1 00:00:10,240 --> 00:00:13,239 Speaker 1: Alaska. I hope you guys had a great weekend. We 2 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 1: are back to hang out with you. Let me say 3 00:00:15,960 --> 00:00:19,200 Speaker 1: more in studio Martin. The question is, if, like a bank, 4 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 1: gives you too much money, do you keep it? You know, 5 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 1: we always talk about this, if you find money, do 6 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:25,920 Speaker 1: you keep it? And it's almost every time, No, unless 7 00:00:26,200 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 1: your lunch box, and it's almost every time. Yes, Um, 8 00:00:29,320 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 1: you got paid too much once? It worked? Right? Oh yeah, 9 00:00:32,680 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 1: yeah and no no, I at the ATM, I put 10 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:37,720 Speaker 1: checks in and it gave me an extra four hundred 11 00:00:37,720 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 1: and fifty dollars, that's what it was, and book my 12 00:00:40,080 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 1: flights to Vegas. Well, he went to Vegas. That's right now, Amy, wife, 13 00:00:43,400 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 1: Amy's been paid too much by work. Yeah, it can't 14 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 1: be right. It's it just it can't. I don't even 15 00:00:51,040 --> 00:00:53,559 Speaker 1: know how it adds up to me. Right, Yeah, what 16 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:57,200 Speaker 1: you do? You just keep it? Right? I squirreled away 17 00:00:57,280 --> 00:00:59,280 Speaker 1: like a little squirrel in those little acorns of your mouth. 18 00:00:59,320 --> 00:01:01,440 Speaker 1: You just hide it. We're here. No, obviously I think 19 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:03,320 Speaker 1: I need to say something, or I wouldn't talk about 20 00:01:03,360 --> 00:01:05,480 Speaker 1: it on air because obviously I think some of our 21 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: bosses might hear and be like, hmm, let's get with accounting. 22 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:13,200 Speaker 1: But yeah, definitely got too much? Was it? Was it 23 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:19,479 Speaker 1: so big? Noticeably? Like you know they add a zero movie, 24 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, zero, Oh my gosh, they paid you 25 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 1: that much more. Wow. Now here's the thing. Our job 26 00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 1: is weird too, because we do different stuff totally. We 27 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:32,880 Speaker 1: are almost like freelance. We have a salary, but then 28 00:01:32,920 --> 00:01:34,600 Speaker 1: we also are freelance and if we do different stuff 29 00:01:34,600 --> 00:01:38,880 Speaker 1: for clients, you know they pay us to do it. Appearances, spots, endorsements, 30 00:01:39,680 --> 00:01:42,640 Speaker 1: other You think they added a zero to your paycheck 31 00:01:43,319 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: is definitely off. Something was off. But that's the thing. 32 00:01:46,840 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 1: It's not itemized. You know, when you go to your 33 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:53,400 Speaker 1: to look at your pay it is not totally broken down. 34 00:01:53,680 --> 00:01:56,480 Speaker 1: You have to say something obviously. That's why I'm saying 35 00:01:56,480 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 1: it on here. So this is me covering my bass. 36 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 1: You don't have to say. You can tell that was 37 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 1: just hypothetical, Like if they come to you like, no, 38 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:06,280 Speaker 1: I'm just joking. They're hearing this right now though, Well, 39 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 1: it wouldn't be hypothetical if it really happened, if they 40 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 1: look and it really happens. Also, if I'm saying it happened, 41 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:14,200 Speaker 1: and then he's telling me to say it's hypothetical, and 42 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 1: they hear this. That doesn't do anything for it, but 43 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:20,520 Speaker 1: you know, you do tell them money gone sorry? So 44 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:22,840 Speaker 1: that money you got because you went to Vegas? They 45 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 1: paid you too much? You took it to Vegas? Ye, 46 00:02:25,280 --> 00:02:28,920 Speaker 1: and then money god? Sorry? But then really what? And 47 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:30,919 Speaker 1: then a couple months later they sent me a letter 48 00:02:30,919 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 1: in the mail letting me know they removed it from 49 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 1: my account money gone sorry? From you? Did they sign 50 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:41,160 Speaker 1: it money gone? Money God? Sorry? Did you get excited 51 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:42,959 Speaker 1: for a minute because you thought you had made much 52 00:02:43,000 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 1: more in this check? Yeah? I just was, well, it 53 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 1: was instantly perplexed. So dang a whole zero. Wow, it's 54 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:51,440 Speaker 1: a lot of money. Who are you gonna call? I 55 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:54,840 Speaker 1: don't know who exactly. There's no one to call right 56 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:59,680 Speaker 1: everybody's out of the building because it'll be probably somebody 57 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 1: and in Antonio or something. And I gotta have my 58 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:04,919 Speaker 1: employee ID number ready because this seems like official business. 59 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:06,839 Speaker 1: So would you do amy? You just say you tried 60 00:03:06,880 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 1: to call, no one answered? Okay, try to call. Sorry, Sorry, 61 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:14,079 Speaker 1: no one answered. Sorry? Let us know that could be 62 00:03:14,080 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 1: awesome if it's real, though, that's the hope you cross 63 00:03:16,360 --> 00:03:20,200 Speaker 1: your fingers and go maybe that'll maybe that's awesome, good 64 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 1: good luck? Thanks? Um? Okay, who who would call? Who 65 00:03:22,600 --> 00:03:24,040 Speaker 1: would call? Or who would just wait it out to 66 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:25,400 Speaker 1: see if they come back and get it. I would 67 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:27,760 Speaker 1: wait it out. Sure, there's no there's no harm in that. 68 00:03:27,800 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 1: There's wait. But you save it, don't spend. I wouldn't 69 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:32,440 Speaker 1: spend it like lunchbox. Yeah, okay, Right, what would you do? 70 00:03:32,600 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 1: Take the money and I'd close the account. You're still 71 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 1: working with them, I guess if you were quitting, right, 72 00:03:41,200 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 1: it rights like I take that close account. I'm going 73 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:47,200 Speaker 1: to Mexico, I change my name. No, not for that. Um, 74 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:50,160 Speaker 1: this is what I would do. I would call because 75 00:03:50,200 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 1: eventually they're going to come for it anyway. Yeah, and 76 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:55,040 Speaker 1: so I would want the peace of mind either way, 77 00:03:55,280 --> 00:03:57,640 Speaker 1: to know you're getting the money, background keeping the money. 78 00:03:57,640 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: I just don't want to sit here in limbo because 79 00:04:00,000 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna I would call, Hey, if you do, wait, 80 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 1: how long is the green light of Like, hey man, 81 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 1: they haven't called in so long it's mind like thirty 82 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 1: six months? Wow? See I would wait that last three months. 83 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:14,520 Speaker 1: No way, I would call, you're saying in case they 84 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:20,679 Speaker 1: miss it. Miss three months. But then what is though? 85 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 1: How long can it go before they ask for it back? 86 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:25,599 Speaker 1: I'll just google statue of limitations forever. You don't google 87 00:04:25,600 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 1: statued limentations. Don't google that. I'm not obviously I'm gonna 88 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:32,240 Speaker 1: call because I shared this with you to well we 89 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:34,080 Speaker 1: could talk about it then let us know. I'm not 90 00:04:34,120 --> 00:04:38,920 Speaker 1: gonna yeah call and what what? Just say? There was 91 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:40,280 Speaker 1: a lot less than what it was like. I think 92 00:04:40,279 --> 00:04:44,520 Speaker 1: it's to give me ten bucks. That's one zero? Okay, 93 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:48,600 Speaker 1: updated again? Okay, all right, let's go over and open 94 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:56,600 Speaker 1: up the mail bag. Something we call Bobby Ye all right, 95 00:04:56,720 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 1: good morning Bobby Bones, my boyfriend. I've been dating for 96 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 1: two years and I have lived together for a year. 97 00:05:02,640 --> 00:05:04,680 Speaker 1: He still keeps his wedding ring from his divorce and 98 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:08,160 Speaker 1: it makes me feel weird after my divorce. That was 99 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 1: the first thing I talked. He says he keeps it 100 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:13,040 Speaker 1: because it reminds him of his kids and family and 101 00:05:13,080 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 1: it's sentimental. This kind of hurts my feelings. When we 102 00:05:16,480 --> 00:05:19,400 Speaker 1: combined houses and kids, I thought we were his family. Now, 103 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:24,760 Speaker 1: am I overthinking it? Signed? A ay, you are not 104 00:05:24,880 --> 00:05:30,120 Speaker 1: overthinking it. That is weird. That is makes me feel 105 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:36,120 Speaker 1: uncomfortable for you. I don't feel like a ring that 106 00:05:36,279 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 1: signifies a bond should be kept, especially somewhere where you 107 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:47,039 Speaker 1: can see it whenever you're with the guy. Now, that's bizarre, amy. 108 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:49,039 Speaker 1: I don't think it's that weird to keep a wedding 109 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 1: ring right, Well, okay, he can move it somewhere in 110 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 1: safe keeping, so you have to have it out. But 111 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 1: I just do not think it's that weird. Like, all 112 00:05:58,160 --> 00:06:00,160 Speaker 1: right now, I'm wearing my mom's wedding ring that I 113 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:02,839 Speaker 1: inherited when she died that my parents got divorced in 114 00:06:02,880 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 1: the nineties, and she held on to it. She didn't 115 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:07,280 Speaker 1: get rid of it, shouldn't sell it. But that's to you. 116 00:06:07,400 --> 00:06:10,839 Speaker 1: Did she get married again, That's that's the difference. She didn't. 117 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 1: But I guarantee you she would have kept it and 118 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 1: enjoy And then it's something my sister and I inherited. 119 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:17,040 Speaker 1: She would have just kept it, like she didn't feel 120 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:18,599 Speaker 1: the need to just sell it and get rid of 121 00:06:18,600 --> 00:06:21,159 Speaker 1: it even though it wasn't. If she were to get 122 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:23,920 Speaker 1: married again, I think her new husband would have an 123 00:06:23,960 --> 00:06:26,040 Speaker 1: issue if the ring was just chilling. I don't think so. 124 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 1: I wouldn't. I think it's completely weird. I think it's 125 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:31,360 Speaker 1: completely Why do you want to keep all wedding ring 126 00:06:31,400 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 1: unless it was something that was passed down from generations. 127 00:06:34,520 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 1: If it's just something he went to the store and 128 00:06:35,880 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 1: bought and gave to you, I feel like that's weird, 129 00:06:38,720 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 1: and I feel like it's not the healthiest thing to 130 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:44,839 Speaker 1: keep around for her as well. Okay, we're one to 131 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:47,560 Speaker 1: want Eddie. He's holding onto a past life. I think 132 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 1: he's just he keeps it around to remember. That's kind 133 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 1: of weird. His kids victors, But the marriage, it's it's 134 00:06:53,800 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 1: about the marriage, not so much the family. Yes, but like, 135 00:06:57,360 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 1: could he give it to a kid down the line? Maybe? 136 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:02,000 Speaker 1: Does he? Where does he keep this thing where she 137 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:04,279 Speaker 1: sees it all the time? It doesn't say like I 138 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:07,159 Speaker 1: feel like if you're gonna keep something like yeah, put 139 00:07:07,200 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 1: it away, not put it away, hide it and never 140 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:11,240 Speaker 1: say you had it right. Oh well, I don't care 141 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 1: about that. Yeah, I feel like that's a bit disrepectful. 142 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:17,880 Speaker 1: I'm with you. It's it's very weird, especially if it 143 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:21,720 Speaker 1: wasn't one passed down you're with somebody new. A ring 144 00:07:21,800 --> 00:07:24,640 Speaker 1: represents a bond between two people, not the marriage. There 145 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 1: are a lot of things that represent kids. Wedding ring. 146 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 1: I just do not feel strongly about this. Listen, he's open, 147 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 1: the old lady's coming back, and he's gonna be able 148 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:36,760 Speaker 1: to use that ring again. That is him holding out 149 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 1: hope they're getting back together. It's absolutely weird. And just 150 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:42,680 Speaker 1: if I was married to a chick and she had 151 00:07:42,680 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 1: been divorced before and she's hanging on to some ring, 152 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 1: guess what that ring goes or she goes Oh okay, Morgan, Yeah, 153 00:07:49,240 --> 00:07:51,800 Speaker 1: I mean I agree with y'all, like I I unless 154 00:07:51,800 --> 00:07:54,320 Speaker 1: it was a family ring, I wouldn't keep it. There's 155 00:07:54,360 --> 00:07:56,600 Speaker 1: no reason for me to keep it. Reason Yeah you're not. Yeah, 156 00:07:56,600 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 1: But so okay, this makes me think of my mom 157 00:07:59,520 --> 00:08:03,680 Speaker 1: was married for my dad and she had her first 158 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 1: wedding ring turned into a necklace and she had it 159 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:09,560 Speaker 1: her whole marriage to my dad. I don't know what 160 00:08:09,640 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 1: they did back in like the sevenies. I'm just saying, 161 00:08:12,560 --> 00:08:14,160 Speaker 1: maybe that's why it's not a big deal to me, 162 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 1: because like I've just maybe that's why they didn't say, 163 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:17,360 Speaker 1: could your dad? I was like, why are you wearing 164 00:08:17,360 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 1: that ring? No, that's definitely not why. But maybe that's 165 00:08:25,880 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 1: I'm trying to figure out why I don't see it 166 00:08:27,560 --> 00:08:29,000 Speaker 1: as that big of a deal. Maybe because like I 167 00:08:29,080 --> 00:08:32,200 Speaker 1: was used to seeing jewelry from past relationships in my family. 168 00:08:32,520 --> 00:08:34,559 Speaker 1: If she didn't think it was a big deal and 169 00:08:34,559 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 1: it was around, I'd be like, cool, that's but I 170 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:39,920 Speaker 1: do feel like that could be something that is unhealthy 171 00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:42,120 Speaker 1: for her to have to YEA, So what does she do? 172 00:08:42,120 --> 00:08:43,880 Speaker 1: Does she tell him? I think she flushes it and 173 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:45,960 Speaker 1: be like, hey, oh, let never brings it up again. 174 00:08:47,760 --> 00:08:50,720 Speaker 1: It's a conversation. It's maybe he pawns it, and maybe 175 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:54,080 Speaker 1: he just gives it to a kid. I don't know. 176 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:56,320 Speaker 1: I think it has to go though. All right, thank 177 00:08:56,320 --> 00:08:58,720 Speaker 1: you A for the email. We appreciate that. Close up 178 00:08:58,760 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 1: the mailbag, I was about the clone. All right. On 179 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:11,400 Speaker 1: the phone right now is Abby? Abby? Thank you for 180 00:09:11,480 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 1: calling the Bobby Bones Show. What's going on? Hey, Bobby, 181 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:16,480 Speaker 1: I have a question that has been brewing since you 182 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 1: and Caitlyn got married. I thought this whole time your 183 00:09:20,400 --> 00:09:24,320 Speaker 1: last name was actually Bones until you got married and 184 00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:28,960 Speaker 1: Caitlyn started posting your real last name. So I know 185 00:09:29,000 --> 00:09:32,240 Speaker 1: I could google this and figure out how you got Bones, 186 00:09:32,320 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 1: but I really wanted to hear it from you how 187 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:36,960 Speaker 1: you ended up with the name Bobby Bones. And I've 188 00:09:37,000 --> 00:09:39,080 Speaker 1: never said Bones was my real last name. For listeners, 189 00:09:39,080 --> 00:09:40,959 Speaker 1: I've always said, hey, it's not, and everyone wance. In 190 00:09:40,960 --> 00:09:42,640 Speaker 1: a while, I'd be like, this is my real last name. 191 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 1: But then I felt like I was gonna get I 192 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:46,560 Speaker 1: did my identity stone, but now that I have LifeLock 193 00:09:46,840 --> 00:09:51,400 Speaker 1: by Norton, I don't um. So when I was seventeen 194 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 1: eighteen around that that area there, I went to my 195 00:09:57,040 --> 00:10:01,079 Speaker 1: first ever radio station. I applied at a country station 196 00:10:01,120 --> 00:10:04,120 Speaker 1: called US ninety seven. They don't want to hire a teenager, okay. 197 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:07,680 Speaker 1: So I went to KLA Z one oh five point nine, 198 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:09,440 Speaker 1: Hot Springs, Arkansas, and I said, hey, I'll do whatever 199 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 1: you need. And they said, okay, well we don't want 200 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:13,360 Speaker 1: you on the air because you're an idiot kid. And 201 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:15,280 Speaker 1: I said, okay, well what can I do? I switched 202 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 1: out the CD of the rig D's weekly countdown and 203 00:10:19,840 --> 00:10:22,000 Speaker 1: that was like an old DJ going all right, number 204 00:10:22,040 --> 00:10:24,000 Speaker 1: thirty two this week. I mean, I basically do it 205 00:10:24,040 --> 00:10:27,040 Speaker 1: now for a country countdown. I switched out the CD 206 00:10:27,200 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 1: because halfway through it took a different CD and I 207 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 1: cleaned the lobby. Well that was my job, and I 208 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:36,679 Speaker 1: didn't do it very long. But there was a guy 209 00:10:36,720 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 1: at the radio station who got caught stealing equipment, like 210 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:42,320 Speaker 1: little sound things, and so they said, well, we need 211 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:44,560 Speaker 1: somebody to get on the air pretty quickly. And this 212 00:10:44,640 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 1: is like a Thursday or something, and they needed someone 213 00:10:46,640 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 1: on Saturday night and they said, Bobby, you will go 214 00:10:48,400 --> 00:10:50,480 Speaker 1: on the air. Because I've been waiting. I've been telling 215 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:51,880 Speaker 1: them I want to go on the air. I made 216 00:10:51,880 --> 00:10:55,000 Speaker 1: sure they knew what my goals were, and they said, okay, 217 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 1: we're gonna put you on the air. And they said 218 00:10:56,520 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 1: you have two options, Bobby z or Bob Bones. And 219 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:05,560 Speaker 1: I remember thinking they're both terrible, and but I didn't 220 00:11:05,559 --> 00:11:07,000 Speaker 1: want to give any sort of pushback and I would 221 00:11:07,000 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 1: be like, what if we do something else. It was 222 00:11:08,040 --> 00:11:09,240 Speaker 1: a kid. I just wanted to be on the air, 223 00:11:09,280 --> 00:11:10,880 Speaker 1: and I thought, for sure, if I take one of 224 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 1: these ridiculous names, it'll change in a couple of years, 225 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 1: or it'll change the week after. And I said, I 226 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:18,800 Speaker 1: go with Bobby Bones because at least that kind of 227 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:21,920 Speaker 1: sounds like a person, Yes, like a pirate. That's what 228 00:11:21,960 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 1: it sounded like to me, Bobby Bones. But I'll be 229 00:11:25,440 --> 00:11:28,840 Speaker 1: Bobby Bones. And so his name was Kevin Cruz, who 230 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:31,960 Speaker 1: gave me that name, And every place that I went, 231 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 1: I was connected with the last place I was. So 232 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:37,280 Speaker 1: when I went to from Hot Springs, Arkansas to Little Rock, 233 00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 1: I'd already been heard in a lot of the central 234 00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:41,000 Speaker 1: Arkansas area, so I had to keep the same name. 235 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 1: When I went to Little Rock to Austin, Texas, I 236 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:47,959 Speaker 1: was already like voice tracking Knights in Austin as Bobby. 237 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:50,120 Speaker 1: So I just never shook it. So here I am today. 238 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:52,719 Speaker 1: I'm still waiting to change it. I can't wait to 239 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 1: change it too late now. So yeah, it probably is 240 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 1: your bones now, But that's where it comes from. It 241 00:11:57,480 --> 00:11:59,960 Speaker 1: was given to me, it is. I was always embarrassed 242 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:03,160 Speaker 1: of it. I never liked it. I'm always a little 243 00:12:03,160 --> 00:12:05,320 Speaker 1: embarrassed when I meet somebody who doesn't really know what 244 00:12:05,360 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 1: I do and someone goes, yeah, this's Bobby Bones and 245 00:12:07,160 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 1: they're like, what's your name, And I'm like, well kind of, 246 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 1: But that's where it comes from. And yes, my wife, 247 00:12:13,679 --> 00:12:18,320 Speaker 1: she would rather die than be Caitlin Bones. Die. Yeah, yeah, 248 00:12:18,360 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 1: she would rather die than be called Caitlin Bones. And 249 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:24,439 Speaker 1: so she is not Caitlyn Bones. And good for her 250 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:30,720 Speaker 1: because she is not the wife of the radio named person. 251 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:34,440 Speaker 1: She is the wife of the guy she married. And 252 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:37,200 Speaker 1: so that's the situation. My real name is not Bones, 253 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:39,440 Speaker 1: but it is Bobby, and I was forced to have 254 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:42,280 Speaker 1: that name. And that's the that's the story. That's really 255 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:45,920 Speaker 1: awesome sharing. Yeah, you're welcome. Now I've I want to 256 00:12:46,000 --> 00:12:49,040 Speaker 1: change it again. Now I'm back to that spot, but 257 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:50,959 Speaker 1: I can't. It is I always thought, if I do 258 00:12:51,080 --> 00:12:52,600 Speaker 1: end up running for office, I'll have to change my 259 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 1: middle name two bones, so I can at least something 260 00:12:55,400 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 1: who you are. Yeah, so I can put the whole 261 00:12:57,160 --> 00:12:59,400 Speaker 1: thing on the sign and not put a nickname up. 262 00:13:00,559 --> 00:13:02,320 Speaker 1: They don't go looking to vote for Bobby Bones on 263 00:13:02,320 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 1: a ballot. It's not there. Yeah, So that's it. That's Mike. 264 00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:08,240 Speaker 1: What do you call that a story? A sup an 265 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:12,160 Speaker 1: origin story story, and that's an origin story of a 266 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:16,679 Speaker 1: soup man, not a superhero. It's time for the good news, Bobby. 267 00:13:20,800 --> 00:13:23,560 Speaker 1: This truck driver, she Davis, spent twenty bucks on lunch. 268 00:13:23,559 --> 00:13:26,920 Speaker 1: He ordered tacos and a burrito from Chipotle, but when 269 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:29,080 Speaker 1: he tracked his meal, he realized he was being delivered 270 00:13:29,160 --> 00:13:31,840 Speaker 1: nine hundred and thirty miles away to his old house. 271 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:34,080 Speaker 1: Oh I've done this before too, but I've done it 272 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:36,760 Speaker 1: with like work at home. It's like in Austin sending 273 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:39,000 Speaker 1: him over. No no no, no, But I'll be at home 274 00:13:39,120 --> 00:13:40,960 Speaker 1: and I forgot it, order stuff here to the building 275 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 1: and now order something, and I'd be like, where is it? 276 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:45,280 Speaker 1: One minute away. I'll go outside and wait and they 277 00:13:45,280 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 1: don't show up and I call him like hey, They're like, hey, 278 00:13:46,960 --> 00:13:49,360 Speaker 1: we dropped it off in front of the building. Oh no, 279 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 1: I look at it and I waited an hour for 280 00:13:51,679 --> 00:13:54,520 Speaker 1: to be delivered at work. For got to switch it. Yes, 281 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:56,640 Speaker 1: that's like that time I was in North Carolina and 282 00:13:56,679 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 1: started driving your house in Austin office because she had 283 00:14:00,760 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 1: pushed home on the GPS I gave her as he 284 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:05,440 Speaker 1: gave it to me. Yeah, he didn't need it anymore. 285 00:14:05,480 --> 00:14:07,160 Speaker 1: She was living in North Carolina, so she started driving 286 00:14:07,160 --> 00:14:10,040 Speaker 1: to my home. I was on a highway in the rain, 287 00:14:10,400 --> 00:14:12,720 Speaker 1: like driving the wrong direction. I pulled over and just 288 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:14,719 Speaker 1: sort of cry, how hard you make it Tennessee. I 289 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:17,319 Speaker 1: don't even know because I had just moved to North Caroline. 290 00:14:17,520 --> 00:14:23,240 Speaker 1: The state sign and she's like right, So he tracked 291 00:14:23,240 --> 00:14:25,280 Speaker 1: his mill again. He realized it was being delivered to 292 00:14:25,280 --> 00:14:28,240 Speaker 1: his old house. Um, so he felt guilty for wasting 293 00:14:28,280 --> 00:14:31,000 Speaker 1: the driver's time. So she says, hey, enjoy the lunch. 294 00:14:31,000 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 1: She told him what happened. The driver thanked him, say 295 00:14:33,400 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 1: I want to thank you again. It's my brother's birthday 296 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 1: and he has laid to rest not far from where 297 00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:39,640 Speaker 1: you had me take this delivery. I'm having lunch with 298 00:14:39,680 --> 00:14:41,520 Speaker 1: him today because of you. You had no idea how 299 00:14:41,600 --> 00:14:46,800 Speaker 1: much this means to me. Very small gesture absolutely affected 300 00:14:46,840 --> 00:14:48,640 Speaker 1: this guy's life. So I wanted to share that with 301 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:51,240 Speaker 1: you guys. That right there is what it's all about. 302 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:55,760 Speaker 1: That was tell me something good. All right. Next up, 303 00:14:55,760 --> 00:15:00,120 Speaker 1: we're gonna play pick a bit. I've got three options 304 00:15:00,480 --> 00:15:02,440 Speaker 1: for the bit we're going to do next that. Two 305 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:05,920 Speaker 1: of them are rollovers from last week. Bit number one 306 00:15:06,720 --> 00:15:09,680 Speaker 1: lunchboxs sent it. Then he says, has anyone seen me 307 00:15:09,720 --> 00:15:13,920 Speaker 1: on the news? This one got passed over last time, 308 00:15:14,480 --> 00:15:17,080 Speaker 1: but the bit is Lunchbox going. Has anyone seen me 309 00:15:17,120 --> 00:15:20,760 Speaker 1: on the news? That's all I'll say. Bit number two 310 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:25,160 Speaker 1: is from Raymundo, who runs our audio. He said he 311 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 1: got in trouble, almost kicked out of the gym for 312 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:30,040 Speaker 1: doing something inappropriate and he wants to know how we 313 00:15:30,040 --> 00:15:34,000 Speaker 1: feel about it. That's number two. Number three is from Eddie. 314 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:39,600 Speaker 1: Someone has been stealing money from his kid's wallets. They 315 00:15:39,640 --> 00:15:43,160 Speaker 1: get like an allowance, and he finally, after a lot 316 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:47,600 Speaker 1: of time, figured out exactly who the thief was. So 317 00:15:47,600 --> 00:15:50,200 Speaker 1: we have three options, Amy Morgan himself. We're going to vote, 318 00:15:51,040 --> 00:15:54,000 Speaker 1: which would you like to hear lunchboxes? Has anyone seen 319 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:56,080 Speaker 1: him on the news? Rays getting kicked out of the 320 00:15:56,120 --> 00:16:00,280 Speaker 1: gym for doing something inappropriate or people stilling money from 321 00:16:00,440 --> 00:16:02,720 Speaker 1: Eddie's kids wallets? Morgan, I think I want to know 322 00:16:02,760 --> 00:16:07,600 Speaker 1: what happened with Ray at the gym twice, because I mean, 323 00:16:07,640 --> 00:16:10,200 Speaker 1: we heard these Ray stories and it's like, oh I 324 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 1: took a picture in the mirror. It's like, okay, so 325 00:16:12,760 --> 00:16:17,280 Speaker 1: you're saying be lame. Yes, every all Ray stories are clickbait? 326 00:16:17,320 --> 00:16:21,080 Speaker 1: Would you agree, Eddie? Yes, I would agree. Thank you. Well, 327 00:16:21,320 --> 00:16:24,720 Speaker 1: we're in the running whatever Ray all the way I 328 00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:27,080 Speaker 1: wanted to. I almost chose Ray last time. I would 329 00:16:27,080 --> 00:16:29,480 Speaker 1: have picked you. Thank you. You're just saying that now, 330 00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:34,440 Speaker 1: that's funny. It's funny, And we know who took the 331 00:16:34,480 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 1: money out of Eddie's kid's wallets, Eddie, Eddie, we already okay, 332 00:16:41,320 --> 00:16:44,680 Speaker 1: next up, Ray got in trouble in the gym for 333 00:16:44,760 --> 00:16:47,600 Speaker 1: doing something they said was inappropriate. Here we go. Will 334 00:16:47,640 --> 00:16:52,960 Speaker 1: this be a good segment? Clickbait? Right, alright, clickbait? That's next. 335 00:16:54,800 --> 00:16:56,720 Speaker 1: All right, you guys voted in the segment We're gonna 336 00:16:56,760 --> 00:17:00,000 Speaker 1: do now and pick a bit is a raise segment 337 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:02,240 Speaker 1: where he went to the gym. Now, Eddie on Luxbox 338 00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:03,800 Speaker 1: says that Ray senting clickbait and it's gonna be a 339 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:07,479 Speaker 1: bad segment. Yeah, but let's see Ray, you were chosen. 340 00:17:07,640 --> 00:17:09,440 Speaker 1: Let's do your segment. What happened at the gym. Yeah, 341 00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:10,840 Speaker 1: so I'm back at the gym after a couple of 342 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:13,480 Speaker 1: years off through the pandemic and stuff. But apparently they're 343 00:17:13,520 --> 00:17:16,080 Speaker 1: really strict now. And I used to all the time, 344 00:17:16,600 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 1: Like I mean, I would go in the bathroom, do 345 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:20,560 Speaker 1: what I wanted. I would go into the sauna, do 346 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:22,640 Speaker 1: what I wanted. I would go lift weights. I could 347 00:17:22,680 --> 00:17:25,400 Speaker 1: do whatever I wanted at full rain. Okay, I'm out 348 00:17:25,400 --> 00:17:29,280 Speaker 1: there pumping iron. Took my shirt off. I thought it 349 00:17:29,280 --> 00:17:31,320 Speaker 1: was a pretty normal thing to do. And there was 350 00:17:31,359 --> 00:17:34,959 Speaker 1: this night manager Amy, it is good, keep going, and 351 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:37,720 Speaker 1: he came sprinting over to me and he was like, 352 00:17:38,119 --> 00:17:40,240 Speaker 1: you have got to put on your shirt right now. 353 00:17:40,440 --> 00:17:43,359 Speaker 1: You can't take your shirt off in a gym. People 354 00:17:44,680 --> 00:17:46,920 Speaker 1: never got in a gym where you have to pay 355 00:17:46,920 --> 00:17:48,840 Speaker 1: a membership being other people O there, you never can 356 00:17:48,880 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 1: take a shirt off. Well I did know that. Yeah. 357 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:55,760 Speaker 1: Is it a chain in other states? Yes, but not 358 00:17:55,800 --> 00:17:58,280 Speaker 1: like chain around town or anything like that. Okay, but 359 00:17:58,560 --> 00:18:00,800 Speaker 1: they have new rules. And so I not a woman. 360 00:18:00,880 --> 00:18:03,440 Speaker 1: I don't have breasts. I'm just you do have breasts, 361 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:07,000 Speaker 1: but he has a chess yeah, chess, but he has bread. 362 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:11,600 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I mean men can have breast cancer. I 363 00:18:11,600 --> 00:18:14,920 Speaker 1: guess they are called breasts. Yeah, are they? Okay, So 364 00:18:15,000 --> 00:18:17,320 Speaker 1: he shut it down right away, and he goes and actually, 365 00:18:17,359 --> 00:18:19,200 Speaker 1: we have a three strike policy, so if I see 366 00:18:19,200 --> 00:18:21,199 Speaker 1: you again with your shirt off, that's two strikes. The 367 00:18:21,240 --> 00:18:23,240 Speaker 1: next time you unfortunately can't be a member here and 368 00:18:23,280 --> 00:18:25,879 Speaker 1: you get anymore, I'm like, oh my gosh, for my 369 00:18:25,960 --> 00:18:29,680 Speaker 1: shirt being off. Wow, Okay, now Ammy's just selling it 370 00:18:29,760 --> 00:18:32,280 Speaker 1: right now because she knows. Yeah, you know, you picked 371 00:18:32,359 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 1: that bit. I mean, I don't think it's that bad. 372 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:39,400 Speaker 1: It's bad. Have you ever seen anyone take their shirt 373 00:18:39,400 --> 00:18:41,919 Speaker 1: off at the gym. Ever, never think of it. I 374 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:45,199 Speaker 1: guess not. I didn't know it wasn't allowed. I mean, 375 00:18:45,240 --> 00:18:47,200 Speaker 1: girls take it off and have on a sports brawl 376 00:18:47,280 --> 00:18:49,119 Speaker 1: and he could also wear the same sports brawl and 377 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:55,240 Speaker 1: he'd be fine. But ray just do that on sports brawl. Well, 378 00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:57,879 Speaker 1: and news to me as well. There's also a selfie policy, 379 00:18:57,920 --> 00:18:59,639 Speaker 1: so if you're caught doing a mirror selfie because they 380 00:18:59,680 --> 00:19:01,440 Speaker 1: said people could be in the background and they don't 381 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:03,600 Speaker 1: want to be posted. Wow, and they've had legal things 382 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:05,440 Speaker 1: that have gone down before, made money off of post 383 00:19:05,480 --> 00:19:07,800 Speaker 1: and stuff. No mirror selfies on in the gym. I'm like, 384 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:11,320 Speaker 1: times have changed, but wait, so people have posted and 385 00:19:11,440 --> 00:19:13,680 Speaker 1: ended up in the background and then legally the people 386 00:19:13,680 --> 00:19:16,480 Speaker 1: in the background have gotten money from said something about 387 00:19:16,480 --> 00:19:18,000 Speaker 1: the post or something like that because they said, we 388 00:19:18,040 --> 00:19:21,159 Speaker 1: have a strict photo policy. No pictures all in the 389 00:19:21,240 --> 00:19:23,560 Speaker 1: gym at all, exactly. Anybody cool ever work out in there. 390 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:26,200 Speaker 1: I do two am, so it's usually just going in 391 00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:28,960 Speaker 1: two am, me and the night manager. Well the one boney, 392 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:30,880 Speaker 1: let you take your shirt off if nobody else is there, 393 00:19:32,160 --> 00:19:35,080 Speaker 1: I mean my pants off, nobody else is there. See 394 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:37,320 Speaker 1: the stories about they got a little better. They got 395 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:39,359 Speaker 1: a little better. It's like, next time I'm in the 396 00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:41,960 Speaker 1: shower naked, he's been like, oh, where's your swimsuit? What 397 00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:45,400 Speaker 1: I can't shower naked? What has happened to the society nowadays? 398 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:52,240 Speaker 1: They got a little worse your head all right? Thank you? Ray? Yeah, 399 00:19:52,280 --> 00:19:54,240 Speaker 1: And that's a pick a bit the segment they chose 400 00:19:54,280 --> 00:19:57,359 Speaker 1: heater on the show, on the Bobby Bones Show. Now 401 00:19:57,640 --> 00:20:01,040 Speaker 1: Tim Tebow always loving having to him on the show. Tim, 402 00:20:01,080 --> 00:20:03,320 Speaker 1: how's it going, Buddy? I'm good man. How are you? 403 00:20:03,520 --> 00:20:06,520 Speaker 1: I see you Rock in the Arkansas sweat shirt. You know, 404 00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:09,480 Speaker 1: it's ninety percent of my wardrobe and it wasn't because 405 00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:11,080 Speaker 1: of you, although if you'd like to take it as 406 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:15,120 Speaker 1: a personal shot, I welcome it. But it is most 407 00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:17,680 Speaker 1: of my clothes. If it's not dress clothes, it's somehow 408 00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:20,719 Speaker 1: got a razorback on it. So I appreciate the acknowledgement. 409 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:22,960 Speaker 1: I got no problem, Rock. Your school will be proud 410 00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:25,480 Speaker 1: of it, no problem whatsoever. In listen, Bobby, I know 411 00:20:25,560 --> 00:20:28,000 Speaker 1: you never take any shots at me, so I know 412 00:20:28,080 --> 00:20:31,520 Speaker 1: we're better than that. So, of course not Tim Tebow's 413 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:33,480 Speaker 1: on who. By the way, the Gators lost Arkansas a 414 00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:37,479 Speaker 1: couple of weeks ago in Florida's pretty cool anyway, I was. 415 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:40,240 Speaker 1: I've spent a bit of time with your book. Actually, 416 00:20:40,240 --> 00:20:44,000 Speaker 1: it's a wonderful read as someone who loves motivational books, 417 00:20:44,000 --> 00:20:46,080 Speaker 1: and I've actually highlighted a couple of things that I 418 00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:47,840 Speaker 1: wanted to bring to you, So I've made notes on pages. 419 00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:50,600 Speaker 1: So excuse my fumbling. But the book is called Mission Possible, 420 00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:53,240 Speaker 1: Go create a life that counts, and I want to 421 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:55,560 Speaker 1: go to this called make the Choice, and I want 422 00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:58,440 Speaker 1: to read a section of something that I found really 423 00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:00,480 Speaker 1: moving and would like for Tim to elaborate a bit. 424 00:21:00,680 --> 00:21:04,760 Speaker 1: Tim rights, before we start dreaming about the possible, we 425 00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:08,080 Speaker 1: must remind ourselves of something. Even as we lock into 426 00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:13,840 Speaker 1: significance over success, the results are beyond our control. Tim, 427 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:15,760 Speaker 1: talk to me about that. What do you mean by 428 00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 1: that in like human talking terms. Well, first of all, 429 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:23,800 Speaker 1: thanks for investing so much and reading it and being 430 00:21:24,080 --> 00:21:26,200 Speaker 1: you know, aware of everything. I really appreciate that. First 431 00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:28,720 Speaker 1: of all, I find that really encouraging to me. And 432 00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:32,480 Speaker 1: the reason that I wrote this, Bobby, is to encourage people. 433 00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:35,760 Speaker 1: That's why it's literally titled Mission Possible, not Tom Cruise, 434 00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:38,760 Speaker 1: Mission Impossible. It is mission possible. And I think to 435 00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:40,919 Speaker 1: give a little background of what I mean by that 436 00:21:41,080 --> 00:21:44,639 Speaker 1: is is a few studies that have been done one 437 00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:47,879 Speaker 1: but with people eighteen to thirty five, over sixty percent 438 00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:49,960 Speaker 1: of them say no one believes in them. There's no 439 00:21:49,960 --> 00:21:52,119 Speaker 1: one in the world that believes them. Over sixty percent 440 00:21:52,359 --> 00:21:56,560 Speaker 1: of young people and another third of our population say 441 00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:59,320 Speaker 1: that either they're lonely all the time or most of 442 00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:02,440 Speaker 1: the time. And then out of our population, they spend 443 00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:05,760 Speaker 1: twelve percent of their daily thoughts comparing themselves with other people. 444 00:22:06,119 --> 00:22:09,080 Speaker 1: So if we're if no one believes in us, if 445 00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:11,240 Speaker 1: we're lonely all or most of the time, and we're 446 00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:14,760 Speaker 1: spending our time comparing our thoughts and we want to 447 00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:17,239 Speaker 1: be like other people, there's no chance that we're going 448 00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:19,879 Speaker 1: to actually live out the purpose to calling the dreams, 449 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:22,000 Speaker 1: the visions, the hopes that we have in our life. 450 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:24,040 Speaker 1: And so I wanted to write something that's going to 451 00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:26,239 Speaker 1: encourage people and who they are and who they are 452 00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:29,320 Speaker 1: created to be and what they can accomplish. And I 453 00:22:29,359 --> 00:22:33,080 Speaker 1: think getting to what we're talking about is sometimes the 454 00:22:33,200 --> 00:22:36,080 Speaker 1: results aren't up to us, meaning the results of I 455 00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:38,440 Speaker 1: want people to dream, but listen if you're five to five, 456 00:22:38,480 --> 00:22:40,640 Speaker 1: You're probably not going to be better than Lebron James 457 00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:43,840 Speaker 1: at basketball. Let's just be honest about that. But with 458 00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:47,480 Speaker 1: this book, be having a mission possible life, a life 459 00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:51,000 Speaker 1: that truly counts, that's possible for everyone. It's not about 460 00:22:51,040 --> 00:22:54,240 Speaker 1: how equipped you are, what your status is, how many 461 00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:56,920 Speaker 1: followers you have, how skilled you are. It is about 462 00:22:56,960 --> 00:23:00,400 Speaker 1: making the choice to be willing to love, serve, give care, pray, 463 00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 1: and be willing to give up yourself to help other people. 464 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:05,120 Speaker 1: And I believe every single one of us can make 465 00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:08,000 Speaker 1: that choice. I didn't feel that way about myself till 466 00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:09,560 Speaker 1: right now. He just motivated me to believe that about 467 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:12,880 Speaker 1: myself talking to him in person. Yes, there's another part 468 00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:15,480 Speaker 1: that I read and it was a part of the book. 469 00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:17,760 Speaker 1: It was called there Is No Yet, And you talk 470 00:23:17,840 --> 00:23:21,720 Speaker 1: about how easy it is whenever times are good to 471 00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:24,440 Speaker 1: make commitments, and I believe part of it was when 472 00:23:24,440 --> 00:23:27,640 Speaker 1: you're getting married, it's easy to make the vows for sickness, 473 00:23:28,119 --> 00:23:31,159 Speaker 1: for sickness and death, or whenever you've you know, working 474 00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:32,840 Speaker 1: on a project. It's easy to commit to it and 475 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:37,320 Speaker 1: all that, but then sometimes it gets hard and so 476 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:38,960 Speaker 1: kind of go into that a little bit and what 477 00:23:39,000 --> 00:23:43,040 Speaker 1: you meant, well, that was actually sharing your story to 478 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:46,840 Speaker 1: illustrate it about Jeff and Becky Davidson, very close friends 479 00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:49,639 Speaker 1: of ours and ministry partners of ours, and they had 480 00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:51,840 Speaker 1: been married for many years, and they had a child, 481 00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:55,320 Speaker 1: John Alex, who was born with severe special needs, and 482 00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,240 Speaker 1: actually and taking care of both of them. Both of 483 00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:01,280 Speaker 1: them are in the hospital. Jeff and John Alex were 484 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:03,720 Speaker 1: in the hospital and the social worker, because Jeff was 485 00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:06,639 Speaker 1: so sick, he said, you know, if Jeff survives and 486 00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:09,000 Speaker 1: he goes home, how are you to Becky, how are 487 00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:11,280 Speaker 1: you going to take care of him? Like who's going 488 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:13,280 Speaker 1: to take care of him? She said, I will, Like 489 00:24:13,400 --> 00:24:15,160 Speaker 1: I've been doing it for twenty five years and I'm 490 00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:18,440 Speaker 1: not going to stop. And in the social worker said, 491 00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:21,960 Speaker 1: well yet, meaning you're not gonna stop yet, but when 492 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,399 Speaker 1: it gets hard enough, you're going to make the choice 493 00:24:24,480 --> 00:24:28,960 Speaker 1: to quit. And when Jeff was on his deathbed, the 494 00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:32,080 Speaker 1: last thing that she said to him, as he's holding 495 00:24:32,480 --> 00:24:35,480 Speaker 1: she's holding his hand, is there was no yet. There 496 00:24:35,560 --> 00:24:37,800 Speaker 1: was never yet. You know, there was never a moment 497 00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:39,480 Speaker 1: where he's going to get too hard, where I was 498 00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:42,000 Speaker 1: going to leave you. There's never a moment where things 499 00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:44,480 Speaker 1: got too bleak, where I didn't believe in you were 500 00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:47,800 Speaker 1: love wasn't enough. And that was just one of the 501 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,840 Speaker 1: really inspirational stories in my life to be friends with him, 502 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:53,720 Speaker 1: to watch it up close and from afar, to be 503 00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:56,920 Speaker 1: able to see what it really means to choose convictions 504 00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:59,879 Speaker 1: over emotions, what it really means to say, you know what, 505 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:02,760 Speaker 1: when I'm all in, I truly mean all in. You know, 506 00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:05,880 Speaker 1: we wear slogans and tags and phrases that we throw 507 00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:08,159 Speaker 1: out all the time, especially in sports. Hey, what does 508 00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:09,760 Speaker 1: it mean to be all in? Well? I can tell 509 00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:13,080 Speaker 1: you for Becky Davidson, when she's got her husband in 510 00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:15,560 Speaker 1: the hospital and her son in another hospital, and she 511 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,439 Speaker 1: spends her days going back and forth, and the social 512 00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:21,280 Speaker 1: workers and the doctors are saying, listen, you can't do 513 00:25:21,320 --> 00:25:23,919 Speaker 1: all this. She's saying, hey, there is no yet. And 514 00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:26,680 Speaker 1: you know, that was such an inspiration to me to say, 515 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:28,560 Speaker 1: you know what, when I believe in something, when I 516 00:25:28,600 --> 00:25:30,800 Speaker 1: say I'm all in, they're better not be a yet. 517 00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,520 Speaker 1: You know a lot of the book highlights your relationship 518 00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:37,680 Speaker 1: with christ. You know how important is that for you 519 00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:41,199 Speaker 1: to not only thread that into your message, but to 520 00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:46,480 Speaker 1: communicate to others how important it is. Well, I think 521 00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:49,080 Speaker 1: it's something that I want to communicate in my life, 522 00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:52,120 Speaker 1: not just in words, but more importantly in actions and indeeds, 523 00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:55,359 Speaker 1: but hopefully have the chance to mesh those up. And 524 00:25:55,400 --> 00:26:00,240 Speaker 1: I believe that one of the greatest things that people 525 00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:02,639 Speaker 1: are looking for, and it's also backed by statistics. I 526 00:26:02,640 --> 00:26:05,280 Speaker 1: believe the eighty one percent of people are looking for 527 00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:09,000 Speaker 1: purpose and meaning in their life. And I wanted this 528 00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:12,640 Speaker 1: book to be something that could encourage people with that purpose. 529 00:26:12,920 --> 00:26:17,360 Speaker 1: And I believe that every single person Bobby has purpose everything. 530 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:20,159 Speaker 1: Every single person was created in love, by love, and 531 00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:22,200 Speaker 1: for love, and I believe there is a great plan 532 00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:25,560 Speaker 1: for their life, and I want to encourage them in 533 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:29,400 Speaker 1: that plan for their life. That they have such significance 534 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:33,080 Speaker 1: and meaning and they were created with infinite value and worth. 535 00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:36,240 Speaker 1: That the God of this universe loves them enough to 536 00:26:36,280 --> 00:26:39,960 Speaker 1: send his son his best for them. And I believe 537 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:46,240 Speaker 1: that gives everyone encouragement confidence that holy cow like there's 538 00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:49,439 Speaker 1: the God of this universe loves me, believes in me, 539 00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:52,920 Speaker 1: created me this way. And when I when someone when 540 00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:55,119 Speaker 1: a life realizes that I don't have to spend my 541 00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:57,879 Speaker 1: time worrying about what the world says. I don't have 542 00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:01,000 Speaker 1: to spend my time worrying about what social media says. 543 00:27:01,000 --> 00:27:03,760 Speaker 1: I don't have to spend myself my time comparing myself 544 00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:06,359 Speaker 1: with other people, even though it's really easy to do so, 545 00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:08,760 Speaker 1: because I know what God says about me that's more 546 00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:12,000 Speaker 1: important than what anybody else says about me. Tim Tebow's 547 00:27:12,040 --> 00:27:14,840 Speaker 1: on his book is called Mission Possible, Go create a 548 00:27:14,840 --> 00:27:17,840 Speaker 1: life that counts. And I do think if what Tim's 549 00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:21,200 Speaker 1: messages now is resonating with you, you will love the book. 550 00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:23,840 Speaker 1: It is, and I say this in the most complimentary way. 551 00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:27,440 Speaker 1: It's an easy read because it's understandable. Sometimes people to 552 00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:29,520 Speaker 1: write books are like they like to write in big, 553 00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:32,240 Speaker 1: fancy words in terms that you don't understand. But you 554 00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:34,399 Speaker 1: didn't do that here, Like it just felt good. I 555 00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 1: felt good afterward. So congratulations on writing something you know, 556 00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:42,600 Speaker 1: really substantive. Tim, Thank you so much, man, I really 557 00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:46,320 Speaker 1: appreciate that. Thank you for your support. And I really 558 00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:48,760 Speaker 1: hope this book can encourage people. That's really the heart 559 00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:51,680 Speaker 1: and the passion behind it, and to encourage people truly 560 00:27:51,720 --> 00:27:54,120 Speaker 1: in their worth. I want to ask you a couple 561 00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:57,080 Speaker 1: of things that are non book related, and by the way, 562 00:27:57,080 --> 00:27:59,920 Speaker 1: there's a wall here. You know, we're doing the radio show, 563 00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:03,440 Speaker 1: and you're so motivational and you know, quite the inspiration 564 00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:04,880 Speaker 1: to talk to that. If you said, hey, Boby, I'd 565 00:28:04,920 --> 00:28:06,760 Speaker 1: like for you to run through that wall right now, Tim, 566 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:08,240 Speaker 1: I would do it. I would run through that wall 567 00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:12,920 Speaker 1: right now for you. Thank you, thank you, babe for 568 00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:16,640 Speaker 1: the razorbacks. You would do it then too. Both, yes, both, Hey, 569 00:28:17,080 --> 00:28:21,200 Speaker 1: do you ever see yourself because you are such a leader, 570 00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:24,440 Speaker 1: and I pivot into this, do you ever see yourself 571 00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:27,719 Speaker 1: being a leader in different areas? A CEO of a 572 00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:32,400 Speaker 1: major company, in politics, a head football coach, Like, what 573 00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:34,760 Speaker 1: do you think is in store for Tim Tebow in 574 00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:39,200 Speaker 1: the next ten to fifteen years? That's a really good question. 575 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:43,520 Speaker 1: I see a possibility of all three. I mean, I 576 00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:46,160 Speaker 1: think it's it's hard to really know exactly. I think 577 00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:48,680 Speaker 1: in coaching you have to give up so much because 578 00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 1: it's literally more than a full time job. And I 579 00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:53,320 Speaker 1: think that would be really hard, even though I love 580 00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:55,280 Speaker 1: the thought of it, love the thought of inspiring me, 581 00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:59,400 Speaker 1: encouraging and building a team of young men, But I mean, 582 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:01,640 Speaker 1: you have to up everything else. And I love what 583 00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:03,880 Speaker 1: we're doing at our foundation and so many other things. 584 00:29:03,960 --> 00:29:06,880 Speaker 1: I'm fortunate to be part of some different companies that 585 00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:10,400 Speaker 1: we're building now. You know, I really enjoy that side. 586 00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:13,800 Speaker 1: And then in politics, I don't know if it's something 587 00:29:13,840 --> 00:29:16,440 Speaker 1: that I would quite enjoy as much, to be honest, 588 00:29:16,840 --> 00:29:19,440 Speaker 1: but I've always said I would at least be open 589 00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:21,760 Speaker 1: to it if it's where I felt I could do 590 00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:24,920 Speaker 1: the most good, if I could truly create the most 591 00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:29,240 Speaker 1: amount of impact and change, if that was something that 592 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,080 Speaker 1: I felt was really put on my heart, then I 593 00:29:31,080 --> 00:29:33,840 Speaker 1: would be open to looking at it. You know, if 594 00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:36,560 Speaker 1: you go and have dinner in Gainesville, or let's say 595 00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:39,960 Speaker 1: Florida in general, you're back in Florida and people say, wow, 596 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:41,560 Speaker 1: this guy never has to pay for a meal again 597 00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:44,280 Speaker 1: in Florida? Does that ever actually happen where you're there 598 00:29:44,280 --> 00:29:45,720 Speaker 1: and you're having a meal and they're like, well, the 599 00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:47,320 Speaker 1: guy over at that table over there just picked up 600 00:29:47,320 --> 00:29:52,760 Speaker 1: your whole meal, mister Tebow, does that happen. It's definitely happened. Yes, 601 00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:57,440 Speaker 1: I can't lie and say that it hasn't happened. And 602 00:29:57,480 --> 00:29:58,960 Speaker 1: then do you feel the need like you have to 603 00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:00,640 Speaker 1: go over like did they just buy a meet and 604 00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:02,320 Speaker 1: greet with you, I guess as the question, by buying 605 00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:03,880 Speaker 1: your meal, do you feel like, well, now I got 606 00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:05,280 Speaker 1: to go over and spend a few times with all 607 00:30:05,320 --> 00:30:10,520 Speaker 1: twelve people sitting at the table. Honestly, I think there's both. 608 00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:12,760 Speaker 1: There's a there's some times where you feel the need 609 00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:15,360 Speaker 1: to do that, but then there's also times where people 610 00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:21,560 Speaker 1: have purchased the meal and the waiter would not tell 611 00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:23,880 Speaker 1: you who it was. They said they wanted to be anonymous. 612 00:30:23,880 --> 00:30:26,720 Speaker 1: They just wanted to say thank you for either your 613 00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:30,120 Speaker 1: ministry or foundation, or a night to Shine or Orphan 614 00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:32,200 Speaker 1: Care or something that was near and dear to their heart, 615 00:30:32,200 --> 00:30:33,840 Speaker 1: and so they just wanted to say thank you, but 616 00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:36,320 Speaker 1: they wanted to remain anonymous. And I think that's pretty 617 00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:39,360 Speaker 1: cool as well. I've got two questions and one little 618 00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:41,280 Speaker 1: promo that I'm going to do before this interview is over, 619 00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:43,760 Speaker 1: because I like this is like part of the interruption 620 00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:45,640 Speaker 1: where you can see what's happening on the screen so 621 00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:48,360 Speaker 1: you know where we are here. Yeah, yeah, here are 622 00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:52,360 Speaker 1: the two questions. Number one, I had heard this that 623 00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:55,040 Speaker 1: you almost went to Alabama because of your relationship with 624 00:30:55,080 --> 00:30:58,600 Speaker 1: coach Shula, Like how close were you to actually being 625 00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:02,959 Speaker 1: part of the Crimson Tide family. Literally I was split 626 00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:06,320 Speaker 1: second away from it. I from my sophomore year through 627 00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:09,880 Speaker 1: literally the last moment when I chose Florida, Alabama was leading. 628 00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:12,440 Speaker 1: The entire time, I wasn't even looking at Florida. They 629 00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:15,520 Speaker 1: had a different coaching staff and they weren't even in 630 00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:18,440 Speaker 1: my top twenty five. And then they fired that coaching staff. 631 00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:21,200 Speaker 1: They brought an Urban and all the new guys and 632 00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:24,320 Speaker 1: I started to build this relationship, but it was so 633 00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:27,000 Speaker 1: much more established with Alabama, and I loved the passion, 634 00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:30,880 Speaker 1: the tradition, the culture, everything and then thinking about being 635 00:31:30,920 --> 00:31:34,200 Speaker 1: a part of bringing Alabama back to you know, what 636 00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:37,160 Speaker 1: they once were was so exciting to me, and so yes, 637 00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:39,840 Speaker 1: I was literally a split second away. And to be honest, 638 00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:42,320 Speaker 1: even when I chose Florida, there was a little bit 639 00:31:42,400 --> 00:31:45,120 Speaker 1: of regret in my heart of did I should I 640 00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:48,640 Speaker 1: have chose Alabama? That's how close I was with shoot. 641 00:31:48,680 --> 00:31:51,200 Speaker 1: When I told Coach Schule I was going to Florida, 642 00:31:51,280 --> 00:31:53,520 Speaker 1: I had tears in my eyes. And it's not the 643 00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:58,520 Speaker 1: only time that Alabama made me cry. And my final 644 00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:00,800 Speaker 1: question for you is if you stub your toe or 645 00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:04,240 Speaker 1: hit your elbow or does a curse word ever come 646 00:32:04,240 --> 00:32:11,040 Speaker 1: out of your mouth? I hope not. I mean, I 647 00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:14,360 Speaker 1: mean it's probably a like a negative word, but then 648 00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:17,360 Speaker 1: I might just say something that's like totally random, not 649 00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:21,600 Speaker 1: as bad like fooy or yeah yeah, oh Tater Todds, 650 00:32:21,680 --> 00:32:25,320 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah yeah, and let me say that, hey 651 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:29,080 Speaker 1: Tater Tots ever do to you? You know, Tim Tebow 652 00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:31,920 Speaker 1: has mission possible, go create a life that counts and 653 00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:36,600 Speaker 1: also Broncho and Friends a party to remember. That's your 654 00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:38,680 Speaker 1: first book, but you're doing a second, if I'm right 655 00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:40,920 Speaker 1: about this, you're doing a second in the series. Right, 656 00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:44,440 Speaker 1: This coming out later on this year. Yes, that's right, 657 00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:47,280 Speaker 1: it's coming out in just a few weeks. Okay, Well, 658 00:32:47,600 --> 00:32:50,480 Speaker 1: the guy's writing more books than I don't know Stephen 659 00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:52,640 Speaker 1: King make up an author. I don't know Judy Bloom. 660 00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:56,520 Speaker 1: He is the new Judy Bloom of books. It is 661 00:32:56,560 --> 00:32:59,520 Speaker 1: Tim Tebow. Hey Tim, The first time anybody's comparing me 662 00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:03,000 Speaker 1: to Jutie Bloom. But there you go. It is Tim Tebow. 663 00:33:03,160 --> 00:33:06,960 Speaker 1: We love him, and you know, except for when we 664 00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:10,200 Speaker 1: played him. I was at the SEC Championship game when 665 00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:14,840 Speaker 1: Tim was a freshman and he was the backup quarterback 666 00:33:14,880 --> 00:33:17,280 Speaker 1: in Atlanta and he did. I believe scored on a 667 00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:20,360 Speaker 1: quarterback sneak something. He was running a quarterback package. And 668 00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:23,120 Speaker 1: I hated you that that year, and to be frank, 669 00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:25,440 Speaker 1: I hated you until you graduated. But now I can't 670 00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:29,560 Speaker 1: get enough of you, Tim well Man. I appreciate you. 671 00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:31,480 Speaker 1: You're a stun And by the way, I love what 672 00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:35,600 Speaker 1: Arkansas is doing with Sam Pittman. I love it. I 673 00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:38,560 Speaker 1: love what he's all about. So congrats on that. I 674 00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:40,760 Speaker 1: think there's a lot to be excited about with Arkansas 675 00:33:40,880 --> 00:33:43,240 Speaker 1: right now. Tim, good to see you. Congratulations on the books. 676 00:33:43,280 --> 00:33:44,880 Speaker 1: I hope you sell so many. I think the message 677 00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:46,920 Speaker 1: is awesome. Have a good day, Man, Thank you. I 678 00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:49,560 Speaker 1: appreciate you. Man. Tell everybody, hey there, all right, see 679 00:33:49,560 --> 00:33:56,800 Speaker 1: you later. You're Amy's pile of stories. So there's a couple. 680 00:33:57,040 --> 00:34:00,560 Speaker 1: They each make about one hundred and seventy five thousand 681 00:34:00,560 --> 00:34:04,880 Speaker 1: dollars a year, I know, but they've always kept their 682 00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:10,120 Speaker 1: finances separate. So the woman wants her man to pay 683 00:34:10,160 --> 00:34:12,240 Speaker 1: her to have a kid. She's asking for fifty thousand 684 00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:14,640 Speaker 1: dollars in lost salary for the next six months and 685 00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:17,000 Speaker 1: another fifty grand if she ends up taking a full 686 00:34:17,080 --> 00:34:20,120 Speaker 1: year off. Okay, unconventional. I think everybody's like, huh, I 687 00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:23,280 Speaker 1: never heard of it, But here is As I'm listening 688 00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:26,240 Speaker 1: to her tell me this. If they have completely separate finances, 689 00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:27,960 Speaker 1: why should she have to take a hit in hers 690 00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:29,799 Speaker 1: because she's having a baby. I mean, this is the 691 00:34:29,840 --> 00:34:33,000 Speaker 1: struggle that women have in general with having a baby 692 00:34:33,000 --> 00:34:37,680 Speaker 1: and trying to work, and that's coming. And it isn't fair, right, Yes, 693 00:34:37,760 --> 00:34:41,319 Speaker 1: absolutely so if they're both basing their relationship and their 694 00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:45,120 Speaker 1: finances off what they can make individually, it isn't fair 695 00:34:45,160 --> 00:34:47,719 Speaker 1: to her that she has to stop making money and 696 00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:52,440 Speaker 1: he doesn't, So I under it feels odd that this 697 00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:54,439 Speaker 1: has to happen in a marriage. But if it's their 698 00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:58,240 Speaker 1: relationship is based on living a life separately to build together, 699 00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:00,399 Speaker 1: then her side also needs to be fuel. I don't 700 00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:02,440 Speaker 1: know about the two thousand. I don't know, but but 701 00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:05,160 Speaker 1: she has a point. Yeah, people on mine are split 702 00:35:05,200 --> 00:35:07,919 Speaker 1: about it. Something that it's a fair request since they've 703 00:35:07,960 --> 00:35:11,360 Speaker 1: even kept their finances separate. Um, but some people are 704 00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:14,080 Speaker 1: saying it just feels gross and transactional. It only feels 705 00:35:14,120 --> 00:35:16,560 Speaker 1: gross because it's not how they were taught. It does 706 00:35:16,680 --> 00:35:20,520 Speaker 1: feel weird, but all weird's not bad. And again, why 707 00:35:20,560 --> 00:35:23,879 Speaker 1: should she have to suffer financially and he doesn't and 708 00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:26,000 Speaker 1: she has to have the baby. It's not fair to her. 709 00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:29,799 Speaker 1: I would say, well, that's life, but that's but it 710 00:35:29,840 --> 00:35:32,920 Speaker 1: isn't fair that a woman has to accept less because 711 00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:35,319 Speaker 1: she has to have the baby. It's just not that, 712 00:35:35,400 --> 00:35:37,560 Speaker 1: you know, it's only life because we've said it's live. 713 00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:39,480 Speaker 1: I think women should have so much more leave than 714 00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:44,719 Speaker 1: they get. But why not, Well, that's life, that's life. Yes, 715 00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:47,960 Speaker 1: that you can we can think. I've never heard of this, 716 00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,040 Speaker 1: I'll probably never hear of this again. Rights wild. But 717 00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:56,200 Speaker 1: if she shouldn't be penalized, and he continued to if 718 00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:58,799 Speaker 1: they are paying things from their separate accounts, that's all. 719 00:35:58,800 --> 00:36:00,719 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. That's It's a tough one, but 720 00:36:01,080 --> 00:36:04,200 Speaker 1: logic Judge says she has a point. Well, when they 721 00:36:04,200 --> 00:36:06,200 Speaker 1: do become parents, I hope they're ready to help with 722 00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:07,759 Speaker 1: their kids homework. I don't know how they're going to 723 00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:11,640 Speaker 1: divide that up. But a new poll found that basically 724 00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:14,600 Speaker 1: half of parents don't know what they're doing and their 725 00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:17,000 Speaker 1: kids are better off doing their homework on their own, 726 00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:19,319 Speaker 1: and parents even use bribes like hey, you can do this, 727 00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:21,600 Speaker 1: I'll give you extra time on video games. Or some 728 00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:24,680 Speaker 1: parents are going straight cash, which I'm like, if you're 729 00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:26,480 Speaker 1: having to pay your kid to just try to do 730 00:36:26,520 --> 00:36:28,279 Speaker 1: it all on their own, you might as well put 731 00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:31,239 Speaker 1: that money towards a tutor. I'm looking into hiring a 732 00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:34,920 Speaker 1: Mike D's wife to help tutor my daughter with some 733 00:36:35,000 --> 00:36:39,440 Speaker 1: things that I'm not understanding science. Yes, that's a particular 734 00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:42,520 Speaker 1: where we meet, particularly where we need extra help for sure. 735 00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:44,120 Speaker 1: And it's like, wow, I might as well. I mean, 736 00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:45,680 Speaker 1: they're going to waste a bunch of time trying to 737 00:36:45,719 --> 00:36:48,839 Speaker 1: help her, or I can get an expert like Mike 738 00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:50,960 Speaker 1: Dy's wife to come in who's willing and loves to 739 00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:53,520 Speaker 1: tutor and have her do it. So is it that 740 00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:55,680 Speaker 1: parents don't want to help their kids. They don't understand it, 741 00:36:55,719 --> 00:36:58,200 Speaker 1: they don't understand it, and then it's like they're making 742 00:36:58,239 --> 00:37:01,279 Speaker 1: matters worse. So you just said you don't understand science. Yes, 743 00:37:01,400 --> 00:37:04,560 Speaker 1: your daughter any math issues. She's good at math, so 744 00:37:04,719 --> 00:37:06,960 Speaker 1: you don't have to, Okay, So it doesn't matter if 745 00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:09,279 Speaker 1: you don't know, because she does. Yeah, Eddie you Oh, 746 00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:11,440 Speaker 1: I tried one time to help him with math, and 747 00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:13,040 Speaker 1: I thought I nailed it, and he came back with 748 00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:15,800 Speaker 1: a naff last time I helped him with homework. Yeah, 749 00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:18,319 Speaker 1: I mean I did say Eddie falls into that. It 750 00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:20,520 Speaker 1: was They were all the right answers, but how I 751 00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:22,520 Speaker 1: got there and showed him to get there was not 752 00:37:22,560 --> 00:37:24,960 Speaker 1: the way the teacher taught it. So I failed. He 753 00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:28,000 Speaker 1: didn't write my dad, No, he didn't write that, all right, Amy? 754 00:37:28,080 --> 00:37:30,600 Speaker 1: What else? I have some dalliisms that are actually good 755 00:37:30,600 --> 00:37:32,880 Speaker 1: to just keep in your back pocket when you need encouragement, 756 00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:36,120 Speaker 1: like it's hard to be a diamond in a rhinestone world, 757 00:37:36,200 --> 00:37:39,319 Speaker 1: which means wyblenden when standing out is so much more fun. 758 00:37:39,840 --> 00:37:42,680 Speaker 1: One of my favorites is when she said I know 759 00:37:42,760 --> 00:37:45,040 Speaker 1: I'm not dumb, and I know I'm not blond, and 760 00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:47,919 Speaker 1: basically that means you know who you are, so who 761 00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:50,160 Speaker 1: cares what other people think about you? And the joke 762 00:37:50,320 --> 00:37:53,320 Speaker 1: was too that she's not really belong right, and then 763 00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:55,680 Speaker 1: another it costs a lot of money to look this cheap. 764 00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:58,600 Speaker 1: What she means there is all that matters is being 765 00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:01,560 Speaker 1: yourself and feeling great about it. I didn't take that 766 00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:03,440 Speaker 1: from that joke at that literal joke that it caused 767 00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:04,719 Speaker 1: a lot of money to look at it like she 768 00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:07,239 Speaker 1: has an aesthetic that some people will go like, oh, 769 00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:09,880 Speaker 1: she kind of looks Dolly put this up herself with 770 00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:13,080 Speaker 1: the explanation fight not what I took from as my point. Yeah, 771 00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:16,160 Speaker 1: find out who you are and do it on purpose. 772 00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:19,080 Speaker 1: And from that she means, learn from your experiences and 773 00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:21,640 Speaker 1: then live the life that you want to live. All right, 774 00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:24,880 Speaker 1: there you go. I'm Amy. That's my pile. That was 775 00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:28,279 Speaker 1: Amy's pile of stories. It's time for the good news. 776 00:38:33,120 --> 00:38:37,320 Speaker 1: So at ninety five years old, Sam Baker was encouraged 777 00:38:37,440 --> 00:38:40,320 Speaker 1: to buy a computer by his son, and as he 778 00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:42,560 Speaker 1: started working on it, he's like, you know what, I've 779 00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:45,040 Speaker 1: always wanted to write a children's book. So he wrote Run. 780 00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:47,319 Speaker 1: Then another, like a year and a half go by, 781 00:38:47,440 --> 00:38:50,600 Speaker 1: he writes another book, and now this year Sam is 782 00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:53,040 Speaker 1: working on his third book at ninety nine years old, 783 00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:57,040 Speaker 1: about the adventure of Oscar the Mouse, and his books 784 00:38:57,080 --> 00:38:59,080 Speaker 1: get good reviews, but he's not in it for the money. 785 00:38:59,080 --> 00:39:02,560 Speaker 1: He just wants to encourage kids to read and never 786 00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:05,440 Speaker 1: give up your dreams to old people. Yeah, yes, because 787 00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:08,040 Speaker 1: this is something he's always wanted to do. But back in, 788 00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:09,719 Speaker 1: never give up your dream at any age you can 789 00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:11,200 Speaker 1: be forty ago. I can't do that. It's for a 790 00:39:11,239 --> 00:39:15,759 Speaker 1: young person. No, there is no age limit on what 791 00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:19,479 Speaker 1: you can do and what you can achieve except professional sports. Yeah, 792 00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:22,480 Speaker 1: let me think about this. Let's think. Let's sorry football. 793 00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:26,239 Speaker 1: There was the one player who was like forty one 794 00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:29,839 Speaker 1: by to college and played college ball. Oh yeah, yeah, okay, 795 00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:32,640 Speaker 1: that's not a bad forty years ago. Yeah, that's pretty fun. 796 00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:37,440 Speaker 1: He didn't do much. He's a oldah yeah, but I 797 00:39:37,520 --> 00:39:41,480 Speaker 1: like that. Never stop chasing your dreams as someone who's older. 798 00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:44,000 Speaker 1: Let ninety nine year old Sam Baker be your inspiration. 799 00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:47,040 Speaker 1: It's pretty good. 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