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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. This is from Chanelle and Riverside. Colo Chanel writes,

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Speaker 1: My husband and I were at dinner and three of

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Speaker 1: the waitresses came by and spoke to him by name.

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Speaker 1: He laughed and talked with them. Now, if I had

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Speaker 1: done that, he would have lost his mind. Why would

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Speaker 1: he take me there knowing I would be uncomfortable?

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Speaker 2: Well, he took you there because he was comfortable.

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Speaker 1: Uh. He trying to be the man because everybody knew

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Speaker 1: him up in there.

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Speaker 3: What now, you know what it is? You know what sometimes? Man,

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Speaker 3: you can't explain stupidity. I just I don't have an

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Speaker 3: I don't know what these dudes is doing now. Man,

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Speaker 3: y'all a different generation, clearly, And I don't want to

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Speaker 3: keep coming across as the old head and think he

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Speaker 3: know everything and our times was better, because we had

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Speaker 3: some times that was better and y'all got some things

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Speaker 3: just better now too, So I don't want to come

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Speaker 3: across as that guy all the time. But y'all just

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Speaker 3: made different. Or it's the dudes do stuff that they

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Speaker 3: think they can get away with that's different, and it's

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Speaker 3: women that accept stuff that allow men to give away

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Speaker 3: with it that they think that's different.

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Speaker 2: I don't know what it is.

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Speaker 3: I guess it's a mixture of both, but I think

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Speaker 3: it's a lot because these guys, so many guys didn't

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Speaker 3: have the right guidance when they were growing up. And

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Speaker 3: I'm not saying because they didn't have a father, because

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Speaker 3: you don't need a father in your life to have manners,

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Speaker 3: good sense, complying with the law, because now are single

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Speaker 3: mothers who have definitely raised theirselves the right way in

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Speaker 3: that capacity. Yeah, So I'm look, I just want to

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Speaker 3: say I'm sorry, or to women out there who are

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Speaker 3: dealing with one of us and that we have to

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Speaker 3: be responsible for.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's why you have your mentoring camp, so you

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Speaker 1: can teach young men, man, how to be better men. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and grow up and to be good men.

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Speaker 3: So they don't know they suposed to walk on the

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Speaker 3: outside of the sidewalk. Yeah, they don't know that down

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Speaker 3: they post to pull it, pull a girl's child.

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Speaker 2: They don't know that. It's just it's miss mind boggling

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Speaker 2: what they don't know to me, So you actually need

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Speaker 2: a man's mentoring program.

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Speaker 1: Grown man.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I heard.

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Speaker 1: You're right, Tommy, all right. Moving on to Cassino. In

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Speaker 1: Queen's Cassine Rights, I found out that my wife got

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Speaker 1: the password to my phone from my son. He's sneaky

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Speaker 1: and watched me put it in. I fussed him and

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Speaker 1: my wife for snooping through my phone. Then I changed

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Speaker 1: my password. Do I owe her an explanation about this?

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Speaker 2: You owe her an explanation? I mean.

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Speaker 3: You changed it. Yeah, the explanation is this you don't

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Speaker 3: want her to have it. You mad because her and

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Speaker 3: the boys snooping through your phone. It's obviously some stuff

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Speaker 3: they don't need to know. And why you changed it

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Speaker 3: is obvious because you want to keep that privacy for

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Speaker 3: whatever your reason.

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Speaker 2: What what you want? We're whooping his behind We're whooping his.

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Speaker 1: Behinded for life. What's in the phone? Though?

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Speaker 3: Well, okay, but let's say it is something detrimental in

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Speaker 3: the form h to my son. Now, you don't know

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Speaker 3: what you've done to your life, and it's sort of crazy.

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 3: You don't want to teach your children, your sons to

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Speaker 3: be deceitful, but you have to forewarn them of the

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Speaker 3: consequences of being careless. Yeah, and look and look, I

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Speaker 3: told my sons to raising them up. You can't tell

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Speaker 3: your mama everything. I'm just gonna tell you that right now.

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Speaker 3: If you want to really suffer, sit her down and

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Speaker 3: tell her everything.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, I just can't.

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Speaker 3: Man, you're sixteen seventeen. You can't run in here talking

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Speaker 3: about everything. Come tell me what you wanna tell me,

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Speaker 3: and then let's decide if we need to bring mama

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Speaker 3: into this, because you take this in there here, mama,

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Speaker 3: this boy, this stay going to turn into something me.

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Speaker 3: Oh you can't handle. Yeah, man, just come in here, boy, hey, hey,

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Speaker 3: all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Risha and Saint Louis, Risha writes, I

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Speaker 1: am unfulfilled in my marriage. My man can't go the

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Speaker 1: distance with me in the bedroom. He is good for

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Speaker 1: four or five minutes, and that's it. How many times

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Speaker 1: do I have to tell him that it's not enough?

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Speaker 1: Am I supposed to hurry up and finish before he does?

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Speaker 2: Him? With him? What that? Hell with him? Get your all?

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Speaker 3: Get this in in the four five minute times, because

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Speaker 3: that's obviously that's all.

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Speaker 2: He working with. Yeah? Do I have to hurry up

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Speaker 2: and get yes.

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Speaker 1: That's.

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Speaker 2: Be frustrated.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I want to hear the ore.

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Speaker 2: Well, here's what he has to do.

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Speaker 3: Uh huh, he has to become prolific at four play.

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Speaker 3: So it's so we and we and we need to

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Speaker 3: start the time when we get in, when we get

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Speaker 3: into bed, and he needs to spend thirty minutes of

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Speaker 3: everything else before he come to start course. Yeah, for

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Speaker 3: the yeah, the main course. Yeah, about thirty minutes, because

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna tell you right now, I know some things. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: for thirty minutes. I'm gonna have you in a full

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Speaker 3: blown situation. Oh yes, oh yes, sir, oh yes, sah. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: well yeah, you might not even need me after this.

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Speaker 1: So he has to condense, he has to put all

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Speaker 1: of what you're talking about into those four to five minutes.

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Speaker 2: That's what you're saying, though, No, surely you're not listening.

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Speaker 3: Nobody said that, say about this five because I'm trying

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Speaker 3: to help this boy.

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Speaker 1: I heard.

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Speaker 3: What I'm saying is he needs to start working on

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Speaker 3: his full play.

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Speaker 2: Uh and turn that you gotta make four play an event.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh.

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Speaker 2: You need a thirty minutes.

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Speaker 3: You need to look, man, it's a lot of stuff

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Speaker 3: you could do in thirty minutes. Okay, did you bring

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Speaker 3: in It's like it's like doing comedy. Uh, he gotta

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Speaker 3: walk out. You gotta do it intro, you gotta do

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Speaker 3: the premise. You got to be set up. You gotta

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Speaker 3: tell the joke, then the punchline. Your punchline is five minutes.

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Speaker 3: You don't you need to give a tale jokes. You

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Speaker 3: need to be out there with some terms set up.

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Speaker 1: In five minutes.

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Speaker 3: No, Shirley, that's thirty minutes. What see, Sherley, did you

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Speaker 3: write this now? I did not, because you keep focusing

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Speaker 3: on that five minutes.

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Speaker 2: You're not listening. But I was hard the clock until

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Speaker 2: thank you, thank you. Sure think that it's gonna be

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Speaker 2: thirty five minutes.

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Speaker 1: You can't go that long, all right? Coming up at

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Speaker 1: the top of the hour, Entertainment News right after this,

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