WEBVTT - Questions, Answers, & Dean's Rap Sheet 0:00:00.000 --> 0:00:03.160 Please say, let's start the podcast. Here we go, Hi, 0:00:03.480 --> 0:00:06.680 Suck Good Dating with Dean, Vanessa and Jarrett and I 0:00:06.840 --> 0:00:13.880 heart radio podcast. Guys. Oh, I was just about to 0:00:14.120 --> 0:00:17.560 welcome to another episode of help Dean Stucks at Dating. 0:00:18.640 --> 0:00:21.520 I'm still in Montreal and apparently my audio quality is 0:00:21.560 --> 0:00:23.239 not that great according to Dean, but I think it's 0:00:23.600 --> 0:00:27.600 just perfect, Dared, how are you? I'm doing wonderful. How's 0:00:27.640 --> 0:00:30.600 everybody else doing? Mark Easton? Gentlemen, Oh fine, thank you 0:00:30.680 --> 0:00:33.000 very much. Thanks for asking. Yeah, we never ask you guys. 0:00:33.000 --> 0:00:35.320 I feel bad you're here. You guys are really the 0:00:35.320 --> 0:00:39.840 heartbeat of this podcast. Vanessa, Dean and I just we're 0:00:39.880 --> 0:00:44.920 just in the background where the brains, lungs and the 0:00:45.040 --> 0:00:47.839 heart of the podcast, and we're like the spine and 0:00:47.880 --> 0:00:50.239 the bone structure where the vital organs, you guys are 0:00:50.240 --> 0:00:53.400 the things that provide stability. Oh okay, Oh that's a 0:00:53.440 --> 0:00:55.320 good analogy. That's nice. Just came up with it on 0:00:55.320 --> 0:00:57.520 the spot. Pretty put of that one. That's pretty good. Well. 0:00:57.520 --> 0:01:00.640 Today is pretty much a question and answer podcast. There 0:01:00.640 --> 0:01:04.040 will be no guests. It's just us five having a 0:01:04.120 --> 0:01:07.559 nice little Q and A session with ourselves and you guys, 0:01:07.600 --> 0:01:10.320 of course, because you are the ones who provided us 0:01:10.319 --> 0:01:14.360 with the questions. They will be all relationship topic, mostly 0:01:14.400 --> 0:01:16.560 about Dean going to Paradise or not? Is that what 0:01:16.600 --> 0:01:20.679 our podcast is about? Well? Can we get to them sometimes? 0:01:20.680 --> 0:01:22.880 Can we start with the van thing? Well, you want 0:01:22.880 --> 0:01:24.520 to start with the van thing? I mean I kind 0:01:24.520 --> 0:01:27.800 of kind of do. Yeah, of course. Well, for anybody listening, 0:01:27.840 --> 0:01:31.240 you probably already know that Dean this summer has ambition 0:01:31.440 --> 0:01:34.120 to move into a van. Not ambition. It's coming to 0:01:34.200 --> 0:01:36.840 reality now and Dean, you're gonna be living in a 0:01:36.920 --> 0:01:39.680 van during the summer. When do you have to move out? 0:01:39.760 --> 0:01:42.160 Have you moved out of your apartment yet? Jared? When 0:01:42.160 --> 0:01:44.120 do you move into the van? Jared is more critical 0:01:44.160 --> 0:01:48.560 of this adventure anyone I've ever met. I'm not critical, 0:01:48.640 --> 0:01:51.160 I'm more nervous for you. Living in a van is 0:01:51.400 --> 0:01:54.280 very nerve wracking. I feel anyone can live in a 0:01:55.160 --> 0:01:58.000 heavy on the scrutiny always coming from Jared. I'm not 0:01:58.040 --> 0:02:01.440 saying you can't. I just get you know, it's living 0:02:01.440 --> 0:02:02.920 in a van. Do you know where you're gonna park 0:02:02.920 --> 0:02:05.080 your vantage? He doesn't already shower, So it's all good. 0:02:05.800 --> 0:02:07.680 So this is this is what I think that people 0:02:07.720 --> 0:02:10.480 don't understand about the van thing. I'm not living in 0:02:10.520 --> 0:02:12.760 a van in Los Angeles. I'm not just gonna be 0:02:13.080 --> 0:02:15.080 like parking it on the street and on side streets 0:02:15.080 --> 0:02:17.680 in Los Angeles living out of it. The purpose of 0:02:17.680 --> 0:02:20.000 the van is so I can drive it to national 0:02:20.040 --> 0:02:23.960 forests like Yosemite, Redwood Glacier National Park banf in Canada 0:02:24.320 --> 0:02:27.720 and and hike for extended periods of time and explore 0:02:27.760 --> 0:02:30.880 those areas while living in the comfort of an essentially 0:02:30.880 --> 0:02:33.840 a mobile home. Well, I feel like you're gonna find 0:02:33.840 --> 0:02:36.160 your the love of your life while living in this van. 0:02:36.200 --> 0:02:37.840 For you, wouldn't that just be the greatest thing in 0:02:37.880 --> 0:02:42.560 the world? Or maybe the van maybe that well, I 0:02:42.560 --> 0:02:45.880 don't know how that would have worked logistically speaking. Well, 0:02:45.880 --> 0:02:48.480 logistically speaking too, If you're going to be taking this 0:02:48.600 --> 0:02:53.800 van on long excursions, what does that mean for this podcast? 0:02:53.840 --> 0:02:55.919 Are you going to drive back weekly? We need to 0:02:55.960 --> 0:03:00.040 figure out exactly what that entails. Vanessa records remotely in 0:03:00.120 --> 0:03:03.519 Montreal and you complaying about her audio quality and listen, 0:03:05.240 --> 0:03:07.600 I just think she sounds better with the microphone today 0:03:07.600 --> 0:03:11.000 she's on the headphones. We're just trying different things. We're 0:03:11.040 --> 0:03:12.919 trying to see you know what works better, But Dean, 0:03:13.000 --> 0:03:15.480 I want to know. So wait, you posted stories of 0:03:16.200 --> 0:03:19.520 um you have a fan. I think now that's put 0:03:19.560 --> 0:03:25.639 into your van and let's talk more about before we 0:03:25.680 --> 0:03:27.160 get into that. So I do move out of my 0:03:27.200 --> 0:03:30.600 house this week full time. I'm moving into my van. 0:03:31.040 --> 0:03:37.040 Today's Tuesday, recording this podcast. As of Friday, all my 0:03:37.080 --> 0:03:41.360 belongings will either be donated or sitting in my van. 0:03:41.480 --> 0:03:43.200 I'm going to give my car to my friend. I'm 0:03:43.200 --> 0:03:47.520 going to keep my motorcycle at my old house. Um, 0:03:47.600 --> 0:03:50.400 so that's when it starts, and that's what I'm gonna Basically, 0:03:50.440 --> 0:03:52.160 I think I might like head over to Arizona because 0:03:52.160 --> 0:03:53.960 it's kind of cold in northern California and over in 0:03:53.960 --> 0:03:56.720 Colorado right now. But yeah, I I spent the past 0:03:57.040 --> 0:03:59.520 about six or seven days working on it. My father 0:03:59.560 --> 0:04:01.120 flew out for a couple of days. We worked on 0:04:01.160 --> 0:04:05.119 that for a little bit together. Awesome, good bonding time. Yeah, 0:04:05.240 --> 0:04:08.440 I suppose. Uh we got a lot of work done. 0:04:09.400 --> 0:04:12.480 We uh we We basically built a bed frame for it. 0:04:12.560 --> 0:04:15.040 We built a bunch of shelves. It's got a kitchen sink, 0:04:15.080 --> 0:04:18.600 it's got running water, it's got a cute little dormat 0:04:18.640 --> 0:04:20.320 there are some things I still need to do to it. 0:04:20.320 --> 0:04:22.360 I just got my solar panels coming tomorrow, so I I 0:04:22.400 --> 0:04:24.839 have to install the solar panels. Um I'm getting like 0:04:24.880 --> 0:04:27.400 a diesel heater installed. I have to put my toilet 0:04:27.400 --> 0:04:29.919 in there still. I have to put my refrigerator in 0:04:29.920 --> 0:04:33.040 there still. So how much are you spending right now 0:04:33.040 --> 0:04:35.080 on your van? How much did it costs you versus 0:04:35.080 --> 0:04:37.440 how much are you spending too much freaking money? I 0:04:37.440 --> 0:04:39.159 was actually just talking to my friend Alex today about 0:04:39.160 --> 0:04:41.360 how because he works at a car dealership, and he 0:04:41.440 --> 0:04:42.920 was like, hey, I can help you get a Sprinter 0:04:43.000 --> 0:04:44.680 van And I was like, no, no no, no, I found 0:04:44.680 --> 0:04:46.400 this one in Colorado that I'm gonna get the one 0:04:46.440 --> 0:04:49.960 that ultimately have now. And I paid. I mean we're 0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:54.800 looking at plus or minus like thirty dollars. Yeah, and 0:04:54.839 --> 0:04:58.400 the van itself costs, you know, like twenty seven thousand dollars. 0:04:59.600 --> 0:05:01.560 And I could have gotten a very similar van that 0:05:01.640 --> 0:05:04.719 had a little bit less work for significantly cheaper, but 0:05:04.760 --> 0:05:06.080 I was like dead set on it. And once I 0:05:06.120 --> 0:05:07.920 make my mind about something I like, I follow through 0:05:07.960 --> 0:05:13.640 with it, especially proven in Paradise Mercedes. Yeah, I kidding, Mercedes. 0:05:15.320 --> 0:05:19.320 I'm gonna kidding. I'm kidding. No. I think some of 0:05:19.320 --> 0:05:22.200 my criticism comes from it's not criticism because I don't 0:05:22.240 --> 0:05:24.360 want you to do it. I think two things. One, 0:05:24.760 --> 0:05:29.920 it's a it's hard for it's nerve racking because it's unknown, right, 0:05:29.960 --> 0:05:31.680 you don't know what's going to come from it. I 0:05:31.680 --> 0:05:34.080 think I'm a little scared for you. And then furthermore, 0:05:34.160 --> 0:05:38.960 secondly selfishly about the podcast. You do these long excursions. 0:05:39.520 --> 0:05:41.200 You know I want you in studio with me. But 0:05:41.240 --> 0:05:43.000 I mean, Vanessa does a great job from Montreal. I 0:05:43.040 --> 0:05:44.440 don't see what the difference would be if I were 0:05:44.440 --> 0:05:47.600 doing it from your semi year from Utah, from Colorado, 0:05:47.640 --> 0:05:51.159 or from Wyoming or Montana, all places with great WiFi. 0:05:51.240 --> 0:05:55.200 I understand his WiFi. Essentially, I don't even get a 0:05:55.200 --> 0:06:00.560 hot spot. Yeah. So if so you spend like brand 0:06:00.600 --> 0:06:02.960 on this van, why not just buy a six thousand 0:06:03.040 --> 0:06:05.240 dollar RV that's got all that stuff in that you 0:06:05.279 --> 0:06:08.159 don't have to add a bed frame. The car of 0:06:08.200 --> 0:06:11.800 the van is it's much smaller um and you you 0:06:11.839 --> 0:06:14.640 want smaller. Yeah, compact is good in the sense where 0:06:14.640 --> 0:06:19.880 you can go more places with it, it's more fuel efficient. Um, 0:06:19.920 --> 0:06:22.599 it just looks cool in my opinion. What colors the van, 0:06:22.760 --> 0:06:26.039 It's like an army green. I thought it was black. 0:06:26.640 --> 0:06:29.000 Now the hood is black, but they it is green. 0:06:29.160 --> 0:06:30.760 I saw it online too, it did look black, but 0:06:31.000 --> 0:06:32.920 Minton Green's out it's out front. If you guys want 0:06:32.920 --> 0:06:35.880 to take a look at it, I'm a look inside. 0:06:36.360 --> 0:06:37.640 But yeah, there are still a few things. I have 0:06:37.680 --> 0:06:39.880 to have to build drawers. Still, I have to install 0:06:39.960 --> 0:06:44.440 my induction stovetop. I mean, these things can get pretty nice, 0:06:44.480 --> 0:06:45.960 you know. If you put enough effort into it, you 0:06:46.000 --> 0:06:48.440 can basically make it like a small apartment. And that's 0:06:48.440 --> 0:06:50.000 another thing too, where it's like I want I want 0:06:50.000 --> 0:06:52.039 to be able to drive around, travel around and visit 0:06:52.080 --> 0:06:53.599 all these So when I was little, I had this 0:06:53.640 --> 0:06:55.560 idea that I was going to see as much of 0:06:55.560 --> 0:06:57.680 the world as I possibly could, right, And then I 0:06:57.680 --> 0:06:59.280 went ahead and went to college. I went ahead and 0:06:59.320 --> 0:07:00.960 got a desk job, and I didn't do anything that 0:07:01.000 --> 0:07:02.760 I called myself I was gonna do when I was 0:07:02.760 --> 0:07:05.640 ten years old. And so now I'm like, Okay, if 0:07:05.680 --> 0:07:07.760 I take a month and a half off and travel 0:07:07.800 --> 0:07:09.920 to Europe, I don't have to worry about a house 0:07:09.960 --> 0:07:12.240 that I'm paying rent for because I'm just living out 0:07:12.240 --> 0:07:14.720 of my van. You know, So that's a big How 0:07:14.760 --> 0:07:15.960 are you going to get to Europe with your van? 0:07:16.120 --> 0:07:17.920 I'm gonna fly to You're I'm saying, like for like 0:07:17.960 --> 0:07:20.320 a like a regular trip. Have you seen shitty Chitty 0:07:20.320 --> 0:07:22.480 bang bang? You know how the van the car goes. 0:07:23.040 --> 0:07:25.240 I have a question. You posted a really cool thing 0:07:25.360 --> 0:07:29.440 on social media on Twitter on Twitter on this ultimate 0:07:29.520 --> 0:07:31.360 road trip that literally takes you all over the world. Yeah, 0:07:31.400 --> 0:07:34.560 so I was sorry. There's a dotted line from like 0:07:34.800 --> 0:07:37.360 looks like Argentina to the tip of Africa. Is that? 0:07:37.800 --> 0:07:39.480 Is that a that can't be a ferry like a 0:07:39.480 --> 0:07:41.400 cargo ship? Is it? Really? So you can put your 0:07:41.480 --> 0:07:43.640 van on a cargo ship and get to Africa and 0:07:43.720 --> 0:07:45.680 then you can go all the way to Asia. So 0:07:45.720 --> 0:07:47.600 I've spent the past couple of days researching this quite 0:07:47.600 --> 0:07:48.760 a lot, and I've actually reached out to a few 0:07:48.760 --> 0:07:51.760 people that have done this trip. Um. I would basically 0:07:51.760 --> 0:07:53.880 do the loop where I go north the Pacific, northwest 0:07:53.920 --> 0:07:57.200 into Canada, down through the Rockies into Mexico, all the 0:07:57.240 --> 0:08:00.559 way down to Argentina and then get my car ship 0:08:00.600 --> 0:08:02.920 to South Africa, drive up north into Europe east all 0:08:02.920 --> 0:08:05.360 the way to the eastern points of Asia. That would 0:08:05.360 --> 0:08:08.320 take me about twelve months. But I feel like, I 0:08:08.400 --> 0:08:11.000 feel like it would cost less money to take an 0:08:11.040 --> 0:08:14.240 airplane and rent out an airbnb. Yeah, but where's the 0:08:14.280 --> 0:08:19.320 adventurous spirit in that. I mean, that's like it's not 0:08:19.360 --> 0:08:21.200 it would be that expensive. The expensive thing comes with 0:08:21.240 --> 0:08:23.240 like visas you have to get like this, uh this 0:08:23.240 --> 0:08:25.480 this something to passage in order to like bring cars 0:08:25.480 --> 0:08:27.600 into other countries. There's a lot of like there's a 0:08:27.600 --> 0:08:30.520 lot of um logistical things that go into planning something 0:08:30.560 --> 0:08:32.200 like that. But I'm like, look, I have this car. 0:08:32.640 --> 0:08:35.360 I can it's self self contained, self sustained. I can 0:08:35.400 --> 0:08:40.400 live in it right, Like it harnesses energy from the sun. Um, 0:08:40.440 --> 0:08:41.719 I think, I don't know, it would be a cool 0:08:41.720 --> 0:08:43.800 thing to do. It's a solar powered van. Well, I'm 0:08:43.800 --> 0:08:45.760 gonna have solar panels on the top of it, like 0:08:46.000 --> 0:08:48.599 that feed electricity. It's a hybrid van. No, it's a 0:08:48.640 --> 0:08:51.120 diesel at van, but I'm installing solar panels on it 0:08:51.160 --> 0:08:55.200 actually tomorrow that power all of my internal electricity, like 0:08:55.200 --> 0:08:59.760 my water pump, my refrigerator. It's like a Superman my television. Yeah, 0:09:00.040 --> 0:09:03.120 I'm sorry, what did you say, because from the sun 0:09:03.200 --> 0:09:07.480 like Superman. Yes, my van is Superman. Superman is the 0:09:07.480 --> 0:09:12.560 Supervann is just now hitting me. Um so yeah. So 0:09:12.600 --> 0:09:14.480 that that we need to figure out what exactly we're 0:09:14.520 --> 0:09:16.400 gonna do with the podcast. I'm just gonna record from 0:09:16.440 --> 0:09:19.600 the road. Are there places that you can park your 0:09:19.720 --> 0:09:24.240 van that are safe? Yeah? Jared is so concerned for you. 0:09:24.760 --> 0:09:26.640 I mean most BLM places you can park it are 0:09:26.640 --> 0:09:29.439 safe BLMS Bureau of Land Management. You can essentially just 0:09:29.480 --> 0:09:31.440 park it anywhere. Although I did just buy a gun. 0:09:32.240 --> 0:09:36.920 Oh god no, well in California, but I mean that 0:09:37.000 --> 0:09:40.360 hat left. I've left the podcast. Last week went to 0:09:40.400 --> 0:09:43.360 a gun store and bought the gun. I can't pick 0:09:43.400 --> 0:09:44.719 it up for three more days. It's a ten day 0:09:44.720 --> 0:09:47.079 waiting period. But to do a background check, do a 0:09:47.080 --> 0:09:48.640 background check, I had to do a written test. I 0:09:48.679 --> 0:09:50.480 picked it out. We couldn't give guns out like that. 0:09:50.520 --> 0:09:53.360 I picked out a nice clock nine millimeter. Have you 0:09:53.400 --> 0:09:55.600 ever shot a gun? Yeah, a couple of times. But 0:09:55.679 --> 0:09:57.920 that's why, because if you like, you're concerned about safety, 0:09:57.960 --> 0:09:59.720 so you have it with you. I thought I thought 0:09:59.720 --> 0:10:01.120 a lot about it. I thought that I'm probably not 0:10:01.120 --> 0:10:02.839 gonna put live ammunition in it, but I would put 0:10:02.840 --> 0:10:04.080 like blanks in it, so I could just like FID 0:10:04.160 --> 0:10:07.680 like warning shots essentially. Right, Well, but now you're giving 0:10:07.720 --> 0:10:11.760 away you don't announce that on the podcast. Pretty sure 0:10:11.760 --> 0:10:13.400 that people listening to this podcast aren't going to be 0:10:13.480 --> 0:10:15.200 the ones that are ultimately gonna be robbing me on 0:10:15.240 --> 0:10:20.240 the side of the road. Don't ever underestimate someone, especially 0:10:20.280 --> 0:10:23.679 our listeners. So so, yeah, that's that's my van adventure 0:10:23.720 --> 0:10:26.840 that's coming up in three days now. Have you invited 0:10:26.880 --> 0:10:29.640 any female guests into the van yet? Well, I'm not 0:10:29.679 --> 0:10:31.800 even living in it yet. Come on, I don't know. 0:10:31.880 --> 0:10:34.280 I mean maybe you know. I think I have to 0:10:34.280 --> 0:10:35.840 wait till I get the toilet installed before I can 0:10:35.880 --> 0:10:39.960 start having guests over. That's you also talked about having 0:10:40.040 --> 0:10:44.360 a gym membership, so when you could use the facilities, shower, 0:10:44.400 --> 0:10:46.560 all that stuff. Is that still on? Yeah, the table 0:10:46.640 --> 0:10:48.720 Planet Fitness has like a bunch of locations all across 0:10:48.760 --> 0:10:50.320 the US, So I was talking too. If I were 0:10:50.480 --> 0:10:52.520 like an extended droad trip like that to South America 0:10:52.760 --> 0:10:55.400 and beyond, um, like once a week, I would stay 0:10:55.400 --> 0:10:56.640 in like a hotel or something like that, so I 0:10:56.640 --> 0:10:59.240 could have like hot running water, um, that kind of thing. 0:10:59.600 --> 0:11:01.480 Oh my, it would be so fun if you travel 0:11:01.520 --> 0:11:03.600 from like state to state or country to country, and 0:11:03.640 --> 0:11:05.960 then you do like a little episode of going on 0:11:06.000 --> 0:11:10.040 a date with someone, like traveling to Mexico, you know, 0:11:10.240 --> 0:11:13.319 like we're going to Paradise. Actually think I thought about Hey, 0:11:13.320 --> 0:11:15.120 come on, I actually think I thought about that before. 0:11:15.160 --> 0:11:16.800 When I was traveling through Europe last year, I was like, 0:11:16.880 --> 0:11:18.600 I should go on a date in every country I visit. 0:11:19.120 --> 0:11:20.840 The television I thought you were supposed to do that 0:11:20.880 --> 0:11:22.440 at one point when we're when you were you were 0:11:22.480 --> 0:11:24.360 calling in from. I don't know where you were, because 0:11:24.360 --> 0:11:26.120 it's not really where My price, my priorities don't really 0:11:26.160 --> 0:11:28.120 go on taking people on dates when I'm traveling, you know, 0:11:28.200 --> 0:11:31.360 And I think after a while, who the women catching 0:11:31.360 --> 0:11:33.640 onto this would tell themselves, why would I go on 0:11:33.679 --> 0:11:35.600 a date with someone who I know it's not gonna 0:11:35.600 --> 0:11:37.040 go where he's just doing it for a TV show 0:11:37.040 --> 0:11:38.440 and then he's gonna go on a date with somebody else. 0:11:39.000 --> 0:11:41.320 I mean, look at us. I mean that's that's the 0:11:41.320 --> 0:11:43.280 concept of the Well, the whole concept of the show 0:11:43.320 --> 0:11:45.360 is also that you're going on dates to hopefully find 0:11:45.360 --> 0:11:47.280 your person, where you would be going on dates just 0:11:47.320 --> 0:11:48.959 for the experience of, well, what is it like to 0:11:49.000 --> 0:11:52.199 go on a date with someone in Arizona? Next up Colorado? True? 0:11:52.960 --> 0:11:55.400 You know, I guess like fun date spots. But speaking 0:11:55.480 --> 0:11:59.720 of dating shows, have you guys watched the Bastareat? I 0:11:59.720 --> 0:12:02.720 didn't watched this week's I have? Have you? I know 0:12:02.800 --> 0:12:06.440 you don't watch the show most most of them, right, 0:12:06.679 --> 0:12:09.720 I watched last night's episode. I just find like the 0:12:10.080 --> 0:12:12.079 like night one is always really interesting because you get 0:12:12.120 --> 0:12:14.640 to meet the guys and like the first awkward conversations 0:12:14.640 --> 0:12:17.960 are you know, always like entertaining to watch, and then 0:12:18.000 --> 0:12:20.400 the last two episodes are really fun too, so like 0:12:20.480 --> 0:12:22.080 the middle I get like, I still get a little 0:12:22.080 --> 0:12:24.040 bit of anxiety. But I did watch last night for 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:28.040 about an hour. There is one guy, can we just 0:12:28.080 --> 0:12:29.880 talk about that one? I think his name is Luke. 0:12:30.000 --> 0:12:34.480 That's yeah, I mean, very good looking. But also, can 0:12:34.520 --> 0:12:38.520 you really be in love with someone after a day 0:12:38.640 --> 0:12:40.559 and a half or two days and meeting and meeting 0:12:40.600 --> 0:12:42.920 them so much? I did see the video clip on 0:12:43.000 --> 0:12:44.920 Lauren Zima tweeted out about how he said he was 0:12:44.960 --> 0:12:47.960 falling in love with Hanna. After the second group date, Yeah, 0:12:48.000 --> 0:12:49.880 pretty much what happened. They were on a group date 0:12:49.960 --> 0:12:52.920 where the guys had gone stage and do these different 0:12:52.960 --> 0:12:55.840 talent things and the first one was like the strip 0:12:55.880 --> 0:12:58.880 show and it was very gimmicky, and then the later 0:12:58.920 --> 0:13:02.160 portion was like a talent portion. Some guys like John 0:13:02.160 --> 0:13:05.760 Paul Jones wrote I think like a unicycle uh. And 0:13:05.800 --> 0:13:09.040 then you know this guy Jed played guitar, and then 0:13:09.240 --> 0:13:11.960 Luke p went up there to showcase his talent, which 0:13:11.960 --> 0:13:14.640 apparently was to tell Hannah that he was falling in 0:13:14.679 --> 0:13:16.720 love with her. That was his in front of everyone, 0:13:17.040 --> 0:13:20.880 in front of everyone on the first group date of 0:13:20.920 --> 0:13:25.040 the season. I thought you said you'd watched the episode. No, 0:13:25.160 --> 0:13:27.480 I only watched the second half of it. So I 0:13:27.520 --> 0:13:29.720 was out for dinner. I had a double date last 0:13:29.800 --> 0:13:33.600 night and we yeah, yeah, and we came back and 0:13:33.640 --> 0:13:36.600 it was like ate something. So the show ended forty 0:13:36.679 --> 0:13:39.240 five minutes after. But there was that that was weird. 0:13:39.280 --> 0:13:43.520 And then there was also when the ABC cam guy 0:13:43.559 --> 0:13:47.880 came on during the group date and he wasn't Yeah, 0:13:47.960 --> 0:13:50.120 he wasn't invited on the group date. At the end 0:13:50.120 --> 0:13:53.160 of the day, it's like it's the producers had encouraged 0:13:53.200 --> 0:13:56.679 him to do that, right, Well, yes and no, I think, well, 0:13:56.679 --> 0:13:57.959 I want to talk about the luke p thing, and 0:13:58.000 --> 0:13:59.319 I do want to talk about the camp thing though, 0:13:59.320 --> 0:14:01.080 But while we were talking about LUPA, I do want 0:14:01.080 --> 0:14:03.560 to ask you guys that question. First group date, the 0:14:03.559 --> 0:14:06.400 guy said he was falling in love with Hannah after 0:14:06.520 --> 0:14:10.720 probably knowing her for I don't know, an hour, maybe 0:14:10.840 --> 0:14:14.040 something along those lines. Now. One of his reasonings why 0:14:14.200 --> 0:14:18.920 his feelings were rapidly progressing was he said, while watching 0:14:18.960 --> 0:14:22.680 Colton season, his feelings were already growing for her, so 0:14:22.720 --> 0:14:25.720 he felt like he knew her when he first met her. No, No, 0:14:26.080 --> 0:14:31.640 that's weird. Yeah, that's very I would I would be 0:14:31.680 --> 0:14:34.440 weary if I were Hannah, like, are you on? Because 0:14:34.440 --> 0:14:36.320 he saw me on another season and you have this 0:14:36.440 --> 0:14:38.720 idea of who I am and I feel like that's 0:14:38.720 --> 0:14:41.640 a scary. The scary part of when you're dating someone new, 0:14:42.040 --> 0:14:43.920 you have this image of who they are in your head, 0:14:44.080 --> 0:14:47.080 and if they don't reach that, you know, all those 0:14:47.160 --> 0:14:50.280 qualities that you assume that they have, then it's it'll fail. 0:14:50.360 --> 0:14:53.040 I think he's saying what he thinks he Hannah wants 0:14:53.080 --> 0:14:56.760 to hear, and so by doing that, he's like, um, 0:14:56.920 --> 0:15:01.720 I don't know he's he's lying, lying all right? Um? Yeah, 0:15:01.720 --> 0:15:04.000 I agree. A lot of people were making the argument, well, 0:15:04.120 --> 0:15:07.160 so many people say I fell in love with them 0:15:07.200 --> 0:15:09.760 at first sight. Love it first sight. I think when 0:15:09.800 --> 0:15:13.600 people say that, it's more infatuation and then it grows 0:15:13.680 --> 0:15:16.480 into love. Because by saying it's love at first sight, 0:15:16.400 --> 0:15:19.280 I don't think you're giving the justice to what love 0:15:19.320 --> 0:15:23.880 actually is and how impactful and empowering it is. Um. 0:15:23.960 --> 0:15:25.600 I think I think love at first sight too, is 0:15:25.640 --> 0:15:27.080 something that you can look back on and be like, yeah, 0:15:27.080 --> 0:15:28.320 I was love at first sight. But you don't see 0:15:28.320 --> 0:15:30.040 someone you're like, damn, I'm in love with you. You 0:15:30.040 --> 0:15:32.120 know what I mean? Something it's like some of the 0:15:32.640 --> 0:15:34.960 hindsight of recognizing, but it's not something you can feel 0:15:35.000 --> 0:15:37.760 really in the moment. I'm sure what the exceptions, but 0:15:38.480 --> 0:15:41.120 um sorry, I feel like Nick actually funny enough? Sorry, 0:15:41.160 --> 0:15:43.240 Vanessa how a funny tweet the other day about how 0:15:44.080 --> 0:15:49.160 uh what did he say something about how Luke's telling 0:15:49.200 --> 0:15:52.880 Hannah what she wanted to hear. Um no, he said, 0:15:52.920 --> 0:15:57.240 I'm not surprised that Luke's talent is telling Hannah and 0:15:57.240 --> 0:15:59.280 that's exactly funny. That's really what it blows down to 0:15:59.400 --> 0:16:01.240 is he knows that's exactly what she wants to hear. 0:16:01.880 --> 0:16:04.600 I agree. I think one of two things. Oh yeah, 0:16:04.640 --> 0:16:08.120 she was did you watch she was eating it up. 0:16:08.880 --> 0:16:11.840 She said that she believed him, that she believed his feelings, 0:16:12.120 --> 0:16:15.680 and that she was feeling very strongly about him. Yeah, 0:16:15.720 --> 0:16:18.960 it was a little bit of a moment um. I 0:16:19.160 --> 0:16:20.760 think one of two things. I think one, either Luke 0:16:20.800 --> 0:16:23.640 p is a is a liar and wants to tell 0:16:23.640 --> 0:16:26.440 people what they want to hear. Or two he's just 0:16:26.560 --> 0:16:29.760 young and doesn't really know himself and he's twenty four. 0:16:29.800 --> 0:16:34.000 I think that's the other thing. Yeah, don't forget Hannah's 0:16:34.000 --> 0:16:36.080 twenty four. And I know age is just a number 0:16:36.120 --> 0:16:39.360 and things are different in all areas of the country 0:16:39.400 --> 0:16:42.480 about you know, demographic of how old someone is when 0:16:42.480 --> 0:16:44.720 they get married and so on and so forth. But 0:16:44.880 --> 0:16:47.840 for me personally, in my experiences and in my opinion, 0:16:48.320 --> 0:16:51.760 I think twenty four is very young to be engaged 0:16:51.760 --> 0:16:54.000 and married because there's a lot of individual growth that 0:16:54.040 --> 0:16:56.600 I think someone still needs to go through. And so 0:16:56.680 --> 0:16:58.520 that's why a lot of these guys are a little 0:16:58.520 --> 0:17:00.880 bit younger and Luke p I believe it's twenty four, 0:17:03.400 --> 0:17:06.560 but he just might not really know what it means 0:17:06.640 --> 0:17:08.480 to fall in love of someone, so like when his 0:17:08.920 --> 0:17:12.280 he has this infatuation towards someone, and especially as we 0:17:12.320 --> 0:17:14.400 all know being on the show, the Bachelor and Bachelorette 0:17:14.400 --> 0:17:17.840 are built up so highly that they almost seem unattainable, 0:17:18.080 --> 0:17:19.720 that he might be like, oh my god, I'm already 0:17:19.720 --> 0:17:22.480 fouring falling in love with this woman, especially in the 0:17:22.600 --> 0:17:26.080 like bro Settle, especially in that environment too, because um, 0:17:26.119 --> 0:17:28.719 all he's experienced over the past five days leading up 0:17:28.720 --> 0:17:31.160 to that was the producers and the people around him 0:17:31.240 --> 0:17:33.840 always like re establishing and reaffirming how awesome Hannah is, 0:17:33.880 --> 0:17:35.960 which she is. But like when you when the people 0:17:35.960 --> 0:17:39.560 around you consistently build up someone that you're pursuing, then 0:17:39.600 --> 0:17:41.359 you start to think like, oh wow, this person really 0:17:41.359 --> 0:17:43.760 is amazing, uh, And that's how you can start to 0:17:43.800 --> 0:17:45.760 be like start to feel those things. I suppose like 0:17:45.800 --> 0:17:48.880 in his defense, I agree, I'm not defending him, neither 0:17:48.920 --> 0:17:52.760 of you, but I also think, like you said, having 0:17:52.800 --> 0:17:56.040 all the other guys surrounding you build this one person up, 0:17:56.600 --> 0:18:00.760 it's a competitive environment. You can't ignore that Luke Lupe 0:18:00.880 --> 0:18:06.359 seems like a competitive guy. And don't ever underestimate trying 0:18:06.359 --> 0:18:09.320 to get an advantage on the show, not not not 0:18:09.320 --> 0:18:12.840 not even consciously, but subconsciously saying, all these other guys 0:18:13.080 --> 0:18:15.600 are vying for this one girl, how can I stand out? 0:18:15.720 --> 0:18:17.359 I think I'm falling in love with her. I'm going 0:18:17.400 --> 0:18:21.159 to tell her. I will say when I went on 0:18:21.240 --> 0:18:23.560 my first my first one on one date with Nick 0:18:23.680 --> 0:18:25.359 was very early on. It was the second one on 0:18:25.359 --> 0:18:27.399 one date. I had one group date and then I 0:18:27.440 --> 0:18:30.040 had one on one And on my one on one, 0:18:30.080 --> 0:18:33.200 I remember like I was really falling head over heels 0:18:33.200 --> 0:18:35.880 for him, and there were certain things that he did 0:18:36.320 --> 0:18:40.520 that made me feel special, like wait around for me 0:18:40.560 --> 0:18:43.000 after the date or before the date, or you know, 0:18:43.359 --> 0:18:46.320 after the zero gravity experience, like make sure that I 0:18:46.359 --> 0:18:48.840 was feeling okay, Like he was very attentive to my 0:18:48.960 --> 0:18:51.359 to my needs, and those are the things that I 0:18:51.400 --> 0:18:54.359 appreciated about him. So I had a reason to really 0:18:54.400 --> 0:18:57.440 fall for him. If you know at the beginning, when 0:18:57.440 --> 0:18:59.520 I was having one on one time with him during 0:18:59.520 --> 0:19:02.879 our group it's what is it like, max fifteen minutes 0:19:02.880 --> 0:19:04.919 if you're lucky to have that much of a conversation 0:19:04.960 --> 0:19:08.399