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Speaker 2: Bryce is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: follow up, and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Tessa.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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Speaker 2: if chattels why she's ghosting him and maybe get him

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Speaker 2: another date. But first, Bryce, how long has this been

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Speaker 2: since you heard from Tessa?

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Speaker 3: Hey? Uh, yeah, it's been about nine days, I guess.

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, it's definite ghosting.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, not that I'm counting or anything.

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Speaker 1: But I don't sound callous about that. But even if

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Speaker 1: you are counting, I get it, I would feel the

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Speaker 1: same way. Did you try to reach out to her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I've tried a couple of times. I called her, like,

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Speaker 3: you know, a couple of days after our date and

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Speaker 3: getting her back, and like I texted her a couple

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Speaker 3: of times since then, just casual kind of stuff, trying

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Speaker 3: to you know, reach out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, tell us about the date.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So, I mean we went to this really quirky

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Speaker 3: little diner pop up that only serves pickle themed dishes. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: everything had pickles in it, and like it had all

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Speaker 3: different kinds of things, like they pickled lots of different

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Speaker 3: stuff too. It was really even dirt, Yeah, it was.

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Speaker 3: It was super fun. Like even the dessert had like

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Speaker 3: elements of pickle in it. And I thought, she, you know,

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Speaker 3: I thought, I figured it's youruld be into because in

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Speaker 3: her profile it said, you know, adventurous with food, and

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Speaker 3: I thought, like, let's just you know, I want to

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Speaker 3: go full send on this one. So yeah, yeah, it

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Speaker 3: went really well. I think, you know, we had a

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Speaker 3: lot of fun too. I mean, like we spent just

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Speaker 3: hours laughing. She's hilarious. She's like one of these girls

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Speaker 3: who's sarcastic, but in that way if you're not sure

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Speaker 3: she's roasting you or flirting or a little bit of

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Speaker 3: both maybe and it just works.

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Speaker 4: You know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: She's yeah, bought me, not quite you know what I mean,

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Speaker 3: but like you had a little bit of a fun

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Speaker 4: I need that, you know, it's good for me. And

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Speaker 4: she's just she's gorgeous.

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Speaker 3: I mean, like she made eating a deep fried pickle

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Speaker 3: Paris and Milan with pickles. It was amazing, you know,

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Speaker 3: like we did like the we did the whole milkshake

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Speaker 3: It was it was adorable until it wasn't. So yeah,

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Speaker 3: So what happened? Uh?

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Speaker 4: So?

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Speaker 3: Firstly, we had like this super intense debate about whether

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Speaker 3: pickles should be considered a personality trait, and somehow it

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Speaker 3: got like really deep.

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Speaker 4: And like, I you know, I I think I felt

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Speaker 3: Just somebody who got my weirdness, which she called me

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Speaker 3: like the best compliment and it's ever given me. Yeah, which, yeah,

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Speaker 3: But there was one moment and I might have been

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Speaker 3: you know, like the pickle tossed trick where you flick

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Speaker 3: a pickle slice into your mouth, okay, like you kind

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Speaker 3: of flick it like your coin like and it flips

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Speaker 4: It's I don't know. Yeah, I think she would have

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Speaker 3: Like I tried the thing and the pickle hit this

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Speaker 3: I apologize like a million times. Doesna laughed really hard,

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Speaker 3: Walks the line.

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Speaker 1: How did everything end with her?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I.

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Speaker 3: Thought it went ended well. I thought we were gonna

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Speaker 1: Okay, all right, Well we'll see if we can figure

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Speaker 1: it out for you.

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Speaker 2: We'll play a song, come back and call her and

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Speaker 2: see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and

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Speaker 2: maybe get you another date.

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, sound good?

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Speaker 2: All right, we'll get your first day follow up next.

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Speaker 2: If we're just joining us for today's first date follow up.

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Speaker 2: Bryce is on the phone, and Bryce is a pickle flipper,

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Speaker 2: but he's getting ghosted by a girl named Tessa, and

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Speaker 2: we're about to call her and see if she'll tell

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Speaker 2: us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him a

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Speaker 2: second date. But first, Bryce, why don't you recap your

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Speaker 2: date real quick for us?

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So we went to a pickle themed hop up for dinner,

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Speaker 3: and I thought it was really great. We seemed to

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Speaker 3: be having a good time until I try to pickle flip,

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Speaker 4: Flip a pickle into my mouth, and I missed and

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Speaker 4: I hit an old lady in the space.

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Speaker 1: That's rough.

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Speaker 4: I don't think that was good. So, yes, that might

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Speaker 2: All right, well'll see if hitting an old lady in

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Speaker 2: the face with your pickle is the reason they were

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Speaker 2: getting ghosted. I couldn't help it, but we'll see if

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Speaker 2: that is the reason. Are you ready for us to

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Speaker 2: call her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: All right, here we go.

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Speaker 4: Huh, Hi, I.

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Speaker 1: Speak to Tessa.

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Speaker 4: Please? Is this see?

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Speaker 1: Hey Tessa? How are you? This is a radio show.

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Speaker 1: It's called the Jewbel Show. Hi Tessa. I'm Nina. Hi,

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Speaker 1: I'm ventoriah and my name is Jewbel. And how you

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Speaker 1: doing today?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Uh, I'm okay. How are you good?

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Speaker 1: Thank you for asking? You ever listen to the show.

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Speaker 4: I'm not sure? Okay?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Well we do a segment on the show. It's

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Speaker 2: called the first Date follow Up. What that is is

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Speaker 2: if you go on a date and you get ghosted,

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Speaker 2: you can email us and we'll call the person that's

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Speaker 2: ghosting you to ask why they're ghosting.

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Speaker 1: So you ghosting somebody?

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, this is so did Brice.

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Speaker 3: Yah.

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Speaker 1: We talked to him.

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Speaker 2: He told us a little bit about your date, and

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Speaker 2: he said he really liked you, you thought you were awesome.

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Speaker 2: But he's wondering why you're ghosting and would you have

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Speaker 2: a minute.

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Speaker 1: To tell us that?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, sure, it's because it's a toe shoe guy too.

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Speaker 4: You know those shoes. The shoes were the individual toe pocket.

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Speaker 1: One. Yeah, wear how shoe guy he wears.

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Speaker 4: On a date, on a date? Not ironically, It wasn't ironic.

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Speaker 4: He called them a stickle hunting shoes. I can't, I

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Speaker 3: You guys on a minute now, wait a minute, listen.

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Speaker 3: Those are high performance minimalist shoes. Okay, Like they promote

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Speaker 3: natural foot posture.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, ta, that's Bryce. He's on the phone listening.

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Speaker 4: H I don't they good shoes? They promote you said

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Speaker 4: it again, they promote natural football Okay, yeah. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: they promote looking like a swamp goblin, I mean kind

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Speaker 4: of ugly. You said you like unique guys. I don't. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: he said I like unique guys.

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Speaker 5: That didn't say I like guys who like live in

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Speaker 4: I thought you laughed about the pickle tossed. I thought

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Speaker 4: I didn't. What is my footwear? I laughed at it

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Speaker 4: before I saw your shoes, and that your toes were

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Speaker 3: And did you use your toes to flick the pickles?

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Speaker 4: Wow?

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Speaker 3: So this isn't about the pickle incident at all, right,

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Speaker 3: you you go to me over, yes.

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Speaker 4: Yes, exactly, huh, yes, nice. It was a lot of toe.

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Speaker 4: It was an aggressive amount of toe all the time,

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Speaker 3: I didn't even think you were looking at my feet. Honestly,

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Speaker 4: I told you at the end, they just like they

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Speaker 4: my feet are not ugly. I didn't see I mean,

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Speaker 4: I didn't see your feet. It was what the feet

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Speaker 5: But you, I mean, I was going to say, obviously

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Speaker 1: Do wait, but do people wear these out in public?

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Speaker 1: I thought people just like wear them in the water.

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Speaker 2: Every once in a while, I've seen, I've seen, but

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Speaker 3: Or Yeah, of course people wear them in public. They're

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Speaker 4: You know. They say the.

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Speaker 3: Stomach is the second brain, Well, but I believe your

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Speaker 4: Of Yeah, your theaters should not be making.

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Speaker 5: Your dating decisions, then, how is it working for you?

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Speaker 3: Let me ask you something, Tesla. You've dated other guys before, right,

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Speaker 3: mm hmmm, how nice were they?

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Speaker 4: I don't know. I try not to see them on's

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Speaker 3: Okay, not on a first date. But answer the question.

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Speaker 1: It's true. It's a good question.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, look, I might ask for some statistics

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Speaker 5: and fast and figures.

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Speaker 4: I'm not gonna You're not wrong, You're not you got me.

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Speaker 3: Well, think about this, all right. You liked me, you

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Speaker 3: thought I was a nice guy. And I also take

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Speaker 3: really good care of my feet. They're manicured, they're in

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Speaker 3: good health. You never have to worry about getting athletes

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Speaker 3: from you. I feel like, you know my third and

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Speaker 2: I feel like selling it. I mean, clean feet are thing, Tessa.

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Speaker 2: Would you like to go on another day with Bryce?

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Speaker 4: I would be open if he doesn't tell me anymore

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Speaker 4: of his toes. Maybe maybe no athletes.

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Speaker 1: It's really getting you, huh.

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Speaker 5: It is a you know, most guys see aren't the best.

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Speaker 5: So I now that I'm thinking about it as kind

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Speaker 4: Do you have any other jew where I don't want

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Speaker 5: Like anything vans converts, I'm going I'll take literally anything

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Speaker 5: anything else.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I have other footwear, and I promise I won't

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Speaker 3: wear the toe shoes on a date with you again.

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Speaker 1: So is that a yes, Tessa?

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Speaker 4: I you know what? Yeah, I guess.

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Speaker 5: So I'll give it another shot, But.

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Speaker 4: One toe out of line and I'm out of there.

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Speaker 4: All right, great, thank you.

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Speaker 3: I promise you will not regret it I will not.

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Speaker 4: Show you my toes until the proper time. You will

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Speaker 4: first date, follow up