WEBVTT - Farming with the Winklers 

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<v Speaker 1>You are listening to What in the Winkler and iHeartRadio podcast. Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>welcome back to another episode of What in the Winkler.

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<v Speaker 1>We are so excited because today we have two guests

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<v Speaker 1>who are I don't even know if we should call

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<v Speaker 1>them by their entire name or just farmer Matt and

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<v Speaker 1>Farmer John from the show Farmer Wants a Wife Matt

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<v Speaker 1>Warren and John Sansone. I had never seen this show before,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just watched the first two episodes. They are

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<v Speaker 1>starring in season three and I am dying of excitement

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<v Speaker 1>to let them in. Mom, what do you think? I

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<v Speaker 1>think they are so adorable and so handsome. Me too,

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<v Speaker 1>And I wore green because of farming and the earth.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you know what's crazy is that I'm in green,

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<v Speaker 1>We're both in green, and we're both.

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<v Speaker 2>In sweatshirts from the Great All right, let's let them in.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so excited.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>So much for joining us. Wait, I met John. I

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<v Speaker 2>met you right at the iHeart You came up to

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<v Speaker 2>my dad.

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<v Speaker 4>Was amazing.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean you met or no, I think I was

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<v Speaker 3>kind of lurking in the back somewhere.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we met like momentarily, so we met for a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of minutes at the I Heart Music Awards.

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<v Speaker 2>I went with my dad and let's introduce your mom. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>this is most important.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi my mom, Stacy, And wait one quick. I'm thinking

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<v Speaker 1>maybe if you're open to it, you could do farmer

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<v Speaker 1>wants a Nana. Let's go our farmer wants a mom.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just saying, okay, all right, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>The options are endless.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, so, so I've never seen this before, mom?

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<v Speaker 2>Have you ever seen this before? Never? And I and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm shocked that I love it. Me too. You'll be

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<v Speaker 2>very sincere and.

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<v Speaker 1>You both are so perfect because you you really do

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<v Speaker 1>love what you do and it shows through. And you're also,

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<v Speaker 1>from my mother's point of view, really good, good people.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's impressive.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you very much.

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<v Speaker 2>So did somebody like did I know, like for the Bachelor?

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<v Speaker 1>I was actually going to be the bachelorette when I

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<v Speaker 1>was younger, but I would have like burnt down our

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<v Speaker 1>entire family. It would have been horrible for everybody. But

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<v Speaker 1>did someone like my best friend putn't like referred me

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<v Speaker 1>or signed me up? Would did someone do that for

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<v Speaker 1>you guys? Or did you guys sign yourselves up?

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<v Speaker 3>John? And I have the same story pretty much. But

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<v Speaker 3>basically our families are both big fans of the show,

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<v Speaker 3>and I would have never have done this, or I

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<v Speaker 3>thought I would do this, and I got reached out

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<v Speaker 3>to on social media and I still was like I

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<v Speaker 3>don't think I'm going to do this for a long time,

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<v Speaker 3>but after a while I was like, all right, I

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<v Speaker 3>why not. Like a good opportunity and could be fun

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<v Speaker 3>and so.

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<v Speaker 2>John, same for you?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, same. I mean there was a last season there

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<v Speaker 4>was a guy from Sikeston, Missouri, which is probably twenty

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<v Speaker 4>minutes from where grandparents live, where the farm is, and

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<v Speaker 4>I would come into the kitchen, you know, like trying

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<v Speaker 4>to get some quick dinner, and my mom and sister

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<v Speaker 4>would be like, John, come in here. You got to

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<v Speaker 4>see this. You'd be perfect for this show, Like what show?

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<v Speaker 2>If they were right?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah? So I got the DM and I showed them

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<v Speaker 4>and they were like, oh my god, I mean you

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<v Speaker 4>have to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>And you guys can't tell us right if you met

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<v Speaker 2>your wives?

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<v Speaker 4>Unfortunately?

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<v Speaker 2>No, Okay, I have some fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait I have can you can you tell us if

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<v Speaker 1>they were the ones you brought?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's the point. Okay, same question okay, I oh, okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So I really didn't like die for Samantha in the

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<v Speaker 1>first episode, but I really liked during the second episode. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought we weren't allowed to say that what if

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<v Speaker 1>they're married or no, no, no.

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<v Speaker 2>It doesn't matter. We can still talk about it. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we're good.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm dead that you're twenty five. First of all, you're

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<v Speaker 1>a child. I'm twenty years older than you. Twenty six.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah good, I'm forty four, Matt.

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<v Speaker 2>You're thirty.

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<v Speaker 3>I've just been thirty one.

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<v Speaker 1>Outrageous, although I met my husband at twenty five, so

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<v Speaker 1>this feels good. But I didn't die for Samantha first,

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<v Speaker 1>but then I really liked her in the second episode.

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<v Speaker 1>And then also I really wasn't sure about Jordan in

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<v Speaker 1>the first episode because she's a singer and I was

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<v Speaker 1>worried that she was just using this as a platform,

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<v Speaker 1>not here for the right reasons.

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<v Speaker 2>But then I like, I really like both of them.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, obviously everyone has their preconceived notions, and Jordan and Samantha,

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<v Speaker 3>I've been kind of getting drugged through all the online

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<v Speaker 3>comments and all that kind of stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>But really that's what they signed up for. Yeah, we

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<v Speaker 1>all have to be tough skinned.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but it's really hard.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really hard, especially if you don't have like experience

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<v Speaker 1>in this world, Like people are just so mean and

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<v Speaker 1>it's so crazy. When you put yourself out there, you

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<v Speaker 1>have to expect that because people were vile to me

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<v Speaker 1>when I first met Henry.

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<v Speaker 2>They were the lowest. But you were a supermodel.

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<v Speaker 4>So still are I mean?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Still John, John? You still are?

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<v Speaker 1>Mom?

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<v Speaker 2>Dad better watch out.

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<v Speaker 1>I would like to know John, what year of law

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<v Speaker 1>school are you in?

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<v Speaker 4>Number? I would say one and a half because I

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<v Speaker 4>took a semester off to do the show.

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<v Speaker 2>And what kind of lawyer do you want to be?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I'd like to get into like land rights and

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<v Speaker 4>land regulations and stuff, would in right, Yeah, because I

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<v Speaker 4>wanted to, you know, be able to protect and stand

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<v Speaker 4>up for small family farmers and things.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's really important because they don't have much of

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<v Speaker 1>a voice at this point, right, especially know they're supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to it's not the truth, right exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>No, he's going to answer now, So you don't you

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<v Speaker 2>don't speak shot answers.

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<v Speaker 4>She also, I don't want to get in trouble and.

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<v Speaker 1>You're fine, You're fine, she we we we she is

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<v Speaker 1>the one, meaning me who gets it trouble.

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<v Speaker 2>So, yeah, you guys are good.

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<v Speaker 1>And Matt, did you always decide like this is? It

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't always what you were planning to do. But now

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<v Speaker 1>that you're doing it, do you love it more than anything?

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<v Speaker 2>Like? Is it what you are hoping to continue doing?

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely? I grew up around ag being in California and

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<v Speaker 3>like rural areas. All my friends either ranched or or

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<v Speaker 3>road produced and all that kind of stuff and so,

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<v Speaker 3>and I've been around it with my family for the

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<v Speaker 3>past ten or twelve years. But then finally, like you know,

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<v Speaker 3>now work in it and it's awesome. I mean the

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<v Speaker 3>people really is what makes it, Like, you know, an

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<v Speaker 3>ag that's the best kind of people.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone's you know is agriculture. Yes, any kind of as

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<v Speaker 2>a aggies.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, Okay, good, I mean I'm very far

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<v Speaker 1>from that, but we do live in La so we're

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<v Speaker 1>not far from where you guys live. Well, you live

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<v Speaker 1>and you live in Bay morel Bay is heaven get

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<v Speaker 1>the best of all worlds and Saint Louis your your

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<v Speaker 1>property and your home look breathtaking. Both of you guys

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<v Speaker 1>look like you are really on top of your game

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<v Speaker 1>and have a beautiful place to work out of. I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to know what are the exotic fruits.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a good question. Our main thing is more bad

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<v Speaker 3>avocados that we grow and you can actually get them

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<v Speaker 3>in a lot of places through la. We're going to

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<v Speaker 3>be an air one, so next.

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<v Speaker 2>To one of those, but we love air one.

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<v Speaker 3>We called finger limes. It's an Australian citrus. If you've

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<v Speaker 3>heard of those.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I only heard for the first time.

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<v Speaker 3>Well any of them, but really neat looks like caviar,

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<v Speaker 3>but it's citrus. And then on top of that, we're

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<v Speaker 3>the first coffee plantation in California.

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<v Speaker 2>Coffee.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we do coffee here, and then we do dragon fruit, passion.

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<v Speaker 2>Fruit, Oh, you do.

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<v Speaker 3>Lemons, slimes, cheram oils. We dabbled in troubles and do

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<v Speaker 3>all kinds of different things.

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<v Speaker 2>And what about you, John, What if you guys are

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<v Speaker 2>soy wheat? And what is the other one?

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<v Speaker 3>Women?

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<v Speaker 4>All right?

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<v Speaker 1>Corn?

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<v Speaker 4>Corn? Yeah, so it's like row crops. That's a general

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<v Speaker 4>way of putting it. My grandfather's been doing that. It's

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<v Speaker 4>on his land for five generations.

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<v Speaker 3>It's sticks.

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<v Speaker 4>In the show that was a little typo.

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<v Speaker 2>Six years.

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<v Speaker 4>It's five five generations.

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<v Speaker 1>Five generations and do you guys? So if you do,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's similar to the way like the Bachelor works.

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<v Speaker 1>Like you guys, if you do find some then you

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<v Speaker 1>get to like you have to see each other in

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<v Speaker 1>private and then you can't announce it.

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<v Speaker 2>When is it? When do we find out?

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<v Speaker 3>Last episode? Which we're coming up the third ones tomorrow?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I've watched it on Hulu, so it's on Fox, right,

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<v Speaker 2>and then what night Thursdays at.

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<v Speaker 4>Eight yep eight Central Thursdays.

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<v Speaker 2>At eighth Central on Fox. Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And then so you're on the third episode? How many

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<v Speaker 1>episodes are there for us eleven?

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<v Speaker 2>Eleven?

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<v Speaker 4>Final two? I think are back to back on.

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<v Speaker 1>The same night, and they meet your family and everything.

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<v Speaker 1>So does your family weigh in on this decision? Because

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<v Speaker 1>for me, like it was a huge part was I'm

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<v Speaker 1>we have a super close family. I'm one of three,

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<v Speaker 1>my husband's one of five. We all have born and

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<v Speaker 1>raised in LA. It was like a big deal with

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<v Speaker 1>the families. Is that a big deal for both of

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<v Speaker 1>you as well?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Matt and I both have very close families and

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<v Speaker 4>both immediate and extended everybody's very close. But with this

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<v Speaker 4>show that yeah, we introduced them to our media family.

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<v Speaker 4>From me, it was just my siblings, which was great

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<v Speaker 4>because I come, I'm one of six. Oh wow, so

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<v Speaker 4>it was like, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>They had to pass the test.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, they had to pass the test.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, what orderary are you like, the youngest, the oldest?

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<v Speaker 4>I'm number two, so I have an old New York

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<v Speaker 4>than me. Then brother, sister, sister, brother?

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<v Speaker 2>And are you the only one that works on the

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<v Speaker 2>farm or no?

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<v Speaker 4>Well we all go out there and you know, provide

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<v Speaker 4>our helping hands where we can. But currently I'm the

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<v Speaker 4>only one in Missouri right now who's like, is able

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<v Speaker 4>to help. The other two that are in here in

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<v Speaker 4>Saint Louis are in high school.

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<v Speaker 1>So oh wow, Oh well, I guess because you're like

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<v Speaker 1>twenty six and Matt, what about you?

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<v Speaker 3>Or so my oldest brother and his wife live here

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<v Speaker 3>on the property and they own and manage all the

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<v Speaker 3>farming operations. So then I assist assist to them.

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<v Speaker 2>Is that really your house where you live?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's so. Is it a prefab It's actually a

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<v Speaker 3>mobile home from the seventies. My brother and I clip

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<v Speaker 3>houses for long time time that we remodeled this.

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<v Speaker 2>It's awesome. It's really good looking. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I love living here and I moved on my personal

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<v Speaker 3>stuff out during the show, so all the girls really

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<v Speaker 3>get to live here as it's an airbnb, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I did notice, like I wanted to know if you

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<v Speaker 1>guys like had some help decorating that, or if it

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<v Speaker 1>was like if they came in and sort of helped

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<v Speaker 1>you out, or if that's really what it looks like

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<v Speaker 1>all the time.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but it looks looks pretty much the same.

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<v Speaker 2>It's not a set per se, no correct.

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<v Speaker 4>Correct, But I will say, like, for instance, this fancy

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<v Speaker 4>looking bunk bed behind me was actually courtesy of the

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<v Speaker 4>Fox production because the girls needed somewhere to sleep.

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<v Speaker 2>And now what do you use it as a hat rack?

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<v Speaker 4>Well? Yeah, I throw a bunch of stuff on top,

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<v Speaker 4>and then my dog sleeps on the bottom bunk while

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sitting in there.

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<v Speaker 2>Your dog is Gus, right, Gus. Yeah, my youngest son

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<v Speaker 2>is named Gus.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh really, I love that name.

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<v Speaker 1>We got it. I have three boys, Ace, Jewels, and Gus,

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<v Speaker 1>and Gus is like he reminds me of like the

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<v Speaker 1>Little Mouse and Cinderella, but he's so cute.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he's in his august, but he likes Gus. He

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<v Speaker 2>likes to be called and we call him Gus.

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<v Speaker 1>Gus.

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<v Speaker 4>So that was really Mouse is named Gus too, it is.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's why they remind me of each other.

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<v Speaker 2>Got it, John?

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<v Speaker 4>I got it now?

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<v Speaker 2>And so are you guys?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it hard to go to those like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>iHeart radio things and now like you're thrown into a

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<v Speaker 1>completely different life.

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<v Speaker 2>What does it feel like?

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<v Speaker 4>It's pretty cool. It was a little overwhelming at the outset,

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<v Speaker 4>especially in Nashville, but you know, we went from Nashville

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<v Speaker 4>then too Los Angeles and the New York and by

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<v Speaker 4>the end of our time in New York, we're like

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<v Speaker 4>we've had enough, Like we've got to get back home.

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<v Speaker 4>See the family. Take a little load off.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but it's a lot more comfortable. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I loved it. I love being social, meeting people to

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<v Speaker 3>chatting and all and stuff. So for me, this is

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<v Speaker 3>like a fun experience. But being on the road for

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<v Speaker 3>you know, we're going home three weeks, that part it's

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<v Speaker 3>a little old.

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<v Speaker 2>But wow, it's a long time.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, come back here.

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<v Speaker 1>So I know you couldn't kiss on camera. Wait, I

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<v Speaker 1>already forgot her name the one that said, yeah, Samantha,

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<v Speaker 1>did you guys kiss off camera?

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<v Speaker 4>There's a lot of speculation as to if we did

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<v Speaker 4>that or not, and the I would tell you and.

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<v Speaker 1>The answers, now, wow, looks like you had a big

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<v Speaker 1>kiss yesterday.

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<v Speaker 2>For me, you didn't kiss.

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<v Speaker 4>Either, not on that episode.

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<v Speaker 1>That was different in the second episode that was two

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<v Speaker 1>different guys.

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<v Speaker 3>No kissing for me.

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<v Speaker 2>Now I know who it is, Coburn or Colin.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry kissing everybody?

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<v Speaker 2>Major kiss? Do they make you, guys keep on like

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<v Speaker 2>a girl? That's difficult?

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<v Speaker 1>And I only say that because I'm difficult, so I

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<v Speaker 1>just I can say that with love. But do the

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<v Speaker 1>producers encourage you to keep on? I'm sure you can't

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<v Speaker 1>answer this, but like do they ever say, like, keep

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<v Speaker 1>this one on because she's good TV?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh, here's how I answer for the most part. And

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<v Speaker 4>when I say the most, I mean like really like

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<v Speaker 4>ninety nine point it's our choice, right, There is no

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<v Speaker 4>there's no like, hey, you're forced to take this person,

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<v Speaker 4>but like you know, you talk it through with the

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<v Speaker 4>producers on and off screen, and like we think, like

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<v Speaker 4>what's the best because there's a lot going through our heads.

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<v Speaker 4>So it's nice to have the producers there to kind

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<v Speaker 4>of help us break it down as a you know,

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<v Speaker 4>third party, So in that sense, I guess, yeah, they

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<v Speaker 4>help out with who we pick.

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<v Speaker 3>But and when you do ask people to go home

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<v Speaker 3>and all that, they're kind to help you. Like plane

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<v Speaker 3>it somewhat like how about like later tonight at this event.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, and especially I'm sure it's really hard to send

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<v Speaker 1>people home. It probably feels.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I mean, there were girls crying after meeting you

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<v Speaker 2>for fourteen minutes. Yeah, I was like, what's going on there?

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<v Speaker 4>God blessom? But no, it's like it's even harder because

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<v Speaker 4>the Bachelor it's easy. You know, you have a rose ceremony,

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<v Speaker 4>so you're like oy for you who didn't get roses, right,

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<v Speaker 4>hit the deck. But with this you have to actually

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<v Speaker 4>go through a breakup with every individual.

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<v Speaker 2>Girl, and that looks brutal because it is brutal.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never seen people do it kind of more honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>and it's so uncomfortable because it's sadly only one poor

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<v Speaker 1>human being who's you're being sent home and then.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody else is together.

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<v Speaker 1>So I felt like that woman last night in the

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<v Speaker 1>Shocking Pink kind of had to kind of walk the

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<v Speaker 1>road of shame as she was dreams and I agree.

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<v Speaker 1>But when she said that they had a good conversation,

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<v Speaker 1>when like it was really a bizarre conversation, then I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>like you made the right choice.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, so sorry for those girls, but you know,

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<v Speaker 4>i'd like you guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but even if you sign up for it, like

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't make you it feel.

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<v Speaker 2>It is different.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Like I have so many friends that are in

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<v Speaker 1>the public eye, and I think to myself, like I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't do it, Like I just couldn't do it in

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<v Speaker 1>that way.

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<v Speaker 2>I couldn't. I'm too sensitive.

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<v Speaker 1>It would about my feelings even if you do have

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<v Speaker 1>some things people say, and also the feeling of being misunderstood,

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<v Speaker 1>like preconceived notions or whatever. It's like you want to

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<v Speaker 1>explain it, but it just makes it worse.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like, right, you know, and.

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<v Speaker 3>There's only so much that they air too, you know

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<v Speaker 3>that you yeah, stuff like that in small conversations or things.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, it is difficult because and did.

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<v Speaker 2>You guys become close to it two?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we don't really like each other that much, but

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<v Speaker 4>I don't honestly like being on this zoom right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Is offensive.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you guys all get together though still or I

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<v Speaker 1>mean you guys all live in different places.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we did, Like we're the first episode of this

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<v Speaker 3>film was at a hunting ranch in Alabama and they invited

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<v Speaker 3>those guys back to state, you know, just off camera

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<v Speaker 3>for the weekend and have a good time.

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<v Speaker 2>Was it during hunting season?

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<v Speaker 3>It was, Yeah, we did a little hunt out there.

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<v Speaker 2>What were you hunting? We're birds?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, we weren't hunting. I mean, it's one of those

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<v Speaker 4>it's a it's an upland bird lodge and it's some

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<v Speaker 4>of these lodges. You know, they'll they'll raise the quail

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<v Speaker 4>and chucker and pheasant and stuff. They playing them out

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<v Speaker 4>in the field for you to have like a you know,

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<v Speaker 4>fun time. So that's what we did, you know, Like

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<v Speaker 4>we didn't. We weren't out there stalking and birds and

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<v Speaker 4>trying to hunt them down and kill them.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to. They don't want to. They don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to be draged. Mom. They love animals.

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<v Speaker 1>Wait, so tell me something, do you guys Is there

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<v Speaker 1>a moment on the show that we haven't seen or

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<v Speaker 1>we have seen that you guys are like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>wish I could do that again, or I made a

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<v Speaker 1>mistaken Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it's like whatever happens is fine at this

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<v Speaker 3>point for me at least. But I think at first,

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<v Speaker 3>especially for us, we're not used to being on camera

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<v Speaker 3>or have all the attention on us. So for me,

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<v Speaker 3>if I could like start over and to do the

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<v Speaker 3>first few episodes again with like the more confidence, I

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<v Speaker 3>guess you could say, now, yeah, I'd like to go

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<v Speaker 3>back in and like redo that.

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<v Speaker 4>But I mean you.

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<v Speaker 1>Seemed very confident, just so you know, well now you

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<v Speaker 1>both seem very comfortable in who you are.

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>I love a dirty martini too, the best.

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<v Speaker 4>I actually don't really like them dirty. I just had

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<v Speaker 4>to do that to, you know, make the girls feel comfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>I get the olive juice on the side and I

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<v Speaker 1>put it in a little bit, okay, and it's really good.

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<v Speaker 2>And so have people like been in your d M

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<v Speaker 2>since you aired?

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<v Speaker 4>Not at all? No, I'm kidding, it's a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know. Would you say, did you say hoores?

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<v Speaker 2>I said hordes are e? No, I thought, no, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not even gonna go get I did not say that

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<v Speaker 2>it's hard.

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<v Speaker 1>And do you feel like they're like blurting I just

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<v Speaker 1>need to know just someone sarcastic.

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<v Speaker 4>And yeah, it's like sarcastic banter, like lightly taking jabs

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<v Speaker 4>at the other person.

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<v Speaker 2>There is hard to get.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, essentially, you know, like being sarcastic and stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, does that appeal to you guys? It appeals to John.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't make sense trying to get a hint.

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<v Speaker 4>It makes it a little more casual. I think, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>it kind of the ice a little h it breaks

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<v Speaker 4>the ice, displays a sense of confidence and stuff. You're

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<v Speaker 4>not like so dead focused on, you know, saying the

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<v Speaker 4>wrong thing. You're more just like okay and.

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<v Speaker 1>Fun not what's your ideal situation in regards to like,

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<v Speaker 1>do you like mean flirting?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you like just.

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<v Speaker 3>Flirting like praise that word that John coined across the.

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<v Speaker 2>Internet but I never heard of it.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, I like that it's more to a degree

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<v Speaker 3>if it's actually mean at some point, yeah, maybe not,

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<v Speaker 3>but it's got fun teasing ye things, you know, because

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<v Speaker 3>I like just like that in generally like to have

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<v Speaker 3>fun and like joke around and all that kind of stuff.

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<v Speaker 3>And when you're on these dates sometimes even in real life,

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<v Speaker 3>and it's so like serious about your goals and like

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<v Speaker 3>all Studdens like that, it's kind of a lot, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, right, well, it's like your fast forwarding. What makes

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<v Speaker 1>it work so well? I'm sorry, so, but maybe that's

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<v Speaker 1>what makes it so attractive from all the other reality

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<v Speaker 1>shows that I've watched. Is maybe the fact that you

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<v Speaker 1>are so natural and it feels like everybody else is

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<v Speaker 1>pretty natural in front of the camera guy wise, but maybe, well,

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<v Speaker 1>it may be why it's working so well.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I think honestly you can credit that to immediately

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<v Speaker 4>us getting along so well right when we all first met,

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<v Speaker 4>because we all met each other and were able to

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<v Speaker 4>hang out for long periods of time before we even

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<v Speaker 4>got a chance to sit down with these girls, so

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<v Speaker 4>we were already somewhat coming out of our shell and

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<v Speaker 4>being ourselves, so, you know, and shows like The Bachelor,

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<v Speaker 4>when it's one guy, I can't imagine that he's being

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<v Speaker 4>self right off the bat. There's nowhere And.

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<v Speaker 1>It's also he doesn't have like that, but he doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>have anyone to bounce anything off of. He doesn't have

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<v Speaker 1>anybody to like go through this experience with him. I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's nice that you guys have this common love

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<v Speaker 1>of what you do and then also can like go

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<v Speaker 1>through this together because it's a big culture shock.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you need that camaraderie to get you through something

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<v Speaker 4>like this.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you had any interviews that you really didn't.

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<v Speaker 4>Like, like on the show or for press?

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<v Speaker 2>No, like for press or you know, like any really.

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<v Speaker 3>I would say what John and I have been talking

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<v Speaker 3>about is like a lot of the ones who've done

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<v Speaker 3>so far are maybe a little more serious, and it's

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<v Speaker 3>like these outline questions of like why'd you on the show,

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<v Speaker 3>Like you know, what was your experience? Like like that

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<v Speaker 3>kind of stuff, and we like this like we just

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<v Speaker 3>want to like talk back and forth and have like.

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<v Speaker 1>I saw that you guys did Jen Fessler's Yeah that

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<v Speaker 1>was fun though you also met.

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<v Speaker 2>I met her there too.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah he's great.

0:22:40.400 --> 0:22:43.080
<v Speaker 2>I'm a big big Housewife fan, so I was fired up.

0:22:43.119 --> 0:22:43.880
<v Speaker 2>I was excited.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah she's great.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're doing her next week.

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<v Speaker 4>We're exciting you are ye, Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>We have a busy week. We we we really do.

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<v Speaker 1>But this has been fun. I mean we've only my

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<v Speaker 1>mom and I've only been doing this.

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<v Speaker 2>Since October, so this is like brand new. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wow, I thought this was like a well established podcast. Sorry, guys,

0:23:10.880 --> 0:23:13.560
<v Speaker 4>like I'm saying, that's that's that's the type of that's

0:23:13.560 --> 0:23:14.320
<v Speaker 4>how it came off.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well you know we're well established.

0:23:19.400 --> 0:23:21.280
<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry we didn't get the green memo.

0:23:21.359 --> 0:23:24.360
<v Speaker 1>Also, sorry, by the way, we do not we don't

0:23:24.359 --> 0:23:27.000
<v Speaker 1>even like were. We both live in la but we're

0:23:27.000 --> 0:23:29.960
<v Speaker 1>not together, and we both are wearing green sweatshirts.

0:23:29.440 --> 0:23:32.080
<v Speaker 2>Made by the same company, which is how you know

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<v Speaker 2>the mother and dada. So do you guys both want kids?

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<v Speaker 4>Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 1>What's your timeline situation because you're both young. On the

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<v Speaker 1>younger side, I'm older than John, but yeah, you're thirty one.

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<v Speaker 3>My take is like I would have gotten married five

0:23:46.119 --> 0:23:47.639
<v Speaker 3>years ago and start having kids if I met the

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<v Speaker 3>right person. I do want that, but I'm willing to

0:23:50.880 --> 0:23:52.400
<v Speaker 3>wait till I have the right Yeah.

0:23:52.480 --> 0:23:54.960
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, yes, oh my god, you have to

0:23:55.119 --> 0:23:55.639
<v Speaker 2>you have to.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'd rather wait however long it takes and do

0:23:58.119 --> 0:24:00.480
<v Speaker 3>it right than yeah, try to Russia for that reason.

0:24:00.520 --> 0:24:03.160
<v Speaker 3>But yeah, I want a bunch of kids up doing

0:24:03.200 --> 0:24:03.679
<v Speaker 3>that whenever.

0:24:03.840 --> 0:24:05.800
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, what about you?

0:24:06.200 --> 0:24:08.719
<v Speaker 4>Yeah this, you know, I don't want to rush into it,

0:24:08.800 --> 0:24:11.680
<v Speaker 4>but you know, I don't want to also wait so long.

0:24:11.880 --> 0:24:14.040
<v Speaker 4>I have a lot of you know, cousins and uncles

0:24:14.040 --> 0:24:16.520
<v Speaker 4>who are you know, well past the I guess normal

0:24:16.600 --> 0:24:19.080
<v Speaker 4>age of having children, and it just doesn't look that

0:24:19.200 --> 0:24:19.800
<v Speaker 4>very appealing.

0:24:20.480 --> 0:24:23.359
<v Speaker 1>I got to call them out and overthink it. You

0:24:23.560 --> 0:24:27.200
<v Speaker 1>just can't overthink it, and you just have to keep

0:24:27.320 --> 0:24:32.000
<v Speaker 1>being so natural and and have fun with it, like

0:24:32.200 --> 0:24:33.240
<v Speaker 1>in real life.

0:24:33.640 --> 0:24:34.640
<v Speaker 2>That's what happens.

0:24:34.680 --> 0:24:37.600
<v Speaker 1>It just happens to be that a camera is on

0:24:37.640 --> 0:24:43.880
<v Speaker 1>you twenty four to seven. But but the chemistry will

0:24:43.960 --> 0:24:49.000
<v Speaker 1>tell you when that feeling is right. I agree with you, Matt.

0:24:49.400 --> 0:24:53.040
<v Speaker 1>The best laid plans forget about it. You know, they

0:24:53.280 --> 0:24:56.520
<v Speaker 1>just you think, go up and smoke, you know, but

0:24:56.640 --> 0:24:58.920
<v Speaker 1>when it's right, it's right.

0:25:00.359 --> 0:25:02.160
<v Speaker 2>It's I knew I was going to marry my husband

0:25:02.200 --> 0:25:08.160
<v Speaker 2>on our first date. Really I knew what was Oh.

0:25:08.200 --> 0:25:11.760
<v Speaker 1>I was like you knew with Rob, you knew with Dad? No,

0:25:11.840 --> 0:25:16.240
<v Speaker 1>I knew with Daddy, Okay, I just I just I

0:25:16.359 --> 0:25:16.760
<v Speaker 1>just knew.

0:25:16.800 --> 0:25:17.359
<v Speaker 2>We talked.

0:25:17.560 --> 0:25:20.159
<v Speaker 1>It was weird because well I was twenty five and

0:25:20.200 --> 0:25:24.480
<v Speaker 1>he was thirty two, but so I was young. But

0:25:24.600 --> 0:25:27.400
<v Speaker 1>I just knew, Like we just we talked that whole

0:25:27.480 --> 0:25:31.479
<v Speaker 1>night about everything that we wanted, and it just was

0:25:32.200 --> 0:25:34.520
<v Speaker 1>similar in you know what our goals were, and we

0:25:34.520 --> 0:25:38.080
<v Speaker 1>actually broke up for like how long was it, mom?

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<v Speaker 2>Like four months?

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<v Speaker 3>Ye?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, when we were were dated for a year.

0:25:43.920 --> 0:25:45.919
<v Speaker 1>Then we broke up for four months and I was like,

0:25:46.880 --> 0:25:48.639
<v Speaker 1>I was so and then we got back together and

0:25:48.640 --> 0:25:52.960
<v Speaker 1>we've been together. We've been married now for sixteen years.

0:25:51.680 --> 0:25:54.720
<v Speaker 2>So a long time. But like I just knew, and

0:25:54.760 --> 0:25:56.120
<v Speaker 2>I believe that to be true.

0:25:56.119 --> 0:25:59.080
<v Speaker 1>I believe that most people know, like when they meet somebody,

0:25:59.400 --> 0:26:01.440
<v Speaker 1>And I've never obviously done it the way you guys

0:26:01.440 --> 0:26:05.720
<v Speaker 1>are doing it. But I feel like, regardless, you can

0:26:05.960 --> 0:26:08.480
<v Speaker 1>kind of feel what it is right away.

0:26:08.880 --> 0:26:11.399
<v Speaker 4>Definitely had you felt that before with someone else or

0:26:11.560 --> 0:26:13.160
<v Speaker 4>that was the first time you had felt now.

0:26:14.320 --> 0:26:17.919
<v Speaker 2>Not like that, Like I dated a ton and I

0:26:17.960 --> 0:26:26.280
<v Speaker 2>had boyfriend. Shut your mouth, Oh no, wow, you're saying.

0:26:27.400 --> 0:26:28.320
<v Speaker 2>And I know.

0:26:29.840 --> 0:26:32.560
<v Speaker 1>I but I had I had like long term boyfriends,

0:26:32.560 --> 0:26:34.119
<v Speaker 1>but this was totally different, and I was in a

0:26:34.119 --> 0:26:37.000
<v Speaker 1>different place like I was, even though I mean, twenty

0:26:37.040 --> 0:26:42.000
<v Speaker 1>five to me is young in LA, it's different. I

0:26:42.040 --> 0:26:44.000
<v Speaker 1>feel like when you grow up in a town where

0:26:44.040 --> 0:26:45.639
<v Speaker 1>like everybody's kind of trajectory.

0:26:45.680 --> 0:26:48.400
<v Speaker 2>As you go to school, you kind of stay where

0:26:48.400 --> 0:26:49.280
<v Speaker 2>you are and you get married.

0:26:49.320 --> 0:26:53.159
<v Speaker 1>It was very different, but I just knew and I

0:26:53.240 --> 0:26:55.399
<v Speaker 1>knew that it was different immediately, and it was.

0:26:55.600 --> 0:26:56.880
<v Speaker 2>It's the best decision.

0:26:56.560 --> 0:26:59.639
<v Speaker 1>I've ever made, and I'm excited for you guys. It

0:26:59.760 --> 0:27:04.119
<v Speaker 1>kind of if you feel my experiences, you feel like

0:27:04.200 --> 0:27:09.800
<v Speaker 1>you're home. You know, there's someone you meet and it

0:27:09.880 --> 0:27:13.000
<v Speaker 1>kind of clicks, and so you're not like checking off

0:27:13.040 --> 0:27:17.760
<v Speaker 1>a list because first it's the chemistry, but but there

0:27:17.880 --> 0:27:22.480
<v Speaker 1>is this feeling of coziness and comfort in your stomach

0:27:23.320 --> 0:27:29.720
<v Speaker 1>that just you know, it's important. It's important to just

0:27:29.920 --> 0:27:33.560
<v Speaker 1>feel that comfort level. You know, had you, guys, ever

0:27:33.680 --> 0:27:36.400
<v Speaker 1>met somebody, dated somebody long term before that you thought

0:27:36.400 --> 0:27:38.440
<v Speaker 1>you were going to marry before coming on this show.

0:27:39.560 --> 0:27:40.880
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, Matt, you said you did.

0:27:41.680 --> 0:27:44.720
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, right on the show longer term relationships and somewhere

0:27:44.760 --> 0:27:46.560
<v Speaker 3>I thought it could be pretty serious, but it was

0:27:46.640 --> 0:27:50.320
<v Speaker 3>like more of an attraction thing, like a lot of chemistry,

0:27:50.400 --> 0:27:53.080
<v Speaker 3>but then like everything else wasn't right, and it's like

0:27:53.119 --> 0:27:55.679
<v Speaker 3>you're trying to make it work, but you kind of

0:27:55.720 --> 0:27:57.320
<v Speaker 3>just you know, you kind of know in your head,

0:27:57.359 --> 0:27:58.840
<v Speaker 3>you're like if I don't know, like I really like

0:27:58.880 --> 0:28:01.840
<v Speaker 3>this person, but it's not it's not easy, you know,

0:28:01.920 --> 0:28:04.800
<v Speaker 3>It's like it should be. You have to work towards anything,

0:28:04.800 --> 0:28:07.040
<v Speaker 3>but it shouldn't have to be like this uphill battle

0:28:07.080 --> 0:28:11.080
<v Speaker 3>on everything the experience I've had, Yeah, and then I

0:28:11.080 --> 0:28:12.840
<v Speaker 3>look at my parents have been married for like forty

0:28:12.840 --> 0:28:15.159
<v Speaker 3>six years and my grandparents in the line, and it

0:28:15.320 --> 0:28:17.640
<v Speaker 3>just wasn't like that. You know, It's like, yeah, there's problems,

0:28:17.640 --> 0:28:19.600
<v Speaker 3>you got to work stuff out and this and that,

0:28:19.760 --> 0:28:23.600
<v Speaker 3>but you you know, it should be like a no brainer.

0:28:23.640 --> 0:28:25.040
<v Speaker 3>Should just also kind of work.

0:28:24.960 --> 0:28:27.720
<v Speaker 1>To mom, You're going to be married forty seven years

0:28:27.720 --> 0:28:30.840
<v Speaker 1>this year, right, yes, yes, yeah, hard to believe.

0:28:31.080 --> 0:28:31.600
<v Speaker 4>Congrats.

0:28:31.680 --> 0:28:35.639
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's hard for me to believe. But but it's

0:28:35.960 --> 0:28:40.440
<v Speaker 1>it's great and it's true there are always issues, but

0:28:40.560 --> 0:28:43.240
<v Speaker 1>the key is if you can get through it, if

0:28:43.280 --> 0:28:47.280
<v Speaker 1>you like each other, if you respect each other, and

0:28:47.600 --> 0:28:52.040
<v Speaker 1>you can, you know, get through and you do, and

0:28:53.920 --> 0:28:57.000
<v Speaker 1>but it has to be, you know, worth it for

0:28:57.120 --> 0:28:58.240
<v Speaker 1>the long haul.

0:28:58.520 --> 0:28:58.760
<v Speaker 2>You know.

0:28:59.800 --> 0:29:04.640
<v Speaker 4>Right, What about if you have differing beliefs on certain things.

0:29:04.640 --> 0:29:05.880
<v Speaker 4>Have you guys ever experienced that?

0:29:06.800 --> 0:29:07.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:29:07.120 --> 0:29:11.520
<v Speaker 1>That we I I'm sorry Zoe, that I did. With

0:29:11.720 --> 0:29:18.040
<v Speaker 1>Henry because he was raised in a very strict family,

0:29:19.000 --> 0:29:25.560
<v Speaker 1>He's raised an abusive household, abusive to, but verbally abusive.

0:29:25.280 --> 0:29:34.440
<v Speaker 2>And very Germanic, and that means german. It is. It

0:29:34.520 --> 0:29:35.720
<v Speaker 2>is really.

0:29:37.080 --> 0:29:41.920
<v Speaker 1>Easier if you have more in common. I mean that

0:29:42.320 --> 0:29:47.960
<v Speaker 1>just is the truth. It's easier if you were raised similarly,

0:29:48.840 --> 0:29:56.400
<v Speaker 1>if you have similar values. I think that's important because again,

0:29:56.760 --> 0:30:01.200
<v Speaker 1>there are so many things and life it's so crazy

0:30:02.000 --> 0:30:07.360
<v Speaker 1>that if you have like a mutual understanding or feeling

0:30:07.520 --> 0:30:12.800
<v Speaker 1>about the most important values. I don't think I think

0:30:12.840 --> 0:30:16.560
<v Speaker 1>if you meet someone, that feels great, but you are

0:30:17.440 --> 0:30:22.480
<v Speaker 1>so totally different from the get go, I don't think

0:30:22.640 --> 0:30:23.400
<v Speaker 1>that that.

0:30:25.080 --> 0:30:27.720
<v Speaker 2>No. I mean I think that feels at the.

0:30:27.680 --> 0:30:31.600
<v Speaker 1>Core, like my husband's super outdoorsy, I am not, and

0:30:31.680 --> 0:30:32.920
<v Speaker 1>I was who I was.

0:30:33.040 --> 0:30:36.160
<v Speaker 2>Those kinds of things you can overcome. But the main things,

0:30:36.200 --> 0:30:38.280
<v Speaker 2>the most important things, and especially when you have kids,

0:30:38.840 --> 0:30:42.120
<v Speaker 2>it just gets so much harder because it's the best.

0:30:42.400 --> 0:30:45.520
<v Speaker 2>But it's also like you're responsible for these human beings

0:30:45.560 --> 0:30:47.960
<v Speaker 2>and you want to be the best you can be

0:30:48.040 --> 0:30:50.360
<v Speaker 2>for them. And also I think the most important thing

0:30:50.400 --> 0:30:52.880
<v Speaker 2>in a relationship is to continue working on it. Like

0:30:53.400 --> 0:30:55.760
<v Speaker 2>we work really hard to just be like the best people,

0:30:55.760 --> 0:30:59.280
<v Speaker 2>and we talk and we have hard conversations and I

0:30:59.360 --> 0:30:59.720
<v Speaker 2>am not.

0:31:00.440 --> 0:31:04.000
<v Speaker 1>I know that, and I you know, work really hard

0:31:04.080 --> 0:31:06.440
<v Speaker 1>on being able to hear what he's saying and not

0:31:06.440 --> 0:31:10.520
<v Speaker 1>get defensive. And you know, like I think it's important

0:31:10.560 --> 0:31:13.400
<v Speaker 1>to have the same core values, but you can have

0:31:13.440 --> 0:31:17.080
<v Speaker 1>different interests, you know, like I don't think like that matters.

0:31:17.120 --> 0:31:19.120
<v Speaker 1>Like I don't ever want to go see The Grateful Dead.

0:31:19.200 --> 0:31:22.280
<v Speaker 1>He is going three times in the next three months.

0:31:22.320 --> 0:31:24.200
<v Speaker 1>Like I'm like, I have the best time. I love

0:31:24.240 --> 0:31:26.920
<v Speaker 1>you so much. Never will I be there. So it's

0:31:26.960 --> 0:31:29.080
<v Speaker 1>like those kinds of things I think are fine, but

0:31:29.520 --> 0:31:31.560
<v Speaker 1>I think it's really hard if you don't have like

0:31:31.600 --> 0:31:32.880
<v Speaker 1>the same core beliefs.

0:31:33.440 --> 0:31:34.840
<v Speaker 2>I just think that that's difficult.

0:31:35.480 --> 0:31:37.320
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, And that's the one of the things we talked

0:31:37.320 --> 0:31:39.560
<v Speaker 4>about a lot on the show is because you know,

0:31:39.640 --> 0:31:42.200
<v Speaker 4>we went through a whole matchmaking phase before if we

0:31:42.240 --> 0:31:44.920
<v Speaker 4>start filming, and we talked about these very core beliefs

0:31:44.920 --> 0:31:47.080
<v Speaker 4>that we all believed in. Like for me, it was

0:31:47.160 --> 0:31:50.440
<v Speaker 4>faith and family and hard work and you know, taking.

0:31:50.160 --> 0:31:52.640
<v Speaker 2>Care of you. You want to Jewish, right, you're Jewish.

0:31:52.360 --> 0:31:57.760
<v Speaker 4>Just kidding, nothing wrong with it.

0:31:57.800 --> 0:32:02.959
<v Speaker 2>I'm just not go on, sweetheart, we get it. Go on.

0:32:04.920 --> 0:32:06.760
<v Speaker 4>But yeah, we talked about that stuff. On the show

0:32:06.800 --> 0:32:08.920
<v Speaker 4>because then you meet these girls and of course they

0:32:08.960 --> 0:32:12.200
<v Speaker 4>all have the same core values because that's basically how

0:32:12.240 --> 0:32:14.840
<v Speaker 4>you were match made. But then it just comes down

0:32:14.880 --> 0:32:16.160
<v Speaker 4>to figure out your interests.

0:32:16.680 --> 0:32:19.080
<v Speaker 2>Not necessarily, by the way.

0:32:18.880 --> 0:32:22.880
<v Speaker 1>Were any of them Do any of them completely opposite

0:32:22.880 --> 0:32:23.160
<v Speaker 1>of you?

0:32:23.200 --> 0:32:23.560
<v Speaker 2>Did they?

0:32:23.600 --> 0:32:26.959
<v Speaker 1>Did? They put in some women maybe that you guys

0:32:27.600 --> 0:32:28.960
<v Speaker 1>had different core beliefs.

0:32:30.200 --> 0:32:35.400
<v Speaker 4>Uh different ring I wouldn't say different, but yeah, definitely right.

0:32:36.000 --> 0:32:36.840
<v Speaker 3>That's just life too.

0:32:37.160 --> 0:32:39.840
<v Speaker 2>No one's gonna yeah, no, one don't want that.

0:32:40.560 --> 0:32:44.520
<v Speaker 1>You don't want somebody that completely I think, Yeah, you

0:32:44.520 --> 0:32:48.920
<v Speaker 1>don't want somebody that's just gonna be exactly you, because

0:32:48.920 --> 0:32:49.960
<v Speaker 1>that's not fun.

0:32:50.000 --> 0:32:51.920
<v Speaker 4>Exactly you know. Yeah, that's one of the things I

0:32:51.960 --> 0:32:54.920
<v Speaker 4>talked about too, is I had a past relationship where

0:32:54.920 --> 0:32:59.240
<v Speaker 4>the person was exactly like me and it got dull quick.

0:32:59.640 --> 0:32:59.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:33:00.120 --> 0:33:02.160
<v Speaker 1>You want someone to challenge you, and you want it

0:33:02.200 --> 0:33:03.959
<v Speaker 1>to be fun and you want to step outside your

0:33:03.960 --> 0:33:04.440
<v Speaker 1>comfort r.

0:33:05.840 --> 0:33:06.040
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:33:06.160 --> 0:33:09.840
<v Speaker 4>No, I've been with yourself for twenty six years.

0:33:10.360 --> 0:33:11.640
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:33:12.360 --> 0:33:14.320
<v Speaker 1>So do you guys get married on the show. Is

0:33:14.360 --> 0:33:16.760
<v Speaker 1>it like a wedding or no?

0:33:16.480 --> 0:33:18.800
<v Speaker 4>No, No, I don't know how they do this because

0:33:18.920 --> 0:33:21.200
<v Speaker 4>he's only been here for three seasons. But if I

0:33:21.240 --> 0:33:23.520
<v Speaker 4>don't know, potentially down the line, if one of us

0:33:23.560 --> 0:33:27.040
<v Speaker 4>were to marry the person we chose, maybe they'd cover it.

0:33:27.080 --> 0:33:30.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't know. Have the other people and the last

0:33:30.520 --> 0:33:32.200
<v Speaker 1>two seasons.

0:33:33.240 --> 0:33:34.800
<v Speaker 2>Gone on to be a couple.

0:33:35.400 --> 0:33:37.800
<v Speaker 3>I know from last season there's two out of the

0:33:37.840 --> 0:33:39.560
<v Speaker 3>four guys are still with their girls.

0:33:39.880 --> 0:33:40.400
<v Speaker 2>That's good.

0:33:40.600 --> 0:33:42.840
<v Speaker 3>I'm not sure about season one. Not married, but they're

0:33:42.880 --> 0:33:45.320
<v Speaker 3>still together and we've met them a couple of times.

0:33:45.680 --> 0:33:47.320
<v Speaker 2>Okay, well that's like that's a two out of four

0:33:47.440 --> 0:33:50.240
<v Speaker 2>is really good. Yeah, and I hope The Bachelor does

0:33:50.320 --> 0:33:53.760
<v Speaker 2>not have that grade of a success.

0:33:53.640 --> 0:33:56.640
<v Speaker 3>And yeah, that's a whole nother ball game.

0:33:56.640 --> 0:33:56.920
<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

0:33:57.080 --> 0:33:59.080
<v Speaker 1>Love is Blind only got one couple. I watched it

0:33:59.120 --> 0:34:01.520
<v Speaker 1>on the whole way back for Hawaii week.

0:34:01.720 --> 0:34:05.760
<v Speaker 4>That show is insane, I don't know, insane.

0:34:04.880 --> 0:34:08.560
<v Speaker 1>Insane, and they I mean, they should do like a

0:34:08.600 --> 0:34:11.560
<v Speaker 1>sociological experiment on the people that go on that show,

0:34:11.640 --> 0:34:14.279
<v Speaker 1>because I'm just like, what the fuck is happening? But

0:34:14.920 --> 0:34:18.560
<v Speaker 1>I think this felt so different, Like it just the

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<v Speaker 1>show just feels different. You guys are so likable, and

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest, I was not thinking that I was

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<v Speaker 1>going to enjoy the show as much as I did,

0:34:27.840 --> 0:34:30.040
<v Speaker 1>and I loved it and I can't wait for the

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<v Speaker 1>third episode. Also, Kimberly, I met her when she was

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<v Speaker 1>at Northwestern.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh the host.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, wait, Kimberly, No, Kimberly Williams Paisley. She

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<v Speaker 1>sets the tone and she is incredible. She I met

0:35:04.120 --> 0:35:08.400
<v Speaker 1>her because she was going with a young boy that

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<v Speaker 1>I was.

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<v Speaker 2>Very close to. What did she date?

0:35:12.600 --> 0:35:16.720
<v Speaker 1>She was dating John, the boy who was so sick

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<v Speaker 1>and died.

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<v Speaker 2>Way to go. Thanks mom, No, I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, but she but she was he's dead and she

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<v Speaker 1>had such good values and she came over to our

0:35:32.160 --> 0:35:34.040
<v Speaker 1>house with them with h my.

0:35:34.040 --> 0:35:36.719
<v Speaker 2>Best friend's parents made father of the bride.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, we met her Annie and Allie so we

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<v Speaker 1>met her that way too.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, she was lovely. We got to hang out with

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<v Speaker 3>her off camera. Get amount. We've seen her on this

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<v Speaker 3>press stuff and all that, and she's very sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>She's good and she here's what she is solid And

0:35:53.760 --> 0:35:57.319
<v Speaker 1>I think you want someone solid. And don't shake your

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<v Speaker 1>head at me. You asked who it was so I

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<v Speaker 1>had I'm not My head is straight, completely not moving.

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<v Speaker 3>One of your guys family events, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Guys to come to dinner to La.

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<v Speaker 1>Come to La and come you're welcome. We would have

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<v Speaker 1>room at our table and yeah, you guys have to

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<v Speaker 1>come over.

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<v Speaker 2>This would be fun fun.

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<v Speaker 4>I could bring some corn wheat and soybeans and Max, yes,

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<v Speaker 4>bring some avocados and finger lines.

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<v Speaker 1>My son's into passion fruit, which one indie, Oh great,

0:36:37.040 --> 0:36:41.799
<v Speaker 1>you had a surgery and she couldn't eat. I said

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<v Speaker 1>what would you like and she said, I'd like a

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<v Speaker 1>smoothie And I.

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<v Speaker 2>Said, oh fabulous.

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<v Speaker 1>What blueberry strawberry passion fruit? WHOA that puts me up

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<v Speaker 1>a tree?

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<v Speaker 2>Do we see them outside?

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<v Speaker 3>Is actually passion right here?

0:36:57.880 --> 0:37:02.360
<v Speaker 2>This this, and I love the drag and fruit.

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<v Speaker 1>Also, we had that in Thailand, so beautiful.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's pretty amazing. I'll send you guys a box

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<v Speaker 3>of produce.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree. My son, my thirteen year old, wants to

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<v Speaker 2>be a chef today.

0:37:17.880 --> 0:37:21.040
<v Speaker 1>Actually it's still spring break and we were away for

0:37:21.080 --> 0:37:23.359
<v Speaker 1>a week and we're home and he wants to make

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<v Speaker 1>beef Wellington today.

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<v Speaker 2>So I took him to the market this morning. Curiously

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<v Speaker 2>before No, he's.

0:37:30.239 --> 0:37:32.040
<v Speaker 1>Never done it before, so he's just trying it. We

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<v Speaker 1>went to the butcher and he I was you know,

0:37:34.719 --> 0:37:37.600
<v Speaker 1>he did the whole thing. So we'll see he's getting

0:37:37.600 --> 0:37:42.920
<v Speaker 1>it right now in everything. Huh yeah, crusted. He already

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<v Speaker 1>chopped up all the mushrooms he is.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>We sit down to dinner every night except for Friday, Saturday, Sunday,

0:37:50.480 --> 0:37:52.640
<v Speaker 1>and on Sundays. We do family dinner like we're a

0:37:52.680 --> 0:37:56.719
<v Speaker 1>whole family, and so that's really important. My husband is

0:37:56.719 --> 0:38:00.000
<v Speaker 1>in construction. He owns a contracting company, so he leaves

0:38:00.040 --> 0:38:01.760
<v Speaker 1>too brilliant in the morning and he's home for dinner.

0:38:01.800 --> 0:38:04.279
<v Speaker 1>And it's great. And Ace and Ice, my oldest we

0:38:04.360 --> 0:38:06.080
<v Speaker 1>cooked together and it's really fun.

0:38:06.960 --> 0:38:10.640
<v Speaker 2>And you were raised that way. I was. We ate

0:38:10.719 --> 0:38:14.319
<v Speaker 2>dinner together. There was a chef, a real chef, but yes,

0:38:14.400 --> 0:38:19.600
<v Speaker 2>I was. By the way, it was great. I learned

0:38:19.600 --> 0:38:23.799
<v Speaker 2>how to cook. I learn from me too, Yes I did.

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<v Speaker 2>Actually she's an amazing cook.

0:38:26.160 --> 0:38:28.880
<v Speaker 1>But when you guys come, the cheff will cook.

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<v Speaker 3>It is really coming together.

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<v Speaker 2>It's gonna be great. I mean really, saw and Vile. Well, guys,

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<v Speaker 2>this was great. Oh wait, I want to ask one

0:38:41.400 --> 0:38:41.920
<v Speaker 2>more question.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you think Was there a lot of tension

0:38:44.600 --> 0:38:46.359
<v Speaker 1>between the girls and was that uncomfortable?

0:38:46.400 --> 0:38:46.920
<v Speaker 2>Sometimes?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes? And no, wow for me, my girls overall got

0:38:52.800 --> 0:38:56.160
<v Speaker 3>along very well. They're all still friends for the most

0:38:56.160 --> 0:38:58.960
<v Speaker 3>part in stay communication. So that was really cool because

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<v Speaker 3>not only do I want to find some but I

0:39:01.200 --> 0:39:03.759
<v Speaker 3>wanted them to enjoy their time here. They're living in

0:39:03.800 --> 0:39:06.359
<v Speaker 3>my house, around my family and our ranch. Like, even

0:39:06.360 --> 0:39:08.080
<v Speaker 3>if it doesn't work out with us, I still want

0:39:08.920 --> 0:39:11.200
<v Speaker 3>it's a good time here. And they really did have fun.

0:39:11.200 --> 0:39:13.479
<v Speaker 3>They were doing yoga outside every morning and drinking wine

0:39:13.520 --> 0:39:16.560
<v Speaker 3>in the evenings. They're shopping on their days off. Like

0:39:16.560 --> 0:39:17.319
<v Speaker 3>they had a great time.

0:39:17.520 --> 0:39:20.960
<v Speaker 1>Any Way, sounds like I should go on the show yoga,

0:39:21.080 --> 0:39:22.080
<v Speaker 1>wine and shopping.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but of course, you know, when there's that many

0:39:26.560 --> 0:39:29.239
<v Speaker 3>women in one household and they're trying to together, there

0:39:29.280 --> 0:39:30.680
<v Speaker 3>was issues that arose.

0:39:31.520 --> 0:39:35.240
<v Speaker 1>I saw them last night, especially with your gals.

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<v Speaker 2>John.

0:39:36.040 --> 0:39:36.759
<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Well, funny enough is like we literally have a

0:39:40.160 --> 0:39:41.879
<v Speaker 4>group chat at me and all of them. So it's

0:39:41.920 --> 0:39:45.239
<v Speaker 4>like whatever happened on the show is definitely didn't lead

0:39:45.280 --> 0:39:45.959
<v Speaker 4>into real life.

0:39:46.120 --> 0:39:48.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, It's like in the moment, it just feels emotional

0:39:48.360 --> 0:39:48.719
<v Speaker 2>on the.

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<v Speaker 4>Moment, I know, I can tell you that, Like I

0:39:51.239 --> 0:39:53.759
<v Speaker 4>didn't experience any of it firsthand, but I think there

0:39:53.760 --> 0:39:56.560
<v Speaker 4>were some you know, pretty feisty brawls.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, wow, girls are tough.

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<v Speaker 1>They Yeah, that would be horrible, like to all date

0:40:04.640 --> 0:40:05.400
<v Speaker 1>the same person.

0:40:05.600 --> 0:40:07.200
<v Speaker 2>I would be so confused.

0:40:07.400 --> 0:40:09.200
<v Speaker 3>And there's a lot of one on you know, runs

0:40:09.239 --> 0:40:11.759
<v Speaker 3>away from home and tired and.

0:40:11.600 --> 0:40:14.239
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, living in a bunk bed by the way, that

0:40:14.280 --> 0:40:15.200
<v Speaker 1>would be the worst part.

0:40:15.640 --> 0:40:18.440
<v Speaker 4>This thing like crazy, I can't imagine.

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<v Speaker 2>Very cute. I like it. We'll get you on, mom,

0:40:21.920 --> 0:40:22.520
<v Speaker 2>We'll get you one.

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<v Speaker 1>All be ready, you guys, thank you so much for

0:40:27.680 --> 0:40:28.200
<v Speaker 1>joining us.

0:40:28.200 --> 0:40:28.960
<v Speaker 2>We're so grateful.

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<v Speaker 1>Please please please DM me when you come to La

0:40:32.640 --> 0:40:34.759
<v Speaker 1>and we will have you guys over for dinner.

0:40:36.239 --> 0:40:38.360
<v Speaker 3>And you're always welcome here at Moro Bed. When to

0:40:38.360 --> 0:40:39.759
<v Speaker 3>come for a little ranch tour.

0:40:39.760 --> 0:40:42.720
<v Speaker 2>I would love it. I would love to bring my Kids'

0:40:43.120 --> 0:40:45.279
<v Speaker 2>pretty cool. Your kids would love it.

0:40:45.440 --> 0:40:47.600
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I've got three nephews.

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<v Speaker 2>So I saw.

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking at your Instagram page, thank you. I

0:40:51.320 --> 0:40:53.560
<v Speaker 1>was looking at both of yours and that, guys, are

0:40:54.120 --> 0:41:02.080
<v Speaker 1>that house in outside of Saint Louis. That's some ranch house. Yeah,

0:41:03.280 --> 0:41:04.360
<v Speaker 1>colonial house.

0:41:04.440 --> 0:41:08.040
<v Speaker 4>It's worked pretty hard. In full disclosure, I saw like

0:41:08.080 --> 0:41:10.480
<v Speaker 4>a TikTok that's all over. This house was built in

0:41:10.480 --> 0:41:12.239
<v Speaker 4>two thousand and eight. I don't know if people are

0:41:12.280 --> 0:41:14.080
<v Speaker 4>just thinking that it's.

0:41:14.040 --> 0:41:19.160
<v Speaker 2>You know, not not as opposed to what what are they.

0:41:19.080 --> 0:41:22.120
<v Speaker 3>Thinking from the seventeen Oh my god, everyone.

0:41:21.840 --> 0:41:24.040
<v Speaker 2>Just needs to get a life. Were good. It's a

0:41:24.080 --> 0:41:25.000
<v Speaker 2>beautiful house.

0:41:25.880 --> 0:41:28.720
<v Speaker 1>It's a beautiful house, and I would be very happy

0:41:28.719 --> 0:41:30.720
<v Speaker 1>in it, and so will one of the ladies.

0:41:32.280 --> 0:41:34.360
<v Speaker 2>All right, guys, I know that John has an interview,

0:41:34.400 --> 0:41:36.279
<v Speaker 2>so we have to jump off because he's a very

0:41:36.320 --> 0:41:36.839
<v Speaker 2>busy man.

0:41:37.120 --> 0:41:41.239
<v Speaker 1>John and out John and matter in the hand, So

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<v Speaker 1>we gotta go and go.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so much for having us.

0:41:44.680 --> 0:41:47.440
<v Speaker 1>Seriously, thank you guys so much. I hope we get

0:41:47.440 --> 0:41:48.120
<v Speaker 1>to see you soon.

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<v Speaker 3>Great speak with.

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<v Speaker 1>You, and we'll be watching on Friday, I mean on

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<v Speaker 1>Thursday Thursdays at eight central.

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<v Speaker 2>Eight central on Fox and Hulu. I watched it on Hulu.

0:42:00.360 --> 0:42:02.120
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, who is better because you have to do it.

0:42:02.200 --> 0:42:05.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so just watch it on Hulu. It's so good, yeah,

0:42:05.600 --> 0:42:06.200
<v Speaker 1>really great.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, guys.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, ye bye, Oh my gosh. That was literally heaven

0:42:14.760 --> 0:42:16.920
<v Speaker 1>on Earth. My mom and I could not stop talking

0:42:16.920 --> 0:42:20.200
<v Speaker 1>to them, and I'm leaving right now for more, obey,

0:42:20.360 --> 0:42:23.000
<v Speaker 1>and I will then be going on to Saint Louis.

0:42:23.239 --> 0:42:26.360
<v Speaker 1>So I hope Mom, you'll take care of my family. No,

0:42:26.480 --> 0:42:29.880
<v Speaker 1>I'll be with you and okay, you guys, please watch

0:42:29.920 --> 0:42:33.280
<v Speaker 1>Farmer Wants a Wife Thursdays on Fox at nine eighth

0:42:33.280 --> 0:42:35.080
<v Speaker 1>Central and the next day on Hulu.

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<v Speaker 2>It's great.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for listening to another episode of What in the Winkler.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll see you soon. Bye,