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Speaker 1: Jebels Second date update. A listener named Jake is on

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Speaker 1: the phone today for a second date update, and in

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Speaker 1: his email, he said that there was a strict no

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Speaker 1: What's up, Jake? How are you? Hey? Guys? How's it

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Speaker 1: going pretty good? So there's a no talking policy on

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Speaker 1: your first date? Yeah, I mean it's partially because there

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Speaker 1: so hopefully we can get her to talk to you again.

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Speaker 1: Tell us about how you met her? We met online

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Speaker 1: and you hit it off right away, and she what

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Speaker 1: So I thought, oh, this would be great. Okay, that's awesome.

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Speaker 1: So they had this policy where and they enforced it

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Speaker 1: And I was like, oh no, I just invited this

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Speaker 1: to Like, I said, that sounds fabulous, but I don't

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Speaker 1: obviously saw this going somewhere. Absolutely, I think it's something

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello. Hi is this Kelly? Yes, it

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Speaker 1: is hey Kelly. How are you. This is Jewel from

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Speaker 1: Brooke and Jewel in the morning. Okay, I'm good. What's

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Speaker 1: going on with you? Not much, just doing a radio

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Speaker 1: the name of the show, and we do a segment

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Speaker 1: find out what happened. So we got an email about

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Speaker 1: we did from who his name is? Jake? Oh? Him? Yes, him,

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Speaker 1: millionaire Jubil's right, Like, don't you have a place that

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Speaker 1: So I don't really know what else to tell you. Well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think he told us everything you need to tell us.

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Speaker 1: to you. No, he's not. Yep, he is. Jake. You there, Yeah, Hey,

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Speaker 1: I don't get it. Are you Are you serious? Like,

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Speaker 1: I live in this this bachelor pad with roommates. It's

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Speaker 1: I would call this a bachelor pad. Your bunk bed

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Speaker 1: but yeah, that's totally awesome. You didn't even go down

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Speaker 1: a kid thing. They have those bunk beds with slides.

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Speaker 1: I mean, if you need me to take the slide off,

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Speaker 1: I'm on a top bunk. It helps me read at night?

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Speaker 1: We will pay for it, and who knows, one day

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Speaker 1: About broken Jewel in the Morning text many five nine

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Speaker 1: It's broken Jewel in the morning talking about today's second date.

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Speaker 1: Up to date if you missed it. This dude, Jake

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Speaker 1: him back because apparently he has like a kid's bed, Yeah,

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