1 00:00:01,320 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: All right time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. 2 00:00:04,040 --> 00:00:08,640 Speaker 1: If you need advice on relationships, on dating, work, sex, parenting, 3 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:12,080 Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey 4 00:00:12,200 --> 00:00:15,560 Speaker 1: FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading 5 00:00:15,560 --> 00:00:17,480 Speaker 1: your letter live on the air, just like we're gonna 6 00:00:17,520 --> 00:00:20,799 Speaker 1: read this one right here today. Okay, buggle up and 7 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:22,880 Speaker 1: hold on tight. We got it for you here at ease. 8 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:27,480 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter, Thank you enough. Subject My husband is never satisfied. 9 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:30,480 Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I have been married for almost three 10 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:33,280 Speaker 1: years now. My husband and I are intimate at least 11 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:36,480 Speaker 1: four days every week. I like to keep things hot 12 00:00:36,520 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: and spicy. Nothing is ever the same in the bed 13 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 1: or wherever we choose to do it. I do all 14 00:00:43,040 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 1: that I can to please him, and I make sure 15 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 1: I am pleased as well. Our sex is always amazing, 16 00:00:49,479 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 1: but he has confessed to being unfaithful during our entire marriage. 17 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:56,720 Speaker 1: He told me that he's been sleeping with women in 18 00:00:56,880 --> 00:01:01,640 Speaker 1: our home, on our couch, in restaurants, and even in cars. 19 00:01:01,960 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 1: Not to mention, one of the women he slept with 20 00:01:04,400 --> 00:01:07,640 Speaker 1: was the only friend that I had, well, at least 21 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 1: I thought she was he just can't get enough sex. 22 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:14,720 Speaker 1: I'm so lost and confused because he says that it 23 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 1: is not me. He says he just can't help it. 24 00:01:17,640 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 1: I can't seem to satisfy him. What should I do? 25 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:23,120 Speaker 1: Please help? Yeah, all that stuff you were doing in 26 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 1: the bedroom, you just really thought you were putting it 27 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:28,440 Speaker 1: down and blah blah blah blah blah. No, he was 28 00:01:28,520 --> 00:01:31,120 Speaker 1: cheating on you, left and right, with your friends in 29 00:01:31,240 --> 00:01:35,000 Speaker 1: your house. That's the most disrespectful part. It's more than 30 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:37,679 Speaker 1: him not being satisfied. I don't want you to miss 31 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 1: the big picture. This man is a cheater, he's a liar. 32 00:01:40,760 --> 00:01:42,679 Speaker 1: Are you sure you still want to be married to 33 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:45,319 Speaker 1: this guy? He can't help it. Get him some help 34 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:47,880 Speaker 1: and see how that goes. Don't they have places for 35 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:51,720 Speaker 1: people that are sexual addicts to go. This man, I 36 00:01:51,720 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 1: don't know if he's ever gonna stop cheating on you. 37 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 1: Three years, you guys have been married married. It's not 38 00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:59,320 Speaker 1: like the seven year year itch or anything like that. 39 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:02,440 Speaker 1: You're pract clean, newly weds, and you know he has 40 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 1: no respect for you to marriage, your home, any of that. 41 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:08,800 Speaker 1: I think you need to assess who you're married to. 42 00:02:09,080 --> 00:02:11,200 Speaker 1: It doesn't sound like, you really know this man at all. 43 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:15,639 Speaker 1: You may be looking at divorce court here, Steve. At 44 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:18,360 Speaker 1: first I didn't. I thought it was just, you know, 45 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 1: about too much. The title said, my husband is never satisfied, 46 00:02:23,480 --> 00:02:25,639 Speaker 1: and the way she started to let her, yeah, my 47 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 1: husband are intimate at least four days every week. That's 48 00:02:30,639 --> 00:02:33,360 Speaker 1: a lot of sex. Then she said, I like to 49 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:37,040 Speaker 1: keep things hot and spicy. Nothing is ever the same 50 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:40,160 Speaker 1: in bad or wherever we choose to do it. That's 51 00:02:40,240 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 1: created four times a week. Y'all ain't doubling back on 52 00:02:43,320 --> 00:02:46,320 Speaker 1: nothing the same? What the hair y'all got going on? 53 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:48,240 Speaker 1: I was first I was gonna say, well, if it's 54 00:02:48,240 --> 00:02:51,720 Speaker 1: too much, then dull it. Dawn. You're the same thing 55 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:54,519 Speaker 1: four days in the row. Try to come across as boy. 56 00:02:56,240 --> 00:02:59,320 Speaker 1: But you're doing all these activities, yeah, trampoline and stuff. 57 00:02:59,400 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 1: Y'all coming down the steps on each other. Okay, lay 58 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:06,600 Speaker 1: your head down the steps and then he on top 59 00:03:06,600 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 1: of you. And now y'all just come down the steps, 60 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 1: you head first, but he on top of you. But 61 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 1: every time you hear the step, that's another home. Let's 62 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 1: see right down that that's too much. That's y'all coming 63 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:21,960 Speaker 1: down the steps and screw at that same time. This 64 00:03:22,120 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 1: is right here, so you coming down side. Oh that's 65 00:03:27,320 --> 00:03:30,760 Speaker 1: good for you. Yeah, that was good for me. Not 66 00:03:30,919 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 1: I'm not a mall. Y'all in here on the laundry 67 00:03:33,600 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 1: room and cut the washing the ship too much. We're 68 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:41,400 Speaker 1: gonna do it while I'm on the target. You got 69 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 1: days a week, y'all. Shut up. They are doing this 70 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 1: four days a week, every week, and nothing is ever 71 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 1: the same. This is happening at this house the downside 72 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:55,880 Speaker 1: on the clothes line, and climbed in the draws. They 73 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:59,320 Speaker 1: all up in the treehouse. The baby treehouse got got 74 00:03:59,360 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 1: fluid on it. Nine. I'm just trying to explain it 75 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:07,240 Speaker 1: to you. Now. I do all i can to please him. 76 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 1: I make sure I'm pleased where our sex is always 77 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 1: amazing after all this, this woman says, But he has 78 00:04:14,160 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 1: confessed to being unfaithful during our entire marriage. He told 79 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:21,040 Speaker 1: me he's been sleeping with women in our home, on 80 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:25,679 Speaker 1: our couch, in restaurant, and even in cars. What women 81 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:28,040 Speaker 1: excused me? Well, then, y'all, just you were just talking 82 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 1: about this amazing sex life, y'all, have it ain't ever 83 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:33,400 Speaker 1: the same? Then, just one day his dumbass come in 84 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 1: the house and confesses that he's been a faithful dude 85 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 1: entire marriage. He told me he'd been sleeping with women 86 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:42,839 Speaker 1: in our home, on our couch, restaurants, even in car. 87 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 1: Why are you in here running your damn mind? Ain't 88 00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:52,159 Speaker 1: you busy enough? You have things to do? Wow, you 89 00:04:52,279 --> 00:04:56,559 Speaker 1: got new rooms to explore, You got about eight nine women? 90 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:59,400 Speaker 1: And why are you in here talking for? You don't 91 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:05,719 Speaker 1: have to talk confessing? It's not what you do. You 92 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:10,039 Speaker 1: got to get creative. Boy, Listen to me. Wow, have 93 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:14,840 Speaker 1: you been on the shelf out there in the garage? 94 00:05:16,160 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 1: Have you been under here? You done it under a car? 95 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:22,520 Speaker 1: You got to start thinking us under a car in 96 00:05:22,600 --> 00:05:27,479 Speaker 1: a hat, done it in the hedges, in the hedges, 97 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 1: just in some hedges ahead to that couch. I tell 98 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 1: you that I'm just trying to figure out what the 99 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 1: hell made him go in the house and confess. Maybe 100 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:45,760 Speaker 1: he what, Shirley, There's nothing you can say. Is he 101 00:05:46,040 --> 00:05:55,880 Speaker 1: man listening? Waiting? Head? Maybe tired? Rest, Maybe he's tired 102 00:05:55,920 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 1: of cheating. Rest, We'll stop cheating. As you're sitting in 103 00:06:00,800 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 1: a confession booth with the priests, move your wife ain't 104 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 1: even a priest. The only way you only only person 105 00:06:09,800 --> 00:06:12,440 Speaker 1: you posted go in here. And I'm not Catholic, and 106 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 1: this is not knocking the Catholic faith at all because 107 00:06:14,839 --> 00:06:17,320 Speaker 1: I love all these But the only person you posted 108 00:06:17,279 --> 00:06:19,440 Speaker 1: to go tell it too like that is a priest 109 00:06:19,680 --> 00:06:22,880 Speaker 1: in the box. Yeah, now that's your wife. Got a 110 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:28,480 Speaker 1: call on in the box? Why are we talking? So? What? 111 00:06:28,720 --> 00:06:31,800 Speaker 1: Surely so back in the day? Not now? Well, we'll 112 00:06:31,800 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 1: have to bring this back. You've never felt like just 113 00:06:34,839 --> 00:06:38,440 Speaker 1: getting it all off your chest, just confessing, just hand phone. 114 00:06:38,480 --> 00:06:46,080 Speaker 1: I've never felt that I'm hand too, but I didn't. 115 00:06:47,960 --> 00:06:50,960 Speaker 1: We'll be back with uh with this part two of 116 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 1: this letter. My husband is never satisfied. You're listening, snow, Okay, 117 00:06:57,640 --> 00:07:01,760 Speaker 1: we're back now surely yes, let's go with his letter. 118 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:05,120 Speaker 1: I've been married for almost three years, huger than our 119 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 1: intimate four days a week. Things right, they've been everywhere, 120 00:07:08,480 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 1: They've been all over the place. Just do all I 121 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 1: can to please. I make sure I'm pleased. Our sex 122 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 1: is amazing. And for some damn reason the food and 123 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 1: came in the house and confessed and what unfaithful doing 124 00:07:20,440 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 1: our entire matter three years told me that he'd been 125 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:27,400 Speaker 1: sleeping with women in our house, on our couch, restaurants 126 00:07:27,400 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 1: even called and with her best friend. Did she say 127 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 1: not to mention one of the women he slept. We 128 00:07:34,440 --> 00:07:36,360 Speaker 1: was the only friend that I had, well, at least 129 00:07:36,400 --> 00:07:42,040 Speaker 1: I thought she was. He just can't get enough set. Well, 130 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:46,680 Speaker 1: we all feel that one All men feel like they 131 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:49,560 Speaker 1: can't get enough set. But you can't hear everything you want. 132 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:54,360 Speaker 1: You just can't, and everything you can have ain't good 133 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:58,800 Speaker 1: for you. You know some foods. Never learned that. I 134 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:00,960 Speaker 1: know a dude right now. I can't get it through 135 00:08:01,000 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 1: his ignorant ass. What the jet cause you can don't 136 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: mean you shoot it? Oh yeah, you ain't got so 137 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 1: you just ain't gonna practice, no restraints. He's just new. 138 00:08:13,720 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 1: He is out here just doing, just to be doing. 139 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:21,840 Speaker 1: You don't know him, Tom. It just be quiet as 140 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:25,560 Speaker 1: long as it ain't hunky. He can't get enough set. 141 00:08:25,920 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 1: I'm so lost and confused because he says it's not me. 142 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:32,160 Speaker 1: He says he just can't help it. I can't seem 143 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 1: to satisfy him. What should I do? Please? Help get 144 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:42,640 Speaker 1: you some people? Get you some people? Does he liked 145 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:48,200 Speaker 1: it that much? Crowding up? Get your hors crowded obligated 146 00:08:48,280 --> 00:08:50,640 Speaker 1: to stay with this. You ain't gotta stay with him? 147 00:08:50,679 --> 00:08:53,440 Speaker 1: But what the hell you want? I don't need. I 148 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:56,959 Speaker 1: don't like that much in mine. I don't want that 149 00:08:57,040 --> 00:09:00,199 Speaker 1: too much. This is too much this letter, yeah, thing, 150 00:09:00,240 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 1: but I don't know what I mean? Why are you 151 00:09:01,880 --> 00:09:05,680 Speaker 1: with him? How did you recover from a man telling 152 00:09:05,679 --> 00:09:07,920 Speaker 1: you and he didn't have women in your bed, on 153 00:09:08,080 --> 00:09:11,439 Speaker 1: your couch, in your car, and he slept with your friend? 154 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:16,200 Speaker 1: Why are you still talking to him? So? Since he 155 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:17,920 Speaker 1: can't get enough, you ain't gonna ever be able to 156 00:09:18,000 --> 00:09:22,000 Speaker 1: trust him. The only thing I think this is headed 157 00:09:22,040 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 1: for divorce. And he just gonna be your man because 158 00:09:25,520 --> 00:09:28,360 Speaker 1: he got plenty he brings, but he gonna run out. 159 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:33,719 Speaker 1: He gonna run out. A man only has x a 160 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:39,319 Speaker 1: number of shots and then he out. That's that's a law. 161 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 1: A man has X amount of shots. And then it 162 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:49,360 Speaker 1: started dissipating in trouble. Yeah, you only got an X amount. 163 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:55,880 Speaker 1: That's it. After that is sawt us. She says she 164 00:09:55,960 --> 00:10:02,800 Speaker 1: can't seem dissatisfying. She can't, and there puffing everything she 165 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 1: thought she was. That's the thing, because she says she 166 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:08,360 Speaker 1: likes to keep things hot and spicy. Nothing is ever 167 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:10,959 Speaker 1: the same in the bed or wherever we choose to 168 00:10:11,040 --> 00:10:13,480 Speaker 1: do it. I do all that I can to please 169 00:10:14,520 --> 00:10:18,960 Speaker 1: all up on top of the garage, witty in the other. 170 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:23,000 Speaker 1: In the oven, they're on the oven dough. They hadn't 171 00:10:23,040 --> 00:10:25,920 Speaker 1: been on the oven dough. You can believe every partner 172 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 1: kitch your table. No it don't. They broke down the dough. 173 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 1: They tried to brawl a dough too. Stuff you damn. 174 00:10:40,080 --> 00:10:42,840 Speaker 1: They can't eat on nothing, and they have. They don't 175 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:46,079 Speaker 1: tell where that specially being you see him in that. 176 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 1: They can't do nothing. They can't bring a spoon in there. 177 00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 1: I saw y'all. There's a place I bet they haven't 178 00:10:53,520 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 1: been the garbage disposal. You hadn't been a garbage They 179 00:10:58,000 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 1: accidentally hit it on. Yeah, hit that button, be fuck 180 00:11:01,160 --> 00:11:03,040 Speaker 1: her ass and hit that button on that garbage. And 181 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 1: I'm scared everybody because they thought the grinding was gonna 182 00:11:05,520 --> 00:11:08,440 Speaker 1: get one of them fogs. Yeah. Oh, he jumped up 183 00:11:08,480 --> 00:11:16,880 Speaker 1: when he heard that garbage. Oh yeah, as soon as 184 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:18,680 Speaker 1: you hear that, you're gonna get up. You're gonna stop. 185 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:21,440 Speaker 1: All that loving is over with. Asked me another place, 186 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:23,360 Speaker 1: I'll tell you how they do well. Okay, like on 187 00:11:23,480 --> 00:11:25,920 Speaker 1: the patio, or I ain't been in patio and the 188 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:29,040 Speaker 1: toe ties up on the pattick. Yeah, the pile towels 189 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:32,080 Speaker 1: ain't here. They've been all on a Sunday. They didn't 190 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:34,839 Speaker 1: tow all the Timpson water seal off the sunday. I 191 00:11:34,960 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 1: know one place they could not have done well. Fireplace. 192 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:43,839 Speaker 1: There's no way an they hit her foot been over 193 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 1: there in there, get in there. You know her foot 194 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:49,520 Speaker 1: has been in the fireplace. Got a little ankle, that's 195 00:11:49,520 --> 00:11:51,520 Speaker 1: what them cuts on her ankle for on that fire great, 196 00:11:51,559 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 1: they holding log, that's what she got. The ankle cuts 197 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 1: on there warming up. It adin't been in the fire place. 198 00:11:56,640 --> 00:11:58,839 Speaker 1: They adn't been up on the roof too. They act 199 00:11:58,880 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 1: like they were going up there to your satellite dish. 200 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:04,640 Speaker 1: She'd been over started schooling that school and then I'll 201 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:09,200 Speaker 1: be damn here. He came ran right up on fixing 202 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:13,439 Speaker 1: that satellite dish in the garbage can. That's one. Because 203 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 1: people don't like garbage. Oh yeah, been been that garbage 204 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:17,839 Speaker 1: can outside. She went out there and was lifting that 205 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:19,520 Speaker 1: bag and threw it in. The next thing, you know, 206 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:24,120 Speaker 1: she was right in behind head first, hanging down in 207 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:28,319 Speaker 1: that backing down in that good but it ain't done 208 00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:30,199 Speaker 1: it in that too. Sh Well, I wouldn't think so, 209 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:34,320 Speaker 1: I just really would. Okay, well, we gotta go. Uh, 210 00:12:34,720 --> 00:12:41,720 Speaker 1: we'll be back. You're listening to Dave Harvey Morning Show.