WEBVTT - For The Love Of Tambam

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<v Speaker 1>Hoping and we talk back where we encourage you to

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<v Speaker 1>hustle hard, laugh, ladder, and always keep it cute. So

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<v Speaker 1>grab your coffee, cocktail and crown because it's about to

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<v Speaker 1>go down. Talk talk.

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<v Speaker 2>We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion to

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<v Speaker 2>talk back.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, y'all, is your girl a J holiday? What's up? Team?

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<v Speaker 3>Damn?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey y'all, I love y'all. I love you too. AJ.

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<v Speaker 2>This is love week, This is Valentine's Day.

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<v Speaker 1>Love y'all. We had a really really lit show this week.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyway, I might fuck around and get me so dick

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<v Speaker 3>in five twenty four was real slow.

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<v Speaker 1>How was the weekend? Did you watch the super Ball?

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<v Speaker 2>I did? I had so much fun watching it. I

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<v Speaker 2>watched it by myself. But let me tell you what

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<v Speaker 2>I did. One of your favorite people from the Breakfast

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<v Speaker 2>club came by here and was like, oh, I got edibles.

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<v Speaker 2>You can take one. It just makes you calm, It

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<v Speaker 2>just mellows you out. I was like, girl, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>like edibles because you just never on high. You just

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<v Speaker 2>hide too long. She was like, girl, this ain't gonna

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<v Speaker 2>do that. I took that, but if you could not

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<v Speaker 2>tell me, I was not on the field with kitchen lamar.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing with edibles is that you just don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what the real dosage is, Like you really don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how much whatever whatever it is, if it's a shroom,

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<v Speaker 1>some shrooms or teach see, like, you don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>much is in a fucking like how much do I

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<v Speaker 1>take of this? The whole one half of it a piece?

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<v Speaker 1>So you gotta micro everything, girl.

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<v Speaker 2>I was it was coming in waves, and you know

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<v Speaker 2>how I forgot. I took it and I was in

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<v Speaker 2>here and it was just like halftime was about to start,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, what is that up right now?

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<v Speaker 2>And I did not fall asleep till like four in

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<v Speaker 2>the morning. I was up all night. I called every

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<v Speaker 2>nigga I ever knew in life my FaceTime, all of

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<v Speaker 2>what you're doing, bitch, I'm watching the Super Bowl?

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<v Speaker 1>What are you doing on the phone calling people?

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, it's boring, it's boring, you're losing. What

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<v Speaker 2>are you watching for? Still like talk to me, stupid.

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<v Speaker 1>We actually went to a Super Bowl party my my

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<v Speaker 1>guy and one of his childhood friends had like a

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<v Speaker 1>really nice setup outside crab legs oysters. I did bring

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<v Speaker 1>a plate. Also, these little low appetizer little things I'd

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<v Speaker 1>be making out of King Hawaiian rolls. But it was good.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a hit, yes, and she was lit. So now

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<v Speaker 1>y'all know my ravens did not go to the Super Bowl, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but I definitely was rooting for the Eagles, and I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of already knew they was going to win. Something

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<v Speaker 1>about the ego and the mayor and the place we're

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<v Speaker 1>at right now, you know what I'm saying. I just

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<v Speaker 1>knew because all this shit is scripted as far as

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<v Speaker 1>I'm concerned, especially sports. I don't know if the script

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<v Speaker 1>had in it for Patrick Mahomes to lose this fucking

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<v Speaker 1>bad but I kind of expected it nonetheless. But it

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<v Speaker 1>was lit. Man. I did have a shroom me yesterday

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<v Speaker 1>as well. I had alcohol. I was actually doing too

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<v Speaker 1>fucking much yesterday and I could not go to sleep

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<v Speaker 1>last night. I woke this nigga up like hey, like

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<v Speaker 1>a baby, like I can't go to sleep. That wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>the best, so antsy like a crackheabitch from yes, because

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<v Speaker 1>I guess because I took it too. Usually when I

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<v Speaker 1>take shrooms, it's either like really early or like in

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<v Speaker 1>the evening, like where I still have time to like

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<v Speaker 1>settle down. But I don't know why I was feeling

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<v Speaker 1>so anxious, and then I I don't know. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know what type of Shuman was, just pop and

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<v Speaker 1>shit because people got it. That's what you shouldn't do.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody shouldn't be able to just put anything on your.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what.

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<v Speaker 2>We both did that last night. Because I don't take edibles.

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<v Speaker 2>I just was like, oh, I'll take it. I'm in

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<v Speaker 2>here by myself. I'm chilling watching the super Bowl. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was going to go to a party, but I'm

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<v Speaker 2>glad I didn't because I would have been paranoid.

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<v Speaker 1>Out there, tripping out and.

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<v Speaker 2>It's it's now here, right exactly, tripping out looking stupid.

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<v Speaker 2>It's no here, and I'm not a snow girl. I

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<v Speaker 2>realized I'm not built for me, So like when it

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<v Speaker 2>was time to go out, because I agreed to go

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<v Speaker 2>to a party, and then once it got time to go,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I'm gonna order me a little small

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<v Speaker 2>pizza to come here and be okay with that. But

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<v Speaker 2>I did enjoy the suit. I mean, we knew that

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<v Speaker 2>Philly was going. You could feel it. You could feel

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<v Speaker 2>it before it came that they they had the momentum,

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<v Speaker 2>they had the energy for it, you know, and I'm

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<v Speaker 2>happy for them, you know so, But it was not

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<v Speaker 2>a good game, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it was.

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<v Speaker 2>Typically super Bowl is a formidable opponent. It's good to

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<v Speaker 2>the end and they scratch tooth and nail, fight tooth

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<v Speaker 2>and nail to win at the end. But this was like,

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<v Speaker 2>y'all at least put some points on the board. So

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<v Speaker 2>y'all not blown out completely. Don't embarrass your coach at

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<v Speaker 2>this point, you know so, But yeah, Kendricks, I love

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<v Speaker 2>kendricks performance. I thought it was good. I enjoyed myself,

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<v Speaker 2>but I was on drugs, so I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>it was that or if it was really that good.

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<v Speaker 2>But I really had a great time. It was very black.

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<v Speaker 2>It wasn't a it was just a black. It was

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<v Speaker 2>a apparently it was a d I halftime show. Y'all

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<v Speaker 2>out exactly well, very very very I.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, litten. So I don't know what's gonna happen with

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<v Speaker 1>Wish your boy Tom Brady, because Tom Brady actually called it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I think that he was on this what

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<v Speaker 1>is he? Where does he host? Tom Brady is on

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<v Speaker 1>one of the like the sports commentary shows, and he

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<v Speaker 1>was saying basically, how basically the referees we have been

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<v Speaker 1>winning the games for the Chiefs for a long time,

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<v Speaker 1>like calling fucked up plays on the other team and

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<v Speaker 1>stuff like that. So we didn't see that last night.

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<v Speaker 1>They had a lot of things called on on the Chiefs.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know if somebody pulled a rug somewhere.

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<v Speaker 1>And this is coming from a cheater, okay, because we

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<v Speaker 1>know that Tom Brady was flattening footballs and all types

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<v Speaker 1>of shit. Yeah, he had going on. So even if.

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<v Speaker 2>The refs, what did the cheat y'all got to catch

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<v Speaker 2>the ball or what mother God may help us out,

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<v Speaker 2>help the ref at all.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's just get in the stupid internet.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you see the guy who ran out on the field.

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<v Speaker 2>He had a gaza, he he ran more yards.

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<v Speaker 5>Than the cheap.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't see it during the show, but I saw

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<v Speaker 1>like the after like people posting about it. Right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that's something Kendrick Lamar probably actually orchestrated

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<v Speaker 1>the part of the show. Yeah, I feel like it,

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<v Speaker 1>because I mean, I don't think people are publicly standing

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<v Speaker 1>with Palestine enough. A lot of people are scared to

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, because it's like, Israel is

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<v Speaker 1>our daddy as far as concern shit, ley'all, don't come

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<v Speaker 1>for us. I know Riverside is owned by your niggas,

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<v Speaker 1>but please don't come for us. But I am always

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be against the annihilation of any people like we

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<v Speaker 1>experienced that as black people in America.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you see in the audience? Uh it lit up

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<v Speaker 2>and said warning wrong wrong way. No, it was a flat.

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<v Speaker 2>It happened real fast, if you want.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw the game over at the end.

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<v Speaker 2>That's all the same things, the same thing, but it

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<v Speaker 2>was during the show it said warning wrong way.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting, I'm gonna have to there's a.

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<v Speaker 2>Lot of subliminal and I usually.

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<v Speaker 1>Watch for that. You know, I was on the shroom,

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<v Speaker 1>so my head was down half the time. I was

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<v Speaker 1>missing little pieces of stuff and I usually.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't watch for that, but I was unedible. So he

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<v Speaker 2>was zooming in right goodness? Is that our first then?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's why I was like, let's get into super

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<v Speaker 1>internite news so we could talk about Kendrick go Mar's performance,

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<v Speaker 1>which was not stupid internet news. But you know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a segment where we talk about the happenings around the world,

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<v Speaker 1>so I personally give my own take. I did enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>the performance. I do wish I heard some more of

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<v Speaker 1>the other popular songs, what I mean, But he has

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<v Speaker 1>newer album, has a newer album now, so you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to give that a little bit more exposure. And

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<v Speaker 1>people are saying like, oh, he shouldn't have given so

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<v Speaker 1>much like energy to the whole Drake shit. But the

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<v Speaker 1>song they not like Us means to me write more

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<v Speaker 1>than a Drake beef I'm saying. I feel like it

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<v Speaker 1>speaks to a lot more, just like you know, for

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<v Speaker 1>Black Americans period. You know what I'm saying. These people

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<v Speaker 1>ain't like us, but they be borron from our culture

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. Right, But when it actually comes time

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<v Speaker 1>for y'all to stand up for black people, y'all be

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<v Speaker 1>mia right.

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<v Speaker 2>It's you know what, Listen. I still love Drake. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't care what nobody say. I still love Drake. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't turn my back on people I love just because

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<v Speaker 2>the world don't fuck with him like that. No more.

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<v Speaker 2>I still love Drake. I feel so bad for him.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel so I mean, I understand, you know, he

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<v Speaker 2>brought a lot of this on himself, and I get that,

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<v Speaker 2>so I can't, like, I can't say Drake is absolutely

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<v Speaker 2>right and everybody else is wrong. You know, No, I

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<v Speaker 2>can't sit here and say that I don't understand how

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<v Speaker 2>this came about, you know, I do.

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<v Speaker 1>It's definitely some back off of shit we don't know, right,

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<v Speaker 1>some grimy shit he had to have been doing to

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of people.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, because Carla, is you getting my nigga? But Drake

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<v Speaker 2>so slim now, he looked like he'd been taking those zimpics.

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<v Speaker 2>He's so slim and like he on his Australian tour,

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<v Speaker 2>And I just I felt really bad because I just

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<v Speaker 2>try to put myself in people's shoes all the time

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<v Speaker 2>before I condemn them. And I try to imagine. Could

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<v Speaker 2>you imagine the super Bowl, the.

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<v Speaker 1>Most televised.

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<v Speaker 2>In the United States, Yes, and it's a dis song

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<v Speaker 2>for AJ.

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<v Speaker 1>Like our a.

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<v Speaker 2>Tam TAM's fat, No TAM's fan no case. Everybody's singing that.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, I don't know how I would be

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<v Speaker 2>able to. You got to be a strong individual to

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<v Speaker 2>like it's.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of That's why I don't even like big

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<v Speaker 1>events like that anyway, Like to actually be in attendance

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<v Speaker 1>because it's the energy of the people that's making shit happen.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody's saying this thing. So he really like he used

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<v Speaker 1>the energy to people to demolish that Nigga's career for sure. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I just he.

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<v Speaker 2>Was the most stream person in twenty twenty five so far.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, he gave us fifteen summers of good music.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't deny what he has done for hip hop.

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<v Speaker 2>You know in the culture, everybody loved drinking Toil last year.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I introduced Drake to a whole office of

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<v Speaker 1>people for sure when he first came out, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>was bumping Drake that his mixtape. Yeah, like I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I put a lot of people on the Drake. So

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<v Speaker 1>I've been listening to Drake for a long time. But

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<v Speaker 1>I also have always known and said, what Tammy, He's a.

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<v Speaker 2>White man that infiltrated hip hop.

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<v Speaker 1>That's who Drake is. He studied hip hop like a

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<v Speaker 1>college course. You know what I'm saying, And this is

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm This is why I feel like they not

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<v Speaker 1>like us is bigger than the Kendrick Lamar and Drake

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<v Speaker 1>beef because these people come in and they study us

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<v Speaker 1>and even like black women, like why we can't make uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean some people do like sexy Red and all

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<v Speaker 1>of them like that is a type of black women,

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<v Speaker 1>right that exists. Right, all of us can't really make

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<v Speaker 1>money being who we are a lot of the times.

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<v Speaker 1>But somebody else can come in and costplay like you

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<v Speaker 1>sent me that video with and I saw that. I

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<v Speaker 1>always wondered, like what the fuck it, Gazella, just don't

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<v Speaker 1>wrap an Australian accent, like why are you cosplaying a

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<v Speaker 1>black woman? But they get to do it, and they

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<v Speaker 1>get to places that black people can't get to just

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<v Speaker 1>being themselves.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes I be feeling like uh, and y'all might get

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<v Speaker 2>mad at me for saying this, but remember I love y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't beat me up to.

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<v Speaker 1>Remember I don't give a fuck. Go ahead, Tom.

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<v Speaker 2>I Sometimes I feel like white gay men cosplay black.

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<v Speaker 1>Women all the time the same way the black men do.

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<v Speaker 1>You know? You know what I'm saying, Like I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like they.

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<v Speaker 2>Know what I mean, a black man that identifies as

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<v Speaker 2>a woman.

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<v Speaker 1>They all borrow from black women. Like nobody's trying to

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<v Speaker 1>act like the white girl, even the Asian gay guys.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like we are the black female, Yes, listen, we

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<v Speaker 1>all to gods on earth, and I'm gonna keep saying that,

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<v Speaker 1>like we are the prototype. That's why we we have

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<v Speaker 1>to take responsibility a lot of times in our community.

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<v Speaker 1>We gotta be the ones to fix things. That's why

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<v Speaker 1>we get blamed when things go wrong. Who people blame? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>would God let this? Yes, we are the gods on earth,

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<v Speaker 1>so we got to fix all the things. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>it is what it is, y'all. Y'all want the responsibility,

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<v Speaker 1>and not because black women really never had a choice

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<v Speaker 1>but to be her.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, we need to fix. We got to start with

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<v Speaker 2>fixing ourselves and that start with taking them little skirts

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<v Speaker 2>with y'all ass hand.

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<v Speaker 1>Why I mean, I guess maybe we put too much

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<v Speaker 1>emphasis on that in American culture, But I mean someplace

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<v Speaker 1>else it might be okay for your ass to be

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<v Speaker 1>hanging out, Like I mean, we we wore things like

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<v Speaker 1>that at some point, right. We didn't always, we weren't

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<v Speaker 1>always covered up. We worshiped to just tell it Akuchi.

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<v Speaker 1>People still do that in other cultures in Africa. Like

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<v Speaker 1>we were putting too much emphasis on it.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm tired of seeing it.

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<v Speaker 1>That's just the culture.

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<v Speaker 2>I just said it three episodes in the row.

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<v Speaker 1>What you go going on? Okay, so did you know

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<v Speaker 1>what you.

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<v Speaker 2>We got to talk about Serena out there cript walk

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<v Speaker 2>she ever did, because we know we've been watching her

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<v Speaker 2>cript walk for many years and it's never been this student, but.

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<v Speaker 1>It always looked, you know, so much, so I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>realize it was her initially.

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<v Speaker 2>She hit that last night that had some hey, that

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<v Speaker 2>step was back by some get back.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, absolutely absolutely listen.

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<v Speaker 2>Sizza and Serena used to fuck with Drake like there

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<v Speaker 2>was so many he had on the necklace with the

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<v Speaker 2>little A minor on it, like and it was so icy.

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<v Speaker 2>It was so icy.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh, I did get Drake, I feel

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<v Speaker 3>And the way Kendrick looked Kendrick is such a fucking

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<v Speaker 3>camera yes byeball like I'm talking to you, nigga, Yeah

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<v Speaker 3>you Drake Aubrey, I'm talking to you, smiling like yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>And I know he kind of like, damn, how long

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<v Speaker 2>we go keep talking about me?

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<v Speaker 1>He wanted to be over.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he ready to you want damn move on? I

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<v Speaker 2>know he glad the super Bowl is gone. I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like you feel like that is the culmination of everything.

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<v Speaker 2>And now he can. Drake needs to get back to

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<v Speaker 2>making songs like God's what's it called what God's Love? No,

0:15:29.440 --> 0:15:37.280
<v Speaker 2>God's God did the one, the one he was talking about,

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<v Speaker 2>you know in the video he was giving up back

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<v Speaker 2>and gave all those people free stuff, families and all

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<v Speaker 2>that stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't see that.

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<v Speaker 2>You know that song. I can't think of it right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Songs like Marvin's Room, songs like that make for women, right.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because when Kidrick said that I don't like tough,

0:15:58.080 --> 0:16:02.600
<v Speaker 1>Drake like's song that niggas wave our hands and dance

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<v Speaker 1>like to that.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what we wanted. Yeah, and that's where we got lost.

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<v Speaker 2>That's where we got lost.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because he gained too much power. Like I I've

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<v Speaker 1>heard that artists can't even come out of Toronto unless

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<v Speaker 1>they go through Drake. And you kind of see that

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<v Speaker 1>what people the Weekend got from up under him. Tory

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<v Speaker 1>Lanez had to circumvent that nigga and blew up without him,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying. But they beefed for a while.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever happened to the dude is going up on a

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<v Speaker 1>Tuesday where he at you know, Yeah, so Drake is

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<v Speaker 1>on some mob ship because I'm reading this book right now.

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<v Speaker 1>It's basically about power, and it's not like the power

0:16:47.280 --> 0:16:51.080
<v Speaker 1>that people it's called the Art of Power. It's not

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<v Speaker 1>like the power that money and things bring. Right, It's

0:16:56.320 --> 0:16:59.680
<v Speaker 1>like compassion, you know what I'm saying, Like the real power,

0:16:59.720 --> 0:17:03.040
<v Speaker 1>where real power comes from love. And I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of times, once you gain so much notoriety,

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<v Speaker 1>so much money, like that shit kind of go out

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<v Speaker 1>the window and people you really get to see who

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<v Speaker 1>people are when they have the money to be that

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<v Speaker 1>that villain, you know what I'm saying. So, like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>there's some things we may not see in the industry

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<v Speaker 1>that Drake is done. We may not know about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think we get little little hints. You know. Look

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<v Speaker 1>how he's using the judicial system right now trying to

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<v Speaker 1>sue Kendrick. He didn't sue Kendrick directly, but indirectly. You

0:17:32.240 --> 0:17:34.760
<v Speaker 1>go around and you suing them people, them.

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<v Speaker 2>Folks, that's his white side. That's what that Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 2>how because you know that's how they that's what I'm sorry,

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<v Speaker 2>that is the only side.

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<v Speaker 1>He knows though, because that's who raised him.

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<v Speaker 2>But we should take a page out of that book

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<v Speaker 2>and start fistfighting motherfuckers and start taking him the court.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I'm on it. Yeah, yeah, that's my type of time.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, I think I'm a whole attorney without

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<v Speaker 1>a degree anyway, So there's that part.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl. Did you see le Angelo Ball? Did y'all see

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<v Speaker 2>lee Angelo Ball over the weekend with his new girlfriend

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<v Speaker 2>parading her around New Orleans after NICKI just dropped the baby,

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<v Speaker 2>like the baby two months old and.

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<v Speaker 1>They already have another child together, right yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And you know this woman was thinking that they

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<v Speaker 2>were gonna get married, and now she's decided that he's

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<v Speaker 2>done with that family and he's starting, he's going off

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<v Speaker 2>to make a new life, and he don't give a fuck.

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<v Speaker 2>He parading a new girl around all over New Orleans

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<v Speaker 2>and she's just happy because it's her turn. And that

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<v Speaker 2>shit hurt my feelings to see.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you see, So he has a black girl now,

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<v Speaker 1>and the black girl then calls Nicki baby racist because

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<v Speaker 1>she uses the N word apparently and she's not black.

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<v Speaker 4>Mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I saw the tweets, I saw the commentary over

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<v Speaker 1>the weekend. I just it's just hurt for you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just your turn, girl, your turn gonna come up.

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<v Speaker 1>You gotta be careful how you treat people. That lady

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<v Speaker 1>is in a very, very vulnerable state right now. I

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<v Speaker 1>saw a clip and I had been meaning to go

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<v Speaker 1>watch the full episode. Nikki Baby and lean Angelo Ball.

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<v Speaker 1>They were on Jason Lee's podcast or show. Yeah, they

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<v Speaker 1>were on Hollywood Unluck, and you know, they were talking

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<v Speaker 1>about you know, legacy and building and family and all

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<v Speaker 1>that stuff, and it sounds like she's ready to get married.

0:19:31.840 --> 0:19:34.440
<v Speaker 1>This girl she has this is her third child now right.

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<v Speaker 1>I believe she has one older child from somebody else.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I don't know, yeah too, because.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't remember. I didn't even realize they were together

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<v Speaker 1>because I thought she was with somebody else when she

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<v Speaker 1>was on the show before.

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<v Speaker 2>But how old is that man? He's a young man

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<v Speaker 2>and she's thirty four?

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<v Speaker 1>Is she only thirty four?

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<v Speaker 2>Well that's her stage age.

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<v Speaker 1>She I could have sworn she been around for a while.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like she's close to the forty. Yeah, And

0:20:08.760 --> 0:20:11.720
<v Speaker 1>he's like, you know, she on a on Hollywood Unlocke.

0:20:11.720 --> 0:20:13.600
<v Speaker 1>He was saying shit, like you know, she know what

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<v Speaker 1>time it is, Like we talk about it, and he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I want to get married at some point

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<v Speaker 1>and she's like in the next two years, and so

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<v Speaker 1>we talked about it, and he's he never once said

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<v Speaker 1>to her.

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<v Speaker 2>I just something about trying to get a young man

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<v Speaker 2>to marry you is just he's so young, and he's

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<v Speaker 2>very successful. He making music, mature sports and yeah and immature.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, so I really can attribute you know, how

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<v Speaker 1>he's treating her to his new claim to fame with

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<v Speaker 1>the rap song.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>So stupid.

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<v Speaker 2>I like that song, man, he said, hena hit the Corner.

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<v Speaker 1>It's old, it's dated. It's a new, dated song.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds old, but it don't hit. It don't sound

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<v Speaker 2>like it hits.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's still not a great song. Right for him

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<v Speaker 1>to just now all of a sudden, you just rap star,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're treating this girl who probably puts some money

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<v Speaker 1>behind because she had all the things.

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<v Speaker 2>How many are you in this era? How many rap

0:21:18.119 --> 0:21:23.720
<v Speaker 2>stars got songs that are huge that aren't great? Think

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<v Speaker 2>about it. A lot of these stars aren't really lyrically.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know the songs right out here. Don't

0:21:31.520 --> 0:21:32.200
<v Speaker 1>listen to that ship.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so that don't in our in this society, you

0:21:37.520 --> 0:21:40.040
<v Speaker 2>don't really have to have talent in music to make

0:21:40.119 --> 0:21:44.359
<v Speaker 2>good what is deemed good music. I agree because that song,

0:21:44.680 --> 0:21:50.000
<v Speaker 2>oh baby girl, I love you, you my everything. That

0:21:50.160 --> 0:21:53.480
<v Speaker 2>song is not good, but I love this. You know

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<v Speaker 2>it's just sad.

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<v Speaker 1>Now my favorite shit is get it sex sye. Now

0:22:00.840 --> 0:22:06.720
<v Speaker 1>that's affirmations. Girl. You know that ass super fat min

0:22:06.880 --> 0:22:10.800
<v Speaker 1>lion Dough, I'm his favorite hole.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if that's an affirmation. I don't know

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<v Speaker 2>when we started calling ourselves whole so freely.

0:22:21.680 --> 0:22:23.879
<v Speaker 1>Like that, I know, I mean we would say it

0:22:23.920 --> 0:22:25.800
<v Speaker 1>on the phone with our homegirls, but not like to

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<v Speaker 1>the world right.

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<v Speaker 2>That was just like very proud horse. And I just

0:22:31.480 --> 0:22:32.600
<v Speaker 2>didn't see that coming.

0:22:32.400 --> 0:22:36.080
<v Speaker 1>From like young Miami. I'm a whore. I respect holes though,

0:22:36.119 --> 0:22:37.960
<v Speaker 1>you know, I respect holes. I love the holes. I

0:22:38.000 --> 0:22:43.560
<v Speaker 1>respect horse and holes. I respect the women who charging.

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<v Speaker 2>I just charging. It was just a slipwalk. We've been

0:22:48.320 --> 0:22:50.160
<v Speaker 2>going downhill, That's all I was saying.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, y'all, So listen, I saw this post on

0:22:55.200 --> 0:23:00.080
<v Speaker 1>social media, y'all, just just bear with me a second. So,

0:23:00.600 --> 0:23:03.399
<v Speaker 1>and this probably could have been a dumb bitch story,

0:23:03.440 --> 0:23:06.919
<v Speaker 1>but we'll keep it in stupid internet news. But so

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<v Speaker 1>I saw this post where this girl. She was trying

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<v Speaker 1>to ask, you know, the internets if she was wrong

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<v Speaker 1>or not. So she tweeted, she said, so, my mom

0:23:18.320 --> 0:23:21.160
<v Speaker 1>is living with my fiance and I for the time being,

0:23:21.240 --> 0:23:24.359
<v Speaker 1>and last night she went through his phone to prove

0:23:24.400 --> 0:23:27.800
<v Speaker 1>to me that all men cheat and found messages between

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<v Speaker 1>him and a woman sending selfies and she put like

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<v Speaker 1>the crying emoji. Should I be mad at my mama

0:23:34.000 --> 0:23:37.359
<v Speaker 1>forgetting in my business or my fiance? What do you think, Tammy?

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<v Speaker 2>Why is it an or situation both? Because why are

0:23:41.680 --> 0:23:45.000
<v Speaker 2>you ruining my fantasy? Like if I'm living in La

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<v Speaker 2>La Melane, let me be here, like I feel like,

0:23:47.600 --> 0:23:50.399
<v Speaker 2>let's shit find me. I don't go like at my age,

0:23:50.440 --> 0:23:52.159
<v Speaker 2>I don't go looking for shit. If it's meant for

0:23:52.200 --> 0:23:54.479
<v Speaker 2>me to find out, it's gonna come find me. And

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<v Speaker 2>then also mad at your fiance because why are you

0:23:57.600 --> 0:23:59.760
<v Speaker 2>sharing selfies with this woman? You know?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Why did my mom have anything? Even? Fine? Yeah

0:24:03.320 --> 0:24:08.320
<v Speaker 1>that part So I am personally more mad at the mom. Okay,

0:24:08.520 --> 0:24:10.480
<v Speaker 1>I have questions. I want to know why to fuck

0:24:10.800 --> 0:24:12.399
<v Speaker 1>your mama living in a house with you and your

0:24:12.440 --> 0:24:15.399
<v Speaker 1>fiance and where's her man right? And why is she

0:24:15.560 --> 0:24:20.320
<v Speaker 1>intentionally sabotaging. I feel like this, if I never had

0:24:20.359 --> 0:24:23.399
<v Speaker 1>any inkling that my man is doing anything right, I

0:24:23.440 --> 0:24:27.240
<v Speaker 1>feel like that's love. That's actually real love where you

0:24:27.280 --> 0:24:31.080
<v Speaker 1>don't find shit out ever, you never feel anything to

0:24:31.119 --> 0:24:34.240
<v Speaker 1>the point like we get married, like I'm happy, I'm in,

0:24:34.440 --> 0:24:37.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm in bliss right now. And hey, you're fucking

0:24:39.160 --> 0:24:46.960
<v Speaker 1>raggy ass, lonely ass mom, litter yourehouse and disturbs the peace.

0:24:47.119 --> 0:24:48.879
<v Speaker 1>You don't want to see her happy?

0:24:48.840 --> 0:24:50.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we know all.

0:24:52.280 --> 0:24:54.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I guess she was like trying to prove her

0:24:54.320 --> 0:24:56.879
<v Speaker 1>that her man ain't that ain't him. That is not

0:24:57.000 --> 0:24:58.760
<v Speaker 1>your job to do it, you know what I'm saying.

0:24:58.800 --> 0:25:01.479
<v Speaker 1>I can see if maybe you call him doing if

0:25:01.760 --> 0:25:03.399
<v Speaker 1>you saw him doing some shit and that was your

0:25:03.400 --> 0:25:06.400
<v Speaker 1>way of exposing him, that still wasn't right. You should

0:25:06.440 --> 0:25:08.320
<v Speaker 1>just come and say, hey, I saw him doing such

0:25:08.320 --> 0:25:10.960
<v Speaker 1>and such and such. You know, you don't create a

0:25:11.000 --> 0:25:14.720
<v Speaker 1>conversation is crazy, like how did how did you get

0:25:14.720 --> 0:25:15.320
<v Speaker 1>his phone?

0:25:15.840 --> 0:25:16.119
<v Speaker 2>Right?

0:25:16.920 --> 0:25:18.640
<v Speaker 1>She might be fucking him right.

0:25:18.680 --> 0:25:21.320
<v Speaker 2>You need to go, Mama, You need to go. I

0:25:21.359 --> 0:25:23.480
<v Speaker 2>love you, Mama. I'm gonna help you find somewhere to

0:25:23.520 --> 0:25:25.080
<v Speaker 2>go with my sister because.

0:25:26.040 --> 0:25:28.680
<v Speaker 1>She about to go over there and ruin the sister marriage.

0:25:29.320 --> 0:25:31.720
<v Speaker 1>Where is your man? This is why I don't like

0:25:31.800 --> 0:25:33.080
<v Speaker 1>mama's This is work.

0:25:33.440 --> 0:25:36.959
<v Speaker 2>I don't like mamas mamas.

0:25:39.040 --> 0:25:42.879
<v Speaker 1>I only like mamas who are in healthy relationships with

0:25:42.920 --> 0:25:45.399
<v Speaker 1>their husbands. Those are the moms I like. Those are

0:25:45.440 --> 0:25:47.280
<v Speaker 1>the sisters I like. Don't come over here with that

0:25:47.320 --> 0:25:51.080
<v Speaker 1>broken bullshit and ruin in my relationship. You want me

0:25:51.119 --> 0:25:53.000
<v Speaker 1>to be just you and me in the house. That's

0:25:53.000 --> 0:25:56.280
<v Speaker 1>what you want, right, You know what I'm saying, She

0:25:56.280 --> 0:25:59.160
<v Speaker 1>probably was, Imagine imagine your mom being that person looking

0:25:59.160 --> 0:26:01.240
<v Speaker 1>at you from the corner you looking at from the

0:26:01.280 --> 0:26:03.160
<v Speaker 1>corner of their eyes, like looking at you and your man,

0:26:03.240 --> 0:26:05.480
<v Speaker 1>like how can I fuck this up? And it may

0:26:05.560 --> 0:26:09.800
<v Speaker 1>not be even like intentional, like in her brain, But

0:26:09.960 --> 0:26:13.800
<v Speaker 1>some people are just that nasty, right, Like this is

0:26:13.920 --> 0:26:17.000
<v Speaker 1>just their normal setting. This is just the type of

0:26:17.000 --> 0:26:19.320
<v Speaker 1>shit they do. I don't like.

0:26:19.400 --> 0:26:21.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm looking at everybody sideways because mam, why are

0:26:22.000 --> 0:26:26.040
<v Speaker 2>you You don't enjoy seeing me this happy? You need

0:26:26.040 --> 0:26:27.840
<v Speaker 2>me to be crushed for whatever reason.

0:26:27.960 --> 0:26:29.439
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I could never do that to her.

0:26:29.480 --> 0:26:31.119
<v Speaker 2>Mom is proud. I just want you to give you

0:26:31.200 --> 0:26:35.080
<v Speaker 2>some perspective on reality. No, I cannot mean to do

0:26:35.119 --> 0:26:38.040
<v Speaker 2>it to be hurtful or harmful. She just was trying

0:26:38.040 --> 0:26:42.680
<v Speaker 2>to see the bitter truth that does exist sometimes, but

0:26:42.720 --> 0:26:43.399
<v Speaker 2>that ain't your.

0:26:43.240 --> 0:26:46.840
<v Speaker 1>Place, right and where they smashing or just frightenizing, you know,

0:26:46.880 --> 0:26:50.879
<v Speaker 1>because I don't feel like if I see this nigga fratnizing,

0:26:51.480 --> 0:26:55.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna say fratenizing. It's just not okay in

0:26:55.080 --> 0:26:57.080
<v Speaker 1>my relationship. I'm going I'm not gonna go that far

0:26:57.160 --> 0:27:00.720
<v Speaker 1>and say like he can't talk to nobody and he can't. No,

0:27:00.960 --> 0:27:01.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm not doing that.

0:27:02.080 --> 0:27:04.880
<v Speaker 2>I don't listen. I'm never going through your phone. Yes,

0:27:05.080 --> 0:27:07.439
<v Speaker 2>I don't have the time or the energy or the

0:27:07.480 --> 0:27:10.159
<v Speaker 2>bandwidth for whatever is in there. That's your business, and

0:27:10.200 --> 0:27:13.200
<v Speaker 2>I want the same respect. Yes, don't go through my ship.

0:27:13.560 --> 0:27:15.800
<v Speaker 2>Go through your ship. You know that's it.

0:27:16.160 --> 0:27:17.120
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So what.

0:27:17.000 --> 0:27:19.720
<v Speaker 2>I'm supposed to I will never do to me knowing

0:27:19.760 --> 0:27:22.399
<v Speaker 2>about something in your phone. I will never fucking up.

0:27:22.720 --> 0:27:25.560
<v Speaker 1>I enable niggas to be on some bullshit because I'm

0:27:25.600 --> 0:27:27.879
<v Speaker 1>not doing it. First of all, I'm not ruining my Monday,

0:27:28.160 --> 0:27:30.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm not ruining my weekend. I'm not fucking my day

0:27:30.960 --> 0:27:33.800
<v Speaker 1>up by going through your phone. When I go through

0:27:33.840 --> 0:27:36.639
<v Speaker 1>a nigga phone, my ship is packed, I'm leaving you.

0:27:36.680 --> 0:27:39.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm actually looking for a good reason to get the

0:27:39.280 --> 0:27:44.280
<v Speaker 1>fuck out of there. I have I have, I want

0:27:44.280 --> 0:27:44.560
<v Speaker 1>to say.

0:27:44.520 --> 0:27:46.760
<v Speaker 2>I do, I don't, I ain't doing it. Then once

0:27:46.800 --> 0:27:48.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm ready to go, I don't need a reason. I'm

0:27:48.920 --> 0:27:51.240
<v Speaker 2>just out, you know, Like, once I'm in that space,

0:27:51.280 --> 0:27:52.960
<v Speaker 2>I don't need to give you no valid like, oh

0:27:53.000 --> 0:27:54.000
<v Speaker 2>I found this in your phone.

0:27:54.119 --> 0:27:55.439
<v Speaker 1>It's extra little push.

0:27:55.520 --> 0:28:01.000
<v Speaker 2>That's whatever it was. Already was enough concerned. I'm already

0:28:01.080 --> 0:28:06.399
<v Speaker 2>packed my ship. So I want to I only and

0:28:06.440 --> 0:28:10.240
<v Speaker 2>I only can say that because of experience. I have

0:28:10.440 --> 0:28:13.600
<v Speaker 2>ruined my own day. I have ruined my own week

0:28:14.320 --> 0:28:18.080
<v Speaker 2>by being nosy. Mind your business. Mind the business that

0:28:18.160 --> 0:28:20.960
<v Speaker 2>pays you, and your business is your peace and your happiness.

0:28:21.040 --> 0:28:22.120
<v Speaker 2>Don't go looking for ship.

0:28:22.840 --> 0:28:25.320
<v Speaker 1>And if the business is paying bills, definitely mind your

0:28:25.320 --> 0:28:31.680
<v Speaker 1>fucking business. Girl inside, bitch, get this nigga through the moments. Okay.

0:28:32.080 --> 0:28:34.560
<v Speaker 1>You need him to be satisfied to write them checks,

0:28:36.000 --> 0:28:38.760
<v Speaker 1>you know, especially if it's responsible. Man, he got you

0:28:38.880 --> 0:28:42.080
<v Speaker 1>on auto draft. Bitch, you want all the draft niggas up, No,

0:28:43.920 --> 0:28:49.360
<v Speaker 1>not me, okay, y'all. So this week it's not a

0:28:49.440 --> 0:28:52.400
<v Speaker 1>lot of tab bab y'all so fucking lit. I'm so happy.

0:28:52.400 --> 0:28:56.280
<v Speaker 2>It's so fun. I can't believe we're doing this ship.

0:28:58.720 --> 0:29:00.400
<v Speaker 1>We could have came up with a jingle for the

0:29:00.520 --> 0:29:01.400
<v Speaker 1>love of Tam Damn.

0:29:03.240 --> 0:29:11.280
<v Speaker 2>Like, y'all, we're about to interview some guys to be

0:29:11.400 --> 0:29:13.160
<v Speaker 2>my me and my ma and my man. I hate

0:29:13.200 --> 0:29:15.080
<v Speaker 2>it had to come to this. This is kind of like,

0:29:15.760 --> 0:29:20.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm embarrassed. Are you really no?

0:29:21.000 --> 0:29:22.400
<v Speaker 1>This is gonna be fun.

0:29:25.760 --> 0:29:29.400
<v Speaker 2>I need a balloon pop. I'm just gonna we're gonna

0:29:29.400 --> 0:29:32.400
<v Speaker 2>add some balloon pop. All these niggas is trash. But

0:29:33.400 --> 0:29:37.400
<v Speaker 2>these men were hand picked, so I mean from the

0:29:37.440 --> 0:29:39.960
<v Speaker 2>people that slid in the d M saying that they

0:29:39.960 --> 0:29:43.880
<v Speaker 2>wanted to participate. They were hand picked, so hopefully they're

0:29:43.920 --> 0:29:46.640
<v Speaker 2>good candidates. I'm gonna be mad if you pick me

0:29:46.680 --> 0:29:47.680
<v Speaker 2>some trash agent.

0:29:48.800 --> 0:29:51.320
<v Speaker 1>Okay, y'all listen. You gotta listen to the show and

0:29:51.320 --> 0:29:52.960
<v Speaker 1>what we need from you, and we'll actually put the

0:29:53.000 --> 0:29:55.600
<v Speaker 1>post up. We need y'all to pick out of these

0:29:55.640 --> 0:29:58.800
<v Speaker 1>three guys, right, who do y'all think. Now it's kind

0:29:58.800 --> 0:30:01.800
<v Speaker 1>of too late for value times, but who do y'all

0:30:01.840 --> 0:30:09.040
<v Speaker 1>think Tam should take on a date or date that's

0:30:09.080 --> 0:30:12.480
<v Speaker 1>what it is. Let's take her on a date, like

0:30:12.520 --> 0:30:15.160
<v Speaker 1>who should Tam at least do one date and hopefully

0:30:15.360 --> 0:30:16.720
<v Speaker 1>it turns into forever.

0:30:17.920 --> 0:30:22.400
<v Speaker 2>I want forever, all right, So I want y'all to

0:30:22.440 --> 0:30:25.840
<v Speaker 2>pick the best suitor out of the three guys. I

0:30:25.880 --> 0:30:30.960
<v Speaker 2>need y'all help. So let's get into it.

0:30:34.120 --> 0:30:39.080
<v Speaker 1>All right, y'all. So we have the first contestant for

0:30:39.760 --> 0:30:44.200
<v Speaker 1>the love of Tam Bam this week for Valentine's Day.

0:30:44.280 --> 0:30:46.760
<v Speaker 1>Y'all were trying to find Tam a big man. Okay,

0:30:47.160 --> 0:30:51.160
<v Speaker 1>you want a big dog. So we have Jordans on

0:30:51.200 --> 0:30:53.600
<v Speaker 1>the show this week. Go ahead, Tam, you want to

0:30:53.960 --> 0:30:55.280
<v Speaker 1>you want to date?

0:30:55.320 --> 0:30:59.120
<v Speaker 2>Into it? Contested number one. This is my life, y'all.

0:30:59.120 --> 0:31:00.800
<v Speaker 2>This is not a I mean, it's a joke, but

0:31:00.840 --> 0:31:05.440
<v Speaker 2>it's not a joke, you know what I'm saying. Like Jordan's.

0:31:06.520 --> 0:31:08.160
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I'm definitely taking it serious.

0:31:08.560 --> 0:31:12.240
<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'm glad to hear that. Tell me, my co host,

0:31:12.240 --> 0:31:13.080
<v Speaker 2>a little bit about you.

0:31:15.280 --> 0:31:18.680
<v Speaker 6>As y'all know, my name is Jordan. I'm a Midwest

0:31:18.760 --> 0:31:25.200
<v Speaker 6>kid born and raised. Uh and yeah, I'm looking to

0:31:25.200 --> 0:31:26.400
<v Speaker 6>see a smiling person.

0:31:27.640 --> 0:31:29.960
<v Speaker 2>Okay, Jordan's all right, tell us what you do?

0:31:31.360 --> 0:31:34.280
<v Speaker 6>Oh, so I actually have a couple of companies that

0:31:35.160 --> 0:31:37.720
<v Speaker 6>I started with my brother. So we have a restaurant,

0:31:37.960 --> 0:31:40.880
<v Speaker 6>we have a trucking company, and we also have another

0:31:40.920 --> 0:31:42.400
<v Speaker 6>restaurant that's in the works right now.

0:31:43.320 --> 0:31:47.880
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so we have as an entrepreneur uh on for

0:31:48.000 --> 0:31:49.640
<v Speaker 1>the love of tam bam. Sounds good.

0:31:51.000 --> 0:31:52.520
<v Speaker 6>And I have a day job as well.

0:31:53.480 --> 0:31:57.560
<v Speaker 1>Okay, you Jamaican, right, nah man.

0:31:57.440 --> 0:32:00.800
<v Speaker 6>I'm just I'm inspired to leaders a little better than

0:32:00.800 --> 0:32:01.320
<v Speaker 6>I got it.

0:32:02.160 --> 0:32:04.120
<v Speaker 2>Okay, Jordan, how old are you?

0:32:04.960 --> 0:32:05.600
<v Speaker 6>Thirty seven?

0:32:06.560 --> 0:32:07.960
<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's a good age.

0:32:08.680 --> 0:32:11.520
<v Speaker 1>Mm hm, y'all know telling you ob g y n

0:32:11.600 --> 0:32:20.120
<v Speaker 1>old bitch, get your young niggas. Okay, yeah, yeah, stop.

0:32:22.040 --> 0:32:23.040
<v Speaker 6>Crazy. I love it.

0:32:23.360 --> 0:32:28.440
<v Speaker 1>I love it all right, George. My first question is, Jordan,

0:32:28.560 --> 0:32:29.760
<v Speaker 1>do you have any children?

0:32:30.880 --> 0:32:31.160
<v Speaker 6>I do?

0:32:31.960 --> 0:32:32.520
<v Speaker 1>Okay, I.

0:32:34.040 --> 0:32:35.280
<v Speaker 6>I have a daughter. She's ten.

0:32:35.920 --> 0:32:37.880
<v Speaker 1>Are you Oh that's I mean, that's a big age,

0:32:37.920 --> 0:32:39.120
<v Speaker 1>you know what I'm saying, a lot of people don't

0:32:39.120 --> 0:32:42.400
<v Speaker 1>want to start all over. Are you interested in having

0:32:42.520 --> 0:32:43.680
<v Speaker 1>any more children?

0:32:44.960 --> 0:32:48.160
<v Speaker 6>I mean, I'm definitely open to the conversation. I don't

0:32:48.200 --> 0:32:50.600
<v Speaker 6>want to feel like I'm fortunate or anyone or but

0:32:50.720 --> 0:32:53.800
<v Speaker 6>for me, I love my daughter and I think more

0:32:53.880 --> 0:32:54.800
<v Speaker 6>kids will be a blessing.

0:32:57.080 --> 0:33:01.520
<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, let's see I wrote down some questions.

0:33:03.480 --> 0:33:06.560
<v Speaker 2>What is something that you've learned from a past relationship?

0:33:11.120 --> 0:33:14.080
<v Speaker 6>A big thing I learned is a lot of relationships

0:33:14.280 --> 0:33:17.920
<v Speaker 6>are defined by how your life is in that moment.

0:33:18.000 --> 0:33:19.840
<v Speaker 6>So it's the lens that you walk into when it's

0:33:19.840 --> 0:33:21.640
<v Speaker 6>the only lens you'll be able to see through unless

0:33:21.680 --> 0:33:25.920
<v Speaker 6>you dedicate yourself to some type of growth. But also,

0:33:26.000 --> 0:33:27.920
<v Speaker 6>you can't fix someone. They have to want to fix

0:33:27.960 --> 0:33:32.480
<v Speaker 6>themselves or be better, because not everyone is broken just

0:33:32.520 --> 0:33:35.760
<v Speaker 6>because you're not compatible in that moment, so not necessarily fixed.

0:33:35.800 --> 0:33:38.320
<v Speaker 6>But they got to want more than what they walk

0:33:38.320 --> 0:33:40.600
<v Speaker 6>into the relationship with because everyone should be a ball.

0:33:42.520 --> 0:33:46.800
<v Speaker 1>Absolutely. So what are some of your non negotiables in

0:33:46.840 --> 0:33:50.400
<v Speaker 1>a relationship? Like, let'sten, maybe name like the top three

0:33:51.160 --> 0:33:54.360
<v Speaker 1>non negotiables, because I think when you're in a relationship,

0:33:54.400 --> 0:33:57.120
<v Speaker 1>you kind of you got to get into relationships and

0:33:57.200 --> 0:33:58.960
<v Speaker 1>know what you don't want in the next one.

0:33:59.560 --> 0:34:03.560
<v Speaker 6>So exactly, I think I don't really have non negotiables,

0:34:03.560 --> 0:34:06.480
<v Speaker 6>but there are some Like I'll meet some people when

0:34:06.520 --> 0:34:07.960
<v Speaker 6>I'll be at like a fork in the road and

0:34:07.960 --> 0:34:10.520
<v Speaker 6>I have to choose for me this I can handle

0:34:10.520 --> 0:34:13.120
<v Speaker 6>this or I can't, But just don't be a trash

0:34:13.200 --> 0:34:13.760
<v Speaker 6>ass person.

0:34:14.280 --> 0:34:20.000
<v Speaker 2>Don't be a trash ass person and the ass because.

0:34:20.600 --> 0:34:23.239
<v Speaker 6>I think in this day and age we understand, like

0:34:23.840 --> 0:34:25.960
<v Speaker 6>especially where the country is at, like, just be a

0:34:25.960 --> 0:34:29.080
<v Speaker 6>decent human. I think as long as you can meet

0:34:29.120 --> 0:34:34.440
<v Speaker 6>me in spaces with grace, I think we're good. But

0:34:34.560 --> 0:34:39.000
<v Speaker 6>someone that just comes in expects you to fit perfectly

0:34:39.120 --> 0:34:41.520
<v Speaker 6>as the piece into their missing the missing piece into

0:34:41.520 --> 0:34:45.320
<v Speaker 6>their puzzle. That doesn't really allow you space to be yourself,

0:34:46.160 --> 0:34:50.400
<v Speaker 6>your rights. You're wrong to ups your downs while taking

0:34:50.440 --> 0:34:53.520
<v Speaker 6>all that you're giving and only returning what they feel

0:34:53.560 --> 0:34:56.520
<v Speaker 6>like they feel like giving. I think that that sucks

0:34:56.520 --> 0:34:57.840
<v Speaker 6>in a relational aspect.

0:34:59.120 --> 0:35:02.760
<v Speaker 1>So that's a trash that constitutes as a trash ass person.

0:35:03.719 --> 0:35:07.400
<v Speaker 6>Well trash ass people there's they are. They have no

0:35:07.480 --> 0:35:10.560
<v Speaker 6>glass ceiling, so it could be all the way up.

0:35:10.560 --> 0:35:12.120
<v Speaker 6>But I'm just saying, like I just want someone to

0:35:12.120 --> 0:35:15.240
<v Speaker 6>meet me like at a human level and just really

0:35:15.320 --> 0:35:18.560
<v Speaker 6>just be a decent human, be the person that your

0:35:18.600 --> 0:35:19.280
<v Speaker 6>parents raised.

0:35:20.960 --> 0:35:29.240
<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's fair some humans, right exactly? So how important

0:35:29.280 --> 0:35:32.000
<v Speaker 1>is that, like to you? How important is like someone's

0:35:32.120 --> 0:35:36.040
<v Speaker 1>uh family background? How important is that to you now

0:35:36.080 --> 0:35:38.040
<v Speaker 1>in a relationship at thirty seven, because you know, in

0:35:38.040 --> 0:35:39.840
<v Speaker 1>the twenties and may not even be thinking about that

0:35:39.880 --> 0:35:43.040
<v Speaker 1>type of shit, right, but now it's like who in

0:35:43.040 --> 0:35:44.400
<v Speaker 1>a nutthouse in your family.

0:35:45.000 --> 0:35:48.920
<v Speaker 6>It's it's real, it's real, and it's it's very hard.

0:35:49.000 --> 0:35:51.160
<v Speaker 6>Y'all should do a little segment about how you segue

0:35:51.160 --> 0:35:54.640
<v Speaker 6>into that conversation on first, second, third dates, because it's

0:35:54.640 --> 0:35:57.799
<v Speaker 6>something that a lot of people don't really had a

0:35:57.840 --> 0:36:02.000
<v Speaker 6>conversation about. And I've actually learned hard way that dna

0:36:02.120 --> 0:36:06.279
<v Speaker 6>Is is strong, like as much as you don't believe

0:36:06.320 --> 0:36:08.360
<v Speaker 6>she gonna be like her mom or auntie or whatever,

0:36:08.520 --> 0:36:11.640
<v Speaker 6>like take notes take notes.

0:36:11.360 --> 0:36:13.600
<v Speaker 2>For real, or like their father.

0:36:15.239 --> 0:36:17.640
<v Speaker 6>I mean I ain't really dated no girls or anything

0:36:17.719 --> 0:36:18.400
<v Speaker 6>like their daddy's.

0:36:18.480 --> 0:36:22.200
<v Speaker 2>But no, I mean as as me as a woman,

0:36:22.320 --> 0:36:24.120
<v Speaker 2>like you have to look at the man and see

0:36:24.320 --> 0:36:26.319
<v Speaker 2>how much is he like his own father? You know?

0:36:28.200 --> 0:36:31.120
<v Speaker 6>True? And I've always been taught that women look at

0:36:31.160 --> 0:36:34.000
<v Speaker 6>men based on character and see how they handle their

0:36:34.000 --> 0:36:36.000
<v Speaker 6>mothers and they can kind of tell how they may

0:36:36.040 --> 0:36:40.000
<v Speaker 6>handle them, but definitely the fathers. But it just depends too,

0:36:40.040 --> 0:36:42.799
<v Speaker 6>because I mean, I do believe that the apple doesn't

0:36:42.840 --> 0:36:45.319
<v Speaker 6>far fall from the tree, but hopefully that tree was

0:36:45.400 --> 0:36:48.520
<v Speaker 6>in his life growing up too, so you can have

0:36:48.600 --> 0:36:50.759
<v Speaker 6>an understanding. Because I feel like there's black people at

0:36:50.800 --> 0:36:55.759
<v Speaker 6>times like we're disconnected from that family tree somehow and

0:36:55.800 --> 0:36:57.840
<v Speaker 6>we don't actually have those answers. So we kind of

0:36:57.840 --> 0:37:02.040
<v Speaker 6>moved through life searching for or who we are and

0:37:02.120 --> 0:37:05.080
<v Speaker 6>photos and just random things that we shouldn't have to.

0:37:06.000 --> 0:37:07.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, this is true.

0:37:07.320 --> 0:37:08.000
<v Speaker 1>Absolutely.

0:37:08.120 --> 0:37:10.920
<v Speaker 2>What's one thing that most people would be surprised to

0:37:10.960 --> 0:37:12.080
<v Speaker 2>know about you?

0:37:12.600 --> 0:37:13.280
<v Speaker 6>Country music?

0:37:14.640 --> 0:37:15.640
<v Speaker 1>You like country music?

0:37:16.080 --> 0:37:22.080
<v Speaker 6>Heah, yeah, I fuck with country music. But it's like

0:37:22.120 --> 0:37:25.800
<v Speaker 6>that cool it's that cool ass country music. And the

0:37:25.840 --> 0:37:28.879
<v Speaker 6>way that it happened. I was in college from scholarship,

0:37:29.000 --> 0:37:32.759
<v Speaker 6>and I stayed kind of close to home, like an

0:37:32.760 --> 0:37:34.719
<v Speaker 6>hour and a half away, and I had this little

0:37:34.800 --> 0:37:38.800
<v Speaker 6>geo prism and in the winter, like I was too impatient.

0:37:38.840 --> 0:37:40.040
<v Speaker 6>I just wanted to get on the road and get

0:37:40.040 --> 0:37:43.640
<v Speaker 6>back to my people, so I wouldn't let the car

0:37:43.719 --> 0:37:46.080
<v Speaker 6>went up. So I had the little you know, you

0:37:46.080 --> 0:37:47.839
<v Speaker 6>had to see the players with the little you take

0:37:47.880 --> 0:37:53.000
<v Speaker 6>the face off and everything. So so for the first

0:37:53.120 --> 0:37:55.239
<v Speaker 6>like forty five minutes of a ride, you can only

0:37:55.280 --> 0:37:58.840
<v Speaker 6>get whatever station that you could get the signal for

0:37:58.880 --> 0:38:01.759
<v Speaker 6>and it was sports country. So I started listening to

0:38:01.760 --> 0:38:03.920
<v Speaker 6>countries like, damn, these people they have been through some

0:38:03.960 --> 0:38:07.440
<v Speaker 6>ship too, Like I kind of rock with it.

0:38:10.719 --> 0:38:13.640
<v Speaker 1>Okay, I used to like country music too. I'm growing

0:38:13.719 --> 0:38:15.520
<v Speaker 1>like so yeah.

0:38:16.200 --> 0:38:18.120
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, some good old country music.

0:38:18.680 --> 0:38:20.759
<v Speaker 6>And y'all see what that grammy just did?

0:38:21.400 --> 0:38:23.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah right, shout out to be all right?

0:38:24.120 --> 0:38:31.759
<v Speaker 1>Yeah you like so you like shabootsy chaboozy, shaboozy. You

0:38:31.960 --> 0:38:35.000
<v Speaker 1>have my grandmothers and movies and all types of ship.

0:38:35.239 --> 0:38:41.000
<v Speaker 1>Shaboozy is that what it is? Or sho boots boozy?

0:38:41.280 --> 0:38:42.279
<v Speaker 2>You don't know who that is?

0:38:42.920 --> 0:38:43.080
<v Speaker 5>Nah?

0:38:43.160 --> 0:38:45.759
<v Speaker 6>See I rock with Sam Hunt.

0:38:46.160 --> 0:38:47.920
<v Speaker 1>Oh he t have a real country ship, not.

0:38:47.880 --> 0:38:51.040
<v Speaker 6>Even like the Rascal Flats.

0:38:51.560 --> 0:38:54.040
<v Speaker 2>Rascal Flats, Okay, you like the Dixie Chicks.

0:38:55.360 --> 0:38:57.600
<v Speaker 6>I ain't really hit, but I heard a couple of songs,

0:38:57.600 --> 0:38:59.400
<v Speaker 6>but I can't say that I got him on my

0:38:59.440 --> 0:39:00.919
<v Speaker 6>title Dixie Chicks.

0:39:00.960 --> 0:39:04.400
<v Speaker 2>That's my karaoke I do goodbye earl. Listen to that song,

0:39:04.560 --> 0:39:05.319
<v Speaker 2>so you know not to.

0:39:05.239 --> 0:39:12.120
<v Speaker 6>Play bye yo yo. Okay, say, let's I got you?

0:39:12.880 --> 0:39:16.120
<v Speaker 1>So, what's your idea of a perfect date? If you

0:39:16.200 --> 0:39:18.839
<v Speaker 1>were to win this contest and be able to take

0:39:19.160 --> 0:39:23.560
<v Speaker 1>big tan Bam out on a night around town.

0:39:24.880 --> 0:39:27.920
<v Speaker 6>I honestly feel like a perfect date is a mixture

0:39:28.000 --> 0:39:32.120
<v Speaker 6>of intention and spontaneity. So you know, I want to

0:39:32.120 --> 0:39:34.080
<v Speaker 6>see you, but the goal is to get to know

0:39:34.120 --> 0:39:36.320
<v Speaker 6>you better. So wherever we end up, hopefully it's somewhere

0:39:36.360 --> 0:39:38.919
<v Speaker 6>that you're comfortable you can try some new things. Because

0:39:38.920 --> 0:39:42.520
<v Speaker 6>I always feel like first dates should involve first whether

0:39:42.600 --> 0:39:46.240
<v Speaker 6>that's first time trying a new dish, a new location,

0:39:46.440 --> 0:39:50.000
<v Speaker 6>a new area of town, first case, you know what

0:39:50.040 --> 0:39:52.560
<v Speaker 6>I mean. Like, I feel like it should be something

0:39:52.600 --> 0:39:55.440
<v Speaker 6>that flows. But I also think too with first dates.

0:39:55.440 --> 0:39:57.319
<v Speaker 6>For me personally, I always feel like I want to

0:39:57.320 --> 0:40:00.759
<v Speaker 6>be in the presence of somebody that it's playful, and

0:40:00.800 --> 0:40:03.799
<v Speaker 6>I'm big on trying to get to the I feel

0:40:03.840 --> 0:40:06.279
<v Speaker 6>like people, when you're in good company, you want to

0:40:06.280 --> 0:40:09.080
<v Speaker 6>pay for it. But I'm the kind of person that

0:40:09.280 --> 0:40:13.719
<v Speaker 6>likes acting like a little bit of posaster shit. So

0:40:13.719 --> 0:40:17.279
<v Speaker 6>I might find a waiter. Yeah, Like, I find a

0:40:17.320 --> 0:40:18.880
<v Speaker 6>waiter and be like, yo, let me pay for this

0:40:18.920 --> 0:40:20.800
<v Speaker 6>in advance, and then I come back to the table

0:40:20.840 --> 0:40:23.000
<v Speaker 6>and try to get you to downe and ditch with me,

0:40:23.360 --> 0:40:25.399
<v Speaker 6>just to see how you kind of respond to it.

0:40:29.880 --> 0:40:32.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm a doer, but I'm talking about you to my homegirl,

0:40:32.360 --> 0:40:34.439
<v Speaker 1>and I'm a pay on the load leaving out.

0:40:35.320 --> 0:40:37.480
<v Speaker 6>But then if you if you try to pay on

0:40:37.520 --> 0:40:39.279
<v Speaker 6>the road, they're gonna be like, he already took care

0:40:39.320 --> 0:40:40.880
<v Speaker 6>of it. Then you're like, damn, I see what it

0:40:41.080 --> 0:40:42.760
<v Speaker 6>was this nigga?

0:40:42.800 --> 0:40:44.560
<v Speaker 2>Know how I broke my foot? I hope you know

0:40:44.640 --> 0:40:45.640
<v Speaker 2>that I can't run.

0:40:46.440 --> 0:40:49.600
<v Speaker 6>Oh damn, we're gonna have I just need to need

0:40:49.640 --> 0:40:51.959
<v Speaker 6>you to slide to the bathroom about ten minutes early.

0:40:52.000 --> 0:40:53.600
<v Speaker 6>Since you got the low key the little you know.

0:40:53.640 --> 0:40:58.279
<v Speaker 1>I mean, that was good, though that's not like a good,

0:40:58.480 --> 0:41:00.399
<v Speaker 1>very good first date. I like the fun.

0:41:00.680 --> 0:41:01.279
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, me too.

0:41:01.360 --> 0:41:03.960
<v Speaker 6>I appreciate you. I mean, if you want to see

0:41:03.960 --> 0:41:05.680
<v Speaker 6>what it's really like, tom Ban, you know what you

0:41:05.719 --> 0:41:06.200
<v Speaker 6>gotta do.

0:41:07.120 --> 0:41:09.920
<v Speaker 2>Okay, Well we're gonna see. We got a couple more contestants,

0:41:09.920 --> 0:41:11.280
<v Speaker 2>but so far, so good, Jordan.

0:41:12.239 --> 0:41:14.759
<v Speaker 6>I appreciate it, and I wish them the worst of luck.

0:41:17.000 --> 0:41:17.280
<v Speaker 1>God.

0:41:18.239 --> 0:41:20.839
<v Speaker 6>How tall are you tall enough?

0:41:23.400 --> 0:41:25.840
<v Speaker 2>Okay? So what that means? I'm five four?

0:41:26.920 --> 0:41:29.560
<v Speaker 6>Oh, well you're gonna be looking up to me five

0:41:29.600 --> 0:41:31.799
<v Speaker 6>to two. I'm six one.

0:41:32.640 --> 0:41:37.040
<v Speaker 2>You are you're six to one? Okay, that's right, what

0:41:37.080 --> 0:41:40.040
<v Speaker 2>do you want to accomplish in the next five years?

0:41:42.560 --> 0:41:45.200
<v Speaker 6>Man? Travel more Honestly, I think I want to touch

0:41:46.040 --> 0:41:47.840
<v Speaker 6>feet to earth on the continent.

0:41:49.239 --> 0:41:50.040
<v Speaker 2>On what continent?

0:41:51.080 --> 0:41:52.880
<v Speaker 1>The continent Africa?

0:41:52.920 --> 0:41:53.320
<v Speaker 2>Africa?

0:41:54.040 --> 0:41:55.600
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, the Motherland.

0:41:56.840 --> 0:41:58.640
<v Speaker 2>And that's your that's the only thing you want to

0:41:58.680 --> 0:42:01.439
<v Speaker 2>accomplish in the next five years, or that's just one of.

0:42:01.360 --> 0:42:04.360
<v Speaker 6>Your that's the top thing, that's the top thing I

0:42:04.360 --> 0:42:06.480
<v Speaker 6>want accomplish. I feel like as far as goes with me,

0:42:08.120 --> 0:42:10.400
<v Speaker 6>I live very comfortably right now, So I don't have

0:42:10.440 --> 0:42:13.680
<v Speaker 6>a lot of monetary goals or career goals. I think

0:42:13.719 --> 0:42:16.520
<v Speaker 6>everything that I kind of set in place and the

0:42:16.520 --> 0:42:18.120
<v Speaker 6>way that I move in life, I think I've kind

0:42:18.120 --> 0:42:19.880
<v Speaker 6>of set myself up in a position to kind of

0:42:19.920 --> 0:42:23.839
<v Speaker 6>reap those benefits almost kind of like residually. So now

0:42:23.880 --> 0:42:26.960
<v Speaker 6>it's more about being intentional or not looking back at

0:42:27.000 --> 0:42:28.520
<v Speaker 6>my life and saying what would I have done or

0:42:28.520 --> 0:42:31.400
<v Speaker 6>what should I have done? But what should I do next?

0:42:31.440 --> 0:42:33.960
<v Speaker 6>And then definitely creating more opportunities for my daughter to

0:42:34.000 --> 0:42:43.200
<v Speaker 6>just see the world different than I have the opportunity too, and.

0:42:40.880 --> 0:42:45.560
<v Speaker 1>Like that nigga slick that boy good. Yeah, in therapy,

0:42:45.640 --> 0:42:47.960
<v Speaker 1>you know what they'd be like you know, before you respond,

0:42:48.640 --> 0:42:51.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, repeat what the person says so or ask questions.

0:42:51.280 --> 0:42:53.920
<v Speaker 1>So what I'm hearing you say though, until you slid

0:42:53.960 --> 0:42:56.360
<v Speaker 1>that last little piece in that you want to travel,

0:42:56.360 --> 0:42:59.040
<v Speaker 1>you can do all these things. I know my friend

0:42:59.120 --> 0:43:01.480
<v Speaker 1>wants to be married at some point, right I also

0:43:01.800 --> 0:43:06.120
<v Speaker 1>my friend wants to have a child. That's what I

0:43:06.160 --> 0:43:08.960
<v Speaker 1>was looking for. Like hearing you know like that you're

0:43:09.080 --> 0:43:12.120
<v Speaker 1>even interested in possibly being a husband.

0:43:13.400 --> 0:43:17.040
<v Speaker 6>Absolutely, I feel like my goal in life is to

0:43:17.120 --> 0:43:19.759
<v Speaker 6>be a great husband and even better father. So but

0:43:20.080 --> 0:43:22.840
<v Speaker 6>when you ask me that question, I can't really respond

0:43:22.840 --> 0:43:24.400
<v Speaker 6>to that because I don't have that lady next to

0:43:24.400 --> 0:43:27.040
<v Speaker 6>me right now, so I can only speak on life

0:43:27.080 --> 0:43:28.759
<v Speaker 6>through this lands right now. But I would love to

0:43:28.840 --> 0:43:31.279
<v Speaker 6>have that kind of be a part of that, Like

0:43:31.440 --> 0:43:33.720
<v Speaker 6>I mean, obviously might not be traveling to the Motherland

0:43:33.800 --> 0:43:36.600
<v Speaker 6>unless you want to start the first five years there,

0:43:36.719 --> 0:43:42.520
<v Speaker 6>which could happen. I mean, I'm really expact ready right now?

0:43:43.680 --> 0:43:46.600
<v Speaker 2>Are you ready to get out the Country's what's the

0:43:46.640 --> 0:43:49.279
<v Speaker 2>most spontaneous thing you've ever done?

0:43:49.640 --> 0:43:55.840
<v Speaker 6>My life is spontaneity. I jumped on a flight and

0:43:55.920 --> 0:43:59.759
<v Speaker 6>moved to la on twelve hours notice two hundred and

0:43:59.800 --> 0:44:05.200
<v Speaker 6>fifty dollars and three bags fifteen years ago. So yeah,

0:44:05.200 --> 0:44:08.200
<v Speaker 6>I think. I think spontaneity is just like you believe

0:44:08.239 --> 0:44:10.920
<v Speaker 6>in that your version of life in that moment matters

0:44:11.440 --> 0:44:14.640
<v Speaker 6>and it's worth it. I see then, how you speak

0:44:14.680 --> 0:44:18.279
<v Speaker 6>to people, how you walk up and introduce yourself, just

0:44:18.320 --> 0:44:21.080
<v Speaker 6>how you show up. I think everything is life is

0:44:21.120 --> 0:44:22.399
<v Speaker 6>about how you react to life.

0:44:24.920 --> 0:44:29.560
<v Speaker 2>Okay, you've been answering these perfect I know, I mean

0:44:29.880 --> 0:44:31.439
<v Speaker 2>it well.

0:44:31.520 --> 0:44:33.400
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I feel like these people want to

0:44:33.440 --> 0:44:36.360
<v Speaker 1>show up, like how we would want a man to

0:44:36.440 --> 0:44:40.239
<v Speaker 1>show up. You got it. You gotta really got some though.

0:44:40.760 --> 0:44:43.920
<v Speaker 2>I got another one more question for you, Jordan, So

0:44:44.600 --> 0:44:46.400
<v Speaker 2>what would you say is your greatest flaw?

0:44:50.080 --> 0:44:59.360
<v Speaker 6>My greatest flaw not enough time? Sometimes I think I

0:44:59.360 --> 0:45:04.560
<v Speaker 6>would say, I think that the path I'll set myself

0:45:04.560 --> 0:45:09.680
<v Speaker 6>for sometimes I don't always prioritize myself, and I think

0:45:09.680 --> 0:45:11.640
<v Speaker 6>it's a black man. We kind of live a life

0:45:11.680 --> 0:45:14.680
<v Speaker 6>that kind of forces you to endure, and I think

0:45:15.840 --> 0:45:18.040
<v Speaker 6>sometimes that gets in the way of our blessings, in

0:45:18.040 --> 0:45:21.280
<v Speaker 6>the way of our health, in a way of our peace.

0:45:23.000 --> 0:45:26.000
<v Speaker 6>But I try not to be a bad person, so

0:45:26.040 --> 0:45:29.640
<v Speaker 6>I don't really look for my flaws. I'm definitely not perfect.

0:45:29.880 --> 0:45:31.440
<v Speaker 6>I might tell you I'm gonna call you back or not,

0:45:32.760 --> 0:45:35.879
<v Speaker 6>but I'm one text message away to remind me, like, hey,

0:45:35.920 --> 0:45:39.879
<v Speaker 6>you forgotten, I'll jump on the phone. But I don't

0:45:39.920 --> 0:45:42.840
<v Speaker 6>really have anything that I'm like, Yo, I want to

0:45:42.920 --> 0:45:47.200
<v Speaker 6>change this about me or this this is my fatal

0:45:47.200 --> 0:45:48.040
<v Speaker 6>flaw type vibe.

0:45:49.640 --> 0:45:55.000
<v Speaker 1>Hmm hmm. Interesting. So my last question is if your

0:45:55.080 --> 0:45:59.959
<v Speaker 1>ex had to describe you in one sentence, what would

0:46:00.120 --> 0:46:00.680
<v Speaker 1>they say?

0:46:01.800 --> 0:46:03.840
<v Speaker 6>Depend on which ex. But they all love me still,

0:46:03.960 --> 0:46:08.000
<v Speaker 6>so I think it would be good. Like I feel

0:46:08.040 --> 0:46:10.279
<v Speaker 6>like a lot of my exes I met at a

0:46:10.320 --> 0:46:13.359
<v Speaker 6>great time in their lives, but I just wasn't ready

0:46:13.360 --> 0:46:18.400
<v Speaker 6>for mine within my time. But I don't even I

0:46:18.440 --> 0:46:20.759
<v Speaker 6>hate that. I don't remember this movie, but y'aver did

0:46:20.800 --> 0:46:23.960
<v Speaker 6>y'a ever watch that movie where every girl got married

0:46:24.000 --> 0:46:28.040
<v Speaker 6>after they dated this dude. That was pretty much the

0:46:28.040 --> 0:46:29.440
<v Speaker 6>premise of the movie. I forget what it was.

0:46:29.440 --> 0:46:32.280
<v Speaker 1>It was like, it wasn't a swindler?

0:46:32.440 --> 0:46:32.600
<v Speaker 4>Was it.

0:46:36.080 --> 0:46:36.560
<v Speaker 2>Swindler?

0:46:37.400 --> 0:46:39.400
<v Speaker 1>All of them bitches is married as asked to again,

0:46:39.480 --> 0:46:40.160
<v Speaker 1>scammed up?

0:46:40.920 --> 0:46:44.640
<v Speaker 2>No, they got married dated him, they would marry somebody else,

0:46:44.640 --> 0:46:45.760
<v Speaker 2>they would find their husband.

0:46:46.719 --> 0:46:47.640
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it was crazy.

0:46:47.680 --> 0:46:49.000
<v Speaker 2>I feel like I saw that movie.

0:46:49.800 --> 0:46:51.880
<v Speaker 6>So that's how my life has been with my exes.

0:46:51.880 --> 0:46:54.600
<v Speaker 6>Like all my exes are happily married, like I celebrate them.

0:46:54.640 --> 0:46:57.200
<v Speaker 6>I tell them happy anniversary, and I'm so proud of y'all.

0:46:57.239 --> 0:47:01.399
<v Speaker 6>Like so, actually, my my ex if they listening, would

0:47:01.520 --> 0:47:04.319
<v Speaker 6>definitely calling and co sign me. Like, yo, Jordan's who

0:47:04.360 --> 0:47:06.879
<v Speaker 6>he is, So you.

0:47:06.840 --> 0:47:09.880
<v Speaker 2>Don't have nothing nothing bad about you? You're perfect.

0:47:10.840 --> 0:47:12.799
<v Speaker 6>If this sounds perfect, I mean I definitely know I

0:47:12.800 --> 0:47:20.000
<v Speaker 6>ain't perfect, but I definitely believe that great husband materials.

0:47:20.640 --> 0:47:23.400
<v Speaker 2>It would be like Jordan is a nigga. Nobody knows

0:47:23.680 --> 0:47:24.760
<v Speaker 2>Jordan is a narc.

0:47:25.480 --> 0:47:27.000
<v Speaker 1>He believe.

0:47:30.440 --> 0:47:32.480
<v Speaker 2>You're not in nobody's story.

0:47:33.320 --> 0:47:36.719
<v Speaker 6>No, actually I'm not. And I have set up some

0:47:36.840 --> 0:47:39.080
<v Speaker 6>nights to like ask myself like, damn, are there any

0:47:39.120 --> 0:47:41.480
<v Speaker 6>people that were like not co signing? And I kind

0:47:41.520 --> 0:47:44.200
<v Speaker 6>of racked my brain trying to find that person, and

0:47:44.560 --> 0:47:46.840
<v Speaker 6>they don't exist because I actually treat people like I

0:47:46.880 --> 0:47:48.839
<v Speaker 6>would want to be treated everybody somebody's daughter.

0:47:48.960 --> 0:47:54.319
<v Speaker 1>So I actually I actually actually called some x's one

0:47:54.320 --> 0:47:57.040
<v Speaker 1>time because you don't remember how Clubhouse used to be

0:47:57.080 --> 0:47:59.839
<v Speaker 1>real lit and they were playing one of the rooms

0:47:59.840 --> 0:48:01.440
<v Speaker 1>that was and it was playing a video from like

0:48:01.520 --> 0:48:07.960
<v Speaker 1>YouTube basically saying all women crazy type shit, right, So

0:48:08.200 --> 0:48:10.600
<v Speaker 1>the dude was challenging all the women in the room, like, Okay,

0:48:10.640 --> 0:48:12.759
<v Speaker 1>we need we need to talk to y'all. Last couple

0:48:12.719 --> 0:48:16.319
<v Speaker 1>of exes, Like, none of my exes, even the fucking craziest,

0:48:16.760 --> 0:48:20.719
<v Speaker 1>had anything really crazy to say about me. So it's possible, Jordan,

0:48:20.840 --> 0:48:22.560
<v Speaker 1>is what I'm getting to. It's possible.

0:48:22.800 --> 0:48:24.760
<v Speaker 6>You know. I appreciate you meet me in the middle

0:48:24.840 --> 0:48:25.319
<v Speaker 6>road on that.

0:48:25.719 --> 0:48:27.680
<v Speaker 1>What's your sign though, before you get out of here.

0:48:28.480 --> 0:48:32.719
<v Speaker 2>Sagittarius Okay, Sagittarius Okay.

0:48:32.760 --> 0:48:35.440
<v Speaker 1>I like Sagittarius. Sagittarius be tricking a little bit. Like

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<v Speaker 1>the men, they're gonna they're gonna spend some money on you,

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<v Speaker 1>tam I'm gonna tell you that right now. They're generous.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll say that, thoughtful.

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<v Speaker 2>Any last thing you would like to say to leave

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<v Speaker 2>a lasting impression.

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<v Speaker 6>Whoever wins your love, that's that's the real champion. It's

0:48:55.000 --> 0:48:59.279
<v Speaker 6>an honor to be able to be in consideration. I

0:48:59.280 --> 0:49:03.919
<v Speaker 6>feel like I shot best shot and uh, happy early

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<v Speaker 6>Valentine's Day.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you, Jordan.

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<v Speaker 1>I like Jordan's for sure, Jordan, this is great.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you so much. For joining us, and we'll definitely

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<v Speaker 2>be in contact because we're gonna let our listeners decide

0:49:16.760 --> 0:49:18.719
<v Speaker 2>who gets a date with me.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh wow, for sure? For sure? Yeah and if and

0:49:23.800 --> 0:49:26.440
<v Speaker 6>if you Yeah, for sure. I'll just keep an eye

0:49:26.480 --> 0:49:26.960
<v Speaker 6>out for that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, y'all, Okay, you too.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, y'all. So that was our first contestant, Jordans.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll be back after this commercial with our second contestant.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all stay tuned, all right, y'all, So we are back.

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<v Speaker 1>This is we talk back.

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<v Speaker 7>Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>For the love of Tam Bam. This week for Valentine,

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<v Speaker 1>we are trying to find her a date. Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>we do have contestant number two. His name is Nico.

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<v Speaker 1>Introduce yourself. Nico to our listeners.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you for having me. My name is Nico from

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<v Speaker 4>the b X, New York b X. All Right, I

0:50:15.000 --> 0:50:17.480
<v Speaker 4>don't think you guys need any other contestants. I mean,

0:50:17.760 --> 0:50:19.959
<v Speaker 4>get rid of number one. If I'm number two, let's

0:50:19.960 --> 0:50:25.120
<v Speaker 4>cancel number three. I mean there's nobody better, so forget.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that energy, Nico.

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<v Speaker 2>Nico, what's b X, I don't know what that is?

0:50:31.200 --> 0:50:34.399
<v Speaker 4>That is the BRONX, I mean b X I mean,

0:50:34.400 --> 0:50:37.319
<v Speaker 4>it's so synonymous with New York, but it is from

0:50:37.360 --> 0:50:39.479
<v Speaker 4>the Bronx, the dirtiest barrow in New York City.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, from Brooklyn. I heard they be stealing a lot.

0:50:42.960 --> 0:50:43.799
<v Speaker 2>We don't do that.

0:50:43.800 --> 0:50:49.600
<v Speaker 4>That's what bok Brooklyn is. Boo, as you compare to

0:50:49.640 --> 0:50:51.400
<v Speaker 4>the Bronx, We're still hood in the Bronx.

0:50:52.000 --> 0:50:54.000
<v Speaker 2>Oh well, listen, I'm in Brooklyn.

0:50:54.360 --> 0:50:56.520
<v Speaker 4>But you like hood niggas because I'm a little hood.

0:50:57.200 --> 0:51:00.279
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, you know what. I'm not opposed to a

0:51:00.400 --> 0:51:06.759
<v Speaker 2>little hood. So okay, okay, tell us, all right, what

0:51:06.800 --> 0:51:08.120
<v Speaker 2>do you do for a living, Nico.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I'll drive forklifts, right, but I'm not just an

0:51:12.719 --> 0:51:16.440
<v Speaker 4>average forklift driver, right, So when trucks pull up the

0:51:16.480 --> 0:51:19.920
<v Speaker 4>big construction sites, I'm the guy that pulls all of

0:51:19.920 --> 0:51:22.920
<v Speaker 4>the wood, all of those heavy materials that come off

0:51:22.960 --> 0:51:26.799
<v Speaker 4>the truck for big skyscrapers. So I'm a big time

0:51:27.440 --> 0:51:31.040
<v Speaker 4>forklift driver. Okay, all right. This is not no little

0:51:31.320 --> 0:51:35.480
<v Speaker 4>warehouse taking pallettes off the you know, the little shelves

0:51:35.520 --> 0:51:38.880
<v Speaker 4>over there. I'm talking decent money. I mean, depends on

0:51:38.920 --> 0:51:40.239
<v Speaker 4>what you think decent money is.

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<v Speaker 1>So you helped rebuild a trade center.

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<v Speaker 4>Not the trade Center, but other buildings in New York City, absolutely,

0:51:47.719 --> 0:51:48.560
<v Speaker 4>a few big ones.

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<v Speaker 2>So you can work with your hands.

0:51:50.440 --> 0:51:53.880
<v Speaker 4>Oh man, I can work with my hands, my mouth,

0:51:54.400 --> 0:51:55.240
<v Speaker 4>you know, my feet.

0:51:55.880 --> 0:51:56.279
<v Speaker 7>All that.

0:51:58.920 --> 0:52:02.239
<v Speaker 1>I had with that I don't do. Yeah, that wasn't

0:52:02.280 --> 0:52:04.600
<v Speaker 1>one of my questions, but yeah, might as well.

0:52:05.880 --> 0:52:08.719
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, listen, I'm trying to within how many how long

0:52:08.840 --> 0:52:10.600
<v Speaker 4>is this interview here?

0:52:11.520 --> 0:52:15.879
<v Speaker 1>As long as guy, I got a.

0:52:15.800 --> 0:52:22.239
<v Speaker 4>Lot of lengthy time, right, So I'm trying to give

0:52:22.239 --> 0:52:25.160
<v Speaker 4>you the true version of who I am within these

0:52:25.360 --> 0:52:27.640
<v Speaker 4>few minutes. So ask me anything.

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<v Speaker 2>What's your idea of the perfect first date?

0:52:31.600 --> 0:52:31.839
<v Speaker 6>Oh?

0:52:32.040 --> 0:52:37.759
<v Speaker 4>Perfect? Faith? See, my perfect first date isn't traditional. You know,

0:52:38.520 --> 0:52:41.200
<v Speaker 4>in most cases, a guy wants to take you out

0:52:41.239 --> 0:52:45.280
<v Speaker 4>for dinner, a movie, and all that sort of jazz.

0:52:45.800 --> 0:52:48.359
<v Speaker 4>So because I also did I tell you guys, I'm

0:52:48.360 --> 0:52:50.759
<v Speaker 4>a chef as well in the evening, so I drive

0:52:50.840 --> 0:52:53.600
<v Speaker 4>fork lifts at night and I work at a restaurant

0:52:54.120 --> 0:52:57.280
<v Speaker 4>in the evening. I don't it's a pretty known restaurant

0:52:57.320 --> 0:52:58.640
<v Speaker 4>in New York City, so I don't want to put

0:52:58.680 --> 0:53:00.759
<v Speaker 4>it out because I don't want people to know where

0:53:00.800 --> 0:53:04.480
<v Speaker 4>I work. But I'm also a chef at the restaurant,

0:53:04.719 --> 0:53:07.000
<v Speaker 4>so I'm seeing all that to say that my perfect

0:53:07.040 --> 0:53:10.360
<v Speaker 4>evening is you coming over to my place and me

0:53:10.520 --> 0:53:13.719
<v Speaker 4>cooking dinner. Fee And I know, I know you're gonna say, hey,

0:53:14.160 --> 0:53:16.400
<v Speaker 4>you know, I don't know you. You could be, you know,

0:53:16.440 --> 0:53:18.360
<v Speaker 4>a serial killer. I'm tired of hear that, you know

0:53:18.400 --> 0:53:21.160
<v Speaker 4>what I mean, Like, listen, let's let's jump. Let's get

0:53:21.200 --> 0:53:23.320
<v Speaker 4>out of the box, all right and do something a

0:53:23.320 --> 0:53:25.400
<v Speaker 4>little different, take some risks and date it.

0:53:26.400 --> 0:53:27.360
<v Speaker 2>What would you cook for me?

0:53:28.719 --> 0:53:33.240
<v Speaker 4>So my go to dish would be sea.

0:53:33.080 --> 0:53:37.080
<v Speaker 1>Bass I love sassi.

0:53:36.320 --> 0:53:39.319
<v Speaker 4>Che laine, sea bass wraw caught you.

0:53:39.280 --> 0:53:41.120
<v Speaker 1>Know, no farm raised from costco.

0:53:41.280 --> 0:53:46.960
<v Speaker 4>Right, yeah, ohh so you know you know, but it's

0:53:47.000 --> 0:53:49.360
<v Speaker 4>about It's about how you cook it and season and

0:53:49.400 --> 0:53:49.799
<v Speaker 4>all of that.

0:53:51.160 --> 0:53:54.600
<v Speaker 1>Okay, you a chef girl, he'd be lifting.

0:53:55.239 --> 0:53:57.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, come on, wrong, chef, I can.

0:53:58.080 --> 0:54:01.360
<v Speaker 4>I'm trying to tell you tech too, So you know,

0:54:01.480 --> 0:54:02.040
<v Speaker 4>two tech?

0:54:02.480 --> 0:54:04.640
<v Speaker 1>What's your nationality? Because you sound like a my boss

0:54:04.680 --> 0:54:05.120
<v Speaker 1>a little bit.

0:54:06.760 --> 0:54:11.600
<v Speaker 4>I'm half black and half Italian. It's funny you say that. Okay, Okay,

0:54:12.000 --> 0:54:14.719
<v Speaker 4>my family has sides to the Geneviech family. But he

0:54:14.760 --> 0:54:15.640
<v Speaker 4>don't want to get into that.

0:54:17.960 --> 0:54:20.759
<v Speaker 2>So I guess this hold on no, let me ask

0:54:20.800 --> 0:54:22.959
<v Speaker 2>you this before you ask that. Is your mother black

0:54:23.120 --> 0:54:23.920
<v Speaker 2>or your father?

0:54:24.239 --> 0:54:25.800
<v Speaker 1>That's important? Now, that's important.

0:54:25.840 --> 0:54:28.960
<v Speaker 4>My father's brought my mother's a child.

0:54:29.480 --> 0:54:32.320
<v Speaker 2>So you kind of drakish white.

0:54:33.480 --> 0:54:37.000
<v Speaker 4>No, my father is black. You're usually more of what

0:54:37.040 --> 0:54:38.759
<v Speaker 4>your father is if you're a young man.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, Okay, are your parents so together?

0:54:43.320 --> 0:54:43.520
<v Speaker 5>No?

0:54:43.600 --> 0:54:46.759
<v Speaker 4>Absolutely not. I don't think my mom and my dad

0:54:46.800 --> 0:54:47.560
<v Speaker 4>were ever together.

0:54:48.600 --> 0:54:50.719
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so your mom is a side bitch. Excuse me,

0:54:50.760 --> 0:54:57.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry your mom raised you. She didn't mean that, like, no,

0:54:57.719 --> 0:54:59.880
<v Speaker 1>we're just trying to understand the family dynamic.

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<v Speaker 4>My mom was kind of a bitch sometimes, all right,

0:55:02.120 --> 0:55:03.000
<v Speaker 4>So I'm not offended.

0:55:03.080 --> 0:55:08.160
<v Speaker 7>But but she she may do what she had, and

0:55:08.320 --> 0:55:10.719
<v Speaker 7>I think she thought she was in a relationship with

0:55:10.840 --> 0:55:13.360
<v Speaker 7>my dad, you know, but she's so happened to be

0:55:13.520 --> 0:55:14.280
<v Speaker 7>the side bitch.

0:55:14.120 --> 0:55:14.960
<v Speaker 4>Without knowing.

0:55:16.440 --> 0:55:18.399
<v Speaker 1>As long as she's not an habitual side bitch.

0:55:18.400 --> 0:55:20.280
<v Speaker 4>I mean no, no, that was that was her first

0:55:20.280 --> 0:55:22.480
<v Speaker 4>and last side bitch, you know. Extravaganza.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you know, we talk about gender roles a whole

0:55:26.600 --> 0:55:30.120
<v Speaker 1>lot in the black community. I don't know what Italians do,

0:55:30.520 --> 0:55:34.239
<v Speaker 1>but do you believe in traditional gender roles in relationships?

0:55:34.320 --> 0:55:37.200
<v Speaker 1>Or do you prefer a more modern approach like fifty

0:55:37.200 --> 0:55:37.640
<v Speaker 1>to fifty.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I grew up in that. I grew up in

0:55:42.440 --> 0:55:45.120
<v Speaker 4>a black household, like even though you know, my dad

0:55:45.320 --> 0:55:49.840
<v Speaker 4>wasn't always there, right, so, but my mom grew up

0:55:49.880 --> 0:55:53.160
<v Speaker 4>I mean my mom, she we grew up in the hood,

0:55:53.280 --> 0:55:55.400
<v Speaker 4>in the Bronx, so it wasn't I didn't grow up

0:55:55.400 --> 0:55:59.000
<v Speaker 4>around Italians so to speak. So gender roles are important,

0:55:59.000 --> 0:56:02.200
<v Speaker 4>but I do that we have to grow as a society.

0:56:02.800 --> 0:56:07.560
<v Speaker 4>And if women want to be considered equal and want

0:56:07.640 --> 0:56:12.279
<v Speaker 4>to you know, you don't want want equal pay and

0:56:12.719 --> 0:56:15.239
<v Speaker 4>all that sort of jazz which they they've you know,

0:56:15.280 --> 0:56:18.440
<v Speaker 4>a lot of them have earned that right and deserve it.

0:56:19.160 --> 0:56:21.560
<v Speaker 4>Then and you, if you can bring this to the table,

0:56:22.600 --> 0:56:25.080
<v Speaker 4>then we have to change, you know, the tradition, and

0:56:25.560 --> 0:56:27.440
<v Speaker 4>women have to call up some of that bread too.

0:56:29.280 --> 0:56:33.879
<v Speaker 2>So so no, you don't believe, No, in.

0:56:33.920 --> 0:56:39.120
<v Speaker 4>Some instances, for example, I don't. I do think that

0:56:39.200 --> 0:56:42.920
<v Speaker 4>a woman should be the one to cook and clean

0:56:43.640 --> 0:56:46.759
<v Speaker 4>more so, but if the man is going to ask

0:56:46.800 --> 0:56:48.360
<v Speaker 4>for a woman to bring some money to the table,

0:56:48.440 --> 0:56:50.400
<v Speaker 4>then he has to chime in and help out with

0:56:50.480 --> 0:56:52.960
<v Speaker 4>those things as well. You know, it can't be just

0:56:53.040 --> 0:56:55.200
<v Speaker 4>one side, so I feel you.

0:56:55.760 --> 0:56:57.279
<v Speaker 2>Okay, that's fair.

0:57:00.080 --> 0:57:02.000
<v Speaker 4>Your chef, I'm doing all the damn cooking.

0:57:01.800 --> 0:57:05.879
<v Speaker 1>Anyway, that's a plus. Yeah, I can cook them.

0:57:06.200 --> 0:57:06.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:57:07.040 --> 0:57:08.000
<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

0:57:08.040 --> 0:57:11.839
<v Speaker 2>What's something you've learned from past from the show you've heard?

0:57:12.440 --> 0:57:14.239
<v Speaker 4>I've heard, Yes, of course I watched it. How can

0:57:14.320 --> 0:57:16.600
<v Speaker 4>I not watch the show all the time? I'm loving,

0:57:16.680 --> 0:57:17.640
<v Speaker 4>madly in love with you?

0:57:17.720 --> 0:57:18.200
<v Speaker 6>So on.

0:57:19.280 --> 0:57:22.560
<v Speaker 2>Okay, what's something you learned from past relationships?

0:57:24.040 --> 0:57:24.320
<v Speaker 5>Oh?

0:57:24.400 --> 0:57:28.240
<v Speaker 4>I mean that's a broad question. I mean, can you

0:57:28.280 --> 0:57:32.320
<v Speaker 4>be more specific? I've learned so many things from relationships.

0:57:32.360 --> 0:57:33.560
<v Speaker 2>Is your greatest takeaway?

0:57:33.760 --> 0:57:43.439
<v Speaker 4>My greatest takeaway from a past relationship is I would said, Yeah,

0:57:43.520 --> 0:57:49.280
<v Speaker 4>my greatest lesson would be to give poor a little

0:57:49.320 --> 0:57:53.479
<v Speaker 4>bit more into yourself, you know, a little bit more

0:57:53.560 --> 0:57:57.840
<v Speaker 4>than that I've done in the past, and being in relationships,

0:57:57.960 --> 0:58:03.240
<v Speaker 4>you know, whereas the boys and pour it into the personal.

0:58:02.840 --> 0:58:05.480
<v Speaker 1>Home given a lot, I understand that. Yeah, I think

0:58:05.520 --> 0:58:05.880
<v Speaker 1>we can not.

0:58:06.680 --> 0:58:10.360
<v Speaker 4>Really getting a hundred percent right maybe like seventy eighties.

0:58:10.640 --> 0:58:14.080
<v Speaker 1>You're not trying to punish my friend, are you. You're coming?

0:58:15.000 --> 0:58:17.840
<v Speaker 4>I mean, listen, it's going to be a better version

0:58:17.880 --> 0:58:18.160
<v Speaker 4>of me.

0:58:20.520 --> 0:58:22.160
<v Speaker 1>Because you've learned from those things.

0:58:22.320 --> 0:58:22.520
<v Speaker 5>Man.

0:58:22.720 --> 0:58:25.760
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, because she's gonna want the best version of me.

0:58:25.880 --> 0:58:28.240
<v Speaker 4>The best version of me is somebody that you know,

0:58:28.360 --> 0:58:29.840
<v Speaker 4>if I care about myself a little bit.

0:58:31.480 --> 0:58:34.600
<v Speaker 1>So, what's like, what's the toxic trait from one of

0:58:34.640 --> 0:58:40.200
<v Speaker 1>those exes that you secretly love? Like, what isout really

0:58:40.320 --> 0:58:41.800
<v Speaker 1>love and a partner?

0:58:42.280 --> 0:58:42.600
<v Speaker 2>Oh?

0:58:42.680 --> 0:58:47.200
<v Speaker 4>Man, that's a good question because, to be honest, toxicity

0:58:47.320 --> 0:58:49.160
<v Speaker 4>is subjective. You know what I'm saying.

0:58:49.240 --> 0:58:51.800
<v Speaker 1>What people, That's what I'm saying. So like, say, for instance,

0:58:52.720 --> 0:58:54.439
<v Speaker 1>you know some people are like, oh, my man, ain't

0:58:54.440 --> 0:58:56.960
<v Speaker 1>crazy about me like that I don't want him, And

0:58:57.000 --> 0:58:59.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, nah, bitch, that's retarded, I don't want that.

0:58:59.600 --> 0:59:02.880
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, No, I honestly I like for my lady to

0:59:02.920 --> 0:59:08.800
<v Speaker 4>be a little possessive at times, like a little extra jealous,

0:59:08.840 --> 0:59:11.680
<v Speaker 4>like ready to fight a bit, but not really you

0:59:11.760 --> 0:59:13.920
<v Speaker 4>know what I'm saying, Just like, get all hype and

0:59:13.960 --> 0:59:16.920
<v Speaker 4>act like act like you fucking care, and you know

0:59:16.920 --> 0:59:19.080
<v Speaker 4>what I'm saying, You need to show me that you're

0:59:19.080 --> 0:59:21.720
<v Speaker 4>a little jealous. If you ain't about that action, then

0:59:21.720 --> 0:59:22.160
<v Speaker 4>I don't know.

0:59:22.600 --> 0:59:24.120
<v Speaker 2>So you like you want me to slap you a

0:59:24.120 --> 0:59:25.520
<v Speaker 2>little bit, Yeah.

0:59:25.640 --> 0:59:29.640
<v Speaker 4>A little physical where the fuck you going like little

0:59:29.960 --> 0:59:33.880
<v Speaker 4>don't go crazy, you know, but little abuse meant a

0:59:33.880 --> 0:59:34.760
<v Speaker 4>little mini abuse.

0:59:35.680 --> 0:59:36.840
<v Speaker 1>Okay, I like that.

0:59:37.800 --> 0:59:40.000
<v Speaker 4>I could take it. I'm strong.

0:59:40.520 --> 0:59:43.600
<v Speaker 2>Where do you see yourself in the next five years?

0:59:44.200 --> 0:59:47.520
<v Speaker 4>Well, right now, I have six children, right, so my

0:59:47.680 --> 0:59:48.800
<v Speaker 4>goal has always.

0:59:48.440 --> 0:59:50.960
<v Speaker 2>Been to have met that question in the beginning.

0:59:51.160 --> 0:59:56.360
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, so listen, listen, I'm forty seven years old,

0:59:56.360 --> 0:59:58.520
<v Speaker 4>even though people say I look like I look thirty.

0:59:59.040 --> 1:00:03.080
<v Speaker 4>So you know, I've had quite a quite a few years,

1:00:03.640 --> 1:00:05.440
<v Speaker 4>you know, with the opportunity to make some kids. So

1:00:05.480 --> 1:00:07.360
<v Speaker 4>I did that. I take it full advantage of that.

1:00:08.200 --> 1:00:12.520
<v Speaker 4>And but just so you know, it's only two baby mamas,

1:00:12.520 --> 1:00:14.919
<v Speaker 4>all right, because I know you were thinking, oh my god,

1:00:14.960 --> 1:00:18.160
<v Speaker 4>this guy has five baby mamas. It was two baby mamas.

1:00:19.120 --> 1:00:21.560
<v Speaker 4>And I take care of all of my kids, but

1:00:21.640 --> 1:00:27.120
<v Speaker 4>I really want ten kids, honestly, So support no no, no. Me,

1:00:27.120 --> 1:00:30.400
<v Speaker 4>Me and my two baby mothers. We get along phenomenally,

1:00:30.480 --> 1:00:34.240
<v Speaker 4>and I take care of the kids without the government

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<v Speaker 4>being involved because I know how to pick my baby mamas.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're a breeder, is what I'm hearing.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, something something in that short because and I want

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<v Speaker 4>to keep breeding. So five years from now, I want

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<v Speaker 4>to have four more.

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<v Speaker 2>Children, Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm gonna I'm gonna kind of go off at ten. Listen,

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<v Speaker 4>I gotta spread my seed and leave a lineage on

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<v Speaker 4>this earth there, you know what I mean. And hopefully

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<v Speaker 4>Tammy would be the one to give me the four

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<v Speaker 4>kids that I want. Yeah, you know, he's inspired me.

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<v Speaker 4>He's inspired me.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you want a wife?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh shit?

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<v Speaker 4>So I mean, why do we have to follow the

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<v Speaker 4>tradition of wife and husband?

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<v Speaker 6>Right?

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<v Speaker 4>Like, I'm not Christian, so I don't you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>not going to be at a church, you know, with

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<v Speaker 4>a priest trying to marry. So I figured, I don't

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<v Speaker 4>think we need marriage. Marriage. To me, it doesn't hold anyway.

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<v Speaker 4>I think I can be loyal and very given to

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<v Speaker 4>a woman without being married.

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<v Speaker 1>So what if Tammy can't give you these four kids? Right,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, because we are women of a certain age.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying that she may not be able to

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<v Speaker 1>give you too, but a whole four Well, listen, what

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<v Speaker 1>are you planning? Would you then have these other kids

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<v Speaker 1>by somebody else, possibly in relationship?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? Absolutely, see you think the way I think I

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<v Speaker 4>love how you think?

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<v Speaker 7>You know?

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<v Speaker 4>So I mean, we're really progressive. We're living in a

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<v Speaker 4>progressive world. And if you love a person and you

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<v Speaker 4>know something that is deeply or she deeply watched, right,

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<v Speaker 4>allow it to be so just to surrogate mom, somebody

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<v Speaker 4>that's willing to get pregnant and we'll raise the kids ourselves.

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<v Speaker 4>Now another thing, and they have a lot of drugs

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<v Speaker 4>out here that will make make women have twins, will

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<v Speaker 4>help women have twins. Right, so maybe Tam could just

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<v Speaker 4>do two pregnancies, twins and twins four. I think she can.

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<v Speaker 4>She can bang that out. Tam looks strong, like like

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<v Speaker 4>a woman that may you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you a Hebrew Israelite?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, not okay, just asking.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean no, no, that I'm not. I mean, if

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<v Speaker 4>she's open to it, like it's something I will put

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<v Speaker 4>off the table. But right now I don't have the

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<v Speaker 4>energy for more than one. I'm getting older. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>I haven't got to that place yet where you don't

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<v Speaker 4>need any any help. But you know, I'm not no

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<v Speaker 4>spring checking.

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<v Speaker 1>It works, is what I'm hear.

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<v Speaker 4>Works perfectly fine. I'm dreading the day that it doesn't.

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<v Speaker 4>But you know, hopefully Tim could keep it working.

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<v Speaker 1>We might need to ask about blood pressure. Maybe we

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<v Speaker 1>should have told the contestants to have a blood pressure cuff.

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<v Speaker 4>And my blood pressure is great right now.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if I have any other questions?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you ag? I guess that's it. Okay, we go.

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<v Speaker 2>Lighting up over there.

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<v Speaker 4>I need to lighten up.

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<v Speaker 1>You said, yeah, what are you are?

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<v Speaker 5>You?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you smoking?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>No, I smoke marijuana. So I'm soaking a little, a

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<v Speaker 4>little pre roll right now.

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<v Speaker 1>A great match.

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<v Speaker 4>What does it? Is it my voice sound like I'm

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<v Speaker 4>a smoker.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, I heard you like flicking the I was

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<v Speaker 1>just asking because you know, I think that I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>For me, cigarettes would definitely be like an.

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<v Speaker 4>I've never smoked a cigarette?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, cigarette never.

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<v Speaker 4>So listen, let me ask Tam some questions really quick.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what I'm saying. If I'm trying to make

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<v Speaker 4>my not wife but baby mama, you know you know

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<v Speaker 4>what I'm saying. What do you want out of relationship

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<v Speaker 4>to a husband?

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<v Speaker 2>I want to Yeah, so.

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<v Speaker 4>I would I would have to really budge and fall

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<v Speaker 4>into that to that society's tradition, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Not necessarily. Society is just mine for him. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>I want to be a wife. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>just be a longtime girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 4>Or would tell me what makes a difference? Right outside

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<v Speaker 4>of like, because you can buy you can purchase property

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<v Speaker 4>together without being married. Right, two people are gonna be

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<v Speaker 4>able to deed. You guys can obviously live in the

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<v Speaker 4>same household, have children, live a fruitful life without you know,

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<v Speaker 4>some paperwork saying that you guys are marriage. So you

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<v Speaker 4>give me a perfect example what makes a difference.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not just about the paperwork. For me. I come

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<v Speaker 2>from a Christian home and I want my union ordained

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<v Speaker 2>by God. That's important to me. You know, I got you.

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<v Speaker 4>I respect it. I respect religion.

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<v Speaker 1>They can technically be ordained by God. But what happens

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<v Speaker 1>now in society is where the courts have to also,

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<v Speaker 1>that's part of it. Can you be married without the courts? Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>God we do it that way.

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<v Speaker 4>Like So I'm Muslim, just so you know, not an

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<v Speaker 4>israel life, but I am Muslim, So I'll be willing

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<v Speaker 4>to marry a woman in an the Islamic center right

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<v Speaker 4>with the iman there, but not through the state, not

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<v Speaker 4>with the paperwork. So that's that's all dained by God.

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<v Speaker 1>And everything else.

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<v Speaker 2>But you say, like you you know you listen to

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<v Speaker 2>the show, but you have had to have heard that

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<v Speaker 2>I eat bacon.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean that was what those are one of

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<v Speaker 4>the things that was a deal breaker. But I said

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<v Speaker 4>to myself, once time spent some time around me, right,

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<v Speaker 4>and she feels my energy in my disposition, I'll get

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<v Speaker 4>her to stop eating bacon, and no time, so you'll

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<v Speaker 4>be a turkey bacon eater within three months. No fuck

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<v Speaker 4>on my fork.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, it's strict around here.

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<v Speaker 1>All right.

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<v Speaker 4>So you living and die by some bacon?

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, I'm not you know, that's it's I

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<v Speaker 2>could get rid of it, honestly.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, all right. My last question to you, Tam, how

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<v Speaker 4>long do you.

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<v Speaker 2>Feel I thought we were in the nigga's house he interview.

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<v Speaker 4>Listen, I'm taking over the show, all right, that's it.

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<v Speaker 4>So I want to know how long is there a

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<v Speaker 4>certain amount of time that it would take for you

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<v Speaker 4>to give up the buns after dating somebody?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's enough.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, that's that's a legitimate question. I mean, what's

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<v Speaker 4>the time period before you feel like, oh, I'm comfortable

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<v Speaker 4>enough to be intimate with a man. I don't think

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<v Speaker 4>that's an unreasonable question. We're adults here.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I'll answer this question. I was going to hang

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<v Speaker 2>up on you, but I'll answer the question. I don't

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<v Speaker 2>think there's a timeline, you know. I go off the energy,

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<v Speaker 2>So whenever the energy feels right, that's when it will happen.

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<v Speaker 4>I respect it. I lived by those rooms as well.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, there is no right time. But you know, out

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<v Speaker 2>of all the things that you could have asked you

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<v Speaker 2>wanted to know about.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, I'm a very person. I'm sorry, very blunt.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your what's your about it? Oh?

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<v Speaker 5>Bye?

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<v Speaker 1>Let's hang up on this nigga right, let's hang up

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<v Speaker 1>on as Italian right now?

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<v Speaker 3>They really really yeah, go ahead, this was really good.

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<v Speaker 2>You're seemed like a great guy. And we're gonna let

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<v Speaker 2>our listeners decide who they choose for me, so we'll

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<v Speaker 2>see what happens next.

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<v Speaker 4>Sounds good to me, Bang on me, Go ahead, A Jane.

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<v Speaker 1>Nico Nico Nico. I don't know, man, it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>you signed up for a cult of some.

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<v Speaker 4>Story tam would be safe. So I got a feeling

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<v Speaker 4>the agent is gonna be on my side. The rest

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<v Speaker 4>of the guys have done, so go ahead. And picked

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<v Speaker 4>your choice. I'll be ready when you you know, when

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<v Speaker 4>you call them already.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, all right, we appreciate you.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, y'all, we are back from break and this

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<v Speaker 1>week's episode is for the love of tam Bank. All Right, y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>we are back from break in. This week's episode is

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<v Speaker 1>for the love of Tam Bamon. We are back with

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<v Speaker 1>our third contestant, mister Willie.

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<v Speaker 2>What's your last name?

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<v Speaker 5>Williams?

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<v Speaker 1>Williams, Willie Williams.

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<v Speaker 2>Willy Williams is crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>It's easy.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, don't forget it. Don't forget it.

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<v Speaker 2>Tell us a little bit about yourself, WILLI.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, okay, cool. You know, I'm forty years old, I'm

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<v Speaker 5>out of Georgia. I'm in it prior military. I have

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<v Speaker 5>one child, you know, right now, just living enjoying life,

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<v Speaker 5>looking for my lady.

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<v Speaker 4>You know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, interesting, Willie? All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you? Are you looking to be married within the

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<v Speaker 1>next four to five with in the next one to

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<v Speaker 1>two years. Let's just feed this up a bit, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because we forty.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, absolutely absolutely, I think you know right now? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>I'm forty for sure. I'm I'm just real intentional, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>my next few moves are very intentional. So I would

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<v Speaker 5>love for it to turn out in that situation. I

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<v Speaker 5>don't want to rush nothing, but yeah, it's very possible.

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<v Speaker 5>I could be married if I find that right person.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, if Tam Bam ought to act right, we

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<v Speaker 5>might be able to do that.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, I know how to act, okay, actually taking

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<v Speaker 2>acting classes right now.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I believe it.

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<v Speaker 1>What's what's your love language? I know a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people have a combination of them, but what uh what

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<v Speaker 1>would you say your love languages?

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I do like physical touch, you know, that's

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<v Speaker 5>that's always a plus. You know, I don't know, man,

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<v Speaker 5>I would say yeah, but I mean for me, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't want to just stick to what people say.

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<v Speaker 5>I think for me, a real big is communication. You know,

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<v Speaker 5>we could talk through a lot of stuff like that's

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<v Speaker 5>important to me because it, uh, if we choose each other,

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<v Speaker 5>that we choose each other, but we can't communicate, it's

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<v Speaker 5>a problem. So you know, effectively communicating, that's my that's

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<v Speaker 5>my love language.

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<v Speaker 2>What are your deal breakers, Willie?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh? My deal breakers?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, So a woman that doesn't have emotional intelligence, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>she gets all upset and no accountability. It's real big

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<v Speaker 5>no accountability. That's just that sucks, you know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 5>Like you always feel like you have fault. You know,

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<v Speaker 5>that's not that's that's why.

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<v Speaker 1>So you experienced a lot in your previous relationships.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's something I experienced a lot of women period.

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<v Speaker 5>To be honest, you know, taking is a winner. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>na I think and then if she's not funny, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>I need that to be able to sit back and laugh.

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<v Speaker 5>So she ain't funny. She always serious, taking these jokes

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<v Speaker 5>too serious, and we ain't gonna make it. To be honest,

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<v Speaker 5>we ain't gonna make it.

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<v Speaker 2>That's that's actually important to me too.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Yeah, but you know what sometimes with women, like

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<v Speaker 1>the jokes was funny until they became your girl. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>your jokes ain't funny no more.

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<v Speaker 5>That's always my problem, okay, Jay always and that's what

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<v Speaker 5>I don't like, you know. So we'll see how that

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<v Speaker 5>works out. We have to give it back to the street.

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<v Speaker 5>She getting these attitudes. We had to get up out

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<v Speaker 5>of here.

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<v Speaker 2>What's your hitting talent?

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<v Speaker 5>Will uh? I could do the helicopter.

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<v Speaker 1>Na, I mean I didn't act the last I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of did, but we didn't get any visual.

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<v Speaker 5>I play a couple of instruments. I play a couple

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<v Speaker 5>of instruments. You know, I don't know that's really hidden,

1:12:50.479 --> 1:12:51.479
<v Speaker 5>but you know that's my thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I like to play a couple of instruments.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, women, musicians.

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<v Speaker 5>What's hey say that again?

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<v Speaker 2>What's your perfect date idea? Like, if you were taking out,

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<v Speaker 2>where would you want to take me?

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<v Speaker 5>I think it would be, you know, let's see, I

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<v Speaker 5>would I would like to go get something to eat, obviously,

1:13:12.320 --> 1:13:15.080
<v Speaker 5>you know, let's get that out the gate, get some

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<v Speaker 5>real nice, real nice plate, and then I would think, uh,

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<v Speaker 5>I want to do a comedy show. I think a

1:13:21.720 --> 1:13:24.320
<v Speaker 5>comedy show would be pretty dope, sit back and have

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<v Speaker 5>some good laughs, and then uh ended with a couple

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<v Speaker 5>of drinks somewhere in the lounge, you know, and then

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<v Speaker 5>at the end of the night, you know, a little cuddle,

1:13:32.760 --> 1:13:36.519
<v Speaker 5>nothing crazy, you know, a couple of booty rubs in

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<v Speaker 5>the night with we ain't got to do too much

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<v Speaker 5>after that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what's what's your favorite black movie couple? And why?

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<v Speaker 5>Hmmm? Well, you know I got too because one is

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<v Speaker 5>a movie I'm gonna just rock with, you know, I

1:13:55.880 --> 1:13:58.679
<v Speaker 5>gotta rock with Love Jones. You know what I'm saying. Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>that's my first one and the second one. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 5>have to say. It's not a movie, but it's a show.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna say, Issa and Lawrence from Insecure rock with them.

1:14:08.240 --> 1:14:09.960
<v Speaker 5>You know, it's ups and downs. I think that's the

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<v Speaker 5>closest thing to the modern love with you know, social

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<v Speaker 5>media and all that shit included. You know, I think

1:14:17.800 --> 1:14:19.439
<v Speaker 5>that one. I like that one. I like them too.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, did you say you wanted more kids?

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<v Speaker 5>What's y'all's favorite black couples.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I would say Love Jones too, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because I just feel like that's a lot of people's story.

1:14:30.920 --> 1:14:37.880
<v Speaker 1>It's just that situation, ship complicated, you know what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>saying back and forth?

1:14:39.560 --> 1:14:41.000
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, a lot of people.

1:14:41.080 --> 1:14:43.160
<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's it's a little toxic. And I think

1:14:43.200 --> 1:14:45.880
<v Speaker 1>that people like toxicity and they don't want to admit

1:14:45.960 --> 1:14:48.280
<v Speaker 1>to it though. It's like a sixth love language. A

1:14:48.320 --> 1:14:51.640
<v Speaker 1>lot a lot of people just don't recognize they actually like,

1:14:52.040 --> 1:14:53.880
<v Speaker 1>we don't like it too easy, gotta be a little

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<v Speaker 1>little thunder, Yeah for sure.

1:14:57.439 --> 1:15:01.880
<v Speaker 2>I don't know if that's mine. If I don't be honest,

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<v Speaker 2>they're not black people. The notebook.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, but.

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<v Speaker 2>It's such a beautiful story. He just loved her so much,

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<v Speaker 2>their whole life to the end. You know, it was

1:15:12.800 --> 1:15:15.200
<v Speaker 2>a beautiful story. It had his ups and downs too.

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<v Speaker 2>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe maybe he can bring you to Charleston to go

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<v Speaker 1>to Cypress Garden. You know that that's that uh water scene.

1:15:22.479 --> 1:15:25.840
<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm, that's where it was. Are you familiar with

1:15:25.880 --> 1:15:27.000
<v Speaker 2>South Carolina.

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<v Speaker 5>Willie, No, I mean not really. I try to stay

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<v Speaker 5>from that area, but I'll pull.

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<v Speaker 1>Up for you, you know, date location. Okay, I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>giving you some hints. Big Wooly.

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<v Speaker 5>I appreciate and appreciate the oop. I appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 2>What do you think how do you handle disagreements?

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<v Speaker 5>That's a good question. Like I said, I think communication

1:15:52.760 --> 1:15:56.360
<v Speaker 5>is huge, So uh, I would want to definitely, like,

1:15:56.520 --> 1:15:58.720
<v Speaker 5>we need to get to the route. But whatever it is,

1:15:58.840 --> 1:16:02.439
<v Speaker 5>that's number one. You might be lashing out because it's

1:16:02.479 --> 1:16:05.479
<v Speaker 5>something else from last week and it's reminded of or

1:16:05.520 --> 1:16:08.680
<v Speaker 5>something like that that we didn't speak about. So I

1:16:08.760 --> 1:16:10.320
<v Speaker 5>want to sit down and get to the route. And

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<v Speaker 5>I think once we actually put it on the table,

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<v Speaker 5>you tell me how you feeling. I'll tell you why

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<v Speaker 5>I feel a certain way about this. I think we

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<v Speaker 5>should be able to move on, you know, and I

1:16:19.320 --> 1:16:22.280
<v Speaker 5>think it should be something that lingers, because then it

1:16:22.400 --> 1:16:25.720
<v Speaker 5>turns into more. You know, let's just get it over

1:16:25.720 --> 1:16:30.479
<v Speaker 5>and knock it out, go to bed angry. Well, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, I don't know if it's a you know,

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<v Speaker 5>everybody says that I don't want to go to bed angry,

1:16:37.400 --> 1:16:39.200
<v Speaker 5>but sometimes, you know, you might need a couple of

1:16:39.240 --> 1:16:42.600
<v Speaker 5>extra hours before we actually had this conversation because of

1:16:42.640 --> 1:16:46.280
<v Speaker 5>a we might be still fuming over it, and you know,

1:16:46.320 --> 1:16:50.560
<v Speaker 5>it could be a misunderstanding. But if we need to

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<v Speaker 5>go to bed, you know, as long as I get

1:16:52.280 --> 1:16:54.439
<v Speaker 5>to hold you, you know you ain't you can be upset.

1:16:54.439 --> 1:16:56.360
<v Speaker 5>As long as I can hold you, we'll we'll talk

1:16:56.400 --> 1:16:57.240
<v Speaker 5>about it in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>So I gotta say this. Really, if I'm said, please.

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<v Speaker 5>Don't touch me, oh you don't want me to touch.

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<v Speaker 2>You, I'm gonna want you to touch me.

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<v Speaker 5>You don't want me to touch you for sure?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>So are you are you to type like for me?

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<v Speaker 1>Like I need to calm down first before we can

1:17:12.120 --> 1:17:13.960
<v Speaker 1>have the station. But then some people want to do

1:17:14.000 --> 1:17:16.200
<v Speaker 1>it right now, Like, no, you can't walk away with

1:17:16.320 --> 1:17:17.559
<v Speaker 1>yes right now.

1:17:17.680 --> 1:17:19.640
<v Speaker 5>Yes. See that's what I'm saying. See that's aggressive, Like

1:17:19.680 --> 1:17:22.559
<v Speaker 5>that's what I mean. I would like I'll let it sit.

1:17:22.680 --> 1:17:25.000
<v Speaker 5>But I don't want you walking around slamming doors, you know,

1:17:25.120 --> 1:17:27.320
<v Speaker 5>walking like doing all that shit either, you know, So

1:17:27.400 --> 1:17:29.479
<v Speaker 5>let's sit down and if you need a minute, I'll

1:17:29.520 --> 1:17:31.120
<v Speaker 5>give you a minute, you know, sit down and watch

1:17:31.120 --> 1:17:34.040
<v Speaker 5>you some housewives. I don't know what you're watching these days,

1:17:34.080 --> 1:17:37.360
<v Speaker 5>you know, they take get your mind right, and then uh,

1:17:37.960 --> 1:17:39.960
<v Speaker 5>you know, come back with some food or something to

1:17:39.960 --> 1:17:43.200
<v Speaker 5>sit back and eat, and you know, then I talk

1:17:43.280 --> 1:17:45.200
<v Speaker 5>with you gently. You know, you got to start it

1:17:45.200 --> 1:17:46.920
<v Speaker 5>out like that. I'll set the tone and see how.

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<v Speaker 1>You respond and into the mask. Did you say you

1:17:49.680 --> 1:17:50.680
<v Speaker 1>wanted more kids?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh, I'm open to it. M Okay, you know I'm

1:17:56.840 --> 1:17:59.920
<v Speaker 5>open to it. I wouldn't say yes to say no.

1:18:00.200 --> 1:18:01.200
<v Speaker 5>You know, I think we got to be on the

1:18:01.200 --> 1:18:04.599
<v Speaker 5>same page with that because right now I'm thinking legacy.

1:18:04.760 --> 1:18:09.080
<v Speaker 5>You know, I'm business minded. So if if it happens,

1:18:09.080 --> 1:18:12.479
<v Speaker 5>it happens. If not, you know, we'll we'll see what happens.

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<v Speaker 2>What's your go to karaoke song?

1:18:16.520 --> 1:18:16.800
<v Speaker 7>Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>South side, little kiky on what.

1:18:30.200 --> 1:18:30.600
<v Speaker 4>Snip it?

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<v Speaker 5>When y'all hear it, get up and do it.

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<v Speaker 1>If an ex had to describe you in one sentence,

1:18:41.280 --> 1:18:43.000
<v Speaker 1>what do you think or what would you say? They

1:18:43.000 --> 1:18:44.240
<v Speaker 1>would actually say about you?

1:18:45.360 --> 1:18:51.559
<v Speaker 5>Ship It depends on the X, but so you know,

1:18:53.400 --> 1:18:56.559
<v Speaker 5>I would think they would say I was funny. You know,

1:18:56.920 --> 1:19:04.960
<v Speaker 5>I'm a provider, you know, a pleaser, okay, and heads

1:19:05.000 --> 1:19:07.280
<v Speaker 5>charl you know it might be a little stubborn sometimes,

1:19:07.280 --> 1:19:09.240
<v Speaker 5>So I think those are big things they would say.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, what one quality you admire most in other people?

1:19:20.400 --> 1:19:20.559
<v Speaker 4>Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>These days, if somebody can just you know, being kind

1:19:23.680 --> 1:19:26.400
<v Speaker 5>you know, like I guess like because you know, everybody's

1:19:26.439 --> 1:19:28.120
<v Speaker 5>having a different kind of day. So if I run

1:19:28.160 --> 1:19:30.640
<v Speaker 5>to somebody and you just got an attitude or you

1:19:30.640 --> 1:19:33.960
<v Speaker 5>know you're coming off nasty, like you just never know

1:19:34.000 --> 1:19:35.920
<v Speaker 5>who you're talking to. So you know, if I'm walking

1:19:35.920 --> 1:19:39.720
<v Speaker 5>with you, and especially my lady, we're out somewhere, I've

1:19:39.720 --> 1:19:43.519
<v Speaker 5>been with people that just got a little like like

1:19:43.960 --> 1:19:46.160
<v Speaker 5>a little snap to them. Aunt of time talking to people.

1:19:46.280 --> 1:19:49.080
<v Speaker 5>You know, I don't like ther so uh, being kind

1:19:49.080 --> 1:19:52.200
<v Speaker 5>of people because you know, you put out what you

1:19:52.280 --> 1:19:54.120
<v Speaker 5>want in return. So that's what I like.

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<v Speaker 1>So would you say that's like a green flag that

1:19:56.400 --> 1:20:01.200
<v Speaker 1>would like make you instantly? Yeah, you're you're absolute person passion.

1:20:01.520 --> 1:20:04.200
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, if she's people are smile when they see her

1:20:04.280 --> 1:20:07.519
<v Speaker 5>and you know, because of her energy, and that makes me,

1:20:07.640 --> 1:20:09.040
<v Speaker 5>you know, want to be around them more too.

1:20:10.040 --> 1:20:12.360
<v Speaker 2>So Willie, what is it about me that you liked

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<v Speaker 2>that made you want to participate in this?

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<v Speaker 5>You know, I mean, you know, first off, I was

1:20:16.720 --> 1:20:20.799
<v Speaker 5>physical is already there, beautiful, you have a very beautiful smile,

1:20:21.520 --> 1:20:25.280
<v Speaker 5>you know from what I've seen on the shows and her.

1:20:26.400 --> 1:20:29.400
<v Speaker 5>You know, you like to make jokes, you know, and

1:20:29.400 --> 1:20:31.000
<v Speaker 5>I can help you with that. I think I can

1:20:31.040 --> 1:20:33.439
<v Speaker 5>help you touch up some of these jokes, you know

1:20:33.479 --> 1:20:36.200
<v Speaker 5>what I'm saying, which is not wrong with that, but uh,

1:20:36.720 --> 1:20:38.400
<v Speaker 5>those things stood out to me, you know what I'm saying.

1:20:38.479 --> 1:20:41.000
<v Speaker 5>Black and beautiful, you know, and you do got a

1:20:41.000 --> 1:20:48.040
<v Speaker 5>little you know, you got some cheeks back there as well. Absolutely,

1:20:48.280 --> 1:20:52.400
<v Speaker 5>absolutely there all positive things, but you know that's from

1:20:52.400 --> 1:20:54.080
<v Speaker 5>from Afar. I have to see what it's like in

1:20:54.120 --> 1:20:56.840
<v Speaker 5>real life as far as you as a person. So

1:20:58.439 --> 1:21:01.799
<v Speaker 5>that's what peap my interest.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you Willie for noticing m.

1:21:06.160 --> 1:21:08.160
<v Speaker 1>Thank you for noticing this ass.

1:21:09.680 --> 1:21:17.200
<v Speaker 2>I was talking about my smile, ye, smile, absolutely all right,

1:21:17.240 --> 1:21:20.479
<v Speaker 2>if you were stranded on a desert island, a deserted island,

1:21:20.880 --> 1:21:23.160
<v Speaker 2>and you could bring only three things, what would they be?

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<v Speaker 5>And by myself.

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<v Speaker 1>Know if y'all were stranded, you and town.

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<v Speaker 5>Mm hm oh that's a good question.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm.

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<v Speaker 1>We're trying to see if you're a nigga who knew

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<v Speaker 1>how to chop. Would Okay?

1:21:47.040 --> 1:21:49.479
<v Speaker 2>Uh, I'm gonna tell you my three things so then

1:21:49.520 --> 1:21:52.439
<v Speaker 2>you can base yours off of what I'm already bringing.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, you bring some pussy, I'm joking.

1:21:55.960 --> 1:21:59.000
<v Speaker 5>All right, you got to stay warming, and I got

1:21:59.080 --> 1:21:59.880
<v Speaker 5>to stay warm, and I.

1:22:00.800 --> 1:22:04.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna bring a lighter. We need fire, all right,

1:22:04.960 --> 1:22:07.400
<v Speaker 2>for sure because if we boil any water, we can

1:22:07.520 --> 1:22:12.559
<v Speaker 2>survive off of it. And the cell phone beach, we

1:22:12.600 --> 1:22:14.240
<v Speaker 2>gotta calls somebody to get us out of here.

1:22:15.080 --> 1:22:20.920
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, for sure. Uh yeah, I would definitely bring a knife,

1:22:20.960 --> 1:22:22.240
<v Speaker 5>you know what I'm saying, so we can be at

1:22:22.280 --> 1:22:23.960
<v Speaker 5>a chop. Like you said, I need to you know,

1:22:24.160 --> 1:22:26.240
<v Speaker 5>ax or something to get be able to build something

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<v Speaker 5>for us that's off the rip.

1:22:27.920 --> 1:22:28.160
<v Speaker 3>Uh.

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<v Speaker 5>You already got the fire, so I'm gonna have to.

1:22:31.120 --> 1:22:33.760
<v Speaker 5>I'm gonna bring a gun, you know, just in case

1:22:33.800 --> 1:22:36.120
<v Speaker 5>something else I need. I got a rifle. I'm ready

1:22:36.160 --> 1:22:37.880
<v Speaker 5>to go, just in case we need to shoot something.

1:22:38.200 --> 1:22:40.200
<v Speaker 5>I ain't really trying to chase no food down, you know,

1:22:40.280 --> 1:22:43.160
<v Speaker 5>I'm trying to shoot it down and let you cook it.

1:22:43.360 --> 1:22:46.479
<v Speaker 5>And then, uh, I'm gonna bring a blanket. You know

1:22:46.520 --> 1:22:48.760
<v Speaker 5>what I'm saying. That's a thorough So when I build

1:22:48.800 --> 1:22:51.439
<v Speaker 5>this little tent, we could be you know, we can

1:22:51.479 --> 1:22:53.320
<v Speaker 5>be bundled up after you cook for us.

1:22:54.320 --> 1:22:57.679
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so he's in traditional roles. You know you're you're

1:22:57.680 --> 1:22:58.200
<v Speaker 1>gonna be good.

1:22:58.880 --> 1:23:01.920
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, let me know. I'm gonna cook. But that's fine.

1:23:01.920 --> 1:23:04.800
<v Speaker 5>I don't mind, man, Absolutely, we'll be all right.

1:23:05.600 --> 1:23:09.519
<v Speaker 1>Well, my last question is what is black love to you?

1:23:15.040 --> 1:23:17.840
<v Speaker 5>Black love to me is just mandatory, you know. Uh.

1:23:18.640 --> 1:23:23.160
<v Speaker 5>I think that, Uh it's how we'll like prevail in

1:23:23.200 --> 1:23:25.519
<v Speaker 5>the years to come. I think it's so mandatory. It's

1:23:25.560 --> 1:23:29.919
<v Speaker 5>like as far as legacy, not just individual just legacy

1:23:30.160 --> 1:23:33.439
<v Speaker 5>as a whole for black people. You know, when I

1:23:33.479 --> 1:23:35.120
<v Speaker 5>talk to a lot of friends, now, there's so many

1:23:35.120 --> 1:23:40.040
<v Speaker 5>of us that aren't married, you know, or a lot

1:23:40.040 --> 1:23:41.720
<v Speaker 5>of us don't even want to be married, you know.

1:23:41.920 --> 1:23:47.519
<v Speaker 5>So I know that if I think about just black wealth,

1:23:47.680 --> 1:23:51.200
<v Speaker 5>I think that's a key and a key component for

1:23:51.320 --> 1:23:54.840
<v Speaker 5>us in the future. But also I just think it's

1:23:54.840 --> 1:23:57.559
<v Speaker 5>just like, you know, just black love just looks so good.

1:23:57.600 --> 1:23:59.720
<v Speaker 5>If it looks like it's it's just you know, I

1:23:59.760 --> 1:24:02.439
<v Speaker 5>ain't been in it so long, but it's just it's

1:24:02.479 --> 1:24:03.240
<v Speaker 5>just where I want to be.

1:24:03.439 --> 1:24:03.640
<v Speaker 7>You know.

1:24:03.920 --> 1:24:06.120
<v Speaker 5>It feels like home when I'm in there. It's like, oh, yeah,

1:24:06.160 --> 1:24:08.280
<v Speaker 5>I'm good, this is this is a good feeling.

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<v Speaker 2>How long ago was your last relationship?

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<v Speaker 5>Man, it's been a while, you know, maybe it's you know,

1:24:14.520 --> 1:24:16.640
<v Speaker 5>like maybe like six years. You know, she.

1:24:16.760 --> 1:24:19.680
<v Speaker 1>Asian or something. Was she outside of the community, she

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<v Speaker 1>was born, she was one.

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<v Speaker 2>If you ever dated outside of the community, Uh yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I have better.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, I think that's on an individual basis. You know

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<v Speaker 5>what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>You just got that fire, Okay, I heard it was

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<v Speaker 1>different gut, like a little curve to it or something.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, they got they got that bush too. They got

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<v Speaker 5>a different kind of bush. It's thick as hell. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>it's a lot going on down here.

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<v Speaker 2>Relaxingly, come there.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, she got be going out memory life, right, just tell.

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<v Speaker 2>Us one last thing that you would want us to remember.

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<v Speaker 2>You buy our listeners to vote for you.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh oh, they're voting over here, all right. I mean

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<v Speaker 5>I'm clearly the choice. I'm the one, you know. It's

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<v Speaker 5>these other dudes. They cool, They kind of the dude

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<v Speaker 5>you like you. Oh yeah, he was nice, but he

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<v Speaker 5>really didn't leave that effect on me. That's that's what

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<v Speaker 5>WILLI is gonna do. You know what I'm saying, Big Daddy,

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<v Speaker 5>Willie is coming through. Baby, I got you. You know

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<v Speaker 5>what I'm saying. Nah, But really, it's just gonna be

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<v Speaker 5>a good time. It's gonna be a great life. It's

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<v Speaker 5>gonna be the life that you really dreamt about. You

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<v Speaker 5>know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>That's come on, Willie. Okay, we know them dreams. You

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<v Speaker 1>know we love fairy.

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<v Speaker 5>Tales absolutely absolutely.

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<v Speaker 1>This is amazing.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you, will all right, Well listen, y'all have a

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<v Speaker 5>great day.

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<v Speaker 1>Beautiful you for joining.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that was so much fun. You're all right, that

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<v Speaker 2>was fun. I did enjoy it, and for the most part,

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<v Speaker 2>all of them seem okay. I mean that middle one

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<v Speaker 2>was a little different, but all of them, like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>nice guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I uh I actually like, Yeah, number two, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know about that dude. Man, he just sellbody your

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<v Speaker 1>eyes and the jammis one somewhere in the Bronx. It

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't sound appeasing.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know he's gonna fill me up with kids

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<v Speaker 2>and then leave me. Yes, that's what I think. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know. But contested one and three.

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<v Speaker 1>They were pretty nice. Now, so I think our listeners

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<v Speaker 1>they're gonna have a tough time deciding. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know which one I would pick for you.

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<v Speaker 1>They both sound pretty good though.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, maybe I just go out with all three of them.

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<v Speaker 2>No listen recording. Everybody picked, y'all. So we're gonna put

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<v Speaker 2>the post up. It should be up by the time

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<v Speaker 2>you've heard this. Go ahead and slide in the d

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<v Speaker 2>MS and tell us who is it? Is it Jordan's,

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<v Speaker 2>is it Nico or is it Willie?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank God me, big Wille Big You saw that post

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<v Speaker 1>was like Niggain't nobody ever called you? LA said no

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<v Speaker 1>nigga ever never. But I cannot wait, okay for the

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<v Speaker 1>results for today's show. Anyway, you guys, we gotta do

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<v Speaker 1>this more often. If you don't. If these these guys

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<v Speaker 1>don't work out. We might have to do this quarterly

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<v Speaker 1>until you get you a nigga.

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<v Speaker 2>Right and now just gonna go on a date and

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<v Speaker 2>see how it goes. You know this is fun though,

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<v Speaker 2>are y'all? Oh, let me tell y'all this. I can't

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<v Speaker 2>see any of these men. I can't see them, So

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<v Speaker 2>it's just based off of what they're saying, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>So y'all getting this say anything I'm getting. I know

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<v Speaker 2>you're gonna be like, we can't see these niggas either,

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<v Speaker 2>can I? So I see them, AJ seed them. I

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<v Speaker 2>haven't seen them, but I didn't want it to be

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<v Speaker 2>just about or even about how they look. I wanted

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<v Speaker 2>to be about who they are.

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<v Speaker 1>So oh, what is that? Love us blind? Love us blind,

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<v Speaker 1>for the love of Tam Bam, for the love of

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<v Speaker 1>Tam Bam, the Love is Blind edition period.

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<v Speaker 2>So let's see all.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, Y'allso if you enjoyed this episode, y'all, tune in

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<v Speaker 2>And even if I don't love any of these guys.

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<v Speaker 2>I love y'all. I love y'all, love.

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<v Speaker 1>Them too, You love all other strangers.

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<v Speaker 2>Just love the no I mean if I don't like,

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<v Speaker 2>fall in love, if I fall in love with them,

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<v Speaker 2>I love you guys. I'm in love with y'all already.

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<v Speaker 2>Happy Valentine's Day.

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<v Speaker 1>Happy Valentine's Day. We hope y'all bitches listen. Hopefully our

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<v Speaker 1>niggas ain't waste all any money on some poulais. You

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<v Speaker 1>saw young t t.

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<v Speaker 2>This remember speaking now.

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<v Speaker 1>Uh. It never holds your heart.

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<v Speaker 2>Never holds your heart.

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<v Speaker 1>This is by