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Speaker 1: Second date up date. You know what's more annoying than

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Speaker 1: being just blown off for a date? Somebody constantly scheduling

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Speaker 1: just be honest and say I don't want to go

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Speaker 1: out with you instead of constantly stringing me along and

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Speaker 1: be like, uh, I can't go out today, but how

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Speaker 1: about like two weeks from now, and then you schedule

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Speaker 1: two from Oh my god, something else came up. That's

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Speaker 1: the issue that Jill is having. Jill is on the

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Speaker 1: phone today for a second day update. She emailed us

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Speaker 1: about a guy named Sam that she met online. Jill,

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Speaker 1: how are you? I'm good? How are you? Guys? So

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Speaker 1: that seems to be the issue. Huh Sam is just

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Speaker 1: kind of stringing you along. Yeah, he just keeps pushing

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Speaker 1: things further and further away from me, and I just

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Speaker 1: don't understand why. Okay, well, how did you meet him?

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Speaker 1: First of all? We met online? You did. I thought

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Speaker 1: few weeks before we actually decided to me. But we

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Speaker 1: did have like good conversation throughout that time. Was it

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Speaker 1: a dinner and drinks type of situation? Yeah, yeah, it

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Speaker 1: was a dinner day okay. And he was just super

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Speaker 1: about it. But there was like a red flag. What

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Speaker 1: so I was giving him every signal I could think

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Speaker 1: like touching his arm, You're pushing your boobs together, You're

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Speaker 1: trying to closer to him. Yes, yes, you know, the

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Speaker 1: shuffling of the keys at my car door, like everything. Oh,

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Speaker 1: that's the worst when you're standing there and just waiting. Yes.

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Speaker 1: And even more embarrassing is that there was a point

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Speaker 1: getting it. No, no, And all he could muster was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: let's hang out this weekend. In his defense, maybe he's

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Speaker 1: maybe he doesn't kiss on the first date. There are

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Speaker 1: some guys like that. It's very rare. Usually guys don't

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Speaker 1: damn it, I miss the opportunity. So really, I hope

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Speaker 1: that's what happened. Why didn't you just kiss him, Jill?

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Speaker 1: What kept you from doing that? I felt like I

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Speaker 1: refer to future plans, it's always a good sign. If

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Speaker 1: Are you gonna be upset? Of course, but I would.

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Speaker 1: I would at least like to know, because he keeps

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Speaker 1: he blowing me off? Exactly? Okay, Well, we'll play a song,

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Speaker 1: in the morning. Second update. All right, Jill, you're ready

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Speaker 1: reschedule your second day update for three days from now. Okay,

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Speaker 1: that's all right, don't do that if you're just tuning in.

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Speaker 1: Jill wants us to call this guy named Sam. They

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Speaker 1: met online, had a nice date. At the end of

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Speaker 1: if he's actually busy or if he really is just

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Speaker 1: I'll just meet him right It's even a better idea,

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Speaker 1: Like if we're get him on the phone, he's like, no,

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Speaker 1: you can get him on the phone. Hello, Hey Sam there, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: see Sam. How are you. This is Jewil from Brook

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Speaker 1: I'm calling you because I have something to ask you about.

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Speaker 1: You recently went out with a girl named Jill who

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Speaker 1: listens to our show. Yeah, I did, Okay, and Jill.

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Speaker 1: Jill emailed us and told us a little bit about meeting.

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Speaker 1: You told us about your date, said that she liked

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Speaker 1: you a lot. She says that you guys have tried

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Speaker 1: to schedule meetings to go out again, and every single

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Speaker 1: couple of days, like you've blown her off five times now,

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Speaker 1: going I've texted her. Okay, I'm just busy. I'm really busy.

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Speaker 1: That was her worry, because she told us that you've

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Speaker 1: I mean I've work, I'm I'm busy. I mean, she's

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Speaker 1: a nice girl, she's great. God, I just have a

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Speaker 1: she'd think that you're blowing her off, right. Are you

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Speaker 1: really that busy? Yes'm I'm busy, guys. I mean, why

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Speaker 1: just because it's sam, I don't mean. Yeah, I've been

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Speaker 1: So you do want to see Jill again? Yes, of course,

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Speaker 1: I mean she was. She's great, she's pretty, she's awesome.

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Speaker 1: I just I'm busy right now. You know, we have

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Speaker 1: I mean, I know you work, but five times is

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Speaker 1: and that's why you are scared to kiss Jill. Yes,

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Speaker 1: It does, and that's why I'm trying to get better

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Speaker 1: What do you mean you're trying to get better at it?

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Speaker 1: There's a school that helps you with that's a kissing school.

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Speaker 1: Are you being real? Yes, that's why I've been the

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Speaker 1: and this is why, you know, that's why I'm uncomfortable

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Speaker 1: I'm done, that's when I know I'll call Jilla. We'll

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Speaker 1: go back out. Hey, Sam, good for you, man, Like

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