1
00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:02,239
Speaker 1: Second date up dated.

2
00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:08,080
Speaker 2: You can't spell desperation without Brook and Jeffrey in the morning,

3
00:00:09,080 --> 00:00:10,920
Speaker 2: I can't spell well, but I think that's right. That's

4
00:00:11,039 --> 00:00:15,360
Speaker 2: absolutely pretty much desperation is what made our listener email

5
00:00:15,440 --> 00:00:18,880
Speaker 2: us for help today. I'm not saying he's desperate, but

6
00:00:19,000 --> 00:00:21,120
Speaker 2: you know what it feels like when you've tried every

7
00:00:21,160 --> 00:00:25,120
Speaker 2: other option, You've exhausted every good idea, You've reached out

8
00:00:25,200 --> 00:00:28,920
Speaker 2: to every other reputable company and are getting nothing back.

9
00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:32,440
Speaker 2: Eventually you say, fine, I'll talk to Brook and Jeffrey.

10
00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:35,200
Speaker 3: No, it doesn't feel as good to be the last

11
00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:36,680
Speaker 3: resort when you explain it that way.

12
00:00:37,120 --> 00:00:39,560
Speaker 2: The fact that we are a resort should feel good.

13
00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:42,320
Speaker 2: We are on the list, even if it's at the

14
00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:45,720
Speaker 2: very bottom. And that's what made our listener absolutely that's

15
00:00:45,760 --> 00:00:49,240
Speaker 2: what made our listener, Dorman, email the show for help today. Dorman,

16
00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:53,080
Speaker 2: it's an absolute pleasure to have you. Welcome to the show.

17
00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:54,800
Speaker 2: Fun name, that's your real name, Dorman.

18
00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:57,880
Speaker 4: Yeah, thank you guys for having me.

19
00:00:58,240 --> 00:01:02,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, well, desperate times.

20
00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:04,120
Speaker 2: We are excited to have you on the show. Tell

21
00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:06,399
Speaker 2: us about the woman that you are trying to get

22
00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:07,360
Speaker 2: a hold of. What's her name?

23
00:01:08,040 --> 00:01:09,160
Speaker 4: Her name is Gelanda.

24
00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:11,600
Speaker 3: Okay, where'd you guys meet?

25
00:01:12,200 --> 00:01:15,520
Speaker 4: We met online, and what made her stand out to

26
00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:17,720
Speaker 4: me was like, obviously I thought she was very attractive

27
00:01:17,760 --> 00:01:21,319
Speaker 4: and cute, but like just her prompts and stuff, she

28
00:01:21,400 --> 00:01:24,600
Speaker 4: seemed really intentional and playful at the same time.

29
00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:27,120
Speaker 2: She's sorry, what do you mean by intentional? What does

30
00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:27,760
Speaker 2: that mean to you?

31
00:01:28,400 --> 00:01:30,640
Speaker 4: To me, that means like somebody who's actually like being

32
00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:33,039
Speaker 4: honest and transparent. She took the time to fill out

33
00:01:33,080 --> 00:01:35,520
Speaker 4: her actual profile. It wasn't just like one or two

34
00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:36,240
Speaker 4: word answers.

35
00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:38,840
Speaker 3: You know, can I ask what your favorite thing that

36
00:01:38,920 --> 00:01:39,800
Speaker 3: she wrote was?

37
00:01:41,360 --> 00:01:44,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, forget like the exact wording of it, but it

38
00:01:44,040 --> 00:01:46,560
Speaker 4: was like a joke about like Harry Potter and like

39
00:01:46,680 --> 00:01:50,360
Speaker 4: she had a tattoo of it, and people just thought, like,

40
00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:52,800
Speaker 4: it's the little Lightning Strike. But people just thought it

41
00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:54,440
Speaker 4: was about the Flash, the superhero.

42
00:01:54,640 --> 00:01:58,800
Speaker 3: Oh, okay, she's got weird tattoos.

43
00:01:58,080 --> 00:01:58,600
Speaker 2: Not weird.

44
00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:02,280
Speaker 3: Cool and old people were the only ones that would

45
00:02:02,320 --> 00:02:04,000
Speaker 3: associate it with the Flash, right.

46
00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:04,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, what does that mean?

47
00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:07,559
Speaker 2: I mean there's a new Flash TV show that's airing

48
00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:09,880
Speaker 2: right now. Pretty big. I didn't want to call her out.

49
00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:10,799
Speaker 5: Oh I didn't know that either.

50
00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:14,320
Speaker 2: You're just going to insult the Flash like.

51
00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:16,240
Speaker 3: A seventies superhero or something.

52
00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:17,840
Speaker 2: I think all the superheroes are coming back.

53
00:02:17,880 --> 00:02:19,400
Speaker 3: Someone play the Flash.

54
00:02:19,520 --> 00:02:21,920
Speaker 2: No, alexis they picked the first ugly guy ever to

55
00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:22,440
Speaker 2: be the star.

56
00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:24,720
Speaker 1: Then I don't care anymore about Okay, so good.

57
00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:28,920
Speaker 2: So bottom line is you appreciated her and her profiles.

58
00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:31,280
Speaker 2: So tell us about how you interacted with her, Like

59
00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:31,959
Speaker 2: what was your date?

60
00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:35,079
Speaker 4: So I was thrilled that she wanted to go out.

61
00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:39,400
Speaker 4: I picked this spot. It's like really known for their chili.

62
00:02:39,520 --> 00:02:41,560
Speaker 4: It's supposed to be like world famous.

63
00:02:43,840 --> 00:02:45,520
Speaker 2: Chilly is a great first date.

64
00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:49,720
Speaker 3: Food, Like people love chili.

65
00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:51,560
Speaker 2: I mean my point was that you don't think of

66
00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:53,959
Speaker 2: chili as a really romantic food that you want to

67
00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:56,560
Speaker 2: eat and then make out afterwards. So that, yeah, you

68
00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:59,120
Speaker 2: can be a little but I guess going on an

69
00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:01,360
Speaker 2: adventure to taste the best chili in town that could

70
00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:03,560
Speaker 2: be a bonding experience. Right, So how did that go?

71
00:03:04,200 --> 00:03:07,040
Speaker 4: So it was good. I'm going to be like really

72
00:03:07,040 --> 00:03:09,520
Speaker 4: transparent with you guys, like because I'm asking you for help.

73
00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:14,040
Speaker 4: So like at the restaurant, I did catch myself rambling,

74
00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:17,400
Speaker 4: and when I reflect on that, I was like Okay,

75
00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:22,680
Speaker 4: that's nervousness and maybe a him of insecurity. Like I

76
00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:25,760
Speaker 4: was just like, this girl is so cool and I

77
00:03:25,800 --> 00:03:27,440
Speaker 4: haven't had a girlfriend in a while, and she would

78
00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:31,160
Speaker 4: be an awesome girlfriend. She's smart, she's funny. She was

79
00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:33,000
Speaker 4: like super self aware of everything.

80
00:03:34,400 --> 00:03:35,400
Speaker 2: See yourself with somebody.

81
00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:36,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it sounds like you have a lot of

82
00:03:36,880 --> 00:03:39,800
Speaker 3: self awareness. I mean you maybe have babbled a little bit, but.

83
00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:42,120
Speaker 4: It gets worse a little bit. Maybe, I don't know.

84
00:03:44,040 --> 00:03:45,440
Speaker 2: Okay, how does it get worse?

85
00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:48,480
Speaker 4: Well, I just told her I'm close to my mom,

86
00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:51,680
Speaker 4: and like I talked to her daily, and there's a

87
00:03:51,720 --> 00:03:54,920
Speaker 4: tradition from years ago where like every Friday before I

88
00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:56,840
Speaker 4: go to work, I go to my mom's place to

89
00:03:56,880 --> 00:03:59,440
Speaker 4: see her, and she always like packs my lunch for me.

90
00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:02,680
Speaker 3: She passed your lunch.

91
00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:05,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, just kind of like how she used to when

92
00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:06,360
Speaker 4: I was a kid, you know.

93
00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:10,080
Speaker 2: Okay, well, at least you know again self aware, right, bro? Yeah,

94
00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:10,880
Speaker 2: this could be it.

95
00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:12,840
Speaker 3: What was her reaction?

96
00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:15,720
Speaker 4: I mean, in the moment, she was super nice. She

97
00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:18,240
Speaker 4: was just listening. I kept rambling and I changed the

98
00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:21,080
Speaker 4: subject to something else. But I don't know how it landed.

99
00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:24,120
Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, that's a lot.

100
00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:26,760
Speaker 2: You wouldn't take that guy home immediately Brook after he

101
00:04:26,800 --> 00:04:27,880
Speaker 2: came out with that information.

102
00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:30,480
Speaker 3: Honestly, I think if you just said every Friday, I

103
00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:34,640
Speaker 3: go see my mom, awesome, perfect. It was the details

104
00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:37,080
Speaker 3: that lunch and the childhood.

105
00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:38,880
Speaker 5: But what if the mom would pack her lunch too?

106
00:04:39,360 --> 00:04:43,560
Speaker 2: Then you know, now we get too first. Okay, make

107
00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:46,760
Speaker 2: all of us lunch, not your mother. If it doesn't

108
00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:49,400
Speaker 2: work out with Yolanda, hear Alexis is ready to jump

109
00:04:49,440 --> 00:04:50,480
Speaker 2: on board with you and your.

110
00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:56,720
Speaker 5: I would need to see the menu.

111
00:04:56,880 --> 00:04:59,360
Speaker 3: All you need is an uncrustable every Friday.

112
00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:02,000
Speaker 2: All right, So your mom might be on the hook

113
00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:04,320
Speaker 2: here soon. But how did the date with you and

114
00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:05,240
Speaker 2: Yolanda end?

115
00:05:06,040 --> 00:05:08,760
Speaker 4: Overall? It was good, but I will say it wasn't

116
00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:11,880
Speaker 4: the longest date because I didn't think the chili thing through.

117
00:05:12,080 --> 00:05:14,360
Speaker 4: I was like, I gotta hit the restroom.

118
00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:17,240
Speaker 1: Oh no, it did backfire.

119
00:05:17,440 --> 00:05:19,760
Speaker 3: So you're the one that ended things early and you

120
00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:22,040
Speaker 3: had to rush home to use the restroom.

121
00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:23,680
Speaker 4: And I'm the one that drove her there, So I

122
00:05:23,720 --> 00:05:25,760
Speaker 4: was like, you know, I have to keep this all together.

123
00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:29,120
Speaker 4: Still drive her back home before I get home to myself.

124
00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:33,479
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, sometimes it ends the date and you're not

125
00:05:33,480 --> 00:05:36,880
Speaker 2: expecting it totally or speeding at eighty miles per hour home,

126
00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:43,080
Speaker 2: it might be hit that something's wrong with a bumper

127
00:05:43,120 --> 00:05:44,600
Speaker 2: sticker on the back of your car that said we

128
00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:50,920
Speaker 2: just had the best chili in town. Look out. There's

129
00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:51,960
Speaker 2: a little bit of regret.

130
00:05:52,279 --> 00:05:54,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, and you know, I was just in my defense

131
00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:57,200
Speaker 4: trying to avoid any awkward situations in the car.

132
00:05:57,440 --> 00:06:00,880
Speaker 3: Totally totally. I mean it could happen to any.

133
00:06:00,400 --> 00:06:02,840
Speaker 2: So how long has it been since that date happened?

134
00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:04,800
Speaker 4: Eight days?

135
00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:05,039
Speaker 3: Now?

136
00:06:05,480 --> 00:06:08,200
Speaker 2: Okay, I mean eight days. It could have taken her

137
00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:11,640
Speaker 2: that long to recover from the chili dinner, so maybe

138
00:06:11,640 --> 00:06:14,640
Speaker 2: she just needed a little extra time chilli.

139
00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:17,440
Speaker 3: So I'm really hoping we were done with talking about

140
00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:17,880
Speaker 3: this part.

141
00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:20,599
Speaker 2: Well, actually, we'll have to see when we call Yolanda

142
00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:22,640
Speaker 2: and try and get you a second date update, a

143
00:06:22,720 --> 00:06:24,920
Speaker 2: successful one coming up right after this.

144
00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:27,760
Speaker 1: Hold on second date update.

145
00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:32,640
Speaker 2: If you're just joining us, let's recap the highlights from

146
00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:37,960
Speaker 2: Dorman's first date. A couple big bowls of chili. There

147
00:06:37,960 --> 00:06:40,920
Speaker 2: were a few stories of Dorman's mom making his lunch

148
00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:46,080
Speaker 2: still to this day, just like Fridays, only on Fridays

149
00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:49,279
Speaker 2: and he's only thirty four years old, followed by a

150
00:06:49,400 --> 00:06:52,919
Speaker 2: rocket ship car ride back to Yolanda's house because the

151
00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:54,560
Speaker 2: chili was starting to kick in.

152
00:06:54,720 --> 00:06:56,120
Speaker 3: It sounds like you put a corner in one of

153
00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:58,479
Speaker 3: those machines outside of like a grocery store.

154
00:06:58,600 --> 00:07:01,760
Speaker 2: That's what it felt like to is inside. I'm sure

155
00:07:01,920 --> 00:07:02,080
Speaker 2: you know.

156
00:07:02,120 --> 00:07:03,680
Speaker 3: What we didn't ask is if he even came to

157
00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:05,520
Speaker 3: a full stop before she got out of the car.

158
00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:09,520
Speaker 2: Gordon, did you make her tucking roll out the vehicle

159
00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:10,480
Speaker 2: before you sped home?

160
00:07:11,400 --> 00:07:14,120
Speaker 4: No, but she's the first girl in a long time

161
00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:16,000
Speaker 4: that has girlfriend potential.

162
00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:18,320
Speaker 3: You know. Yeah, well listen, if she can see past

163
00:07:18,360 --> 00:07:20,480
Speaker 3: all of this, then she may be the right person

164
00:07:20,520 --> 00:07:21,640
Speaker 3: for material.

165
00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:24,280
Speaker 2: We're going to do our very best to go to

166
00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:26,200
Speaker 2: bat for you and make sure you lock down a

167
00:07:26,200 --> 00:07:28,240
Speaker 2: second date with Yolanda. Are you ready to do this?

168
00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:30,720
Speaker 4: Man? Yeah, let's do it, all right?

169
00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:32,480
Speaker 2: Is your mom ready to do this?

170
00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:34,800
Speaker 1: She's not behind you, she.

171
00:07:34,880 --> 00:07:36,280
Speaker 3: Was back on the speaker phone.

172
00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:40,880
Speaker 2: I swear this time, all right, work with what we've

173
00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:53,840
Speaker 2: got here we go. Hello, Hey, is this Yolanda? Ah?

174
00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:55,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah.

175
00:07:56,000 --> 00:07:58,080
Speaker 2: This is a radio show called Brook and Jeffrey in

176
00:07:58,120 --> 00:07:58,520
Speaker 2: the Morning.

177
00:07:59,720 --> 00:08:05,160
Speaker 3: Him great question, as to the point.

178
00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:07,840
Speaker 2: I've heard better questions, but you know what, I'll answer

179
00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:10,880
Speaker 2: this one. Uh. This it's a segment that we do.

180
00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:12,280
Speaker 2: It's called a second date update.

181
00:08:13,640 --> 00:08:15,920
Speaker 6: Okay, and I still don't know where you guys are

182
00:08:15,960 --> 00:08:16,280
Speaker 6: calling me.

183
00:08:17,360 --> 00:08:19,960
Speaker 2: So the second date update is where we have a

184
00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:22,240
Speaker 2: listener who isn't sure why they're not getting a call

185
00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:24,760
Speaker 2: back for another meetup after they went out with a

186
00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:25,400
Speaker 2: lovely person.

187
00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:27,520
Speaker 5: I'm so sorry, guys, I really feel like you might

188
00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:28,360
Speaker 5: have the wrong person.

189
00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:34,200
Speaker 2: Well, okay, you any dates the fact that, yeah, we

190
00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:36,120
Speaker 2: we got your number from a guy you went out

191
00:08:36,120 --> 00:08:40,560
Speaker 2: with recently named Dorman. There's probably more than one. It's

192
00:08:40,559 --> 00:08:42,400
Speaker 2: a pretty common name. I've never heard that name.

193
00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:44,040
Speaker 3: I have so many dormans in my life.

194
00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:45,760
Speaker 2: Does that ring a bell? Dorman?

195
00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:46,120
Speaker 3: Yeah?

196
00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:46,959
Speaker 4: I know who that is.

197
00:08:47,679 --> 00:08:49,680
Speaker 6: Why did he give you my number? I don't that part.

198
00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:50,520
Speaker 4: I don't get well.

199
00:08:50,559 --> 00:08:53,240
Speaker 2: Because he felt like the two of you had a

200
00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:56,120
Speaker 2: really nice time going out to the chili restaurant.

201
00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:59,920
Speaker 3: I mean, he honestly had some really lovely compliments he

202
00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:01,760
Speaker 3: gave about you when we talked to him.

203
00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:03,600
Speaker 4: So that's why you're calling me.

204
00:09:05,040 --> 00:09:07,960
Speaker 2: It's because he liked you and he's confused why there

205
00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:09,720
Speaker 2: hasn't been another meetup?

206
00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:12,040
Speaker 3: Are you upset with him? Because you sound kind of

207
00:09:13,320 --> 00:09:13,760
Speaker 3: just shocked.

208
00:09:14,320 --> 00:09:16,280
Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, this is so weird.

209
00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:19,880
Speaker 2: Is it just a weird question at all?

210
00:09:19,920 --> 00:09:21,760
Speaker 6: It's weird because there's like, I don't even know how

211
00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:23,560
Speaker 6: many people are on the phone, and you're asking me

212
00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:27,080
Speaker 6: about details from a date, Like that's just weird.

213
00:09:27,360 --> 00:09:29,560
Speaker 2: I understand that this suns definitely a lot. It can

214
00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:32,600
Speaker 2: be really overwhelming. So maybe we can just cut to

215
00:09:32,679 --> 00:09:34,880
Speaker 2: the chase. We just want to know, is there one

216
00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:38,800
Speaker 2: main reason, one big red flag for why you're not

217
00:09:39,160 --> 00:09:40,480
Speaker 2: wanting to see Dormant again.

218
00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:43,719
Speaker 3: We're not trying to attack you or anything, not yet,

219
00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:47,839
Speaker 3: so I'll just say this.

220
00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:50,600
Speaker 6: We were at dinner and he brought up a really

221
00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:54,040
Speaker 6: uncomfortable conversation that like didn't sit well with me.

222
00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:56,800
Speaker 2: Oh man, we kind of might know what that is.

223
00:09:56,840 --> 00:09:59,480
Speaker 2: He did say something to us, something involving his mother.

224
00:09:59,679 --> 00:10:03,079
Speaker 6: Maybe No, no, I had nothing to with his mom.

225
00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:03,960
Speaker 2: Oh.

226
00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:07,880
Speaker 6: He he wrought the fact that he had him been

227
00:10:07,920 --> 00:10:10,920
Speaker 6: with a woman romantically in three years.

228
00:10:11,559 --> 00:10:18,319
Speaker 2: He told you that physically he hasn't. Okay, how did

229
00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:18,920
Speaker 2: that come up?

230
00:10:19,240 --> 00:10:21,840
Speaker 5: It didn't, It didn't come up but he just said

231
00:10:21,840 --> 00:10:24,600
Speaker 5: it to me, and he then he followed it up

232
00:10:24,640 --> 00:10:26,200
Speaker 5: with like looking at me dead in the eye, and

233
00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:27,920
Speaker 5: he's like, I hope that can change soon.

234
00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:34,080
Speaker 3: Even respond to that, what did you say?

235
00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:34,800
Speaker 1: I didn't know.

236
00:10:34,840 --> 00:10:35,760
Speaker 4: I didn't say anything.

237
00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:38,800
Speaker 2: He did say that he was rambling a lot during

238
00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:41,080
Speaker 2: the date and was just saying every thought that came

239
00:10:41,120 --> 00:10:43,080
Speaker 2: to his mind. Maybe that was one of them.

240
00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:47,880
Speaker 5: He was really nervous, nervous, but like, why make me

241
00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:48,720
Speaker 5: nervous too?

242
00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:51,440
Speaker 2: Well, I think he's excited. You check a lot of

243
00:10:51,440 --> 00:10:54,080
Speaker 2: boxes for him, and it's probably more common than you

244
00:10:54,080 --> 00:10:57,880
Speaker 2: would think, Like Alexis, that's happened to you multiple times, right, Yeah, I.

245
00:10:57,880 --> 00:11:01,280
Speaker 5: Would totally date those people. Yeah, yeah, I would totally

246
00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:02,240
Speaker 5: give them another chance.

247
00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:07,160
Speaker 3: Okay, I can see I can see where that'd be

248
00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:11,559
Speaker 3: pretty shocking on a day different to say, Okay.

249
00:11:11,160 --> 00:11:13,200
Speaker 6: So now you know I'm going to go now, well,

250
00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:13,880
Speaker 6: hold on.

251
00:11:14,520 --> 00:11:17,600
Speaker 2: It's really important that we know, but it's actually more

252
00:11:17,640 --> 00:11:21,600
Speaker 2: important that Dorman knows that. And well I don't have

253
00:11:21,640 --> 00:11:23,520
Speaker 2: to because he's on the other line listening to this

254
00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:25,280
Speaker 2: right now and wanting to talk.

255
00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:28,679
Speaker 4: To Oh my god, are you serious?

256
00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:38,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry, Dorman, are you there. Yeah, buddy Dorman,

257
00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:39,640
Speaker 2: say hi to Yolanda, say.

258
00:11:39,400 --> 00:11:42,400
Speaker 4: Something Hi, Yolanda.

259
00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:50,120
Speaker 3: Hi, Okay, apologize.

260
00:11:50,640 --> 00:11:55,720
Speaker 4: I'm sorry. We were having chili. I don't know. I just.

261
00:11:56,200 --> 00:11:57,600
Speaker 2: Chili brings up Okay.

262
00:11:57,800 --> 00:11:59,440
Speaker 6: I don't know why you would tell your date that

263
00:11:59,480 --> 00:12:03,600
Speaker 6: you hadn't had sex in three years.

264
00:12:03,679 --> 00:12:06,400
Speaker 4: It's a lot. The chili was spicy. We were talking

265
00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:10,000
Speaker 4: about our love life while eating it, and fun fact,

266
00:12:10,120 --> 00:12:11,680
Speaker 4: I just haven't done it in a while. I had

267
00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:14,720
Speaker 4: just started rambling and when I get nervous, I never

268
00:12:15,000 --> 00:12:15,480
Speaker 4: you're in.

269
00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:20,160
Speaker 6: Front of a bowl of chili, you feel like.

270
00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:21,360
Speaker 3: That's good.

271
00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:22,840
Speaker 2: A lot of girls are gonna test that on their boyfriend.

272
00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:23,400
Speaker 1: Yeah.

273
00:12:23,559 --> 00:12:25,439
Speaker 3: I mean, it's kind of like that interview show The

274
00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:30,320
Speaker 3: Hot Ones. People people confess things they don't realize they

275
00:12:30,320 --> 00:12:32,640
Speaker 3: were going to say because they're just not in control

276
00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:33,520
Speaker 3: of what's happening.

277
00:12:34,559 --> 00:12:36,920
Speaker 4: Yes, I don't know why it came out. I'm sorry

278
00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:40,160
Speaker 4: that it did. But now it's out publicly, so I

279
00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:42,839
Speaker 4: have to depend. But it came out of done.

280
00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:46,720
Speaker 6: It doesn't matter who brought it up. You're the ones

281
00:12:46,760 --> 00:12:49,240
Speaker 6: who said it on the first date. Like that's so weird.

282
00:12:50,760 --> 00:12:55,520
Speaker 4: I mean, it's not weird. Making love is natural thing

283
00:12:55,640 --> 00:13:01,200
Speaker 4: that's just not happening coctly do. I wish that it was,

284
00:13:01,320 --> 00:13:02,760
Speaker 4: and I was just expressing it.

285
00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:06,480
Speaker 6: You tell women that makes it even less likely to happen.

286
00:13:06,559 --> 00:13:09,400
Speaker 3: Okay, wait, wait, wait though, I mean listen, you don't.

287
00:13:09,280 --> 00:13:12,320
Speaker 4: Think I know this. My mom says the same thing.

288
00:13:13,840 --> 00:13:17,880
Speaker 6: You tell your mom about your lack of intimacy.

289
00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:20,920
Speaker 4: I'm not the one that brings it up. Okay, she

290
00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:25,520
Speaker 4: just tells me that like her and dad do it

291
00:13:25,559 --> 00:13:26,160
Speaker 4: more often.

292
00:13:26,480 --> 00:13:31,040
Speaker 3: No, okay, let's not let's not talk anymore.

293
00:13:31,720 --> 00:13:34,160
Speaker 5: But I didn't think I could be more turned off

294
00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:35,560
Speaker 5: at the start of this call.

295
00:13:35,640 --> 00:13:37,280
Speaker 4: But congratulations, he didn't.

296
00:13:37,440 --> 00:13:40,160
Speaker 1: Wait now, I don't know.

297
00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:44,600
Speaker 5: If I'm going to have sex for three years.

298
00:13:44,720 --> 00:13:47,280
Speaker 4: I hope you don't. Then you'll know what it feels like.

299
00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:49,960
Speaker 2: Oh hashtag relatable.

300
00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:54,920
Speaker 5: Okay, oh my god, I can't with you more than anything.

301
00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:56,520
Speaker 2: You want to go back after a date and tell

302
00:13:56,559 --> 00:14:03,400
Speaker 2: his mom about this. This is not going darning. I mean,

303
00:14:03,440 --> 00:14:04,800
Speaker 2: maybe maybe it's going a little.

304
00:14:04,600 --> 00:14:06,000
Speaker 1: Bit better than what.

305
00:14:07,800 --> 00:14:09,719
Speaker 3: In his conversation with his mom about his.

306
00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:13,040
Speaker 2: Mom's sex life. Well, it's his mom's fault that she's

307
00:14:13,120 --> 00:14:17,040
Speaker 2: rubbing that into her son's face. You know what, Dorman.

308
00:14:17,160 --> 00:14:19,360
Speaker 2: Shame on your mom for bragging to you about how

309
00:14:19,440 --> 00:14:21,360
Speaker 2: much action she's getting from your dad.

310
00:14:21,840 --> 00:14:23,840
Speaker 4: Hey, let's leave the mothers out of it.

311
00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:27,120
Speaker 2: Okay, you were the one who brought it up. That

312
00:14:27,280 --> 00:14:28,160
Speaker 2: was your information.

313
00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:29,840
Speaker 5: Yeah, you brought it up.

314
00:14:30,400 --> 00:14:33,240
Speaker 4: Okay, not on the radio. That was over an intimate

315
00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:34,040
Speaker 4: bowl of chili.

316
00:14:34,920 --> 00:14:37,120
Speaker 2: Okay, that was a private bowl of chili.

317
00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:39,720
Speaker 3: I cannot believe it was this and not the other

318
00:14:39,840 --> 00:14:41,320
Speaker 3: things that we had dormant.

319
00:14:41,520 --> 00:14:44,680
Speaker 5: You need to stop talking because every sentence he saying

320
00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:45,360
Speaker 5: makes it worse.

321
00:14:45,560 --> 00:14:47,240
Speaker 2: Okay, you know.

322
00:14:47,200 --> 00:14:49,680
Speaker 4: What at this point, guys, I'm sorry, I'm getting nervous,

323
00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:52,200
Speaker 4: getting rambling, upset everything that I need it too. I'm

324
00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:54,240
Speaker 4: just gonna keep talking. Like fun fact, even when I

325
00:14:54,320 --> 00:14:56,080
Speaker 4: was getting it three years ago, it wasn't that great,

326
00:14:56,400 --> 00:14:58,200
Speaker 4: and you know I wasn't even like the fun stuff.

327
00:15:00,160 --> 00:15:01,000
Speaker 3: We don't want to detail.

328
00:15:01,080 --> 00:15:04,880
Speaker 4: Okay, we've heard enough, but I just think there's a

329
00:15:04,880 --> 00:15:06,360
Speaker 4: connection here that we should.

330
00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:09,400
Speaker 6: Stop talking.

331
00:15:09,880 --> 00:15:11,920
Speaker 2: Okay, he's going to stop talking, and I'm just going

332
00:15:11,960 --> 00:15:13,960
Speaker 2: to pick it up and offer to send you to

333
00:15:14,040 --> 00:15:20,280
Speaker 2: on another day. And we were well, we would Yolanda

334
00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:23,600
Speaker 2: would have changed your mind at all. If it's not chilly. No,

335
00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:26,880
Speaker 2: it's possible that.

336
00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:28,480
Speaker 3: Jeff thought that was the issue.

337
00:15:29,080 --> 00:15:31,120
Speaker 2: Seems to be the thing that's bringing up all of

338
00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:36,080
Speaker 2: these deep seated memories, and.

339
00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:38,320
Speaker 4: Cob Salad, I appreciate it. Some people are just too judgmental.

340
00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:41,920
Speaker 2: You know. That's well said Dorman, and we appreciate you

341
00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:44,800
Speaker 2: coming on the show and being open with us. Far

342
00:15:44,880 --> 00:15:46,960
Speaker 2: too open for anybody to be comfortable with.

343
00:15:47,120 --> 00:15:52,360
Speaker 3: But you know what a break after this the other room.

344
00:15:52,640 --> 00:15:54,560
Speaker 2: We all wish you a lot of luck getting over

345
00:15:54,680 --> 00:15:56,680
Speaker 2: your hill that you're trying to climb.

346
00:15:56,440 --> 00:16:00,239
Speaker 1: Here, Rookie Jeffrey in the morning, Brooke.

347
00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:03,520
Speaker 2: You've had a few moments to recover after that fiasco.

348
00:16:03,680 --> 00:16:06,680
Speaker 2: Are you feeling any better about what we just heard? Oh?

349
00:16:06,760 --> 00:16:10,440
Speaker 3: My, I honestly think that he's a good person and

350
00:16:10,520 --> 00:16:13,280
Speaker 3: that he like I don't think he means to be

351
00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:15,120
Speaker 3: socially awkward.

352
00:16:15,360 --> 00:16:19,120
Speaker 1: So open ye close it down a little bit, buddy.

353
00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:19,600
Speaker 4: Yeah.

354
00:16:19,640 --> 00:16:22,320
Speaker 2: I don't think we've ever had somebody on the show

355
00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:25,360
Speaker 2: in the middle of a date. Admit, I haven't gotten

356
00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:28,120
Speaker 2: action from a woman in three years, But I'm hoping

357
00:16:28,200 --> 00:16:32,040
Speaker 2: that's going to change. Looking at you, at least he

358
00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:35,240
Speaker 2: didn't say never. I mean, that's Yeah, he's got hope.

359
00:16:35,280 --> 00:16:35,960
Speaker 2: It's crazy.

360
00:16:36,080 --> 00:16:38,280
Speaker 5: She was like, Oh, I get to be the lucky.

361
00:16:37,960 --> 00:16:42,120
Speaker 2: One because I'm a believer in manifestation, in trying to

362
00:16:42,160 --> 00:16:45,320
Speaker 2: put your wants out there into the world. I don't

363
00:16:45,360 --> 00:16:46,760
Speaker 2: think this is quite the right.

364
00:16:46,600 --> 00:16:47,120
Speaker 1: Way to do it.

365
00:16:47,680 --> 00:16:49,280
Speaker 3: That's the world, not into your date.

366
00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:52,400
Speaker 2: Although who knows, maybe after this Dorman's gonna have twelve

367
00:16:52,520 --> 00:16:56,240
Speaker 2: women in a single week, almost as many sessions as

368
00:16:56,240 --> 00:17:01,280
Speaker 2: his mom and dad have. Keep dreaming, Dorm, I'm still

369
00:17:01,320 --> 00:17:03,280
Speaker 2: looking for someone to text in to go out with him.

370
00:17:03,480 --> 00:17:05,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm literally looking.

371
00:17:05,200 --> 00:17:07,720
Speaker 2: Somebody's out there for him, and there's somebody out there

372
00:17:07,720 --> 00:17:10,440
Speaker 2: for everybody. If you need some help in your dating life,

373
00:17:10,520 --> 00:17:12,800
Speaker 2: email the show. We can call that person who's not

374
00:17:12,880 --> 00:17:15,040
Speaker 2: calling you back. Go check out all of our second

375
00:17:15,080 --> 00:17:17,400
Speaker 2: dates wherever you get your podcasts. They're up online at

376
00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:18,200
Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey