WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: Crepe Expectations

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jebels second date update. Every once in a while

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<v Speaker 1>we get one of those second d updates where you're like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure I know why they're not getting a callback,

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<v Speaker 1>and CC is on the phone with us today, Ceci.

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<v Speaker 1>I think after reading your email, I know why you're

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<v Speaker 1>not getting a call back. You do, That's great? I

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<v Speaker 1>want to know. I think so, And I think after

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<v Speaker 1>telling your story a lot of people might agree with me.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for wanting to do a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the name of the guy you want to call today?

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<v Speaker 1>What's his name? Nick? Nick? All right? Tell us a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit about Nick. Where'd you meet him? First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been one Tinder and we just happened to both

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<v Speaker 1>feet free on the same night, except he was working,

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<v Speaker 1>so we originally had plans for seven that turned into

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<v Speaker 1>eight and then nine. I didn't mind that he kept

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<v Speaker 1>texting me that he was going to be later and

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<v Speaker 1>later with work. Can I ask you, did he text

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<v Speaker 1>you like before you got to wherever you guys were

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to meet up, or were you sitting at a

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<v Speaker 1>bar for two hours waiting for him to show up? Oh? No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>at home? In fact, I had like so much time

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<v Speaker 1>I got to check him out on social media. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>he was just like really hot, and I didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>worked the next day, so when he kept postponing, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't care. Okay, okay, all right, So when did he

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<v Speaker 1>finally show up? So that didn't happen because he kept postponing,

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<v Speaker 1>and then he finally at ten thirty he told me

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<v Speaker 1>to just come to his place and we can have

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<v Speaker 1>drinks at his place. That's not nice. I mean, as

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<v Speaker 1>long as you were in it for just a one

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<v Speaker 1>night stand too, I think it's fine, but it's not

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<v Speaker 1>like a nice romantic gesture to ask you to come

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<v Speaker 1>over at ten thirty at night and drink with you

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<v Speaker 1>at his house. Well, I didn't mind coming over. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was really gracious of him. So you went

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<v Speaker 1>over there. Yeah, and then you know why. I went

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<v Speaker 1>over to his place and the weirdest thing happened. But

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<v Speaker 1>I kept knocking on the door, and this went on

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<v Speaker 1>for like twenty minutes. Nobody was answering. I get texting

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<v Speaker 1>him nothing now, guys, all night he was texting me.

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<v Speaker 1>So you went to his house and knocked on his

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<v Speaker 1>door for twenty minutes and he didn't answer. No, So

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<v Speaker 1>I started to get concerned, right, like, oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope he wasn't in an accident. You know, all

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<v Speaker 1>these like horrible things running through my mind. So I

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<v Speaker 1>knocked on the neighbor's door and I asked him, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>have you seen Nick? What this is so strange? What

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<v Speaker 1>do The neighbor hadn't seen or heard him, So I

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<v Speaker 1>told him I was Nick's sister. What okay? So you

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<v Speaker 1>lied to the neighbor. It was a white lie for

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<v Speaker 1>a good cause. So in order to find out if

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<v Speaker 1>Nick was okay, I said, could you please let me

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<v Speaker 1>into his apartment? Whoa? Whoa? Wait? You fake to be

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<v Speaker 1>his sister in hopes some neighbors would break into his

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<v Speaker 1>apartment so you could go into a total stranger's house. Us.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't break in. The neighbor unlocked it for me,

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<v Speaker 1>so you're wrong. A key all right? So they had

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<v Speaker 1>a key, and then you went into his place. And

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<v Speaker 1>what happened? Oh gosh. So I was relieved to see

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<v Speaker 1>that he was passed out. So he obviously worked many

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<v Speaker 1>hours and that left him exhausted. So you closed up

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<v Speaker 1>the door and left. I thought about that, but then

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<v Speaker 1>I decided no, that that wouldn't be right either. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>we did have plans to meet, so would you do

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<v Speaker 1>so I let him keep sleeping. What you sat in

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<v Speaker 1>his apartment while he slept, No, that'd be weird. I

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<v Speaker 1>needed to sleep too, so he was sleeping on the couch,

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<v Speaker 1>so I went into his bed and I didn't sleep

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<v Speaker 1>with him. Guys, come on, no sleeping with him. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of weird that you slept in his bed.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't know you're in his place? And how are you

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<v Speaker 1>being so nonchalot about this? Like, there's no way you

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<v Speaker 1>can be so naive to think that this isn't a

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<v Speaker 1>big deal. I was tired too. I think the responsible thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, oh man, this is I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>illegal what you did. Bleeping is not illegal, okay? And entering, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't break in. Doesn't know, so you're not supposed

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<v Speaker 1>to be in there. That's why I was saying, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the reason you're probably not getting a call back is

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<v Speaker 1>because you broke into his place. No, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are twisting my words or something. I think

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<v Speaker 1>you're not hearing your own words is the problem. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>what happened? Did he like, did you stay till the

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<v Speaker 1>morning I did, and then, um, I love to cook,

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<v Speaker 1>so I went in his kitchen and I thought the

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<v Speaker 1>right thing was to make him something to eat, so

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<v Speaker 1>I made him great That he is crazy? Yeh? Did

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<v Speaker 1>he wake up and freak out that there was some

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<v Speaker 1>woman in his house making him breakfast? Usually this is

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<v Speaker 1>like the plot of a freaking horror film. At this point,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't care what you guys are reacting too, because

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<v Speaker 1>Nick invited me over while he was awake before he

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<v Speaker 1>fell asleep. So how did he react when he found

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<v Speaker 1>you in his house making breakfast? He was really surprised. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And we talked for like ten minutes while I started

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<v Speaker 1>to make him coffee, and he insisted that I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>need to do that, yeah, which I thought was really

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<v Speaker 1>thoughtful of him, Like he wanted to take care of me, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>don't do that. That's not what he was doing. He

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<v Speaker 1>was telling you probably to get out of his house

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<v Speaker 1>because that was really a huge breach of security, drust

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<v Speaker 1>all of it. I don't know. Agreed to disagree, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>But I did leave, okay. He said he had to

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<v Speaker 1>get going. He said he had plans for the day.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I didn't have work, so I offered for

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<v Speaker 1>us to spend time together. But you know, I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>He was tired. He worked really late. Um. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>I thought we hit it off when we talked, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but now he's not returning my calls and I just

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<v Speaker 1>wanna know that he's okay, and yeah, it's really cute.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think we should do this. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>we should call this man on your behalf. He's probably

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<v Speaker 1>still scared. No, he worked really hard. Guys, does he

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<v Speaker 1>have what? Nothing? Well, we'll play a song and then

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<v Speaker 1>come back and call him and get your second date update. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank Sky looking jubil in the morning. Second updates. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>the more that I think about it, the more I

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<v Speaker 1>think there was nothing wrong with what Ceci did for

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<v Speaker 1>her first day. Nick just joining us for today's second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. Cec is on the phone and she made

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<v Speaker 1>plans to meet up with this dude Nick through Hinder,

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<v Speaker 1>but then when it was actually time for the date,

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<v Speaker 1>he kept having a postpone because he was at work. Anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>fast forward to about ten thirty at night, he said,

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<v Speaker 1>you can come over to my place for drinks. She

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<v Speaker 1>did that, but then he wasn't answering the door, so

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<v Speaker 1>she spent about twenty minutes trying to get him to

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<v Speaker 1>text her back or answer the door or something. Nothing happened,

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<v Speaker 1>so she talked to a neighbor and then told the

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<v Speaker 1>neighbor that she was his sister. And it turns out

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<v Speaker 1>the neighbor had a key and actually let her into

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<v Speaker 1>Nick's apartment. But don't worry, she didn't wake him up.

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<v Speaker 1>She just slept in his bed until the next day

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<v Speaker 1>he was on the couch and then welcome up with breakfast.

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<v Speaker 1>And now she's confused why she's not getting a callback.

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<v Speaker 1>Cecie or you're ready to call him and figure out

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<v Speaker 1>the problem. Yeah, more than ever, you could not be

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<v Speaker 1>this clueless, like you have to know why he's not

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back. What you did is wrong on lots

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<v Speaker 1>of levels. Okay, I appreciate the feedback, Rock, and that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I called you. I just know that I don't

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<v Speaker 1>believe I was anything more than assertive. Nick never act scared.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't harm him. He was just surprised, Okay, I surprised. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, well I'm gonna Dallas phone him right now

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<v Speaker 1>and surprised him again. Okay, thank you. And I hope

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<v Speaker 1>when you guys get him on the phone, you'll realize

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<v Speaker 1>and did not do anything across the line. Okay, got you?

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<v Speaker 1>All right, Well I'm a Dallas phone right now. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you, You're welcome. Hello, all right, a speak to Nick. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is Nick. Hey Nick, how are you? This is

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel from Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. Uh, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sorry one more time. This is Jewel from Brook and

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, Hi, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you? I'm good, not too bad. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for asking. Nick. The reason I'm calling you today is

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<v Speaker 1>because we got an email about you from somebody who

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<v Speaker 1>listens to our show. Uh. I didn't call you, guys, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, yeah, I know that calling you. We got

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<v Speaker 1>an email about you. So we do a segment on

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<v Speaker 1>our show. It's called the second Date Update. That's where

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<v Speaker 1>if you go out on a date with somebody and

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<v Speaker 1>then end up blowing them off, they can email us

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<v Speaker 1>to get you on the phone and find out what happened.

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<v Speaker 1>So we got an email about you from somebody who

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<v Speaker 1>you sort of went on a date with. Ye that's

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<v Speaker 1>a stretch. Even do you have a name I do.

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<v Speaker 1>Before I tell you that name, I want to ask

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<v Speaker 1>it not hang up on me. Her name is Ceci. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's been trying to I know she's been trying to

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<v Speaker 1>reach me for a while and I have not had

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<v Speaker 1>a chance to get back to her. But yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I know what you're talking about. He's not really casual

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<v Speaker 1>about this. You're not like I wouldn't call it a

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<v Speaker 1>conventional pay by any means. But yeah, what do you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>what do you guys need to know? Well, yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>she just wants to know why you're not calling her back,

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<v Speaker 1>and we all assumed it was because she kind of

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<v Speaker 1>broke into your house where you're asleep. Apparently that's not

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<v Speaker 1>a big deal. That sounds insane, I get it, But

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<v Speaker 1>actually I kind of understand what happened and why she

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<v Speaker 1>actually ended up inside my plans. Oh my god, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know who I'm more baffled by now. Like at

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<v Speaker 1>first I thought CC must have been the most clueless

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<v Speaker 1>woman that ever walked the face of the planet. But

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<v Speaker 1>you sound like you were okay with her breaking into

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<v Speaker 1>your place and sleeping in your bed without you knowing. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I kind of dropped the documunication, like kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a bruppoly and I wasn't able to get back

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<v Speaker 1>and it was a bit much. I mean, I agree

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<v Speaker 1>with that, yeah, but she was concerned, and I get it. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So if that wasn't the deal breaker for you, then

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<v Speaker 1>why haven't you gotten back to her? What could be worse?

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<v Speaker 1>So baffled right now? We were in touch a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit afterwards, and she touched me a picture of me sleeping,

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<v Speaker 1>oh baby, and she said that she took a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of those pictures and she wanted to assemble like a

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<v Speaker 1>photo book company. I mean, she's a photographer and she's

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<v Speaker 1>kind of out there. You know, it was like an

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<v Speaker 1>art project. But I just thought, you know, it's a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit it's a little intense. I think, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>for me, a little like that would have most people

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<v Speaker 1>going to the authorities to file some sort of report. Yeah. No, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she's not like a danger like that, but I mean

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<v Speaker 1>she's definitely eccentric. I would say that, all right. So

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<v Speaker 1>breaking into your place, sleeping in your bed and you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know she was there, not a big deal. But

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<v Speaker 1>taking pictures of you where while you're sleeping is what

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<v Speaker 1>did it? I mean, my understanding of this is that

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't actually break into my place. My neighbor let

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<v Speaker 1>her in, and yeah, I trust him implicitly, and she

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<v Speaker 1>was clearly concerned. But it still sounds like you were,

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<v Speaker 1>like still maybe considering going out with her. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I really wasn't sure what to make him, but at

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<v Speaker 1>that point, I mean, it was so far removed from

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<v Speaker 1>any kind of date that it was just I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's like a friendship of some sort. Okay, well, if

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<v Speaker 1>it's a new friendship then and I'll just let you

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<v Speaker 1>talk to her right now, because guess what. CC's on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line and wants to talk to you. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you serious? Really? Yes? CC? Are you're still there? Hi? Hey, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I hope I didn't say anything insulting. I am totally cool,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, No, it's it's okay, it's okay. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I I don't see why taking pictures of you when

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<v Speaker 1>you're sleeping is creepy, but um, I respect your opinion.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I didn't. It's not I don't find it

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<v Speaker 1>creepy and I don't want to paint you like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Um it's a little much for me, you know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not I'm a little more easy going. I think you

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<v Speaker 1>know this is insane. Okay, so are you still up

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<v Speaker 1>for meeting? Because I only sent you a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>the pictures and oh no, you know I can show

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<v Speaker 1>you all the pictures I took. I've already I made

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<v Speaker 1>a nice album sleep. You know. I I'm okay. You

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<v Speaker 1>know I'm not feeling well these days. I'm a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit under the weather. So I don't want to do

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<v Speaker 1>the check and so maybe I don't know, maybe to

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<v Speaker 1>check out? Yeah, can wait? Can I just pause for

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<v Speaker 1>a minute. I just need to know the morning you

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<v Speaker 1>wake up and a stranger is in your in your

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<v Speaker 1>kitchen making you breakfast, you were still cool at that point. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she wasn't a stranger to me at that point. But

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<v Speaker 1>we've been texting all that night, and um, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't any more alarming than like waking up after

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<v Speaker 1>a night out drinking and then waking up someone you

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<v Speaker 1>don't recognized. I mean that was more alarming to me

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<v Speaker 1>than you guys. All right, yea, But now he feels

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<v Speaker 1>uncomfortable about me taking the pictures of him sleeping, And

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<v Speaker 1>now I feel bad that I inadvertently made him feel

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<v Speaker 1>uncomfortable that was not my intention. It's not that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>so much uncomfortable, it's just it's, you know, I'm I'm,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm a pretty relaxed person, you know. And and

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<v Speaker 1>that's a little I mean, I just feel like it's

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<v Speaker 1>a little uh too forward, if that makes any sense,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. And I just want to take a step

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<v Speaker 1>back a little bit. And you know, would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to go on a second date with Cec? We'll pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it, you should, yeah, you know, I don't. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know about that right now. I want to just

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<v Speaker 1>take my time a little bit. But you have to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with her. I mean, now she thinks it's

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<v Speaker 1>okay to break into men's apartments, like you have to

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<v Speaker 1>okay this because you're our hold. I didn't break into

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<v Speaker 1>his house. Oh whoa, Okay, I think you're escalating. Yeah, geez,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, Cec? Right man, Okay, you about that? So

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<v Speaker 1>so Nick, Nick, you're not interested in going out with

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<v Speaker 1>CC again right now? Not now? Not not now, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, But down the road maybe maybe, yeah, maybe,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm not in that place right now. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'm kind of free, willing. I'm happy, and CC,

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<v Speaker 1>are you Okay, I mean yeah, sorry, yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. I lost my cool there. It just it

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<v Speaker 1>really pisses me off when somebody accuses me of breaking

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<v Speaker 1>in breaking Yeah, well you know what are you talking?

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I'm sorry about that. CC And oh my god,

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<v Speaker 1>don't please. At least you know that Nick, maybe somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>down the line would go out with you again. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's a wonderful thought. Thank you for being positive.

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<v Speaker 1>Finally you're welcome. Yeah, I'm sorry about the whole thing,

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<v Speaker 1>but you take care, okay, Cecy, be in touch. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>no problem, Yeah, Nick, don't be Thank you for your time. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate it, all right, Thank you guys. Today's second update

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<v Speaker 1>does prove there's somebody out there for everybody in the morning,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody texting it at seven eighty five to nine two,

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<v Speaker 1>says the guy in today's second eight update needs to

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<v Speaker 1>move out of the country. If you missed todays second

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<v Speaker 1>d update, this girl Cecy wanted us to call a

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<v Speaker 1>guy named Nick. She actually had plans to meet up

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<v Speaker 1>with him for some drinks, but she never met up

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<v Speaker 1>with him that night. Well she kind of did. They

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<v Speaker 1>were supposed to meet up. He kept pushing it back,

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<v Speaker 1>pushing it back, and then she shut up at his

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<v Speaker 1>door when he wasn't answering, So she did what any

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<v Speaker 1>same person would do, and she knocked on a neighbor's

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<v Speaker 1>door and said that she was his sister and was

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<v Speaker 1>worried about him, and they actually had a key, so

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<v Speaker 1>they led her into his place and she found him

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<v Speaker 1>sleeping on the couch, so she decided to stay over

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<v Speaker 1>sleep in his bed because it was late. She made

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<v Speaker 1>him breakfast in the morning. So that was so nice.

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<v Speaker 1>That's not the most shocking thing. The most shocking is

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<v Speaker 1>his reaction to it was like, Okay, he was actually

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<v Speaker 1>cool with that, which is weird. He said. The biggest

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<v Speaker 1>problem was while he was sleeping, she took a bunch

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<v Speaker 1>of pictures of him and claimed she wanted to put

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<v Speaker 1>together a photo album of him sleeping as a gift.

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<v Speaker 1>And that was the part that was a little too

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<v Speaker 1>creepy for him. Yeah, so he decided he didn't want

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with her again. No second date. Remember,

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to do a second day up the date,

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<v Speaker 1>all have to do his email the show and we

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<v Speaker 1>will call the person who didn't call you back