1 00:00:02,480 --> 00:00:05,480 Speaker 1: Your dad can be your hero. I've heard that he's 2 00:00:05,480 --> 00:00:07,600 Speaker 1: a cool guy. I've heard ship like that, but I 3 00:00:07,800 --> 00:00:09,920 Speaker 1: never heard a man be like, you know who, my 4 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 1: best friend is my dad. And granted, if they did 5 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 1: say that, I would shoot all over. It's open yourself 6 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:22,680 Speaker 1: up to getting absolutely cyber bully too. You kill yourself, 7 00:00:22,760 --> 00:00:26,479 Speaker 1: my man, you aren't dropping dead. You aren't dropping dead 8 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:32,520 Speaker 1: if you say that. And frankly, if you get cyber 9 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:34,879 Speaker 1: bully to death because you said my dad was my 10 00:00:34,920 --> 00:00:37,320 Speaker 1: best friend, I don't think that any of these like 11 00:00:37,440 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 1: corporations that are like, we gotta stop cyber bully, and 12 00:00:40,040 --> 00:00:42,120 Speaker 1: you're gonna be like, you shouldn't have done that. They'll 13 00:00:42,159 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 1: be like, hey, all right, sometimes it works. Hey yeah, 14 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:47,240 Speaker 1: Martin ruffling about the hues will be like, hey, you 15 00:00:47,280 --> 00:00:49,720 Speaker 1: can't be talking about him because you said his dad, 16 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:52,599 Speaker 1: Like nah, you you got the green like you got 17 00:00:53,880 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 1: And honestly, maybe we're like as a society better off 18 00:00:56,680 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 1: without me, you know, go ahead. Mark Ruflo says thumbs 19 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 1: up to achilling yourself. They're saying my dad is my 20 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:30,200 Speaker 1: best friend from singer Racists money stuff, I can't tell me. Yep, yep, yep, 21 00:01:30,240 --> 00:01:33,320 Speaker 1: there it is there it is. Ladies and gentlemen, welcome 22 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 1: to another phenomenal episode of My Mama Told Me, the 23 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 1: podcast where we dive deep, deep into the pockets of 24 00:01:41,720 --> 00:01:46,039 Speaker 1: black conspiracy theories and we finally work to prove that 25 00:01:46,240 --> 00:01:50,040 Speaker 1: we as a world will never know true peace until 26 00:01:50,120 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 1: we all come together and figure out what the funk 27 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 1: is wrong with Tyres Gibson. Fuck climate change, fuck capitalism, 28 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:04,360 Speaker 1: but famine, fuck genocide. We need to solve Tyrese or 29 00:02:04,440 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 1: we are destined to suffer. That is a fact. Ladies 30 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 1: and gentlemen, I am your host, likes and Kerman is 31 00:02:11,200 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 1: always I Oh. I'm happy to be here, happy to 32 00:02:14,160 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 1: be with you all. Do you know why? Because you're beautiful, 33 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:20,359 Speaker 1: each and every one of you white people listening at 34 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:24,200 Speaker 1: home about a black black conspiracy theories and the black people. 35 00:02:24,240 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 1: Do all of you beautiful Mexicans stay out there? Know 36 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:31,640 Speaker 1: what am I doing? I'm just excited because my guest today, 37 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:34,960 Speaker 1: God damnit Se Funny. He's hilarious. I've known him for 38 00:02:35,080 --> 00:02:38,760 Speaker 1: years doing stand up and and other types of of 39 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:42,880 Speaker 1: silly billy ship all around various cities. You know him 40 00:02:42,919 --> 00:02:45,800 Speaker 1: from from he was a writer on SML. You know 41 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 1: him from fucking uh that what's that show? Uh? The 42 00:02:49,720 --> 00:02:53,400 Speaker 1: the show with Adie Bryant. Uh Hulu, I can't remember 43 00:02:53,400 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 1: the name anymore. God damn, damn real, God damn it 44 00:02:57,440 --> 00:02:59,840 Speaker 1: there it is. You know I'm through Strel. You know 45 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:02,760 Speaker 1: him as a writer of an upcoming show called Bust Down. 46 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:05,240 Speaker 1: He's hilarious. You're gonna love him. Please give it up 47 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:12,799 Speaker 1: for my guest, Mr Gary Richardson. Yeah, I love it. 48 00:03:12,880 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: Intro where I forget stuff. That's love having to help 49 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:22,359 Speaker 1: bring myself up. You know, you know that we're all 50 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 1: doing the work together. That I bring people together. It's 51 00:03:25,000 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 1: a community. It's a community, man, we do it together. Village, 52 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:35,440 Speaker 1: village to get somebody on stage. I'm excited you're here 53 00:03:35,480 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 1: because you came with a conspiracy theory that that I 54 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:45,160 Speaker 1: don't think I've ever heard before. And even in the 55 00:03:45,240 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 1: phrase thing that it was presented feels like some country ass. 56 00:03:50,680 --> 00:03:53,120 Speaker 1: And I know you're from the Midwest, You're you're a St. 57 00:03:53,160 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 1: Louis boy, But god damn did this feel like it 58 00:03:56,480 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 1: was in the words of a motherfucker who choose on? 59 00:04:00,440 --> 00:04:02,280 Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? Who just truly is 60 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 1: just yes, some Delta ship. This is down Delta. SI. Yeah, absolutely, 61 00:04:08,840 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 1: this some ship that I. When I heard it, I 62 00:04:10,920 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 1: was like, whoa ship? This is definitely where I'm from. 63 00:04:14,680 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 1: I just learned about myself. I'm like, damn, can I 64 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 1: have kids? You know? If I'm passing on these jeans? Sure? 65 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 1: I God, I love this. And you said, I want 66 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:29,760 Speaker 1: to be clear. You said, my mama told me all 67 00:04:29,960 --> 00:04:33,480 Speaker 1: babies start off as boys, but it takes a good 68 00:04:33,520 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 1: man to knock the balls off and make them girls. 69 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:46,280 Speaker 1: That's the truth. That is the truth. Absolutely, Please tell 70 00:04:46,320 --> 00:04:49,440 Speaker 1: me more. I I wish I remember how the conversation 71 00:04:49,520 --> 00:04:53,320 Speaker 1: actually started. It was actually my great aunt who said it. 72 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 1: My grandma's twin sister. He said it. And the thing 73 00:04:57,680 --> 00:05:00,920 Speaker 1: about my family is, aside for of me and my 74 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 1: younger brother, in my generation, I think there's one other 75 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:08,719 Speaker 1: dude the generation my mom's generation, I think it's there's 76 00:05:08,760 --> 00:05:13,120 Speaker 1: one boy in that generation, and then my grandmother's generation 77 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 1: there's two men. Everybody else's women. A lot of women, 78 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 1: in my face, a lot of women, all of them divorced. 79 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 1: Every single woman, every single woman divorced. So it is 80 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:28,159 Speaker 1: so I do find it very very interesting to be like, Okay, 81 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:31,600 Speaker 1: this is a good man that made this happen. But ship, 82 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:36,520 Speaker 1: you know, buddy, also ain't ship, right, yeah, right, So 83 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:41,600 Speaker 1: so they are they are, in a weird way super 84 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:45,800 Speaker 1: qualified in their minds to identify a good man, to 85 00:05:45,800 --> 00:05:48,279 Speaker 1: be able to figure out who's a good man and 86 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:51,560 Speaker 1: who ain't. And it's a kind of uh, it's the 87 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:55,560 Speaker 1: kind of like nobody says for real, but everybody just 88 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:58,720 Speaker 1: like makes a face, you know, when they're like, it's 89 00:05:58,720 --> 00:05:59,880 Speaker 1: like it takes a good man to do that, and 90 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:05,280 Speaker 1: body's like yeah, yeah, and everybody's like, well I know that. Okay. 91 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:09,480 Speaker 1: It was really um wild because all the younger women 92 00:06:09,480 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 1: in my family were like nope, no, wrong, yea, but 93 00:06:15,640 --> 00:06:18,040 Speaker 1: all the old women were like, yeah, I guess that 94 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 1: makes sense. I guess that's that's real. And I was like, 95 00:06:21,160 --> 00:06:24,559 Speaker 1: hold up, what the fund is going on? Well, let's 96 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:28,159 Speaker 1: let's backtrack a little bit, because I do I number 97 00:06:28,200 --> 00:06:31,920 Speaker 1: one again. The phrasing is so magical, knock the balls 98 00:06:31,960 --> 00:06:34,920 Speaker 1: off and make them and make them girls. It's such 99 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:41,680 Speaker 1: a beautiful way of articulating I guess genetics or or biochemistry. 100 00:06:41,720 --> 00:06:45,559 Speaker 1: I'm not sure exactly what either, because when I hear that, 101 00:06:45,920 --> 00:06:49,160 Speaker 1: I think that the balls on the baby are formed, 102 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:54,839 Speaker 1: a whole baby that has balls, and this pregnant woman 103 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:59,080 Speaker 1: gets smashed so much that there's just balls in her 104 00:06:59,120 --> 00:07:03,480 Speaker 1: womb side like next to the baby floating that just 105 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:07,800 Speaker 1: kind of like disintegrate or disappear. That's wild to me, 106 00:07:08,839 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 1: and it it also implies the possibility that the man, 107 00:07:12,680 --> 00:07:17,280 Speaker 1: I guess is digging her down in a way that 108 00:07:17,440 --> 00:07:21,120 Speaker 1: is so genuine and caring and deep in its penetration 109 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 1: that it makes a girl as opposed to a nigga 110 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:28,400 Speaker 1: who's just sticking the tipping and and just getting the taste. 111 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:31,160 Speaker 1: He don't care about this person, and therefore we'll just 112 00:07:31,360 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 1: end up with with a boy a week exactly, and 113 00:07:34,480 --> 00:07:37,040 Speaker 1: even like a step further makes me think like, okay, 114 00:07:37,160 --> 00:07:40,520 Speaker 1: if we are to be lave, that life begins at conception. Right, 115 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:43,720 Speaker 1: So there is a child here, and this child has balls, 116 00:07:44,080 --> 00:07:47,679 Speaker 1: and it sees and it sees the dick coming so deep, 117 00:07:48,120 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 1: so good that it's like, Okay, this family doesn't need 118 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 1: any more men. Pop, I'm gonna pack up these balls 119 00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 1: and I'm gonna be a woman and I bring some 120 00:07:57,880 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 1: of that energy because you need to balance this ship out. Yeah, right, 121 00:08:03,120 --> 00:08:06,080 Speaker 1: that this man is saying We're done. I am the 122 00:08:06,120 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 1: good that that this family needed now now all we 123 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 1: needed some some women to do women's stuff within the 124 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:19,000 Speaker 1: rest of this gene pool. Absolutely wow. Okay, let me 125 00:08:19,120 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 1: also ask these questions. Your your first introduced to this idea, 126 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:26,480 Speaker 1: you said by your great aunt, your grandmother's twin sister. Yes, 127 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:31,800 Speaker 1: do you when you hear her say this immediately rejected? 128 00:08:31,840 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 1: Do you buy into it? Where are you at when 129 00:08:34,200 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 1: this is first introduced to you? I I find it 130 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:41,959 Speaker 1: hard to immediately reject anybody who has seen as much 131 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:44,600 Speaker 1: as she seen. Sure, I find it. I find find 132 00:08:44,640 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 1: it hard to like immediately like cast aside their thoughts 133 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 1: and like, well, they've made it this far. They saw 134 00:08:51,120 --> 00:08:54,199 Speaker 1: TVs come on the screen, and now they know how 135 00:08:54,240 --> 00:08:57,679 Speaker 1: to use iPhones, you know, like now they know how 136 00:08:57,679 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 1: to how to use Marco Polo. So so they understand 137 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 1: some ship and they understand how to adapt two things 138 00:09:05,960 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 1: that were inconceivable to them at one point. Right, So 139 00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:12,240 Speaker 1: I try to reverse engineer that, and I'm like, okay, cool, 140 00:09:13,120 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 1: Maybe what she's saying made sense for when she was 141 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:21,720 Speaker 1: out there getting it in, you know, But I still 142 00:09:21,800 --> 00:09:25,720 Speaker 1: even with that, I can't reverse engineering in my head 143 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:29,320 Speaker 1: to see what the world must have been like. That 144 00:09:29,400 --> 00:09:34,280 Speaker 1: was this sort of discovery. Right, it's in some ways, 145 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:37,200 Speaker 1: and we don't, I think give older people enough credit 146 00:09:37,280 --> 00:09:42,520 Speaker 1: for this. They have made transformations comparable to those of 147 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:46,200 Speaker 1: a caveman. Do you want to mean that? Literally? They 148 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:49,680 Speaker 1: were at one point like needing to to husk their 149 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:53,840 Speaker 1: own and chuck their own food to survive. And then 150 00:09:53,880 --> 00:09:56,760 Speaker 1: we get it prepackaged and sort of like cut up 151 00:09:56,800 --> 00:10:00,920 Speaker 1: for us and like removed of all the different pollutants 152 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:03,240 Speaker 1: and all bad things that might be in it. And 153 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:07,760 Speaker 1: so we're coulding gastro ship. Yeah, and it's like, oh, 154 00:10:07,800 --> 00:10:10,560 Speaker 1: what the I know that you can make turkey tastes 155 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:13,200 Speaker 1: like this and that's all you're doing. You just cut 156 00:10:13,240 --> 00:10:15,960 Speaker 1: the you cut the head off a pig, and that's 157 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:17,960 Speaker 1: what you eat. You just eat this pig body. And 158 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:20,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, right, we don't have to do that no more, 159 00:10:20,679 --> 00:10:23,640 Speaker 1: you know, And if you're still hungry, eat the nose. 160 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:28,079 Speaker 1: It's sitting there. We got it. Yeah. And so to 161 00:10:28,160 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 1: that point, you have this entire generation of people that 162 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 1: lived under a certain like a series of facts of 163 00:10:37,480 --> 00:10:42,079 Speaker 1: things that that were truly for survival, and now we're 164 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 1: looking at it and we're like, well, that's that's not 165 00:10:44,679 --> 00:10:48,280 Speaker 1: true or that isn't necessary, but that's not necessarily right 166 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:52,440 Speaker 1: because it was true for their generation and the things 167 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:54,760 Speaker 1: that they needed in order to get to the point 168 00:10:54,960 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 1: where they could use an iPhone or or make a 169 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:01,320 Speaker 1: Marco polo that you take a week to respond to 170 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:04,520 Speaker 1: because we don't know how to say yeah, I miss 171 00:11:04,559 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 1: you two to your you know what I mean? Absolutely absolutely. 172 00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:12,760 Speaker 1: It's like when you see like a time lapse of 173 00:11:12,840 --> 00:11:17,040 Speaker 1: like a fish somehow getting legs and coming on shore, 174 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:19,440 Speaker 1: and it's like, oh, sometimes fish became a monkey, and 175 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:22,720 Speaker 1: it's like, I don't understand how it happened, but fishes 176 00:11:22,720 --> 00:11:25,600 Speaker 1: are monkeys now, and a good man can knot the 177 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 1: balls off a baby. You know. That's what it is. 178 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:30,760 Speaker 1: So I'm like, Okay, something that even if I don't 179 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:35,280 Speaker 1: believe it's scientifically, even if I scientifically and like with 180 00:11:35,320 --> 00:11:39,559 Speaker 1: my active brain, rejects all notions of it, I spiritually 181 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:43,160 Speaker 1: have to subscribe to it. Yes, And I think that 182 00:11:43,160 --> 00:11:49,000 Speaker 1: that is something that is often lost in the conversations 183 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:51,120 Speaker 1: with the Internet, with the way that we speak to 184 00:11:51,160 --> 00:11:55,200 Speaker 1: each other nowadays, is that I scientifically can disprove a 185 00:11:55,280 --> 00:11:58,840 Speaker 1: lot of what my parents believe, grandparents, all of that. 186 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:01,520 Speaker 1: But on a s a ritual level, I can still 187 00:12:01,559 --> 00:12:04,800 Speaker 1: connect with you. I can still allow you to be 188 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:08,320 Speaker 1: a reasonable person in my life and world in mind 189 00:12:08,679 --> 00:12:11,160 Speaker 1: and not just go shut up, you old bitch and 190 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:15,400 Speaker 1: throw you to the wayside. M hm. It's so easy too, 191 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:17,840 Speaker 1: It's so easy to throw them to the wayside. Yes, 192 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:21,319 Speaker 1: but then what would we be? Who would we be then? 193 00:12:21,520 --> 00:12:24,680 Speaker 1: You know, we wouldn't know how that fish got legs 194 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:29,280 Speaker 1: if we don't fishes around to be like, Okay, I 195 00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:31,320 Speaker 1: need to figure out how to get back to this 196 00:12:31,679 --> 00:12:35,000 Speaker 1: because because it feels like any any day now she's 197 00:12:35,040 --> 00:12:38,040 Speaker 1: gonna pop off and a lot of nig is gonna 198 00:12:38,040 --> 00:12:41,280 Speaker 1: be fishes again, you know. And he's like, okay, hey, 199 00:12:41,400 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 1: we gotta figure out how you're gonna get back to 200 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:45,200 Speaker 1: be in these monkeys. How are you gonna get you know? 201 00:12:47,440 --> 00:12:51,280 Speaker 1: And I will say I don't I And we've had 202 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 1: this conversation a few times in various spaces. I don't 203 00:12:55,200 --> 00:13:00,000 Speaker 1: know that. I believe that the current state that human 204 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:04,040 Speaker 1: and have evolved too is our best form. Now, I'm 205 00:13:04,040 --> 00:13:07,560 Speaker 1: not saying that I think you know earlier evolution. I 206 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:09,760 Speaker 1: know for certain like I can't lock it in on 207 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:12,560 Speaker 1: some magga ship to be like this is when the 208 00:13:12,600 --> 00:13:15,320 Speaker 1: thing was great and we fucked it up around here. 209 00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 1: But I don't know that us being locked in our 210 00:13:18,320 --> 00:13:22,440 Speaker 1: phones and sort of like constantly self conscious and struggling 211 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:26,400 Speaker 1: for attention while simultaneously not having the ability to communicate 212 00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 1: with each other is is the best way that humans 213 00:13:30,040 --> 00:13:32,840 Speaker 1: could be, you know what I mean? Absolutely. I think 214 00:13:32,880 --> 00:13:36,320 Speaker 1: about it a lot with like change, like political change. Yes, 215 00:13:36,559 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 1: Like I'm like, oh, like a while back, I feel 216 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:43,400 Speaker 1: like things were changing pretty at a pretty decent clip. 217 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:46,440 Speaker 1: But now everybody is more connective, we see more ship, 218 00:13:46,559 --> 00:13:49,040 Speaker 1: but I don't feel like things are changing nearly as quickly. 219 00:13:49,360 --> 00:13:51,240 Speaker 1: And I don't know that there's like a one to 220 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:55,800 Speaker 1: one about that, but it is just interesting to me. Yeah. Yeah, 221 00:13:56,040 --> 00:13:59,080 Speaker 1: it's hard to know where we are right and where 222 00:13:59,120 --> 00:14:02,600 Speaker 1: we are wrong, but it's definitely, I think easy to 223 00:14:02,720 --> 00:14:06,280 Speaker 1: say we ain't all the way right right now, you 224 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Absolutely? Absolutely. Okay, let me ask 225 00:14:11,200 --> 00:14:14,439 Speaker 1: you this. Because she says this to you, you spiritually 226 00:14:14,480 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 1: at least identify or or reason with the thing that 227 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:22,480 Speaker 1: she's saying. Do you as a person now far from 228 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:25,600 Speaker 1: that moment I assume where she originally gave you this idea. 229 00:14:26,040 --> 00:14:29,840 Speaker 1: Do you find yourself feeling like this is a thing 230 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:32,240 Speaker 1: that still lives in my head? Is this something you 231 00:14:32,320 --> 00:14:36,640 Speaker 1: plan to to pass on to another generation as as 232 00:14:36,760 --> 00:14:39,480 Speaker 1: spiritual truth? Or are you like I have two dead 233 00:14:39,560 --> 00:14:42,360 Speaker 1: this right now for my family so that this no 234 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:45,440 Speaker 1: longer is treated as fact. I am not far removed 235 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:49,880 Speaker 1: from hearing this fact. I heard this fact three days ago. WHOA, 236 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 1: So I am still reckoning with it. I feel very 237 00:14:53,560 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 1: much reckoning with it. I heard it and I immediately 238 00:14:57,040 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 1: was like, well, this is what what we're talking about it? 239 00:14:59,120 --> 00:15:01,440 Speaker 1: And if you're talking about I'm still working with I'm 240 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 1: still going through the men in my life, thinking about 241 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:08,600 Speaker 1: their relationships with themselves, their relationships with the women in 242 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:12,480 Speaker 1: their lives, who they are at work, and trying to think, okay, cool, 243 00:15:12,600 --> 00:15:15,440 Speaker 1: is this a good man? Yeah? What what kind of 244 00:15:15,480 --> 00:15:19,360 Speaker 1: child is this good man has? And okay, quit? I 245 00:15:19,360 --> 00:15:21,400 Speaker 1: need to feel like maybe I need to rethink what 246 00:15:21,440 --> 00:15:24,640 Speaker 1: it means to be a good man. WHOA? And so 247 00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 1: I know you said you have a brother. How many 248 00:15:27,880 --> 00:15:31,880 Speaker 1: of y'all are? Is it? Is it just? Yet? It's 249 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:35,040 Speaker 1: just y'all too so, okay, this and this is gonna 250 00:15:35,040 --> 00:15:37,640 Speaker 1: be a challenging question, but I have to ask it. 251 00:15:38,040 --> 00:15:41,800 Speaker 1: Do you qualify your own father as a good man? 252 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:45,760 Speaker 1: I will say, I think that my father is a 253 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:49,840 Speaker 1: good father. Do I a good man? I think that 254 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:53,000 Speaker 1: he has blossomed into a good man at the time 255 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:56,280 Speaker 1: of knocking it down, I don't know that he was 256 00:15:56,560 --> 00:16:00,320 Speaker 1: a good man at that moment. WHOA, Yeah, So I 257 00:16:00,360 --> 00:16:05,200 Speaker 1: think if my dad now was and bringing my mother today, 258 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 1: you might be looking at a little garisha, you know, 259 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:11,040 Speaker 1: if he ready to knock some balls off. If he 260 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:13,960 Speaker 1: did it today, absolutely, today he knock some balls off. 261 00:16:14,000 --> 00:16:16,920 Speaker 1: But back then, I don't know. Back in he's back 262 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 1: in the eighties, he was a different kind of Niga, 263 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:26,120 Speaker 1: you know he was. That's so fascinating because it it does, 264 00:16:26,800 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 1: And this, this I think connects back to our conversation 265 00:16:29,640 --> 00:16:33,720 Speaker 1: about evolution, because it does then imply that this good 266 00:16:33,840 --> 00:16:38,600 Speaker 1: man is not a permanence as much as a transition, 267 00:16:39,280 --> 00:16:43,479 Speaker 1: a thing that can come and go in a person's life. Absolutely, absolutely, 268 00:16:43,520 --> 00:16:46,360 Speaker 1: we are only as good as you were yesterday. WHOA, 269 00:16:47,160 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 1: that sounds like some something. She also said, uh, in 270 00:16:50,000 --> 00:16:52,760 Speaker 1: that conversation just cooked up and I'm just like, oh, 271 00:16:52,800 --> 00:17:01,560 Speaker 1: I might St Louis and really me, you know. Okay, 272 00:17:01,720 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 1: So you're seeing the potential at least of the good 273 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:07,639 Speaker 1: man that your dad was or could be, but not 274 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 1: the good man that he necessarily was in conceiving you 275 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 1: and your brother. Do you feel like you can say 276 00:17:14,119 --> 00:17:18,520 Speaker 1: the same for the other men in your life who 277 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:22,120 Speaker 1: have who have I guess you can are created men 278 00:17:22,520 --> 00:17:26,600 Speaker 1: who have who have helped create boys. H I try 279 00:17:26,640 --> 00:17:29,840 Speaker 1: to think about my homies growing up and what their 280 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:34,359 Speaker 1: dads were like, Yeah, and there was one dad that 281 00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 1: I thought like specifically, like oh, that's a good dude. 282 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:40,240 Speaker 1: But as I've gotten older, I was like, I think 283 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:42,160 Speaker 1: this nigg might have been lazy as hell. He might 284 00:17:42,160 --> 00:17:44,400 Speaker 1: have been ship. You know, he might have just been 285 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:47,560 Speaker 1: around all the time because he was like not active. 286 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:51,000 Speaker 1: It wasn't like he wanted to be around. And he 287 00:17:51,040 --> 00:17:53,479 Speaker 1: was always like kind of just like talking ship to us. 288 00:17:53,480 --> 00:17:54,879 Speaker 1: So I was like, oh he could because he just 289 00:17:54,880 --> 00:17:57,439 Speaker 1: be like kicking And I'm like, you don't talk to 290 00:17:57,520 --> 00:18:04,880 Speaker 1: kids like that. For me, Hey man, this is gonna 291 00:18:04,880 --> 00:18:07,439 Speaker 1: have lasting effects from my on my person. What are 292 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:09,679 Speaker 1: you doing? Absolutely right? And now I can talk to 293 00:18:09,760 --> 00:18:14,399 Speaker 1: my friends about what I'm proud about anymore because there's 294 00:18:14,440 --> 00:18:17,480 Speaker 1: a there's a four year old in the corner just 295 00:18:17,480 --> 00:18:20,320 Speaker 1: just heckling me exactly, being like, oh, you think you're 296 00:18:20,320 --> 00:18:22,679 Speaker 1: good because you made that free throw, and I'm like, 297 00:18:22,960 --> 00:18:28,880 Speaker 1: leave me alone. Yeah, I'm trying to get better at least, Like, yeah, 298 00:18:28,920 --> 00:18:31,680 Speaker 1: that free throw ment a lot to me. Yeah, absolutely, 299 00:18:31,680 --> 00:18:36,760 Speaker 1: I wouldn't always knocking down free throws. I love that 300 00:18:36,880 --> 00:18:39,880 Speaker 1: it does. I mean, okay, so you know that I'm 301 00:18:39,960 --> 00:18:44,440 Speaker 1: I'm having a kid, I'm having a daughter, which naturally 302 00:18:44,520 --> 00:18:47,159 Speaker 1: this this conspiracy theory gave me a little bit of 303 00:18:47,880 --> 00:18:51,160 Speaker 1: excitement that it made me feel good, like, oh, ship, 304 00:18:51,320 --> 00:18:54,840 Speaker 1: maybe I am secretly knocking balls off because you know, 305 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:58,880 Speaker 1: I girls largely running my family that this isn't uh, 306 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:01,719 Speaker 1: I think it be. I am the only boy that 307 00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:05,160 Speaker 1: my mom had, and I'm one of four on her 308 00:19:05,280 --> 00:19:07,960 Speaker 1: side of things, and then my dad only had me 309 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:11,280 Speaker 1: and my brother, but my brothers adopted, so he didn't 310 00:19:11,320 --> 00:19:13,879 Speaker 1: That wouldn't come from his ball. It was just you know, 311 00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:19,119 Speaker 1: his pocketbook. I guess he had a bad man a 312 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:24,199 Speaker 1: little bit he turned into a good man. Uh, and 313 00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:27,840 Speaker 1: he's not turning him into a good man really well, 314 00:19:27,880 --> 00:19:31,440 Speaker 1: he's a he's a he's a fine person. He works 315 00:19:31,480 --> 00:19:34,159 Speaker 1: at UPS. Right now he's figuring his ship out. But 316 00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:36,920 Speaker 1: you know he ain't nailing it right now, but he'll 317 00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:41,800 Speaker 1: he'll figure he's twenty two. Who among us? Yeah out here? Who? Yeah? 318 00:19:41,840 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 1: Who had twenty two? Would have had a boy? Not me, 319 00:19:45,119 --> 00:19:47,680 Speaker 1: had had a little girl, a girl? Yeah, I would 320 00:19:47,680 --> 00:19:50,680 Speaker 1: have made all boys at twenty two. That was that 321 00:19:50,720 --> 00:19:57,200 Speaker 1: a little army, you know, hellish coming out screaming, mean, 322 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:02,000 Speaker 1: just what weird neck veins and absolutely just like knew 323 00:20:02,040 --> 00:20:04,399 Speaker 1: it was the ship. And it's like, shut up, you 324 00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:07,960 Speaker 1: get out of here, you baby. Yeah, you suck, you 325 00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:12,960 Speaker 1: suck exactly. Okay, So so you're identifying all these people. 326 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:15,959 Speaker 1: But no, to the larger point I guess is it 327 00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:19,720 Speaker 1: does give I guess a man some kind of confidence 328 00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:24,439 Speaker 1: in entering into this relationship with a a girl, baby 329 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 1: and with girls in general, where like some of it 330 00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:32,320 Speaker 1: feels like it's a measure of the man as he is, 331 00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:35,320 Speaker 1: and some of it feels almost like words of encouragement 332 00:20:35,800 --> 00:20:38,800 Speaker 1: for a man going into something that in a lot 333 00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:41,600 Speaker 1: of ways is foreign for most men. Most of us 334 00:20:41,640 --> 00:20:44,080 Speaker 1: don't know how to raise a girl or how to 335 00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:48,719 Speaker 1: be decent even to women. And so part of it 336 00:20:48,760 --> 00:20:51,440 Speaker 1: is it seems like it's like an affirmation your aunt 337 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:53,680 Speaker 1: is offering, being like, if you end up with a girl, 338 00:20:54,080 --> 00:20:56,280 Speaker 1: you two ship, and you gotta keep being the ship 339 00:20:56,400 --> 00:21:00,119 Speaker 1: so that she turns out. Okay, Yeah, absolutely, And I 340 00:21:00,119 --> 00:21:02,000 Speaker 1: think about that because I think about our homies who 341 00:21:02,040 --> 00:21:07,959 Speaker 1: have little girls and how they're so they're so present 342 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 1: in a way that our homies with like boy kids 343 00:21:10,560 --> 00:21:12,400 Speaker 1: aren't like aren't like nothing like our homes. Boy kids 344 00:21:12,440 --> 00:21:15,920 Speaker 1: aren't present. But there is just a totally different energy 345 00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:20,360 Speaker 1: watching the homie with like his six month old daughter. Yes, 346 00:21:20,600 --> 00:21:24,720 Speaker 1: it's like a very wild it's start in comparison. Yeah. 347 00:21:25,280 --> 00:21:29,600 Speaker 1: So my barber is this dude who who for the 348 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:32,200 Speaker 1: most part, is just a ship talker. He spends most 349 00:21:32,240 --> 00:21:34,240 Speaker 1: of the day just he's one of them I think 350 00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:37,080 Speaker 1: first black barbers are. It's just every he got an 351 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:39,439 Speaker 1: opinion on everything. He's gonna tell you what it is 352 00:21:39,480 --> 00:21:42,880 Speaker 1: and what did we tell you what to eat? Yes, exactly. 353 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:45,560 Speaker 1: Fishy's like you gotta eat more fish and it's like, yeah, 354 00:21:45,600 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 1: everything that he knows the secret to some ship that 355 00:21:49,560 --> 00:21:52,600 Speaker 1: that you didn't, And it's like, motherfucker, you can't possibly 356 00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:57,359 Speaker 1: be this wise. You work here, you're pulling down twenty 357 00:21:57,440 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 1: five bucks every half hour. Come on, now, come on, 358 00:22:02,400 --> 00:22:05,600 Speaker 1: big dog, you ain't. You ain't doing all that. But 359 00:22:05,720 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 1: he has two daughters, and in speaking about his experience 360 00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:12,919 Speaker 1: as like a father two daughters, you can see a 361 00:22:13,000 --> 00:22:15,919 Speaker 1: type of shift in his in his language and his 362 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:20,840 Speaker 1: body language, in just his ability to recognize that softness 363 00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:24,560 Speaker 1: you're talking about and not feel a shame about it. 364 00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:26,439 Speaker 1: And I think even with the men that I know 365 00:22:26,520 --> 00:22:31,359 Speaker 1: that have like sons, they still are flexing their big 366 00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:34,400 Speaker 1: boy muscles when they talk about their their sons. They're 367 00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:37,640 Speaker 1: not able to go like, man, I just I fucking 368 00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:39,399 Speaker 1: like that guy. I just want to hang out. He 369 00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:41,480 Speaker 1: is my best friend. I want to kiss his cheeks. 370 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:45,199 Speaker 1: It's it's very like, yeah, e cool and not fun 371 00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:48,920 Speaker 1: with him. It's like, don't you do you know any 372 00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:52,040 Speaker 1: dudes that are like my dad's my best friend? No? 373 00:22:52,160 --> 00:22:57,159 Speaker 1: Not good ones? Yeah, for sure, for sure, absolutely, But 374 00:22:57,200 --> 00:22:59,840 Speaker 1: I feel like I know not a ton of women, 375 00:22:59,880 --> 00:23:02,040 Speaker 1: but like it's more common to you, like, oh my 376 00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:04,080 Speaker 1: mom's my best friend. I've heard that before with women. 377 00:23:04,080 --> 00:23:07,800 Speaker 1: I've never heard that, what the dude? Yeah, okay, let 378 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:09,879 Speaker 1: me ask you this last question. I think we're going 379 00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:12,560 Speaker 1: to go to break with all of this, that that 380 00:23:12,640 --> 00:23:16,600 Speaker 1: you are sort of like I guess, dealing in and 381 00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:20,680 Speaker 1: discovering this piece of information from your great aunt and 382 00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:23,760 Speaker 1: trying to wrestle with what it all means. Do you 383 00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:29,000 Speaker 1: feel like you've landed on a definition of what would 384 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:32,240 Speaker 1: would allow you the strength to knock some balls off 385 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:34,720 Speaker 1: and be qualified as a good man? Do you feel 386 00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:40,000 Speaker 1: like you know good man by definition? Not by definition? 387 00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:43,080 Speaker 1: But I know it by sight? You know, I know 388 00:23:43,200 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 1: it by I know the gate of a good man. 389 00:23:46,040 --> 00:23:48,680 Speaker 1: You know, I got I got a point out to 390 00:23:48,720 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 1: do man on the street real quick now. But if 391 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:53,840 Speaker 1: I had to sit right here in like write it down, 392 00:23:53,880 --> 00:23:56,200 Speaker 1: I couldn't do that for you. I got you? Are 393 00:23:56,240 --> 00:24:00,840 Speaker 1: there any Are there any identifying qualities that that the 394 00:24:00,880 --> 00:24:04,000 Speaker 1: novice should look out for? Is are we talking tuck 395 00:24:04,119 --> 00:24:06,920 Speaker 1: and t shirt? Or are we does Is that where 396 00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:10,040 Speaker 1: a good man starts or is it a good man 397 00:24:10,160 --> 00:24:14,520 Speaker 1: starts with aspiration? Whether it's like whether a good man 398 00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:16,520 Speaker 1: it's like, oh, you don't need to have a good job, 399 00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:19,000 Speaker 1: but you need to know that that you want a 400 00:24:19,000 --> 00:24:21,560 Speaker 1: good job. You don't be in a good, Like you 401 00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:23,440 Speaker 1: don't need to be somewhere too, but you need to 402 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:25,800 Speaker 1: know that that's where you're headed or that's what you're 403 00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:29,040 Speaker 1: capable of. I think that is that that would be 404 00:24:29,080 --> 00:24:33,960 Speaker 1: the number one qualifier for a good man to meet. Yeah, so, 405 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:36,440 Speaker 1: so you can't be one of these dudes that's like 406 00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:41,120 Speaker 1: content in the space you're in without at least the 407 00:24:41,160 --> 00:24:44,359 Speaker 1: goal of something bigger, better in your world. Yeah, I 408 00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:46,480 Speaker 1: think so. And even if you are content in some ways, 409 00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:49,359 Speaker 1: I think that you have to be moving forward in 410 00:24:49,520 --> 00:24:53,600 Speaker 1: other ways, Like at some place you have to be aspirational, right, 411 00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:57,880 Speaker 1: I like that that and that feels like the reason 412 00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:01,080 Speaker 1: I like that is because it feels like that allows 413 00:25:01,119 --> 00:25:04,520 Speaker 1: space for anyone to access that if they so choose, 414 00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:10,840 Speaker 1: Like yeah, yeah, yeah, it's like anybody can cook. And 415 00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:13,000 Speaker 1: we're not saying everybody can cook. We're just said, don't 416 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:15,360 Speaker 1: be surprised if you come across the motherfucker they can 417 00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:19,320 Speaker 1: cook because we're out here. We're out here, and and 418 00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:22,080 Speaker 1: maybe maybe you're a rat and you you can't be 419 00:25:22,160 --> 00:25:25,239 Speaker 1: in the kitchen legally, it's not. It's not for you, 420 00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:29,240 Speaker 1: but that doesn't mean you can't try. Absolutely, God damn, 421 00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,800 Speaker 1: it's some raighted twie ship the good man. We're gonna 422 00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,080 Speaker 1: take a break. We'll be back with more Gary Richards 423 00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:47,280 Speaker 1: than the more, my mama told me. And we are 424 00:25:47,920 --> 00:25:56,960 Speaker 1: bat like teenage girls when you say teenage, how are 425 00:25:57,000 --> 00:26:02,159 Speaker 1: we talking? Yeah, we're here, We're more more my mama 426 00:26:02,240 --> 00:26:05,080 Speaker 1: told me. We're still talking about good men and whether 427 00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:08,840 Speaker 1: or not they knocked balls off of of little fetuses 428 00:26:08,920 --> 00:26:11,320 Speaker 1: to make sure that they become girls in the womb. 429 00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:14,600 Speaker 1: And obviously r Kelly uh and not a good man, 430 00:26:14,760 --> 00:26:17,320 Speaker 1: a man who has daughters, but not a good man, 431 00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:22,520 Speaker 1: I would say, yeah, Unfortunately, Um, something can just finessy. 432 00:26:22,600 --> 00:26:25,960 Speaker 1: You know something you can just cong euro step the 433 00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:28,040 Speaker 1: rule and get to and it's like, damn you at 434 00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:33,560 Speaker 1: the bucket. Now, sure there are nights where the villain 435 00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:37,080 Speaker 1: puts up fifty and you just gotta you just gotta 436 00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:40,199 Speaker 1: deal with those facts exactly like sometimes you in the 437 00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 1: garden and you coming up against the Reggie Miller. You 438 00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:46,600 Speaker 1: know you're coming up against the Trey Young and you 439 00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:49,680 Speaker 1: just gotta take the l You just gotta be like, man, 440 00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:53,200 Speaker 1: his hair sucks and I hate his voice, but goddamn, 441 00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:59,040 Speaker 1: can that boy play basketball? You can play some basketball 442 00:26:59,040 --> 00:27:02,760 Speaker 1: wait in sometime, let's talk about some of this research, 443 00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 1: because a lot of interesting things came up when I 444 00:27:06,119 --> 00:27:10,720 Speaker 1: started digging into the the quote unquote science relating to 445 00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:16,000 Speaker 1: your your great ans assertion. So unfortunately, the first at 446 00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:18,919 Speaker 1: least half of the sentence that she sends in or 447 00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:21,760 Speaker 1: she said that all babies start off it's boys, is 448 00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:28,800 Speaker 1: actually completely untrue. That scientifically every person starts off actually 449 00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:33,760 Speaker 1: as girl, as like a a girl embryo, right, that 450 00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 1: that we are essentially are all born as x x chromosomes. 451 00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:42,760 Speaker 1: And then you know, theoretically, through I guess what's the 452 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:47,040 Speaker 1: right word, fermentation, We'll call it fermentation up in that belly, 453 00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:50,760 Speaker 1: we eventually get enough hormones going on that some of 454 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:54,680 Speaker 1: us turned to x y chromosomes, which is how you 455 00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:58,800 Speaker 1: make a boy. Okay, which sounds like maybe what my 456 00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:03,800 Speaker 1: betty ship me saying is that everybody's born as girls, 457 00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:06,960 Speaker 1: and the bitch they can go and let some balls 458 00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:09,760 Speaker 1: pop in there. There you go. You know, you don't 459 00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:12,119 Speaker 1: let these balls show up. But if you really, the 460 00:28:12,240 --> 00:28:15,840 Speaker 1: ball's gonna stay. Oh wait wait a minute, there, come 461 00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:21,919 Speaker 1: on now, now you're spinning back. Yeah, yeah, it's like 462 00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:24,840 Speaker 1: if you're not if you're not alpha. If you're not alpha, 463 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:29,000 Speaker 1: guess what somebody gonna show but eat your food, simply 464 00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:32,720 Speaker 1: paying simple. You are here. You don't if you don't 465 00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:33,680 Speaker 1: want to, If you don't want to be a part 466 00:28:33,680 --> 00:28:39,440 Speaker 1: of the clean plate club, somebody opens there it is 467 00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:42,680 Speaker 1: And I think and this goes back to your original 468 00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:47,800 Speaker 1: point about this just being a question of spiritual truth, 469 00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:52,880 Speaker 1: right that Like, yeah, okay, her technical truth is incorrect. 470 00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:55,760 Speaker 1: She she is wrong that all people are born boys, 471 00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:58,360 Speaker 1: and then you knocked the balls off, but she is 472 00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:02,440 Speaker 1: spiritually correct. Possib blee that that we are all born 473 00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:06,720 Speaker 1: one gender and a weak motherfucker is going to allow 474 00:29:07,480 --> 00:29:10,920 Speaker 1: that gender to be determined for them and others are 475 00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:14,120 Speaker 1: going to determine it for themselves exactly. Some folks are 476 00:29:14,120 --> 00:29:16,720 Speaker 1: gonna build a family and some folks are just gonna 477 00:29:16,760 --> 00:29:21,480 Speaker 1: like see what happens. Yea, And boys are are the 478 00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:24,560 Speaker 1: product of see what happens. And that's disappointing as a 479 00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:26,720 Speaker 1: boy to know that my father was to see what 480 00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:30,640 Speaker 1: happens type dude, But here we are, here, we are 481 00:29:30,680 --> 00:29:34,880 Speaker 1: you know, have a daughter, so and I pray I 482 00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:38,560 Speaker 1: only have daughters for no other reason than to impress 483 00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:45,440 Speaker 1: your aunt. Okay, so this process of the x X 484 00:29:45,520 --> 00:29:49,400 Speaker 1: chromosomes and uh for girls and the x Y chromosomes 485 00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:51,920 Speaker 1: for boys. We all start with the X X and 486 00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:56,880 Speaker 1: then about fifty one cent of people are born as males. 487 00:29:56,920 --> 00:30:00,560 Speaker 1: They are actually more males born on average then there 488 00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:03,440 Speaker 1: are women. And as it turns out, and I think 489 00:30:03,480 --> 00:30:07,800 Speaker 1: this is a really nice connection back to what your 490 00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:11,400 Speaker 1: aunt was saying, is that even though slightly more people 491 00:30:11,440 --> 00:30:15,640 Speaker 1: are born male, girls tend to have a higher survival 492 00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:20,040 Speaker 1: rate in the infancy stage. That more, although men are 493 00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:23,760 Speaker 1: born more often, women are the ones that actually make 494 00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:27,880 Speaker 1: it through infancy. So bich nigs having bitch nigga and 495 00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:30,920 Speaker 1: the bitch niggas die. There you go. That is how 496 00:30:31,720 --> 00:30:33,160 Speaker 1: you hate to hear it, you know, you hate to 497 00:30:33,200 --> 00:30:34,880 Speaker 1: hear it like that. Sometimes you hate to hear the 498 00:30:34,920 --> 00:30:41,760 Speaker 1: truth so blunt. Oh my god, Sometimes thats what it is. 499 00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:45,880 Speaker 1: It's just what it is, fellas. Don't take it personal, EDG. 500 00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:49,320 Speaker 1: I didn't do the research, you know, I'm just I'm 501 00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:52,840 Speaker 1: just reading the bag. I'm just reading the bag. I'm 502 00:30:52,960 --> 00:30:56,760 Speaker 1: just I'm of course penographer at this point. I'm just 503 00:30:56,760 --> 00:31:02,080 Speaker 1: giving the basis, right. I love that. Okay, So even 504 00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:06,720 Speaker 1: more interesting this infancy stage that boys don't make it through. 505 00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:08,920 Speaker 1: And this goes to your point about bitch niggas raised 506 00:31:08,920 --> 00:31:12,160 Speaker 1: and bitch niggas, is that this is said because boys 507 00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:16,520 Speaker 1: are said to be biologically weaker and more susceptible to 508 00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:20,640 Speaker 1: diseases and premature death. Now they're not exactly sure why. 509 00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:23,840 Speaker 1: I'm sure there are some theories, but it does sound 510 00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:27,280 Speaker 1: like boys in general are just not at the same 511 00:31:27,320 --> 00:31:32,120 Speaker 1: strength that women are as they move forward out of 512 00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:34,000 Speaker 1: the womb. You know what I mean that. I mean 513 00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:35,920 Speaker 1: that would make sense to me if we're saying that 514 00:31:36,400 --> 00:31:39,520 Speaker 1: if we all start off as like x X chromosomes 515 00:31:39,520 --> 00:31:43,240 Speaker 1: and there's this intense transformation to go from x x 516 00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:46,560 Speaker 1: to x Y, I feel like that has to be draining, 517 00:31:46,640 --> 00:31:48,880 Speaker 1: you know, so to pop and I can definitely imagine 518 00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:52,200 Speaker 1: that that It's like, okay, cool, if you gotta like 519 00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:57,280 Speaker 1: do any kind of like crazy exercise and then go 520 00:31:57,960 --> 00:31:59,800 Speaker 1: run a raise with everybody else, you're just gonna be 521 00:31:59,880 --> 00:32:04,160 Speaker 1: more tired. Yeah, you know, when a motherfucker animals, they 522 00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:07,560 Speaker 1: ain't at full strength immediately. You gotta build up some 523 00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:11,560 Speaker 1: strength and you're lying form or cheetah form, whatever the 524 00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:13,560 Speaker 1: funk it is Yeah, you're gonna be a saliman. You're 525 00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:16,360 Speaker 1: still gonna be like a sluggish for a minute. You know, 526 00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:24,720 Speaker 1: you gotta get in the water and soak up. Absolutely so. 527 00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:29,160 Speaker 1: One of the things that I think also interestingly supports 528 00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:33,440 Speaker 1: your great aunt's theory is that a man's genes do 529 00:32:33,760 --> 00:32:37,680 Speaker 1: actually tend to be the most dominant determinant in a 530 00:32:37,800 --> 00:32:42,000 Speaker 1: baby sex. That like, because you, as you said, come 531 00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:46,560 Speaker 1: from a family predominantly of women, it is more likely 532 00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:49,480 Speaker 1: that you are going to make women. And if you 533 00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:53,240 Speaker 1: come from a family that's predominantly men, you are more 534 00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:56,680 Speaker 1: likely going to make a man. And so it seems 535 00:32:56,840 --> 00:33:00,520 Speaker 1: like just the idea of being around girl els and 536 00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:03,960 Speaker 1: being around sort of more true. I guess we will 537 00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:07,680 Speaker 1: be traditional in this sense. But af feminine energy is 538 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:11,080 Speaker 1: allowing you to realize what a quote unquote good man 539 00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:15,960 Speaker 1: is and thus allowing you to make more more women 540 00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:20,080 Speaker 1: for the future, as opposed to making some funk niggas 541 00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:24,960 Speaker 1: for our downfall. Absolutely so, it's uh, once again, women 542 00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:27,720 Speaker 1: at the forefront taking care of it, making sure that 543 00:33:27,840 --> 00:33:29,920 Speaker 1: you can be a good man. Yep, you know, it's 544 00:33:30,280 --> 00:33:35,120 Speaker 1: names thing kind of happens, but here we are. Yeah, yeah, 545 00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:37,720 Speaker 1: I mean like it's like to be traditional about It's like, yeah, 546 00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:41,640 Speaker 1: I get. It's like women are traditionally more nurturing and 547 00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:47,400 Speaker 1: can pull out or foster those sorts of emotions. And 548 00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:50,560 Speaker 1: that's what a vulnerability that we don't typically think of 549 00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:53,560 Speaker 1: when we think of men. But I definitely think of 550 00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:56,920 Speaker 1: that when I think of parents. Yes, and I will 551 00:33:57,000 --> 00:34:00,200 Speaker 1: say that that just on an anecdotal level, all of 552 00:34:00,240 --> 00:34:03,240 Speaker 1: the kids that I knew growing up who had like 553 00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:07,480 Speaker 1: all boy families were pieces of ship, you know what 554 00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:11,399 Speaker 1: I mean, Like just all boys. Most of y'all were 555 00:34:11,480 --> 00:34:17,240 Speaker 1: just garbage p yeah, dark time. And it's like, come on, dog, yeah, 556 00:34:17,520 --> 00:34:20,960 Speaker 1: arguing about ship that ain't worth arguing over it, Just like, bro, 557 00:34:21,239 --> 00:34:24,960 Speaker 1: chill man, y'all take the fun out of stuff. I'm 558 00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:26,759 Speaker 1: just out here trying to play football and y'all like 559 00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:30,080 Speaker 1: really trying to like really like diving, like this is 560 00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:32,839 Speaker 1: crazy that we ain't got pants on, Like no, this 561 00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:37,000 Speaker 1: is reckless. Bro. Come on man, I'm not about to 562 00:34:37,000 --> 00:34:39,000 Speaker 1: make the league. Let's just all take it easy and 563 00:34:39,239 --> 00:34:43,040 Speaker 1: be friends. Right, It's so wild, Like, yeah, I don't 564 00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:47,040 Speaker 1: know one family of boys that's like not all dirty, 565 00:34:47,160 --> 00:34:50,759 Speaker 1: like not all stinky all the time. Yeah, they were 566 00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:55,239 Speaker 1: always just sort of stinky weirdos. Whereas the dudes that 567 00:34:55,320 --> 00:34:59,000 Speaker 1: I knew that grew up in like predominantly female household 568 00:34:59,160 --> 00:35:02,480 Speaker 1: myself include did we throw a little funny, but everything 569 00:35:02,520 --> 00:35:06,560 Speaker 1: else about this is pretty chill, absolutely pretty chill. Typically 570 00:35:06,600 --> 00:35:10,320 Speaker 1: like you think about those dudes, is um like more smooth, 571 00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:14,440 Speaker 1: definitely cleaner, like like pretty boys, you know, like that 572 00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:17,520 Speaker 1: type of energy. Yeah, and you want to find a 573 00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:20,080 Speaker 1: sweet spot, right, You don't want to find yourself being 574 00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:22,959 Speaker 1: too much of like a pretty boys sort of like 575 00:35:23,480 --> 00:35:27,080 Speaker 1: soft weirdo that people are like, I'm not even sure 576 00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:29,440 Speaker 1: if I want to be around this person. But you 577 00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:32,600 Speaker 1: don't also want to be a dirty facing the mud 578 00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:35,000 Speaker 1: kid because you had a bunch of brothers that that 579 00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:38,600 Speaker 1: encouraged that, Right. I don't want somebody that's like, I 580 00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:41,400 Speaker 1: got these basketball shorts under their church clothes, you know, 581 00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:44,760 Speaker 1: and they like and they church shoes. Like that's crazy 582 00:35:44,760 --> 00:35:48,520 Speaker 1: to me. Okay, I'm just tossing pains to the side. 583 00:35:48,880 --> 00:35:53,760 Speaker 1: That's crazy. Somebody spent a lot of money on these sands. 584 00:35:54,480 --> 00:35:57,160 Speaker 1: You can't just take them off the hoop. You gotta phold, 585 00:35:57,920 --> 00:35:59,560 Speaker 1: you gotta fold them up and don't just lead a 586 00:35:59,640 --> 00:36:05,480 Speaker 1: belt in there, bro, come on the bowled up. This nuts. 587 00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:09,080 Speaker 1: You gotta girl your belt up. Then it's unusable. Just 588 00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:15,680 Speaker 1: pin striped, pin stripe, dog, don't play with me, Fold 589 00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:20,279 Speaker 1: that up, put it in the hangar. Love that. So 590 00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:24,200 Speaker 1: the the other thing that popped up and there. There's 591 00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:27,520 Speaker 1: some debate back and forth about how true this is, 592 00:36:27,560 --> 00:36:30,120 Speaker 1: although I do think that there is a fair amount 593 00:36:30,160 --> 00:36:32,839 Speaker 1: of evidence to say that it's true. But there is, 594 00:36:33,080 --> 00:36:35,560 Speaker 1: similarly to some of the things that we're talking about, 595 00:36:35,600 --> 00:36:39,239 Speaker 1: studies that show that children come out, especially in the 596 00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:43,359 Speaker 1: early stages, and even girls come out looking more like 597 00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:46,680 Speaker 1: their father than their mother when they come out of 598 00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:51,800 Speaker 1: the womb, in part because it's a evolutionary fail safe 599 00:36:51,880 --> 00:36:55,360 Speaker 1: to make sure that the man feels connected to the 600 00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:59,840 Speaker 1: child and doesn't like want to just abandon the motherfucker 601 00:37:00,400 --> 00:37:02,759 Speaker 1: and you know, move on with its life. We don't 602 00:37:02,760 --> 00:37:05,680 Speaker 1: give birth to the children. So there's no actual proof 603 00:37:06,040 --> 00:37:08,760 Speaker 1: that this kid is ours unless it kind of looks 604 00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:11,399 Speaker 1: like us. I mean, that's the number one that's the 605 00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:14,919 Speaker 1: number one answer on morias like why is this maybe 606 00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:17,680 Speaker 1: not George Like? Baby don't even look like me exactly. 607 00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:19,960 Speaker 1: They don't even look like me. It's like, that's number one, 608 00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:21,879 Speaker 1: and you're gonna be my kids. You gotta look like me. 609 00:37:22,200 --> 00:37:26,560 Speaker 1: Yeall look like me. Dog, Look at my eyebrows exactly exactly. 610 00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:30,319 Speaker 1: My whole family got thick eyebrows. And you don't roll 611 00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:32,600 Speaker 1: out with these little fin ast side brows. Not it's 612 00:37:32,640 --> 00:37:35,279 Speaker 1: not me, that's not me. More were about we're about 613 00:37:35,280 --> 00:37:37,839 Speaker 1: to be dancing, all right. You got these sang from 614 00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:40,640 Speaker 1: one piece eyebrows and I don't. I don't know those baby. 615 00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:45,200 Speaker 1: This ain't my baby. M hmm. Gott to control that. 616 00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:48,799 Speaker 1: I yeah, I get that. That makes total sense to me. 617 00:37:49,680 --> 00:37:53,680 Speaker 1: So in some ways, and for using your aunt's theory, 618 00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:57,240 Speaker 1: this would imply that men tend to look at girls 619 00:37:57,280 --> 00:38:00,160 Speaker 1: that look like them and and do everything they can 620 00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:04,279 Speaker 1: to ensure this child's survival, whereas men tend to look 621 00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:07,600 Speaker 1: at boys who look like them and basically go with 622 00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:11,000 Speaker 1: the energy of you'll figure it out. If I figured 623 00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:13,440 Speaker 1: it out and you look like me, then you two 624 00:38:13,520 --> 00:38:15,839 Speaker 1: will figure it out, which is why these babies are 625 00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:20,200 Speaker 1: not surviving at the same rate as their girl counterparts. 626 00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:25,719 Speaker 1: That's really interesting, that's really wild. I think. I think 627 00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:29,799 Speaker 1: overall this is all sort of suggesting a type of 628 00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:34,880 Speaker 1: investment that naturally sort of happens with a man and 629 00:38:35,000 --> 00:38:39,560 Speaker 1: his daughter versus a man and his son that like, 630 00:38:39,880 --> 00:38:43,600 Speaker 1: you become instantly invested in the survival of this person, 631 00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:47,120 Speaker 1: the success of this person, thus making you a good man, 632 00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:51,879 Speaker 1: versus with a son where it's like, man, I think 633 00:38:51,920 --> 00:38:54,240 Speaker 1: about what I think about what kye? Was it he said, 634 00:38:54,440 --> 00:38:57,279 Speaker 1: I'll be worried about my daughter, I'd be worried about Kim, 635 00:38:57,719 --> 00:39:03,720 Speaker 1: but saying, is baby a I worried about him? Yeah, okay, alright, 636 00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:09,120 Speaker 1: I get it now. Yeah, he's just presuming sanct is 637 00:39:09,120 --> 00:39:11,680 Speaker 1: gonna be able to like do whatever he did. And 638 00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:16,239 Speaker 1: that's crazy, it's insane. It's insane, Like I have done 639 00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:21,800 Speaker 1: these magnificent things, these insane things, and because this person 640 00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:26,719 Speaker 1: is of my loins, that they are capable of the same, 641 00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:32,200 Speaker 1: And that is not true at all. That is gnarly truly. 642 00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:35,319 Speaker 1: If if ever Jeffrey Jordan's, if ever there were a 643 00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:38,680 Speaker 1: perfect example of a motherfucker of loins that can't do 644 00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:41,560 Speaker 1: what his daddy did, look to it, look to young 645 00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:46,719 Speaker 1: Jeffrey Jordan's and where he had. Now I think he 646 00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:52,279 Speaker 1: got arrested recently. I'm not sure for Jeffrey Free, Miss Jeffrey. Yeah, 647 00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:57,520 Speaker 1: free Jeffrey. Free Jeffrey. I'm gonna get that on the 648 00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:01,600 Speaker 1: T shirt that school free Jeffrey. Jordan's okay. So one 649 00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:05,080 Speaker 1: of the things that I think your aunt probably did 650 00:40:05,080 --> 00:40:07,000 Speaker 1: not talk to you about it, and I'd be very 651 00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:11,160 Speaker 1: excited if she did. But is uh this question of 652 00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:15,520 Speaker 1: sort of like the binary conversation or elements of of 653 00:40:15,719 --> 00:40:20,360 Speaker 1: girl boy, this very binary conversation that's happening, and the 654 00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:24,920 Speaker 1: question of all the the intersect people in between these 655 00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:29,040 Speaker 1: binary categories, if you know what I mean. Absolutely, absolutely 656 00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:33,200 Speaker 1: we did not breach that at the point conversation. But 657 00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:36,759 Speaker 1: I can go back to her and I can ask 658 00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:40,040 Speaker 1: her opinion on it. But I would assume my aunt 659 00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:43,399 Speaker 1: would say something like, well, you know, you know, well, 660 00:40:43,440 --> 00:40:46,279 Speaker 1: come on, why are you asking me that? Why are 661 00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:48,359 Speaker 1: you asking me that? And I'm like, I'm just trying 662 00:40:48,360 --> 00:40:50,520 Speaker 1: to get to the bottom of it, you know, she said, well, 663 00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:53,120 Speaker 1: I ain't got all the answers. First of all, good 664 00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:56,640 Speaker 1: for her for having evolved so much from a fish 665 00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:59,280 Speaker 1: that she knows. I'm about to get messy with you, bitch. 666 00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:01,359 Speaker 1: I know what you're about to do to me if 667 00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:03,839 Speaker 1: I give you an answer that I probably really think 668 00:41:03,960 --> 00:41:07,160 Speaker 1: as a seventy to eighty year old person out in 669 00:41:07,160 --> 00:41:10,759 Speaker 1: the world, M I think that she. I think that 670 00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:14,480 Speaker 1: she has evolved enough to be like, I recognize the 671 00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:18,560 Speaker 1: trap when I see one. Yeah, it don't feel trap me. 672 00:41:18,960 --> 00:41:21,680 Speaker 1: This is absolutely a trapp This don't feel like a 673 00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:25,040 Speaker 1: safe space for me to explore my antiquated beliefs. So 674 00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:27,480 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go ahead and back off of that one. 675 00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:30,480 Speaker 1: And it's also like, hey, it ain't my world. I 676 00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:33,520 Speaker 1: ain't really gotta deal with that. Mm hm, Hey, I 677 00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:35,759 Speaker 1: wish you're about the best of luck, but um, as 678 00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:38,600 Speaker 1: far as well, I gotta take care of it. Ain't 679 00:41:38,600 --> 00:41:43,000 Speaker 1: that which is which I think is maybe the healthiest 680 00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:45,920 Speaker 1: way you can approach a conversation that you're not ready 681 00:41:45,960 --> 00:41:50,319 Speaker 1: to have. I think so often we find ourselves in 682 00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:53,520 Speaker 1: the middle of wanting to form a hard formed opinion 683 00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:56,960 Speaker 1: on a thing that doesn't require all of that. It's 684 00:41:57,000 --> 00:42:00,279 Speaker 1: perfectly okay to be like, I am ignorant of this 685 00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:04,400 Speaker 1: thing and or indifferent to this thing, and I can't 686 00:42:04,440 --> 00:42:08,440 Speaker 1: offer any healing or grace or even thoughtfulness in regards 687 00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:11,319 Speaker 1: to the conversation you're trying to Even if I have 688 00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:13,799 Speaker 1: a heart opinion, like the idea that like what that's 689 00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:16,160 Speaker 1: my heart opinion. It shouldn't be the law of the land, 690 00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:18,360 Speaker 1: you know, yes, Like yeah, it was like, hey, I 691 00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:20,719 Speaker 1: feel this way, Like, hey, I don't think I don't 692 00:42:20,719 --> 00:42:22,880 Speaker 1: think I would want my kid to be aborted. That 693 00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:26,719 Speaker 1: don't mean every woman in the world shouldn't be allowed 694 00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:31,360 Speaker 1: to get an abortion. You know. That's a whole different conversation. Yeah, 695 00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:35,360 Speaker 1: that that's you have to truly be a crazy person 696 00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:38,680 Speaker 1: to be like I don't want that, so nobody wants 697 00:42:38,800 --> 00:42:42,120 Speaker 1: nobody can have it. That's like cool, Like I'm going home, 698 00:42:42,160 --> 00:42:44,399 Speaker 1: give me my basketball, And it's like what, no, we're 699 00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:48,160 Speaker 1: still hoping, bro, Like, don't do that. Yes, I don't 700 00:42:48,160 --> 00:42:52,960 Speaker 1: funk up everybody. Good times. I love I love frozen yogurt. 701 00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:56,400 Speaker 1: I when I go and get some frozen yogurt from Pinkberry, 702 00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:59,880 Speaker 1: I just do chocolate chips and strawberries or some other fruit. 703 00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:02,399 Speaker 1: But I'm a fruit and some chocolate chips, man, that's 704 00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:04,560 Speaker 1: all I like. Then they put out a bunch of 705 00:43:04,600 --> 00:43:07,920 Speaker 1: ship where they got like frosted many wheats or weird 706 00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:11,719 Speaker 1: peanut butter crumbles, and that ship looks disgusting to me 707 00:43:11,800 --> 00:43:14,839 Speaker 1: with my pink Barry. It fully grosses me the funk out, 708 00:43:15,120 --> 00:43:18,040 Speaker 1: and only I would have to be a psychopath to 709 00:43:18,120 --> 00:43:20,560 Speaker 1: be so grossed out by it that I demand that 710 00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:23,279 Speaker 1: they remove it as an option for all the other 711 00:43:23,360 --> 00:43:30,080 Speaker 1: psychopaths the ship. Absolutely, it's out of control. People have 712 00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:34,320 Speaker 1: their weird crumbles, right. It's like when people get upset online. 713 00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:38,319 Speaker 1: It's like like any sort of like question to the 714 00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:40,799 Speaker 1: masses where it's like, oh, what y'all think is the 715 00:43:40,840 --> 00:43:43,799 Speaker 1: best TV show right now? And somebody like I think 716 00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:46,040 Speaker 1: squid Game. There's like, bitch, squid Game is weak, and 717 00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:49,080 Speaker 1: it's like, hold on, hold on, I just said I 718 00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:52,759 Speaker 1: like squid Games. Right, it's a week. You have the 719 00:43:52,800 --> 00:43:58,040 Speaker 1: whole different conversation. Now I like it. It's for me. Yeah, 720 00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:00,799 Speaker 1: to me, that is the best TV show right now. 721 00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:05,880 Speaker 1: And it's like okay, yeah, yeah, go crazy. Yeah. This 722 00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:09,240 Speaker 1: person was asking for opinions, you're right, and then treating 723 00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:12,880 Speaker 1: opinions like they were objective and they're not like I 724 00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:17,280 Speaker 1: could like impose anything on anybody. So to that question 725 00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:21,080 Speaker 1: of of intersex, because I do think that this plays 726 00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:23,880 Speaker 1: an important part in the conversation that you may one 727 00:44:23,960 --> 00:44:26,560 Speaker 1: day have to have with your aunt. But we and 728 00:44:26,600 --> 00:44:28,560 Speaker 1: we talked about this a bit in our We did 729 00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:33,719 Speaker 1: an episode earlier this year, Gary about Sierra being possibly 730 00:44:33,840 --> 00:44:37,080 Speaker 1: born a man. I'm sure you remember that that legend 731 00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:41,960 Speaker 1: from when you were a child that said intersex people 732 00:44:42,080 --> 00:44:46,880 Speaker 1: the popular the world's population. Basically, about one point seven 733 00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:53,080 Speaker 1: percent of people identify slash qualify as intersex. And one 734 00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:56,400 Speaker 1: of the things that sort of makes this conversation a 735 00:44:56,400 --> 00:45:01,960 Speaker 1: bit complicated is that intersex covers this really vast definition 736 00:45:02,640 --> 00:45:06,359 Speaker 1: of I guess qualifications right. That it isn't just like 737 00:45:06,920 --> 00:45:11,319 Speaker 1: a man with female parts or you know, organs on 738 00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:14,520 Speaker 1: the inside, or a woman with testicles that never descended, 739 00:45:14,560 --> 00:45:18,680 Speaker 1: whatever it is. There are all these different nuanced elements 740 00:45:18,719 --> 00:45:22,279 Speaker 1: of what might make a person intersex, and so in 741 00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:26,400 Speaker 1: that way, more of us probably fall not under the 742 00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:31,040 Speaker 1: category of intersex, but fall closer to the middle of 743 00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:36,839 Speaker 1: these binary conversations than we actually think that we do. Absolutely, 744 00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:41,960 Speaker 1: I think that in in my aunts um and what 745 00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:44,680 Speaker 1: he was telling me, I think that that just points 746 00:45:44,719 --> 00:45:50,000 Speaker 1: to the multitudes of man you know, like okay, He's like, okay, 747 00:45:50,239 --> 00:45:52,120 Speaker 1: even if you are a good man, there are you 748 00:45:52,120 --> 00:45:54,920 Speaker 1: have still done trash shit uh, and you are not. 749 00:45:55,080 --> 00:45:58,839 Speaker 1: Nobody is wholesale good, you know. And it's so even 750 00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:01,320 Speaker 1: if you are, there is still of this battle happening. 751 00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:06,920 Speaker 1: So we are fluctuating. And as we are fluctuating, of 752 00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:11,440 Speaker 1: course the balls would be fluctuating as well. Their prevalence 753 00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:16,919 Speaker 1: or discretion, I think fluctuates as well. That some men 754 00:46:17,160 --> 00:46:20,880 Speaker 1: are only capable of knocking one ball off at a time, 755 00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:24,680 Speaker 1: and it doesn't mean that they're bad men, but it 756 00:46:24,800 --> 00:46:27,960 Speaker 1: also doesn't mean, probably in your aunt's eyes, that they 757 00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:32,840 Speaker 1: are good men necessarily. And that fluctive fluctuation you're referring 758 00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:37,719 Speaker 1: to sort of like shows that, yes, absolutely beautiful the 759 00:46:37,840 --> 00:46:40,359 Speaker 1: last thing that I'll bring to you. And I think 760 00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:43,040 Speaker 1: that this is also important and worth talking about and 761 00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:46,719 Speaker 1: just making sure that we're recognizing all the different factors 762 00:46:46,760 --> 00:46:50,480 Speaker 1: when we're talking about these binary communities of man, woman, 763 00:46:51,200 --> 00:46:55,480 Speaker 1: you know whatever. You got trans people right, Similarly, about 764 00:46:55,719 --> 00:47:00,000 Speaker 1: point six percent of the American population to identify as trans, 765 00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:03,480 Speaker 1: and that's sort of in some ways muddies this conversation 766 00:47:03,560 --> 00:47:07,800 Speaker 1: about what a good man is because there are plenty 767 00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:11,560 Speaker 1: of people who have what we would I guess traditionally 768 00:47:11,600 --> 00:47:16,960 Speaker 1: identify as as female organs who who are men? Right? 769 00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:21,040 Speaker 1: Who who are trans men? And therefore could potentially be 770 00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:27,480 Speaker 1: good men making women or making shitty men and not 771 00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:31,640 Speaker 1: necessarily easily categorized in the way that your aunt probably 772 00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:34,640 Speaker 1: is able to. Yeah, I think that my aunt would 773 00:47:35,160 --> 00:47:37,840 Speaker 1: say that that is this man would then be a 774 00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:41,120 Speaker 1: wolf in sheep's clothing. You know, man is this man 775 00:47:41,360 --> 00:47:44,759 Speaker 1: is not is not being honest about who this man 776 00:47:45,040 --> 00:47:47,920 Speaker 1: is or even if he's like trying to be this 777 00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:53,319 Speaker 1: man is uh is is not totally all there. This 778 00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:57,520 Speaker 1: man is definitely pull us some trickery, Dawn. That is 779 00:47:57,560 --> 00:48:02,480 Speaker 1: a yeah, he's definitely deceitful. Damn yah Yahn seems pretty deep, man. 780 00:48:02,600 --> 00:48:04,560 Speaker 1: It seems like she got a lot figured out. I 781 00:48:04,560 --> 00:48:09,480 Speaker 1: think she's in a major way. We gotta get her 782 00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:11,320 Speaker 1: as a guest on the show. See what else she 783 00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:14,200 Speaker 1: got cooking up in that would she would talk to you, 784 00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:19,680 Speaker 1: she would talk to me, and then at a certain 785 00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:22,840 Speaker 1: point she'd be like, all right, move on, I'm not 786 00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:26,200 Speaker 1: gonna play this. And she was like, next time I 787 00:48:26,239 --> 00:48:28,200 Speaker 1: see you on stage, I'm gonna get on stage and 788 00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:31,200 Speaker 1: I move whoop you And I hold up, Well, you 789 00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:36,200 Speaker 1: can't do that with you up there. Cousin. Was you 790 00:48:36,280 --> 00:48:38,520 Speaker 1: up there A I was. I was attacking the food. 791 00:48:38,600 --> 00:48:41,000 Speaker 1: I was up there behaving the way that she ain't 792 00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:44,120 Speaker 1: never seen me behaves. Okay, so she was like, look, 793 00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:46,160 Speaker 1: I'm glad you had your fun, but I'm a whoop 794 00:48:46,160 --> 00:48:52,480 Speaker 1: you ask? Yeah? Absolutely, what's her name? Batty? Yeah, my 795 00:48:52,560 --> 00:48:55,080 Speaker 1: girl Batty. Well, we're gonna take a break. We're gonna 796 00:48:55,160 --> 00:48:57,520 Speaker 1: keep thinking about Biddy, and we'll be back with more. 797 00:48:57,600 --> 00:49:14,320 Speaker 1: Gary Richardson and more. My mama told me we are back. 798 00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:24,959 Speaker 1: Oh yes, Kenny Lendon, nigga a pencil. Yeah, we're back 799 00:49:24,960 --> 00:49:27,760 Speaker 1: here with more. Gary richards said more. And my mama 800 00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:30,880 Speaker 1: told me, we're still talking about great aunt Biddy and 801 00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:35,880 Speaker 1: and her her brilliant assertions about gender and gender assignments 802 00:49:36,280 --> 00:49:39,040 Speaker 1: and and what it means to be a good man 803 00:49:39,280 --> 00:49:42,960 Speaker 1: out in the world. Biddy's onesome. How old is she 804 00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:51,040 Speaker 1: as of yesterday? She is seventy seven. She's still spry. 805 00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:54,680 Speaker 1: You got you got she's still moving? Yeah, all right, 806 00:49:54,760 --> 00:50:00,520 Speaker 1: you got a young grandmother and great Yeah. Then early 807 00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:03,400 Speaker 1: and my mom in turn got it in early. And 808 00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:07,320 Speaker 1: here we are, you know, and there you have it. 809 00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:10,680 Speaker 1: I like, how the way you said that sort of 810 00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:14,400 Speaker 1: sounded like a brag. It sounds like you're pretty proud 811 00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:16,400 Speaker 1: of it. I mean, if you got bad, he's in 812 00:50:16,400 --> 00:50:19,520 Speaker 1: the family, you can't be mad at that. Why why 813 00:50:19,600 --> 00:50:22,640 Speaker 1: be a hater at this ax? I'm two. We're on 814 00:50:22,800 --> 00:50:25,920 Speaker 1: for that, m Okay. I want to play a game. 815 00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:29,320 Speaker 1: We're gonna play, uh, pretty classic game on this show. 816 00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:38,520 Speaker 1: This is a fun game that I I call homemade Hotep. 817 00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:40,759 Speaker 1: This is a game where Gary, I am going to 818 00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:44,920 Speaker 1: introduce to you a fact that exists out in the 819 00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:47,040 Speaker 1: world and what I would love for you to do. 820 00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:50,359 Speaker 1: It's just hotep the ship out of it, breakdown all 821 00:50:50,400 --> 00:50:54,080 Speaker 1: the secrets and illusions that the White Man doesn't want 822 00:50:54,160 --> 00:50:57,080 Speaker 1: us to know in that ship. Add whatever stink you 823 00:50:57,160 --> 00:50:59,560 Speaker 1: gotta add to it to make this ship truly a 824 00:50:59,640 --> 00:51:03,920 Speaker 1: hope up can absolutely hell Yeah. So this is a 825 00:51:04,120 --> 00:51:06,759 Speaker 1: This is an interesting one. This is a fun one. 826 00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:11,720 Speaker 1: It's apparently that North Korea and Cuba are the only 827 00:51:11,880 --> 00:51:16,520 Speaker 1: places on the planet Earth where you can't buy Coca cola. 828 00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:21,040 Speaker 1: North Korea and Cuba are the only places where you 829 00:51:21,120 --> 00:51:25,360 Speaker 1: can't buy coca cola. Gary, go crazy. Okay, Well, I 830 00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:26,759 Speaker 1: think this is a pretty easy when you kind of 831 00:51:26,760 --> 00:51:30,040 Speaker 1: send me up for victory here lasting, okay, because if 832 00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:33,440 Speaker 1: we think about Cuba, right, we think about that being 833 00:51:33,840 --> 00:51:37,120 Speaker 1: totally separate in many ways from from the outside where 834 00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:39,840 Speaker 1: I think it's Cube. I think of almost exclusively Cubans 835 00:51:39,880 --> 00:51:42,880 Speaker 1: there because of the embargoes, because the trading there I 836 00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:44,920 Speaker 1: think of. I think North Korea in a similar way 837 00:51:44,920 --> 00:51:47,279 Speaker 1: that these are North Koreans. I don't imagine there are 838 00:51:47,280 --> 00:51:52,680 Speaker 1: many people of other nationalities in North Korea. And North 839 00:51:52,760 --> 00:51:56,520 Speaker 1: Korea absolutely absolutely, and maybe South Korea. And that's why 840 00:51:56,560 --> 00:51:59,480 Speaker 1: they can get to Coca Cola, bro. And And what 841 00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:05,640 Speaker 1: we think about is, let's talk about colonialism, right. Colonialism 842 00:52:05,760 --> 00:52:08,000 Speaker 1: is only so good as a colony can be. So 843 00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:11,879 Speaker 1: if you cannot colonize the place, brother, then you ain't gone. 844 00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:13,479 Speaker 1: Then there's no reason for you to try to speak 845 00:52:13,480 --> 00:52:16,399 Speaker 1: a flag there, okay. In Coca Cola is nothing more 846 00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:19,480 Speaker 1: than I mean, think about Coca cola. What is that. 847 00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:23,680 Speaker 1: That's cocaine. That's the white man's drunk, okay, And that's cola. 848 00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:28,080 Speaker 1: That's the white man soda. Alright, Brothers drink sprite, all right, 849 00:52:28,480 --> 00:52:32,640 Speaker 1: Brothers drink drink juice. Okay, that's what we do. Not 850 00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:37,320 Speaker 1: a white man like a dark dark okay, like the 851 00:52:37,400 --> 00:52:39,959 Speaker 1: Darca cola, because flex to show that he can take 852 00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:42,880 Speaker 1: that dark soda. He could put that inside of himself 853 00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:46,359 Speaker 1: and become more in a way that others cannot. Right. 854 00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:52,520 Speaker 1: So if he cannot flex his dominance in these places, 855 00:52:52,560 --> 00:52:54,759 Speaker 1: why would he ever send that there? Why would he 856 00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:57,319 Speaker 1: ever send Coca cola to Cuba? If we can't see 857 00:52:57,320 --> 00:52:59,800 Speaker 1: a white man drinking and drinking and Coca cola and 858 00:52:59,840 --> 00:53:01,800 Speaker 1: que book, Why would he ever send Coca cola to 859 00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:03,960 Speaker 1: North Korea if we don't get to see a white 860 00:53:03,960 --> 00:53:07,480 Speaker 1: man drinking Coca cola and Korea Because the white man 861 00:53:07,560 --> 00:53:10,120 Speaker 1: don't want to see no Korean drinking Coca cola. No, 862 00:53:10,200 --> 00:53:12,640 Speaker 1: that's the soda. The white man don't want to see 863 00:53:12,640 --> 00:53:17,520 Speaker 1: no Cuban drinking cocacola. No, no, no, that's okay. So 864 00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:22,400 Speaker 1: the white man says, quan Jacka had a ginger rail. Okay, Korean, 865 00:53:22,480 --> 00:53:25,680 Speaker 1: y'all can have some Us, y'all can have some cream soda, 866 00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:28,640 Speaker 1: but it's Coca cola is for us only. Now we 867 00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:31,359 Speaker 1: want to open up them borders and we can talk 868 00:53:31,400 --> 00:53:33,759 Speaker 1: about it. Then we can talk about in exchange. But 869 00:53:33,880 --> 00:53:41,600 Speaker 1: until then, you drive, damn that's cool, motherfucking boss God 870 00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:46,400 Speaker 1: damn spending facts, Babe. I love that the white man 871 00:53:46,520 --> 00:53:51,520 Speaker 1: is devious, the breakdown of the cola and the cocaine, 872 00:53:51,680 --> 00:53:55,359 Speaker 1: the white man's drug, the white man's drink sprite, That's 873 00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:58,920 Speaker 1: what niggas like. It was a beautiful what a performance. Truly. 874 00:53:59,600 --> 00:54:03,640 Speaker 1: The only thing missing was a deep seated hatred for women. 875 00:54:03,960 --> 00:54:05,719 Speaker 1: And you would have you would have gotten a tent 876 00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:08,799 Speaker 1: out of ten. I'd say, all right, I'm still taking 877 00:54:08,840 --> 00:54:10,319 Speaker 1: out of ten because I'm getting that. What I got, 878 00:54:10,360 --> 00:54:15,440 Speaker 1: I'm getting. Listen. The scores aren't negotiable, but you nailed it. 879 00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:19,000 Speaker 1: I I couldn't be more impressed with your performance. Gary, 880 00:54:19,200 --> 00:54:21,239 Speaker 1: We did it. I think this is we did the 881 00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:25,479 Speaker 1: whole episode. This was so much fun. Could you could 882 00:54:25,520 --> 00:54:27,640 Speaker 1: you tell the people at home where they could find you, 883 00:54:27,680 --> 00:54:30,359 Speaker 1: what cool ship you have going on? I would say, 884 00:54:30,440 --> 00:54:33,719 Speaker 1: don't look for me, don't start to find me. If 885 00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:36,200 Speaker 1: you see me. Cool, but don't go out of your way. Dog, 886 00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:43,000 Speaker 1: I'm not online nowhere popping up. That's it. Listen. I 887 00:54:43,040 --> 00:54:46,279 Speaker 1: don't know a more successful person who's less committed to 888 00:54:46,360 --> 00:54:50,240 Speaker 1: trying to uh to connect with the outside world. Gary 889 00:54:50,360 --> 00:54:54,480 Speaker 1: is is amazingly funny and talented and refuses to to 890 00:54:54,560 --> 00:54:56,680 Speaker 1: allow you to send him a d M in any 891 00:54:56,760 --> 00:55:00,640 Speaker 1: space or any form. But but please have him in 892 00:55:00,640 --> 00:55:02,799 Speaker 1: your thoughts and prayers. I guess I don't I don't 893 00:55:02,840 --> 00:55:06,719 Speaker 1: know that I can offer to you besides that, And 894 00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:09,839 Speaker 1: as always, follow me at Langston Kerman. And if you 895 00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:11,680 Speaker 1: want to send us drops, if you want to send 896 00:55:11,719 --> 00:55:15,560 Speaker 1: us your own conspiracy theories, your own chaos, if you 897 00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:17,879 Speaker 1: want to add some chaos to my world, please send 898 00:55:17,880 --> 00:55:22,680 Speaker 1: it to my mama pod at gmail dot com. That's it, okay, 899 00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:34,920 Speaker 1: by bitch my crop chips in your chails. Qualibars are racist, 900 00:55:37,480 --> 00:55:45,000 Speaker 1: the old school money at stuff. I can't tell me