Speaker 1: Rooking Jebels second date update. Every once in a while
Speaker 1: we get one of those second d updates where you're like,
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure I know why they're not getting a callback,
Speaker 1: and CC is on the phone with us today, Ceci.
Speaker 1: I think after reading your email, I know why you're
Speaker 1: not getting a call back. You do, That's great? I
Speaker 1: want to know. I think so, And I think after
Speaker 1: telling your story a lot of people might agree with me.
Speaker 1: Thank you for wanting to do a second date update.
Speaker 1: What's the name of the guy you want to call today?
Speaker 1: What's his name? Nick? Nick? All right? Tell us a
Speaker 1: little bit about Nick. Where'd you meet him? First of all,
Speaker 1: I've been one Tinder and we just happened to both
Speaker 1: feet free on the same night, except he was working,
Speaker 1: so we originally had plans for seven that turned into
Speaker 1: eight and then nine. I didn't mind that he kept
Speaker 1: texting me that he was going to be later and
Speaker 1: later with work. Can I ask you, did he text
Speaker 1: you like before you got to wherever you guys were
Speaker 1: supposed to meet up, or were you sitting at a
Speaker 1: bar for two hours waiting for him to show up? Oh? No, no,
Speaker 1: at home? In fact, I had like so much time
Speaker 1: I got to check him out on social media. Okay,
Speaker 1: he was just like really hot, and I didn't have
Speaker 1: worked the next day, so when he kept postponing, I
Speaker 1: didn't care. Okay, okay, all right, So when did he
Speaker 1: finally show up? So that didn't happen because he kept postponing,
Speaker 1: and then he finally at ten thirty he told me
Speaker 1: to just come to his place and we can have
Speaker 1: drinks at his place. That's not nice. I mean, as
Speaker 1: long as you were in it for just a one
Speaker 1: night stand too, I think it's fine, but it's not
Speaker 1: like a nice romantic gesture to ask you to come
Speaker 1: over at ten thirty at night and drink with you
Speaker 1: at his house. Well, I didn't mind coming over. I
Speaker 1: thought it was really gracious of him. So you went
Speaker 1: over there. Yeah, and then you know why. I went
Speaker 1: over to his place and the weirdest thing happened. But
Speaker 1: I kept knocking on the door, and this went on
Speaker 1: for like twenty minutes. Nobody was answering. I get texting
Speaker 1: him nothing now, guys, all night he was texting me.
Speaker 1: So you went to his house and knocked on his
Speaker 1: door for twenty minutes and he didn't answer. No, So
Speaker 1: I started to get concerned, right, like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: I hope he wasn't in an accident. You know, all
Speaker 1: these like horrible things running through my mind. So I
Speaker 1: knocked on the neighbor's door and I asked him, you know,
Speaker 1: have you seen Nick? What this is so strange? What
Speaker 1: do The neighbor hadn't seen or heard him, So I
Speaker 1: told him I was Nick's sister. What okay? So you
Speaker 1: lied to the neighbor. It was a white lie for
Speaker 1: a good cause. So in order to find out if
Speaker 1: Nick was okay, I said, could you please let me
Speaker 1: into his apartment? Whoa? Whoa? Wait? You fake to be
Speaker 1: his sister in hopes some neighbors would break into his
Speaker 1: apartment so you could go into a total stranger's house. Us.
Speaker 1: I didn't break in. The neighbor unlocked it for me,
Speaker 1: so you're wrong. A key all right? So they had
Speaker 1: a key, and then you went into his place. And
Speaker 1: what happened? Oh gosh. So I was relieved to see
Speaker 1: that he was passed out. So he obviously worked many
Speaker 1: hours and that left him exhausted. So you closed up
Speaker 1: the door and left. I thought about that, but then
Speaker 1: I decided no, that that wouldn't be right either. I mean,
Speaker 1: we did have plans to meet, so would you do
Speaker 1: so I let him keep sleeping. What you sat in
Speaker 1: his apartment while he slept, No, that'd be weird. I
Speaker 1: needed to sleep too, so he was sleeping on the couch,
Speaker 1: so I went into his bed and I didn't sleep
Speaker 1: with him. Guys, come on, no sleeping with him. It's
Speaker 1: just kind of weird that you slept in his bed.
Speaker 1: Didn't know you're in his place? And how are you
Speaker 1: being so nonchalot about this? Like, there's no way you
Speaker 1: can be so naive to think that this isn't a
Speaker 1: big deal. I was tired too. I think the responsible thing.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, oh man, this is I think that's
Speaker 1: illegal what you did. Bleeping is not illegal, okay? And entering, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I didn't break in. Doesn't know, so you're not supposed
Speaker 1: to be in there. That's why I was saying, that's
Speaker 1: the reason you're probably not getting a call back is
Speaker 1: because you broke into his place. No, I feel like
Speaker 1: you guys are twisting my words or something. I think
Speaker 1: you're not hearing your own words is the problem. Wait,
Speaker 1: what happened? Did he like, did you stay till the
Speaker 1: morning I did, and then, um, I love to cook,
Speaker 1: so I went in his kitchen and I thought the
Speaker 1: right thing was to make him something to eat, so
Speaker 1: I made him great That he is crazy? Yeh? Did
Speaker 1: he wake up and freak out that there was some
Speaker 1: woman in his house making him breakfast? Usually this is
Speaker 1: like the plot of a freaking horror film. At this point,
Speaker 1: I don't care what you guys are reacting too, because
Speaker 1: Nick invited me over while he was awake before he
Speaker 1: fell asleep. So how did he react when he found
Speaker 1: you in his house making breakfast? He was really surprised. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: And we talked for like ten minutes while I started
Speaker 1: to make him coffee, and he insisted that I didn't
Speaker 1: need to do that, yeah, which I thought was really
Speaker 1: thoughtful of him, Like he wanted to take care of me, Like,
Speaker 1: don't do that. That's not what he was doing. He
Speaker 1: was telling you probably to get out of his house
Speaker 1: because that was really a huge breach of security, drust
Speaker 1: all of it. I don't know. Agreed to disagree, guys,
Speaker 1: But I did leave, okay. He said he had to
Speaker 1: get going. He said he had plans for the day.
Speaker 1: I mean, I didn't have work, so I offered for
Speaker 1: us to spend time together. But you know, I get it.
Speaker 1: He was tired. He worked really late. Um. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: I thought we hit it off when we talked, okay,
Speaker 1: but now he's not returning my calls and I just
Speaker 1: wanna know that he's okay, and yeah, it's really cute.
Speaker 1: I don't think we should do this. I don't think
Speaker 1: we should call this man on your behalf. He's probably
Speaker 1: still scared. No, he worked really hard. Guys, does he
Speaker 1: have what? Nothing? Well, we'll play a song and then
Speaker 1: come back and call him and get your second date update. Okay,
Speaker 1: thank Sky looking jubil in the morning. Second updates. You know,
Speaker 1: the more that I think about it, the more I
Speaker 1: think there was nothing wrong with what Ceci did for
Speaker 1: her first day. Nick just joining us for today's second
Speaker 1: date update. Cec is on the phone and she made
Speaker 1: plans to meet up with this dude Nick through Hinder,
Speaker 1: but then when it was actually time for the date,
Speaker 1: he kept having a postpone because he was at work. Anyway,
Speaker 1: fast forward to about ten thirty at night, he said,
Speaker 1: you can come over to my place for drinks. She
Speaker 1: did that, but then he wasn't answering the door, so
Speaker 1: she spent about twenty minutes trying to get him to
Speaker 1: text her back or answer the door or something. Nothing happened,
Speaker 1: so she talked to a neighbor and then told the
Speaker 1: neighbor that she was his sister. And it turns out
Speaker 1: the neighbor had a key and actually let her into
Speaker 1: Nick's apartment. But don't worry, she didn't wake him up.
Speaker 1: She just slept in his bed until the next day
Speaker 1: he was on the couch and then welcome up with breakfast.
Speaker 1: And now she's confused why she's not getting a callback.
Speaker 1: Cecie or you're ready to call him and figure out
Speaker 1: the problem. Yeah, more than ever, you could not be
Speaker 1: this clueless, like you have to know why he's not
Speaker 1: calling you back. What you did is wrong on lots
Speaker 1: of levels. Okay, I appreciate the feedback, Rock, and that's
Speaker 1: why I called you. I just know that I don't
Speaker 1: believe I was anything more than assertive. Nick never act scared.
Speaker 1: I didn't harm him. He was just surprised, Okay, I surprised. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, well I'm gonna Dallas phone him right now
Speaker 1: and surprised him again. Okay, thank you. And I hope
Speaker 1: when you guys get him on the phone, you'll realize
Speaker 1: and did not do anything across the line. Okay, got you?
Speaker 1: All right, Well I'm a Dallas phone right now. Okay,
Speaker 1: thank you, You're welcome. Hello, all right, a speak to Nick. Yeah,
Speaker 1: this is Nick. Hey Nick, how are you? This is
Speaker 1: Jewel from Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. Uh, I'm
Speaker 1: sorry one more time. This is Jewel from Brook and
Speaker 1: Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, Hi, Hi,
Speaker 1: how are you? I'm good, not too bad. Thank you
Speaker 1: for asking. Nick. The reason I'm calling you today is
Speaker 1: because we got an email about you from somebody who
Speaker 1: listens to our show. Uh. I didn't call you, guys, No,
Speaker 1: I know, yeah, I know that calling you. We got
Speaker 1: an email about you. So we do a segment on
Speaker 1: our show. It's called the second Date Update. That's where
Speaker 1: if you go out on a date with somebody and
Speaker 1: then end up blowing them off, they can email us
Speaker 1: to get you on the phone and find out what happened.
Speaker 1: So we got an email about you from somebody who
Speaker 1: you sort of went on a date with. Ye that's
Speaker 1: a stretch. Even do you have a name I do.
Speaker 1: Before I tell you that name, I want to ask
Speaker 1: it not hang up on me. Her name is Ceci. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she's been trying to I know she's been trying to
Speaker 1: reach me for a while and I have not had
Speaker 1: a chance to get back to her. But yes, yes,
Speaker 1: I know what you're talking about. He's not really casual
Speaker 1: about this. You're not like I wouldn't call it a
Speaker 1: conventional pay by any means. But yeah, what do you guys,
Speaker 1: what do you guys need to know? Well, yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: she just wants to know why you're not calling her back,
Speaker 1: and we all assumed it was because she kind of
Speaker 1: broke into your house where you're asleep. Apparently that's not
Speaker 1: a big deal. That sounds insane, I get it, But
Speaker 1: actually I kind of understand what happened and why she
Speaker 1: actually ended up inside my plans. Oh my god, I
Speaker 1: don't know who I'm more baffled by now. Like at
Speaker 1: first I thought CC must have been the most clueless
Speaker 1: woman that ever walked the face of the planet. But
Speaker 1: you sound like you were okay with her breaking into
Speaker 1: your place and sleeping in your bed without you knowing. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean I kind of dropped the documunication, like kind
Speaker 1: of a bruppoly and I wasn't able to get back
Speaker 1: and it was a bit much. I mean, I agree
Speaker 1: with that, yeah, but she was concerned, and I get it. Okay,
Speaker 1: So if that wasn't the deal breaker for you, then
Speaker 1: why haven't you gotten back to her? What could be worse?
Speaker 1: So baffled right now? We were in touch a little
Speaker 1: bit afterwards, and she touched me a picture of me sleeping,
Speaker 1: oh baby, and she said that she took a bunch
Speaker 1: of those pictures and she wanted to assemble like a
Speaker 1: photo book company. I mean, she's a photographer and she's
Speaker 1: kind of out there. You know, it was like an
Speaker 1: art project. But I just thought, you know, it's a
Speaker 1: little bit it's a little intense. I think, you know,
Speaker 1: for me, a little like that would have most people
Speaker 1: going to the authorities to file some sort of report. Yeah. No, yeah,
Speaker 1: she's not like a danger like that, but I mean
Speaker 1: she's definitely eccentric. I would say that, all right. So
Speaker 1: breaking into your place, sleeping in your bed and you
Speaker 1: didn't know she was there, not a big deal. But
Speaker 1: taking pictures of you where while you're sleeping is what
Speaker 1: did it? I mean, my understanding of this is that
Speaker 1: she didn't actually break into my place. My neighbor let
Speaker 1: her in, and yeah, I trust him implicitly, and she
Speaker 1: was clearly concerned. But it still sounds like you were,
Speaker 1: like still maybe considering going out with her. You know,
Speaker 1: I really wasn't sure what to make him, but at
Speaker 1: that point, I mean, it was so far removed from
Speaker 1: any kind of date that it was just I think
Speaker 1: it's like a friendship of some sort. Okay, well, if
Speaker 1: it's a new friendship then and I'll just let you
Speaker 1: talk to her right now, because guess what. CC's on
Speaker 1: the other line and wants to talk to you. Are
Speaker 1: you serious? Really? Yes? CC? Are you're still there? Hi? Hey, Hey,
Speaker 1: I hope I didn't say anything insulting. I am totally cool,
Speaker 1: you know, No, it's it's okay, it's okay. I mean,
Speaker 1: I I don't see why taking pictures of you when
Speaker 1: you're sleeping is creepy, but um, I respect your opinion.
Speaker 1: You know, I didn't. It's not I don't find it
Speaker 1: creepy and I don't want to paint you like that.
Speaker 1: Um it's a little much for me, you know, I'm
Speaker 1: not I'm a little more easy going. I think you
Speaker 1: know this is insane. Okay, so are you still up
Speaker 1: for meeting? Because I only sent you a couple of
Speaker 1: the pictures and oh no, you know I can show
Speaker 1: you all the pictures I took. I've already I made
Speaker 1: a nice album sleep. You know. I I'm okay. You
Speaker 1: know I'm not feeling well these days. I'm a little
Speaker 1: bit under the weather. So I don't want to do
Speaker 1: the check and so maybe I don't know, maybe to
Speaker 1: check out? Yeah, can wait? Can I just pause for
Speaker 1: a minute. I just need to know the morning you
Speaker 1: wake up and a stranger is in your in your
Speaker 1: kitchen making you breakfast, you were still cool at that point. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she wasn't a stranger to me at that point. But
Speaker 1: we've been texting all that night, and um, I mean
Speaker 1: it wasn't any more alarming than like waking up after
Speaker 1: a night out drinking and then waking up someone you
Speaker 1: don't recognized. I mean that was more alarming to me
Speaker 1: than you guys. All right, yea, But now he feels
Speaker 1: uncomfortable about me taking the pictures of him sleeping, And
Speaker 1: now I feel bad that I inadvertently made him feel
Speaker 1: uncomfortable that was not my intention. It's not that I'm
Speaker 1: so much uncomfortable, it's just it's, you know, I'm I'm,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm a pretty relaxed person, you know. And and
Speaker 1: that's a little I mean, I just feel like it's
Speaker 1: a little uh too forward, if that makes any sense,
Speaker 1: you know. And I just want to take a step
Speaker 1: back a little bit. And you know, would you like
Speaker 1: to go on a second date with Cec? We'll pay
Speaker 1: for it, you should, yeah, you know, I don't. I
Speaker 1: don't know about that right now. I want to just
Speaker 1: take my time a little bit. But you have to
Speaker 1: go out with her. I mean, now she thinks it's
Speaker 1: okay to break into men's apartments, like you have to
Speaker 1: okay this because you're our hold. I didn't break into
Speaker 1: his house. Oh whoa, Okay, I think you're escalating. Yeah, geez,
Speaker 1: I know, Cec? Right man, Okay, you about that? So
Speaker 1: so Nick, Nick, you're not interested in going out with
Speaker 1: CC again right now? Not now? Not not now, you know,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, But down the road maybe maybe, yeah, maybe,
Speaker 1: but I'm not in that place right now. I'm just
Speaker 1: you know, I'm kind of free, willing. I'm happy, and CC,
Speaker 1: are you Okay, I mean yeah, sorry, yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I lost my cool there. It just it
Speaker 1: really pisses me off when somebody accuses me of breaking
Speaker 1: in breaking Yeah, well you know what are you talking?
Speaker 1: I guess I'm sorry about that. CC And oh my god,
Speaker 1: don't please. At least you know that Nick, maybe somewhere
Speaker 1: down the line would go out with you again. I
Speaker 1: think that's a wonderful thought. Thank you for being positive.
Speaker 1: Finally you're welcome. Yeah, I'm sorry about the whole thing,
Speaker 1: but you take care, okay, Cecy, be in touch. Yeah,
Speaker 1: no problem, Yeah, Nick, don't be Thank you for your time. Man,
Speaker 1: appreciate it, all right, Thank you guys. Today's second update
Speaker 1: does prove there's somebody out there for everybody in the morning,
Speaker 1: everybody texting it at seven eighty five to nine two,
Speaker 1: says the guy in today's second eight update needs to
Speaker 1: move out of the country. If you missed todays second
Speaker 1: d update, this girl Cecy wanted us to call a
Speaker 1: guy named Nick. She actually had plans to meet up
Speaker 1: with him for some drinks, but she never met up
Speaker 1: with him that night. Well she kind of did. They
Speaker 1: were supposed to meet up. He kept pushing it back,
Speaker 1: pushing it back, and then she shut up at his
Speaker 1: door when he wasn't answering, So she did what any
Speaker 1: same person would do, and she knocked on a neighbor's
Speaker 1: door and said that she was his sister and was
Speaker 1: worried about him, and they actually had a key, so
Speaker 1: they led her into his place and she found him
Speaker 1: sleeping on the couch, so she decided to stay over
Speaker 1: sleep in his bed because it was late. She made
Speaker 1: him breakfast in the morning. So that was so nice.
Speaker 1: That's not the most shocking thing. The most shocking is
Speaker 1: his reaction to it was like, Okay, he was actually
Speaker 1: cool with that, which is weird. He said. The biggest
Speaker 1: problem was while he was sleeping, she took a bunch
Speaker 1: of pictures of him and claimed she wanted to put
Speaker 1: together a photo album of him sleeping as a gift.
Speaker 1: And that was the part that was a little too
Speaker 1: creepy for him. Yeah, so he decided he didn't want
Speaker 1: to go out with her again. No second date. Remember,
Speaker 1: if you want to do a second day up the date,
Speaker 1: all have to do his email the show and we
Speaker 1: will call the person who didn't call you back