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<v Speaker 1>Jebels Second date update. A listener named Jake is on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone today for a second date update, and in

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<v Speaker 1>his email, he said that there was a strict no

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<v Speaker 1>talking policy for their first date. So it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>an amazing date, like I wish they would do that

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<v Speaker 1>on more first dates. So I don't know what went wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Jake? How are you? Hey? Guys? How's it

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<v Speaker 1>going pretty good? So there's a no talking policy on

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<v Speaker 1>your first date? Yeah, I mean it's partially because there

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<v Speaker 1>was like bad research, you know, on my part, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it ended up being kind of cool. So

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<v Speaker 1>hear me out. Okay, before we get into that. What's

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<v Speaker 1>her name by the way, Kelly? Kelly. Kelly's not like

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<v Speaker 1>a mute in this phone call is going to go

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<v Speaker 1>not very well because she won't be able to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to us either. Right, she could talk, but she's not

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<v Speaker 1>talking to me. I wish you could you guys. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so hopefully we can get her to talk to you again.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us about how you met her? We met online

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<v Speaker 1>and you hit it off right away, and she what

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<v Speaker 1>was really popped out to me is like she liked music.

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<v Speaker 1>She liked to see live music and stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 1>So I thought, oh, this would be great. Okay, that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, are you the one they had initiated the date? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I asked her and then she agreed to

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<v Speaker 1>a first date. Sweet and what we What were you

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<v Speaker 1>feeling when you were arriving at the date for the

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<v Speaker 1>first time. I mean, I was really excited. I think

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<v Speaker 1>she was gonna love it. I picked this this jazz

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<v Speaker 1>club that had this jazz been playing, um that I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it would be really cool. I know she's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>like it because she likes live music and I've never

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<v Speaker 1>been to this jazz club before, so it was going

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<v Speaker 1>to be kind of a new experience for me as well.

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<v Speaker 1>So I mean, when when, okay, do you both like jazz? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>That was the other thing that was on her her

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<v Speaker 1>profile that she liked jazz music and definitely not okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And how did did it all start? I mean, what

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<v Speaker 1>was it like between you two in person? Seeing her

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<v Speaker 1>in person absolutely stunning. I was so excited and When

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<v Speaker 1>we got in, I had this table set aside. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like really close to the band, so like get

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<v Speaker 1>the whole experience. And we sit down, we order our

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<v Speaker 1>drinks and we start talking and I'm getting these dirty

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<v Speaker 1>looks from people around me, and even one person like

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<v Speaker 1>shushes me from behind. And I actually looked. There's a

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<v Speaker 1>card on the table that says no talking during during play.

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<v Speaker 1>So they had this policy where and they enforced it

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<v Speaker 1>where you couldn't talk while the band was playing. That's intense. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, oh no, I just invited this

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<v Speaker 1>girl to this first day and we can't even talk

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<v Speaker 1>to Like, I said, that sounds fabulous, but I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think most people would like that. I started to freak

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<v Speaker 1>out a little bit. But we get our drinks and

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<v Speaker 1>there was cocktail napkins, and so she started writing questions

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<v Speaker 1>on the cocktail napkins. I would answer them. It's really cute.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like high school math class all over again, passing

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<v Speaker 1>notes back and forth. Yeah, and we and it actually worked,

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<v Speaker 1>and we went back and forth and we ended up

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<v Speaker 1>filling up both sides, all quarters of this cocktail napkin,

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<v Speaker 1>every little inch with questions and answers and I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it was a little awkward because there was sometimes I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't really read her handwriting, but you know that happens

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<v Speaker 1>at a bar anyway. If it's really loud, you can't

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<v Speaker 1>always hear the person, but you sometimes answered just in case, right, right, totally?

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<v Speaker 1>Did it go well? I mean, were you guys hitting

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<v Speaker 1>it off based on your written conversation? Yeah, we were.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was interesting because it was like talking online

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<v Speaker 1>only in person, so you could see her reactions to

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<v Speaker 1>reading what you were writing, and it was It was

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<v Speaker 1>really cool, and the music was great and we had

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<v Speaker 1>a great time. Afterwards, we were like, let's do this more,

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<v Speaker 1>and so I invited her over to my place so

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<v Speaker 1>we could actually talk and she agreed. Oh cool. So

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you guys learned enough about each other via

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<v Speaker 1>cocktail napkins to feel comfortable enough to go back to

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<v Speaker 1>your place. Yeah, did you guys kiss at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the night. It was like one of those little pecks.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't like a real, like intimate thing. You know.

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<v Speaker 1>That's interesting that you would go back to your place

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<v Speaker 1>and nut make out a little bit. Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it was kind of weird when she was there at

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<v Speaker 1>my place. It was a little awkward. I couldn't really

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<v Speaker 1>figure out why. It's just the energy wasn't right. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like actually thinking of like maybe we should just

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<v Speaker 1>break out some more napkins and just right on that

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<v Speaker 1>and just keep that vibe going for the night. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she liked your penmanship more than the way you actually speak. Maybe.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, have you tried to ask her out again? Yeah? Sure,

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<v Speaker 1>And it's never worked out, like timing wise for us

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<v Speaker 1>to schedule something, and I think that she's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>avoiding it. Well, we'll play a song and then come

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<v Speaker 1>back and call her and get your second day up date. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And before you I just want to let you know that, like,

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<v Speaker 1>no matter how this works out, I actually kind of

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<v Speaker 1>kept the napkin. Anything that happens from this, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>like a really cool memento to have about like a

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<v Speaker 1>night that was really cool. Yeah, for your scrap booking.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, we'll get your second day update right over

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<v Speaker 1>your hanger brooking jubil in the morning, right in the

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<v Speaker 1>middle of a second date update. And if you're just

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<v Speaker 1>joining us, Jake is on the phone and he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to call a girl named Kelly. They went out to

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<v Speaker 1>a jazz club for their first date, but I guess

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<v Speaker 1>it was kind of awkward because they had a strict

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<v Speaker 1>no talking policy, so they spent most of the evening

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<v Speaker 1>writing notes to each other back and forth on cocktail napkins.

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<v Speaker 1>They did go back to his place after talked a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit, he got like a peck on the lips

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<v Speaker 1>and then she left, and she's definitely been blowing him off. Jake.

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<v Speaker 1>I think maybe part of the reason that you're not

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<v Speaker 1>getting a call back is because you're too much of

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<v Speaker 1>a rule follower. You know, maybe like I tried to

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<v Speaker 1>do everything, you know no, but I mean, like you

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<v Speaker 1>go to that place with a no talking policy and

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<v Speaker 1>then you listen to their rules like a bad boy,

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<v Speaker 1>the kind of girl that guy's life, the kind of

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<v Speaker 1>guy that girls would have saw that rule in instantly

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<v Speaker 1>just jumped up on stage, grabbed the trumpet, and pulled

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<v Speaker 1>his pants down started playing it with his butt. That's

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<v Speaker 1>the type of bad dude. The ladies like, you know, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>butt trumpets every time, then disrupt the jazz club with

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<v Speaker 1>their butt, and that's why they you're not going to

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<v Speaker 1>call back. I kind of envy the people that can

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<v Speaker 1>do that. I don't know about playing with my butt.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's a true talent though, Jake. I mean, if

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<v Speaker 1>she loves music. Yeah, we'll get her on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>in a second and find out if that's the reason.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm guessing that probably is it totally. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe that has never crossed my mind, though, Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think it's crossed most people's mind. I actually feel

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<v Speaker 1>bad for you, man, like you kept the cocktail napkin

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<v Speaker 1>because he wanted it to be a love momentum. You

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<v Speaker 1>obviously saw this going somewhere. Absolutely, I think it's something

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<v Speaker 1>cool to have that, like this is our first day,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, totally. Well, I hope it goes well for you.

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<v Speaker 1>I do. I hope so too. Thank you. If it doesn't,

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<v Speaker 1>always take up playing the trumpet with your butt, and

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<v Speaker 1>then your next days always be successful. All right, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a dollar phoneum right now? Okay, all right, thank you? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello. Hi is this Kelly? Yes, it

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<v Speaker 1>is hey Kelly. How are you. This is Jewel from

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jewel in the morning. Okay, I'm good. What's

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<v Speaker 1>going on with you? Not much, just doing a radio

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<v Speaker 1>show and thought we'd call you. I'm sorry, I'm confused.

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<v Speaker 1>You said you're with a radio show, and what do

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<v Speaker 1>you need. Yes, Brooke and Jewel in the Morning, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the name of the show, and we do a segment

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<v Speaker 1>on our show called the second Date Update. That's where

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<v Speaker 1>if you go out on a date with somebody and

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<v Speaker 1>then end up blowing them off after that date, they

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<v Speaker 1>can email us to get you on the phone and

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<v Speaker 1>find out what happened. So we got an email about

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<v Speaker 1>you from one of our listeners. Now you didn't, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we did from who his name is? Jake? Oh? Him? Yes, him,

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<v Speaker 1>the dude you went to like a jazz club with. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he emailed us told us that he really likes going

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<v Speaker 1>out with you, told us about your date, and he

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<v Speaker 1>also said that it seems like you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with him again. So he wants to know why. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you said it seems like I don't want to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with him again. I'm going to clarify and say

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<v Speaker 1>that I don't want to go out with him again.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's a strong sentiment. Okay, can you tell us why?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, it was just a really disappointing night. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I was really optimistic. Were you hoping he would have

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<v Speaker 1>played a trumpet with his but what she doesn't make

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<v Speaker 1>a think sense to her. Yeah, I don't worry about

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<v Speaker 1>that comment anyway. Why was it disappointing? Okay, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what you guys knew, but we went to a

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<v Speaker 1>jazz bar and yeah, he told us that. He said,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys couldn't talk because there was like a no

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<v Speaker 1>talking policy. So he wrote notes and he thought that

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<v Speaker 1>that actually was a good thing, Like you guys bonded

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<v Speaker 1>over that and thought it was funny and stuff. Totally

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<v Speaker 1>it was. I mean, that was really fun It was

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<v Speaker 1>really cute. And then, um, you know, I was feeling

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<v Speaker 1>good about the night, about him him, And then we

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<v Speaker 1>went back to his place and he made me a

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<v Speaker 1>drink and then he wanted to give me a grand

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<v Speaker 1>tour of his place. Does he s something creepy in

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<v Speaker 1>his house? We've heard that a lot on these second

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<v Speaker 1>date updates. So I mean he kind of took me

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<v Speaker 1>around so like the normal stuff, you know, like the kitchen,

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<v Speaker 1>living room, whatever, showing me the place. And then we

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<v Speaker 1>went into this one room and there were glowing sticker

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<v Speaker 1>stars on the ceiling and there were trophies on the

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<v Speaker 1>wall and there were bunk beds, and I thought, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, like, do you have a kid? Right? And

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<v Speaker 1>he said no and started laughing and said that it

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<v Speaker 1>was his room and that him and his roommates sleep

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<v Speaker 1>in bunk beds because they want to save money because

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<v Speaker 1>rent is expensive. And it's not only him in his

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<v Speaker 1>roommate in the funk bed, but the whole apartment, which

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<v Speaker 1>is a one bedroom by the way, houses four people,

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<v Speaker 1>and some of the other people are sleeping on like

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<v Speaker 1>a pullout couch or on an air mattress because I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to save money. Well, I mean, you kind

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<v Speaker 1>of got it understand that, like rent is insane. That

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<v Speaker 1>seems pretty extreme, but right, I mean, like I'm all about,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, finding ways to save your money, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know this is the right fit for me. You're

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<v Speaker 1>not trying to date a dude with bunk beds, that stairs,

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<v Speaker 1>that blowing stars on his ceiling. Yeah. This is the

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<v Speaker 1>other thing is that he said, oh, well, my roommates

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<v Speaker 1>aren't going to be back for another hour, so we

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<v Speaker 1>can do stuff. Did he mean, like, obviously you think

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<v Speaker 1>he was implying sexual stuff. I mean, most likely, but

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<v Speaker 1>who knows. He's got bunk beds and stars on his shoes.

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<v Speaker 1>He might have met Legos, he might have bought a

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<v Speaker 1>new Lego city or something you guys could have built. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if it's not the type of man that

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<v Speaker 1>I see myself dating, because this apparently is a man

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<v Speaker 1>child twelve year old bedroom, how do you know? I mean, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>the stars are one thing, but what if he's just

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<v Speaker 1>really good with money and he's budgeting and he's saving

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<v Speaker 1>for something, Like, I don't know, I feel like you're

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<v Speaker 1>passing a lot of judgment. I mean, I have priorities,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think dating someone who's sleeping on a bunk

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<v Speaker 1>bed with his roommate underneath, like, I'm not really trying

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<v Speaker 1>to spend the night over. There could be a secret

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<v Speaker 1>millionaire Jubil's right, Like, don't you have a place that

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<v Speaker 1>you can bring him back to? Sure, but I also

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<v Speaker 1>like going to other places, like you know, like all

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<v Speaker 1>the other men I dated at least have their own room,

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<v Speaker 1>let alone their own bed. He has his own bed. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's just yeah, yeah, I'm just I'm not into it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't really know what else to tell you. Well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think he told us everything you need to tell us.

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<v Speaker 1>I do need to tell you something though. Jake is

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the other line listing and wants to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you. No, he's not. Yep, he is. Jake. You there, Yeah, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't get it. Are you Are you serious? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>are you judging me for dude? I want to save money.

0:11:53.480 --> 0:11:56.800
<v Speaker 1>I live in this this bachelor pad with roommates. It's

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<v Speaker 1>how we, you know, get by. I don't know if

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<v Speaker 1>I would call this a bachelor pad. Your bunk bed

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<v Speaker 1>has a slide, Dude, that's kind of awesome. Sorry to interrupt,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, that's totally awesome. You didn't even go down

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<v Speaker 1>at once. Just because we're older, it doesn't mean that

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<v Speaker 1>we can't have fun in our own room. Jake. That's

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<v Speaker 1>a kid thing. They have those bunk beds with slides.

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<v Speaker 1>As an adult man, you should have a more appropriate bed. Well.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if you need me to take the slide off,

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<v Speaker 1>I totally can. It's eg it's just plastic. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>not what I meant. The bunk bed is a really

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<v Speaker 1>great ideas we can stay in one room. Past girlfriends,

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<v Speaker 1>I've had to actually like it because it's like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we actually have to sleep closer and cuddle you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean. And it's been really great. Yeah, cuddling

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<v Speaker 1>with you, me and then your roommate below us. But

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<v Speaker 1>my roommate is a really heavy sleeper. He won't wake

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<v Speaker 1>up for it and down that slide. I didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you when I was there about the whole

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<v Speaker 1>star thing on your ceiling, Like, what does that even for?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on a top bunk. It helps me read at night?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean it helps you read? Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>glows like for the first hour after I turn off

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<v Speaker 1>the lights, and those are not bright enough to read by.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice try though, that was a good try. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>what I think they're cool looking? Yeah, there we go

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<v Speaker 1>the answer. I just think that I should be judged

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<v Speaker 1>on the time that we had and the connection that

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<v Speaker 1>we had on that night, and not on just like

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<v Speaker 1>a piece of furniture that I have. Yeah, he's still

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<v Speaker 1>saved up as allowance. So you guys go to that jazz.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you've got to understand from her point of view,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it's necessarily just about the furniture. It's

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<v Speaker 1>that like you're sharing a room with the dude. Still,

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<v Speaker 1>here's the thing. I've been saving a lot of money

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<v Speaker 1>doing this, and I'm actually I have goals what to

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<v Speaker 1>do with them money. I'm actually going to buy a

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<v Speaker 1>condo in the next five years. So there you go, Kelly. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>he's not going to permanently be living in that bunk bed.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, the bunk bed might go to the condo,

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<v Speaker 1>but who knows. But like so, Jake, you're telling me

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<v Speaker 1>that I should trust you because you're saving money by condo,

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<v Speaker 1>that maybe maybe you'll get him five years exactly. It's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be a really nice condo too. How many roommates

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<v Speaker 1>will you have in your condo? Hopefully just wanted. Hopefully

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<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be you. Kelly. All right, Kelly, would you

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<v Speaker 1>like to go out on a second day with Jake?

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for it, and who knows, one day

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<v Speaker 1>you could be living in a condo with Jake with

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<v Speaker 1>a bunk bed with a slut. I'm going to decline

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<v Speaker 1>this one, but thank you so much, not even a

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<v Speaker 1>second chance. There are some things that I prioritize in

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<v Speaker 1>my dating life, and bunk beds is not one of them. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I don't want to go out with someone

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<v Speaker 1>who's going to just judge me for the furniture I

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<v Speaker 1>have in my house. Sorry, I'm judging you, and honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that the rest of the girls that or

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to meet and the rest of your life

0:14:43.680 --> 0:14:45.200
<v Speaker 1>are going to judge you as well. And that's just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of how it is out Burns. Sorry, Jake, no

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<v Speaker 1>second day, but hey, one day you'll have that condo,

0:14:55.760 --> 0:14:58.400
<v Speaker 1>and then, yeah you will. And when you get that condo,

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<v Speaker 1>ditch the bunk bed, all right, I guess note taken

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<v Speaker 1>with the race car bed for that one own bed.

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<v Speaker 1>About broken Jewel in the Morning text many five nine

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<v Speaker 1>two says I'm forty years old and I would love

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<v Speaker 1>to have a slide on my bed that I can

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<v Speaker 1>actually use. She needs to stop being so stuck up.

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<v Speaker 1>It's broken Jewel in the morning talking about today's second date.

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<v Speaker 1>Up to date if you missed it. This dude, Jake

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to call a girl named Kelly. She wasn't calling

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<v Speaker 1>him back because apparently he has like a kid's bed, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>my kid's bedroom, bunk bed with a slide and everything else.

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<v Speaker 1>He tried to explain that he has three roommates and

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<v Speaker 1>they sleep on bunk beds in order to save money,

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<v Speaker 1>and he claims that he's saving to buy a condo

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<v Speaker 1>in five years. Maybe it sounds more just like he

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<v Speaker 1>enjoys kicking it with his friends in his place and

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<v Speaker 1>sliding down a slide from his bunk bed and looking

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<v Speaker 1>at the little stars that he's stuck on the ceiling.

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<v Speaker 1>It's amazing how many people are hating on her. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I get and I defended the guy too, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know that I would date a guy. Yeah, they

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<v Speaker 1>did not go out again. Remember, if you want a

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<v Speaker 1>second day update, I have to do his email the

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<v Speaker 1>show and we will call the person who didn't call

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<v Speaker 1>you back ninety two point five