Speaker 1: Watch up and welcome back to another episode and No
Speaker 1: Sillers Podcast with your host, not funk that with your
Speaker 1: low glasses, Malone. I just don't. I'm really just I
Speaker 1: don't like to cook. I cook, but it's not like.
Speaker 1: Some people really like to go in the kitchen. It's
Speaker 1: very therapeutic to them. They really like it. Like me,
Speaker 1: I just don't do it. It's not about cooking, right,
Speaker 1: It's about feeding your family. That's why I do it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but how don't you like that? Then? I didn't say
Speaker 1: I don't like to feed my family. I said I
Speaker 1: don't like to cook. Then how do you expect to
Speaker 1: feed your family if you don't love the thing I
Speaker 1: feed your I don't like to cook, but I do
Speaker 1: like to feed my family. I don't like to pay
Speaker 1: bills that I have to pay bills. No, that's different.
Speaker 1: That's like a man saying he don't like to pay
Speaker 1: Else imagine says you want you should want to like.
Speaker 1: How don't you desire that? That's like the truth. I don't.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I don't like to cook. I don't like
Speaker 1: to cook. I don't. I just don't like. I'm not like,
Speaker 1: I don't like to cook. I just I don't know.
Speaker 1: It's like a guy like I don't want to protect you.
Speaker 1: I don't like to protect. They like it. It's good.
Speaker 1: I just I don't like to protector. I don't want
Speaker 1: to take care. I don't. I don't. I really don't
Speaker 1: get whatever lack of that energy. I really just don't.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying it. I just don't get it. Sorry,
Speaker 1: G I just don't like to cook. I get it.
Speaker 1: I just I just don't. You get three meals a day.
Speaker 1: I could get probably eight meals a day. Eight meals
Speaker 1: a day if that's what I was eating. Okay, I'm
Speaker 1: sure he gets about five, at least five. That's what
Speaker 1: I definitely don't eat that much. Eat three. You got three.
Speaker 1: You get your three meals, and your tooth smacks snap.
Speaker 1: Many males, you know, it's funny. I never thought that
Speaker 1: that was not something people would like to do. I
Speaker 1: thought all Niggers like to take care of their family,
Speaker 1: and all women like to nurture their family. I never
Speaker 1: in my life thought I would meet human beings. You
Speaker 1: are a lie. You are a lot. That's like, there's
Speaker 1: a lot of women that don't even know how to cook,
Speaker 1: but how they can't even I totally understand that because
Speaker 1: they are not women yet. No, there's some grown as women. Know,
Speaker 1: there are some grown ass females. The essence as a nurture.
Speaker 1: How the fund could you have kids and you don't
Speaker 1: know how to prepare a meal? Oh I didn't say
Speaker 1: they had kids, what do you? That's my point? Then
Speaker 1: they're not even them as girls still because they don't
Speaker 1: have kids. Know, I'm saying, they don't have a reason
Speaker 1: to grow up, Like, how don't you want to nurture
Speaker 1: other human beings as like your mother kids? But you're
Speaker 1: earth like. But I'm still a protector, the provider. I
Speaker 1: can never think to myself like, oh I don't like
Speaker 1: to protect. Nobody said that. You just see it. You like,
Speaker 1: I don't like to cook. I like to take care
Speaker 1: of my family, like my kids. You don't want to
Speaker 1: nurture that. I don't want to would how would do cook?
Speaker 1: I just don't like soap? Okay, So if he's like
Speaker 1: they go out to dinner, let's go, how to funk
Speaker 1: are you dinner? So you want him to do that too?
Speaker 1: You want him to take care of the house and
Speaker 1: fucking take you to dinner, out to dinner that makes
Speaker 1: you more excited than cooking. Yeah, you are understand why
Speaker 1: they are going thousands and thousands and thousands and thousands
Speaker 1: of mind whatever. They're going thousand thousands of mouth because
Speaker 1: don't nobody wants to cook them. No, it's not because
Speaker 1: don't nobody wants to cook them. That's why. That is why.
Speaker 1: That's why. And they are ridiculous because they just making
Speaker 1: black women look bad, like, oh and three meals a
Speaker 1: day and they're making black women. You just literally said
Speaker 1: you would prefer say that I don't do it. That's
Speaker 1: not the ploy. That's not how don't you like it?
Speaker 1: I don't like it. It's some meals that I do
Speaker 1: like to cook. I like to don't know how you
Speaker 1: don't like to listen. I do like to cook Mexican food,
Speaker 1: but I don't like to cook if I just don't
Speaker 1: like to cook it or not. Dang, food is there,
Speaker 1: sucking the ship is there and all the time, and
Speaker 1: it's breakfast, lunch, dinner, snacks, baby food, making baby food
Speaker 1: from scratch right now, you feel me, Dang, I can't
Speaker 1: express to you. I don't be telling my nigger like
Speaker 1: I trust me because no, she just called him, and
Speaker 1: so your food is ready, that ship ain't because no,
Speaker 1: she did it with love. She got up this morning,
Speaker 1: put the roast on and everything like she did it
Speaker 1: with love. Give us a break. There are times, you
Speaker 1: know what, I give y'all a break like these niggas
Speaker 1: a break. Times when I'm likes I hate a gros
Speaker 1: and these ory okay, like put in no category. She's
Speaker 1: not like me. She liked to do all that type
Speaker 1: of stuff. I don't even know why why you should
Speaker 1: have been married way, but I could have been married. Girl.
Speaker 1: I told you what happened to me. Girl. Can you
Speaker 1: know the microphone is picking up you, slapping the table,
Speaker 1: bouncing that lighter everything so people will be there? Like,
Speaker 1: what the fun is going on? That is Red putting
Speaker 1: her foot down about the fact that she's upset. Sorry,
Speaker 1: but yeah, no, you know I'm a good woman. What
Speaker 1: the fuck? Just because I don't like to cook, don't
Speaker 1: mean I'm not good. Don't mean you're not gonna have
Speaker 1: a meal. Don't mean you're not gonna have a meal.
Speaker 1: It just means I don't like having a good example. Right,
Speaker 1: You don't like to work out, but you still work out.
Speaker 1: I love to work out. Who loves Oh, it is
Speaker 1: a lot of people that love to work out. Working
Speaker 1: out its fucking excellent. Boy, you're just lazy if you
Speaker 1: don't like it. If you don't like it, Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess that's it. It's not fun. Of course it's fun.
Speaker 1: It's not fun. It's not Why would working out be fun?
Speaker 1: Is it fun to you? Let's keep it one hundred?
Speaker 1: Is it fun? Listen? The only time I have results
Speaker 1: is fun? No, no, the only time I have working
Speaker 1: out when I did the boxing? How are the results?
Speaker 1: How are the results fun? Because there's out of fun
Speaker 1: things that the results well, so attention see that's see.
Speaker 1: This is my point. And this is what I was
Speaker 1: saying about people seeing you because you worked out, and
Speaker 1: I was supposed to be talking about my man like mega, please,
Speaker 1: it's fun? What's fun? Like? Okay, say you work out
Speaker 1: and then um, you know you're getting the results that
Speaker 1: you want, and you're starting to feel a little more sexier,
Speaker 1: more confident, and you know, you guys are having a
Speaker 1: little bit more like um intimacy and it gets fun
Speaker 1: because you're is that what you really think? Do you
Speaker 1: really think that's how it worked? Well? I haven't really
Speaker 1: worked out, so I was just asking her where she
Speaker 1: got that. She tried to flip some bush. I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't think I don't like working out. I don't
Speaker 1: know what I like. I don't like working out. I
Speaker 1: don't like cooking. I put it this way. When I
Speaker 1: first started working out, I did not enjoy it, because
Speaker 1: of course you're sore and all that achey and all
Speaker 1: that crap. But um, once I got into a routine,
Speaker 1: I did enjoy it. It was like, Okay, I have
Speaker 1: to get up and do it. I felt good at
Speaker 1: but when I was doing it, certain ones, but not
Speaker 1: everything exactly. Yeah, not everything you like. I hate doing
Speaker 1: the core and I hate that, but I do it.
Speaker 1: I like boxing, you like it all, you like everything anything.
Speaker 1: That's just what it is. So that's what intellectually you
Speaker 1: think I would be like. That's just want to disagree
Speaker 1: for what what would be the purpose of that? I
Speaker 1: don't know. That's just ridiculous. I'm genuinely flabbergasted. What are
Speaker 1: you flabbergast that you don't want to do like? I
Speaker 1: didn't say I don't like. I didn't say I didn't
Speaker 1: want Some dudes, listen, some dudes every man wants to
Speaker 1: take care of their woman, even the ones who lie
Speaker 1: like oh she lived here too, and want you to
Speaker 1: pay rent bills. They want to, they just aren't able to.
Speaker 1: So then what they do is they find a way
Speaker 1: to pacify you know what I mean, their lack of
Speaker 1: and whatever they feel is wrong, and say, okay, So
Speaker 1: I'm then the man in this because this seems acceptable.
Speaker 1: But I don't know a man breathing air that don't
Speaker 1: want to take care of his old lady. And what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, I mean, pay the mortgage right, pay the bills.
Speaker 1: I don't know a man who doesn't want to do
Speaker 1: that or doesn't or doesn't like to. Now if they
Speaker 1: can't afford to is different. That's where they start to
Speaker 1: make excuses and reason. And we have problems. M Well,
Speaker 1: because I don't like to cook. I don't like to cook.
Speaker 1: Let me. I like to make tacos. She said, tacos?
Speaker 1: You do make good? Do I make good Mexican food?
Speaker 1: Passive saying that tacos is fine? Look, no seilings, Jim
Speaker 1: Red's happening. Look, I don't have much to say. What
Speaker 1: you mean, you don't have much to say? I really
Speaker 1: don't have much to say about it, because it's like,
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, it's like, what can
Speaker 1: I really say? Like and you know, like, I don't
Speaker 1: know how you could consider yourself a good woman if
Speaker 1: you don't like to cook. I didn't say that I
Speaker 1: don't cook that woman. Okay, she she doesn't like to
Speaker 1: cook or whatever, but she always makes sure that you're
Speaker 1: fed and it's good food. It doesn't matter that she
Speaker 1: didn't cook. What if she didn't know how to cook?
Speaker 1: And why would you not learn how? Like how could
Speaker 1: you walk to I was gonna say, if you didn't
Speaker 1: know how to cut, you shouldn't learn how to click.
Speaker 1: If you have to feed, that means you just didn't
Speaker 1: fucking learn. There are so many opportunities to learn how.
Speaker 1: And that's specifically not but get what you're saying. Look,
Speaker 1: I was My mother had me in the kitchen that
Speaker 1: like you or my grandma had me picking like green
Speaker 1: beans and stuff when I was a kid, like learning
Speaker 1: how to do stuff like that. And so I mean
Speaker 1: some people they do teach you. How do y'all feel
Speaker 1: about rent splitters? Dude that want to split the rent
Speaker 1: with you? Honestly, I know y'all in a deep bond
Speaker 1: because you like saying I don't like to cook or don't,
Speaker 1: but don't answer from that because it would really be
Speaker 1: tacky and everybody gonna smell that you lying. So I
Speaker 1: need you to find a space to be honest, even
Speaker 1: if you think it's going to sound weird. How do
Speaker 1: you feel about that? Do you feel like you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying? Like you can marry a man who
Speaker 1: you split the rent with yea for the rest of
Speaker 1: your life. I mean, why not we in it together?
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know what do you respect about man?
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, what I respect about man? Of
Speaker 1: course a man I could take care of his family?
Speaker 1: I mean, but really taking care of his family if
Speaker 1: if y'all I believe so, he's able to provide something.
Speaker 1: It's not like he's coming in there and not providing anything.
Speaker 1: But wouldn't it be y'all taking care of the family
Speaker 1: at that point? I mean, yeah, true, But that doesn't
Speaker 1: mean that he's not providing anything. I'd be different if
Speaker 1: he came he can't can't. Um, do you consider that
Speaker 1: person a provider if they only provide what you're providing? Like,
Speaker 1: wouldn't that make your providers will, Yeah, that would make
Speaker 1: me a provider as well. But do you really I
Speaker 1: wouldn't knock that. I wouldn't knocked that. I mean, okay,
Speaker 1: I only live I only live with one guy. And
Speaker 1: the guy that I lived with, he did take care
Speaker 1: of the rent, but I took care of the bills
Speaker 1: and then I, um, you know, I bought the groceries
Speaker 1: and stuff like that. But so but he wanted to
Speaker 1: make sure that I want to finished school and stuff
Speaker 1: like that. But I was thinking a little different. What
Speaker 1: if he was like, yo, we lived together, you live
Speaker 1: here too, so we should split ittift? Oh no, I'll
Speaker 1: probably be like, dang, why I gotta pay rent? But me,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I've never been that situation. I wouldn't
Speaker 1: want I wouldn't want it, Like what do you Okay?
Speaker 1: So if he had it, but yeah, no, like you
Speaker 1: know where we we go, Dutch, I'm gonna cook you
Speaker 1: gonna last show. I just told you I I would
Speaker 1: want a man to take care of me like I
Speaker 1: would would love it. But I'm not saying that that's
Speaker 1: all I would need, like I would be okay. But
Speaker 1: if if I had that, I'll be good too. I
Speaker 1: don't know ship because that never really I just think
Speaker 1: there's a problem like where we That's probably not true.
Speaker 1: Why do you think that what you respect about me
Speaker 1: and is rooted? Like let's say if a dude was
Speaker 1: giving you ship right and he couse was bullying like
Speaker 1: he was on you, and then your nigga tried to
Speaker 1: fight him, and then your nigga got mopped up and
Speaker 1: he kept working with you, and your nigga was beat up,
Speaker 1: knocked out? What you mean sucking with me? He just
Speaker 1: like flirting with you or being a little inappropriate touching you,
Speaker 1: and your nigga try to fade him, and then your
Speaker 1: nigga get mopped up. Okay, that's different though, that's a
Speaker 1: little bit different, is it? Like he tried, he stood
Speaker 1: up to try to protect and he got knocked out,
Speaker 1: damn like mocked up, and then nigga was on you.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't even I wouldn't. I couldn't that dude, not
Speaker 1: the guy, but not my dude. But I couldn't work
Speaker 1: with that guy that was flirting with me. But probably
Speaker 1: how do you feel about you? Let me shut up,
Speaker 1: but how do you feel about your dude at that point? Dang?
Speaker 1: I wouldn't. I gonna be honest with you all, probably Damn, damn,
Speaker 1: you just funked up. That's like I remember that time
Speaker 1: I went to it. I can't even say this on
Speaker 1: this aird right now, Yes, you can't say it. I
Speaker 1: went to this um this concert with this guy. I
Speaker 1: didn't go with him, but we end up seeing each
Speaker 1: other there. And I actually saw this nigga get like
Speaker 1: picked up, like damn near picked up and moved to
Speaker 1: the side, and I was like, oh, ship, you just
Speaker 1: let it, just literally took him by dollar and moved.
Speaker 1: This was somebody was dating. It was somebody that I
Speaker 1: was there together and I was with you. I've seen
Speaker 1: him there. What concert was it? You see? That's why
Speaker 1: I didn't want to bring it up to you. See,
Speaker 1: just you can say it. And we signed and I'm
Speaker 1: gonna that. I was like, damn, I couldn't. I couldn't.
Speaker 1: Did I see? I just literally watched. You didn't see it.
Speaker 1: I told you you was there. Oh damn good you
Speaker 1: didn't see that because you have been clowning the whole time.
Speaker 1: But you to ask your question, I don't I don't think.
Speaker 1: I don't think I could listen. I mean, look, you
Speaker 1: ain't gonna win every you know, every fight, you know,
Speaker 1: but I understand. Let's say every time you'll get stood up,
Speaker 1: that's what every time, every time you try to protect you,
Speaker 1: you just get can protect me? So good enough? Still
Speaker 1: is he's still like you're like, you know what, I'm
Speaker 1: sticking with you because you have a penis that makes
Speaker 1: you a man and you don't have to protect me
Speaker 1: because he has a penis, right, so that can make
Speaker 1: him protector? Like in what since do we look at
Speaker 1: these gender roles and when do we actually say okay?
Speaker 1: Is it only like uh, like we're saying this today
Speaker 1: it's a new day. That that expression when you just
Speaker 1: you list a new day, how much of a new
Speaker 1: day is it? Is? It? Is it a new day enough?
Speaker 1: Where um, you don't care if your man is a
Speaker 1: protector for some women it is. I think everybody's lying
Speaker 1: when they try to act like they want to evolve.
Speaker 1: I think obviously women, right, they want to have as
Speaker 1: little accountability as possible. I don't mean that negatively, just honestly,
Speaker 1: it's just kind of how it is. But I still
Speaker 1: think you want a man to be accountable completely. And
Speaker 1: I'll just be thinking about that sometimes. Um so if you,
Speaker 1: if you're a girl is cooking, you're getting all your meals,
Speaker 1: but she doesn't necessarily like to cook. Are you gonna
Speaker 1: feel something like I'd be pretty devastated. What if she
Speaker 1: just didn't tell you? Well, then that's smart. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: would just wouldn't tell him that, Like like I wasn't
Speaker 1: tell him that, like I don't want to come. I
Speaker 1: just couldn't imagine I don't like him. I just but
Speaker 1: I just couldn't imagine not liking to be I'm telling
Speaker 1: y'all that I don't like to cook. My dude, probably
Speaker 1: he don't know I don't like to cook. I'm sure
Speaker 1: he knows. You know this show he's been new. You
Speaker 1: could tell when somebody don't like to cook. But I
Speaker 1: don't know. It's a joy if you've been if you
Speaker 1: likes to cook, it's a joy about it. I agree
Speaker 1: with that because I like when I cook, and that's
Speaker 1: what I like about cooking. When I see everybody like, oh,
Speaker 1: this is good, like you put, I'll be like, thank you,
Speaker 1: I did that, and I like that. I like that
Speaker 1: you're happy and you fool I would think that that's
Speaker 1: like the ship. But I don't know, man, I'll get confused.
Speaker 1: Valentine's Day right and coming up, and I just think
Speaker 1: to myself, just like, man, I don't know what's gonna
Speaker 1: happen to the future. What about they have to do?
Speaker 1: What does that have to do. I'm probably gonna be
Speaker 1: laid out. I don't know what be doing, if I
Speaker 1: even be, you know, hopefully I'll be doing whatever. But um,
Speaker 1: I just was thinking about it, and it's been on
Speaker 1: my mind a lot. But the last podcast and different
Speaker 1: podcasts and listen to people talking like and I just like,
Speaker 1: I have no hope for the future, Like, no hope.
Speaker 1: I'm not lying, I have no hopes. I feel like
Speaker 1: we're going into a weird space where human beings are
Speaker 1: becoming less human, they're becoming more like animals. That the animals,
Speaker 1: the dogs are more protected than other human beings. You
Speaker 1: have people that really don't like to exemplify, you know,
Speaker 1: what we on this earth for? Like, how do you
Speaker 1: not like some of these things? That's just crazy to me.
Speaker 1: I love it. Do you think that you're on this
Speaker 1: earth to have a baby? I think that was definitely
Speaker 1: what my situation is unique, y'all? What is it unique?
Speaker 1: You haven't had no kids, But it doesn't make you
Speaker 1: less than you don't want to have kids? Why? How
Speaker 1: could you not be a man and not want to
Speaker 1: have kids? How could you not want to leave? How
Speaker 1: could you not want to leave your what? How I
Speaker 1: can't even have kids? Who said that I can't get pregnant?
Speaker 1: You know what? You know what? I can't have kids?
Speaker 1: You know what? I'm just saying. What's today? I'm done
Speaker 1: with you? How could you be a man and not
Speaker 1: want to put your leave your seed? Because I meet
Speaker 1: women now who don't want to cook, but you were
Speaker 1: put here. That's not too now? So how is it not? So?
Speaker 1: Why don't you have How could you be on this
Speaker 1: earth and not because for a long time I met
Speaker 1: women who didn't like to cook. That's so damn So
Speaker 1: that made you not want to have a damn kid?
Speaker 1: Who gonna feed my chip? No glasses? You used to
Speaker 1: say that you wanted to have a kid, you want
Speaker 1: to walk him to school and all that. Yes, because
Speaker 1: I thought I was gonna meet a wife, right, women
Speaker 1: who liked to cook, but you and be nurturers. And
Speaker 1: what I'm not I'm not meeting that. I'm meeting more
Speaker 1: women I'm not saying they are not exceeding at being
Speaker 1: a parent. I'm saying I'm meeting more women that I
Speaker 1: care about selfish and personal things. So if you having
Speaker 1: kids is probably the most selfish decision we make in
Speaker 1: our life, right, and then it makes you the most
Speaker 1: selfless motherfucker. Every reason people have a kid is selfish?
Speaker 1: What makes me think I'm so great that I should
Speaker 1: leave myself on this earth that you got to be?
Speaker 1: I just want to leave a little bit of me left, bitch.
Speaker 1: You wasn't that special. But that's what we're here for.
Speaker 1: We're here to pass information. So when when you have
Speaker 1: a kid, right, your sales pass information to a child.
Speaker 1: I'm passing y'all information and the world information. Excuse me,
Speaker 1: When you get married, you our intimate it's to have children? Right? No,
Speaker 1: what do you mean? No, it's not. That's not what
Speaker 1: I'm doing it for. Is that what it's supposed to
Speaker 1: be generals for? That? That's so what are you doing?
Speaker 1: I'm not Where is the little g? Where is the
Speaker 1: little g? You saw many little Jesus? No, no, no, Jack,
Speaker 1: where is the where you don't see these niggas? Jack?
Speaker 1: In my style? Now you're not knowing what you're supposed
Speaker 1: to do. I'm disappointed in you. But the difference is,
Speaker 1: I'm not saying I like it too. You said I
Speaker 1: don't want to have it. I'm telling you, how do you?
Speaker 1: How do you like these? You have a wild when women?
Speaker 1: How are you in a relationship and you don't have
Speaker 1: no kids and you're having you know, technically your woman
Speaker 1: becomes your child. Listen here, you gotta get excited when
Speaker 1: you take them to dinner like kids. They want to
Speaker 1: tanch you like kids. You gotta watch them like kids.
Speaker 1: When you really get your kid, you get it. But
Speaker 1: it really is, where is the little g and the
Speaker 1: little get man to some of these niggas wrapped? I'm
Speaker 1: doing a fantastic job of passing information. But the difference
Speaker 1: is it's not because you're It's not about not wanting to.
Speaker 1: It's a not desire to. Of course, when I was
Speaker 1: when I was twenty No, no, no, you don't that
Speaker 1: it's not. But it's not a question of desire. It's
Speaker 1: not a question of desire. Is it doesn't make sense
Speaker 1: for you to have a kid, but you're supposed to.
Speaker 1: Why That's why you bust a nut right is to
Speaker 1: have a kid. Sure, so then that person didn't get pregnant.
Speaker 1: Mm hmm, it's not my fault. I can't get pregnant
Speaker 1: when I was, when I was, when I all the
Speaker 1: way until I was twenty three, I just knew that
Speaker 1: I was gonna be married with children at really it
Speaker 1: was supposed to be. That was my only dream. My
Speaker 1: only dream was to be a pharmacist. Go to Zuosa
Speaker 1: Pacific and a degree in pharmacy, work at a pharmacy,
Speaker 1: open my own pharmacy, have a house in Lakewood Race car,
Speaker 1: a wife, a couple of kids. That was my dream. Sick,
Speaker 1: that's how compact and small and reasons I had a
Speaker 1: house in Lakewood. But the point I'm saying to you
Speaker 1: is when you start meeting the opposite sex, that's where
Speaker 1: you started being like, your how realistic is this going
Speaker 1: to be? How do you well when you meet that?
Speaker 1: When you meet the one and you guys, tie the knot.
Speaker 1: Now it's time to have a kid, because that's what
Speaker 1: you're supposed to Everybody having kids without trying to not
Speaker 1: when you gotta go that far, and it's a whole
Speaker 1: bunch of women that don't know how to cook and
Speaker 1: I feel that. That's my point. That's why they ain't
Speaker 1: got no business getting bregnant. It's not just about not
Speaker 1: knowing how like I get it if you just don't know,
Speaker 1: But how don't you want to learn? Every Man should
Speaker 1: learn how to change all your agree with. Every Man
Speaker 1: should know how to change the type. Every man should
Speaker 1: know how to change the light book, and they should
Speaker 1: love it. It's the reason why you exist. Every Man
Speaker 1: should take up some level of fisticuffs to know how
Speaker 1: to defend your your family. Every man should, especially in America,
Speaker 1: you own a pistol if you legally can, and know
Speaker 1: how to shoot it, just in case that day comes
Speaker 1: when you have to defend your family. These are part
Speaker 1: of what make a man a man. Yeah, every man,
Speaker 1: I don't get how you don't like to. You know
Speaker 1: what's funny? I like to fight. Now. That don't mean
Speaker 1: I walk around starting fights. I enjoy it. It worked
Speaker 1: out for me, and I know some guys who don't,
Speaker 1: but that's because they don't understand. So you got a
Speaker 1: couple of different kind of fighters. You've got guys who
Speaker 1: can fight that blackout. They want to stomp your head
Speaker 1: in the ground and acting donkey, and they don't even
Speaker 1: have control themselves. Like you win in the fight that
Speaker 1: they're on the ground, don't not finish, stomp your head.
Speaker 1: I already won. Whatever I couldn't explain through verbals, I
Speaker 1: explained through these fits. So you got people don't like
Speaker 1: to fight because they don't know how or they're not
Speaker 1: control their selves. But a standard fistic cover match is
Speaker 1: not really a big deal. It's it's conversations outside of
Speaker 1: verbal sometimes it becomes physical. I need to explain this
Speaker 1: to you, nigger, and the words are not working for me.
Speaker 1: Understanding the words that are coming out they know and
Speaker 1: then so understand the words that's coming out of my fist.
Speaker 1: So I truly enjoy being a man. I don't. There's
Speaker 1: nothing about being a man I don't enjoy. Now I'm
Speaker 1: not saying there's nothing wrong with the parts of that
Speaker 1: you don't enjoy. Yeah, I'm not. You don't want to
Speaker 1: have kids, that's not part of being a man. Why
Speaker 1: it's just not being a father. Well, that's being a father.
Speaker 1: I'm not a father. That don't mean I'm not a man.
Speaker 1: But in order for you to be here, mean to
Speaker 1: be here, we had to have a father so it
Speaker 1: is a part fantastic. That's really a woman, right, so
Speaker 1: he not really a man? No? No, no, no, no.
Speaker 1: First off, I can't have a baby. No, but you
Speaker 1: said that a woman. I'm saying, you're saying that for
Speaker 1: a woman can't cook? And I said, I said that,
Speaker 1: how do they feed their kids? I said, what they
Speaker 1: haven't had You said, what they haven't had kids yet?
Speaker 1: I said, well, then they don't have a reason to
Speaker 1: become a woman. Mm hmmm, because they are. So you
Speaker 1: can play around like you could, which I don't know
Speaker 1: why you're not preparing. You know, maybe you you know,
Speaker 1: you hear people like I'm having fun, It's like, well,
Speaker 1: you're just being a hoar? What is having fun outside
Speaker 1: of being a hor for women? Wow? It sounds a
Speaker 1: little harsh, but I mean, if you're not in Nigga's
Speaker 1: face and getting drinks at the clubs and parties and
Speaker 1: meeting different guys, what are you really doing? What's fun
Speaker 1: about being a woman? At that point it just becomes
Speaker 1: regular human being. Ship Like, if you ain't going to
Speaker 1: the parties getting free ja, what are you doing? What
Speaker 1: do you mean what's fun for a woman? When people
Speaker 1: say like you don't need to get so serious. You
Speaker 1: need to go out and have fun. What does that
Speaker 1: mean not have any responsibilities? In which world does that
Speaker 1: seem like fun? To avoid responsibility? Look how we even
Speaker 1: raise people? Well, I'm saying responsible for someone else, But
Speaker 1: that's the point of it. Like literally, and you're not married,
Speaker 1: and you don't have the husband or the detector, the
Speaker 1: whole family. Just keep meeting guys. And you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. That's like I'm not telling my daughter in general.
Speaker 1: It's like my daughter she's in college right now. No,
Speaker 1: you don't have need to have children. You need to
Speaker 1: focus on that, you know what I say. I'm not
Speaker 1: telling her go out and party, but no, you don't
Speaker 1: need to have children right now. Like you got other
Speaker 1: things that you need to worry about. You can't even
Speaker 1: take your of yourself children, not right now? Why so,
Speaker 1: because she she's barely taking care of herself having another
Speaker 1: child in this we're not in in um, you know,
Speaker 1: but what do they call it? Ancient times? Where like
Speaker 1: it was different, you know, where women couldn't work, or
Speaker 1: women couldn't go to school, or women couldn't be educated,
Speaker 1: or you know, they just wanted to have them. You know,
Speaker 1: they were just have children in yeah to taking care.
Speaker 1: So we are in and I'm not telling my daughter
Speaker 1: who's nineteen, yes, go and have a child. No, I
Speaker 1: would want her to meet her husband and so have
Speaker 1: a child. So what if she got married next year
Speaker 1: in college? I mean, if she got married next year
Speaker 1: in college, then she gets married next year, I want
Speaker 1: a kid. Okay, that's I felt that too, because because
Speaker 1: you're trying to hold your points so cold, but you
Speaker 1: just realize it was soonestly, I listen, it's not time
Speaker 1: for her to have children. What's the time? Not now?
Speaker 1: What is the time? A different time than definitely not
Speaker 1: give me a time. Because when you're saying, why can't
Speaker 1: I wait till I'm tifty, wait till you fifty? Who you? Yeah?
Speaker 1: What's wrong with that? Because because is at the time,
Speaker 1: because you everything, everybody's your situation is already I'm still
Speaker 1: literally doing what your daughter is doing. I'm literally running
Speaker 1: a business. Hold up, because because you understand his mom,
Speaker 1: and this is what you don't want for your daughter,
Speaker 1: because she's learning, you know, she's trying to figure out
Speaker 1: life and stuff. Right, that's what you're saying. Right, you
Speaker 1: said you don't want her to have that because blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. So what about glasses malone, who was trying
Speaker 1: to let me, let me make my point to Rodge
Speaker 1: and enterprise business. I'm trying to get no selings off
Speaker 1: the ground. I got all this work I gotta do.
Speaker 1: I gotta put my whole cow. I got so much
Speaker 1: stuff to do. Like your daughter, I don't have time
Speaker 1: for a child. But how could you be a man
Speaker 1: and not want to have a family. That of course
Speaker 1: I want a family. I've always wanted a family. That
Speaker 1: don't mean that it's time you said you're You're not.
Speaker 1: You don't it's not. It wasn't about this high year.
Speaker 1: What I told you. What happened was I kept meeting women,
Speaker 1: but were talking about now. So now put my business
Speaker 1: like your daughters and treatment. You see the different No difference,
Speaker 1: It is a difference. No, it's a differently because you
Speaker 1: were like, no, that I'm not having kids. I literally
Speaker 1: said that after meeting women who didn't really want to
Speaker 1: be a family. But that's it's done. You have a
Speaker 1: this way deeper than that. I meet women who don't
Speaker 1: want to be a family. So he's just saying in general,
Speaker 1: like it, just you don't like you like they don't.
Speaker 1: I don't like. Think about women. Think about that little
Speaker 1: piece of me and me that died when you said
Speaker 1: you don't like something. He probably here the like in
Speaker 1: the room. Think about that little piece of me that
Speaker 1: just died when you said you don't like cooking. A
Speaker 1: little piece of me died, like when this man said
Speaker 1: he had to fly three thousand miles, not even three thousands,
Speaker 1: three thousand bad. Listen, listen. Just because I don't like
Speaker 1: to cook, don't mean that my man is not fed exactly.
Speaker 1: It's definitely fed. He is. Yeah, I don't know how
Speaker 1: you could not another thing though, I ain't talking. I'm
Speaker 1: just saying some people, which is sad. I get it
Speaker 1: about to say some people have sex they don't like
Speaker 1: to have sex. But that's not You only supposed to
Speaker 1: have sex for one reason. We just missus everything. We
Speaker 1: have sex for white. Yeah, for one thing. What is
Speaker 1: that to have children? And why you don't have no children?
Speaker 1: Because I'm miss used it like everybody else. The difference
Speaker 1: is I don't like to I frown it myself for
Speaker 1: getting pussy the way I've been in pussy my life.
Speaker 1: I frowned him. Might be like, you ain't had no kids,
Speaker 1: you to suck all these holes? Man, what are you
Speaker 1: doing with your life? Or you have met some pretty
Speaker 1: decent women? And then I always be like man, and
Speaker 1: she said she ain't gonna cook man, and like they're
Speaker 1: not proud of it, and it's like they don't really
Speaker 1: desire to be that type of thing. If you want,
Speaker 1: and I'm not saying women are just cooking, right, women
Speaker 1: can provide companionship a thousand other things. But then are
Speaker 1: you really good at these things? Yes, excellent? Don't be
Speaker 1: doing don't don't don't. I didn't even say anything, you know,
Speaker 1: I didn't say ship. What the fuck? I didn't do nothing. Listen,
Speaker 1: y'all need to stop. I didn't do nothing. Damn might
Speaker 1: even say nothing y'all all my as my name said
Speaker 1: ship because you always over here talking about what we
Speaker 1: ain't got going on the same way, why you don't
Speaker 1: have no kids? And where's like I said, I've been
Speaker 1: a part of raising other people's children. I'm doing my part,
Speaker 1: and I enjoyed it. I didn't like. I didn't like
Speaker 1: it if I had get kids up from squatting back.
Speaker 1: I don't like picking kids up from school. I just
Speaker 1: never felt that way. It's not like I don't like
Speaker 1: the idea of being a parent. I don't like the
Speaker 1: idea of co parenting with somebody who doesn't want to
Speaker 1: truly like being a parent. If you don't like, like,
Speaker 1: if you don't like let's say, if a woman didn't
Speaker 1: like cooking or cleaning, it's like that's like devastating. It's
Speaker 1: like we have to be a parent unit together, and
Speaker 1: it all means you're not gonna be a parent unit.
Speaker 1: It's just they don't like to do it, but they're
Speaker 1: gonna do it. But they don't like. You know, people
Speaker 1: don't like to go to school, but they go to school.
Speaker 1: How don't you like to learn? There's a lot of
Speaker 1: people that don't like to learn. I can't really that's
Speaker 1: again like that said, that's a malfunction. There's gonna but
Speaker 1: there's a people I mean, yeah, not grown ups, not adults,
Speaker 1: not you know, they definitely you're they like learning. That's
Speaker 1: why they're going to school, you know, But that's not true.
Speaker 1: They may not like. They just going because they need to.
Speaker 1: It's a reason like they gotta get, you know, might
Speaker 1: be something, Yeah, you want to go sit in a
Speaker 1: class where whatever. A lot of people. I like it.
Speaker 1: I love I like certain courses. Listen. I'm not look,
Speaker 1: this comes across a little he man, but it's really not.
Speaker 1: It's just like I enjoyed being a man, and that's good.
Speaker 1: I'm happy that you do enjoy that. Are being a man,
Speaker 1: being a father I said. I didn't say I enjoy
Speaker 1: being a father. Being a man A part of being
Speaker 1: a father, a part of being a man. It's not
Speaker 1: like being a being a woman. Don't have to be
Speaker 1: being a mother. But nurturing is a natural thing, like
Speaker 1: protecting is a natural thing. I don't have to just
Speaker 1: protect my kid, right, I protect other people? Can I
Speaker 1: show other people kids how to fight? M So I'm
Speaker 1: literally a protector and provider for earth, not just personal.
Speaker 1: Like if a little kid was walking down the street,
Speaker 1: and you know, if the one who was walking down
Speaker 1: street and the nigger for the kicker ass almost hey
Speaker 1: bro chill, I mean, like, relax now, if it's his woman,
Speaker 1: I'm back up. But if like let's say it's a
Speaker 1: stranger man messing with this woman, messing with a woman
Speaker 1: he just owner and he hey bro, relax, if it's
Speaker 1: a kid at the park shooting jump shots and he
Speaker 1: don't got a good form. Amen, tuck you elbo. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna show him. I think that I like it, though,
Speaker 1: I think that I would probably like to cook more
Speaker 1: if I was just a homemaker. That don't even make sense.
Speaker 1: I think I would enjoy it more. But because I
Speaker 1: have so many different things going on, it's just sometimes
Speaker 1: just like, man, I don't want to cook this. I
Speaker 1: cook it, but I just I don't want to change that.
Speaker 1: You have to get you more excited about being a nurturer.
Speaker 1: It's an awesome thing, awesome dog, It's so awesome. It's
Speaker 1: one of the most attractive traits for women. I mean,
Speaker 1: they enjoy that. Look, I get it. Um. I meet
Speaker 1: some women that I never I met women in my
Speaker 1: life I should have never opened the door for they
Speaker 1: was like the worst type of women. If I opened
Speaker 1: the door for this motherfucker, I'm tripping. But I opened
Speaker 1: the door because I enjoyed being a man. It's not
Speaker 1: necessarily representation of my responsibility or how many crappy women
Speaker 1: I meet. Like if I made a crappy woman in
Speaker 1: the past, that don't mean y'all deserve to be crappy.
Speaker 1: So my circumstances don't change the man that I am. Right.
Speaker 1: So that's like I know that I enjoyed. No, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: I enjoy it. That's the cornerstone of everything. You know.
Speaker 1: And I'm not saying you know it's wrong that you
Speaker 1: don't like to. I think that's just where we had
Speaker 1: in time, A little piece of you died. It was
Speaker 1: like little pieces gown. So what's your plans for Valentine's Day?
Speaker 1: I don't have any plans right now. You don't have
Speaker 1: a Valentine's Day. I don't know what I'm gonna do
Speaker 1: for Valentine's Day. Valentine's probably not what you mean. You
Speaker 1: don't have a Valentine. I don't know what what she got?
Speaker 1: Some ship? Damn, we gotta talk. I don't know what
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do. Probably, what's your plans for Valentine? What's yours?
Speaker 1: You're gonna cook something? I mean, you probably want to
Speaker 1: go out. I need to be off today, even the
Speaker 1: day of all loves like, I need to be off today.
Speaker 1: I think we might be going to see Mike Epps.
Speaker 1: I think we might go to Vegas. You know, I
Speaker 1: probably won't cook one actual Valentine's Day. I'll be home
Speaker 1: and I am gonna cook what kind of meal is
Speaker 1: a Valentine's Day meal? So it's gonna be whatever like
Speaker 1: his favorite. So he likes steak lamb. Probably do like
Speaker 1: his favorite type of steak. He likes lamb better, so um,
Speaker 1: I probably do like a Hebrew rab. He just started
Speaker 1: eating lamb when he got with me because we don't
Speaker 1: eat pork like I didn't grow up, even pork chops.
Speaker 1: We always eat lamb chops or Lamb shanks or stuff
Speaker 1: like that. So now he every Sunday it's like we
Speaker 1: always have like lamb. So if I was to do
Speaker 1: a steak like today, I made a ribby roast. Um.
Speaker 1: So yeah, I probably do like one of his favorite meals,
Speaker 1: which is gonna be lamb, And I probably do like
Speaker 1: a rack a lamb or Lamb shanks, and then probably
Speaker 1: like some um jasmine rice and maybe like some grill
Speaker 1: vegetables or something like that. On getting I don't know.
Speaker 1: You know, honestly, I never felt like me is supposed to.
Speaker 1: I'm wrong, but I agree. I never felt that my
Speaker 1: ex I was annoyed because he really felt like, yeah,
Speaker 1: like he expected remember that he expected a Valentine's and
Speaker 1: that was the first. We're all wrong, but I mean
Speaker 1: me and you are wrong, but I do agree slipping
Speaker 1: like because I think I've always started Valentine's Day as
Speaker 1: a woman's day. I think it is too I think so,
Speaker 1: But I like my He was really like, I'm like,
Speaker 1: because what did I get him? Oh? I got him
Speaker 1: some um some floor mats. His new car he got
Speaker 1: he had a new car. I've been decided about that.
Speaker 1: But but but I'm a gift of purpose type of person.
Speaker 1: I'm a man's man. Gifts that like screwdrivers, right, I
Speaker 1: get you got me like that? That's why he's in
Speaker 1: ex man now. He would love anythough thing for the car.
Speaker 1: It's like for me, I would do something. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just put together like special gifts. I don't really
Speaker 1: you feel like you're supposed to get laid on Valentine's Day? Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you're supposed to get laid, or you're supposed to get laid,
Speaker 1: or you're supposed to do the lane like you're supposed to. Like, hey,
Speaker 1: we could do Is that a gift? I love that?
Speaker 1: Are you giving him? Are you? Are you wrapping up
Speaker 1: and giving it like, oh that ship like one time
Speaker 1: and he's and ship crotchless panties. Yeah, I didn't understand
Speaker 1: that the girl walked into crosses panty. I would cry,
Speaker 1: like why no he he say, he say, you've never
Speaker 1: seen I'm not why, But I agree because I just
Speaker 1: didn't say. I didn't understand what was the purpose of
Speaker 1: the pantis. But it's supposed to be I guess probably
Speaker 1: looks sexy. It's like a whole little thing. It literally
Speaker 1: just what is it there for? The one thing? So
Speaker 1: what is it like? It literally this is all open,
Speaker 1: like it literally just covers the back of your like
Speaker 1: but in you're like your your giant. Everything's open, like
Speaker 1: there's nothing there in the middle. I had to be weird.
Speaker 1: It was weird. So it's probably like to have like
Speaker 1: the brawn a whole little like sexy thing. That's probably
Speaker 1: why it's like that. I think I heard, you know,
Speaker 1: maybe like some edible panties. Edible panties is fine like that. No,
Speaker 1: it's I'm not into that though. That's not I'm not
Speaker 1: because I'm not into I'm not a super romantic person
Speaker 1: I believe in like I'm not I'm not like a
Speaker 1: that kind of person, like I'm more of a Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not like that. I'm saying he didn't really care,
Speaker 1: Like if you were, I don't even like lines read
Speaker 1: you're not romantic though, No, I don't think so. I
Speaker 1: think I'm more like I don't know the quite word,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like, um, romance just has
Speaker 1: to a touch of corniness to me. That but you're thoughtful. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so like that's when that's romantic. Well, I can't find
Speaker 1: I think people can find romance in who I am.
Speaker 1: But I'm not like rose petals leading up to the
Speaker 1: world parts like okay, but you're are you more so
Speaker 1: like you see something that made me think of you
Speaker 1: type that's romantic and that's romantic. That is really romantic.
Speaker 1: I'm saying based off the traditional sense of what people
Speaker 1: use and all that. So you a woman, we definitely
Speaker 1: we wouldn't see like a video where she's like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, thank you gee because there's rose petals and
Speaker 1: like all this that's flowers. Yeah okay, but I'm not
Speaker 1: like rose petals made me. Uh that's just Tuesday. I
Speaker 1: get you, that's just Tuesday, you know, And I'm not
Speaker 1: My hands are really strong and funked up, so like
Speaker 1: I'm stupid heavy and so mamassages ain't really great like
Speaker 1: you really, I do not know that they are not
Speaker 1: good at giving the massage. I'm not If you ask
Speaker 1: me for a massage, that's that's that's that's my I
Speaker 1: like dang like he's the same way. But I think
Speaker 1: you guys are like manly men and there's not I
Speaker 1: love manly men. It's just I love it, but it's
Speaker 1: not a lot of manly man and it sucks because
Speaker 1: I guess I'm not sound like the cook. I'm not
Speaker 1: like a womanly woman. But they you know, but I
Speaker 1: do it fine? That would be so dope. Desired. Got
Speaker 1: to find a certain space to where you desire to
Speaker 1: excel in the simple roles in life. Like if you
Speaker 1: don't enjoy that, and then it's never going to be
Speaker 1: done with the joy and care should be done with.
Speaker 1: You're missing out on what makes it great. You're missing
Speaker 1: out on everything that's awesome about it. That the nourishment
Speaker 1: of a man, how a dude feels and how he looks.
Speaker 1: I love that, though, how could you not like that? Like,
Speaker 1: I'm not like, like, even if you didn't like the
Speaker 1: concept of standing up, which I don't. That's just so
Speaker 1: unny humanly, but or turning your arms to stir or
Speaker 1: you know, watching I don't get quite what it is
Speaker 1: because I don't know what I'm saying. But I'm saying
Speaker 1: the desire of it all should That's just I'm always
Speaker 1: I'm always looking for time. So I think for me, like,
Speaker 1: there are meals besides taco. That was just being funny,
Speaker 1: but there are. I'm just saying there are meals I
Speaker 1: do like to cook. But I think because I'm just
Speaker 1: always looking for time, it's like I don't like to
Speaker 1: cook because I would think you don't like to work.
Speaker 1: I know, I don't see now that's different. So but
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. But she just said you don't
Speaker 1: like to work or cook. That's think about it. You've
Speaker 1: to count that, you'ven count that they were both didn't
Speaker 1: trip off that well. But I said, you said you
Speaker 1: would be You wouldn't mind being a homemaker, right if
Speaker 1: if you weren't, Yeah, I would mind you like you know,
Speaker 1: she says, she you would like it, right, She said
Speaker 1: she wouldn't mind. She said that. I said last week
Speaker 1: or a couple of weeks ago, I said, yeah, I
Speaker 1: would love to be a homemaker, Like if I didn't
Speaker 1: have to work and I could just But how would
Speaker 1: you love to be homemaker if you don't love to cook,
Speaker 1: Because I'm saying right now, I don't. It's the fact
Speaker 1: that I don't really have the time. So I'm just
Speaker 1: I'm just always running, you know what I'm saying. It's
Speaker 1: like I don't really get to take the time to
Speaker 1: enjoy that thing that I'm doing. Yes, I'm always running.
Speaker 1: This is a consistent joke between like, bro, you work
Speaker 1: from home. I'm not saying you're not racking your brain
Speaker 1: and I'm not saying even though you shouldn't be stressing
Speaker 1: at home. But but it's weird. Okay, So it's like
Speaker 1: it's weird because I do work from home. Now this
Speaker 1: is new, right, I haven't worked that from I've always
Speaker 1: worked and I haven't worked from home. And I took
Speaker 1: care of kids and they have practice and I had
Speaker 1: a whole show that I went to at nine and
Speaker 1: I was there on time, did coming all the way
Speaker 1: from the valley all that. But now it's crazy, it's
Speaker 1: like I'm at home, you know, I'm working, taking care
Speaker 1: of the baby. People listening to this ship like holy ship. Whatever.
Speaker 1: I'm working, I'm taking care of the baby, I'm cooking,
Speaker 1: I'm cleaning, and you know, shopping. Sometimes I don't even
Speaker 1: get to leave. I'll just try to like door dash
Speaker 1: um and it's like I'm still trying to find time,
Speaker 1: like I guess to fit me in there. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: that's kind of the point of having children, to not
Speaker 1: be able to fit you in there. Yeah, you lose
Speaker 1: you first, And I guess because you know, I had
Speaker 1: kids young, and then I had I tell Joey induce right.
Speaker 1: The giants La Johns shout out to the home like
Speaker 1: they they really fantastic rappers. They were raised to be rappers,
Speaker 1: they were really born to be rappers. And they have
Speaker 1: went to the college. Their father player hand put them
Speaker 1: through the college of it and they are fantastic. But
Speaker 1: they have a fucked up understanding where it's like they
Speaker 1: feel like I need to make time to rap. No, no, See,
Speaker 1: this is the thing about this as your career. This
Speaker 1: is the thing about kids. Do that make it tough
Speaker 1: when you're doing hip hop and when you're trying to
Speaker 1: start this business, you have to find time to be
Speaker 1: somebody's boyfriend. You have to find time to be somebody's father.
Speaker 1: You have to do this. This is a commitment and
Speaker 1: if you make it a hobby, you just about sign
Speaker 1: you no chance opportunity. You have no chance. So you
Speaker 1: have to be a wife first and everything. Find time
Speaker 1: to be everything. And even people make disagree with this,
Speaker 1: but literally, from the most historical ideas, you're supposed to
Speaker 1: find time to be a mother. You're supposed to always
Speaker 1: have time to be a wife. You find time to
Speaker 1: be a mother, You find time to be a homemaker,
Speaker 1: and you find time for your job. You always find
Speaker 1: time for those things. The for shure thing is being
Speaker 1: a wife. So I don't know how you don't like that,
Speaker 1: and I think it's priorities. Yeah, and what we've learned
Speaker 1: or seen or like, you know, because the way you
Speaker 1: broke that down where it's like, okay, you are you
Speaker 1: should you have to find time and yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: and it's like that job. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But you you know what I'm saying. You can't say
Speaker 1: that job, that job, But you have to say you
Speaker 1: have to love cooking and nourishing your family. You have
Speaker 1: to love that today and hate your job. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean I get that. That's like today I was like
Speaker 1: you both. I don't hate cooking. I'm just not liking
Speaker 1: it right now. I'm trying to like I'm trying to um,
Speaker 1: I'm starting all over again. So this is like trying
Speaker 1: to find a balance. And at this age I figured
Speaker 1: I would be I mean because I have my kids young,
Speaker 1: so I figured I would be done. I never done
Speaker 1: doing what raising kids? And you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: not done with as far as like my marriage and
Speaker 1: things like that are like, you know, I don't know
Speaker 1: why people stop having kids that once you start having kids,
Speaker 1: excuse me, because you don't have one. An that's why
Speaker 1: you don't even have one. I'm not just I'm saying
Speaker 1: that's the point. So why would you stop if you
Speaker 1: have something, you don't have one. I'm allow, I'm letting
Speaker 1: y'all have the space. Why would you stop? I mean,
Speaker 1: first of all, you get to an age where you
Speaker 1: have to stop. Um, Financially, it may not be feasible
Speaker 1: for you to have children. Stop doing something of the
Speaker 1: ship you want to do. Take some backseats. If if
Speaker 1: you're if you're addition to the world, if your addition
Speaker 1: to the world is going to be children. Like my
Speaker 1: addition to the world is I'm passing information through film records.
Speaker 1: This is how pass information. Any great sale, the only
Speaker 1: single responsibility of even the most single sale is to
Speaker 1: pass information and not do this ship all the time,
Speaker 1: all the time to two millions of people. Right. But
Speaker 1: if you're going to have children and you're not teaching
Speaker 1: the world ship, you would think you would have more kids.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just think, like I said, I
Speaker 1: honestly think the world is going to a sense of
Speaker 1: selfishness and it's like we just kind of like, you know,
Speaker 1: mm hmmm, I don't know. I'm like, fuck it, yeah,
Speaker 1: this world is. It's cold world. I'm like, people care
Speaker 1: about the dogs more than humans. Yeah. Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1: These people be turning these dogs dogs eat your ass. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like this is a dog my girl stuff. She leaves
Speaker 1: her air conditioning on in the house for the dogs.
Speaker 1: My mom leaves her teeth if you don't put them
Speaker 1: fucking dogs outside in the doghouse. No, my mom leaves
Speaker 1: a TV on. She'll leave a light on if it's
Speaker 1: hot in the summer. YEA. What it is about white
Speaker 1: people and dogs, black dogs, I hope not my black
Speaker 1: grandfa in the outside and they came in, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean that when he let him in, but
Speaker 1: not they weren't there all the time getting Oh my dog?
Speaker 1: She owed, How did your dog? She's like sixteen and
Speaker 1: dog years, that's a hundred or something mine? Did you
Speaker 1: did you actually prepare all that? Did you start making arrangements?
Speaker 1: Do I need to it's happening soon? Huh? My son said,
Speaker 1: it seemed dog is a hundred five. She's still very life. Actually,
Speaker 1: your dog is a hundred hold up seven times fifteen
Speaker 1: five three? Yeah, seven years dog years seven verse sugar
Speaker 1: free verse as one dog is, it's seven dog years
Speaker 1: for a year, followed me. I got to figure out
Speaker 1: a hundred and sixty eight. Yeah, so how old is
Speaker 1: my dog? Your dog is a hundred and five fifteen
Speaker 1: times seven five three? She doing I'm really good. My
Speaker 1: son did say that looks like she's going blind. I'm
Speaker 1: sure seeing a lot of ships for a long time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she's been since the kids were in like elementary, they
Speaker 1: were a little, very little. Now I'm not getting another dog,
Speaker 1: so when it so before I leave? What is it
Speaker 1: about work? You don't like what is about work. Um
Speaker 1: actually like my job. I do like my job. I
Speaker 1: like my position. I like my job, like helping people.
Speaker 1: Um So I do like work. But I don't like
Speaker 1: the fact that I have to work and I have
Speaker 1: to take time away from my daughter. Or I can't
Speaker 1: do the things that I want to do. I mean,
Speaker 1: I still I can't do them right, like I can't
Speaker 1: like I have to um when I'm on the clock,
Speaker 1: somebody else's controlling what I do. Like you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, I can't just okay, I gotta stop doing
Speaker 1: this to take care of my man, like or I
Speaker 1: gotta take care of my daughter, my daughter, you know. Like,
Speaker 1: so I don't like the fact that I have to
Speaker 1: go into work and punch a clock into work. You
Speaker 1: got to start at least caring about some of these phrases.
Speaker 1: I don't like that I have to go to work.
Speaker 1: Geez leave her alone. Mentally, she's she goes into that room,
Speaker 1: she travels. I'm not saying you're not working. You're kind
Speaker 1: of using a lot of like phrases that include traffic
Speaker 1: and after go into work, where the funk are you
Speaker 1: going into the living room my office? I have to
Speaker 1: go into my office and do I love working from home?
Speaker 1: You use you like, go into I can't have time,
Speaker 1: and I don't have time. You know how funked up
Speaker 1: your ship would be if you had to drive to work.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I probably would have got fired having this
Speaker 1: baby and trying to if you actually had to go in, yeah,
Speaker 1: I would have been like, honey, the most woman This
Speaker 1: is the most womanly podcast. Like people are gonna listen
Speaker 1: to you and be like this is crazy whatever. Man
Speaker 1: for sure gonna be like what because You're like, I
Speaker 1: got to go into work, and I'm like, you don't go.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying is I can't just take care of
Speaker 1: my daughter, my family, my man, nourish them all day
Speaker 1: long because I have to work for the man. That's
Speaker 1: not true. People used to do that and take care
Speaker 1: of their family home. I have to work for the man.
Speaker 1: I did it too, But so you can do both.
Speaker 1: But it's hard. But it is difficult sometime because I
Speaker 1: who has ever had to So you don't even like
Speaker 1: it work unless you're self employed, but work for a
Speaker 1: company and still take care of your baby at the
Speaker 1: same time. Think that means you're saving that you can
Speaker 1: actually get a babysitter and spend some of that money. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I started trying to see about somebody helping on Tuesdays
Speaker 1: and Thursday. But I'm not sending her to daycare? Why not?
Speaker 1: So you want it all? My baby needs to be
Speaker 1: with me. I need to say, I'm she's not ready
Speaker 1: to go to daycare yet. She doesn't speak. Yeah, when
Speaker 1: you put the babies in the bay hare when they
Speaker 1: could turn I mean, this is a blessing for me
Speaker 1: because my other kids I had to put had to
Speaker 1: put them in daycare, like one, and she just turned
Speaker 1: one and I haven't had to Actually, No, I was
Speaker 1: back to work when they were babies, so they just
Speaker 1: went to like family and stuff like that, daycare, family, friends,
Speaker 1: to your office at home or knows. How do you
Speaker 1: figure this out? How do you figure out the time
Speaker 1: to do anything? It's hard, Lord knows, you're stuck in
Speaker 1: that living room traffic, that traffic from the from the
Speaker 1: that traffic from that traffic from your home office to
Speaker 1: your kitchen. Sometimes, man, you stuck at that intersection at
Speaker 1: the couch and Ricky Lake. It's hard. Good looking out
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