WEBVTT - Holiday Rewind: “Sequestering Yourself in a Corner” | Work Parties

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<v Speaker 1>Don't gossip.

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<v Speaker 2>Next next, next one, next one, more better.

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<v Speaker 1>Or better.

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<v Speaker 2>Better more welcome? Sorry, you know what this is, what

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<v Speaker 2>it is. It is what it is, guys. If you

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<v Speaker 2>don't know by now it you don't know me.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, really off key, Welcome to More Better, a podcast

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<v Speaker 3>where we stop pretending to have it all together and

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<v Speaker 3>embrace the journey of being off key and becoming a

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<v Speaker 3>little more better every day, or at least trying to.

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<v Speaker 2>That's Melissa Famiro. That's Stephanie Beatrice. Oh man, we're off

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<v Speaker 2>to a great start. Great start, great start, doing great.

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<v Speaker 2>We're doing great, Melsa, what have you done that's a

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<v Speaker 2>little more better? Let me just take that back, let

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<v Speaker 2>me let me try to more and better that okay,

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<v Speaker 2>hold on? Yeah, well Lissa, what have you done lately?

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<v Speaker 2>That's a little more better? That's natural, so natural, so natural.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, Stephanie, I literally can't think of anything because I'm

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<v Speaker 4>drowning currently.

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<v Speaker 1>No, that sounds you know what. I'm just tired. My

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<v Speaker 1>More Better this week is just being okay with the

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<v Speaker 1>bare men of mum. We're just keeping it basic. That's

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<v Speaker 1>come up for air.

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<v Speaker 2>That's good.

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<v Speaker 1>What have you been doing, Stephanie?

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<v Speaker 2>That's more better. Uh, you know, I am the opposite

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<v Speaker 2>right now. I don't have anything going on other than

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<v Speaker 2>like I am in a little bit of a waiting

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<v Speaker 2>game because my next job doesn't start for a little while.

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<v Speaker 2>So I took it upon myself to you know how

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<v Speaker 2>you read in the mom blogs and stuff that you're

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<v Speaker 2>supposed to cycle their toys out if you don't have kids.

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<v Speaker 2>What that means is to help them have a better brain.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, be a better human. I'm not sure

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<v Speaker 2>you're supposed to take some of their toys away and

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<v Speaker 2>put other ones out so they're not overwhelmed by like

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<v Speaker 2>a bunch of toys. And also you you like it's

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<v Speaker 2>like introducing new toys to them because they're kind of

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<v Speaker 2>goldfishy a little bit about toys, or like, well this

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<v Speaker 2>is new? What's this? So I've never done it before.

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<v Speaker 2>I did it today. I had some time. I took

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<v Speaker 2>a bunch of stuff out of her toys. I put

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<v Speaker 2>it in some bins. I moved them to the basement,

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<v Speaker 2>and uh, she didn't notice. I don't know is that

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<v Speaker 2>good or bad?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? I know they want out of sight, out of mind,

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<v Speaker 1>like every kid at that age, every toddler, they'll just forget.

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<v Speaker 1>I love hiding things all the time. Joys that annoy me.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, man, I mean fingers crossed. This child is.

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<v Speaker 2>This child is not barely playing by herself. She's like, Mommy,

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<v Speaker 2>you want to come and play with me. I'm like, man,

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<v Speaker 2>I get paid to play pretend. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>play pretend for free. I'm trying to do this every

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<v Speaker 2>day for free. I'm putting on voices, I'm doing an

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<v Speaker 2>old show.

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<v Speaker 4>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>That's how I feel. I can't do it. Bro, Are

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<v Speaker 2>you cutting me a check person? You know? Then the

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<v Speaker 2>answers no, yeah, more better. Speaking of work, that's what

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<v Speaker 2>we wanted to talk about this week. We're going to

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<v Speaker 2>be discussing work parties. I already feel anxious. How do

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<v Speaker 2>you feel about work parties? You know, you know, work

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<v Speaker 2>parties specifically, they are not regular parties, right, No, I

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<v Speaker 2>would say, like normally big work parties around the holidays, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like there's summer soys too, like summers of

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<v Speaker 1>the okay, big kind of time, or like if your

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<v Speaker 1>work has.

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<v Speaker 2>Some kind of big event, like if you're going to oh, conventions, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we're going as convention and then on Friday, We're hosting

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<v Speaker 2>a dinner for everybody from blah blah blah. So come

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<v Speaker 2>on down to the TGI Fridays and hang out.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>The thing about it, though, is that you're not only

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<v Speaker 2>with friends, right, you're at work.

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<v Speaker 1>You're at work, that's the thing. Yeah, You're not at

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<v Speaker 1>a party, You're at work. You're working. Do you like

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<v Speaker 1>work parties?

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<v Speaker 2>I really struggle with this. I really struggle with this. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and I've learned to do better at it as I've

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<v Speaker 2>gotten older. But like, the hard thing about them is

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<v Speaker 2>like they're with people from work, so like these are

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes the people that are going to give you another

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<v Speaker 2>job later. Maybe you know, for us, it's slightly different

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<v Speaker 2>because like for us, we really do go job to job. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we'll not necessarily freelance, but we do kind of as actors,

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<v Speaker 2>we kind of function that way, whereas like we'll wrap

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<v Speaker 2>a job and then you know, we can go for

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<v Speaker 2>many years on that job. But then oftentimes we'll go

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<v Speaker 2>to another job, or we'll go to do a movie,

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<v Speaker 2>or we'll go to do something else in another forum

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<v Speaker 2>of this art forum. And so, like work parties, you

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<v Speaker 2>really partying with a lot of people who either are

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<v Speaker 2>in the cast or their crew or production.

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<v Speaker 1>Heads of studios, executives studios.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes, Oh my god. You know who's really good at

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<v Speaker 2>these Laura Ash She's great at a work party. She

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<v Speaker 2>knows everyone's name, she remembers everybody. I am not good

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<v Speaker 2>at it.

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<v Speaker 1>Bro, Bro, I'm not good at it.

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<v Speaker 2>Each I can't. I'm really bad at it.

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<v Speaker 1>They make me feel really anxious.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I think same.

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<v Speaker 1>I've gotten a little bit better over the years. I

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<v Speaker 1>remember the first few that we had to go to

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<v Speaker 1>for Brooklyn, like even my manager being like, maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>should have a drink, Like just have wondrink when you

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<v Speaker 1>get there, Just have one drink when you get there

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<v Speaker 1>to relax, yes, to just like kind of take an

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<v Speaker 1>edge off.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, But like if you're not drinking, I'm not drinking,

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<v Speaker 2>So like, right, I was super nervous about this rap

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<v Speaker 2>party because I was like, I can't have a beer.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't like do that right now, you know. But

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<v Speaker 2>from you know, it's a choice that I'm making. But

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<v Speaker 2>like it's definitely easy to lean on substances when you're

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<v Speaker 2>sort of feeling like, well, I feel nervous and I'm anxious.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, there's nothing wrong with that.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, there's nothing wrong with that. But also

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<v Speaker 1>like you have to be careful too, because sometimes over

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<v Speaker 1>indulging at a work party is the most anxiety inducing

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<v Speaker 1>thing that could happen, of just being in the middle

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<v Speaker 1>of a work party and being like, oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm I'm drunk. Do you remember that first dinner we

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<v Speaker 2>went to, that very very first dinner that we went

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<v Speaker 2>to after I think we shot the pilot for Brooklyn? Yes, maybe,

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<v Speaker 2>do you remember what I'm talking about? Yeah, Yota, I think.

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<v Speaker 1>It was Mozza in the Present Room.

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<v Speaker 2>Great wonderful restaurant here in La so good, really good,

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<v Speaker 2>like pizza Italian food, Nancy Silverton. Right, anyway, Yes, we

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<v Speaker 2>were at this work party and you know, for me,

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<v Speaker 2>I was really my first big TV thing that I'd

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<v Speaker 2>ever done, and so like I'd honestly never gone to

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<v Speaker 2>a dinner where like the studio was like paying for

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<v Speaker 2>the dinner, and it was like you can have whatever

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<v Speaker 2>you want to drink, you know, So I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'll get wine. Do you remember this. I had so

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<v Speaker 2>many glasses of wine because I was so nervous, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was sitting next to Mike Sure and I turned

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<v Speaker 2>to him. At one point I was like, I think

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<v Speaker 2>I've had too much to drink, and God bless Mike Sure.

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<v Speaker 2>He was like, you should go home now. Oh, you

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<v Speaker 2>should call a car and go home right now. And

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<v Speaker 2>I was like I should without saying goodbye. He was like,

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<v Speaker 2>you don't have to say goodbye, just go home. God

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<v Speaker 2>bless him, because I was ripped, ma'am. I was rip

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<v Speaker 2>I don't remember that. Did you just go disappear? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>I just left. I just left because I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>if Mike Sure says I should go home, I should

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<v Speaker 2>go home.

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<v Speaker 1>I now remember that. Yeah, I think I do remember

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<v Speaker 1>turning around and being like, where's that go?

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<v Speaker 2>Where'd she go? Because I had like a bottle of

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<v Speaker 2>wine by myself because I was so nervous. Yeah, ridiculous, ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 1>I also remember, uh, we would have to do these parties,

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<v Speaker 1>uh for oh god, people that are listening that are

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<v Speaker 1>not in this job that were. The TCAs were always

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<v Speaker 1>the biggest, most anxiety inducing kind of parties for me.

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<v Speaker 1>So the TCAs were like Television Critics Association have this

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<v Speaker 1>big party, uh twice a year. Right, there's like a

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<v Speaker 1>fall in a spring one and it's essentially this party

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<v Speaker 1>where you go and all the heads of studio were there,

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<v Speaker 1>and like everybody, you know, if it's Fox, all the

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<v Speaker 1>people from Fox shows are there. So it's full of

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<v Speaker 1>actors and it's full of journalists and they tell you

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<v Speaker 1>you will be on the record when you go to

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<v Speaker 1>this party, and you basically just make around and then

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<v Speaker 1>they give you alcohol and you walk around this party

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<v Speaker 1>and journalists just come up to you and they're like, so,

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<v Speaker 1>tell me about your show, and they'll just like it's

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<v Speaker 1>like random interviews. But then also sometimes you just are

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<v Speaker 1>having a conversation and halfway through you're like, wait, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>talking to a journalist.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah this record, Yeah yeah, And then you're like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>what did I just say? But it's too comfortable, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Those were oh my god, I would be I think

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<v Speaker 1>that was one of the parties where my manager was like,

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<v Speaker 1>have a drink because like you need to relax, and

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, there was always that thing of like

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<v Speaker 1>make sure you go up and say hi to like

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<v Speaker 1>the heads of the studios, which is like the worst,

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<v Speaker 1>and I would always forget their names right as I

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<v Speaker 1>was going up, which is really really bad. And then

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<v Speaker 1>just like seeing actors from other shows, like I'm really

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<v Speaker 1>good with faces and not names, and I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>know how to get better at that. But it was

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<v Speaker 1>just awkward. And I felt awkward the whole time and

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<v Speaker 1>like sweating and just in this like high state of anxiety,

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<v Speaker 1>just trying not to like sound dumb or look dumb,

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<v Speaker 1>and just trying to relax and like have a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>And I remember there was one where we it was

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<v Speaker 1>like a few seasons in so we had done a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of them, and I think we were all like

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<v Speaker 1>a little more comfortable with them now, but we basically

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<v Speaker 1>went to like the back of the restaurant and found

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<v Speaker 1>a corner and we all just hung out, like the

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<v Speaker 1>whole cast. We just hung out. Do you remember this?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't remember that. Where were we? Do you? It

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<v Speaker 2>was like the one at the Soho House? Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what. I I don't remember that because I

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<v Speaker 2>was with Joel and Dirk eating with them at the

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<v Speaker 2>buffet at the dessert buvey, and I was eating with them.

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<v Speaker 2>We were just like standing there as close as we

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<v Speaker 2>could to the dessert eating. That's why I don't remember that.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, where's everybody? Yeah? I thought it was

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<v Speaker 2>all of us.

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<v Speaker 1>We were all just and then it was great because

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<v Speaker 1>imas were eating, we kind of some journalists came up

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<v Speaker 1>and talked to us. But I think that then as

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<v Speaker 1>a group we were I don't know if we were

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<v Speaker 1>like intimidating or like not that many people came up

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<v Speaker 1>to us and we just that's so funny, hung out

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<v Speaker 1>and ended up having like a great time. And I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, is that the answer just to quester.

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<v Speaker 2>Yourself so people in a corner?

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<v Speaker 1>But probably not.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean sometimes more better, more better. I think it

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<v Speaker 2>depends on what you want out of the party, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Like that's the thing I think I've started to get to. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>and like as I get older, I'm like, okay, so

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<v Speaker 2>what is it that's making me anxious about this party?

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<v Speaker 1>Right? So?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh, because I'm gonna see all these people and like

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if I have anything to talk to about.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like the thing that I have to remember is

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<v Speaker 2>every single person at that holiday party or at that

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<v Speaker 2>work party. It's like everybody there. First of all, sometimes

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<v Speaker 2>I get caught up in feeling like I'm responsible for

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<v Speaker 2>other people, Like, oh, I have to stay in this

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<v Speaker 2>conversation with this person, because like what if I leave

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<v Speaker 2>the conversation. I don't want to be rude, but everybody

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<v Speaker 2>at the party is like, oh, I want to talk

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<v Speaker 2>to multiple people at this party. Every single person that

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<v Speaker 2>came to that party wants to talk to a bunch

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<v Speaker 2>of people at that party, even if they're nervous, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what I mean. They want to see like their

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<v Speaker 2>work friends, they maybe want to like meet someone new,

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<v Speaker 2>they don't. They also don't want to be like stuck

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<v Speaker 2>in a conversation with you the whole time. So it's

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<v Speaker 2>like very freeing to be like I'm so glad that

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<v Speaker 2>I got to talk to you for a little while.

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<v Speaker 2>You know how these things are. I'm gonna go see

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<v Speaker 2>if they put more cheese out, or I'm gonna like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna go see if I can find so and so.

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<v Speaker 2>Like it's okay to leave the the one one. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I love. Giving my self permission to do that is big.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like, yeah, I've just started to get a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit better at that. But you hearing you just

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<v Speaker 1>say that out loud is like such a good reminder

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<v Speaker 1>of like, oh, yeah, I can just like have short

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<v Speaker 1>conversations and just be free of the expectation and understand

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<v Speaker 1>that like it's good for the other person too to

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<v Speaker 1>be like, hey, it was great to see you, and

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<v Speaker 1>what are your favorite like getting out of a conversation

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<v Speaker 1>kind like do you use like you just said, like

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<v Speaker 1>a food thing is a really good one, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think getting a drink to you, Oh you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm gonna I'm gonna go get another drink, Like yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I'll see in a bit.

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<v Speaker 2>I appreciate the honesty of Like I was at a

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<v Speaker 2>work party the other day and I met this actress

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<v Speaker 2>that I really really liked, and we got along like

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<v Speaker 2>gangbusters and we were like having a great time and

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<v Speaker 2>then sort of not abruptly, but she was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so me and my husband are gonna we're gonna go

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<v Speaker 2>like see if we can talk to some more people.

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<v Speaker 2>It was so nice hanging out with you guys. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>I really appreciated how frank she was. She was just like,

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<v Speaker 2>we're gonna go do our rounds, because that's kind of

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<v Speaker 2>what you have to do with those work parties. You're

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<v Speaker 2>there to do your rounds, you know, And like I

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<v Speaker 2>just like I think it's you know, it's part it's

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<v Speaker 2>it's two parts of it, right, Like there's the I

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<v Speaker 2>want to be frank with people, and I also understand

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<v Speaker 2>that if somebody's with me, they're not being like you're

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<v Speaker 2>the worst, and I want to talk to you. It's like,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to take that personally right. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>be like, oh yeah, there's like fifty people here that

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<v Speaker 2>you probably need to talk to you before you leave

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<v Speaker 2>at least two, you know, at least two other people

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<v Speaker 2>you probably saw out of the corner of her eye,

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<v Speaker 2>and you want to make sure you say hi before

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<v Speaker 2>you go home super early. Because that's what I also

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<v Speaker 2>like to do at the work party. I like to

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<v Speaker 2>leave early. I didn't like to say to the end.

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<v Speaker 2>I like to get in and get out.

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<v Speaker 1>Be in that first shift. You know, yeah you get

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<v Speaker 1>there on time, leave an hour or two later, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>on time, and then get at.

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<v Speaker 2>The other thing is like I like to have It

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't have to be like a notes list, but I

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<v Speaker 2>like to have a list in my mind of like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to talk to this person. I want to

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<v Speaker 2>make sure I see this person. If if I see

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<v Speaker 2>this person, I want to like tap them on the

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<v Speaker 2>shoulder and be like, Hi, it's nice to see you,

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<v Speaker 2>or whatever, So like in my mind having a sort

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<v Speaker 2>of oh if I see so and so, I really

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<v Speaker 2>want to make sure I say this to them or.

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<v Speaker 1>That to them or whatever, because that makes smart stuff. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>because you're going into it with like some goals, some markers,

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<v Speaker 1>and then once you hit those, you're like, Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>did the thing I did the work party.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>If I'm having a good time, I can stay. But also,

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<v Speaker 1>like I released myself, I can go I have reel

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<v Speaker 1>good about this exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>Exactly, So this party, I really wanted to say hi

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<v Speaker 2>and by to Ted Danson, who is the lead in

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<v Speaker 2>this show that I just did a part in in

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<v Speaker 2>Icon Legend, Icon Legend fantastic wonderful human and I did.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm I like made sure that I like had like

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<v Speaker 2>I made time to like go back over to him

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<v Speaker 2>when I saw he wasn't busy. Yeah, And and also

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<v Speaker 2>like you can't really have too much shame about interrupting.

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<v Speaker 2>We're not in prege and prejudice, you know, like we're

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<v Speaker 2>not like you just have to be like tap tap yep,

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<v Speaker 2>Like maybe don't interrupt right as they're putting down the

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<v Speaker 2>fucking I I taped. I tapped him on the shoulder

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<v Speaker 2>and it was right when he was laying down the

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<v Speaker 2>punchline to a joke. And I was like, oh, sorry,

0:17:10.520 --> 0:17:15.040
<v Speaker 2>it was really bad. But how could you know? I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I could have figured it out. I am also funny,

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<v Speaker 2>so I could have figured out like his gestures are

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<v Speaker 2>such that he's about to lay down the punchline. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>but that you know. And then my other like goal

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<v Speaker 2>that I had in my head was like, oh, get

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<v Speaker 2>this one person's phone number because you don't have it

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<v Speaker 2>and like you don't know when you're gonna see them again.

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm not on social media very much, so I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, I want to get her phone number before

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<v Speaker 2>I leave the party, and I did. And the other

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<v Speaker 2>goal was eat all the pretzels. Like they had a

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<v Speaker 2>They had little you know, those little soft pretzels. What

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<v Speaker 2>are they called. They're like sour dough saut you know

0:17:49.359 --> 0:17:53.960
<v Speaker 2>what I'm saying about. Yeah, get yeah, the big soft pretzels.

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<v Speaker 2>They had big soft pretzels. And I was like, you

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<v Speaker 2>get many big soft pretzels as possible. Yeah, So I

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<v Speaker 2>had a lot. Those were my goals for the party

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<v Speaker 2>and I did it.

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<v Speaker 1>God, this is so smart. Okay, goals for a party,

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<v Speaker 1>being okay with being frank about short conversations with people.

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<v Speaker 1>These are hot tips.

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<v Speaker 2>I am learning still being rude, but like, yeah, thanks.

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<v Speaker 2>I do. I do think, especially at work parties for us,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think for everybody, there's so many times where

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<v Speaker 2>it's like high emphasis is like there's an open bar,

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<v Speaker 2>there's free drinks. Yeah, it's like I would say, like

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<v Speaker 2>the main thing, as I said earlier, the main thing

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<v Speaker 2>for me is like don't get stupid. Don't get stupid

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<v Speaker 2>at the work party.

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<v Speaker 1>Don't You could.

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<v Speaker 2>Go ahead and like go to it, like if you

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<v Speaker 2>really want to, you can go to another bar afterwards,

0:18:50.520 --> 0:18:52.480
<v Speaker 2>like that time that I was like, do you remember

0:18:52.520 --> 0:18:55.200
<v Speaker 2>that time? This was recent at a recent word party,

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<v Speaker 2>and I was like, do you guys want to go

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<v Speaker 2>to a second location? Remember that? Oh yeah yeah at

0:19:01.280 --> 0:19:04.080
<v Speaker 2>that party? Yeah, the Oscar party thing. And then I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, do you want to go to another place?

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<v Speaker 2>And you guys were like, we're gonna go home. I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, good for you.

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to go, but it was late, and we're

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<v Speaker 1>always thinking about how early our children wake up, and

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<v Speaker 1>so that makes us kind of lame. But then I

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<v Speaker 1>tell myself about my child, so no, your child sleeps,

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<v Speaker 1>your child sleep, Yeah, not anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>She hit that two year old mark. I didn't care anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>She's in that regression. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, she's in the she's in the fuck sleep.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But my children wake up at like five thirty six am,

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<v Speaker 1>so that. But one day they will be older and

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<v Speaker 1>we can stay out later.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>But yes, yes, I do love. I do love a

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<v Speaker 1>post work party hang party.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, because at work, it's very At the work party,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like your bosses are there, you're you're you gotta

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<v Speaker 2>act right you were you know what I mean, Like

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<v Speaker 2>you gotta act right because I gotta. I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>to get fired because I'm dumb. Shit you did at

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<v Speaker 2>the work party. Like it's not worth it, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's not worth it. No amount of free alcohol is

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<v Speaker 2>worth getting fired.

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<v Speaker 1>And everybody remembers the person who got stupid at the

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<v Speaker 1>work party.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, it's so embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so embarrassing.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes it's me. Sometimes I don't think it's ever been you.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, I don't know, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your most memorable like Brooklyn, work party or work.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't have to be a Brooklyn one, but like,

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<v Speaker 1>do you have a work party that you were like,

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<v Speaker 1>this was amazing and I totally nailed it and I

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<v Speaker 1>had a great time and I was just like killing it.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, I don't know that, I know. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think I ever feel like I'm really killing it

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<v Speaker 2>at a work party. But I also think like separating

0:20:48.160 --> 0:20:50.040
<v Speaker 2>the idea of like a party party from a work

0:20:50.080 --> 0:20:53.080
<v Speaker 2>party is really good for my brain. It's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>there's certain pressures that are on a work party, like

0:20:56.160 --> 0:20:58.320
<v Speaker 2>your bosses are going to be there there, you might

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<v Speaker 2>need to like make an impression on people. But like

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<v Speaker 2>also if you put that much pressure on yourself about it,

0:21:03.520 --> 0:21:06.800
<v Speaker 2>it's like you're never going to succeed. And everybody at

0:21:06.800 --> 0:21:10.639
<v Speaker 2>that party except for like I don't know, you know,

0:21:10.840 --> 0:21:14.400
<v Speaker 2>j Low is like just as kind of like anxious

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<v Speaker 2>about the work party as you are, So like just

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<v Speaker 2>relax and also tell people that you like their work.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, like if there's someone at your party that

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<v Speaker 2>you'd like admire there, whatever it is, whatever job you have,

0:21:30.800 --> 0:21:33.080
<v Speaker 2>if there's somebody that you specifically are like, you're you

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<v Speaker 2>just such a great job, or I look up to

0:21:36.080 --> 0:21:38.439
<v Speaker 2>your work so much, or you know, I don't know

0:21:38.480 --> 0:21:40.359
<v Speaker 2>how you got to where you are, but like, if

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<v Speaker 2>you ever want to like have coffee, don't say pick

0:21:43.240 --> 0:21:47.160
<v Speaker 2>a brain because that's gross. But yeah, you know, that's

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<v Speaker 2>why I got that number because I wanted to talk

0:21:48.800 --> 0:21:51.520
<v Speaker 2>to that actress because she's a writer too, and I

0:21:51.640 --> 0:21:53.200
<v Speaker 2>just think she's so cool. And I was like, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't have a phone number. I'd really like to chat

0:21:55.280 --> 0:21:57.560
<v Speaker 2>with her, not necessarily because I want her to be

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<v Speaker 2>my mentor, although I think you could do that, I

0:22:00.160 --> 0:22:02.800
<v Speaker 2>think you can also just like talk to people that

0:22:02.840 --> 0:22:06.400
<v Speaker 2>you think as an equal. You want to like exchange

0:22:06.400 --> 0:22:09.680
<v Speaker 2>ideas about work outside of this work party situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I one hundred percent agree that is such a

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<v Speaker 1>good point because I feel like I've gotten a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit better with that too, and it has led to

0:22:17.720 --> 0:22:21.800
<v Speaker 1>collaborations or friendships or yeah, I mean I used to

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<v Speaker 1>feel so weird. I think when I was starting out

0:22:25.000 --> 0:22:27.040
<v Speaker 1>being like I like your work, like I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>like I was like afraid it made me look thirsty

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<v Speaker 1>or like something, you know, just like overthinking it, desperate

0:22:33.640 --> 0:22:37.960
<v Speaker 1>or you know. And then the first time I did

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<v Speaker 1>it was actually with phil Augusta Jackson, and it was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a work party and he had like screened

0:22:45.600 --> 0:22:47.560
<v Speaker 1>some stuff and there was like a get together after,

0:22:47.600 --> 0:22:49.080
<v Speaker 1>but there was like a lot of people there and

0:22:49.119 --> 0:22:51.399
<v Speaker 1>it was at an agency, and I just went up

0:22:51.440 --> 0:22:53.080
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, I love what you do and

0:22:53.119 --> 0:22:56.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm like a fan, and I just if there's ever

0:22:56.320 --> 0:22:59.640
<v Speaker 1>a way that I could like support you or show

0:22:59.720 --> 0:23:03.040
<v Speaker 1>up for you, like, please let me know because I

0:23:03.080 --> 0:23:07.239
<v Speaker 1>really think you're so talented. And he immediately was like,

0:23:07.920 --> 0:23:09.639
<v Speaker 1>I have a short film I want to make. You

0:23:09.640 --> 0:23:11.240
<v Speaker 1>want to be in it? And I was like yes,

0:23:11.800 --> 0:23:14.040
<v Speaker 1>like and that was kind of like how our little

0:23:14.080 --> 0:23:18.320
<v Speaker 1>relationship started. Yeah, and it gave me so much courage

0:23:18.320 --> 0:23:20.000
<v Speaker 1>after that to be like, oh, just say it, Just

0:23:20.000 --> 0:23:21.960
<v Speaker 1>say the thing. Just tell people that you like what

0:23:22.000 --> 0:23:26.440
<v Speaker 1>they do. Like people like to hear that, and then

0:23:26.520 --> 0:23:31.640
<v Speaker 1>sometimes it leads to, you know, more and creative relationships

0:23:31.640 --> 0:23:34.919
<v Speaker 1>and collaboration and it can be amazing. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. It doesn't have to be like a

0:23:36.520 --> 0:23:39.920
<v Speaker 2>thirsty thing, you know. I think some people circtly it's like, right,

0:23:39.920 --> 0:23:42.480
<v Speaker 2>we're not thirsty, but it's like what are you doing?

0:23:42.560 --> 0:23:45.439
<v Speaker 2>What are you? Oh yeah, no, please just like do

0:23:45.560 --> 0:23:49.040
<v Speaker 2>that gross. But when it comes from a real place

0:23:49.080 --> 0:23:51.920
<v Speaker 2>of like curiosity because you want to know what they're

0:23:52.040 --> 0:23:56.040
<v Speaker 2>creatively doing, you know, like what are you what is what?

0:23:56.160 --> 0:23:58.600
<v Speaker 2>Where's your brain like leading you? Like what is your

0:23:58.600 --> 0:24:01.000
<v Speaker 2>curiosity right now? What are you working on next? Like

0:24:01.119 --> 0:24:02.720
<v Speaker 2>what are you doing so that I can watch it

0:24:02.800 --> 0:24:05.280
<v Speaker 2>when it comes out or whatever? That's specific to us,

0:24:05.280 --> 0:24:07.520
<v Speaker 2>but like I do think it applies to a lot

0:24:07.520 --> 0:24:19.320
<v Speaker 2>of people. Yeah, I think, so more better, more better. Okay,

0:24:19.520 --> 0:24:22.560
<v Speaker 2>So I wanted to redo this thing from Forbes, which listen,

0:24:22.640 --> 0:24:24.560
<v Speaker 2>I don't read Forbes very much, but I was like

0:24:25.480 --> 0:24:28.800
<v Speaker 2>asking about holiday parties, office parties or whatever, and there

0:24:28.840 --> 0:24:33.160
<v Speaker 2>was this executive coach that wrote this article that's called

0:24:33.320 --> 0:24:37.040
<v Speaker 2>why your office holiday party is a secret evaluation and

0:24:37.320 --> 0:24:38.560
<v Speaker 2>possible job interview.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate this already.

0:24:42.119 --> 0:24:45.359
<v Speaker 2>I think it's so yuck to be like, okay, wait

0:24:45.359 --> 0:24:49.000
<v Speaker 2>this quote the office holiday party serves as a covert

0:24:49.080 --> 0:24:53.639
<v Speaker 2>evaluation of employees social skills, professionalism, and ability to navigate

0:24:53.720 --> 0:24:56.480
<v Speaker 2>informal settings. I advise you to prepare for your holiday

0:24:56.480 --> 0:24:59.560
<v Speaker 2>party in the same way you would a performance review

0:24:59.680 --> 0:25:03.520
<v Speaker 2>or in interview. Boom baboo.

0:25:04.880 --> 0:25:06.240
<v Speaker 1>I hate that.

0:25:07.320 --> 0:25:09.560
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I think that's too far. I don't know

0:25:09.640 --> 0:25:13.840
<v Speaker 2>the performance review or interview needs the same like intensity.

0:25:14.040 --> 0:25:17.000
<v Speaker 2>I think that's so yucky because like it's also like

0:25:17.040 --> 0:25:23.640
<v Speaker 2>a holiday party. It's like it's you know, not scrutinize

0:25:23.760 --> 0:25:29.560
<v Speaker 2>people in casuals. Can we just yeah? I mean I

0:25:29.560 --> 0:25:33.479
<v Speaker 2>get like people are gonna do that, but just like

0:25:33.640 --> 0:25:38.120
<v Speaker 2>be I hate that. I don't know that one. That's

0:25:38.119 --> 0:25:41.560
<v Speaker 2>so gross, right, It just that's gross thing that like

0:25:42.560 --> 0:25:46.760
<v Speaker 2>the the like like the kids say they gave me.

0:25:47.320 --> 0:25:49.440
<v Speaker 2>It comes from Love Island. You remember when I talked

0:25:49.440 --> 0:25:51.919
<v Speaker 2>about being being embarrassed that I watched Love Island. That's

0:25:51.920 --> 0:25:57.119
<v Speaker 2>where it came from. That's where it from. Just you know, America.

0:25:57.119 --> 0:25:59.760
<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't know the origin of it without your love,

0:25:59.800 --> 0:26:00.960
<v Speaker 1>Islan love.

0:26:04.280 --> 0:26:09.119
<v Speaker 2>I do think there's some some truth to it a

0:26:09.200 --> 0:26:10.240
<v Speaker 2>little bit, but like.

0:26:12.640 --> 0:26:17.280
<v Speaker 1>Uh well only as far as listen, if you act

0:26:17.320 --> 0:26:20.720
<v Speaker 1>a fool at the holiday party, yes, should you be

0:26:20.880 --> 0:26:25.960
<v Speaker 1>judged or like possibly evaluated, Sure, but sure I think

0:26:26.040 --> 0:26:31.560
<v Speaker 1>it's gross to have that approach. I feel like holiday

0:26:31.600 --> 0:26:36.480
<v Speaker 1>parties and work parties should also be just like places

0:26:36.520 --> 0:26:43.040
<v Speaker 1>to make connection bonding time, team building, you know, all

0:26:43.160 --> 0:26:46.600
<v Speaker 1>those cut like just a time to cut loose with

0:26:46.640 --> 0:26:50.800
<v Speaker 1>these people that you spend so many hours with in

0:26:50.840 --> 0:26:54.880
<v Speaker 1>a sensible professional way. Sure, Like I said, we don't

0:26:54.880 --> 0:26:57.240
<v Speaker 1>need to get stupid at the work party.

0:26:57.359 --> 0:27:00.840
<v Speaker 2>We don't need to be ridiculous. It's not it's not

0:27:00.960 --> 0:27:02.080
<v Speaker 2>that kind of priorty.

0:27:02.119 --> 0:27:03.320
<v Speaker 1>We don't have to get sloppy.

0:27:03.960 --> 0:27:04.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

0:27:04.400 --> 0:27:07.480
<v Speaker 1>But oh, to put this like pressure of like you're

0:27:07.520 --> 0:27:10.560
<v Speaker 1>being scrutinized.

0:27:09.880 --> 0:27:16.280
<v Speaker 2>Or evaluated like a performance evaluated. Yike, smim, don't do

0:27:16.359 --> 0:27:19.119
<v Speaker 2>that to yourself. Don't do that to yourself now, because

0:27:19.200 --> 0:27:21.680
<v Speaker 2>I will say that's how I used to not exactly,

0:27:21.880 --> 0:27:24.960
<v Speaker 2>but I would put especially in the beginning of work

0:27:25.200 --> 0:27:28.120
<v Speaker 2>parties for me, like when I was entering into I'm

0:27:28.240 --> 0:27:30.399
<v Speaker 2>a responsible adult and now I'm getting a paycheck, now

0:27:30.440 --> 0:27:32.600
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to work parties. Yeah, I would put that

0:27:32.640 --> 0:27:34.600
<v Speaker 2>pressure on myself. I'd be like, oh my god, they're

0:27:34.600 --> 0:27:38.000
<v Speaker 2>gonna like they're gonna think of me as X Y

0:27:38.119 --> 0:27:41.560
<v Speaker 2>or Z or Like I remember being at a theater

0:27:41.840 --> 0:27:45.639
<v Speaker 2>in my early part of my career and hearing all

0:27:45.680 --> 0:27:49.400
<v Speaker 2>these like little whispers and stuff from other actors saying,

0:27:50.200 --> 0:27:52.400
<v Speaker 2>you know, you have to show up at the company

0:27:52.440 --> 0:27:55.000
<v Speaker 2>bar afterwards, and you have to schmooze, and that's how

0:27:55.040 --> 0:27:58.399
<v Speaker 2>you get cast, and this and that and I was like, Oh,

0:27:58.440 --> 0:28:00.800
<v Speaker 2>that's so stressful. Like I want to go to the

0:28:00.800 --> 0:28:02.679
<v Speaker 2>company bar to like hang out with my new friends

0:28:02.680 --> 0:28:04.520
<v Speaker 2>and like have some drinks and stuff. I don't want to,

0:28:04.680 --> 0:28:06.520
<v Speaker 2>you know. And this wasn't a work party. It was

0:28:06.560 --> 0:28:12.320
<v Speaker 2>more of like a social situation, you know, right, And

0:28:13.680 --> 0:28:16.080
<v Speaker 2>it's too much pressure to think about every single move

0:28:16.119 --> 0:28:18.320
<v Speaker 2>you're making. You could think about some of your moves,

0:28:18.359 --> 0:28:21.320
<v Speaker 2>but like I mean, like I didn't wear makeup to

0:28:21.320 --> 0:28:22.040
<v Speaker 2>that rap party.

0:28:22.160 --> 0:28:23.480
<v Speaker 1>Don't be so calculated.

0:28:23.720 --> 0:28:25.520
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I didn't wear makeup to that rap party because

0:28:25.520 --> 0:28:29.639
<v Speaker 2>I didn't have time. I didn't have time. Good, good, good.

0:28:30.000 --> 0:28:32.119
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, uh, people are gonna know what

0:28:32.200 --> 0:28:35.000
<v Speaker 2>I look like. Oh that's true. They do. They already

0:28:35.040 --> 0:28:36.159
<v Speaker 2>know what you look like. It's fine.

0:28:37.000 --> 0:28:38.719
<v Speaker 1>Well, before we wrap it up, I do have one

0:28:38.720 --> 0:28:40.600
<v Speaker 1>more fun thing that I wanted to read because our

0:28:40.640 --> 0:28:45.160
<v Speaker 1>producer isis she asked AI how to be better at

0:28:45.240 --> 0:28:48.400
<v Speaker 1>work parties? And I think that this list is hilarious

0:28:49.000 --> 0:28:52.080
<v Speaker 1>parts of it. So the first one is beyond time. Sure,

0:28:52.240 --> 0:28:54.400
<v Speaker 1>I think it's debatable because I think it's okay to

0:28:54.400 --> 0:28:56.480
<v Speaker 1>be fashionably late to a work party. Nobody wants to

0:28:56.480 --> 0:29:00.480
<v Speaker 1>be the frowd fashionally late. How late though, No, like

0:29:00.840 --> 0:29:02.240
<v Speaker 1>within the first half hour.

0:29:03.360 --> 0:29:05.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. If it's a dinner, you need to be on time,

0:29:05.880 --> 0:29:06.520
<v Speaker 2>like you can be.

0:29:06.760 --> 0:29:09.200
<v Speaker 1>Dinner, you need to be on time. We both remember

0:29:09.320 --> 0:29:11.760
<v Speaker 1>a dinner we were invited to that I went. I

0:29:11.760 --> 0:29:13.440
<v Speaker 1>didn't know it was a sit down thing, and I

0:29:13.680 --> 0:29:16.960
<v Speaker 1>arrived actually, and it was very embarrassing to come into

0:29:17.040 --> 0:29:19.760
<v Speaker 1>the room with a big round table of people sitting down.

0:29:21.680 --> 0:29:23.959
<v Speaker 1>And thankfully I wasn't the last person to show up,

0:29:23.960 --> 0:29:24.680
<v Speaker 1>but I was a second.

0:29:24.680 --> 0:29:27.240
<v Speaker 2>No, you were not to show up. Yeah, it was fine,

0:29:28.080 --> 0:29:28.840
<v Speaker 2>it was embarrassing.

0:29:29.120 --> 0:29:32.200
<v Speaker 1>Uh, dress appropriately, Yeah.

0:29:32.680 --> 0:29:35.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that one. Yeah, I don't want to, you know,

0:29:36.160 --> 0:29:40.680
<v Speaker 2>ask your if you're curious about what you is appropriate. Maybe,

0:29:40.760 --> 0:29:44.640
<v Speaker 2>you know, if if HR wouldn't appreciate you wearing it

0:29:44.640 --> 0:29:48.360
<v Speaker 2>to work, you probably shouldn't wear it to a work party.

0:29:48.760 --> 0:29:52.640
<v Speaker 1>That's good, that's solid. Yeah. Uh, don't bring a guest

0:29:53.000 --> 0:29:55.360
<v Speaker 1>unless asked. That's yeah.

0:29:55.400 --> 0:29:55.880
<v Speaker 2>I like that.

0:29:56.040 --> 0:29:56.480
<v Speaker 1>I like that.

0:29:56.720 --> 0:29:57.240
<v Speaker 2>I like that.

0:29:57.440 --> 0:30:00.240
<v Speaker 1>This is my favorite. Watch your guest behavior.

0:30:02.320 --> 0:30:11.360
<v Speaker 2>Do not bring that friend, lark, when are people? Okay,

0:30:12.160 --> 0:30:14.200
<v Speaker 2>Bill from Accounting had six beers.

0:30:14.200 --> 0:30:22.200
<v Speaker 1>You guys, don't bring that friend. Okay, you know who

0:30:22.240 --> 0:30:25.880
<v Speaker 1>you you know who they are? Uh, snack before you go.

0:30:27.080 --> 0:30:31.520
<v Speaker 2>I love that one actually, because I have definitely expected

0:30:31.600 --> 0:30:35.080
<v Speaker 2>a tree pass situation at a work party and been

0:30:35.720 --> 0:30:37.400
<v Speaker 2>sorely disappointed by the snacks.

0:30:37.520 --> 0:30:39.720
<v Speaker 1>Yes, I have definitely showed up to a work party

0:30:39.920 --> 0:30:44.160
<v Speaker 1>ravenous and then looked like I don't know what, attacking

0:30:44.360 --> 0:30:48.720
<v Speaker 1>every plate that came out or whatever, small buffet and

0:30:48.960 --> 0:30:53.120
<v Speaker 1>just like a stockpile of a plate and being like maybe.

0:30:53.080 --> 0:30:57.440
<v Speaker 2>Fine, Yeah, the stockpile is actually totally fine. If people

0:30:57.440 --> 0:30:59.160
<v Speaker 2>are gonna judge you for how much you eat at

0:30:59.160 --> 0:30:59.640
<v Speaker 2>a work.

0:31:00.320 --> 0:31:04.080
<v Speaker 1>No, I mean just more like not talking to anyone because.

0:31:04.040 --> 0:31:07.240
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's not good, just not great. That's not great in.

0:31:07.160 --> 0:31:10.320
<v Speaker 1>Search of food because I arrived starving.

0:31:11.200 --> 0:31:13.120
<v Speaker 2>One time I went to a fancy work party and

0:31:13.120 --> 0:31:18.080
<v Speaker 2>they had Trey pass uh little burgers raw they were raw.

0:31:18.480 --> 0:31:20.920
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I had eaten half of one in the

0:31:21.000 --> 0:31:23.880
<v Speaker 2>dark before I realized it. I was like, this is weird. No,

0:31:24.520 --> 0:31:26.680
<v Speaker 2>it was bad. So eat before you go, Eat before

0:31:26.680 --> 0:31:26.920
<v Speaker 2>you go.

0:31:27.120 --> 0:31:29.560
<v Speaker 1>That's a good tip. Uh, don't gossip.

0:31:35.400 --> 0:31:37.480
<v Speaker 2>Next, next next one, next one.

0:31:37.600 --> 0:31:41.520
<v Speaker 1>Drink responsibly. We we yes, we discussed, we discussed, yes,

0:31:41.960 --> 0:31:44.120
<v Speaker 1>And then this one has a big question mark. Hold

0:31:44.160 --> 0:31:45.520
<v Speaker 1>your drink in your left hand.

0:31:46.800 --> 0:31:51.520
<v Speaker 2>Why so you can shake hands with your right? Oh

0:31:51.560 --> 0:31:53.240
<v Speaker 2>is that? Why? Is that? Why?

0:31:53.480 --> 0:31:56.560
<v Speaker 1>Probably you probably just nailed it.

0:31:58.000 --> 0:31:59.800
<v Speaker 2>I like to have things in both hands so that

0:31:59.840 --> 0:32:02.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm I don't have to shake anyone's hands. Oh yeah,

0:32:02.040 --> 0:32:03.760
<v Speaker 2>that's and then I can be like, oh, sorry, I'm

0:32:03.800 --> 0:32:04.880
<v Speaker 2>holding my raw Berger.

0:32:05.160 --> 0:32:07.800
<v Speaker 1>I know, in this post COVID world, I find it

0:32:07.960 --> 0:32:11.800
<v Speaker 1>very like, are we back to shaking hands. I've also

0:32:11.880 --> 0:32:14.640
<v Speaker 1>learned as an adult that, uh, when I was younger,

0:32:14.680 --> 0:32:17.120
<v Speaker 1>I just used to hug everyone without asking you.

0:32:17.120 --> 0:32:20.320
<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, it's such a Latin thing, right, So

0:32:20.800 --> 0:32:22.560
<v Speaker 2>I just used to hug people and.

0:32:22.640 --> 0:32:25.920
<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I've like kissed people on the cheek

0:32:26.040 --> 0:32:29.400
<v Speaker 1>without asking you because it's very Latin as well, and

0:32:29.480 --> 0:32:32.760
<v Speaker 1>like and then I, yeah, I have had to be like, oh,

0:32:32.800 --> 0:32:35.280
<v Speaker 1>well that makes some people very uncomfortable and like just

0:32:35.280 --> 0:32:37.600
<v Speaker 1>because it's my culture, like they shouldn't have to be

0:32:37.640 --> 0:32:41.080
<v Speaker 1>on physically uncomfortable because this is how I greet people.

0:32:41.480 --> 0:32:43.880
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it's really real. You can't, you can't.

0:32:44.160 --> 0:32:47.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, I've gotten better about asking, you know, or

0:32:47.400 --> 0:32:50.520
<v Speaker 1>waiting to see you know that like awkward moment where

0:32:50.520 --> 0:32:53.160
<v Speaker 1>you're both you both go in for it and then

0:32:53.200 --> 0:32:55.480
<v Speaker 1>you're like, oh, no, do they like hugs? And then

0:32:55.520 --> 0:32:57.320
<v Speaker 1>I just go I'm a hugger. I like hugs, and

0:32:57.360 --> 0:32:59.160
<v Speaker 1>then the other person goes me too, and then you

0:32:59.240 --> 0:32:59.560
<v Speaker 1>do it.

0:33:00.080 --> 0:33:01.160
<v Speaker 2>Oh that's nice.

0:33:01.200 --> 0:33:03.720
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, but are we shaking hands? Are we back

0:33:03.760 --> 0:33:06.280
<v Speaker 1>to shaking hands? Because remember during COVID when like nobody

0:33:06.320 --> 0:33:08.880
<v Speaker 1>was shaking hands. Are we back to shaking hands?

0:33:09.520 --> 0:33:12.720
<v Speaker 2>I think you can, Like, I think it's okay to say, like,

0:33:13.880 --> 0:33:17.520
<v Speaker 2>you know, what I do is oh I just sneezed,

0:33:17.640 --> 0:33:20.280
<v Speaker 2>or like, oh I just I just ate a burger,

0:33:20.360 --> 0:33:23.160
<v Speaker 2>so I'm not shaking hands, or like I do that

0:33:23.240 --> 0:33:25.560
<v Speaker 2>a lot. I'll be and it's usually pretty honest. I'm

0:33:25.560 --> 0:33:29.360
<v Speaker 2>like I just you know X y Z. Yeah.

0:33:29.440 --> 0:33:31.760
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you're you're smart to have like, yeah, you're

0:33:31.800 --> 0:33:33.120
<v Speaker 1>both your hands occupied.

0:33:33.920 --> 0:33:36.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. I like to have them because I don't love

0:33:36.520 --> 0:33:39.640
<v Speaker 2>a shake hands situation. I do like a hug, but

0:33:39.720 --> 0:33:41.760
<v Speaker 2>I try to wait until the end of the conversation

0:33:41.880 --> 0:33:46.160
<v Speaker 2>to see if I feel comfortable enough approaching huh. So

0:33:46.240 --> 0:33:48.840
<v Speaker 2>in the beginning, I'll just like smile and be like, Hi,

0:33:49.080 --> 0:33:51.080
<v Speaker 2>it's so good to see you. Yeah that kind of thing.

0:33:51.160 --> 0:33:56.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

0:33:54.720 --> 0:33:59.239
<v Speaker 2>More better I feel I feel listen, I'm gonna ask you,

0:33:59.280 --> 0:34:02.040
<v Speaker 2>do you feel more better about work parties after this discussion?

0:34:02.320 --> 0:34:04.560
<v Speaker 1>I do feel more better about work parties because I

0:34:04.600 --> 0:34:05.560
<v Speaker 1>got some real hot.

0:34:05.360 --> 0:34:07.440
<v Speaker 2>Tips from you, and I'm oh, thank you.

0:34:07.520 --> 0:34:12.200
<v Speaker 1>I feel like they're a little less nerve wracking for me. Yeah,

0:34:12.360 --> 0:34:15.319
<v Speaker 1>after this conversation, do you feel more better about work

0:34:15.320 --> 0:34:16.040
<v Speaker 1>party glad?

0:34:16.800 --> 0:34:19.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? I feel I mean, weirdly, I feel like the

0:34:19.320 --> 0:34:22.319
<v Speaker 2>stuff that I was doing was just to manage my

0:34:22.360 --> 0:34:26.359
<v Speaker 2>own anxiety. So it's nice to hear that it might

0:34:26.880 --> 0:34:29.719
<v Speaker 2>be helpful to you. You know. It's nice to hear

0:34:29.760 --> 0:34:32.160
<v Speaker 2>that because like I was just going, like, how can

0:34:32.239 --> 0:34:35.600
<v Speaker 2>I not be in my head this entire experience and

0:34:35.640 --> 0:34:40.040
<v Speaker 2>like actually be present? What can I do to be present?

0:34:40.160 --> 0:34:42.400
<v Speaker 2>You know? So it's nice to hear that it's helpful.

0:34:42.560 --> 0:34:45.719
<v Speaker 1>Well, yeah, you were like very proactive about it, as

0:34:45.760 --> 0:34:48.400
<v Speaker 1>opposed to I've just been like floating through them, trying

0:34:48.440 --> 0:34:49.440
<v Speaker 1>to survive.

0:34:50.120 --> 0:34:52.000
<v Speaker 2>Trying to break it down, to break it down into

0:34:52.040 --> 0:34:55.799
<v Speaker 2>little bitty pieces so I can crack the code. I

0:34:55.920 --> 0:34:58.400
<v Speaker 2>like it. I like it. They're good to tack code.

0:34:58.760 --> 0:35:03.080
<v Speaker 2>So yeah, well, we would love to hear about your

0:35:03.080 --> 0:35:06.719
<v Speaker 2>work parties because we'll be reroll honest, Like, this is

0:35:06.760 --> 0:35:09.239
<v Speaker 2>a very specific kind of work that we do, so

0:35:09.280 --> 0:35:13.400
<v Speaker 2>we want to know, like, is your work party super different?

0:35:13.560 --> 0:35:16.719
<v Speaker 2>Is it like really really casual? Is do the things

0:35:16.719 --> 0:35:20.400
<v Speaker 2>that we talked about apply to your you know, maybe

0:35:20.400 --> 0:35:24.080
<v Speaker 2>corporate maybe non corporate job? Like? Also, like did freelancers

0:35:24.120 --> 0:35:26.799
<v Speaker 2>get together and have work parties or is such as

0:35:26.800 --> 0:35:29.920
<v Speaker 2>a social party? I don't know, Let us know, Let.

0:35:29.840 --> 0:35:31.399
<v Speaker 1>Us know and we'll see you next week.

0:35:31.520 --> 0:35:36.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, bye guys, bye, More More Better. Do you have

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0:35:38.160 --> 0:35:39.800
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<v Speaker 2>with Stephanie Melissa is a production from WV Sound and

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<v Speaker 2>iHeartMedia's My Kuntura podcast network, hosted by Me, Steffie Beatrice,

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<v Speaker 2>and Melissa Humero. More Better is produced by Isis Madrid,

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<v Speaker 2>Leo Clem, and Sophie Spencer Zabos. Our executive producers are

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<v Speaker 2>Wilmer Valderrama and Leo Clem at w V sound. This

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<v Speaker 2>episode was edited by Isis Madrid and engineered by Sean

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<v Speaker 2>Tracy and features original music by Madison Davenport and Hey

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<v Speaker 1>Cover art is by Vincent Remis and photography by David Abolos.

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