drunk. Two cups first of all, my wine glasses,

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Speaker 1: you guys, Two cups. First of all, because I barely

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Speaker 1: that is? You sound real fucking judge right now, My

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Speaker 1: goodnesss you sound real motherfucking now, not Judgy. I just

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Speaker 1: was letting him know that you get old cause you're

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Speaker 1: drinking wine out of a glass. When we got wine glasses,

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Speaker 1: you got a wine glass, bitch, we be sharing. First

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Speaker 1: of all, I got four. I got four. I bought

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Speaker 1: damn little drive off FAMI list this time, because y'all

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Speaker 1: know I'm clumsy. Okay, so let's get into it, guys.

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Speaker 1: As y'all know whenever we come to poor minds. We

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Speaker 1: The Beat, which we're on every Tuesday from three to

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Speaker 1: have it, yea to listen to you girls. Yeah. So

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Speaker 1: today we were talking about messing with somebody that your

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, Peasantry. I'm not gonna lie. I'm

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Speaker 1: on Twitter today and everybody wanted me to talk about it.

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Speaker 1: So recently, like within this past week, I've been in

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Speaker 1: this situation where a friend of mine was I guess,

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Speaker 1: messing around something a s A situation happened, I'll say

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Speaker 1: a situation happen where a friend of mine of very

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Speaker 1: I don't wanna get into detail about it right now

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Speaker 1: So I'm not gonna elaborate on the situation cause, like

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Speaker 1: I said, I don't feel really comfortable right now talking

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Speaker 1: about friends messing with another messing with a close friends

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Speaker 1: this situation. Well, I feel like, no, it's not really

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Speaker 1: Like for women, there's too many niggas out here for me,

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Speaker 1: that I used today? I just feel like that's not okay.

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Speaker 1: But I just feel like, again, it just goes into also,

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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to clarify with you. But then I

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Speaker 1: And that's how he felt. But no, you said that

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Speaker 1: I do things that I know is gonna hurt somebody

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Speaker 1: or intentionally? Never? Ever? So do you feel like they did? They? No,

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Speaker 1: I don't need to hurt you. No, I don't feel

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Speaker 1: know so, And like I said, I don't want to

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Speaker 1: get into it, right, it's just a weird situation. But

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Speaker 1: been texting Drea, because if you're interested in Drea, baby,

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Speaker 1: you can't be interested in me. First off. But now,

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Speaker 1: I wasn't trying to give him no play. I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: I like Legs. She adult person, and he started trying

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Speaker 1: right because it was just like, well, I never want you,

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Speaker 1: no way, and she don't want your ass either, But

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Speaker 1: I did it. I don't. But what I'll say is this,

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Speaker 1: if it is a type of situation, I feel like

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna do what you do. But the fact that

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Speaker 1: is fucked up. So I feel like you should back

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Speaker 1: to me and you what I was saying. Sometimes situations happen,

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Speaker 1: like say there's a nigga that Drea fucked a long

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Speaker 1: I I had I used to have a nigga living

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Speaker 1: I was dating. Okay, so when I was very young,

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Speaker 1: and I was running the relationship. But I like that then.

424
00:20:09,760 --> 00:20:12,919
Speaker 1: But as I grow up being having such a strong

425
00:20:13,000 --> 00:20:16,840
Speaker 1: personality that I have my nigga run me, grab me

426
00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:19,160
Speaker 1: by my wing and say, bitch, sit your ass down,

427
00:20:19,200 --> 00:20:21,600
Speaker 1: you ain't going nowhere or no, like I feel like

428
00:20:21,680 --> 00:20:24,240
Speaker 1: you have a strong personality too, So a man that

429
00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:28,359
Speaker 1: can control you, bitch that make the pussy go. I've

430
00:20:28,400 --> 00:20:31,120
Speaker 1: had very few men that can control me. I probably

431
00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:34,159
Speaker 1: only had like two, right that could really like just

432
00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:36,280
Speaker 1: make me sit my ass down and be like, okay,

433
00:20:36,680 --> 00:20:39,520
Speaker 1: you need to relate. Right. But when I was younger,

434
00:20:39,560 --> 00:20:41,640
Speaker 1: I've never been a trick Like I've never been a girl,

435
00:20:41,760 --> 00:20:43,520
Speaker 1: so I used to be tricking. No, I never been

436
00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:47,080
Speaker 1: I've never been there. I can honestly from an understandpoint,

437
00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:51,200
Speaker 1: not even trying to be funny, but I've never been Look,

438
00:20:51,320 --> 00:20:53,120
Speaker 1: bitch one moost sip. If you're gonna have to cash

439
00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:57,800
Speaker 1: up me five dollars, I put this down mom on

440
00:20:57,880 --> 00:21:04,200
Speaker 1: the budget. He rather go half on their bottle seats.

441
00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:10,240
Speaker 1: But no, So yeah, I never tricked on no dude before.

442
00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:13,800
Speaker 1: But when I was in college, I definitely had a

443
00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:17,320
Speaker 1: boyfriend who you know, I was at school. I had

444
00:21:17,320 --> 00:21:19,040
Speaker 1: my own apartment cause by this time I was like

445
00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:21,720
Speaker 1: a junior. Me and my best friend, we had an apartment.

446
00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:24,360
Speaker 1: We used to slip rent and I had my own car.

447
00:21:24,560 --> 00:21:27,160
Speaker 1: I used to come home to Houston all the time.

448
00:21:27,480 --> 00:21:33,760
Speaker 1: Come on, and he didn't have Do you know what

449
00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:37,399
Speaker 1: that mean? He ain't no, he ain't out, he ain't no.

450
00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:39,960
Speaker 1: So that's why he had to sit down, like Web said,

451
00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:45,879
Speaker 1: so yes. So so at the end of the day,

452
00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:48,200
Speaker 1: I had all of these things going for myself. I

453
00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:50,439
Speaker 1: was in college, I was about to graduate. But I

454
00:21:50,520 --> 00:21:52,760
Speaker 1: really really fucked with these nigga, Like y'all, this was

455
00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:54,760
Speaker 1: my man, Like I was in love with him, and

456
00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:58,080
Speaker 1: he didn't have no car. He stayed with his sister.

457
00:21:58,680 --> 00:22:00,840
Speaker 1: So whenever I used to go home home to go

458
00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:03,280
Speaker 1: visit him, you know, he was staying at his sister house.

459
00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:05,080
Speaker 1: So we used to have a fucking a car, all

460
00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:08,639
Speaker 1: type of sheep, and it was just like that is

461
00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:10,840
Speaker 1: that's the person who I got arrested with for fucking

462
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,240
Speaker 1: in the car. So it's just like, yeah, I've definitely

463
00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:15,640
Speaker 1: been in a situation where it's like a dude didn't

464
00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:19,320
Speaker 1: have as much as me, and I was definitely overcompensating.

465
00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:21,840
Speaker 1: I feel like, because I feel like with me being

466
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:23,359
Speaker 1: the one that had the car, because this was before,

467
00:22:23,400 --> 00:22:26,720
Speaker 1: this was long before Ubert, why did you do that?

468
00:22:26,720 --> 00:22:29,520
Speaker 1: Because you don't overcompensate now, So what's the difference between

469
00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:31,680
Speaker 1: then and now. I just feel like I've learned my words.

470
00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:34,840
Speaker 1: Speak on it, speak on it. I've learned my words,

471
00:22:34,880 --> 00:22:37,359
Speaker 1: like I've learned what I deserved. Like I mean, I

472
00:22:37,400 --> 00:22:39,600
Speaker 1: always kind of knew what I deserved because my parents

473
00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:43,480
Speaker 1: would always tell me, like, you a queen, you beautiful, you,

474
00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:45,840
Speaker 1: you deserve DNS from a man. You don't need to

475
00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:47,560
Speaker 1: mess with no man unless he can do X, Y

476
00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:49,840
Speaker 1: and Z for you. But I really really had loved

477
00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:54,200
Speaker 1: this dude, and because I love him, I was kind

478
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:58,880
Speaker 1: of blind sided to a certain extent. I was kind

479
00:22:58,880 --> 00:23:01,080
Speaker 1: of blindsided by a certain to a certain extent, but

480
00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:03,840
Speaker 1: at the same time, I didn't look at it like

481
00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:05,359
Speaker 1: that cause I loved him. So it's like whenever he

482
00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:06,920
Speaker 1: would hit me up and I was in Houston and

483
00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:08,840
Speaker 1: he wanted to see me with Beach, I'm about to

484
00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:10,880
Speaker 1: drive to go see you from my motub we about

485
00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:13,119
Speaker 1: to fuck in the car, like And it got to

486
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 1: a point to where I finally did start feeling some

487
00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:16,720
Speaker 1: type of way and I was like, oh, well, I

488
00:23:16,760 --> 00:23:18,200
Speaker 1: don't want to fuck. Well, I was like, I don't

489
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:19,520
Speaker 1: I don't want to fuck in the car no more.

490
00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:22,359
Speaker 1: After that shit happened, like after we got arrested fucking

491
00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:23,600
Speaker 1: in the car, I'm like, no, we're not about to

492
00:23:23,600 --> 00:23:26,120
Speaker 1: fuck in the car no more. Like we need to

493
00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:28,400
Speaker 1: get a hotel or something. So I made him start

494
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:31,600
Speaker 1: giving me hotel rooms and we were fucking hotel rooms

495
00:23:31,640 --> 00:23:34,080
Speaker 1: and we would spend a night and I just feel

496
00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:38,639
Speaker 1: like that kind of started the bad Beach mentality that

497
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:41,159
Speaker 1: I had, because it was like, I don't deserve to

498
00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 1: be having to go to jail for fucking you, cause

499
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:47,240
Speaker 1: you're getting something out of it, just like I am.

500
00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:49,480
Speaker 1: So for me, like I said, I was in a

501
00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:52,159
Speaker 1: very I had a nigga with a lot of money,

502
00:23:52,560 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 1: and it was a very controlling situation. So I felt

503
00:23:55,080 --> 00:23:57,399
Speaker 1: like I was trying to get my power back and

504
00:23:57,440 --> 00:24:00,360
Speaker 1: it was a power trip for me. So I'm gonna

505
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:03,480
Speaker 1: lie my situation was bad though. This nigga would call

506
00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:06,160
Speaker 1: me a I need forty dollars, I need one hundred dollars. See,

507
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:08,520
Speaker 1: n I need studio. I'm going to the studio. Can

508
00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 1: you pay for my studio time? Bitch? I thought my

509
00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:12,080
Speaker 1: nigga was about to be the next young jeezy bitch

510
00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:14,720
Speaker 1: and where his career now in the toilet. So but

511
00:24:14,840 --> 00:24:18,160
Speaker 1: I'm I'm that's that's a shame. That's besides the point.

512
00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:20,119
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna spend this time with Dtim because that's

513
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:22,679
Speaker 1: the nigga was. If y'all don't If y'all recall an

514
00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:25,120
Speaker 1: episode of probably about a month and a half ago,

515
00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:27,199
Speaker 1: I was talking about nigga still claiming your pussy to

516
00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:29,760
Speaker 1: this day. That's the nigga that's still claiming my pussy

517
00:24:29,800 --> 00:24:32,520
Speaker 1: to this day. But I would say it's the same thing.

518
00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:35,520
Speaker 1: For that, I felt like it was a point to

519
00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 1: where I'm looking at all my friends getting wined and dined,

520
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:42,520
Speaker 1: and I was y'all friends getting whined and dying back then? Yeah,

521
00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:45,240
Speaker 1: my friends wasn't. Yeah, but you have to realize I

522
00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:47,080
Speaker 1: was working in the strip club, so my friends were

523
00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:49,440
Speaker 1: a little different. I had stripper friends, I had bartender face,

524
00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:52,720
Speaker 1: so it was a little different. So, bitch, you get

525
00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:55,639
Speaker 1: tired of that shit like given, giving, giving, and as

526
00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 1: a woman, I had my own apartment. So you're staying

527
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:01,879
Speaker 1: in my apartment. I'm cooking for you, I'm cleaning for you,

528
00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:04,320
Speaker 1: and I'm giving you money. It was like, I'm exhausted.

529
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:07,440
Speaker 1: Way that was him with the STUDIOSI yes, cause you

530
00:25:07,520 --> 00:25:10,679
Speaker 1: have to realize, yes, me, y'all live together. Okay, so

531
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:12,720
Speaker 1: you have to realize me and my sister had an apartment.

532
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:14,919
Speaker 1: I never knew that me and I thought she was

533
00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 1: talking about Sorry, y'all, I had to edit that part

534
00:25:18,080 --> 00:25:21,200
Speaker 1: out because I accidently said somebody name. But no. So

535
00:25:21,640 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 1: after me and the first relationship broke up, So let

536
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:27,919
Speaker 1: me give you all the timeline. I was messing with

537
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:29,720
Speaker 1: the dude that had a lot of money. Then I

538
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:32,399
Speaker 1: got the relationship. And when I was in my relationship,

539
00:25:32,720 --> 00:25:34,440
Speaker 1: me and the dude were kind of going half and half,

540
00:25:34,480 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 1: so it was cool and then like I just got

541
00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:39,640
Speaker 1: tired and I wanted to run shit, So I started

542
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 1: messing with that dude. He lived with me for about

543
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:45,080
Speaker 1: three months just to like, quote unquote get back on

544
00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:47,480
Speaker 1: his feet. Me and my sister had an apartment. She

545
00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:49,679
Speaker 1: had moved out to be with the person that she

546
00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:51,120
Speaker 1: was with at the time, so we had the whole

547
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:55,280
Speaker 1: apartment to ourselves. But basically, I mean, like I said,

548
00:25:55,280 --> 00:25:57,720
Speaker 1: I was seeing all my friends get whined and dined

549
00:25:57,760 --> 00:25:59,679
Speaker 1: and treated like this and that It's like, you do

550
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:03,520
Speaker 1: get tired because I feel like, why doesn't a man

551
00:26:03,600 --> 00:26:05,320
Speaker 1: want to be a man. But I'm not gonna lie.

552
00:26:06,040 --> 00:26:08,160
Speaker 1: This is gonna be kind of off topic. But people

553
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:10,280
Speaker 1: talk about all the girls that are messing with R Kelly,

554
00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:13,840
Speaker 1: they were brainwashed. I was honestly brainwashed. This man had

555
00:26:13,880 --> 00:26:17,760
Speaker 1: brainwashed me because he was like he was doing shit,

556
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 1: like at the end of the day, I'm paying all

557
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:21,159
Speaker 1: this stuff, I'm doing all this stuff, and he was

558
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:24,040
Speaker 1: still being a nigga, still messing with other women. But

559
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 1: he was like at the end of the he on

560
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 1: Twitter sweetening of the bitches. Damn, you look good. Damn

561
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 1: I would love to be laying next to you. Why

562
00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:32,720
Speaker 1: you and why are you next to me? But I'm

563
00:26:32,720 --> 00:26:37,840
Speaker 1: in the bed with you though he would be tweeting this, yeah,

564
00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:40,199
Speaker 1: stuff like that, like I would be no sometime. I

565
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 1: remember one instance he I was at work working, he

566
00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:46,960
Speaker 1: at my house, lay in the bed talking about damn,

567
00:26:47,520 --> 00:26:49,479
Speaker 1: I wish y'all had something to be laid up against

568
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 1: right now. Stuff like that. Yes, but I was so

569
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:54,160
Speaker 1: brainwashed because he was like, at the end of the day,

570
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:56,280
Speaker 1: I'm coming home to you, I have to put up

571
00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:58,880
Speaker 1: an image because I'm a I'm a rapper, and this

572
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,320
Speaker 1: is the image I'll have to get all quote unquote

573
00:27:01,359 --> 00:27:06,800
Speaker 1: on quote unquote. But honestly, I was brainwashed and I'm

574
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 1: thinking that I'm in control, but the whole time I'm not.

575
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:13,280
Speaker 1: I was being used. And it's a sidebar. If your

576
00:27:13,320 --> 00:27:16,760
Speaker 1: nigga's been rapping for like five steen years in y'all career,

577
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:22,200
Speaker 1: I can, Yes, I can, because anybody who okay, who

578
00:27:22,520 --> 00:27:24,400
Speaker 1: have been wrapping for five seteen years and they haven't

579
00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:29,920
Speaker 1: took off and they made it so that has publicly

580
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:32,159
Speaker 1: said it, like okay, people always like to bring up

581
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:34,560
Speaker 1: for example, people like to always bring up two chains.

582
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:36,080
Speaker 1: I know that's what you was gonna say, but two

583
00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:38,679
Speaker 1: Chains was in Play a Circle and they had that

584
00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:42,920
Speaker 1: I don't do nothing. I'm about I don't do nothing.

585
00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:48,480
Speaker 1: I'm a bow by. What's the race? I'm counting a

586
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:53,440
Speaker 1: dad like the clocks on the Wow, go and get

587
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:56,200
Speaker 1: your money and let o double back what he's saying.

588
00:27:56,640 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 1: I say, gone, get your money, let on double back. Amen.

589
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:08,040
Speaker 1: But yeah, so too. Chains already had that song, I

590
00:28:08,080 --> 00:28:10,240
Speaker 1: would play a Circle. Jeezy was featured on the song

591
00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:15,119
Speaker 1: was a part of play But look at Jody Brees

592
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 1: was fine? Jody Brees, where you at? If anybody was fine?

593
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:19,920
Speaker 1: If anybody no, I don't want to know where he

594
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:22,159
Speaker 1: at because obviously he's not really be no more. You

595
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:23,359
Speaker 1: never know what he's doing. He could be like a

596
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:25,120
Speaker 1: millionaire in the tech business making a lot of more.

597
00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:27,600
Speaker 1: We would have heard about it, just Commilion. It would

598
00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:29,480
Speaker 1: be low key making their money. If you know where

599
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:31,200
Speaker 1: Jody Brees at, just let us know so I can see.

600
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:32,960
Speaker 1: We probably don't look like that no more. Just like

601
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,400
Speaker 1: Murphy Lee, I used to be in love. I used

602
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:37,760
Speaker 1: to be in love. I used to be in love

603
00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 1: with Murphy Lee. Murphy Lee not even fine nobody. So

604
00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:42,800
Speaker 1: back to the topic, look at Miguel. Miguel was singing

605
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:46,440
Speaker 1: for ten years before he made it ten motherfucking years,

606
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 1: So you can't do that. You can't say that. But

607
00:28:50,240 --> 00:28:54,440
Speaker 1: then on his tenth year, what he do? Okay? And

608
00:28:54,480 --> 00:28:57,320
Speaker 1: on your friend's tenth year, what he do? I think

609
00:28:57,320 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 1: he went to jail. So back to life is crazy. Life,

610
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:05,640
Speaker 1: Life be lifeing. Show up to a little jazz, cause

611
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 1: she'd be saying, niggas be niggaing. I'll be like, life

612
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:10,640
Speaker 1: be lifing period. So I just feel like, hey, little jazz.

613
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:14,840
Speaker 1: For me, it was a point to where I was like,

614
00:29:14,840 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 1: like you said, I have to know my worth. Do

615
00:29:17,760 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 1: I feel like I don't deserve to be taken out? Now?

616
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:22,560
Speaker 1: Let me let me tell y'all. So why I was

617
00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 1: dating this dude. I had met a dude and he

618
00:29:25,200 --> 00:29:26,960
Speaker 1: had took me like shopping. I remember when I was

619
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 1: talking about my sugar daddy. I had met my sugar daddy.

620
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:31,560
Speaker 1: I met my sugar dady. Now she gonna forever cut

621
00:29:31,640 --> 00:29:33,560
Speaker 1: me daddy. Now she gonna forever cut me daddy. I

622
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:36,000
Speaker 1: wouldn't call him addy no more because he's married and

623
00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:38,720
Speaker 1: he has a kid. But I met my hid d

624
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:41,480
Speaker 1: so he a real daddy. Now, yeah, he's a real daddy.

625
00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:43,560
Speaker 1: But I met my sugar daddy. Mind you, I was

626
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 1: probably like twenty one at this point. He was like

627
00:29:46,480 --> 00:29:48,600
Speaker 1: in his thirties, so that was like old for me,

628
00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 1: Like thirty is not old now, because bitch, I'm about

629
00:29:50,720 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 1: to be thirty. So then I was like older and

630
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:56,520
Speaker 1: he was just y'all, he's we really old in the game.

631
00:29:56,640 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 1: He used to take me shopping. He used to give

632
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 1: me money. This is the first time I've ever experienced

633
00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 1: it so before. Like and mind you, he was cute too.

634
00:30:04,000 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 1: It wasn't like a sugar daddy like super owl. So bitch,

635
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:08,479
Speaker 1: by the time I was really fucking with him, I

636
00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:10,360
Speaker 1: was on the way to his house, like put it

637
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:14,480
Speaker 1: on failming. Now I gotta turn this nigga out so

638
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:18,080
Speaker 1: once I gotta taste for our other girl. Jack Yo, pussy,

639
00:30:18,240 --> 00:30:23,560
Speaker 1: real good dad, pussy, real good dad pussy. I was

640
00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 1: gonna let you finish. I just wanted to say, damn, pussy,

641
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:31,280
Speaker 1: off the chain, go aheading fight that pussy. He just

642
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:34,240
Speaker 1: wanted me to do the same one. All you want

643
00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 1: to do is do it, bro. All that's all she

644
00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:39,920
Speaker 1: been wanting to do is do it. So anyways, you

645
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:43,080
Speaker 1: be trying to cap side by y'all. I know we

646
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 1: always be getting off tope people, but lets be trying

647
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:48,920
Speaker 1: to cap for y'all when we be off poor minds,

648
00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 1: like when we do not be on the fucking recording.

649
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:55,040
Speaker 1: She loves to do do it with me first of all,

650
00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:59,640
Speaker 1: Beyonce always needs to back up queen. So but like

651
00:30:59,680 --> 00:31:08,120
Speaker 1: I I a great life, yes, so God damn it. Okay,

652
00:31:08,200 --> 00:31:10,120
Speaker 1: I'll give you. I'll give you, Kelly. We'll do a

653
00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:11,840
Speaker 1: do with it every now and then. Want a month?

654
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 1: Want a month? You better counter you fucking day's belch.

655
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 1: I just say this. I used to trick. So who

656
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:21,400
Speaker 1: is lighter than me? So you be unsafe. I'm not

657
00:31:21,480 --> 00:31:23,280
Speaker 1: lighter than you, baby, I'm a cholate queen. Let's not

658
00:31:23,320 --> 00:31:25,760
Speaker 1: go there. You are shut up so I can talk

659
00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:30,200
Speaker 1: about the damn topic. Get out of my face. I

660
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:32,960
Speaker 1: wanna talk about this. So basically, the reason I'm talking

661
00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 1: about I used to trick because I feel like a

662
00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 1: lot of women doing are doing that because they feel

663
00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:39,760
Speaker 1: like that's what they have to do to get a

664
00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:41,720
Speaker 1: good man, or that's what they have to do to

665
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:44,920
Speaker 1: keep somebody around or to be in control. Because I

666
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:47,920
Speaker 1: see a lot of people that are super popping, that's

667
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:49,400
Speaker 1: making a lot of money. Like a lot of your

668
00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:52,760
Speaker 1: favorite influencers sometimes come out and there are dating needs

669
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:54,800
Speaker 1: of men. It's like who are you? But you don't

670
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 1: have to the things. The crazy thing about it, And

671
00:31:56,560 --> 00:32:00,120
Speaker 1: I want all of my queens to understand this po

672
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:04,280
Speaker 1: child when he comes to dating a real man, don't

673
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 1: want nothing from you. He wants to provide though he

674
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:10,560
Speaker 1: likes me. He wants the pussy, but he don't want

675
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:13,880
Speaker 1: nothing news. He don't want no money. He don't want

676
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 1: you to be paying for nothing for him. He don't

677
00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 1: want none of that. Because if a nigga got it

678
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:21,960
Speaker 1: and he fucked with you, he got it, he got everything.

679
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:24,800
Speaker 1: He doesn't want that. But honestly, I don't say this

680
00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 1: even to this, to this, to this day, I dated

681
00:32:30,280 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 1: my ears. To this day. I date men who aren't millionaires,

682
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:35,960
Speaker 1: who don't have who don't have a lot, but they

683
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,640
Speaker 1: want to make sure. I always want to treat Lex

684
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 1: how she deserves to be treated. Like I told you

685
00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 1: the last dude I was dating in Atlanta, No he's

686
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:45,600
Speaker 1: not a millionaire, but he was whining and dining me.

687
00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:49,320
Speaker 1: But I told you before too, you set the tone

688
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 1: for how somebody treats you. I am a farm believer

689
00:32:52,200 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 1: in that. I say that all the time. You go

690
00:32:54,720 --> 00:32:57,520
Speaker 1: into a situation, the first couple of days, the first

691
00:32:57,560 --> 00:33:01,080
Speaker 1: couple of the encounters, the first couple of conference that conversations,

692
00:33:01,480 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 1: you let a man know how he needs to handle

693
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:08,120
Speaker 1: you and how he can handle you. If you're making

694
00:33:08,160 --> 00:33:10,640
Speaker 1: yourself seem like you a bare minimum type of bitual

695
00:33:10,640 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 1: gifts what you're about to give. But if you're making

696
00:33:14,240 --> 00:33:17,920
Speaker 1: yourself seem like you require X, Y and Z, then

697
00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:19,880
Speaker 1: that's what you're gonna get. Because at the end of

698
00:33:19,880 --> 00:33:22,120
Speaker 1: the day, especially if you're fucking with a nigga who

699
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 1: you know can provide certain things for you. What's wrong

700
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:26,800
Speaker 1: with letting it be known that this is what I

701
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:29,240
Speaker 1: expect because this is already what he could do, he

702
00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 1: just ain't gonna do it. I feel like a lot

703
00:33:31,440 --> 00:33:35,320
Speaker 1: of ladies fear in letting a man know what you want.

704
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 1: Why though I never feared that. I know, but because

705
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:40,920
Speaker 1: I used to be that girl, I need still kind

706
00:33:40,960 --> 00:33:44,200
Speaker 1: of be that way. No, because honestly, and why no,

707
00:33:44,360 --> 00:33:46,600
Speaker 1: you know the reason why is because I don't like

708
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 1: dealing with niggas. So I feel like I'm not about

709
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:51,360
Speaker 1: to tell you how to teach me. You should already know,

710
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:54,120
Speaker 1: so leave me alone. I can, I can, I can

711
00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:56,800
Speaker 1: do bad by myself. Leave me alone. It's not about

712
00:33:56,840 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 1: teaching you. You don't have to teach no niggas exactly,

713
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:01,080
Speaker 1: but you just need to let him know. It's a

714
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:03,240
Speaker 1: lot of niggas. You don't have to teach them exactly,

715
00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:08,239
Speaker 1: but exactly. That's what I'm saying, because, like I said,

716
00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:10,239
Speaker 1: the last dude that I was dating in Atlanta, I

717
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:11,920
Speaker 1: didn't have to tell him nothing. He knew how to

718
00:34:11,920 --> 00:34:13,799
Speaker 1: come at me. He knew what the fuck to do.

719
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:16,399
Speaker 1: He was taking me the first day we went going

720
00:34:16,440 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 1: on roof top. Days we went and did this, and

721
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:21,000
Speaker 1: he took me places in Atlanta I don't even know existed.

722
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:23,520
Speaker 1: And I appreciate that you still I didn't give him

723
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 1: no pussy. I didn't. But what I'm saying is it

724
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:31,880
Speaker 1: he knew how to treat me. I'm not about to

725
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:33,759
Speaker 1: explain to you how I want to be treated at

726
00:34:33,760 --> 00:34:36,560
Speaker 1: this point. You should already know. I'm not saying to explain,

727
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:40,160
Speaker 1: but just let it be known what your standard is.

728
00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:42,960
Speaker 1: What's your standard of living what you're used to. Let

729
00:34:43,040 --> 00:34:45,000
Speaker 1: it be known. Let a nigga know, No, you're not

730
00:34:45,040 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 1: about to take me on two dates to Ruth Chris

731
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:49,880
Speaker 1: and give send me a two hundred dollars cashap and

732
00:34:49,880 --> 00:34:52,440
Speaker 1: I'm about to give you some pussy like, No, it's

733
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:55,799
Speaker 1: not about to happen. I agree. So basically getting back

734
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 1: to the topic at hand, because we sometimes we always

735
00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:00,360
Speaker 1: end up talking about niggas in money, people like this

736
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:02,759
Speaker 1: is a gold digging podcast. I just feel like it

737
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:07,319
Speaker 1: could be that, but we not gold niggers. We're gold diggers.

738
00:35:07,320 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 1: But honestly, I just feel like me being a woman

739
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:14,120
Speaker 1: that used to trick off, these niggas gonna be shitty regardless.

740
00:35:14,560 --> 00:35:17,000
Speaker 1: So you tricking off and thinking that this nigga's gonna

741
00:35:17,040 --> 00:35:19,000
Speaker 1: respect you and love you more because you're going above

742
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:23,400
Speaker 1: and beyond for him. Niggas love to be men, Okay,

743
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:26,480
Speaker 1: understand that. Let a man be a man because they

744
00:35:26,560 --> 00:35:28,920
Speaker 1: been men since birth. Let a man be a man.

745
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:31,239
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. I can speak on both

746
00:35:31,360 --> 00:35:33,160
Speaker 1: ends because I've been a trick and I've been taken

747
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,920
Speaker 1: care of. I ain't a man loves to take care

748
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:38,919
Speaker 1: of his woman, especially when you coming in a room

749
00:35:38,960 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 1: because he done, got your nails done, your hair done,

750
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:44,000
Speaker 1: That pussy gonna be dripping with and he loved that shit.

751
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:47,919
Speaker 1: He love it. It ain't nothing wrong with niggas loves

752
00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:50,080
Speaker 1: to eat that pussy with the white toes in the ears,

753
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Because he pays for that shit.

754
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:55,200
Speaker 1: They feel a little different when you at his crib

755
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:57,400
Speaker 1: waiting on him, because you know, I take care of

756
00:35:57,400 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 1: my bitch, so I know when I come home, house

757
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:01,200
Speaker 1: gonna be clean, a little be cooked. You know what

758
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:05,000
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Nice, good, listen, stop taking care of these

759
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:08,359
Speaker 1: niggas period now I'm not saying now. And I got

760
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:10,520
Speaker 1: a new item of the week for y'all, so we're

761
00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:16,280
Speaker 1: gonna talk about that for the pissy. So let us know, ladies,

762
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:20,520
Speaker 1: if you've ever tricked on a man, how why do

763
00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:22,719
Speaker 1: you do that? And why do you feel the reasoning

764
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:26,960
Speaker 1: on tricking on it? You should never feel no reasoning, ladies.

765
00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:29,400
Speaker 1: But you know, like Blake said, if y'all do, I

766
00:36:31,120 --> 00:36:36,160
Speaker 1: guess we would like to hear next topic. So yeah,

767
00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:40,719
Speaker 1: like I just I want to talk about something this

768
00:36:40,760 --> 00:36:45,480
Speaker 1: week that has happened to me recently. I had a

769
00:36:45,520 --> 00:36:48,800
Speaker 1: guy who was trying to pursue me. He's been following

770
00:36:48,840 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 1: me on Instagram for like, I guess maybe three four years.

771
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:55,439
Speaker 1: He always slid in my dms, but because I didn't

772
00:36:55,440 --> 00:36:58,080
Speaker 1: follow him back, I never seen his messages and he

773
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:00,399
Speaker 1: wanted to fuck with me. When I finally met him

774
00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:02,360
Speaker 1: in person, you know, he was talking to one of

775
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:05,759
Speaker 1: my other close friends, jazz Me, and shout out to Jazzmine, Hey,

776
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:08,680
Speaker 1: little jazz, another little another little jazz. He has like

777
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:15,439
Speaker 1: four jazz, so many jazz. My sister Jazmine from Naked Community, Yes,

778
00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:18,919
Speaker 1: Jazzmine from Dreams. And then my Jazz met my best

779
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:21,239
Speaker 1: friend since high school, so shout out to jazz Me

780
00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:24,480
Speaker 1: and my best friend. He came to her and he

781
00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:26,080
Speaker 1: was just like, yeah, I want I really want to

782
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:28,960
Speaker 1: fuck with Dre. I've been following her on Instagram for years,

783
00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 1: like she like, she's my dream girl. I always be

784
00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:35,400
Speaker 1: dming her, but she don't ever respond. I really want

785
00:37:35,440 --> 00:37:37,080
Speaker 1: to fuck with her. I'll pay all her bills, I'll

786
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:39,399
Speaker 1: do the tennis and these. So basically, he came at

787
00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:41,359
Speaker 1: my best friend on some trick and sheet. When he

788
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:43,520
Speaker 1: came at me, he came on some trick and sheet

789
00:37:43,840 --> 00:37:46,319
Speaker 1: My birthday was literally maybe like three four weeks after

790
00:37:46,360 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 1: we met. So I'm like, okay, cool, I want a

791
00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:51,520
Speaker 1: birthday give like he was like, okay, cool, what you want.

792
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:53,160
Speaker 1: I see him at least the shit that I want

793
00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:55,480
Speaker 1: these ingas cash after me two hundred dollars. Mind you,

794
00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:57,319
Speaker 1: nothing on the list that I seen him with list

795
00:37:57,320 --> 00:38:00,920
Speaker 1: than one thousand dollars. So now I know everything on

796
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:03,239
Speaker 1: that list was definitely more than twenty five hundred. No,

797
00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:06,040
Speaker 1: it was I had I I had put a Fannie

798
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:07,600
Speaker 1: Peck on the list, like a New York fanny pack

799
00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:10,600
Speaker 1: that was like twenty fi twelve fifty. Okay, so that

800
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:12,920
Speaker 1: was the cheapest thing on the on the lease two,

801
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:16,080
Speaker 1: he sent me two hundred dollars. So we got into it.

802
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 1: We had a conversation. I'm just like, you know what,

803
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:19,120
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, I just feel like

804
00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:21,759
Speaker 1: me and you just not on the same type of shit,

805
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:24,040
Speaker 1: Like we just can't fuck with each other. And I

806
00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:26,960
Speaker 1: just feel like sometimes niggas have to understand it's not

807
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:29,640
Speaker 1: nothing wrong with it, but some women are just out

808
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:32,480
Speaker 1: of your league, right, They're just out of your league,

809
00:38:32,520 --> 00:38:36,080
Speaker 1: Like you can't provide for them what they're used to right,

810
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:39,360
Speaker 1: and that's okay. I can still be cool with you,

811
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:42,440
Speaker 1: we can still be friends, but I can't date you.

812
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:46,719
Speaker 1: And so basically he sent me that we got into

813
00:38:46,760 --> 00:38:50,920
Speaker 1: a whole little argument or whatever and we stopped talking.

814
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:54,719
Speaker 1: I blocked him randomly. A couple of days ago. He

815
00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:57,360
Speaker 1: ended up sending me a hundred dollars. Mind you, he's blocks.

816
00:38:58,120 --> 00:39:00,319
Speaker 1: I'm not interested anymore at this point. And then you

817
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:02,880
Speaker 1: send me one hundred dollars, you still haven't sent me

818
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:05,719
Speaker 1: what I need if I want to buy a purse now,

819
00:39:05,800 --> 00:39:09,279
Speaker 1: mind you. I could buy a purse right now if

820
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 1: I wanted to with my own money, because I already

821
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:15,960
Speaker 1: got that sheet in the bank. But I just don't see.

822
00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:17,960
Speaker 1: I always been the type of girl where it's like,

823
00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:20,640
Speaker 1: until I get to a point to where I'm super

824
00:39:20,719 --> 00:39:23,800
Speaker 1: super successful, like until I'm making like twenty thousand and

825
00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 1: thirty thousand dollars a month, I'm never gonna spend my

826
00:39:27,280 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 1: own money on a designer sheet. So I'm not gonna

827
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:32,160
Speaker 1: even lie to y'all all the designer sheet that I

828
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:35,200
Speaker 1: have anything y'all ever seen me with. Somebody bought it

829
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:38,359
Speaker 1: for me, and I'm okay with admitting egg because I'm

830
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:39,879
Speaker 1: not about to spend my own money on that type

831
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:42,560
Speaker 1: of sheet because I got other more important shit going on.

832
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 1: So he sent me another hundred dollars a few days ago,

833
00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:49,680
Speaker 1: I guess, in an attempt to get me to unblock him.

834
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 1: So my thing is, I'm trying to understand when do

835
00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 1: people realize that, damn, this person is just really not

836
00:39:57,760 --> 00:40:00,799
Speaker 1: that end to me. Okay, he brought this up because

837
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:03,520
Speaker 1: I feel like this goes into kind of another topic.

838
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:08,040
Speaker 1: So when does a person realize that you're not into them?

839
00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:11,120
Speaker 1: And this also goes into guys always thinking that they're

840
00:40:11,160 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 1: a good guy, because this man probably feels like, Okay,

841
00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:17,919
Speaker 1: I'm not giving you, you know, two three thousand dollars,

842
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:20,040
Speaker 1: but I'm a good man. I'm good for you. Because

843
00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:22,200
Speaker 1: I had this happen to me the other day. This

844
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:25,320
Speaker 1: man was like, I'm thirty two, I don't have no kids.

845
00:40:25,560 --> 00:40:27,880
Speaker 1: I'm an engineer. I can do that. I can do that.

846
00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:30,399
Speaker 1: But it's like, if I'm not interested in you, I'm

847
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:34,120
Speaker 1: not interested in you. So I feel like, men, you

848
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:36,200
Speaker 1: probably this man that sent you one hundred dollars, he

849
00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:40,120
Speaker 1: probably is an amazing man, good man, but that doesn't

850
00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:43,920
Speaker 1: mean that you're the man for her, So let me

851
00:40:43,920 --> 00:40:47,240
Speaker 1: tell you something. Obviously you're not. If a woman doesn't

852
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:49,040
Speaker 1: respond to you, you already gonna send her two one

853
00:40:49,080 --> 00:40:50,600
Speaker 1: hundred dollars. The nigga that is for me would to

854
00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:53,480
Speaker 1: sneak me two bends and been like, shna get your priory.

855
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:55,719
Speaker 1: But what I'm saying is this man sent you two

856
00:40:55,760 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 1: hundred dollars. If you didn't react to that, that should

857
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:00,799
Speaker 1: have been a sign for you. So now you're out

858
00:41:00,800 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 1: of one hundred dollars just because you didn't want to

859
00:41:03,120 --> 00:41:07,160
Speaker 1: realize the truth. The reality is, and this is for

860
00:41:07,320 --> 00:41:11,040
Speaker 1: women too, you can't have every single person you want.

861
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:13,399
Speaker 1: As bad as right is, she can't have every man

862
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:16,319
Speaker 1: she wants. You're not everybody's site, even for me, even

863
00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:18,920
Speaker 1: for these men, that's debatable. I ain't never been a

864
00:41:19,000 --> 00:41:21,839
Speaker 1: nigga that I wanted that I ain't had except for one, okay,

865
00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:25,279
Speaker 1: and that's because I didn't actively go after long. But

866
00:41:25,400 --> 00:41:29,680
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is not every man in the world

867
00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:31,799
Speaker 1: is gonna want you, That's what I'm trying to say.

868
00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:34,480
Speaker 1: So at the end of the day, it's like you

869
00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 1: cannot pressure somebody or think that, oh I'm gonna do this.

870
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:40,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do the bare minimum one hundred dollars. This

871
00:41:40,680 --> 00:41:43,240
Speaker 1: is the bare minimum, because what is one hundred dollars?

872
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:46,080
Speaker 1: Bro my cell phone bill more than one hundred dollars

873
00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:49,040
Speaker 1: every month, but my cable bill, every bill I got.

874
00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to lie to you. The only bill

875
00:41:51,040 --> 00:41:53,279
Speaker 1: I probably have that's less than one hundred dollars a

876
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:57,319
Speaker 1: month is my renter's insurance, which is like fifteen dollars

877
00:41:57,360 --> 00:41:58,640
Speaker 1: a month. But at the end of the day, it's

878
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:00,880
Speaker 1: not even about It's not even about that. It's about

879
00:42:00,920 --> 00:42:04,600
Speaker 1: these men thinking I'm a good guy, so you need

880
00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:06,600
Speaker 1: to respond to me. But that's what he said. He

881
00:42:06,680 --> 00:42:08,680
Speaker 1: was just like, at the end of the day, anything

882
00:42:08,800 --> 00:42:11,600
Speaker 1: I ever told you I was gonna do, I did. Okay,

883
00:42:11,920 --> 00:42:14,719
Speaker 1: you did. And but not only that. Let's just let's

884
00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:16,319
Speaker 1: just talk about the guys that be like, I'm a

885
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 1: good man, give me a chance. How do you know

886
00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 1: you're a good man for me? Who said that you

887
00:42:21,000 --> 00:42:24,520
Speaker 1: were a good guy for me? Well, first of all,

888
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:26,560
Speaker 1: who said you was a good guy in general? But

889
00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:29,200
Speaker 1: who said you was a good guy for me? Because

890
00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:30,440
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, you don't know what

891
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 1: I want I might you don't know what I require.

892
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:36,200
Speaker 1: You don't know what I did, and that's my thing,

893
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:39,720
Speaker 1: vice versa. And I'm you don't know what he needs,

894
00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:41,560
Speaker 1: so he may you may not even be a good

895
00:42:41,600 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 1: girlfriend X. And I've talked to him about my ex,

896
00:42:44,200 --> 00:42:46,480
Speaker 1: like we've had conversations and I'm just like, I'm just

897
00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:48,680
Speaker 1: used to starting with ches and he was just like, well,

898
00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:51,160
Speaker 1: at the end, at the end of the day, if

899
00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:53,440
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, if you're comparing every new

900
00:42:53,440 --> 00:42:55,239
Speaker 1: guy that you meet to your ex, you ain't gonna

901
00:42:55,239 --> 00:42:58,360
Speaker 1: never find the nigga that's for you. That's not true.

902
00:42:58,719 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 1: My standard is at a are in level because of

903
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:03,839
Speaker 1: my eggs and there's nothing wrong with that. And there's

904
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 1: nothing wrong with that. So at this point in my life,

905
00:43:06,040 --> 00:43:08,400
Speaker 1: if you're not trying to give me that or more,

906
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:11,160
Speaker 1: I don't have no time for you. And I'm not

907
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:13,759
Speaker 1: about to settle because to me, at this point, that's

908
00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:17,440
Speaker 1: settling because I know what I can get. That's what

909
00:43:17,520 --> 00:43:20,359
Speaker 1: you feel like you deserve. But once you're exposed to more,

910
00:43:20,560 --> 00:43:22,600
Speaker 1: and this is something that my mom told me too,

911
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:26,200
Speaker 1: once you're exposed to more in life, you want more

912
00:43:26,520 --> 00:43:28,959
Speaker 1: and you do better and that's not even talking about

913
00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:32,680
Speaker 1: relationship wise, that's everything. Let's talk about this like honestly

914
00:43:32,880 --> 00:43:35,400
Speaker 1: us doing the podcast, and that's being exposed to a

915
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:39,840
Speaker 1: different lifestyle on what we can get just being successful women.

916
00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:43,279
Speaker 1: I want more. Ye if you're not, and I'll say this,

917
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:46,000
Speaker 1: if you don't have something, if you don't have a

918
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:47,879
Speaker 1: million dollar plan on your mind, I got a million

919
00:43:47,920 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 1: dollar plan on my mind. If you don't at least

920
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 1: have that, and you're trying to like if a man

921
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:54,520
Speaker 1: meets me and I say, oh, I got a million

922
00:43:54,560 --> 00:43:57,400
Speaker 1: dollar pan, I'm not just saying that. You can actively

923
00:43:57,440 --> 00:44:01,319
Speaker 1: see me doing that. So let me you something. I

924
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:03,759
Speaker 1: got a million dollar plan. But if you ain't got

925
00:44:03,760 --> 00:44:07,840
Speaker 1: a million dollars, we can't talk about niphy cause I

926
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:11,439
Speaker 1: want to be with somebody who you don't already reach

927
00:44:11,520 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 1: that level. You don't already reach that what's the word

928
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:17,839
Speaker 1: the plateau? You don't already got there, and I want

929
00:44:17,960 --> 00:44:19,560
Speaker 1: to I want to be able to learn from you.

930
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:21,400
Speaker 1: I want to be able to gain from you. I

931
00:44:21,400 --> 00:44:25,319
Speaker 1: want to be able to to to be around you

932
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:28,719
Speaker 1: and figure out the game plan. Well, I get I

933
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:31,000
Speaker 1: can't do that with somebody who ain't reached that level.

934
00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:33,160
Speaker 1: I will say this, you don't have to necessarily be

935
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:35,359
Speaker 1: a millionaire because I have some people that are damn there,

936
00:44:35,760 --> 00:44:38,759
Speaker 1: Like this nigga that I know. I know in the

937
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:41,759
Speaker 1: next year or two he's going to be a millionairecause

938
00:44:41,800 --> 00:44:44,319
Speaker 1: I've seen him go from making this amount to making

939
00:44:44,360 --> 00:44:46,960
Speaker 1: this amount. I'm like, bruh, and he puts me on

940
00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:49,759
Speaker 1: game and he's taught me a lot. So it's like

941
00:44:50,280 --> 00:44:52,000
Speaker 1: sometimes I look at people like that, like I can

942
00:44:52,040 --> 00:44:54,600
Speaker 1: still learn from you. You don't necessarily have to be a millionaire,

943
00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 1: but you gotta have a plan. What are you What

944
00:44:57,040 --> 00:45:00,120
Speaker 1: are you on? Can you teach me something? Because let

945
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:01,319
Speaker 1: me tell you something, I don't fuck with a lot

946
00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:03,040
Speaker 1: of the millionaires that don't try to put me on nothing.

947
00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:05,879
Speaker 1: What's what's the point? Why are you here? I fucked

948
00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:08,640
Speaker 1: with too many millionaires that I ain't tried to put

949
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 1: me on game. Every nigga that I fucked with with

950
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:13,960
Speaker 1: some money, they always have gave me the game. To

951
00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:16,120
Speaker 1: a certain extent. It was just my fault. So if

952
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:18,240
Speaker 1: I'm not where I want to be, I can honestly

953
00:45:18,239 --> 00:45:20,399
Speaker 1: take accountability at this point in my life to where

954
00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:22,319
Speaker 1: it's like I'm not where I want to be because

955
00:45:22,320 --> 00:45:24,400
Speaker 1: I didn't apply to things that they told. Well, you know,

956
00:45:24,520 --> 00:45:26,800
Speaker 1: like my last situation, well we don't know if he

957
00:45:26,880 --> 00:45:30,000
Speaker 1: was a million or not, but you got to cut

958
00:45:30,040 --> 00:45:32,040
Speaker 1: it out. We don't want to get sued. I don't

959
00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:33,680
Speaker 1: want to talk about it. But like I said, I

960
00:45:33,760 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 1: just feel like there's situations where men can teach you

961
00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:39,960
Speaker 1: some things and they necessarily don't. Bit's what are we

962
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:43,640
Speaker 1: talking about again? Were talking about the dude, like when

963
00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:45,839
Speaker 1: do you know when do a nigga know that it's

964
00:45:45,920 --> 00:45:48,360
Speaker 1: just time? Or when do a female no? Even with females,

965
00:45:48,400 --> 00:45:51,719
Speaker 1: cause I feel like sometimes females they tried to get

966
00:45:51,760 --> 00:45:54,400
Speaker 1: at niggas like when do you know that this person

967
00:45:54,480 --> 00:45:56,799
Speaker 1: is just not that into you? I feel like this

968
00:45:56,960 --> 00:46:00,439
Speaker 1: person specifically, he came in me a certain time way,

969
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 1: he wasn't able to provide what he initially tried to

970
00:46:04,000 --> 00:46:06,040
Speaker 1: state that he was going to be able to provide.

971
00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:09,080
Speaker 1: And that's cool because I wasn't ever gonna ask you

972
00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:11,360
Speaker 1: for that shit, no way. But since you presented yourself

973
00:46:11,400 --> 00:46:14,319
Speaker 1: that way, now that's what I'm expecting. And then every

974
00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:16,880
Speaker 1: time I talk to you, it's an excuse like, oh well,

975
00:46:16,920 --> 00:46:19,000
Speaker 1: I just had to get a new car. I just

976
00:46:19,040 --> 00:46:21,319
Speaker 1: had to get something done to my car, me and

977
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:24,400
Speaker 1: my I had to fly my mom out here from

978
00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:26,719
Speaker 1: out the country, and I had to do this and

979
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 1: this and this. This is my thing. And excuse me

980
00:46:29,680 --> 00:46:32,200
Speaker 1: if this sounds insensitive, but I'm gonna tell y'all a

981
00:46:32,239 --> 00:46:36,600
Speaker 1: real if I just met you, what the fuck do

982
00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:40,440
Speaker 1: they gotta do with me? Whatever you're going through and

983
00:46:40,480 --> 00:46:43,680
Speaker 1: whatever you got going on, what in the fuck do

984
00:46:43,800 --> 00:46:48,719
Speaker 1: that have? Yes? So what do you what is the

985
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:50,960
Speaker 1: circumstances and everything you got going I don't have to

986
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:53,120
Speaker 1: do with me. And then he kept promising me, Oh, well,

987
00:46:53,160 --> 00:46:54,719
Speaker 1: I promise I'm gonna send you the balance for the

988
00:46:54,760 --> 00:46:58,160
Speaker 1: stuff that you want, whatever, whatever, And then I blocked you.

989
00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:00,600
Speaker 1: You send me one hundred dollars. That's not the that's

990
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:03,359
Speaker 1: not even that's not the balance. So did you send

991
00:47:03,400 --> 00:47:06,120
Speaker 1: me that because you felt like I was going to

992
00:47:06,239 --> 00:47:08,400
Speaker 1: unblock you? Did you send me that because you felt

993
00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 1: like we were gonna be able to turn over a

994
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:14,560
Speaker 1: new leaf. I'm confused because whatever you thought, it ain't that, bro,

995
00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:16,560
Speaker 1: And you need to just leave me to fuck alone

996
00:47:16,560 --> 00:47:18,880
Speaker 1: because you're still blocks. And now I just got another

997
00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:22,319
Speaker 1: extra hundred dollars, thank you. So, so we're gonna move

998
00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:25,359
Speaker 1: on to the next topic. So let us know, how

999
00:47:25,400 --> 00:47:28,360
Speaker 1: do you know that somebody's not that into you? Like,

1000
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:31,640
Speaker 1: how do you gauge that? You know? Conversation and he

1001
00:47:31,800 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 1: lame too. I had went to his house one day

1002
00:47:35,480 --> 00:47:37,960
Speaker 1: and that nigga had three pairs of shoes in his

1003
00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:41,640
Speaker 1: fucking closet. Three pairs of shoes. Clearly, you ain't got

1004
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:44,120
Speaker 1: enough money to buy me these Fenni pigs, so let

1005
00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:49,279
Speaker 1: alone the other sheets. So we okay, okay, So I

1006
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:52,239
Speaker 1: wanna talk about since we're talking about and being spaces,

1007
00:47:52,320 --> 00:47:55,080
Speaker 1: trying to be in spaces that you're not, that you

1008
00:47:55,120 --> 00:47:58,800
Speaker 1: don't belong that you belong in. I had a conversation

1009
00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:00,680
Speaker 1: with somebody on Twitter today and this is why I'm

1010
00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:03,720
Speaker 1: bringing this topic up. I wanna talk about black people

1011
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:07,480
Speaker 1: saying I need more white friends. White people are so

1012
00:48:07,760 --> 00:48:11,319
Speaker 1: fucking fun. Let's chat about this cause I have a

1013
00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:13,880
Speaker 1: lot to say. We've never talked about race stuff on

1014
00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:17,480
Speaker 1: this podcast. They so fun and they be heaving herpes.

1015
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:20,640
Speaker 1: Who No, we're we're not gonna say that. I think

1016
00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:22,080
Speaker 1: there's some white people that listen to the show and

1017
00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:24,680
Speaker 1: we're not gonna say that because, oh, it is some

1018
00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:26,319
Speaker 1: white people that listened to the show, cause we had

1019
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:29,040
Speaker 1: one girl who be shouting us out all the time.

1020
00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:30,879
Speaker 1: Shout out to you, girl, I'm sorry, I forgot your

1021
00:48:30,920 --> 00:48:33,600
Speaker 1: Instagram name. If I will remember it, I will shout

1022
00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:36,239
Speaker 1: it out. I'm sure you don't have herpees, but we

1023
00:48:36,360 --> 00:48:39,279
Speaker 1: talking about your cointerparts. So this is what I'll say. Now.

1024
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:41,359
Speaker 1: I'm'a give y'all a little bit of backstory. Y'all all

1025
00:48:41,400 --> 00:48:44,800
Speaker 1: know this backstory for who have been following us since dayling.

1026
00:48:45,520 --> 00:48:47,480
Speaker 1: I grew up in a all white town, went to

1027
00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:50,200
Speaker 1: a all white school. I didn't experience my first real

1028
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:55,760
Speaker 1: black relationship outside of my family until I was about seventeen, Okay,

1029
00:48:55,840 --> 00:49:00,160
Speaker 1: So growing up around all white people and then I

1030
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:03,240
Speaker 1: being an adult and looking back, I realized the reason

1031
00:49:03,239 --> 00:49:05,560
Speaker 1: I was treated differently and the reason I was treated

1032
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:11,280
Speaker 1: with respect is because my mom wasn't no punk okay.

1033
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:13,680
Speaker 1: My mom had a lot of money. My mom was

1034
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:16,719
Speaker 1: that girl, okay, and they treated us a certain type

1035
00:49:16,719 --> 00:49:20,279
Speaker 1: of way because my mom had money. So when I

1036
00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:24,520
Speaker 1: moved to Houston, I was so shocked to see so

1037
00:49:24,600 --> 00:49:27,319
Speaker 1: many black people saying, oh, I need white friends. I

1038
00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:29,880
Speaker 1: need white friends because when I was growing up with

1039
00:49:29,880 --> 00:49:32,839
Speaker 1: my white friends, never once did my white friends say, Ooh,

1040
00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:35,239
Speaker 1: let's go hang out with the black people. Let's go

1041
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:37,600
Speaker 1: with Lex and her family, Let's go hang out with

1042
00:49:37,960 --> 00:49:42,000
Speaker 1: you know, you to go hang with the absolutely now,

1043
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:45,759
Speaker 1: let it be known their parents would always let their

1044
00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:48,680
Speaker 1: friends come to my house because guess what, baby, My

1045
00:49:48,719 --> 00:49:51,200
Speaker 1: house was nicer than yours, bigger than yours, and a

1046
00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:54,680
Speaker 1: better neighborhood than yours, bigger pool than yours. Everything. You

1047
00:49:54,719 --> 00:49:57,319
Speaker 1: better speak thishar I am, because but this is not

1048
00:49:57,360 --> 00:50:00,359
Speaker 1: bragging on me. This is bragging on my mom. But

1049
00:50:00,400 --> 00:50:03,640
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is, it's so why do black people

1050
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:07,520
Speaker 1: feel the need to be accepted by white people so much?

1051
00:50:07,600 --> 00:50:10,880
Speaker 1: And I'm getting this from I've seen lave mentality? But

1052
00:50:10,960 --> 00:50:13,000
Speaker 1: okay that too, But we're gonna get into that in

1053
00:50:13,000 --> 00:50:14,719
Speaker 1: a second. I want to talk about the tweet that

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Speaker 1: I saw. It was a tweet of a man sliding

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00:50:17,600 --> 00:50:21,000
Speaker 1: down a slide into a lake, and this girl tweeted,

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00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:25,520
Speaker 1: I love white people. They have so much fun. Since

1057
00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:29,880
Speaker 1: wind do black people not have fun? Bro? Since win?

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00:50:30,040 --> 00:50:34,200
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. The first experiences I got

1059
00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:36,640
Speaker 1: in life of going on roller coasters and being in

1060
00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:39,840
Speaker 1: a lake that was always my family. Now, of course

1061
00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:42,600
Speaker 1: my white friends wanted to do that, and they were,

1062
00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 1: you know, included and all that shit. But what I'm

1063
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:50,040
Speaker 1: saying is, why are y'all acting like black people don't

1064
00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:52,920
Speaker 1: know how to turn up and have a good motherfucking time.

1065
00:50:53,920 --> 00:50:56,360
Speaker 1: That's not unheard of for black people to want to

1066
00:50:56,440 --> 00:50:59,759
Speaker 1: fucking bungee jump. You just not around the right people.

1067
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:02,719
Speaker 1: A trust and believe there are white people who don't

1068
00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:05,600
Speaker 1: want a fucking bungee jump. Bitch, you know what I'm saying.

1069
00:51:05,640 --> 00:51:08,400
Speaker 1: Not every white person is just down to do everything,

1070
00:51:08,760 --> 00:51:11,840
Speaker 1: But y'all are so stuck in this mentality like black

1071
00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:14,279
Speaker 1: people aren't fun. Get the fuck out of here. Why

1072
00:51:14,320 --> 00:51:16,880
Speaker 1: are y'all so pressed to be around people that aren't

1073
00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:20,279
Speaker 1: pressed to be around you? Because this is something Oh look,

1074
00:51:20,320 --> 00:51:24,680
Speaker 1: my wig's one baby. This is something that I grew

1075
00:51:24,760 --> 00:51:26,520
Speaker 1: up around. I grew up around these people. I know

1076
00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:28,600
Speaker 1: these people, and I'm not saying these people because I

1077
00:51:28,680 --> 00:51:31,520
Speaker 1: still love my white friends. I grew up these are

1078
00:51:31,560 --> 00:51:35,520
Speaker 1: my friends, These are my people. But have I ever

1079
00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:39,520
Speaker 1: heard Amanda, I'm sure I'm shouting y'all out, Amanda, Hillary

1080
00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:47,360
Speaker 1: Taylor yeh see, Yeah, Amanda, Hillary, Lindsay, Taylor, Jazzmine, Fallon, Rachel,

1081
00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:51,120
Speaker 1: all of them I've never heard. Yeah, Fallon has a

1082
00:51:51,120 --> 00:51:53,160
Speaker 1: cute names. Shout out to little Fowling. I've never heard

1083
00:51:53,200 --> 00:51:56,560
Speaker 1: any of my friends be like, I need some black friends.

1084
00:51:56,920 --> 00:51:59,759
Speaker 1: Why did I do that? So, what's your view on it?

1085
00:52:00,040 --> 00:52:02,840
Speaker 1: A Being somebody who grew up in like a black environment,

1086
00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:05,920
Speaker 1: though like you were always how do you feel about

1087
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:09,800
Speaker 1: like black people always wanted to be around white people.

1088
00:52:11,480 --> 00:52:13,479
Speaker 1: I just feel like, at the end of the day,

1089
00:52:13,640 --> 00:52:16,839
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, I think it's a slave mentality.

1090
00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:21,600
Speaker 1: We were brought up to believe that being around white people,

1091
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:25,640
Speaker 1: being associated with white people will put us in another category.

1092
00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:29,319
Speaker 1: Ye white is right, black is wrong. And I feel

1093
00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:31,319
Speaker 1: like we were all raised that way. We were all

1094
00:52:31,400 --> 00:52:35,239
Speaker 1: raised to believe that it's fucked up. And I'm not

1095
00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:38,080
Speaker 1: saying that us having that mentality is not a fucked

1096
00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 1: up way to think, but I think we've all felt

1097
00:52:40,200 --> 00:52:42,400
Speaker 1: that way to some extent, Like even for example, with me,

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00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:49,040
Speaker 1: I grew up in a black neighborhood and when I

1099
00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:52,759
Speaker 1: got to high school, the neighborhood that me and my

1100
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:55,840
Speaker 1: family lived in, I was goed to a black school,

1101
00:52:56,600 --> 00:52:58,839
Speaker 1: and my mom did not want me to go there

1102
00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:02,200
Speaker 1: because she l she worked in a neighborhood. She worked

1103
00:53:02,239 --> 00:53:05,040
Speaker 1: in river Oaks. Shout out to river Oaks in Houston.

1104
00:53:05,520 --> 00:53:08,040
Speaker 1: That's one of the well not one of the that

1105
00:53:08,239 --> 00:53:15,319
Speaker 1: is the richest and most affluent neighborhood in Houston. So

1106
00:53:15,440 --> 00:53:17,520
Speaker 1: my mom worked in that neighborhood. She worked at a

1107
00:53:17,520 --> 00:53:22,719
Speaker 1: pediatric center in river Oaks, and she wanted me to

1108
00:53:22,760 --> 00:53:25,680
Speaker 1: really go to a school that was zoned in that neighborhood.

1109
00:53:25,719 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 1: And so I ended up going to Lamar for high school.

1110
00:53:28,040 --> 00:53:31,400
Speaker 1: All four years of high school I went there, and

1111
00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:37,360
Speaker 1: it was a very multi racial school. It was very integrated,

1112
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:40,120
Speaker 1: it was very diverse, a lot of black people, I

1113
00:53:40,120 --> 00:53:41,759
Speaker 1: mean not a lot of black people, but a good

1114
00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:44,640
Speaker 1: amount of black people, but mostly white people. And my

1115
00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:46,560
Speaker 1: mom really really wanted me to go to that school

1116
00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:50,239
Speaker 1: over the school that was in my schools zone. But

1117
00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:52,200
Speaker 1: I get that because it was a mixed school, so

1118
00:53:52,239 --> 00:53:55,239
Speaker 1: you got to but no, but Lamar wasn't really a

1119
00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:58,919
Speaker 1: mixed school. It was always a white school. But then

1120
00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:03,120
Speaker 1: as time change, because you know, times change over decades,

1121
00:54:04,600 --> 00:54:07,960
Speaker 1: black people started having the opportunity to go there because

1122
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:11,200
Speaker 1: now you can get eminem transfers, and you can do

1123
00:54:11,280 --> 00:54:13,520
Speaker 1: transfers to where it's like, Okay, you might live in

1124
00:54:13,560 --> 00:54:16,319
Speaker 1: this neighborhood, but as long as your grades are good

1125
00:54:16,880 --> 00:54:19,279
Speaker 1: and friends like towards white people, Like, did y'all were

1126
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:24,480
Speaker 1: y'all friends? No? No, absolutely not. In high school all

1127
00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:27,000
Speaker 1: four years, I wouldn't take what was segregated because we

1128
00:54:27,040 --> 00:54:30,120
Speaker 1: all took classes together. So I would take I would

1129
00:54:30,120 --> 00:54:33,480
Speaker 1: talk to them in my classes, but outside of classes,

1130
00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:37,320
Speaker 1: I would still always hang with the black people because

1131
00:54:37,360 --> 00:54:39,239
Speaker 1: that's what I was used to, and I feel like

1132
00:54:39,280 --> 00:54:41,440
Speaker 1: that's what we was all used to. Like for example,

1133
00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:45,279
Speaker 1: my best friend Jazzmine, she from the west, the Southwest

1134
00:54:45,320 --> 00:54:49,320
Speaker 1: in Houston. That's a black area. My other friend Bianca,

1135
00:54:49,800 --> 00:54:53,319
Speaker 1: she was from the southeast South Park and Sheet that's

1136
00:54:53,360 --> 00:54:56,440
Speaker 1: another black area. I had friends who was from Third Ward,

1137
00:54:56,760 --> 00:55:00,480
Speaker 1: that's another black area. We all had did transfers to

1138
00:55:01,000 --> 00:55:04,840
Speaker 1: go to Lamar. So with that being said, like I

1139
00:55:04,920 --> 00:55:07,279
Speaker 1: just feel like you just kind of attract yourself to

1140
00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:10,240
Speaker 1: what you used to. But we were around those people

1141
00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:13,239
Speaker 1: and we hung with those people, but I never felt like, oh,

1142
00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:16,200
Speaker 1: I just need to hang around them because they're cooler, right,

1143
00:55:16,239 --> 00:55:18,520
Speaker 1: And this is and that's what's weird to me. Bau.

1144
00:55:19,040 --> 00:55:23,319
Speaker 1: People need to understand that everything is still segregated. You

1145
00:55:23,400 --> 00:55:27,279
Speaker 1: got black clubs, black churches. You know what I'm saying. Like,

1146
00:55:27,960 --> 00:55:31,040
Speaker 1: if you really think about America, America is still segregated.

1147
00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:34,240
Speaker 1: It's just not a legal thing that's in the books,

1148
00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:38,120
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So I think that I

1149
00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:40,440
Speaker 1: don't think it's segregated though, because I feel like at

1150
00:55:40,440 --> 00:55:42,600
Speaker 1: this point, no, I don't feel like it's segregated, because

1151
00:55:42,640 --> 00:55:44,960
Speaker 1: if it was segregated, I would have never been able

1152
00:55:45,000 --> 00:55:47,120
Speaker 1: to go to the school. Because that what I'm saying

1153
00:55:47,200 --> 00:55:51,040
Speaker 1: is it's not legally segregated, but people are still segregated mentally.

1154
00:55:51,239 --> 00:55:53,760
Speaker 1: That's what I mean. People. Look, I'm the r Kelly

1155
00:55:53,760 --> 00:55:56,279
Speaker 1: Meme with my hands on on wop bitch and wo.

1156
00:55:56,840 --> 00:56:01,200
Speaker 1: So what I'm saying. I just think that it's so

1157
00:56:01,360 --> 00:56:05,239
Speaker 1: crazy to me because I experienced racism growing up, and

1158
00:56:05,280 --> 00:56:08,000
Speaker 1: I didn't realize it was racism until I got older.

1159
00:56:08,800 --> 00:56:12,719
Speaker 1: But I experienced the most racism within my own community.

1160
00:56:13,200 --> 00:56:15,080
Speaker 1: I have never seen me as you was in a

1161
00:56:15,120 --> 00:56:18,080
Speaker 1: white people. No no, no, no, I'm talking about with black people. Well,

1162
00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:22,680
Speaker 1: let me not say racism, I'll say prejudice and favoritism,

1163
00:56:23,040 --> 00:56:25,399
Speaker 1: because black people can't be racist, first of all, because

1164
00:56:25,480 --> 00:56:29,080
Speaker 1: racism requires policy. But I feel like that's that's racist

1165
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:32,759
Speaker 1: to say that it's a lot of black people that

1166
00:56:32,840 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 1: aren't racist. Do you know what? I know somebody that

1167
00:56:36,080 --> 00:56:38,800
Speaker 1: to be a racist, that means that you have an

1168
00:56:38,880 --> 00:56:41,560
Speaker 1: effect on somebody. That means you have a certain type

1169
00:56:41,560 --> 00:56:45,000
Speaker 1: of power. Black people right now, we don't have no power,

1170
00:56:45,120 --> 00:56:47,719
Speaker 1: no nothing to say, nothing that anybody does. I don't

1171
00:56:47,719 --> 00:56:51,440
Speaker 1: agreeist because I feel like when Obama exactly, and I

1172
00:56:51,480 --> 00:56:53,839
Speaker 1: feel like when Obama was president, he had a certain

1173
00:56:53,880 --> 00:56:56,560
Speaker 1: amount of power and it made people feel does he

1174
00:56:57,120 --> 00:56:59,480
Speaker 1: Do you understand the power that the president has is

1175
00:56:59,640 --> 00:57:03,480
Speaker 1: not that much. He's basically a speaker. Okay, He's basically

1176
00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:07,040
Speaker 1: the face. He can only say what these people are,

1177
00:57:07,200 --> 00:57:10,880
Speaker 1: what the other branches are voting on, and he's just

1178
00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:14,160
Speaker 1: the deliverer of the message. Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

1179
00:57:14,560 --> 00:57:16,880
Speaker 1: So that's what I get into. As far as that's

1180
00:57:16,880 --> 00:57:19,600
Speaker 1: a little big topic, Yeah, that's the So what I'm

1181
00:57:19,640 --> 00:57:21,720
Speaker 1: saying is we don't have to get in too deep

1182
00:57:21,760 --> 00:57:24,040
Speaker 1: into politics and religios, right because I don't want to

1183
00:57:24,040 --> 00:57:28,600
Speaker 1: offend nobody. But what I'm saying is to be so

1184
00:57:29,000 --> 00:57:32,720
Speaker 1: pressed about people to be accepted, to want to be accepted,

1185
00:57:32,800 --> 00:57:36,120
Speaker 1: because you know what, think about when Cardi b went

1186
00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:38,160
Speaker 1: to that red carpet event and she threw the shoe

1187
00:57:38,200 --> 00:57:42,120
Speaker 1: a Nicki Minaj' you know what everybody said, ghetto, You're

1188
00:57:42,160 --> 00:57:45,600
Speaker 1: so ghetto. It's that the wrong event. What are these

1189
00:57:45,600 --> 00:57:48,640
Speaker 1: people gonna think of you? You're next to Annawan Tour,

1190
00:57:49,080 --> 00:57:52,360
Speaker 1: You're next to the developer of Gucci and this person

1191
00:57:52,400 --> 00:57:56,080
Speaker 1: that fuck them people. We make the culture nigga, they

1192
00:57:56,120 --> 00:57:59,920
Speaker 1: follow us. We are the moneymakers. And I mean not

1193
00:58:00,120 --> 00:58:02,080
Speaker 1: trying to be funny, but what's the guy's name? Who

1194
00:58:02,120 --> 00:58:05,840
Speaker 1: does Louis a son? No? Oh yeah, Kanye's friend. What's

1195
00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:08,040
Speaker 1: his name? I can't I can't think of his name either,

1196
00:58:08,400 --> 00:58:12,240
Speaker 1: but a black guy. We're then take, We're we're we're

1197
00:58:12,280 --> 00:58:14,800
Speaker 1: creating our l own lane as well. Let me tell

1198
00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:17,360
Speaker 1: ya something, y'all know, I'll call myself blame all the time.

1199
00:58:17,440 --> 00:58:19,880
Speaker 1: You know what I call myself blame? And no I

1200
00:58:19,880 --> 00:58:21,800
Speaker 1: don't cause I feel like it's Laine that you call

1201
00:58:21,840 --> 00:58:24,440
Speaker 1: yourself lame, not lame, No, not no. There's love with

1202
00:58:24,480 --> 00:58:26,240
Speaker 1: Slaine that's when I say lame, I mean in a

1203
00:58:26,280 --> 00:58:28,200
Speaker 1: funny way, like I have my little ways about me.

1204
00:58:28,240 --> 00:58:30,520
Speaker 1: But it's cause I grew up around all white people.

1205
00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:33,480
Speaker 1: I ain't getting no swag and getting no nothing until

1206
00:58:33,480 --> 00:58:36,200
Speaker 1: I started being friends with Jennifer fucking Ribo when I

1207
00:58:36,240 --> 00:58:38,720
Speaker 1: was seventeen years old, and she taught me this, and

1208
00:58:38,760 --> 00:58:41,800
Speaker 1: she taught me that, I've I love being around black people.

1209
00:58:41,800 --> 00:58:45,960
Speaker 1: Ain't nothing. She was Latino, No, she was black. Jennifer Rebo,

1210
00:58:46,040 --> 00:58:47,840
Speaker 1: she was, She's black. She's buried now shot, I tell

1211
00:58:47,880 --> 00:58:51,160
Speaker 1: my girl, Jen. But that's what it is like. I

1212
00:58:51,160 --> 00:58:54,080
Speaker 1: I cringe when I see black people being like, oh,

1213
00:58:54,120 --> 00:58:55,920
Speaker 1: I wanna be around white people. One thing I love

1214
00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:59,400
Speaker 1: about Atlanta, Atlanta is a black fucking city, right taking money.

1215
00:58:59,480 --> 00:59:03,240
Speaker 1: I feel like it's nothing wrong to wanna submerge yourself

1216
00:59:03,400 --> 00:59:08,360
Speaker 1: into different different cultures, in different environments. It's nothing wrong

1217
00:59:08,400 --> 00:59:11,160
Speaker 1: with that. But to actually just really crave being around

1218
00:59:11,200 --> 00:59:13,240
Speaker 1: white people because you feel like that's gonna bring you

1219
00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:16,600
Speaker 1: more opportunities. I don't agree because I know a lot

1220
00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:20,240
Speaker 1: of successful people. I dated somebody that's super successful who

1221
00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:25,240
Speaker 1: starting off, they didn't submerge theyself around white people. They

1222
00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:28,600
Speaker 1: submerged theyself around black people, right, and they came up

1223
00:59:28,600 --> 00:59:30,960
Speaker 1: off of their own money that they already had. Actually

1224
00:59:30,960 --> 00:59:34,320
Speaker 1: white Americans like them, super white country Americans. They really

1225
00:59:34,400 --> 00:59:38,280
Speaker 1: be the worst. Like so, I guess just we gonna

1226
00:59:38,400 --> 00:59:40,480
Speaker 1: wrap this topic up be cause it got a little serious.

1227
00:59:40,920 --> 00:59:43,280
Speaker 1: I mean it it it, It will be serious because

1228
00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:46,240
Speaker 1: I mean, the shit is deep. It runs for a century,

1229
00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:51,680
Speaker 1: it runs back to like today, somebody went viral Ice Bay.

1230
00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:56,280
Speaker 1: This woman is basically guarding concentration camps. She's keeping these

1231
00:59:56,320 --> 00:59:59,280
Speaker 1: people away from their their sons, their daughters, keeping kids

1232
00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:02,280
Speaker 1: away from their mother. What's that bitch? What's that stupid

1233
01:00:02,280 --> 01:00:05,880
Speaker 1: ass white bitch name? And excuse me, excuse me, white people.

1234
01:00:06,400 --> 01:00:08,520
Speaker 1: Excuse me white people, if y'all listen to the show.

1235
01:00:09,160 --> 01:00:13,560
Speaker 1: But yes, Tommy Lauren, I cannot stand it be She

1236
01:00:13,640 --> 01:00:17,040
Speaker 1: opposted a stupid ass tweet the other day with some

1237
01:00:17,080 --> 01:00:21,880
Speaker 1: fucking ice talking about Happy deportation Day, Ice Ice baby.

1238
01:00:22,920 --> 01:00:25,440
Speaker 1: We need to cancel their whole we need to cancel

1239
01:00:25,520 --> 01:00:28,280
Speaker 1: everything that she's doing. No, black people need to support

1240
01:00:28,320 --> 01:00:30,320
Speaker 1: her because at the end of the day, that is

1241
01:00:30,400 --> 01:00:33,440
Speaker 1: some ignorant ass bullshit, and one thing about it, this

1242
01:00:33,560 --> 01:00:36,680
Speaker 1: is what I don't respect about I'm not gonna say

1243
01:00:36,720 --> 01:00:39,640
Speaker 1: all white people because all white people are not like that.

1244
01:00:40,000 --> 01:00:42,560
Speaker 1: And my mom did raise me to believe that there

1245
01:00:42,600 --> 01:00:45,880
Speaker 1: are some good white people out there, and I do

1246
01:00:46,320 --> 01:00:50,760
Speaker 1: believe that because I've met some good white people. I've

1247
01:00:50,760 --> 01:00:52,840
Speaker 1: met some good white people, So I don't agree with

1248
01:00:52,880 --> 01:00:55,520
Speaker 1: the fact that all white people are bad people. But

1249
01:00:56,120 --> 01:00:59,600
Speaker 1: bitches like that and white men like that, we need

1250
01:00:59,640 --> 01:01:01,600
Speaker 1: to fuck and cancel them because at the end of

1251
01:01:01,640 --> 01:01:05,160
Speaker 1: the day, because I'm mad that we mentioned her too,

1252
01:01:05,440 --> 01:01:07,640
Speaker 1: but I just want to say this, at the end

1253
01:01:07,640 --> 01:01:11,840
Speaker 1: of the day, we are all fucking immigrants, even you bitch,

1254
01:01:12,360 --> 01:01:17,360
Speaker 1: Oh immigrants. Ever, y'all came here first. Let's chat, y'all.

1255
01:01:17,440 --> 01:01:21,760
Speaker 1: Y'all came here first. Y'all came here, y'all. No, I'm

1256
01:01:21,760 --> 01:01:26,000
Speaker 1: saying y'all came here first, Okay, But what I'm saying

1257
01:01:26,120 --> 01:01:29,960
Speaker 1: is first, as far as being immigrants, y'all came here first.

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Speaker 1: Y'all stole the lamb from the Native Americans, which was us,

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Speaker 1: which was us, which we have that blood in us,

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01:01:37,280 --> 01:01:38,920
Speaker 1: I mean, but to be honest, they have that blood

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01:01:38,920 --> 01:01:40,880
Speaker 1: in them too, whether they want to accept it or night.

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Speaker 1: Y'all came here. Y'all stole the fucking lamb from the

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Speaker 1: Native Americans. This was day land, this was day ship again,

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01:01:48,240 --> 01:01:50,280
Speaker 1: because we're not gonna talk about how the reason y'all

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01:01:50,280 --> 01:01:56,439
Speaker 1: got no but listen, but listen, but listen. But then,

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01:01:56,760 --> 01:01:59,080
Speaker 1: but then they want to try to say crazy shit

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01:01:59,120 --> 01:02:01,800
Speaker 1: about black people, as if y'all wasn't the ones who

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01:02:02,520 --> 01:02:10,080
Speaker 1: stole us, beat us, beat us, raped us, and took

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01:02:10,160 --> 01:02:13,920
Speaker 1: us having babies with us, took us from Africa, brought

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01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:17,000
Speaker 1: us here. But now we're not wanting here, which is

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01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:19,520
Speaker 1: crazy because y'all brought us here, we would and never

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Speaker 1: me and Lex and all of my friends we would

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01:02:23,600 --> 01:02:27,680
Speaker 1: have never been here. Our friends, our parents, our grandparents,

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01:02:27,680 --> 01:02:30,440
Speaker 1: great grandparents, whatever, none of us would have ever been

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01:02:30,440 --> 01:02:33,640
Speaker 1: here if y'all motherfuckers would never stole us from Africa

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01:02:33,800 --> 01:02:36,920
Speaker 1: and brought us here to be y'all indentured service. No,

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01:02:36,960 --> 01:02:42,200
Speaker 1: it's because slavery has been something that was before before

1278
01:02:42,360 --> 01:02:44,760
Speaker 1: they just took it and twisted into a bad way.

1279
01:02:45,080 --> 01:02:47,800
Speaker 1: But not only y'all do now it's a bad way period,

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01:02:49,280 --> 01:02:51,480
Speaker 1: I mean, because no, you have to realize that the

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01:02:51,560 --> 01:02:54,280
Speaker 1: Moors had slaves. Black people used to call themselves Moors,

1282
01:02:54,280 --> 01:02:57,160
Speaker 1: they had slaves, but slaves. Slave wasn't a bad word.

1283
01:02:57,560 --> 01:02:59,600
Speaker 1: Slave was like how you could have somebody just come

1284
01:02:59,640 --> 01:03:01,240
Speaker 1: in your home and cook and clean for you. It

1285
01:03:01,280 --> 01:03:04,160
Speaker 1: was like a maid service. Okay. So but they took

1286
01:03:04,200 --> 01:03:07,080
Speaker 1: it like the sick people. They always are. Twister shit. Okay.

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01:03:07,200 --> 01:03:09,120
Speaker 1: So you have to realize that they brought us here

1288
01:03:09,120 --> 01:03:13,040
Speaker 1: because they realized our strength, our brain power, everything. That's

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01:03:13,080 --> 01:03:16,720
Speaker 1: why they were having babies with each other and getting

1290
01:03:17,040 --> 01:03:21,760
Speaker 1: and giving their white babies to these slaves and letting

1291
01:03:21,760 --> 01:03:26,000
Speaker 1: them breastfeed them because they wanted our milk. Y'all still

1292
01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:29,640
Speaker 1: doing that to this day, to y'all braining, y'all hair,

1293
01:03:29,680 --> 01:03:33,479
Speaker 1: y'all getting y'all asses done, y'all getting y'all lips injected. Look,

1294
01:03:33,520 --> 01:03:35,720
Speaker 1: it goes into deep, It really gets deep, but we

1295
01:03:35,720 --> 01:03:37,720
Speaker 1: ain't gonna even get into it. So I'm gonna change

1296
01:03:37,720 --> 01:03:39,760
Speaker 1: the topic because I'm about to get mad on y'all ass.

1297
01:03:39,960 --> 01:03:41,760
Speaker 1: But I love y'all, so it y'all about to get

1298
01:03:41,800 --> 01:03:44,000
Speaker 1: mad too. So let us know how y'all feel about

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01:03:44,040 --> 01:03:47,320
Speaker 1: black people just being wanting to be so accepted by

1300
01:03:47,560 --> 01:03:50,880
Speaker 1: other races. At the end of the day, we're perfect,

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01:03:51,280 --> 01:03:53,680
Speaker 1: We're amazing. How we are. We don't need to be

1302
01:03:53,760 --> 01:03:56,040
Speaker 1: friends with those people. If you want to be friends

1303
01:03:56,040 --> 01:03:58,600
Speaker 1: with white people, if you meet somebody that's another race,

1304
01:03:58,680 --> 01:04:02,280
Speaker 1: it's doing because you feel like they're a superior to us, right,

1305
01:04:02,560 --> 01:04:04,360
Speaker 1: be friends with them because you made them and you

1306
01:04:04,360 --> 01:04:07,360
Speaker 1: feel like they have a dope ass Aura, and and

1307
01:04:07,480 --> 01:04:09,480
Speaker 1: you y'all have a dope ass connection, and you just

1308
01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:12,120
Speaker 1: want to connect with that person is searching for white people,

1309
01:04:12,160 --> 01:04:15,760
Speaker 1: because let me tell you, they ain't searching for us, period.

1310
01:04:16,160 --> 01:04:20,320
Speaker 1: So we're gonna get into the b my favorite topic.

1311
01:04:20,800 --> 01:04:25,440
Speaker 1: So this was actually brought to us by Sharena Austin,

1312
01:04:26,000 --> 01:04:28,800
Speaker 1: and I'm so gladd she brought Hey, Sena, I'm so

1313
01:04:28,920 --> 01:04:31,560
Speaker 1: glad she brought this topic up because I can talk

1314
01:04:31,600 --> 01:04:35,720
Speaker 1: about this like me too. So she says, hey, ladies,

1315
01:04:35,760 --> 01:04:39,080
Speaker 1: I love the podcast. Can we talk about uncircumcised dicks

1316
01:04:39,520 --> 01:04:42,960
Speaker 1: versus circumcised dicks? How do you feel about it? Do

1317
01:04:43,000 --> 01:04:45,200
Speaker 1: you think it feels the same as a circumcised dick

1318
01:04:45,240 --> 01:04:47,680
Speaker 1: if you've ever tried one? What the nigga come with

1319
01:04:47,760 --> 01:04:51,439
Speaker 1: every quality you're looking for, but the dick is uncircumcised?

1320
01:04:51,800 --> 01:04:56,440
Speaker 1: How do you feel about uncircumcised dicks? Little Drea, have

1321
01:04:56,480 --> 01:04:59,560
Speaker 1: you ever been with an uncircumcised dick? Absolutely, I'm folks,

1322
01:04:59,600 --> 01:05:04,000
Speaker 1: little one in my life who had an uncircumcised dick,

1323
01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:07,440
Speaker 1: and I didn't like it same. It just wasn't my thing. Okay,

1324
01:05:07,440 --> 01:05:10,000
Speaker 1: So I feel like it's too much work. Like sex

1325
01:05:10,120 --> 01:05:13,400
Speaker 1: is already a lot of work period. Okay, Like if

1326
01:05:13,440 --> 01:05:15,680
Speaker 1: you fucking with a nigga who don't got a circumcise dick,

1327
01:05:15,800 --> 01:05:18,480
Speaker 1: sex is work. Like you gotta suck that dick, you

1328
01:05:18,480 --> 01:05:22,120
Speaker 1: gotta oil that deck, you gotta fuck that dick, you

1329
01:05:22,160 --> 01:05:25,000
Speaker 1: gotta do a lot of shit. So if a nigga

1330
01:05:25,040 --> 01:05:27,120
Speaker 1: is uncircumcised, you mean to tell me I gotta pull

1331
01:05:27,240 --> 01:05:29,400
Speaker 1: that shit bag? No, no, no, But you can't just

1332
01:05:29,440 --> 01:05:32,919
Speaker 1: pull it back though I fucked with the uncircumcised dick.

1333
01:05:32,960 --> 01:05:34,920
Speaker 1: First of all, there's a lot of points to this.

1334
01:05:35,000 --> 01:05:37,840
Speaker 1: First point being a lot of men and I hate

1335
01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:39,320
Speaker 1: to say this and I don't mean to judge, but

1336
01:05:39,360 --> 01:05:41,360
Speaker 1: a lot of men was circumcised dick. First of all,

1337
01:05:41,360 --> 01:05:44,320
Speaker 1: I always felt like men, some men don't have the

1338
01:05:44,360 --> 01:05:46,920
Speaker 1: greatest heigh gene as it is just being men, So

1339
01:05:47,120 --> 01:05:49,600
Speaker 1: circumcised dick is different. You all have to realize this

1340
01:05:49,680 --> 01:05:52,360
Speaker 1: is a hood of fucking skin. A lot of men

1341
01:05:52,400 --> 01:05:54,480
Speaker 1: are I mean it's a hood, literally, a lot of

1342
01:05:54,520 --> 01:05:57,160
Speaker 1: men are not pulling that skin back and cleaning it.

1343
01:05:57,240 --> 01:06:00,000
Speaker 1: So I can remember sucking this dick and just remember

1344
01:06:00,760 --> 01:06:03,480
Speaker 1: seeing that duck butter and just tasting something that didn't

1345
01:06:03,520 --> 01:06:07,480
Speaker 1: not taste and not tasting shit tasting different. Okay, that's

1346
01:06:07,600 --> 01:06:14,400
Speaker 1: one the sanity like it's nasty. Two, you have to

1347
01:06:14,440 --> 01:06:18,160
Speaker 1: realize that this is thick skin. You can be sucking

1348
01:06:18,160 --> 01:06:22,360
Speaker 1: a circumcised dick and he's not feeling anything. Sister, He's

1349
01:06:22,400 --> 01:06:24,560
Speaker 1: not feeling it. You sucking the shit out this dick.

1350
01:06:24,600 --> 01:06:27,120
Speaker 1: You deep thrown it. If the skin is pushed all

1351
01:06:27,160 --> 01:06:30,080
Speaker 1: the way up, he doesn't even feel what you're doing. Okay.

1352
01:06:30,800 --> 01:06:35,880
Speaker 1: And third point, when you push the skin back, that's

1353
01:06:36,080 --> 01:06:40,360
Speaker 1: like peeling off the scalp. Okay, imagine peeling off a

1354
01:06:40,400 --> 01:06:44,240
Speaker 1: scalp of a recent wound. So when you pull off

1355
01:06:44,240 --> 01:06:46,120
Speaker 1: the scalp of a recent wound and you touch it,

1356
01:06:46,200 --> 01:06:48,680
Speaker 1: that shit hurts. Y'all have to realize the tip of

1357
01:06:48,760 --> 01:06:54,480
Speaker 1: their head is very, very, very fucking sensitive. So a

1358
01:06:55,000 --> 01:06:58,000
Speaker 1: nigga who has a dick that circumcised, bitch, you can

1359
01:06:58,000 --> 01:07:01,600
Speaker 1: go crazy on that head, deep throat, chot, spit it,

1360
01:07:01,840 --> 01:07:04,680
Speaker 1: put that thing down, flip it and reverse it. But

1361
01:07:04,760 --> 01:07:07,480
Speaker 1: an uncircumcised dick, you have to be careful with it

1362
01:07:07,520 --> 01:07:10,160
Speaker 1: because their dick is sensitive. I can remember fuck when

1363
01:07:10,200 --> 01:07:12,200
Speaker 1: a nigga with an uncircumcised dick and I pulled that

1364
01:07:12,320 --> 01:07:14,800
Speaker 1: skin back because I know when the skin is up,

1365
01:07:14,800 --> 01:07:17,240
Speaker 1: he can't really feel shit. So when I pulled the

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01:07:17,280 --> 01:07:20,280
Speaker 1: skin back, he was like, oh, you're going to her

1367
01:07:20,640 --> 01:07:23,200
Speaker 1: that heart, bitch. I don't want no uncircumcised dick. I'm

1368
01:07:23,200 --> 01:07:25,640
Speaker 1: not gonna lie to you. And now people say, I

1369
01:07:25,680 --> 01:07:27,800
Speaker 1: just don't like it personally because I just feel like

1370
01:07:27,840 --> 01:07:29,960
Speaker 1: it's too much worse. But you know, people say that

1371
01:07:30,000 --> 01:07:32,480
Speaker 1: it's against the Bible to get your dick circumcised, like

1372
01:07:32,600 --> 01:07:34,920
Speaker 1: you know, well, that's fine, but I can guarante say

1373
01:07:35,000 --> 01:07:37,360
Speaker 1: when I have a son, he's getting circumcised soon as

1374
01:07:37,400 --> 01:07:39,720
Speaker 1: he comes out through that. Absolutely. Now I'm not gonna lie.

1375
01:07:40,240 --> 01:07:42,360
Speaker 1: I feel like people say that because the people say, like,

1376
01:07:42,360 --> 01:07:45,720
Speaker 1: you know, Jesus was uncircumcised, but Jesus wasn't getting no

1377
01:07:45,720 --> 01:07:48,240
Speaker 1: pussy from me. I'm not about to give Jesus he

1378
01:07:48,480 --> 01:07:50,320
Speaker 1: wasn't getting some pussy from you he was getting pussy

1379
01:07:50,360 --> 01:07:54,360
Speaker 1: from Mary Magdalen. Mary Magdalen was not fucking Jesus bro

1380
01:07:55,000 --> 01:07:57,000
Speaker 1: she was she was a Oh she knew this was

1381
01:07:57,040 --> 01:08:00,880
Speaker 1: a Bible Tell you you feel like Jesus getting down.

1382
01:08:01,440 --> 01:08:04,200
Speaker 1: I don't know. At the end of a day, it's

1383
01:08:04,200 --> 01:08:07,480
Speaker 1: the reason why he had to commit suicide. Jesus did

1384
01:08:07,520 --> 01:08:10,520
Speaker 1: not commit suicide. God gave him up and told him

1385
01:08:10,560 --> 01:08:15,120
Speaker 1: what to do. He did not commit suicide. So anyways, good,

1386
01:08:15,280 --> 01:08:19,400
Speaker 1: that was violent. Now I'm playing, y'all. Don't don't judge me.

1387
01:08:19,439 --> 01:08:22,160
Speaker 1: Don't stoplist please, don't stop listening. The poor minds. I'm

1388
01:08:22,160 --> 01:08:24,280
Speaker 1: really just kidding. He was really just kidd y'all. Know,

1389
01:08:24,320 --> 01:08:26,680
Speaker 1: we don't have nothing that we don't be playing. I mean,

1390
01:08:26,720 --> 01:08:28,760
Speaker 1: we do be playing. We do be playing. But I

1391
01:08:28,760 --> 01:08:32,040
Speaker 1: don't know me too. So what I just feel like

1392
01:08:32,160 --> 01:08:35,800
Speaker 1: is an uncircumcised dick is not a deal breaker. But

1393
01:08:35,840 --> 01:08:37,920
Speaker 1: I will say I know somebody who got their dick's

1394
01:08:37,960 --> 01:08:41,679
Speaker 1: circumcised as a grown man. So if you're a grown man,

1395
01:08:42,560 --> 01:08:44,920
Speaker 1: if you if your parents decided not to get your

1396
01:08:45,000 --> 01:08:48,160
Speaker 1: penis circumcised, do that shit. But I feel like, as

1397
01:08:48,200 --> 01:08:50,920
Speaker 1: an adult, if you've already went through X amount of

1398
01:08:51,000 --> 01:08:53,759
Speaker 1: years of your life without having this circumcised. Why decide

1399
01:08:53,800 --> 01:08:57,040
Speaker 1: to get this circumcised? It definitely changes your sex life,

1400
01:08:57,080 --> 01:09:01,680
Speaker 1: It changes your like I said, the cleanliness, it's like no,

1401
01:09:01,960 --> 01:09:04,559
Speaker 1: like it's so it's a lot of mad. My mom's

1402
01:09:04,640 --> 01:09:07,799
Speaker 1: told mad my dad is in circumcise. And I've of course,

1403
01:09:08,040 --> 01:09:11,960
Speaker 1: that's something I've never known because I'm having some three

1404
01:09:12,000 --> 01:09:13,840
Speaker 1: inch skin that comes out of your pussy hole, Like

1405
01:09:13,880 --> 01:09:15,400
Speaker 1: you have to pull that shit back, clean up a

1406
01:09:15,439 --> 01:09:18,240
Speaker 1: nigga eating your pussy, he gotta feel it back, I

1407
01:09:18,280 --> 01:09:20,720
Speaker 1: mean something. And you can't make that decision until you're

1408
01:09:20,760 --> 01:09:23,120
Speaker 1: like eight. I mean I've I like I said before,

1409
01:09:23,240 --> 01:09:25,600
Speaker 1: I've had sex with the guy who was uncircumcised, but

1410
01:09:25,680 --> 01:09:30,040
Speaker 1: we always use condoms, so I know he wasn't feeling shit, bro,

1411
01:09:30,680 --> 01:09:33,200
Speaker 1: because he used to come though, Yeah, because he probably,

1412
01:09:33,320 --> 01:09:35,639
Speaker 1: I mean, nigga's gonna come regardless. But like what I'm

1413
01:09:35,640 --> 01:09:38,120
Speaker 1: saying is they have a thick layer of skin on

1414
01:09:38,200 --> 01:09:43,880
Speaker 1: top of the condom, bro, uncircumcised, I mean, yeah, uncircumcised dicks.

1415
01:09:44,040 --> 01:09:47,519
Speaker 1: That's not the way. I just feel like he's think

1416
01:09:48,000 --> 01:09:50,519
Speaker 1: and I never and I and and that's one thing

1417
01:09:50,800 --> 01:09:52,800
Speaker 1: I did fuck with a dude that was circumcised, but

1418
01:09:52,840 --> 01:09:55,599
Speaker 1: I never sucked his dick. I sucked the uncircumcised dick,

1419
01:09:55,640 --> 01:09:57,760
Speaker 1: and I would just say I'm doing the Lord has

1420
01:09:57,800 --> 01:10:00,800
Speaker 1: blessed me that every man since then that has pulled

1421
01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:04,240
Speaker 1: down his pants don't have no extra skin, cause god

1422
01:10:04,320 --> 01:10:06,759
Speaker 1: damn it, that shit is fucking What type of woman

1423
01:10:06,800 --> 01:10:08,720
Speaker 1: are you to not get your man, I mean, to

1424
01:10:08,760 --> 01:10:12,080
Speaker 1: not get your son's dick circumcised. I'm not gonna lie though,

1425
01:10:12,160 --> 01:10:15,439
Speaker 1: when Jackson, my son is going to be circumcised as

1426
01:10:15,479 --> 01:10:18,240
Speaker 1: soon as he comes out there. That's how Jackson was

1427
01:10:18,400 --> 01:10:20,679
Speaker 1: my nephew, little Jackson. But let me tell you something

1428
01:10:22,000 --> 01:10:26,120
Speaker 1: that was so hard for me. So you've seen it, No,

1429
01:10:26,360 --> 01:10:28,720
Speaker 1: Like I'm talking about just taking care of him afterwards.

1430
01:10:28,880 --> 01:10:32,240
Speaker 1: It's a lot. It's traumatizing, really, yes, cause he cries

1431
01:10:32,280 --> 01:10:34,320
Speaker 1: every time else putting his little medicine on his little

1432
01:10:34,360 --> 01:10:36,920
Speaker 1: pp he was just a screaming and I used to

1433
01:10:36,960 --> 01:10:39,200
Speaker 1: just be crying with him to be like I'm sorry,

1434
01:10:39,360 --> 01:10:41,800
Speaker 1: Like it makes me want to cry out thinking about it.

1435
01:10:41,960 --> 01:10:44,639
Speaker 1: So it's really hard. But why does the penis Why

1436
01:10:44,760 --> 01:10:46,680
Speaker 1: is the penis that way in the first place? I mean,

1437
01:10:46,680 --> 01:10:48,360
Speaker 1: I guess that's something we would have to ask God.

1438
01:10:48,520 --> 01:10:50,120
Speaker 1: But yeah, I don't know. It's just like, why do

1439
01:10:50,200 --> 01:10:53,040
Speaker 1: we have a Like why do we have two nostrils?

1440
01:10:53,080 --> 01:10:58,240
Speaker 1: You really do only need one? Like one you, why

1441
01:10:58,240 --> 01:11:00,280
Speaker 1: do you need two nostrils? You could have one bite.

1442
01:11:00,840 --> 01:11:03,679
Speaker 1: There's a lot of pointless stuff on our bodies, bro, Yeah,

1443
01:11:03,720 --> 01:11:05,439
Speaker 1: like you know, So it's just like it's just something

1444
01:11:05,479 --> 01:11:07,759
Speaker 1: that's just there. So let us know how y'all feel

1445
01:11:08,120 --> 01:11:11,920
Speaker 1: about uncircumcised digs. I don't like them. I'll say, dread

1446
01:11:12,000 --> 01:11:14,240
Speaker 1: doesn't lie. I don't. I mean, it's it's not my

1447
01:11:14,360 --> 01:11:18,360
Speaker 1: forte right. You know. I actually used to make a

1448
01:11:18,439 --> 01:11:20,120
Speaker 1: joke about the dudes that I used to fuck with

1449
01:11:20,479 --> 01:11:22,800
Speaker 1: that had a uncircumcised dick. I used to call him

1450
01:11:22,840 --> 01:11:26,719
Speaker 1: Turtle Knicks, and then my phone, instead of having his name,

1451
01:11:26,760 --> 01:11:31,720
Speaker 1: I had a turtle emoji. Yeah, I'm sorry anybody that's uncircumcised.

1452
01:11:31,720 --> 01:11:33,679
Speaker 1: I don't mean to offend you, but I'm not fucking

1453
01:11:33,720 --> 01:11:37,080
Speaker 1: with it. So we're gonna move on. Of course, y'all

1454
01:11:37,120 --> 01:11:42,160
Speaker 1: know we got the bop A, the bye, the vibe,

1455
01:11:42,200 --> 01:11:43,680
Speaker 1: so I'm not gonna lie to y'all. Y'all know I

1456
01:11:43,760 --> 01:11:47,720
Speaker 1: do the most every week. I don't have no I

1457
01:11:47,760 --> 01:11:49,800
Speaker 1: don't have no afrobeats for y'all this week because it

1458
01:11:49,840 --> 01:11:51,920
Speaker 1: was just a lot of good music dropped this week.

1459
01:11:52,040 --> 01:11:55,160
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Okay, so I'm gonna eliminate one of

1460
01:11:55,160 --> 01:11:57,360
Speaker 1: these songs because I actually have four bops of a week.

1461
01:11:57,800 --> 01:12:00,640
Speaker 1: Can I have four? Do whatever you like? Okay, I

1462
01:12:00,680 --> 01:12:03,599
Speaker 1: only got one, y'all know me. I'm a minimalist. Okay,

1463
01:12:03,720 --> 01:12:06,320
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna say the best for last, of course.

1464
01:12:06,960 --> 01:12:11,640
Speaker 1: So my first bop of the week is Soaking With

1465
01:12:11,920 --> 01:12:16,439
Speaker 1: by Marlow. Soaking with a that's a fucking bot by Marlow.

1466
01:12:16,760 --> 01:12:27,360
Speaker 1: Marlow got a fucking bob bro for Soaking With Listen

1467
01:12:27,400 --> 01:12:29,640
Speaker 1: to it. I just listened to it. Even I feel like,

1468
01:12:29,680 --> 01:12:32,240
Speaker 1: what about two months now? So shout out to a

1469
01:12:32,240 --> 01:12:35,720
Speaker 1: little Marlow, Shout out to Marlow and this newc this

1470
01:12:36,000 --> 01:12:41,080
Speaker 1: next artist Atlanta. I hate him. I hate the next artist.

1471
01:12:41,120 --> 01:12:44,799
Speaker 1: He sucks. He ruins every song, but he's on big trash.

1472
01:12:45,080 --> 01:12:48,679
Speaker 1: Not fucking with him, but he yes, but he got

1473
01:12:48,680 --> 01:12:52,200
Speaker 1: a bob, he got a fucking bot, bitch. So my

1474
01:12:52,479 --> 01:12:55,160
Speaker 1: next bop of the week. But I guess before I

1475
01:12:55,200 --> 01:12:57,080
Speaker 1: introduced it, I guess I'll say the reason I like

1476
01:12:57,120 --> 01:12:59,559
Speaker 1: the song is because he was smart. He put meat

1477
01:12:59,600 --> 01:13:06,120
Speaker 1: Milk verse first, meet Mills verse first. So it's called

1478
01:13:06,280 --> 01:13:10,800
Speaker 1: tap by Nov featuring me Mill. Who is no tap

1479
01:13:11,240 --> 01:13:15,639
Speaker 1: tap tap tap given his tap tap tap tap. Uh,

1480
01:13:15,680 --> 01:13:18,200
Speaker 1: he wasn't heard that song? Yeah, but who is not?

1481
01:13:18,600 --> 01:13:20,280
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think he was on that song

1482
01:13:20,320 --> 01:13:23,240
Speaker 1: with Travis Scott. Damn, Okay, he was on. He's on

1483
01:13:23,280 --> 01:13:24,640
Speaker 1: a song with a lot of people. He be on

1484
01:13:24,720 --> 01:13:26,840
Speaker 1: songs with Gunner, he be on songs with everybody, and

1485
01:13:26,880 --> 01:13:30,960
Speaker 1: his verses always be the worst. But tap by Now

1486
01:13:31,200 --> 01:13:34,839
Speaker 1: featuring meat Mill, it's a fucking bop. Okay, I fucking

1487
01:13:34,920 --> 01:13:38,360
Speaker 1: love it. My third bop of the week. Big Krit's

1488
01:13:38,439 --> 01:13:41,600
Speaker 1: album this dropped. It's an amazing fucking album. Y'all know.

1489
01:13:41,600 --> 01:13:44,080
Speaker 1: I'm a big Chrits stand shot out to be christ

1490
01:13:44,240 --> 01:13:46,160
Speaker 1: He actually has a challenge going on right now for

1491
01:13:46,240 --> 01:13:49,400
Speaker 1: his song Addiction, and Soweedy is on the hook. Shout

1492
01:13:49,400 --> 01:13:53,400
Speaker 1: out to Sowety Rich Nigga eight figga, that's my type.

1493
01:13:53,640 --> 01:13:57,840
Speaker 1: That's not bad. Beech trying to write the deck all night.

1494
01:13:59,240 --> 01:14:02,320
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's what I'm gonna do, So

1495
01:14:02,479 --> 01:14:05,000
Speaker 1: shout out to Big Chris. He got a good song addiction.

1496
01:14:05,400 --> 01:14:08,000
Speaker 1: I love it. I'm fucking with it. Big Chris's album

1497
01:14:08,080 --> 01:14:10,720
Speaker 1: is actually solid. I've only ran it twice, but I'm

1498
01:14:10,720 --> 01:14:12,439
Speaker 1: gonna run it again. But y'all know I'm gone not

1499
01:14:12,560 --> 01:14:15,960
Speaker 1: to Young Rick. Don't shout out to the homie. Shout

1500
01:14:15,960 --> 01:14:18,719
Speaker 1: out to Big Dud, Dud, Pau Paul in the building,

1501
01:14:18,960 --> 01:14:22,200
Speaker 1: y'all had an amazing project. Love y'all. Shout out to y'all.

1502
01:14:22,680 --> 01:14:26,840
Speaker 1: But I'm saved the best faction because I'm not gonna

1503
01:14:26,880 --> 01:14:30,639
Speaker 1: lie y'all. This is a feel good song, Okay, song,

1504
01:14:30,720 --> 01:14:36,040
Speaker 1: I already know this song describes your situation. Yeah, my situation,

1505
01:14:36,120 --> 01:14:39,000
Speaker 1: I already know. I ready know what song. Shout out

1506
01:14:39,040 --> 01:14:44,680
Speaker 1: to Lee and ain't it crazy? I swear to god

1507
01:14:44,760 --> 01:14:48,040
Speaker 1: se y'all. Lex did not tell me nothing about none

1508
01:14:48,080 --> 01:14:49,600
Speaker 1: of her vibes. She did not tell me that this

1509
01:14:49,720 --> 01:14:52,960
Speaker 1: was gonna be her song of the week. But obviously,

1510
01:14:53,439 --> 01:14:56,559
Speaker 1: if you're a music head, which we both are, and

1511
01:14:56,600 --> 01:14:59,679
Speaker 1: you've listened to the song, then you just know. First

1512
01:14:59,680 --> 01:15:03,200
Speaker 1: of all, you just know be and this is the

1513
01:15:03,240 --> 01:15:08,679
Speaker 1: motherfucking vibe. I mean, the lyrics. Walle is a fucking poet.

1514
01:15:09,120 --> 01:15:12,519
Speaker 1: The lyrics just hit home is a fucking poet, and

1515
01:15:12,560 --> 01:15:14,280
Speaker 1: we're about to play that ship on the speaker as

1516
01:15:14,280 --> 01:15:16,920
Speaker 1: soon as we get that's not no, seriously, y'all, because

1517
01:15:16,960 --> 01:15:18,800
Speaker 1: I know y'all be seeing my old legs bys fuck

1518
01:15:18,880 --> 01:15:21,400
Speaker 1: that ship. This nigga is a fucking poet, and I'm

1519
01:15:21,439 --> 01:15:24,320
Speaker 1: gonna be mad as fuck that if y'all want to

1520
01:15:24,360 --> 01:15:27,719
Speaker 1: appreciate this, this album, this is his last fucking album.

1521
01:15:27,720 --> 01:15:29,760
Speaker 1: And when I tell y'all, he's been giving us good

1522
01:15:29,800 --> 01:15:33,320
Speaker 1: fucking music like this ship is good. It's a great

1523
01:15:33,560 --> 01:15:40,240
Speaker 1: y'all needs to get months. Why can't you agree with me?

1524
01:15:40,760 --> 01:15:45,920
Speaker 1: For one? Maybe we can beyond chill and not because

1525
01:15:45,920 --> 01:15:47,759
Speaker 1: that's how it is. You'll be fucking with a nigga

1526
01:15:47,960 --> 01:15:53,360
Speaker 1: and y'all let me explain to you, you know, let no,

1527
01:15:53,520 --> 01:15:56,360
Speaker 1: let me explain to my hands. You be going through

1528
01:15:56,360 --> 01:15:58,599
Speaker 1: it with a nigga and you love him, but y'all

1529
01:15:58,640 --> 01:16:01,559
Speaker 1: just can't get along. But like them, sometimes you just

1530
01:16:01,600 --> 01:16:03,280
Speaker 1: want to be on chill with that nigga and have

1531
01:16:03,360 --> 01:16:06,280
Speaker 1: a good night and be like, fu can make it right?

1532
01:16:06,479 --> 01:16:08,680
Speaker 1: Can we just be on chill tonight? Bro? Like I

1533
01:16:08,760 --> 01:16:13,759
Speaker 1: just want to make it make low But Wile always

1534
01:16:13,760 --> 01:16:15,920
Speaker 1: got the vibes I always say this and shout out

1535
01:16:15,920 --> 01:16:17,640
Speaker 1: to Wila. I mean, this is not my Bob of

1536
01:16:17,680 --> 01:16:22,639
Speaker 1: the week, but ambitioning Lotus, flower Bomb, even the Gemini

1537
01:16:22,760 --> 01:16:25,280
Speaker 1: that he just released Gemini. I can go on and on.

1538
01:16:25,360 --> 01:16:30,080
Speaker 1: Wile has had Bonnie numerous Wile has had numerous songs

1539
01:16:30,120 --> 01:16:32,920
Speaker 1: that had just gotten I love Walle, that's that's like,

1540
01:16:33,800 --> 01:16:36,160
Speaker 1: that's my heart. Yeah, I don't give a fuck like

1541
01:16:36,439 --> 01:16:40,559
Speaker 1: I love Wala. That's my nigga by Lauren, Yes, like

1542
01:16:40,600 --> 01:16:42,640
Speaker 1: that's my nigga. So if y'all haven't listened to on

1543
01:16:42,720 --> 01:16:45,840
Speaker 1: Chill by Walle, your mother's fucking sleep. And I'm not,

1544
01:16:46,040 --> 01:16:48,000
Speaker 1: like I said, I'm not being by no, she really not,

1545
01:16:48,040 --> 01:16:50,360
Speaker 1: because that's what I'm saying because y'all know sometimes Lex

1546
01:16:50,400 --> 01:16:52,720
Speaker 1: be having songs that she'll be like, all, this is

1547
01:16:52,760 --> 01:16:54,559
Speaker 1: my vibe of the week And I haven't even heard

1548
01:16:54,600 --> 01:16:57,000
Speaker 1: the song. But I've heard that song, and I one

1549
01:16:57,080 --> 01:17:01,760
Speaker 1: hundred percent agreed. I agree. Shout out to shout out

1550
01:17:01,800 --> 01:17:04,519
Speaker 1: to shout out to Little Wile A, shout out to

1551
01:17:04,560 --> 01:17:08,720
Speaker 1: Little Toby, and shout out to Jeremah and Jeremiah, but

1552
01:17:08,760 --> 01:17:10,719
Speaker 1: shout out to a Little Toby because that's my nigga,

1553
01:17:11,560 --> 01:17:15,240
Speaker 1: that's my homeboy, like, and then we'll do an extra

1554
01:17:15,280 --> 01:17:17,800
Speaker 1: pop of the week Maxo Cream and shout out to

1555
01:17:17,920 --> 01:17:21,400
Speaker 1: max So Max just got signed to shout out to H.

1556
01:17:21,439 --> 01:17:26,040
Speaker 1: Shy because Maxo just got signed to Rock Nation. What's

1557
01:17:26,120 --> 01:17:28,720
Speaker 1: him a max song called I Don't Remember? We want

1558
01:17:28,720 --> 01:17:30,880
Speaker 1: to look it up real yeah, because honestly, I don't

1559
01:17:30,920 --> 01:17:32,280
Speaker 1: know the name of it, and y'all gonna be like, oh,

1560
01:17:32,280 --> 01:17:35,519
Speaker 1: she lying now, I don't know, no Max. But Maxo

1561
01:17:35,760 --> 01:17:39,880
Speaker 1: was also on J Call's No Project. Max I was

1562
01:17:39,960 --> 01:17:42,280
Speaker 1: really doing his thing right now. So shout out to H.

1563
01:17:42,640 --> 01:17:45,240
Speaker 1: Shout out to Maxo and make the selling because they

1564
01:17:45,320 --> 01:17:48,160
Speaker 1: really putting on for the h right now. And I'm

1565
01:17:48,280 --> 01:17:51,719
Speaker 1: really fucking weitty because we haven't had no super popping

1566
01:17:51,920 --> 01:17:56,360
Speaker 1: artists in Houston since like Slim Thug and Paul Wall

1567
01:17:56,560 --> 01:17:58,559
Speaker 1: and Mike Jones and all in me. We all know

1568
01:17:58,680 --> 01:18:00,720
Speaker 1: that was like ten fifteen years. Oh, that song is

1569
01:18:00,760 --> 01:18:04,320
Speaker 1: called she Live. Shout out to Maxo and mag thea Stallion.

1570
01:18:04,360 --> 01:18:06,400
Speaker 1: They got a song called she Live. That's a fucking

1571
01:18:06,400 --> 01:18:09,920
Speaker 1: bop too, yes, wile Toby, Max shout out to the

1572
01:18:09,920 --> 01:18:13,000
Speaker 1: whole teams, y'all killing it and shout out to a

1573
01:18:13,000 --> 01:18:15,639
Speaker 1: little Kelly, you know, a little killing part of the girl.

1574
01:18:17,479 --> 01:18:20,240
Speaker 1: We love you, little Kelly. Yeah, but we're gonna get

1575
01:18:20,320 --> 01:18:21,800
Speaker 1: I just want to say it one more time. Let's

1576
01:18:21,920 --> 01:18:23,880
Speaker 1: talk about the important bop of the week, y'all. Make

1577
01:18:23,880 --> 01:18:28,639
Speaker 1: sure y'all go stream wil On a chill fur Jeremiah

1578
01:18:28,720 --> 01:18:37,720
Speaker 1: absolutely my dog for life. Go ahead, Drea, Okay, so

1579
01:18:38,680 --> 01:18:41,240
Speaker 1: my bop of the week is going to be Wrex

1580
01:18:41,920 --> 01:18:45,920
Speaker 1: in the Middle. But I know y'all, like I know

1581
01:18:46,000 --> 01:18:48,320
Speaker 1: y'all like beach that song, all this fuck like that

1582
01:18:48,479 --> 01:18:54,040
Speaker 1: song men out. But we still need, yes, absolutely, we

1583
01:18:54,080 --> 01:18:56,560
Speaker 1: still need to be streaming Nipsy. We still need to

1584
01:18:56,600 --> 01:18:59,439
Speaker 1: be remembering his legacy. We still need to be on

1585
01:18:59,560 --> 01:19:02,760
Speaker 1: his sheep. Like that song is a motherfucking viob and

1586
01:19:02,800 --> 01:19:04,960
Speaker 1: I fuck with that motherfucking song. I listened to that

1587
01:19:05,040 --> 01:19:12,439
Speaker 1: whole all the day. Mercy on them, Yes, whatelve, I

1588
01:19:12,479 --> 01:19:20,120
Speaker 1: pray to God. I don't know the kennel. Yeah, nigga,

1589
01:19:20,120 --> 01:19:26,639
Speaker 1: be focused on my check, but yeah, shout out to Nipsy.

1590
01:19:26,720 --> 01:19:30,639
Speaker 1: That song is a motherfucking vibe. Honestly, the marathon continued period.

1591
01:19:30,720 --> 01:19:33,960
Speaker 1: It really does like people. I still see people tweeting

1592
01:19:33,960 --> 01:19:36,040
Speaker 1: about him every day. This man is so important to

1593
01:19:36,479 --> 01:19:39,840
Speaker 1: hip hop culture, to black culture period. So I'm glad

1594
01:19:39,880 --> 01:19:41,240
Speaker 1: that you made this the Bob by the Week because

1595
01:19:41,240 --> 01:19:43,599
Speaker 1: I still have people I listen to Nise every day

1596
01:19:43,800 --> 01:19:51,240
Speaker 1: grinding all my life sacrifice. So shout shout out to Nip.

1597
01:19:51,640 --> 01:19:54,960
Speaker 1: And I also have another vibe, which is another like

1598
01:19:55,040 --> 01:20:01,080
Speaker 1: eighteen Busch is another old vibe. But Time, No, No,

1599
01:20:01,160 --> 01:20:06,800
Speaker 1: absolutely not Time by Little Baby featuring me. Okay, I've

1600
01:20:06,880 --> 01:20:10,120
Speaker 1: heard that that is my motherfucking sheet too, and that

1601
01:20:10,240 --> 01:20:12,839
Speaker 1: was on Little Baby last project, which came out probably

1602
01:20:12,880 --> 01:20:17,080
Speaker 1: like six seven months ago. But y'all, I'm a real

1603
01:20:17,120 --> 01:20:18,880
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to y'all. Since I've been living

1604
01:20:18,880 --> 01:20:21,840
Speaker 1: in Atlanta, I'm a real and maybe because of my

1605
01:20:21,920 --> 01:20:26,519
Speaker 1: association with certain people, I'm a real Atlanta beach. So

1606
01:20:27,720 --> 01:20:31,120
Speaker 1: Time is my sheet, Little Baby feature and Meek Meal,

1607
01:20:31,520 --> 01:20:33,920
Speaker 1: So I'm not gonna lie. That's We had a lot

1608
01:20:33,920 --> 01:20:35,800
Speaker 1: of bops today. Put a tag on your toe for

1609
01:20:35,840 --> 01:20:38,000
Speaker 1: all that cheap check. I'm dead. We had a lot

1610
01:20:38,040 --> 01:20:40,519
Speaker 1: of bops today. We're gonna make a little playlist for y'all.

1611
01:20:40,360 --> 01:20:42,800
Speaker 1: We need to start making. So what I'm gonna do

1612
01:20:42,960 --> 01:20:45,240
Speaker 1: is all of our bops today. I'm gonna make a

1613
01:20:45,280 --> 01:20:47,360
Speaker 1: playlist and every week from now on we're gonna add

1614
01:20:47,360 --> 01:20:49,519
Speaker 1: on to it. Okay, let's do that, So shout out

1615
01:20:49,560 --> 01:20:51,320
Speaker 1: to all of our bops of the week. Now we're

1616
01:20:51,320 --> 01:20:54,320
Speaker 1: gonna get into the question. The question, so I as

1617
01:20:54,439 --> 01:20:59,960
Speaker 1: y'all don't If y'all don't know, you can send any questions, advice, topics,

1618
01:21:00,120 --> 01:21:03,880
Speaker 1: anything to ask poor minds at gmail dot com. That's

1619
01:21:03,960 --> 01:21:07,840
Speaker 1: a skp. Oh you are m I N D s

1620
01:21:08,160 --> 01:21:12,439
Speaker 1: at gmail dot com. You ready go ahead? Okay, So

1621
01:21:12,720 --> 01:21:16,920
Speaker 1: our question this week is from Jalisa M. She said,

1622
01:21:17,040 --> 01:21:20,800
Speaker 1: good afternoon, beautiful ladies. I'm a faithful listeners of the

1623
01:21:20,880 --> 01:21:23,080
Speaker 1: show and I must at meet. Y'all are my best

1624
01:21:23,120 --> 01:21:27,719
Speaker 1: friends in my head, especially Drea, my tourist sister. Shout

1625
01:21:27,720 --> 01:21:31,000
Speaker 1: out Taurus Gang Gang Gang Bitch. So, she said, I

1626
01:21:31,040 --> 01:21:35,160
Speaker 1: currently reside in small Tallahassee, Florida, and I'm tired of

1627
01:21:35,200 --> 01:21:38,479
Speaker 1: the basic men here. I'm over it. I'm a career

1628
01:21:38,600 --> 01:21:42,080
Speaker 1: driven woman, no kids, and I'm not ugly. I'll be

1629
01:21:42,200 --> 01:21:44,599
Speaker 1: thirty next year and I would like to consider myself

1630
01:21:44,640 --> 01:21:48,000
Speaker 1: a catch. I love a thugas nigga, but I'm getting

1631
01:21:48,040 --> 01:21:51,760
Speaker 1: tired of their trifling ways. I'm tired of settling, and

1632
01:21:51,840 --> 01:21:54,960
Speaker 1: I'm ready to start a life living my best life

1633
01:21:55,280 --> 01:22:01,000
Speaker 1: with the healthy balance of thug, passion, bank runs and trips. Okay, see,

1634
01:22:01,400 --> 01:22:04,920
Speaker 1: I feel you. The type of men y'all describe on

1635
01:22:04,960 --> 01:22:07,479
Speaker 1: the show that y'all day is definitely what I need

1636
01:22:07,600 --> 01:22:10,759
Speaker 1: in my life. I don't even know where to start,

1637
01:22:10,880 --> 01:22:15,439
Speaker 1: and I'm willing to travel. Your assisians will be greatly appreciated, ladies.

1638
01:22:15,880 --> 01:22:19,000
Speaker 1: Attached is the picture of me for your eyes only, Ladies.

1639
01:22:19,080 --> 01:22:24,479
Speaker 1: She sincerely beautiful. I've been seeing it. She's beautiful as fuck,

1640
01:22:24,840 --> 01:22:27,960
Speaker 1: so she said, sincerely a Taurus queen in need of

1641
01:22:28,000 --> 01:22:31,479
Speaker 1: a real nigga, willing to spend their cash and be yes,

1642
01:22:31,680 --> 01:22:36,240
Speaker 1: you are beautiful as so. This is what I have.

1643
01:22:36,479 --> 01:22:40,880
Speaker 1: Titty sitting right. No, she's beautiful, row sitting right. Okay,

1644
01:22:40,920 --> 01:22:44,880
Speaker 1: so let me answer your question. You can really get

1645
01:22:45,479 --> 01:22:47,599
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter. You can get whatever you want out

1646
01:22:47,600 --> 01:22:49,560
Speaker 1: of a nigga. This goes back to what Drea was

1647
01:22:49,600 --> 01:22:52,439
Speaker 1: saying earlier. But you have to be vocal and demand

1648
01:22:52,520 --> 01:22:55,559
Speaker 1: what you want. You're beautiful as fuck. You don't even

1649
01:22:55,600 --> 01:22:57,720
Speaker 1: have to say shit like I feel like when men

1650
01:22:57,760 --> 01:23:00,080
Speaker 1: approach me and Drea, they already know what the deal is.

1651
01:23:00,120 --> 01:23:02,439
Speaker 1: They already know how they gotta come because it's that

1652
01:23:02,600 --> 01:23:05,000
Speaker 1: aura that you give off. Don't ever let a nigga

1653
01:23:05,040 --> 01:23:07,200
Speaker 1: feel like he's gonna have to half step, because I

1654
01:23:07,280 --> 01:23:09,880
Speaker 1: let niggas know off top, this is what I'm used to,

1655
01:23:10,600 --> 01:23:14,120
Speaker 1: like straight up, like I tell people all the time, Yeah, bitch,

1656
01:23:14,280 --> 01:23:16,559
Speaker 1: my Pair shrip was two years ago, and yeah my

1657
01:23:16,560 --> 01:23:19,000
Speaker 1: little Bahama shrip was a year like y'all won't but

1658
01:23:19,080 --> 01:23:21,000
Speaker 1: y'all won't know what I'm used to. You know what

1659
01:23:21,040 --> 01:23:23,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying. Like, even if a nigga just take me

1660
01:23:23,280 --> 01:23:25,559
Speaker 1: to fucking Miami, it was all paid for. You have

1661
01:23:25,600 --> 01:23:29,439
Speaker 1: to let niggas know what you're expecting. So I feel

1662
01:23:29,520 --> 01:23:33,240
Speaker 1: like you're beautiful as fuck. A man just looking at you,

1663
01:23:33,600 --> 01:23:36,840
Speaker 1: a man should already feel like I cannot half step

1664
01:23:36,840 --> 01:23:40,760
Speaker 1: when I come to this bitch, because not only it's

1665
01:23:40,800 --> 01:23:43,080
Speaker 1: just about how you carry yourself. Because you could see

1666
01:23:43,120 --> 01:23:47,559
Speaker 1: a woman dressed up in Gucci Versace, shoes, everything, and

1667
01:23:47,600 --> 01:23:49,719
Speaker 1: then you can see another woman in a twenty dollars

1668
01:23:49,720 --> 01:23:51,720
Speaker 1: Fashion Nova outfit. But guess what if the woman with

1669
01:23:51,800 --> 01:23:54,320
Speaker 1: a Fashion Nova outfit is walking with her head up

1670
01:23:54,360 --> 01:23:58,240
Speaker 1: hops and with the confidence she's gonna attract the men

1671
01:23:58,240 --> 01:24:00,000
Speaker 1: that are gonna do more for her. So it's all

1672
01:24:00,160 --> 01:24:03,639
Speaker 1: about you. How I used to fuck with a nygad

1673
01:24:04,000 --> 01:24:05,880
Speaker 1: and he started fucking with a bitch and all this

1674
01:24:05,960 --> 01:24:09,520
Speaker 1: beach used to wear its clear plastic shoes. But now

1675
01:24:09,920 --> 01:24:11,360
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, She getting the most from

1676
01:24:11,360 --> 01:24:15,439
Speaker 1: these niggas, right, because at the end of the day,

1677
01:24:15,479 --> 01:24:17,560
Speaker 1: it's just all about how you carry yourself. And I

1678
01:24:17,600 --> 01:24:19,479
Speaker 1: don't want to get deep into the situation because then

1679
01:24:19,560 --> 01:24:22,479
Speaker 1: y'all want no tea. But at the end of the day,

1680
01:24:22,560 --> 01:24:25,400
Speaker 1: it's just like bitches be looking cheap as fucked, But

1681
01:24:25,520 --> 01:24:28,680
Speaker 1: it's about how you carry yourself. You carry yourself on

1682
01:24:28,680 --> 01:24:30,920
Speaker 1: what you demand out of a person. And like you said,

1683
01:24:31,280 --> 01:24:33,360
Speaker 1: you're good in your career. You're about to be thirty

1684
01:24:33,400 --> 01:24:36,040
Speaker 1: that year. You ain't got no kids. Bitch, you're the catch.

1685
01:24:36,400 --> 01:24:38,479
Speaker 1: Do you know how rare it is to find a

1686
01:24:38,520 --> 01:24:41,360
Speaker 1: woman almost at her thirty is doing well for herself

1687
01:24:41,360 --> 01:24:44,080
Speaker 1: with no kids. And honestly, bitch, I just looked at

1688
01:24:44,120 --> 01:24:47,400
Speaker 1: your picture. You're beautiful as Yeah, you can have any

1689
01:24:47,640 --> 01:24:50,880
Speaker 1: you can have whatever you learn. You definitely so don't

1690
01:24:50,880 --> 01:24:54,519
Speaker 1: be afraid to exude that. Don't be afraid to walk

1691
01:24:54,560 --> 01:24:56,479
Speaker 1: in the room and be like, I'm the baddest bitch

1692
01:24:56,479 --> 01:24:58,280
Speaker 1: in here. I'm not saying safe, I mean a bitch.

1693
01:24:58,280 --> 01:25:02,800
Speaker 1: You live in tellahasseee, what like what the fuck is

1694
01:25:02,840 --> 01:25:07,479
Speaker 1: in tellhas a ship out there in Telly So And

1695
01:25:07,640 --> 01:25:09,720
Speaker 1: also I'll say this, I feel like a lot of

1696
01:25:09,760 --> 01:25:13,000
Speaker 1: times we meet a lot of our guys from social media,

1697
01:25:13,080 --> 01:25:14,559
Speaker 1: Like a lot of these guys that are doing this

1698
01:25:14,640 --> 01:25:16,799
Speaker 1: and doing that, you know, we meet him on Instagram.

1699
01:25:16,880 --> 01:25:20,439
Speaker 1: So sometimes guys DMU, the niggas who have been the

1700
01:25:20,439 --> 01:25:23,000
Speaker 1: most influential in my life, I have not met them

1701
01:25:23,040 --> 01:25:25,640
Speaker 1: on social media, so I can't relate. Well, no, but

1702
01:25:25,680 --> 01:25:27,759
Speaker 1: I'm saying like I've met some guys. The niggas who

1703
01:25:27,840 --> 01:25:30,280
Speaker 1: have made the biggest difference in my life have been

1704
01:25:30,320 --> 01:25:32,760
Speaker 1: niggas that I've met on some like I met you

1705
01:25:32,840 --> 01:25:35,280
Speaker 1: in person, Like I mean, I'm not gonna lie I'm

1706
01:25:35,280 --> 01:25:38,519
Speaker 1: at Paris Bay on Instagram. So sometimes you know, you

1707
01:25:38,600 --> 01:25:41,040
Speaker 1: can somebody might really they might, but you feel like

1708
01:25:41,080 --> 01:25:44,760
Speaker 1: that was an influential relationship. That was the first time

1709
01:25:44,800 --> 01:25:46,360
Speaker 1: I went to Europe and he introduced me to a

1710
01:25:46,360 --> 01:25:49,639
Speaker 1: whole different culture and not experienced, never experienced their life.

1711
01:25:49,640 --> 01:25:52,439
Speaker 1: You have to realize life is about experiences. For me. Yeah,

1712
01:25:52,479 --> 01:25:54,320
Speaker 1: the fact that I learned about Paris culture and I

1713
01:25:54,320 --> 01:25:55,800
Speaker 1: can go to Paris right now and show you the

1714
01:25:55,800 --> 01:25:57,680
Speaker 1: fuck around, and I know what the fuck I'm doing. Yeah,

1715
01:25:57,720 --> 01:26:00,960
Speaker 1: because it is nigga, So yeah, absolutely, And like I said,

1716
01:26:01,320 --> 01:26:04,200
Speaker 1: it doesn't What is influential to you may not be

1717
01:26:05,080 --> 01:26:07,960
Speaker 1: influential to somebody else, right, So let it be like,

1718
01:26:08,040 --> 01:26:09,640
Speaker 1: say you just want to go to La bitch. If

1719
01:26:09,640 --> 01:26:11,479
Speaker 1: that's what you want, A nigga take you la. He

1720
01:26:11,560 --> 01:26:14,280
Speaker 1: take you shopping. That's cool for you. If that's what

1721
01:26:14,320 --> 01:26:16,840
Speaker 1: you want. Get out of a situation what you want

1722
01:26:16,920 --> 01:26:19,719
Speaker 1: and bit you fine, y'all know I'm gay. I fuck

1723
01:26:19,800 --> 01:26:23,320
Speaker 1: you cause you find it's fuzzed. If you ever want

1724
01:26:23,360 --> 01:26:28,160
Speaker 1: some pussy, slide in my d MC, cause I got you.

1725
01:26:28,320 --> 01:26:30,880
Speaker 1: I feel like, just exude what you want, speaking to

1726
01:26:30,920 --> 01:26:33,880
Speaker 1: an existence and like I said, you're definitely beautiful enough

1727
01:26:33,880 --> 01:26:38,160
Speaker 1: to have. Absolutely, so you got this. Do it. Fuck

1728
01:26:38,240 --> 01:26:42,000
Speaker 1: these niggas the man. What you want, get what you want.

1729
01:26:42,680 --> 01:26:45,120
Speaker 1: I feel like, yes, like Lex says, sometimes you have

1730
01:26:45,160 --> 01:26:48,400
Speaker 1: to travel outside of your comfort zone you live in Tallahasseee,

1731
01:26:48,680 --> 01:26:51,000
Speaker 1: come to Atlanta. If you was to come to Atlanta,

1732
01:26:51,400 --> 01:26:53,200
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, And you want to hit

1733
01:26:53,240 --> 01:26:56,800
Speaker 1: me a lix up, we'll link you. We'll go to

1734
01:26:56,880 --> 01:26:59,960
Speaker 1: the club with you. I mean, well, we don't fuck.

1735
01:27:00,160 --> 01:27:03,880
Speaker 1: We gotta pull some we gotta pull some strings. We

1736
01:27:03,920 --> 01:27:06,280
Speaker 1: can go to the local madus so we can go

1737
01:27:06,400 --> 01:27:10,679
Speaker 1: somewhere and have some fun. So yes, well, my nigga

1738
01:27:10,720 --> 01:27:13,360
Speaker 1: took me into Cigar Bard and I went to a

1739
01:27:13,439 --> 01:27:15,320
Speaker 1: cigar bar too, and I seen a lot of good

1740
01:27:15,400 --> 01:27:18,120
Speaker 1: niggas too. So and I also live in Midtime, which

1741
01:27:18,160 --> 01:27:21,680
Speaker 1: is around a lot of you know, nice exclusive hotels,

1742
01:27:21,720 --> 01:27:23,559
Speaker 1: so you can go there to have drinks and sheet

1743
01:27:23,640 --> 01:27:27,599
Speaker 1: So if you want to come here, we got you sees.

1744
01:27:27,960 --> 01:27:30,200
Speaker 1: So I don't want to read her. Oh say, okay,

1745
01:27:30,200 --> 01:27:34,560
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna read her. Got another one so it says, hey, Lexandrea,

1746
01:27:34,760 --> 01:27:37,839
Speaker 1: please don't say my name. I need some relationship advice.

1747
01:27:38,200 --> 01:27:39,840
Speaker 1: I've been with this guy for a year and a

1748
01:27:39,920 --> 01:27:42,679
Speaker 1: half and we lived together. I have a son from

1749
01:27:42,680 --> 01:27:46,160
Speaker 1: a previous relationship as well. Anyways, me and this guy

1750
01:27:46,280 --> 01:27:48,559
Speaker 1: hit it off from the start. He had a really

1751
01:27:48,640 --> 01:27:51,639
Speaker 1: nice job making six figures. We were going on dates.

1752
01:27:51,680 --> 01:27:55,120
Speaker 1: He would give me nice gifts, et cetera. Well, in February,

1753
01:27:55,160 --> 01:27:57,280
Speaker 1: he lost his job, and since then I've had to

1754
01:27:57,280 --> 01:27:59,439
Speaker 1: carry the financial part for the both of us. Up

1755
01:27:59,520 --> 01:28:02,639
Speaker 1: until when he got a job. It's been a struggle

1756
01:28:02,640 --> 01:28:04,479
Speaker 1: for both of us, and I've lost some love and

1757
01:28:04,560 --> 01:28:06,519
Speaker 1: respect since I've had to pick up most of the

1758
01:28:06,560 --> 01:28:10,840
Speaker 1: financial responsibilities. His job now doesn't cover much, and I

1759
01:28:10,880 --> 01:28:13,000
Speaker 1: just feel like I'm ready to leave the relationship because

1760
01:28:13,040 --> 01:28:15,719
Speaker 1: this is not what I signed up for. I've tried

1761
01:28:15,800 --> 01:28:18,960
Speaker 1: offering words of encouragement to him and trying to build

1762
01:28:19,000 --> 01:28:21,640
Speaker 1: him up, but I'm tired. Sis, I'm not sure what

1763
01:28:21,760 --> 01:28:25,200
Speaker 1: to do. I've been entertaining other men here and there

1764
01:28:25,479 --> 01:28:28,559
Speaker 1: and slipped up and had sex with one he doesn't know,

1765
01:28:28,720 --> 01:28:31,040
Speaker 1: and I feel bad that I did that, but I

1766
01:28:31,120 --> 01:28:34,640
Speaker 1: haven't been emotionally or physically satisfied in a while. I

1767
01:28:34,680 --> 01:28:37,120
Speaker 1: don't want to leave him in his tough times, but

1768
01:28:37,160 --> 01:28:39,840
Speaker 1: I also don't want to be dragged down by him.

1769
01:28:40,160 --> 01:28:42,880
Speaker 1: Help me, ooh, this is actually a tough I've had

1770
01:28:42,960 --> 01:28:45,880
Speaker 1: We Actually it's not. Because how long have y'all been

1771
01:28:45,880 --> 01:28:48,439
Speaker 1: fucking with each other? That's number one? Did she say

1772
01:28:48,439 --> 01:28:50,439
Speaker 1: how long they've been fucking with. She's been with him

1773
01:28:50,439 --> 01:28:52,240
Speaker 1: for a year and a half and they've had together

1774
01:28:52,360 --> 01:28:55,760
Speaker 1: and six months ago, I mean no, in February he

1775
01:28:55,840 --> 01:29:00,360
Speaker 1: lost his job. So he lost his job. What is

1776
01:29:00,400 --> 01:29:04,120
Speaker 1: he doing to try to get back on his feed? Okay?

1777
01:29:04,240 --> 01:29:08,400
Speaker 1: To me, that's right, that's determining fact. Okay, So cis

1778
01:29:08,400 --> 01:29:10,280
Speaker 1: this is what you have to ask yourself. Is he

1779
01:29:10,479 --> 01:29:14,479
Speaker 1: making efforts to make up where the money is lost?

1780
01:29:14,520 --> 01:29:17,960
Speaker 1: Because honestly, it's like y'all have each other. This shit

1781
01:29:18,080 --> 01:29:20,599
Speaker 1: is hard. I'm not gonna lie. Being in the job

1782
01:29:20,680 --> 01:29:24,600
Speaker 1: market is hard, not understand. So I wouldn't say just

1783
01:29:24,640 --> 01:29:28,519
Speaker 1: honestly leave, But are y'all both making efforts to make

1784
01:29:28,600 --> 01:29:31,040
Speaker 1: money outside? Because this is not just somebody you was

1785
01:29:31,120 --> 01:29:32,800
Speaker 1: just fucking. This is what you've been with for a

1786
01:29:32,840 --> 01:29:34,800
Speaker 1: year and a half, right, So I wouldn't say just

1787
01:29:34,840 --> 01:29:37,840
Speaker 1: throwing a towel because it's like, cis y'all committed to

1788
01:29:37,880 --> 01:29:41,040
Speaker 1: each other? So but how committed are you when y'all

1789
01:29:41,080 --> 01:29:42,640
Speaker 1: ain't got no ring? When you ain't got no But

1790
01:29:42,720 --> 01:29:45,320
Speaker 1: what I'm saying is okay, but it's like, damn niggas

1791
01:29:45,360 --> 01:29:48,320
Speaker 1: come through hard times. You can't just throw in the towel. Now,

1792
01:29:48,400 --> 01:29:51,519
Speaker 1: it's not like y'all can come up with a plan together.

1793
01:29:51,960 --> 01:29:53,840
Speaker 1: This ain't some nigga you was just fucking and you

1794
01:29:53,880 --> 01:29:56,000
Speaker 1: can't just throw in the towel because guess what if

1795
01:29:56,000 --> 01:29:57,720
Speaker 1: the shoe was on the other foot, would you want

1796
01:29:57,800 --> 01:30:00,240
Speaker 1: him to leave you? You know what I'm saying. I

1797
01:30:00,280 --> 01:30:02,280
Speaker 1: can understand if this was somebody that you just met

1798
01:30:02,320 --> 01:30:03,720
Speaker 1: in the club and you don't know him, but you've

1799
01:30:03,720 --> 01:30:05,360
Speaker 1: been with this man for a year and a half.

1800
01:30:05,720 --> 01:30:08,160
Speaker 1: I feel like at least y'all could be trying to

1801
01:30:08,160 --> 01:30:11,559
Speaker 1: come up with a plan together. Now understand you're tired,

1802
01:30:11,960 --> 01:30:14,360
Speaker 1: but I don't feel like you should just throw on

1803
01:30:14,439 --> 01:30:17,280
Speaker 1: a towel because if he's working a corporate job. Being

1804
01:30:17,320 --> 01:30:20,040
Speaker 1: in the corporate world, I understand that it's hard to

1805
01:30:20,080 --> 01:30:22,200
Speaker 1: find work. Not everybody can be a see oh if

1806
01:30:22,200 --> 01:30:24,479
Speaker 1: their own business and be a millionaire right off the bat.

1807
01:30:24,640 --> 01:30:27,080
Speaker 1: But I feel like together y'all could possibly come up

1808
01:30:27,080 --> 01:30:30,640
Speaker 1: with a side hustle and make something happen about it.

1809
01:30:30,680 --> 01:30:33,080
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I do agree with that. I feel like,

1810
01:30:33,120 --> 01:30:35,040
Speaker 1: if this is somebody that you really fuck with and

1811
01:30:35,040 --> 01:30:37,920
Speaker 1: you see potentially in the situation, obviously you do because

1812
01:30:37,960 --> 01:30:40,280
Speaker 1: y'all been together for a year and a half, y'all

1813
01:30:40,280 --> 01:30:45,000
Speaker 1: living together. I definitely feel like it's things that y'all

1814
01:30:45,040 --> 01:30:47,400
Speaker 1: can come up with together to try to get through

1815
01:30:47,800 --> 01:30:50,920
Speaker 1: the situation. Now, if you hadn't been with him for

1816
01:30:50,960 --> 01:30:53,439
Speaker 1: a year and a half, and maybe he was with

1817
01:30:53,560 --> 01:30:55,679
Speaker 1: him for like five six months and then shit happened.

1818
01:30:56,520 --> 01:30:58,479
Speaker 1: But I'm saying, but I'm just saying, I would be like,

1819
01:30:58,600 --> 01:31:01,000
Speaker 1: it's to beach like leading any good though, right, But no,

1820
01:31:01,080 --> 01:31:03,560
Speaker 1: But this is obviously somebody you love. Your son is

1821
01:31:03,600 --> 01:31:06,799
Speaker 1: around him because y'all live together, y'all are in the homesace.

1822
01:31:06,840 --> 01:31:08,960
Speaker 1: But well, but her son not for him, it doesn't

1823
01:31:08,960 --> 01:31:11,400
Speaker 1: matter this this son, her son is in the house

1824
01:31:11,439 --> 01:31:13,479
Speaker 1: with him. This is a stepdad to him at this point,

1825
01:31:13,800 --> 01:31:16,040
Speaker 1: coming from somebody who used to live with somebody that

1826
01:31:16,080 --> 01:31:18,840
Speaker 1: my mom was dating, that's a whole situation. That shit

1827
01:31:18,920 --> 01:31:22,920
Speaker 1: is not easy. So, like I said before, y'all have

1828
01:31:23,040 --> 01:31:25,120
Speaker 1: built a home at this stace. It's not easy. But

1829
01:31:25,200 --> 01:31:27,680
Speaker 1: at the same time, that's not his daddy. No it's not,

1830
01:31:27,800 --> 01:31:30,679
Speaker 1: but it's not It's not a simple situation. Like coming

1831
01:31:30,680 --> 01:31:34,280
Speaker 1: from somebody who's had a stepdad and going through that situation,

1832
01:31:34,400 --> 01:31:36,400
Speaker 1: that shit is very hard. So it was hard, but

1833
01:31:36,479 --> 01:31:38,960
Speaker 1: you got over it, right, Not really, I feel like

1834
01:31:39,000 --> 01:31:41,559
Speaker 1: I still have issues dealing from that to this day,

1835
01:31:41,600 --> 01:31:43,840
Speaker 1: like how I handle men. And I told you this before.

1836
01:31:43,840 --> 01:31:46,479
Speaker 1: We've talked about a episode before. No, I believe that,

1837
01:31:46,560 --> 01:31:48,400
Speaker 1: but I just feel like, at the end of the day, though,

1838
01:31:48,439 --> 01:31:53,120
Speaker 1: if you're bringing more, else is bringing up, But then

1839
01:31:53,200 --> 01:31:55,240
Speaker 1: how beneficial is it? All right? But let me ask

1840
01:31:55,280 --> 01:31:56,760
Speaker 1: you this, if you left him right now, or you're

1841
01:31:56,760 --> 01:32:00,000
Speaker 1: gonna be better off, she might be. That's what I'm saying,

1842
01:32:00,240 --> 01:32:01,760
Speaker 1: So you gotta look at it like that. If you

1843
01:32:01,880 --> 01:32:04,920
Speaker 1: feel like because okay, and what I just said, let

1844
01:32:04,960 --> 01:32:08,400
Speaker 1: me also say this, if you feel like if you

1845
01:32:08,520 --> 01:32:11,280
Speaker 1: left him right now you would be better off, then

1846
01:32:11,360 --> 01:32:14,000
Speaker 1: do that because it's okay to put your hats first.

1847
01:32:14,040 --> 01:32:16,880
Speaker 1: Because I'll say this, I'm still damaged by that shit

1848
01:32:17,000 --> 01:32:19,960
Speaker 1: with my step quote unquote stepdad at the time. But

1849
01:32:20,000 --> 01:32:24,920
Speaker 1: when my mom left, life did get greater because my mom, baby,

1850
01:32:25,280 --> 01:32:28,840
Speaker 1: what did she do that? And Hee then would needed

1851
01:32:28,880 --> 01:32:31,799
Speaker 1: the fuck to be done. So I never wanted for anything.

1852
01:32:32,120 --> 01:32:34,559
Speaker 1: So if you feel like your life would be greater

1853
01:32:34,680 --> 01:32:37,160
Speaker 1: without him, you can't put time on nothing. I always

1854
01:32:37,200 --> 01:32:39,320
Speaker 1: say that so a year and a half. I mean,

1855
01:32:39,400 --> 01:32:41,160
Speaker 1: y'all have built a home at this point, but if

1856
01:32:41,200 --> 01:32:45,160
Speaker 1: you will be financially better without him because you have

1857
01:32:45,200 --> 01:32:48,040
Speaker 1: a son to look after, fuck him at this point.

1858
01:32:48,240 --> 01:32:51,360
Speaker 1: This is about your son. So if you feel like

1859
01:32:51,400 --> 01:32:53,280
Speaker 1: your son would be in a better position with him

1860
01:32:53,320 --> 01:32:55,400
Speaker 1: not around, and you could give your son better because

1861
01:32:55,600 --> 01:32:58,320
Speaker 1: if you're taking care of him and your son, that's

1862
01:32:58,360 --> 01:33:01,360
Speaker 1: a hard situation. I think you need to think about

1863
01:33:01,640 --> 01:33:04,479
Speaker 1: your son at this point and what's best for him.

1864
01:33:05,120 --> 01:33:08,360
Speaker 1: That's my advice. I agree, definitely think about your son

1865
01:33:08,400 --> 01:33:10,960
Speaker 1: and what's best for him, but also don't stay in

1866
01:33:10,960 --> 01:33:13,519
Speaker 1: the situation just because you feel like this is what's

1867
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Speaker 1: best for my son, because you have to do what's

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Speaker 1: best for you at the end of the day. I

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Speaker 1: feel like sometimes and I can't really speak on this

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Speaker 1: too much because I'm not a mom yet, but I

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Speaker 1: feel like sometimes with people being parents, you're always so

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Speaker 1: focused on what's best for my kid, like what should

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Speaker 1: I do for and it is, but you also have

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Speaker 1: to be happy too, because you're also an individual on

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Speaker 1: your own outside of having this baby. You're still you

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01:33:43,600 --> 01:33:46,040
Speaker 1: and you still have to be happy on your own

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Speaker 1: by yourself. So at the end of the day, focus

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Speaker 1: on what makes you happy, because thinking about what's gonna

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Speaker 1: make you at the end of the day. As long

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Speaker 1: as you're creating a safe environment, a healthy environment for

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Speaker 1: your kid, your kid is always gonna be happy with

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Speaker 1: or without that megad And I'm just being real. That's

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Speaker 1: just my personal opinion on it. But but you have

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Speaker 1: to But you have to be happy for yourself cease.

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Speaker 1: But you have to don't leave your situation thinking that

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Speaker 1: but it might be something that No, no, there is

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Speaker 1: something that's better. But if you leave the situation, leave

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01:34:25,920 --> 01:34:28,360
Speaker 1: it for you. Don't leave your situation just to hop

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Speaker 1: in another one. And don't say in your situation just

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Speaker 1: because of your kids. No, But what I'm saying is

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Speaker 1: a lot of a lot of times people men and women,

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Speaker 1: they think, oh, the grass is green on the other side.

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Speaker 1: Then they get on that grass they realize it's full

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Speaker 1: of weeds. Well you never know what you ain't gonna

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01:34:44,439 --> 01:34:48,040
Speaker 1: ever know unless But what I'm no, it's not fuck

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Speaker 1: that grass. It's about you and your grass. Make your

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Speaker 1: grass green, fuck that other grass, fuck his grass. And

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Speaker 1: like Dress said, fuck your son grass, bitch, water your

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Speaker 1: own grass. So if you leave the situation. Let it

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Speaker 1: be for you and your decisions, not because you're leaving

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Speaker 1: him for another man that you think is better, not

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Speaker 1: because you think this man is better for your son.

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Speaker 1: Or don't stay. But that's all. Yeah, that's what I'm saying,

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01:35:10,640 --> 01:35:14,599
Speaker 1: don't stay, don't I'm just a firm believer. I truly

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Speaker 1: believe people be having kids with people, or they'll have

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Speaker 1: a kid with somebody and you don't work out with

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01:35:21,160 --> 01:35:23,599
Speaker 1: that person, and they'll meet another dude or another woman

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01:35:23,880 --> 01:35:25,840
Speaker 1: and that person is better for their kid and they

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01:35:25,880 --> 01:35:28,160
Speaker 1: have a great relationship with their kid, and they're like, oh, well,

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Speaker 1: let me try to work this out because my kid

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01:35:30,560 --> 01:35:34,599
Speaker 1: has already built a relationship with this person. Fuck all

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01:35:34,680 --> 01:35:39,280
Speaker 1: that she At the end of the day, it's about you.

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01:35:39,280 --> 01:35:41,679
Speaker 1: You need to have a healthy relationship with this person.

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01:35:42,120 --> 01:35:44,080
Speaker 1: You need to be getting along with this person. It

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01:35:44,120 --> 01:35:47,439
Speaker 1: needs to be beneficial for you and your kids, not

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Speaker 1: just your kids. I don't know, but she didn't stay.

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Speaker 1: If she would be, I don't know if she can

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Speaker 1: survive financially by herself. Well, we don't know that. So

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Speaker 1: that's why we're just giving her advice based off of

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Speaker 1: how we feel and what we would do if it's

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Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, bitch, you know

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Speaker 1: you don't listen to the show numerous times. You know

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01:36:06,080 --> 01:36:10,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be too all about securing the bag. Make

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01:36:10,120 --> 01:36:12,880
Speaker 1: sure the show bag is secured. If you feel like

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Speaker 1: this nigga is making shit better for you and your

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Speaker 1: kid right now and you can't do that shit for yourself,

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01:36:18,439 --> 01:36:21,120
Speaker 1: well then bitch, yes, play your role, do what you

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Speaker 1: need to do, but ultimately, don't stay with somebody just

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Speaker 1: because of the financial benefits of the situation. If you're

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Speaker 1: gonna stay with somebody, make sure you're staying with them

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Speaker 1: because you really feel like it's a lucrative in a

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Speaker 1: good situation for you and your kid, not just on

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Speaker 1: some financial shit. But if for now you need to

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Speaker 1: stay in a situation because of some financial shit, I'm

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Speaker 1: not going to fault you for that. So I just

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Speaker 1: feel like, basically, just weigh out your options. What's gonna

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Speaker 1: make you happy, what's gonna help you financially, and also

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01:36:55,240 --> 01:36:56,960
Speaker 1: what's best for your son. I feel like maybe you

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01:36:57,040 --> 01:36:59,599
Speaker 1: just should, maybe you should sit down and write down

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01:36:59,680 --> 01:37:01,920
Speaker 1: like the pros and cons, because we don't know the

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01:37:01,920 --> 01:37:04,599
Speaker 1: whole details of the situation. And I don't want something

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01:37:04,600 --> 01:37:06,120
Speaker 1: to happen to where you look like all these bitches

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01:37:06,160 --> 01:37:08,600
Speaker 1: and steered me wrong, but like I never want to

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Speaker 1: steer it. So I just feel like you need to

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01:37:10,680 --> 01:37:14,439
Speaker 1: weigh out your options and think about yourself first and

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01:37:14,520 --> 01:37:17,880
Speaker 1: then your son second. I don't think you need to necessarily,

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01:37:18,040 --> 01:37:22,479
Speaker 1: and its her first and the son's second. Yeah, she

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01:37:22,520 --> 01:37:24,280
Speaker 1: needs to put whatever she because at the end the day,

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01:37:24,360 --> 01:37:27,400
Speaker 1: like you said, what, okay, her son's happy, but what

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Speaker 1: if she's not happy? So it's like, you need to

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01:37:30,400 --> 01:37:32,920
Speaker 1: think about your self first. If you think my mom

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01:37:33,280 --> 01:37:35,400
Speaker 1: would have not left my stepdadd or she was worried

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01:37:35,439 --> 01:37:38,479
Speaker 1: about how I felt, she did what she needed to do,

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Speaker 1: and shit just fell into place. So think about what's

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01:37:41,920 --> 01:37:44,720
Speaker 1: best for you and then think about what's best for

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Speaker 1: your son. Right. So that's look, bitch, that's the best

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Speaker 1: we can do for you. Now, look okay, So now

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Speaker 1: we're gonna get say to get into the item of

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Speaker 1: the week, y'all are Item of the Week is always

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Speaker 1: European Wag Center. Shout out to Tamika. If you live

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Speaker 1: in Atlanta, goes to the Edgewood and Howellmeal locations. Mention

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Speaker 1: Lexpeed mentioned dre and a coal mention. Poor minds, and

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01:38:09,160 --> 01:38:11,920
Speaker 1: you can get ten percent off of your services. Beach

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Speaker 1: go get that pussy wax it summertime. It's a hot

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Speaker 1: girl summer. Y'all already know what the fuck is going on.

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Speaker 1: I also personally have a new item of the week.

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Speaker 1: It's come and I just feel like this is something

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Speaker 1: that all the girls need to get into. T Tree

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Speaker 1: oil suppositories. Okay, So if you're a woman and you're into,

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Speaker 1: you know, vaginal health, be cause I'm really really into that.

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Speaker 1: Like I'm super big on keeping your pH balance and

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Speaker 1: just making sure you always smell right down there. I

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Speaker 1: ain't never no stints, you ain't never know nothing. T

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Speaker 1: Tree oil suppositories have been a lifesaver for me. I

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Speaker 1: just feel like, you know, I use them whenever I

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Speaker 1: get off my period. I use them periodically throughout the month,

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Speaker 1: and my pussy just always smells like heaven. Okay, you

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Speaker 1: just insert them into your vagina. It's it's a T

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Speaker 1: Tree oil suppository, so obviously it's pretty much mostly oil,

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Speaker 1: So so you put it in there and it dissolves.

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Speaker 1: I recommend leaving it and putting it in there right

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Speaker 1: before you're going to sleep, because if you're laying down,

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Speaker 1: it's gonna stay in there, it's gonna dissolve. Well, you're wrong.

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Speaker 1: If you put it in there during the day and

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Speaker 1: you're walking around, it's going it's gonna be really missy.

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Speaker 1: So is there a certain where do you get these from?

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Speaker 1: And what brand do? So you can order them from Amazon.

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Speaker 1: All you need to do is hype in T Tree

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Speaker 1: oil suppositories and the brand will come up, like the

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Speaker 1: number one, you know, like I said, brand or whatever

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Speaker 1: will come up. Order those. If y'all need me to,

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Speaker 1: I can post it on my story and I can

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Speaker 1: post it and put the link or whatever, so y'all

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Speaker 1: can go ahead and order. But those are a lifesaver,

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01:40:04,160 --> 01:40:09,720
Speaker 1: like those are awesome. As I'm getting older, I used

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Speaker 1: to be really into, you know, if you get BV

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Speaker 1: or if you get certain things, you know, just taking

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01:40:15,000 --> 01:40:20,240
Speaker 1: over the counter medicines and prescription medicines and stuff like that.

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Speaker 1: But now as I'm getting older, I'm realizing those things

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01:40:22,640 --> 01:40:25,120
Speaker 1: aren't really good for you. Those aren't really good for

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01:40:25,160 --> 01:40:28,559
Speaker 1: your body, those aren't good for your internal organs and

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01:40:28,600 --> 01:40:30,559
Speaker 1: all those type of things. So I'm really into more

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Speaker 1: natural remedies at this point in my life. And even

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Speaker 1: if you don't have anything wrong with you, because right now,

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Speaker 1: I mean I don't have any thing wrong with my vagina.

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Speaker 1: I just like it to keep my shit fresh and

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Speaker 1: to keep my shit on point. So that's definitely something

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01:40:47,680 --> 01:40:50,080
Speaker 1: that you girls need to look into. You can order

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Speaker 1: them on Amazon. It's like fourteen ninety nine. You can

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Speaker 1: get two six pecks, use them for six days, and

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01:40:55,439 --> 01:40:58,719
Speaker 1: yo pussy is gonna be fresh as motherfucking ever. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so shut out to the tea tree suppository. I'm the

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Speaker 1: pH queen. I love to keep my girls on game

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Speaker 1: when it comes to keeping a pussy on points. So,

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Speaker 1: and now we're opening the space for ads. So if

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Speaker 1: you would like to be featured as our item of

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Speaker 1: the week, and you have any products that you would

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Speaker 1: like for us to try out and recommend to our listeners,

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Speaker 1: just email us at Drea and Let's Show at gmail

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Speaker 1: dot com and we can work something out for you. Okay, So,

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Speaker 1: is there anything else you'd like to add? No, that's

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Speaker 1: really all I have to add at this point. I mean, again,

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Speaker 1: like I said last episode, you know I've been posting

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Speaker 1: recipes and stuff. I mean, I've been posting my food,

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Speaker 1: like me cooking and stuff on my story. I posted

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Speaker 1: the other day I had made crawfish and shrimp attufe.

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Speaker 1: I always did a lot of inquiries about my recipes

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Speaker 1: and stuff like that, So I'm about to start posting

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Speaker 1: that on my blog. I'm about to lunch it soon.

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Speaker 1: I know I've been heaving y'all wait for Ani, but

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Speaker 1: it's coming soon. So the cooking, the girls need that.

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Speaker 1: The girls, we told them it's time to whip it up. Okay,

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Speaker 1: if you want ya, if you want that, feel them.

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Speaker 1: So as always, make sure y'all check us out every

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Speaker 1: Tuesday on ninety six seven The Beat from three to

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Speaker 1: four pm. If you're not in Atlanta, you can download

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Speaker 1: the iHeartMedia app and we will be on ninety six

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Speaker 1: seven The Beat. As always, follow us at Poor Underscore

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Speaker 1: Minds on Instagram, and as always, just share our podcast

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Speaker 1: spread the word. We got some big things coming back.

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Speaker 1: We're working on our last show. We're still undecided if

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Speaker 1: we want to do it in Atlanta or Houston. First,

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Speaker 1: we need y'all feedback, So we need the feedback as always,

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Speaker 1: and this has been another episode of Poor Mine. Thanks y'all,

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Speaker 1: talk to y'all next week. Bye