WEBVTT - The Legend of Kevin Samuels Part.1 0:00:01.080 --> 0:00:04.720 Get you know, boys, it's back and reoded all in 0:00:04.800 --> 0:00:08.119 your mind. Yeah, not deep throating. This is for the streets, 0:00:08.200 --> 0:00:12.399 the reel, the railroaded, the distant franchise, the truth escape building. 0:00:12.640 --> 0:00:14.640 And they ain't know when we speak the truth, so 0:00:14.680 --> 0:00:17.720 they quoted because we wrote it. The North South East 0:00:17.800 --> 0:00:20.880 coat is the g b my keeping your head bobbing. 0:00:21.200 --> 0:00:23.799 It ain't no stopping and wants to be dry to 0:00:23.800 --> 0:00:26.920 head by then. The system is so corrupt they throw 0:00:26.960 --> 0:00:28.840 the rock out of their heads and then blame it 0:00:28.880 --> 0:00:33.120 on us. Don't get twisted on code and me and 0:00:33.240 --> 0:00:39.280 danced for now buttament biscuits. It's Willie d'all scar faces 0:00:39.280 --> 0:00:41.760 in the building. Collectively, we are to get old boys 0:00:41.880 --> 0:00:45.680 reloadly loaded with another episode of information and instructions to 0:00:45.720 --> 0:00:49.360 help you navigate through this wild, crazy, beautiful world. In 0:00:49.440 --> 0:01:01.200 the studio, kill Erica, Sydney Rosa, they Evin, the love 0:01:01.320 --> 0:01:10.000 guru and spokesperson for Kevin Samuel's family, Dennis Attorney Dennis 0:01:10.000 --> 0:01:13.360 Sperling is in the building, y'all. I appreciate all y'all 0:01:13.360 --> 0:01:19.640 coming through. Uh, I'm gonna start with you, Dennis. Kevin 0:01:19.840 --> 0:01:24.959 Samuel's has said some controversial things about men and women 0:01:25.600 --> 0:01:32.039 with his objective perspective on relationships in the black community, specifically, right, 0:01:33.360 --> 0:01:41.440 social media is a SoundBite, uh, for our community. Like 0:01:41.600 --> 0:01:49.160 everybody had an opinion about Kevin Samuel's demise when he died, right, Uh, 0:01:49.400 --> 0:01:57.520 some uh supportive, some very very vindictive and evil downright evil? Um? 0:01:57.840 --> 0:02:02.040 Was was Kevin Samuels in your opinion a controversial person? 0:02:02.400 --> 0:02:08.480 But and also uh was he misunderstood? Well? I think 0:02:08.520 --> 0:02:13.000 that we use the term controversial because the main um 0:02:13.840 --> 0:02:16.800 society at large did not have anything to controvert what 0:02:16.840 --> 0:02:20.880 he was saying, and therefore he was controversial. But he 0:02:20.960 --> 0:02:25.400 had his logic and it it was based um on facts, 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:28.040 whether you read the CDC reports and the things that 0:02:28.080 --> 0:02:31.400 he studied, and from that point he expounded on that 0:02:31.440 --> 0:02:33.919 and then he related to how it affected society. It's 0:02:34.280 --> 0:02:37.120 it's not controversial. Basically, he was just speaking facts and 0:02:37.160 --> 0:02:40.680 giving his opinions and that's it. But you know, as 0:02:40.720 --> 0:02:45.080 far as the merits of his actual work, they stand alone, 0:02:45.560 --> 0:02:48.960 you know. And I'm here today not speaking as the 0:02:49.080 --> 0:02:53.360 spokesperson for the family or as their attorney. I'm not 0:02:53.400 --> 0:02:56.160 their attorney, and I'm not speaking as a spokesperson. I 0:02:56.200 --> 0:03:00.280 was his friend and soon to be business associate, and 0:03:00.400 --> 0:03:03.200 so was he misunderstood in the to the vein that 0:03:05.000 --> 0:03:09.240 mass meteor YouTube was not his final stop. Yeah, I mean, 0:03:09.280 --> 0:03:13.800 we had plans to basically revitalize some industries that Black 0:03:13.840 --> 0:03:17.760 Americans lost fifty years ago. So you know, this was 0:03:17.800 --> 0:03:21.240 not about you know, Kevin Samuels, this is about the 0:03:21.240 --> 0:03:24.320 black community large. He loved the black community. That's why 0:03:24.360 --> 0:03:27.160 he continued to talk to the black community. He realized 0:03:27.200 --> 0:03:30.520 after talking to black men for five years that he 0:03:30.520 --> 0:03:32.480 can get these men together, but if they don't have 0:03:32.520 --> 0:03:36.119 suitable mates, then it serves no purpose. It's just gonna 0:03:36.160 --> 0:03:38.520 go off and married women from other other races. That's 0:03:38.560 --> 0:03:41.160 what he thought, and so that's why he was frantically 0:03:41.200 --> 0:03:44.240 every night going back and forth, Miss why don't you 0:03:44.280 --> 0:03:47.360 deal with this guy? You're average, he's average. Y'all be together. 0:03:47.360 --> 0:03:49.880 Instead of thinking you can get some guy who's worth 0:03:49.920 --> 0:03:52.480 a hundred million dollars and you don't qualify for that 0:03:52.560 --> 0:03:56.880 type of man, Let's lower those expectations. And unfortunately, a 0:03:56.920 --> 0:03:59.920 lot of people responded negatively because people like to live in, 0:04:00.960 --> 0:04:04.920 you know, an unreal world. That's that's my interpretation. What 0:04:04.920 --> 0:04:08.080 what do you say to women who say that, yeah, 0:04:08.280 --> 0:04:10.480 he spoke some truth, but he didn't have to be 0:04:10.560 --> 0:04:15.000 so disrespectful. Well, you know, I don't know what to say. 0:04:15.040 --> 0:04:20.320 We live in a harsh world world, and you know, 0:04:20.440 --> 0:04:23.839 sometimes things people say may offend you. But you have 0:04:23.960 --> 0:04:27.440 to take the meat from the bones and if it applies, 0:04:27.560 --> 0:04:30.520 then use it, you know. I mean people have spoken 0:04:30.560 --> 0:04:34.560 to me harshly. I don't wish death upon them. I 0:04:34.600 --> 0:04:37.920 may disagree with them, but we can talk about that 0:04:38.000 --> 0:04:40.560 in a logical manner. Was their truth to what he said? 0:04:41.200 --> 0:04:43.039 I dare you to find a lie in what he said? 0:04:43.440 --> 0:04:46.280 Did you not? Did it burn your ears? Maybe so? 0:04:46.480 --> 0:04:48.640 But it was still truth. And so that's what we 0:04:48.680 --> 0:04:51.000 have to exep That's that's the part that I think 0:04:51.040 --> 0:04:53.920 will happen in the next five to ten years. People 0:04:53.920 --> 0:04:56.839 will reanalyze his work and said, well, you know, now 0:04:56.880 --> 0:04:59.240 that I'm not so emotionally attached to it, I'm not 0:04:59.279 --> 0:05:01.640 so angry about it. I see the truth and what 0:05:01.680 --> 0:05:04.320 the man was saying that I think it's again. I 0:05:04.320 --> 0:05:06.359 think his work will stand on its own. And my 0:05:06.480 --> 0:05:08.719 question would be today here it's listen if he has 0:05:08.760 --> 0:05:11.640 said it any other way, that's an excellent point, and 0:05:11.680 --> 0:05:14.159 I've actually talked to him about that. You know, he said, 0:05:14.200 --> 0:05:17.880 you know the thing is, you got you got the 0:05:17.960 --> 0:05:23.120 major networks, you got cable, yeah, Internet. You have all 0:05:23.120 --> 0:05:26.280 these distractions for human beings, and then on top of that, 0:05:26.400 --> 0:05:28.560 you have about you have a generation of people who 0:05:28.600 --> 0:05:31.279 are not used to listening to anything for any extended 0:05:31.320 --> 0:05:34.320 period of time. So unless you say something that cuts 0:05:34.320 --> 0:05:37.599 through the noise, the message will never get out. Now. 0:05:37.920 --> 0:05:41.080 I recognize what he was doing very early on, even 0:05:41.160 --> 0:05:44.640 before he and I became friends, um, and I saw 0:05:44.680 --> 0:05:47.160 what he was doing, and I saw the effectiveness effectiveness 0:05:47.240 --> 0:05:49.720 as of it, and so you know, I get what 0:05:49.760 --> 0:05:52.120 the man was doing. I get the point. I get it. 0:05:52.200 --> 0:05:54.720 Sometimes you have to talk to people in the language 0:05:55.000 --> 0:05:57.640 and in the manner in which they can understand, because 0:05:57.680 --> 0:06:00.599 that is that is what communication is. Me be saying 0:06:00.600 --> 0:06:03.200 it or writing it is not sufficient. You have to 0:06:03.240 --> 0:06:05.760 be able to communicate your ideas to them, and he 0:06:05.839 --> 0:06:09.200 was an effective communicator. Are there any women on the 0:06:09.240 --> 0:06:16.240 panel who would have listened to Kevin Samuel's without the insults? Me? 0:06:18.880 --> 0:06:20.960 I would have. And to be honest with you, if 0:06:21.000 --> 0:06:24.560 a person actually listened to the entire interview and not 0:06:24.800 --> 0:06:29.120 just the snippets that Instagram gave. He wasn't rude unless 0:06:29.120 --> 0:06:31.720 you were rude first. He wasn't disrespectful unless you were 0:06:31.760 --> 0:06:35.320 disrespectful first. And at the end he got a little vogar, 0:06:35.400 --> 0:06:37.679 but that was because he was frustrated because you're asking 0:06:37.760 --> 0:06:42.720 him questions, he's giving you answers, and you're not listening. Uh. 0:06:42.920 --> 0:06:48.720 People don't listen to the entire Uh. For me, I mean, 0:06:48.839 --> 0:06:50.760 I hear what you're saying as far as like talking 0:06:50.760 --> 0:06:52.920 about the facts and that he sticks in the way 0:06:52.920 --> 0:06:55.040 that he but I think the delivery for me, like 0:06:55.600 --> 0:06:59.000 I can't receive what you're saying if the way that 0:06:59.080 --> 0:07:01.359 it's just the way that you would deliver things. For example, 0:07:01.400 --> 0:07:04.400 when he told one girl after thirty five years old, 0:07:04.720 --> 0:07:06.640 you know, if if things haven't happened for you, your 0:07:06.680 --> 0:07:09.320 life is over. That's not okay. You didn't watch the 0:07:09.320 --> 0:07:13.240 whole video, nobody exactly because if you listened to the 0:07:13.280 --> 0:07:16.360 whole thing. He asked her, how do you rate yourself? 0:07:16.400 --> 0:07:18.720 He never rated her. He asked her, how do you 0:07:18.800 --> 0:07:21.360 rate yourself? She said, it's a five or six. He said, 0:07:21.400 --> 0:07:24.720 that's average. So if you're average, wise dating an average 0:07:24.720 --> 0:07:32.000 man and insult. It's cue and people don't listen to 0:07:32.040 --> 0:07:37.240 the entire thing. There are a lot of truth. Is 0:07:37.240 --> 0:07:39.640 that a lot of truth in that? Because the funny 0:07:39.640 --> 0:07:41.880 thing is about it, anybody that foughtowed me. No, I've 0:07:41.920 --> 0:07:43.800 been saying a lot of this stuff way before, but 0:07:43.840 --> 0:07:46.840 I don't say it exactly like he said it. What 0:07:46.880 --> 0:07:49.920 the deal is, what he's saying was true. You start 0:07:49.960 --> 0:07:53.320 as a woman, you hit thirty five, you hit forty, 0:07:53.760 --> 0:07:58.920 your numbers started to decline. And that's just a fact. 0:07:59.360 --> 0:08:07.160 What numbers numbers. So your pool anymore, so your pool decreases. Right, 0:08:07.400 --> 0:08:09.520 so we all have we all have a number of 0:08:09.800 --> 0:08:13.080 age or whatever. Where your numbers started to decrease, your 0:08:13.160 --> 0:08:16.080 pool started to decrease. Your thirty five and I would 0:08:16.120 --> 0:08:19.600 say forty more than thirty five? Woman? Who aty to who? 0:08:19.640 --> 0:08:23.480 Though to men? To what kind of mean man? I 0:08:23.520 --> 0:08:28.120 don't calf talking to a specific thirty five. Yeah, but 0:08:28.200 --> 0:08:30.560 you older, But that's the deal. You're older than that. 0:08:30.760 --> 0:08:33.520 So if you're a thirty five year old man, you 0:08:33.520 --> 0:08:36.400 don't want a thirty five. You want to year old woman. 0:08:36.480 --> 0:08:38.160 You want to you want to if you're thirty five 0:08:38.240 --> 0:08:40.240 year old man you don't want him, fifty year old woman, 0:08:40.480 --> 0:08:44.559 don't you want to yet? I want tut Okay, you 0:08:44.640 --> 0:08:48.440 want you speaking generally, you're speaking in general. I'm not 0:08:48.480 --> 0:08:52.960 talking about you fakes. I know you brought me, but 0:08:53.080 --> 0:08:57.960 the old man don't want thirty five year old woman. 0:08:57.960 --> 0:09:01.880 He me. And if you're a forty five year old man, 0:09:01.960 --> 0:09:04.160 you're messing with a thirty five year old one. But see, 0:09:04.200 --> 0:09:07.200 he wasn't speaking in general. He was speaking to the 0:09:07.280 --> 0:09:10.000 person that called him. But he was talking to general. 0:09:10.160 --> 0:09:12.080 But he's speaking in general when he makes those statements. 0:09:12.760 --> 0:09:15.640 If it's that one situation where she's calling herself average, 0:09:15.920 --> 0:09:17.960 the world is receiving it. Like you're telling me, my 0:09:17.960 --> 0:09:19.480 life is over at thirty five years old, and I 0:09:19.520 --> 0:09:21.679 can't have a partner. When some people's lives begin at 0:09:21.679 --> 0:09:24.480 forty fifty, that's when their prime is actually, so you 0:09:24.600 --> 0:09:27.360 got not have a partner. You're saying that you should 0:09:27.360 --> 0:09:31.080 be more realistic about the partner that you choose. Right. 0:09:32.040 --> 0:09:34.560 I was watching one episode when a girl. He asked 0:09:34.600 --> 0:09:36.200 what the girl was and she was like a tin, 0:09:36.440 --> 0:09:39.200 Like she was clearly like a four. So she was 0:09:39.240 --> 0:09:42.000 like clearly a four. And I understand that all women 0:09:42.040 --> 0:09:45.440 are talk that you're a princess and that the world's 0:09:45.440 --> 0:09:48.360 supposed to revolving around you. But if you are four, 0:09:50.679 --> 0:09:58.040 that's a good that's a good when so everyone knows 0:09:58.240 --> 0:10:00.600 or has an average. So I can look at good 0:10:00.640 --> 0:10:05.839 ladies at this table, and I can say, I can 0:10:05.840 --> 0:10:08.959 look at this table and say it's a beautiful women. Right, 0:10:09.320 --> 0:10:12.559 So I think that's pretty universal. Anywhere you go, you 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:15.079 would think that you're beautiful if you two hundred and 0:10:15.160 --> 0:10:18.440 seventy five pounds five one. You know what I'm saying. 0:10:18.520 --> 0:10:23.120 With a bad lace front, we we t teeth missing. 0:10:23.920 --> 0:10:27.040 You know you're not a ten. But you know that 0:10:29.240 --> 0:10:34.000 for the one of two people, for the people that 0:10:34.120 --> 0:10:38.120 it appeals to, that's not that's not you know overall 0:10:38.240 --> 0:10:41.120 you know you because because I call it the love market. 0:10:41.160 --> 0:10:45.600 The love market, tell you what your number is. Easy. 0:10:45.720 --> 0:10:48.400 If you walk in a restaurant, you walk in the club. Right. 0:10:48.720 --> 0:10:50.760 If you're walk in a restaurant and you're pretty, I 0:10:50.840 --> 0:10:53.920 can go to most restaurants and drink and eat for free. Right, 0:10:54.320 --> 0:10:56.920 that's some chicks that night, and I they're not gonna 0:10:56.920 --> 0:10:59.120 go anywhere and eat and drink for free. Right, You're 0:10:59.160 --> 0:11:00.920 not gonna give me a drink? Said none of that. Right, 0:11:00.960 --> 0:11:03.600 You're gonna walk in and you're gonna be like, you 0:11:03.600 --> 0:11:09.200 give me a drink and everybody. So that's a very 0:11:09.280 --> 0:11:12.000 easy Do you know what your your doumb was off? 0:11:12.240 --> 0:11:15.000 Those women wanted what did they call them? What did 0:11:15.000 --> 0:11:18.559 they say? They want to high valued men. But they 0:11:18.600 --> 0:11:22.920 were not speaking on your average man because clearly they 0:11:22.920 --> 0:11:26.840 could get them. They wanted high valued men and their 0:11:27.480 --> 0:11:31.160 high value mean in their minds, how high valued was money? 0:11:31.320 --> 0:11:39.920 And he said high valued? It's not just money? What 0:11:40.760 --> 0:11:44.360 definition collection? His definition of high value man was not 0:11:44.480 --> 0:11:46.760 just the money you've made. For instance, there are a 0:11:46.800 --> 0:11:49.040 lot of athletes who made a million dollars this year, 0:11:49.440 --> 0:11:51.559 if they're not high value this amount of money you 0:11:51.640 --> 0:11:56.760 made over a certain period of time unless your social connections, 0:11:57.480 --> 0:12:02.120 social connections from for instance, when his family contacted me, 0:12:03.360 --> 0:12:05.000 I could have money, but I know I might not 0:12:05.080 --> 0:12:09.720 have the connections that necessary to make sure it's done 0:12:09.720 --> 0:12:13.360 and that done and that done. Um. You know for instance, 0:12:13.360 --> 0:12:17.480 both of you guys, I've I've contributed to both of y'all's. 0:12:16.720 --> 0:12:20.400 Can we appreciate that to thank you very much? And 0:12:20.440 --> 0:12:23.080 so you do that that takes time and knowledge and 0:12:23.200 --> 0:12:25.720 the understanding that I may need friends in the future. 0:12:26.200 --> 0:12:29.800 So that's what he meant. Also by you know your 0:12:29.960 --> 0:12:32.600 social connection, and thought, you send me that money because 0:12:32.600 --> 0:12:40.760 you like me many because I believe I examine your 0:12:41.559 --> 0:12:43.520 and I knew that you would be the best man 0:12:43.640 --> 0:12:46.360 for that job. And I felt the same way about you. 0:12:46.440 --> 0:12:49.600 But it's not just about money, and people get caught 0:12:49.640 --> 0:12:54.520 up into that. And then also and Kevin, it was dynamic, 0:12:54.520 --> 0:12:57.040 and people that get caught up with our women get 0:12:57.080 --> 0:12:59.240 caught up in that. I think, I think it's women, 0:12:59.280 --> 0:13:04.040 bro this women man, women, yes, because but but but 0:13:04.040 --> 0:13:06.079 but Brad, I gotta tell a story to go ahead. 0:13:06.880 --> 0:13:10.480 They're even guys who don't have money who think he's 0:13:10.520 --> 0:13:12.720 offending them too. There are a lot of guys whore 0:13:12.760 --> 0:13:15.360 offended by boy. He said some ship. That was so 0:13:15.440 --> 0:13:18.360 funny to me. Dog he said how he said, how 0:13:18.400 --> 0:13:20.439 tall are you? He say? Five? Way? He saying, and 0:13:20.480 --> 0:13:23.600 how much you ways? The two say five? He said, 0:13:23.600 --> 0:13:26.040 you got and you may phone it out of the weekend. 0:13:27.800 --> 0:13:34.319 He said, you got a big dick. I mean, And 0:13:34.360 --> 0:13:39.000 it was funny. But but look, man, I was gonna say, 0:13:39.440 --> 0:13:41.480 what the fun was? I gonna say, you said you 0:13:41.520 --> 0:13:43.120 got a story. I have a hell of a story, 0:13:43.120 --> 0:13:45.240 but I can't remember the motherfucker. One thing about it 0:13:45.280 --> 0:13:51.160 is that Kevin was an equal opportunity insultor and also 0:13:51.880 --> 0:13:55.240 also critiqued. You know, like the thing is that, well, 0:13:55.280 --> 0:13:59.680 before Kevin started going at women or his centering his 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:04.200 platform around women, he was he was critiquing men. He 0:14:04.280 --> 0:14:08.079 was giving advice to men for years and me and 0:14:08.160 --> 0:14:10.960 accepted it. You didn't see any outrage. I mean you said, 0:14:11.040 --> 0:14:13.480 you saw some man that you know didn't tune in. 0:14:13.559 --> 0:14:16.760 But for the most part, me and accepted it. It 0:14:16.800 --> 0:14:20.680 was men who built his platform. And once those videos 0:14:20.720 --> 0:14:24.720 started going viral, women started watching. And then that's when 0:14:25.040 --> 0:14:27.680 the criticism came. Well that's because me and accepted. We 0:14:27.800 --> 0:14:29.880 know you. We know a pack and order from when 0:14:29.880 --> 0:14:32.880 we kids. He was an athlete growing up. You know 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:36.160 you're packing order. You know you was an entertainer. You 0:14:36.200 --> 0:14:38.800 know you're packing order. You was an ugly dude in school. 0:14:38.960 --> 0:14:41.200 You know you're packing order. Used the cute dude, a 0:14:41.320 --> 0:14:44.120 nice looking dude, the ass dude in school. You had 0:14:44.160 --> 0:14:46.680 all the women. You knew you're packing order. We accepted. 0:14:47.120 --> 0:14:50.200 It's women that don't accepted packing order. It's six is 0:14:50.320 --> 0:14:52.960 saying that they should have a team because they mamas 0:14:53.000 --> 0:14:55.280 told them that you should have a team. You were 0:14:55.400 --> 0:14:59.360 the greatest thing since slice bread to your mama, not 0:14:59.480 --> 0:15:06.360 to everybody else, to your mother. That's mean, it's ship. 0:15:10.040 --> 0:15:16.000 I think we're basing on the scale on on gender currency, 0:15:16.200 --> 0:15:18.200 like like, ok okay, so what do you bring to 0:15:18.240 --> 0:15:22.080 the table is the question? Right? Men have gender currency? Right, 0:15:22.480 --> 0:15:28.080 like like men have uh men bring uh their finances, 0:15:28.800 --> 0:15:34.440 they bring uh protection strength to the table. Yeah, there 0:15:34.440 --> 0:15:39.680 you go, women, women, women, women. That's that's not a 0:15:39.720 --> 0:15:48.360 social dick. It's not a social currency. No, no, no, 0:15:48.400 --> 0:15:51.920 not not a social but the gender currency. No, pussy 0:15:52.080 --> 0:15:55.600 is a gender currency. Nobody ever started a wall over 0:15:55.680 --> 0:16:00.680 some dick. Okay, but but you alright, it's not expensive. 0:16:00.680 --> 0:16:03.760 Well he referred to it as a sexual marketplace value, okay. 0:16:03.800 --> 0:16:07.400 And that's based on women who are fit, feminine, their youth, 0:16:07.880 --> 0:16:10.440 and for men is based on your your physical fitness, 0:16:10.960 --> 0:16:13.840 how much money you may and your in your social status. 0:16:14.200 --> 0:16:16.520 So that's when you put those two together, then it 0:16:16.600 --> 0:16:19.600 determines what you can get on the market. Basically, he 0:16:19.680 --> 0:16:23.640 treated it like and you have to understand. Primarily, Kevin 0:16:23.680 --> 0:16:26.240 was a businessman and he saw it. He saw the 0:16:26.320 --> 0:16:29.520 sexual marketplace as a business. What can I leverage to 0:16:29.600 --> 0:16:32.160 get what I want? Now, if you're a man who 0:16:32.240 --> 0:16:36.520 is five ft one, three hundred pounds and make four 0:16:36.920 --> 0:16:39.640 dollars a month, and you're not going to be able 0:16:39.640 --> 0:16:44.920 to leverage much on the secretary, you know, you know what? 0:16:47.560 --> 0:16:50.240 And I think women understand that, Like, will you just 0:16:50.280 --> 0:16:54.320 explain that? I think every woman and he heard that 0:16:53.640 --> 0:16:58.160 the I'm talking about for men I'm talking about he 0:16:58.280 --> 0:17:00.800 just that that example. He just game man, if you 0:17:00.880 --> 0:17:05.200 file one three hundred pounds, uh, you know, make four 0:17:05.240 --> 0:17:07.280 hundred dollars a week. I don't see a lot of 0:17:07.320 --> 0:17:14.960 women saying, yeah, him to go back on your packing order. 0:17:15.040 --> 0:17:16.960 We know ours as well. I don't think there's a 0:17:16.960 --> 0:17:20.719 person in the world that hasn't dealt with since school, Like, Okay, 0:17:20.720 --> 0:17:22.720 this is the attention that I get, whether it's at 0:17:22.720 --> 0:17:25.480 home or from strangers. Like girls know the same way. 0:17:25.520 --> 0:17:28.399 Guys know. If you never got attention, it shows in 0:17:28.400 --> 0:17:33.680 your adulthood. Regardless of your age. New attention shows very loudly. 0:17:34.200 --> 0:17:45.280 Girl podcast will be right back back the let's say 0:17:45.320 --> 0:17:50.159 you've never met a man before, and your friend gives 0:17:50.160 --> 0:17:56.360 you a description of this guy. Girl. He five for one, 0:17:56.840 --> 0:18:01.480 he makes four a week. Sounds like somebody you might 0:18:01.560 --> 0:18:09.679 remotely think that day. No no you saying if you 0:18:09.840 --> 0:18:14.919 say no money, you know because to a man you 0:18:14.960 --> 0:18:18.000 said she had no money. She has no education, but 0:18:18.080 --> 0:18:21.720 she got no money knowing it, but she bade you. 0:18:21.880 --> 0:18:25.639 Still most hidden who they are they gonna fun with that. 0:18:25.960 --> 0:18:29.119 That's the differencetween me and and pointed out men. You 0:18:29.160 --> 0:18:33.480 don't care about your education, you don't care about your money. 0:18:33.359 --> 0:18:40.520 I care about what she looks like. That was a wagon, beautiful, feminine. 0:18:40.400 --> 0:18:42.760 He had the acronym for pretty much all. I get 0:18:42.800 --> 0:18:44.200 what he was saying. You know what I say? Women 0:18:44.240 --> 0:18:50.560 that face spans out there like that. You know donald 0:18:50.640 --> 0:18:55.359 women know how many McDonald women? How many McDonald's women 0:18:55.440 --> 0:19:04.880 smash me? I'm the one man right right? You don't 0:19:05.280 --> 0:19:11.480 smash your other comedy and be like, hey, where you at? 0:19:11.760 --> 0:19:19.120 Where I need to be? H big head slapped me out. 0:19:19.920 --> 0:19:24.080 Depending upon their experience, what they've been through, what past 0:19:24.160 --> 0:19:28.000 relationship looks like, and that's also driving a lot of 0:19:28.040 --> 0:19:32.199 people's preferences and what they think they can get because 0:19:32.280 --> 0:19:35.639 a man that just cashed his check, that's not looking 0:19:35.680 --> 0:19:38.879 amazing that day, but he just cashed his check's feeling 0:19:38.920 --> 0:19:41.720 really great about himself. He's feeling really good. He didn't 0:19:41.720 --> 0:19:44.600 got all his ones in his pocket, so that has 0:19:44.600 --> 0:19:47.840 boosted his ego. So that drives a man too, could 0:19:47.960 --> 0:19:50.560 drive a man to a certain type of woman. Also, 0:19:51.440 --> 0:19:54.640 don't let's like a woman like a woman. You know, 0:19:55.119 --> 0:19:58.160 they just say a lot of ball players. They think 0:19:58.200 --> 0:20:00.800 they're supposed to keep getting ball players for some reason. 0:20:00.880 --> 0:20:03.119 That's how they feel, you know, so like they're not 0:20:03.119 --> 0:20:05.240 just gonna say, oh, well you got the average Joe. 0:20:05.240 --> 0:20:07.480 Did you know, make good money or whatever? You know, 0:20:07.920 --> 0:20:14.960 good looking guy. Eventually reality does call. But go home 0:20:15.160 --> 0:20:18.320 describes a lot of women, right that. That's that's it. 0:20:18.400 --> 0:20:21.600 Like that you say, your life starting to show. Yeah, 0:20:21.640 --> 0:20:25.720 your stomach getting big, it's time come on back home, Like, 0:20:28.600 --> 0:20:34.159 come on back home and just let me out. You 0:20:34.200 --> 0:20:39.160 should look at your NFL career, your first contract through 0:20:39.320 --> 0:20:42.640 your twenties. That's when you get all the money. Everybody 0:20:42.680 --> 0:20:44.840 want to recruit you. Everybody wants to bring you on 0:20:44.880 --> 0:20:47.440 the team, and I don't care how good you is. 0:20:47.680 --> 0:20:51.000 Once you hit that second contract, how good? You said, 0:20:51.040 --> 0:20:53.959 the second contract you're not as worth as much as 0:20:53.960 --> 0:20:56.280 the first contract. And if you make it to the 0:20:56.280 --> 0:21:00.360 third contract your forties, you're not what you as your 0:21:00.400 --> 0:21:13.560 second second contract first contract. We don't know enough to 0:21:13.680 --> 0:21:16.320 know what we are even negotiating for it yet, but 0:21:16.359 --> 0:21:19.199 that's what we want you to right because when you 0:21:18.960 --> 0:21:26.200 hittract when your forties is like, that's most players that's 0:21:26.200 --> 0:21:28.680 getting drafted, all pretty much making the same money. But 0:21:28.760 --> 0:21:32.080 that second contract is the one yea and I want 0:21:32.080 --> 0:21:42.600 to exactly you want to date, you know, other races 0:21:42.720 --> 0:21:46.480 and everything like that. It's the same thing. Both sides 0:21:46.520 --> 0:21:49.400 have equal opportunity to do whatever that they want. It's 0:21:49.440 --> 0:21:51.639 a certain group of people that you're talking to, so 0:21:51.760 --> 0:21:55.520 where between the age and the classiesm that we're talking 0:21:55.560 --> 0:21:58.280 about that that applies to, but that this whole rhetoric 0:21:58.359 --> 0:22:03.080 doesn't apply to everybody. Pretty persistent across the board. And 0:22:03.160 --> 0:22:07.520 Kevin said, for for those women that wanted these high 0:22:07.640 --> 0:22:11.520 value men, he said, how many do you know? They 0:22:11.520 --> 0:22:15.240 didn't open? So that goes back to what you said, like, 0:22:15.400 --> 0:22:19.399 if how do you want this and you're not that 0:22:19.680 --> 0:22:21.680 and you don't even know those people you're not even 0:22:21.840 --> 0:22:26.040 in those social settings. Even I think every man a 0:22:26.080 --> 0:22:28.639 greevance with you on that. I don't think you're an 0:22:28.680 --> 0:22:38.600 argument from us with that. You don't have one. So biblica. 0:22:38.680 --> 0:22:42.760 Fox called Kevin a hypocrite right because of the way 0:22:42.840 --> 0:22:47.359 that he lived his life. Um, she said he did 0:22:47.480 --> 0:22:52.800 what he told women uh not to do? What was that? 0:22:53.800 --> 0:22:57.880 This is this is right after Kevin died. She had 0:22:57.920 --> 0:23:02.080 made the comment. She called Kevin a hypocrite and said 0:23:02.119 --> 0:23:07.040 that he was having uh he did with he won 0:23:07.200 --> 0:23:11.080 women again and that was he was with a woman 0:23:11.680 --> 0:23:15.400 that was not black. And that's that's that's what she said. 0:23:15.400 --> 0:23:17.320 He was with a woman that was not black and 0:23:17.480 --> 0:23:22.399 she was uh in her opinion, I guess overweight and 0:23:23.119 --> 0:23:34.680 what so that's that's that's a complete farce. She's obviously uninformed. Yeah, 0:23:35.080 --> 0:23:37.440 probably should watch it because she's gonna get herself for 0:23:37.520 --> 0:23:44.440 defamation damn lawsuit that's from the or or. Uh. These 0:23:44.480 --> 0:23:47.679 disparaging remarks are just gonna cause for his fan base 0:23:48.240 --> 0:23:54.160 to um. Definitely already just a lot of times we 0:23:54.160 --> 0:23:56.760 we we balked at the idea of let's wait to 0:23:56.800 --> 0:23:59.000 get all the facts and before we make a decision. 0:24:00.359 --> 0:24:03.760 Vivica Fox and all of these different people have obviously 0:24:03.920 --> 0:24:08.400 made a crucial era and jumping to conclusions without even 0:24:08.480 --> 0:24:11.960 knowing the facts. They're basing their information on what's on 0:24:12.000 --> 0:24:15.280 the internet. And if you begin to base your information 0:24:15.320 --> 0:24:19.040 and your knowledge on the Internet purely without double checking, 0:24:19.480 --> 0:24:21.800 you're gonna make a mistake. And that's what you saw 0:24:21.880 --> 0:24:25.960 happen there. So I'm I would suggest that all of 0:24:26.000 --> 0:24:31.840 these periodicals, media media, take out l A Times, the 0:24:31.840 --> 0:24:35.560 New York Times, begin to very be very careful with 0:24:35.600 --> 0:24:38.320 the statements that they're making. Again, I'm not representing the 0:24:38.520 --> 0:24:42.560 estate of Kevin Samuels. He has his own attorneys for that. 0:24:42.600 --> 0:24:45.639 We're in talks with the same lawyers who represented uh 0:24:45.760 --> 0:24:49.159 Cardi b both in in Atlanta and New York, and 0:24:49.200 --> 0:24:52.560 they should probably be very careful about this. You know 0:24:52.680 --> 0:24:56.959 this again, this is my friend, okay, and you know 0:24:57.440 --> 0:25:01.080 I look forward to doing business with him. But the 0:25:01.119 --> 0:25:03.920 thing that I'm looking out for now is his mother 0:25:04.840 --> 0:25:08.600 and his daughter who's trying to graduate from college on Saturday, 0:25:08.840 --> 0:25:11.360 and for her to see her she is not her 0:25:11.400 --> 0:25:14.919 father is not. His only daughter is graduated from college 0:25:14.920 --> 0:25:17.520 on Saturday, and he's not gonna be there to see her. 0:25:18.400 --> 0:25:21.399 His poor mother, who didn't even know he was famous, 0:25:22.320 --> 0:25:29.200 had to learn about her son dying from the internet. 0:25:31.280 --> 0:25:36.440 There have been news reporters contacting his mother, who was 0:25:36.480 --> 0:25:39.639 in her seventies, to try to get her response to 0:25:39.880 --> 0:25:43.040 the n one tape where this woman is frantically trying 0:25:43.040 --> 0:25:45.679 to save his life. They want her response. This has 0:25:45.720 --> 0:25:49.960 been a despicable display all the way around. And when 0:25:49.960 --> 0:25:52.760