Speaker 1: Hey, fam I'm Jada Pinkett Smith and this is the
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Speaker 1: married couple and their girlfriend. Thomas and I are in
Speaker 1: an open relationship after one year of meeting each other. Definitely,
Speaker 1: sex is part of it, but it's not the first thing.
Speaker 1: It's a three way relationship called a thruffle. I'm not
Speaker 1: doing it to be like, oh look at me because
Speaker 1: of the sex. It's nothing to do with me, and
Speaker 1: that's what men think it is and I hate it.
Speaker 1: Would you have a problem with Willow decided to be
Speaker 1: in the throuffle? Jada and Gamey, Have you ever been
Speaker 1: interested in being in a throuffle? Hell? Yeah, hell no?
Speaker 1: Have you ever had a three? Are you learning too
Speaker 1: much about your mother? I'm going to be open. Well,
Speaker 1: you've been so interested in polyamory and she's been reading
Speaker 1: and listening to podcasts. So here's a crash course on polyamory. Okay,
Speaker 1: let me break it down. Polyamory is an honest romantic
Speaker 1: relationship with multiple people at the same time, no secrets
Speaker 1: or lies. A throuble is the type of polyamorous relationship
Speaker 1: three people having a consensual romance. Polyamory is not polygamy.
Speaker 1: That's when a man has multiple wives. And it's not swinging,
Speaker 1: where couples have casual sex. The polyamory community is diverse,
Speaker 1: all ages, genders, religions and backgrounds. There's a lot of love.
Speaker 1: We all love each other very much. I'm very in
Speaker 1: love with Christina and I'm very in love with Benno.
Speaker 1: As the divorce rates continue to climb and attitudes become
Speaker 1: more and more relaxed, more people are investigating poly break
Speaker 1: There's are young people that have watched their parents get divorce,
Speaker 1: their friends parents get and they're looking for an alternative.
Speaker 1: And I mean even for people who are in law
Speaker 1: relationships like myself. I'm constantly will and are constantly in
Speaker 1: conversations about alternatives. You know what I'm saying. Have had
Speaker 1: the discussion, you know, because being married to listen forever.
Speaker 1: But I think this is the scariest thought that people
Speaker 1: just shy away from. It's the feeling of feeling like
Speaker 1: the person that you love is falling in love with
Speaker 1: somebody else, and that insecurity, that insecurity and fear just
Speaker 1: eats us alive. But this is the thing that insecurity
Speaker 1: and fear is something that we need to overcome and
Speaker 1: something that we need to evolve out of and change
Speaker 1: that and transmute that into something new and different that
Speaker 1: can actually be helpful and make us love more and
Speaker 1: more freely. And monogamy, I feel this is just I'm
Speaker 1: not personalis is just for me. I feel actually inhibits
Speaker 1: you from learning those skills of evolving past those feelings
Speaker 1: of insecurity and well jealousy, you know what I mean
Speaker 1: monogamy because there's different stages, you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: So monogamy gives you the same thing in a different way.
Speaker 1: But but what I'm saying is that it's like that
Speaker 1: feeling of like, oh no, like you can't do this,
Speaker 1: that feeling of like if you were to do this,
Speaker 1: the world would crumble on both sides, right, And I
Speaker 1: feel like that's just not a healthy way. There's no freedom.
Speaker 1: It's for you, is what you're saying. Yeah, exactly. I
Speaker 1: have done a lot of reading and research, and what
Speaker 1: you find a lot of the time is that marriage
Speaker 1: and monogamy is steeped in this idea of ownership, and
Speaker 1: so I feel like those underlying historical oppressive natures that
Speaker 1: were the beginnings of monogamy and marriage. Marriage wasn't about love,
Speaker 1: it was about monetary exchange. Is that your distaste from
Speaker 1: monogamy is that you feel like it's oppressive to the woman.
Speaker 1: I feel like it very well can be, because monogamy
Speaker 1: can work. I mean we've see, yeah, I have. It's
Speaker 1: been around work for thousands of years, right. I think
Speaker 1: that people are just trying to figure out how to
Speaker 1: do it differently. And divorce is an epidemic and it's
Speaker 1: an emotional desert out here, and people are really trying
Speaker 1: to find meaning and true love and compassion connect in
Speaker 1: the most authentic way. How to connect in the most
Speaker 1: authentic way. I I don't know about this polyamory, but
Speaker 1: but it's even it's not even like the word polyamory
Speaker 1: like putting to me. It's more about the meaning of
Speaker 1: like you can create the kind of relationship that you
Speaker 1: want for your life, for yourself. It's about creating a
Speaker 1: community in which there's interconnected compassion and communication and love.
Speaker 1: And it's really about for me, the evolution of human
Speaker 1: relations and because some evolution can come through. But personally
Speaker 1: for me, just what I've observed in life, it just
Speaker 1: seems that way personally for me. So again, would you
Speaker 1: be in a polyamorous relationship? I don't think that that
Speaker 1: is for me. I know, I'm not have to think
Speaker 1: about it. No, no, no, no, it's not. Maybe if
Speaker 1: I were younger, but certainly not at this time in
Speaker 1: my life. I find it so challenging to be in
Speaker 1: the committed relationship that that I'm in, Like, I have
Speaker 1: so much work to do on myself, and we talk endlessly,
Speaker 1: you know, to try to make sure that we are
Speaker 1: on the same page. I can't imagine that. Like Rodney's
Speaker 1: always focusing on how we handle each other, how we
Speaker 1: treat each other, how we talked to one another, how
Speaker 1: you treat the other person, or the other you bring
Speaker 1: in somebody else, say, girl, By, do you think you
Speaker 1: can be in love with two people at the same time? Um?
Speaker 1: I do? Okay, there it is. And this is amazing,
Speaker 1: niversal because I think you love many people at the
Speaker 1: same time, differently, very differently. People have to have the
Speaker 1: freedom to decide whatever components they need in order to
Speaker 1: make their situation work. Would you have a problem if
Speaker 1: Willow decided to be in a threatle or in a quadruple,
Speaker 1: I would not be excited about that. I would not.
Speaker 1: I just I don't. It doesn't sit well with me.
Speaker 1: It doesn't sit well with me because I feel like
Speaker 1: I don't understand um this quote unquote emotional commitment. At
Speaker 1: the end of the day, I don't feel like that's
Speaker 1: what it's really about. You know, in my mind, I'm
Speaker 1: feeling like they're just trying to enjoy sexual relationships with
Speaker 1: other people. And that's fine too, and calling it something else,
Speaker 1: but I feel like, just call it what it is. Well,
Speaker 1: then you would just swing. Now, see that's the same
Speaker 1: swingers just swing, So just do that. But see, but
Speaker 1: there's not that, there's a little swings. They want to
Speaker 1: have an intimate really, they want to relationship, and that's
Speaker 1: the difference. But that's why you have so many swingers.
Speaker 1: Some people don't even some people don't want to don't
Speaker 1: want to have sex, and that's why they go into
Speaker 1: poems relationships. But is that something beyond if I would
Speaker 1: like it? Is that something that you want? Of course?
Speaker 1: This is the thing. There's so many different kinds of
Speaker 1: people in this world, and so many things to learn,
Speaker 1: so many people to learn from, and I don't see
Speaker 1: the benefit in not learning those things, or in not
Speaker 1: putting myself in a position to learn as much as
Speaker 1: I possibly can from as many people as I possibly can.
Speaker 1: Get Ready, get ready to me, and that your perspective
Speaker 1: is the most important thing, Like your intention, because some
Speaker 1: people don't have pure intentions, and those are the people
Speaker 1: that you just don't want in your life. If your
Speaker 1: intention is to create more love, more understanding, more community,
Speaker 1: more compassion in your life, then I'm all for it.
Speaker 1: But if your intention is to just have sex all
Speaker 1: the time and it's not with whoever you want, that
Speaker 1: just doesn't sit well with me. That's not aligned with
Speaker 1: my purpose. So I really couldn't see myself in a quadruple.
Speaker 1: I mean, anything could happen, but personally male and female,
Speaker 1: that's all I need. Well, there it is, she says
Speaker 1: she wants in each game. How does that make me feel?
Speaker 1: Because I think my stomach just listen, you know me, Willow,
Speaker 1: whatever makes you have Willow is really young and so
Speaker 1: so much to experiment with. And I always tell her
Speaker 1: never be afraid because I just know you have to
Speaker 1: live who you're not to know who you are, So
Speaker 1: don't be afraid to go into things that you might
Speaker 1: find out. That's not asking for me. Okay. So I'm
Speaker 1: listening to you guys, and I'm trying to stay open minded,
Speaker 1: but my gut tells me this is a bunch of frackinackle. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 1: You know what's so interesting though, why it's so not
Speaker 1: foreign for me too, is that I've had a non
Speaker 1: sexual throutle for years. When you have your husband that
Speaker 1: has taken care of another woman, that's spending time with
Speaker 1: another woman, it's the same thing. And that I said
Speaker 1: when you asked me, did I feel like you could
Speaker 1: love someone more than one person at a time. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: because I know that will love Shari. I know that
Speaker 1: Rodney loves his daughter's mother's right, you know, so yeah, absolutely,
Speaker 1: But I just expect their relationship to be different, loves
Speaker 1: to be doing right when I'm thinking about monogamy, like
Speaker 1: I'm just You're eighteen years old, and I'm thinking about
Speaker 1: all the relationships that I've been in in my lifetime.
Speaker 1: There you go. It's a generational show called The Red Table.
Speaker 1: So Willow told us about this thruffle that she saw
Speaker 1: on social media that we really wanted to bring to
Speaker 1: the Red Table, and they have agreed to come and
Speaker 1: share their polyamorous relationship with us and educate us. Hi.
Speaker 1: I'm Nick and I'm Thomas's girlfriend. Hi'm Katherine, I'm Thomas's wife. Hi,
Speaker 1: I'm Thomas and Nicholl's my girlfriend and Katherine is my wife.
Speaker 1: We've been together in nine months. I mean Katherine been
Speaker 1: together for eight years and married four or five. We
Speaker 1: got that right well. Then I met Cathy through work
Speaker 1: and we met and went on a freeway date, and
Speaker 1: Thomas and I had quite strong connection. The rest of history.
Speaker 1: People assume that when you have a second or third
Speaker 1: person join your relationship that it's because you're unhappy. We
Speaker 1: wanted to just be open and honest about our attraction
Speaker 1: to other people. You really just can't control who you're
Speaker 1: going to get attached to you Once you don't have
Speaker 1: like a social circle that judges you on stuff, and
Speaker 1: you can do whatever you want. We would like to
Speaker 1: normalize our situation and normalized conversation around it. Yeah, the
Speaker 1: best thing about this is being able to tell people
Speaker 1: at being in a throopol is a thing welcome. So
Speaker 1: how did this all come to be? Thomas and I
Speaker 1: were in an open relationship from after one year of
Speaker 1: meeting each other, was something we decided. But Nicole and
Speaker 1: I were friends from work. I heard through the grapevine
Speaker 1: they were in an open marriage, and I was like,
Speaker 1: what the heck is that? Oh wow, okay, so we
Speaker 1: both knew about each other, but we were kind of
Speaker 1: professional that we work, and then we organized an event
Speaker 1: when Thomas came to the event that evening and we
Speaker 1: read up for a drink beforehand in this spar and
Speaker 1: it's just crazy sparks flu between them. Really really, We're
Speaker 1: both like, so, had you guys talked about it before
Speaker 1: this or was this a completely cold I mean, we've
Speaker 1: been another relationships for the people before. This isn't the
Speaker 1: first thruffle relationship you've had. We had a quadruple before,
Speaker 1: ye okay, yeah. Game is trying to figure it out.
Speaker 1: I really am. I'm trying to, you know, be open
Speaker 1: minded and just trying to understand when you the two
Speaker 1: of you first got together, was your union intended to
Speaker 1: be polyamorous? When we first got together, we were monogamous.
Speaker 1: We knew we knew nothing else, and we were fine
Speaker 1: with that. We were like, so, well, what made that change?
Speaker 1: Just as our relationship developed, it just naturally went that way.
Speaker 1: And we went with Betha on our first ever holiday,
Speaker 1: and these guys hit on me by a bar and
Speaker 1: Thomas was visibly enjoying the fact I was getting attention,
Speaker 1: and I just started to buzz. I was like, I
Speaker 1: literally cannot predict this guy. I fell in love with
Speaker 1: him on the spot, right And then I brought it
Speaker 1: up with him afterwards because we were comparing it to
Speaker 1: other relationships, and you said, like, you know, I love
Speaker 1: it when people give you attention. For me, that's like
Speaker 1: a huge compliment. Also feel very secure in our relationship.
Speaker 1: But there's something about it. It It makes me feel good.
Speaker 1: Fast forward to times when Thomas has and found other
Speaker 1: people attractive as well, Like I get this like buzz
Speaker 1: because I don't feel threatened. I don't feel like I
Speaker 1: was saying about people falling in love with someone else
Speaker 1: might be in the end of the relationship. I don't
Speaker 1: feel like that. Thomason every never makes me feel like that.
Speaker 1: It was so secure in our relationship, also very secure
Speaker 1: in himself, Like I don't know anyone that cares less
Speaker 1: about what other people think about him than Thomas, because
Speaker 1: most men would not be able to have I've never
Speaker 1: seen it before. Would you say that they're on is
Speaker 1: that you have that these two can go back and
Speaker 1: forth with giving you what you need. Yeah, and also
Speaker 1: that there's needs outside of these relationships. So would you
Speaker 1: say that that's part of why this works? Is it
Speaker 1: because you had that understanding that not one person can
Speaker 1: facilitate and it's sorts of the other side feeling that
Speaker 1: pressure like I've got to give everything for this person?
Speaker 1: Like what pressure that for one person to take on?
Speaker 1: Do you feel like something was missing in your relationship
Speaker 1: where you had to bring in somebody else though people
Speaker 1: I said all the time I have to used to
Speaker 1: defend it and safe. We've never brought anyone in. It's
Speaker 1: just happened. It's not looked for anything. But I need this.
Speaker 1: I'm going to go find it. It's just so as
Speaker 1: a natural progression, and when we have tried to find it,
Speaker 1: it's not the right. But based on what we've just
Speaker 1: said that not everyone can fulfill all your needs. Yes,
Speaker 1: I have to say that when I've been attracted to
Speaker 1: other people of any gender, because I'm attracted to people
Speaker 1: of all genders. They give me different things, so you know,
Speaker 1: my relationship and the Cold gives me something Thomas could
Speaker 1: never give me physically because she's a woman and attracted
Speaker 1: to women as well, but mentally, like we have such
Speaker 1: an intimate mental kind of connection. Don't mean we know
Speaker 1: each other like in a deep way that I probably
Speaker 1: don't think many people know me as well. So obviously
Speaker 1: there's so much more that goes on behind the scenes
Speaker 1: of the way that women and men. But I think
Speaker 1: so I feel like being a bisexual woman having both
Speaker 1: partners of either sex is like there was this happy
Speaker 1: equilibrium that sort of like vibrates between especially our relationship.
Speaker 1: But I still feel like and that's the issue from me,
Speaker 1: is that I still feel like the draw is sexual
Speaker 1: and manless saying something so definitely sex is a part
Speaker 1: of it, but it's not the first thing. So I
Speaker 1: can see someone like Nicole is absolutely beautiful to me,
Speaker 1: but if she opened her mouth and I didn't like
Speaker 1: connect with her on the way that I did, nothing
Speaker 1: would happen for me from the waist down, like I
Speaker 1: wouldn't be attracted to her. We started out, let's go
Speaker 1: to a sex party. This is just so cold and
Speaker 1: from the point where like, Okay, this is not what
Speaker 1: we need, what what are we after? Were like and
Speaker 1: we realize it's connection, right, And that's the difference that
Speaker 1: we were trying to explain before being swingers versus having
Speaker 1: a polyamorous you want to feel connected. There's a difference
Speaker 1: between a romantic relationship and a sexual relationship. When I'm
Speaker 1: talking to people about polyamory, they automatically go to that
Speaker 1: space of like, it's so sex oriented, when not all
Speaker 1: the time it has to be like that, And I
Speaker 1: would actually say polyamory it would have to be more
Speaker 1: than just sex, because then you could just go sweet.
Speaker 1: There's so many other communities in which you could just go.
Speaker 1: And I mean it's a it's less complicated way less
Speaker 1: complicated an intimacy thing, Like an intimacy doesn't have to
Speaker 1: be sexual can it can be so much deeper than that.
Speaker 1: I feel like within an open or ethno monogamous relationship,
Speaker 1: that is like the grounding force that we all feel
Speaker 1: and that's probably what draws us together more than anything.
Speaker 1: And I think intimacy it's so to nourishment for the
Speaker 1: soul when you can have really special connections with people,
Speaker 1: whether it's sexual or not. When you can intimately connect
Speaker 1: with someone, whether it's intellectual, whether it's emotional, whether it's
Speaker 1: like well, however, it does have a certain nourishment and
Speaker 1: brings a certain vibrancy to the spirit. And that's what
Speaker 1: humans are made for, Like our brains are wired for
Speaker 1: connection and for community. And when we cut off those
Speaker 1: connections of like, oh no, like I'm only supposed to
Speaker 1: love one person, like that's the way it's supposed to be,
Speaker 1: that can make some people really depressed and sad and
Speaker 1: not even know why that's happening to them. So do
Speaker 1: you deal with bouts of jealousy? Sometimes we haven't within
Speaker 1: this relationship. I think the reason my relationship works so
Speaker 1: well is that the point that we met Nicole, Nicole
Speaker 1: had had experiences with couples, and because she's so incredibly
Speaker 1: by I think there's a spectrum right in the middle,
Speaker 1: you know, like it's a very balanced relationship in that respect,
Speaker 1: because she has needs equally on both sides, event in
Speaker 1: the physical way and then the mental intellectual way as well.
Speaker 1: It was working really well for me the same thing.
Speaker 1: It seems like to me that there's such a beautiful
Speaker 1: connection between the two women. I know, if I was
Speaker 1: in a polyamorous relationship, I don't think I would want
Speaker 1: to be sexual with her, but she would have to
Speaker 1: be my sister. Why we would have to have a
Speaker 1: connection of our own. And it seems like you too
Speaker 1: have a connection that you share that feeds into you,
Speaker 1: which then can also feed into him. And then you
Speaker 1: like me and the coach together and these two didn't
Speaker 1: get along, like I wouldn't be happy, you know what.
Speaker 1: The statistics that say that this is so many people
Speaker 1: are in these kinds. I just can't I can't say
Speaker 1: they happened. No, no, no, it's seriously because I'm saying
Speaker 1: that because this right here just seems rare to me
Speaker 1: that she would be able to find someone that is
Speaker 1: that in alignment. I mean, it's one of the things
Speaker 1: that I actually appreciate about polyamory is that it's an
Speaker 1: alternative in regards to relating and can exclude infidelity. We
Speaker 1: can never cheat on each other, we can never be
Speaker 1: dishonest about anything. It's like it's all on the table.
Speaker 1: And because it's beautiful, because at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: that's what you want you want honesty, you want transparency,
Speaker 1: you want what's real, and that's a lot of your
Speaker 1: rounds and bound boundary and you're never going to get
Speaker 1: around looking at someone and being like, oh, that's always
Speaker 1: going to happen. That's human nature. Yeah, you just be
Speaker 1: honest about it. Thomas and Cathy have a seven year
Speaker 1: old son. How does he He just sees a bigger family.
Speaker 1: We ease Nicole. He clocked it first. He's really into it.
Speaker 1: First time explained it to him, He's like, yeah, I know, okay.
Speaker 1: I feel like he always putting a cral on the pedestal.
Speaker 1: And the reason I think that happened is because he
Speaker 1: could tell that I'd like a love for her. That
Speaker 1: was when beyond the love I have for other women
Speaker 1: home close to and obviously Thomas had a love for
Speaker 1: her as well, so he just picked up on that.
Speaker 1: So like where I would like cold and kissing Cole
Speaker 1: when she arrived at the house, and Thomas would too,
Speaker 1: Like although it wasn't like a sexual thing, it's very
Speaker 1: obvious he could pick up on that. So yeah, for me,
Speaker 1: it was so important to sit down and listen to
Speaker 1: you guys, because I try to be open minded about things,
Speaker 1: but it's really hard. But then when you sit down
Speaker 1: and listen to you all and I see how you
Speaker 1: all interact. Now I understand what you're talking about. When
Speaker 1: you're talking about the shared intimacy, the shared commitment, it
Speaker 1: goes beyond the physical apps. And that's what I wasn't getting.
Speaker 1: I was like, this is just like that's they should
Speaker 1: just swing and be done, because what is all of this?
Speaker 1: Do you think maybe with this understanding, your marriages may
Speaker 1: have been most successful? No? I don't. I don't think.
Speaker 1: I don't think that that was ever really the issue.
Speaker 1: I'm right now you haven't converted, and like, don't you
Speaker 1: can burn it at this table. Let's get the fishball.
Speaker 1: This is the fishball. We got questions and listen, so
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give this to you and you guys are
Speaker 1: I guess you go? First question for the thriple, how
Speaker 1: do you deal with onlookers? Do they bother you? I
Speaker 1: would say we enjoy it? How doing other men when
Speaker 1: they've seen you? And when you talk to other you
Speaker 1: have a wife and a girlfriend, like they're like, y,
Speaker 1: how are you doing that? You're living the dream? Like
Speaker 1: I hate the kind of Oh yeah, well done. You
Speaker 1: did it, and it's like I hate it because it's like,
Speaker 1: you know, it's not all roses, it's hard workings. I'm
Speaker 1: not doing it to be like, oh look at me
Speaker 1: because of the sex. It's nothing to do with it.
Speaker 1: And that's what men think it is. Let me tell
Speaker 1: you that's some hard work. And like, I'm sure if
Speaker 1: they really think about it, they're like, why are you
Speaker 1: doing that? Nicole from Seattle, Jada and Gammy, have you
Speaker 1: ever been interested in being in a throuble? Hell? Yeah?
Speaker 1: You know what I could do with thrupple? I could?
Speaker 1: Would it be sexually? I could probably be romantically engaged
Speaker 1: with somebody else? But I can only have sex with
Speaker 1: one person. I'm sexually monogamous. But I definitely could be
Speaker 1: romantically Polly maybe if I was back in the day,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like today I can't. I
Speaker 1: could have only one. Would it be in two guys?
Speaker 1: Or would you? Would it be you a go? We'll
Speaker 1: probably have to be a quadruple Okay, Okay, yes, it
Speaker 1: would have to be equal. It's harder to run a
Speaker 1: quadruple life, to say, just because it's like a table
Speaker 1: with one that goes and the whole thing down. I
Speaker 1: actually have a question for Willow. If you were in
Speaker 1: an open relationship or a threatle, how would you see
Speaker 1: the dynamics of the genders. I love men and women equally,
Speaker 1: and so I would definitely want um one man, one woman.
Speaker 1: I feel like I could be poly fidelitous with those
Speaker 1: two people. I'm not the kind of person that is
Speaker 1: constantly looking for new sexual experiences. I focus a lot
Speaker 1: on like the emotional connection, and I feel like if
Speaker 1: I were to find two people of the different genders
Speaker 1: that I really connected with and we had a romantic
Speaker 1: and sexual connection, I don't feel like I would feel
Speaker 1: the need to try to go find more. It could
Speaker 1: be beautiful. Sarah from Las Vegas, Jada, have you ever
Speaker 1: had a three? I had a threesome once I was
Speaker 1: very very young, was like early early twenties. I didn't
Speaker 1: like it. It just didn't have the level of intimacy,
Speaker 1: you know, But I tried to want to and I
Speaker 1: was like, well that was that's not for me. But
Speaker 1: I would think that if I was again love with
Speaker 1: two people level, that's another level. I could see enjoying
Speaker 1: a threesome then. But I was a kid, I was
Speaker 1: just like I saw two cute people in the way
Speaker 1: sexual experience it was. It was more of a sexual
Speaker 1: experience the other way though. It can almost be like
Speaker 1: two intents. It's like almost you love these two people,
Speaker 1: and it's like it's almost too much sensation. You just
Speaker 1: like overload your like what I can imagine sitting here
Speaker 1: and listening to you guys, I was like, well, I
Speaker 1: was in love with two people. Go for it. You know.
Speaker 1: It's like, oh, yeah, you're learning too much about your
Speaker 1: mother to know. I love learning. You guys are awesome. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was. It was very Are you enlightened? There's a
Speaker 1: different for a game. You got a different outlook on it.
Speaker 1: I do. I think it's understanding that I understand that,
Speaker 1: stand it better, and that's what this is all about.
Speaker 1: I just love love, and I just love just sitting
Speaker 1: here and feeling the love between the three of you.
Speaker 1: I love love no matter what form it comes in,
Speaker 1: and yes, no matter what this right here, it works
Speaker 1: for me. I love it. Hey, guys, welcome to the
Speaker 1: Red Table. We have a beautiful proper here that let's
Speaker 1: talk to us about and help us understand. Polly Amrie,
Speaker 1: So did you enjoy yourself I did. Actually, you guys
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