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Speaker 1: Hey, it's Brick and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 2: And yes, first we took over your for you page

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Speaker 2: on TikTok. Then we took over the top comedy charts

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Speaker 2: on Spotify.

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Speaker 3: Hu.

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Speaker 4: Next we're gonna take over the Wow.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I don't feel like anyone's behind me.

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Speaker 5: I actually like it. Once you take over the world,

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Speaker 5: I don't think you have to go to work anymore,

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Speaker 5: so it kind of would be helpful for everyone.

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Speaker 1: Could you help us out?

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Speaker 2: Follow the show, follow the show on this podcast over

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Speaker 2: on our main feed podcast as well, and hey, enjoy

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Speaker 2: your second date.

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Speaker 6: The second dat day.

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Speaker 5: Is it possible to accidentally catfish someone?

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Speaker 1: I mean, I guess.

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Speaker 5: Let's say that on our show all the time where

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Speaker 5: they showed up to the date and oh no, he's

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Speaker 5: even more attractive than his pictures. I wasn't prepared for

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Speaker 5: a Clooney Hemsworth look alike.

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Speaker 1: Me.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I lost a bunch of way and I'm super

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Speaker 5: buff now.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I just forgot to update my profile he no.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Well, one of our listeners is worried she may

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Speaker 5: have unintentionally catfished her date. Her name's Morgan and she's

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Speaker 5: a solid six in her photos. Online, but in eleven

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Speaker 5: when you see her in person, isn't that rid?

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Speaker 6: Morgan?

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Speaker 1: You off the scale.

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Speaker 7: I wouldn't go that far, you guys, I'm probably like

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Speaker 7: a ten point five.

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Speaker 1: I don't know anyone that even calls themselves a tent

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Speaker 1: for you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well, Morgan, we want to help you here. Tell

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Speaker 5: us about the guy that you catfished by accident.

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Speaker 6: What's his name?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, his name is Kent Okay, And you don't honestly

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Speaker 2: think that Kent isn't calling you back because you're too hot?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 8: No, I mean that's not it.

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Speaker 7: I just I mean some stuff happened during the day,

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Speaker 7: but we met online.

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Speaker 8: Look, I was like almost done with these apps because

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Speaker 8: I've been on some really horrible dates and like the

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Speaker 8: last day was this guy. He actually asked me if

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Speaker 8: I could donate my kidney to his uncle.

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Speaker 3: Date.

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Speaker 2: He was Hi, Sarious, that is a good family member

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Speaker 2: that will just start dating randos just to find an

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Speaker 2: organ donor.

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Speaker 5: I say, I mean I can understand that question. On

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Speaker 5: a second date, maybe it's a little bit too soon exactly.

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Speaker 7: I was like, can we just wait till we date

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Speaker 7: for a month and then maybe you.

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Speaker 5: Know, how about all I.

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Speaker 1: So you're about to delete your app is what you're saying?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and then can reach out to me, and he

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Speaker 4: like gave me the cheasiest line, is there an airport nearby?

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Speaker 4: Because my heart is taking off?

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Speaker 6: Oh go.

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Speaker 1: Not deleted? Like I think that that would be quicker.

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Speaker 6: How do you respond to that? Or do you even respond?

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Speaker 8: I wanted to mess with him, so I was like, oh, well,

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Speaker 8: thanks a lot. My dad was a pilot and he

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Speaker 8: actually crushed.

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Speaker 2: Dark Wait is that true?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, a little dark humor.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 8: But I was like, I wanted to mess with thing

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Speaker 8: because I thought it.

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Speaker 7: Was like such a cheapy line. I was like, oh yeah,

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Speaker 7: and he was like, oh my.

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Speaker 8: God, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 9: I was like, no, I'm not kidding.

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Speaker 5: Just kidding about my dad's fiery dad.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: First, that's a cute way to start off a conversation

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Speaker 5: where you did you turn that into a date somehow?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? And so like we were just laughing and and

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Speaker 7: then he had me out for drinks. And what happened

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Speaker 7: is that I decided to change my hairdoo right before.

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Speaker 8: Going on this date.

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Speaker 1: That's the catfish part right, Oh right.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, it was a pretty dramatic change.

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Speaker 5: You went for the full makeover, Yeah, kind of.

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Speaker 7: I mean I went from blonde to back to burnet,

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Speaker 7: which is my natural color, and I actually went short hair.

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Speaker 10: That's a drum change.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So was he able to recognize you? Did you give

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Speaker 8: No? So he comes in and he doesn't even see me,

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Speaker 8: and like I had to wave at hair. I was like, hey,

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Speaker 6: I kind of like in a good way.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, did he at least like was it a compliment? Like, Wow,

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Speaker 5: you're so much prettier now.

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Speaker 8: I think it was just really surprised.

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Speaker 7: So no, it didn't come up as a compliment.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it was just like what, I don't know if

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Speaker 2: you're so much prettier now as a compliment either, because

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Speaker 2: it means before I.

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Speaker 1: Think we need to work on your compliment.

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Speaker 4: That's too cheesy.

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Speaker 5: All right, off to a little bit of a rocky

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Speaker 5: start here. Were you able to get things on track?

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Speaker 9: I did, So we sat down and we started talking

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Speaker 9: and things got back on track, and actually we found

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Speaker 9: out the silly hobby that we have in common.

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Speaker 11: We actually love care. Are you okay?

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Speaker 5: Both of us that is a silly, stupid, stupid who.

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Speaker 6: Is dumb?

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey loves car It's like.

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Speaker 5: It is cute you.

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Speaker 8: We both apparently love to go a lot.

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Speaker 7: And so anyways we bonded about that and then at

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Speaker 7: some point the other thing that happened it was a

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Speaker 7: little odd, is that I have a ring.

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Speaker 8: On my finger and he actually noticed that.

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Speaker 7: And it's not a wedding ring or anything, but it

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Speaker 7: is an old promise ring from one of my first boyfriends.

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Speaker 1: Are wearing that.

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Speaker 7: Well, I love the ring and I wear the other finger.

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Speaker 7: It's not like I'm wearing it as and I'm engaged

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Speaker 7: or anything.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but it's like a diamond. It looks like an

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Speaker 1: engagement ring.

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Speaker 8: It does look a little bit like an engagement ring.

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Speaker 7: Yes, yes, And so I told him and said, hey,

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Speaker 7: I just really love this ring. It's from an old boyfriend,

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Speaker 7: has nothing I mean, I don't even have any contact.

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Speaker 8: With this person, and so it's like to really like it.

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Speaker 7: And so he I'm not even sure if he was

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Speaker 2: Well, it's strange that you even brought it up, because

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Speaker 2: he may have not even noticed it. I mean, if

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Speaker 2: it's not on that finger, Dude, I don't know.

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Speaker 5: I know a lot of guys that don't forget to look. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: it's like marry Like I don't know, it's like.

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Speaker 6: I didn't look at her fingers.

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Speaker 5: Or maybe when you said it was like one of

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Speaker 5: my ex boyfriends, he probably thought it was just a joke.

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Speaker 5: Like your dad that had a plane crash would have

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Speaker 5: been funny. Yeah, he died in a tornado. Accis, So,

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Speaker 5: how did you and can to end the day?

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Speaker 8: You know, it ended up just fine.

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Speaker 7: We had a friendly hug and it seemed like things

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Speaker 7: were going to continue, like I'm going to reach out

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Speaker 7: to you and and then it just does not have

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Speaker 7: him been like that at all. So I reached out

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Speaker 7: a couple of times, and you know, his answers are

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Speaker 7: kind of short, and it's not the same kind of

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Speaker 7: back and forth that we had before.

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Speaker 5: It is the ring like just knowing someone.

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Speaker 1: I think it's not staying blonde.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we'll find out the real answer after we play

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Speaker 5: a song comeback called Kent and get your second date

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Speaker 5: update right after this.

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Speaker 6: Okay, all right, hold on, let's play.

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Speaker 5: A little game of Spot the Red Flag.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, you two are gonna let's try.

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Speaker 5: There's a blonde girl who shows up to the first

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Speaker 5: date with a totally different hair color, wearing an ex

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Speaker 5: boyfriend's promise ring, joking about her fake pilot dad crashing

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Speaker 5: his plane.

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Speaker 6: I can't, I can't find.

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Speaker 2: The red I see all green.

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Speaker 5: You know what's good about red flags?

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Speaker 6: You can cut little red hearts.

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Speaker 11: Out of I can.

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Speaker 5: So. I don't know why Kent wouldn't be calling our

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Speaker 5: listener Morgan back after their first date. I don't know, Broke,

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Speaker 5: what do you?

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Speaker 1: I am really at a loss. You know, I think

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Speaker 1: it's really normal to wear old promised rings.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, yeah, because usually when you're like nineteen or

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Speaker 7: eighteen or whatever, you can afford a big dime.

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Speaker 5: Morgan, I mean, do you see anything wrong with what

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Speaker 5: happened on your first date?

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Speaker 4: You guys, I don't call those red facts.

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Speaker 7: I call them having a sense of humor.

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Speaker 1: So the promise ring was a joke, funny flags.

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Speaker 5: Okay, No, well, it really doesn't matter what any of

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Speaker 5: us think. It all comes down to Kent and his

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Speaker 5: opinion of your first date. That's what we're going to

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Speaker 5: try and get from him.

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Speaker 6: Right now.

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Speaker 5: Okay, let's dial his number and hope that he picks up.

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Speaker 1: Yes, no numbers also red flags.

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Speaker 6: Here we go, well, heysus kent.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, who do you think we are? Not a good question?

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Speaker 1: Maybe he might guess right, highly doubt it.

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Speaker 11: Okay, I'm gonna get somebody. I'm not that keenan talking.

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Speaker 10: To your congratulations.

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Speaker 11: Who are you?

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Speaker 5: We are a morning radio show?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, oh okay.

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Speaker 5: It's about the standard answer that we get a lot

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Speaker 5: of the times when we do these. But we're doing

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Speaker 5: something called a second date update. We're trying to get

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Speaker 5: some answers for our listener Morgan on why you're not

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Speaker 5: calling her back after going out with her?

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Speaker 11: Uh oh oh.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's like good because you know she obviously liked you.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so we demand answers.

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Speaker 1: Can you literally could not be more awkward?

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Speaker 5: It's like court now, you know, Can we can ask nicely?

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Speaker 5: Why don't you call in Morgan back after you guys

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Speaker 5: had such a great first date.

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Speaker 11: She's our friend, she's what did she call you?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she reached out to us and told us all

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Speaker 5: about your first hang out together, and she did. Overall

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Speaker 5: it seemed pretty good. But she did mention there were

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Speaker 5: a few possible awkward moments like She brought up that

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Speaker 5: she looked a little bit different than her photos online.

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Speaker 1: Well, so different that you didn't even recognize her.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, that was a little shocking, upset you. No, still

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Speaker 11: pretty and most importantly, I think like her personality is

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Speaker 11: the same.

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Speaker 1: So answer.

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Speaker 5: So, if that's the case, then was there something else

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Speaker 5: that happened on the date, because she says that she's

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Speaker 5: been trying to reach out to you, but you've been

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Speaker 11: Well, I don't know if she told you about the

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Speaker 6: What ring situation?

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Speaker 12: Yeah, this promise ring from her act her friend had

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Speaker 11: They were together for like five years, and I guess

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Speaker 1: And oh you got that much detail? Huh? Yeah, did

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Speaker 5: I'll be honest with you, Ken. She did mention that

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Speaker 11: Oh, well, there's a little more.

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Speaker 12: Basically, she's uh, when they broke up, he asked for

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Speaker 1: Sorry, Well, I mean it's just a promise ring, is

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Speaker 11: Yeah? I mean, it's also like a broken promise.

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Speaker 3: You know that's true.

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Speaker 1: What upset you? I don't understand that.

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Speaker 11: Just something about that bothers me that I guess he

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Speaker 3: Did ask for it back and she said no. But

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Speaker 11: That he follows her on Insta and so.

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Speaker 12: Every time she poses for pictures, she makes sure the

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Speaker 7: So it's his.

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Speaker 5: Way back in someday.

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Speaker 2: No, I think it's revenge, Like it's proving to him, like, ha,

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Speaker 8: Right?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean whatever it is, it's like she's still

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Speaker 11: It's not just a piece of jewelry to her. It

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it feels like it, right, we should find out? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 5: how do we do that, Jeff? I guess we We

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Speaker 3: Ye.

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Speaker 5: The type of person creepily waits on the other line

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Speaker 6: I guess that's Morgan.

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Speaker 5: That's the type of person Morgan.

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Speaker 3: Hi.

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Speaker 11: Oh, okay, well, so she's been listening to all her I.

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Speaker 5: Didn't even realize that that's totally on her.

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Speaker 6: It is, Morgan. What were you doing there?

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Speaker 8: I'm bad girl.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that girl, Well.

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Speaker 7: I think you're putting too much weight on this ring,

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Speaker 7: saying I mean I kept the ring because I liked

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Speaker 7: a really long time and I'm not going to take

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Speaker 5: Has nothing to do with you have any secret feelings

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Speaker 7: No, I mean he wasn't a nice person to me,

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Speaker 5: All right, So she doesn't think about him at all,

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Speaker 5: There you go. Just when she posts directly at him online,

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Speaker 5: he didn't like. I sag him in every photo. Really healthy,

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Speaker 2: It sounds like you talked about him a lot on

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean, he wanted to know why I was

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Speaker 7: But I mean, I don't have feelings.

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Speaker 10: For my ex I mean to me, it sounds like,

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Speaker 10: you know, you may not have feelings like you want

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Speaker 10: like you want him to see you living your life.

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Speaker 10: He's still important to you. And honesty with my exes, Like, if.

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Speaker 3: There's drama, I'm not trying to post for them, I'm

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Speaker 5: But what's the point of posting online if your exes

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Speaker 7: I mean, I'm not flaunting and I'm just not taking

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Speaker 5: I don't know the people who post ring pictures flat.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so you're saying that you're still not going to

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Speaker 7: Exactly, I'm gonna wear it because it's my ring. He

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Speaker 7: I'm not wearing on the other finger.

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Speaker 8: No, I'm not engaged to anybody.

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Speaker 5: Maybe the promise is that she'll never take it off. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: it doesn't have to be like another promise that we're thinking.

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Speaker 5: Maybe the only way she'll take it off. Is if

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Speaker 5: Kent gives her an even bigger, nicer and it all

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Speaker 5: starts with you going on another date with her, Kent,

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Speaker 5: that will pay for.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean it's Kent's Upfred.

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Speaker 3: I really like you, Kent.

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Speaker 1: I mean no red flats here, Kent. I don't see

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Speaker 5: Like ten, you can even take a picture with her

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Speaker 11: Are you guys buying the ring or just the date?

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Speaker 5: We can barely afford the day, bro, I mean.

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Speaker 11: Look, I thought we had good chemistry. I like you,

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Speaker 11: so I'll try it out. But honestly, I am not

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Speaker 11: about the drama, not about you. You know your relationship

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Speaker 11: with your ex.

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Speaker 1: You're saying yes, but you don't want the drama.

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Speaker 8: I don't know that you've changed your hair.

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Speaker 7: She's going through something.

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Speaker 11: I can't tell that. You guys are talking me into

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Speaker 5: Honestly, I can't tell either. But I do want to

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Speaker 1: You guys are going out again?

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Speaker 11: Yeah? Why not?

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, I guess miracles do happen, guys. You

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Speaker 5: want to start taking bets on how many dates they

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Speaker 5: last brooke?

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Speaker 6: What do you.

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Speaker 1: Got half a one?

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Speaker 6: I was gonna go with one and a half.

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Speaker 5: You think it's not even the full date?

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Speaker 1: Okay, to show it up again with the ring.

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Speaker 8: So it's my ring and I wear what I want.

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Speaker 10: I mean.

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Speaker 5: And if you if your ex boyfriend's listening to this

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he feels that.

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Speaker 3: Brooking.

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Speaker 11: Jeffrey in the morning got.

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Speaker 5: A text into seventy five nine to two that says,

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Speaker 5: I think that actually was my ex and I want

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Speaker 6: Least the ring.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it is, so I cannot believe they're going out again.

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Speaker 1: Yeah I am why not? And I know it the.

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Speaker 5: Obviously, I don't know. I think we've all held on

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Speaker 5: to stuff from our previous relationships and it doesn't mean anything.

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Speaker 4: Promise, Ring, Jean, I promise.

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Speaker 1: There were so many red flags in this situation.

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Speaker 5: I've got fingernails and skin samples from my exes, but

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Speaker 5: on to stuff that makes me happy. So what if

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Speaker 1: Yeah, do you put them next year hair doll?

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Speaker 11: Or No?

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Speaker 1: Oh, that would be weird. Sorry, that would be weird.

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Speaker 6: Geez.

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Speaker 5: Anyway, if you ever want to get a second date update,

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Speaker 5: you can email the show. We'll call the person with

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Speaker 5: and calling you back. And check out all of the

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Speaker 5: podcasts for second dates. They're up wherever you get your podcasts.

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Speaker 5: That Broke and Jeffrey