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Speaker 1: The Nicky Glazer podcast. Nicky Gazer, here's Nikki. Okay taking

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Speaker 1: my invisile line? Is that how you start every No,

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Speaker 1: it's not. That was the first. I don't know why

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Speaker 1: I did that. When you're here, Hi, guys, here I am.

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Speaker 1: It's Nicki Glazer podcast. I'm Nicki Glazer. It is Wednesday.

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Speaker 1: Andrew Colin is not in studio, but um, because I

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Speaker 1: am on trying to do as much of a vocal

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Speaker 1: rest as I can. This is the one hour day

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Speaker 1: that I really let myself talk. Um. I am bringing

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Speaker 1: in guests to help support that and just to have

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Speaker 1: some freaking fun. And Andrew's not here today, so filling

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Speaker 1: in for him in studio is from The Courtney Show,

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Speaker 1: which you can listen to anywhere you get podcasts. You

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Speaker 1: can also listen to it on one of six point

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Speaker 1: five the Art if you live in St. Louis. He

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Speaker 1: is a co host of that show. He's also the

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Speaker 1: co creator and co EP of the show Not Safe

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Speaker 1: with Nicky Glazer. And he's also my lover and the

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Speaker 1: co creator of this relationship. Yeah, you have EP credit

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Speaker 1: on this re as well. It's Chris Convey everyone. Hey, guys, Hey,

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Speaker 1: it's Chris Convey he's here and UM joining us from

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Speaker 1: Arizona is of course noah hi, Noah hi. And then

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Speaker 1: hold up, which is in a rap that UM we

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Speaker 1: have determined if you're just now hearing that word for

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Speaker 1: the first time, which I know Chris Convy is because

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Speaker 1: he kind of went home. UM a new thing. UM.

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Speaker 1: In addition to UM, we have also coined um the

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Speaker 1: word rape, which is a fancy French way of saying

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Speaker 1: ear rape, which is like a thing that someone says

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Speaker 1: that you just go like oh, and it's just like

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Speaker 1: like you didn't ask for it, you didn't want it.

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Speaker 1: Actually now it's just penetrated your ears and it's like

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Speaker 1: in you and you, UM, so is it. You have

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Speaker 1: to keep the baby it gave you because you live

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Speaker 1: in America now and even though it was not, it

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Speaker 1: was forced on you. You You have to keep that sucking

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Speaker 1: thought in your head. What was the original Rabbi? The

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Speaker 1: original Taylor me was nomnom I saw. I just kept

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Speaker 1: hearing my adult friends saying nom nom noam, and I

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Speaker 1: was like, I do not Instagram. It was like ten

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Speaker 1: years ago. I remember first seeing them or maybe I

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Speaker 1: hate when adults infantilize them. So so I remember my

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Speaker 1: favorite one. That is it. I was today years old

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Speaker 1: when I learned this. I kind of like that one.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I know, it's like when I first heard it,

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Speaker 1: first time I saw it, I was like, that's clever.

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Speaker 1: Much like last night we were watching f Boy Island

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Speaker 1: and I was telling Chris about He was asking me

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Speaker 1: about the Mega dates on f Boy Island, which are

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Speaker 1: their final two. If you haven't watched Half Boy Island, um,

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Speaker 1: at the very end, each girl has two guys um

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Speaker 1: just a dumb thing that we called it. And there

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Speaker 1: Halla on our group chat asked, she was like, are

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Speaker 1: these dates back to back? Like is there any rest

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Speaker 1: talking about it yesterday, and I told Chris that last season,

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Speaker 1: And I remember being like, that's pretty clever and disgusting,

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Speaker 1: room talk without making it a trumpy thing. That's like

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Speaker 1: because why would you ever hear that. There's certain things

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Speaker 1: that is connotated with Trump. Now, Yeah, it is kind

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Speaker 1: would be like, how did I you know? In all

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Speaker 1: I was like, these guys talk forever about nothing. It

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Speaker 1: for the fact that men's brains are different and you

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Speaker 1: because it's gay if you guys ever cry or anything

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Speaker 1: again this year. And then the author said, but you know,

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Speaker 1: wasn't benedicting. Okay, yeah, years was monks and his was Jesus, Jesus.

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Speaker 1: what is happening right now? They both it was homeo

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Speaker 1: erotic in the funniest way, but they both like Chris

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Speaker 1: Chris when they hold the microphone like like he was peeing,

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Speaker 1: the star. There's a shorthand with with like a certain

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Speaker 1: can say I can self diagnose other people or other diagnosed. Um.

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Speaker 1: I mean, can we talk about that at some point?

427
00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:16,560
Speaker 1: I did yesterday, but I would get to some of

428
00:21:16,560 --> 00:21:18,520
Speaker 1: those things because we should go over them now that

429
00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:21,200
Speaker 1: we have Chris Convey here, who you know, the two

430
00:21:21,480 --> 00:21:23,399
Speaker 1: three people who know me best in the whole world

431
00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:26,919
Speaker 1: probably are here. Um. But so the show is about

432
00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:31,359
Speaker 1: he realizes in life, there's so many things that could

433
00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:33,720
Speaker 1: go wrong and you worry about in these big moments,

434
00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:36,919
Speaker 1: and it would be nice if you could rehearse for them.

435
00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:41,439
Speaker 1: And so he asked people about things they want to,

436
00:21:42,440 --> 00:21:44,320
Speaker 1: you know, something that's holding them back in life, something

437
00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:46,520
Speaker 1: they have to do and they're nervous about and they've

438
00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:51,080
Speaker 1: been putting off. And he then creates a world where

439
00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:54,440
Speaker 1: they can rehearse this situation to see if it actually

440
00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:55,919
Speaker 1: is something they want to go through with or if

441
00:21:55,920 --> 00:21:58,359
Speaker 1: it's something that in what is the best way to

442
00:21:58,359 --> 00:22:00,360
Speaker 1: go through with it? And Fielder goes full. I mean

443
00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:02,920
Speaker 1: everything that he does, he just gets all the details.

444
00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:05,439
Speaker 1: He just dives in. It's Veep levels of like the

445
00:22:05,480 --> 00:22:08,600
Speaker 1: way the Veep writes every line must be a joke.

446
00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:10,960
Speaker 1: I feel like this show, I just watch it and

447
00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:14,679
Speaker 1: as a TV producer, don't you feel like they don't?

448
00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:20,560
Speaker 1: They always they squeeze every single bit out of every

449
00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:24,240
Speaker 1: they spun, like everything that could be they do. Yeah,

450
00:22:24,280 --> 00:22:27,400
Speaker 1: I just I feel like the commitment to the bit

451
00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:30,920
Speaker 1: is insane, like it you know, like it's Sasha Baron Cohen.

452
00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:33,639
Speaker 1: I mean, I think Fielder is taking things to another

453
00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:36,080
Speaker 1: sort of level for sure. And then the way that

454
00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:38,680
Speaker 1: they're able to pivot because it's real world, like it's

455
00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:41,800
Speaker 1: really they're they're messing with real people in the real world,

456
00:22:41,840 --> 00:22:45,040
Speaker 1: so that stuff is unpredictable. It's not scripted. So if

457
00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:47,680
Speaker 1: this if a woman, if if they like the idea

458
00:22:47,760 --> 00:22:51,520
Speaker 1: of of this woman doing you know, going left instead

459
00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:54,040
Speaker 1: of right, and but she goes right, they've got a

460
00:22:54,040 --> 00:22:56,639
Speaker 1: pivot on the fly, and they're brilliant at turning that

461
00:22:56,720 --> 00:23:01,440
Speaker 1: into an opportunity to do something that's funny, cool or interesting,

462
00:23:01,480 --> 00:23:03,960
Speaker 1: and they're just constantly pivoting. That's such a good point

463
00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:07,600
Speaker 1: because that's why I like making reality TV is because

464
00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:09,919
Speaker 1: there's no script and I don't have to prepare for it,

465
00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:12,000
Speaker 1: and you're making decisions on the fly, and it's like

466
00:23:12,359 --> 00:23:14,480
Speaker 1: stand up in a way like there's you don't I

467
00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:17,399
Speaker 1: don't like preparation, as you know, like I don't preparation

468
00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:21,000
Speaker 1: h either. I just like to suffer. But I don't

469
00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:23,919
Speaker 1: like to go over what's going to happen, and I

470
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:25,639
Speaker 1: don't like to look back on what's gonna happen. I

471
00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:28,080
Speaker 1: just like to go as we go and figure it out.

472
00:23:28,160 --> 00:23:31,000
Speaker 1: And it's me being more lazy than anything and fearful

473
00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:33,160
Speaker 1: of If I try and I fail, then that means

474
00:23:33,240 --> 00:23:36,320
Speaker 1: I'm not talented. But if I don't prepare and I failed,

475
00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 1: that I can just be like, well it's because I

476
00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 1: didn't prepare. But there is something about that this show

477
00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:44,720
Speaker 1: that I do love that, And you know what, it

478
00:23:44,760 --> 00:23:47,959
Speaker 1: reminds me of how you are often reminding me and

479
00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:49,960
Speaker 1: how you really were in Montreal when we were together.

480
00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:55,120
Speaker 1: Whenever something would go quote unquote wrong, Chris would be like, well, look,

481
00:23:55,160 --> 00:23:57,720
Speaker 1: what what's going to happen now because of this, Like

482
00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:00,960
Speaker 1: look what, look what we got because of this. And

483
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:03,479
Speaker 1: I was able because you got me in that mindset

484
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:06,160
Speaker 1: that whole time, because I think you were really doing

485
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:09,840
Speaker 1: your best my boyfriend, to be like very supportive and

486
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:11,560
Speaker 1: keep me a good mindset when I was there because

487
00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 1: I was doing this something I was nervous about, which

488
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:15,440
Speaker 1: is a CrowdWork thing, and so you were so good

489
00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:18,760
Speaker 1: at like getting me to think about every everything is

490
00:24:18,800 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 1: an opportunity, even failures that this week, I was really

491
00:24:22,880 --> 00:24:26,240
Speaker 1: able to do that so much um on my own.

492
00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:28,879
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that's yeah, So you could get there on

493
00:24:28,880 --> 00:24:31,639
Speaker 1: your own because yeah, like there was something where I

494
00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:34,040
Speaker 1: couldn't bring a friend to this thing, and I was like,

495
00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:36,119
Speaker 1: you know, I wasn't allowed to bring any family or

496
00:24:36,119 --> 00:24:38,080
Speaker 1: friends to this thing, and I was like, this sucks.

497
00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:40,159
Speaker 1: I have to do this alone. Like usually I get

498
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:42,240
Speaker 1: to bring someone everyone else because brings one I don't,

499
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:43,679
Speaker 1: And I was so mad about it. And then I

500
00:24:43,720 --> 00:24:46,520
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, if I wouldn't, if I

501
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:48,320
Speaker 1: would have brought a friend to this thing, I would

502
00:24:48,359 --> 00:24:50,600
Speaker 1: not have become friends with the people I just made

503
00:24:50,640 --> 00:24:52,639
Speaker 1: friends because I didn't have a friend, and I was like,

504
00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:55,240
Speaker 1: that would have never happened if I was if I

505
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:57,080
Speaker 1: got to do if it went the way I wanted

506
00:24:57,119 --> 00:25:00,359
Speaker 1: it to. You made friends. I have this such a

507
00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:05,959
Speaker 1: Dale Car guys like Wayne dire successful person way of

508
00:25:05,960 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 1: looking at life, Like all all these successful people are

509
00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:12,680
Speaker 1: like every failure is an opportunity. You just have to

510
00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:15,960
Speaker 1: see the opportunity in it. It is. But I mean, like, listen,

511
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:18,600
Speaker 1: I'm not like some perfect optimist or anything. But you

512
00:25:18,640 --> 00:25:20,720
Speaker 1: were that weekend though, but we you know, we are.

513
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:22,560
Speaker 1: Flights were delayed, but we were together, like we were

514
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:24,800
Speaker 1: either going to be together on the on a plane

515
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:26,800
Speaker 1: or together in an airport or together at a hotel

516
00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:29,480
Speaker 1: like you know, so it didn't really matter all that much.

517
00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:31,359
Speaker 1: It was a bit of you know, it's those initial

518
00:25:31,400 --> 00:25:33,600
Speaker 1: things are bummer. But then we had such fun wins

519
00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:36,480
Speaker 1: with the airline's employees because they were so great. I

520
00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:42,480
Speaker 1: think Jeffrey and Jenny, maybe Jesse and Jasmine Jazz Jazzy Jazzy,

521
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:44,600
Speaker 1: that's right, And so we just had like a fun

522
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:46,680
Speaker 1: win with them. You got pictures with them. They turns

523
00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:48,920
Speaker 1: out they loved They were just talking about you in

524
00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:51,040
Speaker 1: their break room, say what they were It was like

525
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:53,080
Speaker 1: the much Headberg joke where he is at the airport

526
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:55,959
Speaker 1: and he's like a guy goes, hey, I saw you

527
00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:58,000
Speaker 1: on TV last night, and he was like, but he

528
00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:00,600
Speaker 1: did not say whether or not he enjoyed my performance,

529
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:04,119
Speaker 1: and so I just so I turned around and and

530
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:06,960
Speaker 1: uh so I turned in a circle and I said, hey, man,

531
00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 1: I just saw you at the airport gate and you

532
00:26:10,560 --> 00:26:14,679
Speaker 1: were okay. But they did they was they were like,

533
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:16,840
Speaker 1: she looked at me, but she was like, oh, han,

534
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:18,400
Speaker 1: Ya'll help you out. And she's looking at my boarding

535
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:20,840
Speaker 1: pass and typing things and she goes, oh my god.

536
00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 1: We were just talking about you in the break room.

537
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:27,040
Speaker 1: But they did not say what you Jeffrey. Jeffrey did

538
00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:30,080
Speaker 1: say something about I think that was Jenny. But Jeffrey

539
00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:32,280
Speaker 1: did say that he loved you, and he said his

540
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:34,880
Speaker 1: wife loved you, and he wanted a picture with Chris

541
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:37,560
Speaker 1: because he was like, and my wife really loves so

542
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 1: he he loved you. To watch it and then and

543
00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:45,920
Speaker 1: then we ended up getting to the hotel, which wasn't

544
00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:48,439
Speaker 1: our hotel, and if we would have gone to the

545
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:51,160
Speaker 1: right hotel, we wouldn't have seen the like the funniest

546
00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:58,240
Speaker 1: person alive Rachel find steign Yes and Nick Braza last,

547
00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:02,640
Speaker 1: when you least is you? When you guys left Canada,

548
00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:05,520
Speaker 1: your flight was you were on a different flight like

549
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:10,639
Speaker 1: you had another misshap And again, let me ask Mr

550
00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:13,160
Speaker 1: Optimists like, let me ask you to let me ask

551
00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 1: you this, Let me ask you this. Let me let

552
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 1: me first ask you this. I'm gonna put you on

553
00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 1: the spot, Chris, this is what my dad does. Are

554
00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:21,680
Speaker 1: you ready? Are you sitting down? I'm gonna ask you. God,

555
00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:24,560
Speaker 1: you're giving me your dad energy that I feel like

556
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 1: you're going to walk into my room and ask me

557
00:27:26,320 --> 00:27:32,920
Speaker 1: if I want pizza and drives me crazy. Um, but

558
00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:37,480
Speaker 1: when you are stuck in a difficult situation and Nikki's

559
00:27:37,520 --> 00:27:42,960
Speaker 1: not around, does your EP showrunner energy go away or

560
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:45,359
Speaker 1: does it come back? Like are you able to counsel

561
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 1: yourself in that moment? Are you only able to do

562
00:27:47,840 --> 00:27:51,200
Speaker 1: it when someone needs? I think that's a great question,

563
00:27:51,880 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 1: and I can it's it takes on a different form,

564
00:27:56,359 --> 00:28:00,360
Speaker 1: But I Nikki never were talking about this, like, Um,

565
00:28:00,400 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 1: there's something about being observed or being around other people,

566
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:06,920
Speaker 1: like Nikki can work better if she's around other people

567
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:09,360
Speaker 1: because it's being sort of like witnessed or she's being

568
00:28:09,359 --> 00:28:12,480
Speaker 1: held accountable. And I have a little bit of that too,

569
00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:17,160
Speaker 1: Like I'm probably my best self in those situations with

570
00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 1: people that I care about, because it kind of gives

571
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 1: you an opportunity to like have the right mentality and

572
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:28,919
Speaker 1: and think about it from from a different perspective. But

573
00:28:28,960 --> 00:28:32,159
Speaker 1: when it is just you, you're you are a little

574
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,600
Speaker 1: bit maybe just a little bit more annoyed. And then

575
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 1: eventually you get there where you're like, oh, well this

576
00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 1: is okay, and like I was either going to read

577
00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:42,720
Speaker 1: a book here or read a book there, and you know,

578
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:44,719
Speaker 1: it just depends if you miss a flight out right,

579
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:47,480
Speaker 1: like if we missed the show, and but that would

580
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 1: be its own Like it's like it would be okay.

581
00:28:51,000 --> 00:28:52,800
Speaker 1: I mean when we're talking about things like the death

582
00:28:52,800 --> 00:28:55,080
Speaker 1: of a child and being like, well something good will

583
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:57,440
Speaker 1: come of it, that's what we get into some tricky areas,

584
00:28:57,440 --> 00:29:00,640
Speaker 1: like all that toxic positivity, and I try to avoid

585
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:03,640
Speaker 1: that sort of thing. So it's like toxic positivity is

586
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:05,400
Speaker 1: when people, you know, they come to you and they

587
00:29:05,400 --> 00:29:09,000
Speaker 1: say this this thing that happened made me sad. Like

588
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 1: you know any time where you have something you know,

589
00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 1: like stuff with your voice or things where if I

590
00:29:14,080 --> 00:29:16,360
Speaker 1: was just like, this will lead to you, you know,

591
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:20,880
Speaker 1: becoming this amazing whatever, you'd be like, Okay, can I

592
00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:23,600
Speaker 1: just be sad about Like, yes, that's me having to

593
00:29:23,760 --> 00:29:27,760
Speaker 1: affect my deny sadness when really you just like you

594
00:29:27,840 --> 00:29:30,040
Speaker 1: have to grieve. You have to. It's okay to feel

595
00:29:30,040 --> 00:29:33,920
Speaker 1: sorry for yourself sometimes and then just knowing or not

596
00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:36,640
Speaker 1: even knowing, but leaving space for the fact that something

597
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 1: might happen that you don't know about and that you

598
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,720
Speaker 1: can't predict out of this. But when you were just

599
00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:44,760
Speaker 1: saying this yesterday on the Waking Up app, I get

600
00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:47,239
Speaker 1: these Do you ever do Sam Harris's moments on that

601
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:49,640
Speaker 1: where he just knows I haven't done. There's a little

602
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:52,280
Speaker 1: like he'll they'll just get sent you every day. If

603
00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:55,520
Speaker 1: I listen to anymore Sam Harris per day, they're going

604
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:57,080
Speaker 1: to send me an email being like, hey, you need

605
00:29:57,120 --> 00:30:02,400
Speaker 1: to back off. You were you were considering more Sam Harrison,

606
00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 1: any humans should It's hard to parse this, but that's

607
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:07,520
Speaker 1: the word. If you start using the word to parse

608
00:30:07,600 --> 00:30:09,280
Speaker 1: a lot of parts, or if you're like, you know

609
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:11,760
Speaker 1: that sort of thing is sort of siloed in your

610
00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:17,440
Speaker 1: your equanimity. Yeah, word siloed is that where you take

611
00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:20,360
Speaker 1: your feelings and put it in a grain tower. No,

612
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 1: it's it's a little bit like that. But I do

613
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:29,040
Speaker 1: think that moment because it's the same thing. Yes, okay,

614
00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:31,960
Speaker 1: I'll say that the same time. But the moment yesterday

615
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:37,920
Speaker 1: and then, oh, do let me ask you this. You know,

616
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:41,760
Speaker 1: the best thing was it happened yesterday. It was the

617
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:43,840
Speaker 1: moment that I listened or two days ago, and he said,

618
00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 1: a great practice. And I think this is stoicism too.

619
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 1: When I was getting into that, it was um throughout

620
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:52,120
Speaker 1: your day when you're doing something like making coffee or

621
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:54,760
Speaker 1: just walking your dog, or doing anything throughout your day,

622
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:58,440
Speaker 1: or maybe doing something like writing a song or doing

623
00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 1: a podcast, or maybe things that are mainly alone that

624
00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 1: you're not like performing. So maybe just whatever making your bed.

625
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:10,240
Speaker 1: Imagine that the person you respect more than anyone in

626
00:31:10,240 --> 00:31:13,400
Speaker 1: the world, may whether it be Oprah or sucking Adele

627
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 1: or you know God essentially, or you know Lewis Hamilton's

628
00:31:19,160 --> 00:31:23,760
Speaker 1: Max for steppin Um Alonso, Fernando, You're really close on

629
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 1: most of those. Al Fernando Alonso, Um. Imagine they're watching you,

630
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:36,120
Speaker 1: imagine your life as and that's why I like, if

631
00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 1: you if you always imagine someone that has a really

632
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:40,640
Speaker 1: high moral character that you look up to, is like

633
00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:43,200
Speaker 1: they would do the right thing. If you just imagine

634
00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 1: throughout your day and try to just splice that in

635
00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:49,200
Speaker 1: that they are watching you, you will you will do

636
00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:51,800
Speaker 1: what's right. Well, it will hold you accountable in this

637
00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:54,600
Speaker 1: way that when we're just not being watched. And that's

638
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:56,720
Speaker 1: what I get to when when any of those things

639
00:31:56,760 --> 00:32:00,160
Speaker 1: happen to me alone. Back to question, is it makes

640
00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:02,480
Speaker 1: us a beat to treat your to look at yourself

641
00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 1: as a different as a different entity and treat your

642
00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:08,480
Speaker 1: and what would you tell if you were freaking out

643
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:10,479
Speaker 1: about flight stuff? Like what would I say to you?

644
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:12,800
Speaker 1: And if I'm sitting there being like, oh man, this

645
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:16,400
Speaker 1: this is terrible, then you start to treat yourself like

646
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:19,000
Speaker 1: a person that you really care about that you want

647
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:22,120
Speaker 1: to soothe. Yes, that's why I think you know in

648
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 1: twelve step stuff so much about like recovering from things

649
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:28,880
Speaker 1: is like you gotta give it away too, and you

650
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:32,680
Speaker 1: gotta help other people and like whenever, um, it's so

651
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:34,800
Speaker 1: hard to do when I'm like really depressed, but like

652
00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:38,520
Speaker 1: just going and picking up litter or like holding a

653
00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:41,920
Speaker 1: door for someone, um, texting my mom to be like,

654
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:43,760
Speaker 1: how are you just reaching out and doing something that

655
00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 1: isn't about my thing right now? And like helping someone

656
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:51,640
Speaker 1: else helps you help yourself in some weird roundabout way.

657
00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:53,560
Speaker 1: I met my best when I help myself. But Anya,

658
00:32:53,600 --> 00:32:56,680
Speaker 1: what about you? And Matt? Like when you who is

659
00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:58,880
Speaker 1: this is a person that tends to pick the other

660
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:01,240
Speaker 1: person up a little bit more, or or somebody that

661
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:03,440
Speaker 1: is like gets really down on something that just happened

662
00:33:03,480 --> 00:33:05,000
Speaker 1: or a mistake that they made, and the other person

663
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:10,040
Speaker 1: has to like, do you guys handle it? Um, g Q.

664
00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:13,840
Speaker 1: He's great at picking me up, by the way, g

665
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 1: A on yours to um when I'm down. He's amazing.

666
00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 1: He's so level headed, he's like wise, he sounds like

667
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:26,240
Speaker 1: some more just meditated for an hour. He's like so

668
00:33:26,440 --> 00:33:30,600
Speaker 1: even killed. But when stuff happens to him, I'm like, dude,

669
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 1: and I'm not allowed to say anything because if I

670
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:34,480
Speaker 1: go into his if I were to tell him the

671
00:33:34,520 --> 00:33:37,160
Speaker 1: stuff he tells me, he flips out. He'll be like,

672
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 1: how can you say? You know? I cannot be silver

673
00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 1: lining girl? And that's who I am at my core

674
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:45,800
Speaker 1: is silver lining girl. And I need to be careful

675
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 1: of that so that I don't do the thing you

676
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:50,440
Speaker 1: were just talking about about skipping a step of like

677
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:54,200
Speaker 1: because feeling your feelings when I'm going through depression or

678
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 1: I'm having one of these days where it's like I

679
00:33:56,560 --> 00:33:58,840
Speaker 1: hate everything, I hate the way I look, I hate

680
00:33:58,880 --> 00:34:01,600
Speaker 1: my career. Everyone, it's me. I'm not telling like, having

681
00:34:01,600 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 1: those really bad days that are about like two days

682
00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:08,120
Speaker 1: before my period. I will oftentimes reach out to both

683
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:11,880
Speaker 1: all three of you actually and like the I and

684
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:14,120
Speaker 1: a lot of times I remember, I know that each

685
00:34:14,120 --> 00:34:15,880
Speaker 1: of you have been like, how can what do you

686
00:34:15,920 --> 00:34:18,719
Speaker 1: want to hear right now? Like what what is it

687
00:34:18,880 --> 00:34:21,160
Speaker 1: that's going to? What do you want right now? And

688
00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:23,359
Speaker 1: it's really tricky because I remember when I was in

689
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:29,040
Speaker 1: um the Hampton's, my friend um where life is really hard,

690
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:32,880
Speaker 1: where life like I got really depressed. In the Hampton's,

691
00:34:32,920 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 1: I was just around two. I was having body issues.

692
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 1: I was around too many women whose bodies I was

693
00:34:38,680 --> 00:34:42,120
Speaker 1: jealous of, and I was, you know, I was in

694
00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:43,879
Speaker 1: this beautiful house that I was like, I could never

695
00:34:43,920 --> 00:34:45,920
Speaker 1: decorate a house. I was doing a lot of comparing

696
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:48,640
Speaker 1: and despairing, and I, you know, it just syncd up

697
00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:51,319
Speaker 1: with my cycle. It synked up with some personal things

698
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 1: that I was going through that week that may or

699
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:54,399
Speaker 1: may not have to do with the person on my left.

700
00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 1: And you know this porkup stuff porcupine or Luigi, and

701
00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:01,279
Speaker 1: and I was just a really bad day, and I

702
00:35:01,320 --> 00:35:04,920
Speaker 1: was saying really dark, like fucked up things to my

703
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:08,680
Speaker 1: roommate who I was rooming with, Kat from Colorado. Cat

704
00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:13,920
Speaker 1: is a social worker like clinical therapist, and I was

705
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:16,920
Speaker 1: saying things trying to get her to like help me,

706
00:35:17,120 --> 00:35:20,759
Speaker 1: you know, like I was saying, like, um, I just

707
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 1: I'll probably have to just kill myself one day, Like

708
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:24,440
Speaker 1: I say these really fucking dark things of like I

709
00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 1: don't even know like what I want to just quit life,

710
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 1: like just saying dark things to just try to get

711
00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 1: her to like, I don't know what I'm I don't

712
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:34,880
Speaker 1: I honestly don't know what I'm looking for in that moment.

713
00:35:34,920 --> 00:35:37,160
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I'm not talented. All this person is

714
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:39,359
Speaker 1: better than me at this. I watched f Boy last night.

715
00:35:39,360 --> 00:35:41,600
Speaker 1: I look disgusting that one scene I looked I was

716
00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:43,880
Speaker 1: not even funny. This other person is funnier than me.

717
00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:45,840
Speaker 1: And they're not even a fucking comedian and I was

718
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:49,040
Speaker 1: just just shooting and she wasn't saying anything. She was

719
00:35:49,080 --> 00:35:52,279
Speaker 1: just like yeah, and it was just and I was

720
00:35:52,320 --> 00:35:56,759
Speaker 1: just like fucking therapist, like exactly, and I was just

721
00:35:56,800 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 1: like wanting to shake her. And then later on she

722
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:02,360
Speaker 1: I was kind of venting again in the car with

723
00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 1: a lot of people, and I was almost like maybe

724
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:08,000
Speaker 1: trying to um communicate to her, like you're my roommate

725
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:10,080
Speaker 1: and when I get bitten closed doors, like I can't

726
00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 1: say this to the group, but I'm struggling and I

727
00:36:12,040 --> 00:36:13,719
Speaker 1: need help. So I was kind of like trying to

728
00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:16,560
Speaker 1: communicate that, like I'm I'm in front of more people,

729
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:18,959
Speaker 1: and she was like, I just want you to know

730
00:36:19,239 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 1: that when I don't say she took me side. She

731
00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:23,440
Speaker 1: was like, I don't know what to say to you,

732
00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:25,400
Speaker 1: and I'm just trying to like I feel like you

733
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 1: just need to like vent it. And I thought that's

734
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:30,359
Speaker 1: what you needed. And I said, honestly, Catherine, I don't

735
00:36:30,360 --> 00:36:32,200
Speaker 1: need that. I need you to say the opposite of

736
00:36:32,239 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I need you to be like you're

737
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 1: thinking is your disease right now? Like you have the

738
00:36:37,680 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 1: flu of the mind, Like you're thinking that you're gonna

739
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:43,240
Speaker 1: have the flu forever. But this is temporary. These thoughts

740
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 1: are distorted. You are unlike your brain is on drugs

741
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:48,200
Speaker 1: right now, pretty much like you are. This is a

742
00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 1: temporary state that there's a storm right now in your

743
00:36:51,560 --> 00:36:53,719
Speaker 1: head and they're going to be clear sized ahead and

744
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:56,600
Speaker 1: don't get stuck in this like I And she was like, okay, thanks,

745
00:36:56,600 --> 00:36:58,960
Speaker 1: I needed to hear what I need needed to tell

746
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:01,160
Speaker 1: you on you feels the same. I know you do too,

747
00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 1: of like what do I say to this girl? No,

748
00:37:03,000 --> 00:37:04,680
Speaker 1: I don't feel that way. We should read some of

749
00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:07,640
Speaker 1: those those texts because all of those things you brought

750
00:37:07,719 --> 00:37:10,200
Speaker 1: up to Catherine, you brought up to me as well,

751
00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:13,399
Speaker 1: and we went through. I mean, I think I go through,

752
00:37:13,440 --> 00:37:15,840
Speaker 1: line by line all the things you always talk about.

753
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:19,280
Speaker 1: I remember the celebrity who you thought was really funny.

754
00:37:19,520 --> 00:37:23,319
Speaker 1: Oh it's she's not a comic. Okay, Well yeah, I

755
00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:27,439
Speaker 1: feel burdensome in those moments because I am in such

756
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 1: a state that is not to be reasoned with. When

757
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:34,839
Speaker 1: I'm going through that that I feel like if I'm

758
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:39,040
Speaker 1: always like thinking about how I'm I'm I'm already feeling sad,

759
00:37:39,080 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 1: and then I'm feeling sad that I'm putting the people

760
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 1: I love in this position of like a no win situation.

761
00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:46,879
Speaker 1: Like anything you say like it does your stuff does

762
00:37:46,920 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 1: get in because eventually I like calm down and it

763
00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:51,239
Speaker 1: seeps in and I can go back to the text

764
00:37:51,239 --> 00:37:53,839
Speaker 1: and I can remember what you said. But I do

765
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:57,560
Speaker 1: think that I am sometimes I don't know what I

766
00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:01,400
Speaker 1: need right, But for me, it's like I'm it's pretty

767
00:38:01,440 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 1: clear that you need somebody to listen at times, and

768
00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:06,799
Speaker 1: sometimes to listen, and then you know, some of the

769
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 1: things you come up with are so wild and not true.

770
00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:13,200
Speaker 1: You know, like it would be one thing if it

771
00:38:13,360 --> 00:38:16,080
Speaker 1: if it was just a feeling that you had. And

772
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:17,879
Speaker 1: it's hard for me to say, like, well you can't

773
00:38:17,920 --> 00:38:20,200
Speaker 1: feel sad, because I wouldn't do that. But if you

774
00:38:20,280 --> 00:38:22,960
Speaker 1: say like this person is so much funnier than me,

775
00:38:23,200 --> 00:38:25,880
Speaker 1: that person works so much harder than me, this person

776
00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:28,440
Speaker 1: has so much more talent, those are pretty easy to

777
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:32,040
Speaker 1: refute or to say like, well, she's amazing at this,

778
00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:35,720
Speaker 1: and that's so different from what you do. And there's

779
00:38:35,840 --> 00:38:39,640
Speaker 1: room for so many people to be amazing at what

780
00:38:39,680 --> 00:38:43,239
Speaker 1: they do and you're up there right No, And and

781
00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:45,239
Speaker 1: I always tell you this too. Like the reason I

782
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:49,239
Speaker 1: go to you three is because I respect your opinions

783
00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:51,759
Speaker 1: about things like there's I can't go to my mom

784
00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:54,359
Speaker 1: or like there's there's a lot of people that I'm

785
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:57,799
Speaker 1: friends with that I don't really respect their opinions of

786
00:38:57,840 --> 00:39:00,359
Speaker 1: like the things they watch and enjoy, and like the

787
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 1: level of entertainment that they the bar for their level

788
00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 1: of entertainment. And on you, we'll we'll forget the fact

789
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 1: that you were watching some ship this week, but like

790
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:10,759
Speaker 1: you guys have good you guys are artists, and you

791
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 1: have good taste in things. One of my favorite things

792
00:39:13,239 --> 00:39:15,840
Speaker 1: because Nikki will go through some sort of a crisis

793
00:39:16,719 --> 00:39:19,200
Speaker 1: because she's exposed to so much, you know, being on

794
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:22,160
Speaker 1: TV and all these things that there's there's, there's you know,

795
00:39:22,440 --> 00:39:26,680
Speaker 1: semi regular crisis. Sees to the fires to put out

796
00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:28,560
Speaker 1: and on you. What I also I always love is

797
00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 1: when when Nicki and I are talking about those things

798
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:32,920
Speaker 1: and I'm you know, I'm trying to be there for

799
00:39:32,960 --> 00:39:34,879
Speaker 1: her and listen and tell her how I feel about

800
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:38,280
Speaker 1: those things, is she'll throw in something that you said

801
00:39:38,280 --> 00:39:41,719
Speaker 1: and I'm like, man, I has got some great advice. Yeah,

802
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 1: I'd love to know what that is because I feel

803
00:39:44,080 --> 00:39:47,240
Speaker 1: like I know, I am, I relate to this idea

804
00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 1: of what is the right thing to say, and I've

805
00:39:49,160 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 1: learned it is a great thing to say sometimes to

806
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 1: certain people, what would you like, do you want feedback

807
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:58,360
Speaker 1: or do you want a sounding board? And then a

808
00:39:58,400 --> 00:40:00,399
Speaker 1: lot of times people do just need a sound any board,

809
00:40:00,440 --> 00:40:05,120
Speaker 1: So a lot of people don't. There's sometimes when people

810
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:07,879
Speaker 1: say what do you need? And I'm just like, for me,

811
00:40:08,640 --> 00:40:11,879
Speaker 1: I think I feel like I'm asking someone to run

812
00:40:12,080 --> 00:40:15,600
Speaker 1: a marathon next to me sometimes and even though you

813
00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 1: do it, and I feel like a burden, and I

814
00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:20,760
Speaker 1: feel like, even though you're good at it, and obviously

815
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 1: you're good at you wouldn't be in my life, Like

816
00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:25,280
Speaker 1: I can't keep people around who can't handle my depression

817
00:40:25,360 --> 00:40:28,400
Speaker 1: and like help me through it. And you know that,

818
00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:30,640
Speaker 1: I feel like you're the best at that. And I've

819
00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:32,719
Speaker 1: told you a million times like how much you get

820
00:40:32,719 --> 00:40:35,240
Speaker 1: me out of those things? And right on this podcast

821
00:40:35,239 --> 00:40:37,680
Speaker 1: of what you said earlier made me think that you

822
00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:41,319
Speaker 1: don't think what Anya and I are doing is like

823
00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 1: necessarily effective. No, that's not what I'm saying that or

824
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:48,160
Speaker 1: that we're like implying that that you know, maybe we

825
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:50,000
Speaker 1: don't know what to do in those situations. No, I'm

826
00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:52,560
Speaker 1: just I'm saying it's it's not that you don't know

827
00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:54,440
Speaker 1: what to do. You figure out what to do. I'm

828
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:56,759
Speaker 1: sorry that that's how it came across. What I'm saying

829
00:40:56,920 --> 00:40:59,360
Speaker 1: is and Anya, do you do you think that I

830
00:40:59,400 --> 00:41:01,719
Speaker 1: was saying that or do I was trying to say

831
00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 1: it would be hard to be to listen to me

832
00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:07,600
Speaker 1: sometimes and come up with what to say and like that.

833
00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:10,840
Speaker 1: It's just it's it's just it would be hard to

834
00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:13,719
Speaker 1: figure out what to say. And I'm not sometimes it

835
00:41:13,840 --> 00:41:16,400
Speaker 1: is hard for me, Yes, but I would say that

836
00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:22,719
Speaker 1: a lot. Yeah, I think with Nikki, especially lately, you know,

837
00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:26,319
Speaker 1: in the last couple of years, you need to get

838
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:28,279
Speaker 1: it out. You need and and if I were to

839
00:41:28,280 --> 00:41:31,040
Speaker 1: refute every point, I'd be so busy, like trying to

840
00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:34,520
Speaker 1: focus on each and so often you just need to

841
00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:37,399
Speaker 1: like let loose and erupt all the stuff and then

842
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:40,520
Speaker 1: I'll try to reflect back what I'm hearing is you

843
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:45,400
Speaker 1: sound really scared, or you sound really alone talk about

844
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:48,520
Speaker 1: that or sounds sounds awful, or you you know, you

845
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:51,480
Speaker 1: sound angry or whatever it is, just to let you

846
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:54,600
Speaker 1: get it out. It's like thirty seven things that you

847
00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:57,640
Speaker 1: and then I will try to decore you're threatened, and

848
00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 1: then I'll try to like argue you, Like if I

849
00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:05,640
Speaker 1: start sparring with you, I'm like, oh, I'm signing up

850
00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:07,399
Speaker 1: for an hour and a half of a battle. There's

851
00:42:07,440 --> 00:42:12,920
Speaker 1: no point in battling. That's what. That's not true? Yeah,

852
00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 1: Like I will lose your fight because part of your

853
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:19,759
Speaker 1: brain is so it's like intent on winning and there's

854
00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:22,000
Speaker 1: no reasoning with it. And I'm not saying it's right,

855
00:42:22,480 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 1: but your brain will think no, no, no, no, no,

856
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:26,880
Speaker 1: I've got the perfect argument, and I'm like, I'm not

857
00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 1: arguing with that person. That person is out of their

858
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:33,839
Speaker 1: mind right now. I'm not happy. So we'll just be

859
00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:36,920
Speaker 1: like that sucks, dude to want to, like, you know,

860
00:42:37,160 --> 00:42:39,360
Speaker 1: to be jealous of this person right now? What do

861
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:42,520
Speaker 1: you need? What do you need? And then she'll write

862
00:42:42,520 --> 00:42:45,160
Speaker 1: like seventeen more things about other stuff, and then I'll

863
00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:48,080
Speaker 1: be like, again, what do you need? You know, and

864
00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:49,600
Speaker 1: we don't even need to get around to it. But

865
00:42:49,640 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 1: sometimes you'll be like, oh my god, I feel so

866
00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:52,759
Speaker 1: much better. I love you my sisters here, I gotta

867
00:42:52,760 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 1: go love you buy, Yeah, everything's fine. All of a sudden,

868
00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:57,240
Speaker 1: All of a sudden, it's like that never never happened

869
00:42:57,239 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 1: for Nikki, but it did happen for us. That's what

870
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 1: I'm saying. That's why it's tough. Like that's why it's tough.

871
00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:05,680
Speaker 1: It's like I would resent a person that constantly did

872
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 1: that to me, And like, but I what I am

873
00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:12,759
Speaker 1: learning from reading this fucking book about autistic women, and

874
00:43:13,320 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 1: like I do overcome things and change my mind about

875
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:20,399
Speaker 1: things on a fucking dime. Like it's not because it

876
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:22,960
Speaker 1: wasn't how I was actually feeling in that moment, and

877
00:43:22,960 --> 00:43:24,680
Speaker 1: I was just trying to get attention. And now I

878
00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:27,120
Speaker 1: got my attention, and I'm good. I feel better, and

879
00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:29,200
Speaker 1: so now I'm ready to it's the Glazer exit. I'm

880
00:43:29,200 --> 00:43:31,800
Speaker 1: ready to just let's go into the next thing. But

881
00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 1: maybe maybe you're better at this on you because you've

882
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:37,920
Speaker 1: you know, lived with Nikki and had it longer. But

883
00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:42,120
Speaker 1: when Nikki moves on from like goes from you know,

884
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:47,120
Speaker 1: a hundred miles an hour of sad, despair, angry, whatever

885
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:50,719
Speaker 1: it is, and then and then five seconds later she's

886
00:43:50,719 --> 00:43:54,920
Speaker 1: totally okay. But you were writing that emotion with her

887
00:43:55,200 --> 00:43:57,520
Speaker 1: does that has that ever kind of affected you where

888
00:43:57,560 --> 00:43:59,359
Speaker 1: you're like, whoa, I'm a part of this now, that's

889
00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:02,319
Speaker 1: what I'm talking abou out. That wasn't really what you

890
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:05,640
Speaker 1: were saying earlier, right, But it's like I guess I

891
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:07,759
Speaker 1: was just saying. It's just not that it's hard to

892
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:09,400
Speaker 1: come up with what to say, it's just hard to

893
00:44:09,440 --> 00:44:12,880
Speaker 1: come up with like what the funk was that? What

894
00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:15,960
Speaker 1: is this? What is any? Right? Yeah? Yeah, that exists?

895
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:17,640
Speaker 1: Like what you know now that you mentioned it? Like,

896
00:44:17,680 --> 00:44:19,799
Speaker 1: what is this moment that you have? It's something that

897
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:23,080
Speaker 1: I'm that is sort of new to our relationship, this

898
00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:27,040
Speaker 1: like big blow up moment and then moments later like

899
00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:31,200
Speaker 1: everything's totally fine. Yeah, it's I've had that moment so

900
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:34,799
Speaker 1: often with her, Chris and I and I totally get it.

901
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:36,200
Speaker 1: And there have been times where I have been like

902
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:39,359
Speaker 1: emotionally exhausted and I'm like I'm so in it with her.

903
00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 1: I'm running this marathon, and then it's like then it's like,

904
00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:43,560
Speaker 1: oh my god, my parents just pulled up. I have

905
00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:47,399
Speaker 1: to go by, and that's literally happened, and I'm like like, wait,

906
00:44:47,440 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 1: I'm not done yet, and I'm later and she had

907
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:53,200
Speaker 1: the best time ever with her family and everything's fine, Yes,

908
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:57,560
Speaker 1: But then what I've learned is like it's on me

909
00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:01,360
Speaker 1: to manage my level of a intensity. Am I ready

910
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:04,680
Speaker 1: for a marathon today? Most of the time, no, and

911
00:45:04,760 --> 00:45:07,439
Speaker 1: be am I really like, I don't think she really

912
00:45:07,480 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 1: needs someone to run a me at them with her.

913
00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:11,399
Speaker 1: She just needs a witness. So that's what I'm doing now,

914
00:45:11,719 --> 00:45:14,000
Speaker 1: and then I can conserve my energy so that when

915
00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:15,879
Speaker 1: she does, when it's like, oh, Laurence, here I gotta

916
00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:17,560
Speaker 1: go by, then it's like okay, great, I love you

917
00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 1: buy and then I'm my energy is not depleted. I've

918
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 1: learned the same thing, you know, like all the little

919
00:45:23,200 --> 00:45:27,600
Speaker 1: panics and stuff happening in Montreal. You know, some in

920
00:45:27,640 --> 00:45:31,560
Speaker 1: the past, those would I would be giving parts of

921
00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:36,040
Speaker 1: myself to Nikki to rebuild her happiness and joy. And

922
00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:39,840
Speaker 1: I've learned that I can't give those things. You know

923
00:45:39,880 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 1: I can, but I can. I can be there for

924
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:44,560
Speaker 1: her in a different way, but I can't get on

925
00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:46,640
Speaker 1: the ride with her. I have to be somebody has

926
00:45:46,680 --> 00:45:57,400
Speaker 1: to stay with a little fun game that Noah has

927
00:45:57,400 --> 00:46:00,640
Speaker 1: whipped up for us. Thank you guys for getting through

928
00:46:00,640 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 1: that therapy session with me. That actually felt really good

929
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:05,719
Speaker 1: to hear you both talk about what it's like to

930
00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:09,440
Speaker 1: be an intimate of friend of you know, partner of

931
00:46:09,480 --> 00:46:13,560
Speaker 1: mine in this world. Uh, thank you for thank you

932
00:46:13,600 --> 00:46:15,919
Speaker 1: for doing that. And uh and I feel a little

933
00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:18,080
Speaker 1: bit narcissistic to be like talk about what it's like

934
00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:20,600
Speaker 1: to deal with how hard it is to be, but

935
00:46:20,640 --> 00:46:24,520
Speaker 1: it was helpful for me to be a better partner

936
00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:27,160
Speaker 1: and friend to both of you as well, because I

937
00:46:27,200 --> 00:46:29,680
Speaker 1: don't want to be burdensome and I don't want you

938
00:46:29,719 --> 00:46:32,040
Speaker 1: guys want running marathons every day. I mean, Chris, you could,

939
00:46:32,080 --> 00:46:36,200
Speaker 1: you know, shape it up a little bit, but actually

940
00:46:36,200 --> 00:46:38,360
Speaker 1: he's an amazing shape And I really wanted to stop

941
00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:41,600
Speaker 1: because he keeps getting even more hard buddied every time

942
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:43,560
Speaker 1: we don't see ech other for like a week and

943
00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:45,560
Speaker 1: then the next time we touched him, I'm like, who,

944
00:46:45,880 --> 00:46:49,040
Speaker 1: when are you calcifying? What is happening to You're turning

945
00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:53,240
Speaker 1: into groot, your your ego tree, your arms are trees

946
00:46:54,000 --> 00:46:56,480
Speaker 1: and um, and it's exciting. And there's a new guy

947
00:46:56,480 --> 00:47:00,239
Speaker 1: every week that shows we'll be right back with the

948
00:47:00,280 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 1: same guy and Anya and me and I know it right, alright,

949
00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:09,080
Speaker 1: We're back. Um, all right, So I'm here with Anya

950
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:13,120
Speaker 1: and Chris, my boyfriend, and we're going to play a

951
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:22,279
Speaker 1: game of never Have I Ever? Just a class game

952
00:47:22,320 --> 00:47:25,399
Speaker 1: of never have I Ever? So no one, because never

953
00:47:25,440 --> 00:47:29,080
Speaker 1: have I evers? And if you have done it, you're

954
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:32,399
Speaker 1: gonna tell us the story of what it is, What's

955
00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:33,799
Speaker 1: what's what's going on in your head? Right now? I

956
00:47:33,800 --> 00:47:36,440
Speaker 1: think I've done this today. I think I've done this

957
00:47:36,480 --> 00:47:43,200
Speaker 1: exact thing today. Stories. Yeah, I think so what. I'm sorry,

958
00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:45,359
Speaker 1: I've already ruined the premise of this late this game

959
00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:50,560
Speaker 1: with your show today. I was actually going I almost

960
00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:52,000
Speaker 1: emailed you know, it would be like hey, I want

961
00:47:52,000 --> 00:47:53,799
Speaker 1: to play this never have I Ever? Game? And I

962
00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:55,480
Speaker 1: was going to host it, and then I forgot to

963
00:47:55,480 --> 00:47:58,719
Speaker 1: get it from Courtney. And if you remember the ones

964
00:47:58,760 --> 00:48:00,400
Speaker 1: from your show and you want to pepper them in,

965
00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:03,839
Speaker 1: we can do that as well. Hold on, hold on,

966
00:48:03,880 --> 00:48:06,800
Speaker 1: hold on, hold on. Yesterday I was texting with Nikki

967
00:48:07,040 --> 00:48:09,799
Speaker 1: and she said, you're so excited you have all these

968
00:48:09,840 --> 00:48:12,560
Speaker 1: ideas and games and that you would text me. So

969
00:48:12,600 --> 00:48:14,840
Speaker 1: then I started thinking about like fun games that we

970
00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:17,719
Speaker 1: could play, especially like icebreaker games because I know you,

971
00:48:17,800 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 1: but I don't know you that well, and I was like,

972
00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:22,600
Speaker 1: you know what, like, never have I ever came to

973
00:48:22,680 --> 00:48:24,440
Speaker 1: my mind. I was like, that would be a great

974
00:48:24,560 --> 00:48:28,000
Speaker 1: radio show game. And then you played at this morning.

975
00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:31,239
Speaker 1: I was this is insane, you guys, look at this,

976
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:35,520
Speaker 1: and I feel like I was a psychic game. Psychic game.

977
00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 1: Look at us now? Yeh know, Well, you're gonna be

978
00:48:38,680 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 1: in the sort of morrow, so maybe we can do

979
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:42,000
Speaker 1: some of those ideas that you were throwing up. It

980
00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:44,439
Speaker 1: was so fun. I felt like you weren't that into

981
00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:46,879
Speaker 1: you kidding me? I love them. Maybe maybe it's because

982
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:48,200
Speaker 1: we didn't get to talk to it, because you can't

983
00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:51,360
Speaker 1: really talk or talk about him. Yeah, I was just like, oh,

984
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:53,120
Speaker 1: I throwout ideas and I was like, these aren't that

985
00:48:53,120 --> 00:48:56,520
Speaker 1: good them? I was driving and texting you when I

986
00:48:56,600 --> 00:48:59,080
Speaker 1: was responding, but I freaking loved them. And I even

987
00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:01,920
Speaker 1: told No about them enthusiastically, being like, Chris is some

988
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:04,439
Speaker 1: great I mean, didn't I say that to you know? Uh? Yes,

989
00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:07,960
Speaker 1: I've literally forgotten what they are now to any names

990
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:15,600
Speaker 1: of them, no, I'm just kidding. Wait you'll find out

991
00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:17,320
Speaker 1: tomorrow because I don't know them at the top of

992
00:49:17,320 --> 00:49:19,480
Speaker 1: my head. But there was both of them were great,

993
00:49:20,000 --> 00:49:22,239
Speaker 1: they were already solidly for him. Maybe we'll try them,

994
00:49:22,280 --> 00:49:25,520
Speaker 1: but I Noah's game is going to be even better. Okay, okay,

995
00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:28,760
Speaker 1: So the rules of the game. I think everyone should

996
00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:32,240
Speaker 1: have like a sound that they make to like chime

997
00:49:32,280 --> 00:49:34,319
Speaker 1: in when they have done it, so that they get

998
00:49:34,320 --> 00:49:37,120
Speaker 1: to tell the story first. What do you think about that? Okay?

999
00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:39,440
Speaker 1: Like it. I'll pop out my visil line an you

1000
00:49:39,520 --> 00:49:48,480
Speaker 1: will do? That is coming from her mouth? Everyone, No, Oh,

1001
00:49:48,640 --> 00:49:52,080
Speaker 1: that's just kidding. I can't believe this too. I forgot.

1002
00:49:52,120 --> 00:49:54,440
Speaker 1: I was going to bring my sounders in for it

1003
00:49:54,440 --> 00:49:56,360
Speaker 1: as well. Mine is a monster truck. I'll bring it

1004
00:49:56,400 --> 00:49:58,960
Speaker 1: in tomorrow. Okay. So the rules of the game is

1005
00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:02,759
Speaker 1: I read something, and then if you have done it,

1006
00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:05,319
Speaker 1: you make your sound, your custom sound, and then you

1007
00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:08,680
Speaker 1: tell a story about the time that you did very easy.

1008
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 1: And then if you've never done it, you just don't

1009
00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:12,400
Speaker 1: make a sound and we move on to the next question.

1010
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:19,520
Speaker 1: So the first one, never have I ever dropped acid? Okay?

1011
00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:24,839
Speaker 1: Great for all prude, never ground, I said I'm not

1012
00:50:24,880 --> 00:50:28,799
Speaker 1: doing this drug dealer, So I did do that? Threw

1013
00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:31,799
Speaker 1: it on the ground. Yeah, so I have I'm at here.

1014
00:50:33,120 --> 00:50:39,759
Speaker 1: Never have I ever accepted a drink from a stranger. Yeah,

1015
00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:44,160
Speaker 1: oh excep. I mean it's easier for a guy to

1016
00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:46,799
Speaker 1: say yes. But yeah, of course everybody here has there's

1017
00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:49,600
Speaker 1: no way that you haven't that everybody here hasn't. Have

1018
00:50:49,640 --> 00:50:51,080
Speaker 1: you been to a wedding and they go, would you

1019
00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:54,800
Speaker 1: like a you know this? Do you remember a specific moment?

1020
00:50:56,760 --> 00:50:59,759
Speaker 1: I was doing the Turkey trot um and there were

1021
00:51:00,040 --> 00:51:02,319
Speaker 1: bowl on the sides of the road and had a

1022
00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:05,680
Speaker 1: little Dixie cups of water and I fucking accepted all

1023
00:51:05,760 --> 00:51:11,000
Speaker 1: of it. I don't have a good one. I've got

1024
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:13,080
Speaker 1: I don't have a good story. But also when I

1025
00:51:13,120 --> 00:51:16,960
Speaker 1: was at a wedding with Chris Um, they had these

1026
00:51:17,000 --> 00:51:21,920
Speaker 1: little Austin's Wedding these a little adorable like um minty

1027
00:51:22,080 --> 00:51:25,760
Speaker 1: chocolate like cocoa drinks with little like you know, barber

1028
00:51:25,840 --> 00:51:28,319
Speaker 1: strat pole straws, and I sucked it down in an

1029
00:51:28,440 --> 00:51:30,160
Speaker 1: alcohol and it was the first time I had drank

1030
00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:33,439
Speaker 1: alcohol and maybe like at that point six years and

1031
00:51:33,719 --> 00:51:35,480
Speaker 1: it coursed through my veins and I was just like

1032
00:51:36,239 --> 00:51:38,560
Speaker 1: and I had already swallowed and I was just like, Nikki,

1033
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:42,919
Speaker 1: just enjoy this because like, you can't stop it, don't

1034
00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:45,520
Speaker 1: fight it. Don't hurt yourself about it. Don't be mad

1035
00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:48,239
Speaker 1: at yourself. You didn't mean to. It doesn't count, and

1036
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:50,880
Speaker 1: just have it and just have five more and then

1037
00:51:50,880 --> 00:51:59,200
Speaker 1: everything will be fine. I had an oyster shooter in Canada,

1038
00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:02,799
Speaker 1: not knowing it was soaked in vodka, and I was

1039
00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:05,799
Speaker 1: feeling incredible. It wasn't I ordered it, so it's not

1040
00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:11,400
Speaker 1: the same thing, but it's an ancillary tale and true.

1041
00:52:12,000 --> 00:52:16,200
Speaker 1: And I read it on the menu it said oyster shooter, horseradish,

1042
00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:20,560
Speaker 1: clamato oyster. It was at a fancy restaurant that just

1043
00:52:20,600 --> 00:52:25,839
Speaker 1: would list like fennel, basil, artichoke, you know like that. No,

1044
00:52:26,080 --> 00:52:29,000
Speaker 1: no vodka infused oyster, no mention of it, and I

1045
00:52:29,080 --> 00:52:31,680
Speaker 1: had the most incredible time at dinner. I felt warm,

1046
00:52:31,760 --> 00:52:34,560
Speaker 1: I felt sexual, I was giggling and then I'm like,

1047
00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:39,080
Speaker 1: something is in there's vodka in my veins, like I'm

1048
00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:42,160
Speaker 1: telling you, And then my boyfriend and his mom were like, no,

1049
00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 1: there's not relaxed and I thought about it for an

1050
00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:47,000
Speaker 1: hour and then upon leaving I asked the host of SO,

1051
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:51,160
Speaker 1: I'm like, is there vodka and the oyster shooter. She's like, no, no,

1052
00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:54,800
Speaker 1: it's just um oh, yeah, the oyster is marinated in vodka.

1053
00:52:55,000 --> 00:52:58,440
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, that's what I felt. I didn't and

1054
00:52:59,200 --> 00:53:04,400
Speaker 1: oysters are vodka, and like, oysters are not good people

1055
00:53:04,440 --> 00:53:07,799
Speaker 1: that eat them like you're putting. There's just the fact

1056
00:53:07,800 --> 00:53:09,960
Speaker 1: that you couldn't. You didn't. And anything you have to

1057
00:53:10,000 --> 00:53:14,000
Speaker 1: shoot is not taste good, by the way, that's why

1058
00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:17,400
Speaker 1: you're shooting it. So why are we even consuming things

1059
00:53:17,760 --> 00:53:20,880
Speaker 1: that don't taste good? Because it's people are taking shots.

1060
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:23,040
Speaker 1: They aren't doing it because it tastes Why oysters they

1061
00:53:23,080 --> 00:53:25,279
Speaker 1: don't get you funked up unless they're soaked in vodka. Like,

1062
00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:27,960
Speaker 1: what is the appeal of something that you shoot that

1063
00:53:28,000 --> 00:53:30,759
Speaker 1: doesn't get you funked up? I never understood why you

1064
00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:38,520
Speaker 1: would shoot food like you I shoot it. Yeah, And

1065
00:53:38,560 --> 00:53:41,000
Speaker 1: it just sounded like an interesting thing. And I hadn't

1066
00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:42,440
Speaker 1: had an oyster in a while, and I was like,

1067
00:53:42,480 --> 00:53:45,120
Speaker 1: I kind of feel like it. It's a fancy restaurant,

1068
00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:51,000
Speaker 1: you know, delicacy, and it was amazing. I definitely thought

1069
00:53:51,040 --> 00:53:53,160
Speaker 1: about that. You said you were sitting there and you

1070
00:53:53,200 --> 00:53:56,440
Speaker 1: felt warm, you felt sexual, you felt hot, happy, that

1071
00:53:57,640 --> 00:53:59,759
Speaker 1: why what this is the same thing? When I first

1072
00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:01,359
Speaker 1: had a drink of alcohol. When I was in high

1073
00:54:01,360 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 1: school and I felt all those feelings, I was like,

1074
00:54:04,080 --> 00:54:10,520
Speaker 1: why doesn't everyone do this all? Why? It's what I'll

1075
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:15,560
Speaker 1: talk to when it does give you those feelings, Like

1076
00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:17,799
Speaker 1: you just listed things that none of those things are bad?

1077
00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:20,440
Speaker 1: Why would everyone not do that? Do you know what

1078
00:54:20,440 --> 00:54:22,600
Speaker 1: I mean? I mean, because it ultimately ruined your life.

1079
00:54:22,600 --> 00:54:25,400
Speaker 1: But the first, if you think you can control it,

1080
00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 1: and you think that you can just have that feeling,

1081
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:30,160
Speaker 1: why wouldn't you chase that forever another? That's what most

1082
00:54:30,200 --> 00:54:32,480
Speaker 1: people are doing. I mean most most people we all

1083
00:54:32,520 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 1: know drink regularly, whether they have a problem or don't, Yes,

1084
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:41,000
Speaker 1: because they like that warm whatever that is. Yeah, I've

1085
00:54:41,000 --> 00:54:44,759
Speaker 1: never had try some clamato with it, I'm telling you

1086
00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:49,360
Speaker 1: all right, next would do ever? Whatever? No? Never have

1087
00:54:49,480 --> 00:54:53,000
Speaker 1: I ever been a maid of honor or a best man?

1088
00:54:56,800 --> 00:55:00,479
Speaker 1: All right? Chris? And yeah for my brother, Oh yeah,

1089
00:55:00,480 --> 00:55:05,960
Speaker 1: that's right. Yeah, but that's probably it. I was a

1090
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:08,239
Speaker 1: maid of honor for my friend who got had to

1091
00:55:08,280 --> 00:55:11,839
Speaker 1: get married young. She was pregnant, I think, and I

1092
00:55:11,840 --> 00:55:17,440
Speaker 1: didn't know she does. I don't remember if she was pregnant.

1093
00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:19,239
Speaker 1: If it was like a shotgun wedding, I think it

1094
00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:23,680
Speaker 1: was I think she was. You love shooting things. I

1095
00:55:23,719 --> 00:55:28,200
Speaker 1: didn't know a maid of honor had any responsive Yeah,

1096
00:55:28,320 --> 00:55:31,040
Speaker 1: pretty much. That was during my drinking days. But I

1097
00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:34,000
Speaker 1: remember like at the wedding when all her I flew out,

1098
00:55:34,200 --> 00:55:36,720
Speaker 1: or she flew me out. I was such an irresponsible friend.

1099
00:55:37,360 --> 00:55:39,120
Speaker 1: Um and I got there and I was like, oh,

1100
00:55:39,200 --> 00:55:41,640
Speaker 1: they have a limo and she had her Manny petty done,

1101
00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:44,239
Speaker 1: and all these friends were there and everyone was giving

1102
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:46,720
Speaker 1: her gifts, and it occurred to me, I'm the maid

1103
00:55:46,840 --> 00:55:50,280
Speaker 1: of honor. I'm supposed I should have gotten like organized

1104
00:55:50,320 --> 00:55:52,960
Speaker 1: a shower and given her a gift, like she needs

1105
00:55:53,000 --> 00:55:55,880
Speaker 1: to ask you to do that. No, no, I did.

1106
00:55:55,960 --> 00:55:57,839
Speaker 1: No one was born knowing what a maid of honor

1107
00:55:57,880 --> 00:56:00,680
Speaker 1: should do. You got to be told all that wedding

1108
00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:02,960
Speaker 1: etiqute stuff to me is exhausting. I don't want to

1109
00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:04,840
Speaker 1: learn it. I don't want to think about it. I

1110
00:56:04,880 --> 00:56:07,240
Speaker 1: just knew I had to like do Tim's bachelor party

1111
00:56:07,360 --> 00:56:10,319
Speaker 1: and stuff. I did some fun stuff, but you're just

1112
00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:13,840
Speaker 1: it's all feels so exhausting, especially what made like the

1113
00:56:13,920 --> 00:56:17,719
Speaker 1: maid of honor has to do that stuff. Seems I was,

1114
00:56:18,400 --> 00:56:22,200
Speaker 1: you know, so grateful when Cat, my best friend from Colorado,

1115
00:56:22,239 --> 00:56:24,600
Speaker 1: the one that was that didn't help me, um in

1116
00:56:24,640 --> 00:56:28,560
Speaker 1: my room, and um, I was so happy when I

1117
00:56:28,600 --> 00:56:30,520
Speaker 1: was not her maid of honor when she got married

1118
00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:32,399
Speaker 1: because I didn't want those I didn't want those ones

1119
00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:35,760
Speaker 1: abilities either. And my sister got married just like Shotgun

1120
00:56:35,880 --> 00:56:38,359
Speaker 1: because and I was, you know, out of town, and

1121
00:56:38,400 --> 00:56:40,120
Speaker 1: so they were like, just don't worry about like, we're

1122
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:42,080
Speaker 1: just doing it in the park real quick. And then

1123
00:56:42,080 --> 00:56:44,440
Speaker 1: they never had that. They just had a reception party.

1124
00:56:44,440 --> 00:56:46,040
Speaker 1: So I never had to do that for her, like

1125
00:56:46,320 --> 00:56:50,080
Speaker 1: I would gladly do it for any of you. But um,

1126
00:56:50,200 --> 00:56:54,080
Speaker 1: I also know that you guys would not require like

1127
00:56:54,640 --> 00:57:01,440
Speaker 1: the kind of maid of honor stuff that most women do. Yeah, no,

1128
00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:03,239
Speaker 1: I don't want that. I don't think I want that

1129
00:57:03,280 --> 00:57:06,640
Speaker 1: at all. Would you actually do it for us? If

1130
00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:08,399
Speaker 1: I was like, Nikki, will you be my maid of honor?

1131
00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:13,480
Speaker 1: Because you're a different I think when you lie, her

1132
00:57:13,600 --> 00:57:16,120
Speaker 1: voice goes up because she's like talking like this. But

1133
00:57:16,160 --> 00:57:18,760
Speaker 1: I would know it was an excitement. I would totally

1134
00:57:18,800 --> 00:57:21,600
Speaker 1: do it. I would be so honored. But but you

1135
00:57:21,640 --> 00:57:24,920
Speaker 1: know me and be asking you no, you're no, you're

1136
00:57:24,960 --> 00:57:26,960
Speaker 1: not because my Maia is going to be it you

1137
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:29,280
Speaker 1: have a sister. You know, that's why you if you

1138
00:57:29,280 --> 00:57:30,640
Speaker 1: want to be a maid of honor, don't be friends

1139
00:57:30,640 --> 00:57:33,120
Speaker 1: with girls with sisters, because you're not gonna. You're not gonna, Billy,

1140
00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:36,440
Speaker 1: I don't even know that you're supposed to ask your sister.

1141
00:57:37,400 --> 00:57:40,480
Speaker 1: Come on, girl, I didn't know that. I didn't know that.

1142
00:57:40,600 --> 00:57:44,320
Speaker 1: And also, China would be much more. She's much would

1143
00:57:44,320 --> 00:57:47,000
Speaker 1: be so hurt that you didn't ask her over I'm

1144
00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:52,680
Speaker 1: already such more important than China. Both these fishes are engaged.

1145
00:57:54,320 --> 00:57:56,720
Speaker 1: And do you even who's your maid of honor? Noah,

1146
00:57:56,800 --> 00:57:59,040
Speaker 1: do you know? I don't think I want to put

1147
00:57:59,040 --> 00:58:02,440
Speaker 1: that responsibility on anybody. It's already like enough trying to

1148
00:58:02,600 --> 00:58:07,040
Speaker 1: even start creating a wedding. God, what is with us?

1149
00:58:07,120 --> 00:58:09,560
Speaker 1: We have too much guilt, Like we should be enjoying

1150
00:58:09,600 --> 00:58:12,560
Speaker 1: this time. You just don't want to. You don't want

1151
00:58:12,560 --> 00:58:14,920
Speaker 1: to all the attention on you. You feel like it's indulgent,

1152
00:58:15,080 --> 00:58:18,640
Speaker 1: you feel like and you're older, you're not in your twenties,

1153
00:58:19,160 --> 00:58:21,680
Speaker 1: like you already know what like happiness is, You know

1154
00:58:21,760 --> 00:58:24,040
Speaker 1: what things are, what is fulfilling. You're not getting married

1155
00:58:24,080 --> 00:58:27,000
Speaker 1: so you can have a little party and a day

1156
00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:29,120
Speaker 1: where you're the princess. You're getting married, so you can

1157
00:58:29,720 --> 00:58:35,200
Speaker 1: have a Yeah, you're not doing it because you want attention,

1158
00:58:35,400 --> 00:58:38,640
Speaker 1: which a lot of money. And I do stand by

1159
00:58:38,640 --> 00:58:40,720
Speaker 1: my strong opinion if I ever come back on your show,

1160
00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:43,360
Speaker 1: which on a strong Opinion Day, because they do a

1161
00:58:43,400 --> 00:58:46,320
Speaker 1: segment on strong opinions, my strong opinion that I've said

1162
00:58:46,360 --> 00:58:49,760
Speaker 1: on the show, I am not going to your wedding,

1163
00:58:50,000 --> 00:58:51,960
Speaker 1: and I will not if I do go to your wedding,

1164
00:58:52,000 --> 00:58:54,280
Speaker 1: just secretly know that I don't believe you're gonna make

1165
00:58:54,320 --> 00:58:57,040
Speaker 1: it unless you should not be getting married. I don't

1166
00:58:57,040 --> 00:58:59,680
Speaker 1: believe in marriages, but you if if they're in their twenties.

1167
00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:03,120
Speaker 1: First of all, twenties, no, only you're the only caveat

1168
00:59:03,160 --> 00:59:04,440
Speaker 1: that you can get married in your twenties, and I

1169
00:59:04,440 --> 00:59:06,000
Speaker 1: will believe you that you will last if you've been

1170
00:59:06,000 --> 00:59:08,640
Speaker 1: together at least four years. You need four years. You

1171
00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:11,920
Speaker 1: need to have seen at least one president's term together.

1172
00:59:12,960 --> 00:59:19,080
Speaker 1: And when you're Fast in the Furious movie, because if

1173
00:59:19,120 --> 00:59:21,240
Speaker 1: you don't see Ida I on The Fast and the Furious,

1174
00:59:21,280 --> 00:59:24,040
Speaker 1: you're not gonna see I on anything else. Yeah. Um,

1175
00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:26,120
Speaker 1: so that's my strong opinion is that I don't believe

1176
00:59:26,160 --> 00:59:29,800
Speaker 1: your marriage will last secretly and I will be like, congratulations,

1177
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:31,320
Speaker 1: but I know you're not going to make it. If

1178
00:59:31,360 --> 00:59:32,919
Speaker 1: you're in your twenties and you get married you haven't

1179
00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:35,120
Speaker 1: been together for more than four years. That seemed fair

1180
00:59:35,320 --> 00:59:38,600
Speaker 1: my strong opinion. Next Monday, if you're if you're on

1181
00:59:38,640 --> 00:59:44,919
Speaker 1: an escalator and and the escalator is over, get out

1182
00:59:44,920 --> 00:59:46,760
Speaker 1: of the way. Get out of the get out of

1183
00:59:46,760 --> 00:59:51,360
Speaker 1: the way. It's time to check you to check your passport.

1184
00:59:51,680 --> 00:59:53,840
Speaker 1: It's not a time for you to turn to your

1185
00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:56,760
Speaker 1: husband and say, like, oh, which gate are we at? Like,

1186
00:59:56,880 --> 00:59:59,040
Speaker 1: get out of the way first, figure it out later.

1187
00:59:59,640 --> 01:00:02,560
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you get out of the fucking way.

1188
01:00:02,840 --> 01:00:06,600
Speaker 1: Pull off the stop and wherever you are on the

1189
01:00:06,600 --> 01:00:09,680
Speaker 1: side screen of get to just stop when you want

1190
01:00:09,680 --> 01:00:11,920
Speaker 1: to stop. Unless you're getting news that your parents are

1191
01:00:11,960 --> 01:00:14,000
Speaker 1: like just died or something like, that's when you can

1192
01:00:14,040 --> 01:00:17,560
Speaker 1: stop in terms like and then. But otherwise, get the

1193
01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:19,160
Speaker 1: funk out of the web. Get out of the way.

1194
01:00:19,200 --> 01:00:20,560
Speaker 1: If you if you want to look at your phone

1195
01:00:20,560 --> 01:00:22,920
Speaker 1: and you're on the sidewalk and you think you need

1196
01:00:22,960 --> 01:00:27,200
Speaker 1: to stop the side to step into traffic. I don't

1197
01:00:27,320 --> 01:00:32,480
Speaker 1: want if you think you could just stop anywhere you idiots, idiots.

1198
01:00:33,200 --> 01:00:36,280
Speaker 1: People have this thing. I think it's a psychological thing.

1199
01:00:36,640 --> 01:00:39,920
Speaker 1: When you're getting off an airplane and we're all rushing

1200
01:00:39,920 --> 01:00:41,440
Speaker 1: to get off, we're dying to get off. We've been

1201
01:00:41,440 --> 01:00:44,200
Speaker 1: on the tarmac for twenty five minutes. The second they

1202
01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:48,280
Speaker 1: get out into the airport, they just stop. They they

1203
01:00:48,320 --> 01:00:51,040
Speaker 1: forget that we're all rushing. It's the weirdest phenomenon. What

1204
01:00:51,160 --> 01:00:54,360
Speaker 1: is that so true? You're absolutely right, and like, you know,

1205
01:00:54,400 --> 01:00:55,680
Speaker 1: you try to go to the left of a guy

1206
01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:57,640
Speaker 1: and then he's veering left a little and you try

1207
01:00:57,680 --> 01:01:01,400
Speaker 1: to It is maddening. Get out of the And if

1208
01:01:01,440 --> 01:01:04,160
Speaker 1: you get past because you're walking slow, and I don't,

1209
01:01:04,200 --> 01:01:06,560
Speaker 1: don't past you because I'm annoyed that you're working slow

1210
01:01:06,560 --> 01:01:08,480
Speaker 1: and maybe I'm in a bigger rush. Don't be a

1211
01:01:08,480 --> 01:01:11,720
Speaker 1: little twerp about it and be like if I don't

1212
01:01:11,720 --> 01:01:13,960
Speaker 1: touch you, and I don't slam into you, or just

1213
01:01:14,120 --> 01:01:16,880
Speaker 1: let me pass without taking it at such an affront

1214
01:01:16,920 --> 01:01:20,040
Speaker 1: that that means you're slow and lazy, which is all

1215
01:01:20,160 --> 01:01:23,760
Speaker 1: you having issues with yourself. That's your insecurity. I want

1216
01:01:23,760 --> 01:01:25,840
Speaker 1: to walk fast. I'm a fast walker, and I often

1217
01:01:26,240 --> 01:01:30,680
Speaker 1: won't pass someone because I'm so scared they're gonna be like, Okay, ma'am,

1218
01:01:31,640 --> 01:01:34,440
Speaker 1: I will just linger behind someone because I'm scared they're

1219
01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:36,680
Speaker 1: gonna be mad at me because I make them feel

1220
01:01:36,680 --> 01:01:39,480
Speaker 1: slow when when people are walking like five abreast at

1221
01:01:39,480 --> 01:01:49,280
Speaker 1: the airport into it sounds like a total recall. But

1222
01:01:49,320 --> 01:01:50,800
Speaker 1: I couldn't come up with the boy movie. I was

1223
01:01:50,800 --> 01:01:53,000
Speaker 1: just gonna say, boy movie, do you have a strong

1224
01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:55,320
Speaker 1: opinion on anything? Five abreast? What are you going to say?

1225
01:01:55,520 --> 01:01:58,480
Speaker 1: Forget about it. I just want to share a story

1226
01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:00,840
Speaker 1: about being at the time of an escalator and there

1227
01:02:00,840 --> 01:02:04,440
Speaker 1: were these tiny little people there, these tiny little Jewish

1228
01:02:04,440 --> 01:02:07,400
Speaker 1: people with like seven plastic bags, just at the top

1229
01:02:07,440 --> 01:02:09,880
Speaker 1: of the escalator at JFK, and I'm like, get out

1230
01:02:09,880 --> 01:02:12,560
Speaker 1: of the way, you little tiny Jewish people. And then

1231
01:02:12,600 --> 01:02:16,560
Speaker 1: I turn around and it's fucking lou Read and has

1232
01:02:16,760 --> 01:02:20,160
Speaker 1: longtime partner Lori Davidson. Is that her name, Laurie? Why

1233
01:02:20,200 --> 01:02:22,919
Speaker 1: am I not remembering your name? But the Chosen people

1234
01:02:22,960 --> 01:02:26,120
Speaker 1: can they can go wherever they choose. You get to choose,

1235
01:02:27,840 --> 01:02:31,360
Speaker 1: like I guess they really get to I don't have

1236
01:02:31,400 --> 01:02:35,680
Speaker 1: any strong opinions yet. Final thought, Um, let's do a

1237
01:02:35,680 --> 01:02:39,680
Speaker 1: couple more. Okay, I've never had divers. Never have I

1238
01:02:39,760 --> 01:02:44,680
Speaker 1: ever played strip poker or any game that involves taking

1239
01:02:44,720 --> 01:02:52,080
Speaker 1: your clothes off? No, why I don't. I know that

1240
01:02:52,120 --> 01:02:55,520
Speaker 1: I have. I know that I have. I just can't

1241
01:02:55,560 --> 01:02:58,880
Speaker 1: think of the like the scenarios. But I've definitely, definitely

1242
01:02:59,000 --> 01:03:01,440
Speaker 1: I probably have wanted to before, but I didn't because

1243
01:03:01,480 --> 01:03:03,600
Speaker 1: I had on like a gross pair of underweg It

1244
01:03:03,600 --> 01:03:06,440
Speaker 1: also sounds like something you and your girlfriends would do together,

1245
01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:09,240
Speaker 1: as like just something funny. We were so naked in

1246
01:03:09,280 --> 01:03:14,320
Speaker 1: the Hamptons because breastfeeding was going on. I just felt

1247
01:03:14,360 --> 01:03:17,240
Speaker 1: like it's time for tits out. It was just so free.

1248
01:03:17,480 --> 01:03:21,200
Speaker 1: I really think there's something about being naked no that

1249
01:03:21,400 --> 01:03:26,280
Speaker 1: is not sexual, that is like so empowering in the

1250
01:03:26,360 --> 01:03:29,360
Speaker 1: dining room for some reason, I remember like changing my

1251
01:03:29,440 --> 01:03:31,400
Speaker 1: tank top and being like, why would I leave the

1252
01:03:31,440 --> 01:03:33,560
Speaker 1: dining room. I'm just changing my tank here and these

1253
01:03:33,600 --> 01:03:37,200
Speaker 1: are all women and my nipples are not sexual here. Yeah,

1254
01:03:37,760 --> 01:03:41,240
Speaker 1: that's great. Did you guys thoroughly explore the Hamptons? You

1255
01:03:41,280 --> 01:03:43,680
Speaker 1: already all the podcast in the Hamptons with all the

1256
01:03:43,680 --> 01:03:52,000
Speaker 1: girls that was total for our labia, Then yes, I Hamptons.

1257
01:03:52,160 --> 01:03:54,240
Speaker 1: Did you guys get all your Hampton stories? Out, like

1258
01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:56,280
Speaker 1: on the podcast, did you get to tell your favorite

1259
01:03:56,280 --> 01:04:01,080
Speaker 1: thing out? But um, not there anything you wanted to know? Chris, Yeah,

1260
01:04:01,160 --> 01:04:03,800
Speaker 1: well I'm just asking because like I like hearing I

1261
01:04:03,840 --> 01:04:06,440
Speaker 1: like hearing Nikki's like stories when she goes and does anything.

1262
01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:08,360
Speaker 1: So it's like, I don't know. You guys brought the

1263
01:04:08,400 --> 01:04:09,880
Speaker 1: handles up and I was like, oh did I don't

1264
01:04:09,880 --> 01:04:12,960
Speaker 1: know if they didn't talk about the boat. The boat

1265
01:04:13,040 --> 01:04:15,640
Speaker 1: right where all I got complete. I did not want

1266
01:04:15,640 --> 01:04:18,360
Speaker 1: to go on this. There's this amazing thing that, um

1267
01:04:18,760 --> 01:04:21,439
Speaker 1: could It was like almost like a personal jet ski

1268
01:04:21,760 --> 01:04:24,360
Speaker 1: that you can go underwater and you just hold onto

1269
01:04:24,400 --> 01:04:26,440
Speaker 1: it and it goes so fast and you can go.

1270
01:04:26,680 --> 01:04:28,800
Speaker 1: You can You're just like a dolphin. You're like, I'll

1271
01:04:28,800 --> 01:04:30,920
Speaker 1: like you're on the dolphin's back. You know, like what

1272
01:04:31,040 --> 01:04:33,040
Speaker 1: you should never do, never go swimming with dolphins. Please

1273
01:04:33,040 --> 01:04:35,360
Speaker 1: don't support that ever, ever ever. But so get one

1274
01:04:35,360 --> 01:04:37,560
Speaker 1: of these things. But I couldn't go on it because

1275
01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:39,920
Speaker 1: I forgot to swim suit. Because I didn't go. I

1276
01:04:39,920 --> 01:04:41,840
Speaker 1: was supposed to go whatever I didn't have, so I

1277
01:04:41,840 --> 01:04:43,880
Speaker 1: was wearing bottoms that were just too big for me,

1278
01:04:43,920 --> 01:04:45,640
Speaker 1: so they were slipping off every time I went on

1279
01:04:45,640 --> 01:04:48,280
Speaker 1: this thing and the guy that was our boat captain.

1280
01:04:48,680 --> 01:04:50,280
Speaker 1: I didn't want to be naked in front of a guy,

1281
01:04:50,440 --> 01:04:52,360
Speaker 1: like even though there was nothing like. I was not

1282
01:04:52,400 --> 01:04:55,320
Speaker 1: trying to be like like, oh, he's gonna like want

1283
01:04:55,360 --> 01:04:57,120
Speaker 1: me if he sees my ask Like I just didn't

1284
01:04:57,160 --> 01:04:59,400
Speaker 1: want a boy to see me naked. But no one

1285
01:04:59,400 --> 01:05:02,360
Speaker 1: else seemed to care. Everyone was getting fucking naked in

1286
01:05:02,400 --> 01:05:04,720
Speaker 1: front of this guy, and I was like, I cannot.

1287
01:05:04,800 --> 01:05:08,000
Speaker 1: We are not married yet, And so I didn't get

1288
01:05:08,000 --> 01:05:09,520
Speaker 1: to go on the thing as the sweet I want

1289
01:05:09,520 --> 01:05:15,680
Speaker 1: to do, but Halla didn't. Halla don't occur. She was

1290
01:05:15,720 --> 01:05:21,920
Speaker 1: the trailblazer Cat. Blazer Cat is maybe, in my experience

1291
01:05:21,920 --> 01:05:23,960
Speaker 1: with my friends, one of my friends that has is

1292
01:05:24,000 --> 01:05:29,400
Speaker 1: the most insecure about her body historically that I've known

1293
01:05:29,400 --> 01:05:31,680
Speaker 1: of my friends, like up there with me in terms

1294
01:05:31,720 --> 01:05:34,960
Speaker 1: of like having people judge it or whatever. And this

1295
01:05:35,040 --> 01:05:39,800
Speaker 1: bitch let me her swimsuit and she also, I think,

1296
01:05:39,880 --> 01:05:41,640
Speaker 1: just didn't wear swimsuit that day because she didn't know

1297
01:05:41,680 --> 01:05:43,800
Speaker 1: we were going to go swimming, and she was like,

1298
01:05:45,280 --> 01:05:48,240
Speaker 1: can I just go topless? And I was like really,

1299
01:05:48,440 --> 01:05:55,040
Speaker 1: and she she posed. I was so proud of her.

1300
01:05:55,800 --> 01:05:59,240
Speaker 1: I was so inad of this guy. I mean, it

1301
01:05:59,240 --> 01:06:00,720
Speaker 1: wouldn't have been a big deal. And she had not

1302
01:06:00,760 --> 01:06:02,760
Speaker 1: even got naked in front of us girls like that yet,

1303
01:06:02,760 --> 01:06:04,320
Speaker 1: We had not seen her tits yet. And then all

1304
01:06:04,320 --> 01:06:06,960
Speaker 1: of a sudden she is fully topless in front of

1305
01:06:07,000 --> 01:06:09,480
Speaker 1: the boat captain and I was just like, who is

1306
01:06:09,520 --> 01:06:16,120
Speaker 1: my friend? And why isn't she giving me advice? So cool? God,

1307
01:06:16,200 --> 01:06:18,040
Speaker 1: I love you so much, but I was so proud

1308
01:06:18,040 --> 01:06:19,800
Speaker 1: of her. But Halla got on this thing, and I

1309
01:06:19,960 --> 01:06:22,800
Speaker 1: don't think I've ever left so hard as like in

1310
01:06:23,040 --> 01:06:27,120
Speaker 1: like the basketball weeks, which means because I laugh a lot.

1311
01:06:27,400 --> 01:06:29,480
Speaker 1: That was the hardest I've laughed probably on that trip.

1312
01:06:29,560 --> 01:06:34,000
Speaker 1: Was Halla um just going buck wild buck naked on

1313
01:06:34,040 --> 01:06:36,680
Speaker 1: that Na could shoot out of the water. She literally

1314
01:06:36,720 --> 01:06:38,760
Speaker 1: shot out of the water. You could see her like

1315
01:06:39,040 --> 01:06:43,840
Speaker 1: bum come back in. It was perfect, perfect white neon,

1316
01:06:44,120 --> 01:06:48,200
Speaker 1: perfectly shaped hard buns just popping out of the water.

1317
01:06:48,440 --> 01:06:50,800
Speaker 1: And the best part was her face every time was

1318
01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:57,480
Speaker 1: like can you guys, please you have to do this,

1319
01:06:59,000 --> 01:07:00,880
Speaker 1: come on, please do And I'm like, Halla, I am

1320
01:07:00,920 --> 01:07:03,000
Speaker 1: not as free as you. I cannot do that. It

1321
01:07:03,160 --> 01:07:07,480
Speaker 1: was so um. But our boat captain looked like like

1322
01:07:07,520 --> 01:07:11,440
Speaker 1: an Italian Greek Jude law. It was like, is this

1323
01:07:11,880 --> 01:07:19,200
Speaker 1: a movie? I'm happy right now? I should have taken

1324
01:07:20,000 --> 01:07:23,840
Speaker 1: I'm not about to. I just and I just I

1325
01:07:23,880 --> 01:07:26,600
Speaker 1: just didn't feel like he had a right to see that. Like,

1326
01:07:27,080 --> 01:07:29,520
Speaker 1: I just was like, this guy does not get to

1327
01:07:29,680 --> 01:07:32,320
Speaker 1: see He didn't care at all. I knew he was

1328
01:07:32,360 --> 01:07:37,000
Speaker 1: Italian care, but I just felt too. I just, for

1329
01:07:37,040 --> 01:07:39,440
Speaker 1: some reason, I was very modest. I see the chest

1330
01:07:39,560 --> 01:07:51,560
Speaker 1: all the time, feed I have olive oursing pepper. Okay,

1331
01:07:51,680 --> 01:07:53,160
Speaker 1: one more. Never I hover and then we have to

1332
01:07:53,440 --> 01:08:02,640
Speaker 1: gh okay. Um. Never have I ever had a road

1333
01:08:02,760 --> 01:08:12,320
Speaker 1: rage incident. Already told this story, but I'll tell it again. Portland, Oregon.

1334
01:08:12,680 --> 01:08:17,360
Speaker 1: Pulling into a gym eight hundred stupid cars in the

1335
01:08:17,479 --> 01:08:20,360
Speaker 1: middle of a fucking freeway. No one knows how to

1336
01:08:20,479 --> 01:08:25,360
Speaker 1: drive in Portland. I had just moved there and there, Yeah,

1337
01:08:25,800 --> 01:08:29,040
Speaker 1: same issue. They're parked waiting to get into a gym.

1338
01:08:29,280 --> 01:08:31,479
Speaker 1: I'm going forty miles an hour and like, what are

1339
01:08:31,520 --> 01:08:34,040
Speaker 1: these idiots doing? So I just go around them, pull

1340
01:08:34,160 --> 01:08:36,640
Speaker 1: into the parking lot around them. There are seven or

1341
01:08:36,720 --> 01:08:39,200
Speaker 1: eight open spots. So I'm like, I don't know what

1342
01:08:39,320 --> 01:08:41,599
Speaker 1: these people are doing waiting to walk into the gym.

1343
01:08:41,680 --> 01:08:44,080
Speaker 1: They're obviously not waiting for parking, and I take a

1344
01:08:44,120 --> 01:08:46,880
Speaker 1: parking spot. I get out of my car. An eight

1345
01:08:46,960 --> 01:08:48,960
Speaker 1: year old lady with white hair comes up to me

1346
01:08:49,000 --> 01:08:51,760
Speaker 1: and goes, excuse me, that's not how we do things

1347
01:08:51,800 --> 01:08:53,720
Speaker 1: around here. I don't know why she was British, but

1348
01:08:53,840 --> 01:08:56,960
Speaker 1: she was. And I said, are you waiting for parking?

1349
01:08:57,000 --> 01:08:59,519
Speaker 1: There's seven empty spots. Go get a spot. And she's like,

1350
01:08:59,800 --> 01:09:01,960
Speaker 1: you went around us. That's not how we do things

1351
01:09:02,000 --> 01:09:05,080
Speaker 1: around here. And I go, well, learn to go back

1352
01:09:05,120 --> 01:09:10,479
Speaker 1: from it's okay to say that to a British person.

1353
01:09:14,320 --> 01:09:16,840
Speaker 1: And then we got into an altercation and then she

1354
01:09:17,000 --> 01:09:19,880
Speaker 1: said one more time, that's not how we do things

1355
01:09:19,920 --> 01:09:23,519
Speaker 1: around here in Portland, and I go, well, get alive.

1356
01:09:24,320 --> 01:09:26,000
Speaker 1: Right in her face, I said, get a life, and

1357
01:09:26,080 --> 01:09:29,479
Speaker 1: I felt incredible for ten seconds, and then I walked

1358
01:09:29,520 --> 01:09:32,360
Speaker 1: into the gym and went, get a life. What funk

1359
01:09:32,439 --> 01:09:36,240
Speaker 1: are you saying? It's so embarrassing, But she's lived a

1360
01:09:36,280 --> 01:09:40,640
Speaker 1: fulfilled life. She's like a she's like thirty grandkids and

1361
01:09:40,720 --> 01:09:43,400
Speaker 1: she's like, I have one and it's awesome. I'm Julie

1362
01:09:43,439 --> 01:09:50,080
Speaker 1: and and I've had um that is. There is something

1363
01:09:50,160 --> 01:09:52,439
Speaker 1: about when you pop off on a stranger and like

1364
01:09:52,880 --> 01:09:55,880
Speaker 1: let out this rage that, like you're so proud of yourself.

1365
01:09:55,960 --> 01:09:59,559
Speaker 1: You have that like Julia Roberts, like big mistake, huge moment.

1366
01:10:00,040 --> 01:10:03,280
Speaker 1: Then you walk out there like that was embarrassing even

1367
01:10:03,320 --> 01:10:06,120
Speaker 1: though it was cool. Yeah, if other people saw that,

1368
01:10:06,479 --> 01:10:10,360
Speaker 1: it's something fail. He's gross about that. It's always unbecoming.

1369
01:10:10,439 --> 01:10:13,760
Speaker 1: I had like an altercation with a guy. The best story, Yeah,

1370
01:10:15,200 --> 01:10:20,479
Speaker 1: I mean it wasn't. He's not the best because the end, Yeah,

1371
01:10:20,520 --> 01:10:24,679
Speaker 1: I don't even really remember exactly what I said. Remember, Yeah,

1372
01:10:25,600 --> 01:10:28,280
Speaker 1: Well it was in the like you had spilled some

1373
01:10:28,400 --> 01:10:30,880
Speaker 1: water or something had spilled some water on the bench,

1374
01:10:31,240 --> 01:10:35,200
Speaker 1: didn't realize it. And he walks from across the locker

1375
01:10:35,320 --> 01:10:38,360
Speaker 1: room and grabs one of those huge towels that you

1376
01:10:38,400 --> 01:10:40,200
Speaker 1: know people are using to dry off with, and he goes,

1377
01:10:40,400 --> 01:10:42,519
Speaker 1: let me get that for you, and just started, like,

1378
01:10:43,320 --> 01:10:46,160
Speaker 1: you know, doing this big exaggerated movement, you know that

1379
01:10:46,280 --> 01:10:47,920
Speaker 1: he was wrapping this thing up for him, and I

1380
01:10:48,040 --> 01:10:51,000
Speaker 1: was like, man, I didn't even see that. I didn't

1381
01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:53,280
Speaker 1: even you know, And he's like, oh, I'll just clean

1382
01:10:53,360 --> 01:10:55,639
Speaker 1: up for you around the gym. And I'm like very

1383
01:10:56,080 --> 01:10:58,760
Speaker 1: conscientious of like not being in people's way or doing

1384
01:10:58,880 --> 01:11:04,000
Speaker 1: something that's like too your strong opinion, yes and so

1385
01:11:04,520 --> 01:11:06,080
Speaker 1: and so I'm like I was like, I didn't even

1386
01:11:06,080 --> 01:11:07,680
Speaker 1: know that was there. And he was like, well, why

1387
01:11:07,720 --> 01:11:09,400
Speaker 1: don't we all just clean up for you and stuff

1388
01:11:09,439 --> 01:11:13,120
Speaker 1: like that, and uh and I said something about um,

1389
01:11:15,240 --> 01:11:19,280
Speaker 1: something about being I forget what I said. Do you remember?

1390
01:11:19,680 --> 01:11:24,320
Speaker 1: It was something like, um, you just you just you

1391
01:11:24,400 --> 01:11:26,479
Speaker 1: had a good comeback for I forget this one from

1392
01:11:26,479 --> 01:11:30,160
Speaker 1: the Greatest Story. It was a convertation. Was like, you

1393
01:11:30,240 --> 01:11:33,320
Speaker 1: were just like, you know what, man, um, I didn't

1394
01:11:33,360 --> 01:11:37,640
Speaker 1: see it. You're acting ridiculous. This is a total exaggerated

1395
01:11:37,720 --> 01:11:40,160
Speaker 1: response to this little thing. I didn't see it. This

1396
01:11:40,320 --> 01:11:43,560
Speaker 1: is a marbled surface. It's and our who are you

1397
01:11:44,400 --> 01:11:47,439
Speaker 1: to police this? Like? You? You you let him have

1398
01:11:47,520 --> 01:11:50,080
Speaker 1: it in a really responsible, I think, like measured way,

1399
01:11:50,160 --> 01:11:52,160
Speaker 1: but also like stern and like kind of scary. And

1400
01:11:52,200 --> 01:11:53,400
Speaker 1: I think I was like, I think I was like,

1401
01:11:53,520 --> 01:11:57,120
Speaker 1: you are a you know, you're fifty five year old

1402
01:11:57,240 --> 01:12:01,320
Speaker 1: man who is being passive aggress to a person that

1403
01:12:01,439 --> 01:12:04,559
Speaker 1: had no idea he had done something wrong. Grow up, Yeah,

1404
01:12:04,560 --> 01:12:09,320
Speaker 1: I think I might probably probably grow up. The current

1405
01:12:09,439 --> 01:12:11,639
Speaker 1: version of version get a life. I wish we could

1406
01:12:11,760 --> 01:12:14,839
Speaker 1: can we erase that entire section out of the podcast?

1407
01:12:14,920 --> 01:12:19,040
Speaker 1: It was such a boring The best part about it

1408
01:12:19,080 --> 01:12:21,080
Speaker 1: was that you saw that guy later on. Yeah, oh

1409
01:12:21,200 --> 01:12:23,439
Speaker 1: so I saw that. So I saw that guy like, um,

1410
01:12:24,000 --> 01:12:28,160
Speaker 1: two weeks later or something like that, and um, I

1411
01:12:28,680 --> 01:12:30,759
Speaker 1: remember the signs all of the gym right there, signs

1412
01:12:30,760 --> 01:12:33,240
Speaker 1: all over the gym that's say that say, you know,

1413
01:12:33,479 --> 01:12:37,640
Speaker 1: no jim bags, no chalk, all these things, and he

1414
01:12:38,000 --> 01:12:40,200
Speaker 1: was he was next to his machine, and so like,

1415
01:12:40,320 --> 01:12:43,519
Speaker 1: you know, this guy's obviously policing the entire gym. You know,

1416
01:12:43,600 --> 01:12:46,040
Speaker 1: he's if somebody spills something, it's on him to tell

1417
01:12:46,080 --> 01:12:47,960
Speaker 1: people what's wrong with the gym. So he's got his

1418
01:12:48,040 --> 01:12:50,559
Speaker 1: gym bag. I go up to his his weightlifting figure,

1419
01:12:50,600 --> 01:12:54,360
Speaker 1: you know, whatever machine he was on, and I was like, hey,

1420
01:12:54,439 --> 01:12:57,800
Speaker 1: what does what does that sign say right there? And

1421
01:12:57,880 --> 01:13:01,160
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, no, Jim bags. Huh. And he

1422
01:13:01,320 --> 01:13:03,439
Speaker 1: was like, hey, man, I just want to say I'm

1423
01:13:03,439 --> 01:13:06,240
Speaker 1: sorry for what I did. I was out of line.

1424
01:13:06,600 --> 01:13:09,040
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh yeah, of course, man, I

1425
01:13:09,120 --> 01:13:10,880
Speaker 1: was out a line too. I was like, you know,

1426
01:13:10,920 --> 01:13:13,600
Speaker 1: I probably shouldn't have been that rude and uh, and

1427
01:13:13,720 --> 01:13:16,880
Speaker 1: we literally hugged on the gym floor. Now, every time

1428
01:13:16,920 --> 01:13:21,799
Speaker 1: I see him in the gym, I started singing, saying

1429
01:13:21,960 --> 01:13:27,400
Speaker 1: so oh sorry, but every time you see him, we

1430
01:13:27,520 --> 01:13:29,439
Speaker 1: talk and hang out and we're like buds now and

1431
01:13:29,520 --> 01:13:31,479
Speaker 1: we like talk about injuries. I'm like, how you doing, man,

1432
01:13:31,520 --> 01:13:34,200
Speaker 1: He's like, oh man, my shoulders all messed up. And

1433
01:13:34,240 --> 01:13:36,400
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, man, my calf. I loved that

1434
01:13:36,479 --> 01:13:38,840
Speaker 1: so much because I was so incensed by this guy

1435
01:13:38,880 --> 01:13:40,320
Speaker 1: when I heard this story and I was like, oh,

1436
01:13:40,840 --> 01:13:42,639
Speaker 1: I hate this guy. I can't wait for the conversation.

1437
01:13:42,920 --> 01:13:44,760
Speaker 1: And you're telling me that you got to this moment

1438
01:13:44,800 --> 01:13:46,439
Speaker 1: where you got to call him out for the same thing.

1439
01:13:46,479 --> 01:13:48,600
Speaker 1: He's such a hypocrite and to have it just be

1440
01:13:48,800 --> 01:13:51,880
Speaker 1: cut by being like, I'm sorry, it's just it was

1441
01:13:51,960 --> 01:13:55,000
Speaker 1: the sweetest thing. I mean, it was just it was

1442
01:13:55,080 --> 01:13:58,479
Speaker 1: so hot to me. It was a good moment. Yeah. Um, Tomorrow,

1443
01:13:58,520 --> 01:13:59,800
Speaker 1: I want to tell the story of what happened to

1444
01:13:59,840 --> 01:14:01,479
Speaker 1: me on a plane when someone was trying to air

1445
01:14:01,560 --> 01:14:03,800
Speaker 1: drop me pictures and what I did in response to that.

1446
01:14:03,920 --> 01:14:06,200
Speaker 1: So stay tuned to that tomorrow. We'll be back tomorrow

1447
01:14:06,360 --> 01:14:09,320
Speaker 1: with Chris and probably my mom. But stay tuned and

1448
01:14:09,439 --> 01:14:11,519
Speaker 1: find out Andrew is out of town in Jackson Holle.

1449
01:14:11,520 --> 01:14:13,360
Speaker 1: He'll be back on Monday for the show. Thank you

1450
01:14:13,360 --> 01:14:15,840
Speaker 1: ay so much for listening to the podcast today, Um

1451
01:14:16,080 --> 01:14:25,320
Speaker 1: don't be and Jim Chick sch um Jack car Jack

1452
01:14:25,320 --> 01:14:25,479
Speaker 1: car