1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,440 Speaker 1: You hear us talk about brook Lennon dot com. I 2 00:00:02,480 --> 00:00:05,680 Speaker 1: want you to actually go online brook Lennon dot com. 3 00:00:05,760 --> 00:00:08,119 Speaker 1: That's b r okay l I N e N. I'll 4 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:10,040 Speaker 1: tell you why you shouldn't have to go check into 5 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 1: a hotel to sleep in the best sheets. Vicki and 6 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:15,960 Speaker 1: Rich who started Brooklyn, and they agree with that. They're 7 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:19,159 Speaker 1: bringing five star hotel quality sheets to us at a 8 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:20,840 Speaker 1: price we could afford. Did you know a lot of 9 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:24,520 Speaker 1: this quality betting is marked up like three? It's so silly. 10 00:00:24,560 --> 00:00:27,240 Speaker 1: Take out the middleman. Get it personal with brooklyn and 11 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 1: dot com. 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They 21 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:55,280 Speaker 1: live in the city that never sleeps, but they're committed 22 00:00:55,280 --> 00:00:58,040 Speaker 1: to helping us get the best sleep ever. I love 23 00:00:58,120 --> 00:00:59,960 Speaker 1: my sheets from Brooklyn, and I want you to sleep 24 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 1: the same ones. Well, not not mine, but you know 25 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 1: your own. Go to brooklyn and dot com. It's b 26 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:07,040 Speaker 1: R okay, l I N E N dot com. Use 27 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:09,280 Speaker 1: the promo code Elvis, get twenty dollars off in free 28 00:01:09,280 --> 00:01:15,400 Speaker 1: shipping Brooklyn and the best sheets ever. What would you 29 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 1: talk about on your on your podcast Elvis Presents Show Yea, 30 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:29,920 Speaker 1: Elvis said, why don't you host today? And I go, 31 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:31,679 Speaker 1: all right, I don't know what the hell I want 32 00:01:31,680 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 1: to talk about, but you go, I wouldn't if I 33 00:01:34,160 --> 00:01:35,759 Speaker 1: was hosting. I wouldn't know what I was talking about. 34 00:01:35,760 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 1: I have no idea. Anybody got something? All right? You 35 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:41,720 Speaker 1: have fourteen minutes and thirty seconds left to go. Oh 36 00:01:41,760 --> 00:01:44,640 Speaker 1: my gosh, that's such a long time. Anybody doing today? Exciting? 37 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 1: This weekend? Great? I have something for you, Okay, go ahead. 38 00:01:48,120 --> 00:01:50,720 Speaker 1: You get the feeling that like you have all this 39 00:01:51,040 --> 00:01:54,400 Speaker 1: energy inside your body again, but you just want to 40 00:01:54,480 --> 00:01:58,120 Speaker 1: let it out, like in one scream, but not a 41 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:01,200 Speaker 1: scream in horror, but a reream in excitement, like you 42 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:03,880 Speaker 1: just want to. Like some sometimes people can't take it 43 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 1: and they go into a closet and they let it 44 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 1: out right a scream of happiness. Yes, Like I'm feeling that, 45 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 1: Like I have this urge, like it's it's climbing up 46 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 1: through my chest and it's going up into my neck. 47 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 1: First of all, how many of us are jealous that 48 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:21,959 Speaker 1: we don't have that? SAME's awesome. I really think that's 49 00:02:22,240 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 1: a great thing to happen. I mean, you don't have 50 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 1: to act on it, but at least you know that 51 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 1: there's something going on. It's good. I just feel like 52 00:02:30,360 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 1: I don't know what it is. Like something is good 53 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 1: in my mind right now, and I don't know what 54 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 1: it is, but I'm feeling so excited to the point 55 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 1: that I want to go you know what, let's call 56 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:44,119 Speaker 1: it happiness. Yeah, so I want to scream for happiness. 57 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:47,080 Speaker 1: So I wonder if you guys ever feel like you 58 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:50,560 Speaker 1: want to scream for happiness. The past couple of weeks, 59 00:02:50,720 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 1: I've been smiling a lot. Yeah, I've been in a 60 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:57,919 Speaker 1: great move, just got engaged. Yeah, that's definitely a part 61 00:02:57,919 --> 00:02:59,639 Speaker 1: of it. Anyone else in the room so happy that 62 00:03:00,000 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 1: that would be your scream for happiness because you just 63 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:07,079 Speaker 1: want to like let that out scream. But I'm happy 64 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:09,079 Speaker 1: when I have like all that extra energy, and I'm 65 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:11,880 Speaker 1: so happy. I tend to dance. I tend to put myself, 66 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:15,040 Speaker 1: I put my headphones on, I put on it's usually um, 67 00:03:15,080 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 1: you know, old school music, and then I just let 68 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:21,560 Speaker 1: it and I'm going crazy and I'm dancing and I 69 00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 1: get out all of my energy. So what did you 70 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:25,840 Speaker 1: want to box it up and just scream it out? 71 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:29,160 Speaker 1: Or running the closet like he said what he was 72 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:31,840 Speaker 1: doing before? He kept so Brodie and I were sitting 73 00:03:31,840 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 1: in here and he kept opening the door and just 74 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:36,200 Speaker 1: screaming and then closing the door, and We're both looking 75 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 1: at each other like what the hell was he doing? 76 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 1: Now we know what we want to al Right, Brodie, scary, 77 00:03:44,800 --> 00:03:46,440 Speaker 1: Do you want to add to this? Have you ever 78 00:03:46,520 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 1: been so excited you just want to scream? Well? I 79 00:03:49,320 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 1: usually scream when I'm excited, so I have I don't 80 00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 1: I don't hold it back. How often are you excited? 81 00:03:55,720 --> 00:04:00,200 Speaker 1: I'm excited. I'm excitable a screamer, though, But if if 82 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 1: I'm going to scream, I'm just gonna go be out 83 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:03,720 Speaker 1: with it. I'm not gonna just try and think about 84 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 1: when Scary gets excited and happy. He does have a 85 00:04:05,960 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 1: lot of energy. He talks really fast, and he gets 86 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 1: nervous energy. I do. I get anxious. Yeah, you know what. 87 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:14,880 Speaker 1: I don't see Brody getting all excited. I get excited. 88 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:18,599 Speaker 1: I actually, uh, last week I thought about how I 89 00:04:18,680 --> 00:04:23,159 Speaker 1: was about to get excited. I bought my Mega Millions 90 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 1: ticket and I started thinking, how will I react if 91 00:04:26,760 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 1: the numbers are like? Will I just go or will 92 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 1: I just go? Like? Great? Yeah, I saw I was 93 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 1: imagining winning. Of course I got zero numbers. If you 94 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:38,440 Speaker 1: can keep you want to get an update on that. 95 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:40,279 Speaker 1: That's why I'm saying the best part of a lottery 96 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:43,599 Speaker 1: is until it's all great, until you find that you lost. 97 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 1: Don't buy the tickets today, But do you ever in 98 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:48,880 Speaker 1: your head like give the speeches? Because you know there's 99 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:51,440 Speaker 1: the press conference that comes with winning the money usually, 100 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:54,520 Speaker 1: so do you think about how you're going to address 101 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 1: people in the crowd and in the press come. No, 102 00:04:57,400 --> 00:04:59,520 Speaker 1: but here's what I did think. I was like, do 103 00:04:59,560 --> 00:05:01,400 Speaker 1: I need to get the lawyer? You have to get 104 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 1: a lawyer? Do you tell my wife before I tell 105 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:07,120 Speaker 1: the kids, what do you do? And then do I 106 00:05:07,200 --> 00:05:09,640 Speaker 1: not tell you? Guys? And then if the story comes 107 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:11,599 Speaker 1: out in the paper and you're like, oh some guy 108 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:14,279 Speaker 1: named it? What see? I would understand if you didn't 109 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:17,160 Speaker 1: tell you. I get that because then come out and 110 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:19,560 Speaker 1: from the press conference, I'm gonna say as little as possible, 111 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:22,440 Speaker 1: Mr Durand how excited are you? You just want five 112 00:05:22,839 --> 00:05:28,040 Speaker 1: million dollars? Very could you guys come to work and 113 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:32,000 Speaker 1: be completely normal having just won five million dollars? Do 114 00:05:32,080 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 1: you mean say anything? And the way you always do? 115 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:40,599 Speaker 1: I haven't. No, you would have bought the radio station. 116 00:05:41,080 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 1: I wouldn't believe me if I had money, I wouldn't 117 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:45,279 Speaker 1: get into radio. What you get? What would you get into? 118 00:05:45,400 --> 00:05:48,360 Speaker 1: What would? I don't know, but I will tell you this. 119 00:05:48,839 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 1: I do know enough about money too not go out 120 00:05:52,000 --> 00:05:54,839 Speaker 1: and blow at all. I do know someone who want 121 00:05:54,880 --> 00:06:02,440 Speaker 1: a very sizeable, sizeable lottery um number whatever a lot 122 00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:06,360 Speaker 1: and it's gone. It's gone. They just went out and 123 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:08,680 Speaker 1: bought every stupid thing they could think of. They're like, well, 124 00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 1: this is just money I didn't have, so might as 125 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:13,000 Speaker 1: well just go spending all the stupid stuff. Well that 126 00:06:13,120 --> 00:06:16,040 Speaker 1: was their choice. That you can do it. That's why 127 00:06:16,160 --> 00:06:18,000 Speaker 1: I worry about like, you know, I look at artists, 128 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:20,719 Speaker 1: like when we see who we're talking about, what we're 129 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:22,360 Speaker 1: talking about Cardi b and House, you are going to 130 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:24,320 Speaker 1: go and buy a blue in a green Lamborghame, right, 131 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:26,400 Speaker 1: So like I think about that, and I think that, Okay, 132 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:29,400 Speaker 1: well she's buying all this stuff. I hope she's saving 133 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:32,160 Speaker 1: her money as well for her future, because you know, 134 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 1: you never know, because we've seen like people like you know, 135 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 1: if you don't know who that is, google it from 136 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:41,920 Speaker 1: back in the day, and you know, you look at 137 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 1: him and you think he made so much money and 138 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:46,839 Speaker 1: he blew blew it all. I mean, he could have 139 00:06:46,880 --> 00:06:49,200 Speaker 1: been sitting pretty right now. That's the thing you win. 140 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 1: Let's say you are a recording artist and you make 141 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:53,360 Speaker 1: a lot of money and you don't have someone helping 142 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:56,679 Speaker 1: you manage it, so it's not like you're buying nothing 143 00:06:56,680 --> 00:06:59,760 Speaker 1: but Lambeau's. You could be out there like buying apartment 144 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:01,880 Speaker 1: bill holdings because someone told you it's a great investment 145 00:07:01,880 --> 00:07:04,479 Speaker 1: for the future, and but they go, they go tis 146 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:07,279 Speaker 1: up and you lose all your money. I have a 147 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 1: friend who's an accountant and he works with musicians, and 148 00:07:10,840 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 1: he does everything he can to help them understand that 149 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 1: music is not like an ongoing job. It's it's EBB 150 00:07:18,680 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 1: and flow money comes in, that money stops. He teaches 151 00:07:21,280 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 1: them to like put money away because it's gonna stop. 152 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:27,120 Speaker 1: It's important. I think and Sync was like one of 153 00:07:27,200 --> 00:07:29,280 Speaker 1: the boy bands that actually did well because I think 154 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 1: Joey Fatone and Lance I think they actually did very 155 00:07:32,760 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 1: well with doing the right thing with their money and 156 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 1: they didn't spend it, like curiously, what are you doing 157 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:41,400 Speaker 1: with all your money? No? No, no, no, I I 158 00:07:41,480 --> 00:07:43,600 Speaker 1: save it. I'm hoping for a nest egg? Is that 159 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:46,040 Speaker 1: what they call those things? Well, yes, I don't know 160 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:48,640 Speaker 1: if you you guys watched the nest Egg? Did you 161 00:07:48,640 --> 00:07:51,480 Speaker 1: guys watch the Money episode of CBS Sunday morning? It 162 00:07:51,520 --> 00:07:54,280 Speaker 1: was all yesterday. They do this money episode every year 163 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 1: and they're talking about savings, They're talking about happiness and money. 164 00:07:58,680 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 1: Does money bring you happiness? They actually, I think we 165 00:08:01,080 --> 00:08:03,800 Speaker 1: talked about this in the room or on the air. 166 00:08:04,280 --> 00:08:06,880 Speaker 1: They actually gave let's say, a hundred dollars to three 167 00:08:06,920 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 1: different people. Each got a hundred dollars over here and 168 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:11,800 Speaker 1: said go buy whatever you want with it. Then three 169 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 1: people over here. They gave them each three hundred dollars 170 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 1: and said, either spend the money on an experience, or 171 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 1: spend that money on hiring someone to come in and 172 00:08:19,560 --> 00:08:21,160 Speaker 1: make your life easier, like someone's gonna come in and 173 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:25,040 Speaker 1: clean your house. Those people were infinitely more happy with 174 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:27,680 Speaker 1: their hundred dollar win following what they did with than 175 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 1: the people that went out and just bought something, because 176 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:32,079 Speaker 1: how many things can you buy? Plus after a while 177 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:35,480 Speaker 1: that thing usually wears off. The shiny new thing becomes 178 00:08:35,480 --> 00:08:39,960 Speaker 1: the you know, old thing, dusty, the dusty old thing. 179 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:43,280 Speaker 1: I have. Somebody gave me from my birthday three years ago, 180 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:46,559 Speaker 1: a two gift card to Amazon. When I got it, 181 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:49,240 Speaker 1: I thought, this is fantastic. I can put this Twitts 182 00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:51,360 Speaker 1: things I wouldn normally buy. I can put this twits 183 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 1: something I couldn't afford, and this will help me get it. 184 00:08:53,880 --> 00:08:56,360 Speaker 1: And I can't find anything that brings me more enjoyment 185 00:08:56,520 --> 00:08:58,920 Speaker 1: than having the gift card knowing that I could spend 186 00:08:58,920 --> 00:09:00,920 Speaker 1: it at any time. Anything's able. See what you're doing, 187 00:09:01,400 --> 00:09:04,319 Speaker 1: it's the experience that you're loving and not the actual thing. 188 00:09:04,559 --> 00:09:06,840 Speaker 1: That's what my son does. He's nine, and he won 189 00:09:06,920 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 1: a hundred dollars on one of those scratch offs. So 190 00:09:09,320 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 1: when he went to give the card and they gave 191 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 1: him a hundred dollar bill, he will not spend that 192 00:09:14,559 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 1: hundred dollar bill. He will just open his wallet and 193 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:18,440 Speaker 1: look at it, and I'll say, don't you want to 194 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:21,000 Speaker 1: spend it? No, mommy, I won this hundred dollar bill. 195 00:09:21,080 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 1: This is the coolest thing ever. And he doesn't know 196 00:09:23,240 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 1: that that gives them so much enjoy You guys could 197 00:09:25,160 --> 00:09:27,839 Speaker 1: buy me a thousand dollar Amazon gift card. It could 198 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:30,679 Speaker 1: be fake. I'll think it's real. I'll get so much 199 00:09:30,720 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 1: enjoyment at I'm never going to spend it. Well, that's 200 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:35,080 Speaker 1: why you get enjoyment out of owning a lottery ticket 201 00:09:35,080 --> 00:09:38,959 Speaker 1: before the lottery's numbers or show yes I'm a winner 202 00:09:39,000 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 1: until I'm not. That's true. So what about you, Uh, Garrett, 203 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 1: you have two kids, you have a wife. Do you 204 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:48,200 Speaker 1: do you have money? Are you putting money aside? So 205 00:09:48,280 --> 00:09:51,439 Speaker 1: my wife and I actually had this conversation last week. She's, uh, 206 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:53,960 Speaker 1: she's thinking about, you know, maybe looking for a new 207 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:56,719 Speaker 1: job in the medical field down the road. And we 208 00:09:56,800 --> 00:09:59,600 Speaker 1: said that if she were to get a job like 209 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:02,960 Speaker 1: that she's looking for, we could probably live off of 210 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:06,160 Speaker 1: one of our paychecks and save the rest, like put 211 00:10:06,160 --> 00:10:08,679 Speaker 1: it straight into savings. So you're talking about what you 212 00:10:08,720 --> 00:10:10,439 Speaker 1: could be doing, could be, but you're not doing it 213 00:10:10,520 --> 00:10:13,720 Speaker 1: yet to a degree, yes, but not like full full, 214 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 1: full blown right into the deep end. We're kind of 215 00:10:16,679 --> 00:10:18,319 Speaker 1: like in the shallow end right now of the pool. 216 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:24,800 Speaker 1: A study was recently done millennials. Here we go talking 217 00:10:24,840 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 1: about a group of people, which I hate putting people 218 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:30,479 Speaker 1: in these in these categories, but they're saying that millennials 219 00:10:30,640 --> 00:10:33,360 Speaker 1: cannot afford houses anymore because they're spending too much money 220 00:10:33,400 --> 00:10:36,440 Speaker 1: on their bachelor and bachelorette party. I could see that 221 00:10:36,880 --> 00:10:39,920 Speaker 1: the study actually from real estate website Zillo suggests that 222 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 1: lavish pre wedding bashes might also be the real culprit 223 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:46,400 Speaker 1: hendering newly weds from buying houses. This is what I 224 00:10:46,440 --> 00:10:49,400 Speaker 1: don't get. Like to me, Okay, we spent a lot 225 00:10:49,440 --> 00:10:52,720 Speaker 1: of money on our wedding, but we would we thought 226 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 1: about it. That is a down payment on a house 227 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 1: and a lot of you know whatever. You can take 228 00:10:56,840 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 1: that money and invest it into something you know and 229 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:01,600 Speaker 1: start on apart in or whatever and a start instead 230 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:04,440 Speaker 1: of spending all that money on a wedding. So all 231 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:08,680 Speaker 1: of this our advice to you. I don't want to 232 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:11,920 Speaker 1: believe me. Get yourself a house, so okay, So when 233 00:11:12,000 --> 00:11:15,800 Speaker 1: is it worth shelling up money for something that's probably 234 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:19,079 Speaker 1: too expensive? I think life changing things like a house, 235 00:11:19,240 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 1: like a new car, like a vacation that you'll probably 236 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 1: never go on ever again, if somebody, like if a 237 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:26,200 Speaker 1: cleaning lady is going to help you get time back. 238 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:28,600 Speaker 1: I always look at things with time, like if you 239 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:32,360 Speaker 1: have very limited time on your hands and something, spending 240 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:34,520 Speaker 1: a little bit more on something will help get you 241 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 1: that time back. Like maybe you're out there constantly mowing 242 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:40,080 Speaker 1: the lawn and gardening and baha, and you'd like that 243 00:11:40,120 --> 00:11:42,160 Speaker 1: to buy some time. Maybe get some time by getting 244 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 1: somebody in to help you with it. And I'm not 245 00:11:43,480 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 1: talking about that. I'm talking about what if you've got 246 00:11:45,280 --> 00:11:52,439 Speaker 1: a thousand dollars today someone handed you ten crisps. What 247 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 1: about us just going to the Mandarin Oriental Hotel and 248 00:11:58,040 --> 00:12:00,559 Speaker 1: getting a room for a night, and let's us live 249 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:03,560 Speaker 1: it up and let's just blow that money. Look, it's 250 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 1: it's not a wise decision, right, but some people I 251 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:08,400 Speaker 1: lead on that, but that decided I lean on rather 252 00:12:08,480 --> 00:12:11,160 Speaker 1: than saving it, because but you don't have kids. You 253 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:15,520 Speaker 1: don't have a you know what I'm saying, having a 254 00:12:15,559 --> 00:12:17,560 Speaker 1: family or children, So to him, that would be a 255 00:12:17,559 --> 00:12:19,480 Speaker 1: good idea to do. But even if you don't have 256 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:21,320 Speaker 1: a family, every once in a while you need to 257 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:23,960 Speaker 1: do that to have some type of normalcy where you're like, hey, 258 00:12:24,120 --> 00:12:27,160 Speaker 1: I did do that, which actually that it's abnormalcy is 259 00:12:27,160 --> 00:12:28,679 Speaker 1: what we're looking for. What I'm saying, you want to 260 00:12:28,720 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 1: do something that's because look, you've got look at you, 261 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 1: great teeth, roundheaded, fried pot. You've got a wife, two kids, 262 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:37,360 Speaker 1: and and your kids are at this expensive part of 263 00:12:37,400 --> 00:12:40,560 Speaker 1: their lives. Gosh, wouldn't it be great just to like 264 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:42,679 Speaker 1: not tell anyone and go get a room at an 265 00:12:42,679 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 1: expensive hotel, just order room service, and I would be 266 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:48,040 Speaker 1: like home alone, boy, I would love that. I think 267 00:12:48,080 --> 00:12:50,199 Speaker 1: that we deserve it. I think that we needed when 268 00:12:50,240 --> 00:12:52,560 Speaker 1: the last time you did it, it has been a 269 00:12:52,559 --> 00:12:54,880 Speaker 1: long time since we've actually done somebody much. The last 270 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:57,480 Speaker 1: time you just blew money out like there was it 271 00:12:57,600 --> 00:13:01,840 Speaker 1: was worth nothing, like it was monopoly. I was twenty Yeah, 272 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:05,120 Speaker 1: that long ago. Mine's coming up in August. I'm doing it. 273 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:07,480 Speaker 1: You're doing it. We're going My wife and I were 274 00:13:07,559 --> 00:13:10,320 Speaker 1: going to NAPA and we're going to this restaurant called 275 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 1: French Laundry. French Laundry is great where you pay upfront 276 00:13:14,480 --> 00:13:16,760 Speaker 1: a hell of a lot of money that I've probably 277 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:20,559 Speaker 1: have never paid for in my life going to eat dinner. 278 00:13:21,240 --> 00:13:24,319 Speaker 1: But but it's for the experience. It's the Hey, we 279 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:27,040 Speaker 1: did do this, that's cool. I've been a French laundry, 280 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:30,400 Speaker 1: but someone else paid. When someone else paid, I'm ready 281 00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 1: to spend the money. Look, I know it's rough. You 282 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:34,280 Speaker 1: know what making ends meet, and you know you just 283 00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:36,600 Speaker 1: don't know where your rent is gonna come from this 284 00:13:36,679 --> 00:13:38,280 Speaker 1: and that the last thing on earth you should be 285 00:13:38,320 --> 00:13:41,520 Speaker 1: doing is blowing a thousand dollars at some restaurant or wherever. 286 00:13:42,240 --> 00:13:45,600 Speaker 1: But damn it, don't you want that lottery just win? 287 00:13:45,640 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 1: At one time you could go out there and just 288 00:13:47,320 --> 00:13:50,920 Speaker 1: do those craziest things come on every now and then, 289 00:13:51,000 --> 00:13:53,439 Speaker 1: Like I'll put aside a little bit of money to say, okay, 290 00:13:53,480 --> 00:13:56,080 Speaker 1: this is my like if I sell something, like sometimes 291 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:57,960 Speaker 1: I'll go sell some of your body. But I'm doing 292 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:01,640 Speaker 1: a pot No, I'm doing Poshmark right now and certain things, 293 00:14:01,640 --> 00:14:03,560 Speaker 1: so so I'll take that money. Okay, this is my 294 00:14:03,640 --> 00:14:05,960 Speaker 1: spending money. I can spend it on myself to do 295 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:08,280 Speaker 1: what I want with Brody, you bought the car you like? 296 00:14:09,280 --> 00:14:11,880 Speaker 1: Oh well, at least it because buying it was not 297 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 1: an option. But yes I did. I that's one thing 298 00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:16,880 Speaker 1: that that my family we all agree that I can 299 00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:20,640 Speaker 1: get the car I want. Leave Daddy alone. About you, Elvis, like, 300 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:22,600 Speaker 1: what what was like that? That one thing that you 301 00:14:22,680 --> 00:14:24,280 Speaker 1: just said? You know what, screw it. I'm just gonna 302 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:26,240 Speaker 1: go do it and not think about it. Like I'm 303 00:14:26,240 --> 00:14:28,480 Speaker 1: older and I've I've I've thrown away a lot of 304 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:30,840 Speaker 1: money on stupid things. I've learned that if I'm gonna, 305 00:14:31,160 --> 00:14:32,880 Speaker 1: if I'm gonna put a lot of money out there 306 00:14:32,880 --> 00:14:35,640 Speaker 1: that I shouldn't be doing. It's too an experience. It's 307 00:14:35,680 --> 00:14:39,560 Speaker 1: to a trip. It's to something that I can remember 308 00:14:39,680 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 1: and not just look at that's gonna get dust. And 309 00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:44,920 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't. I'm not buying stupid shit anymore. 310 00:14:45,160 --> 00:14:47,520 Speaker 1: I'm really I stopped doing it. I don't. I mean, 311 00:14:47,720 --> 00:14:50,040 Speaker 1: I just don't buy stupid stuff anymore. When I lost 312 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 1: all the weight, I was up buying a ton of clothes. 313 00:14:52,200 --> 00:14:53,880 Speaker 1: That was a phase I went through. I'm not doing 314 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 1: that anymore. You barely buy clothing now, I barely buy clothing, 315 00:14:56,880 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 1: not know and what I do? I mean. We went 316 00:14:58,920 --> 00:15:02,840 Speaker 1: to t J Marshall, t J Max. We went to Marshall. 317 00:15:03,000 --> 00:15:06,280 Speaker 1: We went to Marshall's Downtown. There's a secret Marshal's Downtown Manhattan, 318 00:15:06,280 --> 00:15:09,640 Speaker 1: and no one knows about. No. I'm done going out 319 00:15:09,640 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 1: and overspending on stuff. When I saw that check at 320 00:15:11,760 --> 00:15:13,960 Speaker 1: this morning, I said, that's definitely a t J Max. 321 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:17,920 Speaker 1: This is two years old. But actually you probably might 322 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:19,480 Speaker 1: be able to get into t J Max if it's 323 00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 1: a designer. You just have to dig to dig. So 324 00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:24,880 Speaker 1: spending money is a lot of fun, but what are 325 00:15:24,880 --> 00:15:27,280 Speaker 1: you spending it on. Don't spend it on stupid crap. 326 00:15:27,440 --> 00:15:29,200 Speaker 1: Spend it on stuff that's gonna make you go God, 327 00:15:29,240 --> 00:15:32,200 Speaker 1: that was a fun experience. My husband does that. He'll say, look, 328 00:15:32,200 --> 00:15:33,560 Speaker 1: if we're gonna do it, if we're gonna go on 329 00:15:33,560 --> 00:15:34,960 Speaker 1: this trip, we're going to do it the right way. 330 00:15:34,960 --> 00:15:37,480 Speaker 1: We're gonna save our money, and we're gonna do it 331 00:15:37,600 --> 00:15:39,320 Speaker 1: the way we should do it because we never know 332 00:15:39,320 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 1: if we're gonna ever do that trip again. You know, 333 00:15:41,720 --> 00:15:45,840 Speaker 1: we have an opportunity next August. It's so a year 334 00:15:45,920 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 1: from this, coming in this month. So Trish's family, her aunt, uncle, 335 00:15:50,840 --> 00:15:54,600 Speaker 1: they got a villa in Tuscany. Well, so they're gonna 336 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:57,640 Speaker 1: be there for five weeks and they're like everybody can 337 00:15:57,640 --> 00:15:59,720 Speaker 1: come whenever. And I'm like, Trish, I don't know if 338 00:15:59,720 --> 00:16:01,720 Speaker 1: we go now, just get there. You have, but you're 339 00:16:01,720 --> 00:16:04,920 Speaker 1: gonna stay in a villa in Tuscany someone else. So 340 00:16:05,000 --> 00:16:07,200 Speaker 1: what is just paying for it? I don't know. Go 341 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:09,840 Speaker 1: fund me, go fund olive guard. It's cheaper to go there. 342 00:16:09,840 --> 00:16:12,000 Speaker 1: This Day, fifteen minute Morning Show