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Speaker 1: You're listening to show, all right? So, um Jay, you

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Speaker 1: No better than there's certain things over the holidays when

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Speaker 1: If you come here, I'm go you up. How about that? Okay, Calvin? Okay, Calvin,

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Speaker 1: let me tell you something, Calvin, me and Tommy gonna

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Speaker 1: Who it's Tommy? Huh, This is nephew Timmy from the

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Speaker 1: I mean the baddest radio show in the land? Man?

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Speaker 1: here we go. The holidays are coming around, and you

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Speaker 1: And then everything happened. Somebody started cheap. You know, you

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Speaker 1: Just play some touch football. You got a grown ass

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Speaker 1: He got the line. Man, it's a man's game. It is.

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Speaker 1: Hold up dog, holddle dog. I just sent you to

420
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Speaker 1: the yard on the trail. Man, Hold on dog. You

421
00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:34,120
Speaker 1: just went to the yard on the trail. You ain't

422
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:38,000
Speaker 1: had no trade minute goal. What you're talking about? What

423
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 1: I'm talking about, I'm talking about your ass is up.

424
00:30:40,160 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 1: All you're trying to Oh you get shite? What's happening

425
00:30:45,360 --> 00:30:54,160
Speaker 1: to you? Pard? You're out now, You're out? Now? No, no, no, okay, okay,

426
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Speaker 1: I'm gonna need two packs of cigarettes for that the

427
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 1: holiday party. That's all I'm saying. And I'm gonna need

428
00:31:03,840 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 1: the two packs next time you under shake. We can't

429
00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 1: play that. We gotta play another game, all right now,

430
00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 1: we're gonna We're gonna go back outside and try to

431
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:17,920
Speaker 1: play just a simple game, family game of dodgeball. It's

432
00:31:17,960 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 1: the same guy. We'll think it's a lot of fun

433
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 1: to hit the third grader nine in my whole ball.

434
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:31,960
Speaker 1: He ain't fa w he out here playing for cat game.

435
00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:38,080
Speaker 1: It's called dodgeball. It ain't called standing there and get

436
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Speaker 1: hit him. Why you gotta hit him so hard? Ain't

437
00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 1: what he up? I bet he nah' gonna cock back

438
00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:53,720
Speaker 1: with that little weekend throw like I ain't seen that coming.

439
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 1: I get him in the face, in the face, that's

440
00:31:57,240 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 1: why he needs to pay attention. Oh, we go back

441
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:06,320
Speaker 1: in the hospital, decide to play chess. But here's what happens.

442
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:10,240
Speaker 1: The man who think he knew everything about chess get

443
00:32:10,360 --> 00:32:13,480
Speaker 1: his ass dusted by that eighth grader. Now he really

444
00:32:13,880 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 1: upset the little boy than told his ass up. He

445
00:32:18,480 --> 00:32:22,680
Speaker 1: can't take it. That's where all the pieces gonna be

446
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:27,600
Speaker 1: on the floor. Yeah, he picked them up. Hold, hold, dog,

447
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:34,640
Speaker 1: you can't say, checkmate, we just got started. How are

448
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 1: you gonna how are you going to do? Don't don't? No?

449
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:39,640
Speaker 1: We even number four, five, six move? What did you

450
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 1: talk about? Checkmate? No, that ain't our chess? Go thinking mad?

451
00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:49,600
Speaker 1: Game right at You ain't had time to think, David,

452
00:32:49,680 --> 00:32:54,680
Speaker 1: he won the game, man game. He just said, checkmate. Yeah,

453
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 1: he beat you the game. How show me? How held

454
00:32:59,600 --> 00:33:06,400
Speaker 1: you showed you? That? Ain't you can't do that? See

455
00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 1: you gotta do Look, man, in chess, you have to

456
00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 1: make a minimum of twenty moves each. He didn't have

457
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:15,520
Speaker 1: to do that for you. Dog. That's how it's done. Dog.

458
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:21,040
Speaker 1: Now you ain't post say unless it's been twenty moves.

459
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:25,040
Speaker 1: Maybe try to something else. I don't know, man, See

460
00:33:25,120 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 1: y'all need to play chess with white folks. Everything is

461
00:33:31,320 --> 00:33:36,800
Speaker 1: racial with you. Last game, last game. We can't play checkers.

462
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 1: It's the same guy with the dodgeball really enjoyed beating

463
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 1: a third Ready he gets such bam bam, brown king

464
00:33:48,400 --> 00:34:01,360
Speaker 1: me yours crying for the white your ass out? No no, no, no, no,

465
00:34:01,800 --> 00:34:04,959
Speaker 1: no no man, you can't jump bad because you got

466
00:34:05,040 --> 00:34:09,200
Speaker 1: the red pizza. Red red pizza. Can't jump bad man.

467
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:18,240
Speaker 1: End of this game. Okay, you're listening. You know, people

468
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 1: think that if you don't speak with them, then there

469
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:23,200
Speaker 1: has to be a problem. Yeah, you know they think

470
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:25,560
Speaker 1: that they really do believe you. Yeah, what's wrong with you?

471
00:34:25,680 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 1: You know? So I get a text message from a

472
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:34,080
Speaker 1: family member that red. When family and friends go through

473
00:34:34,239 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 1: life not speaking, there will come a day to regret it.

474
00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:42,200
Speaker 1: It's called the funeral. Well, I want to respond to

475
00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:45,200
Speaker 1: that family member, real civil truth be told. If I

476
00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:52,399
Speaker 1: go first, what I'm trying to hope to do. If

477
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:54,359
Speaker 1: I go first and I don't have it, I read

478
00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 1: it to regret it. I mean really, the fact that

479
00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:58,839
Speaker 1: you sit it over there and you still haven't got

480
00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 1: a response, what I mean. I'm not mad. I just

481
00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:04,560
Speaker 1: don't speak to you like this. No, I don't have

482
00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 1: time like like this is This is people to understand.

483
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:11,279
Speaker 1: If you text somebody and you look at your text

484
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:15,400
Speaker 1: law and all the text messages, yea off from you?

485
00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:21,480
Speaker 1: Dave responded, can't you a message back if the last

486
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:26,759
Speaker 1: message you got from me was married Christmas, that we

487
00:35:27,000 --> 00:35:31,480
Speaker 1: just don't talk. That's not my fault. If you keep

488
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:35,320
Speaker 1: telling people to tell me that you said call you

489
00:35:35,560 --> 00:35:39,840
Speaker 1: guess what I ain't call. Just won't you understand that

490
00:35:39,920 --> 00:35:42,400
Speaker 1: I'm not mad at you. I just don't have to

491
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:44,600
Speaker 1: talk to you. So you can be mad if you

492
00:35:44,640 --> 00:35:47,440
Speaker 1: won't do Yeah, okay, it is called the funeral. But then,

493
00:35:47,880 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 1: knowing you and why I'm not talking to you, I

494
00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:54,160
Speaker 1: won't even be mad when I shouldn't get I get

495
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:58,600
Speaker 1: up with confidence and lie like everybody else, he lies

496
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:03,920
Speaker 1: a great individual, someone beyond aman, a life changes. I

497
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 1: can get up the line with the best. That's all

498
00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:10,880
Speaker 1: I got to say. All Right, thank you. You got

499
00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 1: to get it for you figure out I'm not talking talking.

500
00:36:14,239 --> 00:36:16,719
Speaker 1: If you send a bunch of I'm not talking, just talking.

501
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:20,200
Speaker 1: Sometimes it's good to people out again. You know I

502
00:36:20,280 --> 00:36:24,640
Speaker 1: haven't said everybody should not be in your life. Hello,

503
00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 1: I'm doing it. All right. We'll be back with more

504
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:33,600
Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after you're listening

505
00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:37,840
Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Jay, time for

506
00:36:37,960 --> 00:36:42,799
Speaker 1: comedy Roulette? Do you brew? Can I explain it? Can?

507
00:36:43,719 --> 00:36:45,919
Speaker 1: That's what? Do you brew? Me? No? Do you take

508
00:36:46,000 --> 00:36:48,320
Speaker 1: two damn long explain? Then we ain't got time to

509
00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:51,200
Speaker 1: do the segment. Hey, this comedy role, we're gonna spend

510
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:53,560
Speaker 1: the wheel for them, and we're gonna decide what are

511
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:56,239
Speaker 1: we gonna do? And we've already to be determined what

512
00:36:56,400 --> 00:37:03,959
Speaker 1: it is we do this all right? Number one things

513
00:37:03,960 --> 00:37:07,239
Speaker 1: you let's day in the fridge too long? Number yeah,

514
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:09,320
Speaker 1: I like that one. Number two the TV show you

515
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:13,279
Speaker 1: can watch over and over and over. Number three the

516
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:15,719
Speaker 1: one dance you'd like for them to bring back that

517
00:37:16,000 --> 00:37:19,480
Speaker 1: one dance. And number four food you like to mix

518
00:37:19,600 --> 00:37:23,040
Speaker 1: together that nobody else like. Let's spin the wheel, spun it.

519
00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:34,680
Speaker 1: Oh it stop to number four food you like to

520
00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:38,799
Speaker 1: mix together that no one else likes. Guys, Yeah, let's

521
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 1: tell it. You get yourself an egg, put it in

522
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 1: a frying pan, crumble up some old cornbread, salt and pepper.

523
00:37:49,120 --> 00:37:56,320
Speaker 1: Oh my god, that is delicious. Eggs. Don't know about

524
00:37:56,320 --> 00:38:00,840
Speaker 1: about dance that don't know about it about that? You

525
00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:03,320
Speaker 1: got what you get? Now you're saying corn bread, But

526
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 1: I had that too, like the night before, leftover, Get

527
00:38:06,600 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 1: some corn bread right this morningful breakfast, put up with

528
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:12,879
Speaker 1: them grits. Corn bread and grits is where it said

529
00:38:13,000 --> 00:38:17,680
Speaker 1: y'all missing. That's now y'all missing it as well. Follow

530
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:20,600
Speaker 1: y'all with this other trifling thing to do. Corn bread,

531
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:25,560
Speaker 1: corn bread and buttermilk. Oh, my goodness, boy, you put

532
00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:31,719
Speaker 1: some butter milk. Girl, No, you're not right up there

533
00:38:31,760 --> 00:38:33,879
Speaker 1: with that corn bread, the mags and that corn bread.

534
00:38:35,120 --> 00:38:38,040
Speaker 1: I'd rather have corn bread and buttermelk. You rather had

535
00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:43,400
Speaker 1: gritzy corn. No, man, you take yourself some van camp

536
00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:47,719
Speaker 1: porking beans, okay, got it, and some chicken gravy and

537
00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:54,680
Speaker 1: some rice in pain it up, little gravy on top

538
00:38:54,760 --> 00:39:00,800
Speaker 1: of that. Old my goodness, and set down somewhere. I

539
00:39:00,960 --> 00:39:04,600
Speaker 1: have a weak's stomach. No, that's c oh my god.

540
00:39:04,960 --> 00:39:07,319
Speaker 1: All right, this is food you like to mix together.

541
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 1: But I tell you what I like to do. This

542
00:39:10,200 --> 00:39:12,880
Speaker 1: is me first. I do this all the time. Mac

543
00:39:13,040 --> 00:39:16,960
Speaker 1: and cheese and bacon. Ain't nobody women, ain't nobody withmen

544
00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 1: make mac and cheese and the crunch and the crunch.

545
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 1: I can see that. I'm ok. Come on, this is

546
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 1: one that the lady used to bring to the house.

547
00:39:30,239 --> 00:39:36,839
Speaker 1: I used to run lima beans with spam in it. Yes,

548
00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:43,400
Speaker 1: Lord Fanny Maide, Miss Fanny Maide, lima beans with spam,

549
00:39:43,600 --> 00:39:48,719
Speaker 1: and it big chunks a spam too. All right, all right,

550
00:39:50,160 --> 00:39:52,200
Speaker 1: this is probably why I'm a diabetic right now, you

551
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:55,759
Speaker 1: take yourself some vanilla age cream. Yeah, get your big

552
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:59,000
Speaker 1: scoop of peanut butter and drop that up in there.

553
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 1: Old don't nobody wanted that? Boys put but don't know

554
00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:10,840
Speaker 1: about it like that. I hate all of Jay's foods.

555
00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:13,560
Speaker 1: You like to mix together that no one else likes. Ahead, Okay,

556
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:15,920
Speaker 1: I got a cousin. I can't understand. It wasn't me.

557
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:19,080
Speaker 1: I just saw it. They look they're look different, okay,

558
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:23,719
Speaker 1: but they they they put They took Swish cheese and

559
00:40:23,960 --> 00:40:26,840
Speaker 1: melted his own doughnuts. I don't know what that is.

560
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:29,360
Speaker 1: I swear to God, I don't know what that do.

561
00:40:29,840 --> 00:40:33,000
Speaker 1: But David, when he bit it, he was heavy body

562
00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:35,279
Speaker 1: to be checked. You need to be checked. You need

563
00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:41,160
Speaker 1: to be checked. Now you're gonna talk one of my favorites.

564
00:40:42,320 --> 00:40:48,000
Speaker 1: Ras just gizzarts, rolls and egg gnawed every damn holiday

565
00:40:48,840 --> 00:40:55,239
Speaker 1: boys fried ratshit gizzarts, rolls and egg nab. Shut up

566
00:40:56,360 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 1: about yourself, Miss Schuberts. Put him in the heath. Girl.

567
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:10,840
Speaker 1: Oh it's just gives it what and egg and corn

568
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:15,240
Speaker 1: bread and somebody crack a window please, I'm Swiss cheese

569
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:17,840
Speaker 1: on top of that with a scoop of edut butter.

570
00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:24,920
Speaker 1: All right, thanks guys. All right, we'll be back with

571
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:29,399
Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after you're

572
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 1: listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Nephew is here with

573
00:41:34,080 --> 00:41:36,360
Speaker 1: today's praying phone call. What you got for his nephew?

574
00:41:36,480 --> 00:41:39,480
Speaker 1: This is for uh, you know what, Shirley, this is

575
00:41:39,560 --> 00:41:43,560
Speaker 1: for you? Huh, Carla? Why don't get into the bright

576
00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:50,920
Speaker 1: mississipping Monica? Neighborhood Watch. Neighborhood Watch. Okay, that sounds all right, right, Okay,

577
00:41:53,920 --> 00:42:01,920
Speaker 1: what a not? Let's run it though. God, Hello, I'm

578
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:05,840
Speaker 1: trying to reach Johnny. Yeah, it's Johnny. Okay, you're the

579
00:42:05,920 --> 00:42:08,000
Speaker 1: one that'll be doing the neighborhood Watch. You'll be walking

580
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:11,200
Speaker 1: your dog doing the neighborhood Watch? Is that you? Who's

581
00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:15,200
Speaker 1: this is this? Johnny? Who is this? Man? This is PJ?

582
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:19,279
Speaker 1: Answer my question? Are you Johnny on your road on

583
00:42:19,480 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 1: your rod? I'm Johnny and I do the neighborhood Watch?

584
00:42:23,320 --> 00:42:27,239
Speaker 1: Who is the damn PJ? I go on, man, don't

585
00:42:27,239 --> 00:42:30,359
Speaker 1: call my phone, yell at me, charging me up? Hey man?

586
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:33,879
Speaker 1: Really the two streets over from you, okay, And you're

587
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:36,480
Speaker 1: supposed to be the neighborhood watchman. But that ain't what

588
00:42:36,560 --> 00:42:38,840
Speaker 1: you're doing now. I didn't caught you looking in the

589
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 1: window at my wife when I came outside. You halfway

590
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:45,800
Speaker 1: down the street, you and your damn dog. So you

591
00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:48,279
Speaker 1: ain't watching the neighborhood. And you're looking trying to see

592
00:42:48,320 --> 00:42:52,680
Speaker 1: some in the window. That's what you're doing, picking some Please,

593
00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:55,279
Speaker 1: I don't look, man. I'm doing my job. Man, I

594
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:58,239
Speaker 1: do my name, I do my job, do the neighborhood watch.

595
00:42:58,520 --> 00:43:00,840
Speaker 1: I make sure people ain't breaking over the houses. I

596
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:02,560
Speaker 1: gotta white. What the hell I want to look at

597
00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:05,920
Speaker 1: somebody else's wife. I got a pizza at home. I

598
00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:08,760
Speaker 1: want you need. Then you need to stay out looking

599
00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:11,440
Speaker 1: people to looking through people. Wonder Man, you're supposed to

600
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:15,719
Speaker 1: be watching the neighborhood, not watching my wife. When you

601
00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:18,520
Speaker 1: say you live again because we went, I live two street.

602
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:20,359
Speaker 1: You know what, I'm gonna tell you what though, I'll

603
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:23,880
Speaker 1: tell you what damn people Tom. I'm gonna show you

604
00:43:23,960 --> 00:43:26,399
Speaker 1: what a damn people Tom is. Now I'm gonna show

605
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:29,440
Speaker 1: you what. No, I'm gonna start looking through your window

606
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:33,480
Speaker 1: looking at your wife. See what you serve? But nothing, pete,

607
00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:37,959
Speaker 1: mister John. But but putting your over here. I want

608
00:43:38,000 --> 00:43:39,880
Speaker 1: you to look. I want you to look at my

609
00:43:40,000 --> 00:43:43,319
Speaker 1: damn window. This. Who the hell is this? I ain't

610
00:43:43,320 --> 00:43:45,640
Speaker 1: got time for this. Man. I got a job, I

611
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:48,040
Speaker 1: got a mortgage, I got kids. I ain't got time

612
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:50,520
Speaker 1: for this. Man. Don't look at a job. Man, don't

613
00:43:50,560 --> 00:43:53,000
Speaker 1: don't find a job. I got a job. I got

614
00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:55,480
Speaker 1: a job for when I'm at work. You gotta job. Yeah,

615
00:43:55,520 --> 00:43:57,799
Speaker 1: you got a job. Crying like a damn talking by

616
00:43:57,880 --> 00:43:59,719
Speaker 1: somebody looking at your Why I donna body look at you,

617
00:44:00,239 --> 00:44:02,440
Speaker 1: white man, got a job. But when I'm at home,

618
00:44:02,480 --> 00:44:05,360
Speaker 1: the rob I'm wondering if the back of the looking

619
00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 1: through the window at my wife. Please come to my

620
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:11,879
Speaker 1: damn house. Please, I'm coming later than to look through

621
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:15,160
Speaker 1: the window. Fine, Remember the hell are you talking about?

622
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:18,000
Speaker 1: Calling me? Tell my people? And it's just damn white

623
00:44:18,200 --> 00:44:21,120
Speaker 1: you nobody, that's what you've been doing. Man, no wife.

624
00:44:21,239 --> 00:44:23,480
Speaker 1: You probably ain't got no wife. You're probably married to

625
00:44:23,560 --> 00:44:26,799
Speaker 1: him damn midget or something. You're talking about, man, tell

626
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:29,640
Speaker 1: about not people at your wife. You got wattle wife,

627
00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:33,120
Speaker 1: and you were in the wonder and a Williams still

628
00:44:33,200 --> 00:44:36,520
Speaker 1: watching the neighborhood. But that ain't what I'm doing. I

629
00:44:36,640 --> 00:44:39,040
Speaker 1: gotta take come over here now because you're rhynd neighborhood.

630
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:41,600
Speaker 1: You three streets whatever I'm in, streets, whatever you are

631
00:44:41,680 --> 00:44:45,200
Speaker 1: for me? Come night now. I stand outside with my

632
00:44:45,360 --> 00:44:48,120
Speaker 1: dog pushing on your I want you to come by

633
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 1: what I'm coming later the night when she at that

634
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:54,759
Speaker 1: shower the same way you was looking through my one.

635
00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:59,440
Speaker 1: Please just come by, don't wait, just come by now, please.

636
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 1: I can't go that way with I don't talk about

637
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 1: right now, but I'm playing somebody with me. I'm getting

638
00:45:06,000 --> 00:45:08,719
Speaker 1: ready to slow down so I could get ready and

639
00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:11,040
Speaker 1: tell them my business man. I'm getting ready to gold

640
00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:13,480
Speaker 1: work again in the day. Man, What the hell are

641
00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:16,920
Speaker 1: you talking about? Bro? I got two damn jobs. I

642
00:45:17,000 --> 00:45:19,399
Speaker 1: got a job to what I'm doing today and at night,

643
00:45:19,600 --> 00:45:23,359
Speaker 1: and in between I do the neighborhood watch. I'm doing

644
00:45:23,440 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 1: your service. I'm holping your lazy Do you stop your

645
00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:29,920
Speaker 1: watching people looking to see if they're looking at your

646
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:32,439
Speaker 1: damn wife? Why don't you get you a second job

647
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 1: or something? Man? Why don't you google? Whyn't you look

648
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:38,000
Speaker 1: at muster dot com or something? What the hell is

649
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:40,640
Speaker 1: wrong with you calling me Tim? I'm peeping at your

650
00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:42,520
Speaker 1: day on watch man, don't you ever call me with

651
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:47,160
Speaker 1: no Who the hell is this anyway? Yeah? Who the

652
00:45:47,239 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 1: hell is this? Because I'm got something for you. Who

653
00:45:49,239 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 1: is to tell you who it is? This is nephew

654
00:45:52,160 --> 00:45:55,279
Speaker 1: Timmy from the Steve Harvard Morning Show. You just got

655
00:45:55,400 --> 00:46:08,719
Speaker 1: pranked by your wife Trisha, and they want baby. They

656
00:46:08,800 --> 00:46:14,239
Speaker 1: ain't right, baby, baby, that ain't right. Then you got

657
00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:16,279
Speaker 1: me man, because I said, ain't nobody to gonna get

658
00:46:16,320 --> 00:46:19,879
Speaker 1: me on No frank, nigga, I don't fall that, man,

659
00:46:21,600 --> 00:46:24,160
Speaker 1: damn prank You wife told me you do the neighborhood.

660
00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:26,960
Speaker 1: Watch oh man, she said you do the neighborhood you walk,

661
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:29,239
Speaker 1: you know, because what you gotta Rode Wall told me

662
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:32,120
Speaker 1: that's why I use niggers. I want to be safe.

663
00:46:32,200 --> 00:46:34,120
Speaker 1: They just can't something happening. I just stick my rock

664
00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:39,080
Speaker 1: fell on that. Then you got me bad that You

665
00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:43,120
Speaker 1: you got me bad man, You're good, I'm good. Bang.

666
00:46:43,320 --> 00:46:46,759
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get her though. All right. Let me ask

667
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:49,680
Speaker 1: you this, though, what else the baddest and I'm talking

668
00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:53,360
Speaker 1: about the baddest radio show in the land made the

669
00:46:53,719 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Shown. I just want to know it's my

670
00:47:02,719 --> 00:47:06,680
Speaker 1: twenty nineteen stupid start now right, Yeah, I just lord,

671
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:10,480
Speaker 1: I have to jump nineteen the right. Wait, no, you didn't.

672
00:47:11,239 --> 00:47:14,520
Speaker 1: Huh Why would you jump start something that was in

673
00:47:14,680 --> 00:47:19,000
Speaker 1: full blast if you don't think it's next level, Steve,

674
00:47:19,120 --> 00:47:23,680
Speaker 1: you don't think it's next the top. When he comedly stupid,

675
00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 1: he had top his game. King President and CEO, you

676
00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:33,439
Speaker 1: got you did game. Thank you sirs. We'll be back

677
00:47:33,640 --> 00:47:38,920
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to Steven Show. It is

678
00:47:39,000 --> 00:47:42,200
Speaker 1: time now for my Strawberry Letter for today, and listen. Guys.

679
00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:46,240
Speaker 1: If you need advice on relationships, on dating, on work,

680
00:47:46,400 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 1: on sex, on parenting, and more, please submit your Strawberry

681
00:47:50,719 --> 00:47:54,640
Speaker 1: letter to Steve Harvey FM dot com and click submit

682
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:59,919
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. Okay, buck up, hold on tight. We gotta

683
00:48:00,040 --> 00:48:03,400
Speaker 1: for ye hiberties the Strawberry Letter. We could be reading yours,

684
00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:06,320
Speaker 1: just like we're reading this one subject. You can't hide

685
00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:11,080
Speaker 1: a beautiful body. Dear Stephen Shirley, i am a thirty

686
00:48:11,160 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 1: year old single woman without any children, and I've been

687
00:48:14,760 --> 00:48:17,560
Speaker 1: dating a forty one year old man that has three

688
00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:21,319
Speaker 1: young daughters. We've been together for five months, and all

689
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:24,560
Speaker 1: of a sudden, he does not approve of how I dress.

690
00:48:24,920 --> 00:48:27,160
Speaker 1: He told me that I dress as if I want

691
00:48:27,160 --> 00:48:31,320
Speaker 1: attention from other men, and not like a wholesome woman.

692
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 1: I am a full time legal assistant at a popular

693
00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:39,160
Speaker 1: law firm, and I take law classes at night. At work,

694
00:48:39,360 --> 00:48:42,320
Speaker 1: I'm in heels and pencil skirts, and on the weekend,

695
00:48:42,640 --> 00:48:45,600
Speaker 1: I dress for whatever the occasion is, and it's my

696
00:48:45,800 --> 00:48:50,719
Speaker 1: own personal style. I have a beautiful curvy body, and

697
00:48:50,880 --> 00:48:53,239
Speaker 1: at my age, I don't see the problem with me

698
00:48:53,360 --> 00:48:55,600
Speaker 1: wearing a top that shows a little stomach or a

699
00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:58,759
Speaker 1: dress that shows off my curves. He didn't have a

700
00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:01,600
Speaker 1: problem with how I dress when he met me, but

701
00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:05,280
Speaker 1: now he has been talking about it NonStop. I recently

702
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:09,000
Speaker 1: met his daughters and I was dressed appropriately in jeans

703
00:49:09,080 --> 00:49:11,719
Speaker 1: and a sweatshirt. He still said that I need to

704
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:15,440
Speaker 1: do a better I need to do better at presenting

705
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:19,200
Speaker 1: myself in a more wholesome manner when he met. When

706
00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:21,399
Speaker 1: he and I met, it was not wholesome, So why

707
00:49:21,440 --> 00:49:24,839
Speaker 1: does he want me to seem wholesome now? I never

708
00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:27,680
Speaker 1: intended to be a role model for his children. He

709
00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:30,520
Speaker 1: says he wants me to be more like his friend's wife.

710
00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:33,520
Speaker 1: And that's all fine and good. If I were an older,

711
00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:36,920
Speaker 1: stay at home mom, but I'm not. Why is he

712
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:39,879
Speaker 1: bringing this up now and trying to change me. I'm

713
00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:41,880
Speaker 1: at the point where I want to settle down and

714
00:49:42,280 --> 00:49:44,719
Speaker 1: he could be the one, but obviously I'm not the

715
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:47,360
Speaker 1: woman he really wants. Could this be a deal breaker?

716
00:49:47,440 --> 00:49:50,560
Speaker 1: Please advise? Well, you know what, It depends on how

717
00:49:50,600 --> 00:49:52,600
Speaker 1: you look at it. It could be a deal breaker

718
00:49:52,680 --> 00:49:55,959
Speaker 1: if he's like this controlling dude you know that wants

719
00:49:56,000 --> 00:49:58,800
Speaker 1: to tell you how to dress, and you know, compare

720
00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 1: you to other women, and like he's doing in this

721
00:50:01,360 --> 00:50:04,040
Speaker 1: letter all of that. It could be that, or it

722
00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:07,920
Speaker 1: could be he's considering you for a little more serious

723
00:50:08,880 --> 00:50:13,759
Speaker 1: role in his life, because I don't understand why he

724
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 1: would even be concerned about how you're dressing if you're

725
00:50:16,120 --> 00:50:19,000
Speaker 1: not dressing like, you know, a stripper or something in

726
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:22,160
Speaker 1: front of his friends and daughters. Dressing for him in

727
00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:24,320
Speaker 1: private is one thing, but there is something to be

728
00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:27,200
Speaker 1: said about appropriate dress in front of others, especially young

729
00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:30,360
Speaker 1: impressionable girls. I'll give him that. Although you said you

730
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:32,920
Speaker 1: were dressed properly when you met his daughters in jeans

731
00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:35,560
Speaker 1: and a sweatshirt, you didn't say that your tummy was out.

732
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:37,799
Speaker 1: You didn't say any of that. I mean, this guy

733
00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:40,799
Speaker 1: does sound controlling, he does sound bossy after only five

734
00:50:40,920 --> 00:50:44,520
Speaker 1: months in. And remember what he's doing now, how he's

735
00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:46,759
Speaker 1: talking to you. Now, you guys haven't even made the

736
00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:49,719
Speaker 1: six month mark. That's how it's going to be in

737
00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:52,200
Speaker 1: a relationship and into a marriage. So you're gonna have

738
00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:54,960
Speaker 1: to decide if that's what you want. I mean, you

739
00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:57,359
Speaker 1: have your own personal style, and you said you don't

740
00:50:57,360 --> 00:51:00,520
Speaker 1: see anything wrong. I mean that's what's fashionable. Top tops

741
00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:04,280
Speaker 1: are fashionable, Uh, you know, as long as you're surely

742
00:51:04,320 --> 00:51:12,080
Speaker 1: had on one in the in the d at all

743
00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:17,200
Speaker 1: at all. I mean, you could do things tastefully. But

744
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:19,520
Speaker 1: we were at the beach. Can we just say that, Steve,

745
00:51:19,640 --> 00:51:22,160
Speaker 1: we were. We were. It was a swim party and everything.

746
00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:24,480
Speaker 1: We weren't that no beach. We was on the inside

747
00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:27,840
Speaker 1: in the auditorium. But I saw you. I don't know

748
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:31,279
Speaker 1: where you came from from the beach. Didn't look like

749
00:51:31,440 --> 00:51:37,479
Speaker 1: bel didn't have on that anyway, back to the letter,

750
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:41,120
Speaker 1: you can't hide a beautiful body as the subject. So

751
00:51:41,600 --> 00:51:44,279
Speaker 1: you know, even though you never intended to be a

752
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:47,400
Speaker 1: role model for his children, sometimes we're thrust in those positions.

753
00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:49,920
Speaker 1: You know, you're dating this guy, and he does have daughters,

754
00:51:49,960 --> 00:51:52,640
Speaker 1: so you have to consider that when you are around them,

755
00:51:52,719 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 1: you're you're You're not there um their mom or anything,

756
00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:58,040
Speaker 1: but they are. If you're around their dad, they are

757
00:51:58,160 --> 00:52:00,560
Speaker 1: looking to you for certain things. So you know, I'm

758
00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:03,320
Speaker 1: not telling you to cover up and dress like a

759
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:06,640
Speaker 1: nun from heagetor or anything like that, but be mindful,

760
00:52:06,960 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 1: especially around the daughters, of how you're presenting yourself. You know,

761
00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:15,000
Speaker 1: just do that for their sake. Okay, come out of

762
00:52:15,040 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 1: yourself for a little bit and just do that for

763
00:52:16,719 --> 00:52:18,919
Speaker 1: their sake. As far as you and this guy goes,

764
00:52:19,080 --> 00:52:23,040
Speaker 1: time will only tell if he continues to be controlling.

765
00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:25,279
Speaker 1: He sounds like a nagger and all that already. But

766
00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:27,560
Speaker 1: you got to decide if you want to deal with that,

767
00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:30,480
Speaker 1: because it's not gonna get any better. And yeah, when

768
00:52:30,520 --> 00:52:33,640
Speaker 1: you're fine and beautiful, you can't hide it. You cannot

769
00:52:34,320 --> 00:52:37,400
Speaker 1: steve let it out. Well, this is a real simple

770
00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:41,440
Speaker 1: fix right here. Appreciate everything you said, Sherley. Here's the

771
00:52:41,480 --> 00:52:44,800
Speaker 1: other side of the coin than See. The way you dress,

772
00:52:45,040 --> 00:52:48,560
Speaker 1: that's how you got him. The way you look, that's

773
00:52:48,600 --> 00:52:51,879
Speaker 1: how you got him. See he liked all that when

774
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:57,399
Speaker 1: he saw you. That's what got his attention. You had

775
00:52:57,600 --> 00:53:02,040
Speaker 1: what he wanted. That's why y'all together now, the little

776
00:53:02,120 --> 00:53:06,080
Speaker 1: pencil skirts, the tight fit, the crop tops to cleave

777
00:53:06,160 --> 00:53:11,200
Speaker 1: it showing, the wrap skirts, the fitted sweater. Y'all go

778
00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:14,959
Speaker 1: out on weekends, you dress how you wan't bam. That's

779
00:53:15,000 --> 00:53:18,560
Speaker 1: what got him. But now he want to change. Well,

780
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:22,439
Speaker 1: see the problem he got now is he probably need

781
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:26,080
Speaker 1: a nun. He needed to date somebody that's a little

782
00:53:26,120 --> 00:53:28,920
Speaker 1: bit different than you. Here's I'm first, I'm gonna get

783
00:53:28,920 --> 00:53:32,080
Speaker 1: into this right here. You thirty and he forty one.

784
00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:36,120
Speaker 1: That's eleven years. That's a gap. That's a gap, and

785
00:53:37,000 --> 00:53:41,280
Speaker 1: it's a real gap. When it's more than an eleven

786
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:48,239
Speaker 1: year distance, eleven year difference, it's probably more because he's

787
00:53:48,320 --> 00:53:51,560
Speaker 1: probably an older forty one, if you know what I mean,

788
00:53:54,080 --> 00:53:58,440
Speaker 1: he probably an old stuck up forty one. Then you

789
00:53:58,600 --> 00:54:04,239
Speaker 1: might just be a little be younger thirty. But you

790
00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:07,359
Speaker 1: a lawyer, you work at a law firm, You got

791
00:54:07,440 --> 00:54:10,479
Speaker 1: a career. You gotta go to work appropriate. You can't

792
00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:13,040
Speaker 1: go in there looking like anything. You know, you can't

793
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:16,200
Speaker 1: go to work looking like you a case. So I

794
00:54:16,360 --> 00:54:19,360
Speaker 1: think what's really happening here is this eleven year age

795
00:54:19,480 --> 00:54:22,399
Speaker 1: difference is bigger than eleven years because in his mind

796
00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:24,960
Speaker 1: he wants something else. All right, we'll come back with

797
00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:28,960
Speaker 1: part two of your response at twenty three after the hour.

798
00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:34,720
Speaker 1: Right after this you're listening to show. Let's recap today's

799
00:54:34,719 --> 00:54:37,560
Speaker 1: strawberry letters, Steve. Let's get to part two of your response,

800
00:54:37,680 --> 00:54:43,600
Speaker 1: subject you can't hide a beautiful body. Well, this thirty

801
00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:45,719
Speaker 1: year old lady married this old as for the one

802
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:48,360
Speaker 1: year old man with these three damned daughters that she

803
00:54:48,480 --> 00:54:51,800
Speaker 1: ain't got no kids. They've been together five months and

804
00:54:51,880 --> 00:54:56,880
Speaker 1: he don't approve now how she dressed. You know, he

805
00:54:57,040 --> 00:54:59,520
Speaker 1: says you dressed like he want attention from other men.

806
00:54:59,640 --> 00:55:03,600
Speaker 1: See that's crazy because see you dressed got attention from him.

807
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:05,960
Speaker 1: Now that he got you, he don't want nobody else

808
00:55:06,040 --> 00:55:09,719
Speaker 1: paying attention to you. This is the beginning of something greater. Now,

809
00:55:11,080 --> 00:55:13,800
Speaker 1: I really do believe that this dressing is the beginning

810
00:55:13,880 --> 00:55:17,560
Speaker 1: of something greater. And like Shirley said, he could be

811
00:55:17,680 --> 00:55:21,279
Speaker 1: very controlling. Next thing, you know, you can't where it is.

812
00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:23,320
Speaker 1: Next thing, you know why you're going over there, and

813
00:55:23,440 --> 00:55:26,080
Speaker 1: next thing, you know why you're spending that. Next thing,

814
00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:28,040
Speaker 1: you know, I don't want you driving that colon. No

815
00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:30,680
Speaker 1: mo next thing. You know you ain't gonna hand no friends.

816
00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:34,160
Speaker 1: I don't see a problem with me man or top

817
00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:36,920
Speaker 1: to show a little stomach, or a dress that shows

818
00:55:36,920 --> 00:55:40,200
Speaker 1: off my courage. He didn't have a problem with you

819
00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:42,120
Speaker 1: dress how he met me. You don't gonna write he

820
00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:44,680
Speaker 1: didn't he But now you've been talking about a NonStop

821
00:55:44,760 --> 00:55:46,800
Speaker 1: that's called some of his damn friends is looking at you.

822
00:55:47,320 --> 00:55:50,600
Speaker 1: See now he's starting to notice some of the other

823
00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:54,200
Speaker 1: men looking at you. Now he's feeling sort of inadequate.

824
00:55:55,200 --> 00:55:56,680
Speaker 1: You know, I don't want you to do this, so

825
00:55:56,719 --> 00:55:58,759
Speaker 1: I don't want you to. He's feeling some little little

826
00:55:58,760 --> 00:56:02,200
Speaker 1: bit of insecurity too. I think I recently met his

827
00:56:02,320 --> 00:56:05,120
Speaker 1: daughters and I was dressed appropriately in jeans and a sweatshirt.

828
00:56:05,560 --> 00:56:07,680
Speaker 1: He still said, I need to do a better presenting

829
00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:09,719
Speaker 1: myself in a more wholesome matter. What the hell and

830
00:56:09,800 --> 00:56:15,960
Speaker 1: wholesome that's what I'm saying to cover it up from

831
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:18,960
Speaker 1: head to tell. So why you want me to seem wholesome? Now?

832
00:56:19,600 --> 00:56:22,120
Speaker 1: I never tend to be a role model for his children. Okay,

833
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:24,600
Speaker 1: now let me explain something you can't say that I

834
00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:27,960
Speaker 1: can't say that to him, Man, I ain't trying to

835
00:56:27,960 --> 00:56:30,839
Speaker 1: be no damn role model for your damn kids. Uh,

836
00:56:32,040 --> 00:56:35,560
Speaker 1: I can't say that. Don't say that, lady. He ain't

837
00:56:35,600 --> 00:56:40,440
Speaker 1: gonna handle that good, all right, He says, he wants

838
00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:43,480
Speaker 1: me to be more like his friend's wife, and that's

839
00:56:43,560 --> 00:56:48,440
Speaker 1: all finding good. Well, he should marry his friends. He

840
00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:51,880
Speaker 1: should just go dates one of his one have, have

841
00:56:52,560 --> 00:56:56,880
Speaker 1: his friend's wife introduce him to some of her friends.

842
00:56:58,000 --> 00:57:02,799
Speaker 1: They all three keys. It's stay at home mom, Yeah,

843
00:57:04,040 --> 00:57:08,120
Speaker 1: drive a minute van. It all, it's all good. Ain't

844
00:57:08,239 --> 00:57:11,759
Speaker 1: nothing wrong with that. But you're gonna get out, this

845
00:57:11,880 --> 00:57:15,240
Speaker 1: little fan says, call you guy. You're gonna get yourself

846
00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:18,200
Speaker 1: a minute van, get down here to this damn save

847
00:57:18,240 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 1: a lot and get you damn grocery. Wow, that's what

848
00:57:27,840 --> 00:57:31,080
Speaker 1: you're gonna do. Why is he bringing us up now

849
00:57:31,160 --> 00:57:33,280
Speaker 1: and trying to change mem I'm at the point why

850
00:57:33,320 --> 00:57:35,560
Speaker 1: I want to settle down, and he could be the one,

851
00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:38,640
Speaker 1: but obviously I'm not the woman he really wants. Well, now,

852
00:57:38,760 --> 00:57:43,080
Speaker 1: hold on, let's just take these last two statements. I'm

853
00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:45,320
Speaker 1: at the point where I'm ready to settle down and

854
00:57:45,520 --> 00:57:49,680
Speaker 1: he could be the one, could be the one, and

855
00:57:49,920 --> 00:57:52,520
Speaker 1: but obviously I'm not the woman he really wants. Okay,

856
00:57:52,600 --> 00:57:56,160
Speaker 1: he could be the one, but obviously I'm not the

857
00:57:56,240 --> 00:57:58,840
Speaker 1: woman he really wants. Could this be a deal breaker?

858
00:57:59,240 --> 00:58:02,320
Speaker 1: It could be a deal I think what you should do, though,

859
00:58:03,320 --> 00:58:07,400
Speaker 1: is wait a little while and just see how it goes.

860
00:58:07,520 --> 00:58:09,920
Speaker 1: You know, don't make a commitment. Just stay in this

861
00:58:10,080 --> 00:58:14,160
Speaker 1: relationship and see how I go, See how heavy he

862
00:58:14,280 --> 00:58:18,160
Speaker 1: gets with them, what he wants. You know, you know,

863
00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:20,040
Speaker 1: some of the little changes you can make in your

864
00:58:20,120 --> 00:58:22,560
Speaker 1: dress might be good for you, but then some of

865
00:58:22,640 --> 00:58:24,680
Speaker 1: it might not be what you want to do. You

866
00:58:24,800 --> 00:58:26,800
Speaker 1: can't just totally flip the script for this man, and

867
00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:29,680
Speaker 1: he ain't flipping the script for you. I will flip

868
00:58:29,800 --> 00:58:31,720
Speaker 1: the script for a woman if she flipped the script

869
00:58:31,760 --> 00:58:34,640
Speaker 1: for me. This as long as I get flip, that's

870
00:58:36,720 --> 00:58:50,800
Speaker 1: me stupid. You got to get flippy. That's what j J.

871
00:58:51,280 --> 00:58:59,200
Speaker 1: The woman he used to date big slid. It ain't

872
00:58:59,240 --> 00:59:02,040
Speaker 1: gonna go like you, man, Wi No, no, no, no, no, Jay,

873
00:59:02,080 --> 00:59:07,840
Speaker 1: that's how he liked it. Then you ain't been flipped. No,

874
00:59:09,560 --> 00:59:17,240
Speaker 1: I don't either. How come I'm facing the head bo.

875
00:59:20,520 --> 00:59:24,040
Speaker 1: That's not a good feel. I don't know what you're

876
00:59:24,080 --> 00:59:30,960
Speaker 1: doing when you flip me first day coming out, when

877
00:59:31,040 --> 00:59:34,960
Speaker 1: it is going, whoa, what were you doing here? Calling?

878
00:59:35,200 --> 00:59:48,640
Speaker 1: Calling sexual time out? It's too hard. Can't flip me?

879
00:59:49,640 --> 00:59:51,800
Speaker 1: Usually when you get flipp is followed by shut up,

880
00:59:51,880 --> 00:59:55,320
Speaker 1: but yeah, we mean about say so you can your

881
00:59:55,400 --> 00:59:58,080
Speaker 1: respect is taken. No, man, you're not gonna talk to

882
00:59:58,240 --> 01:00:00,600
Speaker 1: me like that. No, no, no no. If you keep

883
01:00:00,640 --> 01:00:05,439
Speaker 1: getting flipped, it follows up with a slap. Oh oh man,

884
01:00:06,240 --> 01:00:10,280
Speaker 1: this is this is scary. This is yeah, you know

885
01:00:10,480 --> 01:00:15,160
Speaker 1: now that you look at it, Tommy. As I was

886
01:00:15,240 --> 01:00:19,160
Speaker 1: doing light flipping, this is aggressive flipping. Nat. Also, once

887
01:00:19,240 --> 01:00:22,840
Speaker 1: you get flipping, once you get flipped, you get this baby,

888
01:00:22,880 --> 01:00:25,320
Speaker 1: fix my play, fix your damn. I don't say a place.

889
01:00:28,160 --> 01:00:30,040
Speaker 1: I can't get a sandwich, I can't get the same.

890
01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:39,320
Speaker 1: You're gonna lead the covers on me like that. This

891
01:00:39,440 --> 01:00:42,720
Speaker 1: is going to look ugly, right, yeah, yeah, you don't

892
01:00:42,720 --> 01:00:46,439
Speaker 1: want to get flip. Yeah, take your flip back, Tommy. Yeah,

893
01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:51,040
Speaker 1: all right, Look, we gotta go email us your Instagram

894
01:00:51,200 --> 01:00:54,520
Speaker 1: us guys. Uh, your your thoughts on today's Strawberry letter

895
01:00:54,600 --> 01:00:58,919
Speaker 1: at Steve Harvey f M. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

896
01:00:59,560 --> 01:01:02,760
Speaker 1: All right, sister Odell is here to wish us happy

897
01:01:02,840 --> 01:01:06,400
Speaker 1: holidays and to tell us about some of her holiday traditions,

898
01:01:06,600 --> 01:01:10,440
Speaker 1: and maybe she will even bless us with some Christmas

899
01:01:10,560 --> 01:01:17,920
Speaker 1: caroling of her own ladies and gentlemen. Sister Odell, Oh

900
01:01:19,480 --> 01:01:31,919
Speaker 1: me rap, I'm going rabba well well, well, good morne

901
01:01:32,120 --> 01:01:40,240
Speaker 1: is everywhere, Lord Jesus, Such a blessed holiday. You know

902
01:01:40,360 --> 01:01:43,360
Speaker 1: it's my favorite holiday. You just pushed me in such

903
01:01:43,480 --> 01:01:48,680
Speaker 1: good hill with everyone and everything. Hey Cally, Hey, sister Odell,

904
01:01:48,880 --> 01:01:54,560
Speaker 1: Happy holidays. How you doing today, Shirley? I am doing well,

905
01:01:54,760 --> 01:01:58,520
Speaker 1: Sister Odell. I love the holidays. Merry Christmas to you

906
01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:02,920
Speaker 1: me too. And that's real sweet ages. Hey boy with

907
01:02:03,040 --> 01:02:08,439
Speaker 1: that high boys, how monst there? Steal up there? Yeah,

908
01:02:08,560 --> 01:02:11,800
Speaker 1: stealing up there, Matt, real high boys, you got there. Well,

909
01:02:11,960 --> 01:02:14,400
Speaker 1: might as well say hi to the happiest one on

910
01:02:14,520 --> 01:02:23,320
Speaker 1: the show. Funk Christmas. Hey, look hello there, good morning,

911
01:02:23,360 --> 01:02:30,320
Speaker 1: good morning, morning, morning morning to everyone. So what can

912
01:02:30,400 --> 01:02:32,080
Speaker 1: I do for y'all to day? What did you want?

913
01:02:32,160 --> 01:02:37,040
Speaker 1: Any special requests? I mean giving holiday spirit to move? Well? Um,

914
01:02:38,040 --> 01:02:40,920
Speaker 1: you wanna bless us with the song since you're here?

915
01:02:41,080 --> 01:02:48,040
Speaker 1: I mean I know you love Christmas songs. You can

916
01:02:48,160 --> 01:03:13,200
Speaker 1: finish na, I see it all How jeez, did you

917
01:03:13,320 --> 01:03:17,080
Speaker 1: like jingle bells? It's your dell? Well, you know the

918
01:03:17,160 --> 01:03:20,520
Speaker 1: original version. They change it when white people started singing,

919
01:03:21,040 --> 01:03:24,640
Speaker 1: what what do you mean? What you mean like jingle bells?

920
01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:27,160
Speaker 1: Jingle bells? That's not original when used to this used

921
01:03:27,200 --> 01:03:30,880
Speaker 1: to be jingle bears. Used to go like this, jangle

922
01:03:32,000 --> 01:03:41,760
Speaker 1: or jangle or jangle Oh, jangle, jangle lord, jangle bell,

923
01:03:44,280 --> 01:03:52,120
Speaker 1: jangle bells, jangle bells, jangle all away. I said, jangle bears,

924
01:03:52,720 --> 01:03:58,040
Speaker 1: jangle bells, jangle all the way. Then you know, white

925
01:03:58,080 --> 01:04:05,600
Speaker 1: folks couldn't do it, so they had to sing would yeah, yeah,

926
01:04:05,680 --> 01:04:11,440
Speaker 1: what's your version of? All right? More of this crazy

927
01:04:11,560 --> 01:04:15,520
Speaker 1: ignorant show. Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this, you're

928
01:04:15,600 --> 01:04:22,320
Speaker 1: listening to Steve Show. All right. Yahoo is reporting, guys,

929
01:04:22,520 --> 01:04:26,160
Speaker 1: a new pole that finds fifty nine percent of couples

930
01:04:26,280 --> 01:04:30,800
Speaker 1: say that they suspected their partner of cheating. If they

931
01:04:30,840 --> 01:04:34,080
Speaker 1: suspected them, they would discuss the matter with them rather

932
01:04:34,160 --> 01:04:37,000
Speaker 1: than jumping to conclusions. I'm going to say that again

933
01:04:37,120 --> 01:04:40,880
Speaker 1: for the lateies. Okay, fifty nine percent of couples say

934
01:04:40,920 --> 01:04:43,560
Speaker 1: that if they suspected their partner of cheating, they would

935
01:04:43,640 --> 01:04:48,400
Speaker 1: discuss the matter with them rather than jumping to conclusions. Okay, cool,

936
01:04:48,560 --> 01:04:51,520
Speaker 1: Let me ask you a questions, Shirley and Colum, Now,

937
01:04:51,960 --> 01:04:54,880
Speaker 1: let me ask you a question. Just listen to this question.

938
01:04:55,600 --> 01:05:01,080
Speaker 1: If you suspected your husband of cheating and it was

939
01:05:01,200 --> 01:05:05,480
Speaker 1: not on the internet, nobody knew, none of your co workers,

940
01:05:05,520 --> 01:05:09,120
Speaker 1: it was not it wasn't made public. If you suspected

941
01:05:09,200 --> 01:05:12,760
Speaker 1: your husband of cheating, would you bring it up calmly?

942
01:05:13,520 --> 01:05:16,000
Speaker 1: Would you bring it up with anger? How would you

943
01:05:16,120 --> 01:05:19,600
Speaker 1: do it? Probably? All of the above for me without

944
01:05:19,680 --> 01:05:27,040
Speaker 1: the calm though you're already nowhere, bigger, all of it.

945
01:05:29,600 --> 01:05:32,280
Speaker 1: All of the above for me, without the calm anger.

946
01:05:32,520 --> 01:05:35,520
Speaker 1: If I suspected that not yet? No, well, I mean,

947
01:05:35,760 --> 01:05:38,880
Speaker 1: if you had suspicious you ain't have no proof. You ain't,

948
01:05:39,280 --> 01:05:42,640
Speaker 1: you ain't heard nothing, you ain't got no pictures, ain't no,

949
01:05:43,120 --> 01:05:45,840
Speaker 1: ain't on internet, and none of that. But Steve, you

950
01:05:45,960 --> 01:05:51,080
Speaker 1: know we have intuition. You know we have intuition. You

951
01:05:51,400 --> 01:05:54,040
Speaker 1: disappointing to you, mister Harvey. I don't know. I'm just

952
01:05:54,240 --> 01:05:57,880
Speaker 1: trying to see what y'all would do. I don't really

953
01:05:58,800 --> 01:06:01,920
Speaker 1: And the word discussion I have a problem with. There

954
01:06:02,000 --> 01:06:04,800
Speaker 1: will be no discussion. Well, are you gonna just find

955
01:06:04,840 --> 01:06:07,520
Speaker 1: out on your own first? Like you see us? I

956
01:06:08,840 --> 01:06:12,440
Speaker 1: let me ask you a question. Suppose you discovered that

957
01:06:12,640 --> 01:06:17,800
Speaker 1: you were wrong about him and that he wasn't cheating.

958
01:06:18,440 --> 01:06:21,120
Speaker 1: What happens at that point? Oh, then I'm apologizing and

959
01:06:21,240 --> 01:06:24,720
Speaker 1: begging to his forgiveness, begging for his forgiveness and threatening

960
01:06:24,800 --> 01:06:27,760
Speaker 1: him he better not do it. You see what happens? Yeah,

961
01:06:32,760 --> 01:06:34,840
Speaker 1: God in the tart, you gotta do that. Yeah, you

962
01:06:34,960 --> 01:06:38,720
Speaker 1: apologize for your wrong doing, but you know, make it

963
01:06:38,840 --> 01:06:43,840
Speaker 1: up to him. You know that. Wow, that's amazing. Any

964
01:06:43,880 --> 01:06:48,400
Speaker 1: more questions, We're here for it. No, y'all's answers short,

965
01:06:49,200 --> 01:06:53,120
Speaker 1: yeah and truthful, and there's no one. There's no one

966
01:06:54,000 --> 01:06:56,960
Speaker 1: in between, ain't no? You know that's I don't like

967
01:06:57,160 --> 01:07:00,800
Speaker 1: talking to y'all. Were you expect I think something else?

968
01:07:01,120 --> 01:07:03,200
Speaker 1: I don't know what I expected, but that wasn't it.

969
01:07:04,280 --> 01:07:08,680
Speaker 1: You've obviously been through this before. I'll tell you what

970
01:07:08,760 --> 01:07:11,680
Speaker 1: I found out though us I'm fine out. I ain't

971
01:07:11,760 --> 01:07:15,120
Speaker 1: fired up to have a discussion. Once they fired out,

972
01:07:15,120 --> 01:07:19,160
Speaker 1: I'll cheating. It's old. You're uglass sitting up here. Got

973
01:07:19,240 --> 01:07:24,800
Speaker 1: the lyric cheat? No, you get but Junior. Don't you

974
01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:29,320
Speaker 1: know that money changes things? Yeah? How you get the

975
01:07:29,440 --> 01:07:34,240
Speaker 1: nerve that was before? Look at you now see Tommy

976
01:07:34,320 --> 01:07:37,320
Speaker 1: saying dang Junior like you can't believe Junior called itself.

977
01:07:37,440 --> 01:07:41,600
Speaker 1: U Tommy, you're ugly. No, I am not. Am not

978
01:07:41,640 --> 01:07:45,480
Speaker 1: gonna let you stop doing that. You go listen twenty eighteen.

979
01:07:45,840 --> 01:07:49,000
Speaker 1: You're not gonna do this. I'm not. I'm gonna tell

980
01:07:49,040 --> 01:07:52,080
Speaker 1: the truth in two thousand natures? Are you finem? No,

981
01:07:52,560 --> 01:07:54,280
Speaker 1: I'm not no fine and I'm not out, but I

982
01:07:54,320 --> 01:07:57,480
Speaker 1: ain't just been to be uglyttle. No, I'm not doing that. Dog,

983
01:07:57,600 --> 01:08:01,280
Speaker 1: You're not fine and I'm not. But listen to me.

984
01:08:01,480 --> 01:08:05,680
Speaker 1: If you're not fine, then by a long ship what

985
01:08:05,920 --> 01:08:09,840
Speaker 1: you think that is? Why do you do that to him? Steve?

986
01:08:11,000 --> 01:08:13,160
Speaker 1: I don't know why Tommy keep thinking he cute, but

987
01:08:13,360 --> 01:08:16,040
Speaker 1: you're not cute. I didn't say I was cute. I'm

988
01:08:16,080 --> 01:08:19,040
Speaker 1: just saying I'm not Listen to me. Listen to me.

989
01:08:19,720 --> 01:08:25,720
Speaker 1: You look strang. I'm decent. I don't you do. I

990
01:08:25,920 --> 01:08:36,680
Speaker 1: do not looks grang. To just get a mirror and

991
01:08:36,840 --> 01:08:40,880
Speaker 1: look at yourself from the side. You're strange looking. I'm

992
01:08:41,040 --> 01:08:44,280
Speaker 1: not strange. Don't tell me. You are you look strange

993
01:08:44,400 --> 01:08:47,160
Speaker 1: all everybody, all the men in our family, we're strange

994
01:08:47,240 --> 01:08:50,639
Speaker 1: looking from the side. Look't have fun with the time

995
01:08:50,720 --> 01:08:54,200
Speaker 1: when you accept it. Tommy, he's never going to accept that.

996
01:08:54,360 --> 01:08:57,200
Speaker 1: You guys know that I'm not I'm not doing it

997
01:08:58,720 --> 01:09:03,080
Speaker 1: speaking of times to break with strange. Look, you're listening

998
01:09:03,320 --> 01:09:09,040
Speaker 1: to show. I think it's time for Tommy and I,

999
01:09:09,880 --> 01:09:12,439
Speaker 1: Tommy and I together. It's to talk to the side

1000
01:09:12,520 --> 01:09:19,439
Speaker 1: pieces over the holidays, because we stopped that call and

1001
01:09:19,560 --> 01:09:25,559
Speaker 1: now they stops. They need a Christmas. What changes. It's

1002
01:09:25,600 --> 01:09:28,400
Speaker 1: thirty days. Do you know what? There are a lot

1003
01:09:28,400 --> 01:09:30,760
Speaker 1: of people who didn't hear what we did for Thanksgiving.

1004
01:09:30,880 --> 01:09:33,559
Speaker 1: So now we're speaking to a new batch of people.

1005
01:09:33,680 --> 01:09:39,920
Speaker 1: Some people became side pieces, you see. Say Christmas, ladies,

1006
01:09:40,160 --> 01:09:42,919
Speaker 1: let me talk to y'all. What all right? The twenty

1007
01:09:43,920 --> 01:09:49,639
Speaker 1: four Christmas? That's your Christmas? Okay, And let me tell

1008
01:09:49,640 --> 01:09:52,799
Speaker 1: you something. You your twenty four is really from about

1009
01:09:53,040 --> 01:09:57,000
Speaker 1: eight a m. To about one to two pm right

1010
01:09:57,120 --> 01:10:01,280
Speaker 1: in there, that's your Christmas. Yeah. Yeah, whatever you vision

1011
01:10:01,439 --> 01:10:04,400
Speaker 1: y'all doing on Christmas, that's your time right there. So

1012
01:10:04,800 --> 01:10:07,040
Speaker 1: if y'all want to walk into living room like y'all

1013
01:10:07,080 --> 01:10:09,479
Speaker 1: just woke up. Go ahead, walk in there like y'all

1014
01:10:09,479 --> 01:10:17,439
Speaker 1: just woke up. Gifts under the tree, pajamas on everything.

1015
01:10:17,520 --> 01:10:23,599
Speaker 1: Let's go on. Okay, have some lunch. Okay, but now

1016
01:10:23,680 --> 01:10:28,759
Speaker 1: when one o'clock strikes hello, we have to go. Okay,

1017
01:10:29,880 --> 01:10:34,120
Speaker 1: he's got to leave. Now, you gotta go in the afternoon,

1018
01:10:34,600 --> 01:10:38,960
Speaker 1: and afternoon he's gotta go. Your Christmas is over? What

1019
01:10:39,160 --> 01:10:41,080
Speaker 1: is she supposed to do for the rest of the day.

1020
01:10:41,880 --> 01:10:45,160
Speaker 1: What did she playing on doing? Yeah? Good part about it?

1021
01:10:45,200 --> 01:10:47,240
Speaker 1: You know when it starts and you know when it ends.

1022
01:10:47,280 --> 01:10:53,240
Speaker 1: This is what we're he you're listening show. You know,

1023
01:10:53,760 --> 01:10:56,680
Speaker 1: people think that if you don't speak with them, then

1024
01:10:56,760 --> 01:10:58,800
Speaker 1: there has to be a problem. Yeah, you know they

1025
01:10:58,920 --> 01:11:00,880
Speaker 1: think that they really do believe. What wrong with you? Yeah,

1026
01:11:00,880 --> 01:11:03,479
Speaker 1: what's wrong with you? You know? So I get a

1027
01:11:03,600 --> 01:11:08,759
Speaker 1: text message from a family member that read, when family

1028
01:11:08,880 --> 01:11:13,000
Speaker 1: and friends go through life not speaking, there will come

1029
01:11:13,040 --> 01:11:16,439
Speaker 1: a day to regret it. It's called the funeral. Well,

1030
01:11:17,320 --> 01:11:20,360
Speaker 1: I want to respond to that family member, real civil

1031
01:11:20,439 --> 01:11:27,000
Speaker 1: truth be told. If I go first, what I'm trying

1032
01:11:27,040 --> 01:11:29,519
Speaker 1: to hope to do. If I go first and I

1033
01:11:29,560 --> 01:11:32,640
Speaker 1: don't have I read it to regret it, really the

1034
01:11:32,680 --> 01:11:34,760
Speaker 1: fact that you sit it over there and you still

1035
01:11:34,800 --> 01:11:37,639
Speaker 1: haven't got a response. What that means. I'm not mad.

1036
01:11:37,800 --> 01:11:40,680
Speaker 1: I just don't speak to you like this. No, I

1037
01:11:40,720 --> 01:11:44,120
Speaker 1: don't have time like this is This is people to understand.

1038
01:11:44,760 --> 01:11:47,760
Speaker 1: If you text somebody and you look at your text

1039
01:11:47,880 --> 01:11:51,960
Speaker 1: law and all other text messages, yea off from you

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Speaker 1: day responded you a message back. If the last message

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Speaker 1: you got for me was married rispons, we just don't talk.

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Speaker 1: That's that's not my fault. If you keep telling people

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Speaker 1: to tell me that you said call you, guess what

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Speaker 1: I ain't called. I just won't you understand that I'm

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Speaker 1: not mad at you. I just don't have to talk

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Speaker 1: to you. So you can be mad if you won't

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Speaker 1: do Yeah, okay, it is called the funeral. But then,

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Speaker 1: knowing you and why I'm not talking you, I won't

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Speaker 1: even be mad when I shouldn't get up there with

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Speaker 1: confidence and lie like everybody here lies a great individual,

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Speaker 1: someone who lived beyond a mean a life changes. I

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Speaker 1: can get up that lot with the best thing. That's

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Speaker 1: all I got to say. You gotta get before you

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Speaker 1: figure out I'm not talking talking you send a bunch

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Speaker 1: of I'm not talking. I just ain't talking. Sometimes it's

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Speaker 1: good to cut people outgain know, I ever said everybody

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Speaker 1: should not be in your life? Right? Hello? All right,

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Speaker 1: coming up, it's Steve Harvey and his closing remarks. You

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Speaker 1: don't want to miss it. At forty nine after the hour,

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Speaker 1: you're listening. All right, Here we are at the final

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Speaker 1: break of the day with just one more thing. Steve's

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Speaker 1: closing remarks, What do you have for us? Say? What

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Speaker 1: do you have for us today? Sir? Your wisdom? Drop it? Okay? Uh? Today,

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Speaker 1: I thought i'd talked to you about something with a

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Speaker 1: with a little bit different angle to it. It's gonna

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Speaker 1: be positive, But I want to talk to you about

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Speaker 1: something that many people consider negative. I want to talk

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Speaker 1: to you today about disappointment because I think that we

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Speaker 1: all have to grapple with disappointment from time to time.

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Speaker 1: The problem with disappointment is that disappointment also if you

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01:14:02,160 --> 01:14:08,799
Speaker 1: don't understand it, disappointment can turn so ugly so fast.

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Speaker 1: Too many people allow disappointment to turn into resentment. Too

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Speaker 1: many people allow disappointment to turn into a final verdict,

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Speaker 1: so to speak. In other words, you know, so many

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Speaker 1: people think that this disappointment for them, symbolizes the end.

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Speaker 1: When you allow for disappointment to turn into resentment, and

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Speaker 1: you allow disappointment to turn into the final verdict, you're

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Speaker 1: losing what disappointment actually can become for you. And I

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Speaker 1: want you all to start looking at disappointment as motivation.

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Speaker 1: How many times have you been faced with something that

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Speaker 1: was disappointing. Let's say you go in to get a

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Speaker 1: job and you're on your last interview, and I have

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Speaker 1: been in this position. Man. I was trying to get

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Speaker 1: an insurance job one time years ago, and I went

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Speaker 1: in and I had gotten gone through about three or

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Speaker 1: four interviews. I was at my final interview and I said, man,

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Speaker 1: I'm about to get this job. Man, get my little

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Speaker 1: family together. I'll be all right. And got to that

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Speaker 1: interview and they told me no. And the reason they

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Speaker 1: gave me for not hiring me was I had moved

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Speaker 1: too many times over the past seven years and that

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Speaker 1: represented it to their company, a sign of unstableness. That

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Speaker 1: disappointment for me was gut wrenching. I actually got in

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Speaker 1: my car, my little seventy two Chevy, and I was

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Speaker 1: driving off Man and tears was in my eyes. When

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Speaker 1: I got up on the freeway and I drove back

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Speaker 1: and I looked back over at that big building with

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Speaker 1: that big powerful name on it, and I had gone

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Speaker 1: through four interviews and I and all of a sudden,

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Speaker 1: I was so disappointed and not got getting hired. But

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Speaker 1: you know what I learned to do though, from that

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Speaker 1: moment on, I turned all my disappointment into motivation. I said, Okay, now,

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Speaker 1: this might not be right for everybody, but I use

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Speaker 1: it as a challenge. I use all my disappointments as okay,

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Speaker 1: I'll show you. I use them all this motivation. From

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Speaker 1: the time my teacher told me that you ain't gonna

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Speaker 1: never be nothing, that there's no way they'll put somebody

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Speaker 1: like you on TV because you have a stuttering problem

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Speaker 1: and you can't even talk. I said, okay, but who

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Speaker 1: are you who is issuing out this disappointment? Because you're

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Speaker 1: not gonna make me resent you and you're not gonna

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Speaker 1: cause me to think that you're denying me this opportunity.

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Speaker 1: Are you handing me this bad news of disappointment. I'm

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Speaker 1: not going to allow you to be my final verdict.

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Speaker 1: You will not be the truth teller in my life.

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Speaker 1: You are not going to be the person who who

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Speaker 1: is the author of my destiny. You are not in

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Speaker 1: that belongs to God, not you, and I will not

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Speaker 1: give that to anyone. So when you're facing disappointment, do

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Speaker 1: not hand that disappointment over to the person who gave

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Speaker 1: it to you in the form of empowerment. Do not

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Speaker 1: allow them to control your destiny with this one piece

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Speaker 1: of disappointment that causes you to go into sexual resentment,

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Speaker 1: that you become bitter that all of a sudden, now

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Speaker 1: all you think about is that, and you be getting

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Speaker 1: you developed this nasty attitude. You don't have to do that,

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Speaker 1: and you also don't have to let them become the

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Speaker 1: final verdict. They are not the author of your destiny.

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Speaker 1: They are not the author of your future. They are

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Speaker 1: not that belongs to God and only God. Don't let

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Speaker 1: them trip you up. And I'm saying this because I've

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Speaker 1: had many, many, many disappointments. You ain't this. You ain't that.

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Speaker 1: I've had shows canceled, gigs taken, I've been fired from radio,

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Speaker 1: I've been all in all, I've had some disappointing setbacks.

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Speaker 1: But let me tell you something I've learned to do.

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Speaker 1: I've learned to take all those setbacks and use them

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Speaker 1: as motivation. And I just quietly say to myself, you

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Speaker 1: ain't my God, You ain't the author of my destiny.

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Speaker 1: You didn't create me, you don't know me, you have

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Speaker 1: no say so in the real outcome of who I'm

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Speaker 1: going to be and what I'm going to turn myself into.

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Speaker 1: It's not you, And I'll not give you the power

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Speaker 1: to do that to me. You who think you have

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Speaker 1: the power by telling me no, by turning me down,

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Speaker 1: by refusing me, by voting against me, by saying that

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Speaker 1: I'm not the right one for the part, that's saying

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01:19:07,760 --> 01:19:10,400
Speaker 1: that your company don't need a person like me, by

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Speaker 1: telling me that I represent an unstable person, by telling

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Speaker 1: me that I don't have what it takes. No, no, no, no, noll.

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Speaker 1: It's just because you don't know, because you don't know

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Speaker 1: what God really has for me, And that ain't your fault.

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Speaker 1: So why bear resentment for these people who are causing

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Speaker 1: this disappointment in your life? You don't have to do

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Speaker 1: that because they are not the author of your destiny.

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Speaker 1: And don't you dare give them that. You take that

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Speaker 1: disappointment and you use it as the motivation. I feel

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Speaker 1: sorry for people who tell me no, because you know

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Speaker 1: what I know. I know. They just don't know what

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Speaker 1: God has for me. And I end up somehow through

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Speaker 1: God's grace and mercy showing them all. Keep the right attitude, y'all.

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Speaker 1: God got something for you through all your disappointment. Y'all

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Speaker 1: have a great weekend. Okay. For all Steve Harvey contests,

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Speaker 1: no purchase necessary void where prohibited. Participants must be legal

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Speaker 1: US residents at least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.