Speaker 1: Elvis Durrand Presents Off Air Show is Scary Jones and
Speaker 1: Great Tea episode nineties six Ye, it's the Affair Show.
Speaker 1: I'm scary, that's great Tea over there. I'm over here
Speaker 1: now and bumb Freak his his pianos missing, right, he's missing.
Speaker 1: I don't understand what's going on here. I don't know
Speaker 1: where he went. Maybe he never showed up. Well, listen,
Speaker 1: first things first, if there's anything that we say today
Speaker 1: on the All Fair Show, please reach out to us
Speaker 1: via Twitter at the Off Fair Show, or you can
Speaker 1: email us at the over Show at gmail dot com,
Speaker 1: or even check out our Instagram, which we've been lacking
Speaker 1: in their gonna tell you, I was gonna bring that
Speaker 1: up today, Greg t it's problem. There's an issue there.
Speaker 1: We have not used Instagram at all. We haven't put
Speaker 1: up a picture since like December. You're right, yeah, and
Speaker 1: you know what, um Facebook, guilty as charge. You haven't
Speaker 1: done anything on faceboo keither or you can always reach
Speaker 1: out to us. We do tweet when we're gonna go
Speaker 1: into the studio record so when we're we are going
Speaker 1: to do that, that that number, of course is the same
Speaker 1: number that we used for the Elvis Durin Morning Show,
Speaker 1: which is I feel like people got sick of talking
Speaker 1: to us. They just want to listen to us, they
Speaker 1: don't want to participate. So anyway, like you said, where
Speaker 1: is the ball freak here? Well, um, he seems to be,
Speaker 1: you know, right now during this podcast. He always is
Speaker 1: running the Ryan Seacrest syndicated show for ZE one hundred.
Speaker 1: He's manning the controls. Really, so maybe we should call
Speaker 1: him up real quick. Really. Yeah, I don't know what
Speaker 1: happened here. It must be a miscommunication. He understands that
Speaker 1: we have a show to do, right, I mean, he's
Speaker 1: a big part of the show here. The audience loves him.
Speaker 1: I mean, don't tell Hubby that he's not here. I mean,
Speaker 1: you know, our off Airheadhubby, and she will go crazy
Speaker 1: without him exactly. She listens specifically for him, right, and
Speaker 1: and a lot of other people too, I mean, Hubby,
Speaker 1: where is the Hubby? It's like it's like we're actually
Speaker 1: like running without a like without a wheels, Like we're
Speaker 1: a try cickle but we've been given two wheels. We
Speaker 1: are three wheel motorcycle, and without that third wheel, the
Speaker 1: motorcycle doesn't work. Hey, bald freaky? Is that you? Hey,
Speaker 1: it's Scary and Greg t the hell do you want?
Speaker 1: Guess what we're doing right now jerking each other off.
Speaker 1: You know it would be better if you said, what
Speaker 1: do you guys craigs following each other? You know that
Speaker 1: would be better. You know, the backwards Let's not be
Speaker 1: so forward, cannot be forward about it. Let's be backwards
Speaker 1: about it with each other at least, is Yeah. I
Speaker 1: think Scary just came up with a cool slogan, Let's
Speaker 1: be backwards about it. I like that. I like that.
Speaker 1: Let's get right. Anytime you want someone to use a
Speaker 1: backwards term in place of a forwards term, just like,
Speaker 1: let's let's be let's be fackward, let's be backwards. I
Speaker 1: am writing it downward quote unquote, let's be backwar Seriously,
Speaker 1: I like, you know what that means? I dont that means?
Speaker 1: I came up with something you can't put it on
Speaker 1: the back of the T shirts that we haven't gotten
Speaker 1: made up yet. We have that they're in the works.
Speaker 1: I'm not even kidding you. For episode one hundred, we're
Speaker 1: gonna have T shirts made. We're gonna go from worst
Speaker 1: to shirts. That's right, and after an episode one, there's
Speaker 1: so much happening. We are not only gonna have a
Speaker 1: T shirt, but we're actually changing the logo. We are
Speaker 1: right now in the mists. Were talking to a company
Speaker 1: about doing a new logos right here in the midst
Speaker 1: in the midst. So, dude, where the hell are you? Man?
Speaker 1: Why are you not here on the podcast? I'm I'm
Speaker 1: on another planet. I'm exploring. I'm on Uranus's you're full
Speaker 1: of jokes today. Bro, You're quick, You're quick, You're quick.
Speaker 1: I'm out here, I'm out of space. I'm trying to
Speaker 1: see if we have um all fair heads outside of
Speaker 1: the the Earth's atmosphere. What are you there? Do you?
Speaker 1: You're hanging out with your mooney Suzuki. I'm sorry, the
Speaker 1: Earth you're hanging out with mooney Suzuki. It's a subject
Speaker 1: for me. Let's just drop the mooney Suzuki thing. Okay,
Speaker 1: we'll drop him, all right. Well, you know you could
Speaker 1: do while you're there. Since you are, you do have
Speaker 1: a bank of phone lines in front of you. Where
Speaker 1: are you? What are you doing? I told you I'm
Speaker 1: on Uranus. He's all right, he's he's he's working the
Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest show. Why are you doing that? Why? Why
Speaker 1: are you working right now? With why? He because obviously
Speaker 1: he gets paid to do that, That's what he gets
Speaker 1: paid to do, and he gets paid to do that.
Speaker 1: First were second banana, Why are you working there and
Speaker 1: not in here with us right now recording this podcast?
Speaker 1: Just plainly told it, told you why I don't Why
Speaker 1: can't you go talk to the boss and let the
Speaker 1: Why can't you talk to the He gets paid off
Speaker 1: of that shift and he gets jack from this shift.
Speaker 1: About the Benjamin, I like, how you call your barking
Speaker 1: down orders to the phone? Well, you know you called me.
Speaker 1: I'm you know, I'm out here. Can't we at least
Speaker 1: run can we run a mic chord? Like do we
Speaker 1: have a we have that long blue mic chord in
Speaker 1: the storage closet? Can't we run a micchord all the
Speaker 1: way in? And then how that would be so funny?
Speaker 1: And then can we run headphones too? How we can't
Speaker 1: do it today, but how in the future we can
Speaker 1: do this? How would he hear? How would he hear
Speaker 1: through the headphone? We would get also get an extra
Speaker 1: long headphone cable. They make those. In fact, David Brod
Speaker 1: he knows the company that makes them. They have ones
Speaker 1: that like thirty f long. So let's run his headphone's
Speaker 1: right at a microphone to that studio. I like that. Oh, Mike,
Speaker 1: I love. That's great. We're gonna do Why do we
Speaker 1: not think about this? You're gonna run a cable all
Speaker 1: we're gonna listen. If you're gonna do this, if you're
Speaker 1: gonna force our hand, that's something's gonna be done your hand. No,
Speaker 1: we're gonna here's what we're gonna do, because he's chained
Speaker 1: to that audio console, which, by the way, just for
Speaker 1: our visual for the listeners. Let paint the picture. Let
Speaker 1: me paint. Let me be a Picasso for a second.
Speaker 1: This is my Picasso. We are in a studio Greg
Speaker 1: T and I where the Morning show does its morning show,
Speaker 1: and then we do our podcast in that same studio.
Speaker 1: It's exclusively the Elvis Duran Morning Show studio, right, which
Speaker 1: is pretty cool, and and he gives it to us
Speaker 1: to do our podcast, after which I, in fact, I'm
Speaker 1: talking on Elvis's gold mic right now, Hold on a second, No,
Speaker 1: you're right, this is that's elvis is gold Mic. I'm
Speaker 1: talking into it, so exactly scary. It's in position where
Speaker 1: Elvis always broadcast from every single day and go to
Speaker 1: Greggs across from me. If you go to Elvis Duran
Speaker 1: dot com and you've watched any of our interviews, anything,
Speaker 1: the video, anything visual, so you know what the studio
Speaker 1: looks like right now, then you have about maybe I
Speaker 1: would say about maybe twenty ft away in another room.
Speaker 1: Bald freak Rannie is sitting there in another studio and
Speaker 1: another on air studio that the rest of the staff
Speaker 1: uses studio, and he's running the Ryan Seacrest show. So
Speaker 1: after eleven am Eastern time? Does that mean running the
Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest means? How can you describe? If we're talking.
Speaker 1: We're talking like in radio language, but our affair heads
Speaker 1: do not really understand. This is like, you know what scared?
Speaker 1: This is right, because we've always complained to the affair
Speaker 1: heads like there's real work to be done behind the scenes.
Speaker 1: But in all honesty, So Ryan Seacrest broadcast live from
Speaker 1: Los Angeles, yes, into New York. Yes, So then we
Speaker 1: need somebody to be in a studio that is making
Speaker 1: Ryan sound perfect, and that's what freak. So what Greg
Speaker 1: t is suggesting is we take the bald Freaks microphone
Speaker 1: from this studio here that he's normally on, and his
Speaker 1: headphones to listen from this headphones from the studio that
Speaker 1: we're in. And we buy these extension cables and we
Speaker 1: we run it out of this room right down the
Speaker 1: hall way into the next room. Right, so Ronnie could
Speaker 1: be a part of the podcast and listen and interact
Speaker 1: with us. Right, And we do have that, right, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm talking about. We have a blue microphone cord.
Speaker 1: It's in the closet. It is it's got to be
Speaker 1: a hundred feet longest thing. Well, we can get that
Speaker 1: that that right, problem is listening back so you can
Speaker 1: listen to us back from your audio console. I think, Ronnie,
Speaker 1: I don't even think you need headphones. What about a
Speaker 1: wireless set? Maybe we could do that? All right, We
Speaker 1: we we we've got some planning to do if we're
Speaker 1: gonna go forward, If we're gonna go forward, because that's
Speaker 1: where you need to be, right if we if you
Speaker 1: can't talk to the boss, and you know we still
Speaker 1: need you, then that's what we'll have to do. And
Speaker 1: I just thought of it this way. How about this,
Speaker 1: right we do you know, like how Howard Stern does
Speaker 1: does his show, and he has like Robin in like
Speaker 1: another studio. Right, Robin all these years has always been
Speaker 1: in another studio looking through a glass wind. She still
Speaker 1: does that to this day because that's how they're comfortable.
Speaker 1: You could be our Robin. No, no, so ball. From
Speaker 1: now on, we could just call you hashtag Robin. Yeah,
Speaker 1: hashtag Robin, because you could be in the next year.
Speaker 1: You're in the studio. You're in the other studio. You're
Speaker 1: not in our mean student. Alright, so listen, Uh you
Speaker 1: want to hang with us on the phone here, what
Speaker 1: do you want to do? Okay? Alright? Then bye, that's
Speaker 1: really nice. All right, I think that's what we gotta do.
Speaker 1: That we get the chord, we hook it up, get
Speaker 1: him a headphone set as well. Yes, by the way, um,
Speaker 1: you smell that scary. It's been driving me nuts. I
Speaker 1: don't understand which which radio station here on this floor
Speaker 1: because there's O there's several other radio stations that are
Speaker 1: here with us. Who's cooking barbecue at this hour? It
Speaker 1: smells so good in here right now, like someone is
Speaker 1: like tempting me that you know, I'm on my doctor
Speaker 1: Fat Loss program right now. And I can't eat. It's
Speaker 1: almost like someone is testing me because the food that's
Speaker 1: coming through it smells like spare rid, right, it smells
Speaker 1: like just like good, like brisket. Man, it smells like
Speaker 1: something smoke out of a smokehouse, like a barbecue pit.
Speaker 1: You got any good barbecue music? He was a good
Speaker 1: barbecue What does barbecue music sound like? I don't know
Speaker 1: what get called ball for? You gotten ball for? You'll
Speaker 1: have an idea. I don't want to even bother with
Speaker 1: him right now. He hung up on us. He's on
Speaker 1: my ship list today. A barbecue song? What's a good
Speaker 1: barbecue song? Would it be by a group that like
Speaker 1: Zach Brown? Do you think Zact Brown is barbecue? Oh?
Speaker 1: You do? Yeah, because they got the song chicken Fried,
Speaker 1: Chicken Fried? Okay, Like, yeah, here's a here's a barbecue
Speaker 1: song like this? So Sharing Cheryl's here, she just got
Speaker 1: here and she's on her way up to the studio.
Speaker 1: We're doing share notes today and it's by request from
Speaker 1: one of ours Twitter people. Yeah the radio so great.
Speaker 1: Hey listen, Not only are we gonna talk to share today,
Speaker 1: but we really have to tackle a couple of issues. Okay,
Speaker 1: So the off airheads. You know, we cancide that we're
Speaker 1: gonna put together this cabinet. Yeah, so that's that's that's
Speaker 1: legitimately gonna happen. But we're going to make those final
Speaker 1: announcements on episode one hundred. So if we continue on
Speaker 1: the path that we're on, episode one hundred will take
Speaker 1: place next Thursday, and we can go from a week
Speaker 1: from today. Well, we I think we have to do
Speaker 1: it the following Monday, because next Tuesday is gonna be
Speaker 1: another day where we can't we have a way with
Speaker 1: a giant cluster meeting for the entire station. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: then can't we do it after the big meeting and
Speaker 1: we'll run the court again. I heard that's a long meeting. Well, well,
Speaker 1: we'll work on it. It's either gonna next Thursday or
Speaker 1: the following one day. Are you we can't do it
Speaker 1: on Monday's Mondays, there's no way we can do a
Speaker 1: n from Vanda Pup rules will be here, dude, exactly,
Speaker 1: so that we have to do it on Thursday. Okay,
Speaker 1: we'll figure it out. Wells, So we're gonna make the
Speaker 1: final announcements. We're working on T shirts and the new logo.
Speaker 1: It's all coming soon and scary telling the good news
Speaker 1: that we've been working with our friends CP getting the
Speaker 1: show on iTunes. iTunes on coming soon to iTunes. That
Speaker 1: is this way the people in your life that are
Speaker 1: stubborn and don't have the I Heart Radio app, they'll
Speaker 1: have a chance to listen to us too, although you
Speaker 1: should be convincing them every day down at the iHeart
Speaker 1: Radio and it's an amazing app. It does so much,
Speaker 1: and of course it has our podcast on it. But
Speaker 1: pretty soon we're gonna be in wide release. I feel
Speaker 1: like we're a film on the brink. We really are,
Speaker 1: which is like this is the Canned Film Festival. This
Speaker 1: is like the is ready to explode, and all their
Speaker 1: heads that have been along for the ride when when
Speaker 1: this thing goes huge, they're all gonna say, dude, I
Speaker 1: was there from day one. They were a part of
Speaker 1: this thing. Scary. I'm gonna call you on the hotline
Speaker 1: right now because I can't take anymore. I'm gonna I'm
Speaker 1: gonna go and investigate real quick before Shared gets here,
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna figure out where this smell is coming from.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get us some good barb. We I want something.
Speaker 1: I can't eat it? What do you mean you can't
Speaker 1: put it in front of me? Dude? Come on, that's
Speaker 1: like me being the pizza delivery boy. Don't you know
Speaker 1: what that is? Calling you on the hotline right now,
Speaker 1: the pizza delivery boy. You're allowed to sniff it, but
Speaker 1: you can't eat it. You're delivering pizza. Going on? Hey,
Speaker 1: by the way, Cheryl here, could you go downstairs and
Speaker 1: get Cheryl as well? Go down to the elevator bank
Speaker 1: and get her live on the air. That's too far.
Speaker 1: There's web girl chaff Lee. Hey, web girl Kathleen, you're around?
Speaker 1: Why with you? All their show? Hill? It's going on? Hey,
Speaker 1: how's the quarter Chaste podcast going? Oh? You know it's
Speaker 1: really good? Yeah, we should get together sometime. Would you
Speaker 1: do a cross road between the choir chase? Yeah? We
Speaker 1: should beat that's fine as smell that war with you?
Speaker 1: Where's that coming from? That's our time? There's clean there's George,
Speaker 1: George says all the maintenance around here, pauld on, George
Speaker 1: will know. Hold on, Hey George, Seorge you doing? You're
Speaker 1: on with the off air show? Hey doing? Hey, how
Speaker 1: are you doing? George? Where is this barbecue coming from? You?
Speaker 1: Don't know where the barbecue? He's that? Tell them you
Speaker 1: scare Okay, they're hiding it from us. Where the barbecue?
Speaker 1: They're hiding it from us? Serious? Wait? Where is where
Speaker 1: is the smell the strongest? Where is it coming from?
Speaker 1: I'm I'm smelling a right here? Hold on? Remember you
Speaker 1: you made you made a lot of money back in
Speaker 1: your day of sniffing people's armpits and deid and finding
Speaker 1: out where and finding out what soap they used. Ruper
Speaker 1: he listen, you're run live right now at the off
Speaker 1: air show. Say everybody, Rupert, where is the barbecue coming from?
Speaker 1: I have no idea. You don't smell that. Just follow
Speaker 1: my nose. It always knows. Oh, he has a hold
Speaker 1: on a second. Just you're like you like, You're like,
Speaker 1: you're like t can Sam hold on? Hold on, just
Speaker 1: fo your hold on. There's Anita, hold on Anio. Though
Speaker 1: Anita gets to the bottom of the barbecue, she knows
Speaker 1: where it is. There's barbecue being type through here. I
Speaker 1: need where's the barbecue? Yeah? Barbecue? But what's up? All
Speaker 1: the studios, by the way in the radio station are
Speaker 1: connect it so that all the vent ventilation system it's
Speaker 1: connect it's got to be somewhere on this floor from
Speaker 1: you that you saw the barbercule somebody's barbecue. Where is this?
Speaker 1: Oh my god? Well were okay? Tee? By the way,
Speaker 1: can you grab Cheryl please out of the elevator bank,
Speaker 1: can you please stairs, go downstairs, go get her because
Speaker 1: she's she's waiting. I'll tell you what. We're gonna find
Speaker 1: where the barbecue is. In the meantime, you and I
Speaker 1: had like a mind melding moment because of all the
Speaker 1: million songs in the universe barbecue, we both picked this
Speaker 1: song by Phoenix as the song of the day. I
Speaker 1: don't know how we came to the lousion. It's an
Speaker 1: old song. This is nineteen one. As Greg t snips
Speaker 1: out the barbecue and share is on our way up
Speaker 1: on the Share notes the air show, this place out
Speaker 1: of control, n away past them out watch you and
Speaker 1: then lift the cup. I think it's not what you saying.
Speaker 1: What you say his way to complicate it, coming thought,
Speaker 1: I can tell how to fall out the last long
Speaker 1: anything you ask, it's not as night you don't want
Speaker 1: on the affair show. You and I great Tea come
Speaker 1: up with the same song of the day. Because bro,
Speaker 1: we used to be roommates together. We are a lot
Speaker 1: closer than people think. We actually think a lot of
Speaker 1: something's like, we're on the same menstrual cycle. I wouldn't
Speaker 1: go that far. That's the same thing. It's the same.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call it the same mental cycle. Mental cycle.
Speaker 1: I like, by the way, during the song you were
Speaker 1: stiffing out the barbecue, did you find out where the
Speaker 1: barbecue went? And you know what where it's coming from?
Speaker 1: I didn't find the barbecue, but I did find something
Speaker 1: else that's pretty hot. You found a hot sauce. I
Speaker 1: found share. Now, so you went looking from barbecue and
Speaker 1: you found me. Do you smell what the rock is cooking?
Speaker 1: You smell this? I do smell this. I didn't smell
Speaker 1: it downstairs. It smells like barbecue, smells like there's something
Speaker 1: like brewing, like the building Texas Barbecue Wings. So what
Speaker 1: I found out when I went to engineering, I was
Speaker 1: asking our truth engineer and I'm like, hey, where is
Speaker 1: that coming from? None of the radio stations have any
Speaker 1: barbecue here. And then he said it's way up on
Speaker 1: the fifteenth floor and for some reason, it's coming through
Speaker 1: our events. Yeah, it really is from the How wait,
Speaker 1: hold on a second, that where on the third floor?
Speaker 1: How does stop? That sounds impossibly impossible, actually told me,
Speaker 1: because that's where it's coming from. I don't know why
Speaker 1: or how, but do they just walk it in the
Speaker 1: building or they're cooking it up? Then they walked in
Speaker 1: the building. I have no idea what a barbecue if
Speaker 1: they walked it in the building. We're smelling it all
Speaker 1: this how many floors away are It's unbelievable. It's not
Speaker 1: so awesome, it really doesn't. I'm salivating, and you know,
Speaker 1: I'm on my IM saying earlier, I'm on my dr
Speaker 1: Fallis program. I'm trying. He's losing weight again. He's looking
Speaker 1: good already. Look at I'm in the lost mode, you know,
Speaker 1: the third time. He's doing it third time, you know,
Speaker 1: but it works. I'm gonna lose forty pounds and forty days.
Speaker 1: So you know, is this like the beginning of the
Speaker 1: year thing for you? Always it's it's the new year,
Speaker 1: new you listen the same way some people go to
Speaker 1: the gym and other people like to get healthy and
Speaker 1: you know, put new diets out there. I'm doing the
Speaker 1: same thing. I am trying to lose some weight, and
Speaker 1: I will I will succeed. Share just tell him if
Speaker 1: he goes to the gym, if he runs a little bit,
Speaker 1: that's how he's gonna lose weight. Tell him that. Please,
Speaker 1: you don't work out at all during the never Wow
Speaker 1: do you work out? I work out? Yeah? I love
Speaker 1: working out though it's like it's like my sanity. Like
Speaker 1: to me, it's like part of the every day like
Speaker 1: thing to do. What do you do? What do you?
Speaker 1: What do you? What does one do? They work out?
Speaker 1: Can we go to the gym? Scared? Let's go to
Speaker 1: the gym. To the gym. Take us to the gym.
Speaker 1: Let's go to the gym. Share will explain her workout
Speaker 1: routine at the gyml. Let's hear this real quick. Let's
Speaker 1: go and see if you can inspire me. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: inspire you. Here you go, you're ready, We're gonna go
Speaker 1: to Shares gym. Oh my god, really, I totally want
Speaker 1: to pull up to leg warmers little albeit yeah, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I guess. I don't know. This is like, this is
Speaker 1: a long time ago. Let's get physical by living. So
Speaker 1: you walk into the gym, I walk into the gym.
Speaker 1: Everybody you got you gotta click there, and you know
Speaker 1: they know me because I actually go. So I walk
Speaker 1: in and I'm like, hey, what's up everyone. It's a
Speaker 1: nice social environment at and then it goes off. The
Speaker 1: social goes off because share goes to the gym to
Speaker 1: really sweat and work out. Okay, wait a second to
Speaker 1: you don't hang out while you're on the machines. You
Speaker 1: when you text people, you're not on social media. It's
Speaker 1: my first time and only time that I actually turn
Speaker 1: the phone off and I turn on anything that I
Speaker 1: want to listen to for music. That's when I listen
Speaker 1: to my music. I get in a zone. I'm like
Speaker 1: totally on it. But there is a lot of visual
Speaker 1: at the gym which is inspiring and I like to
Speaker 1: look around. I set my tone as to what i
Speaker 1: want to do next. I think about what I'm gonna
Speaker 1: do for the rest of the day. It's like an
Speaker 1: inspirational time. Does your gym have like my gym has
Speaker 1: a bar, like like a juice bar. So a lot
Speaker 1: of these gyms have it now where they're making you
Speaker 1: like a protein shake or something like that. Make people
Speaker 1: at the gym though, are are actually like they get
Speaker 1: their makeup. They do makeup first and then they come
Speaker 1: into the gym and then there there it's like a
Speaker 1: hook up scene for them. And it's a total hookup scene.
Speaker 1: I mean it's a total scene and they have the
Speaker 1: women are banging their trainers. These are a general statements
Speaker 1: that doesn't go to the gym. Half the female personal
Speaker 1: trainers are bragging their their their mail clients. I think
Speaker 1: you would be shocked all the sweat and all these
Speaker 1: thermones and all this, Like can I just say, please,
Speaker 1: you know what I've noticed about the gym, and maybe
Speaker 1: you can vouch for the share is that you know
Speaker 1: when I go to the gym, now, the guys like
Speaker 1: give me some Jersey shore music. This is what's going on.
Speaker 1: They got a bunch of they do. They got a
Speaker 1: bunch of youngs walking around right and everybody like they're
Speaker 1: wear like they're not even wearing sometimes like like Nike
Speaker 1: running shoes like some do. But like it's like a
Speaker 1: trendy things were like you like flats, like like people
Speaker 1: are wearing different sneakers now they're wearing different cuts like
Speaker 1: the shirts. Yeah, it's true, it's true. It is trendy.
Speaker 1: And actually the one thing I do like is that?
Speaker 1: Like yeah, And for myself, the one thing I do
Speaker 1: do is I don't wear the makeup and do that,
Speaker 1: but I do wear like a nice gym outfit that
Speaker 1: the few, not a few, but you're one of the
Speaker 1: serious ones. But you got to admit there is a
Speaker 1: there are a section of people, a segment of society
Speaker 1: that use it as a pickup joint big time, Like
Speaker 1: oh my god. And you know what happens though, is
Speaker 1: that for us? Like because he and I are there
Speaker 1: and we're like trying to work out. For me, I
Speaker 1: have gotten hit on NonStop at the gym, and there's
Speaker 1: been times where I'm like, you know what, I almost
Speaker 1: want to entertain this and I'm like, no, this is
Speaker 1: my time, like time to try and kick it to you.
Speaker 1: Some of these dudes they grunty, They lived weights that
Speaker 1: are heavier than them just to get a woman. But
Speaker 1: it's not you. It's not And that is such a
Speaker 1: stereotype that there's a lot of Look, there is some grunting,
Speaker 1: but it's not as much as like you know, like
Speaker 1: like skits are on second lives, like made out to be.
Speaker 1: It's not like that anymore. It's really much more of
Speaker 1: a trendy place where people are like trying to hook
Speaker 1: up and meet people or whatever and they're working out.
Speaker 1: It's so so actually so it's it's not the iron really.
Speaker 1: I mean, maybe you go to some of the gym's.
Speaker 1: Maybe he went to like Gold's gym that's like in
Speaker 1: Venice Beach. Yeah, I think that could happen. A lot
Speaker 1: of the grunting has stopped. A lot of men have changed. Men.
Speaker 1: Aren't these like big fat grunters anymore? So I like that, okay,
Speaker 1: but they're still sly about it and they have they
Speaker 1: have alternated agenda, so why they're going to the gym.
Speaker 1: I don't call yourself that people hang out these pro
Speaker 1: Hey baby wants my protein shake. Protein bars are cool though.
Speaker 1: I like sitting there at the bar, like getting myself
Speaker 1: a shake or or hanging out and like I'll talk
Speaker 1: about how music, like what do you listening to? It is?
Speaker 1: It's like a nightclub in the day where people are
Speaker 1: hanging out and maybe some exercises going the thing. I
Speaker 1: think that and share can maybe vouch again, you know,
Speaker 1: I think that if you go to the gym today,
Speaker 1: it's like a you go to social club. State of mind.
Speaker 1: I guess social club. You go to the to relax
Speaker 1: a little bit and work out and socialize. It's all
Speaker 1: happened at once. So some people they got the earbuds
Speaker 1: in and they're just concentrating on their work. It's like
Speaker 1: a pre nightclub. Okay, before you go to the you
Speaker 1: know the guys are looking. It's pre gaming. The pre
Speaker 1: gaming is actually working out. And then maybe when I'm done,
Speaker 1: what do you what do you see? Big cardio girl,
Speaker 1: Big Cardio girl, like the first hour, try on treadmills
Speaker 1: or pre corps big time. I think it works great,
Speaker 1: but great for everything. Get your heart rate up. I
Speaker 1: love that. That's like my favorite part. And that's actually
Speaker 1: lists on the treadmill. I know exactly who share is
Speaker 1: at the gym. I know exactly who You're not a
Speaker 1: rower person, you're not one of the rowing machine because
Speaker 1: that thing I wanted to like take a sledgehammer and
Speaker 1: smash it when I was on that once, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: this thing is so hard. But you can write the
Speaker 1: machine where you row and you have to like you're
Speaker 1: like it's through the water. You don't have to rower
Speaker 1: the one where you like you're there's so many machines
Speaker 1: you can use. There's a variety. I don't think I've
Speaker 1: ever even gotten on the rowing machine. Rowing machines, not necessarily.
Speaker 1: I mean, the bike is kind of one of those
Speaker 1: things that you could go on if you want to.
Speaker 1: You know, it's not my typical go to all right,
Speaker 1: you could do the bike for a little while and
Speaker 1: all these things. Actually, the best part is is if
Speaker 1: you're not a gym person, I feel like you could
Speaker 1: really get into the gym more if you do go
Speaker 1: to cardio first, because you're able, and I've actually helped
Speaker 1: people and actually treat them a little bit where I've
Speaker 1: said to them, listen, go to the gym and start
Speaker 1: getting familiar get comfortable with it, because a lot of
Speaker 1: people are uncomfortable going to the gym and they don't
Speaker 1: know how to use the machines. But if you go
Speaker 1: to the gym and you sit on cardio for a
Speaker 1: little while and look, most of the cardio machines up
Speaker 1: on top or they're in the back where you can
Speaker 1: actually watch what people are doing, you can almost familiarize
Speaker 1: yourself with a gym and start to say I want
Speaker 1: to do this, I want to do that machine can
Speaker 1: watch you can break around. Yeah, and it actually is
Speaker 1: a great way to get people into the gym. The
Speaker 1: more that you go to the gym is the more
Speaker 1: you're gonna familiarize yourself with the machines, and then you're
Speaker 1: not gonna be as nervous. I just told you that
Speaker 1: I'm trying. I like to walk around the gym. I
Speaker 1: take a stroll around, I find a machine I like,
Speaker 1: and then I gotta tell you, I'm not nervous to
Speaker 1: read about it, like look at the example on how
Speaker 1: to use this machine. But that's great that you do that.
Speaker 1: I'll say it again. It's eighty percent of what you
Speaker 1: put in your body as far as food fitness. So
Speaker 1: go ahead, and you know what, I do think that
Speaker 1: you need to eat right, but you need to, like
Speaker 1: if your body have to get your heart dy eating portion,
Speaker 1: eating ripe portion. Why don't come to the gym with
Speaker 1: us right about now? I wish we were alive, right right,
Speaker 1: I always we were alive, And I wish we could
Speaker 1: pick up some phone calls and answering. I told you
Speaker 1: a bunch of people they'd be calling about their dream experiences.
Speaker 1: I would love to hear that. Actually, that would be
Speaker 1: so great, right. The only thing we could do is
Speaker 1: just tell people listen, you know some of the off
Speaker 1: fair heads right now. If you relate with anything we're
Speaker 1: talking about, please drop us a line at the off
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Speaker 1: He's ready. He's like he's chopping at the bit right there.
Speaker 1: The calls right there love to be live you much.
Speaker 1: I think they'd be writing in and calling in and
Speaker 1: saying everything that they want to say. It is so
Speaker 1: hard to just be recording this and know that there's
Speaker 1: affair heads listening. They're like, I want to call them
Speaker 1: right now, and like, you know, talk, it's so frustrating. Well, so, Cheryl,
Speaker 1: you you actually are responding. Well, here's here's the feedback
Speaker 1: loop completed. You're answering the tweet. It's almost like it's
Speaker 1: almost like it was a phone call, except it was
Speaker 1: written and it was a characters But the whole reason
Speaker 1: why you're here today for share Nose in segment it's
Speaker 1: always use hashtag share nose with your questions and maybe
Speaker 1: we'll feature this on an upcoming episode of Hashtag Share nos.
Speaker 1: Hashtag share let us know what. Somebody tweeted you and
Speaker 1: then Greg T and Cheryl, why don't you explain why
Speaker 1: what you're doing today? So basically we love to get
Speaker 1: these questions in on Twitter. And one of our off
Speaker 1: airheads decided to write and I think it was Anthony actually,
Speaker 1: and thanks Anthony for the question. And he was asking me,
Speaker 1: Hey was asking me what is it that I would love,
Speaker 1: not like, but love to do on dates? So to me,
Speaker 1: I think that's I think that he's asking me specifically,
Speaker 1: but I think I also want to give some information
Speaker 1: everybody about what good first dates and dates would beef
Speaker 1: with people. You know what, I just want to say
Speaker 1: and share this is great. You know, the the the man.
Speaker 1: If you if you envision a human being a body,
Speaker 1: the man, the person. The man has changed through the years.
Speaker 1: The man is no longer right. We're not like Neanderthals anymore.
Speaker 1: We're not our fathers, you know, we're these fat beer
Speaker 1: bellies sitting at a bar going, what's my bitch making
Speaker 1: me for dinner tonight? We're not We're not like that.
Speaker 1: We're not preach on great and men today are different
Speaker 1: exactly the clothes that men were at the places men
Speaker 1: go to hang out, the music that men wear, the
Speaker 1: cars that men drive, just everything about the man has changed.
Speaker 1: And I think you're right about that because I think
Speaker 1: that men have really stepped up their games and really
Speaker 1: trying to do a lot of different things to please
Speaker 1: a woman. Also, you know, it's not about just being
Speaker 1: the guy and being this like you know, heterosexual creature.
Speaker 1: So it's more about being creative. And I think that
Speaker 1: where Share is gonna come to coming come in handy
Speaker 1: today is I think Share, could you know, spread some
Speaker 1: spotlight on you know, good ideas to take your girlfriend
Speaker 1: out on a date or your wife or whoever did
Speaker 1: this is not who men are anymore. Share, I want
Speaker 1: you to shed some light on this. Give us some
Speaker 1: good ideas. Instead of just taking a girlfriend to the
Speaker 1: movies or just go to dinner, which we could do anytime,
Speaker 1: what are some really cool date ideas that some new
Speaker 1: age guys can do with their girlfriends. So here's the idea,
Speaker 1: and I'll address the first question is something that's more
Speaker 1: personal to me. I think that when people go on dates,
Speaker 1: they need to think of the person that they're actually
Speaker 1: going to be taking out and what it is about
Speaker 1: them that they do. So you can think about different things.
Speaker 1: You can think about what they do for a career,
Speaker 1: you can think about what they said they liked in
Speaker 1: the past. You know. And when you're talking to somebody,
Speaker 1: this is another thing. Since we are in this new age,
Speaker 1: let's make a conversation before you actually go out with
Speaker 1: the person instead of just the text. I think everybody's
Speaker 1: got to realize that the text thing thing. I know
Speaker 1: that everybody's just doing that. You can't go from bumble
Speaker 1: right from a message, Hey, I'm meeting you and what's
Speaker 1: going on? No, I really think that everybody needs to
Speaker 1: pick up a phone once. I think a lot has
Speaker 1: to do with the way somebody sounds on the phone. Also,
Speaker 1: it's a big key to me. I need a voice
Speaker 1: to attach me SI texture. But then once you get
Speaker 1: face to face with somebody exactly what the problem is,
Speaker 1: a lot of people are hiding behind the social media,
Speaker 1: which I think could be a whole another topic that
Speaker 1: we could talk about later on. I'll drive down. I
Speaker 1: think you should, because I'm telling social media has really
Speaker 1: made things very difficult for people. They've broken people up,
Speaker 1: They've made relationships really damaged because nobody knows who the
Speaker 1: person is. Hiding behind the texting or the Facebook or
Speaker 1: the Instagram. So social media dating next time, I think
Speaker 1: we should definitely. And then so now for me, right,
Speaker 1: so we'll use me as an example for the first one.
Speaker 1: So I do modeling my acting, right. So the first
Speaker 1: thing I would say is, if somebody knows that they're
Speaker 1: taking me out, you know that I'm a social person
Speaker 1: out very you're taking me out, all right? The picture,
Speaker 1: the hair? What do you want? You do you want?
Speaker 1: Do you want to meet him somewhere? Definitely want to meet?
Speaker 1: Definitely want to me because to me, I don't want
Speaker 1: to make it two personal at first. This is a
Speaker 1: first date. It's a first meeting. I've only spoken to you,
Speaker 1: we've only talked a little bit. Want to meet a Mathay,
Speaker 1: so he's meeting me out? Okay, totally independent. I'm that
Speaker 1: type of girl. I want to meet you now we're out.
Speaker 1: If he sees that there's some and I want him
Speaker 1: to be creative about this. I want to hear that
Speaker 1: he actually put a little time and effort into something
Speaker 1: that I said I like. So if he knows I
Speaker 1: like fashion, maybe there's a fashion event going on. Maybe
Speaker 1: you could try to look up if there's a fashion
Speaker 1: event going on theater. I'm an actress. I love watching
Speaker 1: other actors perform. I'm very into the arts because something
Speaker 1: it would be wonderful to do a Broadway show, especially
Speaker 1: something that's like the new hit, or take me to
Speaker 1: something that's hidden and and something that's not so known yet.
Speaker 1: So we're saying, listen, listen to what she's saying, and
Speaker 1: listen to what she's putting out, and then this way
Speaker 1: you can get in there and go go and take
Speaker 1: her to something that adheres to that, and she'll love
Speaker 1: you that much more. Well, at least I feel like
Speaker 1: you're at least putting some effort into what we're doing.
Speaker 1: The other thing is is if you're going to do food,
Speaker 1: trying to make it something with an atmosphere you don't
Speaker 1: want bland. Bland is not going to work for any
Speaker 1: other dates. So for me, if you were to take
Speaker 1: me out, I love sushi. So if I went for sushi, though,
Speaker 1: let's not just go to a sushi place. Let's trying
Speaker 1: to make it in an atmosphere in which there's something
Speaker 1: else we could do after, like maybe it's next to
Speaker 1: Central Park. If you're a New York I love Mexican.
Speaker 1: I ain't doing it from Mexican. I can't do it.
Speaker 1: Tacos are always breaking. And then here's like here's a
Speaker 1: great example or anything. Britos now now and and here's
Speaker 1: a great thing to me If if you're listening to
Speaker 1: what the person says, they may tell you that they
Speaker 1: don't eat something specifically right. So for me, I'm not immediate.
Speaker 1: So if you take me to a steakhouse, yeah do
Speaker 1: I think that's sweet and everything, But I'm like, Okay,
Speaker 1: this person did not listen to me at all. Hurry.
Speaker 1: Never what about somebody's new places that are popping up?
Speaker 1: I think they're cold, and I don't know if I'm right.
Speaker 1: Farm to table so that would be better that has
Speaker 1: been around, like we're trending now farm to restaurant, right, yeah? Good?
Speaker 1: What it is? What it feel like a lot of
Speaker 1: people that farm to table for most of America? Far right?
Speaker 1: Most of America? All right, we're a little bit more
Speaker 1: spoiled because we're in New York and we're in for me,
Speaker 1: l A and New York. So these are two big
Speaker 1: TuS do that. But it's stuff has grown locally, it's green,
Speaker 1: it's more like it's better for you because there's no
Speaker 1: preservatives and GMOs and because you don't eat meat, then
Speaker 1: that would be a great place farm the table for you.
Speaker 1: Be great, right, or just stick with sushi? Alright, alright,
Speaker 1: don't you want you want to wait your sushi? Okay,
Speaker 1: you gotta take her for sushi? Can I ask you more?
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, let me ask you that disgusting. Let me
Speaker 1: ask you another question. Hold on a second. So wait,
Speaker 1: you know what if you've been in a relationship for
Speaker 1: a couple of years now, right, so it's not a
Speaker 1: first date. We now you want to take your girlfriend
Speaker 1: out on a special date instead, like you're getting used
Speaker 1: to her, you go to like the movies all the time.
Speaker 1: You're always doing the same old, same old. What are
Speaker 1: cool ideas for somebody to shake things up a little bit?
Speaker 1: How about that? All right? I think that shake it up,
Speaker 1: shake it up. I think we need to shake it up,
Speaker 1: shake it up, to shake it up up, to share
Speaker 1: You and scary now been dating for a couple of years,
Speaker 1: but he kind of like take you for a little bit.
Speaker 1: Scare getting very upset with this. I feel like it's
Speaker 1: the same old thing right every day? So we're you
Speaker 1: gonna go ex into this. What do you want to
Speaker 1: do on a satur atternoon? How about we go to
Speaker 1: get a nice hike somewhere amosphere. Surely not getting me
Speaker 1: on a hike. No, but you need to do that
Speaker 1: because you need to open up the things your partner
Speaker 1: wants to do. So if I'm a gym, shore up love,
Speaker 1: shrink it up, so we're gonna shake up our relationship.
Speaker 1: She's not going up Scary, you're not into the gym,
Speaker 1: but you know that I like to work out and
Speaker 1: you like my body and you want to keep me fit,
Speaker 1: so we can go on. That's never gonna work. You're scary,
Speaker 1: never working. He's looking at you like you're a freaking
Speaker 1: I want to eat you about the great indoors? Yeah, right,
Speaker 1: say wait, do you want to eat you? MoMA? You
Speaker 1: want to go to a museum? Can you want to
Speaker 1: go to a museum? They are a special special time.
Speaker 1: We both disagree with you on this. This is what
Speaker 1: is Yeah, because it's a little more hip. I'm not
Speaker 1: telling you to take me to the natural museum a history,
Speaker 1: but how is that supposed to like? Do anything? Do
Speaker 1: anything for a relationship. It's definitely not going to do
Speaker 1: a thing for the relationship. I think the relationship is
Speaker 1: over right. All right, it's cold outside. We're not going
Speaker 1: on a hike either, go on a hike. I kind
Speaker 1: of had outdoor things, guys. I kind of like the outdoor,
Speaker 1: Like what she can't listen if you want to hear
Speaker 1: something crazy. I don't know if that's a good idea.
Speaker 1: Why because if somebody does an ice skate, well, it
Speaker 1: could be a very big life. Maybe that's kind of
Speaker 1: funny though, if your fowling down to each other, that's
Speaker 1: like a karaoke or a bowling date. Bowling you go bowling,
Speaker 1: you go bowling. I don't bowling. I don't know bow
Speaker 1: I would never do this kind of could be kind
Speaker 1: of fun. What if What if my girlfriend she's a
Speaker 1: big bowler, big bowler, and she you know, but that's
Speaker 1: different because now you're a peas into something that she likes.
Speaker 1: You're hearing today, this is what this is about. You
Speaker 1: guys have to understand that at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: no matter what you do, by by the fifth year
Speaker 1: or something, that you're dating somebody, you're gonna know what
Speaker 1: they're likes and dislikes. Are, so you have to gear
Speaker 1: it towards what they like. These aren't things that I
Speaker 1: necessarily what about this? You go bowling, right, but then
Speaker 1: you tell your significant other, you make a pact. We
Speaker 1: are leaving here with the bowling shoes. We are not
Speaker 1: going to return them. We're gonna walk out to keep
Speaker 1: the bowling shoes. The bowling shoes. You know what if
Speaker 1: you go there with you go with tissue shoes, right,
Speaker 1: So you go to ball, you go to the bowling
Speaker 1: alley with these tissue dies. Hey, great, take give me
Speaker 1: some bowling for soup. Howling for soup, and you make
Speaker 1: a pact that you're gonna leave with the bowling shoes on.
Speaker 1: That's kind of cute. It's kid just can't get into
Speaker 1: this because I'm not a bowler. Maybe I should just
Speaker 1: like end the bowling. That's different. So you're saying make
Speaker 1: it difference. So that's the same type of thing, like
Speaker 1: put something into it, put some atmosphere into it, put
Speaker 1: some something into it. So you wouldn't go fully know
Speaker 1: that you're supposed to walk out with the bowling shoes on.
Speaker 1: So you're trying to be a rebel. I think they're
Speaker 1: saying it's a cool moment. Think about this. I like
Speaker 1: to sell them, by the way, this bowling. All right,
Speaker 1: so share you're dating, right, We've been dating for three years, yeah,
Speaker 1: and I want to change it up. So I go, listen,
Speaker 1: let's go bowling. And you're looking and you go, why
Speaker 1: what do you say to me? I'm gonna say I
Speaker 1: I don't want to break a nail, but right, I
Speaker 1: guess we can go so that. So then I go,
Speaker 1: I go, let's not let's not just go bowling, but
Speaker 1: let's go there wearing shitty shoes, and let's never return
Speaker 1: our shoes, and let's walk out with the bowling shoes on.
Speaker 1: We'll make it a fun date. I have a better idea.
Speaker 1: Why that's gonna happy hour before bowling. Let's get tipsy.
Speaker 1: Let's talk about going bowling, but instead we go back
Speaker 1: and then exactly that. I like the idea. I like
Speaker 1: the idea we go in the afternoon knowing that we're
Speaker 1: gonna walk out with our bowling shoes on, and we're
Speaker 1: keeping those bowling shoes for the rest of the day. Okay,
Speaker 1: it's kind of cute. Actually it is cute the way
Speaker 1: you're saying it. I think you need to be more
Speaker 1: spontaneous with that. So here's my idea. If you're going
Speaker 1: to get somebody to go to the bowling alley and
Speaker 1: then you do this date, I say while you're there,
Speaker 1: to switch it up and make it fine and exciting.
Speaker 1: You're like, hey, listen, let's not take the bowling shoes
Speaker 1: off right, leave with them on. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Let's go home bowing right, So you keep wearing bowling shoes,
Speaker 1: nothing but the bowl and shoes for heels. Listen, all
Speaker 1: fair heads, if you guys relate with what we're talking
Speaker 1: about again, make sure you drop uses. Yeah, if you
Speaker 1: stole a pair of bowling shoes, take a picture and
Speaker 1: send it to us. We want to see you wearing
Speaker 1: your bowling shoes with the number nine on the back
Speaker 1: of the shoe. For the Seriously, I'm gonna try to
Speaker 1: steal a pair of bowlshoes. But what about dates that
Speaker 1: you shouldn't? I mean, what not to do on a date?
Speaker 1: Didn't you have a counter list? She did too. I
Speaker 1: have to tell you a couple of things here. This
Speaker 1: is more of a bowlings on that list. And so
Speaker 1: I was playing billiards because I put that in the
Speaker 1: same category where you going. Where do you have going
Speaker 1: to the movies on your list? I don't. It's this
Speaker 1: is this is the worst part too. There are some
Speaker 1: sites out there online. Be very careful. I prefer you
Speaker 1: taking advice from us and these sites really because when
Speaker 1: you go on there are things that say things like cute,
Speaker 1: cute date ideas and things you could do to spice
Speaker 1: it up. I mean there's things on there that are
Speaker 1: just ridiculous, like let's go bird watching. Let's know, I'm
Speaker 1: not even there is a list here. Yeah, its like
Speaker 1: fun date ideas you're supposed to do. Okay, go to
Speaker 1: the beach, but feed the ducks. I mean, I'm not
Speaker 1: really sure where they're getting this stuff from. Feeding the
Speaker 1: ducks on a date and feed ducks. I think feeding
Speaker 1: a duck you're very cute, you're very cute, could be
Speaker 1: kind of cute. It could be cute, but you better
Speaker 1: be in that type of relationship. This is not a
Speaker 1: first date thing. These are not first dates. Don't go
Speaker 1: feed ducks on the first There's here's the thing. I like.
Speaker 1: So my wife when we were dating, I said to her,
Speaker 1: I go, look, we're gonna go on a crazy date.
Speaker 1: One afternoon, I went and got two disposable cameras and
Speaker 1: I gave her one and I got one and then
Speaker 1: I said, I want to see what your eye catches
Speaker 1: all day long. So she was able to be free
Speaker 1: and take pictures, and I took pictures. Once upon a time,
Speaker 1: Greg was Roman and the day it was really one
Speaker 1: hour photo to go, and they developed it while we
Speaker 1: wouldn't got a bite to eat. When we were done eating,
Speaker 1: we went and picked up our pictures and we laughed
Speaker 1: at the photos we made. By the way, this is
Speaker 1: before the times of cell phones. That cute. But we're
Speaker 1: going from we're going from the first date mode to
Speaker 1: like really like being engaged in somebody. That's an engaging
Speaker 1: not engaged dang, meaning you're not on the first date.
Speaker 1: You're on dates down the road. But you know what,
Speaker 1: that's not a bad idea. If you're gonna get engaged,
Speaker 1: if you get two cameras, take some pictures and at
Speaker 1: the end you go, hold on, I'm gonna take a
Speaker 1: picture of this, and you get on your knee and
Speaker 1: you open up the box to propose a second why
Speaker 1: I'm feeling a moment. That's the greatest idea are you
Speaker 1: are you hanging by a moment? Which is hanging by
Speaker 1: a moment? Could you play hanging? Come on, that's a
Speaker 1: really good idea. So you take pictures all day long
Speaker 1: of different things on your on your camera at the
Speaker 1: version you only got one shot left, and you go,
Speaker 1: hold on, I got the perfect picture for this. The
Speaker 1: wait are you going to take the picture? And she's
Speaker 1: got one, she's got one. You got one? You say, saving, saving,
Speaker 1: I got a good moment for and and write. Then
Speaker 1: her cell phone says camera phone, you can on your knee.
Speaker 1: You're like, oh my god. You open the box and
Speaker 1: you go take a picture of this, and then you go,
Speaker 1: will you marry me? Come? I'm having this moment? Are
Speaker 1: you melting right there? I'm having a moment. She's melting
Speaker 1: because she's the wicked witch. What girl is gonna say
Speaker 1: no to that? I may be some dumb, yung but
Speaker 1: I got a big heart from asking me about first
Speaker 1: dates to this. That's not fair because I have some
Speaker 1: very romantic ideas. That is not fair. But now you
Speaker 1: love it. Now I want to talk for math. That's
Speaker 1: a great idea, you guys, He's coming to me. I
Speaker 1: feel like everybody comes to me for that first date idea,
Speaker 1: not the romantically there is a romantic yes, wait, I'm
Speaker 1: just in the moment. Wow, okay, okay. So now now
Speaker 1: that we've gone to the engagement really love right? Great?
Speaker 1: All right? So what listen? It doesn't That doesn't say
Speaker 1: the marriage is gonna be great. Now my ring falls off.
Speaker 1: You know what, we go back to reality their heads.
Speaker 1: Here it goes. We're in the middle of the list
Speaker 1: of things not to do. Finished off, you're not going
Speaker 1: to go one. There's a lot more on it. The
Speaker 1: point is is that if you go to some of
Speaker 1: these sites, be very careful. Do me a favor right in,
Speaker 1: ask us before you do it, because I have a
Speaker 1: feeling it's not gonna be something you should follow through.
Speaker 1: What have I taken to go see La La Land movie?
Speaker 1: The problems with the movies and a great movie I've
Speaker 1: scored again, let me stays, I gotta care of my
Speaker 1: chair over going to a film. Going to a movie
Speaker 1: is anti social. Don't get to know the first date
Speaker 1: on a movie, which the worst, which is what I
Speaker 1: was gonna say, was the one problem with some of
Speaker 1: these ideas. They talk about things like even karaoke could
Speaker 1: be fun for people. These are these aren't necessarily the
Speaker 1: things I adore to do, but there are things on
Speaker 1: the list that, yes, for some people, maybe they find
Speaker 1: that to be their way to break out of their
Speaker 1: shell and get involved with somebody. But really the other
Speaker 1: thing is is that they talk about things like you know,
Speaker 1: double dating this, and that you have to be careful
Speaker 1: on that first stage you're really trying to interact with
Speaker 1: the person. And I think that's what I try to
Speaker 1: express to everybody, even when we were talking about gift ideas,
Speaker 1: when we're talking about what women want to see men,
Speaker 1: and when we talk about all these things, it's about
Speaker 1: really engaging in that one person that you're trying to
Speaker 1: get with and see what they're about. So you mean,
Speaker 1: it's not your friends and my friends and let's we'll
Speaker 1: hang out on one group date, because not people do
Speaker 1: these days, I know, And I really think it finds
Speaker 1: it to say I think you, I think you get
Speaker 1: mislet your friends and maybe we could be friends. What
Speaker 1: about taking her over to like six Flags and go
Speaker 1: to Great Adventure. No, it's not that it's a bad date.
Speaker 1: People do like to do that, tubing down down a mountain,
Speaker 1: snowmobile lank right. You could do these things, but you're
Speaker 1: not engaging in the person. So if this is the
Speaker 1: first date, i'd make it after then a dinner, after
Speaker 1: something because it or before a lunch. Do a lunch
Speaker 1: and then go do that. You have to have a
Speaker 1: meeting and something. Hey, listen, that's another one you can
Speaker 1: what if you were tubing your whole each other going
Speaker 1: down the mountain? Do you remember the episode of apple picking? Oh, yeah,
Speaker 1: I can die. Don't die blueberry picking on the list? Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's all that stupid list. How do I know? I
Speaker 1: can't give any credence to that credence? Yeah, rolling, rolling,
Speaker 1: rolling out a river? Yeah, I'm sorry. Okay, wait, we
Speaker 1: have to talk about one other thing. You don't like
Speaker 1: any of those ideas are going to do? I like
Speaker 1: the ideas. Yes, I'd love to go out and have fun.
Speaker 1: I definitely the chick that likes to go out and
Speaker 1: do things that I like. The spontaneity, because that's another thing, spontaneity.
Speaker 1: Some of these ski mountains, now, these ski lodges, right,
Speaker 1: they've changed a lot, Like I know one that's been
Speaker 1: redone and you know they have there now they got
Speaker 1: fire pits everywhere, roasting marshmallows me who don't ski. That's right.
Speaker 1: They've got a lot going only they've got a DJ
Speaker 1: outside and he's got to hang out, right, he's got
Speaker 1: They've got lamps, heat lamps everywhere. I can do a
Speaker 1: ski weekend. I can get to do a weekend and
Speaker 1: get away with without. Yeah, I have really and I
Speaker 1: like the idea of that. But you're not doing that
Speaker 1: on a first day. Okay, all right, that's not a
Speaker 1: first day. Two being is not a bad idea of
Speaker 1: holding each other sing. You're not holding each other on
Speaker 1: the two You're yelling as you go right down there.
Speaker 1: Actually you're actually going far away from each other and
Speaker 1: going down white water rafting. Off the list for first
Speaker 1: days on your first day swim, he's not gone never.
Speaker 1: I actually did go whitewater rafting on the Rio g
Speaker 1: it was it was. That wasn't a date. It was
Speaker 1: with the boy. That was with the boys exactly. That's fun, alright.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying the idea of the idea of engaging,
Speaker 1: the idea of seeing what the person is about is
Speaker 1: the most important thing. The other thing is is then
Speaker 1: hit it up with some spontaneity, think something. So if
Speaker 1: you're going to take somebody to a restaurant, don't be
Speaker 1: normal about it. Take it to somewhere where there's like
Speaker 1: some nice outdoor seating and there's some I don't know atmosphere.
Speaker 1: You're gonna sit by the sunset off paper plates and
Speaker 1: paper and plastic forks and having a picnic on the
Speaker 1: me You can go over to Deno's. That's how they
Speaker 1: start their pizza. They start their pizza like that pizza
Speaker 1: that's right, the best pizza. Don't judge. Where do you
Speaker 1: go after Denio's? Where these painting places that are showing
Speaker 1: up right now? You can go paintine with the painting. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm painting really for first dates. They got a couple
Speaker 1: of those places. Listen the ideas pot winery is a
Speaker 1: cute idea and having some activity paint could it could
Speaker 1: be cute. But you better make sure the person that
Speaker 1: you're taking out is a drinker. That's another thing you
Speaker 1: gotta think about. What if they're recovering alcoholic that will
Speaker 1: be it's not gonna happen. And listen, that's that's pretty
Speaker 1: popular nowadays. You have to really engage with the person
Speaker 1: and see what they're about. So you're not gonna go
Speaker 1: and laugh at the painting. You just draw this canvas.
Speaker 1: You're not doing painting, probably not doing the that's like
Speaker 1: going skull big clash. You see the movie ghost Remember
Speaker 1: the ceramics they like that dude. They cuffed like crazy
Speaker 1: on that movie. They were cuffing like nuts a second.
Speaker 1: It was on the list and it had in parentheses.
Speaker 1: Remember Ghosts Coming. So you don't think that's a good
Speaker 1: idea for a first date. I think that if you
Speaker 1: throw that in with things going on in might be okay,
Speaker 1: But you have to make that more of a spontaneous situation.
Speaker 1: I would say, if you really want to have a
Speaker 1: perfect first date, and I don't even know the first
Speaker 1: right there, do spontaneous after after spending a little time
Speaker 1: with the person, see if you even like them. Okay,
Speaker 1: and this is coming from a guy. I'm saying to you,
Speaker 1: this is coming from a guy's perspective. Go on the date.
Speaker 1: See if the girl is somebody that's engaging in what
Speaker 1: your conversation is, she's showing you that she wants to
Speaker 1: like keep the thing going. Then have something in the
Speaker 1: back of your head as the next step. What if
Speaker 1: you go take them shopping right for me? For we
Speaker 1: listen to hear this out. You take you take him
Speaker 1: shopping to a lingerie place where you both can get
Speaker 1: lingerie and then you both can put it on. I think,
Speaker 1: get back to the shopping and guy's gonna put on lingerie. Yeah,
Speaker 1: there's so many nice thing under a thong for a man,
Speaker 1: like a lacey thong for a guy, or like satin.
Speaker 1: I got to hear from the off air heads about
Speaker 1: this inger. Guy. Listen, you never like put on some
Speaker 1: like some like black satin, like you know, box or
Speaker 1: underwear scare and like got ready to get it down
Speaker 1: with thongs? What do you mean you put a thong on? Great,
Speaker 1: there's nothing more unattractive than a guy in a banana. Han,
Speaker 1: I tell you I should share me and you were
Speaker 1: dating right right, and I take you, I go look
Speaker 1: at a great idea and we go to a lingerie
Speaker 1: store and you're gonna I'm gonna pick something up for
Speaker 1: you to go get. You're gonna pick something up for
Speaker 1: me to wear, and then we're gonna go We're to
Speaker 1: race back to either oh not our oh hold this
Speaker 1: thing right, we race back to our to our hotel,
Speaker 1: to where we're going to change into what we just
Speaker 1: purchase because we know what's going on after that. Check
Speaker 1: it out. Yeah, I think it's a great days. If
Speaker 1: you saw this bas you cat that have dressed last week?
Speaker 1: Are you teading? I know, listen, that's a great season
Speaker 1: house on a great date. You both shop each in
Speaker 1: a second. You think on a first date, it's gonna
Speaker 1: last fast that if we get the girl that Tyson's
Speaker 1: what you said. It depends what you guys talking about
Speaker 1: on social media. Maybe you guys texting each other, risky,
Speaker 1: that's another leaning thing. Start on the food. Yeah wow,
Speaker 1: I love that idea. All right, we've had enough fun.
Speaker 1: I think it's time to drop a hold. Hang on,
Speaker 1: one more thing to drop. I got one more thing.
Speaker 1: You're ready because this one all over the plane A
Speaker 1: shooting pool guns, I said, billiards, no good, that's great,
Speaker 1: gun good, shooting a gun ring show, that's awful. How
Speaker 1: great is that? I love the idea. I've only do
Speaker 1: a gun ringe twice. An adrenaline thing. You would actually
Speaker 1: put a pistol in your hand and yeah, yeah, yes,
Speaker 1: I love the should bellow. I love that. I love you.
Speaker 1: I love that. Have you ever shot a gun to
Speaker 1: take the load to a gun range? Right, and you
Speaker 1: shoot some bottles and stuff? I love that? So that's great. Well,
Speaker 1: it's it's kind of an adrenaline high. It's also something
Speaker 1: if you know the other person. Again, this might not
Speaker 1: be for first date, but these are ideas off airheads
Speaker 1: that you could use. You can maybe go forward with
Speaker 1: the person because now after your first date and speaking,
Speaker 1: you learn what they like like do you become creative females?
Speaker 1: And you could say to your guy, Hey, I have
Speaker 1: an idea for Saturday, meet me. I'm taking you somewhere.
Speaker 1: I think it's great. Likes to shoot guns and I
Speaker 1: shoot guns because that's such a memorable first date. Memorable, yes,
Speaker 1: but it's frightening. That's dangerous, but I know I wouldn't
Speaker 1: know what to do with a pistol. Look listen. But
Speaker 1: I think you're right. I'm not getting share. I think
Speaker 1: that if you make a memorable first date, I think
Speaker 1: that you have promised for a second or third date, right,
Speaker 1: you know what. I think that the idea of engaging
Speaker 1: and finding out what the person likes is the most
Speaker 1: important stuff. And honestly, the conversations you have. Here's one
Speaker 1: thing you need to know about dating too. Do not
Speaker 1: make the mistake of sitting on your phone while you're
Speaker 1: out with this person for the first time. Well, you
Speaker 1: cannot make the mistake of setting expectations that you really
Speaker 1: can't live up to. It is a huge no no
Speaker 1: on dates everybody, meaning like, if you try to talk
Speaker 1: about stuff that's really not you. Don't talk about wealth,
Speaker 1: don't talk about where you work and what you have.
Speaker 1: Don't talk about you know where you intend to be
Speaker 1: going and what's coming up. If it's not there. It
Speaker 1: is the worst thing you can do because you're making
Speaker 1: the other person really like, look at you in a
Speaker 1: certain way, realistic expectations. It's gonna be a big letdown.
Speaker 1: It's gonna be a horrible letdown. Don't talk about this
Speaker 1: is what I want and this is where I'm going
Speaker 1: with thinking. If that's nothing to that point. If I'm
Speaker 1: a guy, then and this is me and this is
Speaker 1: who I am, and you want to see the real me,
Speaker 1: and the real me is always texting and being on
Speaker 1: social media, then why can't I have my phone out
Speaker 1: on the first date, Because that's what you're going to
Speaker 1: get for the rest of yours. I think shares right though,
Speaker 1: You've got to be paying attention to the person that
Speaker 1: you're with on that date. Play's yeah, and don't set
Speaker 1: awkwardness like that. The whole idea of awkwardness award. You're texting,
Speaker 1: what are you talking to? Awkward on the first dage? Here?
Speaker 1: What is the biggest mistake a guy can make out
Speaker 1: of nowhere? It looks down at his phone, turns it over,
Speaker 1: hates it over because you know, somebody texting out she
Speaker 1: just wanted to sit back up, keeps looking around, not
Speaker 1: paying attention, distracted the next thing, you know, it's like listen,
Speaker 1: I have to go yeah awkard. I mean that's an
Speaker 1: I love the gun idea, the power that you have
Speaker 1: to create a monster, because I don't the last thing
Speaker 1: great team yes stable, Remember I own a p I company.
Speaker 1: That's the girl that owes a PI company about guns.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's pretty cool. You take this
Speaker 1: and she standing power in her hands. Right, it's bad
Speaker 1: my own video range. There is a video I have.
Speaker 1: I actually have to a video. The jolt back into
Speaker 1: the body like you're comping boom and I look, oh wait,
Speaker 1: I thought of another idea, another another one. I'm on these.
Speaker 1: I'm on the power of the power date here thinking
Speaker 1: about the power date idea. What about taking your significant
Speaker 1: other to a cool, hot car place and you ranked
Speaker 1: the car for the day to test drive, like a Maserati,
Speaker 1: a fancy Mercedes. This guy, this guy's my you're on
Speaker 1: my track here, but you go, girl. Yeah, I love
Speaker 1: the racing cars. If you know the person likes that
Speaker 1: on my back or something, right, you can test one. No, no, Mike, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know for real, it takes something in the back
Speaker 1: of it. Have somebody else drive you. I love that.
Speaker 1: I love the test driver car. I actually was gonna say,
Speaker 1: if you really get to know the person and it
Speaker 1: was somebody like myself, I like to race cars. So
Speaker 1: if you want to take me to give me the
Speaker 1: part you've got girls, girls, girls, it goes on like that.
Speaker 1: That's right. That's hot. Oh my god, that's a great day.
Speaker 1: Sound you seriously and give me the sound of that.
Speaker 1: The sound for a scary that's drives me nuts. There
Speaker 1: is h you got a gun in your hand loaded
Speaker 1: sank God. Yes, that's a hot day. I want to
Speaker 1: thank you so much. Staring idea to give Brectie's head
Speaker 1: to launderie, shopping cars, racing cars, going to the gun raids.
Speaker 1: I'm so turning. This is so hot, great, not your
Speaker 1: trouble so great? Sound what a turn one like sex?
Speaker 1: Then you do some gun trees, then you go rent
Speaker 1: a hot car. Over a second. I feel this was
Speaker 1: supposed to be turned on. I don't because I'm boring.
Speaker 1: It's fun. This is the greatest date ever. Some top
Speaker 1: of that, I do I feel my trigger. I thought
Speaker 1: this was supposed to be about tips for guys to
Speaker 1: impress women. See how you By the end of this podcast,
Speaker 1: you've turned it around completely and now it's it's male
Speaker 1: fantasies for great tea. What do you talk? These are
Speaker 1: great ideas? So he could go home to correct. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, am I ever listen? You're feeling from bow
Speaker 1: shoes and what happened here and we've morphed it. Share
Speaker 1: You're supposed to be giving tips to a great ideas.
Speaker 1: Women have a sudden This is this is tips for
Speaker 1: These are guys. These are not dates that my dad
Speaker 1: took my mother on. These are good dates tonight. These
Speaker 1: are types of atmospheric dates where people can get to
Speaker 1: know each other, but don't do a lot of these
Speaker 1: ideas on the first dage person love, Cheryl Cascenza. Next
Speaker 1: time we meet, I think you're gonna talk a little
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Speaker 1: I'd love too. That would be awesome. Lane close, John Malcovitch,
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