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Speaker 3: Hi, this is Joel and Victoria. Thanks for listening to

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Speaker 3: We appreciate you and pray for God's very best in

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Speaker 3: your life. Well, God bless you. Always a joy to

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Speaker 3: thank you again for coming out. And I like to

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Speaker 3: start with something funny and heard about this mom she

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Speaker 3: had two young boys that were known for their mischievous behavior.

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Speaker 3: Anytime trouble occurred, they were certain to be a part

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Speaker 3: first boy, son, where is God? He sat there silently,

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Speaker 3: ask again, where is God? Still no reply. The third

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Speaker 3: they think we did it. Hold up your bible and

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Speaker 3: say it like you mean it. This is my Bible.

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Speaker 3: I am what it says I am. I have what

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Speaker 3: heart is receptive. I will never be the same. In Jesus' name,

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Speaker 3: God bless you. I want to talk to you today

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Speaker 3: about having a healthy home. The people God put in

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Speaker 3: your life are not thereby accident. It's not a coincidence

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Speaker 3: that you met that woman, fell in love and got married.

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Speaker 3: The creator of the universe brought your path together. You

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Speaker 3: didn't just decide to have those children. They didn't just

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Speaker 3: put you there on purpose. He's given you, your spouse,

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Speaker 3: your wife, they may have some faults, you may not

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Speaker 3: And every day you need to tell them I love you,

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Speaker 3: That's one of the best habits we can all develop,

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Speaker 3: But I wonder how many relationships would go to a

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Speaker 3: expressing our love on a daily basis. I've learned yesterday's

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Speaker 3: split second. Those are not just nice phrase is. Those

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Speaker 3: something as simple as honey, I love you. You are speaking

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Speaker 3: one of your husband's greatest needs or is for you

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Speaker 3: to be proud of him. He may seem big, strong, invincible,

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Speaker 3: parents can be proud of him, and that's good. They

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Speaker 3: do that, that does more than all of the others combined.

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Speaker 3: Studies show us having a wife that's proud is at

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Speaker 3: the top of the list of what every male longs for. Women,

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Speaker 3: don't withhold your blessing. Just as you like to hear

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Speaker 3: husband will keep rising higher and higher. Now. He may

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Speaker 3: Your first mission field is your own family. The prophet

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Speaker 3: Joel said, to wake up the mighty men. I know

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Speaker 3: today I am speaking to mighty men. I'm speaking to

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Speaker 3: Not only that, I'm speaking to women of faith, women

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Speaker 3: You are one of a kind. Now, my challenge to

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Speaker 3: I believe and declare you will have a strong, healthy,

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Speaker 3: your family will rise up and become everything God's created

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Speaker 3: Would you pray with me? Just say, Lord, Jesus, I

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