1 00:00:01,200 --> 00:00:03,400 Speaker 1: Let me ask you this before we start. We're started, 2 00:00:03,480 --> 00:00:06,559 Speaker 1: we already started. Do you have makeup on? Are you 3 00:00:06,600 --> 00:00:10,200 Speaker 1: putting makeup on for you? No? I can't do this. 4 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 1: I'm out. If that's what we're doing here, I got 5 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:15,160 Speaker 1: I advocate my throne. 6 00:00:15,600 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 2: Here is why I have makeup on. 7 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 3: Okay, I have to take Axel to a birthday party 8 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:21,360 Speaker 3: right after this. 9 00:00:21,680 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 1: You have makeup on to go to a kid's birthday party? 10 00:00:25,160 --> 00:00:25,560 Speaker 2: I don't. 11 00:00:25,680 --> 00:00:28,360 Speaker 3: First of all, all right, first of all, seventy back off. 12 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:32,400 Speaker 3: I have tinted moisturizer on, some blush and mascara. I 13 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:34,599 Speaker 3: don't really qualify that as like makeup. 14 00:00:34,880 --> 00:00:37,960 Speaker 1: That's literally what it is. That's literally what it is. 15 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:50,240 Speaker 4: More and more better, better, a little more better, more better. 16 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:56,920 Speaker 3: Okay, fine, it is makeup, But I'm saying like I 17 00:00:56,960 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 3: didn't do like a full beat. I just put some 18 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 3: mascara on and some lush on my cheeks, Like that's it. 19 00:01:02,400 --> 00:01:06,600 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, more better a podcast. Stop pretending to have 20 00:01:06,680 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 1: it all together and embrace the what? 21 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:12,360 Speaker 2: What are we embracing the something? 22 00:01:12,400 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 3: We're just trying to be a little more better every 23 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:17,560 Speaker 3: day on. I have eye patches on because I'm trying 24 00:01:17,600 --> 00:01:19,800 Speaker 3: to be more better. I don't know these parents. He's 25 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 3: in kindergarten. I'm meeting a bunch of parents for the 26 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 3: first time. 27 00:01:23,680 --> 00:01:25,800 Speaker 1: I don't care. I don't know. I should be like 28 00:01:26,480 --> 00:01:28,639 Speaker 1: shorts and a fishing T shirt. 29 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:32,399 Speaker 3: Not that I fish, but I do too. Once I 30 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:34,839 Speaker 3: don't I know the people and I don't care. 31 00:01:35,000 --> 00:01:38,320 Speaker 1: But when that's so funny because I'm like the opposite. 32 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:42,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, when I know them, I try. When I 33 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:43,680 Speaker 1: don't know them, I don't care. 34 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 3: Oh that is interesting. I'm literally the opposite. If I 35 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 3: don't know them. The way to like make myself feel 36 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 3: less nervous is just like put a cute top on, 37 00:01:53,640 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 3: slap a little makeup on, and just like feel good 38 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 3: about how I feel my best. But when it's people 39 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:02,000 Speaker 3: I know and I don't care, I'll just feel comfortable 40 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 3: and whatever. 41 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 2: I mean. 42 00:02:03,560 --> 00:02:05,080 Speaker 1: You saw me at that dinner the other night. We 43 00:02:05,080 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 1: went to dinner the other night, and I was wearing. 44 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:09,840 Speaker 2: You looked so cute. 45 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:12,799 Speaker 3: I dressed up because I was like, Stephanie always looks 46 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:15,280 Speaker 3: really really cute at our dinners, So I was like, 47 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 3: what what can And then you looked so cozy, and 48 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:21,119 Speaker 3: I was like, god, damn it. I want to wear 49 00:02:21,120 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 3: a sweater. 50 00:02:21,840 --> 00:02:24,840 Speaker 1: I was in my sweater with the horses with the 51 00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: pixelated horses on it. 52 00:02:26,280 --> 00:02:28,959 Speaker 2: Guys, uh West, what have you done lately? 53 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:29,640 Speaker 1: That's more better? 54 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:32,799 Speaker 2: Great you are making but make it. 55 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 1: I done that, it's more better. Oh wait, I have 56 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:41,600 Speaker 1: to show you this before we start. Okay, Oh my god, 57 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 1: is Amy Santiago? Is this sticker from? This? Is this 58 00:02:49,400 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: sticker nine starter sticker pack? And wait, I have to 59 00:02:53,840 --> 00:02:58,200 Speaker 1: see this other thing. Hold on, it's a tiny conflict 60 00:02:58,919 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 1: a notebook. Yeah, it's winder. And then this is the best. 61 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:06,440 Speaker 1: Why is it in black and white? Though? 62 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:08,839 Speaker 2: Can you color it? Wait? What is that? 63 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:13,359 Speaker 1: It's the it's the You're an Amazing Detective slash Genius Award. 64 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 2: Oh it is just a black eye. 65 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:20,919 Speaker 1: It's like you can see there's the seal. There's the 66 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 1: Brooklyn nine nine seal on it, and it's got like 67 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:23,959 Speaker 1: little tabs up here. 68 00:03:25,040 --> 00:03:25,400 Speaker 2: Okay. 69 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:33,240 Speaker 1: I got this from someone on the internet at b 70 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 1: l U b i U b l U at blub 71 00:03:40,760 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 1: e u blue, and I believe they gave it to 72 00:03:44,440 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 1: me at like a comic con or something. They were like, here, 73 00:03:46,480 --> 00:03:47,840 Speaker 1: I me this for you, and I was like that, 74 00:03:48,800 --> 00:03:51,640 Speaker 1: so I finally opened it, and I thought that you 75 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:54,320 Speaker 1: would want to see those and I'll save these. Well, 76 00:03:54,360 --> 00:03:57,120 Speaker 1: this one's mine because I'm I'm the winner of the 77 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:00,200 Speaker 1: Amazing Detective slash Genius. But you can have. 78 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 2: These, I mean, technically amy one more than row. 79 00:04:03,360 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 1: No, that's enough, all right, that's enough, more better. What 80 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 1: are we talking about this week? 81 00:04:15,120 --> 00:04:16,880 Speaker 2: We're talking about pets. 82 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:21,200 Speaker 1: Yay, oh, something that we both love to talk about. 83 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:23,160 Speaker 2: Want to get more better at, want to get more 84 00:04:23,160 --> 00:04:23,640 Speaker 2: better at. 85 00:04:24,080 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 3: We both got our first dogs at the same time 86 00:04:26,640 --> 00:04:31,680 Speaker 3: in adulthood, right, you didn't have a dog before Banjo? No, Yeah, 87 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:35,480 Speaker 3: my first pet was a turtle that ran away as 88 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:37,600 Speaker 3: a kid, but I mean like as an adult. 89 00:04:37,880 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, as an adult. My first pet was my dog, Banjo, 90 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 1: who I got in my thirties when we were already 91 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:47,039 Speaker 1: on Brooklyn nine nine and you had and I had Bella. 92 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:52,719 Speaker 3: She was my first pet kind of period we had like, yeah, 93 00:04:52,720 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 3: we had like fish and stuff growing up, and I 94 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:59,080 Speaker 3: got her when I was like twenty two. 95 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 1: Okay, I have to say the story because it was 96 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:05,680 Speaker 1: on the tip of my tongue to be like fish 97 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:08,000 Speaker 1: don't count, but they do. Obviously we've all seen finding 98 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:12,839 Speaker 1: Nemo my college sweet Maids. So we had our own rooms, 99 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 1: but we shared a bathroom and she will remain nameless. 100 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:19,960 Speaker 1: But we at the same time bought beta fish to 101 00:05:20,000 --> 00:05:27,040 Speaker 1: having our rooms, right, uh huh, girlfriend, I'm sorry to 102 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:29,200 Speaker 1: throw her under the bus, but like she basically like, 103 00:05:29,360 --> 00:05:33,880 Speaker 1: let the water evaporate in that fish's tank, like god. 104 00:05:34,360 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 1: And that was I think the moment that I was like, oh, 105 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:40,240 Speaker 1: this is a really irresponsible person. I don't want to 106 00:05:40,279 --> 00:05:42,400 Speaker 1: be around this human being like in. 107 00:05:42,440 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 2: Life, you know what I mean, I like a red flag. 108 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 1: Yes, how people treat animals as a direct correlation to 109 00:05:49,279 --> 00:05:52,360 Speaker 1: how they are as human beings. And that's why Andy 110 00:05:52,400 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 1: Sandberg is the worst because he hates dogs. You heard 111 00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:03,080 Speaker 1: it here, not first he hates dogs. 112 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:07,680 Speaker 3: He yes, we would send him pictures of our dogs 113 00:06:07,720 --> 00:06:10,040 Speaker 3: all the time. You're like, look, tell me how cute 114 00:06:10,040 --> 00:06:10,760 Speaker 3: you think my dog? 115 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:11,440 Speaker 1: Doesn't care? 116 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:13,200 Speaker 2: But he doesn't care. 117 00:06:13,560 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 1: He also would never like harm an animal or a 118 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:17,600 Speaker 1: small thing. 119 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:20,320 Speaker 2: Oh god, no, no, no, no, isn't that. 120 00:06:20,440 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 3: I feel like there was even a Christmas where like 121 00:06:22,920 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 3: he was hanging out with a dog that he liked 122 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:27,240 Speaker 3: and he sent us pictures because he was like, oh 123 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:29,039 Speaker 3: my god, I'm hanging out with this dog. 124 00:06:29,080 --> 00:06:30,800 Speaker 1: I found one. I found one that I like. 125 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, like I found one. Yeah, so I lay cold hearted. 126 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:40,440 Speaker 1: No he's not. Probably he's not going to listen to this. 127 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 1: It's fun you can talk about him. You know. I 128 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:48,239 Speaker 1: had a cat when I was in middle school who 129 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:51,920 Speaker 1: tragically was hit by a car. And he was like 130 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:54,200 Speaker 1: he was this little orange you know orange cats. They 131 00:06:54,200 --> 00:06:56,359 Speaker 1: make fun of orange cats. How they're like absolutely bonds. 132 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:59,320 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah are they? 133 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:02,960 Speaker 1: He was off the wall bananas. He was an indoor 134 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:07,599 Speaker 1: outdoor cat because for me my parents, my parents didn't 135 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:11,600 Speaker 1: have animals that stayed inside the house, like my dad 136 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 1: when he was growing up in Barangia, Like they had 137 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:16,800 Speaker 1: a dog that was like inside you know, yes, and 138 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:22,160 Speaker 1: like that was just a deal guy, like's ud. They eat, 139 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:24,720 Speaker 1: you know, breakfast and dinner and then that's it. Maybe 140 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:29,040 Speaker 1: they eat table scraps whatever. My mom fucking hated cats, 141 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:31,560 Speaker 1: like hated them. So when I came home, mom had 142 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 1: cats too. I don't know what it is, like, what 143 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:36,320 Speaker 1: is it is it? I don't know what is it? 144 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:38,000 Speaker 1: Like she's just scared of them. 145 00:07:38,320 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, my mom thinks they're dirty because they don't take 146 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:44,400 Speaker 3: baths technically, and they clean themselves. 147 00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 2: That's my mom's reasoning. 148 00:07:47,120 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 1: That's so funny. She's like, that's a filthy animal. 149 00:07:51,000 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 3: She's like, that's a filthy animal, and I don't want 150 00:07:53,520 --> 00:07:55,240 Speaker 3: to be anywhere near it. 151 00:07:56,080 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 1: Wait, speaking of how often did you give do you 152 00:07:59,240 --> 00:07:59,960 Speaker 1: give your dog? About? 153 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 2: Ye? Once a week? Dang, But David try good about it. 154 00:08:07,840 --> 00:08:08,640 Speaker 1: I really try. 155 00:08:08,760 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 2: Well, we have a big dog too. 156 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 1: Yeah. 157 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 2: Well, it's kind of like sometimes. 158 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 3: In winter will go a little longer because I don't 159 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:19,120 Speaker 3: know why. She it's kind of like as soon as 160 00:08:19,160 --> 00:08:21,640 Speaker 3: we smell the stink, do you know what I mean? 161 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 2: The dogs stink. 162 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, like you give them a bath, they smell really 163 00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 3: good like soap for a couple of days. Then they 164 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:31,760 Speaker 3: smell just like nothing or normal, and then there's like 165 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:34,680 Speaker 3: that little bit of like dander stink, like it starts 166 00:08:34,720 --> 00:08:36,760 Speaker 3: to come. As soon as we smell the stink. She 167 00:08:36,800 --> 00:08:40,319 Speaker 3: gets a bath. See, but that happens a little bit. 168 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:42,440 Speaker 3: It takes a little longer, I think in winter for 169 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:45,360 Speaker 3: the stink to come. So maybe it's like every ten. 170 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 2: Days or something. 171 00:08:45,920 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 1: In winter, Gouda's breath is so bad that like that's 172 00:08:48,679 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 1: all you can smell because he's a dogs in Chihuahua and. 173 00:08:52,400 --> 00:08:55,079 Speaker 2: Like they're just yeah little just in their breath. 174 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 1: Little dogs in their breath. Man, it is yeah, funky, 175 00:08:59,720 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 1: fun and dunk like so that's why you can really smile. 176 00:09:03,200 --> 00:09:07,160 Speaker 1: But like ros won't really. She has like a tentative 177 00:09:07,240 --> 00:09:10,640 Speaker 1: relationship with Gudha, but a lot of times is like 178 00:09:10,720 --> 00:09:13,199 Speaker 1: trying to like get up in her face and stuff. 179 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:17,200 Speaker 1: She's like, ew, no, good to your breath. Like, I 180 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:19,080 Speaker 1: think roz is gonna have a lot of memories of 181 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:24,960 Speaker 1: being like, oh, the dogs are gross. 182 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:29,120 Speaker 3: My bad, I should and this is so really little though, No, 183 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:31,320 Speaker 3: you could like she'll have a dog maybe when. 184 00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:32,559 Speaker 2: She's older, and it'll. 185 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 1: Maybe maybe, although like a child and a dog at 186 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:37,040 Speaker 1: the same time is a lot. 187 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:38,319 Speaker 2: It is a lot of things. 188 00:09:38,520 --> 00:09:41,559 Speaker 1: I think That's why I asked you, like how often 189 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 1: do you give Rosie her bath, because like we don't 190 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:49,840 Speaker 1: do that, Like, I mean, he probably gets a bath 191 00:09:49,880 --> 00:09:54,240 Speaker 1: every two weeks. Maybe you know. Brad will straight up 192 00:09:54,280 --> 00:09:55,760 Speaker 1: be like, oh, just like put him in the pool. 193 00:09:55,760 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't think that's the same. 194 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 2: It's not the same. No, it's works for kids, but 195 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:01,520 Speaker 2: not for them. 196 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:02,839 Speaker 1: That's not. 197 00:10:04,440 --> 00:10:06,160 Speaker 2: Then they just my like wet dirty dog. 198 00:10:06,240 --> 00:10:08,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, wet dirty dog. Also he doesn't like to swim. 199 00:10:10,280 --> 00:10:13,520 Speaker 1: I don't know. Some chihuahua's like, don't. Chihuas are lappy, 200 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 1: little lap dogs. I'm like, I know, hate on chihuahuas. 201 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:19,400 Speaker 1: But they're very, very loyal. They'll pick like one or 202 00:10:19,440 --> 00:10:21,600 Speaker 1: two people that they're obsessed with. Docsins are the same. 203 00:10:21,640 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 1: They'll pick like one or two people, and they're uber, 204 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 1: uber protective over those people. And I just think that 205 00:10:26,160 --> 00:10:31,440 Speaker 1: that's so sweet. You know. It's like Guda and Banjo, 206 00:10:31,559 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 1: my first dog. He was, Oh my god, Banjo was 207 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:37,440 Speaker 1: like Banjo was my familiar. Like he was not a 208 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:41,719 Speaker 1: real like dog. He was like a different alien species. 209 00:10:41,800 --> 00:10:46,400 Speaker 1: He looked like Steve BUCHEMI he did, yeah, And he 210 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:48,560 Speaker 1: was an old old man when I adopted him. He 211 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:52,200 Speaker 1: was like twelve already, and he would sit in my 212 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 1: lap in the makeup trailer. He didn't have a problem 213 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 1: with anybody. Remember you could. I could put him in 214 00:10:56,800 --> 00:10:59,240 Speaker 1: a sort of travel bag and like go out to 215 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:01,439 Speaker 1: dinner with him, put him under the table and nobody 216 00:11:01,440 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 1: would notice him because he wouldn't make a friggin sound. 217 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:07,120 Speaker 1: He was the best, and I think he spoiled me 218 00:11:07,160 --> 00:11:12,600 Speaker 1: a little also because he was so well behaved when 219 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:16,240 Speaker 1: I was around that he just like I just didn't 220 00:11:16,280 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 1: know that you had to train up a dog, like 221 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:21,080 Speaker 1: I didn't know. I didn't know. And then Guda came 222 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:23,320 Speaker 1: and I was like, oh that you're not the same. 223 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:27,720 Speaker 1: Oh what's happening? Yeah, everybody, what do I do? You know? 224 00:11:28,559 --> 00:11:29,920 Speaker 1: And now it's kind of too wet. Do you think 225 00:11:29,920 --> 00:11:32,800 Speaker 1: it's ever too late to train a dog? No? 226 00:11:33,320 --> 00:11:36,440 Speaker 3: I trained Bella a little late because I got Bella 227 00:11:36,600 --> 00:11:37,199 Speaker 3: I was young. 228 00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:39,400 Speaker 2: She was my first dog. I got her as a puppy. 229 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:47,320 Speaker 3: She was so wild and I like basic things, but 230 00:11:47,440 --> 00:11:50,280 Speaker 3: like oh my, but also that dog was so smart, 231 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 3: like how you're talking about Banjo like Bella was. You know, 232 00:11:55,520 --> 00:11:58,600 Speaker 3: some people think that you have like a soul pet, 233 00:11:58,920 --> 00:12:02,480 Speaker 3: like one or two lifetime like Bella definitely was for me. 234 00:12:03,320 --> 00:12:04,160 Speaker 2: She was so smart. 235 00:12:04,200 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 3: Potty training her was hard because like she knew what 236 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 3: to do. She'd wait till you turned around, and she'd 237 00:12:09,320 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 3: like poop in a room that you never go into, 238 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:14,360 Speaker 3: and then like you find it and I'd be like, 239 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 3: I've just freaking walked you, Like it felt like a 240 00:12:18,200 --> 00:12:21,520 Speaker 3: trying to outsmart a puppy in terms of like potty training, 241 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:23,719 Speaker 3: not always like catching her when she had to go, 242 00:12:23,920 --> 00:12:24,640 Speaker 3: and I'd be like. 243 00:12:24,679 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 2: Dog is messing with my mind, Like what is happening? 244 00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:32,280 Speaker 1: But I got her for New York, right, I had 245 00:12:32,280 --> 00:12:36,160 Speaker 1: her in New York and it wasn't I really didn't 246 00:12:36,160 --> 00:12:41,880 Speaker 1: start training her till I mean till she was out 247 00:12:41,880 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 1: of puppy miss, Like she was already like two or three. 248 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:48,840 Speaker 2: And I got really into Caesar Milan and I wrote 249 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:50,839 Speaker 2: his book if I watched his show. 250 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 1: Caesar Milan. 251 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:57,720 Speaker 3: But that shit worked, and then I got really intense 252 00:12:57,720 --> 00:12:59,439 Speaker 3: about training her because she used to like she was 253 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:01,600 Speaker 3: a big dog and she would like jump on people 254 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:05,480 Speaker 3: when they came over, and like she like knocked down 255 00:13:05,559 --> 00:13:08,360 Speaker 3: this one guy who was like over six feet tall, 256 00:13:08,559 --> 00:13:10,880 Speaker 3: and like he broke a tooth and I was like, 257 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:14,200 Speaker 3: oh my god. I was like and she didn't meet 258 00:13:14,280 --> 00:13:17,120 Speaker 3: She was just like joyful, but like didn't know that 259 00:13:17,240 --> 00:13:20,199 Speaker 3: she was like one hundred and twenty pounds yeah, and 260 00:13:20,320 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 3: she could hurt someone. 261 00:13:21,600 --> 00:13:23,720 Speaker 2: And then she like pulled on the leash and like 262 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:24,760 Speaker 2: she was really strong. 263 00:13:24,920 --> 00:13:27,400 Speaker 3: So she might have even been older because there were 264 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:29,280 Speaker 3: a couple my mom got hurt too. 265 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:32,079 Speaker 2: Once walking her Wow because she saw. 266 00:13:32,080 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 1: She pulled her so hard or something. 267 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:36,160 Speaker 3: She pulled her so hard because she saw a squirrel 268 00:13:36,480 --> 00:13:39,040 Speaker 3: and she pulled her so hard, and my mom had 269 00:13:39,080 --> 00:13:42,320 Speaker 3: like like it was it was bad. We felt really bad. 270 00:13:42,480 --> 00:13:46,560 Speaker 3: And then my mom and my parents were not dog 271 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 3: people ever. Yeah, mine were like I wanted a dog 272 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:49,920 Speaker 3: growing up. 273 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:51,800 Speaker 2: I would beg them, beg them, beg them. 274 00:13:52,200 --> 00:13:55,559 Speaker 3: Neighbors on both sides of my parents' house and you 275 00:13:55,600 --> 00:13:57,959 Speaker 3: know there's like a chain link fence between the yards. 276 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:00,600 Speaker 3: They both had dogs. One was yappy, one was a 277 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:04,560 Speaker 3: sweet Great Dane that he used to sit next to 278 00:14:04,600 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 3: the fence and he would come over to the fence 279 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:08,560 Speaker 3: and like lay down and let me pet him through 280 00:14:08,559 --> 00:14:11,360 Speaker 3: the fence and lick my fingers and he was and 281 00:14:11,400 --> 00:14:13,680 Speaker 3: I would sit there and talk to him and he 282 00:14:13,800 --> 00:14:16,320 Speaker 3: was so I think that's why maybe I love big 283 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:21,200 Speaker 3: dogs too, like my first like connective experience with the dog. 284 00:14:21,800 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 3: And but they never let us get dogs, and so 285 00:14:23,840 --> 00:14:25,640 Speaker 3: they when we got Bella, they were. 286 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:27,800 Speaker 2: Like, oh, why are you getting dog? Da cut to. 287 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:32,480 Speaker 3: My dad's like giving her food off the table. They 288 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 3: like love her so much. She's so smart, so she 289 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:39,080 Speaker 3: like listens to my mom's rules in the house, Like 290 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:41,160 Speaker 3: she gets on our couch, she won't get on my 291 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:44,080 Speaker 3: mom's couch. Yeah, and my mom is like so impressed 292 00:14:44,120 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 3: with this, but she does make my mom fall. My 293 00:14:47,240 --> 00:14:50,240 Speaker 3: mom gets hurt, like like black eye hurt. 294 00:14:50,760 --> 00:14:55,480 Speaker 1: Oh my an, I know, And oh my god. 295 00:14:56,360 --> 00:14:58,840 Speaker 3: After my mom made us feel real bad about it, 296 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 3: then she and this is so my mom. Then she 297 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:07,240 Speaker 3: told after we were like feeling horrible and like apologizing profusely. 298 00:15:07,960 --> 00:15:09,800 Speaker 3: But then she told us that when she got back 299 00:15:09,800 --> 00:15:12,760 Speaker 3: to the house and she was like upset and like 300 00:15:12,840 --> 00:15:15,360 Speaker 3: she grabbed some like frozen peace and she sat in 301 00:15:15,400 --> 00:15:17,680 Speaker 3: the chair and with the frozen peas in her eye, 302 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:19,280 Speaker 3: and she was like, oh my god, I can't believe 303 00:15:19,320 --> 00:15:19,840 Speaker 3: this just happened. 304 00:15:19,840 --> 00:15:21,960 Speaker 2: And she said Bella came over and put her head 305 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:24,440 Speaker 2: on her lap, and she goes, that dog did not 306 00:15:24,600 --> 00:15:26,760 Speaker 2: move until I was ready to get up from the chair. 307 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:27,920 Speaker 1: Oh my god, she was. 308 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:30,200 Speaker 3: That dog just sat there with her big head in 309 00:15:30,280 --> 00:15:32,840 Speaker 3: my lap, looking up at me like I'm so sorry, 310 00:15:33,600 --> 00:15:34,920 Speaker 3: and she just stayed there. 311 00:15:35,080 --> 00:15:55,760 Speaker 5: They're so sweet, so sweet. 312 00:15:47,320 --> 00:15:49,600 Speaker 1: They're so they can be so sweet. 313 00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:51,080 Speaker 2: They can be so. 314 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:53,400 Speaker 1: Sweet animals if you really give them a lot of love. 315 00:15:53,680 --> 00:15:55,960 Speaker 1: Obviously they're going to make mistakes, like they're not. They're 316 00:15:55,960 --> 00:15:57,840 Speaker 1: like kids in that way, like they have to You 317 00:15:57,880 --> 00:15:59,320 Speaker 1: have to train up a dog, You have to train 318 00:15:59,400 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 1: up a kid. 319 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:02,080 Speaker 2: Like got a train up but yeah, you got train 320 00:16:02,120 --> 00:16:02,480 Speaker 2: up a kid. 321 00:16:02,480 --> 00:16:05,600 Speaker 1: You got training dogs, you really do. You can't train 322 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:09,360 Speaker 1: cats that much. Although my friend Katie owns she's been 323 00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:10,880 Speaker 1: a cat owner for a really long time and like 324 00:16:10,960 --> 00:16:15,160 Speaker 1: has had multiple cats, and she can train them. She's 325 00:16:15,200 --> 00:16:19,120 Speaker 1: trained them to like do tricks and stuff like that. 326 00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:21,840 Speaker 1: Her cats really listen to her. But like it can 327 00:16:21,840 --> 00:16:22,200 Speaker 1: be harder. 328 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:24,560 Speaker 3: Really hoping you're going to say, to pee in the toilet, 329 00:16:24,960 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 3: because I think that's the only way I could have 330 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:27,440 Speaker 3: a cat. 331 00:16:27,680 --> 00:16:30,000 Speaker 2: I had one of those cats that peede in the toilet. 332 00:16:30,240 --> 00:16:32,360 Speaker 1: I was able to get my cat when I was 333 00:16:32,360 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 1: in junior high. I was able to get him to 334 00:16:34,600 --> 00:16:36,560 Speaker 1: pee in the toilet a couple of times. Like I 335 00:16:36,720 --> 00:16:39,280 Speaker 1: was really because I got I had him. I think 336 00:16:39,320 --> 00:16:41,120 Speaker 1: I got him over summer break and so I had 337 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 1: a lot of time and I was like, I'm gonna 338 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:44,240 Speaker 1: I'm going to be one of those people that has 339 00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:46,000 Speaker 1: a cat that piece in toilet, And for a little 340 00:16:46,040 --> 00:16:48,480 Speaker 1: while he did, but then we would have to leave 341 00:16:48,520 --> 00:16:51,680 Speaker 1: the toilet seat down because my mom was really like 342 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:55,880 Speaker 1: about that, like leave it down, and you can't do that. 343 00:16:56,200 --> 00:16:58,360 Speaker 1: You have to leave it up for them because you 344 00:16:58,360 --> 00:17:01,000 Speaker 1: have to leave I don't have opposable thumbs. They got 345 00:17:01,080 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 1: they might were right. 346 00:17:02,280 --> 00:17:04,359 Speaker 3: I mean we can't ask that much of them, Like 347 00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:07,600 Speaker 3: we're already in the toilet, we ask them to like 348 00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:09,520 Speaker 3: take care of the seat, put it up and down, 349 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:10,720 Speaker 3: Like that's just too much. 350 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like I feel like for me. 351 00:17:16,200 --> 00:17:18,600 Speaker 1: Somebody asked me this yesterday. Actually they were like, what 352 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:20,919 Speaker 1: was who was the person that helped you learn how 353 00:17:20,920 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 1: to become a mother? And I was like that was 354 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:26,120 Speaker 1: a weird answer. But my dog, like my dog, Yeah, one, 355 00:17:27,040 --> 00:17:30,720 Speaker 1: Banjo was the one, like, especially when he was sick 356 00:17:30,760 --> 00:17:34,280 Speaker 1: at the end, when he was dying, it was like, oh, oh, oh, 357 00:17:34,560 --> 00:17:37,919 Speaker 1: you really are good at taking care of something that 358 00:17:38,000 --> 00:17:40,639 Speaker 1: completely and totally depends on you, Like you can be 359 00:17:40,720 --> 00:17:43,480 Speaker 1: responsible for that in your life. You've never had that before. 360 00:17:43,680 --> 00:17:46,240 Speaker 1: Here it is, it's in your hands and you're doing it. 361 00:17:46,320 --> 00:17:53,360 Speaker 1: You're like capable of it. Yeah. My dad also loved Banjo. 362 00:17:54,119 --> 00:18:00,120 Speaker 1: Loved Banjo loved like was confused as to why I 363 00:18:00,160 --> 00:18:02,880 Speaker 1: got an old dog because he was like, it's gonna 364 00:18:02,880 --> 00:18:07,159 Speaker 1: be expensive, it's gonna get sick, whatever. And then you know, 365 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:10,919 Speaker 1: I'd bring Band home for all of the holidays that 366 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:13,040 Speaker 1: I could, and my Dad would like sit there with 367 00:18:13,040 --> 00:18:16,280 Speaker 1: Banjo in his arms, like you know, with his coffee up. Yeah, 368 00:18:16,320 --> 00:18:18,520 Speaker 1: Like we would all sit around, be talking after dinner 369 00:18:18,560 --> 00:18:20,040 Speaker 1: and stuff, and my dad would have his coffee and 370 00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:21,720 Speaker 1: like be sitting there with Banjo in his arms. Band 371 00:18:21,800 --> 00:18:24,120 Speaker 1: would just be falling asleep in my dad's arms. Which 372 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 1: is also when my dad was like devastated when Gooda 373 00:18:28,080 --> 00:18:33,160 Speaker 1: didn't like him, Like he was so devastated, he would 374 00:18:33,240 --> 00:18:35,119 Speaker 1: like walk across the room and God would just be 375 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:37,720 Speaker 1: like mad, like crazy. 376 00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 2: Now who to keep? 377 00:18:40,920 --> 00:18:44,280 Speaker 1: Would like probably would be fine, Like he loves my 378 00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:46,520 Speaker 1: mom because she walks him a lot, but. 379 00:18:46,880 --> 00:18:48,040 Speaker 2: He hated my dad. 380 00:18:48,240 --> 00:18:49,160 Speaker 1: Hated my dad. 381 00:18:50,320 --> 00:18:52,520 Speaker 2: Oh good, I know, sad. 382 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 3: I keep warning my my parents haven't met our new 383 00:18:55,560 --> 00:18:58,919 Speaker 3: dog Rosie yet. And they loved you know, Bella, like 384 00:18:58,920 --> 00:19:01,680 Speaker 3: Bello left behind like such a big legacy, like all 385 00:19:01,680 --> 00:19:03,880 Speaker 3: the people in our lives like loved Fellas so much 386 00:19:05,480 --> 00:19:07,439 Speaker 3: because she just had so much personality and like I 387 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:11,119 Speaker 3: said she was really smart our dog. Now Rosie is 388 00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:15,600 Speaker 3: so sweet, not so smart. 389 00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:23,400 Speaker 1: She is a lovable, adorable baby. She's a baby still though, 390 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:27,320 Speaker 1: right isn't she like two or three? 391 00:19:27,960 --> 00:19:31,720 Speaker 2: She's she's gonna be three in January. She's like a baby. 392 00:19:32,800 --> 00:19:36,880 Speaker 1: She's a baby. She's not street smart like she. I mean, 393 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:39,159 Speaker 1: I know, Puppy's not in New York City, you know 394 00:19:39,200 --> 00:19:39,640 Speaker 1: what I mean. 395 00:19:39,800 --> 00:19:41,320 Speaker 2: Like she's baby boddled. 396 00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 1: She's got like a yard, you know what I mean. Yeah, 397 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:51,919 Speaker 1: I know, but homegirl still chases her tail like home girls. 398 00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:54,959 Speaker 1: I know. Guda's not so smart either. Sometimes I'm like, oh, 399 00:19:55,119 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 1: buddy kind of looks at you, yeah, and there's like 400 00:19:58,080 --> 00:20:00,639 Speaker 1: like the look is different, Whereas like I felt like 401 00:20:00,640 --> 00:20:02,880 Speaker 1: Bella would look at me and like really be trying 402 00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:05,359 Speaker 1: to communicate that yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah totally. And 403 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:15,359 Speaker 1: Rosie's just like there's no that's her theme song, like yeah, 404 00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:19,080 Speaker 1: Kuda we used to sing. We don't sing it anymore 405 00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:20,760 Speaker 1: because we don't want Ross to pick it up. But 406 00:20:20,840 --> 00:20:24,200 Speaker 1: like Guda would come and sit like right by you, 407 00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:26,440 Speaker 1: like when you were eating. He'd just be like right 408 00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:30,240 Speaker 1: up in your ship. So I started saying, Guda, get out, 409 00:20:30,240 --> 00:20:33,520 Speaker 1: of here. Nobody wants here. Gouda, get out of here. 410 00:20:33,640 --> 00:20:36,280 Speaker 1: Nobody wants you here. But I can to stop because 411 00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:39,320 Speaker 1: like I don't, ros will start singing that. It's very catchy. 412 00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:41,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it's very catchy. 413 00:20:41,440 --> 00:20:43,120 Speaker 1: It's very catchy. 414 00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:45,560 Speaker 2: She swaps out the name at school. 415 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:52,600 Speaker 1: Oh no, my god, ship man. Yeah, it'd be like 416 00:20:52,640 --> 00:20:55,320 Speaker 1: that with kids, Like it'd be like that with kids. 417 00:20:55,359 --> 00:20:55,600 Speaker 2: That's what. 418 00:20:57,119 --> 00:20:58,040 Speaker 1: You gotta watch your mouth. 419 00:20:58,040 --> 00:20:59,399 Speaker 2: You gotta watch your mouth. 420 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:05,080 Speaker 1: I've I like when you know, Bella and band died 421 00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:07,600 Speaker 1: right around the same time, didn't they like maybe six 422 00:21:07,640 --> 00:21:10,120 Speaker 1: months apart or something. Yeah, it was. 423 00:21:10,200 --> 00:21:13,080 Speaker 2: It was very close. Yeah, yeah, I think in the 424 00:21:13,119 --> 00:21:13,680 Speaker 2: same year. 425 00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:19,280 Speaker 3: That was hard, and that was hard. That's hard, morning 426 00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:23,040 Speaker 3: a pet. Yeah, let's talk about getting better at that because. 427 00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:26,080 Speaker 1: I don't know, I mean, there is no way. 428 00:21:26,280 --> 00:21:27,639 Speaker 2: Yeah, grief is just grief. 429 00:21:28,720 --> 00:21:32,879 Speaker 3: But I we were actually out of town when Bella 430 00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:33,639 Speaker 3: passed away. 431 00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:35,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, I remember. 432 00:21:36,119 --> 00:21:36,560 Speaker 2: Yeah. 433 00:21:36,600 --> 00:21:39,199 Speaker 3: What we think happened was like she had she there 434 00:21:39,240 --> 00:21:41,040 Speaker 3: was a tumor that we kind of knew about, but 435 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:42,720 Speaker 3: the doctor was like, and we were going to take 436 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:46,080 Speaker 3: it out. It was like Thanksgiving or something. We're planning 437 00:21:46,080 --> 00:21:47,919 Speaker 3: to take it out right after the holidays, and the 438 00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 3: doctor was like, I don't think it's like an emergency, 439 00:21:51,400 --> 00:21:52,399 Speaker 3: but we should take it out. 440 00:21:52,280 --> 00:21:55,280 Speaker 2: Sooner than later. It was kind of like the general diagnosis. 441 00:21:55,480 --> 00:21:55,680 Speaker 1: Yeah. 442 00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:59,720 Speaker 3: Then I think the tumor exploded because it was like 443 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:06,920 Speaker 3: very like went from okay to really not okay within hours. 444 00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:08,680 Speaker 1: Oh my god. 445 00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:11,879 Speaker 2: And our friend was watching her and her friend was 446 00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:13,919 Speaker 2: very close to her, and it was just horrible. So 447 00:22:13,960 --> 00:22:17,200 Speaker 2: it was like on top of the morning. 448 00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:21,280 Speaker 3: Of my pet, even though I knew she was nine, 449 00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:24,080 Speaker 3: and like I knew it was going to be happening 450 00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:29,600 Speaker 3: at some point in that year, just because like mastiffs, 451 00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:32,240 Speaker 3: it's like ten years, it's like such a timestamp. 452 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:32,880 Speaker 2: It's like ninety. 453 00:22:32,960 --> 00:22:35,520 Speaker 3: Oh, Like isn't there an like if you meet as 454 00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:39,960 Speaker 3: past the age of ten, it's like a miracle. Yeah, 455 00:22:40,560 --> 00:22:43,200 Speaker 3: David's families had a lot of Mastiffs. They've all died 456 00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:48,119 Speaker 3: at like nine or ten, and so it just still 457 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:48,920 Speaker 3: was so shocking. 458 00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:50,680 Speaker 2: And then I think the thing that was like. 459 00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:53,800 Speaker 3: The hardest was that it wasn't there, you know, and 460 00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:58,639 Speaker 3: like that was almost as painful, if not more painful. 461 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:01,440 Speaker 2: Oh my god, I can feel like emotional right now 462 00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:02,199 Speaker 2: just talking about it. 463 00:23:02,280 --> 00:23:02,560 Speaker 1: Still. 464 00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:06,440 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I just wasn't there that I just really 465 00:23:06,520 --> 00:23:10,520 Speaker 3: really wanted to be there. 466 00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:13,560 Speaker 2: In that moment with her, and that was a hard 467 00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 2: thing to get over. It was hard. 468 00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:16,600 Speaker 1: That's really hard. 469 00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:18,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's really hard. 470 00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:20,800 Speaker 3: It's like it's just and it's like that saying like 471 00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:25,320 Speaker 3: you're they're such a short lip in your life, but 472 00:23:25,600 --> 00:23:31,800 Speaker 3: you're their whole life, Like yeah, it's it's so true, 473 00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:32,359 Speaker 3: and it's so. 474 00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:37,600 Speaker 2: And then you have to get used to not having them. 475 00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:42,160 Speaker 3: And I used to like hear phantom like her pause, 476 00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:44,680 Speaker 3: like what it sounded like when she'd walk down the 477 00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:45,560 Speaker 3: hall and her paws. 478 00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:46,399 Speaker 2: Would hit the wood floor. 479 00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:53,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, heard like phantom of that, like for many months. Yeah, 480 00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:58,120 Speaker 3: but we we got her ashes and we spread them 481 00:23:58,160 --> 00:24:00,879 Speaker 3: in her I don't you know if I should say it, 482 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:03,040 Speaker 3: because it's secondly against living. 483 00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:07,120 Speaker 1: You spread them, that's enough, that's enough. 484 00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:12,040 Speaker 2: You can always spread them somewhere. So yeah, yes, it's 485 00:24:12,080 --> 00:24:13,720 Speaker 2: a public land place. 486 00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:16,479 Speaker 1: He went into a pet co and just sprinkle them 487 00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:17,560 Speaker 1: in the corners. 488 00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:21,680 Speaker 3: And then we stay and then we got like there 489 00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:25,080 Speaker 3: was this little vial that we have some of them too, 490 00:24:25,320 --> 00:24:29,000 Speaker 3: that's like hanging on a cross like in our hallway. Yea, 491 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:32,280 Speaker 3: and yeah, and We have a beautiful picture too of 492 00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:35,440 Speaker 3: when we did her ashes that my friend Dave Johnson, 493 00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:37,960 Speaker 3: who's a great ghetographer, took of us like a black 494 00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:39,040 Speaker 3: and white photo. 495 00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:42,840 Speaker 2: And so we have that. Yeah, And it's funny my 496 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:45,440 Speaker 2: kids talk about her too, because we have really many 497 00:24:45,480 --> 00:24:46,360 Speaker 2: Bellows stories. 498 00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:47,000 Speaker 4: Yeah. 499 00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:53,119 Speaker 3: And I used to say too that when Enzo was born, 500 00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:56,000 Speaker 3: Enzo was not scared of any dogs. When he was 501 00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:58,240 Speaker 3: a little toddler, he would go up to the biggest 502 00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:02,000 Speaker 3: dog in the park and you know, and I taught 503 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:03,800 Speaker 3: and I would always you know, you got to be 504 00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:05,960 Speaker 3: like safe, you got to like pass the owners and 505 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:08,000 Speaker 3: teach your kids how to like approach a dog. And 506 00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:10,800 Speaker 3: I did, which he picked up very quickly. And people 507 00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:12,160 Speaker 3: used to always be like, oh, do you have a dog, 508 00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:14,480 Speaker 3: And they'd be like no, and they'd be like, wow, 509 00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:17,639 Speaker 3: he's like so comfortable around our big dog, like we 510 00:25:17,840 --> 00:25:20,280 Speaker 3: just assumed you had a dog. And so I used 511 00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:22,800 Speaker 3: to say, like, I bet Ella, this visits him and 512 00:25:22,840 --> 00:25:26,840 Speaker 3: his dreams or something, that's why he's always Yeah, And 513 00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:31,600 Speaker 3: now he and Rosy are like just so cute together. 514 00:25:31,960 --> 00:25:34,359 Speaker 3: But she treats him like another puppy in the house. 515 00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:45,480 Speaker 1: That's really sweet. 516 00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:48,960 Speaker 2: How was it for you when it's hard. 517 00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:51,400 Speaker 1: Well, I mean my experience was so different than yours, 518 00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:55,480 Speaker 1: you know, like yours was so abrupt. I mean, yes, 519 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:58,680 Speaker 1: you knew, like you said, you knew like okay, there's 520 00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:04,880 Speaker 1: a you know, not an expiration date, but like yeah, traditionally, 521 00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:05,240 Speaker 1: like I. 522 00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:07,280 Speaker 2: Knew the time was coming at some point. 523 00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:09,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, some breeds just don't live as long as others. 524 00:26:09,880 --> 00:26:11,600 Speaker 1: And that's something I think that you got to think 525 00:26:11,640 --> 00:26:13,800 Speaker 1: about when you're becoming a dog owner, right like this, 526 00:26:13,960 --> 00:26:21,000 Speaker 1: that's something that like I definitely, I definitely knew that. 527 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:23,719 Speaker 1: That was part of why I wanted to adopt Banjo, 528 00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:27,320 Speaker 1: because it felt like somebody didn't realize how much work 529 00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:29,959 Speaker 1: it was going to be with him, you know, and 530 00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:31,359 Speaker 1: it was like, oh, I don't want to have to 531 00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:32,760 Speaker 1: pay for this, so I'm going to dump them at 532 00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:35,640 Speaker 1: a shelter, which, like listen, trying not to judge, because 533 00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:38,080 Speaker 1: sometimes you just don't have enough money to take care 534 00:26:38,160 --> 00:26:42,040 Speaker 1: of your animal, you know, and that's a horrible day. 535 00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:46,199 Speaker 1: Or yeah, that is a really horrible position to be in, 536 00:26:46,240 --> 00:26:49,240 Speaker 1: and I don't judge anyone for that. But what I 537 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:53,400 Speaker 1: think I do think about is like when I think 538 00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:56,040 Speaker 1: when I thought about adopting a dog. I was like, well, 539 00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:58,680 Speaker 1: I could get a puppy, and then I could then 540 00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:00,720 Speaker 1: I could like have you know, all this time with 541 00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:02,880 Speaker 1: this puppy and I'd get, you know, his whole life 542 00:27:02,960 --> 00:27:06,119 Speaker 1: with me. And then I was also like, well, dang, 543 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:08,720 Speaker 1: like there's this old dog at the shelter that nobody 544 00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:13,640 Speaker 1: wants that you know, I don't take him, Like look 545 00:27:13,680 --> 00:27:15,520 Speaker 1: at him. He's just like here in this shelter, like 546 00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:17,959 Speaker 1: he's not built to be in this shelter, and like 547 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:19,920 Speaker 1: I have enough money, like I have a good job. 548 00:27:20,000 --> 00:27:21,600 Speaker 1: That that was when we were on Brooklyn. So I 549 00:27:21,640 --> 00:27:23,680 Speaker 1: was like, yeah, I could take him home and like 550 00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:26,080 Speaker 1: if something's wrong with him, I could probably help him 551 00:27:26,160 --> 00:27:29,520 Speaker 1: have a pretty good life. And like I did, you know, like. 552 00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:31,200 Speaker 2: I you so did. 553 00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:33,800 Speaker 3: I remember helped him out of my just thinking like, 554 00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:36,880 Speaker 3: oh my god, what a generous and beautiful thing to do. 555 00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:41,600 Speaker 1: He was so crookedy, remember his crooked ass front legs 556 00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:44,639 Speaker 1: and like his eyes that were like like one in 557 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:48,359 Speaker 1: each direction, and he was just so sweet and not 558 00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:50,560 Speaker 1: you know, like he can jump on my bed. So 559 00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:53,800 Speaker 1: like when Brad and I met, I still had I 560 00:27:53,800 --> 00:27:55,399 Speaker 1: think I didn't have a bed frame yet because I 561 00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:57,080 Speaker 1: was like, I'm cool with my mattress on the ground 562 00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:58,840 Speaker 1: because like then Bang can get in the bed. And 563 00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:01,680 Speaker 1: Brad and I met and he was like, so, how 564 00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:04,719 Speaker 1: long have you been in this apartment? You know, Like 565 00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:07,280 Speaker 1: I think that was actually when I had moved and 566 00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:08,800 Speaker 1: he was like, haven't you been here for a while? 567 00:28:08,800 --> 00:28:13,840 Speaker 1: And I was like yeah, but yeah. When when Bantots sick, 568 00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:17,400 Speaker 1: it was like it was hard because then you also 569 00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:19,359 Speaker 1: have to make all these decisions. Like that's something that 570 00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:25,000 Speaker 1: I think I got better more better at when he 571 00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:27,879 Speaker 1: was sick, was like, what are the decisions that I 572 00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:28,680 Speaker 1: have to make here? 573 00:28:28,840 --> 00:28:28,959 Speaker 2: Like? 574 00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:32,639 Speaker 1: Am I making some of these decisions just because I 575 00:28:32,680 --> 00:28:34,800 Speaker 1: want to spend more time with them? Because I think 576 00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:37,520 Speaker 1: that happens too. Like I think people like keep their 577 00:28:37,680 --> 00:28:41,479 Speaker 1: pets and animals alive past the time where maybe they 578 00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:44,680 Speaker 1: should let them go because they love them so much. 579 00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:48,600 Speaker 1: And dogs and cats especially, but I think a lot 580 00:28:48,640 --> 00:28:52,160 Speaker 1: of different kinds of animals don't say when they're in pain. 581 00:28:52,200 --> 00:28:54,520 Speaker 1: They don't tell you as all the time. You know, 582 00:28:54,600 --> 00:28:58,120 Speaker 1: cats are really good at hiding pain. Dogs are pretty 583 00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:01,560 Speaker 1: chill about, like you know, knuckling down and dealing with it. 584 00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:05,280 Speaker 1: Until it's like impossible to deal with anymore, you know. 585 00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:08,160 Speaker 1: I remember Vanja. I was like totally fine, totally fine, 586 00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:11,080 Speaker 1: totally fine, and then stopped being able to walk and 587 00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:13,520 Speaker 1: I was like, what the hell, Like what's wrong with him? 588 00:29:13,520 --> 00:29:15,560 Speaker 1: Why isn't he coming? Like and I had to like 589 00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:17,600 Speaker 1: pull him home and then I was like I better 590 00:29:17,640 --> 00:29:20,640 Speaker 1: just carry him. And that was when we found out like, oh, 591 00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:23,120 Speaker 1: he's really sick. He's dying, like his kidneys are failing. 592 00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:25,360 Speaker 1: And I was like, wow, what do you mean it's 593 00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:28,240 Speaker 1: kidneys are failing. What does that mean? And they were like, well, 594 00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:30,120 Speaker 1: that means he has a limited amount of time and 595 00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:33,640 Speaker 1: you know, without fluids every day he will like quickly 596 00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:35,320 Speaker 1: go And I was like, okay, so how do I 597 00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:38,920 Speaker 1: learn how to do fluids every day? I was, right, sir, 598 00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:40,600 Speaker 1: right up giving him fluids every day. 599 00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:41,640 Speaker 2: It was crazy. 600 00:29:41,760 --> 00:29:44,880 Speaker 1: It was crazy, but it was also like so fun. 601 00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:47,400 Speaker 1: It was, you know, he was the most fun at 602 00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:49,680 Speaker 1: the end, Like I took him to do you know 603 00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:53,800 Speaker 1: who Jess? I think her last name is Rona. That 604 00:29:54,480 --> 00:29:56,160 Speaker 1: la dob Grumer. That was like one of the first 605 00:29:56,200 --> 00:29:59,520 Speaker 1: ones that was like dying hair and stuff. Oh no, 606 00:29:59,560 --> 00:30:02,600 Speaker 1: I don't think she had this Instagram and now subsequently 607 00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:07,080 Speaker 1: has a TikTok. She grooms like people's dogs and makes 608 00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:10,320 Speaker 1: them adorable and super cute, and for a while she 609 00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:11,960 Speaker 1: was like doing I think she still does it, like 610 00:30:12,040 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 1: dying their fur, like just their tails are like the 611 00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:19,600 Speaker 1: tips of their ears with like doggie hair dye. And 612 00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:21,760 Speaker 1: I think band went to her twice because it was 613 00:30:21,920 --> 00:30:23,920 Speaker 1: very hard to get in. It was very exclusive. But 614 00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:28,360 Speaker 1: I knew somebody very exclusive, and he went and he 615 00:30:28,440 --> 00:30:32,400 Speaker 1: got his little tail dyed blue, and he looked so handsome. 616 00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:34,560 Speaker 2: You could tell he was like really proud for do 617 00:30:34,640 --> 00:30:35,120 Speaker 2: you remember that? 618 00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:36,920 Speaker 1: He was like so proud of himself. 619 00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:39,040 Speaker 2: He had a little extra pep and he had a 620 00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:39,920 Speaker 2: little swash. 621 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:43,480 Speaker 1: I was like baby boo. But that was the first 622 00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:45,760 Speaker 1: and last time that. I mean, I did spend quite 623 00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:47,760 Speaker 1: a bit of money on his little carrying case because 624 00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:50,600 Speaker 1: I always had it with me, and that was, Yeah, 625 00:30:51,480 --> 00:30:53,479 Speaker 1: I went fancy on that. But I'm also not one 626 00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:56,120 Speaker 1: of those people. It's like, you know, I don't have 627 00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:59,840 Speaker 1: like outfits if you are, Yeah, I'm not. I'm not. 628 00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:02,720 Speaker 1: Although do you remember do you remember Rachel? Do you 629 00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:08,240 Speaker 1: remember Rachel on Wardrobe in on Brooklyn? Yes, so she 630 00:31:08,680 --> 00:31:11,400 Speaker 1: took her dog to a pet psychic and the psychic 631 00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:15,360 Speaker 1: told her. The psychic told her that her dog really 632 00:31:15,400 --> 00:31:18,200 Speaker 1: liked to dress up, and her dog was really sad 633 00:31:18,280 --> 00:31:21,080 Speaker 1: that she didn't get little outfits every day. So Rachel 634 00:31:21,160 --> 00:31:23,600 Speaker 1: was like, okay, so she started buying her outfits and 635 00:31:23,640 --> 00:31:26,000 Speaker 1: the dog, she said, was like it was like night 636 00:31:26,040 --> 00:31:29,160 Speaker 1: and day, like the dog would like tea out of 637 00:31:29,160 --> 00:31:32,400 Speaker 1: the house and her little outfits and stuff like didn't 638 00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:34,240 Speaker 1: want to wear the same outfit two days in a row. 639 00:31:34,600 --> 00:31:37,800 Speaker 1: Was like very all about her little outfit. What isn't 640 00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:38,400 Speaker 1: that cute? 641 00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:42,040 Speaker 2: That is cute? It's really pet psychic. 642 00:31:42,480 --> 00:31:47,000 Speaker 1: No, I don't think. I don't I I'm not sure. 643 00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:49,680 Speaker 2: I like Rosie will be like calling me dumb. 644 00:31:50,080 --> 00:31:53,840 Speaker 1: Oh my god. I feel like I feel like pets 645 00:31:53,880 --> 00:31:57,160 Speaker 1: are a really vulnerable place. I mean, like we both 646 00:31:57,160 --> 00:32:01,200 Speaker 1: talked about our animals and like we're still emotional about them, 647 00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 1: you know, pets are so there's such a vulnerable place 648 00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:08,440 Speaker 1: for us as human beings that like I just feel 649 00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:10,560 Speaker 1: like there's like I would have to get like a 650 00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:14,720 Speaker 1: super super good wreck because I feel like that's a 651 00:32:14,840 --> 00:32:18,000 Speaker 1: territory where there's like a lot of like scammers, you 652 00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:18,720 Speaker 1: know what I mean. 653 00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:21,960 Speaker 2: Like yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, you know, like. 654 00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:24,080 Speaker 1: Of course I want my dog to have the best 655 00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:25,960 Speaker 1: and like be happy and stuff. I don't want to 656 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:28,520 Speaker 1: like I don't want to trust a stranger to be 657 00:32:28,600 --> 00:32:31,000 Speaker 1: like do you blah blah blah, you know what I mean, 658 00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:33,400 Speaker 1: like scan scan and be like, yeah, you're gonna need 659 00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:35,720 Speaker 1: to come back here next week because I don't know 660 00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:37,400 Speaker 1: how he's going to be doing. You know what I mean, 661 00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:38,120 Speaker 1: I don't. 662 00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:42,200 Speaker 3: Know how he's Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's I think that's 663 00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:46,720 Speaker 3: my my fear as well. What do you feel like 664 00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:50,680 Speaker 3: you could do more better with your pet? 665 00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:51,000 Speaker 2: Now? 666 00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:55,840 Speaker 1: Girl? Walk him? But oh my god. Yeah, here is 667 00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:58,760 Speaker 1: the problem. And this is where like maybe I could 668 00:32:58,760 --> 00:33:02,320 Speaker 1: get him some training or something. This motherbucker loves to mark. 669 00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:06,320 Speaker 1: He he lives, tomorrow, he lives. 670 00:33:06,320 --> 00:33:08,560 Speaker 2: He marks like every five steps on a walk. 671 00:33:08,400 --> 00:33:11,800 Speaker 1: It's like every ten steps he stops. And so like, 672 00:33:11,960 --> 00:33:15,160 Speaker 1: I've come to this like place in my soul where 673 00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:17,720 Speaker 1: I'm just like, just let him sniff, just let him walk, like, 674 00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:19,920 Speaker 1: just take it at his pace. He wants, this is 675 00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:22,320 Speaker 1: what he wants to do. The problem with that is, 676 00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:25,200 Speaker 1: though we get to the end of the block and 677 00:33:25,320 --> 00:33:27,640 Speaker 1: have to turn him back around because now it's already 678 00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:31,000 Speaker 1: by the time we get home already, that's twenty five minutes. Yeah, 679 00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:34,280 Speaker 1: that's a twenty five minute yeah yeah. So then I 680 00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:36,960 Speaker 1: feel bad because like he's not getting like the enrichment 681 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:40,480 Speaker 1: of a new experience in new neighborhood and stuff and 682 00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:42,760 Speaker 1: so but also is little. 683 00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:45,320 Speaker 3: Though, what happens if you just try to pull him along, 684 00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:49,640 Speaker 3: like he really fights, you let him mark like three times, 685 00:33:49,680 --> 00:33:52,720 Speaker 3: and then you just like you you just keep walking 686 00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:54,560 Speaker 3: and you're like, Nope, this is what we're doing. I 687 00:33:54,560 --> 00:33:57,440 Speaker 3: mean I try, I try, but like the problem is 688 00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:00,240 Speaker 3: like he is so little, and now he's getting old, 689 00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:02,840 Speaker 3: like he's starting to get the white around his eyebrows 690 00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:03,920 Speaker 3: on the white around his muzzle. 691 00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:07,320 Speaker 1: So like, I know, I just feel bad. I feel 692 00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:09,560 Speaker 1: bad when I pull him because I'm like, oh God, 693 00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:13,160 Speaker 1: because Banjo had arthritis, like that was part of why 694 00:34:13,200 --> 00:34:16,600 Speaker 1: he was so slow. And I think about Goudin, I'm like, 695 00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:19,640 Speaker 1: you know, I don't want to inadvertently like pull him 696 00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:23,239 Speaker 1: and hurt him. So then I just end up being 697 00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:25,080 Speaker 1: the person that, like you know, when people walk by, 698 00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,560 Speaker 1: they're like, oh, who's walking? Who han, I'm like, that's 699 00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:33,480 Speaker 1: such an original joke. It's not the time I've heard it. Whatever, 700 00:34:33,920 --> 00:34:39,520 Speaker 1: I mean that would be better, or like training maybe 701 00:34:39,640 --> 00:34:42,400 Speaker 1: would be something that I could get more better. I 702 00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:48,160 Speaker 1: will say something that I negotiated with Brad, my husband. Uh, 703 00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:50,759 Speaker 1: you know, he's my husband. I'm just saying, if this 704 00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:52,920 Speaker 1: is your first time listening, my husband's name is Brad, 705 00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:59,040 Speaker 1: I will say we have negotiated, like which of us 706 00:34:59,120 --> 00:35:01,480 Speaker 1: is giving walks on what days? So now we know, 707 00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:05,520 Speaker 1: like these are my days and I don't have to 708 00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:08,120 Speaker 1: ask anybody like did he get a walk? Like I know, 709 00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,759 Speaker 1: and I trust that's your day he's getting those. Yeah, 710 00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:14,759 Speaker 1: So like that that is nice because like I was 711 00:35:14,800 --> 00:35:16,759 Speaker 1: starting to feel like a nag because I'd be like, 712 00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:20,160 Speaker 1: did anybody walk? Guda? Are you gonna walk? Guda? Did 713 00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:21,719 Speaker 1: he get a walk today? You know? And like I 714 00:35:21,719 --> 00:35:23,279 Speaker 1: don't like, right, I don't want to be in that. 715 00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:25,440 Speaker 1: I don't want to I don't like that version of me. 716 00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:28,440 Speaker 3: I don't I don't like those either. Yeah, you know, Yeah, 717 00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:31,520 Speaker 3: that's smart. That's smart to like divvy up days like this. Kay, 718 00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:33,279 Speaker 3: I'm not going to ask, I'm just gonna assume that 719 00:35:33,320 --> 00:35:35,040 Speaker 3: you did it, or like yeah, got him. 720 00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:37,799 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's really smart. I like that. 721 00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:40,200 Speaker 3: I need to walk Rosie more. I The thing with 722 00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:44,120 Speaker 3: Rosie is when we got her a little spontaneously, because 723 00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:47,080 Speaker 3: my husband can be a little spontaneous, which is great 724 00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:51,960 Speaker 3: and sometimes not great, like getting a dog. Like literally 725 00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:54,319 Speaker 3: walked into the room and he was like, there's this 726 00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:59,600 Speaker 3: puppy at this home shelter. Uh, she should be gossive. 727 00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:02,400 Speaker 3: She yeah, like, but we have to go see her 728 00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:06,839 Speaker 3: tomorrow before eleven am. My god, at eleven am, and I. 729 00:36:06,800 --> 00:36:10,040 Speaker 1: Was like, what, oh, my god, we haven't even talked 730 00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:13,719 Speaker 1: about we like maybe about two getting a dog. I 731 00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:15,600 Speaker 1: was like, are you fucking kidding me? And then he 732 00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:17,000 Speaker 1: was like, no, no, no, it's gonna be great. 733 00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:20,760 Speaker 3: And I was like, okay, I said, I will only 734 00:36:20,800 --> 00:36:23,680 Speaker 3: go see the dog. I don't have the mental axel 735 00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:24,520 Speaker 3: was still a baby. 736 00:36:25,080 --> 00:36:27,120 Speaker 1: I don't have the mental capacity. 737 00:36:26,719 --> 00:36:29,200 Speaker 3: To figure out the logistics of taking care of another 738 00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:31,880 Speaker 3: living thing. So you're gonna have to figure out the food, 739 00:36:31,920 --> 00:36:35,000 Speaker 3: the vet, the training. We're paying for training this time. 740 00:36:35,160 --> 00:36:36,799 Speaker 3: I'm not going to train the dog, and I don't 741 00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:39,319 Speaker 3: trust you to train it enough, so we're gonna pay 742 00:36:39,320 --> 00:36:41,360 Speaker 3: for training this time. Because we've got two small kids. 743 00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:43,680 Speaker 3: We got a little baby toddler in this house. 744 00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:44,360 Speaker 1: Yeah. 745 00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:45,960 Speaker 2: So I was like, and you have. 746 00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:47,560 Speaker 3: To figure out where the dog goes and go out 747 00:36:47,560 --> 00:36:49,279 Speaker 3: of town because we fucking go out of town a lot. 748 00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:50,160 Speaker 1: I can't. 749 00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:53,520 Speaker 3: I was like, if you can figure all those things out, 750 00:36:53,680 --> 00:36:54,880 Speaker 3: I will go see the dog. 751 00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:57,560 Speaker 2: And he did. Enter his credit, he did, he did. 752 00:36:57,640 --> 00:37:03,479 Speaker 3: So David is always been of assigned Rosy care since 753 00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:08,400 Speaker 3: we got her. He's like the but he's like the main. Yeah, 754 00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:10,640 Speaker 3: and she like listens to him the most. 755 00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:13,040 Speaker 2: Of course, she's like a little bitch with me sometimes 756 00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:17,360 Speaker 2: because he's like Balfa, right, like that's how she sees him. 757 00:37:17,400 --> 00:37:21,480 Speaker 3: Sure, but when I walk, when I'm better about walking her, 758 00:37:22,400 --> 00:37:23,080 Speaker 3: I don't know. 759 00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:26,600 Speaker 1: She's just like she's like grateful or something like she 760 00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:29,480 Speaker 1: follows me around more, and she does listen to me 761 00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:32,680 Speaker 1: a little bit more, and like you know, and she's 762 00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:36,120 Speaker 1: just like kind of always like buy me a bit more. 763 00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:38,040 Speaker 2: And I'm like oh, and then I feel bad and 764 00:37:38,160 --> 00:37:39,719 Speaker 2: I was like, I'm like, oh, do you like our 765 00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:41,640 Speaker 2: walks together more? 766 00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:42,120 Speaker 5: Shit? 767 00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:47,480 Speaker 3: Also, as we get older and like, as I don't 768 00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:50,520 Speaker 3: live in New York City anymore, and don't you know 769 00:37:50,800 --> 00:37:52,680 Speaker 3: and I live in a flat neighborhood. I feel like 770 00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:55,359 Speaker 3: I used to walk Bella a lot because we lived 771 00:37:55,400 --> 00:37:56,440 Speaker 3: in a hilly neighborhood. 772 00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:59,200 Speaker 2: And I don't know, something like more fun about it. 773 00:38:01,840 --> 00:38:07,160 Speaker 2: But uh, it's good for me too that like afternoon walk, 774 00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:10,680 Speaker 2: I'm getting like a walk in every day. And it's 775 00:38:10,840 --> 00:38:13,960 Speaker 2: so there's like study after study after study that says 776 00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:18,000 Speaker 2: how good it is for you, especially women to walk 777 00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:20,920 Speaker 2: and like get your steps in whatever. Also just like 778 00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:23,440 Speaker 2: the habit of going for a walk. 779 00:38:23,880 --> 00:38:29,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, and you know, and that was one thing I 780 00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:32,719 Speaker 3: was happy that I was doing more when we initially 781 00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:34,759 Speaker 3: got her. I was like, oh, yeah, finally have like 782 00:38:34,840 --> 00:38:37,719 Speaker 3: a reason to like reason a little walk every day. 783 00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:40,480 Speaker 3: But then I get freaking lazy about it and I 784 00:38:40,520 --> 00:38:44,879 Speaker 3: don't do it more better. 785 00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:49,759 Speaker 1: I mean, it's hard to remember, you know, when you 786 00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:53,799 Speaker 1: said earlier, like oh, you're they're just part of our 787 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:57,720 Speaker 1: world and where their whole world, right, Like it's hard 788 00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:02,080 Speaker 1: it's hard to remember that. And it's because it's really easy. 789 00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:04,919 Speaker 1: Like for granted, they're just like they're you know, they're 790 00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:08,759 Speaker 1: like they're part of the background of your life, you know, 791 00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:12,800 Speaker 1: and so like that, I think, to me, that's probably, 792 00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:17,080 Speaker 1: Like my takeaway today is that, like I have to 793 00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:20,239 Speaker 1: remind myself and and like when I look at him, 794 00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:22,600 Speaker 1: just go like right, like this is also your first 795 00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:25,319 Speaker 1: Somebody said this on on TikTok. Guys, I did put 796 00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:30,080 Speaker 1: TikTok back on my iPad. Okay, oh it's not my iPad. 797 00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:33,360 Speaker 1: It's not on my phone not but on TikTok on 798 00:39:33,440 --> 00:39:36,080 Speaker 1: the Tiki talkies it was like on the Tiki talk 799 00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:40,480 Speaker 1: this is also their first time here, like their first 800 00:39:40,560 --> 00:39:43,759 Speaker 1: time alive, you know. And I was like, oh dang, 801 00:39:43,960 --> 00:39:47,240 Speaker 1: and I haven't thinking. Sometimes when I look at Gooda, 802 00:39:47,280 --> 00:39:49,799 Speaker 1: I'm like, right, this is your first time here, so 803 00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:51,799 Speaker 1: like I want to make it nice for you too, 804 00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:55,239 Speaker 1: And maybe sometimes I roll my eyes because I know 805 00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:56,560 Speaker 1: I'm going to take you on a walk and it's 806 00:39:56,560 --> 00:40:00,000 Speaker 1: going to be the same thing again for me, right, 807 00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:02,160 Speaker 1: But what it is for him is like this all 808 00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:05,080 Speaker 1: new smells today, there's all new shit, Like if there wasn't, 809 00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:08,960 Speaker 1: he wouldn't be marking and sniffing for ten minutes to 810 00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:11,880 Speaker 1: the end of the block. You know, this is exciting 811 00:40:11,920 --> 00:40:15,320 Speaker 1: for him. And so like that to me is my takeaway. 812 00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:19,040 Speaker 1: I guess today is like the reminder that, like he's 813 00:40:19,080 --> 00:40:22,040 Speaker 1: not just part of the background of my life. Like 814 00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:26,040 Speaker 1: he deserves to be deserves to be walked on the 815 00:40:26,120 --> 00:40:27,960 Speaker 1: days that I'm assigned to walk him, that I assigned 816 00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:30,440 Speaker 1: myself to walk him. You know, he deserves to have 817 00:40:30,880 --> 00:40:34,480 Speaker 1: fun and not have me pull him along. And just 818 00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:37,680 Speaker 1: like sniff somebody's poo, do I wipe his face and 819 00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:40,399 Speaker 1: butt and feet every time he comes back in my house. 820 00:40:40,480 --> 00:40:42,520 Speaker 1: Absolutely disgusting. 821 00:40:42,640 --> 00:40:45,440 Speaker 2: Let me tell you, yes, can we make a PSA 822 00:40:45,560 --> 00:40:45,919 Speaker 2: right now? 823 00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:49,120 Speaker 3: Because as you have to wipe our dogs eat, you 824 00:40:49,239 --> 00:40:50,960 Speaker 3: have to, Yeah, you have to. 825 00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:53,719 Speaker 2: Every time she poops, we wipe her. 826 00:40:53,640 --> 00:40:56,600 Speaker 3: Butt, and you know, there's fucking shit. I'm not on 827 00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:59,680 Speaker 3: the wipe when I wipe her. So if you're not 828 00:40:59,800 --> 00:41:03,560 Speaker 3: wiping your dogs, but there's little pieces of ship all 829 00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:04,600 Speaker 3: over your eyes. 830 00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:09,960 Speaker 1: If you learned anything today from this episode of the pod, 831 00:41:10,200 --> 00:41:12,440 Speaker 1: it's please be more better at wiping your dogs. 832 00:41:12,480 --> 00:41:17,719 Speaker 2: But okay, just have a little little bag away just. 833 00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:23,560 Speaker 1: By the door. What's the problem. That's so easy? Another 834 00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:27,479 Speaker 1: one swipe the butt takes two seconds, two seconds, throw away, 835 00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:30,399 Speaker 1: wash your hands, done, done, You did it. 836 00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:34,799 Speaker 2: Otherwise, if you don't do that, there's ship all over 837 00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:35,200 Speaker 2: your house. 838 00:41:35,360 --> 00:41:39,680 Speaker 1: In your house. There is your house. 839 00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:41,200 Speaker 2: Every time they sit down. 840 00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:53,520 Speaker 6: Couch on your couch, babe's Yeah. 841 00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:54,040 Speaker 2: That's our p s A. 842 00:41:54,920 --> 00:41:56,439 Speaker 1: Do you feel a little more better? Do you feel 843 00:41:56,440 --> 00:41:58,920 Speaker 1: like you're better? I actually love that we ended on 844 00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:01,400 Speaker 1: that because we actually are very responsible dive owners that 845 00:42:01,400 --> 00:42:01,840 Speaker 1: we're doing that. 846 00:42:05,239 --> 00:42:07,239 Speaker 3: I do feel a little more better, and I do. 847 00:42:07,360 --> 00:42:09,239 Speaker 3: I feel like I'm gonna this week, I'm going to 848 00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:12,640 Speaker 3: try to like walk her more more, just like give 849 00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:13,400 Speaker 3: her more attention. 850 00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:14,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, just a little bit. 851 00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:16,480 Speaker 2: I feel like she gets she gets ignored a little bit. 852 00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:20,279 Speaker 1: Doctors too. It's hard. It's hard when you're it's hard. 853 00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:24,400 Speaker 2: It's hard to dog butt and kids and yeah, yeah, we're. 854 00:42:24,200 --> 00:42:26,040 Speaker 1: Doing Okay, we're doing We're doing good. 855 00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:27,959 Speaker 2: We're doing our best. We're doing our best. 856 00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:31,960 Speaker 1: Okay, we'll see you guys next week where we're definitely 857 00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:34,360 Speaker 1: not probably going to talk about dog poop. 858 00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:40,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, where we might buye Okay, more, more, more and 859 00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:40,960 Speaker 3: more better. 860 00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:43,359 Speaker 1: Do you have something you'd like to be more better 861 00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:44,719 Speaker 1: at that you want us to talk about in a 862 00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:45,400 Speaker 1: future episode. 863 00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:47,960 Speaker 3: Can you relate to our struggles or have you tried 864 00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:49,080 Speaker 3: one of our tips and tricks? 865 00:42:49,320 --> 00:42:51,839 Speaker 1: Shoot us your thoughts and ideas at More Better pod 866 00:42:52,000 --> 00:42:55,080 Speaker 1: at gmail dot com and include a voice note if 867 00:42:55,120 --> 00:42:57,600 Speaker 1: you want to be featured on the pod. 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