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Speaker 1: Do you ever do something in the moment that seems

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Speaker 1: fine and then spend the next few weeks wondering if

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Speaker 1: you made a huge mistake. It's a Jewel Show. Well

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Speaker 1: over the Thanksgiving holiday, one person on this show did

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Speaker 1: something that they now regret and need your help figuring

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Speaker 1: out if what they did was okay. Who is it

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Speaker 1: and who do they make out with? You'll find out

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Speaker 1: right after this. It's the Jewel Show. Can you relate

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Speaker 1: to this? It's the Jewel Show. It's Thanksgiving break and

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Speaker 1: you and your family are gathered together and you think

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Speaker 1: everybody is paying attention to their conversations or the football

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Speaker 1: game or whatever, so you decide to finally start making

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Speaker 1: out with the turkey like you've always wanted. It's just

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Speaker 1: sitting there in the middle of the table, and then

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Speaker 1: things are going great. You're getting hot and heavy with

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Speaker 1: the bird and everything. He's wonderful, just like you dreamed

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Speaker 1: the turkey makeout would be. And then you turn around

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Speaker 1: and realize the entire family has stopped what they're doing

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Speaker 1: and they're all just staring blankly at you. And then

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Speaker 1: you snap at them and scream at them for all

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Speaker 1: judging you, and they all wish they had a love

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Speaker 1: like you and the turkeys, jamming your hand in the

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Speaker 1: turkey and storming out of the door with your golden

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Speaker 1: brown lover around your fist. WHOA, that's only to have

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Speaker 1: to send a mass apology text to the family the

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Speaker 1: next day and asking if you can be invited next year?

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Speaker 1: Happens to all of us. Well, someone on this show

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Speaker 1: experienced a similar situation over the Thanksgiving holiday, and now

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Speaker 1: they can't tell if they made a mistake or not.

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Speaker 1: Who is it? We'll tell you in just a second.

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Speaker 1: your podcasts, or the jubilshow dot com. But who had

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Speaker 1: an awkward makeout over Thanksgiving? And now they're wondering if

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Speaker 1: they made a mistake, it'd be none other than our

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Speaker 1: own Nina, it wasn't just so what happened? No, I'm

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Speaker 1: feeling awful.

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Speaker 2: Actually, I feel like like there's this pit in my

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Speaker 2: So there's something going on with somebody that I've known

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Speaker 2: basically my whole life. Okay, so him and I have

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Speaker 2: didn't work out, so things are starting to go in

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Speaker 3: But this is the same guy he went on a

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Speaker 3: He made bets to see if Nina was gonna with.

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Speaker 1: Him on a trip a little while ago with a

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Speaker 1: guy that she's been friends with forever, and she was like,

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Speaker 1: nothing is gonna happen, no way, We're just friends. So

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Speaker 1: it sounds like something might have give me y won money.

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Speaker 1: All I know is somebody won money waiting for the

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Speaker 1: romance of Thanksgiving a takeover.

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Speaker 2: It's that friend. But they're technicalities. Okay, so he lives

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Speaker 2: in another city and he does have children. Now, I

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Speaker 2: have dated people with kids before, and the way that

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Speaker 2: it goes is you just you know, you don't meet

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Speaker 2: while I'm around them a lot, I'm not around them

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Speaker 1: About a child. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Right, So we had to get together like a little reunion.

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Speaker 2: It was my best friend and I and her family

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Speaker 2: and her kids, and then he came over with his kids,

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Speaker 2: and then there's Jan and everybody or whatever. But like,

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Speaker 2: and I didn't start off weird, Like I was really

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Speaker 2: excited to meet, like meet his children, right, Like, these

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Speaker 1: So I love that friends.

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Speaker 3: Were meeting them as his friend as well.

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Speaker 2: As his friend. I mean, we've been friends for over

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Speaker 2: thirty years. That is a very long time. You haven't

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Speaker 2: met his kids, and well no, because he lives in

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Speaker 2: That happened, and you know, the beginning of the night's

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Speaker 2: the kids are busy playing together, and everything's fine, and

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Speaker 2: so like we kind of steal a kiss.

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Speaker 1: And in the middle of a room. I mean it was.

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Speaker 2: Like in a quarter by a pool table in a room. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: so you're just friends though, right, Yeah, that's making sense. No,

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Speaker 1: I feel terrible. Right, So we still a kiss.

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Speaker 2: I'm not thinking anything of it at that moment, but

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Speaker 1: Saw you kiss it.

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Speaker 2: So he saw us kiss and I was like, oh

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Speaker 2: my gosh, I feel like weird about this, and my

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Speaker 2: friend was we'll just call him Bob. Bob's like it's fine,

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Speaker 2: So then somehow we end up in a corner now

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Speaker 2: and that way he didn't these times now, but we're

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Speaker 2: trying to be conscious of the children, right, And it's

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Speaker 2: just days after it happened. They we didn't do that much,

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Speaker 2: like it wasn't anything crazy, but we were flirty around

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Speaker 2: each other, like everybody was playful. So then I tried

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Speaker 2: to spread the love and I was like, sit on

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Speaker 2: my friend's lab, not that friend.

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Speaker 1: I'll make this better. I'll just start making out with

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Speaker 1: everybody in the room. I'm a lover, you know, like

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Speaker 2: So I was just kind of like on my girlfriend

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Speaker 2: ever since then, like everything ended fine, everything was great.

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Speaker 2: They went they went back home, flew away to their

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Speaker 2: I just have been feeling like this is where I'm

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Speaker 2: I'm supposed to know better, you know, like it's not

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Speaker 1: It's so bad for making out with your friend in

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Speaker 3: Me yes, I will say, as a child of divorced parents,

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Speaker 1: But that's like you said, you don't have kids, Like

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Speaker 3: If the other parent doesn't like depends how long they've

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Speaker 1: But it's with dads, and I don't know if he

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Speaker 2: He has both a daughter and a son. Well, I'm

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Speaker 2: not sure about the daughter. I was dancing with her earlier.

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Speaker 2: Everything was fine. I think she, I think her and

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Speaker 2: I are cool, but his son definitely saw.

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Speaker 3: I mean the kids, depending on how old they are,

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Speaker 3: they could be a little territorial their dad, Like, hey,

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Speaker 3: that's my dad. What are you trying to do like

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Speaker 3: trying to come in here and like mess things up,

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Speaker 3: but also kids like, at least for me, I internalized

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Speaker 3: but if I saw something else, I would take what

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Speaker 1: More to heart and it would hurt me a lot more.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So that's the only thing where I could say

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Speaker 3: the kids maybe seeing that being like, who's this friend

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Speaker 2: Here Maine now with my dad? Like and then look,

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Speaker 2: he hates you exactly. But that's what's going through my

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Speaker 2: mind right now. I wasn't thinking in the moment that's

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Speaker 2: my bad. But as the adult not drunk any and

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Speaker 2: I'm a very together person, I just have moments and

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Speaker 2: that we can't do that.

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Speaker 1: I can't do that. I've never done that before.

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Speaker 3: But fairly, you're I feel like it's more on him

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Speaker 3: to be more noticing of that stuff than you because

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Speaker 3: you don't have kids, Like, how are you supposed to know?

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, in his defense, he didn't plan that.

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Speaker 2: That wasn't something that we thought was gonna happen, like

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Speaker 2: ended up in a corner it just happened and.

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Speaker 1: Like, and it wasn't bad.

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Speaker 2: It was just like a little you know, I now

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Speaker 2: feel like it was not just a little.

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Speaker 1: We went way in the corner the pool table for

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Speaker 1: Is it a mistake for Nina to make out with

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Speaker 1: her friend in front of the kids when the kids

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Speaker 1: had no idea that they were a thing at When.

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Speaker 2: You put it like that, it's obviously a terrible thing.

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Speaker 2: So anything constructive, though, would be helpful.

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Speaker 1: Hello, who's this? Oh Mike, Mike, do you have some

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Speaker 1: input on this situation?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 5: Absolutely, listen, Hey Nina, Yeah, I'm feel bad. I was

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Speaker 5: a single dad who had to mary aid my way

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Speaker 5: through the whole dating scene with a kid who was

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Speaker 5: old enough to be able to underst animals going on

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Speaker 5: the elementary school age.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's on the dad to explain the kid. Yeah, Like,

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Speaker 4: it's on him to explain to the kid like, hey,

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Speaker 4: you know, I'm maybe moving into a different direction with

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Speaker 4: this person, you know, maybe they will become more important

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Speaker 4: in our lives, and explain it to the kids that way.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I ended up like, my my oldest was

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Speaker 5: in our wedding after it happened, So dude, like want

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Speaker 5: him to explain.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so he's gonna sit the kid down and be

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Speaker 1: like hey, I know, the.

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Speaker 5: Kid down and be like hey, this is the situation.

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Speaker 4: Especially, I mean, how old is the oldest the kid?

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Speaker 2: The son you said he's eleven, so he definitely knows

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Speaker 2: what Like, Yeah, so you like the ladies and.

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Speaker 6: My son thirty years happens to be a lady and

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Speaker 6: dades have needs to go along now and play because

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Speaker 6: da is also going to play like that, not

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