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Speaker 1: Orders a fresh show.

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Speaker 2: It's Kiki's court, all right, tall rise, the Honorable Kiki

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Speaker 2: Leak is here. Judge Kiki please, if you would, yes, yes,

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Speaker 2: I am here. Yeah, that means go okay, sure, let

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Speaker 2: me hit the take away. I think I think if

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Speaker 2: you if you would, that means oh, okay.

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Speaker 3: I was waiting on a bunch of lines.

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Speaker 1: But here we are. We are in the by the way.

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Speaker 2: By the way, Kiki, I think part of the reason

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Speaker 2: that you're she just told us about ten seconds from

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Speaker 2: before it went on the air that she has to peek.

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Speaker 2: Now we've had twenty minutes. We had twenty minutes, okay,

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Speaker 2: twenty minutes with which to pee. But now she's she

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Speaker 2: can't even focus on the task of the hand because

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Speaker 2: she has to pee so badly. But she got her

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Speaker 2: only once a week, does she ever? Well, twice a

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Speaker 2: week a name segment to prepare for yees. Yeah, so

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Speaker 2: you got two jobs.

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Speaker 4: I just got lost in the sauce man the moment

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Speaker 4: the show.

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Speaker 3: So Captain, I'm.

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Speaker 1: Right there with you. I gotta go too, So let's

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Speaker 1: go out.

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Speaker 2: Let's not understand if you want to hold your all,

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Speaker 2: sit here for a few minutes while you go.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's all right, it's all right, okay, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, Kiki, if you would please begin your segment.

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Speaker 4: Now, please all right, he said, Hey, Kik, my name

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Speaker 4: is Derek. I'm a longtime Fred Show listener, and I

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Speaker 4: love all of you guys. About a month ago, one

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Speaker 4: of my best friends got into a terrible motorcycle motorcycle accident.

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Speaker 4: It left him banged up pretty bad and unable to

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Speaker 4: work to support his family. As a way to help,

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Speaker 4: my friends and I created a GoFundMe page to help

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Speaker 4: him with medical bills and expenses. We set a goal

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Speaker 4: of fifty thousand dollars. I personally donated fifteen hundred dollars.

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Speaker 4: It was just my luck that after I donated the money,

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Speaker 4: my car broke down. But anyway, I kept an eye

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Speaker 4: on the go fundme page, and by the end of

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Speaker 4: the week there was almost eighty five thousand dollars in donations.

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Speaker 4: I was so happy to see all of the support

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Speaker 4: from my friend. However, now that my car is down,

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Speaker 4: I could really use that fifteen hundred that I donated,

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Speaker 4: so I text my buddy and asked if he can

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Speaker 4: send me my donation back. Since we raised more than

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Speaker 4: enough money, to help him. I sent that text last Monday.

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Speaker 4: Since then he has left me on red with no response.

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Speaker 4: Am I wrong? If I reach out to go fund

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Speaker 4: me to see if there's a refund option, you can't.

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Speaker 1: You can't. You can't. I mean you can't. You can't.

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Speaker 1: Bruh right, judge right, Derek?

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Speaker 3: What is wrong with you?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 3: What is wrong with you?

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Speaker 4: You cannot be out here asking for takebacks on a

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Speaker 4: donation like life comes at you fast.

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Speaker 5: Bro.

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Speaker 3: I understand your car is now.

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Speaker 4: You can really use some money, create your own go

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Speaker 4: fund me page, But you cannot ask this man who

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Speaker 4: is on the sick and shut in list to send

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Speaker 4: back the little money that you gave him. That is

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Speaker 4: insane And if I was his friend, I wouldn't respond.

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Speaker 3: I don't even know.

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Speaker 4: How to respond, like, yes, I thank you for helping

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Speaker 4: me get this money raised and looking out for me,

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Speaker 4: but like you want me who?

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Speaker 3: I don't know when I'm going back to work. You know,

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I can walk.

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Speaker 4: You want me to send you the money that you

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Speaker 4: donated to me?

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Speaker 3: Like what? Oh God?

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Speaker 2: No, you cannot get a refund on a Derek GoFundMe.

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Speaker 2: You cannot Derek said, I need a bag. You cannot

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Speaker 2: go to the person who's right to your point, He's

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Speaker 2: like unable to function properly. I can't work, can't move.

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Speaker 2: You can't go to that person and go, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: hey my car. I mean I need I need that

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Speaker 2: money back. You can't do that.

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Speaker 4: That is insane. I mean, okay, let's look at it

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Speaker 4: from Derek's angle. We were trying to get you fifty thousand, right,

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Speaker 4: we raised you over eighty five thousand. Yeah, so really,

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Speaker 4: I mean, but still Rufiola.

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Speaker 6: Asking for help like he his friend would not have

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Speaker 6: friends putting his goalfundme together. Right, sure, they raised more

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Speaker 6: than enough money, and he's just asking for help back

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Speaker 6: like he's, you.

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Speaker 1: Know, like he's got the money.

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Speaker 6: He got eighty five thousand, but if he's to make

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Speaker 6: a milk called fifty thousand, he's still got them extra dough.

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Speaker 6: He's just asking for fifteen hundred to help fix his car.

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Speaker 6: He's in he needs some help now. I mean, but

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Speaker 6: here's the thing.

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Speaker 1: He put in fifteen.

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Speaker 6: Hundred of money that you know, that's whatever, Like he

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Speaker 6: money to fix that.

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Speaker 1: But here's the thing. Here's the thing.

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Speaker 2: If yeah, I think it's very nice that he gave

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Speaker 2: I do think that's a very nice thing. But I

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Speaker 2: think we also need to be a little bit self

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Speaker 2: aware and realize that if we don't have any money,

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Speaker 2: we have nothing left for emergencies of our own, then

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Speaker 2: we probably shouldn't give it all away. Again, very generous

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Speaker 2: of him, but that's what happens, unfortunately, is you gave it,

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Speaker 2: you help someone else out, and now you need help

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Speaker 2: and you're gonna have to figure out another way because

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Speaker 2: you cannot get them. Just go and say, hey, person,

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Speaker 2: I just helped I need that. You know that thing

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Speaker 2: I helped it, whatever, whatever thing I bought for you,

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Speaker 2: or whatever you did with the money you paid, pay

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Speaker 2: the bill or co pay or whatever, no more, give

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Speaker 1: I need it right now.

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Speaker 6: But like he gave what he could give at the time,

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Speaker 6: right fifteen hundred. It's not like he knew his car

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Speaker 6: was going to break down, like you know, the next week.

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Speaker 3: Like that just that's just the bad.

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Speaker 2: Say, if I got fifteen hundred bucks, then I'm probably

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Speaker 2: so I don't have zero dollars, but all just in case.

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Speaker 6: But also he didn't know they were gonna raise. You know,

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Speaker 6: when you put a golfund me out there, you don't

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Speaker 6: know how much you're gonna raise. Right, he could have

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Speaker 6: only raised fifteen hundred dollars that he could be the only.

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Speaker 6: He donated what he could and it just happens that

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Speaker 6: they're friends, it's not like they're strangers. And he got

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Speaker 6: he knows how much money he raised. He raised eighty five,

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Speaker 6: they raised eighty five thousand dollars, fifteen hundred dollars. He's

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Speaker 6: trying to his friends should help him back, like yo,

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Speaker 6: no me forget, I'm gonna help you back.

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Speaker 2: Rufio, the dude almost died. Like he's in a bad

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Speaker 2: and he's in bad condition.

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Speaker 1: He's not.

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Speaker 2: That's the last thing he's thinking about is, Oh, let

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Speaker 2: me make try to refund my friend the money back

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Speaker 2: that he donated to me to try and help save me.

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Speaker 2: Like I said the last for him.

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Speaker 6: They raised more than enough money, so that fifteen hundred

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Speaker 6: is going back to his friend shouldn't be a problem.

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Speaker 6: His Derek and his friends put that golfund me together

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Speaker 6: to help that guy out, and he raised more than

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Speaker 6: enough money to help him out.

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Speaker 2: Financial story. What I'm gonna say it, thank you for

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Speaker 2: thank you?

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 6: You guys hit me out so much, like, thank you,

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Speaker 6: we raised more than enough money. Here's that fifteen hundred dollars.

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Speaker 4: But in my opinion, Roof, he's even wrong for like

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Speaker 4: watching the golfundme, Like why are you going back and

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Speaker 4: watching trying to see how much money I'm an get

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Speaker 4: and then counting my coins and saying, now.

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Speaker 2: So you have enough. I decided you have enough. I

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Speaker 2: need mine back, Like, how do you know what's enough?

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Speaker 2: You don't know what's enough? You look, the bottom line

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Speaker 2: is you gave it. You gave it away to help someone.

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Speaker 2: You cannot now have it back, and you should have

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Speaker 2: thought about that. Unfortunately, if you again, I think it's

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Speaker 2: very cool that he gave all the money he had

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Speaker 2: to help his friend. That's wonderful, but that's also probably

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Speaker 2: not responsible either, as we're now learning eight five, five, five,

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Speaker 2: nine one three five, you guys are the jury.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, we got so many degrees with thru feeling.

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Speaker 5: Let's go, hi, guys, I do agree with feel.

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Speaker 3: What a line you.

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Speaker 1: Can't base, you cannot listen.

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Speaker 5: They raised way over what they were expecting, and like

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Speaker 5: life happens, things happen, And I'm just saying, like if

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Speaker 5: one of my friends were in that bind, I would

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Speaker 5: give them the money back.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but that would be up to the person I

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Speaker 2: guess in question, and that person right now is not

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Speaker 2: really thinking about your broken car. That the person is

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Speaker 2: thinking about trying to heal and they maybe don't even know.

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Speaker 2: They may don't even know how much money is in

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Speaker 2: the go fund me or even how to get it,

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Speaker 2: or they may not even transfer to you. I would

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Speaker 2: imagine that's the least of their worries right now. And

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Speaker 2: you're going, hey, the door is broken, I need the money.

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Speaker 2: Come on.

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Speaker 5: You could know. But it's not sad. But like, if

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Speaker 5: that's a real good friend, she would give I would

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Speaker 5: give the money back.

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Speaker 3: That's all I'm saying. My god, Oh so I.

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Speaker 2: Should get my fifteen hundred back because you're because you

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Speaker 2: got your second chance at life. Oh my god, who's here?

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Speaker 2: You know what, if anything ever happens to me, don't

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Speaker 2: donate it. Just don't don't donate anything like never keep

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Speaker 2: your money. Don't worry, don't worry.

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Speaker 4: I don't think you be accepted donations on your behalf,

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Speaker 4: like you know.

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Speaker 2: Just for myself, right, And then he'll be like, well,

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Speaker 2: but you got a second chance on life, so I

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Speaker 2: get this money. Idiot, man, you have a good day, Kiki,

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Speaker 2: like judge, Kiki, we cannot, you cannot.

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Speaker 4: You cannot. First of all, it's tacky, Okay, it's tacky

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Speaker 4: if you are so hard up for cash, bro, I'm

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Speaker 4: sure it's other people in your life that you can

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Speaker 4: go ask, except for this man who has been through

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Speaker 4: the trauma, who doesn't know if he's going to be

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Speaker 4: able to work to provide for his family, and you

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Speaker 4: trying to like you That is just so crazy to me.

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Speaker 4: Like you know, I'm down for like watching people pockets

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Speaker 4: a little bit sometimes and being like, you know, hey,

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Speaker 4: let me get it, let me get some of that.

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Speaker 3: But not a man on crutches, like, that's insane.

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Speaker 6: I think he just worded it wrong. He shouldn't be like,

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Speaker 6: let me get my donation back. He'd just be like, hey,

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Speaker 6: can I borrow I need some help? Right? Can I

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Speaker 6: borrow fifteen hundred?

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Speaker 3: How is that?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, you can't even stay with a straight

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Speaker 2: face through for you. Hey, Melissa, Hi, good morning.

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Speaker 1: Melissa, Yes Hi, good morning, Yes Hi, good morning. What

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Speaker 1: did you want to say?

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Speaker 3: Okay, this is, first of all, the dumbest thing I've

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Speaker 5: Why would you give somebody money and then take it away?

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Speaker 3: That's one thing, and too, you're.

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Speaker 5: Not he is not just giving away the fifteen dollars back.

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Speaker 1: Go fund me takes a portion of that.

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Speaker 5: So this man us to now payback what he's.

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Speaker 1: Gonna lose what he had to give to go fund me.

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Speaker 2: Does that make sense? Well, but Melissa, he got a

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Speaker 2: second chance on lock So I just can't with this.

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Speaker 2: I really can't. And you're right, they take a commission,

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Speaker 2: so like now to go out of pocket.

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Speaker 1: Essentially, yes, exactly.

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Speaker 5: So now this man is helping this other guy out

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Speaker 5: with extra money from his pocket, then he might make

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Speaker 5: for Oh no, I do profn after this conversation.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Melissa, have a good day, Yeah, thank you?

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Speaker 3: I mean holiday is coming up.

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Speaker 4: You like to ask this man for the money back, Like,

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Speaker 4: out of all the people in your life that you

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Speaker 4: can go get fifteen hundred dollars from, come on, bruh.

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Speaker 1: What come on?

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Speaker 3: Like he knows he's got the money and that's the problem.

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Speaker 3: You can't.

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Speaker 1: I've said it like four times.

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Speaker 2: It's so nice that he gave everything he had, Like

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Speaker 2: it's a very nice thing to do, but it's not

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Speaker 2: a responsible thing to do. And then this is why,

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Speaker 2: because life happens. And look, you helped your friend. You're

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Speaker 2: getting camera points for that. Go get a guy I

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Speaker 2: don't know, figure out another way. Take a loan from

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Speaker 2: a take another loan from somebody. I don't know what

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Speaker 2: you gotta do. You gave your money away to help

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Speaker 1: It's over. It's gone to one way.

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Speaker 2: You don't call your friend who's in you know, fighting

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Speaker 2: for his life, and go hey, I know you can't

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Speaker 2: really talk through the tubes, but can I get my

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Speaker 2: money back? I mean, come on on, dude, like, hey Stacy,

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Speaker 2: good morning.

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Speaker 4: Hey, good money.

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Speaker 2: This man like this this guy I work with him

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Speaker 2: every day. Listen to this man, can you believe him?

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Speaker 4: Okay, I'm gonna tell you.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you the truth. I do agree.

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Speaker 3: No, he should not get the money back, absolutely not.

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Speaker 3: You cannot do that.

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Speaker 5: But but but I'm gonna tell you. On the Lord

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Speaker 5: and sat with me and my friend, good friend, I'm

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Speaker 5: telling you I've set up the page once he set

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Speaker 3: It's like, I'm gonna watch and see how gonna do that, and.

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Speaker 5: Then I'll do that that way.

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Speaker 2: But what if we got it good?

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Speaker 5: Truthfully without fifteen I'm like, you still got dudes, like,

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Speaker 5: well send me, save me.

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Speaker 6: You're good.

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Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. So Hey, so I still

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Speaker 4: got my money and we're both good. But but I

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Speaker 4: would have.

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Speaker 3: Never put it in before like I was.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna be a good friend and help you out

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Speaker 5: with the gold from me page, and then I'm gonna

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Speaker 5: be a better friend when you don't get nothing, and

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Speaker 5: then make a donation.

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Speaker 3: But what if you've.

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Speaker 4: Got something if already that was only.

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Speaker 3: From fifty thousand, That's.

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Speaker 1: What I want to put you over the top.

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Speaker 2: I I could see it looking at it and being like, man,

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Speaker 2: I can't afford to save the day, but I could

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Speaker 2: afford to do something and then give him something based

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Speaker 2: on like, if the thing is catching fire, then I

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Speaker 2: don't need to give all my money, right Like, if

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Speaker 2: the thing is really taking off, then I don't then you.

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Speaker 2: I can be generous, but I don't have to give

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Speaker 2: you everything I have. This person chose to give everything

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Speaker 2: they had, now they want it back.

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Speaker 1: You don't need to do that, good friend.

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Speaker 5: You're you're a good friend.

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Speaker 3: But we would do and then did some more when

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Speaker 3: we could.

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Speaker 2: We could, you would. I don't need either want of

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Speaker 2: you to donate.

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Speaker 1: Just don't.

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Speaker 2: If anything ever happens to me, just keep you all money.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I don't Stacy. Stacey will call me,

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Speaker 2: hey friend, why may have given you a few dollars,

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Speaker 2: But I see you're feeling better, So can I have

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Speaker 2: it back?

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Speaker 1: No, you cannot. Thank you, Stacy, have a good day.

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Speaker 1: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Now how about that? What if what if I

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Speaker 2: make all this money on a GoFundMe. I mean I

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Speaker 2: make it whatever something bad happened to me, God forbid,

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Speaker 2: and I get all this money from my GoFundMe, And

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Speaker 2: then let's say I miraculously recover faster than expected, and

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Speaker 2: I get back to work.

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Speaker 1: Do I give all the money back?

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Speaker 5: Then?

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Speaker 1: Do I have to do?

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Speaker 2: I have to go through one by one, start writing

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Speaker 2: checks everybody who helped me out. Or do I say, well,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna have bills and ancillary expenses, so thank you guys.

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Speaker 2: I do it for you. You know, No, you're not gonna

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Speaker 4: Oh no, And I wouldn't. I wouldn't even post when

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Speaker 4: I went back to work. They wouldn't know I went

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Speaker 4: back to work. The next year, I'd be like, I'm

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Speaker 4: still down a lot of money. You do have people

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Speaker 4: that will watch your page and watch your progress, like,

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Speaker 4: m I gave all that money and now they're back

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Speaker 1: You know, you gotta wait.

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Speaker 2: I've said this so many times over the years about

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Speaker 2: donating and loaning money and stuff like that, and you

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Speaker 2: have to I'm sorry, but especially when if it's someone

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Speaker 2: you value a lot, a friend or a family member,

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Speaker 2: you have to give the amount of money that you

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Speaker 2: can afford to give and not look back. Because if

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Speaker 2: you're giving money and and and the friendship is not

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Speaker 2: that important to you, or you're gonna let the money

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Speaker 2: getting away to friendship. You're probably gonna get disappointed. Family

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Speaker 2: will let you down, friends will let you down. So

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Speaker 2: don't give more than you can afford, and then you

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Speaker 2: don't get yourself in this situation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, or do it like Stacy, wait and see the progress.

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Speaker 2: Crazy looking at the funding. Look it's taken off. I

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Speaker 2: don't only get five bucks