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Speaker 1: Hello, my loves welcome back to give them La La podcast.

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Speaker 1: It should be a very very fun So yep, Mom's

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Speaker 1: gonna talk in this microphone and you're just gonna chill.

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Speaker 1: Is that cool? So I have Ocean with me because

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Speaker 1: my mom was supposed to have her today, but her

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Speaker 1: little Pomeranian, Bella, who we have had for fifteen and

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Speaker 1: a half years, has had like the biggest decline in

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Speaker 1: the past I want to say, two weeks and she's

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Speaker 1: not eating. She's skin and bone. So my mom called

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Speaker 1: and was like, I need to rush her to emergency care.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what the outcome will be to me,

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Speaker 1: I know it sounds so morbid and abrupt, but to me,

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Speaker 1: it seems like Bella's It just seems like she's dying.

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Speaker 1: But that's the TV that we're gonna watch ourselves on.

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Speaker 1: That's why I have Ocean today. Can you say hi

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Speaker 1: to everybody? Hi? Say hi? Good job? How is everybody?

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Speaker 1: Jess Easton great? Had a great morning?

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Speaker 2: Yes, I feel like it's I feel like it's been

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Speaker 2: a whole week in a day, which is good and good.

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Speaker 1: Today has been very long.

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Speaker 2: It's good, busy, busy, which is amazing.

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Speaker 1: It's been a really long month. Does anyone feel that way?

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Speaker 3: Everyone's feeling that way. By the way, I haven't spent.

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Speaker 2: A weekend in town in two weeks, and it will

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Speaker 2: be like four altogether because I won't be here this weekend.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's been a traveling month. What are we doing?

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Speaker 3: And you guys even were just gone again.

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Speaker 1: That's the thing is, I feel like there were so

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Speaker 1: many things on my cast. You're on the podcast. It's

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Speaker 1: absolutely correct on the podcast. You're a big, big star baby,

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Speaker 1: look at you. And then, oh my, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 1: this might be my favorite podcast. And it's gonna be

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Speaker 1: takes a lot of pressure off us. It's gonna be

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Speaker 1: very sky. Okay, we're not gonna say stinky. But she's

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Speaker 1: she's wilding out. She knows that she's.

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Speaker 3: She's an entertainer. I give her that.

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Speaker 1: Okay. Can we be really quiet when mom mom does

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Speaker 1: the podcast with her friends? Yes, I feel like we've

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Speaker 1: been back to back on everything. Okay, Ocean, we can't.

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Speaker 1: I'm begging you, please, baby, good kid, good baby. This

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Speaker 1: is gonna be the longest day of my life. You

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Speaker 1: have to stop. We went to Utah, Yes you did.

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Speaker 1: I hosted the Humane Society of Utah Gala. And when

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Speaker 1: I tell you, I was so nervous. I was the

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Speaker 1: most nervous I've ever been doing anything. Actually, that's such

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Speaker 1: a lie. All right. We took a quick break because

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Speaker 1: Ocean started losing her mind and wanted to see herself

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Speaker 1: crying in the monitor. So Easton will not be joining

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Speaker 1: us for this episode because he's going to take care

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Speaker 1: of Ocean. So hello, Jessica, Oh my god, what were

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Speaker 1: we saying?

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Speaker 3: We were just saying, how it's the longest.

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Speaker 1: Monday, the longest Monday, It's the longest year, is the

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Speaker 1: longest week, month, hour of my entire life. So I

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Speaker 1: went to Utah for the Humane Society of Utah gala.

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Speaker 1: The goal was to raise three hundred thousand dollars. They

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Speaker 1: asked me a few months ago if I would host it,

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Speaker 1: and if I remember correctly, before they had put all

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Speaker 1: of the silent auction items into the three hundred thousand

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Speaker 1: dollars goal, they had raised two hundred and sixty thousand dollars.

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Speaker 1: What for the Humane Society of Utah. That's incredible, isn't

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Speaker 1: that crazy?

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Speaker 3: That is amazing?

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Speaker 2: Congratulations, I know that's like near and dear for anyone

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Speaker 2: who doesn't know to not only your heart but your

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Speaker 2: mom's because she worked for them and with them for

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Speaker 1: She still works for them.

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Speaker 3: Amazing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and my dog Lily came from HSU and she's twelve.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: I know she's an old broad. She is.

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Speaker 2: She's a golden vintage girl.

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Speaker 1: But she's so vintage.

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Speaker 2: My question is, I know you you were going into

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Speaker 1: Yeah, what's the difference between like MCing and hosting something.

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Speaker 3: I feel like it's pretty much interchangeable.

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Speaker 2: I might be wrong, but I feel like EMC is

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Speaker 1: I was on the mic, Yeah, and I was very nervous,

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Speaker 1: And I immediately was like, oh no, you've got too Lola,

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Speaker 2: Single, I mean, were there any eligible bachelors there?

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Speaker 1: Are you kidding me? We're in Salt Lake City, Utah.

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Speaker 1: All those people are married, have been married for five

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Speaker 1: So it just feels like everything that I remember about

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Speaker 3: Really, No, do you ever try and drive by your

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Speaker 1: Or I would never. I would never never Why it's

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Speaker 1: say I was very triggered being there.

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Speaker 2: You were mm hmm, okay, why because us It just feels.

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Speaker 1: Like another lifetime where it's like I'm familiar with this place,

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Speaker 1: but I'm it's almost like a trauma response. Does that

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Speaker 1: The other thing. It's like I don't know, Oh, even

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Speaker 1: And I just had a moment of just like complete

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Speaker 1: I'm usually leaving someone behind, rights my mom or my brother,

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Speaker 1: So that part felt good. Anyway, moving on, well.

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Speaker 3: Good, No, that's so nice.

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Speaker 2: It's so nice you all three were there. I'm that's

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Speaker 2: very interesting. You not a trauma response, but yeah, that's

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Speaker 2: interesting because last year, I remember we talked about it

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Speaker 2: and you talked about how like you see yourself in

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Speaker 1: I don't think I feel that way anyway. Really, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: But I watched her dance and I was like, oh

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Speaker 1: she's extremely talented, Like I could see the second wave

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Speaker 2: I know her name's London, right, her name's London. Oh,

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Speaker 1: That part was like so much fun. So when I'm

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Speaker 1: a very I don't know if other places do this.

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Speaker 1: It's very Utah. I remember, like you buy tickets and

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Speaker 1: there's little booths that are selling like homemade chocolates or

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Speaker 3: That's cute.

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Speaker 1: So I see this amazing grinch and it's just an

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Speaker 1: old school grinch head you guys, and it's fabulous. Okay, handmade.

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Speaker 1: No, it's like metal. Oh it's metal, okay, And I'm like,

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Speaker 1: this will be so cute for palm springs. It's forty

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Speaker 1: five dollars. I was like, great, do you guys ship

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Speaker 1: the next day. It in a box. The head doesn't

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Speaker 1: It's ijma. So they put it in the first box

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Speaker 1: doesn't fit. They put it in a bigger one, and

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Speaker 1: she comes back types it in the into the computer

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Speaker 1: and my total pops up where I insert my credit card.

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Speaker 1: You wonder how much it was to ship that thing?

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Speaker 3: How much?

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Speaker 1: Three hundred and eighty five dollars?

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Speaker 3: Is that a joke?

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Speaker 1: It's not a joke. I about died. I literally said

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Speaker 1: to her, are you shitting me? And she just stared

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Speaker 1: at me. I was like, I mean, are you joking me? Kidding? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: You I would have said I'm doing something else with it.

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Speaker 3: I would do with it, sold it. I don't know

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Speaker 2: That is what you spent four over four hundred on

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Speaker 2: a grinch head.

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Speaker 1: I certainly did. And my mom kept saying, but Ocean's

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Speaker 1: gonna love it. Imagine her smile. And I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: why don't we put on your credit card? No? I

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Speaker 1: was like, yeah, you're real quick to throw shit on

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Speaker 1: my AMX, aren't you.

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Speaker 3: Shipping is wild? Shipping costs her wild?

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Speaker 1: Oh you about died, don't even you know?

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Speaker 2: The USPS is the cheap, the most inexpensive.

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Speaker 1: UPS is the most inexpensive.

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Speaker 3: No UPS.

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Speaker 3: What time was this, number one? I need get paint

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Speaker 2: This is the first time I'm hearing this at all.

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Speaker 2: I mean you had been gone all weekend, you had

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Speaker 1: Oh want to know what I saw? The utire part? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I would have said, send that shit to Daryl. We

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Speaker 3: Do you know he's making that merch? Tom Sandibal Team

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Speaker 1: I defend him one time. Suddenly they're out in these

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Speaker 1: and yeah, so that happened too. I wrote it in

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Speaker 3: How do you feel about that? Because I actually think

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Speaker 1: I'm obsessed so cute. I never wish that I have

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Speaker 3: That or something that so cute. That was really cute.

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Speaker 2: You said something in the office that shocked me after

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Speaker 2: you saw that clipke, What did I say, can you

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Speaker 3: Your mindset change?

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Speaker 1: I said, I want that. I want to feel that

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Speaker 1: I do a bumble account, we all know my I

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Speaker 1: that's the route I'm going to have to take. I

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Speaker 1: think that's smart because how else smart? How else do

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Speaker 1: you meet someone? I don't go out very often. I

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Speaker 1: love going out to dinner with people who I'm like

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Speaker 3: I totally agree.

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Speaker 2: Let me ask you something about the dating, because We've

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you say. Sometimes it's it's nerve racking when

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Speaker 3: it's like, let's go to dinner. What is your ideal?

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Speaker 2: Let's say you find someone you're like, this person's really cool.

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Speaker 3: I feel like I know you.

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Speaker 2: whether or not it's over the app or in person whatever,

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Speaker 2: you go, Okay, I'm down for a first date. What's

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Speaker 2: your ideal first date? Because it doesn't sound like it's

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Speaker 3: Do you even know yet?

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Speaker 1: I'm kind of weird. I think my ideal first like meetup,

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Speaker 1: let's not waste time. If I'm going to be sitting

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Speaker 1: easier to be like, hey, do you want to come,

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Speaker 1: We're all going to dinner. It takes the pressure off,

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Speaker 1: Like you don't need to pay for me. I don't

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Speaker 3: Oh that's interesting that that's even a thought of yours.

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Speaker 3: At first.

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Speaker 2: I always expect when I used to first date is

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Speaker 2: I know that's traditional and people would like boo me

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Speaker 3: Out your wallet.

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Speaker 1: Well I would like to think that they would pull

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Speaker 1: So let's just go with a group of people. When

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Speaker 1: you can't pay for my sparkling water though, which has

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Speaker 2: Yes, And that's really sweet of you, what a sweet

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Speaker 2: like look. I want to enjoy dinner and if I

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Speaker 2: really nice of you, Am I nice? That's very nice.

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Speaker 2: That is so nice of you to say.

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Speaker 3: So No, not the sparkling water though, take out.

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Speaker 2: Your wallets for the damn sparkling water lely because I

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Speaker 1: Well, there's a charge. And it was like, I don't

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Speaker 1: You're joking right, Oh no, And then you expect me

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Speaker 3: What in the world right you?

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Speaker 1: The streets are filled with that.

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Speaker 3: I've been here looking at the wrong place.

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Speaker 1: Well that's why I've come to the realization that we're

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Speaker 1: Let's just cut to the chase. Baby, this is what

435
00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:15,600
Speaker 1: Laala is looking for.

436
00:22:16,160 --> 00:22:17,000
Speaker 3: Done, there we go.

437
00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:17,959
Speaker 1: Did you watch pH?

438
00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:20,000
Speaker 3: Did I watch pH?

439
00:22:20,560 --> 00:22:23,200
Speaker 1: Can I tell you my thoughts about Kyle? Yes?

440
00:22:23,440 --> 00:22:25,840
Speaker 2: And I'm so excited for your thoughts because I looked

441
00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:26,359
Speaker 2: at your notes and.

442
00:22:26,359 --> 00:22:28,200
Speaker 3: I don't agree with some of them. So I can't wait.

443
00:22:28,240 --> 00:22:29,679
Speaker 1: All right, let's get into it.

444
00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:31,000
Speaker 3: Hey, let's hear about Kyle.

445
00:22:31,080 --> 00:22:36,879
Speaker 1: So I had conversations with people about Kyle. I know

446
00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:40,480
Speaker 1: her not well. I'll see her like for example, if

447
00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:44,639
Speaker 1: Teddy Mellencamp has a birthday for her daughter Dove, Kyle

448
00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:46,520
Speaker 1: will pop in. It's like, hey, how are you great

449
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:48,720
Speaker 1: to see you, but like we don't know each other

450
00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:53,720
Speaker 1: like that. My thought is she has never been sexier.

451
00:22:54,720 --> 00:22:59,440
Speaker 1: Everything about her, whether it's the confidence, like everything, even

452
00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:04,240
Speaker 1: her there's just something for me that I'm seeing that

453
00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 1: feels very empowered. There are some women older than me

454
00:23:10,160 --> 00:23:14,480
Speaker 1: who are worried, and that's strange for me, especially because

455
00:23:14,520 --> 00:23:16,520
Speaker 1: I'm coming from a very different place than they are.

456
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:21,040
Speaker 1: They are concerned that she's blowing her life up. These

457
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:25,480
Speaker 1: are my thoughts. Mauricio has been dirty for many years.

458
00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:28,920
Speaker 1: From what we've heard to me, it seems like she's

459
00:23:28,960 --> 00:23:33,639
Speaker 1: fed up, but she's not saying what happened because she

460
00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:38,760
Speaker 1: wants to maintain like keeping everything very chill from the outside.

461
00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:41,800
Speaker 1: I'm not going to blow up his world or make

462
00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:45,560
Speaker 1: me seem like the victim. There are children involved, my

463
00:23:45,720 --> 00:23:48,040
Speaker 1: kids who are grown who I don't want them to

464
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:51,800
Speaker 1: be dealing with this. And I am a little bit

465
00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:55,480
Speaker 1: annoyed because I'm sitting here saying to myself, blow him up,

466
00:23:55,960 --> 00:23:58,080
Speaker 1: blow up his spot. Don't you take the fall for

467
00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:02,280
Speaker 1: his bad behavior, which happens a lot. It happens a lot.

468
00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:05,640
Speaker 1: The second a dude does something dirty and the woman

469
00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:09,560
Speaker 1: speaks out on it, everyone looks at her. You have children,

470
00:24:10,040 --> 00:24:16,439
Speaker 1: rise above Hell No, when you do something and then

471
00:24:16,480 --> 00:24:21,320
Speaker 1: there are repercussions, that's just how it goes. Don't be

472
00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:25,760
Speaker 1: a lying, cheating snake, you dirty.

473
00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:28,600
Speaker 3: Dick, You dirty dick.

474
00:24:28,960 --> 00:24:31,520
Speaker 1: I won't have a spot to blow up if you

475
00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:32,800
Speaker 1: act right right.

476
00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:35,800
Speaker 3: I do wonder though, I do, I do.

477
00:24:37,000 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 2: My only differing opinion here is that they did have

478
00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:45,879
Speaker 2: so many as we've heard from her beautiful years together before.

479
00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:49,399
Speaker 2: Who knows what happened, but she has said before she's

480
00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:53,680
Speaker 2: has had a beautiful marriage, beautiful family, lots of good memories.

481
00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:57,239
Speaker 2: I do see her maybe looking at the kids and

482
00:24:57,320 --> 00:24:59,359
Speaker 2: being like, I don't want to tarnish those.

483
00:24:59,400 --> 00:24:59,879
Speaker 3: I don't want to.

484
00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:03,000
Speaker 1: She did have beautiful memories, and we could have continued

485
00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:05,600
Speaker 1: to have those beautiful memories, and you shit all over them.

486
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:09,560
Speaker 1: So now I'm gonna shit all over you, all right,

487
00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:13,200
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to rise above and remember the beautiful memories

488
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:16,720
Speaker 1: and our beautiful children when you shit all over that. Right, No,

489
00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:17,720
Speaker 1: you ruined this.

490
00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:20,439
Speaker 2: Do you think it could be more powerful that? She

491
00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:22,800
Speaker 2: says that to him though, and doesn't come out in public,

492
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:26,160
Speaker 2: and she says exactly what you just said, but to him,

493
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:29,159
Speaker 2: and she goes, I know this, and whatever if they

494
00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:31,880
Speaker 2: have a higher power, I know this, and God knows

495
00:25:31,920 --> 00:25:33,479
Speaker 2: this and it will be revealed.

496
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:39,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, she very well. She's strong in her faith. I

497
00:25:39,320 --> 00:25:42,480
Speaker 1: do know that, and I'm sure you know. And she

498
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:45,920
Speaker 1: has much more life experience than I have. I can't

499
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:48,480
Speaker 1: even imagine being in a relationship for twenty plus years

500
00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:53,520
Speaker 1: four kids involved bringing a child from a different relationship

501
00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:56,159
Speaker 1: into it and having a man step up in that

502
00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:59,439
Speaker 1: regard as well. I don't know. I'm coming from my

503
00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:05,359
Speaker 1: own road right journey where I'm like, you are taking

504
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:08,400
Speaker 1: the brunt of his actions and I don't like it.

505
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:10,919
Speaker 1: It's time for the man to be looked at, Like,

506
00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:15,199
Speaker 1: if there was nothing for me to blow up, we

507
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:18,680
Speaker 1: wouldn't have this problem. You didn't act right behind the scenes,

508
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:27,320
Speaker 1: and now I have to like keep a brave face. No, no, no, no, blood.

509
00:26:27,840 --> 00:26:32,000
Speaker 2: I do agree. She has never been hotter. I mean,

510
00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 2: she is stunning. When I was watching last night, just

511
00:26:34,680 --> 00:26:37,120
Speaker 2: even her sitting in that workout she had just gone

512
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:38,679
Speaker 2: to the gym, like nothing, she was sitting in the

513
00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:41,679
Speaker 2: workout clothes, and I think Kyle was like, oh, she

514
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:43,040
Speaker 2: must be like I don't know.

515
00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 3: I think he said, like, she must be the youngest.

516
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 2: Hun. I was like, no, she's I You're Kyle, Yes, sorry,

517
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:53,920
Speaker 2: Mi Kyle Mi. Kyle talking about Kyle Richards and said

518
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 2: she must be the youngest, right, And I told him

519
00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:59,480
Speaker 2: her age and he's like, I've honestly never seen a

520
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:03,679
Speaker 2: better life. Like she's stunning, and he's like stunning her energy,

521
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:06,280
Speaker 2: her glow, and we were talking about her inner workout.

522
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:07,560
Speaker 3: Clothes, she had just gone to the gym. I was like,

523
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:08,720
Speaker 3: there's something about her.

524
00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:13,960
Speaker 1: She looks really freaking good, amazing. Yeah, I how did

525
00:27:14,000 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 1: you feel about Do you think Sutton was upset that

526
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:16,600
Speaker 1: she wore pants?

527
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:18,879
Speaker 3: That's what I disagreed with you on.

528
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 1: Do you think she was upset that they were spreading

529
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:21,600
Speaker 1: their legs?

530
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:25,320
Speaker 3: I think it was a snowball effect.

531
00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:27,439
Speaker 2: I think at first she was annoyed because she's like,

532
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 2: I wore pants, and then I wasn't chosen, and then

533
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:33,720
Speaker 2: I almost think her like bouginess or upitiness.

534
00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 3: No disrespect was turned.

535
00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:39,680
Speaker 2: On by that, and then she was like, oh no, no, no,

536
00:27:39,760 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 2: I don't need to be here. I that being said,

537
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 2: I saw, well, I want you to say your notes,

538
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:48,760
Speaker 2: but as of last night, I saw what you put

539
00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:51,040
Speaker 2: how you felt about her about wanting to give her

540
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 2: a hug, and I completely disagreed.

541
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,640
Speaker 3: I wanted to look at her and be like, grow up.

542
00:27:56,640 --> 00:27:59,920
Speaker 2: And I again, I don't know Sutton, but she sees,

543
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:02,960
Speaker 2: you know, fun, and she's a personality and she's southern

544
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:03,520
Speaker 2: and cute.

545
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:06,200
Speaker 3: But I was like, you could have googled the show.

546
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:09,160
Speaker 3: You were disrespecting.

547
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 1: Hair no magic, Mike, though you asked if Channing Tatum

548
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 1: would be there, you know damn well with the show entels.

549
00:28:14,280 --> 00:28:17,639
Speaker 2: Exactly and also my big trigger is you have a

550
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:20,440
Speaker 2: friend who went out of her way, Erica Jane, to

551
00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:23,639
Speaker 2: have her friend set up this beautiful night for you

552
00:28:23,760 --> 00:28:26,560
Speaker 2: VIP you get you know, you don't get pulled on stage,

553
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 2: big deal, but like a couple of your friends do.

554
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:30,640
Speaker 2: It was Crystal's birthday. She should have been on stage.

555
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:34,200
Speaker 2: And let's be honest, I can speak from this viewpoint.

556
00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:37,440
Speaker 2: Just I mean you can't too. But there are cameras there.

557
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:40,040
Speaker 2: They're filming the show, and then you're gonna stand up

558
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:44,000
Speaker 2: and stomp out and make a scene if I were Erica.

559
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 2: Erica handled it. So she's so classy track.

560
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:48,440
Speaker 1: Arguing up for Lent.

561
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:51,080
Speaker 3: I know I saw that, no arguing.

562
00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 2: She killed it. But I would have been furious. I

563
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:56,000
Speaker 2: would have been like, so disrespectful and rude. Don't do

564
00:28:56,040 --> 00:28:56,840
Speaker 2: that to my friends.

565
00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:59,320
Speaker 1: This is why I wanted to hug her. Yes, tell us, Okay,

566
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:04,240
Speaker 1: she's the girl who wears a kitten sweater on a date. Yeah, okay, yeah,

567
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:08,240
Speaker 1: I'm sure it's a million dollars. She's with these women

568
00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:11,840
Speaker 1: who are tits up, ass out, stilettos to the sky.

569
00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:16,160
Speaker 1: Everyone wants to fuck them. Yeah, she can't even get

570
00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 1: a second date with a dude and then the one

571
00:29:18,560 --> 00:29:21,280
Speaker 1: time where it's like we're on camera and they'll probably

572
00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:23,080
Speaker 1: call me up and I wore pants and I can't

573
00:29:23,120 --> 00:29:26,840
Speaker 1: even get them to do that. Yeah, where it's like

574
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 1: I wanted to give her a little boost of confidence,

575
00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:31,120
Speaker 1: like I felt sad for her, like you need someone

576
00:29:31,160 --> 00:29:32,520
Speaker 1: to be like you're enough.

577
00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:37,040
Speaker 3: That's really why are you so so sweet today? You're

578
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 3: sweet every day?

579
00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 2: But that's really nice, great, great viewpoint, because I guess

580
00:29:41,680 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 2: you're right. Do you think do you think that she

581
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:48,720
Speaker 2: it was the pants the entire time she.

582
00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 1: Talked about it. She's like, I never wear pants, and

583
00:29:50,920 --> 00:29:54,120
Speaker 1: I brought pants. And then remember the everyone else got

584
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 1: picked picked out of the crowd or whatever, not everybody,

585
00:29:57,600 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 1: but most of them besides sometton And she goes, I

586
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:02,840
Speaker 1: wore fucking pants for this.

587
00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:05,280
Speaker 3: She said, I wore fucking pants for nothing.

588
00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:08,040
Speaker 1: I wore fucking pants for nothing, And it was like

589
00:30:08,280 --> 00:30:11,240
Speaker 1: heartbreaking to me. I was like, she's feeling left out,

590
00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 1: like she wanted someone to give her a lap dance

591
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 1: and spread her legs.

592
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 2: And you know how much our hearts would have been

593
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:21,200
Speaker 2: with her if she if that's what happened, And she

594
00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 2: didn't do what she did, like, I.

595
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:30,000
Speaker 1: Know, really sad. I wanted to hug her anyway. Moving on,

596
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:31,080
Speaker 1: that's sweet though.

597
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:31,800
Speaker 3: That's really sweet.

598
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:34,840
Speaker 1: How did you feel about the conversation between Garcel and

599
00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:36,640
Speaker 1: the rest of the group when she said she doesn't

600
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 1: feel like she's in a safe space to discuss her children.

601
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:43,080
Speaker 2: As I can't speak as a mother, but as soon

602
00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 2: as moms say that, as soon as they go, as

603
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:48,040
Speaker 2: soon as the kids come into it safe space, I go, Okay,

604
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 2: I hear you, Like I had.

605
00:30:49,760 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 3: No opinions that were differing.

606
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:55,920
Speaker 2: She didn't feel that was a safe group to talk

607
00:30:56,040 --> 00:30:58,640
Speaker 2: about her kids. And I heard her, and I'm like, great,

608
00:30:58,720 --> 00:31:01,280
Speaker 2: that's how you feel, Zama. Good for you, Good for

609
00:31:01,320 --> 00:31:03,000
Speaker 2: you for saying it. How did you feel because you're

610
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:03,800
Speaker 2: a mom, I'm not.

611
00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:07,160
Speaker 1: I could completely understand where she was coming from, and

612
00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:09,400
Speaker 1: she's a mama bear. I mean, even with what I said,

613
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 1: she completely iced me out. And I probably would have

614
00:31:11,760 --> 00:31:13,640
Speaker 1: done the same thing to her if she would have

615
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 1: said whatever I said about Ocean, and with everything that

616
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:23,640
Speaker 1: she went through last year and the bots that were

617
00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 1: coming for her son, and then Erica drunkenly telling her

618
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:30,040
Speaker 1: son to go the fuck away. I don't know if

619
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 1: that's exactly what she said, but she used the F word.

620
00:31:32,840 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 1: Although they'd all deeply regret laughing about that, it's still

621
00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:40,840
Speaker 1: something where it's like, this is the one thing that

622
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:44,200
Speaker 1: like I can't bounce back from when you come for

623
00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:48,000
Speaker 1: my kid. I also understood where Durree was coming from

624
00:31:48,040 --> 00:31:50,959
Speaker 1: because as a mom, if I had someone say to

625
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:54,720
Speaker 1: me what you did hurt me when you laughed about

626
00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:58,400
Speaker 1: what happened to my child, I would be offended because

627
00:31:58,400 --> 00:32:00,120
Speaker 1: it's like, but I'm a mom, and I may have

628
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:02,200
Speaker 1: messed up, but I understand where you're coming from, and

629
00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 1: I want you to know that this is a safe space.

630
00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:08,160
Speaker 1: But like Garcela said, she was making it about her again.

631
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:11,760
Speaker 1: But I could understand. I could understand where both of

632
00:32:11,760 --> 00:32:15,600
Speaker 1: them were coming from as moms. Garcel's offended that you

633
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 1: came for her child or laughed about something not freaking cool,

634
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:21,239
Speaker 1: and I get it. But also as a mom, if

635
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:24,200
Speaker 1: someone said I don't trust talking about my kid to you,

636
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:26,400
Speaker 1: I'd be like, I'm so hurt by that.

637
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:28,800
Speaker 3: It's very hurtful. It's very hurtful.

638
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 2: I hear in that sense, though I saw I did think,

639
00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:35,320
Speaker 2: you know, dorit. It isn't about you right now, and

640
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:38,120
Speaker 2: I understand you're hurt, but to me, the tone was more.

641
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 2: She started coming at Garcel versus, Hey, I want to

642
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 2: let you know, I hear what you're saying, and I'm

643
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:44,840
Speaker 2: very hurt by that, and I have to process this

644
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:45,680
Speaker 2: in my own way.

645
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:49,040
Speaker 3: But then again it's like that's also boring TV.

646
00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 2: I know, it's like, you know, if she goes, I

647
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:56,120
Speaker 2: have to process this and then it's.

648
00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:58,600
Speaker 3: Like, all right, lame scene.

649
00:32:59,320 --> 00:33:05,320
Speaker 1: Okay, did you watch Miami? Yes? I die that. Todd,

650
00:33:05,440 --> 00:33:09,480
Speaker 1: Alexia's husband, did a nine minute apology to Anthony via

651
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:12,560
Speaker 1: social media.

652
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Speaker 3: How do you feel about Todd?

653
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 1: I like Todd.

654
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:16,720
Speaker 3: I think he's sweet.

655
00:33:16,960 --> 00:33:19,280
Speaker 1: I think he's so sweet. Yeah, and he's like cute

656
00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:22,880
Speaker 1: with with her kids. And I loved that moment last year,

657
00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:29,000
Speaker 1: even though it got heavy between Alexia her two children

658
00:33:29,040 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 1: talking about Frankie and Todd saying you don't help him.

659
00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 1: You guys, you know, treat him the way you would

660
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:39,920
Speaker 1: treat other people and we need to baby him. I

661
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:41,400
Speaker 1: like him.

662
00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 2: I think he just has a sweet soul. I don't know,

663
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 2: it's like a gentle soul or something.

664
00:33:46,680 --> 00:33:48,880
Speaker 1: And he didn't show up for the Kumbayad dinner.

665
00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 3: Well he was downstairs, right, he.

666
00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 1: Was, Yeah, but he didn't like come up to mingle

667
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 1: with the group because he didn't want to talk about

668
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:57,320
Speaker 1: the nine minute apology that he did via social media

669
00:33:58,000 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 1: to Anthony, I mean to me.

670
00:33:59,840 --> 00:34:03,440
Speaker 3: I go respect he said, I felt like I was.

671
00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:06,920
Speaker 2: There are people there that I however he phrased it,

672
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 2: I shouldn't have been up there, so I didn't come

673
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 2: up there. Did you think it was disrespectful that he

674
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 2: should have just swallowed whatever and like gone up there.

675
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:16,279
Speaker 1: For his wife? Ye?

676
00:34:16,400 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, you do?

677
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:20,680
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, she was devastated. Alexia was like sobbing on

678
00:34:20,760 --> 00:34:23,600
Speaker 1: the phone to Marisol that he wasn't gonna come. I know,

679
00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:24,480
Speaker 1: I know.

680
00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:25,279
Speaker 3: I know.

681
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:27,400
Speaker 2: It's hard though, because you, on one hand, you have

682
00:34:27,440 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 2: to know yourself what is worse him not showing, And

683
00:34:30,560 --> 00:34:32,840
Speaker 2: maybe it's him not showing or him going up and

684
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:36,600
Speaker 2: saying something or doing something or having this awkward tension that.

685
00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:40,960
Speaker 1: That Alexia has to explain later. See, I it's I

686
00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:43,480
Speaker 1: don't know what it's like to really have a partner

687
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:45,400
Speaker 1: come with me everywhere and then not show up to

688
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:47,960
Speaker 1: something that's important to me. Because for the most part,

689
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:51,600
Speaker 1: I have always gone places on my own, right, you know. Yeah,

690
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:53,799
Speaker 1: So I just I can only sit here and say

691
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 1: what would I want in that moment. I would want

692
00:34:56,080 --> 00:35:01,399
Speaker 1: you to sack up for five minutes, because in a way,

693
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:05,840
Speaker 1: I would rather explain to people why you said certain

694
00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:07,840
Speaker 1: things at the dinner than explain to people why you

695
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:11,799
Speaker 1: didn't show up. Okay, because I think it's deeper than that,

696
00:35:11,880 --> 00:35:14,960
Speaker 1: which Adriana pointed out in the last episode that Todd

697
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,560
Speaker 1: said you nailed it about.

698
00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:21,479
Speaker 2: The relationship, yeah, which is also like I love Todd,

699
00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:23,880
Speaker 2: but don't say that. It's if someone comes up to

700
00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:25,680
Speaker 2: you and it's like, what did she say trouble in

701
00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:28,239
Speaker 2: Paradise and he was like or something, and he was like,

702
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:29,120
Speaker 2: you nailed it.

703
00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:31,400
Speaker 3: It's like, don't say that. Don't say that to another

704
00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:32,360
Speaker 3: one of the women.

705
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:34,960
Speaker 1: Especially especially not Adriana.

706
00:35:35,080 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 2: No.

707
00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 1: Alexia has been beefing with for the longest. Remember last season, Alexia,

708
00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:42,719
Speaker 1: something happened to Adriana's foot and everyone was telling her

709
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:46,320
Speaker 1: to get over it. Yes, and she says to Alexia,

710
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:51,399
Speaker 1: but accidents have consequences. Look at Franky No Todd, out

711
00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:53,719
Speaker 1: of all the people to say it to her.

712
00:35:54,080 --> 00:35:58,960
Speaker 3: I know I know that's the one. Yeah, didn't like that.

713
00:35:59,400 --> 00:36:06,600
Speaker 1: How crazy That Next week's episode, Lars's having a homecoming

714
00:36:06,840 --> 00:36:09,520
Speaker 1: party for Marcus, who's been conference weekday.

715
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:14,160
Speaker 3: I want your take on Larson Marcus's relationship.

716
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:15,960
Speaker 1: I want it, I want it, I want it, I

717
00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:17,600
Speaker 1: want it, I want it all. I want to be

718
00:36:18,080 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 1: h Travis and Taylor, and I want to be Lars

719
00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 1: and Marcus. That's what I want.

720
00:36:22,360 --> 00:36:26,640
Speaker 2: Marcus is very good looking, he's very hot, and they're

721
00:36:26,800 --> 00:36:30,920
Speaker 2: very sweet together. I think they look like they have fun.

722
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:33,200
Speaker 2: They look like they have so much fun. They look

723
00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:35,319
Speaker 2: like they have great sex.

724
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:36,480
Speaker 3: The best done.

725
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:39,120
Speaker 1: And she's busting it wide open, like four times a night.

726
00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:45,600
Speaker 2: She said wait when she was talking about her previous relationship, right, yeah, yeah.

727
00:36:44,960 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 1: And I think it was Cardi b or someone or

728
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:51,200
Speaker 1: maybe Nicki Minaj that was like, so your vagina or something.

729
00:36:51,520 --> 00:36:54,239
Speaker 1: I know you're not. I could see her doing that though.

730
00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:56,040
Speaker 2: I could see her too, and guess what that was

731
00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:59,239
Speaker 2: whatever years ago with her previous relationship, her doing it.

732
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 2: Look at her in the gym with those squats, she

733
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 2: was killing it with all that weight.

734
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:05,160
Speaker 3: I'm like, damn, she's.

735
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:06,880
Speaker 1: Killing it in the bedroom and it's not like she

736
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:09,640
Speaker 1: said she was doing reverse cowgirl four times, and I

737
00:37:09,760 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 1: she could have been fully deadfish, starfish or free of

738
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:16,279
Speaker 1: those true, you know, true. All she said was she

739
00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:18,399
Speaker 1: was having sex, and that does not mean that you're

740
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:24,279
Speaker 1: getting buck wild. You could literally just lay there, right,

741
00:37:25,480 --> 00:37:29,480
Speaker 1: you sure can. It's also crazy to me how quickly

742
00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:33,440
Speaker 1: people move on to other relationships in what sense, like

743
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:37,320
Speaker 1: Lisa Lisa Hawkstein where she's and this is a common

744
00:37:37,360 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 1: thing where she's not even divorce yet and this could

745
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 1: take a while, right, I think she she did have

746
00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:46,440
Speaker 1: a small win in this last episode. But how you

747
00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:49,800
Speaker 1: can find someone and like not be scarred from.

748
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:51,680
Speaker 3: It, I hear you.

749
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:54,960
Speaker 2: I think that some people and I'm not saying this

750
00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 2: in Lisa's case, but just even in my friend's case,

751
00:37:58,719 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 2: it's like they just got out of a four year

752
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 2: relationship and a month later, you're in a new relationship

753
00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:07,040
Speaker 2: and you're some people And this was me, And I

754
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:09,919
Speaker 2: don't know if it's a codependent thing to truly get

755
00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:13,239
Speaker 2: over the last relationship. And it sounds bad saying because

756
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:16,359
Speaker 2: it's kind of usy, but in the moment, I didn't

757
00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:18,439
Speaker 2: think I was doing that, and I ended up having

758
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:21,439
Speaker 2: long relationships with these people, I had to date someone else.

759
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 2: I remember I got out of a two year relationship.

760
00:38:24,640 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 2: I was heartbroken, over heartbroken, I mean every night crying.

761
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:31,879
Speaker 2: A month later, I was crying every night for a month.

762
00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:34,319
Speaker 2: I meet a guy I'm interested in him, and then

763
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 2: I was over it and I was like, oh, this

764
00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 2: feels good by the way I was with that guy

765
00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:38,640
Speaker 2: for a year.

766
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 1: Wow.

767
00:38:39,080 --> 00:38:41,200
Speaker 2: So I don't know if it was a codependency thing,

768
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:43,799
Speaker 2: but I hear what you're saying. Some people need the

769
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:46,680
Speaker 2: time and space, and I think others kind of need

770
00:38:46,719 --> 00:38:47,320
Speaker 2: someone else.

771
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:50,880
Speaker 1: Can I tell you what I think? Yes, I agree

772
00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:53,560
Speaker 1: with you, But I think if I were still drinking,

773
00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:57,160
Speaker 1: I would one hundred percent be in another relationship already.

774
00:38:57,239 --> 00:39:00,839
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, why do you think that loosens you up?

775
00:39:01,160 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 3: Let's the walls down.

776
00:39:02,360 --> 00:39:06,719
Speaker 1: You put your walls down. You just are a little

777
00:39:06,840 --> 00:39:09,640
Speaker 1: less in your head. It's a social thing. So like

778
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:13,120
Speaker 1: you go out and you go to happy hour and

779
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:15,319
Speaker 1: have some drinks, and you're kind of on the same

780
00:39:15,320 --> 00:39:18,560
Speaker 1: playing field as everyone else where. Like, I just think

781
00:39:19,400 --> 00:39:22,239
Speaker 1: have had I not If I got out of my

782
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:27,960
Speaker 1: relationship and then was able to drink like a normal person,

783
00:39:28,719 --> 00:39:32,160
Speaker 1: I would have found somebody. I it may have been

784
00:39:32,200 --> 00:39:34,000
Speaker 1: a toxic somebody, it could have been a great somebody,

785
00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:37,080
Speaker 1: But I think I would be in a relationship.

786
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:39,960
Speaker 2: Because it opens you up more and it's very social.

787
00:39:40,040 --> 00:39:42,360
Speaker 2: It's a very social thing. Look at our world today,

788
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:45,399
Speaker 2: it's like, let's go grab a drink, right, it's rare

789
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 2: someone says let's go out in the evening and there

790
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:51,040
Speaker 2: isn't alcohol involved unless you're sober.

791
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:56,759
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, so yeah that's And I also like, for me,

792
00:39:57,080 --> 00:40:00,120
Speaker 1: I don't please, don't come for me, you guys, my

793
00:40:00,160 --> 00:40:02,239
Speaker 1: heart can't handle it. But I don't think that I

794
00:40:02,280 --> 00:40:06,600
Speaker 1: could be with someone who also struggles with addiction because

795
00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:09,920
Speaker 1: I feel very strong in my sobriety and I know

796
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 1: that when I'm having weak moments, I know what to do.

797
00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:14,319
Speaker 1: And I'm not saying that there won't be a day

798
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:16,839
Speaker 1: where I'm like, this is really freaking hard, but I

799
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:19,239
Speaker 1: believe that I have the tools and I don't want

800
00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:24,799
Speaker 1: to worry about someone else and their sobriety. That may

801
00:40:24,840 --> 00:40:28,239
Speaker 1: sound selfish, but I just me having a child, like

802
00:40:28,320 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 1: I can only worry about me, and I need to

803
00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:32,200
Speaker 1: know that you're a nor.

804
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:35,840
Speaker 2: Me rightfully, So I mean that's a lot to take on,

805
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:39,200
Speaker 2: and I'm sure people in those relationships good for you

806
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:39,880
Speaker 2: that can do it.

807
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:41,759
Speaker 3: But it's so great to know yourself like that.

808
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:44,359
Speaker 2: You know, yeah, you know yourself and you know what

809
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:47,480
Speaker 2: you can and can't have. That is like I always

810
00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:49,239
Speaker 2: tell people, that's why it's like, oh, you can't be

811
00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:51,799
Speaker 2: happy in a relationship until you're happy with yourself. I

812
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 2: feel like a big as cliches. That is a big

813
00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:57,240
Speaker 2: part of that is knowing yourself, what makes you happy,

814
00:40:57,440 --> 00:40:59,759
Speaker 2: what you'll stand for, what you want, and then you

815
00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:02,640
Speaker 2: can get in a healthy relationship.

816
00:41:02,160 --> 00:41:03,520
Speaker 3: Where you know that, which is great.

817
00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:07,040
Speaker 2: We'll see, we'll see. It's weird the funk that I'm

818
00:41:07,040 --> 00:41:09,920
Speaker 2: in today. Are you in a funk a little bit? Yeah,

819
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:12,280
Speaker 2: just kind of like eh, yeah.

820
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:14,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know what it is.

821
00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:15,400
Speaker 3: I bet you're exhausted.

822
00:41:15,719 --> 00:41:16,920
Speaker 1: Do you think that's what it might be?

823
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:20,399
Speaker 2: Why you've been going going, going, like literally going, and

824
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:24,040
Speaker 2: we our first break will be Hawaii.

825
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:25,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, that'll be really nice.

826
00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:29,440
Speaker 3: Yeah.

827
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:31,000
Speaker 1: Did you watch Southern Charm?

828
00:41:31,160 --> 00:41:31,600
Speaker 3: I did.

829
00:41:32,320 --> 00:41:34,520
Speaker 1: It's the best show on TV right now.

830
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:37,600
Speaker 2: I have to say last night was the first time

831
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:42,600
Speaker 2: I've ever watched Southern Charm, and I I almost.

832
00:41:42,360 --> 00:41:46,320
Speaker 3: Feel nervous saying this to your friends here.

833
00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:48,399
Speaker 1: But say it to my friends. We are a very

834
00:41:48,560 --> 00:41:53,080
Speaker 1: open minded group of people. It's a judgment free zone.

835
00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:55,680
Speaker 3: Is it didn't seem that wall?

836
00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:57,839
Speaker 1: There was that last video you know what though? Can

837
00:41:57,880 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 1: I tell you there was this girl She always slides

838
00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:03,560
Speaker 1: into the And the reason I know about her is

839
00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:06,600
Speaker 1: because Easton showed me something mean that she said about him,

840
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:10,200
Speaker 1: and she sent She wrote a comment in the Sandoval

841
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:13,759
Speaker 1: video and said, unfollow, I'm glad I can finally be

842
00:42:13,800 --> 00:42:15,919
Speaker 1: done listening to this podcast. And I was like, I've

843
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:19,759
Speaker 1: been wanting you gone for a minute, Like people like you,

844
00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:22,400
Speaker 1: I don't want listening, Like you ain't in alignment with me.

845
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:25,879
Speaker 1: Go listen to some other fucking podcast, because we are

846
00:42:26,000 --> 00:42:28,959
Speaker 1: way too good for you, bitch, like you don't even

847
00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:30,920
Speaker 1: deserve to have us up in your ears.

848
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:32,600
Speaker 3: Bye, goodbye.

849
00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:36,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, the real ones, the ones who listen and like

850
00:42:37,760 --> 00:42:40,120
Speaker 2: love it and vibe with us, those are the real ones.

851
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:42,279
Speaker 3: Thank you, real ones. And we met a lot of

852
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:42,880
Speaker 3: those Abravo.

853
00:42:42,880 --> 00:42:44,439
Speaker 1: Con Well, It's like, I feel bad for you. You're

854
00:42:44,480 --> 00:42:48,040
Speaker 1: constantly commenting mean things and you still tortured yourself with listening.

855
00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:50,160
Speaker 1: Ye And I had to give you a reason to stop,

856
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 1: Like you couldn't even come up with that on your own,

857
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:53,799
Speaker 1: being like, I just don't enjoy this. I think I'm

858
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 1: gonna listen to something else. Yeah, you continued to torture yourself.

859
00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 1: You're an idiot. You're an idiot.

860
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:06,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, but Southern charm was triggering for me.

861
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:07,440
Speaker 1: Okay, tell me everything.

862
00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:11,719
Speaker 2: I do not know these characters. I do not know

863
00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:14,719
Speaker 2: these people. I'm sure they're great. I was around a

864
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:17,160
Speaker 2: couple of them at Bravo con not didn't talk to them.

865
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:18,080
Speaker 3: They seemed great.

866
00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:20,800
Speaker 2: I think it was like Craig, and is it Craig

867
00:43:20,880 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 2: that's engaged to page?

868
00:43:23,680 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 1: Are they engaged? You guys are together, they've been on

869
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:28,240
Speaker 1: a long term relationships.

870
00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:29,919
Speaker 3: Age is one with the short brown hair.

871
00:43:30,360 --> 00:43:34,760
Speaker 2: She's hilarious, by the way, love her great, Oh great style.

872
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:36,680
Speaker 2: I gave her a follow and I was like, I mean,

873
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:39,680
Speaker 2: she's funny and style. But I lived in Nashville for

874
00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:40,200
Speaker 2: ten years.

875
00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:42,440
Speaker 3: I make this quick. Lived in Nashville for ten years.

876
00:43:42,480 --> 00:43:43,719
Speaker 3: I went to Belmont University.

877
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:46,640
Speaker 2: When I was in college, we went to a lot

878
00:43:46,680 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 2: of Vanderbilt University parties. There's something about the frat guys.

879
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:57,360
Speaker 2: Southern with that are always in the jackets, the button ups,

880
00:43:57,640 --> 00:44:03,120
Speaker 2: the Sperry's, the bonobos, Like, they were never very nice

881
00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:06,600
Speaker 2: to me. We never vibed, and they in like anytime

882
00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:08,400
Speaker 2: the girls and I would go to frat parties, they

883
00:44:08,440 --> 00:44:12,000
Speaker 2: were always douchey to me. And I'm I'm generalizing like crazy.

884
00:44:12,040 --> 00:44:15,120
Speaker 2: I'm sure there were amazing there's amazing frat guys. I

885
00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 2: nannied for a couple whose guy was in a frat

886
00:44:19,640 --> 00:44:21,440
Speaker 2: and he went to a nice school, and they were amazing.

887
00:44:22,080 --> 00:44:24,799
Speaker 2: But in general, a lot of the Southern frat guys

888
00:44:24,800 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 2: and I clashed all the time.

889
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 3: I thought they were douchey. They thought I was like

890
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:29,319
Speaker 3: kind of.

891
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:32,759
Speaker 2: Masculine and like I would make jokes and be sarcastic

892
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:35,040
Speaker 2: and they wouldn't get it, and then they were like,

893
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:35,920
Speaker 2: your friend's a bit.

894
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:37,960
Speaker 3: Like it was always like that.

895
00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:41,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, and my girlfriends, like more sorority girls always love them,

896
00:44:41,719 --> 00:44:43,719
Speaker 2: and I just clashed so that when I watched this,

897
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:46,200
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, those are the same guys, and

898
00:44:46,239 --> 00:44:48,120
Speaker 2: it was a little triggering for me, even though they're

899
00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 2: probably not.

900
00:44:49,440 --> 00:44:51,160
Speaker 3: Shep gave me a little of that vibe.

901
00:44:51,320 --> 00:44:53,440
Speaker 1: Mm okay, that makes sense.

902
00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:57,319
Speaker 2: Craig didn't, but it was like the fly fishing, the

903
00:44:57,400 --> 00:45:00,320
Speaker 2: even the outfits. This is so vain and like surface

904
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:02,440
Speaker 2: level of me. But I was just like sitting there

905
00:45:02,480 --> 00:45:04,560
Speaker 2: watching and it just took me back to those days.

906
00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:07,880
Speaker 2: I'm I'm gonna keep watching it because I think the

907
00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:10,760
Speaker 2: girls are sweet and but it was tough.

908
00:45:11,480 --> 00:45:14,880
Speaker 1: Wow. I love a parallel that you can draw to

909
00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:19,480
Speaker 1: why you were triggered, but you love it. So I'm obsessed. Okay, amazing,

910
00:45:19,560 --> 00:45:23,000
Speaker 1: and I think the boys are hysterical, and I just

911
00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:28,240
Speaker 1: I love Craig. But it was so funny because that Bravocon.

912
00:45:28,320 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 1: I talked about this today on Amazon Live. But it

913
00:45:30,239 --> 00:45:35,319
Speaker 1: was my row and then Taylor Armstrong from OC and

914
00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 1: then like Craig and Shep, and Taylor was disciplining them the.

915
00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:44,080
Speaker 3: Entire Bravos like turning around.

916
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:48,680
Speaker 1: Turning around, and she was giving DMZ outside of Craig's energy.

917
00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:53,200
Speaker 1: It was iconic. I was like, tay you good, and

918
00:45:53,239 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 1: she was like, I will tell you what, I'm about

919
00:45:57,120 --> 00:46:02,640
Speaker 1: to pull some Oklahoma on there as I could be there, Mother,

920
00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:07,880
Speaker 1: it is annoying. It was amazing, good for her. I

921
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 1: loved it. So then we're walking out and and Shep

922
00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:13,480
Speaker 1: seems a little down, and I was like, what's going on, dude,

923
00:46:13,680 --> 00:46:18,279
Speaker 1: and he goes Craig blamed it on me that I'm

924
00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:22,120
Speaker 1: the reason why they stopped serving drinks in the show,

925
00:46:23,040 --> 00:46:25,600
Speaker 1: like they cut us off? Were they was he? I

926
00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:29,160
Speaker 1: was like, no, they told us they were only gonna

927
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:31,799
Speaker 1: serve drinks every other break. Because he told me that

928
00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:33,920
Speaker 1: he was only served I think two or three drinks

929
00:46:33,960 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 1: and there it was every other break. I was like, no,

930
00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:40,320
Speaker 1: they were just done serving drinks. It was the last break,

931
00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:42,560
Speaker 1: no drink. Yeah, and now the show's over. Yeah, that's

932
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:46,640
Speaker 1: why he was very defeated by that comment.

933
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:47,560
Speaker 3: Is he so tall?

934
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:54,560
Speaker 1: Where the charm boys are massive, really huge? And I've

935
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:56,799
Speaker 1: been around them before and I'm like, did y'all get

936
00:46:56,840 --> 00:47:00,799
Speaker 1: those shots where you grow like a or two more

937
00:47:01,160 --> 00:47:03,080
Speaker 1: because you're ginormous.

938
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:04,560
Speaker 3: Chef looks very tall.

939
00:47:04,640 --> 00:47:09,800
Speaker 1: I'm talking like six' five six six, wow, Huge, wow

940
00:47:09,920 --> 00:47:11,080
Speaker 1: it's very. Hot i'm.

941
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:13,399
Speaker 2: SURE i was gonna, Say i'm sure they're very. Nice

942
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:15,839
Speaker 2: i'm sure they're very. NICE i just have and it's

943
00:47:15,840 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 2: probably SOMETHING i have to work. ON i just have

944
00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:21,439
Speaker 2: a thing for those freddy. Guys that a bad.

945
00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:24,320
Speaker 1: Thing, well we'll just both talk about it in. Therapy

946
00:47:25,600 --> 00:47:27,840
Speaker 1: we've all got our. Triggers. Perfect.

947
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 2: Perfect what About Olivia taylor? Talking Olivia taylor talking when, okay.

948
00:47:34,320 --> 00:47:37,240
Speaker 1: So outside of, that She olivia comes up To taylor's

949
00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 1: cabin or whatever her parents'. House, yes and the mom

950
00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:45,000
Speaker 1: comes out again trigger trigger not, me you.

951
00:47:44,680 --> 00:47:48,440
Speaker 2: Me olivia's showing, up you. Guys the sweetest, Thing, Olivia

952
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:50,960
Speaker 2: i'm friends with the.

953
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:51,759
Speaker 3: Parents so.

954
00:47:51,920 --> 00:47:55,960
Speaker 2: Sweet BUT i had, an you, know experience in The

955
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:56,840
Speaker 2: south Where.

956
00:47:58,239 --> 00:48:00,000
Speaker 3: God loving And christian.

957
00:48:00,200 --> 00:48:03,440
Speaker 2: Energy christianity was very, showy so it was always, like,

958
00:48:04,120 --> 00:48:05,759
Speaker 2: oh you, know bless.

959
00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:08,479
Speaker 3: Your heart and Like god is with. You she Needs,

960
00:48:08,600 --> 00:48:11,799
Speaker 3: Jesus and then they'd be talking. Shit they'd be like.

961
00:48:11,760 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 2: This you, know this little and say the most horrific

962
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:17,000
Speaker 2: things and then be like she just Needs, jesus and it's, like,

963
00:48:17,080 --> 00:48:21,120
Speaker 2: honey you Need. Jesus you need to go to, confession my,

964
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:25,759
Speaker 2: friend because you're being. Mean but it was like so

965
00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:29,840
Speaker 2: then when there's like even just the mom being, LIKE i,

966
00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 2: Mean god is. Good look at this beautiful land and

967
00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 2: this beautiful, house and it's like, right but also like

968
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:38,000
Speaker 2: your jobs are good, too to get That god is.

969
00:48:38,040 --> 00:48:43,720
Speaker 1: Good also like my brother just, Died like it's really

970
00:48:43,719 --> 00:48:45,440
Speaker 1: hard for me to look at the scenery right now.

971
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:46,840
Speaker 1: Exactly god is.

972
00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:49,520
Speaker 3: Good god is. Good it's, like, yeah, Yes god is.

973
00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:52,759
Speaker 2: Good but it's also, LIKE i don't, know there's just

974
00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 2: little things in the prayer, outside please be just like

975
00:48:55,760 --> 00:48:55,960
Speaker 2: AND i.

976
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:57,719
Speaker 1: Don't, know it's it burned you.

977
00:48:57,760 --> 00:48:59,239
Speaker 3: Off it's off putting to.

978
00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:02,120
Speaker 2: ME I i need to appreciate it. More i'm just

979
00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:04,960
Speaker 2: that's a. Trauma But i'm not. Trauma But i'm just

980
00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:07,799
Speaker 2: a bit triggered because of my. Experience how did you?

981
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:10,000
Speaker 2: Feel because that's WHAT i want to know about their.

982
00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:15,320
Speaker 1: CONVERSATION i loved the, prayer, okay sweet big on. Prayer

983
00:49:15,760 --> 00:49:18,799
Speaker 1: AND i just feel Like taylor's. FAMILY i feel like

984
00:49:18,920 --> 00:49:22,120
Speaker 1: They're god fearing. PEOPLE i don't see them talking shit about.

985
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:26,880
Speaker 1: PEOPLE i think that they are that their faith is. Everything, Okay,

986
00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:31,359
Speaker 1: TAYLOR i think is a little. Lost she's a lost

987
00:49:31,440 --> 00:49:34,920
Speaker 1: little soul sending nudies to people and making out with her,

988
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:38,799
Speaker 1: friend her best friend's. Ex, MAN i understand Why olivia is,

989
00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:40,600
Speaker 1: like you know, WHAT i just don't trust. You AND

990
00:49:40,680 --> 00:49:42,840
Speaker 1: i love that she was upfront and honest about. It

991
00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:44,879
Speaker 1: i'm not going to play. PRETEND i don't even feel

992
00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:47,240
Speaker 1: comfortable enough staying, Here i'm going to go To. Shep's

993
00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:50,360
Speaker 1: taylor shows, up she, likes SO i left your house

994
00:49:50,480 --> 00:49:52,759
Speaker 1: to just be with you at another. House what the?

995
00:49:52,800 --> 00:49:57,280
Speaker 1: Hell felt so horrible For. Olivia Then, rod who snores,

996
00:49:57,600 --> 00:49:59,920
Speaker 1: heavily sits her, down, SAYS i want to be EXCLU

997
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:03,719
Speaker 1: i maybe he's awkward on. CAMERA i don't. Know there

998
00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:07,319
Speaker 1: is zero chemistry. There and if you close your, eyes

999
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:11,560
Speaker 1: he sounds just Like Austin. Krohl i'm, like you guys

1000
00:50:11,640 --> 00:50:17,080
Speaker 1: sound like the exact same. Person don't they just her ex?

1001
00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:18,160
Speaker 1: Boyfriend the?

1002
00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:22,360
Speaker 2: Blog, yeah With, Taylor, okay he it was the car

1003
00:50:22,440 --> 00:50:23,239
Speaker 2: and LOOK i get.

1004
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:25,920
Speaker 3: It it's like they're feeding into us as the.

1005
00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:27,759
Speaker 2: Audience but the car ride where it was just like,

1006
00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:29,919
Speaker 2: silent it was so awkward AND i.

1007
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 3: Was, like, oh tensing. Up They i'm. Glad she, said,

1008
00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:37,719
Speaker 3: well that's not What i'm looking for right.

1009
00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:42,680
Speaker 2: NOW i Think taylor is a little, lost BUT i also,

1010
00:50:42,800 --> 00:50:43,759
Speaker 2: THINK i, Mean i've been.

1011
00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:45,320
Speaker 3: There it's LIKE i also.

1012
00:50:45,040 --> 00:50:48,560
Speaker 2: Think she's just like trying To it's SO i haven't been.

1013
00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:53,239
Speaker 2: There i've never never made out with a friend's. Man

1014
00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:55,680
Speaker 2: i've had that happen to, me which is Why i've

1015
00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:56,080
Speaker 2: never done.

1016
00:50:56,120 --> 00:50:56,680
Speaker 1: It but.

1017
00:50:58,560 --> 00:51:02,600
Speaker 3: She was so fed up at the end of.

1018
00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:04,440
Speaker 2: The night that my heart started to break a little

1019
00:51:04,680 --> 00:51:05,800
Speaker 2: when she did the wine.

1020
00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:10,840
Speaker 1: Thing i'm, sorry but that was freaking. Funny oh What

1021
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:15,799
Speaker 1: chap losing his mind over the ping pong game and

1022
00:51:15,840 --> 00:51:19,000
Speaker 1: then be like do you enjoy making fun of? Me

1023
00:51:19,160 --> 00:51:20,840
Speaker 1: and her being, like do you enjoy cheating on? Me

1024
00:51:20,920 --> 00:51:25,880
Speaker 1: he goes sometimes it was? Fun now you ask wrong

1025
00:51:26,120 --> 00:51:28,759
Speaker 1: thing to, say literally.

1026
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:35,279
Speaker 2: Triggered because HE i used to fucking see that all the.

1027
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:37,920
Speaker 2: Time your fucking football team, loss and now you're being

1028
00:51:37,960 --> 00:51:40,560
Speaker 2: a little bitch to me at your frat party because

1029
00:51:40,600 --> 00:51:41,839
Speaker 2: your football team.

1030
00:51:41,880 --> 00:51:44,120
Speaker 3: Loss oh, oh like.

1031
00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 1: Hells the owner.

1032
00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:52,120
Speaker 3: Literally he had a what ping? Pong he lost a ping?

1033
00:51:52,160 --> 00:51:54,200
Speaker 2: Pong and then he's gonna pitch around and cry and be,

1034
00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:55,319
Speaker 2: like you're making fun of.

1035
00:51:55,360 --> 00:51:57,640
Speaker 3: Me it's, like IF i were, HER i would have

1036
00:51:57,800 --> 00:52:00,440
Speaker 3: laughed in his face and been, like a you're a,

1037
00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:02,759
Speaker 3: Weirdo you're a. Baby i'm.

1038
00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:05,080
Speaker 1: SAME i wouldn't have said, like do you enjoyed cheating on?

1039
00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:06,480
Speaker 1: ME i what does that have to do with the

1040
00:52:06,520 --> 00:52:09,799
Speaker 1: ping pong? Game and then his reaction to that was,

1041
00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:13,200
Speaker 1: LIKE i think the winner here is Shep chef won

1042
00:52:13,239 --> 00:52:14,040
Speaker 1: the game and.

1043
00:52:14,000 --> 00:52:15,799
Speaker 3: Then she grows in bed with him that?

1044
00:52:16,000 --> 00:52:21,919
Speaker 2: Night another, another another fucking trigger is these a lot

1045
00:52:21,920 --> 00:52:24,759
Speaker 2: Of southern women friends of. Mine it was, like and,

1046
00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:27,120
Speaker 2: THIS i Love southern, women but it was, like the

1047
00:52:27,160 --> 00:52:30,600
Speaker 2: man can be so rude and mean to you and

1048
00:52:30,680 --> 00:52:32,799
Speaker 2: call you, names and then you're, like you make this

1049
00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:35,000
Speaker 2: big scene and then an hour later you're, like.

1050
00:52:35,080 --> 00:52:37,319
Speaker 3: Sweetie move, Over i'm getting in bed with. You it's,

1051
00:52:37,360 --> 00:52:38,200
Speaker 3: like what are you?

1052
00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:42,720
Speaker 1: Doing what are you? Doing call? Someone call her. Mama

1053
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:46,319
Speaker 1: she needs some, prayer needs to, well, yeah and tell

1054
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:49,120
Speaker 1: her to add me to the prayer list Because i'm

1055
00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:49,719
Speaker 1: in need of some.

1056
00:52:49,840 --> 00:52:53,040
Speaker 3: TOO i do like, OVERALL i love her parents, though so.

1057
00:52:53,120 --> 00:52:56,800
Speaker 2: Sweet her parents are Darling and WHAT i said earlier

1058
00:52:57,400 --> 00:52:58,840
Speaker 2: does not reflect WHO i am as a.

1059
00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:03,320
Speaker 1: Human you're, asshole just, kidding all, right it's my favorite

1060
00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:06,160
Speaker 1: time of the. Pod, UGH i Missed east in this.

1061
00:53:06,280 --> 00:53:09,960
Speaker 2: Episode i'm actually very sad that he is not in.

1062
00:53:10,000 --> 00:53:12,480
Speaker 1: Here, yeah but it's even sadder that my, dog that

1063
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:13,560
Speaker 1: my mom's dog may.

1064
00:53:13,640 --> 00:53:16,359
Speaker 2: Die, No I'M i can't even think about that because

1065
00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:17,400
Speaker 2: that's truly.

1066
00:53:17,120 --> 00:53:17,960
Speaker 3: Heartbreaking it's.

1067
00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:20,319
Speaker 1: Devastating i'm trying not to think about it Or i'll

1068
00:53:20,400 --> 00:53:23,600
Speaker 1: lose my. Mind so CAN i tell you WHAT i

1069
00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:26,400
Speaker 1: think is also tripping me out THAT i think is

1070
00:53:26,440 --> 00:53:28,920
Speaker 1: going to be my ache of the. Week, yes the

1071
00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:32,719
Speaker 1: holidays are coming. Up at, first it was like you

1072
00:53:32,800 --> 00:53:34,839
Speaker 1: just buy for the, friends, right and then you get

1073
00:53:34,880 --> 00:53:36,400
Speaker 1: older and you're, like we don't need to buy, anymore

1074
00:53:36,480 --> 00:53:38,440
Speaker 1: let's just do a. Dinner but now we all have, kids,

1075
00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:42,040
Speaker 1: Right SO i have a laundry list of. CHILDREN i have,

1076
00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:44,600
Speaker 1: Summer i've Got, Cruise i've got my own, Baby i've

1077
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:48,279
Speaker 1: Got hartford And messer right to buy. Four And i'm,

1078
00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:52,560
Speaker 1: like this is also stressing me out so naturally BECAUSE

1079
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:57,400
Speaker 1: i also want to save. Money have you dealt with

1080
00:53:57,520 --> 00:53:58,400
Speaker 1: racket in the? App?

1081
00:53:58,560 --> 00:54:01,160
Speaker 3: No I'M i literally opened it Because i'm.

1082
00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:04,400
Speaker 1: Obsessed, Okay SO i Told jessica to download this. App,

1083
00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:07,719
Speaker 1: Yeah i've talked to you guys about it before it

1084
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:11,840
Speaker 1: comes in handy in moments like this because my ache,

1085
00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:15,480
Speaker 1: is oh my, Hell i'm so stressed about buying, gifts

1086
00:54:15,719 --> 00:54:17,920
Speaker 1: get into your app right. Now this is my, relief, Right,

1087
00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:22,640
Speaker 1: Yes so not only CAN i shop for all these many,

1088
00:54:22,719 --> 00:54:26,360
Speaker 1: CHILDREN i am also going to get cash back on

1089
00:54:26,440 --> 00:54:29,719
Speaker 1: all my, stuff all, RIGHT i can Shop disney Blooming

1090
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:34,080
Speaker 1: dale's for my. Friends, right look at These, Nikes, NO i,

1091
00:54:34,200 --> 00:54:37,479
Speaker 1: see do see The? Nikes Nikes Air.

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00:54:37,560 --> 00:54:40,279
Speaker 2: Jordan's And i'm, also by the, way because you know,

1093
00:54:40,360 --> 00:54:41,719
Speaker 2: Me i'm so difficult with.

1094
00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:46,600
Speaker 3: Gifts i'm just scrolling through the Freaking Disney monsters ink

1095
00:54:46,680 --> 00:54:48,319
Speaker 3: stuff For, ocean which is, like.

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00:54:48,320 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 1: NO i, Know i'm getting. It and THEN i, think,

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00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:54,480
Speaker 1: like these really cute BECAUSE i want summer In ocean

1098
00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:57,560
Speaker 1: to have matching. Shoes uh, Huh so these cute little

1099
00:54:57,680 --> 00:54:59,479
Speaker 1: pink Air force, Ones oh.

1100
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:02,960
Speaker 3: My, god for summer In hartford And.

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00:55:03,120 --> 00:55:05,600
Speaker 1: Ocean don't you think they'd be so? Cute, no these are,

1102
00:55:05,640 --> 00:55:08,440
Speaker 1: ADORABLE i, know so. Cute and then don't even get me,

1103
00:55:08,480 --> 00:55:11,319
Speaker 1: started BECAUSE i Think i'm gonna go like ham on

1104
00:55:11,440 --> 00:55:13,960
Speaker 1: myself At. Bloomingdale's oh my, god, WAIT i.

1105
00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:17,720
Speaker 2: Just found pet smart on racketin which Means i'm Getting.

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00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:22,480
Speaker 1: Lily lily's gonna need a lot of Gifts, ocean Or

1107
00:55:23,719 --> 00:55:25,360
Speaker 1: lily's gonna need a lot of gifts because she just

1108
00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:25,919
Speaker 1: lost her best.

1109
00:55:25,960 --> 00:55:30,000
Speaker 2: Friend, Yeah i'm gonna get. Her i'm gonna get her,

1110
00:55:30,080 --> 00:55:31,160
Speaker 2: something some special.

1111
00:55:31,200 --> 00:55:34,319
Speaker 1: Things OH i see some stuff for? You oh my,

1112
00:55:34,360 --> 00:55:38,040
Speaker 1: god all, Right i'm feeling much better about. THIS i

1113
00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:40,920
Speaker 1: was starting to freak. Out you, GUYS i know that

1114
00:55:40,960 --> 00:55:43,839
Speaker 1: the holidays are coming. Up if you're tweaking out LIKE i,

1115
00:55:43,880 --> 00:55:45,839
Speaker 1: am feeling like you need to get all of these

1116
00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:49,400
Speaker 1: gifts and it gets so. Expensive if you download the racketin,

1117
00:55:49,520 --> 00:55:52,720
Speaker 1: APP i promise there are so many stores to shop

1118
00:55:52,760 --> 00:55:56,719
Speaker 1: from on, there and you also get cash. Back that's

1119
00:55:56,760 --> 00:56:00,760
Speaker 1: the Way i'm gonna be shopping because it just feels

1120
00:56:00,760 --> 00:56:03,000
Speaker 1: like it makes the most. Sense i've got too many

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00:56:03,000 --> 00:56:05,440
Speaker 1: people to buy. FOR i feel LIKE i want to

1122
00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:08,200
Speaker 1: ball on a. Budget that's What i'm. Doing so that's

1123
00:56:08,280 --> 00:56:11,799
Speaker 1: my ache and, Relief, okay because that's pushing me over THE.

1124
00:56:11,960 --> 00:56:14,960
Speaker 1: EGGE i hear, You, yeah what's your ache and?

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00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:17,800
Speaker 2: Relief so my ache this week IS i feel like

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00:56:17,840 --> 00:56:20,319
Speaker 2: it's kind of a, relief But i'm going to say

1127
00:56:20,320 --> 00:56:22,560
Speaker 2: it as an ache. Anyway we have such a busy. Week,

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00:56:22,880 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 2: Yes i'm gonna say my ache and relief is. One

1129
00:56:25,040 --> 00:56:28,200
Speaker 2: we have such a busy week, ahead Which i'm so excited,

1130
00:56:28,200 --> 00:56:31,120
Speaker 2: about AND i feel like people will learn about it

1131
00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:34,319
Speaker 2: down the. Road my, ACHE i guess it's not really

1132
00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:37,600
Speaker 2: an egge because it's just busy WHICH i, love and

1133
00:56:37,640 --> 00:56:38,400
Speaker 2: we've Got.

1134
00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:40,279
Speaker 1: Your ache is that we're not going to be able

1135
00:56:40,320 --> 00:56:42,719
Speaker 1: to breathe this. Week, yes, yeah we've got a huge.

1136
00:56:42,719 --> 00:56:45,359
Speaker 3: Week we've got a big. Week but my relief can

1137
00:56:45,400 --> 00:56:47,040
Speaker 3: be that we Have hawaii coming.

1138
00:56:47,120 --> 00:56:48,600
Speaker 1: UP i love.

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00:56:48,640 --> 00:56:49,520
Speaker 3: It, yes that is.

1140
00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:53,120
Speaker 1: Epic, Yeah i'm going to add. That my ache is

1141
00:56:53,160 --> 00:56:54,960
Speaker 1: That easton did not get to join, us But i'm

1142
00:56:55,280 --> 00:56:59,319
Speaker 1: so thrilled that he took over taking care Of. Ocean you,

1143
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:03,080
Speaker 1: GUYS i love you so. MUCH i hope that this

1144
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:06,160
Speaker 1: podcast was not too intense at the very. BEGINNING i

1145
00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:08,760
Speaker 1: think it'll be fun to watch so On. Friday remember

1146
00:57:09,320 --> 00:57:11,880
Speaker 1: audio comes Out, wednesday which is what you're listening to right.

1147
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:14,880
Speaker 1: Now the video will be up On friday on YouTube

1148
00:57:14,920 --> 00:57:17,920
Speaker 1: at nine Am pacific. TIME i love you guys so.

1149
00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:21,000
Speaker 1: Much have the, happiest Happiest, humpday AND i will catch

1150
00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:22,000
Speaker 1: you all next. Week