WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Brunette Has A Nice Ring To It

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's Brick and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>And yes, first we took over your for you page

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<v Speaker 2>on TikTok. Then we took over the top comedy charts

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<v Speaker 2>on Spotify.

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<v Speaker 3>Hu.

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<v Speaker 4>Next we're gonna take over the Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I don't feel like anyone's behind me.

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<v Speaker 5>I actually like it. Once you take over the world,

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think you have to go to work anymore,

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<v Speaker 5>so it kind of would be helpful for everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>Could you help us out?

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<v Speaker 2>Follow the show, follow the show on this podcast over

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<v Speaker 2>your second date.

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<v Speaker 6>The second dat day.

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<v Speaker 5>Is it possible to accidentally catfish someone?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I guess.

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<v Speaker 5>Let's say that on our show all the time where

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<v Speaker 5>they showed up to the date and oh no, he's

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<v Speaker 5>even more attractive than his pictures. I wasn't prepared for

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<v Speaker 5>a Clooney Hemsworth look alike.

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<v Speaker 1>Me.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I lost a bunch of way and I'm super

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<v Speaker 5>buff now.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I just forgot to update my profile he no.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Well, one of our listeners is worried she may

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<v Speaker 5>have unintentionally catfished her date. Her name's Morgan and she's

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<v Speaker 5>a solid six in her photos. Online, but in eleven

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<v Speaker 5>when you see her in person, isn't that rid?

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<v Speaker 6>Morgan?

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<v Speaker 1>You off the scale.

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<v Speaker 7>I wouldn't go that far, you guys, I'm probably like

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<v Speaker 7>a ten point five.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know anyone that even calls themselves a tent

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<v Speaker 1>for you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, well, Morgan, we want to help you here. Tell

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<v Speaker 5>us about the guy that you catfished by accident.

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<v Speaker 6>What's his name?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, his name is Kent Okay, And you don't honestly

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<v Speaker 2>think that Kent isn't calling you back because you're too hot?

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<v Speaker 5>Right?

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<v Speaker 7>No?

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<v Speaker 8>No, I mean that's not it.

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<v Speaker 7>I just I mean some stuff happened during the day,

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<v Speaker 7>but we met online.

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<v Speaker 8>Look, I was like almost done with these apps because

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<v Speaker 8>I've been on some really horrible dates and like the

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<v Speaker 8>last day was this guy. He actually asked me if

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<v Speaker 8>I could donate my kidney to his uncle.

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<v Speaker 3>Date.

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<v Speaker 2>He was Hi, Sarious, that is a good family member

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<v Speaker 2>that will just start dating randos just to find an

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<v Speaker 2>organ donor.

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<v Speaker 5>I say, I mean I can understand that question. On

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<v Speaker 5>a second date, maybe it's a little bit too soon exactly.

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<v Speaker 7>I was like, can we just wait till we date

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<v Speaker 7>for a month and then maybe you.

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<v Speaker 5>Know, how about all I.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're about to delete your app is what you're saying?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and then can reach out to me, and he

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<v Speaker 4>like gave me the cheasiest line, is there an airport nearby?

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<v Speaker 4>Because my heart is taking off?

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<v Speaker 6>Oh go.

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<v Speaker 1>Not deleted? Like I think that that would be quicker.

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<v Speaker 6>How do you respond to that? Or do you even respond?

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<v Speaker 8>I wanted to mess with him, so I was like, oh, well,

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<v Speaker 8>thanks a lot. My dad was a pilot and he

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<v Speaker 8>actually crushed.

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<v Speaker 2>Dark Wait is that true?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, a little dark humor.

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<v Speaker 1>I know.

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<v Speaker 8>But I was like, I wanted to mess with thing

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<v Speaker 8>because I thought it.

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<v Speaker 7>Was like such a cheapy line. I was like, oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 7>and he was like, oh my.

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<v Speaker 8>God, I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 9>I was like, no, I'm not kidding.

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<v Speaker 5>Just kidding about my dad's fiery dad.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>First, that's a cute way to start off a conversation

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<v Speaker 5>where you did you turn that into a date somehow?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah? And so like we were just laughing and and

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<v Speaker 7>then he had me out for drinks. And what happened

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<v Speaker 7>is that I decided to change my hairdoo right before.

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<v Speaker 8>Going on this date.

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<v Speaker 1>That's the catfish part right, Oh right.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, it was a pretty dramatic change.

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<v Speaker 5>You went for the full makeover, Yeah, kind of.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean I went from blonde to back to burnet,

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<v Speaker 7>which is my natural color, and I actually went short hair.

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<v Speaker 10>That's a drum change.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So was he able to recognize you? Did you give

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<v Speaker 1>him a heads o?

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<v Speaker 8>No? So he comes in and he doesn't even see me,

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<v Speaker 8>and like I had to wave at hair. I was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 8>I'm here, because the reaction was like, wow, I didn't

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<v Speaker 8>even recognize you.

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<v Speaker 6>I kind of like in a good way.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, did he at least like was it a compliment? Like, Wow,

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<v Speaker 5>you're so much prettier now.

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<v Speaker 8>I think it was just really surprised.

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<v Speaker 7>So no, it didn't come up as a compliment.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, it was just like what, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>you're so much prettier now as a compliment either, because

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<v Speaker 2>it means before I.

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<v Speaker 1>Think we need to work on your compliment.

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<v Speaker 4>That's too cheesy.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, off to a little bit of a rocky

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<v Speaker 5>start here. Were you able to get things on track?

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<v Speaker 9>I did, So we sat down and we started talking

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<v Speaker 9>and things got back on track, and actually we found

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<v Speaker 9>out the silly hobby that we have in common.

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<v Speaker 11>We actually love care. Are you okay?

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<v Speaker 5>Both of us that is a silly, stupid, stupid who.

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<v Speaker 6>Is dumb?

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey loves car It's like.

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<v Speaker 5>It is cute you.

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<v Speaker 8>We both apparently love to go a lot.

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<v Speaker 7>And so anyways we bonded about that and then at

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<v Speaker 7>some point the other thing that happened it was a

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<v Speaker 7>little odd, is that I have a ring.

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<v Speaker 8>On my finger and he actually noticed that.

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<v Speaker 7>And it's not a wedding ring or anything, but it

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<v Speaker 7>is an old promise ring from one of my first boyfriends.

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<v Speaker 1>Are wearing that.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, I love the ring and I wear the other finger.

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<v Speaker 7>It's not like I'm wearing it as and I'm engaged

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<v Speaker 7>or anything.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, but it's like a diamond. It looks like an

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<v Speaker 1>engagement ring.

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<v Speaker 8>It does look a little bit like an engagement ring.

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<v Speaker 7>Yes, yes, And so I told him and said, hey,

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<v Speaker 7>I just really love this ring. It's from an old boyfriend,

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<v Speaker 7>has nothing I mean, I don't even have any contact.

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<v Speaker 8>With this person, and so it's like to really like it.

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<v Speaker 7>And so he I'm not even sure if he was

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<v Speaker 7>even weirded out about that.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it's strange that you even brought it up, because

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<v Speaker 2>he may have not even noticed it. I mean, if

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<v Speaker 2>it's not on that finger, Dude, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>I know a lot of guys that don't forget to look. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>it's like marry Like I don't know, it's like.

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<v Speaker 6>I didn't look at her fingers.

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<v Speaker 5>Or maybe when you said it was like one of

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<v Speaker 5>my ex boyfriends, he probably thought it was just a joke.

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<v Speaker 5>Like your dad that had a plane crash would have

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<v Speaker 5>been funny. Yeah, he died in a tornado. Accis, So,

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<v Speaker 5>how did you and can to end the day?

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<v Speaker 8>You know, it ended up just fine.

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<v Speaker 7>We had a friendly hug and it seemed like things

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<v Speaker 7>were going to continue, like I'm going to reach out

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<v Speaker 7>to you and and then it just does not have

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<v Speaker 7>him been like that at all. So I reached out

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<v Speaker 7>a couple of times, and you know, his answers are

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<v Speaker 7>kind of short, and it's not the same kind of

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<v Speaker 7>back and forth that we had before.

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<v Speaker 5>It is the ring like just knowing someone.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's not staying blonde.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we'll find out the real answer after we play

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<v Speaker 5>a song comeback called Kent and get your second date

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<v Speaker 5>update right after this.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, all right, hold on, let's play.

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<v Speaker 5>A little game of Spot the Red Flag.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, you two are gonna let's try.

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<v Speaker 5>There's a blonde girl who shows up to the first

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<v Speaker 5>date with a totally different hair color, wearing an ex

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<v Speaker 5>boyfriend's promise ring, joking about her fake pilot dad crashing

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<v Speaker 5>his plane.

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<v Speaker 6>I can't, I can't find.

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<v Speaker 2>The red I see all green.

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<v Speaker 5>You know what's good about red flags?

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<v Speaker 6>You can cut little red hearts.

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<v Speaker 11>Out of I can.

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<v Speaker 5>So. I don't know why Kent wouldn't be calling our

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<v Speaker 5>listener Morgan back after their first date. I don't know, Broke,

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<v Speaker 5>what do you?

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<v Speaker 1>I am really at a loss. You know, I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's really normal to wear old promised rings.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, yeah, yeah, because usually when you're like nineteen or

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<v Speaker 7>eighteen or whatever, you can afford a big dime.

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<v Speaker 5>Morgan, I mean, do you see anything wrong with what

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<v Speaker 5>happened on your first date?

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<v Speaker 10>There?

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<v Speaker 4>You guys, I don't call those red facts.

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<v Speaker 7>I call them having a sense of humor.

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<v Speaker 1>So the promise ring was a joke, funny flags.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, No, well, it really doesn't matter what any of

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<v Speaker 5>us think. It all comes down to Kent and his

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<v Speaker 5>opinion of your first date. That's what we're going to

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<v Speaker 5>try and get from him.

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<v Speaker 6>Right now.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, let's dial his number and hope that he picks up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, no numbers also red flags.

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<v Speaker 6>Here we go, well, heysus kent.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, who do you think we are? Not a good question?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe he might guess right, highly doubt it.

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<v Speaker 11>Okay, I'm gonna get somebody. I'm not that keenan talking.

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<v Speaker 10>To your congratulations.

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<v Speaker 11>Who are you?

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<v Speaker 5>We are a morning radio show?

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<v Speaker 11>Yeah, oh okay.

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<v Speaker 5>It's about the standard answer that we get a lot

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<v Speaker 5>of the times when we do these. But we're doing

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<v Speaker 5>something called a second date update. We're trying to get

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<v Speaker 5>some answers for our listener Morgan on why you're not

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<v Speaker 5>calling her back after going out with her?

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<v Speaker 11>Uh oh oh.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's like good because you know she obviously liked you.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so we demand answers.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you literally could not be more awkward?

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<v Speaker 5>It's like court now, you know, Can we can ask nicely?

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<v Speaker 5>Why don't you call in Morgan back after you guys

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<v Speaker 5>had such a great first date.

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<v Speaker 11>She's our friend, she's what did she call you?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, she reached out to us and told us all

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<v Speaker 5>about your first hang out together, and she did. Overall

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<v Speaker 5>it seemed pretty good. But she did mention there were

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<v Speaker 5>a few possible awkward moments like She brought up that

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<v Speaker 5>she looked a little bit different than her photos online.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, so different that you didn't even recognize her.

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<v Speaker 11>Yeah, that was a little shocking, upset you. No, still

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<v Speaker 11>pretty and most importantly, I think like her personality is

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<v Speaker 11>the same.

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<v Speaker 1>So answer.

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<v Speaker 5>So, if that's the case, then was there something else

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<v Speaker 5>that happened on the date, because she says that she's

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<v Speaker 5>been trying to reach out to you, but you've been

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<v Speaker 5>kind of avoiding her via text.

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<v Speaker 11>Well, I don't know if she told you about the

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<v Speaker 11>whole ring situation.

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<v Speaker 6>What ring situation?

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<v Speaker 12>Yeah, this promise ring from her act her friend had

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<v Speaker 12>given her and.

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<v Speaker 11>They were together for like five years, and I guess

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<v Speaker 11>it meant a lot to him and her.

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<v Speaker 1>And oh you got that much detail? Huh? Yeah, did

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<v Speaker 1>you not?

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<v Speaker 5>I'll be honest with you, Ken. She did mention that

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<v Speaker 5>she was wearing an ex's ring, but we didn't know

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<v Speaker 5>the story behind it, that they were together for five years,

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<v Speaker 5>or whatever else happened with it.

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<v Speaker 11>Oh, well, there's a little more.

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<v Speaker 12>Basically, she's uh, when they broke up, he asked for

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<v Speaker 12>it back and she said, now.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry, Well, I mean it's just a promise ring, is

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<v Speaker 1>that though?

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<v Speaker 11>Yeah? I mean, it's also like a broken promise.

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<v Speaker 3>You know that's true.

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<v Speaker 1>What upset you? I don't understand that.

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<v Speaker 11>Just something about that bothers me that I guess he

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<v Speaker 11>was kind of lousy that he asked for it back,

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<v Speaker 11>but he.

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<v Speaker 3>Did ask for it back and she said no. But

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<v Speaker 3>then on top of that, and this is like kind

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<v Speaker 3>of the I don't want to call it the clincher,

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<v Speaker 3>but like but really sticking to my crass that you know,

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<v Speaker 3>she knows apparently.

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<v Speaker 11>That he follows her on Insta and so.

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<v Speaker 12>Every time she poses for pictures, she makes sure the

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<v Speaker 12>ring is like visible so you can create.

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<v Speaker 7>So it's his.

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<v Speaker 5>Way back in someday.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I think it's revenge, Like it's proving to him, like, ha,

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<v Speaker 2>still got your ring?

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<v Speaker 8>Right?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean whatever it is, it's like she's still

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<v Speaker 3>wearing his ring and Bill needs something.

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<v Speaker 11>It's not just a piece of jewelry to her. It

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<v Speaker 11>has to do with him.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it feels like it, right, we should find out? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>how do we do that, Jeff? I guess we We

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<v Speaker 5>could call her and ask, but oh wait, she's already

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<v Speaker 5>on the line.

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<v Speaker 3>Ye.

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<v Speaker 5>The type of person creepily waits on the other line

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<v Speaker 5>listening in on other people's conversations.

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<v Speaker 6>I guess that's Morgan.

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<v Speaker 5>That's the type of person Morgan.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi.

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<v Speaker 11>Oh, okay, well, so she's been listening to all her I.

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<v Speaker 5>Didn't even realize that that's totally on her.

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<v Speaker 6>It is, Morgan. What were you doing there?

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<v Speaker 8>I'm bad girl.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, that girl, Well.

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<v Speaker 7>I think you're putting too much weight on this ring,

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<v Speaker 7>saying I mean I kept the ring because I liked

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<v Speaker 7>the ring and I wear I wore that ring for

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<v Speaker 7>a really long time and I'm not going to take

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<v Speaker 7>it off for taking a picture for Instagram.

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<v Speaker 5>Has nothing to do with you have any secret feelings

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<v Speaker 5>for your ex boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 7>No, I mean he wasn't a nice person to me,

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<v Speaker 7>especially when the relationship ended. So yeah, I mean, I

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<v Speaker 7>want to make sure that he can see for my

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<v Speaker 7>pictures that I'm still wearing the ring.

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<v Speaker 5>All right, So she doesn't think about him at all,

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<v Speaker 5>There you go. Just when she posts directly at him online,

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<v Speaker 5>could get back at him for all the horrible things

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<v Speaker 5>he didn't like. I sag him in every photo. Really healthy,

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<v Speaker 5>healthy sort of sounds like to me.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like you talked about him a lot on

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<v Speaker 2>your date.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I mean, he wanted to know why I was

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<v Speaker 7>wearing the ring, and so I told him the story.

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<v Speaker 7>But I mean, I don't have feelings.

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<v Speaker 10>For my ex I mean to me, it sounds like,

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<v Speaker 10>you know, you may not have feelings like you want

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<v Speaker 10>to be with him anymore, but you certainly have feelings

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<v Speaker 10>like you want him to see you living your life.

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<v Speaker 10>He's still important to you. And honesty with my exes, Like, if.

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<v Speaker 3>There's drama, I'm not trying to post for them, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>blocking them.

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<v Speaker 5>But what's the point of posting online if your exes

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<v Speaker 5>aren't supposed to see Like that's the whole reason we

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<v Speaker 5>do anything.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, I'm not flaunting and I'm just not taking

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<v Speaker 7>it off.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know the people who post ring pictures flat.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so you're saying that you're still not going to

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<v Speaker 1>take it off.

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<v Speaker 7>Exactly, I'm gonna wear it because it's my ring. He

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<v Speaker 7>gave it to me, and I want to use it.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm not wearing on the other finger.

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<v Speaker 8>No, I'm not engaged to anybody.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe the promise is that she'll never take it off. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 5>it doesn't have to be like another promise that we're thinking.

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe the only way she'll take it off. Is if

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<v Speaker 5>Kent gives her an even bigger, nicer and it all

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<v Speaker 5>starts with you going on another date with her, Kent,

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<v Speaker 5>that will pay for.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I mean it's Kent's Upfred.

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<v Speaker 3>I really like you, Kent.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean no red flats here, Kent. I don't see

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<v Speaker 1>anything she's gonna have.

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<v Speaker 5>Like ten, you can even take a picture with her

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<v Speaker 5>together with the two of you and your brand new

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<v Speaker 5>ring and post it right at her ex boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 11>Are you guys buying the ring or just the date?

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<v Speaker 5>We can barely afford the day, bro, I mean.

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<v Speaker 11>Look, I thought we had good chemistry. I like you,

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<v Speaker 11>so I'll try it out. But honestly, I am not

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<v Speaker 11>about the drama, not about you. You know your relationship

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<v Speaker 11>with your ex.

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<v Speaker 1>You're saying yes, but you don't want the drama.

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<v Speaker 8>I don't know that you've changed your hair.

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<v Speaker 7>She's going through something.

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<v Speaker 11>I can't tell that. You guys are talking me into

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<v Speaker 11>it or out of it.

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly, I can't tell either. But I do want to

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<v Speaker 5>know what happens on date number two.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys are going out again?

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<v Speaker 11>Yeah? Why not?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, I guess miracles do happen, guys. You

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<v Speaker 5>want to start taking bets on how many dates they

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<v Speaker 5>last brooke?

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<v Speaker 6>What do you.

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<v Speaker 1>Got half a one?

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<v Speaker 6>I was gonna go with one and a half.

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<v Speaker 5>You think it's not even the full date?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, to show it up again with the ring.

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<v Speaker 8>So it's my ring and I wear what I want.

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<v Speaker 10>I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>And if you if your ex boyfriend's listening to this

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<v Speaker 5>on podcasts, somebody missed out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he feels that.

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<v Speaker 3>Brooking.

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<v Speaker 11>Jeffrey in the morning got.

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<v Speaker 5>A text into seventy five nine to two that says,

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<v Speaker 5>I think that actually was my ex and I want

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<v Speaker 5>her back Oho at.

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<v Speaker 6>Least the ring.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it is, so I cannot believe they're going out again.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah I am why not? And I know it the.

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<v Speaker 5>Obviously, I don't know. I think we've all held on

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<v Speaker 5>to stuff from our previous relationships and it doesn't mean anything.

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<v Speaker 4>Promise, Ring, Jean, I promise.

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<v Speaker 1>There were so many red flags in this situation.

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<v Speaker 5>I've got fingernails and skin samples from my exes, but

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<v Speaker 5>not weird like I'm obsessed with you. I smell these

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<v Speaker 5>every day kind of way, just a regular I hold

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<v Speaker 5>on to stuff that makes me happy. So what if

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<v Speaker 5>they all updates and times on them.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, do you put them next year hair doll?

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<v Speaker 11>Or No?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, that would be weird. Sorry, that would be weird.

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<v Speaker 6>Geez.

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<v Speaker 5>Anyway, if you ever want to get a second date update,

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<v Speaker 5>you can email the show. We'll call the person with

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<v Speaker 5>and calling you back. And check out all of the

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<v Speaker 5>podcasts for second dates. They're up wherever you get your podcasts.

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<v Speaker 5>That Broke and Jeffrey