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Speaker 1: But seriously, I'm for real, no, for real, friend, I know.

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Speaker 1: It's like it's never been a time. God God always

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Speaker 3: Write down anytime.

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Speaker 1: Anytime he removed somebody from your life, because it's always

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Speaker 1: God Like. You might think you're making the decision, but

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Speaker 1: And God will sometimes allow things to keep happening to

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Speaker 1: let me get rid of ho ass because it's just

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Speaker 4: When you pray on it, it'll get worse for you

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Speaker 3: You gotta be careful with that prayer.

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Speaker 1: For that prayer, you have to be and as you

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Speaker 3: You gotta confront it. I agree, and then we be.

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Speaker 1: Like, but not this way.

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Speaker 3: Hold on.

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Speaker 1: I think I wanted to happen like this, but you

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Speaker 4: I pray for and then and then sometimes you pray

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Speaker 5: Yeah, what's up, y'all?

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Speaker 3: It's your girl?

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Speaker 4: Alex p Any Sugarl draying a call and you are

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Speaker 4: tuned in to another episode of Poor Mine.

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Speaker 1: Where are drunk? Mine speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 3: We ain't got no guests today. We ain't got no

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Speaker 3: guess today. Voices day Yo? Who is they me?

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Speaker 4: I'm trying to find my voice, so when I get

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Speaker 3: That's what. We ain't got no guests today? Yeah, what's up?

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Speaker 4: It's your girl, Alex p on the track, put me

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Speaker 4: on the stage, and you know what, throw it back out?

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Speaker 4: You could leave that in the stool. Oh god, but

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Speaker 1: I don't think so though, because they've done it before,

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Speaker 3: They a done it like two separate people need there before.

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Speaker 1: Now you're trying they have because nobody has ever merged

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Speaker 1: and missed the two. But it's also twenty twenty seeds.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if the new kids were like.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you they canna make TikTok be like Auntie Old.

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Speaker 4: He should come with this bullshit because hey, hey, hey, oh.

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Speaker 1: We need to bring We don't bring back I love

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Speaker 4: It wasn't popping when I was club either, But that

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Speaker 1: No, they lifted in like I think they should lift

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Speaker 3: But you know I'm coming.

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Speaker 4: Hip hop gospel track, because that's what's so it can't

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Speaker 4: Oh, so I can say, holy.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm mixing it up on the ass, I'm telling you.

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Speaker 3: Try out the Lord, you know. I just think trying

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Speaker 4: We're stepping into an era of just doing things out

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Speaker 1: How we just finished You know how you just finished

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Speaker 1: So that's why I say, do you remember that song

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Speaker 3: You know what?

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Speaker 1: That song was so horny.

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Speaker 4: Remember minute man by miss that was going to too.

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Speaker 3: She was like moaning like, hell no, I'm staying.

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Speaker 3: She said, hell no, to please me, you got to

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Speaker 3: Luda Crystal matenance man bro.

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Speaker 1: From back in the day, so questionable and we used

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Speaker 4: Like I do wonder day when she was moaning.

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Speaker 1: But it's like they didn't know better than neither did we.

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Speaker 3: But I'm just saying, y'all heard her.

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Speaker 4: But no, I feel like, I mean, it's just like

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Speaker 3: Like why did she do that? Or why did she

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Speaker 4: And sometimes I be really like, when y'all have y'all

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Speaker 3: But yeah, because who would you be?

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Speaker 1: And I think that's what I was saying. Who is

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Speaker 1: But Michael Jackson, he I just would have I would

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Speaker 3: He probably would have came on poor minds.

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Speaker 1: He definitely would have came on poor minds, for we

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Speaker 3: Here full guards.

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Speaker 1: Y'all want to see me fangirl? Oh my god, Michael

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Speaker 3: Have you ever fangirled glove? Yeah? Yeah, you got to.

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Speaker 3: Have you ever had a fangirl moment? No?

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Speaker 1: I haven't because I haven't met anybody.

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Speaker 1: oh my god, yeah, Will Smith, Will Smith?

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Speaker 4: Do is play that song where he gonna pop all

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Speaker 3: I'll be outside on my gang game.

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Speaker 1: And it's okay to forgive people too if you want to, Like,

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Speaker 4: So sometimes I am for a woman like blasting a man.

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Speaker 1: makes you look It makes you look a little bit

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00:22:23,359 --> 00:22:26,119
Speaker 1: more crazy because especially if they don't say nothing in

445
00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:29,200
Speaker 1: response or are publicly acknowledged.

446
00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:32,119
Speaker 4: I think sometimes though, it'll put a stain on you forever.

447
00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:34,040
Speaker 4: You know how they walk around with that scarlet a.

448
00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:36,640
Speaker 1: I don't think you do. That's a successful men.

449
00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:38,920
Speaker 3: I mean fucking with holes.

450
00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:41,800
Speaker 4: Sometimes certain men in the industry, you'd be like, why

451
00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:44,800
Speaker 4: are they single? Because honestly, women of value don't fuck

452
00:22:44,840 --> 00:22:46,959
Speaker 4: with them because of the reputation they have now. They

453
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:49,399
Speaker 4: can get all the bitches, all the Instagram girls, but

454
00:22:49,480 --> 00:22:51,399
Speaker 4: a woman of value they can't get it.

455
00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:53,720
Speaker 1: I don't know that niggas like that be wanting women

456
00:22:53,760 --> 00:22:55,440
Speaker 1: of value for real, though they do.

457
00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:56,360
Speaker 3: They do.

458
00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:59,520
Speaker 4: Everybody wont stap beyond say today jay Z. Everybody has

459
00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:01,040
Speaker 4: that fatus see, but they can't get that.

460
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's fair. I think people love the idea, like

461
00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:08,760
Speaker 1: people love the idea of having a Beyonce, but most

462
00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:12,480
Speaker 1: niggas couldn't handle Beyonce or a woman like Beyonce. So

463
00:23:12,520 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 1: that's why I always say, I think a lot of

464
00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:17,960
Speaker 1: men who do have money and status and stuff. That's

465
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,480
Speaker 1: why they like today the women that they date because

466
00:23:20,480 --> 00:23:22,879
Speaker 1: they really can't, like you said, a lot of it,

467
00:23:22,920 --> 00:23:24,560
Speaker 1: and not that there's anything wrong with that, but like

468
00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:27,160
Speaker 1: you said, like kind of I guess Instagram baddies whatever.

469
00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:30,720
Speaker 1: I think that's why they be liking to date those

470
00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:33,000
Speaker 1: type of women because it's just a little different than

471
00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:35,320
Speaker 1: dating a woman who's a boss who really got her.

472
00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:38,040
Speaker 1: She's together because she's not going to deal with that.

473
00:23:38,400 --> 00:23:40,320
Speaker 1: But I do think too that when you're a woman

474
00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:43,399
Speaker 1: of a certain status like you, that bitch you that girl,

475
00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:45,320
Speaker 1: So you just can leave that nigga in the dusk.

476
00:23:45,680 --> 00:23:48,960
Speaker 1: He gonna forever have to eat that while you move

477
00:23:49,000 --> 00:23:50,720
Speaker 1: on with your life and be happy and find you

478
00:23:50,800 --> 00:23:53,640
Speaker 1: another nigga like I don't know, and find somebody who

479
00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:56,919
Speaker 1: gonna treat you right. Sometimes taking a high road just

480
00:23:56,960 --> 00:24:01,239
Speaker 1: be the best policy because niggas gonna still see they

481
00:24:01,359 --> 00:24:03,680
Speaker 1: still gonna be a shit. I can't think of not one,

482
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:06,000
Speaker 1: and I don't know, maybe you can, but I can't

483
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:12,280
Speaker 1: think of one example where a beautiful, successful, intelligent woman

484
00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:17,800
Speaker 1: blasted a man online and it ended up ruining his

485
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:20,520
Speaker 1: chances of being able to like he wasn't able to

486
00:24:20,560 --> 00:24:21,919
Speaker 1: bounce back from me, And I guess that is what

487
00:24:21,920 --> 00:24:22,600
Speaker 1: I'm trying to say.

488
00:24:23,080 --> 00:24:24,560
Speaker 3: I can't really think of no situation.

489
00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:28,360
Speaker 4: I mean maybe publicly though looks good, But I hope

490
00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:30,600
Speaker 4: at east you never know what that man is going

491
00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:32,800
Speaker 4: through behind closed door, because now you can't fool the

492
00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:37,639
Speaker 4: world no more, because narcissist worst nightmare is the world

493
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:40,600
Speaker 4: not believing that he's a good person. So sometimes when

494
00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:43,520
Speaker 4: you put them on blasts, they are literally losing sweet

495
00:24:43,600 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 4: because you rip that mask off they ass and they

496
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:50,159
Speaker 4: have lived their entire life bulling the world, and now

497
00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:51,879
Speaker 4: we know the truth, you know what I'm saying. So

498
00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:56,080
Speaker 4: sometimes even about the women, the brand deals or the money,

499
00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:59,680
Speaker 4: sometimes it's just they get satisfaction from knowing I'm this

500
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:03,000
Speaker 4: person behind this mask and you've ripped the mask off.

501
00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:06,560
Speaker 3: So it could be. I think it's a layered conversation. Obviously.

502
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:12,119
Speaker 4: I think that there's no right way to react to betrayal,

503
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:16,640
Speaker 4: and I think that, yes, it sounds good to take

504
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:17,200
Speaker 4: the hoigh road.

505
00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:19,640
Speaker 3: Bitch. Sometimes a bitch be scoring.

506
00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:19,920
Speaker 5: To be mad.

507
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:23,080
Speaker 1: Oh I know that's why, Like I said, I'm speaking

508
00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:28,560
Speaker 1: from a place of experience. Yeah, yeah, I'm speaking outside

509
00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:31,720
Speaker 1: of you. Yeah, yeah, but I'm I mean because I

510
00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:35,720
Speaker 1: was like dug, but yeah, I'm speaking from a place

511
00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:39,320
Speaker 1: of like growth and like getting to this point in

512
00:25:39,359 --> 00:25:41,880
Speaker 1: my life because to be honest, and I can only

513
00:25:41,880 --> 00:25:43,920
Speaker 1: speak for myself, I can't never speak for other women.

514
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:46,399
Speaker 1: I was never that person to be in with. I

515
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 1: just let a situation take me there and do some

516
00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:52,359
Speaker 1: shit that I ended up ultimately being like, now, why

517
00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:54,000
Speaker 1: the fuck did you do this? Because it's not this

518
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:57,200
Speaker 1: isn't even in your care. You would never do these.

519
00:25:57,800 --> 00:25:59,680
Speaker 1: And I remember when I told my mom about it,

520
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:02,280
Speaker 1: and I told a few other people. Well I didn't

521
00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 1: even have to tell them, they just had seen it.

522
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 1: And I just remember when it happened, like so many

523
00:26:06,520 --> 00:26:09,480
Speaker 1: people in my life, was like, bitch, really deleted it

524
00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:14,399
Speaker 1: because yeah no, They was like that's stupid and I

525
00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:17,160
Speaker 1: can't believe you, like y'all shouldn't it be supposed to did?

526
00:26:17,720 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 3: Because they was like you bigger than it.

527
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 1: You don't even move like that, and I don't, And

528
00:26:23,320 --> 00:26:26,200
Speaker 1: I just hate I love to move. The fucking one

529
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,359
Speaker 1: thing that I know about people because I've seen it

530
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:30,960
Speaker 1: happen so many times in my life. Bitch, I ain't

531
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:34,720
Speaker 1: never my loss. Yeah, now that's never like ever.

532
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:39,800
Speaker 4: In the moment, it hurts, but in the long run, it's.

533
00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:40,840
Speaker 1: Never my loss because I know who I am. I

534
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:42,760
Speaker 1: know the heart that I have, I know how kind

535
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:44,359
Speaker 1: I am. I know who I am as a person

536
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 1: in anybody that's privileged enough to be in my space

537
00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:49,840
Speaker 1: on a personal level and be around me and experience

538
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:53,520
Speaker 1: me in that way, you might not realize it initially,

539
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:56,080
Speaker 1: but you gonna realize it indefinitely. Beat you your loss.

540
00:26:57,640 --> 00:27:00,800
Speaker 1: You fucked up, you lost out, so you just don't

541
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:04,639
Speaker 1: even And once you do that, you don't deserve the

542
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:07,040
Speaker 1: energy from me no more because you don't show me

543
00:27:07,080 --> 00:27:09,000
Speaker 1: who you are. So I just be wanting us as

544
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:14,000
Speaker 1: women in general, like that's gonna be. That's gonna be

545
00:27:14,040 --> 00:27:16,320
Speaker 1: the biggest ell that Nigga take is the fact that

546
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:20,840
Speaker 1: he can't have access to you and the great, amazing

547
00:27:20,920 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 1: person that you are.

548
00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 4: I will say that I think that's something that I

549
00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:28,800
Speaker 4: definitely took from my last situation, like the back and.

550
00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:30,200
Speaker 3: Forth ping pong we was doing.

551
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:32,919
Speaker 4: But when I really left, and I say this all

552
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 4: the time, the way my life it was like I

553
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 4: was freed, And I think that's the best thing about

554
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:42,160
Speaker 4: my life right now is that he does not have

555
00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:47,520
Speaker 4: access to me like at all. Like I'd be like, damn,

556
00:27:47,720 --> 00:27:49,399
Speaker 4: you're still in the same spot I left you at.

557
00:27:49,480 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 1: That's crazy because that's where people gonna be a lot

558
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:57,480
Speaker 1: of the time, because people don't be shit, And I.

559
00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:00,159
Speaker 4: Think a lot of times men don't even realize the

560
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:03,440
Speaker 4: spark that the public seeson you a lot of times

561
00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:05,320
Speaker 4: be from your girl, and your girl.

562
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:06,840
Speaker 3: You never was him.

563
00:28:07,840 --> 00:28:10,480
Speaker 4: That spark is from them, because this is a cool

564
00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:11,320
Speaker 4: ass bitch, I know.

565
00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:12,600
Speaker 5: Yeah.

566
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:16,600
Speaker 4: So I love my friends, Like, oh my god, So

567
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 4: when my friends date somebody, I'm like, Okay, let me

568
00:28:19,280 --> 00:28:21,360
Speaker 4: see what he's talking about, cause he gotta being amazing.

569
00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:23,639
Speaker 4: So it's like when they do something to hurt my friends,

570
00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,680
Speaker 4: I'd be like, are you fucking dumb? Because, like I said,

571
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 4: I recently had a friend that like blasted the situation,

572
00:28:29,440 --> 00:28:31,040
Speaker 4: and I'm just like, okay, whatever makes you feel in

573
00:28:31,040 --> 00:28:32,679
Speaker 4: the moment. And in the moment, she didn't want to

574
00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:34,720
Speaker 4: be talked off the ledge in that moment that made

575
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:37,199
Speaker 4: her feel good, But it was just kind of like,

576
00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 4: you know, now when you want to go back, now

577
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:42,960
Speaker 4: everybody looking at you crazy but in the moment. But

578
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:46,080
Speaker 4: I'm just I felt good because I'm glad the world know.

579
00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 4: So we're not looking at him with that spark no more.

580
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 4: You can still be with him that spark. I hate

581
00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 4: that nigga, but I'm.

582
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:56,680
Speaker 3: Glad he too did tho. Yeah, but I'm glad the

583
00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 3: world knows.

584
00:28:57,480 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 4: Now we all know he don't got that little shan

585
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:01,160
Speaker 4: in his out of it that he used to have no more.

586
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:03,800
Speaker 4: So I think that sometimes, Like I said, I'm not

587
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 4: for it, but if a woman does it, I understand it,

588
00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:09,800
Speaker 4: you know, And I'm glad that the world knows about that.

589
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 3: Nigga, the one I'm talking about.

590
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:18,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, facts, So what you think ta, I don't ever

591
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:21,200
Speaker 1: want a nigga to see me or feel like he

592
00:29:21,280 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 1: got to me.

593
00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 3: So yeah, I'm gonna leave.

594
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:26,680
Speaker 1: Youre getting blocked and like your point, you're gonna see

595
00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:30,320
Speaker 1: me glow up yohever you can find me whatever, But yeah,

596
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:33,680
Speaker 1: you you lost that and I don't need to say anything.

597
00:29:34,160 --> 00:29:36,520
Speaker 1: And that's typically me too, girl, Like I'm just gonna

598
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:39,520
Speaker 1: not talk to you, no more. Blocks deleted, moving on.

599
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 1: You don't have no access to me no more. But

600
00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:45,520
Speaker 1: I get it sometimes like being in that position because,

601
00:29:45,600 --> 00:29:47,520
Speaker 1: like I said, I let that happen to me one

602
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:50,360
Speaker 1: time in my life, but I felt stupid because like

603
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:54,800
Speaker 1: I feel like you like, bitch, why am I even Hugh?

604
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:55,640
Speaker 3: Why did I do that?

605
00:29:57,760 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 5: Yeah?

606
00:29:58,120 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 4: Either, But I will say I wish that more people

607
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:03,120
Speaker 4: would give the energy towards the man and not the woman. Yes,

608
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:06,240
Speaker 4: I see posting it. Hey baby, just take this down.

609
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:07,719
Speaker 4: It's not a good look. Don't be like girl, you

610
00:30:07,760 --> 00:30:11,600
Speaker 4: look dumb, you look stupid. You know, give that negative,

611
00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:14,280
Speaker 4: nasty energy towards him. Now you can talk your friend

612
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 4: off of a ledge nicely.

613
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:19,080
Speaker 3: She already going through it, you know what I'm saying.

614
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:21,520
Speaker 4: So I do wish that, like when women have a

615
00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 4: moment and they freak out and post things, the negative

616
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:26,080
Speaker 4: energy needs to be towards the person who is the

617
00:30:26,160 --> 00:30:28,880
Speaker 4: actual suspecting the crime.

618
00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:31,480
Speaker 1: But yeah, you could tell people. I think it's that's

619
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 1: just more so about knowing how to talk to people

620
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:37,280
Speaker 1: and talk to your friends, because you can tell your

621
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 1: friend that they doing something stupid without telling them that

622
00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 1: they stupid, yes, or calling them stupid. Yes, you don't.

623
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:45,400
Speaker 1: Choice of words matters, you know.

624
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:49,600
Speaker 3: I'm preach them prophet. Yeah, you don't profited hard.

625
00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:52,600
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying yeah, Like, choice of words matter,

626
00:30:52,720 --> 00:30:54,520
Speaker 1: Like even if I don't like something, And it's been

627
00:30:54,600 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 1: times where my friends have done stuff or like talk

628
00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 1: to dudes that I don't necessarily agree with situations or

629
00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:02,960
Speaker 1: thinking it's the best for them, But your choice of

630
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:06,240
Speaker 1: words matter, Like you don't have to tell your friend

631
00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:08,720
Speaker 1: that they stupid. You could say that nigga stupid though,

632
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:13,160
Speaker 1: because I will say that, all right.

633
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:16,160
Speaker 3: The energy is for the niggas, thank you.

634
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 1: The energy is for Okay. So let's get into topic

635
00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:27,240
Speaker 1: number one. We, I mean, I feel like this is

636
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 1: like a good segue to go into these topics though,

637
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:31,120
Speaker 1: because I mean, we kind of was talking about this

638
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:35,560
Speaker 1: a little bit. So how strict is your program? How

639
00:31:35,640 --> 00:31:38,480
Speaker 1: seriously are you taking your work life, your dating life,

640
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 1: how seriously you take life in general? Like how serious

641
00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 1: is your program? Personally? My shit is strict, as I

642
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:51,280
Speaker 1: don't think nobody's program is more strict than fucking Earth Signs.

643
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:54,680
Speaker 3: We don't fucking play this suite.

644
00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 1: We really don't, Like I don't know too many Earth

645
00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:02,200
Speaker 1: Signed people that play with people like we be really

646
00:32:02,960 --> 00:32:04,680
Speaker 1: ready to we be ready to get the fook on

647
00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:07,640
Speaker 1: and ready to get you the book on like I

648
00:32:07,800 --> 00:32:10,720
Speaker 1: very much run a strict ass program, not just only

649
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 1: with people in my life, from friendships to relationship I

650
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 1: mean to dating relationships, but also when it comes to

651
00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 1: just how I show up for myself and taking care

652
00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 1: of myself and when it comes to my eating habits,

653
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:28,280
Speaker 1: me working out, taking that part of my life series

654
00:32:28,320 --> 00:32:30,480
Speaker 1: just being a person who tries to be self aware

655
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 1: and know the things that I need to work on,

656
00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:37,520
Speaker 1: going to therapy, going to therapy, going to therapy, making

657
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:41,080
Speaker 1: sure my mental health is on point. I don't play

658
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:43,640
Speaker 1: with myself, so I think that's a big reason why

659
00:32:43,640 --> 00:32:46,560
Speaker 1: I don't let people play play with me or whatever,

660
00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:48,000
Speaker 1: play in my face and when it come to me,

661
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:50,120
Speaker 1: and I try to give people a little bit of

662
00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:52,320
Speaker 1: grace because when you love somebody, like when you're in

663
00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:56,120
Speaker 1: a relationship and you love a man, you will give

664
00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:59,720
Speaker 1: a man numerous chances. But at the end of the day,

665
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:03,959
Speaker 1: you also gotta be okay with like walking away. You

666
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:05,840
Speaker 1: can't just be letting people play in y'all face you.

667
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:07,440
Speaker 1: And I think that has a lot to do with

668
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:11,040
Speaker 1: knowing your your self words. I'll give a duo with

669
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:13,640
Speaker 1: a chance like a few chances, but like it's certain

670
00:33:13,640 --> 00:33:16,240
Speaker 1: shit that niggas just have never been able to come

671
00:33:16,280 --> 00:33:19,760
Speaker 1: back from. You ain't coming back from in any certain

672
00:33:19,760 --> 00:33:23,040
Speaker 1: stuff where it's like nobody's perfect. You made a mistake,

673
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:24,720
Speaker 1: I could give you another chance, And it's the same

674
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 1: thing in friendships. You made a mistake, I can give

675
00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:29,440
Speaker 1: you another chance, but then some bitches beat You got

676
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 1: to go first offense because you're not gonna create a

677
00:33:32,640 --> 00:33:37,160
Speaker 1: second one. So yeah, I run a very fucking strict

678
00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:40,120
Speaker 1: program business too, very streets.

679
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 3: We be on them calls and stuff. I'll be having

680
00:33:41,880 --> 00:33:42,680
Speaker 3: helo questions.

681
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 1: I don't play about how I want things to look,

682
00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 1: how I want things to be presented, how I want

683
00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:52,280
Speaker 1: things to be ran with our business, with my personal

684
00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 1: business with mules. I just yeah, strict as fuck. I

685
00:33:56,960 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 1: believe in being streets. That's the only shit people respect.

686
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:00,760
Speaker 4: M Yeah.

687
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 1: Politeness, yeah, Beyonce said these on one of her documentary.

688
00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:09,440
Speaker 1: She said, you can be as a boss and you

689
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:14,440
Speaker 1: can be fair, but you can't be polite. And I

690
00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:16,720
Speaker 1: do feel that way. I could be fair with people,

691
00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:21,480
Speaker 1: but I can't always be polite and like make everybody happy.

692
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:26,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, I agree, I think with me, I run a

693
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:31,000
Speaker 4: strict program as far as like like with my job.

694
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:31,719
Speaker 3: Like showing up.

695
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:34,239
Speaker 4: I don't care how I'm feeling when that red light

696
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:34,680
Speaker 4: comes on.

697
00:34:34,840 --> 00:34:36,360
Speaker 3: I gotta be lex P. I gotta show up. I

698
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:37,040
Speaker 3: gotta do me.

699
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:40,120
Speaker 4: Uh, if we have an event to go to, I'm

700
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:43,560
Speaker 4: taking pictures with everybody I'm doing with Love LEXP, Rain,

701
00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:44,560
Speaker 4: sleep or snow.

702
00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:46,880
Speaker 3: I gotta show up. I gotta do my rundown.

703
00:34:47,040 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 4: I have been consistently dropping every fucking Monday. Haven't missed

704
00:34:51,239 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 4: the Monday. Same thing with Poor Minds. I don't we

705
00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:55,799
Speaker 4: don't miss a Friday. When it comes to my schedule,

706
00:34:56,719 --> 00:35:00,000
Speaker 4: I'm very very strict and consistent with my schedule because

707
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:03,600
Speaker 4: now to the point to where I will get anxiety,

708
00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:06,800
Speaker 4: like the whole time, because I had a busy travel

709
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:09,360
Speaker 4: week the other week, I went from Mexico City to

710
00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:12,799
Speaker 4: LA to Houston, and my whole thing was like where

711
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:14,160
Speaker 4: am I gonna go to the studio at Am I

712
00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:15,600
Speaker 4: gonna go to studio in later record?

713
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 3: Am I gonna go to studio in Houston?

714
00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:20,840
Speaker 4: Like I'm just trying to figure things out because Lovelexp,

715
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:22,479
Speaker 4: of course, is a little different from Poor Minds.

716
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:25,920
Speaker 3: It's evergreen. So I have to shoot these episodes weekly,

717
00:35:25,960 --> 00:35:26,600
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying.

718
00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:28,879
Speaker 4: So, when it comes to my schedule, as far as

719
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:32,040
Speaker 4: my job, consistency is something that's just light work. To me,

720
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:35,880
Speaker 4: consistency is really what keeps me going because it's something

721
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:36,520
Speaker 4: that gets my.

722
00:35:36,600 --> 00:35:38,800
Speaker 3: Blood just rushing through my veins.

723
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:41,440
Speaker 4: When I post that episode on time, they'll be like, lex,

724
00:35:41,600 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 4: I know you, what's gonna be on time? When I said, hey, yeah,

725
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:48,520
Speaker 4: like yes, bitch, because I don't fucking play. I feel

726
00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 4: like I am here to entertain the people. Every time

727
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:54,760
Speaker 4: you see me, I'm gonna give you what your needs shouting.

728
00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:57,000
Speaker 4: I just like making people feel good. So I feel

729
00:35:57,040 --> 00:35:59,000
Speaker 4: like as far as that, I'm always gonna show like

730
00:35:59,520 --> 00:36:02,080
Speaker 4: the people, people are never gonna see me not being

731
00:36:02,200 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 4: like lexp and having a good time and turn up

732
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:05,480
Speaker 4: because I know this what y'all hear for a life

733
00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:07,680
Speaker 4: is already hard. So as far as like a strict

734
00:36:07,719 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 4: person when it comes to my schedule and doing like

735
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:13,360
Speaker 4: my content, Like when I say I'm gonna do something,

736
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:16,839
Speaker 4: I'm gonna do it. As far as like my job goes, now,

737
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:19,920
Speaker 4: when it comes to my personal life, I'm not very

738
00:36:19,960 --> 00:36:22,200
Speaker 4: strict at all, but I think it's also because I

739
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:25,120
Speaker 4: know that's the little girl in me I'm trying to heal, right,

740
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:27,439
Speaker 4: And that's something I've realized in therapy, Like I didn't

741
00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:31,239
Speaker 4: grow up with a big family and the big thanksgivings,

742
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:32,640
Speaker 4: Like it was really just me, my mom and my

743
00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 4: sister growing up, like I'm close to like my aunt

744
00:36:35,080 --> 00:36:37,520
Speaker 4: and my uncle, Like I didn't have all of that.

745
00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:38,520
Speaker 3: I didn't have a dad.

746
00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 4: So I think a lot of times I'm very forgiving

747
00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 4: because I just be kind of wanting that family unit,

748
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:47,560
Speaker 4: like I be wanting family so bad. So in my

749
00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:50,359
Speaker 4: personal life, I'm always forgiving people. And sometimes I will

750
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:52,760
Speaker 4: let people walk over me a little bit just because

751
00:36:52,760 --> 00:36:55,080
Speaker 4: I'll be like, well we family, we good, And I'm like, girl,

752
00:36:55,080 --> 00:36:56,280
Speaker 4: you looking at them like family.

753
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:57,400
Speaker 3: They ain't looking at you like that.

754
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:01,040
Speaker 4: So I have, like I said, go into therapy and

755
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:03,680
Speaker 4: working on it. I'm learning to create boundaries with people,

756
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:06,279
Speaker 4: cut people off, and just be like, hey, you know what,

757
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:11,000
Speaker 4: you have family though, Like I'll be looking for like oh,

758
00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:12,920
Speaker 4: when I have a house party and I have thirty

759
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:15,920
Speaker 4: people show up, But when people do that, thirty people

760
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 4: show up, two of them like you, the other twenty eight.

761
00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:21,919
Speaker 4: I'm talking about oh my god, did you see her bathroom?

762
00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:23,680
Speaker 4: Oh my god, look at this rug.

763
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:26,279
Speaker 1: Oh my god, you can smell her cat in here,

764
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:29,799
Speaker 1: whether she got a pet off. I was like, wait,

765
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:30,600
Speaker 1: just one.

766
00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:33,799
Speaker 3: But that's how massy people are.

767
00:37:34,680 --> 00:37:35,319
Speaker 5: You feel me?

768
00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 3: So now you gotta cad. You smell that cat.

769
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:42,759
Speaker 1: You can smell their cad And I ain't some of

770
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:47,160
Speaker 1: the furkay that would it be first? So you do.

771
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:51,279
Speaker 4: But I saw that to say, like I've realized, like

772
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:53,960
Speaker 4: after all these thirty something years and being like I

773
00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:56,640
Speaker 4: want family. You know, my sister's not here, my girl,

774
00:37:56,680 --> 00:37:59,440
Speaker 4: you have family. You know you got Drea, I have Killer,

775
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:00,440
Speaker 4: I have Lauren.

776
00:38:00,840 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 3: You know I have.

777
00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 4: Ali, Like I said, outside of my sister and my nephews,

778
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:05,800
Speaker 4: Like yeah, yeah, you do have family.

779
00:38:05,840 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 3: I got Kiki, I got Tiffy.

780
00:38:07,160 --> 00:38:11,360
Speaker 4: You don't have to have ten million people to be like,

781
00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:13,719
Speaker 4: oh my god. And it's like, honestly, that's why I'm

782
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:16,480
Speaker 4: so happy of the community we built, because even at

783
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:19,200
Speaker 4: the Black Fact Festival, I was like, damn, these.

784
00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:20,000
Speaker 3: People really love me.

785
00:38:20,800 --> 00:38:23,920
Speaker 4: Like some things will go online or we're getting canceled

786
00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 4: and people just be.

787
00:38:25,440 --> 00:38:27,160
Speaker 1: Going off on you and be like, oh, y'all are

788
00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 1: so these two dumb bitches.

789
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:29,279
Speaker 3: And this and that.

790
00:38:29,640 --> 00:38:31,839
Speaker 1: But I'm like, hey, but people love me and I

791
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:33,480
Speaker 1: get to log off.

792
00:38:33,920 --> 00:38:37,560
Speaker 3: I get to log off and walk outside and be loved.

793
00:38:38,080 --> 00:38:42,520
Speaker 4: So I think I could run a stricter program in

794
00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:46,280
Speaker 4: my personal life. Yes, but even though I don't, leading

795
00:38:46,360 --> 00:38:49,080
Speaker 4: with love got me to where I am today, and

796
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:50,759
Speaker 4: I realized it's okay to.

797
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:54,120
Speaker 3: Lead with love and not it's gotten me hurt, but.

798
00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:57,360
Speaker 4: It's also why I have this friendship, why I have

799
00:38:57,400 --> 00:38:59,399
Speaker 4: the friendships I have, why me and my sister are

800
00:38:59,400 --> 00:38:59,880
Speaker 4: so close.

801
00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:03,840
Speaker 3: So it's like I'm learning a little balance. You know,

802
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:07,840
Speaker 3: we're gonna get through. Yeah, we don't get through.

803
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:12,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, forgiveness is one of those things. It's

804
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:15,840
Speaker 1: necessary in life. But sometimes people can definitely get the

805
00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 1: onb out of here. Now, somebody that can define because

806
00:39:18,560 --> 00:39:22,320
Speaker 1: you could definitely get the fun on the group chat we.

807
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:24,520
Speaker 3: Was in yesterday and they were talking about you.

808
00:39:24,440 --> 00:39:28,799
Speaker 1: Know, oh, but she is, she has gotten the off.

809
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 1: She didn't have no choice.

810
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:32,799
Speaker 3: It's time to start slapping bitches again. That's what I said.

811
00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:34,600
Speaker 1: She didn't have a choice but to get the fuck on.

812
00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:37,719
Speaker 1: I know, but that's crazy, and she still somehow be

813
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:40,600
Speaker 1: trying to not get Hey.

814
00:39:40,360 --> 00:39:45,799
Speaker 3: How y'all doing a weird all? Right? What you say?

815
00:39:46,520 --> 00:39:48,879
Speaker 3: How are you strict? How you get very strict?

816
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 6: Yeah?

817
00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:52,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, I.

818
00:39:55,560 --> 00:39:56,560
Speaker 3: Was a little teeny time.

819
00:39:56,719 --> 00:39:59,959
Speaker 1: Yeah, come on now, I don't play around friends, family,

820
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:01,240
Speaker 1: we work everything.

821
00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:03,480
Speaker 3: It's strict over here. Because a nigga know that too.

822
00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:05,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, mine too.

823
00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:07,919
Speaker 3: You know that for a fact.

824
00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:10,960
Speaker 4: Now, I will say that's one thing I think, like

825
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:15,359
Speaker 4: my like, it's been a tumultuous time, but that's one thing.

826
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:18,960
Speaker 4: He's like, my, I gotta hey. There's a video of

827
00:40:19,040 --> 00:40:20,680
Speaker 4: him drunk and they were like, he's.

828
00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:21,680
Speaker 3: Like, I gotta call my girl.

829
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:25,239
Speaker 4: I gotta call Yeah, get your ass home and call

830
00:40:25,280 --> 00:40:28,759
Speaker 4: your girl. It's strict around it because I've been too

831
00:40:28,880 --> 00:40:29,279
Speaker 4: lean it.

832
00:40:29,600 --> 00:40:30,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's.

833
00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 3: Time to get strict in this motherfucker. It's time to

834
00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:38,319
Speaker 3: whip that whip it. Yeah, I mean you do. You

835
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:39,200
Speaker 3: gotta be strict.

836
00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:42,480
Speaker 1: I just think a lot of the time people when

837
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 1: they night, I always do feel like because I don't know,

838
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:49,680
Speaker 1: in some situations, people don't even just be laying people slide.

839
00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 1: They just be trying to get what they want out

840
00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:53,680
Speaker 1: of situation. And that's something that I learned a long

841
00:40:53,719 --> 00:40:55,680
Speaker 1: time ago, especially when I was younger, because I was

842
00:40:55,840 --> 00:40:58,839
Speaker 1: very much like it was a few people that I

843
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 1: talked to when I was younger, or I just would

844
00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:05,160
Speaker 1: kind of like to maybe if people didn't know me,

845
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:06,960
Speaker 1: they would think I was letting shit slide, but I

846
00:41:06,960 --> 00:41:08,239
Speaker 1: really was, and I was just trying to get what

847
00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:11,279
Speaker 1: I was and I really did not give a fuck,

848
00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:14,319
Speaker 1: Like I didn't care for real, because when I care,

849
00:41:14,480 --> 00:41:16,719
Speaker 1: I care, like so I have no choice but to

850
00:41:16,719 --> 00:41:18,600
Speaker 1: cut you off, or have no choice but to like

851
00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:21,480
Speaker 1: not deal with you no more, or be super strict

852
00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:23,920
Speaker 1: because I really care. So it's like I feel like

853
00:41:23,960 --> 00:41:26,640
Speaker 1: I'm betraying myself if I allow somebody who I love

854
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:29,400
Speaker 1: and they not reciprocating the same type of love and

855
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:31,440
Speaker 1: energy that I'm giving to them. And a lot of

856
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:34,880
Speaker 1: the time I only think that people don't want to

857
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 1: be that way because they be like maybe a feeling

858
00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 1: of feeling like they might not find nothing better, or

859
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:43,040
Speaker 1: feeling like they don't want to like I don't know

860
00:41:43,080 --> 00:41:45,000
Speaker 1: if I'll find another friend like this, I don't know

861
00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:46,480
Speaker 1: if I'll find a better friend. I don't know if

862
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:48,960
Speaker 1: I'll find a better partner. So like, let me just

863
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 1: or a business partner, whatever, whatever type of relationship it is.

864
00:41:52,400 --> 00:41:53,919
Speaker 1: And so I think a lot of time people will

865
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:56,360
Speaker 1: hold on to situations and not want to let it

866
00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 1: go out of fear of not being able to replace

867
00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:02,359
Speaker 1: what they're losing. But you can always find better. And

868
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:06,319
Speaker 1: I'm a testament today you can always find bitter. It

869
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:08,359
Speaker 1: never been a time where I didn't find something bitter

870
00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:09,920
Speaker 1: after I let some bullshit go.

871
00:42:10,200 --> 00:42:13,080
Speaker 2: And you know what I got to say to that, Hey,

872
00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:15,920
Speaker 2: holy hey, that was a ward.

873
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:20,520
Speaker 1: But seriously, I'm for real, no, for real, friend, I know.

874
00:42:20,760 --> 00:42:24,000
Speaker 1: It's like it's never been a time. God God always

875
00:42:24,040 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 1: removed to replace. And when you realize that, you just

876
00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:31,520
Speaker 1: be more a good one.

877
00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:34,160
Speaker 3: Write down anytime.

878
00:42:35,440 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 1: Anytime he removed somebody from your life, because it's always

879
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:41,319
Speaker 1: God like. You might think you're making the decision, but

880
00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:44,640
Speaker 1: you never really in the driver seed. That's why sometimes

881
00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:46,759
Speaker 1: you feel like your hand be being forced with stuff

882
00:42:46,760 --> 00:42:47,319
Speaker 1: because it is.

883
00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 3: Oh my God, yes, because it is.

884
00:42:50,239 --> 00:42:53,880
Speaker 1: And God will sometimes allow things to keep happening to

885
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 1: you with a friend or whatever until you be like

886
00:42:57,280 --> 00:42:59,480
Speaker 1: you no, wait, let me get rid of ho ass,

887
00:42:59,520 --> 00:43:02,239
Speaker 1: because it's it's just not good. It's not a good

888
00:43:02,280 --> 00:43:04,359
Speaker 1: situation for me to be in and nothing good it's

889
00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:05,799
Speaker 1: coming from me, is I gotta get rid of her.

890
00:43:05,920 --> 00:43:07,359
Speaker 1: And it's like sometimes you will feel like, well, why

891
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:08,920
Speaker 1: do these keep happening with this person?

892
00:43:09,239 --> 00:43:12,279
Speaker 3: Because you won't let them go? It is, it'll get

893
00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 3: worse to when you.

894
00:43:12,960 --> 00:43:14,719
Speaker 4: Pray on it, it'll get worse for you pray on

895
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:16,000
Speaker 4: it and you ask for an answer.

896
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:18,359
Speaker 3: You gotta be careful with that prayer.

897
00:43:18,560 --> 00:43:21,239
Speaker 1: Oh, for that prayer, you have to be read and

898
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:24,759
Speaker 1: as you say it, everything is gonna literally cash right

899
00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:28,120
Speaker 1: in your face. You got to confront it. I agree,

900
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:31,840
Speaker 1: and then we be like, but not this way. Hold on,

901
00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:34,600
Speaker 1: I want it to happen like this, but you pray

902
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:35,000
Speaker 1: for it.

903
00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 4: I pray for and then and then sometimes you pray

904
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:39,320
Speaker 4: and then things just be like okay, you see the

905
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:41,640
Speaker 4: lot and things do start getting better. So I think

906
00:43:41,880 --> 00:43:44,799
Speaker 4: you gotta be prepared either or because if you pray

907
00:43:44,840 --> 00:43:47,080
Speaker 4: for it and shit starts getting better, you have to

908
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:48,480
Speaker 4: be prepared to change as well.

909
00:43:49,480 --> 00:43:50,880
Speaker 3: Everybody always thinking.

910
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:53,239
Speaker 4: The situation, well, I'm doing everything right and they're doing

911
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:55,759
Speaker 4: everything wrong. No, it takes compromise, and both of y'all

912
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:57,759
Speaker 4: got to be willing to work. So if you see

913
00:43:57,760 --> 00:44:01,040
Speaker 4: somebody making an effort and you decided.

914
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:01,359
Speaker 3: To forgive them.

915
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:03,640
Speaker 4: You forgave them, so you can't keep harper on the

916
00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:05,960
Speaker 4: ship that you forgave them for So you have to

917
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 4: be really prepared to move forward.

918
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:10,800
Speaker 1: And I think people to be like, especially more so

919
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:14,560
Speaker 1: specifically women. I think a lot of women be scared

920
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:15,920
Speaker 1: to be considered.

921
00:44:15,600 --> 00:44:16,520
Speaker 3: As a beach.

922
00:44:21,320 --> 00:44:25,239
Speaker 1: That I've had be scared to be considered as a beach, like.

923
00:44:25,280 --> 00:44:28,000
Speaker 1: They don't want people to think they're a bit oh.

924
00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 7: Like mean, yeah, like yes, that's I was like what

925
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:38,920
Speaker 7: I'd have been down as bitch before.

926
00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:42,360
Speaker 3: No, no, no.

927
00:44:43,040 --> 00:44:45,560
Speaker 1: They don't want people to they don't want people to

928
00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:47,200
Speaker 1: feel like they're a bitch.

929
00:44:47,360 --> 00:44:47,440
Speaker 3: Like.

930
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:49,840
Speaker 1: I think that's just a thing that a lot of

931
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 1: women struggle with. They don't want to seem like they're

932
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 1: being beachy. They don't want to seem like they're taking

933
00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:59,520
Speaker 1: their power too serious. They don't want to seem like

934
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:02,239
Speaker 1: they're not soft and feminine. So a lot of the

935
00:45:02,320 --> 00:45:06,480
Speaker 1: time women constantly forgive because also I do think in

936
00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:09,280
Speaker 1: a lot of situations that's how we have been raised,

937
00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:11,839
Speaker 1: Like you supposed to be the matriarch of the.

938
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:14,000
Speaker 3: Family, even though we ain't that old. Ye, I ain't.

939
00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:23,560
Speaker 1: No, we ain't matriarchs quite damn yeah, both of them.

940
00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:25,400
Speaker 1: You really are the matriarch.

941
00:45:25,560 --> 00:45:27,239
Speaker 3: That's why I got to run a strict.

942
00:45:29,040 --> 00:45:34,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, mylne is a matriarch that should be outside money.

943
00:45:36,080 --> 00:45:39,440
Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. We ain't got no matregar turned.

944
00:45:40,040 --> 00:45:52,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I mean I do.

945
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:52,000
Speaker 3: Like always on the trip, honey, I don't know.

946
00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:57,800
Speaker 4: Time I look up, my auntie is on a cruise,

947
00:45:57,880 --> 00:46:00,200
Speaker 4: on a flight, on a beach with her man.

948
00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:04,200
Speaker 1: Listen, it's a lot. You gotta take time for you.

949
00:46:04,280 --> 00:46:09,759
Speaker 1: I'm with honey, girl, Yes, but you just you can't

950
00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:11,440
Speaker 1: be scared to put your foot down. And I think

951
00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:14,200
Speaker 1: a lot of people have been taught that way, like

952
00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:17,759
Speaker 1: my mom kind of have been like that majority of

953
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:19,400
Speaker 1: my life. I've talked about that. That's why I'm so

954
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:21,319
Speaker 1: That's why I feel like i'm so much the street,

955
00:46:21,680 --> 00:46:24,000
Speaker 1: because I saw how y'all play my mama that she

956
00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:27,360
Speaker 1: shall pulled in the k oh. Yeah.

957
00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:30,960
Speaker 4: Yes, I remember one time I came to your house.

958
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:33,480
Speaker 4: He was talking about something. You was so fucking mad.

959
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 3: Because I don't play by my mother's like.

960
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:43,920
Speaker 1: Candy and I don't play no because my mom is

961
00:46:44,000 --> 00:46:48,240
Speaker 1: just so kind, Like she's so kind and she's so sweet,

962
00:46:48,239 --> 00:46:50,319
Speaker 1: and she's so nice, and she will like give you

963
00:46:50,400 --> 00:46:52,680
Speaker 1: the shirt off her back. And she's just always been

964
00:46:52,800 --> 00:46:55,719
Speaker 1: like that with everybody in our family. So I feel

965
00:46:55,760 --> 00:46:57,719
Speaker 1: like she that people have always known they could come

966
00:46:57,760 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 1: to her and ask her for things and she would

967
00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:04,080
Speaker 1: do it. And then I've seen the same people who

968
00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 1: she have helped numerous times playing her hey yes, or

969
00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:11,080
Speaker 1: turning back on her when she needed something, you know

970
00:47:11,080 --> 00:47:12,719
Speaker 1: what I mean, or when she and and when I

971
00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:15,919
Speaker 1: say something, My mama have always been very like financially

972
00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:18,360
Speaker 1: stable sufficient, So it ain't never know she like that.

973
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:21,719
Speaker 1: It's never like monetary stuff, but just not being a

974
00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:24,720
Speaker 1: shoulder to Leana, not being there for her, not showing

975
00:47:24,800 --> 00:47:27,400
Speaker 1: up for her, like I've seen that shit happen, and

976
00:47:27,440 --> 00:47:29,120
Speaker 1: so I don't know. I think I just took that

977
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:32,560
Speaker 1: into my adulthood because I saw people be like that

978
00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 1: with my mama, and I had to realize, I think

979
00:47:35,080 --> 00:47:37,239
Speaker 1: I'm a very kind person, but I'm also not to

980
00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:40,359
Speaker 1: be fucking played with. Yoh, like I'm gonna be nice

981
00:47:40,400 --> 00:47:42,640
Speaker 1: to you. Shit is sweet till it's not.

982
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:46,839
Speaker 3: You're gonna get that lemon pod? Then you're gonna get

983
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:47,800
Speaker 3: a bean pod.

984
00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:49,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you mud like the beans.

985
00:47:50,320 --> 00:47:51,080
Speaker 3: I'll take both.

986
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:53,920
Speaker 1: But yes, she's sweet with me till least night. And

987
00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:56,279
Speaker 1: I don't care about showing it to people because I

988
00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:58,520
Speaker 1: know if I ever get to that point, I know

989
00:47:58,600 --> 00:48:01,480
Speaker 1: who I was to you for I had to get there,

990
00:48:01,840 --> 00:48:03,560
Speaker 1: you know. But I think a lot of people just

991
00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:05,600
Speaker 1: don't want to be mean or don't want to be

992
00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:07,799
Speaker 1: perceived one thing.

993
00:48:08,040 --> 00:48:10,120
Speaker 4: And also and I think like with some people too,

994
00:48:10,200 --> 00:48:13,840
Speaker 4: it's just it's not really in them either. Yeah, like

995
00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:16,919
Speaker 4: some people just not to be nice, to be mean

996
00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:19,120
Speaker 4: or just to be like some people like they don't

997
00:48:19,120 --> 00:48:20,120
Speaker 4: want to be perceived that way.

998
00:48:20,200 --> 00:48:22,239
Speaker 3: Yes, but some people just don't got it in them. Now,

999
00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 3: everybody got that dog in them, like fuck you.

1000
00:48:24,680 --> 00:48:27,760
Speaker 4: And some people are just naturally just like like your mom,

1001
00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 4: she's just naturally nice.

1002
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:30,600
Speaker 1: Nah, she got the dog.

1003
00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:32,319
Speaker 3: I mean, well yeah, yeah, but.

1004
00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:36,280
Speaker 1: I'm saying, but when it comes to our family, yeah,

1005
00:48:36,400 --> 00:48:39,279
Speaker 1: because that's our family, right, But when it comes but

1006
00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:42,680
Speaker 1: even still with them, my mama will go there with people,

1007
00:48:42,719 --> 00:48:45,680
Speaker 1: she will go tell to tall, but she don't like

1008
00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 1: to have to take it to their place. But especially

1009
00:48:49,040 --> 00:48:51,680
Speaker 1: with strangers, want to know you was in the car

1010
00:48:51,719 --> 00:48:54,919
Speaker 1: with It's on the way to the premiere party last year.

1011
00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:57,440
Speaker 1: But I remember you telling me, Yeah, she went off

1012
00:48:57,440 --> 00:49:00,480
Speaker 1: on the lady course, so she gets success, like you

1013
00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:04,239
Speaker 1: are racist mood, and me and lenn and Jordan and

1014
00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:05,400
Speaker 1: all of us is in the car like.

1015
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:07,960
Speaker 3: La.

1016
00:49:08,560 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 1: But see what wasn't wrong now exact the lady was

1017
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:13,200
Speaker 1: being weird. But my mom have always been like that,

1018
00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:15,080
Speaker 1: to the point that when I was a kid, it

1019
00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:18,120
Speaker 1: used to be embarrassing me. Lucky because she always gonna

1020
00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:20,279
Speaker 1: advocate for herself. But I feel like they'd taught me

1021
00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:23,279
Speaker 1: to advocate for myself in adulthood.

1022
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:24,759
Speaker 3: So and even on.

1023
00:49:24,719 --> 00:49:27,640
Speaker 1: Another note, like you're saying that some women are afraid

1024
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:29,560
Speaker 1: to be considered or looked at as a bitch. But

1025
00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:32,520
Speaker 1: like if a man does those same characteristics and he

1026
00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:34,880
Speaker 1: runs a strict program, oh my god, we're worshiping the

1027
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:37,760
Speaker 1: ground he walks on. He's such a great business, he's

1028
00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:41,120
Speaker 1: as certain of his family. Yeah, Like it's just a

1029
00:49:41,160 --> 00:49:44,799
Speaker 1: complete double standard, and like that's crazy. So that's why

1030
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:48,759
Speaker 1: I don't care however you're gonna perceive me. I'm still

1031
00:49:48,800 --> 00:49:50,160
Speaker 1: gonna do what I'm asking you to do.

1032
00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:52,040
Speaker 3: But sure you to do it, and.

1033
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 4: I think that's how I am in business, Like, I

1034
00:49:54,200 --> 00:49:56,040
Speaker 4: don't really care how people look at me in business

1035
00:49:56,040 --> 00:50:00,279
Speaker 4: now when it comes to my business, my livelihood, a fuck.

1036
00:50:00,280 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 4: If you think I'm a bitch, if you think I'm nice,

1037
00:50:01,680 --> 00:50:03,120
Speaker 4: if you think I'm ugly, if you think I'm smart,

1038
00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:04,000
Speaker 4: if you think I'm fine, I.

1039
00:50:04,000 --> 00:50:06,080
Speaker 3: Don't give a fuck. Let's get this work done.

1040
00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:08,120
Speaker 1: I think that's why I was surprised that you said

1041
00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:10,520
Speaker 1: you're a little more lenient, because I think I see

1042
00:50:10,560 --> 00:50:13,320
Speaker 1: the business side these yeah, and I see the strict program.

1043
00:50:13,360 --> 00:50:16,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, y'all both be running. Yeah, that's I was like, Okay.

1044
00:50:16,360 --> 00:50:19,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, in my personal life, I'm like night and day

1045
00:50:19,239 --> 00:50:20,040
Speaker 4: when it comes to work.

1046
00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 3: In my personal life. My like even at the other studio.

1047
00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:25,560
Speaker 4: I recorded shout out to Red and Rud at Creative Soul,

1048
00:50:25,600 --> 00:50:28,080
Speaker 4: they'd be like, man, you like, they'd be like, you

1049
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,560
Speaker 4: don't be playing Like I'm very I'm very strict when

1050
00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:32,480
Speaker 4: it comes to my work. But I've always been that way,

1051
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:34,279
Speaker 4: Like even in school with my school work, I was

1052
00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:37,440
Speaker 4: always like that, you know, we all need to have

1053
00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:40,480
Speaker 4: a stricter program, especially for my ladies. We get stronger,

1054
00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:42,160
Speaker 4: we gonna take your advice profit.

1055
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 1: But I feel like mean people, like it's this perception

1056
00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:48,240
Speaker 1: that successful people are mean or whatever, are just aren't

1057
00:50:48,280 --> 00:50:50,919
Speaker 1: nice people. I don't think that that's true. I think

1058
00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:52,920
Speaker 1: that a lot of times. And I'm only saying this

1059
00:50:53,000 --> 00:50:56,000
Speaker 1: because we're kind of growing into that space. I don't

1060
00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:59,480
Speaker 1: think that people that are successful are not nice. I

1061
00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:02,040
Speaker 1: think you have to be a certie like that's just

1062
00:51:02,080 --> 00:51:05,480
Speaker 1: the position that you put in, and most people would

1063
00:51:05,480 --> 00:51:07,799
Speaker 1: not really understand it because they don't have to be

1064
00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 1: that way. But if you let people get away with she,

1065
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:13,680
Speaker 1: then things are never going to be ran how you

1066
00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:15,680
Speaker 1: wanted to run it, and you're gonna being You're gonna

1067
00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:17,399
Speaker 1: be upset with yourself because you're gonna be like, damn,

1068
00:51:17,440 --> 00:51:19,440
Speaker 1: I know I should have said something because that's not

1069
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:21,960
Speaker 1: how I wanted it to be. And when you run

1070
00:51:21,960 --> 00:51:24,920
Speaker 1: a business, it's gonna sound fucked up, but it's really

1071
00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:27,239
Speaker 1: that's all that matters. It's how you want it to

1072
00:51:27,239 --> 00:51:29,520
Speaker 1: be as the person who owns the business or runs

1073
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:32,520
Speaker 1: the busney. But you can't say things. You can't say

1074
00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:35,600
Speaker 1: and do things in a nice way. But I say

1075
00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:38,120
Speaker 1: to that people that are successful in their means, they

1076
00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:42,759
Speaker 1: weren't nice when they were broke. Money and succession just

1077
00:51:42,760 --> 00:51:44,000
Speaker 1: amplifies who people are.

1078
00:51:44,080 --> 00:51:49,799
Speaker 4: And I think another thing too, is like when I

1079
00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:52,560
Speaker 4: talk a certain way, I already know who I'm talking to.

1080
00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:55,120
Speaker 4: A person that's like, okay, let me just get it done,

1081
00:51:55,719 --> 00:51:58,640
Speaker 4: versus a person like, oh, she's being rude. So I

1082
00:51:58,640 --> 00:52:01,520
Speaker 4: already know, okay, I can talk to you like normal

1083
00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:03,400
Speaker 4: how I'm talking in business, but I know I got

1084
00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:04,880
Speaker 4: to soften it up with you because you're gonna take

1085
00:52:04,880 --> 00:52:06,040
Speaker 4: a personal think I'm being a bitch.

1086
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:08,200
Speaker 3: So and that comes with being a boss.

1087
00:52:08,200 --> 00:52:10,479
Speaker 4: You gotta know who you talking to because certain people

1088
00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:12,799
Speaker 4: can handle it and certain people can't. But I never

1089
00:52:12,880 --> 00:52:15,719
Speaker 4: set out to be hurtful. I'm just trying to let's

1090
00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:17,840
Speaker 4: just get to it. I don't I don't feel like

1091
00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:20,120
Speaker 4: fluffing shit up. This is how it won't shit does.

1092
00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:21,000
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1093
00:52:21,160 --> 00:52:22,920
Speaker 1: And I also and I mean this is a topic

1094
00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:26,240
Speaker 1: for another time too, but I definitely I'm.

1095
00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:29,919
Speaker 3: At the time.

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00:52:30,200 --> 00:52:33,200
Speaker 1: But I also think sometimes too when I hear a

1097
00:52:33,200 --> 00:52:34,840
Speaker 1: lot of people say that, because people will say that

1098
00:52:34,920 --> 00:52:38,200
Speaker 1: online about like big celebrities and people who be like

1099
00:52:38,680 --> 00:52:41,160
Speaker 1: rich as fuck. You'll see people in the comments like oh,

1100
00:52:41,200 --> 00:52:44,200
Speaker 1: they're evil or they had to sell their soul to

1101
00:52:44,239 --> 00:52:46,160
Speaker 1: get to this point. I also think a lot of

1102
00:52:46,160 --> 00:52:48,640
Speaker 1: times people say stuff like they're out of fear of

1103
00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:52,359
Speaker 1: like them be them, like living up to their full

1104
00:52:52,400 --> 00:52:55,440
Speaker 1: potential and trying to actually become who they want to be,

1105
00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:59,000
Speaker 1: so they just they will just convince themselves that like, oh,

1106
00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:02,520
Speaker 1: successful people are evil. Rich people are evil, and that's

1107
00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:04,520
Speaker 1: the only reason why they've gotten to where they've gotten to,

1108
00:53:05,280 --> 00:53:07,520
Speaker 1: because it makes them feel better about being mediocre.

1109
00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:11,440
Speaker 3: M that's kind of what I think. I mean, you're

1110
00:53:11,520 --> 00:53:12,680
Speaker 3: right about that there, because.

1111
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:14,800
Speaker 1: It's always a lot of excuses and stuff that people

1112
00:53:14,840 --> 00:53:17,239
Speaker 1: be saying. If you notice on the internet about like

1113
00:53:17,719 --> 00:53:20,200
Speaker 1: people who are reaching, I'm talking about real rich people.

1114
00:53:20,000 --> 00:53:22,840
Speaker 3: Like not yeah no, no, no, yeah no, no, I know

1115
00:53:22,880 --> 00:53:23,279
Speaker 3: what you mean.

1116
00:53:23,640 --> 00:53:24,880
Speaker 1: I'm about like.

1117
00:53:26,360 --> 00:53:27,840
Speaker 3: Like that. It's crazy.

1118
00:53:28,440 --> 00:53:30,360
Speaker 4: I'm gonna just tell this story that we're gonna move on, promise,

1119
00:53:30,600 --> 00:53:33,439
Speaker 4: because this is a good conversation. There's this TikToker, right,

1120
00:53:33,600 --> 00:53:36,880
Speaker 4: and she has literally amassed a huge following from telling

1121
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:40,120
Speaker 4: women not to get married, that marriage doesn't benefit women,

1122
00:53:41,120 --> 00:53:45,359
Speaker 4: buying designer and caring about things just consumerism and capitalism

1123
00:53:45,440 --> 00:53:49,239
Speaker 4: and don't become a victim. This lady got engaged to

1124
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:53,359
Speaker 4: a man worth like fifty million something dollars. Now all

1125
00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:57,080
Speaker 4: her posts are her bond Chanel buying bags. Oh well,

1126
00:53:57,120 --> 00:54:01,200
Speaker 4: marriage benefits me, I'm not telling. That's why I always say,

1127
00:54:01,239 --> 00:54:03,600
Speaker 4: be careful who you take advice from, and understand that

1128
00:54:03,640 --> 00:54:06,720
Speaker 4: sometimes people are giving you advice. Because in that moment,

1129
00:54:06,840 --> 00:54:09,400
Speaker 4: she felt like I can't afford Chanelle, so let me

1130
00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:11,960
Speaker 4: diss it. I don't have the men in my life

1131
00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:14,120
Speaker 4: that I want, so let me make it seem like

1132
00:54:14,160 --> 00:54:16,239
Speaker 4: it's not that great. Yeah, that's why I always say,

1133
00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:18,640
Speaker 4: when you take advice from people online, take it as

1134
00:54:18,680 --> 00:54:21,080
Speaker 4: a grain of salt. Let's be I ever gonna sit

1135
00:54:21,080 --> 00:54:22,600
Speaker 4: on this couch and be like, oh do this, and

1136
00:54:22,640 --> 00:54:25,800
Speaker 4: then I'm behind closed doors doing it. That's why I think, honestly,

1137
00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:29,160
Speaker 4: this podcast is successful because we've been keeping.

1138
00:54:28,960 --> 00:54:31,799
Speaker 1: It real and we don't give advice for real. Like

1139
00:54:31,880 --> 00:54:34,200
Speaker 1: I think that when people when we started Pour Your

1140
00:54:34,200 --> 00:54:37,520
Speaker 1: Heart Out, people write in and they ask us questions.

1141
00:54:37,560 --> 00:54:40,279
Speaker 1: And when people ask us, we will tell them what

1142
00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:42,799
Speaker 1: we would do if we were in that position. But

1143
00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:45,040
Speaker 1: I don't sit on this show and try to tell

1144
00:54:45,120 --> 00:54:47,800
Speaker 1: people how to live their life or what they should

1145
00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:48,560
Speaker 1: be like.

1146
00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 4: If you don't do that, either you're gonna regret it

1147
00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:52,359
Speaker 4: and you're not gonna live the life you want.

1148
00:54:52,800 --> 00:54:54,600
Speaker 1: But that's how it ain't matter of fact. That life

1149
00:54:54,640 --> 00:54:55,840
Speaker 1: does not matter a fact.

1150
00:54:57,040 --> 00:54:59,440
Speaker 4: When I tell you I've never heard of this creator,

1151
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:01,839
Speaker 4: but they were shown her old videos, I'm gonna show

1152
00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:06,960
Speaker 4: y'all because it's actually insane. The night and day of

1153
00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:09,239
Speaker 4: her post, I was like, I've never seen no ship

1154
00:55:09,360 --> 00:55:12,080
Speaker 4: like this in my life. Yeah, craziness. Anyway, what were

1155
00:55:12,080 --> 00:55:15,040
Speaker 4: we drinking today? This got us on a girl, a

1156
00:55:15,160 --> 00:55:19,600
Speaker 4: boss bitch. Sh I was on a lover girl. But

1157
00:55:19,640 --> 00:55:23,200
Speaker 4: it's looking like strict program. I think I'm gonna stick

1158
00:55:23,200 --> 00:55:23,360
Speaker 4: with that.

1159
00:55:23,520 --> 00:55:23,920
Speaker 3: I think I.

1160
00:55:25,440 --> 00:55:26,960
Speaker 1: Love girls out there. Even if you do run a

1161
00:55:26,960 --> 00:55:29,880
Speaker 1: strict program, keep your foot on the net. Okay, So

1162
00:55:30,000 --> 00:55:32,880
Speaker 1: this one, you can add any spirit of choice. You

1163
00:55:32,920 --> 00:55:36,480
Speaker 1: can add tequila, rum, vodka, whatever you like. We also

1164
00:55:36,560 --> 00:55:40,520
Speaker 1: have some Uzu pineapple syrup. I have some lemonade in there,

1165
00:55:40,640 --> 00:55:43,120
Speaker 1: some triple sec and then some peach snops, so if

1166
00:55:43,160 --> 00:55:45,520
Speaker 1: you want to keep it low ABV, you also can

1167
00:55:45,560 --> 00:55:48,239
Speaker 1: do that. And then I muddled some freshmen and then

1168
00:55:48,280 --> 00:55:51,279
Speaker 1: also garnished it with mint and a lemon wheel and

1169
00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:54,600
Speaker 1: topped it off with some sparkling rose. So this is

1170
00:55:55,200 --> 00:55:56,680
Speaker 1: the lover girl.

1171
00:55:56,400 --> 00:55:59,200
Speaker 3: You know. Since were almost done, Targo give.

1172
00:56:00,840 --> 00:56:01,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, I take one too?

1173
00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:03,200
Speaker 3: Were almost done today?

1174
00:56:03,440 --> 00:56:04,759
Speaker 1: Okay, lex you.

1175
00:56:04,840 --> 00:56:05,560
Speaker 3: Always my turn?

1176
00:56:05,800 --> 00:56:06,040
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1177
00:56:06,160 --> 00:56:09,480
Speaker 3: Okay? Topic number two hm hmm. This is very interesting.

1178
00:56:09,600 --> 00:56:11,240
Speaker 3: I've been seeing this conversation go around.

1179
00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:14,800
Speaker 4: Do you enjoy the company of men outside of sex?

1180
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:17,920
Speaker 4: Like do you actually like men or do you just

1181
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:23,239
Speaker 4: like what they do for you physically, financially or emotionally?

1182
00:56:23,320 --> 00:56:27,440
Speaker 4: Like what is your proximity? Go ahead, what is your

1183
00:56:27,600 --> 00:56:30,279
Speaker 4: proximity you know, to a man in your life? Like

1184
00:56:30,560 --> 00:56:33,400
Speaker 4: if sex was completely off the table, do you think

1185
00:56:33,440 --> 00:56:35,680
Speaker 4: like you and this person would still be like hanging out,

1186
00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:38,479
Speaker 4: no romance, no finances like us, just hanging out?

1187
00:56:38,600 --> 00:56:39,759
Speaker 3: Like how many you hang out?

1188
00:56:40,160 --> 00:56:42,200
Speaker 4: Would you have a man in your life like he

1189
00:56:42,360 --> 00:56:44,080
Speaker 4: is your lex p or your lend?

1190
00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:44,920
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1191
00:56:45,040 --> 00:56:46,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I like.

1192
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:49,120
Speaker 1: I actually like men for so many other reasons outside

1193
00:56:49,160 --> 00:56:49,960
Speaker 1: of six because.

1194
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:53,160
Speaker 3: They really don't be great at the damn a lot

1195
00:56:53,200 --> 00:56:53,600
Speaker 3: of the time.

1196
00:56:53,840 --> 00:56:57,040
Speaker 4: Yeah, you have that dic clim because sometimes did be good?

1197
00:56:57,280 --> 00:56:59,320
Speaker 1: No, Dick, do be good?

1198
00:57:00,080 --> 00:57:06,800
Speaker 3: All right? So it was real good son, do be good?

1199
00:57:07,719 --> 00:57:10,239
Speaker 1: Do be good, but I always talk about how like

1200
00:57:10,520 --> 00:57:13,040
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's not to say like men are

1201
00:57:13,200 --> 00:57:17,240
Speaker 1: just men are interesting. I do feel like they're grateful

1202
00:57:17,320 --> 00:57:20,480
Speaker 1: a lot of things outside of six though, Like if

1203
00:57:20,480 --> 00:57:24,280
Speaker 1: you can find a genuine male friendship, men are great friends.

1204
00:57:24,680 --> 00:57:28,360
Speaker 1: They honis, they loyal, They gonna tell you the truth

1205
00:57:28,400 --> 00:57:30,720
Speaker 1: about yourself. They gonna tell you shit that your homegirls

1206
00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:32,960
Speaker 1: don't want to tell you because they got that filter

1207
00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:38,160
Speaker 1: of they're not as sensitive as we are, so they

1208
00:57:38,200 --> 00:57:40,120
Speaker 1: gonna tell you the shit that you need to hear.

1209
00:57:40,200 --> 00:57:42,360
Speaker 1: And it's also nice to just hear things from a

1210
00:57:42,400 --> 00:57:45,840
Speaker 1: man perspective, thank you, versus you know, hearing it from women,

1211
00:57:45,920 --> 00:57:48,800
Speaker 1: because we look at life so differently, we live our

1212
00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:54,160
Speaker 1: lives so differently. So yeah, I actually do enjoy men

1213
00:57:54,440 --> 00:57:57,520
Speaker 1: outside of six Like six, I don't even be fucking

1214
00:57:57,600 --> 00:58:01,800
Speaker 1: niggas like that, to be honest, m hm, especially not

1215
00:58:01,880 --> 00:58:06,480
Speaker 1: no more I've got Yeah, I mean, I don't like

1216
00:58:06,680 --> 00:58:09,840
Speaker 1: it's men be cool, but I never I've never been

1217
00:58:09,880 --> 00:58:14,640
Speaker 1: a boy crazy, sex craved type of woman.

1218
00:58:15,480 --> 00:58:18,560
Speaker 3: I like, No, I'm not.

1219
00:58:18,800 --> 00:58:22,640
Speaker 1: I hate I actually be hating niggas. I actually hate

1220
00:58:22,680 --> 00:58:24,680
Speaker 1: these niggas. So like, if you ever see me with

1221
00:58:24,720 --> 00:58:27,080
Speaker 1: a man, I really like if I have a man

1222
00:58:27,280 --> 00:58:31,000
Speaker 1: and this is my boyfriend, I really really like this

1223
00:58:31,160 --> 00:58:35,400
Speaker 1: niggas because I do not be liking niggas so like,

1224
00:58:35,560 --> 00:58:38,360
Speaker 1: sex has never been something that's super high up on

1225
00:58:38,400 --> 00:58:40,480
Speaker 1: the list for me, just because I do enjoy it

1226
00:58:40,600 --> 00:58:42,760
Speaker 1: just like anybody else. I love to get some dig

1227
00:58:43,480 --> 00:58:47,800
Speaker 1: when I like you, though, and I rarely ever like

1228
00:58:47,920 --> 00:58:48,680
Speaker 1: these niggas.

1229
00:58:48,760 --> 00:58:51,160
Speaker 3: Is the point that I'm making. I can attest to that.

1230
00:58:51,240 --> 00:58:53,960
Speaker 1: But when it comes to friendship, though, I think men

1231
00:58:54,040 --> 00:58:54,920
Speaker 1: can be great friends.

1232
00:58:54,960 --> 00:58:56,520
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1233
00:58:57,160 --> 00:59:01,440
Speaker 4: I think if more people valued plato relationships with the

1234
00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:06,320
Speaker 4: opposite sex, a lot of things will be understood better.

1235
00:59:07,160 --> 00:59:10,280
Speaker 4: I feel like we are in this era of man

1236
00:59:10,400 --> 00:59:11,160
Speaker 4: versus woman.

1237
00:59:13,000 --> 00:59:17,680
Speaker 3: Don't mind if do ah she is SI she tears

1238
00:59:17,800 --> 00:59:24,920
Speaker 3: side damn this shit them Yeah damn because I'm on

1239
00:59:25,000 --> 00:59:26,000
Speaker 3: both doing you know how.

1240
00:59:25,880 --> 00:59:27,280
Speaker 1: You hear people drinking any stick?

1241
00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:33,600
Speaker 3: All right? Can see you finish? You get me there?

1242
00:59:34,480 --> 00:59:36,840
Speaker 4: Okay, But I was saying I think that if more

1243
00:59:36,880 --> 00:59:40,960
Speaker 4: people value platonic or, as our good friend says, platonic

1244
00:59:41,480 --> 00:59:45,120
Speaker 4: friendships with the opposite sex, we will not be in

1245
00:59:45,160 --> 00:59:48,120
Speaker 4: the state that we are in right now with this

1246
00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:54,160
Speaker 4: like man versus woman, you know, conversations that we're always having.

1247
00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:57,560
Speaker 4: And I feel like a lot of men have never

1248
00:59:57,920 --> 01:00:00,200
Speaker 4: been around a woman that they are platonic friends with

1249
01:00:00,240 --> 01:00:02,400
Speaker 4: that they look at like their sister that's actually not

1250
01:00:02,520 --> 01:00:07,320
Speaker 4: their sister, because that relationship is different. Right, Like one

1251
01:00:07,360 --> 01:00:10,760
Speaker 4: of my closest homeboys, I've been friends with him since

1252
01:00:10,760 --> 01:00:13,880
Speaker 4: I was sixteen, and like you said, conversations that I

1253
01:00:13,920 --> 01:00:15,480
Speaker 4: have with him are a lot different than I have

1254
01:00:15,560 --> 01:00:19,160
Speaker 4: with my women friends. Now, my women friends always keep

1255
01:00:19,200 --> 01:00:21,600
Speaker 4: it real with me, you know, but again, he's gonna

1256
01:00:21,600 --> 01:00:23,800
Speaker 4: say things a little bit differently and I'm gonna understand

1257
01:00:23,840 --> 01:00:28,920
Speaker 4: them a different way. And then I don't know, I'm

1258
01:00:28,960 --> 01:00:31,320
Speaker 4: not gonna get into that, but I will say having

1259
01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:36,360
Speaker 4: a male platonic friend, I think is amazing. And like

1260
01:00:36,400 --> 01:00:41,280
Speaker 4: you said, nine times out of ten they said physically, financially, emotionally, financially,

1261
01:00:41,920 --> 01:00:46,080
Speaker 4: ninety nine percent of your niggas ain't got money anyway. Uh,

1262
01:00:46,720 --> 01:00:50,840
Speaker 4: seventy five percent of y'all dick don't be good. So honestly,

1263
01:00:50,840 --> 01:00:53,800
Speaker 4: the best thing of you do be now that twenty

1264
01:00:53,800 --> 01:00:57,760
Speaker 4: five percent y'all y'all piping it down, y'all, fucking.

1265
01:00:57,520 --> 01:00:59,800
Speaker 3: The shit out of us. I'll stop to y'all.

1266
01:01:00,800 --> 01:01:03,760
Speaker 4: You know what I meant, My best friend cracks that

1267
01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:06,000
Speaker 4: he and that twenty five percent, that's why he popped

1268
01:01:06,080 --> 01:01:10,960
Speaker 4: up cracks at twenty five percent. Yeah, bro, no, I

1269
01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:12,560
Speaker 4: say I have to say all jokes a side. I

1270
01:01:12,600 --> 01:01:15,320
Speaker 4: think that we need to value each other's as human

1271
01:01:15,440 --> 01:01:18,560
Speaker 4: beings again, and I think that's what we really are missing.

1272
01:01:18,680 --> 01:01:21,680
Speaker 4: Like you know, I feel like we go through a

1273
01:01:21,680 --> 01:01:24,560
Speaker 4: lot with men. Men are awful, they are, but I

1274
01:01:24,600 --> 01:01:27,880
Speaker 4: think when you do have somebody that you value as

1275
01:01:27,920 --> 01:01:31,360
Speaker 4: a friend, you do tend to understand.

1276
01:01:30,960 --> 01:01:31,720
Speaker 3: Them a little more.

1277
01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:34,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean every friendship that I have had with

1278
01:01:35,200 --> 01:01:38,960
Speaker 1: a man over the past, with thirty five years in

1279
01:01:39,000 --> 01:01:42,520
Speaker 1: my life, it's been great friendship. Honestly, even if it

1280
01:01:42,560 --> 01:01:45,040
Speaker 1: didn't last and it didn't end up working out, I

1281
01:01:45,120 --> 01:01:47,600
Speaker 1: gained a lot of insight from the friendship. I gained

1282
01:01:47,640 --> 01:01:51,320
Speaker 1: a lot of wisdom. Like I think, it's it's a

1283
01:01:51,360 --> 01:01:55,080
Speaker 1: good thing to have, especially platonically but literally platonically. Now

1284
01:01:55,080 --> 01:01:56,560
Speaker 1: we ain't talking about a nigga that used to be

1285
01:01:56,560 --> 01:02:01,160
Speaker 1: fucking fucking weed. We talk about strictly a friend a home.

1286
01:02:07,280 --> 01:02:08,920
Speaker 1: But yes, but I also think a lot of that

1287
01:02:09,080 --> 01:02:10,960
Speaker 1: just has to do with them. Maybe I'll look at

1288
01:02:10,960 --> 01:02:14,640
Speaker 1: my relationships like that as well, my male friendships that

1289
01:02:14,680 --> 01:02:17,240
Speaker 1: I've had over the years that way too, Just because

1290
01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:19,200
Speaker 1: I grew up having a lot of uncles, Like I

1291
01:02:19,240 --> 01:02:22,640
Speaker 1: have four ounds. My mom had four brothers. Me and

1292
01:02:22,680 --> 01:02:25,240
Speaker 1: my uncles were always really close still to this day's

1293
01:02:25,280 --> 01:02:29,880
Speaker 1: crazy because I was in college three okay on yeah,

1294
01:02:30,400 --> 01:02:33,640
Speaker 1: well only one left on each side. Yeah, I mean

1295
01:02:33,760 --> 01:02:35,800
Speaker 1: I do though, I have all three of my well

1296
01:02:36,080 --> 01:02:38,720
Speaker 1: not all three, one of them did, but I have

1297
01:02:38,840 --> 01:02:41,080
Speaker 1: three of my uncles still living in.

1298
01:02:41,400 --> 01:02:45,320
Speaker 3: Your family be living a long time, yeah, longevity is Yeah,

1299
01:02:45,840 --> 01:02:46,640
Speaker 3: it's beautiful.

1300
01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:50,200
Speaker 1: I hope girl, fingers cross, fingers crossed break the tradition.

1301
01:02:50,280 --> 01:03:03,480
Speaker 1: I hope I live a long life because real matriarch.

1302
01:03:06,000 --> 01:03:11,240
Speaker 4: Because y'all right on age, I got push.

1303
01:03:13,080 --> 01:03:13,320
Speaker 3: Speak.

1304
01:03:14,560 --> 01:03:17,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, my family, my family does live to be pretty

1305
01:03:17,640 --> 01:03:18,640
Speaker 1: like they eighties and night.

1306
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:19,200
Speaker 3: Huh.

1307
01:03:19,640 --> 01:03:21,520
Speaker 1: Because all of my mom, my mom and all of

1308
01:03:21,520 --> 01:03:22,760
Speaker 1: her siblings are in next seventy.

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Speaker 4: That's amazing. I'm like, do I have any seventy year

1310
01:03:26,200 --> 01:03:29,280
Speaker 4: olds in my family? I'm pretty sure somebody out there, Yeah,

1311
01:03:29,440 --> 01:03:32,040
Speaker 4: somebody somebody out there that I'm just probably not close with.

1312
01:03:32,080 --> 01:03:34,320
Speaker 4: But I think about the people that I'm close with, like.

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01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:37,280
Speaker 3: My uncle Freddy, like my honey Lamb, Like none of

1314
01:03:37,320 --> 01:03:37,600
Speaker 3: them are.

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Speaker 1: In their seven yeah, you know, but my uncle Slim, Yeah,

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01:03:41,280 --> 01:03:43,560
Speaker 1: my mom and my aunt they all in the seventies.

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01:03:43,680 --> 01:03:45,560
Speaker 1: So like even my uncle, he had called me while

1318
01:03:45,600 --> 01:03:46,960
Speaker 1: I was in Cobo. He was on the phone for

1319
01:03:47,000 --> 01:03:49,040
Speaker 1: like an hour, and it was so funny because Liamn

1320
01:03:49,120 --> 01:03:51,200
Speaker 1: was looking at me because mind you, we're like laying

1321
01:03:51,240 --> 01:03:52,800
Speaker 1: by the pool and I was on the phone with

1322
01:03:52,800 --> 01:03:54,440
Speaker 1: my uncle for a whole hour and she was just

1323
01:03:54,440 --> 01:03:55,760
Speaker 1: looking at me like, bitch, wrap it up.

1324
01:03:55,800 --> 01:03:57,960
Speaker 3: I'm aready take a shot. Let's turn up tom now.

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01:03:58,200 --> 01:04:00,720
Speaker 1: But but yes, I've just always be really close with

1326
01:04:00,760 --> 01:04:02,960
Speaker 1: my uncles. Then I have my dad, So I don't know.

1327
01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:06,080
Speaker 1: I just always look at men, especially when these relationships

1328
01:04:06,080 --> 01:04:08,560
Speaker 1: that are non romantic, like they could be a great

1329
01:04:08,600 --> 01:04:12,760
Speaker 1: source of wisdom and you know, help you look at

1330
01:04:12,760 --> 01:04:15,880
Speaker 1: things differently because we just don't see a lot of

1331
01:04:15,880 --> 01:04:18,520
Speaker 1: shit the same. And it's a blessing and a curse sometimes.

1332
01:04:18,560 --> 01:04:21,960
Speaker 1: But men also gonna hold you to the fire, especially

1333
01:04:22,040 --> 01:04:25,640
Speaker 1: when it comes to your romantic relationships. Them being men,

1334
01:04:25,760 --> 01:04:28,640
Speaker 1: they gonna let you know what you're doing wrong because

1335
01:04:28,680 --> 01:04:30,680
Speaker 1: I'm a man, so I know how I will feel

1336
01:04:30,680 --> 01:04:31,320
Speaker 1: about this shit.

1337
01:04:31,720 --> 01:04:33,560
Speaker 4: But I will say one thing about men. I'll be

1338
01:04:33,600 --> 01:04:37,000
Speaker 4: trying to like, I appreciate men who also hold their

1339
01:04:37,040 --> 01:04:38,120
Speaker 4: male friends to the fire.

1340
01:04:39,120 --> 01:04:40,480
Speaker 3: If you're a type of man.

1341
01:04:40,960 --> 01:04:43,000
Speaker 4: I don't consider you a friend if you're always telling

1342
01:04:43,000 --> 01:04:45,120
Speaker 4: me about my shit. But then I see your other

1343
01:04:45,160 --> 01:04:47,720
Speaker 4: homeboys and you're not telling them about they sit because

1344
01:04:47,720 --> 01:04:50,680
Speaker 4: then I know what you are. You're misogynistic and you

1345
01:04:50,760 --> 01:04:53,120
Speaker 4: really don't care about me. You're just being like, I'm

1346
01:04:53,120 --> 01:04:54,960
Speaker 4: a woman, so you think I should be doing shit

1347
01:04:55,080 --> 01:04:57,560
Speaker 4: this way? Like the men I have around me, they'd

1348
01:04:57,560 --> 01:05:01,000
Speaker 4: be like, nah, I'll be telling all my friends I

1349
01:05:01,000 --> 01:05:06,000
Speaker 4: don't know any man around me romantically platonically that they

1350
01:05:06,000 --> 01:05:07,600
Speaker 4: have friends around them that don't take care of their

1351
01:05:07,680 --> 01:05:10,880
Speaker 4: kids and don't like guess, all the men in my

1352
01:05:10,920 --> 01:05:13,680
Speaker 4: life they make sure that they are around stand up

1353
01:05:13,720 --> 01:05:14,360
Speaker 4: men as well.

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01:05:14,760 --> 01:05:17,160
Speaker 1: But that's more so an indication of like that's a

1355
01:05:17,280 --> 01:05:19,840
Speaker 1: character flaw, like a nigga who don't who hang around

1356
01:05:19,880 --> 01:05:21,880
Speaker 1: niggas who hang ship that already let me know what

1357
01:05:21,920 --> 01:05:23,600
Speaker 1: type of person lower. So I wouldn't want you to

1358
01:05:23,640 --> 01:05:24,640
Speaker 1: be my homeboy, no way.

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01:05:24,720 --> 01:05:29,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly. But yeah, yeah I do.

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01:05:29,560 --> 01:05:31,840
Speaker 1: I do like me and outside of six, like I said,

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01:05:31,880 --> 01:05:33,400
Speaker 1: sometimes the deck it'd be cool.

1362
01:05:33,840 --> 01:05:35,720
Speaker 4: And sometimes you get to dig you'd be like, we

1363
01:05:35,760 --> 01:05:36,680
Speaker 4: should just be friends.

1364
01:05:37,400 --> 01:05:40,080
Speaker 1: Sometimes and you'd be like, we should just be friends.

1365
01:05:40,120 --> 01:05:41,360
Speaker 3: You should just be friends.

1366
01:05:41,720 --> 01:05:44,040
Speaker 1: They take you out to eat, buy you a little something,

1367
01:05:44,040 --> 01:05:46,000
Speaker 1: and you can still be like, actually I don't want

1368
01:05:46,000 --> 01:05:47,280
Speaker 1: the d Yeah, just.

1369
01:05:47,240 --> 01:05:50,080
Speaker 3: Don't thank you. That doesn't happen a few times. I

1370
01:05:50,240 --> 01:05:51,440
Speaker 3: like that. Do it again.

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01:05:57,480 --> 01:06:01,560
Speaker 1: Now it's time to get into the b bow the

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1373
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1379
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1380
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Speaker 3: They need a shower.

1381
01:06:31,440 --> 01:06:33,760
Speaker 4: They need to do like a bundle package where you

1382
01:06:33,760 --> 01:06:37,160
Speaker 4: get a little lip gloss and was.

1383
01:06:38,920 --> 01:06:41,200
Speaker 3: Gess all this all lips matter.

1384
01:06:41,240 --> 01:06:50,000
Speaker 1: Because the jalasa. When you're going on a little mission

1385
01:06:50,400 --> 01:06:52,840
Speaker 1: in your role back, you really need more than that.

1386
01:06:52,960 --> 01:06:54,960
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Speaker 1: a little.

1389
01:06:59,160 --> 01:07:02,880
Speaker 3: Of jewel oil. Maybe a little for jewel oil. You know, Okay,

1390
01:07:02,920 --> 01:07:05,880
Speaker 3: some gets dry. You know, you can put her earl earl.

1391
01:07:06,320 --> 01:07:08,280
Speaker 1: But that's really all you need in your travel pig.

1392
01:07:08,960 --> 01:07:09,440
Speaker 3: I like that.

1393
01:07:09,560 --> 01:07:12,000
Speaker 4: Y'all need a little travel y'all need a little travel

1394
01:07:12,040 --> 01:07:14,040
Speaker 4: case with a little bit of that and a little

1395
01:07:14,080 --> 01:07:14,640
Speaker 4: lip bloss.

1396
01:07:14,640 --> 01:07:15,160
Speaker 3: That's it.

1397
01:07:15,200 --> 01:07:17,640
Speaker 1: All lips matter because they all need to be more storized.

1398
01:07:18,000 --> 01:07:20,960
Speaker 1: And that's why you need that jewel. I love it

1399
01:07:21,200 --> 01:07:23,000
Speaker 1: so them lips saying as she needs, you know what

1400
01:07:23,000 --> 01:07:23,480
Speaker 1: I'm saying.

1401
01:07:23,840 --> 01:07:25,840
Speaker 4: And then it helps with like the ingrowns and stuff.

1402
01:07:25,960 --> 01:07:27,440
Speaker 4: And the thing I love about it is that it's

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01:07:27,480 --> 01:07:29,800
Speaker 4: all natural ingredients. Okay, you can't go wrong with a

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Speaker 4: natural list.

1405
01:07:31,000 --> 01:07:34,240
Speaker 3: Yes, of your body. Okay, go ahead with the topic now,

1406
01:07:35,120 --> 01:07:35,520
Speaker 3: all right.

1407
01:07:35,800 --> 01:07:38,439
Speaker 1: So I wanted to talk about why do you think

1408
01:07:38,600 --> 01:07:42,880
Speaker 1: men still want to have six even in the worst times.

1409
01:07:43,200 --> 01:07:47,720
Speaker 1: It's like men just don't have no filter. They just

1410
01:07:47,760 --> 01:07:49,880
Speaker 1: don't have no filter. They don't understand how to read

1411
01:07:49,920 --> 01:07:52,480
Speaker 1: the room. You could have just lost your granny, your

1412
01:07:52,480 --> 01:07:54,080
Speaker 1: granny just die. They still want some cue.

1413
01:07:54,120 --> 01:07:57,040
Speaker 3: SHEI, I'm not trying to be morbid or nasty. You know.

1414
01:07:57,720 --> 01:08:02,680
Speaker 3: I had that happen to me literally literally, and then

1415
01:08:02,720 --> 01:08:08,200
Speaker 3: in that literally literally that descinment.

1416
01:08:08,120 --> 01:08:11,960
Speaker 4: And the thing I realized is you are actually an

1417
01:08:12,000 --> 01:08:17,519
Speaker 4: awful person because that's all you have to offer. And honestly,

1418
01:08:17,560 --> 01:08:20,160
Speaker 4: I think sometimes but like we were talking about earlier,

1419
01:08:20,200 --> 01:08:21,799
Speaker 4: a lot of men think they're part of the twenty

1420
01:08:21,800 --> 01:08:24,320
Speaker 4: five percent. You are part of the seventy five and

1421
01:08:24,400 --> 01:08:27,679
Speaker 4: that's all you have to offer. So I think when

1422
01:08:27,720 --> 01:08:30,679
Speaker 4: men do that is because you don't have any rapport

1423
01:08:30,720 --> 01:08:32,200
Speaker 4: with them, so they don't even know what to say.

1424
01:08:32,880 --> 01:08:35,800
Speaker 3: I don't care what you're going through. If a man

1425
01:08:36,280 --> 01:08:37,880
Speaker 3: sees you going through it, and he'd be like, well

1426
01:08:37,960 --> 01:08:41,840
Speaker 3: she is through and make you feel better, nigga, what ye?

1427
01:08:43,000 --> 01:08:45,680
Speaker 1: He probably is gonna make you feel better though in

1428
01:08:45,720 --> 01:08:51,000
Speaker 1: the moment, no, no, no, depending on what it is.

1429
01:08:51,120 --> 01:08:53,360
Speaker 3: I don't know. When my daddy diedque was making me

1430
01:08:53,400 --> 01:08:53,840
Speaker 3: feel bad.

1431
01:08:53,920 --> 01:08:56,920
Speaker 4: See and see I wasn't like that.

1432
01:08:56,920 --> 01:08:59,840
Speaker 3: That shit is not a moment. No. The moment I was.

1433
01:08:59,760 --> 01:09:07,040
Speaker 4: Like getting ran from the back, just crying. Diz was flowing,

1434
01:09:10,640 --> 01:09:14,519
Speaker 4: That's what I'm saying. But I think again, discernment, because

1435
01:09:14,560 --> 01:09:16,400
Speaker 4: whoever you were, you know, dialing at that time, I'm

1436
01:09:16,400 --> 01:09:18,720
Speaker 4: pretty sure they were like okay, and they knew that's

1437
01:09:18,760 --> 01:09:22,679
Speaker 4: what you wanted. It gave nothing about me that I wanted, dick,

1438
01:09:22,720 --> 01:09:25,160
Speaker 4: and in that moment, and that's what you offered me.

1439
01:09:25,520 --> 01:09:27,840
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, like, what did you want?

1440
01:09:30,400 --> 01:09:32,120
Speaker 3: I don't know what I wanted? A hug?

1441
01:09:33,000 --> 01:09:35,840
Speaker 4: Maybe we didn't even got to talk. You probably could

1442
01:09:35,840 --> 01:09:37,760
Speaker 4: have just turned on a little you know. I like

1443
01:09:37,800 --> 01:09:40,400
Speaker 4: to watch the office, turn on the office, bring me

1444
01:09:40,439 --> 01:09:41,880
Speaker 4: a plate of beans and hold me.

1445
01:09:42,840 --> 01:09:45,600
Speaker 3: That would have made me so fucking happy, you know.

1446
01:09:45,680 --> 01:09:47,880
Speaker 4: And I think that's why I've realized as I get

1447
01:09:47,880 --> 01:09:51,519
Speaker 4: older too, we keep saying as we get older, the

1448
01:09:52,120 --> 01:09:54,120
Speaker 4: smart because I remember, like the next day, like he

1449
01:09:54,200 --> 01:09:57,360
Speaker 4: had bought me something y'all know the Louis Vauton done

1450
01:09:57,400 --> 01:09:59,720
Speaker 4: loves at Louis. But he had showed up the next

1451
01:09:59,760 --> 01:10:02,320
Speaker 4: day with like this little bag, I have one. I'm like, thanks,

1452
01:10:03,000 --> 01:10:05,240
Speaker 4: that doesn't make me feel better. So I think as

1453
01:10:05,280 --> 01:10:09,200
Speaker 4: I've gotten older, I've realized, like I care about people

1454
01:10:09,200 --> 01:10:10,240
Speaker 4: who really care?

1455
01:10:10,720 --> 01:10:11,559
Speaker 3: Are you okay?

1456
01:10:12,280 --> 01:10:15,080
Speaker 4: So when men just have to offer dick, That's why

1457
01:10:15,160 --> 01:10:19,760
Speaker 4: I don't do situationships. I don't do random hookups. I'm

1458
01:10:19,800 --> 01:10:21,960
Speaker 4: not on a late night creep like, oh I need

1459
01:10:22,000 --> 01:10:25,640
Speaker 4: some dick. I'm past that, baby, So to offer me

1460
01:10:25,760 --> 01:10:28,519
Speaker 4: dick when I'm at the lowest of the lower sometimes.

1461
01:10:30,760 --> 01:10:31,800
Speaker 3: A bill du something.

1462
01:10:31,840 --> 01:10:33,880
Speaker 4: Somebody might be stressed out. They got three dollars in

1463
01:10:33,920 --> 01:10:34,360
Speaker 4: their bank.

1464
01:10:34,240 --> 01:10:36,639
Speaker 3: Account with shit, let me cold fuck you. My wife's

1465
01:10:36,680 --> 01:10:37,360
Speaker 3: gonna be off.

1466
01:10:39,280 --> 01:10:42,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not trying to get but sometimes you be

1467
01:10:42,840 --> 01:10:44,320
Speaker 4: in a buy, I in a bind.

1468
01:10:44,080 --> 01:10:52,919
Speaker 1: Nate, and that's what gets you the three dollars.

1469
01:10:53,840 --> 01:10:56,000
Speaker 3: It's a very complex situation.

1470
01:11:02,120 --> 01:11:06,440
Speaker 1: Oh lord, guys were prostitution.

1471
01:11:09,840 --> 01:11:11,479
Speaker 3: But but yeah, I don't know.

1472
01:11:11,680 --> 01:11:15,479
Speaker 1: I just they just don't giddy. They don't they think

1473
01:11:15,600 --> 01:11:17,840
Speaker 1: pulling their beck out gonna fix everything.

1474
01:11:18,280 --> 01:11:19,520
Speaker 3: And you know what's crazy.

1475
01:11:19,880 --> 01:11:22,519
Speaker 4: I feel like I've kind of for the most part,

1476
01:11:22,560 --> 01:11:25,200
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna lie. I feel like, for the most part,

1477
01:11:25,200 --> 01:11:27,439
Speaker 4: I've dealt with men like that, and I think like,

1478
01:11:27,479 --> 01:11:29,920
Speaker 4: when you deal with somebody who's not like that at all,

1479
01:11:30,000 --> 01:11:32,360
Speaker 4: they're like, let's talk, like what's going on?

1480
01:11:33,400 --> 01:11:34,800
Speaker 3: Literally, like what's going on?

1481
01:11:34,880 --> 01:11:38,360
Speaker 4: You'd be like, oh, and they're like, I mean, can

1482
01:11:38,400 --> 01:11:40,519
Speaker 4: you imagine as your homegirl you'd be like, lex, I'm

1483
01:11:40,560 --> 01:11:40,960
Speaker 4: so sad.

1484
01:11:40,960 --> 01:11:42,360
Speaker 3: Well, look me at your pussy boot.

1485
01:11:43,960 --> 01:11:52,240
Speaker 1: Be like exactly, that's because weird.

1486
01:11:52,200 --> 01:11:58,840
Speaker 3: Seems like something happening you. That was a moment you

1487
01:11:58,960 --> 01:12:00,799
Speaker 3: just fucking weird.

1488
01:12:00,960 --> 01:12:03,920
Speaker 1: Bro, Remember the fucking speaking of weird, bitches, do you

1489
01:12:03,960 --> 01:12:07,200
Speaker 1: remember that DM I sent you I screenshoted and c

1490
01:12:08,520 --> 01:12:11,799
Speaker 1: was never my friend, But bitches be weird.

1491
01:12:14,040 --> 01:12:14,680
Speaker 3: She said she.

1492
01:12:14,720 --> 01:12:19,320
Speaker 4: Want you to sit on it and spin around on

1493
01:12:19,400 --> 01:12:21,880
Speaker 4: it and lick it and stick it and make.

1494
01:12:21,800 --> 01:12:22,559
Speaker 3: It real nasty.

1495
01:12:22,560 --> 01:12:24,080
Speaker 1: And I put that thing now, I don't flip it

1496
01:12:24,080 --> 01:12:24,599
Speaker 1: in reverse.

1497
01:12:24,880 --> 01:12:27,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, but me, but you can tell she a freak bitch.

1498
01:12:27,800 --> 01:12:30,200
Speaker 1: But I was just like, what But no, I have

1499
01:12:30,479 --> 01:12:33,200
Speaker 1: been cool because y'all don't ever be seeing them tweets

1500
01:12:33,240 --> 01:12:35,599
Speaker 1: on Twitter and stuff where people be like, well, girls

1501
01:12:35,640 --> 01:12:39,880
Speaker 1: would be like, oh yeah, me and my homegirl be

1502
01:12:39,960 --> 01:12:42,599
Speaker 1: eating each other pussy when we get drunk. What type

1503
01:12:42,600 --> 01:12:46,320
Speaker 1: of fucking friendship is day? And don't I ever eat

1504
01:12:46,360 --> 01:12:49,680
Speaker 1: each other coochie when y'all get drunk, bitch? No, the

1505
01:12:49,720 --> 01:12:50,799
Speaker 1: fuck we don't.

1506
01:12:51,320 --> 01:12:51,519
Speaker 3: Bro.

1507
01:12:52,120 --> 01:12:53,800
Speaker 4: Me and Killa had this conversation. I was like, I

1508
01:12:53,800 --> 01:12:55,800
Speaker 4: thought I was tripping because what the fuck do y'all be.

1509
01:12:55,800 --> 01:13:03,360
Speaker 1: Doing eating pussy crying and eating cool? How can you

1510
01:13:03,439 --> 01:13:08,920
Speaker 1: do both? It's gone. I don't want to find out because.

1511
01:13:08,680 --> 01:13:10,439
Speaker 4: I thought, you know, when I get joke with my

1512
01:13:10,479 --> 01:13:14,240
Speaker 4: friends we were doing karaoke, we're gonna complain about these nigga.

1513
01:13:14,280 --> 01:13:16,519
Speaker 4: We might make a few drunk face times.

1514
01:13:16,680 --> 01:13:19,160
Speaker 3: And even Cucci, you never crossed my mind.

1515
01:13:19,160 --> 01:13:21,760
Speaker 1: They probably be. They probably be starting a girls night

1516
01:13:21,840 --> 01:13:22,879
Speaker 1: cuchie in karaoke.

1517
01:13:24,280 --> 01:13:25,599
Speaker 3: Don't get them too many ideas.

1518
01:13:26,360 --> 01:13:27,960
Speaker 1: They're dropping a lot of ideas.

1519
01:13:28,960 --> 01:13:30,920
Speaker 4: They're gonna hit up je Lisa, can you sponsor my

1520
01:13:31,040 --> 01:13:38,519
Speaker 4: party so like we're not putting would have?

1521
01:13:39,600 --> 01:13:40,640
Speaker 3: Oh? You gotta put the k.

1522
01:13:40,800 --> 01:13:43,400
Speaker 1: On there Cuchi and karaoke sponsory.

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Speaker 3: Like this and music. I mean, but I feel like

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Speaker 3: now that ain't.

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Speaker 4: But I feel like for like a like a Pride

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Speaker 4: weekend that will actually be a cute party.

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Speaker 1: Cool karaoke we're gonna start. I'm gonna come out with

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Speaker 1: a flavoredly clause just for coochie and karaoke.

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Speaker 4: You gotta make it safe for down there. Hey, real quick,

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01:14:10,320 --> 01:14:12,640
Speaker 4: this is off topic. You're jelly blushed. You know what

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01:14:12,680 --> 01:14:16,719
Speaker 4: you should do? Spf in it. Mmmm, that's a great idea.

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01:14:17,120 --> 01:14:19,920
Speaker 4: You werena, we gotta not drop these till.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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01:14:22,439 --> 01:14:25,400
Speaker 1: But no, for real though, Like I just that's strange,

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01:14:25,840 --> 01:14:28,000
Speaker 1: very strange. That's not how you come for your friends.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree.

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01:14:29,000 --> 01:14:31,920
Speaker 4: I just think that in any situation, woman or man

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01:14:32,400 --> 01:14:35,840
Speaker 4: offering sex when somebody is going through it, no, I

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01:14:35,960 --> 01:14:36,559
Speaker 4: don't like it.

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01:14:37,160 --> 01:14:39,479
Speaker 1: Me not liking you going through it. He trying to

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01:14:39,520 --> 01:14:40,120
Speaker 1: put you through it.

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01:14:42,600 --> 01:14:52,240
Speaker 3: Is okay, Now it's time to get and so bow

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01:14:52,439 --> 01:14:53,120
Speaker 3: bow bew.

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Speaker 4: So y'all know I'm always down for a little R

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01:14:58,240 --> 01:15:01,840
Speaker 4: and B begging for your girl back type song. So

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01:15:01,960 --> 01:15:04,040
Speaker 4: this song is about Isaiah Falls. I think I've had

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01:15:04,120 --> 01:15:05,960
Speaker 4: him as my bop of the week before. See one

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01:15:05,960 --> 01:15:08,280
Speaker 4: thing y'all know about me, I am bad with the

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01:15:08,400 --> 01:15:11,360
Speaker 4: artist names. I just be having my playlist. So Isaiah

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01:15:11,360 --> 01:15:14,080
Speaker 4: Falls has a song called back in My Arms and

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01:15:14,160 --> 01:15:16,719
Speaker 4: he's just begging for his girl to come be back.

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01:15:16,560 --> 01:15:19,160
Speaker 3: In his arms. I love a good begging the R

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01:15:19,160 --> 01:15:19,920
Speaker 3: and B song.

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01:15:20,040 --> 01:15:22,040
Speaker 4: And like sometimes late at night when I pour up

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01:15:22,080 --> 01:15:24,880
Speaker 4: my little you know, I make a little martini.

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01:15:25,479 --> 01:15:27,360
Speaker 3: What are y'all? What happened? You know?

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01:15:27,439 --> 01:15:30,479
Speaker 1: It's me? Oh I keep hearing something. I heard it too,

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01:15:30,560 --> 01:15:32,040
Speaker 1: That's why I was like but I can't been hearing

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01:15:32,120 --> 01:15:34,120
Speaker 1: the all episode, so I just be like, what is it.

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01:15:34,320 --> 01:15:36,040
Speaker 4: I'm at the age where I come home and I

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01:15:36,120 --> 01:15:40,240
Speaker 4: make a martini. I relax a little bit, and that's all,

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01:15:40,640 --> 01:15:42,360
Speaker 4: you know. I don't do too much. I don't get drunk.

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01:15:42,400 --> 01:15:45,519
Speaker 4: I just relax. Get my day off of me. I

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01:15:45,560 --> 01:15:47,280
Speaker 4: walk in my house. I get my day off of

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01:15:47,280 --> 01:15:49,200
Speaker 4: me when I walk in my house. Nothing happened today.

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01:15:49,560 --> 01:15:52,000
Speaker 4: It's just me, my martini, and my record player. So

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01:15:52,720 --> 01:15:54,320
Speaker 4: I was listening to this song the other I was like,

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01:15:54,360 --> 01:15:57,080
Speaker 4: I like it. It's a little vibe. So back in

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01:15:57,160 --> 01:15:58,679
Speaker 4: my arms, Isaiah falls.

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Speaker 3: It's a Bob period, all right, But you get very adult, like,

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01:16:02,200 --> 01:16:03,519
Speaker 3: you know, very mature.

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01:16:03,680 --> 01:16:06,160
Speaker 4: I have bitterly blue cheese stuff. All was in my

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01:16:06,200 --> 01:16:07,639
Speaker 4: fridge waiting on the girl.

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01:16:08,000 --> 01:16:09,320
Speaker 1: I love the blue cheese stuff.

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01:16:09,360 --> 01:16:09,680
Speaker 3: I live.

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01:16:09,800 --> 01:16:12,160
Speaker 1: You been making dirty martinis at home? Yes, I mean

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01:16:12,479 --> 01:16:15,080
Speaker 1: you make it by yourself. Well bartesian?

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01:16:15,520 --> 01:16:18,240
Speaker 4: Well no, you don't need a Bartesian for the martini

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01:16:18,240 --> 01:16:19,080
Speaker 4: because it's really nothing.

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01:16:19,120 --> 01:16:19,599
Speaker 3: I just don't.

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01:16:19,880 --> 01:16:22,200
Speaker 4: It's not technically a martini because I don't like have

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01:16:22,320 --> 01:16:23,479
Speaker 4: the vermouth and all that stuff.

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01:16:23,520 --> 01:16:25,519
Speaker 3: But I just put like my vodka, the ice and

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01:16:25,560 --> 01:16:27,240
Speaker 3: a little bit of olive juice and I just shake

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01:16:27,280 --> 01:16:29,080
Speaker 3: it up and that's all I do that. So I

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Speaker 3: got a good recipe for you. I'm gonna make it

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Speaker 3: on the next episode. I like that.

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Speaker 1: I like an olive martini to a little spicy too,

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01:16:35,960 --> 01:16:39,800
Speaker 1: some banana pepperccini.

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Speaker 3: I got you.

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01:16:41,120 --> 01:16:43,800
Speaker 1: I like we BOTHO like dirty martini and get the

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01:16:43,800 --> 01:16:44,320
Speaker 1: blue cheese.

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Speaker 3: I live.

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Speaker 1: Okay. So my bot this week is GMO g O

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Speaker 1: M L featuring Glory.

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Speaker 3: Of I love it and they did, y'all. I like it.

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Speaker 1: I feel like it's a good turn I love when

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01:17:03,120 --> 01:17:04,920
Speaker 1: the girls come out with like a nice little turn

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01:17:05,000 --> 01:17:07,320
Speaker 1: up song, especially something we always say you can get

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Speaker 1: ready to when you're about to go out and have

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Speaker 1: a good time. So yeah, shout out to Loto. And really,

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Speaker 1: I'm really excited about a Lotto album.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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01:17:14,600 --> 01:17:16,040
Speaker 4: I think it's gonna be good because I don't like

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01:17:16,040 --> 01:17:17,960
Speaker 4: when people how they've been going in on a lot

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01:17:17,960 --> 01:17:21,439
Speaker 4: of She's still dropping them fire hits on y'all, ass

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01:17:21,439 --> 01:17:24,639
Speaker 4: still dropping bars. Pregnant it all, y'all stop counting people

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01:17:24,640 --> 01:17:26,680
Speaker 4: out just because they're pregnant. People have babies all the

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01:17:26,680 --> 01:17:27,840
Speaker 4: fucking times. It's normal.

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01:17:27,880 --> 01:17:28,559
Speaker 3: That's what we women.

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01:17:29,560 --> 01:17:33,160
Speaker 4: That's what we women, that's what we women.

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01:17:33,280 --> 01:17:36,320
Speaker 1: We women, that's what we're supposed to do. Like women

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01:17:36,760 --> 01:17:40,160
Speaker 1: have babies, nobody else have them. That's how we all

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01:17:40,200 --> 01:17:40,679
Speaker 1: got here.

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01:17:41,160 --> 01:17:46,880
Speaker 3: I mean, both genders take and then lex is right.

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01:17:47,800 --> 01:17:50,400
Speaker 3: She really was talking about her sister in that verse. Right,

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01:17:50,840 --> 01:17:52,960
Speaker 3: What did she say? She did? She said something about it.

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01:17:53,360 --> 01:17:55,360
Speaker 3: She's slid a little bit on that one she did.

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01:17:55,439 --> 01:17:58,559
Speaker 1: I can't remember the bar, but she did what you

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01:17:59,080 --> 01:18:00,760
Speaker 1: what they was calling what was that called?

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01:18:02,960 --> 01:18:04,880
Speaker 3: Don't say it too loud? You say it three times?

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01:18:04,880 --> 01:18:07,599
Speaker 1: She pop up, she ain't gonna be able to find it.

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01:18:09,360 --> 01:18:10,680
Speaker 3: And then she said something about how she.

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01:18:10,640 --> 01:18:14,360
Speaker 1: Wanted Brandon a nut in her Yeah, because they saying

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01:18:14,400 --> 01:18:16,280
Speaker 1: she was pregnant too, when my sister popped out and

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01:18:16,320 --> 01:18:16,920
Speaker 1: said pregnant.

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Speaker 3: Weird.

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01:18:17,439 --> 01:18:20,680
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm not pregnant the girls alone. I mean,

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01:18:20,760 --> 01:18:23,080
Speaker 1: let people in outstay pregnancies when they want to.

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01:18:23,640 --> 01:18:25,479
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think it's weird when people try to be

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01:18:25,600 --> 01:18:27,439
Speaker 4: like saying somebody's pregnant or not.

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Speaker 3: Even when they did that to Renound at the Super Bowl.

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Speaker 1: Was she pregnant, yes, but shut up girl, Oh yeah,

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01:18:32,920 --> 01:18:34,400
Speaker 1: she was pregnant with the sticking baby.

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Speaker 3: Yea, but leave her alone whatever.

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01:18:36,520 --> 01:18:39,200
Speaker 1: Oh yes, it's lo REALA delivers a fiery directless ones.

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01:18:39,240 --> 01:18:40,559
Speaker 1: I'm trying to see, but I don't.

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Speaker 3: Remember what she said.

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01:18:43,920 --> 01:18:46,040
Speaker 1: The one about Brandon. She told Brandon, I'm gonna have

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01:18:46,120 --> 01:18:47,320
Speaker 1: his son next time he leave it in.

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01:18:47,560 --> 01:18:49,679
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's when she said leave it in. I said, nud,

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01:18:49,680 --> 01:18:50,880
Speaker 3: I like to get a little vulger.

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01:18:52,120 --> 01:18:55,360
Speaker 1: And then for her sister, she said something.

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01:18:56,320 --> 01:18:58,320
Speaker 3: It was something I M remember it.

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01:18:58,920 --> 01:19:01,120
Speaker 1: Get you will hustling, get there you see out your face. Hold,

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01:19:01,280 --> 01:19:03,839
Speaker 1: that's what you just these hoes eating each other, coach.

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01:19:03,720 --> 01:19:05,759
Speaker 3: Yeah that's what that What that was about her sister?

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01:19:06,880 --> 01:19:09,280
Speaker 3: What was it? Get your hustle up and get that

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01:19:09,320 --> 01:19:10,040
Speaker 3: pussy out your.

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01:19:09,960 --> 01:19:13,280
Speaker 1: First Yeah, yeah, you a lace stud or something like this?

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01:19:13,760 --> 01:19:18,720
Speaker 3: All all m m mm mm mm. I like it

1652
01:19:18,760 --> 01:19:20,960
Speaker 3: though that the bot, it's a he. All right.

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01:19:21,000 --> 01:19:23,439
Speaker 4: Now, we're getting to our favorite segment of the week, the.

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01:19:23,600 --> 01:19:24,559
Speaker 3: Pour your Heart Out segment.

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01:19:24,600 --> 01:19:26,040
Speaker 4: If you want your question to answered on the show,

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01:19:26,120 --> 01:19:28,360
Speaker 4: make sure you email us at ask poor Minds at

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01:19:28,400 --> 01:19:30,760
Speaker 4: gmail dot com. If you're a Patrenon, remember make sure

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Speaker 3: Go ahead, drean period.

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Speaker 1: Okay, hey guys, big fan of the show, So I

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01:19:40,760 --> 01:19:43,160
Speaker 1: need advice. My friend just started talking to this guy

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01:19:43,240 --> 01:19:45,920
Speaker 1: at work, not in a flirtatious way. With him and

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01:19:45,960 --> 01:19:48,920
Speaker 1: one of my other friends used to sleep together. Let's

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01:19:48,920 --> 01:19:52,240
Speaker 1: call her Jamie. She doesn't know that my friend, let's

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01:19:52,320 --> 01:19:55,520
Speaker 1: call her Sam, was sleeping with let's call him James.

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01:19:56,120 --> 01:19:58,559
Speaker 1: We all work together, but in different departments, and I'm

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01:19:58,560 --> 01:20:01,880
Speaker 1: pretty cool with James, so we talk from time to time,

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01:20:01,920 --> 01:20:04,200
Speaker 1: and I could see he was into Jamie, but he

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01:20:04,280 --> 01:20:07,040
Speaker 1: never verbally said it. I told her, and she said

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01:20:07,080 --> 01:20:09,519
Speaker 1: she doesn't have enough room for another man in her life.

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01:20:09,560 --> 01:20:12,040
Speaker 1: Plus an old friend of hers already slept with him

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01:20:12,400 --> 01:20:15,679
Speaker 1: and said it wasn't good. Fast forward to the other day,

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01:20:15,920 --> 01:20:18,040
Speaker 1: she was looking for him and she actually asks a

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01:20:18,080 --> 01:20:20,880
Speaker 1: friend of hers for her number. I told her he

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01:20:20,920 --> 01:20:22,880
Speaker 1: wants to sleep with her, and she finds it hard

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01:20:22,920 --> 01:20:26,680
Speaker 1: to believe, considering he's never shown interest before and he

1679
01:20:26,720 --> 01:20:30,880
Speaker 1: probably already knows that her friends slept with him. With

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01:20:31,000 --> 01:20:34,559
Speaker 1: her friends that slipped with him, told her, I know

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01:20:34,640 --> 01:20:37,800
Speaker 1: my friend Sam still has feelings for him, even though

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01:20:37,880 --> 01:20:40,679
Speaker 1: she still tries to act like she's over him. Also

1683
01:20:40,840 --> 01:20:43,160
Speaker 1: know she's in a committed relationship now with the man

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01:20:43,200 --> 01:20:46,120
Speaker 1: that provides for her and her child, but her and

1685
01:20:46,200 --> 01:20:50,080
Speaker 1: James are more compatible personality wise. So should I tell

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01:20:50,120 --> 01:20:53,120
Speaker 1: Sam that James is trying to sleep with my friend Jamie?

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01:20:53,400 --> 01:20:56,360
Speaker 1: Or should I just leave it alone considering she's already

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01:20:56,400 --> 01:20:58,800
Speaker 1: in a relationship and acts as if she's over him.

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01:20:59,240 --> 01:21:01,280
Speaker 1: I don't want to see like I'm playing side, and

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01:21:01,280 --> 01:21:04,760
Speaker 1: I don't want to tell either friends' busneys. But I

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01:21:04,840 --> 01:21:07,320
Speaker 1: have been friends with Sam longer.

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01:21:10,000 --> 01:21:12,439
Speaker 4: Sam, go home to your nigga that's taking care of

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01:21:12,479 --> 01:21:17,719
Speaker 4: you and that goddamn child. Yeah, I'm sorry when y'all

1694
01:21:17,720 --> 01:21:20,320
Speaker 4: be I get it. You're more compatible. Y'all be living

1695
01:21:20,360 --> 01:21:23,439
Speaker 4: in La la land, because it takes more. You think

1696
01:21:23,479 --> 01:21:25,760
Speaker 4: you compatible till you start dating that nigga, then you

1697
01:21:25,800 --> 01:21:28,719
Speaker 4: hate each other. Now, little dad ain't not getting taken

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01:21:28,760 --> 01:21:29,760
Speaker 4: care of, and neither of.

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01:21:29,720 --> 01:21:31,240
Speaker 3: You, but y'all got compatibility.

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01:21:32,920 --> 01:21:35,280
Speaker 4: Take your ass home, Sam, But I think for the friend,

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01:21:36,479 --> 01:21:39,200
Speaker 4: I think what you can do is without telling the business,

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01:21:39,240 --> 01:21:40,880
Speaker 4: be like, hey, you got a good man at home?

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01:21:41,000 --> 01:21:43,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, why are you worried about James.

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01:21:43,600 --> 01:21:46,400
Speaker 4: Obviously y'all all work in the same spots on assuming

1705
01:21:46,400 --> 01:21:49,240
Speaker 4: that y'all all make around the same money and I'm

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01:21:49,280 --> 01:21:51,320
Speaker 4: not trying to make money and think, girl, go home

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01:21:51,360 --> 01:21:53,080
Speaker 4: to y'r man. That's what you need to tell your

1708
01:21:53,080 --> 01:21:56,240
Speaker 4: friend to go home to her man. Yeah, y'all that

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01:21:56,360 --> 01:21:59,599
Speaker 4: letter and stressed me out. James and Jamie and Fox

1710
01:21:59,720 --> 01:22:03,919
Speaker 4: and I don't know, God, damn.

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01:22:03,720 --> 01:22:07,160
Speaker 1: It, James and Jamie and Fox.

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01:22:09,520 --> 01:22:10,360
Speaker 3: You know what I mean?

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01:22:10,600 --> 01:22:13,000
Speaker 1: I agreed. Oh, yes, girl, go home see your me

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01:22:13,040 --> 01:22:13,679
Speaker 1: and Sam.

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01:22:13,800 --> 01:22:15,840
Speaker 4: And that's what she needs to tell Sam. She needs

1716
01:22:15,840 --> 01:22:18,080
Speaker 4: to tell Sam that because it's not about what you say,

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01:22:18,120 --> 01:22:18,519
Speaker 4: it's HOI.

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01:22:18,520 --> 01:22:23,360
Speaker 3: Sam, I am girl. Breen Eggs and Ham, Hi, Poor

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Speaker 3: Mind's Team.

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Speaker 4: My name is Kirsten Jet and I'm reaching Oh we're

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01:22:27,920 --> 01:22:29,160
Speaker 4: we done with that one, Okay.

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01:22:29,720 --> 01:22:31,960
Speaker 3: My name is Kirsten. Kirsten.

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01:22:32,560 --> 01:22:35,080
Speaker 4: I like that, Jet, and I'm reaching out with so

1724
01:22:35,240 --> 01:22:38,000
Speaker 4: much respect for the space you've created through the Poor

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01:22:38,040 --> 01:22:42,360
Speaker 4: Minds podcast, The real unfiltered conversations and the way you

1726
01:22:42,400 --> 01:22:46,000
Speaker 4: speak on growth, relationships and leveling up as a woman

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01:22:46,040 --> 01:22:47,439
Speaker 4: has truly resonated with me.

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01:22:48,360 --> 01:22:50,559
Speaker 3: I may honestly be one of your biggest fans.

1729
01:22:51,720 --> 01:22:54,800
Speaker 4: I'm twenty five and currently navigating a season of transition.

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01:22:55,040 --> 01:22:57,480
Speaker 3: I've completed my degree in business and management.

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01:22:57,880 --> 01:23:01,439
Speaker 4: I'm a licensed cosmetologist running my own hair business, and

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01:23:01,479 --> 01:23:03,599
Speaker 4: I currently work in real estate and mortgages.

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01:23:03,680 --> 01:23:06,560
Speaker 3: Goddamn hustle made her Yeah.

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01:23:07,320 --> 01:23:10,800
Speaker 4: I'm also working on launching a raw hairline, my podcast

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Speaker 4: Homegirl Hotline, a children's book, and I'm planning to start

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Speaker 4: a YouTube out my line.

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Speaker 1: Hotline is the book by my bad.

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Speaker 3: I was trying to keep it up, my bad. I'm

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Speaker 3: not making this up.

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Speaker 4: My podcast Homegirl Hotline a children's book, and I'm planning

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Speaker 4: to start a YouTube channel.

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Speaker 3: L O L. And my hairline is called why does

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Speaker 3: she laugh? She did? I didn't make that up.

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Speaker 1: L O L because even she knows, girl, you got

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01:23:44,880 --> 01:23:49,400
Speaker 1: like ten fucking jobs. I was three.

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Speaker 3: That's what it is. Gimming.

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Speaker 4: And my hairline is called check this out mused by Mercedes.

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Speaker 1: I know that's working Mercedes. Its wytherfuck is Mercedes. I

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Speaker 1: thought your name was Kirstin. You didn't let me finish.

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Speaker 4: Muse is my grandmother's last name, and Mercedes is her

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Speaker 4: first Mercedes Muse.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 4: I'm originally from New Orleans but recently moved to Houston,

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Speaker 4: and I've been embracing this new chapter while trying to

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Speaker 4: build something meaningful across all these ventures.

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Speaker 3: No, you got a lot to choose from.

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Speaker 4: I'm reaching out because I would genuinely value some antie

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Speaker 4: advice from women who have built their brands, found their voice,

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Speaker 4: and stayed authentic through it all, whether it's about staying consistent,

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Speaker 4: navigating growth, or trusting the process when things feel uncertain.

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Speaker 4: I'm open to any wisdom you're willing to share. And

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Speaker 4: I already know what you finished sight, so go ahead.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I'm first of all, choose.

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Speaker 1: Wine, Oh, Kirsty, Kirstin Kirsten, choose Wayne and stick with that.

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01:25:01,400 --> 01:25:05,920
Speaker 1: Let that become successful. Then you could focus on something else.

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Speaker 1: So out of all of the things that you said,

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Speaker 1: and it's like you're not doing you're not starting multiple

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Speaker 1: business that multiple businesses that are similar. Everything is in

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Speaker 1: different lanes. You got a hair care line, Oh, she

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Speaker 1: got a hair care line. She got a podcast, she

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Speaker 1: got a children's.

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Speaker 4: Book, YouTube channel, real estate, comeologists, degree in business management.

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Speaker 4: And I say this as somebody who I used to

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Speaker 4: kind of be late it too, Like I just used

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Speaker 4: to try everything, Like I'd be like, I'm gonna go

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Speaker 4: get my real estate license, I'm gonna go start a boutique.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna go.

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Speaker 1: Bartead at the club. I'm a working oil and gas

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Speaker 1: during the day. I just used to be doing anything.

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Speaker 3: You have to.

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Speaker 1: If you want to be successful at something, you have

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Speaker 1: to pick one lane, hone in on that, focus on that,

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01:25:53,240 --> 01:25:57,040
Speaker 1: get good at that craft, and then after that becomes successful,

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01:25:57,280 --> 01:25:59,719
Speaker 1: it's gonna be even more successful to build another business

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Speaker 1: because you already know how to build a successful business.

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Speaker 3: But you have to.

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Speaker 1: Give yourself a chance to focus on one thing. So

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Speaker 1: I think you should pick what you like and stiack

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Speaker 1: with that and try to focus on making that successful.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be plenty of time to try all of

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Speaker 1: these other business ventures after you have one successful business.

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Speaker 1: But I do think that it's very difficult to build

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Speaker 1: multiple businesses.

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Speaker 3: To be successful at.

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01:26:24,360 --> 01:26:26,599
Speaker 1: One time, you gotta be a one at a time.

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Speaker 1: And again, I'm saying this from a loving place. I

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Speaker 1: know we was laughing a little bit, but I'm saying

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Speaker 1: this from a loving place of somebody who I used

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Speaker 1: to be very young, and Ambashi's too, and I used

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Speaker 1: to want to do everything like Legs will tell y'all,

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Speaker 1: I literally anything that I thought was gonna make me

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Speaker 1: some money, I would try. She did my las other

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Speaker 1: than selling Guccie, so that was my business venture. I

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Speaker 1: did do her lashes one time, and she was so

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Speaker 1: fucking mad at me.

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Speaker 3: She was crying while.

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Speaker 1: She was cutting mad at you.

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Speaker 3: I was she had to.

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Speaker 1: Cut her real lashes off and she was crying.

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Speaker 3: Was like, dra up.

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Speaker 4: I wasn't mad at her. I just think I was

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Speaker 4: trying to help. And I think we should have just

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Speaker 4: gave her a little more practice on some dolls or something,

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Speaker 4: the cosmetology dolls.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't mad at you, No, you wasn't mad at me,

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01:27:14,360 --> 01:27:15,520
Speaker 1: but you were mad.

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Speaker 3: Because you couldn't.

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Speaker 1: So Lex loved to wear strip lash she's still to

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Speaker 1: this day. So she wanted to put on some strip lashes.

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Speaker 1: And because her real lashes are naturally very long and straight,

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Speaker 1: so when I did her lashes, it curled them so

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Speaker 1: she couldn't put on the strips for.

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Speaker 3: Like they were like.

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Speaker 4: I couldn't put it on my lash line. I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: be a funny to this day, my lashes never really

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Speaker 4: grew back the same okay, but you know I cut

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Speaker 4: them I had, but they never grew back, like you

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01:27:52,280 --> 01:27:55,760
Speaker 4: cut it to the iyah and then they were still

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Speaker 4: kind of curled, so they like never grew back.

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Speaker 3: But I'm not trying to funny.

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Speaker 4: I've always been the type of person like I don't.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean you can put some on. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: It was a labor of love she needed for me.

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Speaker 1: But the point and look at me now, and I

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Speaker 1: don't do no goddamn lashes, And I just she don't

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Speaker 1: sell Kuchie. I don't steal real estate. I went to

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Speaker 1: school for that too, like just doing.

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Speaker 3: She let me stop for they really think I was

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Speaker 3: selling kuchie. Now we can't. We're kittie facts. She did not.

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Speaker 1: I don't know y'all, but I really did not sell

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Speaker 1: real estate, and I took time out to go to

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Speaker 1: school for it, just doing. She just grow peak onin.

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Speaker 4: And I'll say this, I think when you focus on

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Speaker 4: one business, that makes it easier to also invest the

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01:28:39,640 --> 01:28:41,720
Speaker 4: money that you make. Of course, you can pay your

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Speaker 4: bills with that and left over invested back in another business.

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01:28:45,400 --> 01:28:48,240
Speaker 4: Trying to stretch your money out to invest in literally

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Speaker 4: like five or six different things is just way too

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01:28:51,240 --> 01:28:55,920
Speaker 4: straining from a money point of view, make a lot

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Speaker 4: of money in one arena, then invest it in another way.

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Speaker 1: So and even if you want to, like they said,

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Speaker 1: you have a few that are kind of in the

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Speaker 1: same realm, like the on in the raw hair and

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Speaker 1: then the cosmetology. Those are things you can kind of

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Speaker 1: do at the end time and like leverage one another.

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Speaker 1: But I agree one hundred percent start with one area,

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Speaker 1: perfect that, grow that and then start thinking about other opportunities. Yeah, yeah, queen.

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Speaker 3: Don't stress yourself. We let yourself amen c R. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: If I had some peak one, I'll probably stay focused

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Speaker 1: on the.

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Speaker 3: Hair of her raw hair too. I like raw hair.

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01:29:33,040 --> 01:29:35,479
Speaker 3: I like a lot of raw things. I like raw sushi.

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Speaker 3: I like raw meats. That's what raw sushi is. What

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Speaker 3: kind of meat? Was you talking? Little wagon? Okay, a

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Speaker 3: little bit like? Okay, y'all.

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Speaker 4: think we almost at four hundred K. So shout out

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Speaker 4: to the poor crew y'all showing up. We're about to

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Speaker 4: get four hundred k subscribers.

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Speaker 3: That's a big feat.

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Speaker 1: The ticket is probably sold out by now though, see

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Speaker 1: y'all soon. Yeah, only like em park, this is for

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Speaker 8: See, he's my prime perthy and any girl that's us,

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Speaker 8: I might just call yo bluff cause I don't give

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Speaker 8: who are you to call myself? Oh, I'm gonna wish

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Speaker 8: you well because any.

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Speaker 1: Girl that's tried has fell. Where my girls at from

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Speaker 1: the front to back? What is you feeling that? Put

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Speaker 1: one hand up? Can you repeat that? Trying to take

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Speaker 1: my man? See, y'all don't need that. Don't play yourself.

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Speaker 1: Where my girls at from the front to bag?

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Speaker 3: Well is you feeling that?

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Speaker 1: Put one hand up? Can you repeat that? Trying to

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Speaker 1: take my man? See, y'all don't need that. Hey hey hey,

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Speaker 1: hey hey hey hey hey.

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Speaker 6: Don't you buy lay me cause I'm a makean Hey

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Speaker 6: me if you decide to mess with my sunk you

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Speaker 6: down suicide.

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Speaker 1: Maggie, realize that you done messed up this time.

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Speaker 5: From the front to bag?

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Speaker 1: Where is you feeling that? Put one hand up? Can

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01:31:56,920 --> 01:31:59,200
Speaker 1: you repeat that, trying to take my man?

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Speaker 3: See, y'all don't need that? So don't pleaseself? Where my

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Speaker 3: girls hat?

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01:32:03,360 --> 01:32:06,519
Speaker 1: From the front to back? Relidia feeling that put one

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Speaker 1: hand up? Can you repeat that, try to take my man?

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01:32:09,720 --> 01:32:10,640
Speaker 3: See, y'all don't need that.

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01:32:11,960 --> 01:32:15,120
Speaker 1: Real y'a't month's line.

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Speaker 8: The words don't come closer anything.

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Speaker 6: Naty longs me, he is mine, my property, so you mustly.

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Speaker 5: Well, my girlsin my brother back?

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01:32:36,280 --> 01:32:39,360
Speaker 6: Feeling that put one hand up? Can you repeat that,

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Speaker 6: trying to take my man?

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01:32:40,960 --> 01:32:41,920
Speaker 3: See, I don't need that?

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01:32:42,160 --> 01:32:46,120
Speaker 8: Hey, hey, hey hey, from the france to bag?

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01:32:46,240 --> 01:32:48,920
Speaker 3: Well is your feeling that? Put one hand up? Can

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01:32:49,040 --> 01:32:49,800
Speaker 3: you repeat that?

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01:32:50,240 --> 01:32:51,280
Speaker 1: Try to take my man?

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01:32:51,360 --> 01:32:55,639
Speaker 3: Say, y'all don't lead that? Where my girl that from

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Speaker 3: the front to back? When that's your feel? Is your

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01:32:58,400 --> 01:33:09,200
Speaker 3: feeling that? Hey, my girl?

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Speaker 1: Will my girl? You thought I was posing?

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Speaker 3: I was just well, my girls die.

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Speaker 4: We got a hormonize you know how you like performed

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Speaker 4: they were hormonize at.

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Speaker 3: The end, Well, my girls, it sounded good to me.

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01:33:32,400 --> 01:33:37,880
Speaker 3: We was all. You gave up on yourself, a quitters.

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Speaker 3: We'll see you on next week.

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Speaker 1: No, she didn't believe that.

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Speaker 3: She No, she didn't. You're fired. I believe that, but

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Speaker 3: you

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Speaker 6: Di