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Speaker 3: My future sister in law excluded me from her wedding

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Speaker 3: and my brother let it happen Ie as add brother.

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Speaker 3: This is a long one. I should start all the

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Speaker 3: way back at the beginning. Around a year ago, my

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Speaker 3: thirty female younger brother twenty seven male let's call him Bill,

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Speaker 3: proposed to his girlfriend, twenty six female we'll call her Lori,

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Speaker 3: and they got engaged. He's not a very open person,

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Speaker 3: so we didn't really see it coming or no, he

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Speaker 3: was planning to do that. My now husband, thirty one male,

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Speaker 3: and I had been discussing getting married, and it was

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Speaker 3: well known among our families that we would be getting

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Speaker 3: engaged soon. We had just had a baby a few

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Speaker 3: months prior, so we wanted to do it sooner than later.

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Speaker 3: Both my husband and I had been talking to my

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Speaker 3: sister twenty eight female we'll call her Sarah, to plan

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Speaker 3: a proposal. Neither one of us realized the other was

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Speaker 3: making plans to propose. Ooh, by the way, this comes

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Speaker 3: from Guilty Hospital sixty five ninety seven on the ar

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Speaker 3: slash Shoky story time separated. My plan was to propose

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Speaker 3: a spring break while we were visiting my husband's family

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Speaker 3: and friends out of state, and his plan was for summertime.

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Speaker 3: So I bade him to the bench. Oh okay, I

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Speaker 3: don't know why. I thought you were talking about your siblings.

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Speaker 3: So you and your partner both planned to propose at

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Speaker 3: the same time.

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Speaker 4: That's super cute.

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Speaker 5: Like, I don't know, is it because you're taking attention

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Speaker 5: from the other? I think, yeah, whoever does it?

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Speaker 4: First?

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Speaker 2: It's like cool?

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Speaker 5: And then the second could you imagine like all right,

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Speaker 5: it's like that like that fun game of like, oh

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Speaker 5: love that you love that?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: What I think?

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Speaker 3: Not for gender stereotype reasons. I do need to be

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Speaker 3: proposed to just because I just would No, I just

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Speaker 3: I just would think that they don't like I would

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Speaker 3: always be guessing.

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Speaker 5: You've seen those things.

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Speaker 3: I need them to. I need them to like ensure

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Speaker 2: But what if you don't. Yeah, what if you don't

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Speaker 2: do it, maybe they're you know, they'll be fine. I'm

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Speaker 2: always in.

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Speaker 3: That's me. We ended up engaged two months after my

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Speaker 3: brother Bill and his fiance Laurie. This really upset her

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Speaker 3: and she made it very well known.

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Speaker 2: Of course.

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Speaker 3: Well, then my husband's father passed away suddenly and it

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Speaker 3: was decided that we needed to move back to his

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Speaker 3: home state to help his mother. We wanted to get

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Speaker 3: married prior to moving. We decided to do a very

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Speaker 3: small ceremony, no guess, just got married down by the river.

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Speaker 4: Sweet River in nature adorable that.

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Speaker 3: We planned a family vacation out of state to see

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Speaker 3: some of my family the weekend after the wedding. I

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Speaker 3: ended up inviting my siblings and their families to also

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Speaker 3: join us, as well as our mother, who lives out

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Speaker 3: of state. I planned to do a reception during the

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Speaker 3: vacation since we didn't really do a wedding. This caused

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Speaker 3: another issue with Laurie. She complained to my Sarah, my

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Speaker 3: sister Sarah, and my mother that she was worried that

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Speaker 3: the vacation would be all about me and the fact

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Speaker 3: Long story short, I decided not to do the reception

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Speaker 3: to avoid any drama or hurt feelings. Of course, there

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Speaker 3: was other drama throughout the vacation started up by her.

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Speaker 3: I won't get into it all, he breathed.

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Speaker 4: I was comprehending, got youa verbally.

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Speaker 3: After this vacation, we were planning to move cross crunching.

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Speaker 3: I owned my house and decided that I would give, yes,

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Speaker 3: give no. I did not sell it to Bill.

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Speaker 4: What give you home?

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Speaker 3: Give your house to Bill?

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Speaker 2: What a lot?

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Speaker 6: I want?

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Speaker 1: That?

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Speaker 2: Can we have?

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Speaker 3: I have brothers given a house as he was living

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Speaker 3: to give him a house to start his new family

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Speaker 3: in That house at flaws and needed a lot of work.

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Speaker 3: But he's very handy and it wasn't anything he couldn't

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Speaker 3: handle himself. So kind I allowed him to begin renovations

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Speaker 3: on parts of the house a couple of months prior

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Speaker 3: to us moving. When it came closer to time to move,

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Speaker 3: there were even more issues. Laurie was talking to my

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Speaker 3: worried I wouldn't do it before I moved now I

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Speaker 3: I told them several times I would not be able

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Speaker 3: to get it until I had quit my job. I

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Speaker 3: prior to the move. I didn't do the deed before this,

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Speaker 3: do it. I just told Bill this again when he

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Speaker 3: asked about it, but Laurie continued complaining to anyone who

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Speaker 3: would listen, saying I was trying to screw them out

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Speaker 3: of a house.

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Speaker 2: You were giving given.

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Speaker 3: Shut your mouth, you were given a house. Stop complaining.

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Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, you didn't have to have that house

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Speaker 2: I'll take it. I'll take it if she's not.

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Speaker 3: Going to be happy about it. I really didn't understand

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Speaker 3: want to give my brother the house, I wouldn't have Yeah. Anyways,

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Speaker 3: of course I got the deed transferred once I was

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Speaker 3: We were planning to do the move in two trips.

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Speaker 3: First trip one week, fly back the next week, and

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Speaker 3: make the second trip. I allowed them access to the

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Speaker 3: whole house except for my bedrooms. After the first trip,

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Speaker 3: I stored electronics in my bedroom as well as well

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Speaker 3: next dry LORII through an absolute fit about not being

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Speaker 3: able to go into my room before I was fully moved.

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Speaker 3: She insisted this wouldn't work for her and that I

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Speaker 3: She said that if they waited, he wouldn't have time

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Speaker 3: to get settled better school before school started. We moved

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Speaker 3: at the end of July. School starts end of August. Again,

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Speaker 3: you are they have a house right now, they're living

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Speaker 3: in a place right now. You are being given a house.

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Speaker 3: You don't get to decide when you get a take

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Speaker 7: Or complain or complain that I can. And it's just

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Speaker 7: a terrible freakin' Look.

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Speaker 3: If you were renting out a house or even buying

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Speaker 3: they would say no, the least starts at this time,

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Speaker 3: so you have to wait. And that's what's happening here,

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Speaker 3: except you're being given a house for free. I explained

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Speaker 3: to and she would have to wait as I couldn't

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Speaker 3: while I was out of state, and then I still

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Speaker 3: I don't think she would break anything, I did not

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Speaker 3: in a bad spot slash awkward situation. This was still

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Speaker 3: not okay with her. She was running to my sister

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Speaker 4: Are people agreeing with her?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Are people like better they give them the house earlier?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this is crazy. She went as far as to

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Speaker 3: tell my mother that it's not like she did something big.

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Speaker 3: She didn't give us a bunch of money or anything.

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Speaker 3: The house needs work.

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Speaker 4: So much lack of gratitude.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and she's so like entitled thankfulness, and there's a

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Speaker 7: ton of entitlement and projecting that on everyone and just

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Speaker 7: making everyone's problem. I'm wondering if like Opie's talking to

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Speaker 3: So, yeah, Like, hey, your wife is being really ungrateful.

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Speaker 4: I'm giving you this house, she does not want it.

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Speaker 4: What's up with your wife?

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Speaker 2: Here.

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Speaker 4: I agree, what's going on? What's going on here?

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Speaker 3: She also made similar comments to my sister, insinuating that

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Speaker 3: it was no big deal and everyone needed to stop

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Speaker 3: acting like I did something great by giving them the house.

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Speaker 2: Who said that?

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Speaker 4: Who was the sister The sister, sorry, the sister in law.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, but yeah, Bill's wife, the one that's been complaining.

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Speaker 3: My husband and I talked with Bill and worked everything

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Speaker 3: exactly happy after it all, since there was no appreciation,

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Speaker 3: to publicly thank everyone who helped them with moving and renovations,

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Speaker 3: That is, I would you're not getting the house I

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Speaker 3: give you?

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Speaker 2: Take it? Act.

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Speaker 3: I probably wouldn't because I would feel bad, But I would.

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Speaker 2: Be yes, tell us, how you really do? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Tell us?

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Speaker 3: I would be like, how freaking dairy do you think

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Speaker 7: That's what I would be like, Well, I need a

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Speaker 7: children and.

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Speaker 3: My children and my son. I don't care about your spawn.

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Speaker 2: Oh demons.

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Speaker 3: Don't get me wrong, I.

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Speaker 7: Was just gonna say I would talk to the brethren,

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Speaker 7: what the actual f is going on? What you see

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Speaker 7: the ridiculousness of this.

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Speaker 3: It's ridiculous.

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Speaker 4: And if he's like, no, then I'd be like.

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Speaker 3: Then you don't go to my house.

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Speaker 7: I mean I would be like, I'm not sure if

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Speaker 7: I want to go through this, yeah, this anymore if

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Speaker 7: you're not understanding like.

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Speaker 3: What the problem said. Don't get me wrong. I didn't

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Speaker 3: do it for the attention or wanting a big thank you,

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Speaker 3: but it did hurt that she was not at all

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Speaker 3: appreciative or grateful. It hurt that she was willing to

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Speaker 3: say so many bad things about me when I only

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Speaker 3: tried to help them and do something nice for them. Well,

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Speaker 3: we moved and all was well. In September, I flew

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Speaker 3: this time, I found out that Laurie had concerns about

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Speaker 3: me being able to still be a bridesmaid in her

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Speaker 3: wedding with me living so far away. I heard this

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Speaker 3: with LORII and assured her it would be okay and

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Speaker 3: Then we started talking about her wedding more. Laurie asked

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Speaker 3: Exactly, And was hoping I could see my mother ahead

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Speaker 3: She insisted that I not do that and that she

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Speaker 3: Then Sarah was messaging me saying that Laurie and her

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Speaker 2: So what if?

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Speaker 3: I feel like I'm at a major loss here. I

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Speaker 3: the end of it all, I know what I will do.

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Speaker 7: Laurie will continue being Laurie. She will be in the

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Speaker 7: Or you could ask yourself like what am I willing

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Speaker 4: And what am I not? And I'm just going.

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Speaker 7: To act as I'm going to act with you know,

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Speaker 2: Give me the house.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'll never bring up my baby if you give

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Speaker 3: They are understandably they're about the people getting married, but

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like that. That usually is the time when the

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Speaker 2: Laurie's just got up Tom.

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Speaker 3: Hopefully the wedding goes smoothly and she receives all the

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Speaker 3: and quite honestly, the feeling is mutual. As always, I

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Speaker 3: I'll do my best not to stir the pot. I

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Speaker 4: Dure thet sure that pot stir.

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Speaker 3: The Sorry this was so long. I did leave a

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Speaker 7: Just that I hope Opie, that you could get over

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Speaker 7: the fear of upsetting people, because it will become an

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Speaker 3: Yep, yep. And just because she is your brother's wait, okay,

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Speaker 3: you know what I'm gonna be honest, I was a

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Speaker 4: Brother and Laurie. Who's Sarah sister of op okay?

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Speaker 3: And who got the house Laurie and the brother?

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Speaker 3: Update, Sorry I'm a little late going to the update.

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Speaker 3: getting home. Prior to my flying back home for the wedding,

448
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Speaker 3: I heard about a lot more drama, but all small things.

449
00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:50,000
Speaker 3: Most drama revolved around a major lack of planning and

450
00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:52,400
Speaker 3: nobody really knowing what was going on. Now being said,

451
00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:55,240
Speaker 3: the wedding went on without complications. The guys got everything

452
00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:57,919
Speaker 3: set up that morning and my mother put the arch together.

453
00:18:58,040 --> 00:19:00,320
Speaker 3: My mother, my sister, and her four kids got ready

454
00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:02,560
Speaker 3: with me along with some others. When the bride showed

455
00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:04,920
Speaker 3: up an hour prior to the wedding, I took the kids,

456
00:19:05,000 --> 00:19:06,800
Speaker 3: seven total to the venue to get them out of

457
00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:09,160
Speaker 3: everyone's way. It was very cold out, so we ended

458
00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:11,439
Speaker 3: up waiting in the vehicle while we waited for everyone

459
00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:13,440
Speaker 3: to be ready. Some of the older kids went out

460
00:19:13,480 --> 00:19:15,760
Speaker 3: to play and sit with other relatives. Well, I kept

461
00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:17,760
Speaker 3: the youngest ones where they could stay warm. I had

462
00:19:17,760 --> 00:19:20,879
Speaker 3: that part because I actually missed the whole ceremony. Oh,

463
00:19:20,920 --> 00:19:23,840
Speaker 3: it only lasted maybe fifteen minutes. Bride was supposed to

464
00:19:23,880 --> 00:19:25,800
Speaker 3: message my mother when they were heading to the venue

465
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Speaker 3: so everyone could take their seats. No message ever came. Wait,

466
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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, you guys were all like waiting in the

467
00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:33,000
Speaker 3: car because it was cold, and no one texted you.

468
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Speaker 4: That's crazy, it's her wedding.

469
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Speaker 2: Dame got sure, but like, why didn't.

470
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Speaker 3: No one else. No one else was like, hey, where.

471
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Speaker 2: Do they go?

472
00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:45,760
Speaker 3: My mother checked on me right after the ceremony, not

473
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Speaker 3: realizing I didn't know it had started. Well, she wasn't there.

474
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Speaker 2: My bad. I guess.

475
00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:53,760
Speaker 3: That's so funny. But you know what would be You're

476
00:19:53,840 --> 00:19:57,959
Speaker 3: bad if you didn't listen to more stories on episodes

477
00:19:58,040 --> 00:20:00,840
Speaker 3: just like this. Just go to Apple podcast, Spotify or

478
00:20:00,840 --> 00:20:03,040
Speaker 3: your favorite podcast topp and search up. Okay, story time

479
00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:06,679
Speaker 3: and there is a little bit left to the story.

480
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Speaker 2: Hit it.

481
00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:09,560
Speaker 3: We did pictures and then met at the indoor location

482
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Speaker 3: for the reception. The reception was very hectic and unorganized,

483
00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:16,520
Speaker 3: kids running around everywhere and controlling the dance floor.

484
00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:17,520
Speaker 2: Oh, they're just.

485
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Speaker 8: To have fun.

486
00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:20,959
Speaker 3: It was really great seeing all the family gun and

487
00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:24,119
Speaker 3: catching up with everyone, though it's not a family reunion. Ope,

488
00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:26,480
Speaker 3: you shouldn't be catching up with anyone.

489
00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:29,879
Speaker 4: We're just seeing each other, but we're not talking.

490
00:20:29,920 --> 00:20:30,560
Speaker 3: We're not talking.

491
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Speaker 4: Yeah.

492
00:20:31,320 --> 00:20:33,639
Speaker 3: The bride and groom both seem very happy. So in

493
00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:36,119
Speaker 3: the end, all is well, I guess, And that is

494
00:20:36,200 --> 00:20:40,359
Speaker 3: the end of that story. There you have it. Yeah,

495
00:20:40,800 --> 00:20:43,080
Speaker 3: just just just live your life and don't let other

496
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Speaker 3: people pull you down.

497
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Speaker 8: At I refuse to attend my sister's wedding. She used

498
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Speaker 8: my baby name for her dog. That's not for the dog,

499
00:20:55,600 --> 00:20:57,520
Speaker 8: that's for the child, for a human.

500
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Speaker 2: What are we doing?

501
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Speaker 8: I twenty nine female and married to my husband, thirty

502
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Speaker 8: one male, and we're currently expecting our first child after

503
00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:10,840
Speaker 8: years of trying. Well, congratulations, it's been a really emotional journey.

504
00:21:10,880 --> 00:21:15,240
Speaker 8: There were some fertility struggles, we lost a pregnancy, and honestly,

505
00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:17,440
Speaker 8: we weren't sure if we'd ever get here. But now

506
00:21:17,480 --> 00:21:21,000
Speaker 8: I'm six months along with a healthy baby girl, and

507
00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:24,200
Speaker 8: we are over the moon. Let's go by the way.

508
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Speaker 2: This comes from.

509
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Speaker 8: User Fiarra Ferracti. Yes, fuser Ferracti on the r slash. Okay,

510
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Speaker 8: storytime stubred it. So Ever since I was a teenager,

511
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Speaker 8: I've had a favorite name, Lilah.

512
00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:40,320
Speaker 2: Cute.

513
00:21:40,440 --> 00:21:43,200
Speaker 8: It's my dream name for a daughter, and I've talked

514
00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:45,600
Speaker 8: about it so many times that my whole family knows

515
00:21:45,640 --> 00:21:47,640
Speaker 8: it's my name, quote unquote.

516
00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:49,320
Speaker 2: It has a special meaning to me.

517
00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:53,400
Speaker 8: My late grandmother was named Delilah, and it's my way

518
00:21:53,440 --> 00:21:56,760
Speaker 8: of honoring her. My husband loves the name too, So

519
00:21:56,840 --> 00:21:59,719
Speaker 8: we've decided pretty early on that this would be our

520
00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:03,760
Speaker 8: base girl's name. Six months ago, my younger sister, Emma

521
00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:08,120
Speaker 8: twenty seven female, got a Golden Retriever puppy. We were

522
00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:11,000
Speaker 8: all excited for her. She's always been an animal lover

523
00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:14,000
Speaker 8: and was thrilled to finally get her own dog. But

524
00:22:14,160 --> 00:22:17,760
Speaker 8: when she introduced us to the puppy, she casually said

525
00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:22,199
Speaker 8: this is Lila girl by and everyone said, hold on,

526
00:22:22,320 --> 00:22:25,280
Speaker 8: wait a minute, back up. That doesn't look like a

527
00:22:25,359 --> 00:22:27,520
Speaker 8: human baby. Uh oh, that looks like a doll.

528
00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:33,160
Speaker 2: It's furry. What are we doing? At first, I thought

529
00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:33,919
Speaker 2: she was joking.

530
00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:38,399
Speaker 8: I even laughed and said, no way, Emma, you know

531
00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:43,280
Speaker 8: that's my baby name, but she just shrugged and said

532
00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:45,800
Speaker 8: it's a name, not a copyright. I thought it was

533
00:22:45,840 --> 00:22:50,360
Speaker 8: cute for a dog. I was honestly stunned.

534
00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:54,119
Speaker 2: Sewer, yeah, yeah, yeah, can we put this person in

535
00:22:54,119 --> 00:22:54,520
Speaker 2: the sewer?

536
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,800
Speaker 8: No, I'm saying, like Sue, yeah, but also can we

537
00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:00,919
Speaker 8: put her in the sewer? I was honestly stunned. I

538
00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:02,520
Speaker 8: didn't want to make a big scene, so I let

539
00:23:02,560 --> 00:23:05,560
Speaker 8: it go in the moment, but it really bothered me.

540
00:23:06,280 --> 00:23:08,879
Speaker 8: As time went on, the whole family started referring to

541
00:23:08,920 --> 00:23:12,600
Speaker 8: her dog as Lilah and it's become the default association.

542
00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:15,800
Speaker 8: At my baby shower last month, I was talking to

543
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:18,480
Speaker 8: some family members about the nursery, and when I mentioned

544
00:23:18,560 --> 00:23:21,480
Speaker 8: naming the baby Lilah, my aunt literally laughed and said,

545
00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:29,879
Speaker 8: You're not actually naming your baby after Emma's dog, right, Uh, Auntie, Auntie,

546
00:23:29,920 --> 00:23:32,440
Speaker 8: we all know it's my daughter's name.

547
00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:32,880
Speaker 2: No.

548
00:23:33,280 --> 00:23:37,240
Speaker 8: I felt humiliated. I tried to brush it off, but

549
00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:39,159
Speaker 8: the more I think about it, the more it hurts.

550
00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:43,600
Speaker 8: I finally sat Emma down privately and told her how

551
00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:46,679
Speaker 8: I was feeling. I explained how important the name is

552
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:49,480
Speaker 8: to me, how it's tied to Grandma, and how much

553
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:51,919
Speaker 8: it means to me after everything we've been through to

554
00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:56,400
Speaker 8: have this baby. Emma rolled her eyes and said, oh

555
00:23:56,400 --> 00:24:00,119
Speaker 8: my god, you're seriously still mad about this. It's it's

556
00:24:00,160 --> 00:24:04,160
Speaker 8: just a dog's name. You don't own Lilah. I told

557
00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:07,080
Speaker 8: her that while I'm still going to name my daughter Lilah,

558
00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:10,800
Speaker 8: she has now made it very awkward for me. She

559
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 8: laughed and said awkward for you, not me. Yeah, okay,

560
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:20,520
Speaker 8: we're she no longer deserves the sewer. This clown buffoonery

561
00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:22,000
Speaker 8: is getting her sent to the sun.

562
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:23,480
Speaker 2: Now.

563
00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 8: Emma is getting married in two weeks, and I'm supposed

564
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Speaker 8: to be her maid of honor, but I've been feeling

565
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:30,880
Speaker 8: more and more like I can't do it. I don't

566
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:32,560
Speaker 8: want to stand up there and celebrate her when I

567
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:35,440
Speaker 8: feel like she doesn't respect me or care about my feelings.

568
00:24:36,000 --> 00:24:38,040
Speaker 8: Last week, I told her that I wasn't sure I

569
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Speaker 8: could attend the wedding because of how hurt I've been

570
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Speaker 8: about everything.

571
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Speaker 2: She lost it.

572
00:24:43,640 --> 00:24:46,479
Speaker 8: She called me selfish and accused me of ruining her

573
00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 8: big day over something as stupid as a name.

574
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:50,680
Speaker 2: Wow.

575
00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:56,280
Speaker 8: Yeah, she's called oh pee selfish. That's funny because you

576
00:24:56,359 --> 00:24:58,879
Speaker 8: know how many infinite names you can give a dog.

577
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:05,800
Speaker 2: Coy truly infinite, infinite, yeah, infinitismal Yeah.

578
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:09,960
Speaker 8: And she wants to go, I'm naming it Lilah, the

579
00:25:10,040 --> 00:25:12,680
Speaker 8: one name that you've been obsessed with forever.

580
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Speaker 1: I do have to say, cute name, yeah, not that

581
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:20,359
Speaker 1: that that she should take it for a dog, but

582
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 1: couldn't name the dog Leah or literally anything else.

583
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:28,280
Speaker 2: Yep, come on.

584
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Speaker 8: She even told me you're the one making this a thing.

585
00:25:33,160 --> 00:25:37,960
Speaker 8: Nobody cares except you. My parents are siding with her,

586
00:25:38,119 --> 00:25:41,080
Speaker 8: saying I'm being petty and hormonal and need to let

587
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Speaker 8: it go because family is more important than a name.

588
00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:46,840
Speaker 2: Oh my, I did I? Oh P.

589
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:49,560
Speaker 8: I thought everyone knew about this, right it did? Now

590
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 8: everyone said it's my name? Like was it an assumption

591
00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:53,800
Speaker 8: that everyone knew about this?

592
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:57,360
Speaker 2: Like? Or what's going on? Why? What? What's happening here?

593
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:01,680
Speaker 8: My husband, on the other hand, is it's furious w husband,

594
00:26:02,000 --> 00:26:04,439
Speaker 8: He says, Emma has been dismissive and mean, and I

595
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:06,560
Speaker 8: shouldn't have to put my feelings aside just to keep

596
00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:10,000
Speaker 8: the peace. Now I feel torn. I know skipping her

597
00:26:10,000 --> 00:26:12,320
Speaker 8: wedding is a huge deal, and I don't want to

598
00:26:12,359 --> 00:26:14,840
Speaker 8: cause a permanent rift, but I also feel like Emma

599
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:18,479
Speaker 8: has completely dismissed my feelings and made this whole situation worse.

600
00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:22,040
Speaker 8: Am I the a hole for not attending her wedding?

601
00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:23,119
Speaker 3: Hmmm?

602
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:27,440
Speaker 8: Oh that's actually hard, right, But like I think it

603
00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:31,280
Speaker 8: being treated like that, like for something that is such

604
00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:34,359
Speaker 8: a priority to you and was for a long time

605
00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 8: known to be it's like, I gotta say, you're justified

606
00:26:37,800 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 8: and being like, I don't know if I could just

607
00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:41,679
Speaker 8: suck it up and act like everything's fine and be

608
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:43,000
Speaker 8: happy on your day.

609
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:45,400
Speaker 2: So maybe I just shouldn't be there because low key.

610
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 1: It's almost like already taking the name is so bad.

611
00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 1: But it's almost more the reaction to her being like, hey,

612
00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:57,160
Speaker 1: what what's up, Like why do you do that? When

613
00:26:57,600 --> 00:27:00,959
Speaker 1: her and the parents are basically like, oh, you're just overreacting,

614
00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:02,679
Speaker 1: like like it's just a name, Like it's not a

615
00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:05,520
Speaker 1: big deal. And she's like, I went through all the

616
00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 1: struggle to get her and finally be pregnant. I I

617
00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:12,000
Speaker 1: had this name chosen for so long, it was my name,

618
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:13,960
Speaker 1: and like, you guys.

619
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:16,280
Speaker 2: Are just completely disregarding all of that.

620
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:20,480
Speaker 1: That to me is almost like it's it's almost like, Okay,

621
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:23,320
Speaker 1: you don't You don't even care about the struggles I

622
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:25,840
Speaker 1: went through. You have no no empathy for what I

623
00:27:25,920 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 1: went through as a woman to bear this child.

624
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 2: Exactly that.

625
00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:32,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, and the name was to honor, you know, it's

626
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:34,119
Speaker 5: to honor somebody, to the grandma.

627
00:27:34,240 --> 00:27:36,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, like do you hate your grandma? Like you want

628
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:40,160
Speaker 2: to like what is your grandma? Dog? Now, let's get

629
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:42,439
Speaker 2: into some there's some relevant comments here. Let's do it.

630
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 2: We all agree that the sister is stinky. Let's good,

631
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:46,119
Speaker 2: let's get do it.

632
00:27:47,760 --> 00:27:52,520
Speaker 8: From k Rose fifty nine, If family were more important

633
00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:55,439
Speaker 8: than a name, Emma would have named her dog something else.

634
00:27:55,800 --> 00:28:00,160
Speaker 8: But yes, exactly, yes this op. Tell Emma and your

635
00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 8: parents exactly this, and for them to stop pretending Emma

636
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 8: didn't do this intentionally, that you don't know why she

637
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:10,239
Speaker 8: chose to be malicious, but she absolutely knew what she

638
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:13,120
Speaker 8: was doing, because everyone knows you've been wanting to name

639
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:16,840
Speaker 8: your daughter Who's on the way, Lilah since you were

640
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:21,560
Speaker 8: a child. Call it what it was, outright maliciousness. Tell

641
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:23,600
Speaker 8: them Emma needs to come clean about why she stole

642
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:27,119
Speaker 8: the name from you and from your daughter for her dog.

643
00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 8: What was she trying to accomplish and why did she

644
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:32,280
Speaker 8: want to hurt you? Is it jealousy? Is it attention?

645
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:36,159
Speaker 8: Everyone needs to stop turning it around on you and

646
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:38,920
Speaker 8: pretending that it's not a big deal. Ask them why

647
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:42,000
Speaker 8: you should stand for your sister who would intentionally hurt

648
00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 8: you like that, and then do what feels right for you.

649
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:48,280
Speaker 8: Once your beautiful daughter gets here, your sister's dog's name

650
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:51,440
Speaker 8: won't pull their attention. If anyone teases you over it,

651
00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:53,760
Speaker 8: don't get weepy and upset. Just know that you're in

652
00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:56,680
Speaker 8: the right, Stand tall and flip the script straight up.

653
00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:58,640
Speaker 8: Tell them that your sister took the name. She knew

654
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:00,960
Speaker 8: you were giving your daughter for her, and you just

655
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 8: can't imagine why she would.

656
00:29:02,120 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 2: Do that, could you? Yeah, flipping around on them like, yeah,

657
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:07,680
Speaker 2: my sister did this. Isn't this wild that she would

658
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:07,960
Speaker 2: do that.

659
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:12,120
Speaker 8: Let your sister be the flustered one, and once your

660
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:15,160
Speaker 8: daughter is here, your parents and others will be flocking

661
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:17,560
Speaker 8: to see her. No matter what you do about the wedding.

662
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:21,160
Speaker 8: Ultimately you hold all of the cards. And I agree

663
00:29:21,160 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 8: with the other commenters. If you ever get a pet

664
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:26,239
Speaker 8: and want to take her baby's name, go for it.

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Speaker 8: Which don't do that, that's just messy, but it would

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 2: Stupid? Like what are you doing?

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Speaker 8: But by the way, I would never call you stupid

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Speaker 8: is a little bit of story left. Okay, So I

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Speaker 8: think that last comment was pretty much perfect.

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Speaker 2: I was like, perfect advice.

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Speaker 8: It's the advice I would give, not saying I'm perfect,

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Speaker 8: but I'm just saying that that advice. It's like, just

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Speaker 8: script and be like, yeah, it's I named she and

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Speaker 8: she knew I was gonna name my daughter Elilah, isn't it.

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Speaker 8: Why do you think she named the dog Lila just

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Speaker 8: to get it me right? Why why would she do that?

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Speaker 8: And now suddenly the sister's gonna go, h well I

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Speaker 8: didn't know or I didn't and then everyone's gonna go, well,

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Speaker 8: yeah you did know. We all knew, right, mm hmmm.

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Speaker 8: So yeah, just you just name your beautiful daughter Lilah. Yes,

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Speaker 8: and stick with your husband, who is a beautiful w

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Speaker 8: husband for sticking up for you, and you don't have

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Speaker 8: to feel bad at all for not going to your

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Speaker 8: stinky sister's wedding who went out of her way to

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Speaker 8: be malicious and try to kind of scam you. I mean,

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Speaker 8: it's not a scam. I can't think of a better word.

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Speaker 8: I got to like swindle. She tried to swindle the

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Speaker 8: name Lilah away from you by like making it her

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Speaker 8: dog's name. So then you're naming your daughter after a dog,

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Speaker 8: which is absurd because it's your grandma.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, let's finish this story.

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Speaker 8: Now, let's finish this off, hippie, Liz lemon, OPI, this

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Speaker 8: is it?

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Speaker 2: Is that the same as your sister's dog. Answer?

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Speaker 8: Yes, this is the name that honors our grandmother that

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Speaker 8: the end of my fertility journey, is a choice I accept.

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Speaker 8: But we'll never understand. You're not being mean, you're not

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Speaker 2: She's a huge jerk. And that is the end of

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Speaker 2: that story. And I concur your sister was being a

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Speaker 1: My sister and her friends are furious with me for

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Speaker 1: eating at a hospital cafeteria.

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Speaker 2: Well, are you in the hospital. They make me sick.

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Speaker 2: I don't care. They make me sick. Oh, okay, hear

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Speaker 2: me out.

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Speaker 1: I worked just a few blocks away from the hospital,

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Speaker 1: and I get there pretty quickly by bicycle. The cafeteria

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Speaker 1: is quaint and it has good prices, so usually once

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Speaker 1: a week or so I'll go there for lunch. The

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Speaker 1: food isn't what I would call amazing, but they have

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Speaker 1: a nice variety from time to time. The staff even

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Speaker 1: recognizes me, and they're always pleasant. They don't mind that

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Speaker 1: I'm just there for lunch, and it's far quieter eating

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Speaker 1: there than at any local restaurant. I'm on the spectrum.

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Speaker 1: I don't like loud noises, so the quiet lunches in

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Speaker 1: this place are a godsend for me on some days.

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Speaker 1: By the way, this comes from same philosopher nine to

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Speaker 1: twenty seven on the Arslasha Okay, storytime supper day. So

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Speaker 1: recently my sister found out that I've been eating at

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Speaker 1: the hospital. My sister went off on me over how

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Speaker 1: hospital cafeterias are only supposed to be there for the

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Speaker 1: people who are at the hospital because they need to

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Speaker 1: be I retorted that I was get the business, and

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Speaker 1: it's not like I was taking the food out of

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Speaker 1: the mouths of patience, right exactly, but the question is should.

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Speaker 2: You do that?

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Speaker 1: I only went there once a week, so what was

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Speaker 1: the big deal? But she still insisted that I was wrong.

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Speaker 1: So then she got our parents involved, and they are

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Speaker 1: siding with her. They are telling me that I should

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Speaker 1: only be eating at the hospital if I had an

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Speaker 1: actual reason to be there. I told them they were

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Speaker 1: all crazy and it was just normal food that I

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Speaker 1: was paying for. But now neither they or I are

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Speaker 1: back are backing down, and I'm torn. Am I the

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Speaker 1: ahle for going to eat lunch in a hospital cafeteria

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Speaker 1: once a week just because I work nearby? There is

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Speaker 1: an update, and let me tell you something that it

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Speaker 1: gets a lot worse. You think like, oh, this is

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Speaker 1: gonna be some benign No, we are not even close

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Speaker 1: to Like, we're not even a quarter of the way

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Speaker 1: through yet.

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Speaker 2: Update.

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Speaker 1: Now, the situation escalated so radically that I cannot believe

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Speaker 1: something so dumb actually happened. My sister did the pettiest

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Speaker 1: thing she's ever done to me, and for completely undeserved

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Speaker 1: reasons too.

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Speaker 2: So when my.

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Speaker 1: Sister found out that I was eating at the hospital cafeteria,

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Speaker 1: she went off on me over how that food is

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Speaker 1: just for the people who are at the hospital because

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Speaker 1: they need to be. We ended up in a big

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Speaker 1: argument about it, which I told her it wasn't like

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Speaker 1: I was taking food from the mouths of patients. Then

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Speaker 1: she went to our parents to get them on her side,

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Speaker 1: like always, and they immediately sided with her, just like

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Speaker 1: I thought they would.

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Speaker 2: They backed her. They backed her up.

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Speaker 1: On how that hospital cafeteria was not a place to

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Speaker 1: go eating casually, and we had a big argument. They

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Speaker 1: spent days hounding me and telling me that I was

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Speaker 1: wrong and I and demanded that I stop.

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Speaker 2: So we went to Reddit. We wanted to get the truth,

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Speaker 2: and here I learned.

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Speaker 1: That not only was I not doing anything wrong, but

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Speaker 1: it's very common thing for people to just go and

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Speaker 1: eat at hospital cafeterias just because they like it is.

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Speaker 2: Wait, well, is that that I hope the situation would

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Speaker 2: just fade away. But a few days.

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Speaker 1: Later, my sister called me asking if I had stopped

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Speaker 1: eating at the hospital, and I said no, and then

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Speaker 1: it started all over again. My parents then called me,

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Speaker 1: fuming and acting like I was supposed to stop going

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Speaker 1: because they said so. I reminded them that I don't

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Speaker 1: live under their roof anymore, and this is exactly the

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Speaker 1: kind of reason why I moved out. They take my

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Speaker 1: sister's side in almost everything. Well that's fair.

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Speaker 8: I just feel that you keep telling me I can't

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Speaker 8: eat at these cafeterias.

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Speaker 2: I can't live like this.

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Speaker 1: They huffed and puffed about it. This time, the fight

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Speaker 1: didn't stay at home, though, other relatives found out because

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00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:46,680
Speaker 1: my sister tried to broaden her support. She was so

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Speaker 1: set on enforcing her will upon me that she went

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Speaker 1: looking for help from other relatives, but our parents were

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Speaker 1: the only ones on her side, and my uncle personally

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Speaker 1: admonished my parents and her over the phone for for it.

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Speaker 1: Once I told him what had actually happened, he told

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Speaker 1: them that they were only siding with my sister.

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Speaker 2: Because she's their favorite.

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Speaker 1: At least we got one family member on opie side

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Speaker 1: and their terrible parents for ever playing favorites to begin with.

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Speaker 1: Then cousin went to eat with me at the hospital

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Speaker 1: cafeteria and said he'd like to go there once a

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Speaker 1: week too, as he also works nearby and bicycles everywhere.

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Speaker 2: The war is.

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Speaker 8: Growing, This snowball is starting to grow, so.

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Speaker 1: We've run into each other at lunch there already sends

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Speaker 1: them he was actually rather pleased to find out the

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Speaker 1: food was made healthier than most other places. He's kind

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Speaker 1: of a picky eater, so this place is kind of

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Speaker 1: like his new lunch hangout. And my sister got even

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Speaker 1: angrier after finding out that there were other people in

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Speaker 1: the family eating at the hospital now too, But once outed,

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Speaker 1: my parents back down due to the embarrassment. They apologized

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Speaker 1: to me gave me some malarchy that they honestly thought

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Speaker 1: eating at the hospital was weird and that they felt

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Speaker 1: like they just needed to defy and my sister. I

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Speaker 1: told him that they'd been placating my sister for so

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Speaker 1: long that it's all they do whenever she starts something

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Speaker 1: with anyone. She's been treating me like a condescending control

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Speaker 1: freak and a bully since we were teenagers, even though

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Speaker 1: I'm older than her, and they just keep enabling that.

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Speaker 1: But I won't put up with it anymore. My parents

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00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 1: ended up conceding and apologized. Then they made my sister

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Speaker 1: apologize to me too, and I could tell she hated.

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Speaker 2: Every second of it because he tried to speak to

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Speaker 2: me through her teeth at first.

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Speaker 1: Later on, my parents invited me to dinner for as

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Speaker 1: another form of an apology, but it felt more like

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Speaker 1: a show to look good for the rest of the

839
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Speaker 1: family because they told everyone about it even before it happened.

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Speaker 1: The dinner was great, I can't deny.

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Speaker 2: But it was great.

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Speaker 8: No surprisingly better than hospital cafeteria food, which was a

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Speaker 8: shock to me.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: My parents had cooked a turkey, arguably one of my

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Speaker 1: favorite things to eat. I love the drumsticks, slavin and gravy,

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00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 1: and yeah, I'm kind of a pig when I eat them,

848
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Speaker 1: but I can't help it. My sister always thought it

849
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Speaker 1: was hilarious, and it was one of the few things

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Speaker 1: I don't mind her laughing about, so I thought nothing.

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Speaker 2: Of why she was so gigly at dinner.

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Speaker 1: Later after that family dinner, I noticed that my bike

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Speaker 1: was missing.

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Speaker 2: Hmm.

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Speaker 1: Put some ice us in the chat. I parked it

856
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Speaker 1: in the backyard, out of sight, but it was just gone.

857
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 1: I freaked out because it was my only mode of transportation.

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00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:24,960
Speaker 1: My parents did panic a bit with me, but my

859
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:28,120
Speaker 1: sister seemed just the opposite. She actually looked happy and

860
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:29,840
Speaker 1: started giggling.

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Speaker 2: The worst poker face of all time.

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00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:32,200
Speaker 5: Hmmm.

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Speaker 1: I immediately suspected her, but she played innocent. She even

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Speaker 1: gave the I can't believe you'd think I'd do something

865
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Speaker 1: like that bline. Now, I already knew that she was

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Speaker 1: extremely petty, the sister, but this was a whole new

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Speaker 1: level of it for her. So I said that I

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Speaker 1: was gonna go over to the neighbor because I know

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Speaker 1: they have cameras and they had seen what happened, and

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Speaker 1: then i'd call the cops.

871
00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:57,040
Speaker 2: My sister suddenly.

872
00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:59,400
Speaker 1: Looked panicked, and I got mad and said I knew

873
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:03,120
Speaker 1: it was her and demanded my bike back. She started

874
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Speaker 1: crying and saying that she didn't do anything, and my

875
00:39:06,160 --> 00:39:08,840
Speaker 1: parents were immediately taking her side while scolding me for

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Speaker 1: daring to accuse her. So I had had enough and

877
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Speaker 1: said I was going to the neighbors. Excuse me. So

878
00:39:15,160 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 1: I was going to the neighbors to ask to check

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00:39:16,960 --> 00:39:19,840
Speaker 1: their cameras, and then I would be calling the police.

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00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:23,759
Speaker 1: My sister finally fasted up and called me to come back.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know, Please don't do it right about to

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Speaker 1: get the hammer a justice, little lady. The looks on

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Speaker 1: our parents' faces after they had just offended her were priceless.

884
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:39,759
Speaker 1: My sister said that she was so angry at me

885
00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:43,000
Speaker 1: for having made her apologize for something she believed she

886
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:45,040
Speaker 1: was right about. She had planned to have a couple

887
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 1: of her friends to come and grab my bike during dinner.

888
00:39:47,920 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 1: She said her friends were in a minivan with it

889
00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:53,040
Speaker 1: just down the street. She then started saying that I

890
00:39:53,040 --> 00:39:57,760
Speaker 1: couldn't call police on her anyway, because I'm her big brother, OPI.

891
00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:01,279
Speaker 1: Our parents backed that up too, but I pulled out

892
00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:04,759
Speaker 1: my phone and I started marching outside again. They ran

893
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 1: after me, with my sister begging and crying for me

894
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:09,400
Speaker 1: to stop. I called her a brat, and then I

895
00:40:09,480 --> 00:40:12,719
Speaker 1: told my parents I couldn't believe they were still defending

896
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 1: her when she was acting this way. Our parents finally

897
00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:18,400
Speaker 1: hit their enabling limit with her and told her to

898
00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 1: make her friends bring my bike back immediately.

899
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:22,200
Speaker 2: She got on her.

900
00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:25,319
Speaker 1: Phone while sniffling and called her friends up, but then

901
00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:27,839
Speaker 1: she suddenly ran into her room to talk to them.

902
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:30,279
Speaker 1: I couldn't hear a thing she said through the door

903
00:40:30,440 --> 00:40:33,239
Speaker 1: because it was all whispers, and our parents looked very

904
00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:36,719
Speaker 1: worried too. My sister would never have willingly admitted that

905
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:40,359
Speaker 1: she had stolen my bike. She just kept sobbing that

906
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:42,879
Speaker 1: it was only a prank, over and over again. It's

907
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:46,240
Speaker 1: just a prank, bro Literally, it's.

908
00:40:46,360 --> 00:40:49,360
Speaker 2: Brother, my kid, my flesh and blood.

909
00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:52,399
Speaker 8: Now that I've been caught especially, it's just a prank,

910
00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:53,520
Speaker 8: that's it.

911
00:40:54,560 --> 00:40:57,000
Speaker 1: And she also kept using the excuse that's just a

912
00:40:57,080 --> 00:40:59,960
Speaker 1: cheap bike. Anyways, I bought it used some months ago

913
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:03,440
Speaker 1: for fifty dollars. But it's in great shape, respect and

914
00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:07,280
Speaker 1: it's my main mode of transportation. My sister kept looking

915
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:10,560
Speaker 1: at our parents for backup, and that time they just couldn't,

916
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 1: so she just slumped down in a chair, hugging her

917
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:15,080
Speaker 1: knees and waiting.

918
00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:15,520
Speaker 2: For the rest of us.

919
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:18,720
Speaker 1: My sister looked increasingly freaked out the longer her friends

920
00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:22,200
Speaker 1: took to bring my bike back, and was repeatedly texting them.

921
00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:24,640
Speaker 1: Even though my sister said her friends were just down

922
00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:28,280
Speaker 1: the street. It took them roughly an hour to bring

923
00:41:28,320 --> 00:41:32,680
Speaker 1: my bike back. They finally pulled up in the mini

924
00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:35,520
Speaker 1: van with my bike shoved in the back, and it

925
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:39,600
Speaker 1: was completely soaked in all muddy, like it had been

926
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:42,640
Speaker 1: just pulled out of a wet, muddy ditch.

927
00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:48,880
Speaker 8: Yeah, I get destruction of property type beat.

928
00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:53,000
Speaker 1: I would love to press play on that. Yeah, that

929
00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:55,360
Speaker 1: would be great. I would play that on repeat.

930
00:41:55,520 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I yikes.

931
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:02,439
Speaker 1: The bike is a seven hundred c so it's too

932
00:42:02,520 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 1: tall for either of them to ride. So they just

933
00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:07,800
Speaker 1: drove right up and stole the bike by dragging it

934
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 1: into the van so fast as fast as they could

935
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:13,880
Speaker 1: before taking off. I say they stole it because I

936
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:16,799
Speaker 1: was because I was almost certain in the moment my

937
00:42:16,880 --> 00:42:20,520
Speaker 1: sister had told them to dispose of my bike. Had

938
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:22,880
Speaker 1: I not point had I not pointed out the neighbors

939
00:42:22,880 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 1: have cameras, I may have not gotten it back.

940
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:27,160
Speaker 2: Now.

941
00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:30,959
Speaker 1: When her friends finally did arrive, their legs were all

942
00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:34,319
Speaker 1: muddy and wet and nearly up to their knees. They

943
00:42:34,360 --> 00:42:37,280
Speaker 1: both begged me not to report them to the police

944
00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:40,560
Speaker 1: for taking the bike. I asked, while recording them, to

945
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:44,440
Speaker 1: tell me the truth and pointed to the neighbor's cameras

946
00:42:45,360 --> 00:42:48,279
Speaker 1: during did my sister want them to get rid of

947
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:48,640
Speaker 1: my bike?

948
00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:51,919
Speaker 2: They broke down and said yes.

949
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:57,319
Speaker 1: Op is like a master interrogator right now, just cracking

950
00:42:57,360 --> 00:43:00,279
Speaker 1: the truth. And they looked, oh, oh yeah, I think

951
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:02,319
Speaker 1: you think you're so tough. You were the little friends like,

952
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:04,920
Speaker 1: oh oh yeah, let's go speels bike. He's squealing like

953
00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:07,480
Speaker 1: a freakin' pig. They brought it down and say yes.

954
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:10,280
Speaker 1: My sister wanted them to take the bike and dump

955
00:43:10,280 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 1: it in a pond a few miles away, and they

956
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:15,600
Speaker 1: had to go back and get it. When they realized

957
00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:19,280
Speaker 1: they were caught, my bike had been nearly completely submerged

958
00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 1: in muddy water. Thankfully, I didn't have many added accessories

959
00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 1: on it other than a detachable headlight in my water bottle,

960
00:43:26,320 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 1: but the water bottle was missing. I wasn't surprised, but

961
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:31,680
Speaker 1: by what my sister's friends told me, and I had

962
00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:33,439
Speaker 1: told them to tell our parents too.

963
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:36,200
Speaker 2: They laid into my sister till she was bawling on

964
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:39,680
Speaker 2: the floor, kicking and pounding like a toddler. I had

965
00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:42,560
Speaker 2: never seen my sister act like that since she was

966
00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:45,279
Speaker 2: actually a toddler, and I found it mortifying that she

967
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:47,360
Speaker 2: was still like this on the inside.

968
00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:50,480
Speaker 1: Then she shut herself in her room. Her friends were

969
00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 1: banned from ever coming to my parents' house again. Then

970
00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:56,200
Speaker 1: my sister was forced to come out of our room

971
00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:59,960
Speaker 1: by her mother, by our mother and make another bit

972
00:44:00,280 --> 00:44:03,480
Speaker 1: apology to me. So our father then forced her to

973
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:06,839
Speaker 1: wash and oil my bike from stem to stern under

974
00:44:06,880 --> 00:44:09,400
Speaker 1: his supervision while I took a part in the headlight

975
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:12,000
Speaker 1: and cleaned it out to dry it. By the time

976
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:13,439
Speaker 1: my sister was done, it.

977
00:44:13,360 --> 00:44:16,040
Speaker 2: Was dark outside. She glared at me like I was

978
00:44:16,040 --> 00:44:17,520
Speaker 2: the devil when she came back in.

979
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:20,919
Speaker 1: The house, but our parents shut her attitude right down

980
00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 1: and said they'd never been more embarrassed by her in

981
00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:25,080
Speaker 1: their lives.

982
00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:27,040
Speaker 2: She went back to her She.

983
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 1: Went back to crying in her room, and I had

984
00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:31,760
Speaker 1: a very frank discussion with my parents about my sister's

985
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:35,720
Speaker 1: childlike behavior and how it stemmed from their spoiling and enabling.

986
00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:38,360
Speaker 1: I said, I couldn't believe I had to be the

987
00:44:38,480 --> 00:44:40,960
Speaker 1: voice of reason, but the fact that she was on

988
00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:44,360
Speaker 1: the floor crying like a toddler, kicking and pounding showed

989
00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:47,719
Speaker 1: me that she's still mentally a child because of them.

990
00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 1: And they kept making me the scapegoat when she screwed up,

991
00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:55,120
Speaker 1: so she barely knows any sense of accountability. For once,

992
00:44:55,239 --> 00:44:57,520
Speaker 1: they didn't argue with me about it, and then my

993
00:44:57,600 --> 00:45:00,480
Speaker 1: father silently drove me and my bike back to my

994
00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:04,760
Speaker 1: apartment with his SUV. He also gave me some money

995
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:08,000
Speaker 1: to replace my bike's missing water bottle before we parted

996
00:45:08,200 --> 00:45:11,560
Speaker 1: get him a new freaking bike, bro. I'm sorry, I.

997
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:13,320
Speaker 2: Think we need a little bit more there.

998
00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:16,520
Speaker 1: We need we need more than like ten dollars for

999
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 1: a water bottle.

1000
00:45:17,520 --> 00:45:19,280
Speaker 2: Come okay? Yikes.

1001
00:45:20,080 --> 00:45:22,319
Speaker 1: So my sister and her click used to harass me

1002
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:24,680
Speaker 1: a fair bit whenever we ran into each other. They

1003
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:27,440
Speaker 1: made fun of me as a group whenever possible, and

1004
00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:30,319
Speaker 1: I usually just ignored them because they bored me, and

1005
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:33,000
Speaker 1: that really seemed to tick them off. But after the

1006
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:36,400
Speaker 1: bike incident, I got sent numerous messages from numbers I

1007
00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:39,360
Speaker 1: don't know cussing me out for making my sister cry

1008
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:43,280
Speaker 1: over a silly prank, A silly prank of you throwing

1009
00:45:43,280 --> 00:45:46,279
Speaker 1: my bike into a pond, hoping I never have it again.

1010
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:51,239
Speaker 2: It's just a prank, bro, What only form of transportation

1011
00:45:51,320 --> 00:45:52,320
Speaker 2: going to work? Everything?

1012
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:56,280
Speaker 1: Like my God knowing her, my sister probably fed everyone

1013
00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:58,880
Speaker 1: she knew a very different story on what actually happened.

1014
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:03,080
Speaker 1: I texted lengthy replies of what actually happened, and even

1015
00:46:03,120 --> 00:46:06,200
Speaker 1: stated I have recordings of her friends admitting the truth.

1016
00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:09,880
Speaker 1: Send it, send it, send it, send it all, do it,

1017
00:46:10,239 --> 00:46:14,279
Speaker 1: Send it to everyone mass text. Some people at my

1018
00:46:14,360 --> 00:46:18,719
Speaker 1: sister's college found out what actually went down. I see

1019
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:22,839
Speaker 1: you in the chat oo, maybe from texts, maybe from

1020
00:46:22,840 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 1: her friends who spilled the beans, but it embarrassed my

1021
00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:28,760
Speaker 1: sister so much that she came home having a crying

1022
00:46:28,800 --> 00:46:31,480
Speaker 1: tantrum about how people there were calling her and her

1023
00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:35,480
Speaker 1: friends bees and bike thieves. I may not have gone

1024
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:36,000
Speaker 1: to college.

1025
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 2: Wait, I'm sorry? Was that was that?

1026
00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:38,800
Speaker 3: What was that sound?

1027
00:46:39,040 --> 00:46:42,399
Speaker 8: Is that the sound of the consequences of your actions

1028
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:43,040
Speaker 8: showing up?

1029
00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:47,040
Speaker 3: Or oh my? Oh oh wait you're not used to that,

1030
00:46:47,280 --> 00:46:47,600
Speaker 3: are you?

1031
00:46:48,760 --> 00:46:57,160
Speaker 2: Oh well, hey, welcome to reality. Yeah, that's what happens.

1032
00:46:57,320 --> 00:46:59,959
Speaker 2: You get what your freaking deserve. God.

1033
00:47:00,520 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 1: Now, I may not have gone to college, but I

1034
00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:06,040
Speaker 1: know students who need them and are very protective of

1035
00:47:06,160 --> 00:47:09,080
Speaker 1: their bikes. A lot of them live on shoestring budgets

1036
00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:12,200
Speaker 1: after all, My sister said someone even joked that they

1037
00:47:12,200 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 1: shouldn't leave a bike around her because it might just

1038
00:47:14,719 --> 00:47:17,400
Speaker 1: disappear if she had to apologize someone.

1039
00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:21,640
Speaker 2: Yes, that's five. Yes, great humor. She's the proper use

1040
00:47:21,680 --> 00:47:23,640
Speaker 2: of shame. Yeah for real.

1041
00:47:24,200 --> 00:47:27,360
Speaker 1: My sister ended up so upset that she refused to

1042
00:47:27,440 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 1: leave her room for three days to have her pity party.

1043
00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 2: My parents called me up to try and turn everything

1044
00:47:34,719 --> 00:47:35,600
Speaker 2: on me. Again.

1045
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:39,280
Speaker 1: I reminded them about the discussion we had just days before,

1046
00:47:39,600 --> 00:47:42,319
Speaker 1: and that they needed to stop babying her and let

1047
00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:45,879
Speaker 1: her deal with the repercussions of her own actions. If

1048
00:47:45,880 --> 00:47:48,920
Speaker 1: she fails at her classes again, it's because she's not

1049
00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:51,640
Speaker 1: trying like she should be. Then I went off on

1050
00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:54,280
Speaker 1: them how they were just looking for someone to blame

1051
00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:57,960
Speaker 1: to make her feel better. She made the problem, not me,

1052
00:47:58,200 --> 00:48:00,160
Speaker 1: and I wasn't going to be the one they make

1053
00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:03,319
Speaker 1: the scapegoat anymore. My sister is an adult and she

1054
00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:04,520
Speaker 1: needs to act like it.

1055
00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:08,480
Speaker 2: They sound. They sounded defeated and then apologized before hanging

1056
00:48:08,560 --> 00:48:09,040
Speaker 2: up the call.

1057
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:13,120
Speaker 1: Looks like they were genuinely hoping that I just sit

1058
00:48:13,280 --> 00:48:16,240
Speaker 1: back and take the blame so my sister would get better.

1059
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:22,399
Speaker 1: But I never will again. By the way, you can

1060
00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:25,000
Speaker 1: never take anyone's crap again. And join us live every

1061
00:48:25,000 --> 00:48:26,400
Speaker 1: weekday at three pm PST.

1062
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:27,640
Speaker 2: Just have our profile.

1063
00:48:27,680 --> 00:48:32,319
Speaker 1: We're on YouTube, Facebook, TikTok join join right now, Join

1064
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:37,920
Speaker 1: the party. But Dakota, Yes, we have to talk.

1065
00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:45,840
Speaker 2: Let's talk. We have to communicate. Brother. Wow, Indeed, what

1066
00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:47,759
Speaker 2: did we just witness?

1067
00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:51,000
Speaker 8: I think we witnessed the end result of when parents

1068
00:48:51,080 --> 00:48:54,720
Speaker 8: like ruin their kid. Yeah, in like the way where

1069
00:48:54,800 --> 00:48:58,680
Speaker 8: instead of like it's it's kind of its own form

1070
00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:02,560
Speaker 8: of neglect in that you neglected to teach your kid

1071
00:49:02,719 --> 00:49:07,880
Speaker 8: how the world functions. Definitely, definitely, like, yeah, you're throwing

1072
00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:10,600
Speaker 8: a tantrum because you have to throw in a like

1073
00:49:10,920 --> 00:49:13,399
Speaker 8: because you have to make an apology at college age.

1074
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:16,759
Speaker 2: Like she's behaving like an eight year old straight up.

1075
00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:19,680
Speaker 8: And even then at eight years old, it's still like,

1076
00:49:19,760 --> 00:49:22,799
Speaker 8: all right, we should be understanding how to be like

1077
00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 8: nice to people.

1078
00:49:24,840 --> 00:49:28,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly that's a compliment for her, Like she is

1079
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:31,080
Speaker 1: acting like pure toddler energy.

1080
00:49:31,200 --> 00:49:36,200
Speaker 8: Right, this is Terrible two's type Sun Absolutely absolutely, but

1081
00:49:36,400 --> 00:49:40,560
Speaker 8: like I don't see a path forward other than her

1082
00:49:40,680 --> 00:49:42,319
Speaker 8: like it because the parents won't.

1083
00:49:42,440 --> 00:49:44,680
Speaker 2: The parents need to give the cold water. I don't

1084
00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:45,879
Speaker 2: even think the parents can.

1085
00:49:46,520 --> 00:49:50,919
Speaker 8: I think they are beyond repair, Like yeah, their their

1086
00:49:51,040 --> 00:49:55,800
Speaker 8: fundamental relationship and dynamic with their daughter is so broken,

1087
00:49:56,040 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 8: yes that I don't think they can do anything to

1088
00:49:58,760 --> 00:49:59,600
Speaker 8: help her at this point.

1089
00:49:59,719 --> 00:50:03,160
Speaker 1: So let me ask you this, Like, it seems pretty

1090
00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:06,759
Speaker 1: clear that like she maybe there's more incidences where she

1091
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:10,480
Speaker 1: embarrasses herself again, but it doesn't show signs of her

1092
00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:14,800
Speaker 1: like stopping. Do we go like load and no contact?

1093
00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:16,759
Speaker 2: Do you think we go? Yeah?

1094
00:50:16,800 --> 00:50:21,560
Speaker 5: No, I'm I would go no contact. She doesn't want

1095
00:50:21,560 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 5: to talk to me, she wants to just bully me.

1096
00:50:23,400 --> 00:50:26,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, but let's finish the story now. My parents are

1097
00:50:26,520 --> 00:50:29,200
Speaker 1: trying to pretend this all never happened, and my sister

1098
00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:32,280
Speaker 1: as well as her clique are avoiding me at all costs,

1099
00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:35,319
Speaker 1: which I suppose is fine with me because I don't

1100
00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:38,560
Speaker 1: want any more drama. But the next time something like

1101
00:50:38,600 --> 00:50:42,120
Speaker 1: this happens from him, I won't take it from him. Okay,

1102
00:50:46,520 --> 00:50:48,680
Speaker 1: And that's the end of that is a that is

1103
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:50,560
Speaker 1: a mic drop right there.

1104
00:50:51,160 --> 00:50:52,359
Speaker 2: That is a mic drop right there.

1105
00:50:52,560 --> 00:50:55,880
Speaker 1: I won't take it from them. I like, you know,

1106
00:50:57,080 --> 00:51:01,520
Speaker 1: as good as it can. And I think I think.

1107
00:51:03,920 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 2: The sister might. Yeah, you know what, I'll just leave

1108
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:08,759
Speaker 2: it at that. That is the best way that it

1109
00:51:08,760 --> 00:51:09,200
Speaker 2: could end.

1110
00:51:09,280 --> 00:51:12,200
Speaker 5: She's got to learn some way, got learn she's yeah

1111
00:51:12,320 --> 00:51:15,160
Speaker 5: or she doesn't care. And it's not Opie's job either

1112
00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:16,080
Speaker 5: at all.

1113
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:18,080
Speaker 8: So it looks like she's gonna have to learn the

1114
00:51:18,120 --> 00:51:20,640
Speaker 8: hard way, which is all of the people around her

1115
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:22,480
Speaker 8: that she used to think thought she was cool are

1116
00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:23,080
Speaker 8: not going to be.

1117
00:51:23,040 --> 00:51:26,160
Speaker 2: Like, oh, Yeah, it's you, the weird bike thief dude.

1118
00:51:26,160 --> 00:51:28,320
Speaker 1: The fact that these people give Like if my friend

1119
00:51:28,360 --> 00:51:30,160
Speaker 1: was like, oh, hey, I'm gonna like take my brother's

1120
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:32,200
Speaker 1: bike and like hide it in like a like a

1121
00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:34,919
Speaker 1: lake with mud and stuff, I'd be like, no.

1122
00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:36,960
Speaker 2: Well at first, when you you'd be like, what did

1123
00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:39,200
Speaker 2: he do? Yeah, like to do something.

1124
00:51:39,640 --> 00:51:43,400
Speaker 8: Yeah, he's eating lunch at a hospital once a week.

1125
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:46,839
Speaker 1: Hey, it's John here Og, host of the show. We're

1126
00:51:46,840 --> 00:51:48,440
Speaker 1: gonna get back to these juicy stories. But here's a

1127
00:51:48,520 --> 00:51:51,240
Speaker 1: quick three minutes of ads from our sponsors. My boyfriend

1128
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:54,160
Speaker 1: stole a stranger's ice cream because someone.

1129
00:51:54,000 --> 00:51:58,080
Speaker 2: Dared him double dog dare you? I guarantee you it's

1130
00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:01,319
Speaker 2: just a frank bruh brother.

1131
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:05,600
Speaker 1: But we were walking around this evening and he, the

1132
00:52:05,600 --> 00:52:09,080
Speaker 1: boyfriend I believe, mentioned wanting to get ice cream, hadn't

1133
00:52:09,080 --> 00:52:12,200
Speaker 1: brought any money, and neither had I. We usually take

1134
00:52:12,239 --> 00:52:14,400
Speaker 1: a walk after dinner and don't buy stuff during it

1135
00:52:14,480 --> 00:52:17,120
Speaker 1: unless we decided beforehand that we wanted to get something

1136
00:52:17,280 --> 00:52:21,359
Speaker 1: that night. By the way, this comes from Communist manifesto.

1137
00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:25,279
Speaker 1: On the our side started talking out name, so as

1138
00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:27,799
Speaker 1: we're walking past a group of people, he made a

1139
00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:31,279
Speaker 1: sudden movement to the side, and then started running in

1140
00:52:31,320 --> 00:52:34,239
Speaker 1: the opposite direction full speed.

1141
00:52:34,800 --> 00:52:39,799
Speaker 2: I wonder what could have happened? Yes, what are you

1142
00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:46,279
Speaker 2: doing to move? What?

1143
00:52:47,880 --> 00:52:51,359
Speaker 1: It was so fast I hadn't seen exactly what he did.

1144
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:55,759
Speaker 1: People were saying things like, holy crap and OMG. Another guy,

1145
00:52:55,960 --> 00:52:58,640
Speaker 1: another guy said he took my ice cream.

1146
00:52:59,760 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 2: And that's when I realized what had happened. He had

1147
00:53:03,280 --> 00:53:08,520
Speaker 2: ethicstole this guy's ice cream on a busy street. Wow.

1148
00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:13,480
Speaker 1: I was absolutely shocked and mortified. Everyone around us had

1149
00:53:13,520 --> 00:53:16,160
Speaker 1: seen it or else quickly got told about it. They

1150
00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:18,960
Speaker 1: were staring and pointing down the street where he was

1151
00:53:19,000 --> 00:53:19,800
Speaker 1: still running.

1152
00:53:19,960 --> 00:53:22,120
Speaker 3: There's the ice cream bandit to get.

1153
00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:25,840
Speaker 2: Him, get him on business. Oh my god. I couldn't

1154
00:53:25,880 --> 00:53:27,160
Speaker 2: believe what I was seeing.

1155
00:53:27,480 --> 00:53:31,240
Speaker 1: I apologized repeatedly to the man whose ice cream he grabbed.

1156
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:35,000
Speaker 1: I apologize repeatedly to the man whose ice cream he grabbed,

1157
00:53:35,239 --> 00:53:37,160
Speaker 1: then said I was going to go find him and

1158
00:53:37,200 --> 00:53:42,000
Speaker 1: got myself out of there, utterly humiliating. Well, he'd nearly

1159
00:53:42,040 --> 00:53:44,920
Speaker 1: made it back to the house in that time. I

1160
00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:47,319
Speaker 1: got there a few minutes later and found out that

1161
00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:50,040
Speaker 1: he had been crouched in the stairway fiercely eating the

1162
00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:52,040
Speaker 1: ice cream out of the cup. He scrambled when he

1163
00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:55,920
Speaker 1: heard me coming, dropping the ice cream everywhere. He literally

1164
00:53:56,040 --> 00:53:58,959
Speaker 1: left the cup on the stairs and ran away from

1165
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:00,520
Speaker 1: me up to our apartment.

1166
00:54:01,400 --> 00:54:05,879
Speaker 8: They lived together, and I assume no words have been

1167
00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:07,120
Speaker 8: exchanged yet either.

1168
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:10,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, just silent, primal fear of.

1169
00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:15,240
Speaker 1: But I had the key, so he was just standing

1170
00:54:15,280 --> 00:54:18,520
Speaker 1: there when I got up there, I of course demanded

1171
00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:22,279
Speaker 1: an explanation. He had the balls to deny that he

1172
00:54:22,320 --> 00:54:24,920
Speaker 1: had done anything. I've done nothing wrong.

1173
00:54:25,520 --> 00:54:28,280
Speaker 2: That wasn't me, that was the other beast.

1174
00:54:28,560 --> 00:54:31,680
Speaker 8: Maybe this guy is somehow on a real life hard

1175
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:35,359
Speaker 8: mode where someone was like, the next person you see

1176
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:38,200
Speaker 8: eating ice cream, you have to take it and then

1177
00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:39,840
Speaker 8: deny you did anything.

1178
00:54:40,040 --> 00:54:44,239
Speaker 1: Yuas so, he insisted he didn't know what I was

1179
00:54:44,320 --> 00:54:47,200
Speaker 1: talking about. I sort of lost it and just started

1180
00:54:47,280 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 1: yelling at him. The cup is down the stairs, Your

1181
00:54:50,719 --> 00:54:54,640
Speaker 1: hands and mouth are covered in the ice cream. A

1182
00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:58,320
Speaker 1: dozen people literally saw you snatch it right out of

1183
00:54:58,320 --> 00:55:00,680
Speaker 1: a guy's hand. What the F do you mean you

1184
00:55:01,080 --> 00:55:04,400
Speaker 1: don't know? He then changed the story and said that

1185
00:55:04,480 --> 00:55:04,839
Speaker 1: it was.

1186
00:55:04,880 --> 00:55:08,919
Speaker 2: Just a joke. There it is. It was just a prank.

1187
00:55:09,160 --> 00:55:10,840
Speaker 2: It was just a prank. It was just a prank.

1188
00:55:10,880 --> 00:55:11,080
Speaker 5: Brown.

1189
00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:15,439
Speaker 1: He decided to re enact a YouTube prank video or

1190
00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:16,560
Speaker 1: a random stranger.

1191
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:18,440
Speaker 2: How is that a prank?

1192
00:55:18,920 --> 00:55:21,560
Speaker 1: After I let us inside, I kept asking what makes

1193
00:55:21,600 --> 00:55:22,799
Speaker 1: him think that that's okay to do?

1194
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:29,880
Speaker 2: And he changed the story again. Bro Bro is layered. Okay,

1195
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:33,080
Speaker 2: he's very complex. Bro has two wolves inside of him.

1196
00:55:33,760 --> 00:55:37,560
Speaker 8: One wolve wants ice cream and those dogs are barking,

1197
00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:40,920
Speaker 8: and the other, I guess, is a liar.

1198
00:55:41,040 --> 00:55:43,800
Speaker 2: I don't know there something None of this is making

1199
00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:49,800
Speaker 2: any sense. What's going on? Well, here's the new explanation.

1200
00:55:49,880 --> 00:55:53,160
Speaker 1: Okay, this time he said he doesn't know why he

1201
00:55:53,239 --> 00:55:54,000
Speaker 1: did it.

1202
00:55:54,000 --> 00:55:55,680
Speaker 2: It was just an urge.

1203
00:55:56,400 --> 00:55:58,399
Speaker 1: I didn't even know what to say, so I told

1204
00:55:58,480 --> 00:56:02,000
Speaker 1: him I needed some time to my I'm seriously disturbed.

1205
00:56:02,360 --> 00:56:05,040
Speaker 1: He's got no good reason. This is completely out of

1206
00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:08,840
Speaker 1: character for him. He's always very mild reserved and treats people,

1207
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:13,319
Speaker 1: especially me, very kindly. He's the last person I had

1208
00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:15,520
Speaker 1: thought would do something like this. What do I do

1209
00:56:15,600 --> 00:56:17,680
Speaker 1: next to figure out what the f that was about?

1210
00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:21,600
Speaker 1: How can I know if he's even being honest? Opie

1211
00:56:22,320 --> 00:56:23,520
Speaker 1: relevant comments really.

1212
00:56:23,400 --> 00:56:25,799
Speaker 8: Quick here, like there is a way to do this

1213
00:56:26,360 --> 00:56:29,840
Speaker 8: where it's not a villain. Like, the way to do

1214
00:56:29,880 --> 00:56:32,319
Speaker 8: it is certainly not run away with the stranger's ice

1215
00:56:32,360 --> 00:56:36,200
Speaker 8: cream and eat it alone in a stairwell. It's like,

1216
00:56:36,719 --> 00:56:39,600
Speaker 8: maybe take the ice cream, eat it in front of

1217
00:56:39,600 --> 00:56:41,880
Speaker 8: the guy, and you go ha, No, this was like

1218
00:56:41,920 --> 00:56:42,960
Speaker 8: a social experiment.

1219
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:47,520
Speaker 2: Uh, here's like twenty five dollars, okay, And even.

1220
00:56:47,320 --> 00:56:51,120
Speaker 8: Then it's still like veried close to the edge of like,

1221
00:56:51,360 --> 00:56:53,479
Speaker 8: this is what are you doing? The fact that there's

1222
00:56:53,600 --> 00:56:56,879
Speaker 8: no camp, there's nothing, this is just for him.

1223
00:56:57,239 --> 00:56:58,719
Speaker 2: It's like, I don't know.

1224
00:56:59,440 --> 00:57:02,880
Speaker 8: Also, you can leave the ice cream intact, like you don't,

1225
00:57:02,960 --> 00:57:06,760
Speaker 8: you don't. Just I don't know what this guy was thinking.

1226
00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:08,560
Speaker 8: But there's a way to do it where you're not

1227
00:57:08,560 --> 00:57:11,000
Speaker 8: the villain. And he did it the wrong way. This

1228
00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:11,759
Speaker 8: this guy's.

1229
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:12,320
Speaker 2: Breaking my brain.

1230
00:57:12,400 --> 00:57:15,640
Speaker 1: Man, Well, we we might have some explanation that may

1231
00:57:15,760 --> 00:57:17,040
Speaker 1: or may not help us figure this way.

1232
00:57:17,040 --> 00:57:18,520
Speaker 2: Wait, I just really quick.

1233
00:57:18,560 --> 00:57:20,520
Speaker 8: The only way this is acceptable is if he got

1234
00:57:20,560 --> 00:57:22,960
Speaker 8: paid to do it, because this was secretly an episode

1235
00:57:22,960 --> 00:57:24,160
Speaker 8: of Impractical.

1236
00:57:23,680 --> 00:57:31,760
Speaker 2: Jokers, And that's it. That's all. That's it, Because because

1237
00:57:31,760 --> 00:57:34,600
Speaker 2: then that that's it, I'll leave it at that. That's it.

1238
00:57:34,680 --> 00:57:37,400
Speaker 1: That's the only that's the only thing Dakota will accept

1239
00:57:37,560 --> 00:57:43,520
Speaker 1: impractical jokers. Well, opie is added in the comments, So

1240
00:57:44,040 --> 00:57:46,840
Speaker 1: adding this to a top comment so anyone's still following

1241
00:57:46,840 --> 00:57:49,680
Speaker 1: will see. Last night, I asked him again what he

1242
00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:52,840
Speaker 1: was thinking. He said, Jesus, I don't know. I already

1243
00:57:52,960 --> 00:58:02,080
Speaker 1: told you. Oh God, I said, I couldn't accept that

1244
00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:04,880
Speaker 1: answer because it's not a real answer.

1245
00:58:05,160 --> 00:58:07,720
Speaker 2: I told him we needed to talk about it because.

1246
00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:10,360
Speaker 1: After reading some comments, some of the comments last night,

1247
00:58:10,720 --> 00:58:12,840
Speaker 1: I needed to know if something was going on with

1248
00:58:12,960 --> 00:58:13,640
Speaker 1: him mentally.

1249
00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:15,200
Speaker 2: He said it wasn't.

1250
00:58:15,640 --> 00:58:18,320
Speaker 1: I started naming possible things he could get stressed about,

1251
00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:21,760
Speaker 1: like job, family, money, and he said it was all

1252
00:58:21,760 --> 00:58:25,440
Speaker 1: going fine. And to my knowledge, that's true. If something's

1253
00:58:25,480 --> 00:58:26,880
Speaker 1: going on, then he's hiding it.

1254
00:58:26,960 --> 00:58:27,200
Speaker 2: Well.

1255
00:58:27,720 --> 00:58:30,520
Speaker 1: He was visibly annoyed by my questioning, and when I

1256
00:58:30,600 --> 00:58:33,880
Speaker 1: eventually asked if he realized how bizarre it was, he.

1257
00:58:33,880 --> 00:58:36,600
Speaker 2: Snapped, who often cares, Please stop bothering me.

1258
00:58:36,640 --> 00:58:40,120
Speaker 8: I'm busy, Okay, Now this is when you just go,

1259
00:58:40,240 --> 00:58:42,160
Speaker 8: I'll stop bothering you forever because.

1260
00:58:42,000 --> 00:58:45,600
Speaker 2: I'm breaking up with you. Yeah, that's for.

1261
00:58:45,520 --> 00:58:48,200
Speaker 8: Real, Like there's no going back from that now. Yeah,

1262
00:58:48,240 --> 00:58:51,959
Speaker 8: I don't care what explanation you have after that, goodbye forever.

1263
00:58:52,280 --> 00:58:53,120
Speaker 2: Cyon a right.

1264
00:58:53,600 --> 00:58:56,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, he refused to talk about it anymore after that,

1265
00:58:56,400 --> 00:58:59,720
Speaker 1: but has been talking about other stuff as normal. It's

1266
00:58:59,760 --> 00:59:02,400
Speaker 1: like he just pretending that it never happened. If it

1267
00:59:02,480 --> 00:59:05,120
Speaker 1: hadn't happened, there's nothing about his behavior right now that

1268
00:59:05,160 --> 00:59:07,960
Speaker 1: would be weird to me. So now I feel like

1269
00:59:08,000 --> 00:59:10,200
Speaker 1: I'm crazy if I just bring it up anymore. I

1270
00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:12,280
Speaker 1: don't know if I need to just forget about it

1271
00:59:12,800 --> 00:59:16,600
Speaker 1: like he is or what. I'm still stunned and very confused.

1272
00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:20,840
Speaker 1: We have some more relevant comments here from Alma Zeuzer

1273
00:59:20,920 --> 00:59:24,160
Speaker 1: zero nineteen, who says if he had if he had

1274
00:59:24,200 --> 00:59:26,120
Speaker 1: had a lapse in judgment and thought it was a

1275
00:59:26,120 --> 00:59:28,560
Speaker 1: funny prank, then I feel like he would be laughing

1276
00:59:28,600 --> 00:59:31,200
Speaker 1: when you found him and being all like, dude.

1277
00:59:30,920 --> 00:59:33,160
Speaker 2: Did you see a look on their faces? Ah wants

1278
00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:34,960
Speaker 2: an ice cream, babe? Instead.

1279
00:59:35,080 --> 00:59:36,560
Speaker 1: The way he wrote it, it sounds like he was

1280
00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:39,080
Speaker 1: furiously eating the ice cream he stole and then ran

1281
00:59:39,120 --> 00:59:41,440
Speaker 1: away from you when he saw you coming, So he

1282
00:59:41,560 --> 00:59:44,080
Speaker 1: wasn't doing it as a joke. The way you write

1283
00:59:44,120 --> 00:59:47,520
Speaker 1: it sounds like he was manic, like an animal, completely

1284
00:59:47,600 --> 00:59:48,680
Speaker 1: going on instinct.

1285
00:59:48,840 --> 00:59:55,280
Speaker 8: Yes, like like the spirit of a chimpanzee just inhabited

1286
00:59:55,360 --> 00:59:55,880
Speaker 8: his body.

1287
00:59:56,120 --> 01:00:00,600
Speaker 1: Bro he wanted ice cream that badly that he grabbed

1288
01:00:00,600 --> 01:00:03,680
Speaker 1: someone's ice cream out of their hand, high tailed at

1289
01:00:03,680 --> 01:00:06,680
Speaker 1: home and started shoveling down his throat greedily, and then

1290
01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:08,960
Speaker 1: ran away once he saw you coming. All of that

1291
01:00:09,040 --> 01:00:11,800
Speaker 1: sounds so insane. I don't even know what to say.

1292
01:00:12,280 --> 01:00:14,480
Speaker 1: I think he's probably embarrassed and doesn't want to talk

1293
01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:17,360
Speaker 1: about it. If it was a psychotic episode or something

1294
01:00:17,480 --> 01:00:20,360
Speaker 1: tied to mental illness, I wouldn't expect him to know

1295
01:00:20,480 --> 01:00:23,400
Speaker 1: Slash realize this. So asking him, did you have a

1296
01:00:23,400 --> 01:00:26,040
Speaker 1: psychotic episode? Do you have a history of mental illness?

1297
01:00:26,320 --> 01:00:28,880
Speaker 1: Isn't going to be very fruitful, and it will just

1298
01:00:28,960 --> 01:00:32,080
Speaker 1: make him more defensive. You see, you have to get

1299
01:00:32,160 --> 01:00:36,320
Speaker 1: him to see a professional, but don't be accusatory or

1300
01:00:36,360 --> 01:00:39,360
Speaker 1: make him feel like he's crazy. Ope, he responds to

1301
01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:42,560
Speaker 1: this comment, Yes, the way you describe it is exactly

1302
01:00:42,600 --> 01:00:45,800
Speaker 1: how it happened. He wasn't laughing at any point when

1303
01:00:45,800 --> 01:00:47,400
Speaker 1: he was trying to convince me it was a joke.

1304
01:00:48,000 --> 01:00:51,200
Speaker 1: He sounded more defensive and panicky than amused with himself.

1305
01:00:51,920 --> 01:00:54,040
Speaker 1: If I can't tell him about the possibility of a

1306
01:00:54,040 --> 01:00:57,240
Speaker 1: psychotic episode. Then how can I get him to see

1307
01:00:57,320 --> 01:01:02,280
Speaker 1: someone he won't see any reason to go. We have

1308
01:01:02,640 --> 01:01:06,680
Speaker 1: what I believe is our final update. This is our

1309
01:01:06,760 --> 01:01:07,760
Speaker 1: final update here.

1310
01:01:09,200 --> 01:01:15,000
Speaker 2: Please please give us something. Do you break up? Uh?

1311
01:01:15,040 --> 01:01:19,440
Speaker 2: Are they better? Are you serious? We have one final

1312
01:01:19,520 --> 01:01:23,400
Speaker 2: update for him to prove he's worth it. Let's get it.

1313
01:01:24,160 --> 01:01:28,600
Speaker 1: So I finally got the explanation from him yesterday. Okay,

1314
01:01:29,560 --> 01:01:33,600
Speaker 1: it's all going to be revealed. Turns out that he

1315
01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:36,640
Speaker 1: was in a discord server chat where all the members

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01:01:36,800 --> 01:01:41,560
Speaker 1: dare each other to humiliate themselves by doing outlandish things

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Speaker 1: in public that they would never do. He told me

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Speaker 1: he's left the group because the experience was really stressful

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Speaker 1: to him.

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Speaker 8: You know what's really stressful, not just saying that from

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Speaker 8: the very beginning.

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Speaker 2: Dude, how was that hard? I don't understand.

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Speaker 8: Still breaking up breaking up with this guy at mock fifteenth,

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01:02:05,000 --> 01:02:07,480
Speaker 8: I am breaking up with this guy. And also, he

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01:02:07,560 --> 01:02:09,840
Speaker 8: needs to go to the moon. I don't think he's

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01:02:09,880 --> 01:02:11,760
Speaker 8: earned the sun. I don't think he's earned the orc cloud.

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01:02:11,760 --> 01:02:14,040
Speaker 8: But my god, he needs to go to the moon

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01:02:14,360 --> 01:02:16,480
Speaker 8: and look at the Earth and say, please.

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Speaker 2: Let me back, give a move.

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Speaker 8: I promise I won't do anything like this again. To

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01:02:20,480 --> 01:02:22,880
Speaker 8: the moon with this one. Send him, get him out

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Speaker 8: of here.

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01:02:23,760 --> 01:02:24,480
Speaker 2: Oh yay.

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01:02:24,960 --> 01:02:27,360
Speaker 1: He told me he's left the group because the experience

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01:02:27,400 --> 01:02:30,640
Speaker 1: was really stressful to him, not exciting like he thought

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01:02:30,680 --> 01:02:33,040
Speaker 1: it would be when he joined. It was the first

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01:02:33,080 --> 01:02:35,320
Speaker 1: time that he'd taken one of the dares. He said

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Speaker 1: that afterwards he just didn't know what to say and

1339
01:02:38,280 --> 01:02:42,800
Speaker 1: couldn't believe that he'd actually done it. Oh, I was saying,

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01:02:42,880 --> 01:02:46,160
Speaker 1: I sadded myself. By the way, if you want to

1341
01:02:46,520 --> 01:02:49,360
Speaker 1: unsadden yourself, you can join us live every weekday at

1342
01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:52,680
Speaker 1: three pm PSD top of our profile. We're live on Facebook,

1343
01:02:52,720 --> 01:02:55,320
Speaker 1: on YouTube TikTok. You're watching join.

1344
01:02:55,320 --> 01:02:57,480
Speaker 2: And don't forget the twitch babies, so we know you're

1345
01:02:57,520 --> 01:02:59,400
Speaker 2: out there. We know you're out there. Love you all.

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01:02:59,840 --> 01:03:05,520
Speaker 2: So yeah, you're still You're still team. Just dump them.

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01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:08,360
Speaker 8: I'm honestly, this is one of the worst explanations it

1348
01:03:08,400 --> 01:03:11,960
Speaker 8: could have ever been, is that there's no reason for

1349
01:03:12,040 --> 01:03:13,520
Speaker 8: him to not He's just like, I didn't know what

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01:03:13,560 --> 01:03:13,919
Speaker 8: to say.

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01:03:13,960 --> 01:03:19,120
Speaker 2: It's like, you say, it's a prank. What what I

1352
01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:21,360
Speaker 2: will say this? And I think you're gonna hate me.

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01:03:22,880 --> 01:03:27,720
Speaker 1: I would like I think he's on probation, and like

1354
01:03:28,280 --> 01:03:35,040
Speaker 1: any slip up that happens, like okay, horrible explanation, horrible reason, stupid,

1355
01:03:35,080 --> 01:03:37,040
Speaker 1: why did you not tell me all of those things?

1356
01:03:37,600 --> 01:03:40,400
Speaker 1: Like look, you embarrassed me, like all those things. You

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01:03:40,400 --> 01:03:43,040
Speaker 1: can ever do that again? If it happened, I guess

1358
01:03:43,240 --> 01:03:46,000
Speaker 1: one time, and maybe I'm like thinking about it in

1359
01:03:46,080 --> 01:03:48,440
Speaker 1: terms of my own relationship, but I'm like, if it

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01:03:48,480 --> 01:03:49,840
Speaker 1: happened one time.

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Speaker 8: It does depend on how long you've been together, what

1362
01:03:51,920 --> 01:03:54,840
Speaker 8: your actual how how tightly knit you are.

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01:03:54,960 --> 01:03:56,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, this is someone you've been dating for like

1364
01:03:56,760 --> 01:03:59,600
Speaker 2: a couple of months. Get back to the moon.

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01:03:59,680 --> 01:04:02,040
Speaker 8: Yeah, And you know what you say, probation, It's like,

1366
01:04:02,080 --> 01:04:05,200
Speaker 8: technically that's on our on our cosmic ranking scale of

1367
01:04:05,280 --> 01:04:09,560
Speaker 8: like people's naughtiness, Like the moon is essentially probation, cause

1368
01:04:09,600 --> 01:04:11,400
Speaker 8: over the moon and then you get to come back

1369
01:04:11,400 --> 01:04:13,040
Speaker 8: to Earth after you stay there for a while and

1370
01:04:13,080 --> 01:04:17,800
Speaker 8: realize how absolutely ridiculous your decisions and behavior works. So

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01:04:17,880 --> 01:04:20,800
Speaker 8: I think, break up with this guy, right, and then

1372
01:04:20,920 --> 01:04:23,680
Speaker 8: if he really does try to make it up to you,

1373
01:04:23,760 --> 01:04:25,080
Speaker 8: maybe you consider.

1374
01:04:25,320 --> 01:04:26,919
Speaker 2: Letting him back if that's something you want.

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01:04:27,000 --> 01:04:29,960
Speaker 8: But honestly, I don't think I'd ever be able to

1376
01:04:30,000 --> 01:04:31,240
Speaker 8: look at the guy the same way again.

1377
01:04:31,800 --> 01:04:35,640
Speaker 1: That's and that's perfectly fair. I I totally understand anyone.

1378
01:04:35,680 --> 01:04:36,800
Speaker 1: They couldn't stay with him again.

1379
01:04:36,840 --> 01:04:38,720
Speaker 5: Every time you see ice cream in public with him,

1380
01:04:38,800 --> 01:04:40,680
Speaker 5: you're like, oh, are you gonna do it?

1381
01:04:40,960 --> 01:04:41,320
Speaker 2: Trauma?

1382
01:04:41,440 --> 01:04:43,480
Speaker 8: Every time trauma see ice cream for the rest of

1383
01:04:43,520 --> 01:04:47,600
Speaker 8: my life, regardless, I'm gonna think of this guy. Yeah,

1384
01:04:47,720 --> 01:04:51,440
Speaker 8: you've now You've now imprinted a permanent memory upon ice

1385
01:04:51,480 --> 01:04:52,080
Speaker 8: cream for me.

1386
01:04:52,360 --> 01:04:52,720
Speaker 2: I don't know.

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01:04:52,800 --> 01:04:55,480
Speaker 5: Oh, he did say that, like he's a good guy,

1388
01:04:55,880 --> 01:04:58,280
Speaker 5: Like he's never done anything, Like he's very reserved.

1389
01:04:58,320 --> 01:04:59,280
Speaker 2: That's what I was saying.

1390
01:04:59,360 --> 01:05:01,520
Speaker 5: I'm like, what drove him to do this?

1391
01:05:02,080 --> 01:05:04,080
Speaker 1: I know, I guess this is the one. But but

1392
01:05:04,200 --> 01:05:05,959
Speaker 1: you know what honestly happens with so many of these stories.

1393
01:05:06,000 --> 01:05:07,880
Speaker 1: I feel like because they're like, oh, they're the most

1394
01:05:07,880 --> 01:05:11,880
Speaker 1: perfect person, but and then describes it proceeds to describe

1395
01:05:11,880 --> 01:05:15,080
Speaker 1: the worst thing anyone's ever done, and then is like, oh, but.

1396
01:05:15,120 --> 01:05:16,720
Speaker 2: Also like they suck it all these other airs, So

1397
01:05:16,840 --> 01:05:18,080
Speaker 2: like okay, so yeah, so they're terrible.

1398
01:05:18,160 --> 01:05:21,560
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, they're like they're amazing, except you know, they

1399
01:05:21,960 --> 01:05:23,960
Speaker 1: kicked my mom down a flight of stairs. And actually

1400
01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:25,880
Speaker 1: they're like really terrible and they like hate me and

1401
01:05:25,920 --> 01:05:29,120
Speaker 1: they like are a horrible partner too. So it's like, yeah, yeah,

1402
01:05:29,200 --> 01:05:30,760
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like this guy falls in

1403
01:05:30,760 --> 01:05:33,360
Speaker 1: that category. If he does get him out of here,

1404
01:05:33,960 --> 01:05:37,000
Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm totally I'm totally good with with dumping him.

1405
01:05:37,000 --> 01:05:39,240
Speaker 2: I wouldn't get mad at anyone ye dumped him.

1406
01:05:39,320 --> 01:05:42,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, But to finish out, he was extremely apologetic for

1407
01:05:42,960 --> 01:05:45,520
Speaker 1: acting like a lunatic causing me to worry about him.

1408
01:05:45,800 --> 01:05:47,880
Speaker 2: We had a long talk about it last night.

1409
01:05:48,240 --> 01:05:51,720
Speaker 1: I believe he genuinely regrets it. He knows that what

1410
01:05:51,800 --> 01:05:54,439
Speaker 1: a stupid f up, that it was not much else

1411
01:05:54,480 --> 01:05:56,800
Speaker 1: to stay. Really just wanted to come back. Now that

1412
01:05:56,840 --> 01:05:58,960
Speaker 1: I got all the answers, Thank you to everyone who

1413
01:05:59,000 --> 01:06:00,800
Speaker 1: tried to make sense out of it in the original

1414
01:06:00,800 --> 01:06:05,000
Speaker 1: post and who gave me advice for talking with him.

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01:06:05,720 --> 01:06:07,560
Speaker 1: It looks like, at least as of now, at least

1416
01:06:07,560 --> 01:06:10,440
Speaker 1: where we just left it, they are staying together.

1417
01:06:12,840 --> 01:06:17,440
Speaker 8: Okay, Yeah, I would break as soon as the like,

1418
01:06:17,520 --> 01:06:20,440
Speaker 8: oh we're still talking about this, drop it. That's when

1419
01:06:20,480 --> 01:06:24,520
Speaker 8: I leave instantaneously, because you already First of all, sir.

1420
01:06:24,800 --> 01:06:28,520
Speaker 2: Who on earth do you think you're talking to you.

1421
01:06:28,640 --> 01:06:33,640
Speaker 8: Just you just like went full Gollumn mode, stole a

1422
01:06:33,640 --> 01:06:35,680
Speaker 8: stranger's ice cream, and now you have the nerve to

1423
01:06:35,720 --> 01:06:38,640
Speaker 8: be like, shut up, we're not talking about it. Uh,

1424
01:06:39,000 --> 01:06:43,439
Speaker 8: you're right, because I'm leaving forever, like go to the moon,

1425
01:06:43,600 --> 01:06:45,920
Speaker 8: still still to the moon, with this one, still to

1426
01:06:45,960 --> 01:06:48,360
Speaker 8: the moon. I don't care how remorsefully is. He could

1427
01:06:48,360 --> 01:06:50,400
Speaker 8: be remorseful on the moon and then come back.

1428
01:06:50,560 --> 01:06:52,960
Speaker 2: That's the whole point. Man a little bit, but he

1429
01:06:53,000 --> 01:06:54,480
Speaker 2: asked to go to the moon. That's the whole point

1430
01:06:54,480 --> 01:07:05,880
Speaker 2: of it. Discord cord our just oohown dance.

1431
01:07:05,960 --> 01:07:09,959
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, our discord would never no, our discord would

1432
01:07:09,960 --> 01:07:13,680
Speaker 1: never write never, I would hope, I would hope never.

1433
01:07:15,440 --> 01:07:16,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I.

1434
01:07:16,440 --> 01:07:18,840
Speaker 1: Like the plane. Yeah, I'm super on board. I'm super

1435
01:07:18,880 --> 01:07:20,640
Speaker 1: super on board for this, the moon to the moon.

1436
01:07:21,080 --> 01:07:25,520
Speaker 8: I just don't think and look, clearly, the op is

1437
01:07:25,560 --> 01:07:28,240
Speaker 8: more cueued into their relationship and how much of it

1438
01:07:28,240 --> 01:07:29,760
Speaker 8: it would be, how how worth it it would be

1439
01:07:29,800 --> 01:07:30,840
Speaker 8: to say the sky.

1440
01:07:32,680 --> 01:07:35,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, but the eyes can't. I can't.

1441
01:07:35,200 --> 01:07:37,320
Speaker 1: With everything we have, He's not a keeper, everything, all

1442
01:07:37,320 --> 01:07:38,600
Speaker 1: the context we have, He's not a keeper.