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Speaker 1: All right, Steve.

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Speaker 2: This is from Corey on Steve Harvey FM. He needs

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Speaker 2: some advice. He says, my wife and I are on

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Speaker 2: different paths and I need to find a solution. Over

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Speaker 2: the past year, I've gotten more in control of my

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Speaker 2: health and fitness, and now going to the gym and

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Speaker 2: eating better is a priority in my life. That's become

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Speaker 2: more habit than chure, and I have really come to

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Speaker 2: enjoy it more and more. My wife is becoming upset

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Speaker 2: because she's put on ten pounds, soreness and a lack

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Speaker 2: of flexibility. I've tried to get her to join me,

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Speaker 2: but playing games on her phone to relax seems to

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Speaker 2: be more of a priority. At the same time, almost

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Speaker 2: every day she's saying that she needs to get moving

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Speaker 2: and do something. So I ask again if she wants

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Speaker 2: to go for a walk and move around and nothing.

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Speaker 2: So here's his question. How can I motivate her to

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Speaker 2: do what she says she wants to do without coming

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Speaker 2: off as pushy, judgy, or like I'm somehow shaming her?

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Speaker 2: What an?

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Speaker 3: We got to get that flexibility back.

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Speaker 1: We got see what did you say?

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Speaker 2: Heard what Tommy said?

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Speaker 3: It popped out of nowhere. I was just, you know,

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Speaker 3: a quick fix.

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Speaker 1: But this is to start dating that. Yeah, that was

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Speaker 1: just the quick I was just I was just looking

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Speaker 1: for a quick fix.

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Speaker 3: You know, I didn't want to but now now let

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Speaker 3: me give it some time.

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Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just trying to give you a quick fix.

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Speaker 1: You know, I don't know how much time we had,

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Speaker 1: you know, I know if you want to move this

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Speaker 1: long real fast for you, I don't know how much much, baby, Baby,

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Speaker 1: can you please walks? And set up being gained all

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Speaker 1: his weight, playing on your phone and stuff, and you

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Speaker 1: keep saying you want to do something?

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Speaker 3: Baby, can we please walk? Because I'm sitting here watching you.

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Speaker 1: I'm sitting here watching you, and you're changing right in

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Speaker 1: front of my eyes.

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Speaker 2: He didn't want to come off as pushy judge or

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Speaker 2: like he's shaming her. Now, he did say.

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Speaker 1: That, man, guy, Yeah, and you got a problem because

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Speaker 1: we're gonna have to.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna have to what day somebody we're gonna have

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Speaker 3: to shame? What somebody gonna have to get shamed?

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Speaker 1: Motivating to her, Well, okay, so how would you like

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Speaker 1: to do it? Because here's he's getting in shape, he's

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Speaker 1: trying to get himself together. He loved his wife. He

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Speaker 1: wanted her to join in because he's watching it. He's

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Speaker 1: said now the two things he's done said, she can

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Speaker 1: gain weight in flexibility, I mean her leg don't do

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Speaker 1: what he used to do. So now you're having restrictive activity.

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Speaker 3: We can't get to the eels. If we can't get

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Speaker 3: to the eel, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 2: I told you earlier you were on one.

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Speaker 3: Today, Come on, help her flexibility though it's gone.

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Speaker 2: She gained ten pounds, she's not.

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Speaker 1: You gained ten pounds, specially if in your stomach you

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Speaker 1: can't bend over no more. Because I'm gonna tell you something, man,

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Speaker 1: you know, like the same problem. Then when I was

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Speaker 1: going up some steps with some friends one day and

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Speaker 1: I found out I was a big, fat, old wheezing bastard.

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Speaker 1: And then that forced me to go and get myself

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Speaker 1: into the gym and everything. And then that's what I

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Speaker 1: started getting myself together, because you know, sometimes you need

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Speaker 1: just a little friendly push from a friend of yours

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Speaker 1: that ain't seeing.

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Speaker 2: Shut up now right, I don't have nothing to say now,

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Speaker 2: No who needs to shut up?

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Speaker 3: This fat, you big slatchy ass. And I went.

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Speaker 1: Weezy he I just just wqueezed and I said, man,

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Speaker 1: I got to stop all this wheezing. But you need

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Speaker 1: to push like that. And sometimes you know you're not

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Speaker 1: gonna be able to help a person by being kind.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes you just got to get to it.

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Speaker 2: Well, he wants to be kind to his wife, Yes,

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Speaker 2: he doesn't want to date.

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Speaker 1: It results you can't be kind. That's what I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to tell you. That's what he.

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Speaker 3: Is.

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Speaker 1: The one.

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Speaker 2: I hurt his wife's feelings.

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Speaker 3: He's not going to be well.

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Speaker 1: I know I appreciate you and you don't want to

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Speaker 1: hurt her feelings. But you know somebody got to get hurt. Well,

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Speaker 1: do that no more. That's why how you want him

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Speaker 1: to tell it.

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Speaker 2: I want you to say it nicely.

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Speaker 1: You baby, your ass is bigger than you know what.

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Speaker 2: We'll have more of the Right Show coming up to

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Speaker 2: twenty minutes after. Right after the Rite of Bounce, you're

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