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Speaker 1: Hoping and we talk back where we encourage you to

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Speaker 1: hustle hard, laugh, ladder, and always keep it cute. So

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Speaker 1: go down. Talk talk.

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Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion to

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Speaker 1: Hey, y'all, is your girl a J holiday? What's up? Team?

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Speaker 3: Damn?

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Speaker 2: Hey y'all, I love y'all. I love you too. AJ.

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Speaker 2: This is love week, This is Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 1: Love y'all. We had a really really lit show this week.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, I might fuck around and get me so dick

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Speaker 3: in five twenty four was real slow.

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Speaker 1: How was the weekend? Did you watch the super Ball?

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Speaker 2: I did? I had so much fun watching it. I

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Speaker 2: watched it by myself. But let me tell you what

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Speaker 2: I did. One of your favorite people from the Breakfast

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Speaker 2: club came by here and was like, oh, I got edibles.

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Speaker 2: You can take one. It just makes you calm, It

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Speaker 2: like edibles because you just never on high. You just

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Speaker 2: hide too long. She was like, girl, this ain't gonna

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Speaker 2: do that. I took that, but if you could not

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Speaker 1: The thing with edibles is that you just don't know

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Speaker 1: much is in a fucking like how much do I

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Speaker 1: So you gotta micro everything, girl.

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Speaker 2: I was it was coming in waves, and you know

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Speaker 2: how I forgot. I took it and I was in

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Speaker 2: here and it was just like halftime was about to start,

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Speaker 2: And I did not fall asleep till like four in

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Speaker 2: nigga I ever knew in life my FaceTime, all of

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Speaker 2: what you're doing, bitch, I'm watching the Super Bowl?

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Speaker 1: What are you doing on the phone calling people?

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Speaker 2: I was like, it's boring, it's boring, you're losing. What

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Speaker 2: are you watching for? Still like talk to me, stupid.

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Speaker 1: We actually went to a Super Bowl party my my

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Speaker 1: really nice setup outside crab legs oysters. I did bring

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Speaker 1: It's a hit, yes, and she was lit. So now

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Speaker 1: y'all know my ravens did not go to the Super Bowl, Okay,

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Speaker 1: but I definitely was rooting for the Eagles, and I

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Speaker 1: kind of already knew they was going to win. Something

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Speaker 2: We both did that last night. Because I don't take edibles.

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Speaker 1: Like it was.

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Speaker 2: Typically super Bowl is a formidable opponent. It's good to

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Speaker 2: this point, you know so, But yeah, Kendricks, I love

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Speaker 2: But I really had a great time. It was very black.

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Speaker 2: a apparently it was a d I halftime show. Y'all

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Speaker 1: Yeah, litten. So I don't know what's gonna happen with

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Speaker 1: Wish your boy Tom Brady, because Tom Brady actually called it.

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Speaker 1: I think I think that he was on this what

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Speaker 1: was saying basically, how basically the referees we have been

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Speaker 1: And this is coming from a cheater, okay, because we

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Speaker 1: know that Tom Brady was flattening footballs and all types

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Speaker 2: The refs, what did the cheat y'all got to catch

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Speaker 1: So let's just get in the stupid internet.

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Speaker 2: Did you see the guy who ran out on the field.

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Speaker 1: I feel like that's something Kendrick Lamar probably actually orchestrated

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Speaker 2: Did you see in the audience? Uh it lit up

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Speaker 2: and said warning wrong wrong way. No, it was a flat.

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Speaker 2: Lot of subliminal and I usually.

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Speaker 2: Don't watch for that, but I was unedible. So he

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Speaker 2: was zooming in right goodness? Is that our first then?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why I was like, let's get into super

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Speaker 1: internite news so we could talk about Kendrick go Mar's performance,

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Speaker 1: so I personally give my own take. I did enjoy

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Speaker 1: the performance. I do wish I heard some more of

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Speaker 1: the other popular songs, what I mean, But he has

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Speaker 1: people are saying like, oh, he shouldn't have given so

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Speaker 1: much like energy to the whole Drake shit. But the

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Speaker 1: song they not like Us means to me write more

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Speaker 1: than a Drake beef I'm saying. I feel like it

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Speaker 1: speaks to a lot more, just like you know, for

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Speaker 1: Black Americans period. You know what I'm saying. These people

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Speaker 2: It's you know what, Listen. I still love Drake. I

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Speaker 2: don't care what nobody say. I still love Drake. I

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Speaker 2: the world don't fuck with him like that. No more.

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Speaker 2: I still love Drake. I feel so bad for him.

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Speaker 2: I feel so I mean, I understand, you know, he

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Speaker 2: so I can't, like, I can't say Drake is absolutely

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Speaker 2: can't sit here and say that I don't understand how

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Speaker 1: It's definitely some back off of shit we don't know, right,

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Speaker 1: some grimy shit he had to have been doing to

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Speaker 1: a lot of people.

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Speaker 2: Right, because Carla, is you getting my nigga? But Drake

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Speaker 2: He's so slim and like he on his Australian tour,

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Speaker 2: And I just I felt really bad because I just

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Speaker 2: before I condemn them. And I try to imagine. Could

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Speaker 2: you imagine the super Bowl, the.

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Speaker 1: Most televised.

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Speaker 2: In the United States, Yes, and it's a dis song

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Speaker 2: for AJ.

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Speaker 1: Like our a.

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Speaker 2: Tam TAM's fat, No TAM's fan no case. Everybody's singing that.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I don't know how I would be

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Speaker 1: A lot of That's why I don't even like big

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Speaker 1: events like that anyway, Like to actually be in attendance

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Speaker 1: because it's the energy of the people that's making shit happen.

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Speaker 1: Everybody's saying this thing. So he really like he used

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Speaker 1: the energy to people to demolish that Nigga's career for sure. Man,

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Speaker 1: I just he.

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Speaker 2: Was the most stream person in twenty twenty five so far.

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Speaker 2: You know, he gave us fifteen summers of good music.

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Speaker 2: You can't deny what he has done for hip hop.

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Speaker 2: You know in the culture, everybody loved drinking Toil last year.

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Speaker 1: You know, I introduced Drake to a whole office of

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Speaker 1: was bumping Drake that his mixtape. Yeah, like I know,

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Speaker 2: Sometimes I be feeling like uh, and y'all might get

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Speaker 2: Know what I mean, a black man that identifies as

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Speaker 1: That's just the culture.

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Speaker 2: I just said it three episodes in the row.

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Speaker 1: What you go going on? Okay, so did you know

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Speaker 2: We got to talk about Serena out there cript walk

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Speaker 2: she ever did, because we know we've been watching her

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Speaker 2: cript walk for many years and it's never been this student, but.

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Speaker 1: It always looked, you know, so much, so I didn't

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Speaker 1: Yes, absolutely absolutely listen.

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Speaker 2: Sizza and Serena used to fuck with Drake like there

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Speaker 2: was so many he had on the necklace with the

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh, I did get Drake, I feel

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Speaker 3: And the way Kendrick looked Kendrick is such a fucking

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Speaker 2: And I know he kind of like, damn, how long

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Speaker 1: He wanted to be over.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he ready to you want damn move on? I

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Speaker 2: know he glad the super Bowl is gone. I feel

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Speaker 2: And now he can. Drake needs to get back to

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Speaker 2: making songs like God's what's it called what God's Love? No,

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Speaker 1: I didn't see that.

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Speaker 2: You know that song. I can't think of it right now.

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Speaker 2: Songs like Marvin's Room, songs like that make for women, right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because when Kidrick said that I don't like tough,

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Speaker 1: Drake like's song that niggas wave our hands and dance

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Speaker 2: That's what we wanted. Yeah, and that's where we got lost.

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Speaker 2: That's where we got lost.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because he gained too much power. Like I I've

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Speaker 1: what people the Weekend got from up under him. Tory

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Speaker 1: Lanez had to circumvent that nigga and blew up without him,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. But they beefed for a while.

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Speaker 1: Whatever happened to the dude is going up on a

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Speaker 1: Tuesday where he at you know, Yeah, so Drake is

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Speaker 1: on some mob ship because I'm reading this book right now.

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Speaker 1: It's basically about power, and it's not like the power

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Speaker 1: that people it's called the Art of Power. It's not

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Speaker 1: like the power that money and things bring. Right, It's

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Speaker 1: like compassion, you know what I'm saying, Like the real power,

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Speaker 1: a lot of times, once you gain so much notoriety,

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Speaker 1: I think we get little little hints. You know. Look

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Speaker 2: Folks, that's his white side. That's what that Yeah, that's

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Speaker 2: how because you know that's how they that's what I'm sorry,

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Speaker 2: that is the only side.

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Speaker 1: He knows though, because that's who raised him.

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Speaker 2: But we should take a page out of that book

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Speaker 2: and start fistfighting motherfuckers and start taking him the court.

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Speaker 1: Oh I'm on it. Yeah, yeah, that's my type of time.

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Speaker 1: But you know, I think I'm a whole attorney without

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Speaker 2: Girl. Did you see le Angelo Ball? Did y'all see

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Speaker 1: They already have another child together, right yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And you know this woman was thinking that they

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Speaker 2: done with that family and he's starting, he's going off

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Speaker 2: He parading a new girl around all over New Orleans

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Speaker 2: and she's just happy because it's her turn. And that

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you see, So he has a black girl now,

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Speaker 1: and the black girl then calls Nicki baby racist because

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I saw the tweets, I saw the commentary over

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Speaker 1: You gotta be careful how you treat people. That lady

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Speaker 1: They were on Jason Lee's podcast or show. Yeah, they

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Speaker 1: were on Hollywood Unluck, and you know, they were talking

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Speaker 1: This girl she has this is her third child now right.

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Speaker 1: I believe she has one older child from somebody else.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I don't know, yeah too, because.

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Speaker 1: I don't remember. I didn't even realize they were together

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Speaker 2: But how old is that man? He's a young man

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Speaker 2: and she's thirty four?

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Speaker 1: Is she only thirty four?

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Speaker 2: Well that's her stage age.

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Speaker 1: She I could have sworn she been around for a while.

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Speaker 1: He was saying shit, like you know, she know what

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Speaker 2: I just something about trying to get a young man

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Speaker 2: very successful. He making music, mature sports and yeah and immature.

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Speaker 1: You know, so I really can attribute you know, how

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Speaker 1: he's treating her to his new claim to fame with

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: So stupid.

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Speaker 2: I like that song, man, he said, hena hit the Corner.

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Speaker 1: It's old, it's dated. It's a new, dated song.

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Speaker 2: It sounds old, but it don't hit. It don't sound

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Speaker 1: But it's still not a great song. Right for him

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Speaker 1: to just now all of a sudden, you just rap star,

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Speaker 2: How many are you in this era? How many rap

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Speaker 2: stars got songs that are huge that aren't great? Think

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Speaker 1: I don't even know the songs right out here. Don't

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so that don't in our in this society, you

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Speaker 2: don't really have to have talent in music to make

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Speaker 2: good what is deemed good music. I agree because that song,

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Speaker 2: oh baby girl, I love you, you my everything. That

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Speaker 2: song is not good, but I love this. You know

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Speaker 2: it's just sad.

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Speaker 1: Now my favorite shit is get it sex sye. Now

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Speaker 1: that's affirmations. Girl. You know that ass super fat min

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Speaker 1: lion Dough, I'm his favorite hole.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if that's an affirmation. I don't know

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Speaker 1: Like that, I know, I mean we would say it

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Speaker 1: on the phone with our homegirls, but not like to

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Speaker 2: That was just like very proud horse. And I just

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Speaker 1: From like young Miami. I'm a whore. I respect holes though,

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Speaker 1: you know, I respect holes. I love the holes. I

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Speaker 1: respect horse and holes. I respect the women who charging.

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Speaker 2: I just charging. It was just a slipwalk. We've been

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Speaker 2: going downhill, That's all I was saying.

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Speaker 1: All right, y'all, So listen, I saw this post on

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Speaker 1: but we'll keep it in stupid internet news. But so

436
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:12,080
Speaker 1: I saw this post where this girl. She was trying

437
00:23:12,119 --> 00:23:15,080
Speaker 1: to ask, you know, the internets if she was wrong

438
00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:18,120
Speaker 1: or not. So she tweeted, she said, so, my mom

439
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:21,160
Speaker 1: is living with my fiance and I for the time being,

440
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:24,359
Speaker 1: and last night she went through his phone to prove

441
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:27,800
Speaker 1: to me that all men cheat and found messages between

442
00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:30,560
Speaker 1: him and a woman sending selfies and she put like

443
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:33,879
Speaker 1: the crying emoji. Should I be mad at my mama

444
00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:37,359
Speaker 1: forgetting in my business or my fiance? What do you think, Tammy?

445
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:41,600
Speaker 2: Why is it an or situation both? Because why are

446
00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:45,000
Speaker 2: you ruining my fantasy? Like if I'm living in La

447
00:23:45,080 --> 00:23:47,520
Speaker 2: La Melane, let me be here, like I feel like,

448
00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:50,399
Speaker 2: let's shit find me. I don't go like at my age,

449
00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:52,159
Speaker 2: I don't go looking for shit. If it's meant for

450
00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:54,479
Speaker 2: me to find out, it's gonna come find me. And

451
00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:57,560
Speaker 2: then also mad at your fiance because why are you

452
00:23:57,600 --> 00:23:59,760
Speaker 2: sharing selfies with this woman? You know?

453
00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:03,120
Speaker 1: Yeah? Why did my mom have anything? Even? Fine? Yeah

454
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:08,320
Speaker 1: that part So I am personally more mad at the mom. Okay,

455
00:24:08,520 --> 00:24:10,480
Speaker 1: I have questions. I want to know why to fuck

456
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:12,399
Speaker 1: your mama living in a house with you and your

457
00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:15,399
Speaker 1: fiance and where's her man right? And why is she

458
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:20,320
Speaker 1: intentionally sabotaging. I feel like this, if I never had

459
00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:23,399
Speaker 1: any inkling that my man is doing anything right, I

460
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:27,240
Speaker 1: feel like that's love. That's actually real love where you

461
00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 1: don't find shit out ever, you never feel anything to

462
00:24:31,119 --> 00:24:34,240
Speaker 1: the point like we get married, like I'm happy, I'm in,

463
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:37,920
Speaker 1: I'm I'm in bliss right now. And hey, you're fucking

464
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:46,960
Speaker 1: raggy ass, lonely ass mom, litter yourehouse and disturbs the peace.

465
00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:48,879
Speaker 1: You don't want to see her happy?

466
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:50,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, we know all.

467
00:24:52,280 --> 00:24:54,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess she was like trying to prove her

468
00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:56,879
Speaker 1: that her man ain't that ain't him. That is not

469
00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 1: your job to do it, you know what I'm saying.

470
00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:01,479
Speaker 1: I can see if maybe you call him doing if

471
00:25:01,760 --> 00:25:03,399
Speaker 1: you saw him doing some shit and that was your

472
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:06,400
Speaker 1: way of exposing him, that still wasn't right. You should

473
00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 1: just come and say, hey, I saw him doing such

474
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:10,960
Speaker 1: and such and such. You know, you don't create a

475
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:14,720
Speaker 1: conversation is crazy, like how did how did you get

476
00:25:14,720 --> 00:25:15,320
Speaker 1: his phone?

477
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:16,119
Speaker 2: Right?

478
00:25:16,920 --> 00:25:18,640
Speaker 1: She might be fucking him right.

479
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:21,320
Speaker 2: You need to go, Mama, You need to go. I

480
00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:23,480
Speaker 2: love you, Mama. I'm gonna help you find somewhere to

481
00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 2: go with my sister because.

482
00:25:26,040 --> 00:25:28,680
Speaker 1: She about to go over there and ruin the sister marriage.

483
00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:31,720
Speaker 1: Where is your man? This is why I don't like

484
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:33,080
Speaker 1: mama's This is work.

485
00:25:33,440 --> 00:25:36,959
Speaker 2: I don't like mamas mamas.

486
00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:42,879
Speaker 1: I only like mamas who are in healthy relationships with

487
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:45,399
Speaker 1: their husbands. Those are the moms I like. Those are

488
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:47,280
Speaker 1: the sisters I like. Don't come over here with that

489
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:51,080
Speaker 1: broken bullshit and ruin in my relationship. You want me

490
00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:53,000
Speaker 1: to be just you and me in the house. That's

491
00:25:53,000 --> 00:25:56,280
Speaker 1: what you want, right, You know what I'm saying, She

492
00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:59,160
Speaker 1: probably was, Imagine imagine your mom being that person looking

493
00:25:59,160 --> 00:26:01,240
Speaker 1: at you from the corner you looking at from the

494
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:03,160
Speaker 1: corner of their eyes, like looking at you and your man,

495
00:26:03,240 --> 00:26:05,480
Speaker 1: like how can I fuck this up? And it may

496
00:26:05,560 --> 00:26:09,800
Speaker 1: not be even like intentional, like in her brain, But

497
00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:13,800
Speaker 1: some people are just that nasty, right, Like this is

498
00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:17,000
Speaker 1: just their normal setting. This is just the type of

499
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:19,320
Speaker 1: shit they do. I don't like.

500
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm looking at everybody sideways because mam, why are

501
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 2: you You don't enjoy seeing me this happy? You need

502
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:27,840
Speaker 2: me to be crushed for whatever reason.

503
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:29,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, I could never do that to her.

504
00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:31,119
Speaker 2: Mom is proud. I just want you to give you

505
00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:35,080
Speaker 2: some perspective on reality. No, I cannot mean to do

506
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:38,040
Speaker 2: it to be hurtful or harmful. She just was trying

507
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:42,680
Speaker 2: to see the bitter truth that does exist sometimes, but

508
00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:43,399
Speaker 2: that ain't your.

509
00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:46,840
Speaker 1: Place, right and where they smashing or just frightenizing, you know,

510
00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:50,879
Speaker 1: because I don't feel like if I see this nigga fratnizing,

511
00:26:51,480 --> 00:26:55,040
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna say fratenizing. It's just not okay in

512
00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 1: my relationship. I'm going I'm not gonna go that far

513
00:26:57,160 --> 00:27:00,720
Speaker 1: and say like he can't talk to nobody and he can't. No,

514
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:01,719
Speaker 1: I'm not doing that.

515
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:04,880
Speaker 2: I don't listen. I'm never going through your phone. Yes,

516
00:27:05,080 --> 00:27:07,439
Speaker 2: I don't have the time or the energy or the

517
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:10,159
Speaker 2: bandwidth for whatever is in there. That's your business, and

518
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 2: I want the same respect. Yes, don't go through my ship.

519
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 2: Go through your ship. You know that's it.

520
00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:17,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, So what.

521
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:19,720
Speaker 2: I'm supposed to I will never do to me knowing

522
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:22,399
Speaker 2: about something in your phone. I will never fucking up.

523
00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:25,560
Speaker 1: I enable niggas to be on some bullshit because I'm

524
00:27:25,600 --> 00:27:27,879
Speaker 1: not doing it. First of all, I'm not ruining my Monday,

525
00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:30,880
Speaker 1: I'm not ruining my weekend. I'm not fucking my day

526
00:27:30,960 --> 00:27:33,800
Speaker 1: up by going through your phone. When I go through

527
00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:36,639
Speaker 1: a nigga phone, my ship is packed, I'm leaving you.

528
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:39,240
Speaker 1: I'm actually looking for a good reason to get the

529
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:44,280
Speaker 1: fuck out of there. I have I have, I want

530
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:44,560
Speaker 1: to say.

531
00:27:44,520 --> 00:27:46,760
Speaker 2: I do, I don't, I ain't doing it. Then once

532
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:48,880
Speaker 2: I'm ready to go, I don't need a reason. I'm

533
00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 2: just out, you know, Like, once I'm in that space,

534
00:27:51,280 --> 00:27:52,960
Speaker 2: I don't need to give you no valid like, oh

535
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 2: I found this in your phone.

536
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:55,439
Speaker 1: It's extra little push.

537
00:27:55,520 --> 00:28:01,000
Speaker 2: That's whatever it was. Already was enough concerned. I'm already

538
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:06,399
Speaker 2: packed my ship. So I want to I only and

539
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:10,240
Speaker 2: I only can say that because of experience. I have

540
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:13,600
Speaker 2: ruined my own day. I have ruined my own week

541
00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:18,080
Speaker 2: by being nosy. Mind your business. Mind the business that

542
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:20,960
Speaker 2: pays you, and your business is your peace and your happiness.

543
00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:22,120
Speaker 2: Don't go looking for ship.

544
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:25,320
Speaker 1: And if the business is paying bills, definitely mind your

545
00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:31,680
Speaker 1: fucking business. Girl inside, bitch, get this nigga through the moments. Okay.

546
00:28:32,080 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 1: You need him to be satisfied to write them checks,

547
00:28:36,000 --> 00:28:38,760
Speaker 1: you know, especially if it's responsible. Man, he got you

548
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:42,080
Speaker 1: on auto draft. Bitch, you want all the draft niggas up, No,

549
00:28:43,920 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 1: not me, okay, y'all. So this week it's not a

550
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 1: lot of tab bab y'all so fucking lit. I'm so happy.

551
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:56,280
Speaker 2: It's so fun. I can't believe we're doing this ship.

552
00:28:58,720 --> 00:29:00,400
Speaker 1: We could have came up with a jingle for the

553
00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 1: love of Tam Damn.

554
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:11,280
Speaker 2: Like, y'all, we're about to interview some guys to be

555
00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:13,160
Speaker 2: my me and my ma and my man. I hate

556
00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 2: it had to come to this. This is kind of like,

557
00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:20,200
Speaker 2: I'm embarrassed. Are you really no?

558
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 1: This is gonna be fun.

559
00:29:25,760 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 2: I need a balloon pop. I'm just gonna we're gonna

560
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:32,400
Speaker 2: add some balloon pop. All these niggas is trash. But

561
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 2: these men were hand picked, so I mean from the

562
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 2: people that slid in the d M saying that they

563
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:43,880
Speaker 2: wanted to participate. They were hand picked, so hopefully they're

564
00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 2: good candidates. I'm gonna be mad if you pick me

565
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:47,680
Speaker 2: some trash agent.

566
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 1: Okay, y'all listen. You gotta listen to the show and

567
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:52,960
Speaker 1: what we need from you, and we'll actually put the

568
00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 1: post up. We need y'all to pick out of these

569
00:29:55,640 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 1: three guys, right, who do y'all think. Now it's kind

570
00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:01,800
Speaker 1: of too late for value times, but who do y'all

571
00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 1: think Tam should take on a date or date that's

572
00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:12,480
Speaker 1: what it is. Let's take her on a date, like

573
00:30:12,520 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 1: who should Tam at least do one date and hopefully

574
00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 1: it turns into forever.

575
00:30:17,920 --> 00:30:22,400
Speaker 2: I want forever, all right, So I want y'all to

576
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 2: pick the best suitor out of the three guys. I

577
00:30:25,880 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 2: need y'all help. So let's get into it.

578
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 1: All right, y'all. So we have the first contestant for

579
00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:44,200
Speaker 1: the love of Tam Bam this week for Valentine's Day.

580
00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:46,760
Speaker 1: Y'all were trying to find Tam a big man. Okay,

581
00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 1: you want a big dog. So we have Jordans on

582
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:53,600
Speaker 1: the show this week. Go ahead, Tam, you want to

583
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:55,280
Speaker 1: you want to date?

584
00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:59,120
Speaker 2: Into it? Contested number one. This is my life, y'all.

585
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 2: This is not a I mean, it's a joke, but

586
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:05,440
Speaker 2: it's not a joke, you know what I'm saying. Like Jordan's.

587
00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:08,160
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm definitely taking it serious.

588
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:12,240
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm glad to hear that. Tell me, my co host,

589
00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:13,080
Speaker 2: a little bit about you.

590
00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:18,680
Speaker 6: As y'all know, my name is Jordan. I'm a Midwest

591
00:31:18,760 --> 00:31:25,200
Speaker 6: kid born and raised. Uh and yeah, I'm looking to

592
00:31:25,200 --> 00:31:26,400
Speaker 6: see a smiling person.

593
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:29,960
Speaker 2: Okay, Jordan's all right, tell us what you do?

594
00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 6: Oh, so I actually have a couple of companies that

595
00:31:35,160 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 6: I started with my brother. So we have a restaurant,

596
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 6: we have a trucking company, and we also have another

597
00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 6: restaurant that's in the works right now.

598
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 1: Okay, so we have as an entrepreneur uh on for

599
00:31:48,000 --> 00:31:49,640
Speaker 1: the love of tam bam. Sounds good.

600
00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:52,520
Speaker 6: And I have a day job as well.

601
00:31:53,480 --> 00:31:57,560
Speaker 1: Okay, you Jamaican, right, nah man.

602
00:31:57,440 --> 00:32:00,800
Speaker 6: I'm just I'm inspired to leaders a little better than

603
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:01,320
Speaker 6: I got it.

604
00:32:02,160 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 2: Okay, Jordan, how old are you?

605
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:05,600
Speaker 6: Thirty seven?

606
00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 2: Okay, that's a good age.

607
00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:11,520
Speaker 1: Mm hm, y'all know telling you ob g y n

608
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:20,120
Speaker 1: old bitch, get your young niggas. Okay, yeah, yeah, stop.

609
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 6: Crazy. I love it.

610
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:28,440
Speaker 1: I love it all right, George. My first question is, Jordan,

611
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 1: do you have any children?

612
00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:31,160
Speaker 6: I do?

613
00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:32,520
Speaker 1: Okay, I.

614
00:32:34,040 --> 00:32:35,280
Speaker 6: I have a daughter. She's ten.

615
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:37,880
Speaker 1: Are you Oh that's I mean, that's a big age,

616
00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:39,120
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, a lot of people don't

617
00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 1: want to start all over. Are you interested in having

618
00:32:42,520 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 1: any more children?

619
00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 6: I mean, I'm definitely open to the conversation. I don't

620
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:50,600
Speaker 6: want to feel like I'm fortunate or anyone or but

621
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 6: for me, I love my daughter and I think more

622
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:54,800
Speaker 6: kids will be a blessing.

623
00:32:57,080 --> 00:33:01,520
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, let's see I wrote down some questions.

624
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:06,560
Speaker 2: What is something that you've learned from a past relationship?

625
00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 6: A big thing I learned is a lot of relationships

626
00:33:14,280 --> 00:33:17,920
Speaker 6: are defined by how your life is in that moment.

627
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:19,840
Speaker 6: So it's the lens that you walk into when it's

628
00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:21,640
Speaker 6: the only lens you'll be able to see through unless

629
00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 6: you dedicate yourself to some type of growth. But also,

630
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 6: you can't fix someone. They have to want to fix

631
00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 6: themselves or be better, because not everyone is broken just

632
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:35,760
Speaker 6: because you're not compatible in that moment, so not necessarily fixed.

633
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:38,320
Speaker 6: But they got to want more than what they walk

634
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:40,600
Speaker 6: into the relationship with because everyone should be a ball.

635
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:46,800
Speaker 1: Absolutely. So what are some of your non negotiables in

636
00:33:46,840 --> 00:33:50,400
Speaker 1: a relationship? Like, let'sten, maybe name like the top three

637
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 1: non negotiables, because I think when you're in a relationship,

638
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:57,120
Speaker 1: you kind of you got to get into relationships and

639
00:33:57,200 --> 00:33:58,960
Speaker 1: know what you don't want in the next one.

640
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:03,560
Speaker 6: So exactly, I think I don't really have non negotiables,

641
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:06,480
Speaker 6: but there are some Like I'll meet some people when

642
00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:07,960
Speaker 6: I'll be at like a fork in the road and

643
00:34:07,960 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 6: I have to choose for me this I can handle

644
00:34:10,520 --> 00:34:13,120
Speaker 6: this or I can't, But just don't be a trash

645
00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:13,760
Speaker 6: ass person.

646
00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:20,000
Speaker 2: Don't be a trash ass person and the ass because.

647
00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:23,239
Speaker 6: I think in this day and age we understand, like

648
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:25,960
Speaker 6: especially where the country is at, like, just be a

649
00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:29,080
Speaker 6: decent human. I think as long as you can meet

650
00:34:29,120 --> 00:34:34,440
Speaker 6: me in spaces with grace, I think we're good. But

651
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 6: someone that just comes in expects you to fit perfectly

652
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:41,520
Speaker 6: as the piece into their missing the missing piece into

653
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:45,320
Speaker 6: their puzzle. That doesn't really allow you space to be yourself,

654
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:50,400
Speaker 6: your rights. You're wrong to ups your downs while taking

655
00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:53,520
Speaker 6: all that you're giving and only returning what they feel

656
00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:56,520
Speaker 6: like they feel like giving. I think that that sucks

657
00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:57,840
Speaker 6: in a relational aspect.

658
00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:02,760
Speaker 1: So that's a trash that constitutes as a trash ass person.

659
00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:07,400
Speaker 6: Well trash ass people there's they are. They have no

660
00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 6: glass ceiling, so it could be all the way up.

661
00:35:10,560 --> 00:35:12,120
Speaker 6: But I'm just saying, like I just want someone to

662
00:35:12,120 --> 00:35:15,240
Speaker 6: meet me like at a human level and just really

663
00:35:15,320 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 6: just be a decent human, be the person that your

664
00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:19,280
Speaker 6: parents raised.

665
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:29,240
Speaker 1: Okay, that's fair some humans, right exactly? So how important

666
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:32,000
Speaker 1: is that, like to you? How important is like someone's

667
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:36,040
Speaker 1: uh family background? How important is that to you now

668
00:35:36,080 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 1: in a relationship at thirty seven, because you know, in

669
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:39,840
Speaker 1: the twenties and may not even be thinking about that

670
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:43,040
Speaker 1: type of shit, right, but now it's like who in

671
00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:44,400
Speaker 1: a nutthouse in your family.

672
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:48,920
Speaker 6: It's it's real, it's real, and it's it's very hard.

673
00:35:49,000 --> 00:35:51,160
Speaker 6: Y'all should do a little segment about how you segue

674
00:35:51,160 --> 00:35:54,640
Speaker 6: into that conversation on first, second, third dates, because it's

675
00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:57,799
Speaker 6: something that a lot of people don't really had a

676
00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 6: conversation about. And I've actually learned hard way that dna

677
00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:06,279
Speaker 6: Is is strong, like as much as you don't believe

678
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:08,360
Speaker 6: she gonna be like her mom or auntie or whatever,

679
00:36:08,520 --> 00:36:11,640
Speaker 6: like take notes take notes.

680
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 2: For real, or like their father.

681
00:36:15,239 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 6: I mean I ain't really dated no girls or anything

682
00:36:17,719 --> 00:36:18,400
Speaker 6: like their daddy's.

683
00:36:18,480 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 2: But no, I mean as as me as a woman,

684
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 2: like you have to look at the man and see

685
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:26,319
Speaker 2: how much is he like his own father? You know?

686
00:36:28,200 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 6: True? And I've always been taught that women look at

687
00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:34,000
Speaker 6: men based on character and see how they handle their

688
00:36:34,000 --> 00:36:36,000
Speaker 6: mothers and they can kind of tell how they may

689
00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:40,000
Speaker 6: handle them, but definitely the fathers. But it just depends too,

690
00:36:40,040 --> 00:36:42,799
Speaker 6: because I mean, I do believe that the apple doesn't

691
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:45,319
Speaker 6: far fall from the tree, but hopefully that tree was

692
00:36:45,400 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 6: in his life growing up too, so you can have

693
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:50,759
Speaker 6: an understanding. Because I feel like there's black people at

694
00:36:50,800 --> 00:36:55,759
Speaker 6: times like we're disconnected from that family tree somehow and

695
00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:57,840
Speaker 6: we don't actually have those answers. So we kind of

696
00:36:57,840 --> 00:37:02,040
Speaker 6: moved through life searching for or who we are and

697
00:37:02,120 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 6: photos and just random things that we shouldn't have to.

698
00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is true.

699
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 1: Absolutely.

700
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:10,920
Speaker 2: What's one thing that most people would be surprised to

701
00:37:10,960 --> 00:37:12,080
Speaker 2: know about you?

702
00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:13,280
Speaker 6: Country music?

703
00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 1: You like country music?

704
00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:22,080
Speaker 6: Heah, yeah, I fuck with country music. But it's like

705
00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:25,800
Speaker 6: that cool it's that cool ass country music. And the

706
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:28,879
Speaker 6: way that it happened. I was in college from scholarship,

707
00:37:29,000 --> 00:37:32,759
Speaker 6: and I stayed kind of close to home, like an

708
00:37:32,760 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 6: hour and a half away, and I had this little

709
00:37:34,800 --> 00:37:38,800
Speaker 6: geo prism and in the winter, like I was too impatient.

710
00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:40,040
Speaker 6: I just wanted to get on the road and get

711
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:43,640
Speaker 6: back to my people, so I wouldn't let the car

712
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:46,080
Speaker 6: went up. So I had the little you know, you

713
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:47,839
Speaker 6: had to see the players with the little you take

714
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:53,000
Speaker 6: the face off and everything. So so for the first

715
00:37:53,120 --> 00:37:55,239
Speaker 6: like forty five minutes of a ride, you can only

716
00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:58,840
Speaker 6: get whatever station that you could get the signal for

717
00:37:58,880 --> 00:38:01,759
Speaker 6: and it was sports country. So I started listening to

718
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 6: countries like, damn, these people they have been through some

719
00:38:03,960 --> 00:38:07,440
Speaker 6: ship too, Like I kind of rock with it.

720
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:13,640
Speaker 1: Okay, I used to like country music too. I'm growing

721
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:15,520
Speaker 1: like so yeah.

722
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:18,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, some good old country music.

723
00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:20,759
Speaker 6: And y'all see what that grammy just did?

724
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:23,920
Speaker 2: Yeah right, shout out to be all right?

725
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 1: Yeah you like so you like shabootsy chaboozy, shaboozy. You

726
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:35,000
Speaker 1: have my grandmothers and movies and all types of ship.

727
00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:41,000
Speaker 1: Shaboozy is that what it is? Or sho boots boozy?

728
00:38:41,280 --> 00:38:42,279
Speaker 2: You don't know who that is?

729
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 5: Nah?

730
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:45,759
Speaker 6: See I rock with Sam Hunt.

731
00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 1: Oh he t have a real country ship, not.

732
00:38:47,880 --> 00:38:51,040
Speaker 6: Even like the Rascal Flats.

733
00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 2: Rascal Flats, Okay, you like the Dixie Chicks.

734
00:38:55,360 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 6: I ain't really hit, but I heard a couple of songs,

735
00:38:57,600 --> 00:38:59,400
Speaker 6: but I can't say that I got him on my

736
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:00,919
Speaker 6: title Dixie Chicks.

737
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:04,400
Speaker 2: That's my karaoke I do goodbye earl. Listen to that song,

738
00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:05,319
Speaker 2: so you know not to.

739
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 6: Play bye yo yo. Okay, say, let's I got you?

740
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 1: So, what's your idea of a perfect date? If you

741
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:18,839
Speaker 1: were to win this contest and be able to take

742
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:23,560
Speaker 1: big tan Bam out on a night around town.

743
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:27,920
Speaker 6: I honestly feel like a perfect date is a mixture

744
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:32,120
Speaker 6: of intention and spontaneity. So you know, I want to

745
00:39:32,120 --> 00:39:34,080
Speaker 6: see you, but the goal is to get to know

746
00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:36,320
Speaker 6: you better. So wherever we end up, hopefully it's somewhere

747
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:38,919
Speaker 6: that you're comfortable you can try some new things. Because

748
00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:42,520
Speaker 6: I always feel like first dates should involve first whether

749
00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:46,240
Speaker 6: that's first time trying a new dish, a new location,

750
00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 6: a new area of town, first case, you know what

751
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 6: I mean. Like, I feel like it should be something

752
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:55,440
Speaker 6: that flows. But I also think too with first dates.

753
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:57,319
Speaker 6: For me personally, I always feel like I want to

754
00:39:57,320 --> 00:40:00,759
Speaker 6: be in the presence of somebody that it's playful, and

755
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:03,799
Speaker 6: I'm big on trying to get to the I feel

756
00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:06,279
Speaker 6: like people, when you're in good company, you want to

757
00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 6: pay for it. But I'm the kind of person that

758
00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:13,719
Speaker 6: likes acting like a little bit of posaster shit. So

759
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:17,279
Speaker 6: I might find a waiter. Yeah, Like, I find a

760
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:18,880
Speaker 6: waiter and be like, yo, let me pay for this

761
00:40:18,920 --> 00:40:20,800
Speaker 6: in advance, and then I come back to the table

762
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:23,000
Speaker 6: and try to get you to downe and ditch with me,

763
00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:25,399
Speaker 6: just to see how you kind of respond to it.

764
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:32,320
Speaker 1: I'm a doer, but I'm talking about you to my homegirl,

765
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:34,439
Speaker 1: and I'm a pay on the load leaving out.

766
00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 6: But then if you if you try to pay on

767
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:39,279
Speaker 6: the road, they're gonna be like, he already took care

768
00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:40,880
Speaker 6: of it. Then you're like, damn, I see what it

769
00:40:41,080 --> 00:40:42,760
Speaker 6: was this nigga?

770
00:40:42,800 --> 00:40:44,560
Speaker 2: Know how I broke my foot? I hope you know

771
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 2: that I can't run.

772
00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:49,600
Speaker 6: Oh damn, we're gonna have I just need to need

773
00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:51,959
Speaker 6: you to slide to the bathroom about ten minutes early.

774
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:53,600
Speaker 6: Since you got the low key the little you know.

775
00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:58,279
Speaker 1: I mean, that was good, though that's not like a good,

776
00:40:58,480 --> 00:41:00,399
Speaker 1: very good first date. I like the fun.

777
00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:01,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, me too.

778
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:03,960
Speaker 6: I appreciate you. I mean, if you want to see

779
00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 6: what it's really like, tom Ban, you know what you

780
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 6: gotta do.

781
00:41:07,120 --> 00:41:09,920
Speaker 2: Okay, Well we're gonna see. We got a couple more contestants,

782
00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:11,280
Speaker 2: but so far, so good, Jordan.

783
00:41:12,239 --> 00:41:14,759
Speaker 6: I appreciate it, and I wish them the worst of luck.

784
00:41:17,000 --> 00:41:17,280
Speaker 1: God.

785
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:20,839
Speaker 6: How tall are you tall enough?

786
00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:25,840
Speaker 2: Okay? So what that means? I'm five four?

787
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:29,560
Speaker 6: Oh, well you're gonna be looking up to me five

788
00:41:29,600 --> 00:41:31,799
Speaker 6: to two. I'm six one.

789
00:41:32,640 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 2: You are you're six to one? Okay, that's right, what

790
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:40,040
Speaker 2: do you want to accomplish in the next five years?

791
00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 6: Man? Travel more Honestly, I think I want to touch

792
00:41:46,040 --> 00:41:47,840
Speaker 6: feet to earth on the continent.

793
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:50,040
Speaker 2: On what continent?

794
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:52,880
Speaker 1: The continent Africa?

795
00:41:52,920 --> 00:41:53,320
Speaker 2: Africa?

796
00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:55,600
Speaker 6: Yeah, the Motherland.

797
00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:58,640
Speaker 2: And that's your that's the only thing you want to

798
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:01,439
Speaker 2: accomplish in the next five years, or that's just one of.

799
00:42:01,360 --> 00:42:04,360
Speaker 6: Your that's the top thing, that's the top thing I

800
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:06,480
Speaker 6: want accomplish. I feel like as far as goes with me,

801
00:42:08,120 --> 00:42:10,400
Speaker 6: I live very comfortably right now, So I don't have

802
00:42:10,440 --> 00:42:13,680
Speaker 6: a lot of monetary goals or career goals. I think

803
00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:16,520
Speaker 6: everything that I kind of set in place and the

804
00:42:16,520 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 6: way that I move in life, I think I've kind

805
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:19,880
Speaker 6: of set myself up in a position to kind of

806
00:42:19,920 --> 00:42:23,839
Speaker 6: reap those benefits almost kind of like residually. So now

807
00:42:23,880 --> 00:42:26,960
Speaker 6: it's more about being intentional or not looking back at

808
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:28,520
Speaker 6: my life and saying what would I have done or

809
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:31,400
Speaker 6: what should I have done? But what should I do next?

810
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:33,960
Speaker 6: And then definitely creating more opportunities for my daughter to

811
00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:43,200
Speaker 6: just see the world different than I have the opportunity too, and.

812
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 1: Like that nigga slick that boy good. Yeah, in therapy,

813
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:47,960
Speaker 1: you know what they'd be like you know, before you respond,

814
00:42:48,640 --> 00:42:51,280
Speaker 1: you know, repeat what the person says so or ask questions.

815
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:53,920
Speaker 1: So what I'm hearing you say though, until you slid

816
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:56,360
Speaker 1: that last little piece in that you want to travel,

817
00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:59,040
Speaker 1: you can do all these things. I know my friend

818
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 1: wants to be married at some point, right I also

819
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 1: my friend wants to have a child. That's what I

820
00:43:06,160 --> 00:43:08,960
Speaker 1: was looking for. Like hearing you know like that you're

821
00:43:09,080 --> 00:43:12,120
Speaker 1: even interested in possibly being a husband.

822
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:17,040
Speaker 6: Absolutely, I feel like my goal in life is to

823
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:19,759
Speaker 6: be a great husband and even better father. So but

824
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:22,840
Speaker 6: when you ask me that question, I can't really respond

825
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:24,400
Speaker 6: to that because I don't have that lady next to

826
00:43:24,400 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 6: me right now, so I can only speak on life

827
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:28,759
Speaker 6: through this lands right now. But I would love to

828
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:31,279
Speaker 6: have that kind of be a part of that, Like

829
00:43:31,440 --> 00:43:33,720
Speaker 6: I mean, obviously might not be traveling to the Motherland

830
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:36,600
Speaker 6: unless you want to start the first five years there,

831
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 6: which could happen. I mean, I'm really expact ready right now?

832
00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:46,600
Speaker 2: Are you ready to get out the Country's what's the

833
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:49,279
Speaker 2: most spontaneous thing you've ever done?

834
00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:55,840
Speaker 6: My life is spontaneity. I jumped on a flight and

835
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:59,759
Speaker 6: moved to la on twelve hours notice two hundred and

836
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:05,200
Speaker 6: fifty dollars and three bags fifteen years ago. So yeah,

837
00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:08,200
Speaker 6: I think. I think spontaneity is just like you believe

838
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:10,920
Speaker 6: in that your version of life in that moment matters

839
00:44:11,440 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 6: and it's worth it. I see then, how you speak

840
00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:18,279
Speaker 6: to people, how you walk up and introduce yourself, just

841
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:21,080
Speaker 6: how you show up. I think everything is life is

842
00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:22,399
Speaker 6: about how you react to life.

843
00:44:24,920 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 2: Okay, you've been answering these perfect I know, I mean

844
00:44:29,880 --> 00:44:31,439
Speaker 2: it well.

845
00:44:31,520 --> 00:44:33,400
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like these people want to

846
00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:36,360
Speaker 1: show up, like how we would want a man to

847
00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:40,239
Speaker 1: show up. You got it. You gotta really got some though.

848
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:43,920
Speaker 2: I got another one more question for you, Jordan, So

849
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:46,400
Speaker 2: what would you say is your greatest flaw?

850
00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:59,360
Speaker 6: My greatest flaw not enough time? Sometimes I think I

851
00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:04,560
Speaker 6: would say, I think that the path I'll set myself

852
00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 6: for sometimes I don't always prioritize myself, and I think

853
00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 6: it's a black man. We kind of live a life

854
00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:14,680
Speaker 6: that kind of forces you to endure, and I think

855
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:18,040
Speaker 6: sometimes that gets in the way of our blessings, in

856
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:21,280
Speaker 6: the way of our health, in a way of our peace.

857
00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:26,000
Speaker 6: But I try not to be a bad person, so

858
00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:29,640
Speaker 6: I don't really look for my flaws. I'm definitely not perfect.

859
00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:31,440
Speaker 6: I might tell you I'm gonna call you back or not,

860
00:45:32,760 --> 00:45:35,879
Speaker 6: but I'm one text message away to remind me, like, hey,

861
00:45:35,920 --> 00:45:39,879
Speaker 6: you forgotten, I'll jump on the phone. But I don't

862
00:45:39,920 --> 00:45:42,840
Speaker 6: really have anything that I'm like, Yo, I want to

863
00:45:42,920 --> 00:45:47,200
Speaker 6: change this about me or this this is my fatal

864
00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:48,040
Speaker 6: flaw type vibe.

865
00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:55,000
Speaker 1: Hmm hmm. Interesting. So my last question is if your

866
00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:59,959
Speaker 1: ex had to describe you in one sentence, what would

867
00:46:00,120 --> 00:46:00,680
Speaker 1: they say?

868
00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:03,840
Speaker 6: Depend on which ex. But they all love me still,

869
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:08,000
Speaker 6: so I think it would be good. Like I feel

870
00:46:08,040 --> 00:46:10,279
Speaker 6: like a lot of my exes I met at a

871
00:46:10,320 --> 00:46:13,359
Speaker 6: great time in their lives, but I just wasn't ready

872
00:46:13,360 --> 00:46:18,400
Speaker 6: for mine within my time. But I don't even I

873
00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:20,759
Speaker 6: hate that. I don't remember this movie, but y'aver did

874
00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:23,960
Speaker 6: y'a ever watch that movie where every girl got married

875
00:46:24,000 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 6: after they dated this dude. That was pretty much the

876
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:29,440
Speaker 6: premise of the movie. I forget what it was.

877
00:46:29,440 --> 00:46:32,280
Speaker 1: It was like, it wasn't a swindler?

878
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:32,600
Speaker 4: Was it.

879
00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:36,560
Speaker 2: Swindler?

880
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:39,400
Speaker 1: All of them bitches is married as asked to again,

881
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:40,160
Speaker 1: scammed up?

882
00:46:40,920 --> 00:46:44,640
Speaker 2: No, they got married dated him, they would marry somebody else,

883
00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:45,760
Speaker 2: they would find their husband.

884
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, it was crazy.

885
00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:49,000
Speaker 2: I feel like I saw that movie.

886
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:51,880
Speaker 6: So that's how my life has been with my exes.

887
00:46:51,880 --> 00:46:54,600
Speaker 6: Like all my exes are happily married, like I celebrate them.

888
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 6: I tell them happy anniversary, and I'm so proud of y'all.

889
00:46:57,239 --> 00:47:01,399
Speaker 6: Like so, actually, my my ex if they listening, would

890
00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:04,319
Speaker 6: definitely calling and co sign me. Like, yo, Jordan's who

891
00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:06,879
Speaker 6: he is, So you.

892
00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:09,880
Speaker 2: Don't have nothing nothing bad about you? You're perfect.

893
00:47:10,840 --> 00:47:12,799
Speaker 6: If this sounds perfect, I mean I definitely know I

894
00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:20,000
Speaker 6: ain't perfect, but I definitely believe that great husband materials.

895
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:23,400
Speaker 2: It would be like Jordan is a nigga. Nobody knows

896
00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:24,760
Speaker 2: Jordan is a narc.

897
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 1: He believe.

898
00:47:30,440 --> 00:47:32,480
Speaker 2: You're not in nobody's story.

899
00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:36,719
Speaker 6: No, actually I'm not. And I have set up some

900
00:47:36,840 --> 00:47:39,080
Speaker 6: nights to like ask myself like, damn, are there any

901
00:47:39,120 --> 00:47:41,480
Speaker 6: people that were like not co signing? And I kind

902
00:47:41,520 --> 00:47:44,200
Speaker 6: of racked my brain trying to find that person, and

903
00:47:44,560 --> 00:47:46,840
Speaker 6: they don't exist because I actually treat people like I

904
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:48,839
Speaker 6: would want to be treated everybody somebody's daughter.

905
00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:54,319
Speaker 1: So I actually I actually actually called some x's one

906
00:47:54,320 --> 00:47:57,040
Speaker 1: time because you don't remember how Clubhouse used to be

907
00:47:57,080 --> 00:47:59,839
Speaker 1: real lit and they were playing one of the rooms

908
00:47:59,840 --> 00:48:01,440
Speaker 1: that was and it was playing a video from like

909
00:48:01,520 --> 00:48:07,960
Speaker 1: YouTube basically saying all women crazy type shit, right, So

910
00:48:08,200 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 1: the dude was challenging all the women in the room, like, Okay,

911
00:48:10,640 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 1: we need we need to talk to y'all. Last couple

912
00:48:12,719 --> 00:48:16,319
Speaker 1: of exes, Like, none of my exes, even the fucking craziest,

913
00:48:16,760 --> 00:48:20,719
Speaker 1: had anything really crazy to say about me. So it's possible, Jordan,

914
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 1: is what I'm getting to. It's possible.

915
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:24,760
Speaker 6: You know. I appreciate you meet me in the middle

916
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:25,319
Speaker 6: road on that.

917
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:27,680
Speaker 1: What's your sign though, before you get out of here.

918
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:32,719
Speaker 2: Sagittarius Okay, Sagittarius Okay.

919
00:48:32,760 --> 00:48:35,440
Speaker 1: I like Sagittarius. Sagittarius be tricking a little bit. Like

920
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 1: the men, they're gonna they're gonna spend some money on you,

921
00:48:37,800 --> 00:48:42,319
Speaker 1: tam I'm gonna tell you that right now. They're generous.

922
00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:44,400
Speaker 1: I'll say that, thoughtful.

923
00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:46,839
Speaker 2: Any last thing you would like to say to leave

924
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:48,080
Speaker 2: a lasting impression.

925
00:48:50,160 --> 00:48:55,000
Speaker 6: Whoever wins your love, that's that's the real champion. It's

926
00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:59,279
Speaker 6: an honor to be able to be in consideration. I

927
00:48:59,280 --> 00:49:03,919
Speaker 6: feel like I shot best shot and uh, happy early

928
00:49:04,000 --> 00:49:04,960
Speaker 6: Valentine's Day.

929
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:06,400
Speaker 2: Thank you, Jordan.

930
00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:10,760
Speaker 1: I like Jordan's for sure, Jordan, this is great.

931
00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:13,240
Speaker 2: Thank you so much. For joining us, and we'll definitely

932
00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:16,560
Speaker 2: be in contact because we're gonna let our listeners decide

933
00:49:16,760 --> 00:49:18,719
Speaker 2: who gets a date with me.

934
00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:23,680
Speaker 6: Oh wow, for sure? For sure? Yeah and if and

935
00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:26,440
Speaker 6: if you Yeah, for sure. I'll just keep an eye

936
00:49:26,480 --> 00:49:26,960
Speaker 6: out for that.

937
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:31,920
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, y'all, Okay, you too.

938
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:35,080
Speaker 1: All right, y'all. So that was our first contestant, Jordans.

939
00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:39,839
Speaker 1: We'll be back after this commercial with our second contestant.

940
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:49,280
Speaker 1: Y'all stay tuned, all right, y'all, So we are back.

941
00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:51,080
Speaker 1: This is we talk back.

942
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:51,840
Speaker 7: Uh.

943
00:49:52,160 --> 00:49:55,359
Speaker 1: For the love of Tam Bam. This week for Valentine,

944
00:49:56,560 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 1: we are trying to find her a date. Okay, so

945
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:04,640
Speaker 1: we do have contestant number two. His name is Nico.

946
00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:09,480
Speaker 1: Introduce yourself. Nico to our listeners.

947
00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:12,120
Speaker 4: Thank you for having me. My name is Nico from

948
00:50:12,160 --> 00:50:14,960
Speaker 4: the b X, New York b X. All Right, I

949
00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:17,480
Speaker 4: don't think you guys need any other contestants. I mean,

950
00:50:17,760 --> 00:50:19,959
Speaker 4: get rid of number one. If I'm number two, let's

951
00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:25,120
Speaker 4: cancel number three. I mean there's nobody better, so forget.

952
00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:28,480
Speaker 1: I like that energy, Nico.

953
00:50:28,680 --> 00:50:31,120
Speaker 2: Nico, what's b X, I don't know what that is?

954
00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:34,399
Speaker 4: That is the BRONX, I mean b X I mean,

955
00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:37,319
Speaker 4: it's so synonymous with New York, but it is from

956
00:50:37,360 --> 00:50:39,479
Speaker 4: the Bronx, the dirtiest barrow in New York City.

957
00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:42,720
Speaker 1: All right, from Brooklyn. I heard they be stealing a lot.

958
00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:43,799
Speaker 2: We don't do that.

959
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:49,600
Speaker 4: That's what bok Brooklyn is. Boo, as you compare to

960
00:50:49,640 --> 00:50:51,400
Speaker 4: the Bronx, We're still hood in the Bronx.

961
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:54,000
Speaker 2: Oh well, listen, I'm in Brooklyn.

962
00:50:54,360 --> 00:50:56,520
Speaker 4: But you like hood niggas because I'm a little hood.

963
00:50:57,200 --> 00:51:00,279
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, you know what. I'm not opposed to a

964
00:51:00,400 --> 00:51:06,759
Speaker 2: little hood. So okay, okay, tell us, all right, what

965
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 2: do you do for a living, Nico.

966
00:51:09,160 --> 00:51:12,680
Speaker 4: Well, I'll drive forklifts, right, but I'm not just an

967
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:16,440
Speaker 4: average forklift driver, right, So when trucks pull up the

968
00:51:16,480 --> 00:51:19,920
Speaker 4: big construction sites, I'm the guy that pulls all of

969
00:51:19,920 --> 00:51:22,920
Speaker 4: the wood, all of those heavy materials that come off

970
00:51:22,960 --> 00:51:26,799
Speaker 4: the truck for big skyscrapers. So I'm a big time

971
00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:31,040
Speaker 4: forklift driver. Okay, all right. This is not no little

972
00:51:31,320 --> 00:51:35,480
Speaker 4: warehouse taking pallettes off the you know, the little shelves

973
00:51:35,520 --> 00:51:38,880
Speaker 4: over there. I'm talking decent money. I mean, depends on

974
00:51:38,920 --> 00:51:40,239
Speaker 4: what you think decent money is.

975
00:51:40,880 --> 00:51:42,840
Speaker 1: So you helped rebuild a trade center.

976
00:51:43,520 --> 00:51:47,359
Speaker 4: Not the trade Center, but other buildings in New York City, absolutely,

977
00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:48,560
Speaker 4: a few big ones.

978
00:51:48,760 --> 00:51:50,439
Speaker 2: So you can work with your hands.

979
00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:53,880
Speaker 4: Oh man, I can work with my hands, my mouth,

980
00:51:54,400 --> 00:51:55,240
Speaker 4: you know, my feet.

981
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 7: All that.

982
00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:02,239
Speaker 1: I had with that I don't do. Yeah, that wasn't

983
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:04,600
Speaker 1: one of my questions, but yeah, might as well.

984
00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:08,719
Speaker 4: Yeah, listen, I'm trying to within how many how long

985
00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:10,600
Speaker 4: is this interview here?

986
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:15,879
Speaker 1: As long as guy, I got a.

987
00:52:15,800 --> 00:52:22,239
Speaker 4: Lot of lengthy time, right, So I'm trying to give

988
00:52:22,239 --> 00:52:25,160
Speaker 4: you the true version of who I am within these

989
00:52:25,360 --> 00:52:27,640
Speaker 4: few minutes. So ask me anything.

990
00:52:28,800 --> 00:52:30,919
Speaker 2: What's your idea of the perfect first date?

991
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:31,839
Speaker 6: Oh?

992
00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:37,759
Speaker 4: Perfect? Faith? See, my perfect first date isn't traditional. You know,

993
00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:41,200
Speaker 4: in most cases, a guy wants to take you out

994
00:52:41,239 --> 00:52:45,280
Speaker 4: for dinner, a movie, and all that sort of jazz.

995
00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:48,359
Speaker 4: So because I also did I tell you guys, I'm

996
00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:50,759
Speaker 4: a chef as well in the evening, so I drive

997
00:52:50,840 --> 00:52:53,600
Speaker 4: fork lifts at night and I work at a restaurant

998
00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:57,280
Speaker 4: in the evening. I don't it's a pretty known restaurant

999
00:52:57,320 --> 00:52:58,640
Speaker 4: in New York City, so I don't want to put

1000
00:52:58,680 --> 00:53:00,759
Speaker 4: it out because I don't want people to know where

1001
00:53:00,800 --> 00:53:04,480
Speaker 4: I work. But I'm also a chef at the restaurant,

1002
00:53:04,719 --> 00:53:07,000
Speaker 4: so I'm seeing all that to say that my perfect

1003
00:53:07,040 --> 00:53:10,360
Speaker 4: evening is you coming over to my place and me

1004
00:53:10,520 --> 00:53:13,719
Speaker 4: cooking dinner. Fee And I know, I know you're gonna say, hey,

1005
00:53:14,160 --> 00:53:16,400
Speaker 4: you know, I don't know you. You could be, you know,

1006
00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:18,360
Speaker 4: a serial killer. I'm tired of hear that, you know

1007
00:53:18,400 --> 00:53:21,160
Speaker 4: what I mean, Like, listen, let's let's jump. Let's get

1008
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:23,320
Speaker 4: out of the box, all right and do something a

1009
00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:25,400
Speaker 4: little different, take some risks and date it.

1010
00:53:26,400 --> 00:53:27,360
Speaker 2: What would you cook for me?

1011
00:53:28,719 --> 00:53:33,240
Speaker 4: So my go to dish would be sea.

1012
00:53:33,080 --> 00:53:37,080
Speaker 1: Bass I love sassi.

1013
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:39,319
Speaker 4: Che laine, sea bass wraw caught you.

1014
00:53:39,280 --> 00:53:41,120
Speaker 1: Know, no farm raised from costco.

1015
00:53:41,280 --> 00:53:46,960
Speaker 4: Right, yeah, ohh so you know you know, but it's

1016
00:53:47,000 --> 00:53:49,360
Speaker 4: about It's about how you cook it and season and

1017
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:49,799
Speaker 4: all of that.

1018
00:53:51,160 --> 00:53:54,600
Speaker 1: Okay, you a chef girl, he'd be lifting.

1019
00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:57,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, come on, wrong, chef, I can.

1020
00:53:58,080 --> 00:54:01,360
Speaker 4: I'm trying to tell you tech too, So you know,

1021
00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:02,040
Speaker 4: two tech?

1022
00:54:02,480 --> 00:54:04,640
Speaker 1: What's your nationality? Because you sound like a my boss

1023
00:54:04,680 --> 00:54:05,120
Speaker 1: a little bit.

1024
00:54:06,760 --> 00:54:11,600
Speaker 4: I'm half black and half Italian. It's funny you say that. Okay, Okay,

1025
00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:14,719
Speaker 4: my family has sides to the Geneviech family. But he

1026
00:54:14,760 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 4: don't want to get into that.

1027
00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:20,759
Speaker 2: So I guess this hold on no, let me ask

1028
00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:22,959
Speaker 2: you this before you ask that. Is your mother black

1029
00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:23,920
Speaker 2: or your father?

1030
00:54:24,239 --> 00:54:25,800
Speaker 1: That's important? Now, that's important.

1031
00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:28,960
Speaker 4: My father's brought my mother's a child.

1032
00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:32,320
Speaker 2: So you kind of drakish white.

1033
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:37,000
Speaker 4: No, my father is black. You're usually more of what

1034
00:54:37,040 --> 00:54:38,759
Speaker 4: your father is if you're a young man.

1035
00:54:39,320 --> 00:54:42,200
Speaker 1: Now, Okay, are your parents so together?

1036
00:54:43,320 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 5: No?

1037
00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:46,759
Speaker 4: Absolutely not. I don't think my mom and my dad

1038
00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:47,560
Speaker 4: were ever together.

1039
00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:50,719
Speaker 1: Okay, so your mom is a side bitch. Excuse me,

1040
00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:57,680
Speaker 1: I'm sorry your mom raised you. She didn't mean that, like, no,

1041
00:54:57,719 --> 00:54:59,880
Speaker 1: we're just trying to understand the family dynamic.

1042
00:55:00,080 --> 00:55:02,080
Speaker 4: My mom was kind of a bitch sometimes, all right,

1043
00:55:02,120 --> 00:55:03,000
Speaker 4: So I'm not offended.

1044
00:55:03,080 --> 00:55:08,160
Speaker 7: But but she she may do what she had, and

1045
00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:10,719
Speaker 7: I think she thought she was in a relationship with

1046
00:55:10,840 --> 00:55:13,360
Speaker 7: my dad, you know, but she's so happened to be

1047
00:55:13,520 --> 00:55:14,280
Speaker 7: the side bitch.

1048
00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:14,960
Speaker 4: Without knowing.

1049
00:55:16,440 --> 00:55:18,399
Speaker 1: As long as she's not an habitual side bitch.

1050
00:55:18,400 --> 00:55:20,280
Speaker 4: I mean no, no, that was that was her first

1051
00:55:20,280 --> 00:55:22,480
Speaker 4: and last side bitch, you know. Extravaganza.

1052
00:55:22,760 --> 00:55:26,480
Speaker 1: Okay, you know, we talk about gender roles a whole

1053
00:55:26,600 --> 00:55:30,120
Speaker 1: lot in the black community. I don't know what Italians do,

1054
00:55:30,520 --> 00:55:34,239
Speaker 1: but do you believe in traditional gender roles in relationships?

1055
00:55:34,320 --> 00:55:37,200
Speaker 1: Or do you prefer a more modern approach like fifty

1056
00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:37,640
Speaker 1: to fifty.

1057
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:42,400
Speaker 4: Well, I grew up in that. I grew up in

1058
00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:45,120
Speaker 4: a black household, like even though you know, my dad

1059
00:55:45,320 --> 00:55:49,840
Speaker 4: wasn't always there, right, so, but my mom grew up

1060
00:55:49,880 --> 00:55:53,160
Speaker 4: I mean my mom, she we grew up in the hood,

1061
00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:55,400
Speaker 4: in the Bronx, so it wasn't I didn't grow up

1062
00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:59,000
Speaker 4: around Italians so to speak. So gender roles are important,

1063
00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:02,200
Speaker 4: but I do that we have to grow as a society.

1064
00:56:02,800 --> 00:56:07,560
Speaker 4: And if women want to be considered equal and want

1065
00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:12,279
Speaker 4: to you know, you don't want want equal pay and

1066
00:56:12,719 --> 00:56:15,239
Speaker 4: all that sort of jazz which they they've you know,

1067
00:56:15,280 --> 00:56:18,440
Speaker 4: a lot of them have earned that right and deserve it.

1068
00:56:19,160 --> 00:56:21,560
Speaker 4: Then and you, if you can bring this to the table,

1069
00:56:22,600 --> 00:56:25,080
Speaker 4: then we have to change, you know, the tradition, and

1070
00:56:25,560 --> 00:56:27,440
Speaker 4: women have to call up some of that bread too.

1071
00:56:29,280 --> 00:56:33,879
Speaker 2: So so no, you don't believe, No, in.

1072
00:56:33,920 --> 00:56:39,120
Speaker 4: Some instances, for example, I don't. I do think that

1073
00:56:39,200 --> 00:56:42,920
Speaker 4: a woman should be the one to cook and clean

1074
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:46,759
Speaker 4: more so, but if the man is going to ask

1075
00:56:46,800 --> 00:56:48,360
Speaker 4: for a woman to bring some money to the table,

1076
00:56:48,440 --> 00:56:50,400
Speaker 4: then he has to chime in and help out with

1077
00:56:50,480 --> 00:56:52,960
Speaker 4: those things as well. You know, it can't be just

1078
00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:55,200
Speaker 4: one side, so I feel you.

1079
00:56:55,760 --> 00:56:57,279
Speaker 2: Okay, that's fair.

1080
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:02,000
Speaker 4: Your chef, I'm doing all the damn cooking.

1081
00:57:01,800 --> 00:57:05,879
Speaker 1: Anyway, that's a plus. Yeah, I can cook them.

1082
00:57:06,200 --> 00:57:06,560
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1083
00:57:07,040 --> 00:57:08,000
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1084
00:57:08,040 --> 00:57:11,839
Speaker 2: What's something you've learned from past from the show you've heard?

1085
00:57:12,440 --> 00:57:14,239
Speaker 4: I've heard, Yes, of course I watched it. How can

1086
00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:16,600
Speaker 4: I not watch the show all the time? I'm loving,

1087
00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:17,640
Speaker 4: madly in love with you?

1088
00:57:17,720 --> 00:57:18,200
Speaker 6: So on.

1089
00:57:19,280 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 2: Okay, what's something you learned from past relationships?

1090
00:57:24,040 --> 00:57:24,320
Speaker 5: Oh?

1091
00:57:24,400 --> 00:57:28,240
Speaker 4: I mean that's a broad question. I mean, can you

1092
00:57:28,280 --> 00:57:32,320
Speaker 4: be more specific? I've learned so many things from relationships.

1093
00:57:32,360 --> 00:57:33,560
Speaker 2: Is your greatest takeaway?

1094
00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:43,439
Speaker 4: My greatest takeaway from a past relationship is I would said, Yeah,

1095
00:57:43,520 --> 00:57:49,280
Speaker 4: my greatest lesson would be to give poor a little

1096
00:57:49,320 --> 00:57:53,479
Speaker 4: bit more into yourself, you know, a little bit more

1097
00:57:53,560 --> 00:57:57,840
Speaker 4: than that I've done in the past, and being in relationships,

1098
00:57:57,960 --> 00:58:03,240
Speaker 4: you know, whereas the boys and pour it into the personal.

1099
00:58:02,840 --> 00:58:05,480
Speaker 1: Home given a lot, I understand that. Yeah, I think

1100
00:58:05,520 --> 00:58:05,880
Speaker 1: we can not.

1101
00:58:06,680 --> 00:58:10,360
Speaker 4: Really getting a hundred percent right maybe like seventy eighties.

1102
00:58:10,640 --> 00:58:14,080
Speaker 1: You're not trying to punish my friend, are you. You're coming?

1103
00:58:15,000 --> 00:58:17,840
Speaker 4: I mean, listen, it's going to be a better version

1104
00:58:17,880 --> 00:58:18,160
Speaker 4: of me.

1105
00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:22,160
Speaker 1: Because you've learned from those things.

1106
00:58:22,320 --> 00:58:22,520
Speaker 5: Man.

1107
00:58:22,720 --> 00:58:25,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, because she's gonna want the best version of me.

1108
00:58:25,880 --> 00:58:28,240
Speaker 4: The best version of me is somebody that you know,

1109
00:58:28,360 --> 00:58:29,840
Speaker 4: if I care about myself a little bit.

1110
00:58:31,480 --> 00:58:34,600
Speaker 1: So, what's like, what's the toxic trait from one of

1111
00:58:34,640 --> 00:58:40,200
Speaker 1: those exes that you secretly love? Like, what isout really

1112
00:58:40,320 --> 00:58:41,800
Speaker 1: love and a partner?

1113
00:58:42,280 --> 00:58:42,600
Speaker 2: Oh?

1114
00:58:42,680 --> 00:58:47,200
Speaker 4: Man, that's a good question because, to be honest, toxicity

1115
00:58:47,320 --> 00:58:49,160
Speaker 4: is subjective. You know what I'm saying.

1116
00:58:49,240 --> 00:58:51,800
Speaker 1: What people, That's what I'm saying. So like, say, for instance,

1117
00:58:52,720 --> 00:58:54,439
Speaker 1: you know some people are like, oh, my man, ain't

1118
00:58:54,440 --> 00:58:56,960
Speaker 1: crazy about me like that I don't want him, And

1119
00:58:57,000 --> 00:58:59,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, nah, bitch, that's retarded, I don't want that.

1120
00:58:59,600 --> 00:59:02,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, No, I honestly I like for my lady to

1121
00:59:02,920 --> 00:59:08,800
Speaker 4: be a little possessive at times, like a little extra jealous,

1122
00:59:08,840 --> 00:59:11,680
Speaker 4: like ready to fight a bit, but not really you

1123
00:59:11,760 --> 00:59:13,920
Speaker 4: know what I'm saying, Just like, get all hype and

1124
00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:16,920
Speaker 4: act like act like you fucking care, and you know

1125
00:59:16,920 --> 00:59:19,080
Speaker 4: what I'm saying, You need to show me that you're

1126
00:59:19,080 --> 00:59:21,720
Speaker 4: a little jealous. If you ain't about that action, then

1127
00:59:21,720 --> 00:59:22,160
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1128
00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:24,120
Speaker 2: So you like you want me to slap you a

1129
00:59:24,120 --> 00:59:25,520
Speaker 2: little bit, Yeah.

1130
00:59:25,640 --> 00:59:29,640
Speaker 4: A little physical where the fuck you going like little

1131
00:59:29,960 --> 00:59:33,880
Speaker 4: don't go crazy, you know, but little abuse meant a

1132
00:59:33,880 --> 00:59:34,760
Speaker 4: little mini abuse.

1133
00:59:35,680 --> 00:59:36,840
Speaker 1: Okay, I like that.

1134
00:59:37,800 --> 00:59:40,000
Speaker 4: I could take it. I'm strong.

1135
00:59:40,520 --> 00:59:43,600
Speaker 2: Where do you see yourself in the next five years?

1136
00:59:44,200 --> 00:59:47,520
Speaker 4: Well, right now, I have six children, right, so my

1137
00:59:47,680 --> 00:59:48,800
Speaker 4: goal has always.

1138
00:59:48,440 --> 00:59:50,960
Speaker 2: Been to have met that question in the beginning.

1139
00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:56,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, so listen, listen, I'm forty seven years old,

1140
00:59:56,360 --> 00:59:58,520
Speaker 4: even though people say I look like I look thirty.

1141
00:59:59,040 --> 01:00:03,080
Speaker 4: So you know, I've had quite a quite a few years,

1142
01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:05,440
Speaker 4: you know, with the opportunity to make some kids. So

1143
01:00:05,480 --> 01:00:07,360
Speaker 4: I did that. I take it full advantage of that.

1144
01:00:08,200 --> 01:00:12,520
Speaker 4: And but just so you know, it's only two baby mamas,

1145
01:00:12,520 --> 01:00:14,919
Speaker 4: all right, because I know you were thinking, oh my god,

1146
01:00:14,960 --> 01:00:18,160
Speaker 4: this guy has five baby mamas. It was two baby mamas.

1147
01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:21,560
Speaker 4: And I take care of all of my kids, but

1148
01:00:21,640 --> 01:00:27,120
Speaker 4: I really want ten kids, honestly, So support no no, no. Me,

1149
01:00:27,120 --> 01:00:30,400
Speaker 4: Me and my two baby mothers. We get along phenomenally,

1150
01:00:30,480 --> 01:00:34,240
Speaker 4: and I take care of the kids without the government

1151
01:00:34,280 --> 01:00:37,760
Speaker 4: being involved because I know how to pick my baby mamas.

1152
01:00:37,760 --> 01:00:38,360
Speaker 4: You know, I'm saying.

1153
01:00:39,400 --> 01:00:41,880
Speaker 1: So you're a breeder, is what I'm hearing.

1154
01:00:42,000 --> 01:00:44,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, something something in that short because and I want

1155
01:00:44,480 --> 01:00:47,919
Speaker 4: to keep breeding. So five years from now, I want

1156
01:00:47,920 --> 01:00:51,480
Speaker 4: to have four more.

1157
01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:53,200
Speaker 2: Children, Oh my god.

1158
01:00:53,200 --> 01:00:55,280
Speaker 4: And I'm gonna I'm gonna kind of go off at ten. Listen,

1159
01:00:55,320 --> 01:00:58,080
Speaker 4: I gotta spread my seed and leave a lineage on

1160
01:00:58,120 --> 01:01:00,520
Speaker 4: this earth there, you know what I mean. And hopefully

1161
01:01:00,840 --> 01:01:02,520
Speaker 4: Tammy would be the one to give me the four

1162
01:01:02,600 --> 01:01:07,800
Speaker 4: kids that I want. Yeah, you know, he's inspired me.

1163
01:01:07,840 --> 01:01:08,600
Speaker 4: He's inspired me.

1164
01:01:12,960 --> 01:01:14,560
Speaker 2: Do you want a wife?

1165
01:01:17,720 --> 01:01:18,400
Speaker 1: Oh shit?

1166
01:01:19,280 --> 01:01:23,200
Speaker 4: So I mean, why do we have to follow the

1167
01:01:23,240 --> 01:01:26,040
Speaker 4: tradition of wife and husband?

1168
01:01:26,120 --> 01:01:26,320
Speaker 6: Right?

1169
01:01:26,400 --> 01:01:30,400
Speaker 4: Like, I'm not Christian, so I don't you know, I'm

1170
01:01:30,400 --> 01:01:32,640
Speaker 4: not going to be at a church, you know, with

1171
01:01:32,760 --> 01:01:35,760
Speaker 4: a priest trying to marry. So I figured, I don't

1172
01:01:35,760 --> 01:01:39,680
Speaker 4: think we need marriage. Marriage. To me, it doesn't hold anyway.

1173
01:01:39,880 --> 01:01:43,080
Speaker 4: I think I can be loyal and very given to

1174
01:01:43,160 --> 01:01:45,800
Speaker 4: a woman without being married.

1175
01:01:48,520 --> 01:01:50,919
Speaker 1: So what if Tammy can't give you these four kids? Right,

1176
01:01:51,000 --> 01:01:54,000
Speaker 1: you know, because we are women of a certain age.

1177
01:01:54,160 --> 01:01:55,720
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that she may not be able to

1178
01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:58,480
Speaker 1: give you too, but a whole four Well, listen, what

1179
01:01:59,000 --> 01:02:02,000
Speaker 1: are you planning? Would you then have these other kids

1180
01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:04,280
Speaker 1: by somebody else, possibly in relationship?

1181
01:02:04,600 --> 01:02:07,520
Speaker 4: Yeah? Absolutely, see you think the way I think I

1182
01:02:07,600 --> 01:02:08,479
Speaker 4: love how you think?

1183
01:02:08,840 --> 01:02:09,040
Speaker 7: You know?

1184
01:02:09,120 --> 01:02:13,280
Speaker 4: So I mean, we're really progressive. We're living in a

1185
01:02:13,320 --> 01:02:16,280
Speaker 4: progressive world. And if you love a person and you

1186
01:02:16,320 --> 01:02:19,320
Speaker 4: know something that is deeply or she deeply watched, right,

1187
01:02:19,760 --> 01:02:22,880
Speaker 4: allow it to be so just to surrogate mom, somebody

1188
01:02:22,920 --> 01:02:25,840
Speaker 4: that's willing to get pregnant and we'll raise the kids ourselves.

1189
01:02:26,120 --> 01:02:28,800
Speaker 4: Now another thing, and they have a lot of drugs

1190
01:02:28,840 --> 01:02:31,800
Speaker 4: out here that will make make women have twins, will

1191
01:02:31,840 --> 01:02:34,320
Speaker 4: help women have twins. Right, so maybe Tam could just

1192
01:02:34,360 --> 01:02:38,440
Speaker 4: do two pregnancies, twins and twins four. I think she can.

1193
01:02:38,600 --> 01:02:41,240
Speaker 4: She can bang that out. Tam looks strong, like like

1194
01:02:41,240 --> 01:02:45,440
Speaker 4: a woman that may you know what I'm saying.

1195
01:02:45,920 --> 01:02:47,600
Speaker 1: Are you a Hebrew Israelite?

1196
01:02:48,600 --> 01:02:48,920
Speaker 4: No?

1197
01:02:48,920 --> 01:02:51,439
Speaker 1: No, no, not okay, just asking.

1198
01:02:52,240 --> 01:02:56,960
Speaker 4: I mean no, no, that I'm not. I mean, if

1199
01:02:56,960 --> 01:02:59,320
Speaker 4: she's open to it, like it's something I will put

1200
01:02:59,360 --> 01:03:02,440
Speaker 4: off the table. But right now I don't have the

1201
01:03:02,600 --> 01:03:07,040
Speaker 4: energy for more than one. I'm getting older. I mean,

1202
01:03:07,080 --> 01:03:09,600
Speaker 4: I haven't got to that place yet where you don't

1203
01:03:09,600 --> 01:03:14,000
Speaker 4: need any any help. But you know, I'm not no

1204
01:03:14,200 --> 01:03:14,920
Speaker 4: spring checking.

1205
01:03:16,280 --> 01:03:17,480
Speaker 1: It works, is what I'm hear.

1206
01:03:17,920 --> 01:03:21,640
Speaker 4: Works perfectly fine. I'm dreading the day that it doesn't.

1207
01:03:21,680 --> 01:03:24,880
Speaker 4: But you know, hopefully Tim could keep it working.

1208
01:03:25,680 --> 01:03:27,920
Speaker 1: We might need to ask about blood pressure. Maybe we

1209
01:03:27,920 --> 01:03:31,200
Speaker 1: should have told the contestants to have a blood pressure cuff.

1210
01:03:32,160 --> 01:03:36,120
Speaker 4: And my blood pressure is great right now.

1211
01:03:36,480 --> 01:03:39,360
Speaker 2: I don't know if I have any other questions?

1212
01:03:39,360 --> 01:03:48,280
Speaker 1: Do you ag? I guess that's it. Okay, we go.

1213
01:03:48,400 --> 01:03:49,400
Speaker 2: Lighting up over there.

1214
01:03:50,160 --> 01:03:51,000
Speaker 4: I need to lighten up.

1215
01:03:51,040 --> 01:03:52,600
Speaker 1: You said, yeah, what are you are?

1216
01:03:52,600 --> 01:03:52,760
Speaker 5: You?

1217
01:03:52,840 --> 01:03:53,520
Speaker 1: Are you smoking?

1218
01:03:54,120 --> 01:03:54,320
Speaker 6: Yeah?

1219
01:03:55,240 --> 01:03:58,280
Speaker 4: No, I smoke marijuana. So I'm soaking a little, a

1220
01:03:58,280 --> 01:03:59,480
Speaker 4: little pre roll right now.

1221
01:04:00,080 --> 01:04:00,720
Speaker 1: A great match.

1222
01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:02,520
Speaker 4: What does it? Is it my voice sound like I'm

1223
01:04:02,560 --> 01:04:03,040
Speaker 4: a smoker.

1224
01:04:03,400 --> 01:04:05,600
Speaker 1: No, no, no, I heard you like flicking the I was

1225
01:04:05,640 --> 01:04:07,680
Speaker 1: just asking because you know, I think that I don't know.

1226
01:04:07,800 --> 01:04:11,880
Speaker 1: For me, cigarettes would definitely be like an.

1227
01:04:11,760 --> 01:04:13,200
Speaker 4: I've never smoked a cigarette?

1228
01:04:13,280 --> 01:04:14,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, cigarette never.

1229
01:04:15,280 --> 01:04:17,840
Speaker 4: So listen, let me ask Tam some questions really quick.

1230
01:04:18,360 --> 01:04:19,720
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. If I'm trying to make

1231
01:04:20,000 --> 01:04:26,840
Speaker 4: my not wife but baby mama, you know you know

1232
01:04:26,880 --> 01:04:29,800
Speaker 4: what I'm saying. What do you want out of relationship

1233
01:04:29,840 --> 01:04:31,400
Speaker 4: to a husband?

1234
01:04:31,760 --> 01:04:34,160
Speaker 2: I want to Yeah, so.

1235
01:04:34,120 --> 01:04:36,400
Speaker 4: I would I would have to really budge and fall

1236
01:04:36,440 --> 01:04:40,320
Speaker 4: into that to that society's tradition, you know.

1237
01:04:40,480 --> 01:04:44,200
Speaker 2: Not necessarily. Society is just mine for him. You know,

1238
01:04:44,840 --> 01:04:46,440
Speaker 2: I want to be a wife. I don't want to

1239
01:04:46,560 --> 01:04:48,400
Speaker 2: just be a longtime girlfriend.

1240
01:04:48,320 --> 01:04:53,400
Speaker 4: Or would tell me what makes a difference? Right outside

1241
01:04:53,400 --> 01:04:55,920
Speaker 4: of like, because you can buy you can purchase property

1242
01:04:55,960 --> 01:04:58,400
Speaker 4: together without being married. Right, two people are gonna be

1243
01:04:58,360 --> 01:05:01,400
Speaker 4: able to deed. You guys can obviously live in the

1244
01:05:01,400 --> 01:05:06,800
Speaker 4: same household, have children, live a fruitful life without you know,

1245
01:05:06,920 --> 01:05:09,280
Speaker 4: some paperwork saying that you guys are marriage. So you

1246
01:05:09,320 --> 01:05:12,800
Speaker 4: give me a perfect example what makes a difference.

1247
01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:15,360
Speaker 2: It's not just about the paperwork. For me. I come

1248
01:05:15,440 --> 01:05:20,960
Speaker 2: from a Christian home and I want my union ordained

1249
01:05:20,960 --> 01:05:24,400
Speaker 2: by God. That's important to me. You know, I got you.

1250
01:05:24,480 --> 01:05:26,160
Speaker 4: I respect it. I respect religion.

1251
01:05:27,560 --> 01:05:31,280
Speaker 1: They can technically be ordained by God. But what happens

1252
01:05:31,360 --> 01:05:35,440
Speaker 1: now in society is where the courts have to also,

1253
01:05:36,520 --> 01:05:40,280
Speaker 1: that's part of it. Can you be married without the courts? Yes, yes,

1254
01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:42,479
Speaker 1: God we do it that way.

1255
01:05:42,600 --> 01:05:45,360
Speaker 4: Like So I'm Muslim, just so you know, not an

1256
01:05:45,400 --> 01:05:49,160
Speaker 4: israel life, but I am Muslim, So I'll be willing

1257
01:05:49,200 --> 01:05:53,640
Speaker 4: to marry a woman in an the Islamic center right

1258
01:05:53,800 --> 01:05:57,160
Speaker 4: with the iman there, but not through the state, not

1259
01:05:57,240 --> 01:06:00,080
Speaker 4: with the paperwork. So that's that's all dained by God.

1260
01:06:01,520 --> 01:06:02,240
Speaker 1: And everything else.

1261
01:06:04,080 --> 01:06:06,960
Speaker 2: But you say, like you you know you listen to

1262
01:06:07,000 --> 01:06:09,840
Speaker 2: the show, but you have had to have heard that

1263
01:06:10,080 --> 01:06:10,880
Speaker 2: I eat bacon.

1264
01:06:11,640 --> 01:06:13,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean that was what those are one of

1265
01:06:13,880 --> 01:06:15,680
Speaker 4: the things that was a deal breaker. But I said

1266
01:06:15,680 --> 01:06:19,240
Speaker 4: to myself, once time spent some time around me, right,

1267
01:06:19,320 --> 01:06:22,600
Speaker 4: and she feels my energy in my disposition, I'll get

1268
01:06:22,600 --> 01:06:26,800
Speaker 4: her to stop eating bacon, and no time, so you'll

1269
01:06:26,840 --> 01:06:39,280
Speaker 4: be a turkey bacon eater within three months. No fuck

1270
01:06:39,360 --> 01:06:40,120
Speaker 4: on my fork.

1271
01:06:40,800 --> 01:06:42,800
Speaker 2: Okay, it's strict around here.

1272
01:06:42,960 --> 01:06:43,320
Speaker 1: All right.

1273
01:06:43,680 --> 01:06:45,480
Speaker 4: So you living and die by some bacon?

1274
01:06:45,880 --> 01:06:48,800
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I'm not you know, that's it's I

1275
01:06:48,840 --> 01:06:50,080
Speaker 2: could get rid of it, honestly.

1276
01:06:50,440 --> 01:06:52,840
Speaker 4: Okay, all right. My last question to you, Tam, how

1277
01:06:52,920 --> 01:06:53,600
Speaker 4: long do you.

1278
01:06:53,520 --> 01:06:57,360
Speaker 2: Feel I thought we were in the nigga's house he interview.

1279
01:06:57,920 --> 01:07:00,520
Speaker 4: Listen, I'm taking over the show, all right, that's it.

1280
01:07:00,600 --> 01:07:03,440
Speaker 4: So I want to know how long is there a

1281
01:07:03,480 --> 01:07:06,040
Speaker 4: certain amount of time that it would take for you

1282
01:07:06,360 --> 01:07:08,840
Speaker 4: to give up the buns after dating somebody?

1283
01:07:08,880 --> 01:07:10,080
Speaker 1: Okay, that's enough.

1284
01:07:10,760 --> 01:07:14,080
Speaker 4: I mean, that's that's a legitimate question. I mean, what's

1285
01:07:14,200 --> 01:07:16,680
Speaker 4: the time period before you feel like, oh, I'm comfortable

1286
01:07:16,720 --> 01:07:18,680
Speaker 4: enough to be intimate with a man. I don't think

1287
01:07:18,680 --> 01:07:22,120
Speaker 4: that's an unreasonable question. We're adults here.

1288
01:07:23,120 --> 01:07:25,240
Speaker 2: Okay, I'll answer this question. I was going to hang

1289
01:07:25,320 --> 01:07:28,439
Speaker 2: up on you, but I'll answer the question. I don't

1290
01:07:28,440 --> 01:07:32,320
Speaker 2: think there's a timeline, you know. I go off the energy,

1291
01:07:32,960 --> 01:07:35,800
Speaker 2: So whenever the energy feels right, that's when it will happen.

1292
01:07:37,160 --> 01:07:39,320
Speaker 4: I respect it. I lived by those rooms as well.

1293
01:07:40,360 --> 01:07:48,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, there is no right time. But you know, out

1294
01:07:48,040 --> 01:07:50,880
Speaker 2: of all the things that you could have asked you

1295
01:07:50,920 --> 01:07:51,800
Speaker 2: wanted to know about.

1296
01:07:52,760 --> 01:07:56,480
Speaker 4: Yes, I'm a very person. I'm sorry, very blunt.

1297
01:07:56,840 --> 01:08:00,240
Speaker 1: What's your what's your about it? Oh?

1298
01:08:00,280 --> 01:08:00,480
Speaker 5: Bye?

1299
01:08:00,520 --> 01:08:03,520
Speaker 1: Let's hang up on this nigga right, let's hang up

1300
01:08:03,560 --> 01:08:05,080
Speaker 1: on as Italian right now?

1301
01:08:09,280 --> 01:08:13,160
Speaker 3: They really really yeah, go ahead, this was really good.

1302
01:08:13,520 --> 01:08:16,920
Speaker 2: You're seemed like a great guy. And we're gonna let

1303
01:08:16,960 --> 01:08:20,320
Speaker 2: our listeners decide who they choose for me, so we'll

1304
01:08:20,360 --> 01:08:21,519
Speaker 2: see what happens next.

1305
01:08:21,920 --> 01:08:24,960
Speaker 4: Sounds good to me, Bang on me, Go ahead, A Jane.

1306
01:08:25,880 --> 01:08:30,040
Speaker 1: Nico Nico Nico. I don't know, man, it sounds like

1307
01:08:30,080 --> 01:08:32,240
Speaker 1: you signed up for a cult of some.

1308
01:08:32,400 --> 01:08:36,639
Speaker 4: Story tam would be safe. So I got a feeling

1309
01:08:36,680 --> 01:08:39,120
Speaker 4: the agent is gonna be on my side. The rest

1310
01:08:39,120 --> 01:08:41,400
Speaker 4: of the guys have done, so go ahead. And picked

1311
01:08:41,400 --> 01:08:43,680
Speaker 4: your choice. I'll be ready when you you know, when

1312
01:08:43,680 --> 01:08:44,920
Speaker 4: you call them already.

1313
01:08:45,160 --> 01:08:48,320
Speaker 2: All right, all right, we appreciate you.

1314
01:08:52,200 --> 01:08:56,080
Speaker 1: All right, y'all, we are back from break and this

1315
01:08:56,120 --> 01:09:00,840
Speaker 1: week's episode is for the love of tam Bank. All Right, y'all,

1316
01:09:00,880 --> 01:09:05,160
Speaker 1: we are back from break in. This week's episode is

1317
01:09:05,160 --> 01:09:07,439
Speaker 1: for the love of Tam Bamon. We are back with

1318
01:09:07,520 --> 01:09:10,799
Speaker 1: our third contestant, mister Willie.

1319
01:09:11,640 --> 01:09:12,559
Speaker 2: What's your last name?

1320
01:09:13,120 --> 01:09:14,599
Speaker 5: Williams?

1321
01:09:14,960 --> 01:09:16,960
Speaker 1: Williams, Willie Williams.

1322
01:09:17,320 --> 01:09:19,920
Speaker 2: Willy Williams is crazy.

1323
01:09:20,120 --> 01:09:21,160
Speaker 1: It's easy.

1324
01:09:21,760 --> 01:09:23,519
Speaker 5: Yeah, don't forget it. Don't forget it.

1325
01:09:25,439 --> 01:09:27,400
Speaker 2: Tell us a little bit about yourself, WILLI.

1326
01:09:27,760 --> 01:09:31,439
Speaker 5: Oh, okay, cool. You know, I'm forty years old, I'm

1327
01:09:31,479 --> 01:09:37,920
Speaker 5: out of Georgia. I'm in it prior military. I have

1328
01:09:38,080 --> 01:09:41,960
Speaker 5: one child, you know, right now, just living enjoying life,

1329
01:09:42,600 --> 01:09:43,880
Speaker 5: looking for my lady.

1330
01:09:43,640 --> 01:09:44,240
Speaker 4: You know what I mean?

1331
01:09:44,880 --> 01:09:47,720
Speaker 2: Okay, interesting, Willie? All right?

1332
01:09:47,800 --> 01:09:49,800
Speaker 1: Are you? Are you looking to be married within the

1333
01:09:49,840 --> 01:09:52,960
Speaker 1: next four to five with in the next one to

1334
01:09:53,000 --> 01:09:55,200
Speaker 1: two years. Let's just feed this up a bit, you know,

1335
01:09:55,240 --> 01:09:56,840
Speaker 1: because we forty.

1336
01:09:56,880 --> 01:10:00,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, absolutely absolutely, I think you know right now? Yeah, yeah,

1337
01:10:00,760 --> 01:10:04,120
Speaker 5: I'm forty for sure. I'm I'm just real intentional, you know,

1338
01:10:04,240 --> 01:10:07,880
Speaker 5: my next few moves are very intentional. So I would

1339
01:10:07,920 --> 01:10:10,360
Speaker 5: love for it to turn out in that situation. I

1340
01:10:10,400 --> 01:10:13,799
Speaker 5: don't want to rush nothing, but yeah, it's very possible.

1341
01:10:13,840 --> 01:10:15,960
Speaker 5: I could be married if I find that right person.

1342
01:10:16,680 --> 01:10:18,840
Speaker 5: You know, if Tam Bam ought to act right, we

1343
01:10:18,920 --> 01:10:19,800
Speaker 5: might be able to do that.

1344
01:10:20,320 --> 01:10:23,439
Speaker 2: You know, I know how to act, okay, actually taking

1345
01:10:23,520 --> 01:10:24,759
Speaker 2: acting classes right now.

1346
01:10:25,760 --> 01:10:28,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, I believe it.

1347
01:10:31,280 --> 01:10:33,560
Speaker 1: What's what's your love language? I know a lot of

1348
01:10:33,600 --> 01:10:36,080
Speaker 1: people have a combination of them, but what uh what

1349
01:10:36,120 --> 01:10:37,479
Speaker 1: would you say your love languages?

1350
01:10:38,200 --> 01:10:42,320
Speaker 5: You know, I do like physical touch, you know, that's

1351
01:10:42,600 --> 01:10:47,599
Speaker 5: that's always a plus. You know, I don't know, man,

1352
01:10:47,600 --> 01:10:49,400
Speaker 5: I would say yeah, but I mean for me, you know,

1353
01:10:49,479 --> 01:10:51,200
Speaker 5: I don't want to just stick to what people say.

1354
01:10:51,240 --> 01:10:54,160
Speaker 5: I think for me, a real big is communication. You know,

1355
01:10:54,240 --> 01:10:56,880
Speaker 5: we could talk through a lot of stuff like that's

1356
01:10:56,920 --> 01:11:00,000
Speaker 5: important to me because it, uh, if we choose each other,

1357
01:11:00,120 --> 01:11:02,920
Speaker 5: that we choose each other, but we can't communicate, it's

1358
01:11:02,920 --> 01:11:06,679
Speaker 5: a problem. So you know, effectively communicating, that's my that's

1359
01:11:06,720 --> 01:11:07,760
Speaker 5: my love language.

1360
01:11:08,479 --> 01:11:09,960
Speaker 2: What are your deal breakers, Willie?

1361
01:11:11,080 --> 01:11:12,879
Speaker 5: Oh? My deal breakers?

1362
01:11:13,000 --> 01:11:14,960
Speaker 2: Uh?

1363
01:11:15,040 --> 01:11:18,880
Speaker 5: Yeah, So a woman that doesn't have emotional intelligence, you know,

1364
01:11:19,040 --> 01:11:22,719
Speaker 5: she gets all upset and no accountability. It's real big

1365
01:11:23,000 --> 01:11:25,920
Speaker 5: no accountability. That's just that sucks, you know what I'm saying,

1366
01:11:26,000 --> 01:11:29,479
Speaker 5: Like you always feel like you have fault. You know,

1367
01:11:29,560 --> 01:11:30,919
Speaker 5: that's not that's that's why.

1368
01:11:31,120 --> 01:11:34,240
Speaker 1: So you experienced a lot in your previous relationships.

1369
01:11:34,600 --> 01:11:37,439
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's something I experienced a lot of women period.

1370
01:11:37,520 --> 01:11:48,200
Speaker 5: To be honest, you know, taking is a winner. But yeah,

1371
01:11:48,320 --> 01:11:53,360
Speaker 5: na I think and then if she's not funny, you know,

1372
01:11:53,640 --> 01:11:55,320
Speaker 5: I need that to be able to sit back and laugh.

1373
01:11:55,400 --> 01:11:59,080
Speaker 5: So she ain't funny. She always serious, taking these jokes

1374
01:11:59,320 --> 01:12:02,559
Speaker 5: too serious, and we ain't gonna make it. To be honest,

1375
01:12:02,640 --> 01:12:03,400
Speaker 5: we ain't gonna make it.

1376
01:12:04,040 --> 01:12:05,840
Speaker 2: That's that's actually important to me too.

1377
01:12:06,800 --> 01:12:09,960
Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, but you know what sometimes with women, like

1378
01:12:10,000 --> 01:12:12,960
Speaker 1: the jokes was funny until they became your girl. Yeah,

1379
01:12:13,360 --> 01:12:14,599
Speaker 1: your jokes ain't funny no more.

1380
01:12:14,720 --> 01:12:18,600
Speaker 5: That's always my problem, okay, Jay always and that's what

1381
01:12:18,720 --> 01:12:21,920
Speaker 5: I don't like, you know. So we'll see how that

1382
01:12:21,960 --> 01:12:24,519
Speaker 5: works out. We have to give it back to the street.

1383
01:12:24,560 --> 01:12:28,559
Speaker 5: She getting these attitudes. We had to get up out

1384
01:12:28,560 --> 01:12:28,840
Speaker 5: of here.

1385
01:12:29,800 --> 01:12:30,840
Speaker 2: What's your hitting talent?

1386
01:12:30,960 --> 01:12:35,479
Speaker 5: Will uh? I could do the helicopter.

1387
01:12:37,760 --> 01:12:42,639
Speaker 1: Na, I mean I didn't act the last I kind

1388
01:12:42,640 --> 01:12:44,799
Speaker 1: of did, but we didn't get any visual.

1389
01:12:46,439 --> 01:12:48,280
Speaker 5: I play a couple of instruments. I play a couple

1390
01:12:48,320 --> 01:12:50,400
Speaker 5: of instruments. You know, I don't know that's really hidden,

1391
01:12:50,479 --> 01:12:51,479
Speaker 5: but you know that's my thing.

1392
01:12:51,520 --> 01:12:53,719
Speaker 2: I like to play a couple of instruments.

1393
01:12:53,960 --> 01:12:57,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, women, musicians.

1394
01:12:57,439 --> 01:12:59,880
Speaker 5: What's hey say that again?

1395
01:13:00,280 --> 01:13:03,160
Speaker 2: What's your perfect date idea? Like, if you were taking out,

1396
01:13:03,200 --> 01:13:04,280
Speaker 2: where would you want to take me?

1397
01:13:06,640 --> 01:13:09,519
Speaker 5: I think it would be, you know, let's see, I

1398
01:13:09,520 --> 01:13:12,200
Speaker 5: would I would like to go get something to eat, obviously,

1399
01:13:12,320 --> 01:13:15,080
Speaker 5: you know, let's get that out the gate, get some

1400
01:13:15,280 --> 01:13:19,920
Speaker 5: real nice, real nice plate, and then I would think, uh,

1401
01:13:20,000 --> 01:13:21,680
Speaker 5: I want to do a comedy show. I think a

1402
01:13:21,720 --> 01:13:24,320
Speaker 5: comedy show would be pretty dope, sit back and have

1403
01:13:24,439 --> 01:13:27,320
Speaker 5: some good laughs, and then uh ended with a couple

1404
01:13:27,320 --> 01:13:30,840
Speaker 5: of drinks somewhere in the lounge, you know, and then

1405
01:13:30,880 --> 01:13:32,639
Speaker 5: at the end of the night, you know, a little cuddle,

1406
01:13:32,760 --> 01:13:36,519
Speaker 5: nothing crazy, you know, a couple of booty rubs in

1407
01:13:36,600 --> 01:13:38,679
Speaker 5: the night with we ain't got to do too much

1408
01:13:38,720 --> 01:13:39,000
Speaker 5: after that.

1409
01:13:41,320 --> 01:13:47,080
Speaker 1: Okay, what's what's your favorite black movie couple? And why?

1410
01:13:49,200 --> 01:13:54,360
Speaker 5: Hmmm? Well, you know I got too because one is

1411
01:13:54,360 --> 01:13:55,840
Speaker 5: a movie I'm gonna just rock with, you know, I

1412
01:13:55,880 --> 01:13:58,679
Speaker 5: gotta rock with Love Jones. You know what I'm saying. Okay,

1413
01:13:59,360 --> 01:14:01,280
Speaker 5: that's my first one and the second one. I'm gonna

1414
01:14:01,280 --> 01:14:03,280
Speaker 5: have to say. It's not a movie, but it's a show.

1415
01:14:03,320 --> 01:14:08,240
Speaker 5: I'm gonna say, Issa and Lawrence from Insecure rock with them.

1416
01:14:08,240 --> 01:14:09,960
Speaker 5: You know, it's ups and downs. I think that's the

1417
01:14:10,000 --> 01:14:14,759
Speaker 5: closest thing to the modern love with you know, social

1418
01:14:14,840 --> 01:14:17,760
Speaker 5: media and all that shit included. You know, I think

1419
01:14:17,800 --> 01:14:19,439
Speaker 5: that one. I like that one. I like them too.

1420
01:14:20,120 --> 01:14:22,400
Speaker 2: Okay, did you say you wanted more kids?

1421
01:14:22,720 --> 01:14:25,160
Speaker 5: What's y'all's favorite black couples.

1422
01:14:25,160 --> 01:14:27,960
Speaker 1: I mean I would say Love Jones too, you know,

1423
01:14:28,200 --> 01:14:30,880
Speaker 1: because I just feel like that's a lot of people's story.

1424
01:14:30,920 --> 01:14:37,880
Speaker 1: It's just that situation, ship complicated, you know what I'm

1425
01:14:37,920 --> 01:14:39,200
Speaker 1: saying back and forth?

1426
01:14:39,560 --> 01:14:41,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, a lot of people.

1427
01:14:41,080 --> 01:14:43,160
Speaker 1: I mean, that's it's a little toxic. And I think

1428
01:14:43,200 --> 01:14:45,880
Speaker 1: that people like toxicity and they don't want to admit

1429
01:14:45,960 --> 01:14:48,280
Speaker 1: to it though. It's like a sixth love language. A

1430
01:14:48,320 --> 01:14:51,640
Speaker 1: lot a lot of people just don't recognize they actually like,

1431
01:14:52,040 --> 01:14:53,880
Speaker 1: we don't like it too easy, gotta be a little

1432
01:14:54,280 --> 01:14:56,080
Speaker 1: little thunder, Yeah for sure.

1433
01:14:57,439 --> 01:15:01,880
Speaker 2: I don't know if that's mine. If I don't be honest,

1434
01:15:01,920 --> 01:15:03,959
Speaker 2: they're not black people. The notebook.

1435
01:15:04,920 --> 01:15:05,559
Speaker 5: Okay, but.

1436
01:15:07,120 --> 01:15:09,479
Speaker 2: It's such a beautiful story. He just loved her so much,

1437
01:15:09,600 --> 01:15:11,720
Speaker 2: their whole life to the end. You know, it was

1438
01:15:12,800 --> 01:15:15,200
Speaker 2: a beautiful story. It had his ups and downs too.

1439
01:15:15,400 --> 01:15:15,640
Speaker 2: You know.

1440
01:15:15,760 --> 01:15:18,080
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe he can bring you to Charleston to go

1441
01:15:18,120 --> 01:15:22,360
Speaker 1: to Cypress Garden. You know that that's that uh water scene.

1442
01:15:22,479 --> 01:15:25,840
Speaker 2: Mm hmm, that's where it was. Are you familiar with

1443
01:15:25,880 --> 01:15:27,000
Speaker 2: South Carolina.

1444
01:15:26,600 --> 01:15:31,080
Speaker 5: Willie, No, I mean not really. I try to stay

1445
01:15:31,080 --> 01:15:32,719
Speaker 5: from that area, but I'll pull.

1446
01:15:32,600 --> 01:15:35,760
Speaker 1: Up for you, you know, date location. Okay, I'm just

1447
01:15:35,760 --> 01:15:37,240
Speaker 1: giving you some hints. Big Wooly.

1448
01:15:37,720 --> 01:15:40,280
Speaker 5: I appreciate and appreciate the oop. I appreciate that.

1449
01:15:43,040 --> 01:15:46,840
Speaker 2: What do you think how do you handle disagreements?

1450
01:15:48,360 --> 01:15:52,560
Speaker 5: That's a good question. Like I said, I think communication

1451
01:15:52,760 --> 01:15:56,360
Speaker 5: is huge, So uh, I would want to definitely, like,

1452
01:15:56,520 --> 01:15:58,720
Speaker 5: we need to get to the route. But whatever it is,

1453
01:15:58,840 --> 01:16:02,439
Speaker 5: that's number one. You might be lashing out because it's

1454
01:16:02,479 --> 01:16:05,479
Speaker 5: something else from last week and it's reminded of or

1455
01:16:05,520 --> 01:16:08,680
Speaker 5: something like that that we didn't speak about. So I

1456
01:16:08,760 --> 01:16:10,320
Speaker 5: want to sit down and get to the route. And

1457
01:16:10,360 --> 01:16:12,840
Speaker 5: I think once we actually put it on the table,

1458
01:16:13,040 --> 01:16:15,479
Speaker 5: you tell me how you feeling. I'll tell you why

1459
01:16:15,479 --> 01:16:16,880
Speaker 5: I feel a certain way about this. I think we

1460
01:16:16,880 --> 01:16:19,240
Speaker 5: should be able to move on, you know, and I

1461
01:16:19,320 --> 01:16:22,280
Speaker 5: think it should be something that lingers, because then it

1462
01:16:22,400 --> 01:16:25,720
Speaker 5: turns into more. You know, let's just get it over

1463
01:16:25,720 --> 01:16:30,479
Speaker 5: and knock it out, go to bed angry. Well, you know,

1464
01:16:30,600 --> 01:16:35,160
Speaker 5: I mean, I don't know if it's a you know,

1465
01:16:35,200 --> 01:16:37,400
Speaker 5: everybody says that I don't want to go to bed angry,

1466
01:16:37,400 --> 01:16:39,200
Speaker 5: but sometimes, you know, you might need a couple of

1467
01:16:39,240 --> 01:16:42,600
Speaker 5: extra hours before we actually had this conversation because of

1468
01:16:42,640 --> 01:16:46,280
Speaker 5: a we might be still fuming over it, and you know,

1469
01:16:46,320 --> 01:16:50,560
Speaker 5: it could be a misunderstanding. But if we need to

1470
01:16:50,600 --> 01:16:52,280
Speaker 5: go to bed, you know, as long as I get

1471
01:16:52,280 --> 01:16:54,439
Speaker 5: to hold you, you know you ain't you can be upset.

1472
01:16:54,439 --> 01:16:56,360
Speaker 5: As long as I can hold you, we'll we'll talk

1473
01:16:56,400 --> 01:16:57,240
Speaker 5: about it in the morning.

1474
01:16:57,880 --> 01:17:00,759
Speaker 2: So I gotta say this. Really, if I'm said, please.

1475
01:17:00,560 --> 01:17:03,280
Speaker 5: Don't touch me, oh you don't want me to touch.

1476
01:17:03,120 --> 01:17:04,920
Speaker 2: You, I'm gonna want you to touch me.

1477
01:17:05,040 --> 01:17:06,679
Speaker 5: You don't want me to touch you for sure?

1478
01:17:07,200 --> 01:17:07,599
Speaker 2: Okay?

1479
01:17:07,760 --> 01:17:09,720
Speaker 1: So are you are you to type like for me?

1480
01:17:09,960 --> 01:17:12,080
Speaker 1: Like I need to calm down first before we can

1481
01:17:12,120 --> 01:17:13,960
Speaker 1: have the station. But then some people want to do

1482
01:17:14,000 --> 01:17:16,200
Speaker 1: it right now, Like, no, you can't walk away with

1483
01:17:16,320 --> 01:17:17,559
Speaker 1: yes right now.

1484
01:17:17,680 --> 01:17:19,640
Speaker 5: Yes. See that's what I'm saying. See that's aggressive, Like

1485
01:17:19,680 --> 01:17:22,559
Speaker 5: that's what I mean. I would like I'll let it sit.

1486
01:17:22,680 --> 01:17:25,000
Speaker 5: But I don't want you walking around slamming doors, you know,

1487
01:17:25,120 --> 01:17:27,320
Speaker 5: walking like doing all that shit either, you know, So

1488
01:17:27,400 --> 01:17:29,479
Speaker 5: let's sit down and if you need a minute, I'll

1489
01:17:29,520 --> 01:17:31,120
Speaker 5: give you a minute, you know, sit down and watch

1490
01:17:31,120 --> 01:17:34,040
Speaker 5: you some housewives. I don't know what you're watching these days,

1491
01:17:34,080 --> 01:17:37,360
Speaker 5: you know, they take get your mind right, and then uh,

1492
01:17:37,960 --> 01:17:39,960
Speaker 5: you know, come back with some food or something to

1493
01:17:39,960 --> 01:17:43,200
Speaker 5: sit back and eat, and you know, then I talk

1494
01:17:43,280 --> 01:17:45,200
Speaker 5: with you gently. You know, you got to start it

1495
01:17:45,200 --> 01:17:46,920
Speaker 5: out like that. I'll set the tone and see how.

1496
01:17:46,800 --> 01:17:49,640
Speaker 1: You respond and into the mask. Did you say you

1497
01:17:49,680 --> 01:17:50,680
Speaker 1: wanted more kids?

1498
01:17:51,920 --> 01:17:56,840
Speaker 5: Uh, I'm open to it. M Okay, you know I'm

1499
01:17:56,840 --> 01:17:59,920
Speaker 5: open to it. I wouldn't say yes to say no.

1500
01:18:00,200 --> 01:18:01,200
Speaker 5: You know, I think we got to be on the

1501
01:18:01,200 --> 01:18:04,599
Speaker 5: same page with that because right now I'm thinking legacy.

1502
01:18:04,760 --> 01:18:09,080
Speaker 5: You know, I'm business minded. So if if it happens,

1503
01:18:09,080 --> 01:18:12,479
Speaker 5: it happens. If not, you know, we'll we'll see what happens.

1504
01:18:13,120 --> 01:18:14,639
Speaker 2: What's your go to karaoke song?

1505
01:18:16,520 --> 01:18:16,800
Speaker 7: Uh?

1506
01:18:17,840 --> 01:18:27,040
Speaker 5: South side, little kiky on what.

1507
01:18:30,200 --> 01:18:30,600
Speaker 4: Snip it?

1508
01:18:33,200 --> 01:18:34,720
Speaker 5: When y'all hear it, get up and do it.

1509
01:18:38,120 --> 01:18:41,160
Speaker 1: If an ex had to describe you in one sentence,

1510
01:18:41,280 --> 01:18:43,000
Speaker 1: what do you think or what would you say? They

1511
01:18:43,000 --> 01:18:44,240
Speaker 1: would actually say about you?

1512
01:18:45,360 --> 01:18:51,559
Speaker 5: Ship It depends on the X, but so you know,

1513
01:18:53,400 --> 01:18:56,559
Speaker 5: I would think they would say I was funny. You know,

1514
01:18:56,920 --> 01:19:04,960
Speaker 5: I'm a provider, you know, a pleaser, okay, and heads

1515
01:19:05,000 --> 01:19:07,280
Speaker 5: charl you know it might be a little stubborn sometimes,

1516
01:19:07,280 --> 01:19:09,240
Speaker 5: So I think those are big things they would say.

1517
01:19:11,000 --> 01:19:17,240
Speaker 2: Okay, what one quality you admire most in other people?

1518
01:19:20,400 --> 01:19:20,559
Speaker 4: Uh?

1519
01:19:20,600 --> 01:19:23,599
Speaker 5: These days, if somebody can just you know, being kind

1520
01:19:23,680 --> 01:19:26,400
Speaker 5: you know, like I guess like because you know, everybody's

1521
01:19:26,439 --> 01:19:28,120
Speaker 5: having a different kind of day. So if I run

1522
01:19:28,160 --> 01:19:30,640
Speaker 5: to somebody and you just got an attitude or you

1523
01:19:30,640 --> 01:19:33,960
Speaker 5: know you're coming off nasty, like you just never know

1524
01:19:34,000 --> 01:19:35,920
Speaker 5: who you're talking to. So you know, if I'm walking

1525
01:19:35,920 --> 01:19:39,720
Speaker 5: with you, and especially my lady, we're out somewhere, I've

1526
01:19:39,720 --> 01:19:43,519
Speaker 5: been with people that just got a little like like

1527
01:19:43,960 --> 01:19:46,160
Speaker 5: a little snap to them. Aunt of time talking to people.

1528
01:19:46,280 --> 01:19:49,080
Speaker 5: You know, I don't like ther so uh, being kind

1529
01:19:49,080 --> 01:19:52,200
Speaker 5: of people because you know, you put out what you

1530
01:19:52,280 --> 01:19:54,120
Speaker 5: want in return. So that's what I like.

1531
01:19:54,720 --> 01:19:56,360
Speaker 1: So would you say that's like a green flag that

1532
01:19:56,400 --> 01:20:01,200
Speaker 1: would like make you instantly? Yeah, you're you're absolute person passion.

1533
01:20:01,520 --> 01:20:04,200
Speaker 5: Yeah, if she's people are smile when they see her

1534
01:20:04,280 --> 01:20:07,519
Speaker 5: and you know, because of her energy, and that makes me,

1535
01:20:07,640 --> 01:20:09,040
Speaker 5: you know, want to be around them more too.

1536
01:20:10,040 --> 01:20:12,360
Speaker 2: So Willie, what is it about me that you liked

1537
01:20:12,400 --> 01:20:14,080
Speaker 2: that made you want to participate in this?

1538
01:20:14,200 --> 01:20:16,280
Speaker 5: You know, I mean, you know, first off, I was

1539
01:20:16,720 --> 01:20:20,799
Speaker 5: physical is already there, beautiful, you have a very beautiful smile,

1540
01:20:21,520 --> 01:20:25,280
Speaker 5: you know from what I've seen on the shows and her.

1541
01:20:26,400 --> 01:20:29,400
Speaker 5: You know, you like to make jokes, you know, and

1542
01:20:29,400 --> 01:20:31,000
Speaker 5: I can help you with that. I think I can

1543
01:20:31,040 --> 01:20:33,439
Speaker 5: help you touch up some of these jokes, you know

1544
01:20:33,479 --> 01:20:36,200
Speaker 5: what I'm saying, which is not wrong with that, but uh,

1545
01:20:36,720 --> 01:20:38,400
Speaker 5: those things stood out to me, you know what I'm saying.

1546
01:20:38,479 --> 01:20:41,000
Speaker 5: Black and beautiful, you know, and you do got a

1547
01:20:41,000 --> 01:20:48,040
Speaker 5: little you know, you got some cheeks back there as well. Absolutely,

1548
01:20:48,280 --> 01:20:52,400
Speaker 5: absolutely there all positive things, but you know that's from

1549
01:20:52,400 --> 01:20:54,080
Speaker 5: from Afar. I have to see what it's like in

1550
01:20:54,120 --> 01:20:56,840
Speaker 5: real life as far as you as a person. So

1551
01:20:58,439 --> 01:21:01,799
Speaker 5: that's what peap my interest.

1552
01:21:02,520 --> 01:21:04,760
Speaker 2: Thank you Willie for noticing m.

1553
01:21:06,160 --> 01:21:08,160
Speaker 1: Thank you for noticing this ass.

1554
01:21:09,680 --> 01:21:17,200
Speaker 2: I was talking about my smile, ye, smile, absolutely all right,

1555
01:21:17,240 --> 01:21:20,479
Speaker 2: if you were stranded on a desert island, a deserted island,

1556
01:21:20,880 --> 01:21:23,160
Speaker 2: and you could bring only three things, what would they be?

1557
01:21:26,520 --> 01:21:28,000
Speaker 5: And by myself.

1558
01:21:29,160 --> 01:21:33,680
Speaker 1: Know if y'all were stranded, you and town.

1559
01:21:33,720 --> 01:21:36,439
Speaker 5: Mm hm oh that's a good question.

1560
01:21:36,760 --> 01:21:39,320
Speaker 2: Mm.

1561
01:21:39,439 --> 01:21:41,040
Speaker 1: We're trying to see if you're a nigga who knew

1562
01:21:41,040 --> 01:21:45,840
Speaker 1: how to chop. Would Okay?

1563
01:21:47,040 --> 01:21:49,479
Speaker 2: Uh, I'm gonna tell you my three things so then

1564
01:21:49,520 --> 01:21:52,439
Speaker 2: you can base yours off of what I'm already bringing.

1565
01:21:52,760 --> 01:21:55,719
Speaker 2: All right, you bring some pussy, I'm joking.

1566
01:21:55,960 --> 01:21:59,000
Speaker 5: All right, you got to stay warming, and I got

1567
01:21:59,080 --> 01:21:59,880
Speaker 5: to stay warm, and I.

1568
01:22:00,800 --> 01:22:04,080
Speaker 2: I'm gonna bring a lighter. We need fire, all right,

1569
01:22:04,960 --> 01:22:07,400
Speaker 2: for sure because if we boil any water, we can

1570
01:22:07,520 --> 01:22:12,559
Speaker 2: survive off of it. And the cell phone beach, we

1571
01:22:12,600 --> 01:22:14,240
Speaker 2: gotta calls somebody to get us out of here.

1572
01:22:15,080 --> 01:22:20,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, for sure. Uh yeah, I would definitely bring a knife,

1573
01:22:20,960 --> 01:22:22,240
Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying, so we can be at

1574
01:22:22,280 --> 01:22:23,960
Speaker 5: a chop. Like you said, I need to you know,

1575
01:22:24,160 --> 01:22:26,240
Speaker 5: ax or something to get be able to build something

1576
01:22:26,240 --> 01:22:27,320
Speaker 5: for us that's off the rip.

1577
01:22:27,920 --> 01:22:28,160
Speaker 3: Uh.

1578
01:22:28,280 --> 01:22:31,120
Speaker 5: You already got the fire, so I'm gonna have to.

1579
01:22:31,120 --> 01:22:33,760
Speaker 5: I'm gonna bring a gun, you know, just in case

1580
01:22:33,800 --> 01:22:36,120
Speaker 5: something else I need. I got a rifle. I'm ready

1581
01:22:36,160 --> 01:22:37,880
Speaker 5: to go, just in case we need to shoot something.

1582
01:22:38,200 --> 01:22:40,200
Speaker 5: I ain't really trying to chase no food down, you know,

1583
01:22:40,280 --> 01:22:43,160
Speaker 5: I'm trying to shoot it down and let you cook it.

1584
01:22:43,360 --> 01:22:46,479
Speaker 5: And then, uh, I'm gonna bring a blanket. You know

1585
01:22:46,520 --> 01:22:48,760
Speaker 5: what I'm saying. That's a thorough So when I build

1586
01:22:48,800 --> 01:22:51,439
Speaker 5: this little tent, we could be you know, we can

1587
01:22:51,479 --> 01:22:53,320
Speaker 5: be bundled up after you cook for us.

1588
01:22:54,320 --> 01:22:57,679
Speaker 1: Okay, so he's in traditional roles. You know you're you're

1589
01:22:57,680 --> 01:22:58,200
Speaker 1: gonna be good.

1590
01:22:58,880 --> 01:23:01,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, let me know. I'm gonna cook. But that's fine.

1591
01:23:01,920 --> 01:23:04,800
Speaker 5: I don't mind, man, Absolutely, we'll be all right.

1592
01:23:05,600 --> 01:23:09,519
Speaker 1: Well, my last question is what is black love to you?

1593
01:23:15,040 --> 01:23:17,840
Speaker 5: Black love to me is just mandatory, you know. Uh.

1594
01:23:18,640 --> 01:23:23,160
Speaker 5: I think that, Uh it's how we'll like prevail in

1595
01:23:23,200 --> 01:23:25,519
Speaker 5: the years to come. I think it's so mandatory. It's

1596
01:23:25,560 --> 01:23:29,919
Speaker 5: like as far as legacy, not just individual just legacy

1597
01:23:30,160 --> 01:23:33,439
Speaker 5: as a whole for black people. You know, when I

1598
01:23:33,479 --> 01:23:35,120
Speaker 5: talk to a lot of friends, now, there's so many

1599
01:23:35,120 --> 01:23:40,040
Speaker 5: of us that aren't married, you know, or a lot

1600
01:23:40,040 --> 01:23:41,720
Speaker 5: of us don't even want to be married, you know.

1601
01:23:41,920 --> 01:23:47,519
Speaker 5: So I know that if I think about just black wealth,

1602
01:23:47,680 --> 01:23:51,200
Speaker 5: I think that's a key and a key component for

1603
01:23:51,320 --> 01:23:54,840
Speaker 5: us in the future. But also I just think it's

1604
01:23:54,840 --> 01:23:57,559
Speaker 5: just like, you know, just black love just looks so good.

1605
01:23:57,600 --> 01:23:59,720
Speaker 5: If it looks like it's it's just you know, I

1606
01:23:59,760 --> 01:24:02,439
Speaker 5: ain't been in it so long, but it's just it's

1607
01:24:02,479 --> 01:24:03,240
Speaker 5: just where I want to be.

1608
01:24:03,439 --> 01:24:03,640
Speaker 7: You know.

1609
01:24:03,920 --> 01:24:06,120
Speaker 5: It feels like home when I'm in there. It's like, oh, yeah,

1610
01:24:06,160 --> 01:24:08,280
Speaker 5: I'm good, this is this is a good feeling.

1611
01:24:09,040 --> 01:24:10,920
Speaker 2: How long ago was your last relationship?

1612
01:24:11,280 --> 01:24:13,479
Speaker 5: Man, it's been a while, you know, maybe it's you know,

1613
01:24:14,520 --> 01:24:16,640
Speaker 5: like maybe like six years. You know, she.

1614
01:24:16,760 --> 01:24:19,680
Speaker 1: Asian or something. Was she outside of the community, she

1615
01:24:19,840 --> 01:24:21,000
Speaker 1: was born, she was one.

1616
01:24:21,640 --> 01:24:26,320
Speaker 2: If you ever dated outside of the community, Uh yeah, yeah.

1617
01:24:26,160 --> 01:24:27,599
Speaker 1: I have better.

1618
01:24:28,439 --> 01:24:33,680
Speaker 5: Oh, I think that's on an individual basis. You know

1619
01:24:33,720 --> 01:24:34,160
Speaker 5: what I'm saying.

1620
01:24:35,840 --> 01:24:38,120
Speaker 1: You just got that fire, Okay, I heard it was

1621
01:24:38,160 --> 01:24:40,000
Speaker 1: different gut, like a little curve to it or something.

1622
01:24:40,120 --> 01:24:42,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, they got they got that bush too. They got

1623
01:24:42,040 --> 01:24:49,519
Speaker 5: a different kind of bush. It's thick as hell. Yeah,

1624
01:24:49,720 --> 01:24:51,000
Speaker 5: it's a lot going on down here.

1625
01:24:51,360 --> 01:24:52,519
Speaker 2: Relaxingly, come there.

1626
01:24:53,360 --> 01:25:00,719
Speaker 5: Yeah, she got be going out memory life, right, just tell.

1627
01:25:00,640 --> 01:25:03,839
Speaker 2: Us one last thing that you would want us to remember.

1628
01:25:04,040 --> 01:25:07,479
Speaker 2: You buy our listeners to vote for you.

1629
01:25:07,520 --> 01:25:12,080
Speaker 5: Oh oh, they're voting over here, all right. I mean

1630
01:25:12,120 --> 01:25:15,400
Speaker 5: I'm clearly the choice. I'm the one, you know. It's

1631
01:25:15,880 --> 01:25:17,679
Speaker 5: these other dudes. They cool, They kind of the dude

1632
01:25:17,760 --> 01:25:20,360
Speaker 5: you like you. Oh yeah, he was nice, but he

1633
01:25:20,400 --> 01:25:22,519
Speaker 5: really didn't leave that effect on me. That's that's what

1634
01:25:22,600 --> 01:25:25,519
Speaker 5: WILLI is gonna do. You know what I'm saying, Big Daddy,

1635
01:25:25,520 --> 01:25:27,439
Speaker 5: Willie is coming through. Baby, I got you. You know

1636
01:25:27,439 --> 01:25:31,360
Speaker 5: what I'm saying. Nah, But really, it's just gonna be

1637
01:25:31,400 --> 01:25:33,760
Speaker 5: a good time. It's gonna be a great life. It's

1638
01:25:33,760 --> 01:25:35,720
Speaker 5: gonna be the life that you really dreamt about. You

1639
01:25:35,800 --> 01:25:36,280
Speaker 5: know what I'm saying.

1640
01:25:36,280 --> 01:25:40,200
Speaker 1: That's come on, Willie. Okay, we know them dreams. You

1641
01:25:40,240 --> 01:25:41,440
Speaker 1: know we love fairy.

1642
01:25:41,120 --> 01:25:43,160
Speaker 5: Tales absolutely absolutely.

1643
01:25:44,800 --> 01:25:47,400
Speaker 1: This is amazing.

1644
01:25:50,080 --> 01:25:52,600
Speaker 5: Thank you, will all right, Well listen, y'all have a

1645
01:25:52,600 --> 01:25:52,960
Speaker 5: great day.

1646
01:25:53,120 --> 01:25:55,679
Speaker 1: Beautiful you for joining.

1647
01:25:57,640 --> 01:26:00,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was so much fun. You're all right, that

1648
01:26:00,800 --> 01:26:05,520
Speaker 2: was fun. I did enjoy it, and for the most part,

1649
01:26:05,880 --> 01:26:08,519
Speaker 2: all of them seem okay. I mean that middle one

1650
01:26:08,640 --> 01:26:12,920
Speaker 2: was a little different, but all of them, like, you know,

1651
01:26:13,080 --> 01:26:14,240
Speaker 2: nice guys.

1652
01:26:15,760 --> 01:26:22,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I uh I actually like, Yeah, number two, I

1653
01:26:22,120 --> 01:26:24,840
Speaker 1: don't know about that dude. Man, he just sellbody your

1654
01:26:24,840 --> 01:26:27,680
Speaker 1: eyes and the jammis one somewhere in the Bronx. It

1655
01:26:27,920 --> 01:26:30,240
Speaker 1: doesn't sound appeasing.

1656
01:26:31,120 --> 01:26:33,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know he's gonna fill me up with kids

1657
01:26:33,080 --> 01:26:36,320
Speaker 2: and then leave me. Yes, that's what I think. I

1658
01:26:36,320 --> 01:26:39,680
Speaker 2: don't know. But contested one and three.

1659
01:26:40,479 --> 01:26:43,360
Speaker 1: They were pretty nice. Now, so I think our listeners

1660
01:26:44,720 --> 01:26:47,760
Speaker 1: they're gonna have a tough time deciding. I don't know.

1661
01:26:47,840 --> 01:26:49,439
Speaker 1: I don't know which one I would pick for you.

1662
01:26:50,720 --> 01:26:52,080
Speaker 1: They both sound pretty good though.

1663
01:26:52,439 --> 01:26:54,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe I just go out with all three of them.

1664
01:26:55,680 --> 01:27:01,360
Speaker 2: No listen recording. Everybody picked, y'all. So we're gonna put

1665
01:27:01,360 --> 01:27:03,880
Speaker 2: the post up. It should be up by the time

1666
01:27:03,880 --> 01:27:06,880
Speaker 2: you've heard this. Go ahead and slide in the d

1667
01:27:07,040 --> 01:27:09,280
Speaker 2: MS and tell us who is it? Is it Jordan's,

1668
01:27:09,920 --> 01:27:13,679
Speaker 2: is it Nico or is it Willie?

1669
01:27:13,800 --> 01:27:18,160
Speaker 1: Thank God me, big Wille Big You saw that post

1670
01:27:18,240 --> 01:27:24,080
Speaker 1: was like Niggain't nobody ever called you? LA said no

1671
01:27:24,200 --> 01:27:29,920
Speaker 1: nigga ever never. But I cannot wait, okay for the

1672
01:27:29,960 --> 01:27:34,519
Speaker 1: results for today's show. Anyway, you guys, we gotta do

1673
01:27:34,560 --> 01:27:36,880
Speaker 1: this more often. If you don't. If these these guys

1674
01:27:36,920 --> 01:27:38,839
Speaker 1: don't work out. We might have to do this quarterly

1675
01:27:39,360 --> 01:27:41,000
Speaker 1: until you get you a nigga.

1676
01:27:41,120 --> 01:27:43,080
Speaker 2: Right and now just gonna go on a date and

1677
01:27:43,200 --> 01:27:46,360
Speaker 2: see how it goes. You know this is fun though,

1678
01:27:47,479 --> 01:27:51,519
Speaker 2: are y'all? Oh, let me tell y'all this. I can't

1679
01:27:51,560 --> 01:27:54,920
Speaker 2: see any of these men. I can't see them, So

1680
01:27:55,000 --> 01:27:58,680
Speaker 2: it's just based off of what they're saying, you know.

1681
01:27:58,960 --> 01:28:01,040
Speaker 2: So y'all getting this say anything I'm getting. I know

1682
01:28:01,040 --> 01:28:03,360
Speaker 2: you're gonna be like, we can't see these niggas either,

1683
01:28:03,400 --> 01:28:06,600
Speaker 2: can I? So I see them, AJ seed them. I

1684
01:28:06,640 --> 01:28:09,240
Speaker 2: haven't seen them, but I didn't want it to be

1685
01:28:09,479 --> 01:28:12,599
Speaker 2: just about or even about how they look. I wanted

1686
01:28:12,640 --> 01:28:13,639
Speaker 2: to be about who they are.

1687
01:28:14,080 --> 01:28:18,200
Speaker 1: So oh, what is that? Love us blind? Love us blind,

1688
01:28:18,240 --> 01:28:21,439
Speaker 1: for the love of Tam Bam, for the love of

1689
01:28:21,479 --> 01:28:24,719
Speaker 1: Tam Bam, the Love is Blind edition period.

1690
01:28:24,880 --> 01:28:26,320
Speaker 2: So let's see all.

1691
01:28:26,280 --> 01:28:28,519
Speaker 1: Right, Y'allso if you enjoyed this episode, y'all, tune in

1692
01:28:28,840 --> 01:28:31,680
Speaker 1: every Thursday on a Black effect Ieheart radio app or

1693
01:28:31,720 --> 01:28:34,320
Speaker 1: wherever you get your podcasts. This is your co host

1694
01:28:34,360 --> 01:28:38,800
Speaker 1: AJ Holiday two point zero on Instagrams kicking Tam and

1695
01:28:39,000 --> 01:28:39,880
Speaker 1: it's Tam Bam.

1696
01:28:40,040 --> 01:28:42,280
Speaker 2: And even if I don't love any of these guys.

1697
01:28:42,360 --> 01:28:44,720
Speaker 2: I love y'all. I love y'all, love.

1698
01:28:44,720 --> 01:28:46,440
Speaker 1: Them too, You love all other strangers.

1699
01:28:46,760 --> 01:28:48,400
Speaker 2: Just love the no I mean if I don't like,

1700
01:28:48,479 --> 01:28:52,400
Speaker 2: fall in love, if I fall in love with them,

1701
01:28:52,720 --> 01:28:55,120
Speaker 2: I love you guys. I'm in love with y'all already.

1702
01:28:55,600 --> 01:28:57,200
Speaker 2: Happy Valentine's Day.

1703
01:28:57,240 --> 01:29:01,080
Speaker 1: Happy Valentine's Day. We hope y'all bitches listen. Hopefully our

1704
01:29:01,160 --> 01:29:03,320
Speaker 1: niggas ain't waste all any money on some poulais. You

1705
01:29:03,360 --> 01:29:04,840
Speaker 1: saw young t t.

1706
01:29:06,520 --> 01:29:09,720
Speaker 2: This remember speaking now.

1707
01:29:10,960 --> 01:29:13,960
Speaker 1: Uh. It never holds your heart.

1708
01:29:14,680 --> 01:29:15,479
Speaker 2: Never holds your heart.

1709
01:29:17,160 --> 01:29:18,840
Speaker 1: This is by