Speaker 1: Welcome to Decisions Decisions.
Speaker 2: I don't think you should say decision decisions.
Speaker 3: It sounded like you was talking to the person you
Speaker 3: definitely say to welcome, Welcome to the new podcast.
Speaker 1: You want to say.
Speaker 2: Together, Decisions Decisions. Welcome everybody to another episode of Decisions Decisions.
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Speaker 3: Only say like, oh my god, that is not how
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Speaker 1: I want to sucking like a white girl out. We
Speaker 1: have the lady om G girl. I wouldn't say the ladies.
Speaker 2: But you can't stay lady. No, no, no, you can't.
Speaker 2: They grown as girls. She a whole month taking out
Speaker 2: the little tower. They can't call themselves the OMG ladies.
Speaker 1: Thank you, okay, trying to see Okay, you girls be
Speaker 1: a girl. That's like who you are, girl, dream girl.
Speaker 1: Girls like a job. But listen, she made a little point.
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Speaker 3: When y'all are introducing yourselves, I would love you to
Speaker 3: tell us afterwards the whole name that you had for
Speaker 3: the group.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, I'm gonna do it. I love it. So yeah,
Speaker 2: got here and introduce yourself, ladies.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, what's going on.
Speaker 1: I'm Zoie.
Speaker 4: Oh my name is Rihanna, but I'm known as baby
Speaker 4: Doll and I Amasia but they call me beauty and
Speaker 4: we are girls.
Speaker 1: See this is killed.
Speaker 2: We don't we We don't really do it. Well, no,
Speaker 2: we kind of do a man and we did. I'll
Speaker 2: be like, you're gonna say the decisions decisions.
Speaker 3: And good when we're doing like a like a drop
Speaker 3: like a drap. Okay, okay, drop right now.
Speaker 1: For girls, but that ship we own decisions. What's up?
Speaker 1: It's OMG? And you're watching this decisions Like I was.
Speaker 1: I was wondering who's gonna say the last part? But
Speaker 1: I'm saying that we are saying I.
Speaker 4: Watch it if we do it the same time you
Speaker 4: write we got we watched one.
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's go. What's up? It's OMG? And you're watching
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Speaker 2: So how has it been I guess over the last
Speaker 2: couple of years, going from I guess girlhood quote unquote
Speaker 2: to womanhood. We know you had a baby a relationship publicly,
Speaker 2: do y'all have kids or like, this is the things
Speaker 2: like with y'all grown, y'all grown under the belt. What
Speaker 2: you say anyone like listening that probably saw y'all's name.
Speaker 2: I think that there's this thing around coming out as
Speaker 2: a kid and no one ever wanted them to grow up.
Speaker 2: And it's like, no girl, Like they just showed a
Speaker 2: picture of what's the girl Bobby something? You know, I
Speaker 2: don't be knowing the white girl names, but the one
Speaker 2: from Stranger Things. Oh Bobby, yeah, Billy, Bobby Brown Mill.
Speaker 1: She is.
Speaker 2: I was like, you know what happens when y'all wait
Speaker 2: so goddamn long to make a god damn.
Speaker 1: Not say that waiting?
Speaker 2: We wait until that is she about to be thirty five?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: Wait, no, she said, I mean she might be. I
Speaker 2: don't know if.
Speaker 1: Y'all are comfortable.
Speaker 3: I would love to know your ages, because omg, girls
Speaker 3: is being a to me a name that I've heard
Speaker 3: forever forever.
Speaker 1: So it's just like how.
Speaker 4: Omg old lady, I'm thirty and I'm twenty nine.
Speaker 2: See y'all, So while y'all are listening, they actually have
Speaker 2: lived a little bit of life.
Speaker 1: Well, we talked in a new decade.
Speaker 2: Okay, is there is there any you're twenty nine, Yes,
Speaker 2: you're thirty your twenty nine? Are is there any like?
Speaker 2: Are y'all excited? Are y'all nervous? Like what is right now?
Speaker 2: Your feelings about approaching thirty?
Speaker 4: Well, since I'm at thirty, I was definitely. I mean
Speaker 4: I think as you get closer to it, it's like, oh,
Speaker 4: like it's not that bad or it's like it's not
Speaker 4: at all like you know, and as I've been my.
Speaker 1: How many months has been like six months? Sin seven
Speaker 1: and thirties? I love it here.
Speaker 4: It's very like it's very great. It's so beautiful, like
Speaker 4: it's a great time. I love my mind. I love
Speaker 4: how I do stuff and doing I want to. I've
Speaker 4: been doing that, but now it's like I really do it.
Speaker 4: So it's been amazing. I tell everybody look forward to it,
Speaker 4: like everybody was saying the different eras be like a
Speaker 4: time to look forward to.
Speaker 1: Thirty is definitely thirty like so much fun, like listen
Speaker 1: not to start like blue hair is giving your water sign.
Speaker 1: But I just made that up. I am want to. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I felt that you yelling like.
Speaker 4: She felt what gave it off because like she has
Speaker 4: a lot of personality, but it's like she's being quiet
Speaker 4: and every time we say something, she's like, no, I
Speaker 4: want to know this, like she wants to know deeper.
Speaker 1: Like that's add I don't have that bad as well.
Speaker 1: So maybe that's but I thinks getting someone.
Speaker 3: It's interesting you said that because someone told me, oh,
Speaker 3: I can tell you is because when you're excited, the
Speaker 3: way you respond to questions like it's just like oh,
Speaker 3: and you know, we're like ready to like learn, We're
Speaker 3: like we're super eager people. You should see me on
Speaker 3: the day getting bad. They think I'm too into them,
Speaker 3: and I'll be like, no, I'm just like.
Speaker 1: I'm just feeling.
Speaker 2: I don't believe in stars and moons. But I guess
Speaker 2: we got to ask y'all to what y'all signs is that.
Speaker 1: I'm not even Yeah, guess I don't want to know
Speaker 1: what yeah, because there you I don't want to be wrong.
Speaker 2: That's what people do, and then when they be right,
Speaker 2: they'd be.
Speaker 1: Like, I know, see I knew, I know. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: that's what I was gonna say. That is crazy.
Speaker 2: Now are you all ready to be thirty?
Speaker 1: What did you want to get theirs or you can't
Speaker 1: get that. I knew that one, that one only I
Speaker 1: am a aries, I'm a.
Speaker 2: Yo Okay my best friends leah, yeah, that's the only
Speaker 2: reason I know.
Speaker 1: Okay, what's yours? I know you don't believe it starts
Speaker 1: my sons and.
Speaker 2: It's the best sign because it's what I am. Libra Okay, okay, yeah, early,
Speaker 2: I'm ready for all my guests, from all my boyfriends.
Speaker 1: How old are y'all?
Speaker 2: I will be thirty five?
Speaker 1: So young?
Speaker 2: Oh no, I know all my friends are older than me.
Speaker 2: They like in the forties, like they're all or celebrating
Speaker 2: going to the forty. Most of my friends are older.
Speaker 2: And I was like, there's thirty five. I gotta say
Speaker 2: mid thirties now because I love saying, you know, low thirties,
Speaker 2: like early thirty.
Speaker 1: Like temperature in early thirties.
Speaker 2: Early is what I meant. Who's checking words these? Only
Speaker 2: Us is New York Times bestsellers period. Anyways, we're gonna
Speaker 2: do only Us a songwriter period. We're gonna do a
Speaker 2: quick icebreaker with y'all to kind of feel y'all out.
Speaker 2: Now we have a truth and dare that we make
Speaker 2: everyone do. But because there's three of you, I've decided
Speaker 2: to truth, truth, and dare this thing.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: So because I like to go this way, we're gonna
Speaker 2: talk this way. We're gonna start with you, Benny.
Speaker 1: Okay.
Speaker 2: So here's and this is where I want you to
Speaker 2: be as honest as possible. No one's gonna judge you, Okay,
Speaker 2: And I guess I gotta lean into motherhood is a blessing. Yes,
Speaker 2: all right. What is actually the hardest thing though about
Speaker 2: motherhood that you've experienced that you hated, that you zero
Speaker 2: out of ten won't recommend.
Speaker 4: Let's see, I would say for me, being in my twenties,
Speaker 4: almost out of my twenties, I would say, like wanting
Speaker 4: to go outside, Okay, Like I mean wanting to outside,
Speaker 4: and I don't always have somebody to watch my baby.
Speaker 1: But it's like for me, I won't make it. I
Speaker 1: will make it.
Speaker 4: Happen, like okay, like actually, somebody's you're gonna get your grandchild.
Speaker 4: You're gonna get your kid, like somebody's gonna do it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, if you if you want to be outside, yes,
Speaker 2: would you recommend women to wait? Being that you had
Speaker 2: your child in your twenties.
Speaker 4: Now the other thing, I don't always recommend to wait
Speaker 4: because I feel like I'm a person who likes, well,
Speaker 4: my child has a lot of energy, and I don't
Speaker 4: I like to lay and sleep like I'm really like,
Speaker 4: I thought she was gonna be chilled like me. She
Speaker 4: has a lot of personality. So I'm glad she's four
Speaker 4: and she runs me, so I'm glad. I'm really glad
Speaker 4: that I did it.
Speaker 2: Now, Okay, okay, I can get that.
Speaker 4: When I get like, you know, thirty something forty, I
Speaker 4: want to be chilling, and I want her to already
Speaker 4: be doing her yeah on her thing, like right now,
Speaker 4: it's me and her against the world.
Speaker 2: Period. Now we're on the opposite ends of the spectrum.
Speaker 2: Weizy wants to be a mom. I never want to
Speaker 2: be a mom, But I'm curious, have you guys started
Speaker 2: thinking about motherhood? Do y'all want kids?
Speaker 4: I mean, I'm kind of I'll be on and off
Speaker 4: with it because I have so many women around me,
Speaker 4: like who have children. So I see like the pros
Speaker 4: and the cons of it, and are the pros?
Speaker 1: I think? Like to know, it's like it's like.
Speaker 4: Unconditional love from a little human and I think the
Speaker 4: children are so pure and innocent, and they really look
Speaker 4: at what you do and they like really they're very appreciative. Okay,
Speaker 4: you know, like I've seen like her kid, black mom
Speaker 4: or just the best mom ever, Like you know what
Speaker 4: I mean.
Speaker 1: I don't know if she'd be meaning.
Speaker 4: To hear that that's particular day, but I'm sure in
Speaker 4: certain days where like you're just like wow, like that's
Speaker 4: so sweet, you know. But then for me, it's like
Speaker 4: my freedom is a big part of like me not
Speaker 4: having a kid, and I do like to be a
Speaker 4: like they just get up and go like a and
Speaker 4: I went and got my hair done and I got
Speaker 4: to eat what I wanted to eat and come home
Speaker 4: and you know, but I don't know, like I'm.
Speaker 1: Up and down with it, Like some days, I do
Speaker 1: want a kid in some days.
Speaker 3: Because the family dynamic of children make you want children more.
Speaker 3: Like most times when people want to be mothers, they
Speaker 3: think it like the unit.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it doesn't always end up that way.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I think that like that's a that's
Speaker 4: a part of it too.
Speaker 1: I definitely would want a family.
Speaker 4: I'm okay with it not being that way, you know,
Speaker 4: but in my perfect world, it would be that way.
Speaker 1: My little sister has a has a daughter.
Speaker 4: She has she's almost two, and like her and her
Speaker 4: baby dad, they're not like married, but they have like
Speaker 4: a family unit and structure that works for them. So
Speaker 4: I feel like it's just all about what works for
Speaker 4: you and your situation with your partner. And you know,
Speaker 4: like I guess raising it.
Speaker 1: I do want kids. I always have kids.
Speaker 4: One day, you know, when I meet that hoodie of mine,
Speaker 4: he meets me, he finds me, and you know we're
Speaker 4: gonna have a baby or two.
Speaker 2: I love that. The next question is for you, yes,
Speaker 2: truth and I need the truth. Okay, I need it alrighty,
Speaker 2: who's the most famous person who's slitting your d M?
Speaker 2: And what did they say?
Speaker 1: Child? Child? Are you play getting something you can getting nothing?
Speaker 4: My nails be so driving. It's a hard desert. It's
Speaker 4: the truth. Yes in your eyes, I'm looking.
Speaker 3: Oh yes, what about a famous person that gave you
Speaker 3: a compliment? Most famous person in DM that wasn't like
Speaker 3: a d M.
Speaker 4: I mean, okay, it won't even sexual. I mean I
Speaker 4: had no sexual slash. I mean the one I'm not
Speaker 4: gonna say, Okay, the one famous that I can think
Speaker 4: of on the top of my head, you know, at
Speaker 4: the moment, make it sound interesting. Yeah, what was the
Speaker 4: question about? Yeah, you said, who's living for the person is, Oh,
Speaker 4: you ain't.
Speaker 1: Gonna question for you? Is the most famous person that's
Speaker 1: paid you a compliment? I'm like, what you're doing like
Speaker 1: giving your props? Yeah? Oh okay, Well I mean mm
Speaker 1: hmm these girls I.
Speaker 2: Got liquor because I would have made you.
Speaker 4: No, there's somebody there's been shout out to the people
Speaker 4: from my hometown for real who also do music. But
Speaker 4: Roal Rodriguez has definitely like showed me love. He's a
Speaker 4: rapper and then also producer al Gino, like they all
Speaker 4: like support me and be like you know.
Speaker 2: So then I'm still gonna baby, I still need I
Speaker 2: don't have nobody like who is your celebrity crush?
Speaker 1: Who is my?
Speaker 4: I need a new one because my one that I
Speaker 4: want everybody wants someway.
Speaker 1: My girlfriend.
Speaker 2: Hey it is I love him?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Hi, I don't think yeah, yeah, don't make him made.
Speaker 2: Hold on, I'm not going to hold Christopher May. I
Speaker 2: love what I'm saying outside of him, who would be?
Speaker 1: No, I just need to find like when I come
Speaker 1: across something that's.
Speaker 2: Okay, you don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 1: You don't know yet.
Speaker 4: I feel like I'm older now and I can actually
Speaker 4: be with the Celiberty question that I like. When I
Speaker 4: meet him, then we all find out together.
Speaker 2: We're gonna be together, is what she's saying.
Speaker 4: Okay, because when we were younger, we were dreaming about it.
Speaker 4: But now we're older and now you can actually meet them.
Speaker 2: Also, everything everyone is more accessible, just with Anthra.
Speaker 1: Isn't it crazy? How like some of the people when
Speaker 1: we're younger, we see them now and we're like, is
Speaker 1: there anybody that raby.
Speaker 2: That is crazy?
Speaker 1: You know? I'll tell you one that was funny.
Speaker 3: We were at essence best and you know, my brain
Speaker 3: just didn't process because it's been a while. We're from Florida,
Speaker 3: so we love pretty weak, pretty Ricky. Yes, I'm downstairs spectaculars.
Speaker 3: We're getting in our car and I think I said
Speaker 3: to me and was he on a TV show?
Speaker 1: Do I know?
Speaker 2: Bitch grind on me? She's had a no particular mind
Speaker 2: you my brain wasn't hey me of my own girl
Speaker 2: literally fucking went to the club with him to go
Speaker 2: party with Keith Sweat, random and my home girl was
Speaker 2: in the back because Pretty Ricky was our ship and
Speaker 2: she's in the back singing playhouse and like all his
Speaker 2: records to him in the car, and I was like, okay,
Speaker 2: my other friend did that same ship to Jim Jones.
Speaker 2: I said, Okay, when you fan out, you're gonna find out.
Speaker 2: Have y'all fanned out over anybody that y'all met.
Speaker 4: But y'all know naturally no, we don't fan out, but
Speaker 4: y'all don't naturally like amongst each other.
Speaker 1: We were like they saw.
Speaker 4: They song, It's like you will like singing it out loud? Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 4: Big Sean excited, excited.
Speaker 2: What song comes to mind from Big Sean out the gate?
Speaker 2: I don't that's what it comes to play?
Speaker 1: No game. Mine is.
Speaker 4: Trying to think of the mixtape album, you know what.
Speaker 1: Messing with?
Speaker 4: What's I just don't want to come to my mind
Speaker 4: for something I don't tell y'all.
Speaker 3: I just deep fucking fingerl real hard over Steve Lacy.
Speaker 3: And it was a really embarrassing moment. It was four
Speaker 3: o'clock in the morning. We all even the spot. Now
Speaker 3: he cut his hair, so I didn't know what Steven.
Speaker 2: I didn't looked this up because you don't white Chris Brown,
Speaker 2: but ate that some tea about Steve Blake being a little.
Speaker 1: Oh he's just like white man.
Speaker 2: That's all it is.
Speaker 1: White. I tell you. He's getting in this suv.
Speaker 3: And I'm like, I was trying, Yeah, why man, Yeah,
Speaker 3: it's white girl next to me, because of course it's
Speaker 3: all black.
Speaker 1: She's like, I love him too.
Speaker 2: Like in l A, we were very I could see that,
Speaker 2: I could see that man walking down the street. I
Speaker 2: wouldn't know that man, the dare is coming your way.
Speaker 1: She would have loved the truth. Okay, it's not for you.
Speaker 2: I wish you gotta get your your little ready. Do
Speaker 2: a sultry acapella of a nursery rhyme, and it has
Speaker 2: to be given by one of your bandmates. So think
Speaker 2: of a nursing rhyme. Y'all know what nursery rhymes is.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there we go. Yeah no, no, no, no no. I
Speaker 1: gotta do what y'all told me. I like a little different.
Speaker 2: Come on, give give us a little sultry say bit
Speaker 2: of it's bitsy.
Speaker 1: Spider, okay, Rael.
Speaker 4: Giving a little deep all right, yes, busy spider, lent
Speaker 4: up the water spout.
Speaker 1: On all the last down came the rain, watched the
Speaker 1: spider round, but.
Speaker 4: Yes, it's a busy spider went up the spider gain.
Speaker 1: You know what?
Speaker 2: Actually crazy not think about it because this used to
Speaker 2: be horrible decisions. I wish we changed the word of
Speaker 2: spider to penis.
Speaker 1: Like I got.
Speaker 2: I think that that would have.
Speaker 1: Been a little bit, you know on that one, just.
Speaker 2: Because I was because it sounded sultry, and then I
Speaker 2: just started thinking about.
Speaker 1: I feel that you like when I that way, just
Speaker 1: feel that. Let's play another little game speaking of it. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm a point at y'all. You're gonna have to pick
Speaker 1: one right on the spot. Okay, yeah, I'm going to
Speaker 1: get you.
Speaker 4: There we go.
Speaker 1: It's fifty penis or big gass penis and a bank account.
Speaker 5: There we go.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, there we gas penis or its busy bank
Speaker 4: say what time?
Speaker 1: Sorry? Like a gas peanus and bank account or big
Speaker 1: gas bank account.
Speaker 3: It's hello, yeah, that's easy, you know Okay.
Speaker 1: Yeah definitely big big bank account.
Speaker 2: Big bank, big bank.
Speaker 1: Bro.
Speaker 2: You could put an extended stop stop trying to make
Speaker 2: you a thing, bro, Stop trying to do everybody tu penis?
Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like we could get that
Speaker 1: taking care of. But you be like other ways.
Speaker 2: Now that's the problem brow.
Speaker 1: Trying to the penis larger I had it. We're doing here.
Speaker 1: I'm not going that's just like saying I'm picking.
Speaker 4: So you gonna take the she's taking a big hopes
Speaker 4: that hes gonna make that money.
Speaker 3: See, I feel the opposite of y'all. So to see
Speaker 3: how y'all are like like you can extend it, be
Speaker 3: optimistic and like they can make the money. Hello, but
Speaker 3: when you know they ain't. Why you can lead the
Speaker 3: horse the water drink.
Speaker 1: Here's the been there, go to averrest. That's what I'm
Speaker 1: gonna say.
Speaker 3: Take that big dig well, get him a job, put
Speaker 3: him into the interviews, will do a little practice session.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm gonna do that. I ain't taking this.
Speaker 4: I ain't been there, but I'm saying that I've been
Speaker 4: like in her shoes to where like you know you'd
Speaker 4: be optimistic, go ahead.
Speaker 2: It's about your experience with bro.
Speaker 1: No, no, no, no, I haven't no, thank god, thank god,
Speaker 1: thank god. Experience like been with the broke. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: my dad don't play that.
Speaker 2: I don't your dad don't play that you don't not
Speaker 2: I don't like a man with no ambition, But.
Speaker 4: When you come from such great man, how can you even?
Speaker 4: Like my dad, it was really big on like setting
Speaker 4: like the precedent. Like for me, like when I think
Speaker 4: of like broke, I be feel and like if you've
Speaker 4: broken in your pockast and you broken in your spirit
Speaker 4: in your mind and sometimes yeah, because like if your mind,
Speaker 4: like if you're if your mind isn't broken, and like
Speaker 4: your spirit isn't broken, then you'll have ambition to go
Speaker 4: get the money your man, I'm telling you, like it's
Speaker 4: like it's a spiritual way though you said the broken
Speaker 4: spirit mind, it is like think about it like when
Speaker 4: you when you it does it's starting your mind. You
Speaker 4: got to have ambition, Like I feel like a man
Speaker 4: with ambition, like he can figure it out like my dad.
Speaker 4: You know, I remember the recession, so like my dad
Speaker 4: was in real estate, so I watched him get up
Speaker 4: every day at six o'clock and go to work whether
Speaker 4: he had a job or not. You know what I mean,
Speaker 4: Like that's ambition, that is you know what I'm saying,
Speaker 4: Like he gonna come home with something.
Speaker 1: It might not be what it was or it might
Speaker 1: not be.
Speaker 4: Consistent every day, but you walking in that door with
Speaker 4: something I can respect.
Speaker 2: I think that's my thing. Like in your twenties, you
Speaker 2: might allow it. Yeah, I'm not gonna sit here and
Speaker 2: say I allowed it to be broke bro not not
Speaker 2: in your thirties. Now I do. I do mess with Wayians.
Speaker 2: So I'm a little bit more understanding. They're quite you know,
Speaker 2: they're still they're elevating.
Speaker 1: Still. Okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 4: You know, you know, they just gotta be understand as
Speaker 4: long as a man willing and able, and he actually,
Speaker 4: you know, he got.
Speaker 2: Younger, younger, a little younger. So it's a little bit
Speaker 2: more they be getting on me on the pot because
Speaker 2: I like, whyns do y'all only one? Do y'all dat older?
Speaker 1: Younger?
Speaker 2: Does age matter?
Speaker 4: I've only dated like around my age, yeah, or like
Speaker 4: my age. I haven't did younger. I only have dated
Speaker 4: around my age and older. And I always felt like
Speaker 4: I only want to date a older man.
Speaker 1: But now that I'm.
Speaker 4: Like just vibing, yeah, just vibing, uh huh, I feel like,
Speaker 4: let's sixplord.
Speaker 1: Off yeah young.
Speaker 2: You know, yeah, both the younger, like twenty five okay, okay, okay,
Speaker 2: wait the course from.
Speaker 1: What you might be.
Speaker 2: I don't let her about the cortex all the time,
Speaker 2: so I.
Speaker 1: Twenty two twenty okay okay, wait all right, so you
Speaker 1: got one nice night hm with Chris Brown? Okay?
Speaker 3: What he has to be shared?
Speaker 4: Oh no, that's easy talking about he's talking about shared,
Speaker 4: like would you rather have the night along?
Speaker 1: Huh? Would you rather just share them? No, we're gonna
Speaker 1: have a long time, like a long like without him.
Speaker 2: I don't want to know she said everybody was one
Speaker 2: of the three? Yeah, wow, dad.
Speaker 1: Ye be I'm together so good? Like I'm share That's
Speaker 1: what I'm no. Oh, I don't because she's gonna be
Speaker 1: like like, who are you picking? Like you said you
Speaker 1: had on that stage? Is it me? And know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, I just don't want Yeah, yeah, it's too
Speaker 1: much as much. I'm not triggering you right now. We know,
Speaker 1: man got too many everybody.
Speaker 4: And listen, but that's my thing. It's like I feel
Speaker 4: like that's what it is. Though, It's like how much
Speaker 4: do you like this bitch? You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 4: Like why is she here? Like and then I'm watching
Speaker 4: this go down like.
Speaker 2: Any little thing.
Speaker 1: If he do it too much, but get her up
Speaker 1: out of here. You like her, like her like, I feel.
Speaker 4: Like it's like if it's something like that, it's like
Speaker 4: like I feel like if you liking her too much
Speaker 4: the other person too much, it's not gonna work out.
Speaker 1: That's why I can't, Like, I'm just too jealous. Do
Speaker 1: y'all mind dating man that are dating other people? What
Speaker 1: if he if he's not man? Is he together?
Speaker 2: Living very monomamous?
Speaker 3: Maybe you're on third day and it's going well, y'all
Speaker 3: text every day? Okay, I mean seeing another woman does
Speaker 3: that hurt?
Speaker 1: We're not okay?
Speaker 4: But you're saying, like, see another woman, like talking to her,
Speaker 4: not like together with her.
Speaker 1: Like, yeah, they're not official.
Speaker 4: Y'all are cool with dating if we're not boyfriend and girlfriend,
Speaker 4: like then I kind of can't.
Speaker 1: Yes, see that don't play with my health? Yeah something.
Speaker 2: Everyone should just be wearing condom. Now let's talk about it.
Speaker 2: We are getting into girls talk real quick, basing it
Speaker 2: off of the title to y'all's records. Okay, so we
Speaker 2: are starting with a lot of people ask us, especially
Speaker 2: the single girls, where the fuck to meet people? So
Speaker 2: we're starting with where the boys at?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Okay, and I want all of us to kind of
Speaker 2: come up with where we think we have met some
Speaker 2: of the best people that we've talked to. So do
Speaker 2: you find the best way to date right now? Is
Speaker 2: looking online? Someone told me the airport. But I'm like, bit,
Speaker 2: y'all never meet nobody. But then again, I dressed like
Speaker 2: a suid, so I get while I'll never meet nobody
Speaker 2: because I be down to the sweatpants. But where are
Speaker 2: the boys at? Where would you say someone has the
Speaker 2: best chance of meeting a guy?
Speaker 4: I say brunch at there is Carlton on Sunday?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like what day shift Cheetah.
Speaker 2: Outday shift at a strip club? If y'all don't know
Speaker 2: what Chetah is?
Speaker 4: Depending where we at, like it depends on how he
Speaker 4: how he coming in there, because like magic is cool,
Speaker 4: you might cold meet somebody in magic, you might meet
Speaker 4: somebody you've.
Speaker 2: Met men at strip clubs before Me and my friends
Speaker 2: said everybody naked? We not they don't want to look
Speaker 2: at us.
Speaker 3: Also, do we want to meet men that are at
Speaker 3: the strip club during the day shift?
Speaker 1: I don't. To me, I feel like a lot of
Speaker 1: bit like a lot of business happens.
Speaker 4: Actually, I mean we in the industry, so like for me,
Speaker 4: like I feel like a lot of like producers and songwriters,
Speaker 4: like guys that I talk to, like they'll go to
Speaker 4: Cheat on the day shift and like just eat and
Speaker 4: they talk about, you know, whatever they got going on,
Speaker 4: Like I don't.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like on the day ship or blue
Speaker 1: Flame on the day.
Speaker 2: So even even just outside of Atlanta, then can women
Speaker 2: find good men in the strip club?
Speaker 1: Probably not, I'm not okay, no, probably not. Like I
Speaker 1: don't know, giving really any.
Speaker 4: Clubs, I feel like you got to like go to
Speaker 4: like like I feel like you might meet something.
Speaker 1: That's why I said she didn't on the day shift.
Speaker 1: That's the only strip club.
Speaker 2: So the clubs, y'all are saying, ain't the place to
Speaker 2: meet men anymore.
Speaker 1: In the club. I don't know. I haven't met him
Speaker 1: in New York City. If two niggas had a business
Speaker 1: meeting at a strip club, I'm like, damn.
Speaker 2: Except they might be in the mob.
Speaker 1: Like what kind of drug do are you doing?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 1: But also at the same time, is it a big deal?
Speaker 1: A big deal?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, but that's I feel like brunches places
Speaker 4: like that are you'll on dating apps? I'm not no, no, no,
Speaker 4: not saying it, but it's like it recently came up
Speaker 4: with me and my cousin. She made one and I
Speaker 4: sat there like she in the profile and she instantly
Speaker 4: got people and something that's like oh yeah, just like
Speaker 4: like fun, like she met some friends, like some dual
Speaker 4: cool people.
Speaker 1: Like I was like, oh yeah, it do be cool
Speaker 1: and I was like, well maybe, And this is literally
Speaker 1: like last week.
Speaker 4: So that's why when you said out like no, but
Speaker 4: it's it's, you know, the way you.
Speaker 1: Just explained it. They do yes. And my other cousin
Speaker 1: told me to get on.
Speaker 2: We needed you sat there and watched her immediately just
Speaker 2: start matching people.
Speaker 1: Yeah we don't they talking about that.
Speaker 2: That's why dating is so goddamn hard now because literally
Speaker 2: in the palm of your hand you got five options,
Speaker 2: where outside you're not going to get it. Like I
Speaker 2: remember back in the day going to the mall. The
Speaker 2: mall is where you used to go to compete with
Speaker 2: your friend.
Speaker 1: The mall. Again, we all shop online.
Speaker 3: Now niggas wouldn't even say yes.
Speaker 2: I guess that's why I'm trying to figure out go
Speaker 2: around and tell us where's the last dude y'all dated?
Speaker 1: Where'd you meet.
Speaker 4: Him or somebody you dated? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Sure, yeah, I feel like help.
Speaker 4: I feel like for me, like going through Instagram is
Speaker 4: kind of a thing.
Speaker 2: Is hot your shot? How you shooting your shot on Instagram?
Speaker 1: I don't really shoot my hilt too much. I just
Speaker 1: I just thought about it recently. But it's just like
Speaker 1: that's not something I'm used to doing.
Speaker 4: Okay, But I feel like it's better when somebody hit
Speaker 4: me and then I'm able to actually, like if they
Speaker 4: were in the same city or it's like possible for
Speaker 4: us to link.
Speaker 1: Soon, Like I'm not really good at Oh yeah, you
Speaker 1: hit me on social media?
Speaker 2: We got some day?
Speaker 1: Yeah, some day million follows. How do you find it? Bro?
Speaker 4: Well?
Speaker 6: They photo like okay, Like it's hard because when girls
Speaker 6: are in the industry, you feel like you can't even
Speaker 6: shoot your shot.
Speaker 2: Now you just gotta like more than three pictures, more
Speaker 2: than three pictures than you want.
Speaker 1: To you want to like. This is the type of picture.
Speaker 1: You can't put this on a dating map. This is
Speaker 1: only safe for I gau.
Speaker 6: You know, this is like too too far now too five.
Speaker 1: This is good for the girls, It's good for gay.
Speaker 3: You put on a dating app, it's like, oh you
Speaker 3: they want you overly going, so you don't even want
Speaker 3: to eat, like you want to go straight down.
Speaker 2: You just want to get eate. Where was the last
Speaker 2: place you met someone?
Speaker 4: I would say a good place to meet people to
Speaker 4: just and who I've met, like good people, mutual, like
Speaker 4: through mutual.
Speaker 1: Through mutual, you still friend.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think that's the safest. That's this web media somewhere,
Speaker 2: unless you're friends with.
Speaker 1: A whole bunch of Instagram.
Speaker 3: I put up this article recently of like how did
Speaker 3: people meet and everybody, and it asked people through the decade,
Speaker 3: people in their twenties, thirties, forties, people forties through sixties
Speaker 3: all mutuals, almost like eighty percent of them was mutual,
Speaker 3: and the twenties through thirties was dating apps. And I
Speaker 3: think it kind of shows you how like we're in
Speaker 3: this era of I don't want to step outside social anxiety,
Speaker 3: want to do But.
Speaker 1: When people have community, they be sharing it around.
Speaker 3: It's like my homeworner, try to give me the fuck
Speaker 3: your life.
Speaker 2: But yeah, I ain't mad at that.
Speaker 1: Oh you're the last one. Yeah, I really thought I
Speaker 1: was getting away with.
Speaker 4: No. Actually, last person I dated, I met them at
Speaker 4: the studio. Okay, actually, like they were in the industry too,
Speaker 4: So I met them at the studio and then like
Speaker 4: I didn't see them for a couple of years, and
Speaker 4: then we had another session like at their house, and
Speaker 4: then it was like it was like that's where we leaned,
Speaker 4: and I felt we made like a connection that was
Speaker 4: outside I.
Speaker 1: Really be liking to to. I don't know, like I feel.
Speaker 4: Like for me, like I'm just a song right on
Speaker 4: the little girl Like dating in the industry.
Speaker 3: What's y'all rule with dating people from work? Like you
Speaker 3: like dating people industry? How do y'all feel about it?
Speaker 1: I'm open to it. I haven't really experienced.
Speaker 2: Face you know you on camera?
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, she said, you know you on camera?
Speaker 1: Yeah, I would like to. I haven't. I don't listen.
Speaker 1: You don't have like I don't.
Speaker 4: I just feel like most of the people who try
Speaker 4: to talk to me are in the industry. But I
Speaker 4: would like to do something outside of.
Speaker 2: It, regular man listening. Shoot your shot, she said, she want.
Speaker 1: Agent, Like, yeah, like really.
Speaker 2: A little bit more, you said you girl. Y'all also
Speaker 2: got a record called lover Boy yes, So I want
Speaker 2: us all to go around. Man, this is where you
Speaker 2: take notes, y'all, this is where you take notes. I
Speaker 2: want us to all talk about what thing someone can
Speaker 2: do a partner man to make you mout that isn't sexual.
Speaker 4: Smell good, Pull up where I'm at, Yeah, make a
Speaker 4: whole big thing in front. Like I'm like like you yeah,
Speaker 4: I'm really like yeah, I want I want the world
Speaker 4: to know. I like for my friends to know, Like
Speaker 4: I like being places and it's like, oh where y'all,
Speaker 4: y'all y'all eating here?
Speaker 1: Okay, you pull up, come pay the tab, Like that's
Speaker 1: what I like. You know what I'm saying, Like.
Speaker 2: Y'all tell that nigga Kansas and he like mean Ptita
Speaker 2: for you and your friends.
Speaker 1: It'll happen. It will happen.
Speaker 2: Well, okay, you she said, I'm gonna be outside for al.
Speaker 2: That's why she said I don't.
Speaker 1: Want to be I think Miami, you can actually get
Speaker 1: me pull up.
Speaker 4: Or just like just pull up and show like effort,
Speaker 4: like if I'm at rehearsal and I've been there all day,
Speaker 4: like pull up, bring me something to eat.
Speaker 1: Or like you know, just pop in.
Speaker 4: Make you know you know I'm with it all, like
Speaker 4: I just like grand displays of affection.
Speaker 1: Okay, girl, I am.
Speaker 2: And y'all y'all gonna laugh at me. My ship now
Speaker 2: is take my trash.
Speaker 1: Out when you leave my house, and now my house.
Speaker 2: He took the trash and made the bit. He took
Speaker 2: the trache before going to the airport, and I was like, oh,
Speaker 2: this is nice. That made my bed every morning. I said, Okay,
Speaker 2: I was like, oh I like this, just.
Speaker 1: Those little attitudes.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because it's like you care about my space, which
Speaker 2: makes me feel like, yeah, what about you.
Speaker 4: I was just going to say, like somebody who definitely
Speaker 4: cares about what I like this period, like, so, well,
Speaker 4: who will cook for me?
Speaker 2: I still have not had that. It really happened. What's
Speaker 2: the best meal of Amanda cook for you? Oh?
Speaker 1: Sam? Because that's all they know. I can't. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I feel like my ex was like always oh he could,
Speaker 1: he could shive it up. Yeah, but yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 1: But his mac and cheese is good too.
Speaker 4: Somebody makes me feel safe, yes you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that. To listen she to that need
Speaker 1: as I gotta say what I want to love? What
Speaker 1: to do? Because I said, smell good, but that's not it.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I just want you, Yeah, definitely take care of
Speaker 4: your hygiene, make sure you're te straight, make sure you
Speaker 4: know all that type of stuff is very important. Because
Speaker 4: you love yourself then I know you love me so,
Speaker 4: but I definitely want the man to just I mean,
Speaker 4: y'all said all the things safe, show up and show
Speaker 4: it like I want a man to be okay, knowing
Speaker 4: he can like express himself and show you a little emotion,
Speaker 4: like you know, you get you safe to here to
Speaker 4: do that.
Speaker 1: I need you to be a man.
Speaker 4: You know, you could be grown and rural, but you
Speaker 4: could also be like if you need to talk to now.
Speaker 1: This is why someone super masculine you love that.
Speaker 3: I love this masculine man much like, to be honest
Speaker 3: with you. I think it's the thing that probably attracted
Speaker 3: my man to me, who's watching me boss up.
Speaker 1: And not just be like yes daddy, you know. And
Speaker 1: then in another place, I think seeing.
Speaker 3: Someone with duality, Yeah, their softness for you and men listening,
Speaker 3: I'm telling.
Speaker 1: You, we all want it. That's the softness right there.
Speaker 1: It's so weird to me. We don't need to be mean,
Speaker 1: we don't give a fuck if you're like being too hot,
Speaker 1: like good.
Speaker 2: So this is where we go to reactionary because you
Speaker 2: said you want to drive through the hood and feel safe.
Speaker 2: You said you want to hut nigga, You said you
Speaker 2: want to rough it.
Speaker 1: So I have this clip.
Speaker 2: It actually comes from my other podcast, Selective Ignorance. But
Speaker 2: Ray Daniels has something to say about us as women
Speaker 2: who might like the bad boy. And I want to
Speaker 2: know and I want us to dive.
Speaker 1: It's you with these faces. You aren't camera girl.
Speaker 2: They can see you.
Speaker 1: They gonna get into it. This is what he had
Speaker 1: to say.
Speaker 5: Most is the criminals, because women love criminals.
Speaker 1: Whoa, whoa, whoa what?
Speaker 2: Listen, let me tell you something.
Speaker 5: Let me tell you something.
Speaker 1: Criminals hit me out.
Speaker 5: No, no, hear me out. Here's the cycle that asked us.
Speaker 5: Our culture does and you don't want to hear it,
Speaker 5: but it's the truth.
Speaker 1: They like the bad guys.
Speaker 2: They have babies with the bad guys.
Speaker 5: The bad guys turned into terrible baby daddies and they
Speaker 5: got the good guys who wanted them when they was
Speaker 5: the ship, the come be step daddies, and they celebrate
Speaker 5: him in society. He's the bonus father, he's the great man.
Speaker 5: You didn't want him when you was You didn't want
Speaker 5: him when he was twenty one. You didn't want to because.
Speaker 1: He was lame.
Speaker 2: You didn't want to because he was lame.
Speaker 5: He women like coolug and Mariah is a beautiful girl,
Speaker 5: educated educated girl. Father is one of the most legendary coaches.
Speaker 5: He has a statue I heard she comes from a great,
Speaker 5: great everything.
Speaker 2: You still end up with a street guy.
Speaker 5: Women want to feel protected and street guys make you
Speaker 5: feel protected.
Speaker 4: Okay, but I'm gonna say this though, because I feel
Speaker 4: like mine, you know what I'm saying, Like mine is
Speaker 4: a text paying, law abiding citizen. You come up in
Speaker 4: his house, so you walk up on us like he's
Speaker 4: gonna lay it down, and that's I just feel like
Speaker 4: to me, like I don't think like a hood nigga
Speaker 4: is synonymous with being like someone who's safe, Like I
Speaker 4: think it's fun to me, like part of it, Like
Speaker 4: you know, we're from the South, so like niggas having
Speaker 4: guns and stuff down here, like you know, you know
Speaker 4: what I'm saying, Like it's regular, though I don't think
Speaker 4: that it's like we look at it like, oh, like
Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying, he's so hood, like I
Speaker 4: feel like what making niggahood is like? And so I
Speaker 4: don't know because I feel like I'll go to the hood,
Speaker 4: but it's not giving like this niggas dangerous, Like you
Speaker 4: know what I'm saying, he still operates.
Speaker 2: And how do you how do you then define what
Speaker 2: a bad guy is or a bad boy or you know,
Speaker 2: it's not let's remove that's getting out of jail.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it's like a criminal.
Speaker 2: So do you disagree with him saying that women actually
Speaker 2: don't like criminals or do y'all believe that there is
Speaker 2: a thing where women like someone who didn't had a
Speaker 2: little time.
Speaker 1: There's some women who do like after lock up.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, we're not looking like, oh you went to jail,
Speaker 4: I want you so that that don't that don't give
Speaker 4: me like, yes.
Speaker 3: Two men's are wrong because women like masculinity, and that's
Speaker 3: what it is. We only get to really see displays
Speaker 3: of masculinity with men that feel like they have to
Speaker 3: be in that. So the corporate nigga is probably not
Speaker 3: going to show you that, right, But that's what I'm saying,
Speaker 3: seeing those displays, it probably comes from that guy particularly
Speaker 3: with me though, if I'm being honest, like everything in
Speaker 3: my life is misfit. I just brought up Steve Lacy,
Speaker 3: I'm probably going to bug out over him over any
Speaker 3: other rapper, right because I like misfit shit. Every business
Speaker 3: I own is built off of being outcast or misfit
Speaker 3: in this podcast, so like I like misfit niggas, e'sn
Speaker 3: when I'm dating girls the same, So sometimes it does
Speaker 3: skew the way to bad people look at me.
Speaker 1: Like bad girl. I have a sex podcast.
Speaker 3: I am the exact same way I am the girl
Speaker 3: you shouldn't date. So I generally just I connect that
Speaker 3: way with those women, with those people friendship anything. But
Speaker 3: I think from an attractivity standpoint, corporate men, well to
Speaker 3: do men lean on their money and bad boyshood, Niggas
Speaker 3: et cetera lean on their strength and safety. You ask
Speaker 3: any woman what they want for man, safety is gonna
Speaker 3: come out first because you are always.
Speaker 1: Used to feeling unsafe by men.
Speaker 3: One in four women have been assaulted in this room
Speaker 3: is probably more than that, and they're five. So I
Speaker 3: say that to say this is such a jaded point
Speaker 3: of view. Niggas aren't committing crimes for women like around.
Speaker 2: They want to the accountability work off there, but I do.
Speaker 2: I do know and agree that women do like the
Speaker 2: the bad boy aesthetic. Yeah, essentially like because safety.
Speaker 1: Other ones don't.
Speaker 2: But that's but that's where I feel like that is
Speaker 2: a false sense to me. Every time I watched First
Speaker 2: forty eight, it's the bitch that got killed because she
Speaker 2: was at the wrong place, wrong time because she was
Speaker 2: with a nigga that she shouldn't have been around seas
Speaker 2: And that's like to me, I don't see how you
Speaker 2: could be safe or feel safe around someone who has
Speaker 2: to carry a gun or around someone who has an
Speaker 2: environment that is not a safe one. I never understood that,
Speaker 2: which is why I'm out here. Every other nigga that
Speaker 2: I D got a PhD and now I can't call
Speaker 2: them off PhD on the podcast.
Speaker 3: But they've been telling you like so for example, right yep,
Speaker 3: are they saying things to you about how they're going
Speaker 3: to take care of you keep you safe?
Speaker 1: Like they are they talking like that?
Speaker 3: Because I'm gonna be real when I think hood niggas
Speaker 3: they do that all the time.
Speaker 1: You make sure you could baby you this that they're.
Speaker 3: Concerned with also physical safety, which generally other men don't
Speaker 3: talk about because they ain't worried about it. Yeah, so
Speaker 3: it's like you keep hearing it and you start to
Speaker 3: get it in your head. I ain't saying we right,
Speaker 3: but they're just the ones that presenting that ship.
Speaker 1: I mean, I ain't gonna lie.
Speaker 4: I think he a little hurt though, too, And I
Speaker 4: think that like a lot of it is like for
Speaker 4: at least for me, Like I feel like the corporate
Speaker 4: God could offer you safety, right, you.
Speaker 1: Know what his safety is though?
Speaker 4: Is the peace though too, Like it's the calm, so
Speaker 4: you don't have to say it's safe because it is.
Speaker 2: But I guess that's where I also consider my surroundings, right,
Speaker 2: So like this idea of a man having to protect me, bitch,
Speaker 2: we're gonna eat sushi like, bitch, we at the saint
Speaker 2: regions we are in like, So it's also environments, so
Speaker 2: if you have to feel like a man because you
Speaker 2: not in the right space.
Speaker 4: My mama used to be big on that too, Like
Speaker 4: she always would tell me, like, you don't want to
Speaker 4: be like you could be with a nigga in the
Speaker 4: hood and think everything fine and the fat come kick
Speaker 4: the door. And now you're going to jail to like
Speaker 4: that's all I literally to me. So like for me,
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna sit in the trap with you.
Speaker 1: And I feel like a guy. Yeah I'm not. I'm not.
Speaker 4: I'm not sitting in the car like I'm not put
Speaker 4: like I'm not going with you want to run and
Speaker 4: I'm not pulling up And I mean I'll pull up
Speaker 4: to like where you at if we like, oh, come
Speaker 4: meet me over here. We're about to go wherever, Like
Speaker 4: I'll meet you wherever. That's cruel, but like I'm not
Speaker 4: gonna just be posted up to me. I feel like
Speaker 4: it's a lack of like respect to And I'm like
Speaker 4: a man who really like respect you and love you
Speaker 4: and want to keep you safe, like if he know
Speaker 4: he in an environment where it's like something going on
Speaker 4: that ain't right, like he's gonna be like.
Speaker 1: Listen, like he ain't safe over here. He's not gonna
Speaker 1: tell you.
Speaker 4: But even if you're gonna eat sushi, just a man
Speaker 4: who's just like aware, like wh like even if we're
Speaker 4: not in a safe I mean we are in a
Speaker 4: safe environment, Like I'm making sure you good. I'm making
Speaker 4: sure we're good, like you just feel sick. That's what
Speaker 4: anybody would walk up on this.
Speaker 2: So you know how man shows up in his true
Speaker 2: masculine He got to be in the seat to face
Speaker 2: the door.
Speaker 4: Yeah, gotta be hood man, like just somebody who does
Speaker 4: things to make you feel sick. And some of the
Speaker 4: manager just like they group that they like grew up
Speaker 4: in the street, but they're not there no more. They
Speaker 4: doing other stuff now and they like got it just
Speaker 4: that street knowledge, and you know you want them to
Speaker 4: head you.
Speaker 1: Know the hardware. Look, I'm thinking, just treat you like
Speaker 1: a principal.
Speaker 3: My first time like realizing that I was dating the
Speaker 3: drug maybe, I was like the early twenties and I'm
Speaker 3: dating this traffic to get and he starts driving me
Speaker 3: through the spot and I'm like, first of all, we
Speaker 3: live downtown, why are we going in this area?
Speaker 1: Yeah? So then I said to him when we passing
Speaker 1: the track, I said, I didn't even know you go here.
Speaker 1: Why don't you just tell other people to go here? Bro?
Speaker 3: When I got home and was telling my friends, say like,
Speaker 3: did you date a drug dealer?
Speaker 1: Shot that he took you to the drugs, I am shocked. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't understand, and I agree with you.
Speaker 3: And you know what, it made me realize, just to
Speaker 3: your point about men respecting you, I probably wasn't the
Speaker 3: main girl he was talking to. You probably had a
Speaker 3: girl at home and needed to take me to work,
Speaker 3: because that's when a na so final consensus is ladies listening.
Speaker 2: If you are dating a drug dealer and he brings
Speaker 2: you around the drugs, he doesn't respect you. Is this
Speaker 2: the parallel with.
Speaker 1: Drunk own on the other drug? But like I shouldn't know,
Speaker 1: I shouldn't know, I shouldn't know, like.
Speaker 4: I gotta I don't want to even put you right.
Speaker 4: He don't want you to be like if something goes
Speaker 4: down right you so you say them for drugs and
Speaker 4: like when they pulled up to his house to come
Speaker 4: get him, like they couldn't take his girl because she
Speaker 4: didn't know nothing about us, and that like she didn't
Speaker 4: even know.
Speaker 2: The extent of what was happening. She never knew what
Speaker 2: hel girl that was. Pablo Escobar said the same thing.
Speaker 4: Nobody's like, but you know when the fast, when the
Speaker 4: fans come, they know they know who was a part
Speaker 4: of it. Like the fans not coming unless they come
Speaker 4: in with every single piece of like that's why they
Speaker 4: have a ninety eight percent conviction rate, because when they
Speaker 4: come in, they got the full story.
Speaker 2: Okay, so we're talking about all the things that these
Speaker 2: men do wrong. We're gonna lean into make a scene. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: So I want to know each of y'all stories of
Speaker 2: your crash outs, what the guy did, and how you
Speaker 2: made a scene.
Speaker 1: I feel like you might have a good one because
Speaker 1: now that you've got a four year old and the hormones,
Speaker 1: I know you had a baby crash out. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: say I don't crash out too much.
Speaker 2: You don't crash out too much.
Speaker 1: You're a you're a liar. Yeah, I'm like a different
Speaker 1: type of Prices. I don't know what it is. I
Speaker 1: know a lot of who like crush out February prices.
Speaker 4: I'm a March I'm the last day of okay, March twenty,
Speaker 4: and I will crash the car.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like I didn't.
Speaker 1: He fucked me off. I'm crazy crazy, You're like me.
Speaker 1: I don't.
Speaker 2: I don't crush out either.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 4: It's not a lot, like they always say, like, it's
Speaker 4: not a it takes a lot to get me mad.
Speaker 2: So okay, so they got the good stories. That means
Speaker 2: data crash out a thing, we can see you. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I know. I need to know what he did to
Speaker 2: make you crush out and how you crush out.
Speaker 4: Okay, I haven't crushed out. I'm not a crush out person. Okay,
Speaker 4: yeah I'm not. I'm not here.
Speaker 1: We go.
Speaker 2: Okay, so what did he do and what was the
Speaker 2: crash out?
Speaker 4: So like we actually used to like live together at
Speaker 4: one point. This is when we're broken up now, but
Speaker 4: we used to live together. And so he had I
Speaker 4: can't really remember what it was he said or something,
Speaker 4: but he was having a session downstairs, like in the basement.
Speaker 4: So I was pissed about whatever. I go down there,
Speaker 4: like I start going off. I slam the door. He
Speaker 4: comes upstairs, like behind you were walking upstairs. So I
Speaker 4: go into the room and open the door put a
Speaker 4: hole in the wall. So now we're arguing about the
Speaker 4: hole in the wall. But really I didn't mean to
Speaker 4: put the hole in the wall. I just was like
Speaker 4: opening the door. But it wasn't an offer on the thing,
Speaker 4: So I mean, I didn't know that was going to happen.
Speaker 1: He's like, are you tripping back? You put all of
Speaker 1: my wall.
Speaker 4: And then you come downstairs and you're talking to me
Speaker 4: crazy in front of like, you know, the guys he
Speaker 4: was working with.
Speaker 1: I'm like, give a fuck.
Speaker 4: You know, we just like going back and forth. And
Speaker 4: I mean that was probably like the biggest thing that's ever.
Speaker 4: I ain't never like busting no windows or even messing
Speaker 4: up property intentionally.
Speaker 1: Except that was It wasn't intentional.
Speaker 2: It wasn't see I had a thought to crash out,
Speaker 2: but I never did. But then I thought my fantasy
Speaker 2: was the Keida's nigga car. Then I thought about jail,
Speaker 2: so I was gonna pay a crackhead to do it.
Speaker 2: I was just gonna be like, I know, you had
Speaker 2: this little yeah, I had, I had it planned out,
Speaker 2: but then I decided to not bitch. I thought about it.
Speaker 2: You see what I mean, as women happens when all
Speaker 2: you see is red, you black out. You donet had
Speaker 2: enough and there's no spak.
Speaker 1: I will tell you.
Speaker 3: Living in New York City, I've had really good tide
Speaker 3: about crash outs on the phone to a friend, to
Speaker 3: my nigga. Actually he was laughing at the last one.
Speaker 3: It wasn't really like a real We don't really fight.
Speaker 1: I think he just knows I'm a nut, and he'd.
Speaker 3: Just be like, okay, baby. Were walking down the streets,
Speaker 3: picked up his phone and I thought it was a nude,
Speaker 3: and it was a nude, but it was in the
Speaker 3: What's appen like niggas was just saying ship. So I'm thinking,
Speaker 3: some bitch just sitting to him directly. So I'm thinking
Speaker 3: this whole time we had dinner or whatever, like you
Speaker 3: just getting pussing in your phone.
Speaker 1: So he pulls it up and the.
Speaker 2: Group chat for men be filthy, oh.
Speaker 1: Right, ask and I'm.
Speaker 3: Just like, hold on, we were just talking and he
Speaker 3: ain't having a lovely time talking about babies and ship
Speaker 3: and you got motherfucker pussy on your phone. So now
Speaker 3: he looking around and my homegirls is next to me,
Speaker 3: right out for the birthday.
Speaker 1: He's like, I'm like, I'm gonna funk about him. Bitches.
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck about them. Nigga, who is
Speaker 1: that in the restaurant?
Speaker 2: He's like, this is just you know, with y'all dropping
Speaker 2: new music and stuff, what are the topics that we
Speaker 2: can expect because clearly y'all not busting windows out of cars,
Speaker 2: so we're not hearing that y'all.
Speaker 1: Are We like to like make stories though and stuff
Speaker 1: talking about what we would be in a situation. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Car hav a song.
Speaker 2: And none of y'all and Kida goddamn car people live.
Speaker 2: They rhymes and raps and ship like that.
Speaker 1: But we got storytelling, so you gotta take that picture.
Speaker 4: That's a part of being an artist, Like it's about
Speaker 4: saying something like how you would do it and somebody
Speaker 4: related he.
Speaker 2: If y'all can leave into any of your records now
Speaker 2: that match where you're actually at the in life, what
Speaker 2: would those records be t t because body te body,
Speaker 2: that's that's that's the record.
Speaker 4: We love a song love boy for me, I think, okay,
Speaker 4: my verse you.
Speaker 2: Like grandiose acts of things to put hold them?
Speaker 4: Oh no, I heard a terrible but I just do
Speaker 4: That's all I was gonna say. Yeah, I've heard bad
Speaker 4: things about look at.
Speaker 2: Bad things about every man.
Speaker 7: Yeah you said with your music like putting it out
Speaker 7: back in the day, and now do you feel like
Speaker 7: you got to be like super TikTok Like no, no.
Speaker 1: Not super.
Speaker 4: We pretty much just like enjoy using all the social
Speaker 4: media platforms because we've been like utilizing it our whole career,
Speaker 4: Like we always feel like a yeah, yeah, yeah pretty much,
Speaker 4: like like we're like very connected with just social media period.
Speaker 2: Like it's like we've had this part for nine years.
Speaker 2: They're absolutely episode. There are episodes where I'm like, why
Speaker 2: the fuck did I say that? Hate that I say that?
Speaker 2: But it's Do y'all have any songs or anything that
Speaker 2: has come out where y'all like y'all were young, it
Speaker 2: was ten years ago or whatever that y'all are like,
Speaker 2: hate that record, hate that verse, hate that. Do y'all
Speaker 2: have anything like that?
Speaker 4: I have a lot of moments where I'm just like
Speaker 4: I just sound like such a kid. Yeah, so irritated
Speaker 4: at it, like because i feel like like my voice
Speaker 4: has grown so much, So I'm just like like I
Speaker 4: don't hate the song, but I just hate my part.
Speaker 1: I don't want to listen to it. Yeah.
Speaker 4: I feel like I've kind of had like those same
Speaker 4: type of moments. I feel like so much of what
Speaker 4: we've done has been so like public, like we've really
Speaker 4: grown up in front of people.
Speaker 1: So it's like a lot of this stuff, a lot
Speaker 1: of stuff out there.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it is, It's like so much it's like you
Speaker 4: can't even worry about it.
Speaker 3: What's been the biggest like misconception people have had since
Speaker 3: you've grown up in the public eye about you.
Speaker 1: That's kind of.
Speaker 4: Hurt, I would say, not for me at least, Like
Speaker 4: people are fans are like not our fans, but like
Speaker 4: people who weren't fans of us, because like back when
Speaker 4: we were coming up, it was like Team I List
Speaker 4: and then they had like Team OMG, and it was
Speaker 4: like a big like stand thing that they used to
Speaker 4: do on Twitter. But everybody used to think I was
Speaker 4: so mean because I used to clap back, but I
Speaker 4: never I.
Speaker 2: Love clipping back and I love about your mama.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love these girls. I'm going to defend them
Speaker 1: like I'm gonna defend us. I don't care.
Speaker 4: So I feel like that was kind of like the
Speaker 4: thing that used to hurt me the most. I'm like,
Speaker 4: I'm really not a mean person, but mean it's not mean.
Speaker 1: Like y'all y'all being mean. Yeah, yeah, y'all making me
Speaker 1: do this. It's like y'all making me do this.
Speaker 2: Like, now, what would happen if y'all met a guy
Speaker 2: on a dating app y'all decide to get into the
Speaker 2: bedroom and he puts on your music to have sex too.
Speaker 2: Are you are you doing that?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 1: All of it?
Speaker 2: Look at I see your face because that's mine.
Speaker 4: Yeah, fan, god it We like to ask this because
Speaker 4: we likes fans.
Speaker 2: Would y'all a fan?
Speaker 1: Probably a fan. You're gonna talk about it forever. Look
Speaker 1: at that boy, that favor I'm still.
Speaker 4: Still talking about, Like that's crazy.
Speaker 1: What song you're gonna put on? Anyway? I'm still still
Speaker 1: at you saying that it's like.
Speaker 3: A hard like love okay, Like when I was interviewing
Speaker 3: the Empires, right, I'm like, I understand it would be
Speaker 3: weird if someone plays your music, but genuinely speaking, like
Speaker 3: if I type in.
Speaker 1: Like there's still love songs come up? What if I
Speaker 1: you just stroke your like comes in the like random
Speaker 1: shuffle yeah mine, oh my pussy? Like what the are
Speaker 1: you about to do? Because like, I can't imagine what
Speaker 1: artists that have so much. I'm trying to think, who's
Speaker 1: a girl? I like the come on.
Speaker 2: Now a leg we're going don't come on? Like I'm
Speaker 2: feeling like I don't like music though y'all know, oh
Speaker 2: you don't funk to music.
Speaker 1: I don't like to like. I just feel like it's quiet.
Speaker 1: It makes me think it may feel like I gotta be.
Speaker 3: Us.
Speaker 4: I'm not even like it.
Speaker 2: I like the place. Don't like a radio bitch.
Speaker 1: We get into quiet. No, like sometimes one.
Speaker 2: Time, Oh my god, I had to turn it so
Speaker 2: on YouTube on YouTube, it was so funny. So there's
Speaker 2: these things on YouTube where it's like white people versus
Speaker 2: Mexican people try each other's tacos, more like Korean people
Speaker 2: try black people fried chicken. I just want to got
Speaker 2: so I'm showing him. I said, oh, I love watching
Speaker 2: these and they like, so I start sucking his but
Speaker 2: they're literally talking about the crunch of chicken in the background,
Speaker 2: and I said, oh, yeah, I hearing.
Speaker 1: This week y'all watch the Beautium. But I just started
Speaker 1: your show.
Speaker 2: I love yeah, I love it.
Speaker 3: Mallory right when the dick is in my mouth, she
Speaker 3: starts going, yeah you yo, daddy sucking the same piece
Speaker 3: of Yeah, but me and him both and.
Speaker 4: He was like, yeah, okay, okay, I'm on the second episode.
Speaker 1: Anybody else, I don't want to hear this.
Speaker 3: Tyler Perry makes get I don't give a fun this
Speaker 3: is phenomenal.
Speaker 1: Tell I don't care. I don't care. The writing is
Speaker 1: just so unpredictable to.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yes, yeah, if I'm really saying, they're like, oh
Speaker 4: my god, it's head blowing off.
Speaker 1: I don't care if the blowoff is weird. I wasn't
Speaker 1: get yeah this one.
Speaker 2: Y'all make very very happy, positive music. I need you
Speaker 2: all to get into your depressed bag. I need you
Speaker 2: to get into like your he thinks were gonna keep going,
Speaker 2: which I think I make a scene is like falling
Speaker 2: for a guy that is doing up. Ship ain't time right?
Speaker 2: You you like him, but he just ain't right. It's
Speaker 2: kind of like you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're not saying he like, miss you like, but
Speaker 4: you ain't calling you.
Speaker 2: No, don't tell me you missed me. And I don't
Speaker 2: feel it.
Speaker 1: Him outside of the boom box.
Speaker 2: Hug last night and I text my three diggers and
Speaker 2: I said I needed a hug last night, and the
Speaker 2: y'all said, I wish I was there to give you
Speaker 2: a hugg And I felt like they really wish they
Speaker 2: gave me a hug. So I need to feel. I
Speaker 2: need to feel the words. I don't just like words
Speaker 2: being said.
Speaker 1: Have y'all written about someone and they got mad and
Speaker 1: got mad that like the song.
Speaker 2: You're Not but I wrote about it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like we have a lot of songs
Speaker 1: that boys are unreleased. I feel that are very much
Speaker 1: like you know, he's dropping, that's what we need you
Speaker 1: love still need it? Yeah, I want to ride.
Speaker 4: Like yeah, like the don't know we probably had growing up
Speaker 4: was boy it's over because it's like the end of
Speaker 4: the relationship and saying like how you open him?
Speaker 1: Like you mean all that like you thought you was
Speaker 1: what you ain't.
Speaker 4: So, I mean that was the most of but like
Speaker 4: she said, a lot of the unreleased stuff is more so.
Speaker 1: What is it going to be released?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 4: So you're working on our project right now. I don't
Speaker 4: think it's going to drop like this Year'll probably be
Speaker 4: early next year. It's like we're perfectionists and then Untie's
Speaker 4: a super Perfections and.
Speaker 1: That's our first project. Yeah.
Speaker 4: It's like she's very big on the sound and how
Speaker 4: it comes together sonically. But I'm thinking, and I feel
Speaker 4: like we're all thinking kind of the top of next
Speaker 4: year single in the year out you know, lead into
Speaker 4: like our project very single.
Speaker 3: And videos support you. That's a great note to end on. Honestly,
Speaker 3: tell us how people can support you? Today, Like, what's
Speaker 3: the best way to like get them dollars?
Speaker 2: Yes, streaming, Yes, everywhere, purchase it.
Speaker 4: Purchase it on the music Spotify, Google Play, every music
Speaker 4: play form there is. And our page is the real
Speaker 4: og girls on basically everything Twitter and TikTok Yes, what
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Speaker 1: Girls And who's open for DM slide get in there,
Speaker 1: let's see what list ideas?
Speaker 2: Yeah, they said slide and then so they said she
Speaker 2: wants you to nine to five with a four oh
Speaker 2: one K. Thank you ladies so much. What's fun ya
Speaker 2: girlsiod Hey, y'all already know we have our book, No
Speaker 2: Holds Barred Doing Manifesto of Sexual Exploration and Power, available
Speaker 2: wherever you get books. Leave a review if you write
Speaker 2: it already, that would be great. And we talked a
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Speaker 2: is still here. Go to patreon dot com backslash Horrible Decisions.
Speaker 2: Make sure y'all follow the for all these ladies, and
Speaker 2: we're gonna get pre music next year curiods because they
Speaker 2: gonna release the unreleased Hey, and then make sure right
Speaker 2: now you stream tea.
Speaker 1: Yes, here you are.
Speaker 2: I'm on radio now, so I kind of know how
Speaker 2: to do this.
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 2: Y'all listening to me every Saturday six to eight A
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Speaker 2: for tuning in to another episode. Decisions, Decision, everybody. Yeah,