WEBVTT - Miss Spelling The Beans 0:00:08.800 --> 0:00:15.960 Misspelling with tory spelling an iHeartRadio podcast. So you all know, 0:00:16.200 --> 0:00:25.400 I am a big fan of storytelling. That's sto r I. 0:00:25.400 --> 0:00:29.880 I'm a bigger fan of using my name to brand myself. 0:00:30.760 --> 0:00:33.920 It's the kif that keeps on giving. Don't worry. I 0:00:33.960 --> 0:00:37.160 got like enough bullying in school. Like when I was young, 0:00:37.680 --> 0:00:41.120 tell me a story toy that was from a teacher, 0:00:41.400 --> 0:00:44.159 not even a kid. I thought it was like I 0:00:44.200 --> 0:00:47.040 just wanted to be named Jennifer. Like growing up, I 0:00:47.080 --> 0:00:50.400 was like, oh my gosh, and I had the great story, 0:00:50.600 --> 0:00:53.159 like my name was Victoria. But my mom was like, 0:00:53.760 --> 0:00:58.520 but I'm not on board with your name being Vicky, 0:00:58.600 --> 0:01:02.360 so I want a nickname. And my godmother, Barbara Stanwick, 0:01:02.560 --> 0:01:05.240 was like, you should call her toy like it. Hey, 0:01:05.520 --> 0:01:10.199 this has like the beautiful Hollywood story here story again, 0:01:10.440 --> 0:01:15.039 that's t o r I. But I can't help but 0:01:15.120 --> 0:01:18.480 swap wise for eyes now it's just in my genes. 0:01:20.319 --> 0:01:25.080 But yeah, when you're like eight years old and you know, 0:01:25.520 --> 0:01:30.039 I'm like, I just want to be a Kate or Jennifer, 0:01:30.080 --> 0:01:31.880 like I said, I want it. I want it so 0:01:32.000 --> 0:01:35.839 desperately my name should be Jennifer. But yeah, it was Tory, 0:01:36.080 --> 0:01:37.800 and people are always like, oh, it's a weird name, 0:01:39.280 --> 0:01:43.280 laughing all the way to the bank. Now, mister Rhodes 0:01:43.280 --> 0:01:45.959 in my fifth grade history teacher, Yeah, you're the one 0:01:45.959 --> 0:01:51.760 to shame me anyway. Okay, So I've written many books. 0:01:52.800 --> 0:02:00.200 My first book was called Storytelling, and I just I 0:02:00.240 --> 0:02:03.920 love telling stories. Apple doesn't fall far from the tree. 0:02:03.960 --> 0:02:09.280 My dad was an amazing storyteller, and I didn't think 0:02:09.320 --> 0:02:11.160 I had a gift for it till I saw how 0:02:11.200 --> 0:02:14.600 much joy it would bring, even friends at school telling 0:02:14.680 --> 0:02:17.040 stories that I thought met nothing, like, just this is 0:02:17.040 --> 0:02:19.639 what happened over the weekend, and they'd be laughing and 0:02:19.720 --> 0:02:23.239 like And my attention to detail, I'm very focused on. 0:02:23.800 --> 0:02:27.480 I have a photographic memory, so basically I see things 0:02:27.480 --> 0:02:30.320 in terms of like a movie in my head. So 0:02:30.360 --> 0:02:33.120 I could see things that happen in my stories and 0:02:33.160 --> 0:02:36.000 I could tell you exactly, which was very helpful for 0:02:36.320 --> 0:02:40.160 my co writer for my books because I could literally 0:02:40.200 --> 0:02:42.480 set the stage and be like, Okay, this happened in 0:02:42.560 --> 0:02:45.120 this place on this date. I'm very good with dates, 0:02:45.160 --> 0:02:48.720 like don't mess with me with dates, like it's like yeah, 0:02:51.080 --> 0:02:53.920 but I'd be like I was wearing this dress and 0:02:54.320 --> 0:02:57.320 this color shoes, and this person was standing to my left. 0:02:57.360 --> 0:03:01.480 And it's just very precise, which when you were conveying 0:03:01.800 --> 0:03:07.200 your stories, really helps set the stage for the viewer 0:03:07.280 --> 0:03:13.120 slash listener slash reader slash friend you're telling it to 0:03:13.240 --> 0:03:17.560 at a cocktail party, just really visualizing the story. Anyway, 0:03:18.320 --> 0:03:21.280 storytelling my first book, which went number one on the 0:03:21.320 --> 0:03:26.880 New York Times bestseller list. Woo. I've written six books, 0:03:26.919 --> 0:03:30.960 but that was my first. That was my first book, 0:03:31.000 --> 0:03:35.320 and I had the best time writing it with And 0:03:35.400 --> 0:03:37.840 I had a ghostwriter, Hillary Lifton, who has done all 0:03:37.840 --> 0:03:40.480 my books, including my children's book with me. Because we 0:03:41.440 --> 0:03:47.200 became fast friends and she was very collaborative. She quickly 0:03:47.240 --> 0:03:51.280 found out that it wasn't just like sometimes. I found 0:03:51.320 --> 0:03:55.840 out the world of ghostwriting very fascinating. It comes in 0:03:55.880 --> 0:03:58.600 all shapes and forms, Like you can have a celebrity 0:03:58.640 --> 0:04:03.120 and you literally have to create their voice while telling 0:04:03.160 --> 0:04:06.920 their stories. But with me, she quickly found out. She's like, 0:04:07.240 --> 0:04:12.160 I'm basically here to type out your stories to format it. 0:04:12.200 --> 0:04:14.600 I'm terrible at formatting. I was like, I have always 0:04:14.600 --> 0:04:18.600 stories go chapter one, chapter two, and just to kind 0:04:18.600 --> 0:04:22.600 of steer your voice. And she's like, but your voice 0:04:22.640 --> 0:04:26.800 is so evident, and that's one piece of advice I 0:04:26.839 --> 0:04:32.279 always took with me. So I tell stories, and I 0:04:32.320 --> 0:04:42.480 was like, okay, hello, I have a podcast crime, real Estate, Hello, Monopoly. 0:04:42.520 --> 0:04:45.440 This would be like park Avenue. No way, they're different 0:04:45.480 --> 0:04:51.960 now park Place, park Place. Yeah. So I'm going to 0:04:52.040 --> 0:04:59.240 do a weekly edition of storytelling by Tori spelling that 0:04:59.440 --> 0:05:03.240 is misspelling and for nasty. Okay, let's get into it. Listen, 0:05:03.480 --> 0:05:07.000 puns are my life. There's two types of human brains. 0:05:08.080 --> 0:05:11.080 You either think in terms of puns or you don't. 0:05:12.040 --> 0:05:17.280 I can't help but thinking puns. So today here we go. 0:05:19.080 --> 0:05:25.839 I am spelling the beans on a lot of juicy stories. Okay. 0:05:25.880 --> 0:05:30.760 My producer Lorraine has graciously agreed to ask me questions, 0:05:30.839 --> 0:05:33.520 and I said, go for it because I can edit 0:05:33.560 --> 0:05:36.240 the book out of this. No, I'm just kidding. No, 0:05:36.360 --> 0:05:39.760 I said go for it because what often happens, and 0:05:39.800 --> 0:05:42.239 this happened every time I was writing one of my books, 0:05:42.440 --> 0:05:45.480 is my writer would it was like she was a therapist. 0:05:45.560 --> 0:05:49.080 It was so cathartic. But I would be like, I No, 0:05:49.160 --> 0:05:51.000 I don't have a story about that, and she'd be 0:05:51.000 --> 0:05:53.279 like okay, and she'd just be like asking me about 0:05:53.320 --> 0:05:55.920 my life and it would trigger a memory that'd be like, 0:05:55.960 --> 0:05:57.479 oh my god, I haven't thought about that story in 0:05:57.520 --> 0:06:00.480 ten twenty years, and I would have a story. So 0:06:00.720 --> 0:06:04.080 a lot of times I won't remember things, and if 0:06:04.120 --> 0:06:06.920 you ask me in a certain way or ask something 0:06:06.960 --> 0:06:12.160 around it, it will jog my memory. So here we go, Loraine. 0:06:12.160 --> 0:06:14.919 Are you ready? Are you ready? That's the question. I 0:06:14.960 --> 0:06:19.479 don't know. Yo, We're gonna go there? Okay, Oh god, okay, 0:06:19.480 --> 0:06:22.760 ease me in, be gentle. It's my first time. Highly 0:06:22.839 --> 0:06:24.920 doubt that. Okay. 0:06:25.000 --> 0:06:28.400 So we've done a lot of episodes about your fabulous 0:06:28.400 --> 0:06:33.600 family parties, right, yes, okay, there must have been more 0:06:33.600 --> 0:06:37.360 than one, but at least one celebrity who got wasted 0:06:37.680 --> 0:06:41.120 at one of your shindigs in Beverly Hills, and I 0:06:41.160 --> 0:06:42.000 want to know who. 0:06:42.560 --> 0:06:47.880 Okay, So I could take this a variety various different directions. 0:06:47.920 --> 0:06:52.200 Let's say we had very few parties at our house 0:06:53.800 --> 0:07:01.440 pre mannor Baby Manor Manor Junior. He had some parties, 0:07:01.480 --> 0:07:05.560 but not extensive amount at the Manor. The only huge 0:07:05.640 --> 0:07:08.000 except aside from the Christmas Eve parties every year that 0:07:08.000 --> 0:07:10.920 I've gotten into a little bit, the only huge party 0:07:11.080 --> 0:07:13.800 was when my mom threw the one and only party 0:07:14.040 --> 0:07:17.520 for Prince Charles when he came to America. It was 0:07:17.560 --> 0:07:20.640 the one party he allowed someone to do for him, 0:07:20.680 --> 0:07:24.559 and it was at our house. But my dad every 0:07:24.680 --> 0:07:35.840 year had huge company parties, massive every actor, crew, producers, network. Yeah, 0:07:35.880 --> 0:07:39.720 so those are the parties where they'd probably be some 0:07:40.240 --> 0:07:46.520 little more wasted, I would say, I'm trying to remember. 0:07:47.800 --> 0:07:50.400 There were a lot of them were like at a hotel, 0:07:50.600 --> 0:07:53.520 like in the ballroom, but some of them were at 0:07:53.520 --> 0:08:00.960 the iconic Chasins, which was a Hollywood staple, landmark restaurant 0:08:01.000 --> 0:08:03.480 for like the biggest stars in the world. And I'm 0:08:03.480 --> 0:08:06.560 talking all the way back to like Betty Davis, Joan Crawford, 0:08:06.720 --> 0:08:12.120 like Dean Martin, my godfather, Barbara Stanwick, my godmother, Frank Sinatra, 0:08:12.320 --> 0:08:14.680 like you know, like everyone went there, the rat Pack, 0:08:14.800 --> 0:08:18.560 and then it just went on Jimmy Stewart and then 0:08:18.560 --> 0:08:23.560 it went on through the decades until it closed downs. 0:08:23.600 --> 0:08:29.880 Now Bristol Farms, Beverly Boulevard got its heartbreaking little known facts. 0:08:30.360 --> 0:08:35.160 I'm a huge believer in chili. Uh. I don't get 0:08:35.160 --> 0:08:40.480 my chili skills from a family recipe or a home 0:08:40.480 --> 0:08:43.760 cooked meal. But there was a famous chili and you 0:08:43.800 --> 0:08:46.720 can look it up that I was inspired to make 0:08:47.000 --> 0:08:51.040 by Chasins, which was this huge iconic restaurant. They had 0:08:51.080 --> 0:08:56.800 like shrimp towers and they had like the like the 0:08:56.880 --> 0:09:00.840 meter d and the waiters were like in and almost 0:09:00.840 --> 0:09:07.120 black tie red, like leather couches. People would dress up 0:09:07.160 --> 0:09:09.520 when they came there, like you know where they're like 0:09:09.800 --> 0:09:14.520 furst stoles. Sorry that was back then. Now they're foe 0:09:14.679 --> 0:09:18.240 for stoles. Doesn't even wear a stole anymore. Should bring 0:09:18.240 --> 0:09:23.800 it back. I love a good capelet. Anyway. They would 0:09:23.960 --> 0:09:27.240 like really dress up and they would have like steak, 0:09:27.400 --> 0:09:30.320 like all these cool steaks, and they had actually a 0:09:30.360 --> 0:09:33.120 steak called the Steak Aarin that was my dad's. I'd 0:09:33.120 --> 0:09:34.480 to get the recipe for that. Oh, we have to 0:09:34.480 --> 0:09:37.679 make that one day. That was iconic. But they would 0:09:37.760 --> 0:09:40.280 like you know, it was a whole performance. They would 0:09:40.320 --> 0:09:42.720 you know, Cherry's jubilee and they would light it on 0:09:42.840 --> 0:09:45.640 fire in front of you. It was like you went 0:09:45.679 --> 0:09:48.599 out for like a Sunday family dinner and I was 0:09:48.640 --> 0:09:50.920 wearing my finest Mary Jans let me just tell you, 0:09:51.000 --> 0:09:53.800 and my fur caplet. Sorry, I was eight. I didn't 0:09:53.840 --> 0:10:01.520 choose my clothes but in the Shirley Temple ringlets. But anyway, yeah, 0:10:01.559 --> 0:10:04.880 so chili chili was one of their main things, which 0:10:04.920 --> 0:10:06.920 is so random. That's like a comfort food and not 0:10:07.000 --> 0:10:09.840 something you would see like at a high end restaurant. 0:10:09.880 --> 0:10:15.040 But anyway, I digress. I think, you know what, I 0:10:15.040 --> 0:10:19.640 don't know if she was wasted, but and we can 0:10:19.679 --> 0:10:22.800 fact check this and see, my luck, she'll be like, 0:10:22.840 --> 0:10:25.400 I've been sober for fifty years, Like how dare you 0:10:25.440 --> 0:10:30.520 say that? But uh, I'll be canceled. But anyway, Judge 0:10:30.640 --> 0:10:37.080 Judy and not wasted, but she was. I guess what 0:10:37.160 --> 0:10:40.400 it was that really I took note of. And keep 0:10:40.440 --> 0:10:44.800 in mind, my dad's company was a public traded company 0:10:44.880 --> 0:10:50.520 in the later years, so he owned different film companies. 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:53.040 So there are you know, movie stars at at his 0:10:53.120 --> 0:10:57.960 holiday parties. It went from Chasins to like the huge 0:10:58.000 --> 0:11:01.640 hotel like you know Biltmore all his TV shows all 0:11:01.800 --> 0:11:05.120 and it expanded to and I don't know exactly why, 0:11:05.160 --> 0:11:08.680 but the network that Judge Judy was on was part 0:11:08.720 --> 0:11:14.360 of Spelling was linked to it. So anyway, and I 0:11:14.360 --> 0:11:16.920 guess I was just so shocked and like everyone was 0:11:16.960 --> 0:11:22.480 getting up and giving speeches, and yeah, I was just 0:11:22.559 --> 0:11:25.880 so shocked because everyone's like Judge Judy, Judge Judy. And 0:11:25.960 --> 0:11:28.000 I was like what, I put down my cocktail for 0:11:28.040 --> 0:11:30.880 a second. I'm like, let me pay attention. And I 0:11:30.920 --> 0:11:34.240 looked to the stage and I was like, oh my god, 0:11:34.320 --> 0:11:37.720 what a hot piece of ass. Like she was up there, 0:11:37.760 --> 0:11:42.960 you guys in like this slinky little, like very body 0:11:43.000 --> 0:11:50.920 con like dress and she was hot, af like gorgeous, 0:11:50.960 --> 0:11:57.200 sexy and talking and was funny and kind of body. 0:11:57.320 --> 0:12:00.280 I mean, she is, you know, she's definitely very firm. 0:12:00.640 --> 0:12:04.320 But she was like cool, super cool. She was dancing, 0:12:05.080 --> 0:12:08.480 really good dancer, super sexy. Wait, oh my god, dancing 0:12:08.480 --> 0:12:10.880 with the stars. Should have judged Judy. Sad thing? Have 0:12:10.960 --> 0:12:13.880 they done that? Anyway. I don't know if she'd had 0:12:13.880 --> 0:12:16.400 a few cocktails, but you know, to the young brain, 0:12:16.600 --> 0:12:18.920 I was like, oh my god, she's letting loose. She 0:12:19.000 --> 0:12:22.719 must be drunk, but who knows. But I was super impressed. 0:12:22.720 --> 0:12:34.520 She's got mad moves. You guys, Oh my god, you 0:12:34.559 --> 0:12:36.800 know who used to always hit on me at those things? 0:12:37.040 --> 0:12:40.400 Woo do you remember? Oh god, I shouldn't say this, 0:12:40.880 --> 0:12:44.480 now you gotta say it. Ted McGinley oh, he was 0:12:44.520 --> 0:12:47.280 on love Boat and then he was on Married with Children. 0:12:47.240 --> 0:12:48.040 Revenge of the Nerds. 0:12:48.080 --> 0:12:50.360 Revenge of the Nerds. Right, he was the hawkey of course, 0:12:50.400 --> 0:12:53.719 that's what I knew him from. Oh my god, duh, 0:12:54.400 --> 0:12:58.080 such a big Revenge of the Nerds fan. But I 0:12:58.120 --> 0:13:01.480 gotta say, looking back on I'm I'm looking back on 0:13:01.559 --> 0:13:04.920 a couple of them. I feel like my dad like 0:13:05.080 --> 0:13:11.640 kind of asked him to court you court his daughter. 0:13:12.240 --> 0:13:14.480 But what's our age difference? Like now, I'm like, wait, 0:13:14.520 --> 0:13:17.000 hold on, how old is he? He's sixty six? That's 0:13:17.080 --> 0:13:24.520 quite the difference. What wow. So definitely the first time 0:13:24.760 --> 0:13:30.319 was like at this like Santa Barbara, like a charity 0:13:30.360 --> 0:13:32.920 fundraiser or something. I went with my parents. I remember 0:13:32.960 --> 0:13:35.840 we were all in like western gear or something, and 0:13:36.120 --> 0:13:42.240 I think I was like eighteen, and my dad definitely 0:13:42.240 --> 0:13:46.320 sat him with me, like next to me at my table, 0:13:47.040 --> 0:13:49.520 and I feel like he asked me a dance and 0:13:49.559 --> 0:13:52.079 he asked me. I don't know, I just or me. 0:13:52.240 --> 0:13:54.560 That's a story. I told myself, like why would this 0:13:54.760 --> 0:13:58.040 hunk rama? Like I was like, why would he ever 0:13:58.240 --> 0:14:01.160 flirt with a girl like me? And so my dad 0:14:01.280 --> 0:14:06.160 must have set this up. But who knows. Looking back, 0:14:06.200 --> 0:14:08.959 I'm like, what do you mean? I was funny, I 0:14:09.040 --> 0:14:11.800 was smart, like I was cute, Like why not me? 0:14:13.520 --> 0:14:17.160 I feel like my dad was like, hey, pal, you 0:14:17.240 --> 0:14:20.600 want to keep working date my daughter. No, I'm just kidding. 0:14:20.600 --> 0:14:25.000 I'm just messing her anyhow. Oh my god, I always 0:14:25.040 --> 0:14:27.320 wanted to date Gopher from the Love Boat. Oh it's 0:14:27.360 --> 0:14:32.120 such a crush on him. At eight. Could have been 0:14:32.160 --> 0:14:35.080 his wife. I would have been a politician's wife. Okay, 0:14:35.200 --> 0:14:38.320 we all know you grew up with lots of stuff, right, Yes. 0:14:38.600 --> 0:14:41.440 Did you ever have a friend come over and suddenly 0:14:41.720 --> 0:14:43.520 something was missing? Uh? 0:14:43.680 --> 0:14:46.320 Yeah, okay, let's talk about that. 0:14:46.920 --> 0:14:50.280 I'm not proud of this, but I am very trusting 0:14:50.360 --> 0:14:53.760 and I opened my home. Are we talking like at 0:14:53.800 --> 0:14:58.480 my mom's house? Because no, I mean she listen, back 0:14:58.480 --> 0:15:01.520 in the day we have she would get the screeners 0:15:01.760 --> 0:15:04.280 for the movies, which a lot of people in the 0:15:04.280 --> 0:15:06.880 industry get now, but this is back like back in 0:15:06.920 --> 0:15:08.920 the day, it was like a rarity in My dad 0:15:09.000 --> 0:15:13.200 and mom would get them and she would have them 0:15:13.320 --> 0:15:16.400 cataloged and you could come over and it was like 0:15:16.440 --> 0:15:20.800 a library card and you could check them out. That's 0:15:20.840 --> 0:15:24.280 only because she had people she did this to her 0:15:24.320 --> 0:15:25.880 like okay, I borrow this, and she was so giving 0:15:25.920 --> 0:15:27.760 like yes, yes, yes, of course, and then like they 0:15:27.800 --> 0:15:31.840 never returned it. But she learned fast, and she like 0:15:32.200 --> 0:15:34.880 she had an eye on everything. When they say moms 0:15:34.920 --> 0:15:37.040 have eyes on the back in the back of their heads, 0:15:37.120 --> 0:15:39.680 I mean my mom like she saw everything. She always 0:15:39.760 --> 0:15:43.600 knew everything. Anyway. I couldn't get away with a thing anyway. 0:15:44.160 --> 0:15:46.480 I mean growing up my friends I told about like 0:15:46.600 --> 0:15:52.000 my mom notoriously had out candies and when she smoked 0:15:52.080 --> 0:15:59.280 cigarettes and alcohol, like it wasn't my parents. Weren't the 0:15:59.320 --> 0:16:01.440 parents that locked anything up because my brother and I 0:16:01.480 --> 0:16:04.520 never took anything. Like I would have kids come home 0:16:04.520 --> 0:16:06.400 and be like, oh, you know, like my six year 0:16:06.400 --> 0:16:09.120 old friends like, oh my god, there's cigarettes here. Don't 0:16:09.200 --> 0:16:12.320 you just want to smoke them? Like you No, Nope, 0:16:13.680 --> 0:16:16.440 Oh my god, there's candy. Can we have some? They 0:16:16.560 --> 0:16:20.000 just be like gobbling chocolate and like getting cokes and 0:16:20.040 --> 0:16:24.520 pepsis and mountain dews out of the refrigerator and doctor 0:16:24.560 --> 0:16:28.960 pepper and I'd be like, eh, like it was like 0:16:29.000 --> 0:16:32.720 an everyday thing. My mom believed everything in moderation, which 0:16:32.800 --> 0:16:34.800 is something I carry through with my kids because I 0:16:34.840 --> 0:16:37.200 feel like it's like in Europe, like they have them 0:16:37.240 --> 0:16:40.160 drinking at such a young age that I feel like, 0:16:41.160 --> 0:16:42.880 you know, when they get to be adults, they can 0:16:43.040 --> 0:16:47.440 handle it. You know, it's about socializing and entertaining and 0:16:47.480 --> 0:16:51.480 a good meal and conversation wine. It's not taken for 0:16:51.520 --> 0:16:55.640 granted like it is in America. But anyway, yeah, so 0:16:55.840 --> 0:16:58.880 my friends did not steal. They were allowed to take anything, 0:16:58.920 --> 0:17:01.480 take all that, and like they'd be like, ooh, there's 0:17:01.560 --> 0:17:07.040 booze back here, and I'd be like, m yeah. But anyway, 0:17:07.359 --> 0:17:11.040 at my apartments, I moved out, went to my apartment. 0:17:11.640 --> 0:17:14.400 I did have I don't know if i'd call them friends. 0:17:14.680 --> 0:17:17.480 I had, well, I had one friend. So my mom 0:17:18.080 --> 0:17:24.080 growing up was a collector of antiques, and she got 0:17:24.119 --> 0:17:29.560 me into collecting. Well, I have a famous collection. I've 0:17:29.600 --> 0:17:31.360 asked my mom where it is. Oh god, I hope 0:17:31.400 --> 0:17:37.119 it's somewhere of salt dips. Wait what my mom started 0:17:37.160 --> 0:17:40.879 collecting salt dips for me. They're like little glass and 0:17:40.960 --> 0:17:44.440 different things they would put salt in, but little I 0:17:44.480 --> 0:17:48.880 don't know why. This couldn't tell you why. And I 0:17:49.040 --> 0:17:54.600 feel like my godfather, Dean Martin got me into collecting 0:17:54.760 --> 0:17:58.840 original original coins. So I used to have packs of 0:17:58.880 --> 0:18:02.120 like the original coins each year. God, I gotta find 0:18:02.160 --> 0:18:06.879 those two, okay. But I also when I moved to 0:18:06.920 --> 0:18:11.360 my first apartment, even though I didn't smoke cigarettes, it 0:18:11.440 --> 0:18:15.560 was like a rite of passage, like I was an adult, 0:18:15.640 --> 0:18:19.000 so I didn't have out like cigarettes and cigarette holders, 0:18:19.040 --> 0:18:22.320 but I would have I did collect match strikers, like 0:18:22.440 --> 0:18:25.439 they have beautiful glass ones you can go. I love 0:18:25.520 --> 0:18:29.200 to flea market and get them match strikers. I have matches, 0:18:29.200 --> 0:18:31.520 but that's good for lighting candles and stuff. And then 0:18:31.560 --> 0:18:34.800 I would have lighters, but like the big ass like 0:18:35.440 --> 0:18:37.159 it looked like you were gonna like rub them and 0:18:37.240 --> 0:18:39.560 a genie would come out, like it looked like a 0:18:39.640 --> 0:18:43.200 big brass like genie lantern. I don't know. They have 0:18:43.280 --> 0:18:45.240 them in all shapes. They had silver ones and gold 0:18:45.280 --> 0:18:50.040 ones and anyway very expensive ones. And I collected those 0:18:50.119 --> 0:18:51.919 because my mom had to collect at them, and I 0:18:51.960 --> 0:18:53.960 was an adult now and I should collect things my 0:18:54.000 --> 0:18:57.919 mom collected, and my mom has exquisite taste. Anyway, I 0:18:57.960 --> 0:19:02.719 had those, but I'm talking these lighters. They're good, like 0:19:03.119 --> 0:19:05.880 they're hefty. They're like at least five patents, I would say, 0:19:06.400 --> 0:19:13.480 like heavy. And we were with a friend and I 0:19:13.520 --> 0:19:16.880 had like pregame my apartment. My friends always would come there. 0:19:16.920 --> 0:19:20.560 We were twenty one and pregame there. Then we'd go 0:19:20.680 --> 0:19:23.280 to like a club. And we were at a club 0:19:24.040 --> 0:19:29.200 after we had pregamed at my apartment and my friend 0:19:29.359 --> 0:19:34.000 had taken off his leather jacket and I don't even 0:19:34.040 --> 0:19:39.040 know why. I'm trying to remember the reason. We went 0:19:39.080 --> 0:19:43.520 through his pocket. I don't know if someone said like 0:19:43.640 --> 0:19:46.119 they were trying to get money, like cash, oh, to 0:19:46.200 --> 0:19:50.199 go to like the restroom to tip the attendant. I 0:19:50.200 --> 0:19:54.160 don't know, it was something, but he stupidly was like, oh, 0:19:54.160 --> 0:19:56.439 I have it, yeah yeah, or I like I have ones, 0:19:56.480 --> 0:20:00.280 like check my pocket. And so my friend went in 0:20:00.600 --> 0:20:04.560 and was like what and pulls up one of my 0:20:04.640 --> 0:20:08.199 heavy ass silver lighters. I mean, this thing was probably like, 0:20:08.240 --> 0:20:10.920 I don't know, two hundred and fifty dollars at least, 0:20:10.920 --> 0:20:15.840 like it was like a good vintage find and heavy 0:20:16.000 --> 0:20:20.040 as fuck, so like to carry that around and big, 0:20:20.119 --> 0:20:23.119 it's not like, I don't know how he thought he 0:20:23.119 --> 0:20:25.840 would get away with it. And she pulls it up 0:20:25.880 --> 0:20:27.919 and she's like she lived with me, She's my roommate 0:20:28.400 --> 0:20:31.840 and her name is Jenny, and Jenny's like, what, I 0:20:31.960 --> 0:20:34.960 just found this in so and so's leather jacket and 0:20:35.040 --> 0:20:38.360 I was like, oh my god, that's my lighter. And 0:20:38.400 --> 0:20:40.560 then she was like, oh my god. So then we 0:20:40.640 --> 0:20:43.160 decided to like a f with him, and we were 0:20:43.280 --> 0:20:46.560 just like we'd wait and wait and like everything was fine, 0:20:46.600 --> 0:20:48.920 and then like we'd order a drink and be like cheers, 0:20:49.040 --> 0:20:51.159 and like we just pulled up the later and be 0:20:51.200 --> 0:20:55.720 like lighter, cheers and just like the look on his face, 0:20:55.720 --> 0:20:57.520 and we just kept bringing up lighter, lighter. But we 0:20:57.600 --> 0:21:00.320 never confronted him, you know, he was just like shitting bread, Like, 0:21:00.359 --> 0:21:04.360 oh my god, I stole the lighter from her coffee table. Anyway, 0:21:04.840 --> 0:21:11.000 Then one time at band camp, I never hid my pictures, 0:21:11.040 --> 0:21:13.240 I never hid anything. I didn't have safes, I didn't 0:21:13.280 --> 0:21:16.800 lock things. So my apartment was a free for all, Like, 0:21:16.920 --> 0:21:22.119 oh my god, like who knows, Like people weren't as 0:21:22.160 --> 0:21:27.359 devious then, and I feel like if it was nowadays, whoa, 0:21:27.600 --> 0:21:31.640 we'd make a fortune going through my house. Oh that's 0:21:31.680 --> 0:21:37.359 not an invitation. Anyway. I was filming a movie in 0:21:37.440 --> 0:21:41.480 South Carolina, a TV movie for NBC now it's on Lifetime, 0:21:42.720 --> 0:21:49.040 and I had some friends come in, and my friends 0:21:49.080 --> 0:21:51.680 came in for the weekend, like all my friends from 0:21:51.800 --> 0:21:56.399 LA and we were filming and having like at my 0:21:56.480 --> 0:22:00.399 apartment in South Carolina. We were in the apartment and 0:22:00.440 --> 0:22:05.880 we were drinking and having a good time. Now, I 0:22:05.920 --> 0:22:10.080 have never been a smoker my whole like youth, but 0:22:10.960 --> 0:22:14.240 I would occasionally like if my friend smoked after a 0:22:14.240 --> 0:22:17.280 few drinks, have a cigarette, but it wasn't like I think. 0:22:17.320 --> 0:22:21.000 There's like one picture in the public of like me 0:22:21.119 --> 0:22:23.199 and Brian and Shannon, I'm smoking a cigarette. I was 0:22:23.240 --> 0:22:27.440 probably just trying to fit in. Never liked them and 0:22:27.480 --> 0:22:32.080 when I was young. So anyway, in this one picture, 0:22:33.080 --> 0:22:38.720 we were dancing to music Grease soundtrack, of course my fave, 0:22:39.040 --> 0:22:42.639 and we were playing like Grease, Lightning or something. And 0:22:44.040 --> 0:22:45.600 as I if you know me, you know me, I 0:22:45.640 --> 0:22:49.399 can am very very flexible. I am in a G 0:22:49.600 --> 0:22:54.160 string and a tank top, platinum short hair. So set 0:22:54.160 --> 0:22:57.520 the stage of the time period here and I'm on 0:22:57.640 --> 0:23:00.880 the back of my couch and I'm doing like a 0:23:01.000 --> 0:23:05.800 full on split, like with a cigarette hanging out of 0:23:05.800 --> 0:23:10.120 my mouth. Very controversial for Donna Martin back then. I'm 0:23:10.160 --> 0:23:13.160 just saying, like I was wearing a G string, legs 0:23:13.400 --> 0:23:17.639 full on split right across and one hand in the 0:23:17.720 --> 0:23:19.679 air and a cigarette hanging out of my mouth, like 0:23:20.720 --> 0:23:25.120 the like iconic good girl, being the most iconic bad girl, 0:23:25.560 --> 0:23:31.800 like National Inquirer. Please they saw it coming. Anyway, cut tow, 0:23:32.160 --> 0:23:34.720 I go back to my apartment, we get the film developed. Yeah, 0:23:34.720 --> 0:23:37.919 that's right. It was all disposable cameras back then, and 0:23:39.280 --> 0:23:42.359 that photo. All my friends would laugh at it. But 0:23:42.400 --> 0:23:44.439 I had it in my drawer in my closet, like 0:23:44.480 --> 0:23:48.240 it'd be like, oh, my sweaters, my cardigans, my vibrators, 0:23:48.320 --> 0:23:53.080 oh pictures of me with a cigarette in my mouth 0:23:53.119 --> 0:23:56.760 doing the splits in a G string. But yeah, things 0:23:56.800 --> 0:24:00.359 like that. You know, I'm just kidding. I didn't use avibrator, 0:24:00.400 --> 0:24:02.640 but oh my god, I did have it, like ten 0:24:02.760 --> 0:24:05.200 Hello Kitty vibrators because once I was at the pleasure 0:24:05.280 --> 0:24:08.639 Chest and I was so shocked and I was like, 0:24:08.720 --> 0:24:10.520 oh my god, and I was like, Hello Kitty. It 0:24:10.560 --> 0:24:12.080 was like the cutest thing. I decided to get it 0:24:12.080 --> 0:24:14.879 for all my girlfriends for Christmas and got like ten 0:24:15.160 --> 0:24:19.080 pink Hello Kitty vibrators. That me being me, I like 0:24:20.520 --> 0:24:24.520 never wrapped, never gave and they just sat there, never 0:24:24.560 --> 0:24:29.040 tried it. Actually, to be honest, gimmickey ones are never 0:24:29.359 --> 0:24:36.119 the most powerful anyway. So I was filming somewhere and 0:24:36.160 --> 0:24:40.240 my roommate at the time, a boy roommate, had a 0:24:40.280 --> 0:24:43.520 party and had people over, which was fine, I think, 0:24:43.560 --> 0:24:45.359 you know what. I was filming nine on two and zero, 0:24:45.480 --> 0:24:47.840 So I was working late. I came home and this 0:24:47.880 --> 0:24:51.199 isn't his fault, like he didn't tell this human to 0:24:51.240 --> 0:24:53.919 do this. And my roommate, Kevin and I he had 0:24:53.960 --> 0:24:57.080 people over and they were friends of mine as well, 0:24:57.440 --> 0:24:59.520 and I was filming late. I came home and I 0:24:59.600 --> 0:25:04.000 was like, oh my god, Okay, I'm like, I'll hang 0:25:04.040 --> 0:25:05.600 out for a little bit. And I hung out on 0:25:05.600 --> 0:25:06.840 the couch for a little bit and then I went 0:25:06.880 --> 0:25:10.760 to bed. Thought nothing of that night. The next week, 0:25:11.560 --> 0:25:14.520 my publicist calls and says, I don't know if it 0:25:14.560 --> 0:25:17.240 was National Enquirer. We can look this up in fact check, 0:25:17.720 --> 0:25:21.480 but it was something a publication has a photo of you, 0:25:22.359 --> 0:25:29.320 and you're scantily clad and you're doing a really like 0:25:29.359 --> 0:25:32.120 a pose that's not appropriate, and you have a cigarette 0:25:32.160 --> 0:25:34.399 hanging out of your mouth. And immediately I was like 0:25:35.760 --> 0:25:38.719 it's just pertaining to be Sandy increased lightning. I was 0:25:38.800 --> 0:25:40.520 just trying to be the good girl turned bad for 0:25:40.600 --> 0:25:45.920 one night. Yeah that was me anyway. Yeah, I knew 0:25:45.960 --> 0:25:50.240 exactly the picture. So I go to my bedroom, open 0:25:50.359 --> 0:25:54.320 up that bottom drawer all fucking ten. Hello, kitty vibrators 0:25:54.320 --> 0:25:58.080 still there. Why couldn't they have taken those? Uh? And 0:25:58.119 --> 0:26:01.439