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Speaker 1: Jebels Second date update. A listener named Jake is on
Speaker 1: the phone today for a second date update, and in
Speaker 1: his email, he said that there was a strict no
Speaker 1: talking policy for their first date. So it sounds like
Speaker 1: an amazing date, like I wish they would do that
Speaker 1: on more first dates. So I don't know what went wrong.
Speaker 1: What's up, Jake? How are you? Hey? Guys? How's it
Speaker 1: going pretty good? So there's a no talking policy on
Speaker 1: your first date? Yeah, I mean it's partially because there
Speaker 1: was like bad research, you know, on my part, but
Speaker 1: you know, it ended up being kind of cool. So
Speaker 1: hear me out. Okay, before we get into that. What's
Speaker 1: her name by the way, Kelly? Kelly. Kelly's not like
Speaker 1: a mute in this phone call is going to go
Speaker 1: not very well because she won't be able to talk
Speaker 1: to us either. Right, she could talk, but she's not
Speaker 1: talking to me. I wish you could you guys. Okay,
Speaker 1: so hopefully we can get her to talk to you again.
Speaker 1: Tell us about how you met her? We met online
Speaker 1: and you hit it off right away, and she what
Speaker 1: was really popped out to me is like she liked music.
Speaker 1: She liked to see live music and stuff like that.
Speaker 1: So I thought, oh, this would be great. Okay, that's awesome.
Speaker 1: I mean, are you the one they had initiated the date? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I asked her and then she agreed to
Speaker 1: a first date. Sweet and what we What were you
Speaker 1: feeling when you were arriving at the date for the
Speaker 1: first time. I mean, I was really excited. I think
Speaker 1: she was gonna love it. I picked this this jazz
Speaker 1: club that had this jazz been playing, um that I
Speaker 1: thought it would be really cool. I know she's gonna
Speaker 1: like it because she likes live music and I've never
Speaker 1: been to this jazz club before, so it was going
Speaker 1: to be kind of a new experience for me as well.
Speaker 1: So I mean, when when, okay, do you both like jazz? Yeah?
Speaker 1: That was the other thing that was on her her
Speaker 1: profile that she liked jazz music and definitely not okay.
Speaker 1: And how did did it all start? I mean, what
Speaker 1: was it like between you two in person? Seeing her
Speaker 1: in person absolutely stunning. I was so excited and When
Speaker 1: we got in, I had this table set aside. It
Speaker 1: was like really close to the band, so like get
Speaker 1: the whole experience. And we sit down, we order our
Speaker 1: drinks and we start talking and I'm getting these dirty
Speaker 1: looks from people around me, and even one person like
Speaker 1: shushes me from behind. And I actually looked. There's a
Speaker 1: card on the table that says no talking during during play.
Speaker 1: So they had this policy where and they enforced it
Speaker 1: where you couldn't talk while the band was playing. That's intense. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh no, I just invited this
Speaker 1: girl to this first day and we can't even talk
Speaker 1: to Like, I said, that sounds fabulous, but I don't
Speaker 1: think most people would like that. I started to freak
Speaker 1: out a little bit. But we get our drinks and
Speaker 1: there was cocktail napkins, and so she started writing questions
Speaker 1: on the cocktail napkins. I would answer them. It's really cute.
Speaker 1: It's like high school math class all over again, passing
Speaker 1: notes back and forth. Yeah, and we and it actually worked,
Speaker 1: and we went back and forth and we ended up
Speaker 1: filling up both sides, all quarters of this cocktail napkin,
Speaker 1: every little inch with questions and answers and I mean
Speaker 1: it was a little awkward because there was sometimes I
Speaker 1: couldn't really read her handwriting, but you know that happens
Speaker 1: at a bar anyway. If it's really loud, you can't
Speaker 1: always hear the person, but you sometimes answered just in case, right, right, totally?
Speaker 1: Did it go well? I mean, were you guys hitting
Speaker 1: it off based on your written conversation? Yeah, we were.
Speaker 1: And it was interesting because it was like talking online
Speaker 1: only in person, so you could see her reactions to
Speaker 1: reading what you were writing, and it was It was
Speaker 1: really cool, and the music was great and we had
Speaker 1: a great time. Afterwards, we were like, let's do this more,
Speaker 1: and so I invited her over to my place so
Speaker 1: we could actually talk and she agreed. Oh cool. So
Speaker 1: I mean, you guys learned enough about each other via
Speaker 1: cocktail napkins to feel comfortable enough to go back to
Speaker 1: your place. Yeah, did you guys kiss at the end
Speaker 1: of the night. It was like one of those little pecks.
Speaker 1: It wasn't like a real, like intimate thing. You know.
Speaker 1: That's interesting that you would go back to your place
Speaker 1: and nut make out a little bit. Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: it was kind of weird when she was there at
Speaker 1: my place. It was a little awkward. I couldn't really
Speaker 1: figure out why. It's just the energy wasn't right. I
Speaker 1: was like actually thinking of like maybe we should just
Speaker 1: break out some more napkins and just right on that
Speaker 1: and just keep that vibe going for the night. Maybe
Speaker 1: she liked your penmanship more than the way you actually speak. Maybe.
Speaker 1: All right, have you tried to ask her out again? Yeah? Sure,
Speaker 1: And it's never worked out, like timing wise for us
Speaker 1: to schedule something, and I think that she's kind of
Speaker 1: avoiding it. Well, we'll play a song and then come
Speaker 1: back and call her and get your second day up date. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: And before you I just want to let you know that, like,
Speaker 1: no matter how this works out, I actually kind of
Speaker 1: kept the napkin. Anything that happens from this, it's just
Speaker 1: like a really cool memento to have about like a
Speaker 1: night that was really cool. Yeah, for your scrap booking.
Speaker 1: All right, we'll get your second day update right over
Speaker 1: your hanger brooking jubil in the morning, right in the
Speaker 1: middle of a second date update. And if you're just
Speaker 1: joining us, Jake is on the phone and he wants
Speaker 1: to call a girl named Kelly. They went out to
Speaker 1: a jazz club for their first date, but I guess
Speaker 1: it was kind of awkward because they had a strict
Speaker 1: no talking policy, so they spent most of the evening
Speaker 1: writing notes to each other back and forth on cocktail napkins.
Speaker 1: They did go back to his place after talked a
Speaker 1: little bit, he got like a peck on the lips
Speaker 1: and then she left, and she's definitely been blowing him off. Jake.
Speaker 1: I think maybe part of the reason that you're not
Speaker 1: getting a call back is because you're too much of
Speaker 1: a rule follower. You know, maybe like I tried to
Speaker 1: do everything, you know no, but I mean, like you
Speaker 1: go to that place with a no talking policy and
Speaker 1: then you listen to their rules like a bad boy,
Speaker 1: the kind of girl that guy's life, the kind of
Speaker 1: guy that girls would have saw that rule in instantly
Speaker 1: just jumped up on stage, grabbed the trumpet, and pulled
Speaker 1: his pants down started playing it with his butt. That's
Speaker 1: the type of bad dude. The ladies like, you know, yeah,
Speaker 1: butt trumpets every time, then disrupt the jazz club with
Speaker 1: their butt, and that's why they you're not going to
Speaker 1: call back. I kind of envy the people that can
Speaker 1: do that. I don't know about playing with my butt.
Speaker 1: But that's a true talent though, Jake. I mean, if
Speaker 1: she loves music. Yeah, we'll get her on the phone
Speaker 1: in a second and find out if that's the reason.
Speaker 1: But I'm guessing that probably is it totally. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe that has never crossed my mind, though, Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't think it's crossed most people's mind. I actually feel
Speaker 1: bad for you, man, like you kept the cocktail napkin
Speaker 1: because he wanted it to be a love momentum. You
Speaker 1: obviously saw this going somewhere. Absolutely, I think it's something
Speaker 1: cool to have that, like this is our first day,
Speaker 1: you know, totally. Well, I hope it goes well for you.
Speaker 1: I do. I hope so too. Thank you. If it doesn't,
Speaker 1: always take up playing the trumpet with your butt, and
Speaker 1: then your next days always be successful. All right, I'm
Speaker 1: a dollar phoneum right now? Okay, all right, thank you? Okay,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello. Hi is this Kelly? Yes, it
Speaker 1: is hey Kelly. How are you. This is Jewel from
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jewel in the morning. Okay, I'm good. What's
Speaker 1: going on with you? Not much, just doing a radio
Speaker 1: show and thought we'd call you. I'm sorry, I'm confused.
Speaker 1: You said you're with a radio show, and what do
Speaker 1: you need. Yes, Brooke and Jewel in the Morning, that's
Speaker 1: the name of the show, and we do a segment
Speaker 1: on our show called the second Date Update. That's where
Speaker 1: if you go out on a date with somebody and
Speaker 1: then end up blowing them off after that date, they
Speaker 1: can email us to get you on the phone and
Speaker 1: find out what happened. So we got an email about
Speaker 1: you from one of our listeners. Now you didn't, Yeah,
Speaker 1: we did from who his name is? Jake? Oh? Him? Yes, him,
Speaker 1: the dude you went to like a jazz club with. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he emailed us told us that he really likes going
Speaker 1: out with you, told us about your date, and he
Speaker 1: also said that it seems like you don't want to
Speaker 1: go out with him again. So he wants to know why. Okay,
Speaker 1: you said it seems like I don't want to go
Speaker 1: out with him again. I'm going to clarify and say
Speaker 1: that I don't want to go out with him again.
Speaker 1: Oh that's a strong sentiment. Okay, can you tell us why?
Speaker 1: You know, it was just a really disappointing night. Um,
Speaker 1: I was really optimistic. Were you hoping he would have
Speaker 1: played a trumpet with his but what she doesn't make
Speaker 1: a think sense to her. Yeah, I don't worry about
Speaker 1: that comment anyway. Why was it disappointing? Okay, I don't
Speaker 1: know what you guys knew, but we went to a
Speaker 1: jazz bar and yeah, he told us that. He said,
Speaker 1: you guys couldn't talk because there was like a no
Speaker 1: talking policy. So he wrote notes and he thought that
Speaker 1: that actually was a good thing, Like you guys bonded
Speaker 1: over that and thought it was funny and stuff. Totally
Speaker 1: it was. I mean, that was really fun It was
Speaker 1: really cute. And then, um, you know, I was feeling
Speaker 1: good about the night, about him him, And then we
Speaker 1: went back to his place and he made me a
Speaker 1: drink and then he wanted to give me a grand
Speaker 1: tour of his place. Does he s something creepy in
Speaker 1: his house? We've heard that a lot on these second
Speaker 1: date updates. So I mean he kind of took me
Speaker 1: around so like the normal stuff, you know, like the kitchen,
Speaker 1: living room, whatever, showing me the place. And then we
Speaker 1: went into this one room and there were glowing sticker
Speaker 1: stars on the ceiling and there were trophies on the
Speaker 1: wall and there were bunk beds, and I thought, oh
Speaker 1: my god, like, do you have a kid? Right? And
Speaker 1: he said no and started laughing and said that it
Speaker 1: was his room and that him and his roommates sleep
Speaker 1: in bunk beds because they want to save money because
Speaker 1: rent is expensive. And it's not only him in his
Speaker 1: roommate in the funk bed, but the whole apartment, which
Speaker 1: is a one bedroom by the way, houses four people,
Speaker 1: and some of the other people are sleeping on like
Speaker 1: a pullout couch or on an air mattress because I
Speaker 1: don't want to save money. Well, I mean, you kind
Speaker 1: of got it understand that, like rent is insane. That
Speaker 1: seems pretty extreme, but right, I mean, like I'm all about,
Speaker 1: you know, finding ways to save your money, but I
Speaker 1: don't know this is the right fit for me. You're
Speaker 1: not trying to date a dude with bunk beds, that stairs,
Speaker 1: that blowing stars on his ceiling. Yeah. This is the
Speaker 1: other thing is that he said, oh, well, my roommates
Speaker 1: aren't going to be back for another hour, so we
Speaker 1: can do stuff. Did he mean, like, obviously you think
Speaker 1: he was implying sexual stuff. I mean, most likely, but
Speaker 1: who knows. He's got bunk beds and stars on his shoes.
Speaker 1: He might have met Legos, he might have bought a
Speaker 1: new Lego city or something you guys could have built. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, if it's not the type of man that
Speaker 1: I see myself dating, because this apparently is a man
Speaker 1: child twelve year old bedroom, how do you know? I mean, Okay,
Speaker 1: the stars are one thing, but what if he's just
Speaker 1: really good with money and he's budgeting and he's saving
Speaker 1: for something, Like, I don't know, I feel like you're
Speaker 1: passing a lot of judgment. I mean, I have priorities,
Speaker 1: and I think dating someone who's sleeping on a bunk
Speaker 1: bed with his roommate underneath, like, I'm not really trying
Speaker 1: to spend the night over. There could be a secret
Speaker 1: millionaire Jubil's right, Like, don't you have a place that
Speaker 1: you can bring him back to? Sure, but I also
Speaker 1: like going to other places, like you know, like all
Speaker 1: the other men I dated at least have their own room,
Speaker 1: let alone their own bed. He has his own bed. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's just yeah, yeah, I'm just I'm not into it.
Speaker 1: So I don't really know what else to tell you. Well, yeah,
Speaker 1: I think he told us everything you need to tell us.
Speaker 1: I do need to tell you something though. Jake is
Speaker 1: actually on the other line listing and wants to talk
Speaker 1: to you. No, he's not. Yep, he is. Jake. You there, Yeah, Hey,
Speaker 1: I don't get it. Are you Are you serious? Like,
Speaker 1: are you judging me for dude? I want to save money.
Speaker 1: I live in this this bachelor pad with roommates. It's
Speaker 1: how we, you know, get by. I don't know if
Speaker 1: I would call this a bachelor pad. Your bunk bed
Speaker 1: has a slide, Dude, that's kind of awesome. Sorry to interrupt,
Speaker 1: but yeah, that's totally awesome. You didn't even go down
Speaker 1: at once. Just because we're older, it doesn't mean that
Speaker 1: we can't have fun in our own room. Jake. That's
Speaker 1: a kid thing. They have those bunk beds with slides.
Speaker 1: As an adult man, you should have a more appropriate bed. Well.
Speaker 1: I mean, if you need me to take the slide off,
Speaker 1: I totally can. It's eg it's just plastic. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: not what I meant. The bunk bed is a really
Speaker 1: great ideas we can stay in one room. Past girlfriends,
Speaker 1: I've had to actually like it because it's like, you know,
Speaker 1: we actually have to sleep closer and cuddle you know
Speaker 1: what I mean. And it's been really great. Yeah, cuddling
Speaker 1: with you, me and then your roommate below us. But
Speaker 1: my roommate is a really heavy sleeper. He won't wake
Speaker 1: up for it and down that slide. I didn't even
Speaker 1: talk to you when I was there about the whole
Speaker 1: star thing on your ceiling, Like, what does that even for?
Speaker 1: I'm on a top bunk. It helps me read at night?
Speaker 1: What do you mean it helps you read? Yeah, it
Speaker 1: glows like for the first hour after I turn off
Speaker 1: the lights, and those are not bright enough to read by.
Speaker 1: Nice try though, that was a good try. Okay, So
Speaker 1: what I think they're cool looking? Yeah, there we go
Speaker 1: the answer. I just think that I should be judged
Speaker 1: on the time that we had and the connection that
Speaker 1: we had on that night, and not on just like
Speaker 1: a piece of furniture that I have. Yeah, he's still
Speaker 1: saved up as allowance. So you guys go to that jazz.
Speaker 1: I mean, you've got to understand from her point of view,
Speaker 1: I don't think it's necessarily just about the furniture. It's
Speaker 1: that like you're sharing a room with the dude. Still,
Speaker 1: here's the thing. I've been saving a lot of money
Speaker 1: doing this, and I'm actually I have goals what to
Speaker 1: do with them money. I'm actually going to buy a
Speaker 1: condo in the next five years. So there you go, Kelly. Like,
Speaker 1: he's not going to permanently be living in that bunk bed.
Speaker 1: I mean, the bunk bed might go to the condo,
Speaker 1: but who knows. But like so, Jake, you're telling me
Speaker 1: that I should trust you because you're saving money by condo,
Speaker 1: that maybe maybe you'll get him five years exactly. It's
Speaker 1: gonna be a really nice condo too. How many roommates
Speaker 1: will you have in your condo? Hopefully just wanted. Hopefully
Speaker 1: it's gonna be you. Kelly. All right, Kelly, would you
Speaker 1: like to go out on a second day with Jake?
Speaker 1: We will pay for it, and who knows, one day
Speaker 1: you could be living in a condo with Jake with
Speaker 1: a bunk bed with a slut. I'm going to decline
Speaker 1: this one, but thank you so much, not even a
Speaker 1: second chance. There are some things that I prioritize in
Speaker 1: my dating life, and bunk beds is not one of them. Okay,
Speaker 1: I guess I don't want to go out with someone
Speaker 1: who's going to just judge me for the furniture I
Speaker 1: have in my house. Sorry, I'm judging you, and honestly,
Speaker 1: I think that the rest of the girls that or
Speaker 1: you're going to meet and the rest of your life
Speaker 1: are going to judge you as well. And that's just
Speaker 1: kind of how it is out Burns. Sorry, Jake, no
Speaker 1: second day, but hey, one day you'll have that condo,
Speaker 1: and then, yeah you will. And when you get that condo,
Speaker 1: ditch the bunk bed, all right, I guess note taken
Speaker 1: with the race car bed for that one own bed.
Speaker 1: About broken Jewel in the Morning text many five nine
Speaker 1: two says I'm forty years old and I would love
Speaker 1: to have a slide on my bed that I can
Speaker 1: actually use. She needs to stop being so stuck up.
Speaker 1: It's broken Jewel in the morning talking about today's second date.
Speaker 1: Up to date if you missed it. This dude, Jake
Speaker 1: wanted to call a girl named Kelly. She wasn't calling
Speaker 1: him back because apparently he has like a kid's bed, Yeah,
Speaker 1: my kid's bedroom, bunk bed with a slide and everything else.
Speaker 1: He tried to explain that he has three roommates and
Speaker 1: they sleep on bunk beds in order to save money,
Speaker 1: and he claims that he's saving to buy a condo
Speaker 1: in five years. Maybe it sounds more just like he
Speaker 1: enjoys kicking it with his friends in his place and
Speaker 1: sliding down a slide from his bunk bed and looking
Speaker 1: at the little stars that he's stuck on the ceiling.
Speaker 1: It's amazing how many people are hating on her. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I get and I defended the guy too, but I
Speaker 1: don't know that I would date a guy. Yeah, they
Speaker 1: did not go out again. Remember, if you want a
Speaker 1: second day update, I have to do his email the
Speaker 1: show and we will call the person who didn't call
Speaker 1: you back ninety two point five