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Speaker 1: Rooking Jebels second date update. Every once in a while

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Speaker 1: we get one of those second d updates where you're like,

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Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure I know why they're not getting a callback,

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Speaker 1: and CC is on the phone with us today, Ceci.

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Speaker 1: I think after reading your email, I know why you're

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Speaker 1: want to know. I think so, And I think after

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Speaker 1: telling your story a lot of people might agree with me.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for wanting to do a second date update.

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Speaker 1: What's the name of the guy you want to call today?

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Speaker 1: What's his name? Nick? Nick? All right? Tell us a

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Speaker 1: little bit about Nick. Where'd you meet him? First of all,

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Speaker 1: I've been one Tinder and we just happened to both

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Speaker 1: so we originally had plans for seven that turned into

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Speaker 1: eight and then nine. I didn't mind that he kept

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Speaker 1: texting me that he was going to be later and

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Speaker 1: later with work. Can I ask you, did he text

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Speaker 1: you like before you got to wherever you guys were

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Speaker 1: bar for two hours waiting for him to show up? Oh? No, no,

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Speaker 1: at home? In fact, I had like so much time

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Speaker 1: I got to check him out on social media. Okay,

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Speaker 1: he was just like really hot, and I didn't have

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Speaker 1: and then he finally at ten thirty he told me

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Speaker 1: long as you were in it for just a one

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Speaker 1: like a nice romantic gesture to ask you to come

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Speaker 1: over at ten thirty at night and drink with you

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Speaker 1: at his house. Well, I didn't mind coming over. I

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Speaker 1: thought it was really gracious of him. So you went

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Speaker 1: him nothing now, guys, all night he was texting me.

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Speaker 1: So you went to his house and knocked on his

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Speaker 1: I started to get concerned, right, like, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: I hope he wasn't in an accident. You know, all

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Speaker 1: these like horrible things running through my mind. So I

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Speaker 1: a good cause. So in order to find out if

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Speaker 1: Nick was okay, I said, could you please let me

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Speaker 1: into his apartment? Whoa? Whoa? Wait? You fake to be

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Speaker 1: his sister in hopes some neighbors would break into his

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Speaker 1: I didn't break in. The neighbor unlocked it for me,

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Speaker 1: so you're wrong. A key all right? So they had

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Speaker 1: so I let him keep sleeping. What you sat in

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Speaker 1: his apartment while he slept, No, that'd be weird. I

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Speaker 1: like the plot of a freaking horror film. At this point,

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Speaker 1: But I did leave, okay. He said he had to

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Speaker 1: I don't think we should do this. I don't think

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Speaker 1: And now she's confused why she's not getting a callback.

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Speaker 1: Cecie or you're ready to call him and figure out

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Speaker 1: of levels. Okay, I appreciate the feedback, Rock, and that's

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Speaker 1: I didn't harm him. He was just surprised, Okay, I surprised. Okay,

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Speaker 1: All right, Well I'm a Dallas phone right now. Okay,

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Speaker 1: thank you, You're welcome. Hello, all right, a speak to Nick. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is Nick. Hey Nick, how are you? This is

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Speaker 1: Jewel from Brooke and Jewel in the Morning. Uh, I'm

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Speaker 1: sorry one more time. This is Jewel from Brook and

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Speaker 1: Jewel in the Morning. It's a radio show. Okay, Hi, Hi,

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Speaker 1: how are you? I'm good, not too bad. Thank you

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Speaker 1: I mean I kind of dropped the documunication, like kind

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Speaker 1: So if that wasn't the deal breaker for you, then

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Speaker 1: why haven't you gotten back to her? What could be worse?

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Speaker 1: So baffled right now? We were in touch a little

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