WEBVTT - Sarah Jessica Parker

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<v Speaker 1>You're listening to Ruthie's Table four in partnership with Montclair.

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<v Speaker 2>Hi.

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<v Speaker 3>Everyone, Welcome to the River Cafe. I can't think of

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<v Speaker 3>a nicer place to be on the sunny spring morning

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<v Speaker 3>than here. We have a live audience for this very

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<v Speaker 3>special episode that features Sarah Jessica Parker, hosted by Pause

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<v Speaker 3>Lucy Rogers. Enjoy the interview and we'll be taking questions later.

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<v Speaker 1>The first time that Sarah Jessica Parker and I spoke,

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<v Speaker 1>the tables returned. She was on the phone in the

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<v Speaker 1>River Cafe kitchen and I was on a beach in Mexico.

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<v Speaker 1>It was really hard to hear her with the noise

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<v Speaker 1>of pots and pants, the crashing waves of the Pacific Ocean,

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<v Speaker 1>but her dazzling warmth travel the six thousand miles. If

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<v Speaker 1>the phone connection was poor, the friendship connection instant. Last Sunday,

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<v Speaker 1>she was in the River Cafe with her family and

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<v Speaker 1>I was there with mine. They were sitting on Table one,

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<v Speaker 1>just a few feet from the pink wood oven, close

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<v Speaker 1>to the drama of the kitchen, and there she was

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<v Speaker 1>dazzling and warm. How does all this work, Ruthie, How

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<v Speaker 1>do you make sure that Matthew's ravioli comes out at

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<v Speaker 1>the same time as my asparagus.

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<v Speaker 4>Banya Kouten.

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<v Speaker 1>This kitchen, she said, feels like the inside of a

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<v Speaker 1>pinball machine, with energy bouncing between the different stations. How

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<v Speaker 1>do you all have the energy to do both lunch

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<v Speaker 1>and dinner? Now? I suppose if I went backstage to

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<v Speaker 1>Plaza Suite, the play that Sarah is doing here with

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<v Speaker 1>her husband, Matthew Broderick, I would have similar questions. How

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<v Speaker 1>does this work, Sarah? What do you do if someone

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<v Speaker 1>forgets their lines? And how do you all have the

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<v Speaker 1>energy to do a matinee and an evening performance?

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<v Speaker 4>Today?

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<v Speaker 1>We're here, not miles apart, inches apart, two friends together,

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<v Speaker 1>surrounded by all of you great people.

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<v Speaker 4>What a connection?

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you?

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<v Speaker 4>So here we are. Did you ever work in a restaurant?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 5>But I say this knowing how hard it is. I

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<v Speaker 5>think I would really love to be a server.

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<v Speaker 2>Like I really think that at this summer she is,

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<v Speaker 2>and you're I.

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<v Speaker 5>Was, we were really admiring your service the day because

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<v Speaker 5>I said to the girls, I was like, I'm not

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<v Speaker 5>sure that I've seen servers move this fast a long time.

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<v Speaker 5>Because Sunday is a very busy day for you guys, right,

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<v Speaker 5>like a specially.

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<v Speaker 4>That day was a really busy day.

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<v Speaker 5>And I was saying to somebody and I said, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't get to come to the River Cafe very often.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't live in London, and to myself, to Matthew,

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<v Speaker 5>it's like a very it's a it's like a special thing.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like something you earn or maybe you work toward

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<v Speaker 5>or you pine about, and then you visit it and

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<v Speaker 5>you're not sure if you made it all up, like

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<v Speaker 5>is it possible that you joined a sort of cult,

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<v Speaker 5>like a kind of thinking about it?

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<v Speaker 2>Can it be?

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<v Speaker 5>And then you come here? My hand got it is?

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<v Speaker 5>And the kitchen really is. It's extraordinary to watch. It

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<v Speaker 5>is like a pinball machine, but it's like there's such

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<v Speaker 5>precision about it.

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<v Speaker 2>And I love watching the.

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<v Speaker 5>Chefs talk to each other quickly and passing or actually

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<v Speaker 5>come together to speak.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>It's amazing and it's it's glorious. We were thrilled to

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<v Speaker 5>be here, really well.

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<v Speaker 4>We're thrilled to have you and I.

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<v Speaker 1>When we first did the completely open kitchen, you will

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<v Speaker 1>remember after the fire, Richard Air, who's a director of

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<v Speaker 1>theater came in and I said, Richard, isn't it just

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<v Speaker 1>like theater watching everyone around?

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<v Speaker 4>And he said, actually, with me, it isn't.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like ballet m and he said because watching people everybody.

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<v Speaker 4>You can't shout in an open kitchen.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, sometimes raise your voice, but basically you're moving

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<v Speaker 1>around to speak to people about if you need to.

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<v Speaker 1>Usually there's a kind of communication.

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<v Speaker 5>And this time I had the ravioli with the spinach

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<v Speaker 5>and the ricotta and those tiny gorgeous porcini mushrooms that

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<v Speaker 5>are like a surprise.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't talk about that as much.

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<v Speaker 5>And we ordered two and I was like, my daughter said,

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<v Speaker 5>do you think we can order another one?

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<v Speaker 2>James Welk said, can we order another one? Which just

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<v Speaker 2>seems so like.

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<v Speaker 5>Gluttonous and decadent and greedy. And then I was like,

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<v Speaker 5>you know what, yes, And if anybody says anything, I'll

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<v Speaker 5>just say we'll take it like I'm sorry that we're

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<v Speaker 5>being so like real like animals about this, but it's

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<v Speaker 5>a kind of it's good to think of it as

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<v Speaker 5>this kind of once in a lifetime.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just incredible.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the things I think that you'll probably everyone

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<v Speaker 1>in this room would think about was that in Sex

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<v Speaker 1>and the City and the way you talk about food

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<v Speaker 1>the joy So many conversations were over food, and it

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<v Speaker 1>was the pleasure of food. It was enjoying food as

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<v Speaker 1>a way of communicating and being together, which we you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we all feel here that we a restaurant is a

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<v Speaker 1>place where you share, you know, food you're sitting down

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<v Speaker 1>at the table or at home with your children. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and so how is that working in Sex and the

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<v Speaker 1>City and doing was that from you?

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<v Speaker 2>I always love food scenes.

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<v Speaker 5>I think it initially it was initially in place I

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<v Speaker 5>think probably from either Candice's original source material or Darren

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<v Speaker 5>Starr wrote that first coffee shop scene, which I think

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<v Speaker 5>was just a great meeting place to sort of talk

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<v Speaker 5>about the themes of the of each episode, like get

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<v Speaker 5>the headline out, and then each person, those kind of

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<v Speaker 5>archetypal characters would share points of view, so we knew

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<v Speaker 5>where where everybody stood, and it allowed for controversial conversation

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<v Speaker 5>or titillating conversation. But I will say this that Cynthia Nixon,

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<v Speaker 5>who is a dear friend of mine and we've been

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<v Speaker 5>working together since we were little girls. We've known each other,

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<v Speaker 5>so we were eleven or ten. She was a child

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<v Speaker 5>actor also and we would always audition together. She often

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<v Speaker 5>got the part. But we played siblings when I was

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<v Speaker 5>very young. We played sisters on records. They used to

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<v Speaker 5>do records of stories, and we played Laura and Mary Ingalls,

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<v Speaker 5>and then we played siblings of We played children of

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<v Speaker 5>Vanessa Redgrave in a movie.

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<v Speaker 2>But Cynthia and I in those coffee shop scenes, we

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<v Speaker 2>always eat.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we always eat, and we always need to like

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<v Speaker 5>reprop our plate, and then when we finally wrap, they'll

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<v Speaker 5>always they always said to Cynthia, me and Cynthia, do

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<v Speaker 5>you guys want to take.

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<v Speaker 2>It to go again today? Yes, we do.

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<v Speaker 5>So we really like those scenes, and we very much

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<v Speaker 5>go back and forth about what you could they'll send

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<v Speaker 5>the menu in advance now now that we all have

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<v Speaker 5>the phones and things, and because they want you to

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<v Speaker 5>order an advance for props to have everything ready and

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<v Speaker 5>multiplee you know, multiples of it.

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<v Speaker 2>So we'll go back and forth. Would you order are

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<v Speaker 2>you going to order? The all order that? So you

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<v Speaker 2>ordered that and we can share. So the food is

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<v Speaker 2>the lines are blurred.

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<v Speaker 4>The joy of food.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, eating, Yes, was something that we are all thinking about.

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<v Speaker 1>How we combine, you know, food, and I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's changed. You find that your daughters are different now

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<v Speaker 1>in terms of their attitude.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I mean I I never was very disciplined about it.

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<v Speaker 2>I just wasn't.

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<v Speaker 5>I think I'm not really good at like denying myself something.

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<v Speaker 5>And I think also I was a dancer for so

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<v Speaker 5>long and running around, so it was I was able

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<v Speaker 5>to be that way. It's certainly not the same now.

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<v Speaker 5>But I also just I had girls. I just was

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<v Speaker 5>so I didn't want them to have a relationship with

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<v Speaker 5>food that was antagonistic or they felt like this was

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<v Speaker 5>their enemy and that they were going to have to

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<v Speaker 5>sort of like stake out a position with food.

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<v Speaker 2>So when I was growing.

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<v Speaker 5>Up, we weren't allowed sugar in the house, and we

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<v Speaker 5>were allowed to cookies, and we weren't allowed the chocolate.

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<v Speaker 5>And of course all we did the minute we moved

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<v Speaker 5>out was buy Entimate's cakes and cookies, and you know,

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<v Speaker 5>and I didn't want that. So in our house, we

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<v Speaker 5>have cookies, we have cake, we have everything. And I

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<v Speaker 5>think as a result, you kind of have a healthier

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<v Speaker 5>relationship and my daughters will have the figures they have

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<v Speaker 5>and hopefully they'll be healthy in their athletes and they

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<v Speaker 5>enjoy food, and they have different palettes, and you can't

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<v Speaker 5>make someone like something they don't like or want.

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<v Speaker 2>And I hope that they.

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<v Speaker 5>I hope that they can maintain their affection for the

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<v Speaker 5>experience and their delight in taste and find their own

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<v Speaker 5>ways to have that be healthy for them.

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<v Speaker 4>And your son. For food, it was fantastic to beat.

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<v Speaker 1>All three of them are just you know, involved in

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<v Speaker 1>the food and talking about the food and asking questions

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<v Speaker 1>about food.

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<v Speaker 2>On Sunday, Matthew cooks.

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<v Speaker 5>We both cook every single day, every day, every single day.

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<v Speaker 2>Every day. We probably eat dinner as a family every night.

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<v Speaker 5>If I'm shooting or he's doing to play, obviously that

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<v Speaker 5>shifts around.

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<v Speaker 2>We always have dinner Sunday night.

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<v Speaker 5>But one of us, if we're home, cooks every single day,

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<v Speaker 5>and we love to cook.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's boring to keep saying to each other what are.

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<v Speaker 5>We gonna eat? What are we gonna eat? Are you

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<v Speaker 5>going to go to the grocery store? Am I going

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<v Speaker 5>to go to the market. But it's kind of just.

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<v Speaker 2>What we do.

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<v Speaker 5>Yesterday, I what did you last night? Last night, we

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<v Speaker 5>went to a restaurant in Chinatown.

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<v Speaker 2>Really quickly after the show.

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<v Speaker 5>But I had made during the day, I made lamb

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<v Speaker 5>stew and Matthew made a white bean soup, so we

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<v Speaker 5>knew we have that. I'd actually was bringing some to

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<v Speaker 5>my son, but I like to have it in the

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<v Speaker 5>fridge for matinee days. And but we cook every night

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<v Speaker 5>because I don't know why we never we never understood order.

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<v Speaker 5>We didn't get ordering in in time, and now we're

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<v Speaker 5>too old to under We.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't have I don't know how to use a a thing.

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<v Speaker 5>And every now and then we're really beat more say

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<v Speaker 5>should we you know?

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<v Speaker 2>But I'll still call.

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<v Speaker 5>A restaurant order, we pick it up or they deliver it.

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<v Speaker 5>But but we love cooking.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know why.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think that's part of the drama. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>think it's part of theater, part of being an actor

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<v Speaker 1>that it's separate from what you do?

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<v Speaker 4>Is it a time?

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<v Speaker 1>I know that when I was working, I would always

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<v Speaker 1>come home and everybody says, sit down and relax. And

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<v Speaker 1>I found the most kind of relaxing thing to do

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<v Speaker 1>is to cook, to.

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<v Speaker 2>Be in the kitchen. It is.

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<v Speaker 5>It's we always wonder about the post meal part, like

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<v Speaker 5>we're always like, wow, now we have to do all this,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, all the cleaning and stuff, so that that

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<v Speaker 5>kind of punctures some of the kind of healium of it.

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<v Speaker 5>But I don't know if it's so much relaxing as it.

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<v Speaker 5>It's just kind of what we do. It's like what's expected,

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<v Speaker 5>what else? What else is the family going to do

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<v Speaker 5>if we don't get in the kitchen. And in New York,

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<v Speaker 5>like here in London, you can run out at the

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<v Speaker 5>last minute.

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<v Speaker 2>You can make a meal quickly.

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<v Speaker 5>It's not as like it doesn't seem as such a

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<v Speaker 5>big effort in a way, and often things just taste

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<v Speaker 5>better than if you're ordering it. In our opinion, we

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<v Speaker 5>I mean not that we don't think of ourselves highly

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<v Speaker 5>as like chefs or anything like that, But I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>Our children always, I will say, they always say like, wow,

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<v Speaker 5>we're really lucky. We get to eat have dinner every night.

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<v Speaker 1>When you're in a play, do you eat before you

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<v Speaker 1>before the performance?

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<v Speaker 4>Are after?

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<v Speaker 2>I enchurge?

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<v Speaker 4>So is it? Did you go on stage hungry?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean a little bit.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll have yogurt, bananas. There's these eggs here that I'm

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<v Speaker 5>in love with that I go mad for the ones

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<v Speaker 5>I want to put my suitcase, but I know I'm

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<v Speaker 5>not allowed.

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<v Speaker 2>They're called burfer.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>They have those orange yolks that are just oh my god,

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<v Speaker 5>oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>So we go through a lot of those. I eat

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<v Speaker 2>those bananas.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll have some lamp stew or barley and some meat.

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<v Speaker 2>I love your rashers. Here, your bacon, streaky bacon and kofta.

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<v Speaker 5>From our local butcher is really nice.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's time for our first question from our audience,

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<v Speaker 1>which said is going to read.

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<v Speaker 3>I used to work at the River Cafe and every

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<v Speaker 3>night I felt like customers had a different collective character.

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<v Speaker 3>Saturday night was different from Tuesday night, and it was

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<v Speaker 3>not the same every Saturday night, but it would become

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<v Speaker 3>a kind of dominant vibe. And then I started working

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<v Speaker 3>in theater and in my mind it was exactly the same.

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<v Speaker 3>And I wondered what your experience of London audiences has

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<v Speaker 3>been and are the different to American audiences.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, you've described it so beautifully, whether it's in America,

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<v Speaker 5>in New York City or here. This sort of I

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<v Speaker 5>always say, like what time did they all get together

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<v Speaker 5>and decide who they were going to be tonight? Like

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<v Speaker 5>it's a conspiracy that they work so beautifully together. And

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<v Speaker 5>it is a range and a Saturday night can be

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<v Speaker 5>boisterous and civilized or boisterous and out of control and

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<v Speaker 5>sort of behaving I'm going to say poorly in quotes,

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<v Speaker 5>but not really but just more talkative.

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<v Speaker 4>And but.

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<v Speaker 2>Generally speaking, the audiences here have been really, really lovely

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<v Speaker 2>and very hospitable.

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<v Speaker 5>And we weren't sure because this is a very American

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<v Speaker 5>play by a real American playwright writing about kind of

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<v Speaker 5>cultural familiarity to Americans, especially New Yorkers, but they've been

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<v Speaker 5>absolutely wonderful.

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<v Speaker 2>I think they've They've proven.

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<v Speaker 5>To be really great listeners, like sincerely great listeners, but

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<v Speaker 5>they do seem to have psychically agreed upon something and

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<v Speaker 5>I don't understand it, Like these people probably couldn't agree

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<v Speaker 5>about anything else. If you remove them from the theater,

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<v Speaker 5>like as a whole, maybe they could.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>But it is unique, and that is in a restaurant.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't you think that we can say, Yeah, you can

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<v Speaker 1>sort of put the same food at the same time,

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<v Speaker 1>the same with the same team. Yeah, you can go

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<v Speaker 1>home at ten o'clock and think I'm a failure, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because it did you really think this was one of.

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<v Speaker 4>The greatest nights in my life.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, this is so hard to it is, and it's

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<v Speaker 5>I think the human part of all of this is

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<v Speaker 5>the thing that's just hard to pin down. Like you

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<v Speaker 5>can't do the same show. You have a good show

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<v Speaker 5>and you're trying to sort of always mimic that, or

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<v Speaker 5>in the kitchen you'll have a great and you're always

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<v Speaker 5>trying to but it is human, So it's never going

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<v Speaker 5>to be the same.

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<v Speaker 2>It's never going to last as long.

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<v Speaker 5>The pause isn't going to get a laugh or maybe

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<v Speaker 5>it will or And I think that's what makes it

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<v Speaker 5>so exciting for a diner or hopefully for an audience.

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<v Speaker 2>Is they are very much.

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<v Speaker 5>A part of it. They are a significant fifty percent

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<v Speaker 5>of the relationship. Is the diner to your chefs and

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<v Speaker 5>your servers and you and us with our audience, our playwright,

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<v Speaker 5>our words, our director, and this audience like they have

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<v Speaker 5>to be our partner for the night, and they show

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<v Speaker 5>that in various ways.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you know the River Cafe has a shop. It's

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<v Speaker 1>full of our favorite foods and designs. We have cookbooks, Linen, Napkins,

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<v Speaker 1>kitchen ware, Toad bags with our signatures, glasses from Venice,

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<v Speaker 1>chocolates from Turin. You can find us right next door

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<v Speaker 1>to the River Cafe in London or online at shop

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<v Speaker 1>Therivercafe dot co dot uk. So, Sarah, you've just made

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<v Speaker 1>punterourel lmada with Sean.

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<v Speaker 5>There is something to me about Puntaurel salad that it

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<v Speaker 5>really it blows my mind. And it's very hard to

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<v Speaker 5>get in New York. For anybody who lives in New York.

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<v Speaker 5>Puntrell is like contraband, like apparently it's not allowed or

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<v Speaker 5>and when it is, there's like you have like four

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<v Speaker 5>days to enjoy it. And to have it here sort

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<v Speaker 5>of like at your whim to meet is such decadence.

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<v Speaker 2>This is the print role.

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<v Speaker 5>But I've never seen it in its natural state to

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<v Speaker 5>be smaller.

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<v Speaker 6>Because we went you in last week were were they

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<v Speaker 6>were huge.

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<v Speaker 2>Massive heads of it.

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<v Speaker 4>It's actually checorea, you know what.

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<v Speaker 6>It's like a checorea plant, and so you can either

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<v Speaker 6>use the outside leaves and just chopp them up and

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<v Speaker 6>boil them as a vegetable and then this is like

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<v Speaker 6>the bulb in the middle.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh wow, it's interesting. Wow, the whole plant, Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>inside it is.

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<v Speaker 6>These things are live fingers, so what you generally do,

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<v Speaker 6>it's just well you can.

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<v Speaker 4>Cut them off or pull them off.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you have to soak them or anything?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, so it's all in the soaking, right. This goes

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<v Speaker 6>in ice water, and it goes in ice water for

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<v Speaker 6>about an hour and then it turns into bear.

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<v Speaker 4>With me, call that. No you're okay, Oh you're here.

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<v Speaker 4>It's kind of will crunch you like this and.

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<v Speaker 2>See I see you cut it.

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<v Speaker 4>Just put it in nice water.

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<v Speaker 2>So the dressing, I'll make the dressing for one.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll put a tiny bit whatever you want, don't don't,

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<v Speaker 5>don't change anything on my account.

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<v Speaker 2>What is that beautiful chili? Chili?

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<v Speaker 4>Gorgeous fine chili, like a tiny bit.

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<v Speaker 2>And then.

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<v Speaker 4>These anchovies are really.

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<v Speaker 2>Chovies are so beautiful.

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<v Speaker 4>A bit more peppering.

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<v Speaker 5>I'll just touched my.

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<v Speaker 6>Hands probably about that much olive.

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<v Speaker 4>This is actually making it's going to be super well dressed.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, it's gorgeous.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, this is just your dressing.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh so gorgeous.

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<v Speaker 4>And it is literally simple.

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<v Speaker 2>Now how dry? Did I get them dry enough? In

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<v Speaker 2>your estimation?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay?

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<v Speaker 6>But I mean, heavens you like as much vinegar as

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<v Speaker 6>you like.

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<v Speaker 7>Really, yeah, So Sarah read the recipe and I just

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<v Speaker 7>tell you that it's absolutely divine.

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<v Speaker 5>And it was on Sunday. Two heads of puntarell. Am

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<v Speaker 5>I saying it correctly? Puntarell, five salted anchovies cleaned, and

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<v Speaker 5>your wonderful chef used Spanish anchovies, two tablespoons of red

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<v Speaker 5>wine vinegar. One garlic clove chopped. And then she did

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<v Speaker 5>this gorgeous thing with her knife where she sort of

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<v Speaker 5>Smearede's right, Sean, I'm sorry, Sean. She sort of took

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<v Speaker 5>her knife and mashed it and made it a wonderful

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<v Speaker 5>kind of misery. One garlic chrove chopped as I've had,

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<v Speaker 5>two dried chilis, one teaspoon of black pepper, four tablespoons

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<v Speaker 5>of extra virgin olive oil. And then to prepare the puntarell,

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<v Speaker 5>fill a bowl with ice cold water, adding a few

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<v Speaker 5>ice cubes. Pull the hollow buds from the puntarel heads.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess once they're out of that and nice and

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<v Speaker 5>clean and crisp, slice the buds very thinly lengthwise and

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<v Speaker 5>place in the water to crisp until they curl up.

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<v Speaker 2>This will take about an hour.

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<v Speaker 5>Add the garlic to the anchovies with the crumbled chilis

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<v Speaker 5>and the pepper at the olive oil. Spin dry the

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<v Speaker 5>punterrell and place in a bowl and mix with the

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<v Speaker 5>anchovy sauce.

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<v Speaker 2>Per perfection, per perfection.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm curious about when you first had pontourel that purel

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<v Speaker 1>was Cincinnati.

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<v Speaker 5>In Cincinnati and no, well, I moved to New York

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<v Speaker 5>when I was a very little girl. But we can

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<v Speaker 5>talk about the vegetables that were available in Cincinnati. But

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<v Speaker 5>the first time we had it, there was a wonderful

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<v Speaker 5>little restaurant that didn't last very long, and it was

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<v Speaker 5>on McDougall, and I can't remember the cross Street, right

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<v Speaker 5>off of sixth Avenue, and it was on the menu,

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<v Speaker 5>and I just Matthew and I actually just read the

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<v Speaker 5>ingredients or the description and we thought, well, of.

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<v Speaker 2>Course we'll try it.

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<v Speaker 5>And it was absolutely beautiful, and so then we sort

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<v Speaker 5>of like we're chasing it.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess a wee bit like truffles, like waiting for

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<v Speaker 2>that moment you know, yeah, that is Italian food.

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<v Speaker 4>You have it, then you say goodbye.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's what makes it so especial.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, But going back to Cincinnati, tell us about eight children.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm one of eight, yes, and in Cincinnati at that

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<v Speaker 5>point we had only six. My mother was pregnant with

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<v Speaker 5>the baby girl when we moved to New York City.

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<v Speaker 5>We moved to New York City in nineteen on January

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<v Speaker 5>first of nineteen seventy seven, so I've lived there most

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<v Speaker 5>of my life. My real father is from Brooklyn, born

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<v Speaker 5>and raised, so we spent some time before that in

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<v Speaker 5>Brooklyn visiting and visiting my grandparents on my father's side.

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<v Speaker 5>But food was for a lot of my siblings. We

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<v Speaker 5>think and talk and share feelings, thoughts, experiences with food.

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<v Speaker 5>I would say in some way, it dominates our relationship,

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<v Speaker 5>like it's the it's the thing that we I would say,

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<v Speaker 5>maybe with books as well, but food probably even more so.

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<v Speaker 5>And we all have a different relationship with it. Some

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<v Speaker 5>of us cook, some of us don't. Some of us

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<v Speaker 5>have money to explore restaurants that would be more rarefied,

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<v Speaker 5>and some don't.

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<v Speaker 2>But food is.

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<v Speaker 5>And always has been in my memory, this destination and

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<v Speaker 5>I always want to.

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<v Speaker 2>Have something I've never had.

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<v Speaker 1>Always, But did your mother did she cook? What were

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<v Speaker 1>meal times like?

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<v Speaker 2>And she cooked? We had dinner every single night, we

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<v Speaker 2>all seven eventually all eight.

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<v Speaker 5>My mother would probably say that she really didn't care.

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<v Speaker 5>She didn't enjoy cooking. She didn't come from a family

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<v Speaker 5>that enjoyed food, and I think with eight kids, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>it was it was work versus joy. But simultaneously she

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<v Speaker 5>loved food. And she, as a young woman, went off

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<v Speaker 5>to New York City as an employee of Procter and Gamble,

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<v Speaker 5>which is a big company in Cincinnati, Ohio. You know,

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<v Speaker 5>like a lot of girls straight out of college, got

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<v Speaker 5>a job at Procter and Gamble and was sent to

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<v Speaker 5>New York to be a salesperson. And her first stop

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<v Speaker 5>was always Chinatown, Always Chinatown.

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<v Speaker 2>She loved Chinatown. She loved Chinese food, She loved anything

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<v Speaker 2>that was different.

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<v Speaker 5>And there was a place in the sixties, this would

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<v Speaker 5>be in the fifth fifties, yeah, late fifties, mid to

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<v Speaker 5>late fifties, and there was a place called Dave's Lunchonette

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<v Speaker 5>that was a very famous place you just stopped by

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<v Speaker 5>and had an egg cream after having Chinese food. And

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<v Speaker 5>so she, of course she grew up reading The New Yorker.

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<v Speaker 5>The librarians from the time she was a little girl

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<v Speaker 5>would save her the weekly New Yorker. So she would

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<v Speaker 5>read about food, and she would read about Chinatown, and

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<v Speaker 5>she would read about places in the outer boroughs. And

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<v Speaker 5>so for her, food was this thing that was part

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<v Speaker 5>of another life that she hoped to give all of us.

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<v Speaker 5>And so even though she didn't like cooking, and she cooked,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, three meals a day, we all helped with breakfast, lunch,

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<v Speaker 5>and breakfast and dinner lunch in the summers.

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<v Speaker 4>Did your mother work?

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<v Speaker 1>Did she manage to feed seven and eight children every

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<v Speaker 1>day and work or did?

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<v Speaker 4>She was a school.

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<v Speaker 5>Teacher up until a few months after I was born,

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<v Speaker 5>and then I think that was her last year.

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<v Speaker 2>She taught second grade.

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<v Speaker 5>At the time, we lived in a very little city

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<v Speaker 5>in southeastern Ohio.

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<v Speaker 2>This was before Cincinnati.

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<v Speaker 5>It was in the foothills of Appalachia actually, And so

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<v Speaker 5>she taught second grade, but her students could be anywhere

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<v Speaker 5>from seven to fourteen years old, depending upon how much

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<v Speaker 5>time they've been afforded to be in school. And so

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<v Speaker 5>she stopped teaching for many many years, and just not

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<v Speaker 5>just she was a which she consumed all our time.

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<v Speaker 5>And then she started her own preschool. For many many years,

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<v Speaker 5>she had her own school in New Jersey. It was

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<v Speaker 5>a sort of Montessori. She's a progressive educator and she

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<v Speaker 5>retired from that about ten years ago, and she just

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<v Speaker 5>came to London to visit. My father passed away a

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<v Speaker 5>year ago, so she's newly.

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<v Speaker 4>Was there anybody helping her? Did your father ever go

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<v Speaker 4>and your stepfather ever go in the kitchen? And did

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<v Speaker 4>everybody help?

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody?

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<v Speaker 1>It was our job school, do your homework and then

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<v Speaker 1>help get the dinner.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, well, we came home from school, we did some

0:25:40.200 --> 0:25:45.080
<v Speaker 5>homework sort of, and then we wed ballet classes and

0:25:45.119 --> 0:25:47.520
<v Speaker 5>so we'd come home from ballet then we'd all jump

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<v Speaker 5>in and help in the kitchen. We all had jobs

0:25:51.320 --> 0:25:55.159
<v Speaker 5>before and after dinner that wasn't necessarily connected to cooking.

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<v Speaker 5>It was cleaning, putting things away, sweeping, loading the dishwa

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<v Speaker 5>unloading the dishwasher, helping with laundry.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but even though.

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<v Speaker 5>It was labor, we all came out of that house

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<v Speaker 5>for the most part, really loving food and willing to

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<v Speaker 5>try anything. And if I travel sometimes I say I'm

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<v Speaker 5>only going to try, like I'll take a job. I think, well,

0:26:23.800 --> 0:26:26.159
<v Speaker 5>I'm really taking this just so I can go eat this.

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<v Speaker 5>And you know, if you are on a holiday and

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<v Speaker 5>you go trying to find restaurants, and I do endless months.

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<v Speaker 2>Of research, like where where, where, where where?

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<v Speaker 5>And then you get to your destination and you'll try

0:26:38.160 --> 0:26:39.960
<v Speaker 5>to ask people and they'll send you the place that

0:26:40.000 --> 0:26:42.440
<v Speaker 5>everybody else in the hotel is going, or everybody else,

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<v Speaker 5>and I'll say, no, no, no, no, please, where do you eat,

0:26:44.680 --> 0:26:47.440
<v Speaker 5>mister concierge, Miss concierge, where do you eat?

0:26:47.480 --> 0:26:48.120
<v Speaker 2>Where do you eat?

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<v Speaker 5>And they won't tell me because they think we want

0:26:50.320 --> 0:26:55.840
<v Speaker 5>this stacked food fancy, you know, And so I'll just

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<v Speaker 5>follow the employees home.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I literally follow them home.

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<v Speaker 5>And then I see where they live and their communities

0:27:02.760 --> 0:27:05.960
<v Speaker 5>and their restaurants, and that's where I go, and that's

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<v Speaker 5>where I shop hardware stores.

0:27:08.560 --> 0:27:11.159
<v Speaker 2>You know, maybe you could just stay with the employees.

0:27:11.840 --> 0:27:15.240
<v Speaker 5>But that's where so many tobs and just yeah, because

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<v Speaker 5>you know, what, does that make sense?

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<v Speaker 1>If used to always go to bookstores. You get into

0:27:20.359 --> 0:27:22.840
<v Speaker 1>Verona or it's a little town in the south of

0:27:23.040 --> 0:27:25.119
<v Speaker 1>Spain or Italy, and he'd always, for some reason, he

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<v Speaker 1>would always think that people who worked in bookstores would

0:27:28.280 --> 0:27:31.880
<v Speaker 1>know would know where to eat, right and probably where

0:27:31.880 --> 0:27:33.520
<v Speaker 1>they like to do those places.

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<v Speaker 5>That means it's I think finding that local experience, it

0:27:40.440 --> 0:27:43.160
<v Speaker 5>completes the experience in a way that sometimes you can't

0:27:43.200 --> 0:27:45.560
<v Speaker 5>have if you don't know. You know, like when a

0:27:45.600 --> 0:27:48.080
<v Speaker 5>local person gives you directions and you realize, oh, they're

0:27:48.080 --> 0:27:52.159
<v Speaker 5>giving me directions without realizing how little I know. You

0:27:52.240 --> 0:27:54.800
<v Speaker 5>describe to someone how to get on bleaker, you'd have

0:27:54.880 --> 0:27:56.160
<v Speaker 5>to say, listen, bleaker.

0:27:55.920 --> 0:27:57.920
<v Speaker 2>Is going to go left and right and up and down.

0:27:57.920 --> 0:27:59.840
<v Speaker 5>You have to give them those So when you get

0:27:59.840 --> 0:28:02.520
<v Speaker 5>to local, you're like having their experience.

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<v Speaker 1>I asked quite a few actors whether when they took

0:28:05.800 --> 0:28:08.359
<v Speaker 1>a part, whether they would not so much choose the

0:28:08.400 --> 0:28:09.960
<v Speaker 1>part that's kind of extreme.

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<v Speaker 4>It's the restaurants.

0:28:12.760 --> 0:28:15.360
<v Speaker 1>Were there, but they quite a few of them did

0:28:15.400 --> 0:28:19.240
<v Speaker 1>research before going to shoot a film in Budapest or

0:28:19.320 --> 0:28:22.600
<v Speaker 1>Venice or wherever they were before they went to find out,

0:28:22.800 --> 0:28:23.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, where to eat.

0:28:23.800 --> 0:28:25.199
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because it's important, isn't it.

0:28:25.240 --> 0:28:27.440
<v Speaker 1>When I think it maybe a movie to feel part

0:28:27.480 --> 0:28:28.920
<v Speaker 1>of the community.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, wherever you can market I think, wherever you get

0:28:31.760 --> 0:28:36.040
<v Speaker 5>to travel for whatever reason, if you can somehow try

0:28:36.080 --> 0:28:41.280
<v Speaker 5>to embed a little bit in the local flavor of

0:28:41.320 --> 0:28:41.960
<v Speaker 5>a community.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. Sometimes I'll I've been.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, for work, you have to travel a lot,

0:28:48.040 --> 0:28:50.480
<v Speaker 5>and you do like these things like press junkets, you know,

0:28:50.560 --> 0:28:52.560
<v Speaker 5>and especially in the old days, they do these big

0:28:52.600 --> 0:28:56.960
<v Speaker 5>grand world tours and you'd be given a guide, which

0:28:57.000 --> 0:28:59.440
<v Speaker 5>was all wonderful and I was super grateful. But then

0:28:59.880 --> 0:29:02.000
<v Speaker 5>I would just say to the guy like, no, stop

0:29:02.040 --> 0:29:03.640
<v Speaker 5>the van, now, stop the van.

0:29:03.720 --> 0:29:05.480
<v Speaker 2>Now, I want to get out here.

0:29:05.800 --> 0:29:09.040
<v Speaker 5>They're like, well, there's just houses here, and I was like, yes, exactly,

0:29:09.080 --> 0:29:10.400
<v Speaker 5>I just want to see the houses.

0:29:10.960 --> 0:29:11.160
<v Speaker 2>You know.

0:29:11.240 --> 0:29:15.400
<v Speaker 5>I don't know, you feel like you're seeing something versus

0:29:15.880 --> 0:29:20.080
<v Speaker 5>the same boulevard with the fancy shops and the fancy restaurants.

0:29:21.480 --> 0:29:23.640
<v Speaker 4>Time for our question from our audience.

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<v Speaker 3>What happens on an airplane you have a long distance flight,

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<v Speaker 3>because I cannot imagine the cuisine exciting you do you

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<v Speaker 3>bring your own food?

0:29:33.720 --> 0:29:36.640
<v Speaker 5>Depends on the airline, Like I think a lot of

0:29:36.680 --> 0:29:38.200
<v Speaker 5>the Asian airlines.

0:29:37.760 --> 0:29:39.400
<v Speaker 2>Have really, really really good food.

0:29:40.200 --> 0:29:44.240
<v Speaker 5>Air lingis I love their food, but I will bring

0:29:44.800 --> 0:29:48.200
<v Speaker 5>I always have snacks in my bag. I always have

0:29:48.400 --> 0:29:50.160
<v Speaker 5>meat sticks that I love.

0:29:50.200 --> 0:29:52.880
<v Speaker 2>Like you know, healthy, No not.

0:29:55.040 --> 0:29:57.520
<v Speaker 5>I'll bring stuff that I think will get me through

0:29:58.560 --> 0:30:01.000
<v Speaker 5>a flight that might have that I might there might

0:30:01.000 --> 0:30:01.760
<v Speaker 5>be dubious.

0:30:02.040 --> 0:30:05.360
<v Speaker 2>I might have some feelings and concerns. I might.

0:30:05.400 --> 0:30:08.600
<v Speaker 5>I can't bear the idea of being hungry. I just

0:30:08.880 --> 0:30:14.680
<v Speaker 5>like meaning, let me rephrase that. If I can help

0:30:14.720 --> 0:30:16.959
<v Speaker 5>that not be true, I will. I will keep up

0:30:16.960 --> 0:30:19.400
<v Speaker 5>my end, you know what I mean. So, but I

0:30:19.440 --> 0:30:23.000
<v Speaker 5>don't mind trying anything on an airline. I was, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>in the old days, what I was telling when we

0:30:24.400 --> 0:30:27.120
<v Speaker 5>used to do these big press junkets. We were always

0:30:27.120 --> 0:30:29.480
<v Speaker 5>flying to Japan, and I will say that food on

0:30:30.520 --> 0:30:34.080
<v Speaker 5>Japan airline was like what I'm.

0:30:33.920 --> 0:30:35.440
<v Speaker 2>Just stay up just to eat. They're like, would you

0:30:35.520 --> 0:30:36.040
<v Speaker 2>like to rest?

0:30:36.080 --> 0:30:38.320
<v Speaker 5>And I was like, absolutely not, I would like to eat,

0:30:38.320 --> 0:30:40.560
<v Speaker 5>and they just and then start the next offering, like

0:30:40.560 --> 0:30:41.840
<v Speaker 5>what else is on this menu?

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<v Speaker 4>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>When I was growing up, we all went to restaurants

0:31:08.560 --> 0:31:11.560
<v Speaker 1>for a special occasion, you know, a birthday and anniversary

0:31:12.040 --> 0:31:14.560
<v Speaker 1>and my mother just being possibly too tired to cook.

0:31:14.600 --> 0:31:17.360
<v Speaker 1>But it was a rare occasion that we went. And

0:31:17.400 --> 0:31:19.400
<v Speaker 1>here in the river cafe. We see people coming in

0:31:19.520 --> 0:31:23.600
<v Speaker 1>for Saturday lunch, Sunday lunch, early dinners, late dinners, and

0:31:23.720 --> 0:31:27.000
<v Speaker 1>kids are ordering and there is a breadth of children

0:31:27.160 --> 0:31:29.160
<v Speaker 1>and young people eating out.

0:31:29.920 --> 0:31:32.600
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and that they're more used to it than I

0:31:32.680 --> 0:31:34.480
<v Speaker 5>ever was. I mean, it was such a big deal

0:31:34.520 --> 0:31:36.720
<v Speaker 5>to eat out for us growing up, and we certainly

0:31:36.720 --> 0:31:38.440
<v Speaker 5>get to and we get to travel in a way

0:31:38.480 --> 0:31:41.520
<v Speaker 5>that my family didn't take vacations. We didn't go on

0:31:41.520 --> 0:31:45.120
<v Speaker 5>a holiday, not until much later. And then it was

0:31:45.160 --> 0:31:48.120
<v Speaker 5>you know, you're sharing a house with another family and you're.

0:31:47.960 --> 0:31:50.000
<v Speaker 2>Still cooking all your meals. You wouldn't, you know.

0:31:50.040 --> 0:31:53.160
<v Speaker 5>We would go to the outer Banks of North Carolina.

0:31:53.320 --> 0:31:58.840
<v Speaker 5>This was forty years ago more oh more, and it

0:31:58.880 --> 0:32:04.320
<v Speaker 5>was this sort of very pristine, not very popular destination.

0:32:04.680 --> 0:32:07.600
<v Speaker 5>And so the big deal for us was that we

0:32:07.600 --> 0:32:10.239
<v Speaker 5>would get crab and throw down newspaper and you know,

0:32:10.960 --> 0:32:11.960
<v Speaker 5>and that was a big deal.

0:32:12.000 --> 0:32:13.000
<v Speaker 2>That was like eating out.

0:32:13.080 --> 0:32:16.600
<v Speaker 5>But but my children when we when they came to

0:32:16.680 --> 0:32:20.080
<v Speaker 5>London to visit, we went out the first night and

0:32:21.440 --> 0:32:23.920
<v Speaker 5>they're like, oh my gosh, we haven't been to a restaurant.

0:32:23.480 --> 0:32:25.840
<v Speaker 2>In so long. It's so exciting to be at a restaurant.

0:32:26.240 --> 0:32:28.720
<v Speaker 5>So it's still exciting, but it's something they're definitely more

0:32:28.720 --> 0:32:30.600
<v Speaker 5>familiar with it than I ever was, and.

0:32:30.640 --> 0:32:31.240
<v Speaker 4>You a child.

0:32:31.400 --> 0:32:33.440
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I think one of another sumaries that we

0:32:33.520 --> 0:32:34.720
<v Speaker 1>both like our neighborhoods.

0:32:34.800 --> 0:32:37.160
<v Speaker 4>You know that we like a neighborhood. Ye I liked neighborhood.

0:32:37.160 --> 0:32:37.840
<v Speaker 2>I love neighbors and.

0:32:37.880 --> 0:32:41.280
<v Speaker 1>You know when we when we moved, it's not where

0:32:41.280 --> 0:32:45.160
<v Speaker 1>I live is in quite the West Village, but it

0:32:45.200 --> 0:32:47.080
<v Speaker 1>in the sense it doesn't have a perhaps a lot

0:32:47.080 --> 0:32:49.480
<v Speaker 1>of the character that you have, but it is a

0:32:49.520 --> 0:32:51.240
<v Speaker 1>place that you want to be involved in. So they

0:32:51.360 --> 0:32:53.240
<v Speaker 1>call up, you know, we called the local theater and

0:32:53.240 --> 0:32:53.760
<v Speaker 1>said we're.

0:32:53.640 --> 0:32:55.200
<v Speaker 2>Here, Yeah, what can we do?

0:32:55.480 --> 0:32:57.720
<v Speaker 4>Or you I know, you do that with your neighborhood.

0:32:57.840 --> 0:33:00.560
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and your neighborhood, being the West Village is probably

0:33:00.560 --> 0:33:03.240
<v Speaker 1>full of restaurants.

0:33:03.280 --> 0:33:03.680
<v Speaker 2>We do.

0:33:03.840 --> 0:33:05.400
<v Speaker 4>Do you go to the same place over and over?

0:33:05.720 --> 0:33:08.160
<v Speaker 2>We do? And especially.

0:33:09.360 --> 0:33:12.720
<v Speaker 5>You know, after the pandemic, we were really concerned. There

0:33:12.720 --> 0:33:15.480
<v Speaker 5>were a lot of small businesses and restaurants included in

0:33:15.520 --> 0:33:18.280
<v Speaker 5>that that were not part of larger consortiums that were

0:33:18.360 --> 0:33:20.440
<v Speaker 5>really really struggling.

0:33:20.480 --> 0:33:22.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm sure you all had it here as.

0:33:21.880 --> 0:33:27.920
<v Speaker 5>Well, and it was so easy to be supportive because

0:33:28.000 --> 0:33:30.840
<v Speaker 5>there are neighbors and we know their family stories or

0:33:30.880 --> 0:33:36.040
<v Speaker 5>the stories of the restaurants, and we knew, you know,

0:33:36.240 --> 0:33:40.280
<v Speaker 5>the collateral damage, Like if something closes, it's not just that,

0:33:40.560 --> 0:33:43.560
<v Speaker 5>it's everything around it that kind of lives and breathes

0:33:43.600 --> 0:33:48.160
<v Speaker 5>off of it. And so it's it's very easy to

0:33:48.240 --> 0:33:51.120
<v Speaker 5>do it, not just out of you know, desire to

0:33:51.200 --> 0:33:54.959
<v Speaker 5>be a good citizen in a neighbor, but because it's one.

0:33:55.000 --> 0:33:56.200
<v Speaker 2>They're wonderful restaurants.

0:33:56.200 --> 0:33:59.960
<v Speaker 5>They're wonderful restaurants, and some are old and not inventive

0:34:00.120 --> 0:34:04.480
<v Speaker 5>at all, you know, they're not like rethinking or deconstructing

0:34:04.520 --> 0:34:07.840
<v Speaker 5>Italian food, but they've been in business since nineteen seventy eight,

0:34:08.000 --> 0:34:11.680
<v Speaker 5>you know. And then there's newer chefs that are doing

0:34:11.760 --> 0:34:15.640
<v Speaker 5>really exciting things. And then you've got your local little

0:34:15.640 --> 0:34:20.680
<v Speaker 5>delis and bodegas and everything in between. And it's a

0:34:20.920 --> 0:34:24.960
<v Speaker 5>real privilege to live among them and to say that

0:34:25.000 --> 0:34:27.400
<v Speaker 5>we are patrons and that we mean it.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, there's so much to talk about. Can you

0:34:29.719 --> 0:34:31.680
<v Speaker 1>tell us about the wine? Yes?

0:34:32.160 --> 0:34:36.680
<v Speaker 5>So I was asked now six years ago, seven years

0:34:36.680 --> 0:34:41.480
<v Speaker 5>ago by these two young gentlemen in New Zealand producing

0:34:41.840 --> 0:34:44.000
<v Speaker 5>savinyon Blanc out of the Marlboro region, which is not

0:34:44.120 --> 0:34:47.759
<v Speaker 5>that surprising if I would like to work with them

0:34:47.760 --> 0:34:51.000
<v Speaker 5>a partners them when I was absolutely confounded because I

0:34:51.000 --> 0:34:54.839
<v Speaker 5>didn't know anything about the wine business except that one

0:34:54.840 --> 0:34:56.160
<v Speaker 5>of the reasons my husband and.

0:34:56.120 --> 0:34:58.400
<v Speaker 2>I like to travel is to taste local wine.

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<v Speaker 5>I thought, like most of us, that you have to

0:35:02.400 --> 0:35:07.080
<v Speaker 5>come from generations of wine families, and the language I

0:35:07.120 --> 0:35:09.279
<v Speaker 5>thought I would never understand, and I thought it was

0:35:09.320 --> 0:35:10.160
<v Speaker 5>really only for.

0:35:10.160 --> 0:35:11.280
<v Speaker 2>The rarefied few.

0:35:12.440 --> 0:35:14.120
<v Speaker 5>But they said no, and I said, well, if you'll

0:35:14.160 --> 0:35:20.320
<v Speaker 5>let me really learn and really be as informed as possible,

0:35:20.360 --> 0:35:22.200
<v Speaker 5>that we can start talking about it. And of course

0:35:22.239 --> 0:35:26.759
<v Speaker 5>they did, and it's been an amazing, an amazing experience.

0:35:26.800 --> 0:35:30.520
<v Speaker 5>We're in our six vintage on our Savenye Bloc. It's

0:35:30.560 --> 0:35:32.319
<v Speaker 5>been picked in the top one hundred wines in the

0:35:32.320 --> 0:35:37.040
<v Speaker 5>world for the second time, and it's won all sorts

0:35:37.080 --> 0:35:39.800
<v Speaker 5>of awards. Like I don't say this about my acting

0:35:39.800 --> 0:35:41.800
<v Speaker 5>work ever, Like I wouldn't say like I've won it,

0:35:41.840 --> 0:35:45.239
<v Speaker 5>because I know how you haven't. But but I'm so

0:35:45.320 --> 0:35:47.520
<v Speaker 5>proud of this because we worked really hard and it's

0:35:47.600 --> 0:35:51.279
<v Speaker 5>been The Savenyon Blanc has been so beautifully received and

0:35:51.400 --> 0:35:54.719
<v Speaker 5>our Rose has been beautifully received and we've never I

0:35:54.760 --> 0:35:57.960
<v Speaker 5>think done below a ninety three and wine spectator, which

0:35:58.000 --> 0:36:01.799
<v Speaker 5>is a big deal in oursiness. And we're about to

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<v Speaker 5>launch our Pinon Noir, which is, oh, it's so gorgeous.

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<v Speaker 5>So it's been amazing and I really love them and

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<v Speaker 5>I love the wine. So yeah, we just keep working

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<v Speaker 5>really hard and I do all the blendings, and it's

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<v Speaker 5>been incredible.

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<v Speaker 2>It's been a great education.

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<v Speaker 1>If we were to say in this conversation that food

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<v Speaker 1>is fun and it's exciting, and it sustains us, and

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<v Speaker 1>we share it and we cook for our children as

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<v Speaker 1>an expression of love, it's also comfort if you do

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<v Speaker 1>need comfort.

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<v Speaker 4>Is there a food that you would turn to? Sarah

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<v Speaker 4>Jessica far.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, I would say that.

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<v Speaker 5>Pork chops, and I would just describe them more specifically

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<v Speaker 5>as saying, thin cut pork chops on the bone, not fancy,

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<v Speaker 5>not from your most special butcher, but from Christiiti's like simple,

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<v Speaker 5>put them in the pan with.

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<v Speaker 2>All oiled salt and pepper, and.

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<v Speaker 5>Heavens, I just I don't know why I love it.

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<v Speaker 5>My brother loves them too, But bringing up a very

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<v Speaker 5>close competitor is probably lamb chops, which I make probably

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<v Speaker 5>two or three times a week. I make pork chops

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<v Speaker 5>at least twice a week, and we here, I've made lamb.

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<v Speaker 4>How do you make your lamb chops.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm kind of embarrassed because it's not but we use.

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<v Speaker 5>I use because I do the lamb chops. We use

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<v Speaker 5>carry gold butter. I an'tone know carry gold butter. There's

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<v Speaker 5>so much unsalted butter in London, it's kind of hard

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<v Speaker 5>to find the salted. So I use carry gold butter

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<v Speaker 5>and just a touch of olive oil so the butter

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<v Speaker 5>doesn't burn. And I salt and pepper the baby lamb

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<v Speaker 5>chops and I throw them in and that's it. And

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<v Speaker 5>they are just that. You can taste all the fat.

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<v Speaker 5>You can smell the fat when it's cooking. And we

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<v Speaker 5>eat a lot of lamb in Ireland, and I've buy

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<v Speaker 5>bought lamb here from.

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<v Speaker 2>Our local butcher. You go two or three times a week.

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<v Speaker 1>You have a house in Ireland, Yeah, it tell us

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<v Speaker 1>just about.

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<v Speaker 5>It's way up in County Donegall, so it's way up

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<v Speaker 5>northwest and my husband's been going there since he was

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<v Speaker 5>a little boy, and I've been going there since we

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<v Speaker 5>were together, which was thirty years, and we finally bought

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<v Speaker 5>our own little house because he shares his family home

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<v Speaker 5>with his siblings and they have all grown children and

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<v Speaker 5>they have children, and so yeah, we go there a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>What is food like the best potatoes?

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<v Speaker 5>It really is like a cliche, but it's true, the greatest, greatest,

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<v Speaker 5>greatest potatoes ever, especially if you're there for the new

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<v Speaker 5>potato season is seven carry gold butter.

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<v Speaker 2>York cabbage.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know what it is about a York cabbage

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<v Speaker 5>that blows my mind.

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<v Speaker 2>Lamb lamb lamb lamb lamb lamb lamb.

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<v Speaker 5>The eggs, the rashers, any root stuff there is really good.

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<v Speaker 5>We don't We're not there enough to take care of

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<v Speaker 5>it and really earn it, you know, someday, someday.

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<v Speaker 2>But yeah, white toast, white toast, baby batch. Anyone know

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<v Speaker 2>what a baby batch is?

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<v Speaker 5>No, it would be forbidden in my house growing up,

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<v Speaker 5>Like we were not allowed to have white bread growing up.

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<v Speaker 5>It's just bread slices like the kids like it. You

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<v Speaker 5>make sandwiches for when company comes over. But there's a

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<v Speaker 5>beautiful brown soda bread there that you just get it

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<v Speaker 5>in the Oh my gosh, that we eat crazy and

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<v Speaker 5>that we can get in the States.

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<v Speaker 2>We can get a bunch of the food in the States.

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<v Speaker 5>Now I'm going to get carry go butter Grease is

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<v Speaker 5>my Grease is my favorite place outside of any place else.

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<v Speaker 5>It's maybe the food, and I think there's nothing better

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<v Speaker 5>than a Greek salad in grease and lamb chops, But

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<v Speaker 5>I just think the people, the history, the culture, the art,

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<v Speaker 5>the way it looks. Just seeing Grease for the first

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<v Speaker 5>time and seen white against blue, against sky against the sea.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I think, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>It's probably a place that I would spend many many

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<v Speaker 5>months a year if I could, like everywhere.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you have been part of so many award winning

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<v Speaker 3>productions over the years, whether it's film or television or theater.

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<v Speaker 3>I would love to hear about one of your favorite

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<v Speaker 3>celebratory meals.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, it happened to be my brother's birthday, but that

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<v Speaker 5>was coincidental. But he's my oldest brother and he's kind

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<v Speaker 5>of very important figure in our lives growing up. And

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<v Speaker 5>I had been like researching for a really long time

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<v Speaker 5>Georgian and Russian restaurants in Brooklyn, but like the real stuff,

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<v Speaker 5>like because there's a massive Georgian and Russian community, as

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<v Speaker 5>you guys probably know in Brooklyn, and.

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<v Speaker 2>It's way way, way, way way out, like.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, could be thirty stops on the train, but

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<v Speaker 5>you make like a pilgrim.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like a big deal.

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<v Speaker 5>Well it was for me, and I had been researching

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<v Speaker 5>and researching and then this day appeared and I.

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<v Speaker 2>Was like, this is the day I'm going to do it.

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<v Speaker 5>So I called my brother Pippin because he's one of

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<v Speaker 5>the siblings that goes crazy for the food like me,

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<v Speaker 5>and I said in Matthew, like, let's just do it.

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<v Speaker 5>And so we went out on this long train ride,

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<v Speaker 5>which was fantastic because you're under and over and we

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<v Speaker 5>had Georgian.

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<v Speaker 2>Food, deep deep, deep deep Brooklyn.

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<v Speaker 5>And it was my brother's birthday, so it was really great.

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<v Speaker 5>And he had to go around the corner and buy

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<v Speaker 5>you know, spirits or wine or something. But that was

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<v Speaker 5>an unbelievable meal. Unbelievable meal. Yeah, it was everything. That's

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<v Speaker 5>what I could think of.

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<v Speaker 3>I just wanted to ask about the joy of going

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<v Speaker 3>to a restaurant that's comforting, like jeans, jeans.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you say jeans? Who is that?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Hi?

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<v Speaker 4>Jeans As a restaurant.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah Jeans is a wonderful restaurant on Eleventh Street in

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<v Speaker 5>the West Village, very near Sunny and Country.

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<v Speaker 2>Seemingly a little bit like not fancy room.

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<v Speaker 5>It's this beautiful room, terribly low ceiling, one of the

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<v Speaker 5>prettiest bars you'll ever see in New York City.

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<v Speaker 2>It's got marble steps.

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<v Speaker 5>You walk down to it, and this gorgeous bar greets

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<v Speaker 5>you that's been around for however long this is through

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<v Speaker 5>the math, I can't do it famously good bartender. Locals

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<v Speaker 5>sit there and eat and the food is like veal, scallipini,

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<v Speaker 5>you know, tomatoes, sauce. But they are one of those

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<v Speaker 5>places that number when you did the thing with Danny

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<v Speaker 5>Meyer and he talked about how these restaurants in New

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<v Speaker 5>York put out the stain in the steel platter with

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<v Speaker 5>the cold vegetables on the ice cubes. So you get

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<v Speaker 5>to your table and it's got big radishes and carrot

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<v Speaker 5>sticks and cellar hearts of celery and fennel.

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<v Speaker 2>Is gorgeous.

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<v Speaker 5>It's like easy, wonderful, and everybody in there is an

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<v Speaker 5>older group and they're so lovely, but all say, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>we're going to go see your show. You know, we

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<v Speaker 5>read about the book or you know, they're very community

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<v Speaker 5>oriented and it's a wonderful place and we go there

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<v Speaker 5>a lot on Sunday nights, like if we're meeting other people,

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<v Speaker 5>if we're not going to invite people to our house

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<v Speaker 5>for dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll go to Jean's. Okay, we have to go to

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<v Speaker 2>Jean's beautiful cocktails.

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<v Speaker 4>Shall we eat? Okay? Thank you, thank you so much.

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