1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:03,960 Speaker 1: See this is from Jojo and Tenex. Jojo says, my 2 00:00:04,080 --> 00:00:07,320 Speaker 1: daughter had her fall formal and I was a chaperone. 3 00:00:07,440 --> 00:00:11,959 Speaker 1: My ex boyfriend was a chaperone too. My husband surprised 4 00:00:12,000 --> 00:00:15,040 Speaker 1: my daughter by bringing a bouquet of roses to the dance. 5 00:00:15,360 --> 00:00:18,040 Speaker 1: When he saw my ex boyfriend in the ballroom, he 6 00:00:18,160 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 1: accused me of volunteering to chaperone just to be around 7 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:25,279 Speaker 1: my ex. My ex lives close to us and has 8 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:28,800 Speaker 1: kids our child's age, so we're always running into him. 9 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 1: Why can't my husband let this go and be friendly 10 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 1: with this guy that I dated twenty years ago? 11 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:36,199 Speaker 2: Be friendly with me? 12 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:41,480 Speaker 3: That ain't The kids can get along a damn them kids. 13 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:44,440 Speaker 3: You ain't got to be friends with that boy. I'm 14 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:47,559 Speaker 3: not finna be friendly with your ex? What friendly for? 15 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:50,920 Speaker 2: What? What is we fin to talk about? Heymen? So 16 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:51,920 Speaker 2: hw is she? Now? 17 00:00:52,600 --> 00:00:52,800 Speaker 3: Well? 18 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:52,879 Speaker 1: What? 19 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:58,400 Speaker 3: Bro? We not know? Lady boy? Lady you? Why can't 20 00:00:58,400 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 3: he be friendly? He you don't want to be friends? 21 00:01:00,760 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 3: Would you be friendly with his ax? Seat right there? 22 00:01:03,600 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 4: Twenty years ago? 23 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:07,199 Speaker 3: I don't give a damn if it was one hundred 24 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:10,040 Speaker 3: and fifty years ago? Why is his ass here? 25 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 2: Wow? 26 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:14,959 Speaker 3: No, man, I'm not you know and you got to 27 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 3: stop being rich, stop expecting your man to be all 28 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:20,400 Speaker 3: that gracious. Ain't no dude going for that. 29 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:23,680 Speaker 1: But they lived close by each other, so they run 30 00:01:23,720 --> 00:01:24,760 Speaker 1: into him all the time. 31 00:01:24,600 --> 00:01:29,800 Speaker 2: That he needed to move on the X the show. 32 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 2: It's goun to talk right, all right, all. 33 00:01:33,840 --> 00:01:36,600 Speaker 1: Right, we have time for another one. It's from Val 34 00:01:36,760 --> 00:01:40,320 Speaker 1: and Oakland. Val writes, I'm dating a guy with low 35 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:43,640 Speaker 1: self esteem. He said every woman he's ever dated cheated 36 00:01:43,720 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 1: on him. He's forty one and said he was around 37 00:01:47,000 --> 00:01:50,000 Speaker 1: twenty five when his first real girlfriend cheated on him 38 00:01:50,200 --> 00:01:53,560 Speaker 1: because he is smaller than other men down there. The 39 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 1: truth is he's not that small at all. I'm so 40 00:01:57,280 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 1: happy with his performance and size. I keep trying to 41 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 1: boost his confidence. Or do I leave him like everyone 42 00:02:04,280 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 1: else did? 43 00:02:05,240 --> 00:02:09,239 Speaker 3: Well, somebody didn't damage to him. That's what happened. Yeah, 44 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:12,240 Speaker 3: that he was just with the wrong one, you know. 45 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:15,640 Speaker 3: Let me give you an analogy. A bottle of water 46 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:19,240 Speaker 3: in the grocery store costs fifty cent. That same bottle 47 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:21,960 Speaker 3: of water in the gym as four dollars. That same 48 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:24,920 Speaker 3: bottle of water at the airport is seven fifty. 49 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:26,720 Speaker 2: It's the same bottle of water. 50 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:30,919 Speaker 3: It's the same amount of ounces in the same size. 51 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:34,080 Speaker 3: It's just your bottle of water could have been in 52 00:02:34,120 --> 00:02:38,120 Speaker 3: the wrong location. So a lot of times it ain't 53 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:48,839 Speaker 3: that you small. Youre just in a much bigger location. See, 54 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:50,960 Speaker 3: You're not finna put it on me because I'm gonna 55 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 3: hurt you. You're not finna tell me I'm small. I 56 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:57,760 Speaker 3: ain't nothing wrong with me. I'm fine. 57 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:00,240 Speaker 2: He's not well, you know. 58 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:04,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, but what happened was in his past he dated 59 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:05,680 Speaker 3: somebody that. 60 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:09,239 Speaker 2: Was like, you know, yeah, he's scarred. He got scarred 61 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:17,240 Speaker 2: the airport. Yeah, a terminal. B I don't even want 62 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:22,919 Speaker 2: no water right now. I just far too much. It's 63 00:03:23,240 --> 00:03:26,960 Speaker 2: excuse me, it's water. You don't know what I mean. 64 00:03:29,200 --> 00:03:36,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know that's what you have to do. 65 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 3: Brou So, it's not you, and you got to pick 66 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 3: yourself esteam up because somebody told you you wasn't big 67 00:03:41,720 --> 00:03:43,080 Speaker 3: enough that you actually find it. 68 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 1: Should she keep boosting his confidence or should she leave me? 69 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 1: Should she stay there? Yeah? 70 00:03:47,960 --> 00:03:49,560 Speaker 3: You know, you just got to say, hey, look, I 71 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 3: don't know who told you this in the past, but 72 00:03:51,760 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 3: you're absolutely wonderful and I enjoyed you. He's probably never 73 00:03:56,240 --> 00:04:00,160 Speaker 3: nobody's probably never encouraged him or or given him I'm 74 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:03,360 Speaker 3: a compliment. Try that before you leave him. If he 75 00:04:03,440 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 3: a good dude, you know, he might be a good dude. 76 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 2: He just got stars, you know. 77 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 3: Right. 78 00:04:09,040 --> 00:04:13,280 Speaker 1: She's so happy with his performance in Size. That's all 79 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:13,840 Speaker 1: she wants to know. 80 00:04:13,880 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 2: Is she ain't my fault because you you know, all 81 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 2: sitting over there, you know, or he really is he 82 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 2: ain't my fault or hers? Yeah, sitting over here, you 83 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:28,839 Speaker 2: know we all do okay? 84 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:36,840 Speaker 4: All right, all right, listen uh for twenty minutes after 85 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 4: the hour, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 86 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:44,920 Speaker 2: Right anybody home, home, home, you're listening to the Steve 87 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:46,039 Speaker 2: Harvey Morning Show.