WEBVTT - You Just Had A Breakthrough. Don’t Post It Yet.

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<v Speaker 1>You found your way here to waking up with Ryan.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so glad that you pushed play. This is the

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<v Speaker 1>place you and I come to wake up together. So

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<v Speaker 1>let's take a deep breath and begin.

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<v Speaker 2>Good morning, love.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that when you experience insights and wisdom, that

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<v Speaker 1>you really want to share it. I know for myself,

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<v Speaker 1>in the earlier days of my awakening experience, it was

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<v Speaker 1>like a brilliant idea.

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<v Speaker 2>Would come to my mind that kind of cracked me open.

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<v Speaker 1>And I wanted to tell every single person I possibly

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<v Speaker 1>could about it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>I know for myself, when I had that shift in

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<v Speaker 1>my awareness, that shift of like, oh my God, I

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<v Speaker 1>am so much more than I thought I was. And

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<v Speaker 1>there's a whole universe here to support me. And when

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<v Speaker 1>I had that shift in who I think I am,

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to proselytize. I wanted to tell everyone. And

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<v Speaker 1>it was coming from like a really beautiful place inside myself.

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<v Speaker 1>I was so excited about this and felt so much

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<v Speaker 1>relief from it. So of course I want to share

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<v Speaker 1>it with the people I love or someone that I

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<v Speaker 1>meet on the street or on my social media.

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<v Speaker 2>So that's beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>However, there's also something really potentially immature about that. And

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<v Speaker 1>there's a way that when you move really quickly to

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<v Speaker 1>want to share wisdom, right when that seed of wisdom

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<v Speaker 1>drops in, you want to share it. There's a way

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<v Speaker 1>of doing that that's actually quite egoic. sharing it can

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<v Speaker 1>be a structure that the ego uses to avoid the

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<v Speaker 1>seed from actually getting planted inside of you with time

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<v Speaker 1>to actually digest it. Let the roots grow inside of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Let this wisdom tree actually grow and.

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<v Speaker 2>Share from there.

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<v Speaker 1>Sharing it immediately can actually kind of be a way

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<v Speaker 1>that the ego is stopping the seed from really planting

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<v Speaker 1>inside of you.

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<v Speaker 2>Because the way the seed really plants.

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<v Speaker 1>Inside of you is when it comes and is you

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<v Speaker 1>recognizing it's just a seed.

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<v Speaker 2>Right now, it's just an idea. But an idea is

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<v Speaker 2>just an.

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<v Speaker 1>Idea until it's digested into your bone marrow. How do

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<v Speaker 1>you know that it's digested into your bone marrow? That

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<v Speaker 1>there's been enough time that has passed where you've been

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<v Speaker 1>able to access it through life experiences and kind of

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<v Speaker 1>put the wisdom to work year over year over year.

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<v Speaker 1>And something that happens when you do that is you

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<v Speaker 1>find you no longer have to talk about it. You

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<v Speaker 1>find that actually the best teacher is just how you're living.

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<v Speaker 1>It's simply the demonstration of how you're living your life.

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<v Speaker 1>And rather than going out into the world and sharing

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<v Speaker 1>this stuff you're learning in a way that feels like

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<v Speaker 1>I have to share this with you, you actually just recognize, ah,

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<v Speaker 1>this is all here for me.

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<v Speaker 2>It impacts my sense of self.

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<v Speaker 1>This deeper sense of self then shows up in the

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<v Speaker 1>world and lives as an.

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<v Speaker 2>Example of this deep wisdom.

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<v Speaker 1>I know there was another thing that happened for me early,

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<v Speaker 1>which I'm constantly trying to become aware of and allow

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<v Speaker 1>to kind of, what's the word.

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<v Speaker 2>To disintegrate.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that when this shift in my awareness, my shift

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<v Speaker 1>in my identity, again, you can call it this enlightenment,

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<v Speaker 1>this awakening happened, the ego came in really quickly to

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<v Speaker 1>then create a new identity.

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<v Speaker 2>The spiritual person.

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<v Speaker 1>Felt good being the spiritual person walking around the world

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<v Speaker 1>with this identity of being spiritual. And then part of

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<v Speaker 1>that was like about needing to talk to people about

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<v Speaker 1>it all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>Again, nothing wrong with that. No judgment.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just that I know I wasn't speaking from the

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<v Speaker 1>deepest place inside myself because the wisdom hadn't been digested yet.

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<v Speaker 1>And so this is a very common thing that when

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<v Speaker 1>you experience this awakening, the ego then jumps in to

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<v Speaker 1>create a new identity out of the experience of awakening.

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<v Speaker 1>And so then you continue to walk your journey and

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<v Speaker 1>over time you'll come to see, ah, The spiritual person

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<v Speaker 1>is also an identity. The good person is also an

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<v Speaker 1>identity that.

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<v Speaker 2>I cling to. Nothing wrong. It's beautiful to be a

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<v Speaker 2>spiritual person. It's beautiful to be a good person.

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<v Speaker 1>But when there are identities that we cling to, we're

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<v Speaker 1>not allowing the deeper wisdom, which is about the dissolving

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<v Speaker 1>of all identity. The dissolving of who you think you

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<v Speaker 1>are as anything that can.

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<v Speaker 2>Be spoken or presented or performed.

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<v Speaker 1>And so I want you to notice, whether it's watching

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<v Speaker 1>these episodes and I say something that, wow, I've never

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<v Speaker 1>thought about that before. And I want you to take

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<v Speaker 1>these pieces of wisdom and let them digest inside of you.

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<v Speaker 1>Let them, like a seed, make its way down into

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<v Speaker 1>the depth of you, the soil. And give it the

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<v Speaker 1>time to sprout. Give it the time and the nourishment

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<v Speaker 1>within you to spread its roots.

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<v Speaker 2>To grow. To grow.

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<v Speaker 1>A little sprout that begins to make its way above

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<v Speaker 1>the soil out into the world and give it the

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<v Speaker 1>time to grow into the plant that it's meant to be.

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<v Speaker 1>And trust that you being that, the growth of this

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<v Speaker 1>seed is the best demonstration of wisdom that there is.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. Let's take a deep breath in and let it go.

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<v Speaker 1>Gently closing the eyes and taking a few deep breaths.

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<v Speaker 1>seeing yourself as this soil and recognizing the thousands of

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<v Speaker 1>seeds that have been planted within you and trusting in

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<v Speaker 1>their natural time.

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<v Speaker 2>To grow.

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<v Speaker 1>With every breath oxygenating the soil. Trusting that the wisdom

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<v Speaker 1>will have its way with you.

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<v Speaker 2>On its time.

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<v Speaker 1>And that your work is the work of nothingness. Your

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<v Speaker 1>work is the work of simply allowing the seeds to flourish.

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<v Speaker 1>Trusting the process.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's take a deep breath in. and letting it go.

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<v Speaker 1>I promise what happens is that when this deep wisdom

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<v Speaker 1>has taken its course to grow within you, it will

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<v Speaker 1>become incredibly clear when it's time to share it.

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<v Speaker 2>It won't come from.

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<v Speaker 1>A place that needs to prove or be right It

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<v Speaker 1>won't come from a place that wants the other person

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<v Speaker 1>to change as a result of you giving them this wisdom. Rather,

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<v Speaker 1>it'll come organically. People will notice how you are living

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<v Speaker 1>your life. And they'll ask. When they ask, you'll be

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<v Speaker 1>able to tell their sincerity. their openness, and you'll choose

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<v Speaker 1>to share or not. You'll share from your experience, deeply

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<v Speaker 1>connected to yourself, to your journey, wise and mature, allowing

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<v Speaker 1>them to be exactly where they are. offering your gratitude

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<v Speaker 1>to this universe for the way that it has grown you.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's take a deep breath in.

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<v Speaker 2>And let it go. Beautiful.

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<v Speaker 1>When you're ready, blinking your eyes open and coming back

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<v Speaker 1>into the space, Loving you from right here. Hi, I

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<v Speaker 1>hope you're feeling even just a little bit more prepared

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<v Speaker 1>to take on the day. But before you go, I

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<v Speaker 2>So I know that was a lot to remember. So

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