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Speaker 1: You are listening to What in the Winkler and iHeartRadio podcast. Hi,

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Speaker 1: welcome back to another episode of What in the Winkler.

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Speaker 1: We are so excited because today we have two guests

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Speaker 1: who are I don't even know if we should call

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Speaker 1: them by their entire name or just farmer Matt and

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Speaker 1: Farmer John from the show Farmer Wants a Wife Matt

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Speaker 1: Warren and John Sansone. I had never seen this show before,

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Speaker 1: and I just watched the first two episodes. They are

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Speaker 1: starring in season three and I am dying of excitement

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Speaker 1: to let them in. Mom, what do you think? I

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Speaker 1: think they are so adorable and so handsome. Me too,

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Speaker 1: And I wore green because of farming and the earth.

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Speaker 1: Do you know what's crazy is that I'm in green,

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Speaker 1: We're both in green, and we're both.

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Speaker 2: In sweatshirts from the Great All right, let's let them in.

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Speaker 2: I'm so excited.

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Speaker 3: Oh, thank you.

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Speaker 2: So much for joining us. Wait, I met John. I

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Speaker 2: met you right at the iHeart You came up to

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Speaker 2: my dad.

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Speaker 4: Was amazing.

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Speaker 3: I mean you met or no, I think I was

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Speaker 3: kind of lurking in the back somewhere.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we met like momentarily, so we met for a

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Speaker 1: couple of minutes at the I Heart Music Awards.

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Speaker 2: I went with my dad and let's introduce your mom. Okay,

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Speaker 2: this is most important.

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Speaker 1: Hi my mom, Stacy, And wait one quick. I'm thinking

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Speaker 1: maybe if you're open to it, you could do farmer

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Speaker 1: wants a Nana. Let's go our farmer wants a mom.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, okay, all right, okay.

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Speaker 4: The options are endless.

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Speaker 1: Wait, so, so I've never seen this before, mom?

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Speaker 2: Have you ever seen this before? Never? And I and

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Speaker 2: I'm shocked that I love it. Me too. You'll be

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Speaker 2: very sincere and.

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Speaker 1: You both are so perfect because you you really do

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Speaker 1: love what you do and it shows through. And you're also,

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Speaker 1: from my mother's point of view, really good, good people.

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Speaker 1: And it's impressive.

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Speaker 4: Thank you very much.

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Speaker 2: So did somebody like did I know, like for the Bachelor?

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Speaker 1: I was actually going to be the bachelorette when I

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Speaker 1: was younger, but I would have like burnt down our

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Speaker 1: entire family. It would have been horrible for everybody. But

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Speaker 1: did someone like my best friend putn't like referred me

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Speaker 1: or signed me up? Would did someone do that for

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Speaker 1: you guys? Or did you guys sign yourselves up?

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Speaker 3: John? And I have the same story pretty much. But

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Speaker 3: basically our families are both big fans of the show,

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Speaker 3: and I would have never have done this, or I

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Speaker 3: thought I would do this, and I got reached out

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Speaker 3: to on social media and I still was like I

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Speaker 3: don't think I'm going to do this for a long time,

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Speaker 3: but after a while I was like, all right, I

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Speaker 3: why not. Like a good opportunity and could be fun

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Speaker 3: and so.

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Speaker 2: John, same for you?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, same. I mean there was a last season there

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Speaker 4: was a guy from Sikeston, Missouri, which is probably twenty

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Speaker 4: minutes from where grandparents live, where the farm is, and

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Speaker 4: I would come into the kitchen, you know, like trying

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Speaker 4: would be like, John, come in here. You got to

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Speaker 4: see this. You'd be perfect for this show, Like what show?

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Speaker 2: If they were right?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? So I got the DM and I showed them

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Speaker 4: and they were like, oh my god, I mean you

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Speaker 2: And you guys can't tell us right if you met

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Speaker 2: your wives?

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Speaker 4: Unfortunately?

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Speaker 2: No, Okay, I have some fun.

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Speaker 1: Wait I have can you can you tell us if

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Speaker 1: they were the ones you brought?

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Speaker 2: Oh that's the point. Okay, same question okay, I oh, okay.

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Speaker 1: So I really didn't like die for Samantha in the

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Speaker 1: first episode, but I really liked during the second episode. Wait,

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Speaker 1: I thought we weren't allowed to say that what if

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Speaker 2: It doesn't matter. We can still talk about it. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 2: we're good.

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Speaker 1: I'm dead that you're twenty five. First of all, you're

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Speaker 1: a child. I'm twenty years older than you. Twenty six.

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Speaker 1: Yeah good, I'm forty four, Matt.

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Speaker 2: You're thirty.

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Speaker 3: I've just been thirty one.

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Speaker 1: Outrageous, although I met my husband at twenty five, so

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Speaker 1: this feels good. But I didn't die for Samantha first,

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Speaker 1: but then I really liked her in the second episode.

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Speaker 1: And then also I really wasn't sure about Jordan in

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Speaker 1: the first episode because she's a singer and I was

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Speaker 1: worried that she was just using this as a platform,

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Speaker 2: But then I like, I really like both of them.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, obviously everyone has their preconceived notions, and Jordan and Samantha,

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Speaker 3: I've been kind of getting drugged through all the online

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Speaker 3: comments and all that kind of stuff.

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Speaker 1: But really that's what they signed up for. Yeah, we

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Speaker 1: all have to be tough skinned.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's really hard.

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Speaker 1: It's really hard, especially if you don't have like experience

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Speaker 1: in this world, Like people are just so mean and

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Speaker 1: it's so crazy. When you put yourself out there, you

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Speaker 1: have to expect that because people were vile to me

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Speaker 1: when I first met Henry.

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Speaker 2: They were the lowest. But you were a supermodel.

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Speaker 4: So still are I mean?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Still John, John? You still are?

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Speaker 1: Mom?

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Speaker 2: Dad better watch out.

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Speaker 1: I would like to know John, what year of law

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Speaker 1: school are you in?

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Speaker 4: Number? I would say one and a half because I

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Speaker 4: took a semester off to do the show.

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Speaker 2: And what kind of lawyer do you want to be?

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Speaker 4: Well, I'd like to get into like land rights and

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Speaker 4: land regulations and stuff, would in right, Yeah, because I

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Speaker 4: up for small family farmers and things.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really important because they don't have much of

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Speaker 1: a voice at this point, right, especially know they're supposed

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Speaker 1: to it's not the truth, right exactly.

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Speaker 2: No, he's going to answer now, So you don't you

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Speaker 4: She also, I don't want to get in trouble and.

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Speaker 1: You're fine, You're fine, she we we we she is

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Speaker 1: the one, meaning me who gets it trouble.

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Speaker 2: So, yeah, you guys are good.

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Speaker 1: And Matt, did you always decide like this is? It

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Speaker 1: wasn't always what you were planning to do. But now

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Speaker 2: Like? Is it what you are hoping to continue doing?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely? I grew up around ag being in California and

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Speaker 3: like rural areas. All my friends either ranched or or

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Speaker 3: and I've been around it with my family for the

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Speaker 3: people really is what makes it, Like, you know, an

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Speaker 2: Everyone's you know is agriculture. Yes, any kind of as

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Speaker 1: I don't know, Okay, good, I mean I'm very far

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Speaker 1: not far from where you guys live. Well, you live

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Speaker 1: and you live in Bay morel Bay is heaven get

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Speaker 1: the best of all worlds and Saint Louis your your

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Speaker 1: property and your home look breathtaking. Both of you guys

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Speaker 1: and have a beautiful place to work out of. I

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Speaker 1: just want to know what are the exotic fruits.

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Speaker 3: That's a good question. Our main thing is more bad

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Speaker 3: avocados that we grow and you can actually get them

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Speaker 2: To one of those, but we love air one.

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Speaker 3: We called finger limes. It's an Australian citrus. If you've

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Speaker 2: No, I only heard for the first time.

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Speaker 3: Well any of them, but really neat looks like caviar,

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Speaker 3: but it's citrus. And then on top of that, we're

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Speaker 3: the first coffee plantation in California.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we do coffee here, and then we do dragon fruit, passion.

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Speaker 3: Lemons, slimes, cheram oils. We dabbled in troubles and do

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Speaker 2: And what about you, John, What if you guys are

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Speaker 3: Women?

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Speaker 4: Corn? Yeah, so it's like row crops. That's a general

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Speaker 4: way of putting it. My grandfather's been doing that. It's

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Speaker 1: Five generations and do you guys? So if you do,

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Speaker 1: it's it's similar to the way like the Bachelor works.

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Speaker 1: Like you guys, if you do find some then you

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Speaker 2: When is it? When do we find out?

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Speaker 3: Last episode? Which we're coming up the third ones tomorrow?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I've watched it on Hulu, so it's on Fox, right,

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Speaker 2: and then what night Thursdays at.

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Speaker 4: Eight yep eight Central Thursdays.

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Speaker 2: At eighth Central on Fox. Okay?

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Speaker 1: And then so you're on the third episode? How many

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Speaker 2: Eleven?

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Speaker 4: Final two? I think are back to back on.

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Speaker 1: The same night, and they meet your family and everything.

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Speaker 1: So does your family weigh in on this decision? Because

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Speaker 1: for me, like it was a huge part was I'm

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Speaker 1: we have a super close family. I'm one of three,

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Speaker 1: my husband's one of five. We all have born and

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Speaker 1: raised in LA. It was like a big deal with

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Speaker 1: the families. Is that a big deal for both of

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Matt and I both have very close families and

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Speaker 4: both immediate and extended everybody's very close. But with this

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Speaker 4: show that yeah, we introduced them to our media family.

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Speaker 4: From me, it was just my siblings, which was great

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Speaker 4: because I come, I'm one of six. Oh wow, so

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Speaker 4: it was like, yeah.

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Speaker 2: They had to pass the test.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, they had to pass the test.

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Speaker 2: All right, what orderary are you like, the youngest, the oldest?

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Speaker 4: I'm number two, so I have an old New York

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Speaker 4: than me. Then brother, sister, sister, brother?

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Speaker 2: And are you the only one that works on the

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Speaker 4: Well we all go out there and you know, provide

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Speaker 4: our helping hands where we can. But currently I'm the

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Speaker 4: only one in Missouri right now who's like, is able

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Speaker 4: to help. The other two that are in here in

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Speaker 4: Saint Louis are in high school.

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Speaker 1: So oh wow, Oh well, I guess because you're like

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Speaker 4: I got it now?

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Speaker 3: No kissing for me.

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Speaker 1: And I only say that because I'm difficult, so I

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Speaker 3: But and when you do ask people to go home

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Speaker 1: Right, and especially I'm sure it's really hard to send

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Speaker 4: God blessom? But no, it's like it's even harder because

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Speaker 1: I've never seen people do it kind of more honestly,

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Speaker 2: It is different.

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Speaker 2: It's like, right, you know, and.

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Speaker 3: There's only so much that they air too, you know

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we don't really like each other that much, but

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we did, Like we're the first episode of this

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Speaker 4: But I mean you.

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Speaker 1: Seemed very confident, just so you know, well now you

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Speaker 4: Thank you.

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Speaker 2: I love a dirty martini too, the best.

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Speaker 4: I actually don't really like them dirty. I just had

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Speaker 4: Not at all? No, I'm kidding, it's a lot.

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Speaker 4: And yeah, it's like sarcastic banter, like lightly taking jabs

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Speaker 3: Flirting like praise that word that John coined across the.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I like that it's more to a degree

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Speaker 4: we were already somewhat coming out of our shell and

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00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:41,480
Speaker 4: being ourselves, so, you know, and shows like The Bachelor,

448
00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:44,600
Speaker 4: when it's one guy, I can't imagine that he's being

449
00:21:44,760 --> 00:21:46,359
Speaker 4: self right off the bat. There's nowhere And.

450
00:21:46,359 --> 00:21:48,640
Speaker 1: It's also he doesn't have like that, but he doesn't

451
00:21:48,640 --> 00:21:50,720
Speaker 1: have anyone to bounce anything off of. He doesn't have

452
00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:53,359
Speaker 1: anybody to like go through this experience with him. I

453
00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:57,639
Speaker 1: think it's nice that you guys have this common love

454
00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:00,159
Speaker 1: of what you do and then also can like go

455
00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:02,840
Speaker 1: through this together because it's a big culture shock.

456
00:22:02,920 --> 00:22:03,439
Speaker 2: I'm sure.

457
00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:06,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, you need that camaraderie to get you through something

458
00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:06,440
Speaker 4: like this.

459
00:22:06,960 --> 00:22:09,880
Speaker 2: Have you had any interviews that you really didn't.

460
00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:13,520
Speaker 4: Like, like on the show or for press?

461
00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:17,320
Speaker 2: No, like for press or you know, like any really.

462
00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:18,840
Speaker 3: I would say what John and I have been talking

463
00:22:18,880 --> 00:22:20,680
Speaker 3: about is like a lot of the ones who've done

464
00:22:20,680 --> 00:22:24,040
Speaker 3: so far are maybe a little more serious, and it's

465
00:22:24,040 --> 00:22:26,120
Speaker 3: like these outline questions of like why'd you on the show,

466
00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:28,480
Speaker 3: Like you know, what was your experience? Like like that

467
00:22:28,560 --> 00:22:30,240
Speaker 3: kind of stuff, and we like this like we just

468
00:22:30,280 --> 00:22:31,920
Speaker 3: want to like talk back and forth and have like.

469
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:34,919
Speaker 1: I saw that you guys did Jen Fessler's Yeah that

470
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:36,560
Speaker 1: was fun though you also met.

471
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Speaker 2: I met her there too.

472
00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:40,000
Speaker 4: Yeah he's great.

473
00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:43,080
Speaker 2: I'm a big big Housewife fan, so I was fired up.

474
00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:43,880
Speaker 2: I was excited.

475
00:22:44,200 --> 00:22:45,080
Speaker 4: Yeah she's great.

476
00:22:45,600 --> 00:22:47,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're doing her next week.

477
00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:52,000
Speaker 4: We're exciting you are ye, Oh my gosh.

478
00:22:51,440 --> 00:22:54,920
Speaker 1: We have a busy week. We we we really do.

479
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:56,760
Speaker 1: But this has been fun. I mean we've only my

480
00:22:56,800 --> 00:22:58,160
Speaker 1: mom and I've only been doing this.

481
00:22:59,600 --> 00:23:03,320
Speaker 2: Since October, so this is like brand new. Yeah.

482
00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:09,600
Speaker 4: Oh wow, I thought this was like a well established podcast. Sorry, guys,

483
00:23:10,880 --> 00:23:13,560
Speaker 4: like I'm saying, that's that's that's the type of that's

484
00:23:13,560 --> 00:23:14,320
Speaker 4: how it came off.

485
00:23:14,720 --> 00:23:17,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, well you know we're well established.

486
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:21,280
Speaker 4: I'm sorry we didn't get the green memo.

487
00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:24,360
Speaker 1: Also, sorry, by the way, we do not we don't

488
00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:27,000
Speaker 1: even like were. We both live in la but we're

489
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:29,960
Speaker 1: not together, and we both are wearing green sweatshirts.

490
00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:32,080
Speaker 2: Made by the same company, which is how you know

491
00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:35,000
Speaker 2: the mother and dada. So do you guys both want kids?

492
00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:36,199
Speaker 4: Absolutely?

493
00:23:36,520 --> 00:23:39,320
Speaker 1: What's your timeline situation because you're both young. On the

494
00:23:39,359 --> 00:23:42,360
Speaker 1: younger side, I'm older than John, but yeah, you're thirty one.

495
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:46,080
Speaker 3: My take is like I would have gotten married five

496
00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:47,639
Speaker 3: years ago and start having kids if I met the

497
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Speaker 3: right person. I do want that, but I'm willing to

498
00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:52,400
Speaker 3: wait till I have the right Yeah.

499
00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:54,960
Speaker 2: Oh my god, yes, oh my god, you have to

500
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:55,639
Speaker 2: you have to.

501
00:23:55,880 --> 00:23:58,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'd rather wait however long it takes and do

502
00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:00,480
Speaker 3: it right than yeah, try to Russia for that reason.

503
00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:03,160
Speaker 3: But yeah, I want a bunch of kids up doing

504
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:03,679
Speaker 3: that whenever.

505
00:24:03,840 --> 00:24:05,800
Speaker 2: So yeah, what about you?

506
00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:08,719
Speaker 4: Yeah this, you know, I don't want to rush into it,

507
00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:11,680
Speaker 4: but you know, I don't want to also wait so long.

508
00:24:11,880 --> 00:24:14,040
Speaker 4: I have a lot of you know, cousins and uncles

509
00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:16,520
Speaker 4: who are you know, well past the I guess normal

510
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,080
Speaker 4: age of having children, and it just doesn't look that

511
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:19,800
Speaker 4: very appealing.

512
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:23,359
Speaker 1: I got to call them out and overthink it. You

513
00:24:23,560 --> 00:24:27,200
Speaker 1: just can't overthink it, and you just have to keep

514
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 1: being so natural and and have fun with it, like

515
00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:33,240
Speaker 1: in real life.

516
00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:34,640
Speaker 2: That's what happens.

517
00:24:34,680 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 1: It just happens to be that a camera is on

518
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:43,880
Speaker 1: you twenty four to seven. But but the chemistry will

519
00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:49,000
Speaker 1: tell you when that feeling is right. I agree with you, Matt.

520
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:53,040
Speaker 1: The best laid plans forget about it. You know, they

521
00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:56,520
Speaker 1: just you think, go up and smoke, you know, but

522
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:58,920
Speaker 1: when it's right, it's right.

523
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:02,160
Speaker 2: It's I knew I was going to marry my husband

524
00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:08,160
Speaker 2: on our first date. Really I knew what was Oh.

525
00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:11,760
Speaker 1: I was like you knew with Rob, you knew with Dad? No,

526
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:16,240
Speaker 1: I knew with Daddy, Okay, I just I just I

527
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 1: just knew.

528
00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:17,359
Speaker 2: We talked.

529
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:20,159
Speaker 1: It was weird because well I was twenty five and

530
00:25:20,200 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 1: he was thirty two, but so I was young. But

531
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:27,400
Speaker 1: I just knew, Like we just we talked that whole

532
00:25:27,480 --> 00:25:31,479
Speaker 1: night about everything that we wanted, and it just was

533
00:25:32,200 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 1: similar in you know what our goals were, and we

534
00:25:34,520 --> 00:25:38,080
Speaker 1: actually broke up for like how long was it, mom?

535
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:40,639
Speaker 2: Like four months?

536
00:25:39,880 --> 00:25:40,000
Speaker 3: Ye?

537
00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:43,879
Speaker 2: Yes, when we were were dated for a year.

538
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:45,919
Speaker 1: Then we broke up for four months and I was like,

539
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:48,639
Speaker 1: I was so and then we got back together and

540
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:52,960
Speaker 1: we've been together. We've been married now for sixteen years.

541
00:25:51,680 --> 00:25:54,720
Speaker 2: So a long time. But like I just knew, and

542
00:25:54,760 --> 00:25:56,120
Speaker 2: I believe that to be true.

543
00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:59,080
Speaker 1: I believe that most people know, like when they meet somebody,

544
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:01,440
Speaker 1: And I've never obviously done it the way you guys

545
00:26:01,440 --> 00:26:05,720
Speaker 1: are doing it. But I feel like, regardless, you can

546
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:08,480
Speaker 1: kind of feel what it is right away.

547
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:11,399
Speaker 4: Definitely had you felt that before with someone else or

548
00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:13,160
Speaker 4: that was the first time you had felt now.

549
00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:17,919
Speaker 2: Not like that, Like I dated a ton and I

550
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:26,280
Speaker 2: had boyfriend. Shut your mouth, Oh no, wow, you're saying.

551
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:28,320
Speaker 2: And I know.

552
00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 1: I but I had I had like long term boyfriends,

553
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:34,119
Speaker 1: but this was totally different, and I was in a

554
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:37,000
Speaker 1: different place like I was, even though I mean, twenty

555
00:26:37,040 --> 00:26:42,000
Speaker 1: five to me is young in LA, it's different. I

556
00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 1: feel like when you grow up in a town where

557
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:45,639
Speaker 1: like everybody's kind of trajectory.

558
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:48,400
Speaker 2: As you go to school, you kind of stay where

559
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 2: you are and you get married.

560
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:53,159
Speaker 1: It was very different, but I just knew and I

561
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:55,399
Speaker 1: knew that it was different immediately, and it was.

562
00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:56,880
Speaker 2: It's the best decision.

563
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:59,639
Speaker 1: I've ever made, and I'm excited for you guys. It

564
00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:04,119
Speaker 1: kind of if you feel my experiences, you feel like

565
00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 1: you're home. You know, there's someone you meet and it

566
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:13,000
Speaker 1: kind of clicks, and so you're not like checking off

567
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:17,760
Speaker 1: a list because first it's the chemistry, but but there

568
00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:22,480
Speaker 1: is this feeling of coziness and comfort in your stomach

569
00:27:23,320 --> 00:27:29,720
Speaker 1: that just you know, it's important. It's important to just

570
00:27:29,920 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 1: feel that comfort level. You know, had you, guys, ever

571
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:36,400
Speaker 1: met somebody, dated somebody long term before that you thought

572
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:38,440
Speaker 1: you were going to marry before coming on this show.

573
00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:40,880
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Matt, you said you did.

574
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:44,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, right on the show longer term relationships and somewhere

575
00:27:44,760 --> 00:27:46,560
Speaker 3: I thought it could be pretty serious, but it was

576
00:27:46,640 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 3: like more of an attraction thing, like a lot of chemistry,

577
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 3: but then like everything else wasn't right, and it's like

578
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:55,679
Speaker 3: you're trying to make it work, but you kind of

579
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:57,320
Speaker 3: just you know, you kind of know in your head,

580
00:27:57,359 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 3: you're like if I don't know, like I really like

581
00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:01,840
Speaker 3: this person, but it's not it's not easy, you know,

582
00:28:01,920 --> 00:28:04,800
Speaker 3: It's like it should be. You have to work towards anything,

583
00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 3: but it shouldn't have to be like this uphill battle

584
00:28:07,080 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 3: on everything the experience I've had, Yeah, and then I

585
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:12,840
Speaker 3: look at my parents have been married for like forty

586
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:15,159
Speaker 3: six years and my grandparents in the line, and it

587
00:28:15,320 --> 00:28:17,640
Speaker 3: just wasn't like that. You know, It's like, yeah, there's problems,

588
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:19,600
Speaker 3: you got to work stuff out and this and that,

589
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:23,600
Speaker 3: but you you know, it should be like a no brainer.

590
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:25,040
Speaker 3: Should just also kind of work.

591
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,720
Speaker 1: To mom, You're going to be married forty seven years

592
00:28:27,720 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 1: this year, right, yes, yes, yeah, hard to believe.

593
00:28:31,080 --> 00:28:31,600
Speaker 4: Congrats.

594
00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:35,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's hard for me to believe. But but it's

595
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:40,440
Speaker 1: it's great and it's true there are always issues, but

596
00:28:40,560 --> 00:28:43,240
Speaker 1: the key is if you can get through it, if

597
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 1: you like each other, if you respect each other, and

598
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 1: you can, you know, get through and you do, and

599
00:28:53,920 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 1: but it has to be, you know, worth it for

600
00:28:57,120 --> 00:28:58,240
Speaker 1: the long haul.

601
00:28:58,520 --> 00:28:58,760
Speaker 2: You know.

602
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:04,640
Speaker 4: Right, What about if you have differing beliefs on certain things.

603
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:05,880
Speaker 4: Have you guys ever experienced that?

604
00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 2: Yeah?

605
00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 1: That we I I'm sorry Zoe, that I did. With

606
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:18,040
Speaker 1: Henry because he was raised in a very strict family,

607
00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:25,560
Speaker 1: He's raised an abusive household, abusive to, but verbally abusive.

608
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:34,440
Speaker 2: And very Germanic, and that means german. It is. It

609
00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:35,720
Speaker 2: is really.

610
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:41,920
Speaker 1: Easier if you have more in common. I mean that

611
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:47,960
Speaker 1: just is the truth. It's easier if you were raised similarly,

612
00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 1: if you have similar values. I think that's important because again,

613
00:29:56,760 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 1: there are so many things and life it's so crazy

614
00:30:02,000 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 1: that if you have like a mutual understanding or feeling

615
00:30:07,520 --> 00:30:12,800
Speaker 1: about the most important values. I don't think I think

616
00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:16,560
Speaker 1: if you meet someone, that feels great, but you are

617
00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:22,480
Speaker 1: so totally different from the get go, I don't think

618
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:23,400
Speaker 1: that that.

619
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:27,720
Speaker 2: No. I mean I think that feels at the.

620
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 1: Core, like my husband's super outdoorsy, I am not, and

621
00:30:31,680 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 1: I was who I was.

622
00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:36,160
Speaker 2: Those kinds of things you can overcome. But the main things,

623
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:38,280
Speaker 2: the most important things, and especially when you have kids,

624
00:30:38,840 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 2: it just gets so much harder because it's the best.

625
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:45,520
Speaker 2: But it's also like you're responsible for these human beings

626
00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:47,960
Speaker 2: and you want to be the best you can be

627
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 2: for them. And also I think the most important thing

628
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 2: in a relationship is to continue working on it. Like

629
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 2: we work really hard to just be like the best people,

630
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:59,280
Speaker 2: and we talk and we have hard conversations and I

631
00:30:59,360 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 2: am not.

632
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:04,000
Speaker 1: I know that, and I you know, work really hard

633
00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 1: on being able to hear what he's saying and not

634
00:31:06,440 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 1: get defensive. And you know, like I think it's important

635
00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:13,400
Speaker 1: to have the same core values, but you can have

636
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 1: different interests, you know, like I don't think like that matters.

637
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,120
Speaker 1: Like I don't ever want to go see The Grateful Dead.

638
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:22,280
Speaker 1: He is going three times in the next three months.

639
00:31:22,320 --> 00:31:24,200
Speaker 1: Like I'm like, I have the best time. I love

640
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 1: you so much. Never will I be there. So it's

641
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 1: like those kinds of things I think are fine, but

642
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:31,560
Speaker 1: I think it's really hard if you don't have like

643
00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:32,880
Speaker 1: the same core beliefs.

644
00:31:33,440 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 2: I just think that that's difficult.

645
00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:37,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, And that's the one of the things we talked

646
00:31:37,320 --> 00:31:39,560
Speaker 4: about a lot on the show is because you know,

647
00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 4: we went through a whole matchmaking phase before if we

648
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,920
Speaker 4: start filming, and we talked about these very core beliefs

649
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 4: that we all believed in. Like for me, it was

650
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:50,440
Speaker 4: faith and family and hard work and you know, taking.

651
00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:52,640
Speaker 2: Care of you. You want to Jewish, right, you're Jewish.

652
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 4: Just kidding, nothing wrong with it.

653
00:31:57,800 --> 00:32:02,959
Speaker 2: I'm just not go on, sweetheart, we get it. Go on.

654
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 4: But yeah, we talked about that stuff. On the show

655
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:08,920
Speaker 4: because then you meet these girls and of course they

656
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:12,200
Speaker 4: all have the same core values because that's basically how

657
00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:14,840
Speaker 4: you were match made. But then it just comes down

658
00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 4: to figure out your interests.

659
00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 2: Not necessarily, by the way.

660
00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:22,880
Speaker 1: Were any of them Do any of them completely opposite

661
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:23,160
Speaker 1: of you?

662
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:23,560
Speaker 2: Did they?

663
00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:26,959
Speaker 1: Did? They put in some women maybe that you guys

664
00:32:27,600 --> 00:32:28,960
Speaker 1: had different core beliefs.

665
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:35,400
Speaker 4: Uh different ring I wouldn't say different, but yeah, definitely right.

666
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:36,840
Speaker 3: That's just life too.

667
00:32:37,160 --> 00:32:39,840
Speaker 2: No one's gonna yeah, no, one don't want that.

668
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 1: You don't want somebody that completely I think, Yeah, you

669
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:48,920
Speaker 1: don't want somebody that's just gonna be exactly you, because

670
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:49,960
Speaker 1: that's not fun.

671
00:32:50,000 --> 00:32:51,920
Speaker 4: Exactly you know. Yeah, that's one of the things I

672
00:32:51,960 --> 00:32:54,920
Speaker 4: talked about too, is I had a past relationship where

673
00:32:54,920 --> 00:32:59,240
Speaker 4: the person was exactly like me and it got dull quick.

674
00:32:59,640 --> 00:32:59,880
Speaker 2: Yeah.

675
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 1: You want someone to challenge you, and you want it

676
00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:03,959
Speaker 1: to be fun and you want to step outside your

677
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:04,440
Speaker 1: comfort r.

678
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:06,040
Speaker 2: Yeah.

679
00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 4: No, I've been with yourself for twenty six years.

680
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

681
00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:14,320
Speaker 1: So do you guys get married on the show. Is

682
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:16,760
Speaker 1: it like a wedding or no?

683
00:33:16,480 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 4: No, No, I don't know how they do this because

684
00:33:18,920 --> 00:33:21,200
Speaker 4: he's only been here for three seasons. But if I

685
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 4: don't know, potentially down the line, if one of us

686
00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:27,040
Speaker 4: were to marry the person we chose, maybe they'd cover it.

687
00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 1: I don't know. Have the other people and the last

688
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:32,200
Speaker 1: two seasons.

689
00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:34,800
Speaker 2: Gone on to be a couple.

690
00:33:35,400 --> 00:33:37,800
Speaker 3: I know from last season there's two out of the

691
00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:39,560
Speaker 3: four guys are still with their girls.

692
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:40,400
Speaker 2: That's good.

693
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:42,840
Speaker 3: I'm not sure about season one. Not married, but they're

694
00:33:42,880 --> 00:33:45,320
Speaker 3: still together and we've met them a couple of times.

695
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 2: Okay, well that's like that's a two out of four

696
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 2: is really good. Yeah, and I hope The Bachelor does

697
00:33:50,320 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 2: not have that grade of a success.

698
00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 3: And yeah, that's a whole nother ball game.

699
00:33:56,640 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 2: I don't know.

700
00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 1: Love is Blind only got one couple. I watched it

701
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:01,520
Speaker 1: on the whole way back for Hawaii week.

702
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 4: That show is insane, I don't know, insane.

703
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 1: Insane, and they I mean, they should do like a

704
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 1: sociological experiment on the people that go on that show,

705
00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:14,279
Speaker 1: because I'm just like, what the fuck is happening? But

706
00:34:14,920 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 1: I think this felt so different, Like it just the

707
00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:21,080
Speaker 1: show just feels different. You guys are so likable, and

708
00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:25,160
Speaker 1: to be honest, I was not thinking that I was

709
00:34:25,200 --> 00:34:27,759
Speaker 1: going to enjoy the show as much as I did,

710
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:30,040
Speaker 1: and I loved it and I can't wait for the

711
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:44,920
Speaker 1: third episode. Also, Kimberly, I met her when she was

712
00:34:44,960 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 1: at Northwestern.

713
00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:47,440
Speaker 2: Oh the host.

714
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:55,000
Speaker 1: I was like, wait, Kimberly, No, Kimberly Williams Paisley. She

715
00:34:56,640 --> 00:35:04,120
Speaker 1: sets the tone and she is incredible. She I met

716
00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:08,400
Speaker 1: her because she was going with a young boy that

717
00:35:08,480 --> 00:35:08,959
Speaker 1: I was.

718
00:35:08,960 --> 00:35:11,799
Speaker 2: Very close to. What did she date?

719
00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:16,720
Speaker 1: She was dating John, the boy who was so sick

720
00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:18,880
Speaker 1: and died.

721
00:35:20,320 --> 00:35:22,800
Speaker 2: Way to go. Thanks mom, No, I'm.

722
00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:27,840
Speaker 1: Sorry, but she but she was he's dead and she

723
00:35:28,040 --> 00:35:32,120
Speaker 1: had such good values and she came over to our

724
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:34,040
Speaker 1: house with them with h my.

725
00:35:34,040 --> 00:35:36,719
Speaker 2: Best friend's parents made father of the bride.

726
00:35:36,920 --> 00:35:39,799
Speaker 1: Oh okay, we met her Annie and Allie so we

727
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:40,719
Speaker 1: met her that way too.

728
00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:43,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, she was lovely. We got to hang out with

729
00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:45,239
Speaker 3: her off camera. Get amount. We've seen her on this

730
00:35:45,280 --> 00:35:47,240
Speaker 3: press stuff and all that, and she's very sweet.

731
00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:52,080
Speaker 1: She's good and she here's what she is solid And

732
00:35:53,760 --> 00:35:57,319
Speaker 1: I think you want someone solid. And don't shake your

733
00:35:57,360 --> 00:36:00,400
Speaker 1: head at me. You asked who it was so I

734
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 1: had I'm not My head is straight, completely not moving.

735
00:36:05,360 --> 00:36:07,759
Speaker 3: One of your guys family events, you.

736
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 2: Guys to come to dinner to La.

737
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:13,800
Speaker 1: Come to La and come you're welcome. We would have

738
00:36:14,040 --> 00:36:18,160
Speaker 1: room at our table and yeah, you guys have to

739
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:18,640
Speaker 1: come over.

740
00:36:19,760 --> 00:36:22,600
Speaker 2: This would be fun fun.

741
00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:26,759
Speaker 4: I could bring some corn wheat and soybeans and Max, yes,

742
00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:29,680
Speaker 4: bring some avocados and finger lines.

743
00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:36,920
Speaker 1: My son's into passion fruit, which one indie, Oh great,

744
00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:41,799
Speaker 1: you had a surgery and she couldn't eat. I said

745
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:44,200
Speaker 1: what would you like and she said, I'd like a

746
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:45,200
Speaker 1: smoothie And I.

747
00:36:45,160 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 2: Said, oh fabulous.

748
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:54,200
Speaker 1: What blueberry strawberry passion fruit? WHOA that puts me up

749
00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 1: a tree?

750
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:56,120
Speaker 2: Do we see them outside?

751
00:36:56,360 --> 00:36:57,839
Speaker 3: Is actually passion right here?

752
00:36:57,880 --> 00:37:02,360
Speaker 2: This this, and I love the drag and fruit.

753
00:37:02,719 --> 00:37:07,440
Speaker 1: Also, we had that in Thailand, so beautiful.

754
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:10,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's pretty amazing. I'll send you guys a box

755
00:37:10,480 --> 00:37:11,640
Speaker 3: of produce.

756
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:15,040
Speaker 2: I agree. My son, my thirteen year old, wants to

757
00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:17,760
Speaker 2: be a chef today.

758
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 1: Actually it's still spring break and we were away for

759
00:37:21,080 --> 00:37:23,359
Speaker 1: a week and we're home and he wants to make

760
00:37:23,400 --> 00:37:24,600
Speaker 1: beef Wellington today.

761
00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:27,080
Speaker 2: So I took him to the market this morning. Curiously

762
00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:30,360
Speaker 2: before No, he's.

763
00:37:30,239 --> 00:37:32,040
Speaker 1: Never done it before, so he's just trying it. We

764
00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 1: went to the butcher and he I was you know,

765
00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 1: he did the whole thing. So we'll see he's getting

766
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:42,920
Speaker 1: it right now in everything. Huh yeah, crusted. He already

767
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:46,560
Speaker 1: chopped up all the mushrooms he is.

768
00:37:46,719 --> 00:37:46,919
Speaker 2: Yeah.

769
00:37:46,960 --> 00:37:50,280
Speaker 1: We sit down to dinner every night except for Friday, Saturday, Sunday,

770
00:37:50,480 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 1: and on Sundays. We do family dinner like we're a

771
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:56,719
Speaker 1: whole family, and so that's really important. My husband is

772
00:37:56,719 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 1: in construction. He owns a contracting company, so he leaves

773
00:38:00,040 --> 00:38:01,760
Speaker 1: too brilliant in the morning and he's home for dinner.

774
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:04,279
Speaker 1: And it's great. And Ace and Ice, my oldest we

775
00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:06,080
Speaker 1: cooked together and it's really fun.

776
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:10,640
Speaker 2: And you were raised that way. I was. We ate

777
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:14,319
Speaker 2: dinner together. There was a chef, a real chef, but yes,

778
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 2: I was. By the way, it was great. I learned

779
00:38:19,600 --> 00:38:23,799
Speaker 2: how to cook. I learn from me too, Yes I did.

780
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:25,600
Speaker 2: Actually she's an amazing cook.

781
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:28,880
Speaker 1: But when you guys come, the cheff will cook.

782
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:30,440
Speaker 3: It is really coming together.

783
00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:39,560
Speaker 2: It's gonna be great. I mean really, saw and Vile. Well, guys,

784
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:41,400
Speaker 2: this was great. Oh wait, I want to ask one

785
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:41,920
Speaker 2: more question.

786
00:38:42,480 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 1: What did you think Was there a lot of tension

787
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:46,359
Speaker 1: between the girls and was that uncomfortable?

788
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:46,920
Speaker 2: Sometimes?

789
00:38:48,080 --> 00:38:52,200
Speaker 3: Yes? And no, wow for me, my girls overall got

790
00:38:52,800 --> 00:38:56,160
Speaker 3: along very well. They're all still friends for the most

791
00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:58,960
Speaker 3: part in stay communication. So that was really cool because

792
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:01,160
Speaker 3: not only do I want to find some but I

793
00:39:01,200 --> 00:39:03,759
Speaker 3: wanted them to enjoy their time here. They're living in

794
00:39:03,800 --> 00:39:06,359
Speaker 3: my house, around my family and our ranch. Like, even

795
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 3: if it doesn't work out with us, I still want

796
00:39:08,920 --> 00:39:11,200
Speaker 3: it's a good time here. And they really did have fun.

797
00:39:11,200 --> 00:39:13,479
Speaker 3: They were doing yoga outside every morning and drinking wine

798
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:16,560
Speaker 3: in the evenings. They're shopping on their days off. Like

799
00:39:16,560 --> 00:39:17,319
Speaker 3: they had a great time.

800
00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:20,960
Speaker 1: Any Way, sounds like I should go on the show yoga,

801
00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:22,080
Speaker 1: wine and shopping.

802
00:39:22,280 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, but of course, you know, when there's that many

803
00:39:26,560 --> 00:39:29,239
Speaker 3: women in one household and they're trying to together, there

804
00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 3: was issues that arose.

805
00:39:31,520 --> 00:39:35,240
Speaker 1: I saw them last night, especially with your gals.

806
00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 2: John.

807
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 3: Yeah.

808
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:40,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, funny enough is like we literally have a

809
00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:41,879
Speaker 4: group chat at me and all of them. So it's

810
00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:45,239
Speaker 4: like whatever happened on the show is definitely didn't lead

811
00:39:45,280 --> 00:39:45,959
Speaker 4: into real life.

812
00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:48,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, It's like in the moment, it just feels emotional

813
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:48,719
Speaker 2: on the.

814
00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:51,239
Speaker 4: Moment, I know, I can tell you that, Like I

815
00:39:51,239 --> 00:39:53,759
Speaker 4: didn't experience any of it firsthand, but I think there

816
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:56,560
Speaker 4: were some you know, pretty feisty brawls.

817
00:39:56,880 --> 00:39:58,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, wow, girls are tough.

818
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:04,600
Speaker 1: They Yeah, that would be horrible, like to all date

819
00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:05,400
Speaker 1: the same person.

820
00:40:05,600 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 2: I would be so confused.

821
00:40:07,400 --> 00:40:09,200
Speaker 3: And there's a lot of one on you know, runs

822
00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:11,759
Speaker 3: away from home and tired and.

823
00:40:11,600 --> 00:40:14,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, living in a bunk bed by the way, that

824
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 1: would be the worst part.

825
00:40:15,640 --> 00:40:18,440
Speaker 4: This thing like crazy, I can't imagine.

826
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:21,839
Speaker 2: Very cute. I like it. We'll get you on, mom,

827
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:22,520
Speaker 2: We'll get you one.

828
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 1: All be ready, you guys, thank you so much for

829
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 1: joining us.

830
00:40:28,200 --> 00:40:28,960
Speaker 2: We're so grateful.

831
00:40:29,040 --> 00:40:32,480
Speaker 1: Please please please DM me when you come to La

832
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:34,759
Speaker 1: and we will have you guys over for dinner.

833
00:40:36,239 --> 00:40:38,360
Speaker 3: And you're always welcome here at Moro Bed. When to

834
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:39,759
Speaker 3: come for a little ranch tour.

835
00:40:39,760 --> 00:40:42,720
Speaker 2: I would love it. I would love to bring my Kids'

836
00:40:43,120 --> 00:40:45,279
Speaker 2: pretty cool. Your kids would love it.

837
00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:47,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've got three nephews.

838
00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:48,719
Speaker 2: So I saw.

839
00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:51,279
Speaker 1: I was looking at your Instagram page, thank you. I

840
00:40:51,320 --> 00:40:53,560
Speaker 1: was looking at both of yours and that, guys, are

841
00:40:54,120 --> 00:41:02,080
Speaker 1: that house in outside of Saint Louis. That's some ranch house. Yeah,

842
00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:04,360
Speaker 1: colonial house.

843
00:41:04,440 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 4: It's worked pretty hard. In full disclosure, I saw like

844
00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:10,480
Speaker 4: a TikTok that's all over. This house was built in

845
00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:12,239
Speaker 4: two thousand and eight. I don't know if people are

846
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:14,080
Speaker 4: just thinking that it's.

847
00:41:14,040 --> 00:41:19,160
Speaker 2: You know, not not as opposed to what what are they.

848
00:41:19,080 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 3: Thinking from the seventeen Oh my god, everyone.

849
00:41:21,840 --> 00:41:24,040
Speaker 2: Just needs to get a life. Were good. It's a

850
00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:25,000
Speaker 2: beautiful house.

851
00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:28,720
Speaker 1: It's a beautiful house, and I would be very happy

852
00:41:28,719 --> 00:41:30,720
Speaker 1: in it, and so will one of the ladies.

853
00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:34,360
Speaker 2: All right, guys, I know that John has an interview,

854
00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:36,279
Speaker 2: so we have to jump off because he's a very

855
00:41:36,320 --> 00:41:36,839
Speaker 2: busy man.

856
00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:41,239
Speaker 1: John and out John and matter in the hand, So

857
00:41:41,280 --> 00:41:42,560
Speaker 1: we gotta go and go.

858
00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:44,680
Speaker 4: Okay, so much for having us.

859
00:41:44,680 --> 00:41:47,440
Speaker 1: Seriously, thank you guys so much. I hope we get

860
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:48,120
Speaker 1: to see you soon.

861
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 3: Great speak with.

862
00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:52,080
Speaker 1: You, and we'll be watching on Friday, I mean on

863
00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:56,000
Speaker 1: Thursday Thursdays at eight central.

864
00:41:55,920 --> 00:41:59,680
Speaker 2: Eight central on Fox and Hulu. I watched it on Hulu.

865
00:42:00,360 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, who is better because you have to do it.

866
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:05,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, so just watch it on Hulu. It's so good, yeah,

867
00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:06,200
Speaker 1: really great.

868
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 2: All right, guys.

869
00:42:08,920 --> 00:42:14,720
Speaker 1: Okay, ye bye, Oh my gosh. That was literally heaven

870
00:42:14,760 --> 00:42:16,920
Speaker 1: on Earth. My mom and I could not stop talking

871
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:20,200
Speaker 1: to them, and I'm leaving right now for more, obey,

872
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:23,000
Speaker 1: and I will then be going on to Saint Louis.

873
00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:26,360
Speaker 1: So I hope Mom, you'll take care of my family. No,

874
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:29,880
Speaker 1: I'll be with you and okay, you guys, please watch

875
00:42:29,920 --> 00:42:33,280
Speaker 1: Farmer Wants a Wife Thursdays on Fox at nine eighth

876
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 1: Central and the next day on Hulu.

877
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:36,600
Speaker 2: It's great.

878
00:42:37,520 --> 00:42:40,040
Speaker 1: Thanks for listening to another episode of What in the Winkler.

879
00:42:40,080 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 2: We'll see you soon. Bye,