Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show,
Speaker 1: Holly is on the phone today for to Catch a
Speaker 1: Cheater and she thinks that her husband of four years,
Speaker 1: Alan might be starting to see somebody else. Holly, thank
Speaker 1: you for coming on the show. I'm sorry that you're
Speaker 1: dealing with this. What's going on with Alan.
Speaker 2: We've been married for four years, but we were together
Speaker 2: probably three and a half years before that, so almost
Speaker 2: eight years we've been together. He's just been really distant
Speaker 2: all of a sudden, for like the past five to
Speaker 2: six months. I don't know what's one line I've asked him.
Speaker 2: He's just like, everything's fine or it's not you. I'm
Speaker 2: just going through some things. So I was like, okay, well,
Speaker 2: if you're going through some things, do you want to
Speaker 2: be in therapy or anything like that? And he was
Speaker 2: like sure. So he started therapy, which I commend him
Speaker 2: for and I'm like, oh, I'm I'm happy that you're
Speaker 2: doing that. But he's still like distant, and even after therapy,
Speaker 2: that's not like it got kind of work. He spends
Speaker 2: his time on Twitch and on his phone, and we
Speaker 2: even used to once a week, like we would take
Speaker 2: our lunch breaks together from work and have lunch together,
Speaker 2: and that stopped like two months ago, Like, we don't
Speaker 2: even do that anymore.
Speaker 1: Huh.
Speaker 2: I don't know what to do. So I'm suspecting there's
Speaker 2: another person.
Speaker 3: Is there anything that is pointing to another person outside?
Speaker 3: I mean the distance is definitely a big flag for sure,
Speaker 3: But have there been any signs of another person?
Speaker 2: Well, he's always on his phone, right, like I said,
Speaker 2: and we don't do our once a month lunch breaks
Speaker 2: together anymore.
Speaker 1: So did he give you a reason for stopping those?
Speaker 2: Well, he just said he's swamped at work, and everybody
Speaker 2: knows that's a cliche.
Speaker 4: Come on, really, I mean.
Speaker 1: It could be.
Speaker 5: I mean I he tried to just show up at
Speaker 5: his work with lunch and be like, Hey, you couldn't
Speaker 5: go that?
Speaker 1: Do that? Yeah, yeah's surprise.
Speaker 4: I mean, for lack of a.
Speaker 2: Better to, I do not have to do.
Speaker 3: That, Okay, okay, fair? Does he interact with his friends
Speaker 3: the same way that he was before?
Speaker 2: No? Really, So that's kind of weird too. And I'm like,
Speaker 2: who is getting all of this attention from him? You know,
Speaker 2: because it's not me, it's not his friends, it is
Speaker 2: his phone. So I'm not going to go through his
Speaker 2: phone like I tried to want we got in a
Speaker 2: big argument, it didn't work out, so I stay away
Speaker 2: from going through his phone. I just don't know. I'm like, okay,
Speaker 2: so everyone's supposed to help, but it got worse. So
Speaker 2: now do I'd be like, stop going to therapy. I'm
Speaker 2: gonna look crazy. Yeah. What if he's like having an
Speaker 2: affair with.
Speaker 1: A therapist, Oh, that would have been a potwaste. Yeah,
Speaker 1: then I would say ask him to stop going to
Speaker 1: that therapist.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then go to a therapist that can talk
Speaker 3: about ethics and yeah, teach you how to get over divorce.
Speaker 3: And not getting a full blown, like one hundred percent
Speaker 3: cheating vibe from this though, I'm getting more of a
Speaker 3: like something's going on with him and he's just isolating
Speaker 3: himself from the world's kind of a thing, which is
Speaker 3: tough because when a guy gets to that space, it's
Speaker 3: hard to break through.
Speaker 5: But if he's not acting like if he's acting weird
Speaker 5: with his friends also, that's what I mean, he's an
Speaker 5: isolation phase.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. I just feel like it's got
Speaker 2: to be something like he's never done a drug in
Speaker 2: his life, so it's not drugs.
Speaker 1: Well that's good, yeah, all right, Well we'll try to
Speaker 1: figure it out for you. We'll play a song. You
Speaker 1: already told us what grocery store he's a Rewards card
Speaker 1: member at, So we'll do the usual and call up,
Speaker 1: pretend to be from the grocery store and say that
Speaker 1: he's this month's lucky winner of thirty six long stim
Speaker 1: red roses delivered to any any that he wants to,
Speaker 1: and we'll see he sends those to you or to
Speaker 1: somebody else. Okay, okay, all right, we'll play a song.
Speaker 1: Come back and get your to Catch a Theater next
Speaker 1: if you're just joining us for today's To Catch a Teater.
Speaker 1: Holly is on the phone and she thinks that her
Speaker 1: husband of four years might be messing around. We're about
Speaker 1: to call him and pretend to be from the grocery
Speaker 1: store that he is a RWARS card member at, and
Speaker 1: say that every single month, we randomly choose one Awards
Speaker 1: card member who gets free flower delivery from our Florida department,
Speaker 1: and we'll see v sends those flowers to Holly or
Speaker 1: to somebody else. Hally, before we do that, why don't
Speaker 1: you refresh everybody's memory on what's going on with Alan.
Speaker 2: Alan and I have been together total. It was almost
Speaker 2: eight years, four of them married. These guys really distant.
Speaker 2: He spends most of his time playing Twitch or on
Speaker 2: his phone. He stops our monthly lunch dates that we
Speaker 2: do together from work. He did start therapy, but it
Speaker 2: only got worse after therapy. And I don't want to
Speaker 2: go through his phone and I'm not the pack of
Speaker 2: pop up at works.
Speaker 1: You ready for us to call him? Yeah, okay, here
Speaker 1: we go. Hi, this is jorable calling from I was
Speaker 1: looking for our rewards card member named Alan.
Speaker 4: Uh yeah, this is Alan.
Speaker 1: Hi, Alan, Please don't hang up. This is not a
Speaker 1: marketing phone call. I'm calling to give you some exciting news.
Speaker 1: You're this month's big winner. Thank you very much for
Speaker 1: shopping with us. Yeah, the clouding. We're here in the
Speaker 1: office and everything. Hey, every single month, we choose one
Speaker 1: rewards card member totally random, who gets free flowers delivered
Speaker 1: from our floral department. So it's thirty six longstin red roses,
Speaker 1: a box of candy or chocolates or whatever, and a
Speaker 1: car to sent to anybody that you want.
Speaker 4: Oh hey, that's pretty cool. You said free, right.
Speaker 1: Absolutely, Frank, nothing out of pocket. Will give you a confirmations
Speaker 1: and everything, so you know that it's free. It's just
Speaker 1: our little way of saying thank you very much for
Speaker 1: shopping with us.
Speaker 4: Oh well all right, I mean I guess I could
Speaker 4: use that for sure.
Speaker 1: Great. If you know the person that you want to
Speaker 1: send the flowers to right now, I can do it
Speaker 1: quickly over the phone in just a matter of minutes.
Speaker 4: But yeah, I can give it to you on the
Speaker 4: phone now, so it's it's easy.
Speaker 1: The first thing that I will need would be the
Speaker 1: first and the last name of the person that you
Speaker 1: would like to send the flowers to.
Speaker 4: Okay, why don't you make the card out to Judy?
Speaker 1: It's j U d Y okay, and you have the
Speaker 1: last name on on Judy?
Speaker 4: Yeah, what's the name? Is my last name?
Speaker 1: So things your last name is? What was that your wife?
Speaker 4: Uh? No not Actually I'm going to put this in
Speaker 4: the card. But if you could write I love you mom,
Speaker 4: it's going to be okay.
Speaker 1: Oh that okay, yes, I can do that. Were you
Speaker 1: And at this point I'll just let you know that
Speaker 1: I'm not from the grocery store at all. Wait what Yeah,
Speaker 1: this is actually Jewel from the Jewel Show. That's a
Speaker 1: radio show. Yeah, I mean on the radio show too. Hi,
Speaker 1: and I'm Victoria.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and wait, what's going on?
Speaker 1: Your wife, Holly is actually on the phone with us.
Speaker 4: Holly, Are you kidding me?
Speaker 1: Nope, Holly. Do you want to explain what this is?
Speaker 2: Yeah? I kind of. I feel stupid now, but I
Speaker 2: kinda ask them to do this because you've been getting like,
Speaker 2: really really distant and you haven't been telling me what's
Speaker 2: been going on, and I've been asking you about it
Speaker 2: and spend most of your time on your phone, and
Speaker 2: you've been canceling Old state.
Speaker 1: The segue is called to catch a cheater, Allan, So
Speaker 1: if somebody thinks their significant other might be cheating, then
Speaker 1: they will email us to call them and see I
Speaker 1: see who they send flowers to.
Speaker 4: Oh no, okay, I've see now. Well, I gotta tell you, babe,
Speaker 4: I'm not I'm not cheating on you. I'm so sorry
Speaker 4: that you even thought that. And yet I've been distant lately,
Speaker 4: and the truth is that I do have a secret.
Speaker 4: But you know it's it's nothing about you. It's actually
Speaker 4: my mom has been getting sick oh answer, I'm so sorry.
Speaker 4: Oh we just kind of figured this out, and you know,
Speaker 4: my siblings, they're not going to be helping me, so
Speaker 4: it's it's like pretty much my responsibility here.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm so sorry. I mean, your mom
Speaker 2: has Why why wouldn't you tell me something like that.
Speaker 4: I don't want to put the burden on you. I mean,
Speaker 4: you know me, I'm the kind of person who just
Speaker 4: kind of deals with whatever is in front of them, and.
Speaker 2: I should have told you. Yeah.
Speaker 1: And also Alan, just a quick note, I get where
Speaker 1: he's saying with that person that deals with stuff in
Speaker 1: front of him. Everybody needs somebody to lean on, especially
Speaker 1: if you have a wife. Sounds like you have a
Speaker 1: supportive partner.
Speaker 3: It sounds like it's been going on for a long time,
Speaker 3: and you probably you know, you shouldn't have to bear
Speaker 3: this by yourself.
Speaker 1: I have six months and if you if your partner
Speaker 1: cares about you, it's not burdening them with anything. They
Speaker 1: want to be there for you. Alli. Do you want
Speaker 1: to be there for them?
Speaker 2: Of course I do. I'm even embarrassed that it had
Speaker 2: to come this far to be on the radio, But
Speaker 2: like I wish I would have known like this is
Speaker 2: a big deal.
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, you know what, It is my fault that
Speaker 4: you feel this way, and you guys are totally right.
Speaker 4: I mean you should have let her know and and yeah,
Speaker 4: I guess I could use some help myself, so yeah,
Speaker 4: you know me at all that.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, do you want to finish having this conversation
Speaker 2: like outside.
Speaker 4: Of Actually, baby, you know what I really missed and
Speaker 4: we haven't done it in a while because you know,
Speaker 4: I've been so wrapped up and all this, but you know,
Speaker 4: we haven't had lunch in a while, and I think
Speaker 4: if maybe we go to lunch today that would be
Speaker 4: pretty cool.
Speaker 2: I'm sure up to it, of course. Yeah, let's do that.
Speaker 1: Okay. Well, yeah, I mean, you have a lot to
Speaker 1: talk about, and I'm glad that he wasn't cheating too.
Speaker 2: Me too.
Speaker 3: I am sorry to hear about about your mom, Alan,
Speaker 3: and this is going to be a tough time for
Speaker 3: all of you, but thankfully you have each other and
Speaker 3: a lot of love, so you're lucky in that.
Speaker 4: Thank you, and I appreciate you guys for that.
Speaker 5: The Jewel shows to catch a Cheater